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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 76 | If you can't see any good reason not to date a man with a female best friend, LET THIS BE IT! Selfish pickmeisha got stood up, so she ruined another womans valentines day. To add insult to injury, she & this mans girlfriend are related 🤢They’re both absolute trash Edit: I just want to add that I understand why OP specifically talked about her though, FDS is about leveling up in your relationship and forgetting all the pick me shit we’ve been taught for years. You can’t do much about getting stood up (other than dating a HVM) but the topic of a girl best friend is an important one. Women have always been labeled as “crazy or jealous” whenever they don’t like it and this is a perfect example of why we feel that way. Yes the other… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 04:25 PM |
| 6 | Y’all, he put a stuffed animal on me.I can’t see the flair until I open the post so I had the same thoughts as OP 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 10:45 AM |
| 60 | I regret giving back my diamond engagement ring after the divorceShe never disappoints, does she? I love that woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 09:58 PM |
| 55 | Mood for life ✨I still like Mulan though! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 05:42 PM |
| 30 | I love how often this lady gets schooled. This was a scary one though, be a bitch and follow your instincts.I like how you think | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 08:39 PM |
| 186 | I love how often this lady gets schooled. This was a scary one though, be a bitch and follow your instincts.LOVE THIS but my skeptical ass wouldn’t trust him either | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 06:19 PM |
| 90 | My female neighbor gave me this ring! She’s moving to another country and gifted several women on our block beautiful pieces of vintage jewelry. Female friends will always care and appreciate one another!Off topic but I love that you brought her flowers from your own garden, that’s equally thoughtful as her gift! It’s all about the effort after all :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 08:31 PM |
| 6 | The reason some men are so awful is because pick-mes let them get away with using and disrespecting them.Yes, that’s how I do it as well! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 11:25 AM |
| 13 | The reason some men are so awful is because pick-mes let them get away with using and disrespecting them.I don’t think that’s possible, you can save most tiktoks to your gallery though and then upload them directly to Reddit! :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 09:48 AM |
| 56 | Another day another woman suffering from the "I dont know what consent is also men are oppressed" diseaseThat, or it’s a true pick me wanting some male validation and Internet points :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 04:52 PM |
| 18 | Saweetie demonstrates how you clear a fuckboy and his attempted gaslightOnly thing I will EVER thank buzzfeed for is introducing me to her years ago | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 08:05 PM |
| 87 | Seriously, none of them were worth these 9 months of pain. They don't even respect women who gave them life.I bet he has a pick me mom that will stick up for him though sigh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 11:20 AM |
| 37 | There’s nothing empowering about OnlyFans. The consequences of engaging in sexual acts on camera always lie with the woman, which is unfair, but it’s the world we live in (sadly).Oh god, you’re so right that it’s disgusting but of course we’re sex negative and not “real” feminists if we don’t support it? I’m sorry if I sound so rude but these type of things are so ridiculous I can’t wrap my head around it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 07:16 PM |
| 41 | There’s nothing empowering about OnlyFans. The consequences of engaging in sexual acts on camera always lie with the woman, which is unfair, but it’s the world we live in (sadly).Nah they both admitted to doing it to “spice things up” Crystal says she and her husband of 14 years, Chris, turned to the platform in September 2019 after experiencing marital problems that had them on the brink of divorce. “I was missing that intimacy we had, and a lot of it was because I was going through menopause," she explains. "No matter what you do, you don't feel attracted or sexy... so we tried different things to spice up our marriage. Fuck dem kids then I guess? Go have private orgy’… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 07:12 PM |
| 209 | There’s nothing empowering about OnlyFans. The consequences of engaging in sexual acts on camera always lie with the woman, which is unfair, but it’s the world we live in (sadly).They’re both shitty parents making it about themselves, I mean their kids are upset over losing their friends (their own words) and they (the parents) should’ve expected that considering the fact that they go to an catholic school. Not that I agree with the decision, I’m not religious anymore, but it was a really irresponsible choice made by her and her husband. The minute you choose to have kids, you should consider them when doing things like that. Maybe I’m not qualified to judge parents as a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 03:32 PM |
| 46 | All it takes is attention to detailShe seems so sweet too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 11:57 AM |
| 5 | Yet another reminder why you vet men, so this won't be your future. It's way too common. No thanksI think she was talking about her own flair, I can see the post flair though don’t worry! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 08:53 PM |
| 12 | Help me unpack this post. It rubs me the wrong way but I don't know how to articulate it. Some dude I know posted it, no idea about HVM or LVM in his case.The way you put it so adequately in only 4 sentences... 👏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 11:00 PM |
| 9 | This but unironically. Go chop some wood, fix a car, lift some weights. Hell start a business with all the energy you spend hating and lurking women's spaces - your testosterone is getting lower and lower by the minute. At least then you'd have a chance scrote.LOL I always do this to my brothers but with the women version, never managed to get me a sandwich though😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 08:19 PM |
| 37 | The wisdom in these verses... (book and author in tags)His books truly are a work of art | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 04:27 PM |
| 8 | I want, nay NEED, this tattooed on my forehead.Everyone should be a feminist! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 04:25 PM |
| 11 | I want, nay NEED, this tattooed on my forehead.I’m genuinely so sorry for you, I know you’re probably used to it by now but it really stings that your dad, the man who’s supposed to protect you, fails at doing so. Do they not realize that by allowing this behavior they’re directly making the world a more dangerous place for their own family members? I mean they obviously don’t care about non-related women so there’s that. Unsolicited rant but this story really annoyed me. Stay safe and healthy, you don’t need them! 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 03:06 PM |
| 15 | I want, nay NEED, this tattooed on my forehead.Your DAD said that? Please don’t take this the wrong way but what the hell? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 02:52 PM |
| 8 | I want, nay NEED, this tattooed on my forehead.{Feel free to remove or report this if it’s a repost!} | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 07:19 AM |
| 239 | If you can’t afford the lifestyle that I’m providing for myself, then you can’t have me!Okay but she’s gorgeous and glowingggg! We love to see it :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 05:52 PM |
| 32 | I have no words.... They really think getting a man is an achievement.Y’all. Do. Not. Fail. 😆😆😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 04:23 AM |
| 72 | Sad how a lot of young girls in the comments are missing the point though...I love this comment! A bit unrelated but this reminds me of when my best friend told me how her dad never used to wait till she/her friends got into the house after he dropped them off. I’m a bit too overprotective over my friends and family so I always made sure they texted me when they got home etc.. When she finally got her driver license and dropped me off at home for the first time she waited till I got in before driving off. I think it’s really nice to learn stuff like that from other peop… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 03:50 PM |
| 147 | Sad how a lot of young girls in the comments are missing the point though...On tiktok everyone was talking about how Rory (the main character) had already made plans with the guy picking her up so her grandmother was being annoying for no reason. However, in my opinion, she was trying to teach her a lifelong lesson. So while yes, in this particular situation both Rory and Dean agreed to it, that doesn’t make it okay and she should expect more from him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 02:53 PM |
| 78 | Sad how a lot of young girls in the comments are missing the point though...Totally forgot sorry! It’s from the tv show Girlmore Girls! (2000-2007) 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 01:33 PM |
| 5 | Imagine rejecting a proposal and the first thing a man says is “I am rich, I have a lot of money”. So you can agree to marry him.Huh? I get the sentiment but this made me uncomfortable, the way he was clinging onto her and tried to passively force her into saying yes. Whether it was fake or not, this isn’t a HVM nor was it a good proposal 😣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 01:49 AM |
| 12 | Not to be unkind, but the man looks like the Geico gecko was left in a hot car for a few hours.You’re hilarious 😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 05:35 PM |
| 20 | Not to be unkind, but the man looks like the Geico gecko was left in a hot car for a few hours.LMAOOOOO at your title describing him 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 05:28 PM |
| 26 | 🤮 this is the way he speaks about his wifeAnd then he walked the wrong way LOL, Hailey’s unbothered “it’s this way babe” was equally hilarious and sad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 04:21 AM |
| 14 | I literally don’t even have wordsYeah someone else said she made a follow up video explaining what happened! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 05:19 AM |
| 66 | How has your cultural background shaped your view towards men, women, and your journey to FDS?Growing up in a abusive, men favoring Arab/muslim household I’ve just come to absolutely hate men. I know some people will judge me for that but I honestly can’t help it. Most (read all) men in my community were extremely content with their privileges and position so they never bothered to change things for the women and girls suffering under the double standards. As for women I have no patience for pick me’s who can’t hold a man accountable. You do you but I won’t fuck with you either. Those sa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 01:46 AM |
| 11 | Stay BusyLOL you ladies crack me up every time, truly words to live by! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 05:29 AM |
| 32 | Stay BusyBut what if your job and school are the cause of your mental breakdown? 😔 She’s absolutely right though! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 05:17 AM |
| 4 | A friends post on FB. A few years ago, this would not have bothered me. But seeing this type of post reinforces why I will never be in a relationship where I'm required to do all the work.Yesss that one! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 01:44 AM |
| 24 | A friends post on FB. A few years ago, this would not have bothered me. But seeing this type of post reinforces why I will never be in a relationship where I'm required to do all the work.This reminds me of that scene from “He’s just not that into you” if anyone knows what I’m talking about | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 01:01 AM |
| 50 | To counter the video I just had to endure, so GLAD to see sane women thriving!!LMAO I love this energy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 06:08 PM |
| 15 | “You know what makes a woman worthy of protection? Her birth.” 🙌🏼 preach!Does anyone know the first guy’s tiktok? I want to know what he was going to say | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 09:15 PM |
| 27 | online dating...I’m not judging anyone on dating apps at all here but honestly in my experience, no. I’m around the same age (19) and you won’t find anyone that meets FDS standards on there at our age. Maybe it’s different for other age groups? Also, I know I’m generalizing here but I’m just basing this off of my friends and I’s experiences! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 03:44 PM |
| 68 | If a man brings this guy up on the first date, run for your f*cking life.Woah! Off topic but I needed to hear this. I’ve been dealing with a similar issue with my older brothers. But whenever we end our discussion (now I’m not saying I’m always right but it basically comes down to women’s right etc) I always find myself feeling extremely unreasonable or stupid because I get so emotional talking about these things. So they just brush me off as an immature teenager. You made a great point about them saying calm which makes it look like they know what they’re talking ab… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 11:06 PM |
| 98 | Life after finding FDS. (Art by @violetclair on Insta, makes FDS friendly art)LOL me at 19 because of FDS! I haven’t started dating yet but I know y’all about to save me so much time and headaches💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 08:53 PM |
| 14 | May you meet someone who IS a feminist, not someone who SAYS he's a feminist.Thank you! :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 09:43 PM |
| 89 | May you meet someone who IS a feminist, not someone who SAYS he's a feminist.Not the sound stupid, but is this referring to the first or second sweet? I’m a bit confused | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 09:39 PM |
| 24 | Courtesy of my father’s Whatsapp forwarding. Arabic translation says “Every man’s dream.”You beat me to it! And honestly most of the women aren’t any better :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 09:22 PM |
| 8 | She’s certainly not wrongThank youuuu 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 12:52 AM |
| 42 | She’s certainly not wrongDoes someone know what show this is? I’d love to check it out! (Seems a bit older and I’m only 19 so I’ve never seen it for some reason) :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 12:50 AM |
| 80 | Guy asks people with expensive car what they do for a living. Her response is 💯. I wish this for all the HV sisters here!I’m assuming he’s indirectly asking her how she can afford that car, and she’s saying she’s married to a rich man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 11:33 PM |
| 31 | Do you ever think about how many HVM are/have been secretly bad people?Holy shit, disappointed but not surprised | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 01:22 AM |
| 17 | Do you ever think about how many HVM are/have been secretly bad people?This makes a lot of sense, I wish I could edit my title now! I’m still a bit new to FDS so this really puts things into perspective for me, thank you!😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 01:21 AM |
| 36 | Do you ever think about how many HVM are/have been secretly bad people?What I mean is, some men can prove themselves to be HV by FDS standards, however it’s really scary that they could’ve done things that no one will ever find out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 12:55 AM |
| 62 | The future daughters of FDS!HAHAHAH! Y’all have got to stop cracking me up😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 03:06 AM |
| 6 | I just had my first internet wake up callThis is such an important reminder! Unfortunately Reddit does somehow bring the worst out of them?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 02:20 AM |
| 3 | I just had my first internet wake up callI’m sorry for you as well, that seems so exhausting! :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 02:19 AM |
| 19 | I just had my first internet wake up callYou’re absolutely right now that I think about it, those a*holes are probably lurking rn anyways. I really appreciate this comment though thank you💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 02:19 AM |
| 26 | I just had my first internet wake up callI’m definitely doing that from now on! Also that last line, so powerful! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 02:18 AM |
| 41 | Such a cringe-worthy "joke", it's not even funnyThis is so humiliating🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 12:19 AM |
| 2 | What would I cook?You’re too funny😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 10:01 PM |
| 27 | This is just sad. He clearly doesn’t respect her at all.DUDE OMG, that happened to my aunt too!!! I lost all respect (which was so little to begin with) for my uncle then. I’m very happy you found this sub as well, it’s important that this new generation of arabs/muslims (I don’t practice anymore to be fair) sets new standards for men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 05:15 PM |
| 6 | This is just sad. He clearly doesn’t respect her at all.You’re absolutely right and I hope she does decide to leave him but I’m also very aware of how slim those chances are :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 05:13 PM |
| 87 | This is just sad. He clearly doesn’t respect her at all.She said “haram” so she’s a muslim woman married to a muslim man. (Don’t come at me my family are muslims too!) so unfortunately this isn’t really that uncommon. She knows she probably can’t get a divorce because of the community shame so I get why she’s trying to “fix” her marriage. Honestly don’t know where I’m going with this comment but I feel extremely sad for her as well especially since I know at least a dozen women in my community going through the same stuff | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 04:41 PM |
| 73 | ‘Cool Girl’ monologue by Gillian FlynnI haven’t watched the movie yet but I religiously watch this monologue on youtube🙌🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 10:30 PM |
| 6 | Wall? What wall?!You have no idea how much I appreciate your informative responses. Thank you so so much, I’ll definitely do all of my research before deciding on it! 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 11:16 PM |
| 3 | Wall? What wall?!Interesting! Thank you for answering. Last question though, I’m kind of nervous about having high expectations and then getting disappointed. Is there like a limit too how much your undereye area can be filled? Ideally I want it to be completely even with my cheeks but most results look too subtle unfortunately :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Wall? What wall?!Tysm for your advice🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 11:07 PM |
| 4 | Wall? What wall?!Hi, I have a question about fillers and I hope you don’t mind answering it :) I have deep set eyes and very hollow undereyes and I hate it. There’s really nothing I can do about it because it’s just pure genetics. I thought about getting tear trough fillers to make that area more plump. Do you think that’s a bad idea? It’s the only place where I would consider filler though! Edit: I’m only 19! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 08:13 PM |
| 14 | YOU GUYSThe amount of times I’ve heard male family members say things like “Oh you women want equality? Stop whining when you get beat up by a guy then” “Oh you women want equality? Pay everything for yourselves then” Not to take away from your post OP, it’s very wholesome but I agree that I get cynical as well | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 09:33 AM |
| 8 | Not sure if this belongs here but, Why cant men let women have a win? The woman in the video SAVED A HANDICAPPED MAN FROM GETTING RAN OVER BY A TRAIN. And they STILL shit on her and claim "mEn aRe BeTtEr"The amount of likes those comments have is very alarming too. Disappointed but surprised :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 09:33 PM |
| 28 | yOu wiLL DiE alOne witH cATs anD BoX wiNERooting for you stranger💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 11:38 PM |
| 59 | yOu wiLL DiE alOne witH cATs anD BoX wiNEYounger you had ✨taste✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 11:35 PM |
| 3 | As a 19yo lurker, I want to thank all of you from the bottom of my heart.Thank you😭 if you ever need to vent somewhere you’re free to message me!💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 08:57 AM |
| 9 | Cracked me upGreat marketing isn’t it😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 08:41 PM |
| 5 | Not like other black girlsYou sound very wise, great advice! 👏🏻💓 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 02:39 PM |
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