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| 23 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 59 - 40 Years a NEET: Reflections of a Stay-At-Home SonNo. It will not be a regular thing. We only release Patreon exclusive content when the holidays interrupt the recording schedule. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/22 03:47 AM |
| 31 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 59 - 40 Years a NEET: Reflections of a Stay-At-Home SonWe've only done this twice. Both times because of holidays interrupting the recording schedule (Christmas and Easter). We deserve a vacation, too. There's still like 50 episodes on patreon that will remain patreon exclusive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/22 03:45 AM |
| 10 | Feminist Realism: An IntroductionYou don't have to choose. You can be a radfem or rad-leaning (like me) and still like FDS. Feminist Realism isn't an ideology, so you can have any belief system and still be a Realist | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 11:08 PM |
| 73 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 46 - Scamming Men in Solidarity: Combating Colorism & Racial FetishizationI was mostly joking but yes, I am pro scamming shitty men. Not just MOC. White men who go to other countries to sexually exploit poor women also deserve to be scammed. If a sex tourist goes to Thailand and gets robbed, I'm not gonna feel bad for him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 05:52 PM |
| 49 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 45 - Lundy Bancroft Takes The Queens Inside The Minds of Angry & Controlling Men (Part 1)Yeah not gonna lie I could barely contain the thirst when we were recording the episode 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 04:32 AM |
| 5 | FDS Fan Art! (by me)I'd love to see more of your FDS fanart! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 03:19 PM |
| 24 | My little garden - some musingsI love the ending so much 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 11:37 PM |
| 1 | 120k of us marched across the USA in support of women's rights:We didn't "delay" any comments. That's not how reddit moderation works. We left the comments up, good or bad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 06:50 AM |
| 12 | Most men don't learn from communication, they learn from consequenceYeah we did a whole podcast episode on this Men don't learn from communication, only consequences | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 06:21 PM |
| 51 | OH MY GOD????This tactic is called a "compliance test" and this man is an abuser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 06:18 PM |
| 8 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 25 - Age Gaps & Old Man Peen + Old Scrote Hits NVM BingoWe draw a line between pickmes who are relatively harmless and whose mistakes are largely self destructive, and pickmes who are actively antagonistic towards other women. 1st group we believe in coaching and dissecting the cultural conditioning that resulted in them becoming like that. 2nd group is not coachable, and fair game for roasting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 05:29 PM |
| 50 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 25 - Age Gaps & Old Man Peen + Old Scrote Hits NVM BingoI'd say it's one of those "proceed with extreme caution" situations, and always make sure you're getting out of it as much as you're giving (or more) Even if the relationship itself is generally good, as is Savannah's parents, always keep in mind that as you two age, you will almost certainly be his unpaid caretaker. Do you really want to spend your retirement changing an old man's diapers and spoon feeding him? Also, keep in mind that this caregiving responsibility is largely one-sided. There w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 11:40 PM |
| 276 | Boundaries in bed"You ruined an intimate moment" what a piece of shit manipulator. Sounds like he did that because he was expecting you to backtrack and let him do whatever. I'm glad you stuck to your boundaries | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 07:56 AM |
| – | IMPORTANT SAFETY NOTICE: The Plymouth Shooter has complained about FDS. DO NOT DISCUSS FDS WITH MEN. These are males with murderous intentions who desire revenge on women.Moderator note: normally we remove usernames to avoid accusations of brigading but since this man is dead and cannot be a victim of any brigading attacks, we're leaving it up to confirm the identity of the killer. Reposted because I forgot to crop out subreddit name. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 06:59 PM |
| 17 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 21 - Our Best Flirting Strategies! + Pencil D*ck & Spoonsthe BEST cookie recipe: https://youtu.be/dMPTxTmZDzE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 08:24 AM |
| 19 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 21 - Our Best Flirting Strategies! + Pencil D*ck & SpoonsThat was Reaux | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 05:09 PM |
| 2 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 19 - Overcoming A Defeatist Mindset: Femcels, WGTOWs, & Radfems + Explosive DiarrheaCouple details: The childhood educator was the week before Gail Dines, not the week after The childhood educator explicitly said that boys are not disadvantaged by society, and that those MRA talking points are "horseshit" Disagreement is okay, just make sure you are getting your facts straight. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 08:53 PM |
| -4 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 19 - Overcoming A Defeatist Mindset: Femcels, WGTOWs, & Radfems + Explosive DiarrheaOkay sis, I tried to warn you, but if you want to die on the hill of not listening to the episode then go ahead. Best of luck to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 07:02 PM |
| -4 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 19 - Overcoming A Defeatist Mindset: Femcels, WGTOWs, & Radfems + Explosive DiarrheaThe title is a summary of the content of the episode. Listen to the episode before critiquing. I address all of your concerns. I'm a radical feminist and I don't throw radfems under the bus. I don't even throw femcels or WGTOW under the bus, I sympathize with both of these perspectives, I just don't agree with them. Not all radfems agree on everything, and disagreeing with certain other radfems is not the same as disavowal of all of radical feminism or "throwing them under the bus". Have you bee… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 06:52 PM |
| 13 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 17 - Scrotation Management : The Benefits of Multi-DatingSorta? Reddit isn't letting me delete my account, contacted admins, no response. So I still have the account kicking around, but I seldom use it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 09:29 PM |
| 39 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 17 - Scrotation Management : The Benefits of Multi-DatingThe driving distance was the real filter there. The fuckboy types didn't want to drive 16 hours for a date, too much effort for them. The type of man who is willing to drive 30+ hours, round trip, for a first date is already the type of man to demonstrate investment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 04:04 PM |
| 184 | This is Lilith from the FDS Podcast. I'm deleting my Reddit account because I'm tired of misogyny and harassment on Reddit.It's not even the DMs, it's the entire Reddit culture. Not that Twitter is much better but at least when you block someone on Twitter they can't see your posts anymore. On Reddit, when you block someone, they can still see you but you can't see them. So basically they are free to keep stalking and harassing you and inciting others to harass you, while you have no idea because they are invisible to you. Their whole business model is just so flawed and is designed to be permissive of misogynist tr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 09:40 PM |
| 22 | This is Lilith from the FDS Podcast. I'm deleting my Reddit account because I'm tired of misogyny and harassment on Reddit.I backed up my post history and will be re-releasing them as full articles on the website (and future newsletter). It was a matter of me not wanting my writing to make money for this platform that financially profits from misogynistic trolling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 09:21 PM |
| 91 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 14 - Dr. Gail Dines & the Queens Rage Against the Porn MachineIt really was such a pleasure to record, I was walking around star struck for like 3 days after we recorded this episode 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 03:28 PM |
| 134 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 14 - Dr. Gail Dines & the Queens Rage Against the Porn MachineI sent her an email, no reply at first, I followed up, she replied, we emailed back and forth to set up a time, and voila! The coolest thing is that when I send out pitch emails, I get an affirmative response like 60% of the time, which is unheard of for cold emails. We have some more guests in the upcoming weeks that we're really excited about! Stay tuned. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 03:19 PM |
| 19 | When the mask comes offThis man is an abuser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 03:15 PM |
| 2 | UPDATE: I got a job! (From: "I'm an escort and camgirl. The FDS Podcast made me realize I need to quit")I'm so proud of you sis 😭😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 11:11 PM |
| 44 | Dead bedroom? It's just biology at work, sweatyI felt gross just reading that, ugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 10:44 PM |
| 185 | Dead bedroom? It's just biology at work, sweatyExactly! Men are not funny because 90% of their "humor" is just sadism and bathroom humor | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 07:16 PM |
| 385 | Dead bedroom? It's just biology at work, sweatyI dated a guy who used to do a baby voice and when I told him to stop because it pisses me off, he started doing it more, and laughed because it made me mad. I dumped him the moment he started doing this fake "baby cry" when he wanted something. It was like something out of a sitcom: Him: WAAAAAHHHHH... WAAAAAHHHHH... hahaha Me: I'm sorry, I just can't do this anymore, it's over. Him: Wait seriously? I was just kidding around. Me: [putting my things in my purse] nope, sorry, the baby thing is ju… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 05:39 PM |
| 4 | On being pedanticYeah, and for this reason I try to be patient. Even when I first joined FDS I had a similar reaction. While I try my best not to let these comments affect me, it is a little crazymaking tbh. Every time I write or speak I find myself trying to imagine all possible scenarios who might be offended by it, and it's impossible to anticipate anyways because there's always some comment coming waaay out of left field that I could have never predicted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 05:27 PM |
| 555 | Dead bedroom? It's just biology at work, sweatyI cosign this entire post. The moment a man starts acting like a child, I lose all attraction to him. It's just the way my brain is wired. It's like being the exact opposite of a pedophile. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 05:18 PM |
| 7 | On being pedanticUgh thank you for making this post because this has been on my mind a lot recently and I don't want to roast my own followers 😂 I always got the impression that a lot of women here have unresolved trauma so when I say something that is triggering to them personally, it's like they feel the need to jump in and explain why my generalization (and I say generally/usually/"tends to" all the time so I know it's a generalization) does not apply to them personally, or they just wanted to share their sto… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 05:04 PM |
| 2 | On being pedanticThis idea deserves to be it's own post tbh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 04:30 PM |
| 7 | On being pedanticEugh yes. Nearly all of my posts these days are littered with whataboutism even from other FDS members. Me: "A lot of short men are insecure and overcompensate by being abusive to women" The comments: "SOME TALL GUYS CAN BE ABUSIVE TOO" "PERSONALLY I LOVE SHORT MEN" 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 04:24 PM |
| 70 | JOHN MEEHAN FROM "DIRTY JOHN" WAS A HOBOSEXUAL. So many people hate FDS because we warn women about hobosexuals. Women have every right to protect ourselves from men who want to use and exploit us.I don't think that anybody automatically "deserves" love except children, who deserve love from their parents. Love from one person to another is something that must be freely given. I'm not comfortable with the notion that everyone is entitled to receive love, even good people, because you have to consider the autonomy of the person who is giving the love. Something else to consider: who is seen as deserving of love in our society vs. who isn't? All men seem to believe that they deserve to be l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 01:39 AM |
| 9 | TW: Hot take, liberal feminism and the glorification of "Sex work" will signficiantly increase the number of woman mental health issues/suicides in the next 5-10 years.You can listen to it here on this episode of the podcast: https://open.spotify.com/episode/4gUdiwyg3wTOyIjgAnCe8S?si=OHRhs7m9T92v6JpYuTRqXg&utm_source=copy-link | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 08:07 PM |
| 2 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 13 - Roastus Scrotus Deletus + How an Early Childhood Educator Motivates Boys to be HVMI really, really appreciate this comment. I relate so hard. When I was a little girl I loved to roughouse with the boys, and I didn't really fit in so much with the other girls because they didn't like to play rough (which caused me to have all sorts of internalized misogyny, I went through a "not like other girls" phase, eugh, cringe). It was traumatizing to grow up and go through puberty and realize how much stronger the boys had become. I admit that with this episode, while I went into it wit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 06:56 PM |
| 256 | TW: Hot take, liberal feminism and the glorification of "Sex work" will signficiantly increase the number of woman mental health issues/suicides in the next 5-10 years.It's taken me years to mentally recover from my brief stint as a sugar baby and my experience wasn't even that bad (at least, compared to women with less privilege than me) In 5-10 years there will be so so SO many women suffering from the emotional scars of sex work. We must band together and do everything we can to support them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 06:19 PM |
| 3 | Men are more responsive to women's facial expressions than our actual words.Sure 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 02:39 PM |
| 129 | Men are more responsive to women's facial expressions than our actual words.Eugh, YES. I know exactly what look you are talking about. When you're talking to them, especially if you're angry, they think it's amusing. But once you start pulling away or showing disgust, that's when their dumb brains go into SeLf dEsTrUcT mode | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 04:50 AM |
| 114 | Single dads hatred for single mothers is pure projection. "I don't want to take care of another man's child!" No sir, you are looking for a childless woman to dump your parenting responsibilities onto, and a single mother is less willing to fill that role for you.If a man is low-effort with his kids, the people that he is supposed to be biologically programmed to want to love and protect above all else, then it is GUARANTEED that he will be low effort with his new girlfriend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 07:36 PM |
| 155 | Single dads hatred for single mothers is pure projection. "I don't want to take care of another man's child!" No sir, you are looking for a childless woman to dump your parenting responsibilities onto, and a single mother is less willing to fill that role for you.Meanwhile I'm sure none of them would date a single mother. Single dads are so entitled. They expect the new girlfriend to take care of his kids by default, but recoil at the thought of "raising another man's kid" Has it ever occurred to these guys that maybe, just maybe, that a childfree woman wouldn't want to take care of another woman's kids? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 07:14 PM |
| 2 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 13 - Roastus Scrotus Deletus + How an Early Childhood Educator Motivates Boys to be HVMWe address some of the limitations of the princess game and push back on some of these ideas in the last 15 minutes of the episode. We will be doing a response episode to address some of this feedback, because some of this criticism is actually quite valuable. However, I don't think it's fair to write a review about an episode where you didn't even listen to the entire thing. The cops, robbers, and princesses game does not "position boys as natural leaders because they are physically stronger". … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 03:21 AM |
| 165 | Shoutout to r/FemaleDatingStratPros for doing our outrage marketing for us and bringing us more members 😂I really love to delegate tasks so whenever a man voluntarily does work for me that I want him to do it's like... great! Thank you! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 01:50 AM |
| 9 | This is the image that I have in my head when scrotes say dumb shit like "not all men are like that!" and "women can be rapists too!"men CAN get raped, but scrotes only bring it up when we try to talk about women’s issues, right? Yes, exactly this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 03:30 AM |
| 42 | Found in another sub. Think it fits here. LmaoLaughing so hard rn because I know scrotes are gonna screenshot this and say "FDS PROMOTES VOREPHILIA!!! FDS IS A HATE GROUP THEY ARE TELLING WOMEN TO CANNIBALIZE MEN!!!" Bruh it's just a shark, calm down. Don't be hysterical. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 12:31 AM |
| 3 | Low value men act indignant when we want a guy who is both attractive and kind to us, because they think that attractive men are entitled to treat women poorly and get away with it.I mean... I don't know if I agree with this because "respectable" (translation: non-prostituted) women in ancient Greece (Athens, particularly) basically never left the home except for festivals and religious ceremonies. So there were a lot of women spending a lot of time together, not in the presence of men. I mean just look at Sappho. When women write about their own experiences it usually goes against the mainstream cultural narrative. You see a similar thing in other strictly sex-segregated … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 10:44 PM |
| 70 | This is the image that I have in my head when scrotes say dumb shit like "not all men are like that!" and "women can be rapists too!""If a female teacher seduces a male student she literally deserves the death penalty but if a woman has a sexual abuse allegation against her male teacher/boss/coach she is probably lying to ruin his career" Now to be clear: it is ALWAYS wrong for a teacher to rape a student even if the student claims it was "consensual" because the adult has the responsibility of self control. I am pointing out the misogynistic double standard in how these cases are sometimes treated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 10:10 PM |
| 23 | Stats on how FDS is spreading compared to male tactics. They’ve been strategizing for 15 years, it’s our turn. 💪🇨🇦🇨🇦 OOHHHH CANADAAAA 🇨🇦🇨🇦 🍁🍁OUR HOME AND NATIVE LAAAND🍁🍁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 07:42 PM |
| 36 | Stats on how FDS is spreading compared to male tactics. They’ve been strategizing for 15 years, it’s our turn. 💪WOOO CANADA IS #1 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 06:19 PM |
| 24 | Low value men act indignant when we want a guy who is both attractive and kind to us, because they think that attractive men are entitled to treat women poorly and get away with it.Yeah exactly, I don't believe stuff like "women are just NaTuRaLLy mOrE BiSeXuaL than men" it just appears as if there are more bi women than bi men because a lot of bi men are probably in the closet, sadly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 08:12 AM |
| 120 | Low value men act indignant when we want a guy who is both attractive and kind to us, because they think that attractive men are entitled to treat women poorly and get away with it.Your comment makes me really want to read a story with an incel redemption arc where he realizes that all of his misogynistic rage was actually an unhealthy coping mechanism for his internalized homophobia and comphet and then he embraces his sexuality as a queer man and falls in love with a Chad and he goes to therapy to resolve his issues and the two of them have a long and happy fulfilling relationship. I'm sure one of our creep lurkers in particular is gonna screenshot this and post it to al… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 12:57 AM |
| 156 | Low value men act indignant when we want a guy who is both attractive and kind to us, because they think that attractive men are entitled to treat women poorly and get away with it.I find that a lot of attractive men treat women well because 1) they interact with more women, period, so they have developed better social skills, and 2) they don't have this bitter resentment towards women. A lot of ugly/unattractive guys will take out their misogynistic rage on any woman who allows him into her life. Obviously, not all ugly guys are evil and not all hot guys are saints. Just a pattern I've noticed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 12:46 AM |
| 30 | TIL: The Left Hates Women Having Reproductive Choice with Their Whole Being. Their new tactic is to smear Sexual Selection as “TERF and Nazi propaganda” with doctored screenshots. Did You Know Not Having Sex With Men You Don’t Want To is Eugenics?Exactly, and since so many genetic diseases are passed down through recessive genes, if you have 2 parents with the same gene then it is possible the child will get that illness. Genetic screening isn't about forcibly preventing certain populations from reproducing, because those people can always just go make babies with someone else who doesn't have the same recessive gene. Or use a sperm donor. Or do IVF so you can screen the embryo for illnesses. Or don't have kids if you don't want to have … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 09:37 PM |
| 38 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 13 - Roastus Scrotus Deletus + How an Early Childhood Educator Motivates Boys to be HVMWe are going to do a response episode to address some of the feedback on this episode, because you make some good points, especially the part where you point out that many of these traits are human traits and not unique to one gender. Feminists are right to be skeptical of gender and gender roles because historically they have been used to oppress women. However, the main point of this episode is that gender roles can be redefined in a way that benefits women. Sex is immutable but "gender" can b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 09:13 PM |
| 56 | Women who are angry at men are seen as "unfeminine". There is no male equivalent of this phenomenon: when a man is angry at women it is not considered emasculating. If anything, hating women is seen as extra manly.I cosign this entire comment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 01:15 AM |
| 90 | Women who are angry at men are seen as "unfeminine". There is no male equivalent of this phenomenon: when a man is angry at women it is not considered emasculating. If anything, hating women is seen as extra manly.I explicitly do not want any of these, which is evidence enough that misandry is not a real issue in our society | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 01:08 AM |
| 10 | ❗ I read this and I had to share it: "As a woman, I have been taught that to be liked is to be good....Women who don’t take shit are unlikable." | from "On Likability" by Lacy Johnson. Can any of you relate?Agree one thousand percent. "Likability" is a concept that men use to control women. If you aren't a complete doormat who smiles while a man abuses you, you're an "unlikeable bitch" I put up with soooo much shit from men because I thought if I had any boundaries or standards, then men wouldn't like me, and as a woman under patriarchy you are conditioned to believe that men liking you is the MOST. IMPORTANT. THING. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 12:16 AM |
| 151 | The Abortion Sub is being held hostage by a power tripping person without a uterus, Furry Porn Enthusiast, and *checks notes* Aimee Challenor supporterOne of the BIGGEST RED FLAGS about CedarWolf is that they want to give abortion "advice" privately via DMs and not publicly via comments. That just sounds like a predator looking for vulnerable victims to groom. Every time a teenage girl or other vulnerable woman posts anything on reddit there are always creepy scrotes sending her DMs offering to "help" her. I am horrified at the thought of a pregnant teenage girl corresponding privately with CedarWolf, he sounds like the sort of person who get … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 11:45 PM |
| 92 | Dating coach says to implement a 3 month no kissing rule. Thoughts?Eh.... 3 month no kissing rule? I disagree. Personally I consider kissing to be a good vetting strategy to see if a guy will be good in bed, before actually inviting him into my bed. Bad kisser = probably bad at sex. I usually don't kiss until at least date 3 or more. Of course you are welcome to wait as long as you'd like before kissing but that's just my personal vetting strategy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 09:31 PM |
| 42 | UNICEF Report Says Pornography Not Always Harmful to ChildrenSounds like UNICEF has been taken over by pedophiles just like how reddit has been taken over by pedophiles 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 08:59 PM |
| 44 | When a man lies, he expects to be believed. When a woman tells the truth, she expects that no one will believe her. That is patriarchy.Oh yeah, men are lying liars who lie 😂 They do the thing where they take the one tiny grain of truth and rewrite an entire narrative around it to make themselves look like the victim | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 08:40 PM |
| 2 | Always be skeptical of men's relationship woes on Reddit. When my ex persuaded me to do poly so that he could cheat on me, the narrative he posted to reddit was "my girlfriend manipulated me into opening the relationship so that she could get a sugar daddy"Have you listened to the podcast? I have repeatedly said that I am against sugar babying, and explained why. It is no different than prostitution. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 07:12 PM |
| 15 | Always be skeptical of men's relationship woes on Reddit. When my ex persuaded me to do poly so that he could cheat on me, the narrative he posted to reddit was "my girlfriend manipulated me into opening the relationship so that she could get a sugar daddy"I hope you at least enjoyed the sugar daddy and got some good dick and cash out of it. Meh... the traveling was nice but my SD was old and physically repulsive to me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 12:48 AM |
| 5 | Foolproof vetting strategy: take him to the gymHE LEAVES THE PLATES ON THE BAR??? WHAT A FUCKING PSYCHOPATH UGH | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 06:26 PM |
| 6 | The bigger a dude, the nicer he tends to be. I don't even care about height from an aesthetics standpoint, but I don't date short men because they usually have a Napoleon complex and terrible personality.Definitely, the shorter guys who were the exception were usually very fit and attractive so they didn't have this weird inferiority complex. It's a myth that less-attractive men are nicer. Would have saved myself a lot of trouble if I knew that when I was younger. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 06:21 PM |
| 47 | The bigger a dude, the nicer he tends to be. I don't even care about height from an aesthetics standpoint, but I don't date short men because they usually have a Napoleon complex and terrible personality.Yeah I made this post before bed, woke up this morning to see all these comments defending short men and I'm like, huh? This is FDS. We don't shame other women for having a physical preference or for sharing their scarring experiences. "You're generalizing!!" is scrote speak. I'm a tall-ish woman and shorter guys are always trying to "take me down a peg". If you're a short woman and happy with your 5'5" scrote then good for you but that doesn't negate my own experiences. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 06:14 PM |
| 32 | The bigger a dude, the nicer he tends to be. I don't even care about height from an aesthetics standpoint, but I don't date short men because they usually have a Napoleon complex and terrible personality.That's why I say "tends to" and "usually" It's not true 100% of the time, just a pattern/trend I've noticed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 11:46 AM |
| 15 | Foolproof vetting strategy: take him to the gymOkay but Dan Bilzerian is literally the WORST person, inside and out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 02:40 AM |
| 29 | Foolproof vetting strategy: take him to the gymIf he tries to do a heavily loaded squat or deadlift with bad form I always wince. Guys who try to deadlift with the bar too far forward or who try to jerk it up with their back rather than doing one smooth hip hinge movement = criiiiinge. That doesn't necessarily mean they're a bad person just means they're risking injuring themselves. When I see that, I suggest that they need to see a proper trainer or strength coach and if he responds negatively to that suggestion, then that's the red flag. P… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 10:30 PM |
| 28 | Stockholm syndrome victim rationalizes her trauma bonding.Yeah that list of suggestions was legitimately triggering. I've had straight up abusers say that kind of shit to me before. Seriously, this woman deserves to go to hell. She is grooming girls and rationalizing abusers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 09:38 PM |
| 50 | Foolproof vetting strategy: take him to the gymTruuuu... some of the extreme NVM are very good at hiding the crazy. My narc ex was such an asshole about me lifting heavy but he had decent gym etiquette. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 09:23 PM |
| 3 | Men into extreme adventure sports/hobbies, red flag?Damn all the comments in this thread making me feel personally attacked because I do a lot of these things too haha oops 😅 Maybe that is part of the reason why I think all men are trash, because the ones I interact with the most, also do these things, and tend to be trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 08:08 AM |
| 8 | When the roles are reversed 😋💅🏽"If you don't like it when it happens to men, then it's wrong when it happens to women" I love seeing guys break as they try to rationalize against this. Usually they end up with a gold medal in mental gymnastics. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 02:16 AM |
| 60 | The guys who get the most mad about "generalizing men" are the ones where the generalization 100% applies to them 😂Right?? People make generalizations all the time. It's a normal part of human speech. Also, men make generalizations about women all the time and don't even realize it, they just see it as objective fact. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 01:47 AM |
| 67 | Buzzfeed posts “toxic” GenZ girl responses to boys but Comments support GenZ queens 💅🏽Is it just me or has the word "toxic" become so overused that it's basically lost all meaning? "Toxic" used to refer to actual harmful people like abusers, users, narcissists, etc. Now, "toxic" is just another word that men throw around whenever they feel slightly uncomfortable for 5 seconds. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 06:31 PM |
| 2 | A reminder to you beautiful ladies ❤️Can I just say she is SO BEAUTIFUL AND FASHIONABLE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 07:39 PM |
| 21 | Podcast feedback from men: "hate fan mail"Lmao yeah I never respond to these 😂 if they REALLY want to they can sign up for our save-a-scrote tier on Patreon where we can read their messages on the podcast and make fun of them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 10:14 PM |
| 110 | When their lame man-brags are deeply unimpressivePoor hen is being sexually harassed 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 04:02 PM |
| 51 | Period.No you see, it literally says "groom girls to have low expectations of men when they are in their growing phase" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 07:04 AM |
| 4 | Jonathan Rhys MeyersHis character was so annoying in Vikings 😂 Every time he opened his mouth I would mentally check out like "oh no, another fundie Christian boy monologue" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 08:06 PM |
| 37 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 11 - FDS Gets Entangled with Sex Work TwitterThis comment made me tear up a little 😭😭😭 Thank you so much for this wonderful feedback, these comments give me life. This deserves to be it's own post tbh. And yeah I forgot to finish my train of thought about whorephobia, I might talk about it on a future episode if it fits the theme of the episode. For now, I'll make a separate post about it when I have the time. Welcome to FDS, sis. Best of luck on your level-up journey! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 07:54 PM |
| 85 | I usually don't like this meme format but I had to do this 😂This reminds me of that one meme where a guy is making fun of pugs saying "look at you, you used to be a wolf, look at what you've become" and then an ape looks at him disapprovingly in the background | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 06:14 PM |
| 7 | What About Equality?🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 06:15 AM |
| 11 | My rant about the "mental health awareness" crowd on social mediaSome of the DMs/comments I get be like "ummm could you NOT mention weightlifting because my ex was a bodybuilder so thinking about weightlifting is triggering to me" Huh? Sounds like a "you" problem | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 05:08 AM |
| 16 | My rant about the "mental health awareness" crowd on social media"Identifying as your mental illness" YES, this is exactly what I dislike about mental health discourse nowadays: people who identify with their mental illness and even put it in their bio and then expect to be endlessly accommodated and then using their mental illness as an excuse whenever they do something shitty. Meanwhile putting ZERO effort into healing because "I was born this way" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 02:17 AM |
| 6 | My rant about the "mental health awareness" crowd on social mediaGraphic violence, gore, depictions of sexual assault, etc. is totally different. I support having content warnings for these. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 02:11 AM |
| 5 | Welcoming this to mainstream media!Women have always been expected to be the "moral backbone" for the men in their lives. Think: Victorian wives having to be upstanding Christian women to keep their abusive alcoholic husbands in check. Historically speaking, this has been used to control women. It makes her responsible for men's bad behavior. If a woman transgresses morally, she is doubly punished, not just for herself, but because her behavior is a reflection of the entire family/culture. Think: men committing acid attacks and "… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 11:26 PM |
| 2 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 11 - FDS Gets Entangled with Sex Work TwitterGreat question. We are not saying that no sex worker, anywhere, ever, has ever been happy about doing sex work. Certain types of sex work are less dangerous than others so I'm sure there are some women out there who enjoy doing those. Our problem is with the "happy sex worker narrative". It's the "narrative" part that we have a problem with. Media narratives that portray sex work as 100% sunshine and rainbows, while ignoring anything negative about sex work, is grooming young women into sex work… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 09:40 PM |
| 13 | My rant about the "mental health awareness" crowd on social mediaYes! I love her channel, her recent videos inspired me to make this post 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 09:28 PM |
| 121 | My rant about the "mental health awareness" crowd on social mediaI see this all the time when people complain about FDS. "It's triggering for me to read when FDS says X" So what? Stop browsing FDS if it's too triggering for you. That is YOUR emotional response. We're over here minding our own business, nobody is forcing you to read FDS. We aren't going to change everything about how we run our sub so that ONE person doesn't have to feel uncomfortable for 5 seconds. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 09:26 PM |
| 92 | My rant about the "mental health awareness" crowd on social mediaThis is exactly it. The things that happened to you to cause trauma isn't your fault, but it's your responsibility and yours alone to heal from it. Trying to change society is much harder than developing healthy coping mechanisms. The one exception would be stuff like organizing to pass laws to fight things like racism & misogyny, and to support people with disabilities, because certain things about our society is actually making us sick, so changing these would benefit society as a whole. My is… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 09:14 PM |
| 31 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 11 - FDS Gets Entangled with Sex Work TwitterMen cannot be trusted to "do the right thing". Cheaters will never suddenly wake up someday with a conscience. Women need to watch out for each other because we sure as hell can't rely on men. That tweet wasn't meant to suggest that sex workers should literally tell their clients wives. It was more to point out the hypocrisy in saying that sex work is "feminist" when it relies on catering to men's sexual interests at the expense of women. Sex workers on twitter will proudly crow about fucking ot… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 01:31 AM |
| 6 | Something I missed in my post about body positivity and obesity: a lot of disordered eating in women is a manifestation of trauma.She probably has binge eating disorder or something like that. But, of course, she would never publicly admit that because it doesn't fit her narrative. Her audience would never accept that because she's built an entire career and an identity around "eating whatever you want" so of course she says she has anorexia, because part of the recovery for anorexia is eating more | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 12:21 PM |
| 32 | Something I missed in my post about body positivity and obesity: a lot of disordered eating in women is a manifestation of trauma.Exactly, she says "eff your beauty standards" but still wears makeup, gets botox, edits her photos, etc. I don't have a problem with any of those things per se, I don't believe in policing women for the degree to which they perform femininity. It's the mixed messaging I have a problem with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 11:12 PM |
| 10 | Something I missed in my post about body positivity and obesity: a lot of disordered eating in women is a manifestation of trauma.Same sis 😂 nowadays I focus on building muscle. Powerlifting is my jam and my body has never looked/felt better. I've noticed that a lot of women who used to struggle with emotional eating, often incorporate weightlifting into their recovery, which I think is awesome. I'm so happy that women nowadays aren't as obsessed with being skinny, a lot of women just want to be strong. That's why I use bodyfat percentage as a metric, not BMI. Bodybuilders are considered obese by BMI standards. Also, as an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 11:07 PM |
| 47 | Why scrotes are triggered by this subMen insult attractive women to attack our self esteem. You're right, our attractiveness didn't suddenly plummet the moment we said "sorry, not interested" They want us to feel bad about ourselves as some kind of sick revenge for the "emotional pain" we caused him by rejecting him. They know that their only chance to be with an attractive woman is when she has low self esteem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 10:41 PM |
| 33 | Something I missed in my post about body positivity and obesity: a lot of disordered eating in women is a manifestation of trauma.Michelle McDaniels (I love her YouTube channel btw, you should totally check her out) talks about Tess Holliday a lot and how she basically uses women of color and other protected identities as props. I'm so annoyed by this because I've noticed that whenever an actual woman of color refers to her own identity, she doesn't get anywhere near the same praise as when a white person does it. When people like Tess Holliday or Demi Lovato say they're "using their platform to speak for people who don't … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 09:59 PM |
| 45 | Something I missed in my post about body positivity and obesity: a lot of disordered eating in women is a manifestation of trauma.My issue with Tess Holliday is how she attaches herself to protected identities (LGBT and POC) for clout and to avoid criticism. I'm annoyed with how her followers will swarm anyone who disagrees with her like "if you're not body positive then you're a literal racist homophobe" like what?? "I think it's irresponsible to promote obesity" "oh so you just hate black people then?" It's so insulting. Most recently she identifies as anorexic (eye roll). Again, for media attention and to avoid accounta… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 09:28 PM |
| 13 | Men hate us both for being “high maintenance” when we’re young and “not taking care of ourselves” when we’re oldUgh PREACH sis, this is so true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 01:40 AM |
| 30 | Tired of being shamed for wanting my own big houseWhat you are describing is literally my dream house. A library, home gym, craft room? I love it. Broke scrotes can go live with their roommates, but if you're a single woman who can afford it, HELL TO THE YES @ having a big house to yourself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 09:22 PM |
| 114 | Redditors having a meltdown over FDS 😂They had a meltdown over Fine As Fuck Fridays and my post about obesity making men's penises shorter. So basically all the obese neckbeards just throwing a mantrum because they feel personally attacked. Some of these reactions had me dyingggg 💀💀💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 07:21 PM |
| 350 | Redditors having a meltdown over FDS 😂Oh and remember, talking about how women get raped and murdered is misandry which is so much worse than actually getting raped and murdered /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 05:40 PM |
| 377 | world travel vs stabilityTbh as a childfree woman I don't blame people who want to travel instead of having kids. I think the bigger problem is men being generally low value, not just travel. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 05:42 AM |
| 115 | FDS is more supportive towards single mothers than the actual single parents subAgreed, a lot of single mothers are single mothers because they've made the difficult decision to leave an abusive/toxic relationship. They deserve the highest respect. That's one of the most difficult decisions a woman could make, but it's the right thing to do, for the benefit of her children. Mad respect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 05:36 AM |
| 11 | Overweight men have shorter penises. (and my thoughts on obesity and body positivity)This is a really good point actually, and something I missed in my OP. Trauma and mental health struggles are major factors that contribute to unhealthy eating habits- in both anorexia and obesity. One of the reasons why I gained weight in the first place was because of emotional eating as a trauma response. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 03:27 AM |
| 23 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 10 - Boomers, Coomers, & Consumers: What Went Wrong with Male SocializationThis is exactly it. It's not feminism's fault that men are trash, men are trash deliberately, and out of spite. I hate that smug "well, you wanted this, didn't you?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 03:19 AM |
| 14 | Overweight men have shorter penises. (and my thoughts on obesity and body positivity)THIS, I agree with this take completely. No matter your size you should still make an effort to take care of your body such as eating more vegetables, doing low-impact exercises, etc. I don't understand why that is so controversial. So many of the comments on this post just make me want to shake my head. These are the same people who get mad at celebrities like Lizzo and Adele for losing weight. Fucking GOOD FOR THEM, losing weight is hard, and I commend their self discipline and hard work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 02:01 AM |
| 236 | Men still harass us no matter what we wear cause it doesn't change what they know we have underneathEven after this whole pandemic blows over, I think imma keep wearing a mask tbh. I haven't gotten a cold since the pandemic hit, it's almost as if wearing a mask in public and washing your hands... works? In some countries, it's totally normalized to wear masks in public even when no pandemic is going on. The harassment prevention is just another bonus to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 01:53 AM |
| 12 | Overweight men have shorter penises. (and my thoughts on obesity and body positivity)Okay yeah - I definitely agree with that. In that sense, I guess I believe in "body neutrality" A lot of what is called "body positivity" nowadays is just toxic positivity. I don't think it's realistic to expect people to be positive about all things all the time, including bodies. I love my body for what it can DO for me, it is the vehicle that allows me to exist in this world and do cool shit. But at the same time, bodies can get sick. Bodies can be gross sometimes. It's normal to have a wide … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 01:33 AM |
| 23 | Overweight men have shorter penises. (and my thoughts on obesity and body positivity)I liked this sub more when we didn't make sweeping generalizations about attraction, health Lmao what are you talking about? FDS has always been like this. We are not in the business of telling comfortable lies. One of the liberal fairytales I have a problem with is "looks don't matter, no matter your size there will always be men willing to fuck you" (and vice versa for men). I have a problem with pickmes who pander to men with "omg I looove dad bods" because LVM see that and think "oh, I don't… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 12:16 AM |
| 64 | Overweight men have shorter penises. (and my thoughts on obesity and body positivity)Probably just people misreading my post, or not reading it at all. I'm not saying women HAVE to be skinny. There is a difference between being slightly chubby (which is okay) and being morbidly obese. I don't buy "health at every size" I mean... really? Every size? Anorexic women literally die from being too thin and morbidly obese woman are dying from weight-related health conditions. There is nothing wrong with saying "this is a healthy bodyfat percentage", it's not even particularly narrow. 1… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 09:24 PM |
| 86 | Overweight men have shorter penises. (and my thoughts on obesity and body positivity)I think body positivity is entirely separate from the fact that women have value outside of being attractive. The "body positive" stuff I see on social media is very appearance-focused, which I don't like. And yeah there actually are "fat activists" who say stuff like "health at every size" which I feel is an irresponsible narrative to be spreading when there is a global pandemic going on where obesity is considered a major risk factor, alongside other conditions such as asthma, age, etc. And no… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 08:55 PM |
| 51 | "Cishet" women are still oppressed. We are still women living under a patriarchal system."White feminism" is an actual thing, and I believe it was coined by women of color to refer to feminism that excludes WOC, which is valid. But again, that's another woke phrase that men and pickmes have weaponized. They even call black women "white feminists", it's become just another way of dismissing what women have to say. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 12:03 AM |
| 73 | My former pickme friend reached out and apologized and said I was right over a year+ later..I had to distance myself from my best friend (since elementary school) after I found FDS. She was always doing stupid pickme shit and then emotionally dumping on me when it backfired on her. She got mad at me whenever I ever suggested maaaaybe not doing risky pickme stuff. This dynamic got even worse after she started doing onlyfans and stripping. We haven't spoken in months, but part of me still hopes that someday she will come around and we can be friends again 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 09:07 PM |
| 64 | "Cishet" women are still oppressed. We are still women living under a patriarchal system."Femcel" is another misogynistic dogwhistle. "Any woman who says something negative about a man is a femcel" even women who aren't actually celibate. They're just punishing women who talk about the misogyny we experience | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 08:40 PM |
| 58 | "Cishet" women are still oppressed. We are still women living under a patriarchal system.I mean have you ever been on Twitter? 😂 I can't share reddit links because we would get accused of "brigading" (everything we do here is under a microscope). For context, long story short, one of the most common ways our critics dismiss us is saying "oh that's just a sub for straight women" It was even in the first paragraph of the Vice article, "just like any other straight women’s self-help site" as if what we have to say isn't important or worth listening to because we are women who date men.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 08:07 PM |
| 94 | "Cishet" women are still oppressed. We are still women living under a patriarchal system.Exactly, obviously I don't have it as hard as a lesbian, but we are both oppressed because we are women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 06:34 PM |
| 71 | "Cishet" women are still oppressed. We are still women living under a patriarchal system.Also, is it really true the majority of us are cishet? We had a poll a while back with something like 40% bisexual and 7% lesbian. Which the woke misogynists then flipped and said "FDS is a sub for homophobic lesbians! Ban them! Hate group!" 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 06:29 PM |
| 34 | "Cishet" women are still oppressed. We are still women living under a patriarchal system.Exactly, it's an identity that women can't escape. I'm uncomfortable with how cishet women are being framed as an oppressor class. Online, I'm not seeing nuanced discussions about marginalization and privilege (which is fine), I'm seeing people use it to justify punching women, silencing women, or sending women threats and misogynistic abuse. We deserve to be abused because we're the oppressors now. It's the ultimate DARVO. It's so insidious actually. The patriarchy is always evolving, and misog… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 06:25 PM |
| 69 | Men sending her hatred online launched her career. Stay mad.Yes! I absolutely love Jess Taylor | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 08:00 PM |
| 287 | Sex workers accusing us of slut shaming then in the next breath mocking us for "sucking dick for free" ...wow. And they have the audacity to demand we "support sex workers"They've made it very clear that in the minds of libfem sex workers, there's only 2 types of women: women who suck dick for money, and women who suck dick for free. They think they're better than us because "hey at least I get paid for it!" Imagine being so brainwashed by patriarchy that you center a man's penis when categorizing women... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 01:00 PM |
| 337 | Sex workers accusing us of slut shaming then in the next breath mocking us for "sucking dick for free" ...wow. And they have the audacity to demand we "support sex workers"It's funny that they say "you must suck a lot of dicks" as an insult... almost as if they know that it's degrading 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 11:01 AM |
| 247 | Sex Work Twitter makes me feel LESS compassion towards voluntary sex workers 🙄One literally accused us of "slut shaming" then in the next reply said "haha sounds like you've sucked quite a few dicks for free" ??? HOW is that not actual slut shaming? These women are honorary scrotes 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 09:42 AM |
| 23 | Sex Work Twitter makes me feel LESS compassion towards voluntary sex workers 🙄In terms of sheer numbers, yes, something like 99.99% of sex workers worldwide are trafficked or at the very least economically coerced. Those women's voices are largely unrepresented in sex work Twitter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 09:09 AM |
| 73 | Sex Work Twitter makes me feel LESS compassion towards voluntary sex workers 🙄I agree that privileged sex workers are exploited, but at the same time they are complicit in the even worse exploitation that less-privileged SWs are subjected to. Exploited people can be assholes too, sometimes. Being an asshole doesn't make them any less exploited, but at the same time, being exploited doesn't make you not-an-asshole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 05:48 AM |
| 320 | Sex Work Twitter makes me feel LESS compassion towards voluntary sex workers 🙄AND they have the audacity to say that sex workers aren't victims... but that criticizing the sex industry is victim blaming. So which is it? 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 03:36 AM |
| 39 | If he gets a boner when you cry, RUN. That is a Pavlovian response from watching too much violent abuse porn. He has literally trained his brain to be sexually aroused by women's pain.Men who do this gaslight women into not seeing it for the red flag that it is | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 10:58 PM |
| 15 | Can we talk about how LVMs have a love/hate attitude toward lesbians?It's so funny because whenever I criticize porn we get tons of scrotes going "bUt wHaTaBouT LesBiAn pOrN tHeReFoRe cRiTiCiZiNg pOrN iS LeSbOpHoBic" 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 08:18 PM |
| 86 | TW: THIS IS WHAT BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A SCROTE LOOKS LIKELink? I need them justice deets | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 08:12 PM |
| 68 | Why... are men ??? 🤢😳This. I dated a guy who got a boner every time I cried, like some kind of Pavlovian response to watching too much violent abuse porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 07:42 PM |
| 96 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 9 - We Like Big Dicks and We REFUSE to LieI was in a relationship for over a year with a guy with a fairly big dick. One day he asked if it was the biggest dick I've ever had, I told him (truthfully) that it was the 2nd biggest dick I've been with. This made him wildly insecure and he started asking tons of probing questions (who is he? Do I know him? Where did you meet him? When were you together? Do you have him on Facebook? Can I see a picture?) and then he was an asshole to me for 5 days before we eventually broke up. Men are so men… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 06:37 PM |
| 133 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 9 - We Like Big Dicks and We REFUSE to LieApparently this episode was SO UPSETTING to some scrote he made an entirely new subreddit just to hate on FDS 😂 [Casually tosses over shoulder into the pile with all the others] | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 06:04 PM |
| 122 | Imagine wanting to take multiple girls for coffee and not even being able to pay for it and then complaining about women using men in the comments. What a scrote. The pickmeishas in the comments are even woseMen b like "haha women are worthless, literally just a walking vagina" and then act TOTALLY CLUELESS about why women won't fuck them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 08:43 AM |
| 149 | We appeared in public again today. Mods did their job, thank you <3The funniest part about this is when he said "my inbox is filled with moderator messages saying my replies were removed" Duh, that's automod. Literally anyone who tries to comment before getting flair will get an automated message like that. The way he's phrasing it makes it seem like he is the ONLY person that this is happening to, as if moderators are manually removing each of his comments because we're just unreasonable bitches or whatever who can't handle his "fax n logic" Bruh, you ain't th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 12:16 AM |
| 10 | "I want to leave, but we have kids."This deserves to be in the handbook | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 05:36 AM |
| 18 | When I talk about FDS concepts with other women, I don't even acknowledge that what I am saying is controversial at all. I just act like it's normal.Honestly, I would much rather hang out with a respectful Christian than a disrespectful nihilist (even though I personally am not a Christian). All of these misogynistic redditbros acting like he's a better person than you simply because he's an atheist can kick rocks. If religion gives you a sense of belonging, safety, peace, joy, etc. then I support you. Also, I like what you said about Jesus never letting you down. I agree that even for women who are not religious, having that mental image ca… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 03:10 AM |
| 2 | My favorite part of being an FDS mod... 😂Yes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 05:32 PM |
| 110 | Female friendships and misogynistic propagandaThey stigmatize gossip to shame women who compare notes about men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 03:19 PM |
| 10 | Men who take naked pictures of sleeping women, and men who use hidden cameras to secretly film their sexual encounters, are compelling reasons to avoid casual sex until you have thoroughly vetted his character.Definitely, I don't agree with that tidbit of "dating advice" at all. See my edit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 05:36 PM |
| 85 | Men who take naked pictures of sleeping women, and men who use hidden cameras to secretly film their sexual encounters, are compelling reasons to avoid casual sex until you have thoroughly vetted his character.I found out from a mutual friend that he shared the pics in his group chat with his buddies. So far I haven't seen them in the wild, but it wouldn't surprise me if my nudes were floating around on the internet somewhere. I didn't report him because I knew nothing would come of it. I had already been through the experience of reporting a rape, and the police did nothing. Also I was afraid of some kind of Streisand effect where if I reported him, he might retaliate by uploading the images to a por… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 05:29 PM |
| 49 | Women aren't funnyIt's so narcissistic, ugh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 04:00 PM |
| 9 | You are not a courtroom. You do not owe men the presumption of innocence.I'm so glad you pointed this out. The "presumption of innocence" exists in theory, but in practice, it is a privilege that is only granted to those who have power. If you're a woman, or poor, or POC, or otherwise marginalized, it is much much more likely that you will be automatically treated as guilty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 03:08 PM |
| 88 | Why is it that this subreddit garners criticism for encouraging a different path, that of which is DIGNITY for women, while the depravity of males continues on, often times unchecked??What's weird to me is how incels are treated with compassion and sympathy like "oh they're just lonely guys who need support for their mental health" Meanwhile, the people who call us "female incels" have absolutely NO compassion or sympathy. They condemn us, and speak with mockery and derision for us not wanting to be used and abused by men. Sadly, even other women participate in this weird male pandering + female shaming. Just pure sexism. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 02:46 PM |
| 101 | You are not a courtroom. You do not owe men the presumption of innocence.It's not just silly, it's legit dangerous. Predators and con artists deliberately target people who are naive and trusting 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 11:05 PM |
| 67 | There’s a New Dating Website for Christian Men Who Hate Feminists and Soy BoysMen are too hormonal to be in charge, seriously | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 06:44 PM |
| 3 | We need to draw a line between oppression that is based on the extraction of cheap labor vs. other types of "oppression"Racism and sexism is profitable, basically. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 05:01 PM |
| 54 | Mama’s boy: covert editionYou just described one of my LVM exes PERFECTLY | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 03:01 PM |
| 18 | We need to draw a line between oppression that is based on the extraction of cheap labor vs. other types of "oppression"This is such a high quality comment, I appreciate you taking the analysis even further, thank you. I hadn't even thought about how simply the existence of disabled people makes people uncomfortable because it reminds people of their mortality and the fragility of the human body. I noticed the same thing about how people were talking about the pandemic, "oh it's just old people dying. It's just people with pre-existing conditions who get complications" as if their lives don't also matter? One of … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 07:47 AM |
| 3 | We need to draw a line between oppression that is based on the extraction of cheap labor vs. other types of "oppression"That's a fair point, I made an edit to clarify my position. Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 07:05 AM |
| 7 | We need to draw a line between oppression that is based on the extraction of cheap labor vs. other types of "oppression"See, it's exactly that type of tribal mentality that I have a problem with. It's possible to criticize the left while still being a leftist. I know that people are accustomed to seeing certain words being used by certain groups but just because I use a word that is associated with another group doesn't automatically mean that I have the same beliefs as that group. Critiquing the way that identity politics are used (these days it's often in a way that harms the very members of that identity) is n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 06:49 AM |
| 10 | We need to draw a line between oppression that is based on the extraction of cheap labor vs. other types of "oppression"I'm referring to a style of political engagement that centers individual choice and identity, rather than focusing on dismantling structural oppression. The actual organization, BLM, is actually a great example of this. There is a difference between the social movement for black lives (which I support) vs. the organization BLM (which I don't support because of financial mismanagement including but not limited to the founder using donations to buy luxury real estate). The organization used the pi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 06:32 AM |
| 78 | We need to draw a line between oppression that is based on the extraction of cheap labor vs. other types of "oppression"Soooo true. I'm sick and tired of wokebros. The sort of guy who puts BLM and he/him pronouns in his Twitter bio so that he can look cool and progressive while still jerking off to violent porn and shouting down women IRL. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 03:16 AM |
| 125 | Mainstream "women's empowerment" is a lie.Burlesque is another one. It's also just weird as fuck to me. So uncomfortable to watch because most aren't even good dancers. Imagine being so privileged that you do stripping as a "hobby" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 02:57 AM |
| 2 | We need to draw a line between oppression that is based on the extraction of cheap labor vs. other types of "oppression"Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 02:32 AM |
| 16 | I'm a therapist and I can't do couples counseling anymoreFair enough, would it be cool if we discuss this post on the podcast? We don't share usernames so there's no way to identify who would have written it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 10:42 PM |
| 132 | I'm a therapist and I can't do couples counseling anymoreIt's not just in cases of abuse. Couples therapy only works if both people are invested in the relationship and genuinely love and care for each other. People act like it's only in extreme cases (like abuse) where couples therapy won't work. But it also won't work with a LVM, even if he isn't actively abusive. If he just doesn't give a shit, the relationship is doomed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 10:25 PM |
| 31 | I'm a therapist and I can't do couples counseling anymoreEXCELLENT post. Wanna come on the podcast to talk about it? We've been meaning to have someone on the pod to talk about how couples therapy disproportionately harms women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 10:21 PM |
| 14 | Have you seen the male-targeted ads on this subreddit?Reddit certainly knows their target audience 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 04:23 AM |
| 86 | Using "political lesbian" as an insult is a homophobic and misogynist slur.Ah yes, "Schrodinger's FDS" where the women here are all simultaneously man-hating political lesbians AND an "LGBT hate sub for straight women" (depending on which angle they're going for to get us banned) In all seriousness though, FDS is not compatible with political lesbianism because we acknowledge that people cannot choose their sexual orientation, and that's okay. Which is the opposite of the entire premise of political lesbianism. Also, bisexual women exist. "Refusing to have sex with men… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 12:06 AM |
| 34 | Scrote hasn't washed his penis in years, has still slept with unwitting women. Disgusting.I got ONE yeast infection when I was 17 because of my then-boyfriend and ever since then, I have a strict policy: I don't let a guy touch my pussy unless he's washed his hands and his dick. WITH SOAP. Men have called me crazy, neurotic, hypochondriac, that I have OCD, etc. I don't care. Most men don't even wash their hands after using the bathroom. Nasty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 06:24 PM |
| 2 | Lies MRAs tell about domestic violenceIt's so weird to me how scrotes seem to simultaneously believe that domestic violence doesn't exist (when it happens to women) AND that domestic violence happens all the time but is under-reported (when the victim is male). It's because they don't think there's anything wrong with men abusing women. They think it's their right as a man. In their mind, it's only "abuse" when their sex object hits back, which they perceive as malfunctioning property. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 06:15 AM |
| 7 | 💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥READ THIS FOR A CHANCE TO APPEAR ON THE FDS PODCAST! 💥💥💥💥💥💥💥Damn this whole thread has made me realize we really need to have a whole episode JUST for vegan dating strategies. Because you're totally right, there are a lot more female vegans than male vegans which adds another layer of complexity to the dating field. (Personally I've started, stopped, and started being vegan multiple times. I agree completely with the ethical and environmental reasons for veganism. I just struggle with the actual diet because I'm extremely sensitive to certain foods inclu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 07:44 PM |
| 5 | 💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥READ THIS FOR A CHANCE TO APPEAR ON THE FDS PODCAST! 💥💥💥💥💥💥💥You don't need flair to send me a DM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 03:00 PM |
| 15 | An FDS guide to tradcon intellectualismI prefer to use the phrase "pseudointellectual" or "wannabe intellectual" These dudes basically self-ID as an intellectual even though they aren't one 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 06:46 PM |
| 46 | You don't owe your family marriage and grandkidsI agree. Never have kids to make someone else happy. Family, husband/bf, social group etc. You don't owe your reproductive labor to anyone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 05:42 PM |
| 278 | My favorite part of being an FDS mod... 😂Yeah when I see FDS haters in the wild saying "I got banned for being a sex worker! I got banned for having a disability! I got banned for being trans! I got banned for being black!" I know they're liars trying to spin narratives to get us banned. Like sis, quit acting in bad faith, you got banned because you broke the rules. It's not about who you are, it's about what you said. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 03:35 PM |
| 146 | My favorite part of being an FDS mod... 😂The comments on this one inspired me to make this post. Every day we usually have 1 or 2 of our posts hit the Reddit front page. The amazing thing is that even though we are a relatively small subreddit at 150k subscribers, our engagement is phenomenally high, and that activity is what gets us to the front page. Edit: see our subreddit stats we rank #2862 in terms of subscriber count, but are ranked #461 in terms of comments per day. Which is an amazing ratio. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 03:19 PM |
| 26 | Women who have experienced trauma, what have been some of your levelling up wins?Men like that, they just take everything from you - your happiness, your present, your future - and they never see it as enough This is a POWERFUL quote | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 02:36 PM |
| 95 | This is a thing on IG/TikTok now. I hope she gets picked!This was physically painful to watch | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 07:33 PM |
| 154 | Nothing newBreaking news! Water is wet! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 06:05 AM |
| 162 | Dad is a creepy LVMYour dad sounds like he's grooming you. You need to develop an exit strategy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 04:20 AM |
| 52 | What are your experiences dating neurodivergent men?A high functioning neurodivergent man has the potential to be a good partner if (and ONLY if) they are serious about getting treatment and work hard on improving their mental health. That being said, the vast majority of men, even neurotypical men, are not serious and are not working hard on improving their mental health. Don't fall for potential, ladies. Evaluate him based on the man that he is right here, right now. If the relationship is doing you any harm whatsoever, cut your losses and move… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 04:17 AM |
| 23 | Gasoline Limbo &LVM are a match made in hell. It's bad for cars to run low on gas but endangers you as a woman and yet LVM can't stop playing limbo.Oh for sure, if people are doing it because they are living paycheck to paycheck then that's a totally different story. My dad made decent money, it was just a dumb gamble/risk-taking thing. It's lame too because if you're seeking an adrenaline rush, I cannot imagine anything more boring and middle class than getting a thrill out of being low on gas 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 11:28 PM |
| 38 | Gasoline Limbo &LVM are a match made in hell. It's bad for cars to run low on gas but endangers you as a woman and yet LVM can't stop playing limbo.My dad thought it was a game to see how low he could go on his gas tank while driving. He bragged about arriving at gas stations "running on fumes" My family was lucky in that we never actually got stranded, but the stress of it all gave me trust issues and now I never let my car get below 1/4 tank. It's especially dangerous where I live, some areas are so remote that there are no gas stations for over a hundred kilometers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 10:59 PM |
| 18 | Conflicting beliefs with my therapist about 'all men'See... if you're going to make the connection that growing up in a racist society makes you racist, or that growing up in a misogynistic society makes you a misogynist... you then have to take the following step which is to say, "if I am a white and/or male person it is my duty to be aware of my privilege and be willing to admit it, apologize, and make amends to make things right" (when appropriate of course) When someone makes that connection (between growing up in a racist/sexist society and a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 10:49 PM |
| 18 | The phrase "SWERF" is corporate propaganda. The porn industry is attempting to shield itself from scrutiny by hiding behind the very laborers that they exploit. Sex workers are a class of oppressed, marginalized, exploited workers, not human meat shields for protecting industrial interests.Your comment makes me want to rename liberal feminism as "neoliberal feminism". Or "libertarian feminism" because what we call "liberal feminists" are liberal in the same way that libertarians are "liberal" Because honestly, a lot of old school liberalism is great (J.S. Mill, John Locke, Kant, etc.). I personally consider myself a liberal in some ways in that I agree with principles such as harm reduction, opposing coercion, governments operating based on the consent of the governed, etc. Neolib… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 09:41 PM |
| 38 | The phrase "SWERF" is corporate propaganda. The porn industry is attempting to shield itself from scrutiny by hiding behind the very laborers that they exploit. Sex workers are a class of oppressed, marginalized, exploited workers, not human meat shields for protecting industrial interests.It's pure projection. Most of the people who call us SWERFs are literally just porn addicted males, and a handful of privileged and/or white women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 05:52 PM |
| 19 | Some art for my new favourite sub:') Beautiful! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 12:43 AM |
| – | Thank God this guy is here to message me on the error of my ways 😂Please post this to FDSsuperfans | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 07:17 PM |
| 78 | Why are they like that?Man says he doesn't like condoms: what a weirdo! A total freak! How completely UNUSUAL of him to not want to wear condoms, as a man 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 03:57 PM |
| 131 | WTF is this?!Petition to rename April 24 "National beat-the-shit-out-of-a-rapist Day" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 03:39 PM |
| 233 | The Eternal Girlfriend 😳😬12 years? I could have married and divorced AT LEAST THREE different men during that same time period ok byeeeee | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 04:12 AM |
| 21 | Thoughts on Poly BSI've never met a poly man who wasn't a garbage human being 🤷♀️ most are just weak, emotionally manipulative, covert narcissists. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 11:16 PM |
| 34 | FDS PODCAST UPDATE: we're going to start doing interviews!Do you have more information about this allegation? If there was a woman who went to his retreats who made an accusation, I would believe her. However, I'm suspicious of random Facebook comments like that, because there have been some manosphere smear campaigns to discredit Bancroft | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 11:40 PM |
| 213 | So true.Omg SAME. My grandmother was generally a total badass. Career mom, highly educated, highly accomplished professionally. However, she also had a lot of unhealthy attitudes towards weight. She is and always has been extremely thin. For breakfast she'll have a tiny bowl of cream of wheat with black coffee, skip lunch (before retirement, she would just work straight through lunch). For dinner she'll have a salad and a single serving of salmon, chicken, or some other protein. Every day she was probab… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 11:50 PM |
| – | Scrote physically abuses his wife because she’s uncomfortable with him watching porn.Please repost this after cropping out subreddit name | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 06:59 PM |
| 13 | You ever feel like the women who are happy with their men are kind of just...dumb?A while back we had a feud with the Call Her Daddy gang and there was one woman who said, "I had a baby with a man I'd only been dating for a month and it was great because it brought our relationship so much closer" And I literally could not believe my eyes that someone could say something so stupid. We tried explaining why that's risky and maybe not a good idea and it just went totally over their head. They had the sort of energy as "this sign doesn't apply to me because I can't read" I have a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 06:55 PM |
| 60 | Andrea Dworkin had it exactly right (quote from "Woman Hating")The "kindness" is actually part of the cruelty. It's part of the cycle of abuse, it's grooming you to take more abuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 12:11 AM |
| 133 | Ladies, don't suppress your anger!Interestingly, this perfectly mirrors how our patriarchal society (abusers) responds to FDS (women who are angry about abuse) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 09:39 PM |
| 33 | Since people keep complaining about how wrong and immoral it is to have a "binary rating system" (LVM/HVM) I'd like to propose a ten-point rating system so that at least we're not "worse than the manosphere" 😘I still enjoyed reading this explanation so I don't think it's bad humor at all! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 04:43 AM |
| 64 | The entire purpose of porn is to degrade.There's this one dude who keeps spamming the mod queue with deepfake porn of AOC 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 04:29 AM |
| 149 | LVM and using mental health as an insultAlso, notice the double standard for "mental health" for men vs. women: If a woman has an opinion he doesn't like, a man will say "you're crazy, get help" But when a man goes on a mass shooting spree, the narrative is "men don't get enough support for their mental health! 🥺 👉👈" For women, "mental health" is a tool to discredit and silence us. For men, "mental health" is a tool for excusing literal hate crimes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 04:26 AM |
| 11 | Since people keep complaining about how wrong and immoral it is to have a "binary rating system" (LVM/HVM) I'd like to propose a ten-point rating system so that at least we're not "worse than the manosphere" 😘women already overthink and rationalize so much with relationships Truuuu... for women whose judgement is clouded by patriarchal brainwashing, a binary system is probably for the best. That being said, I still think there is some value in distinguishing between different types of LVM. There's really only one type of HVM: someone who meets all of your standards. However, there are a lot of different ways that a man might not meet your standards, and even if the end result is the same (block and d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 04:07 AM |
| 37 | Since people keep complaining about how wrong and immoral it is to have a "binary rating system" (LVM/HVM) I'd like to propose a ten-point rating system so that at least we're not "worse than the manosphere" 😘I intended this as satire/trolling but based on the comments... sorry ladies 😅 It's hard to communicate sarcasm over text, sometimes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 03:59 AM |
| 27 | Since people keep complaining about how wrong and immoral it is to have a "binary rating system" (LVM/HVM) I'd like to propose a ten-point rating system so that at least we're not "worse than the manosphere" 😘It's still a binary system in a way, any man who is 2 or lower is a definite "no" A guy who pushes boundaries, disrespects, and negs is NVM, always. Harvey Weinstein is rich but he's still -5 because he's a rapist. A guy could be a millionaire, literal royalty, 10-inch dick, 6'5" Calvin Klein model but if he's a malignant narcissist he's automatically -4 or -5 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 03:06 AM |
| 206 | Since people keep complaining about how wrong and immoral it is to have a "binary rating system" (LVM/HVM) I'd like to propose a ten-point rating system so that at least we're not "worse than the manosphere" 😘LVM will fuck any woman on the 10-point scale, the only difference the ranking makes is how much effort he's willing to invest in her. 1-3 they expect her to show up at his place with zero effort on his part, like a delivery pizza. 4-6 they'll take her on a low effort date like a walk or coffee. They'll only "splurge" on a dinner date for women 7+. I've even seen manosphere comments like "she wanted me to take her on a date but she's ONLY A FIVE" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 03:01 AM |
| 100 | Since people keep complaining about how wrong and immoral it is to have a "binary rating system" (LVM/HVM) I'd like to propose a ten-point rating system so that at least we're not "worse than the manosphere" 😘See, I don't actually know how to code, so as I was reading your comment I thought I was having a stroke because I don't know what those words mean 😂 Mad respect, sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 02:48 AM |
| 41 | Since people keep complaining about how wrong and immoral it is to have a "binary rating system" (LVM/HVM) I'd like to propose a ten-point rating system so that at least we're not "worse than the manosphere" 😘Hmm... the +5 men you mentioned according to the Relationship Compatibility Spectrum wouldn't be what I consider HVM. A true HVM (according to FDS standards) has a backbone. A sickly codependent man would probably be somewhere in the ballpark of -1, 0, and 1 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 02:45 AM |
| 5 | Since people keep complaining about how wrong and immoral it is to have a "binary rating system" (LVM/HVM) I'd like to propose a ten-point rating system so that at least we're not "worse than the manosphere" 😘See my comment above, it's a malicious compliance thing 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 02:23 AM |
| 136 | Since people keep complaining about how wrong and immoral it is to have a "binary rating system" (LVM/HVM) I'd like to propose a ten-point rating system so that at least we're not "worse than the manosphere" 😘I know, I'm mostly being tongue-in-cheek here. I don't seriously think that this will appease men. If anything, it'll make them even more mad (which is the entire point, muahaha 😈) Personally I think it's objectifying when men rate women on a scale of 1-10, so I think it's fair that they get a taste of their own medicine. "Oh you don't like being called LVM? Okay, I rank you -3 instead" 😇 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 02:03 AM |
| 23 | "Don't be a manhater" is patriarchal propaganda. What they consider "man hating" is literally just women calling out misogyny, and having boundaries and standardsI actually find this to be a great way of making female friends. If I'm in a group of women and I say something like "ugh I hate men" most women will laugh and agree with me 😂 I'm a proud manhater, I wear it like a badge of honor! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 12:04 AM |
| 51 | 👇🏻Is it WAATGM? 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 11:47 PM |
| 100 | "Don't be a manhater" is patriarchal propaganda. What they consider "man hating" is literally just women calling out misogyny, and having boundaries and standards"Patriarchy hurts men too by expecting them to be providers when I'd rather just sit on my ass all day scratching my balls" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 11:09 PM |
| 80 | "Don't be a manhater" is patriarchal propaganda. What they consider "man hating" is literally just women calling out misogyny, and having boundaries and standardsI'd rather be a "manhater" than a pickme 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 09:35 PM |
| 279 | This is the type of obtuse mentality that I'm referring to when I say "men are committed to misunderstanding us"Right??? Women here are literally saying "be a good person and maybe I'll consider dating you" and all the scrotes are like "NO! 🤬🤬🤬 That's manhating! U BITCHES NEED TO LOWER UR STANDARDS" The reason why most of them CAN'T find dates is precisely BECAUSE they refuse to listen to women 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 07:15 PM |
| 553 | This is the type of obtuse mentality that I'm referring to when I say "men are committed to misunderstanding us"We don't hate all men. We hate misogynistic men. We want to date good men or none at all. Men who think that we hate all men are the sort of men who think that being a misogynist is an inherent quality of masculinity. We prop each other up because most women have low self esteem due to being beaten down by a lifetime of patriarchal conditioning. Confident women don't tolerate abuse from men. We aren't "waiting for a king" and we don't care if one doesn't come along. It is better to be single tha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 07:11 PM |
| 59 | Online “radical” FDS-style feminist groups got banned in China. It could happen here too.We're gonna be talking about it in the podcast soon. Stay tuned! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 06:35 PM |
| 120 | Online “radical” FDS-style feminist groups got banned in China. It could happen here too.We already have a contingency plan set up if they ever ban us. If anything, banning us would only radicalize women even more. Fucking try me, Reddit 😘 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 04:16 PM |
| 49 | So very disappointed with this content creator (explanation in the comments).Lmao if we were corporate astroturfers, we wouldn't be asking people for money to support our podcast... industry shills generally don't have a patreon account 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 04:13 AM |
| 105 | So very disappointed with this content creator (explanation in the comments).Reminds me of people who say "oh those bitches over at FDS? They're wrong, they're toxic, they're not worth your time. If you're looking for QUALITY advice on sex and dating, allow me to direct you to some REAL feminist icons like Karly Sciortino, Cat Marnell, and Gigi Engle" 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 03:33 AM |
| 94 | Your Masturbation Fantasies Cannot Be Self-Degrading, Abusive or Rapey Because You Are Conditioning Yourself for Getting Off Of Abuse, You Are Teaching Yourself That You Deserve to Be AbusedEver since I really got into FDS, my masturbation fantasies have changed. I used to fantasize about kinky stuff but now... it's not so much about the person or the power dynamics that turns me on, I literally fantasize about my physical environment. My go-to fantasy these days is the thought of having sex in my dream house, which is a cottage in the woods. I fantasize about having a sexy buff lumberjack-looking dude who chops wood shirtless and who loves me and respects women 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 02:46 AM |
| 180 | The whole video. He tries to kidnap her after that.What a world we live in. "Hello, 911? Yes, I'd like to report a kidnapping. I have a picture of his face, video of his car, and-" "Sorry ma'am, we can't help you unless you know his social insurance number, his mother's maiden name, and his ancestryDNA results" click | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 11:43 PM |
| 5 | "Negging" menI think it depends. I don't recommend going out of your way to neg men- when scrotes do it they're deliberately attacking the woman's self esteem, which is negative value behavior. If a guy is approaching you in a way where he's fishing for compliments, like in the example you described, then by all means speak from the heart 😂 It's actually a very common tactic for men to say something self deprecating because they expect you to jump in and compliment him (like a "good woman") to boost his ego.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 11:38 PM |
| 68 | The whole video. He tries to kidnap her after that.I wanna see the video where he tries to kidnap her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 09:53 PM |
| 46 | Collectively taking off the rose coloured glassesShe had me in the first half... 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 08:08 PM |
| 138 | I don't defend men or their plights on social media at allIf a woman had the same amount of empathy as the average man, people would think she's a narcissist or a sociopath. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 08:06 PM |
| 32 | I've seen a bunch of posts about bad experiences with birth control and traumatic gynecologist visits. This is a podcast episode where Jameela Jamil interviews a brilliant gynecologist and she explains some of the misconceptions we have about female bodies. I learned a lot and thought I should shareEh... Jameela Jamil is a bit of a libfem pickme. Some of what she says is good, but don't take everything she says at face value. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 03:42 PM |
| 17 | Misogyny and feminism"fDs iS sOoO ToXiC" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 03:40 PM |
| 25 | The entire comments section of this Tiktok🤡Has this guy never seen a real woman? Has he never been outside? Or does everything he knows about women comes from porn, TV, movies, and other media where women are dolled up 100% of the time (and usually airbrushed and photoshopped) Personally I have all 3 and I would never give this scrote the time of day. I know LOTS of women who have all 3, it's actually very common. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 06:50 AM |
| 276 | Dr. Anthony Youn, High Value King 🙌His wife is also a doctor (pediatrician). I think it's good that he has an age-appropriate wife who is accomplished in her own right. I've been watching his youtube channel for quite some time, and I've always gotten the sense that he feels genuine empathy for women. Never gotten even a whiff of misogyny. And yes- I love watching him drag scrotes 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 07:44 AM |
| 124 | I'm so proud of you ladies for sharing and normalizing FDS concepts on tiktok, Instagram, and other social media 😂Yeah there's been a push to invert the meaning of feminist discourse. We cannot let it happen. A pickme would be someone who is PRO porn, not against it 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 02:01 AM |
| 26 | Awakening to the Problems of Liberal FeminismOh so that's why dudes hate horse girls 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 11:07 PM |
| 223 | I'm so proud of you ladies for sharing and normalizing FDS concepts on tiktok, Instagram, and other social media 😂That's true, social media algorithms show people what they want to see. That's probably why so many men are totally clueless and unaware of what's going on with women, and why they act so blindsided when they eventually do come across an FDSer in the wild 😂 That being said, FDS-friendly content is still being created, and it's all recent. This type of discourse wasn't happening in the mainstream even 2 or 3 years ago. The movement is growing, and in some ways social media is helping us grow, bec… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 08:47 PM |
| 3 | Since I started commenting on here, I’ve been getting a lot of messages like this one.No worries, same dude actually sent me a message too, about the slug story, which I just posted to superfans. What a terrible man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 08:33 PM |
| – | Since I started commenting on here, I’ve been getting a lot of messages like this one.Please repost this to FDSsuperfans with username (at the top) cropped out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 10:26 PM |
| 18 | One of the most disgusting things I've ever read"Let your husband rape you every night" Basically is what that says | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 08:08 AM |
| 77 | Have any of yall experienced that “look” on dates?Exactly this. Women need collectively stop giving a fuck about being polite, and start putting ourselves first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 04:55 PM |
| 89 | Finally this depraved bullshit is facing some backlash in young malesOh no. Podcast foreshadowing 👀👀👀👀👀👀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 04:49 PM |
| 59 | The reason some men are so awful is because pick-mes let them get away with using and disrespecting them.Exactly, and I feel like it's also making fun of all the hugboxing and praise that men get for doing the bare minimum. "Omg, he's watching his own kids for an hour while mom has a doctor's appointment? YAAAAAYYYYY!!!" 👏👏👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 10:31 PM |
| 14 | ANOTHER SLUG UPDATE and honestly, this one is much worse. He was clearly exploiting her mental illnesses for his own personal amusement. One of the most disgusting, depraved, and truly evil things I've ever seen.One dynamic I've noticed in a lot of vegan couples: the woman seems to idealize him and put up with a lot of his bad behavior. Maybe because vegan men are rare so she's more invested in "making it work" even if it means acting like a doormat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 04:18 AM |
| 159 | SLUG UPDATE: SHE DID EVENTUALLY LEAVE THE GUY WHO WAS FEEDING HER SLUGS! [EXTREME NSFL IN PICS 2 AND 3]He did so many potentially lethal things, that I'm genuinely in awe that this woman is still alive. Sis is just built different. Her physical body deserves a round of applause for fighting off the multiple infectious diseases he exposed to her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 12:33 AM |
| 29 | ANOTHER SLUG UPDATE and honestly, this one is much worse. He was clearly exploiting her mental illnesses for his own personal amusement. One of the most disgusting, depraved, and truly evil things I've ever seen.I've heard soooo many stories of nonvegan boyfriends trying to sneak animal products into their vegan girlfriend's food. It's so violating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 12:23 AM |
| 25 | Men don't just hate when we speak. They hate when we vocalize at all.Yeah I was so tempted to post a gym selfie with my face blurred but ended up deciding against it because 1) I'm not a piece of meat, and I don't want incels jerking off to pictures of me. 2) I don't like the implication that a woman's opinions are only valid if she is attractive. It shouldn't matter what we look like, our advice is still sound (and our methods clearly work, our OG mods shared pics in the Discord- they are happily married/engaged to HVM). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 10:57 PM |
| 69 | ANOTHER SLUG UPDATE and honestly, this one is much worse. He was clearly exploiting her mental illnesses for his own personal amusement. One of the most disgusting, depraved, and truly evil things I've ever seen.💯% this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 10:19 PM |
| 19 | Men don't just hate when we speak. They hate when we vocalize at all.I've been dying to post one of my gym selfies for a while now just to disprove the whole "FDS are fat ugly femcels!" If they knew what we looked like they'd probably cry 😂 Fun fact: the reason why most of our original mods are no longer active is because they've gotten married or engaged. They still check in with us from time to time, but are mostly just busy living their lives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 09:51 PM |
| 253 | A great example of how libfem pickmes are dangerous to women. FGM = Female Genital Mutilation.This is why I think FDS' female-first model is so important. If something is bad for female humans, we are against it. Full stop. I don't care if it's "part of someone's culture" to mutilate female genitals. If the culture is patriarchal, we oppose it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 09:37 PM |
| 113 | SLUG UPDATE: SHE DID EVENTUALLY LEAVE THE GUY WHO WAS FEEDING HER SLUGS! [EXTREME NSFL IN PICS 2 AND 3]Imagine if your boyfriend killed your dog or cat and then tricked you into eating it. That's SO. FUCKED. UP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 09:24 PM |
| 54 | SLUG UPDATE: SHE DID EVENTUALLY LEAVE THE GUY WHO WAS FEEDING HER SLUGS! [EXTREME NSFL IN PICS 2 AND 3]I'm disgusted by slugs too. One of the reasons why this story is burned into my brain. When I was a little kid I was traumatized because my best friend has an older brother who would make "bets" where he would pick up a slug and tell us "I bet you think I can't eat this slug!" To which we would say, "ew that's gross, don't do that" and then he would violently gnash them between his teeth while we screamed in disgust. He thought it was sooo funny provoking that reaction out of us. What the fuck i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 09:18 PM |
| 18 | Dead bedrooms, and men.👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 08:15 PM |
| 261 | ANOTHER SLUG UPDATE and honestly, this one is much worse. He was clearly exploiting her mental illnesses for his own personal amusement. One of the most disgusting, depraved, and truly evil things I've ever seen.I know soooo many women who justify their partner's abuse by blaming it on her own mental health issues. This is why we tell people not to date if they have an untreated mental illness. When a woman is mentally ill she is more likely to be exploited and abused. When a man is mentally ill... he's more likely to exploit and abuse a woman. I've experienced both. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 08:10 PM |
| 324 | ANOTHER SLUG UPDATE and honestly, this one is much worse. He was clearly exploiting her mental illnesses for his own personal amusement. One of the most disgusting, depraved, and truly evil things I've ever seen.I had the same thought. The Nazis did so many fucked up experiments. To the point where it was obviously not even in the name of "science" anymore, just blatant sadism and cruelty. And even if those experiments were supposedly done for the purpose of "scientific advancement" it goes so far beyond the boundaries of ethics, that they are still crimes against humanity. Slug dude isn't doing "experiments" he is quite literally torturing her and medically abusing her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 08:06 PM |
| – | ANOTHER SLUG UPDATE and honestly, this one is much worse. He was clearly exploiting her mental illnesses for his own personal amusement. One of the most disgusting, depraved, and truly evil things I've ever seen.This was the one that I remembered reading a while back that left me with the impression that she was staying with him, because she was trying to rationalize his behavior. Fortunately, they have since broken up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 07:48 PM |
| – | SLUG UPDATE: SHE DID EVENTUALLY LEAVE THE GUY WHO WAS FEEDING HER SLUGS! [EXTREME NSFL IN PICS 2 AND 3]I'm leaving subreddit names up because they are relevant in this case and because those posts are archived, so no risk of lurkers brigading or spamming them with vote manipulation. Edit: Another update which preceded her breakup update. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 07:18 PM |
| 35 | Men don't just hate when we speak. They hate when we vocalize at all.You should see what the scrotes have been saying about our voices on the podcast 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 05:50 PM |
| 214 | I really enjoy watching antifeminists have a meltdown every time we discuss penis size. Just take your L and leave us alone! 😂 Ladies, please enjoy this curated collection of male tears, from the left-wing manosphere 🎁Wow this has been up barely 10 minutes and it's already getting downvoted. Pretty sure these scrotes are just camping out on "new" and downvote/screenshot/archive everything. Side note, for this reason, ladies please be VERY CAREFUL about what you post here on reddit using your FDS account. These "leftist" manosphere subs are openly saying that they download everything we post so that it can never be deleted, and are sifting through our posts/comments with a magnifying glass trying to dox us. Cr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 10:07 AM |
| 28 | Beware of men who say stuff like "I used to respect you, until you did X" or "I would have more respect for you if you did Y"Exactly. What men consider "self respecting women" is just a projection of their own misogyny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 06:52 PM |
| 123 | Beware of men who say stuff like "I used to respect you, until you did X" or "I would have more respect for you if you did Y"OOOFFF yeah I've heard that exact line more than once. The moment I stopped being a pickme coolgirl who let him indulge in whatever he wanted, he says "you're JUST like other girls" (and since he had already established that "other girls" are bad, shallow, demanding, etc.) I know that he meant it as an insult. Being a pickme coolgirl doesn't earn you real respect, it just makes you a magnet for misogynists, who will turn on you the moment you stop being compliant. We should all aspire to be like… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 06:06 PM |
| 173 | Guys who say "FDS helped me understand and respect my wife" okay but why didn't you listen to your wife before you found FDS?The expression of shock at basic aspects of the female experience is what really gets me. Women get sexually harassed and assaulted so much, it's not even shocking to me anymore. The performative empathy also makes me angry. It's so obviously fake and self serving. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 12:28 AM |
| 43 | There is an INBREEDING SUBREDDIT where men discuss having children specifically for the purpose of having sex with them. Just when I thought Reddit couldn't get any worse...20k | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 10:32 PM |
| 15 | my therapist "not all men'd" me"It's bigoted and hateful of you to not allow literal bloodsucking parasites to have access to your body!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 10:09 PM |
| 32 | my therapist "not all men'd" meNOTALLTICKS I'm gonna keep that in mind next time I even THINK about checking my ankles for ticks after walking around in some tall grass. I just have to remind myself that "not all ticks are like that!" and that way I'll never get Lyme disease! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 08:56 PM |
| 196 | There is an INBREEDING SUBREDDIT where men discuss having children specifically for the purpose of having sex with them. Just when I thought Reddit couldn't get any worse...r/ inbreeding It's quarantined, and we've been reporting it for a while now (on the radar of r/ banfemalehatesubs) Supposedly the reason they haven't been banned is because they're careful to say in every post "I TOTALLY waited until my daughter was 18 before having sex with her!" (Yeah, right /s) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 06:01 PM |
| 177 | I’m never having kids, men just can’t be trusted to stick around, pull their weight or treat you properly after you start family. Then they blame woman for picking badly.I am deeply uncomfortable by how much "humor" is just a black dude putting on a bonnet and making fun of black women. Just cringy as fuck. Black women are already so disrespected, it's insulting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 04:49 PM |
| 63 | Every day the bar descends deeper into hell...This just screams "COPE" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 04:46 PM |
| 38 | There’s so much creepiness here.Wtf did I just read | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 04:45 PM |
| 131 | "Men are the true romantics"Check your brakes. I'd never trust a former lover to touch my vehicle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 04:57 PM |
| 174 | Would love to flip this around and ask sons of fathers who visited prostitutes, how do you feel about what your father did?Right? Why not "children of prostitutes"? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 05:37 PM |
| 80 | LADIES WTF: Homeless Millennial Man Survives By Picking Up Women Every Night. Every woman who fell for this dirty unwashed misogynist deserves to be in the Pickmeisha Hall of Shame.I wouldn't call those women pickmes. He lied to and manipulated these women. They were exploited. He probably gave them diseases. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 05:14 PM |
| 18 | Do they even themselves believe it 😂😂 as a 18 year old in my 'prime' i DEFINITELY don't want greasy hairy old pathetic 50 year olds 🤢🤢🤮🤮Not OP but personally when I was 16-18 I liked other 16-18 year olds. In general I prefer guys my own age, plus or minus ~3 years. Most women do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 06:22 PM |
| 146 | VICE Media Darling Cat Marnell Takes Issue With Our Characterization of Her.I love that she thinks she is important enough to "help our brand name" by mentioning us Never heard of her before today. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 07:58 AM |
| 131 | Yes, the economy is bad. That doesn't mean you have to be a free prostitute.It's funny you say that because we bonded over making fun of him 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 03:21 PM |
| 525 | Yes, the economy is bad. That doesn't mean you have to be a free prostitute.Oh he was almost certainly a rapist. We worked together at the same time when #metoo was happening and I remember him making "jokes" like "wow you can't even make eYe cOnTacT with a girl without getting a FaLsE RaPe AcCuSaTiOn" Every woman in the office was like, "noted" 😐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 02:45 PM |
| 133 | Yes, the economy is bad. That doesn't mean you have to be a free prostitute.If it were opt-in, nobody would go. It needs to be mandatory. Sadly, it would probably never pass because "SeXiSm aGaiNsT mEn" even though women don't need this kind of nonsense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 02:10 PM |
| 368 | Yes, the economy is bad. That doesn't mean you have to be a free prostitute.It wasn't actually my quip, it was originally coined by one of the other women I worked with, while we were laughing about him behind his back. I was just the one who got the opportunity to say it to his face 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 01:55 PM |
| 220 | Yes, the economy is bad. That doesn't mean you have to be a free prostitute.That's what mandatory military service used to be for: whooping their low value asses and training them to have some modicum of self discipline and real-world responsibility 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 01:53 PM |
| 246 | Jealous of a cat “woke up to him smiling at me smugly from atop my gfs tits”Right like what kind of sane woman would choose a whiny selfish man who might cheat on you one day, over a sweet companion animal with a proven track record. I'd choose my pets over a man any day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 12:21 AM |
| 847 | Jealous of a cat “woke up to him smiling at me smugly from atop my gfs tits”Sounds like a really awesome cat. She sounds like a really good pet owner. I cannot imagine criticizing your partner for being too kind to animals. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 09:29 PM |
| 37 | I have been laughing about this all day. Went to his page and its full of cringey content like this. He talks about going 5050 with women as well. Also, he seems to be very short. Someone please give this broke hobbit some sense 😂😂😂I need eye bleach for what I just watched 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 08:23 PM |
| 33 | Just because he makes 10x more doesn't mean he's HVThis post is so weird to me. What does she even want? On the one hand, she's very insistent that she's not a gold digger and would "NEVER" ask him to buy her stuff. That she's super low maintenance and cool and doesn't expect anything from him. But then at the same time she seems upset that he's not buying her the stuff that she wants. This is the result of women being conditioned to not vocalize their own wants and needs. She very clearly wants to be treated well but doesn't want to express it … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 07:44 PM |
| 58 | Oh hey, another shining example of how a LVM will destroy your life and sanity and how engrained gender roles make women think this is somehow okay.This is why we vet. Holy shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 06:21 PM |
| 62 | Oh hey, another shining example of how a LVM will destroy your life and sanity and how engrained gender roles make women think this is somehow okay.He seems like the kind of guy to throw a temper tantrum the moment she says "no" or establish a boundary. In her mind, compliance is an energy conservation thing. This is why we vet to eliminate men who refuse to respect women's boundaries. Don't waste your energy trying to enforce boundaries with people who fundamentally don't respect you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 06:19 PM |
| 159 | Oh hey, another shining example of how a LVM will destroy your life and sanity and how engrained gender roles make women think this is somehow okay.That last part where she says she's been told she's financially abusive eyeroll I'm sure it was in the context of her husband DARVOing and gaslighting her or someone else doing it to her on his behalf. Having boundaries about money, and not giving your idiot husband unfettered access to your bank accounts, is NOT financial abuse! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 06:16 PM |
| 43 | 🎶If he touches me (without consent) then I will taze his ass⚡Yeah while I generally refrain from criticizing a womans appearance... tbh she looks just like all the townie bar flies from my hometown who do meth recreationally and have 3+ kids all with different fathers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 06:08 PM |
| 72 | Yes, women can be pornsick too.You should write a post about this, damn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 05:52 PM |
| 155 | Yes, women can be pornsick too.Euuughhhh yeah I've dated a few guys who said shit like that to me 🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮 Men will literally openly admit to trying to brainwash women and then have the audacity to call us crazy conspiracy theorists when we call them out for it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 01:09 PM |
| 54 | Saying that FDS is an echo chamber is like saying that group therapy is an echo chamber.Exactly, and that's the key difference between FDS and the manosphere. The men who join incel/redpill communities are already misogynists. They hated women before, and incels/redpill echo chambers make them hate women even more. Women who find their way to FDS often start out as pickmeishas. Their existing beliefs are more about self hatred and internalized misogyny. They start out loving men too much. FDS helps women reverse that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 09:56 PM |
| 35 | “When women earn more than their male partners, domestic violence risk goes up 35 per cent”And this is why when antifeminists go "wHaT iF tHe gEnDeRs wErE rEvErSeD" is always a stupid argument | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 08:07 PM |
| 114 | Waiting to have sex pays off. It doesn't matter how famous he is.Sounds like Sommer Ray has an FDS account 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 08:04 PM |
| 42 | Research validates once again how men are promoted faster in the workplace (hint: it’s schmoozing)This was a mental image I didn't know I needed 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 04:04 PM |
| – | Dude has been dragging along a woman for TWENTY YEARS. KNOWING he doesn’t want to be with her.Please repost after cropping out subreddit name (part of antibrigading efforts) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 03:57 PM |
| 78 | If things were flipped, and sex ended when women came, most men would throw temper tantrums.Meanwhile if I EVER compared a boyfriend to a past lover he would probably throw a fit. They don't like to be compared to other men because it makes them feel "emasculated" but see nothing wrong with comparing their girlfriends to their exes as a manipulation tactic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 03:34 PM |
| 80 | How media narratives groom women into being pickmesMeanwhile if a woman made an article saying "why men struggle to get matches" and interviewed women who all said "90% of the profiles on online dating are repulsive, that's why we swipe left on them. Men need to shower, shave, lose some weight, dress like an adult, and take more flattering pictures" there would be a huge backlash calling it "ToXiC MiSanDrY" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 07:06 PM |
| 35 | “There are just some things about FDS I don’t agree with.” *** My journey to the truth.Excellent post, my journey was quite similar. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 03:54 AM |
| 28 | A nice skitI like that Anna was able to admit that she's a former pickme. The whole time I was watching this I was thinking "Anna has said some suuuper pickme stuff in the past" I hope to see more FDS-friendly stuff from her in the future. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 03:53 AM |
| 92 | Cringe at me, sisters! Cringey pick me and cool girl behaviors I've done, a master list.Ooof, this was hard to read. I've definitely done like, half of the things on this list. Painful to think about. Don't be too hard on yourself though, if you're able to cringe at your past self, it means you've since grown and changed as a person. Patriarchy works very hard to brainwash and gaslight women into this type of thinking. It's a good thing that you're questioning that patriarchal conditioning. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 03:42 AM |
| 2 | Has anyone else been in an emotionally abusive relationship where a LVM would continue to do something purely bc they knew you didn't like it?YUP my LVM ex did this all the time. He got a kick out of making me angry/sad. It got to a point where I would just stop expressing that I didn't like something because I knew it would just make him do it more. Which I'm sure was the entire point: "don't complain about the bad things I do it else I'll do it even more to punish you" So glad I found FDS and dumped his ass 😑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 12:05 AM |
| 52 | The Example For a Gender Based Hate Crime on Justice.Gov Angers MeLiterally this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 10:10 PM |
| 8 | Much of F. Scott Fitzgerald's writing was actually plagiarized from his wife Zelda. He barred her from publishing her writing under her own name because he insisted they would make more money if a man published it. Then he committed her to an insane asylum where she died.Highly recommend! It was enjoyable to watch, great production quality, Christina Ricci was a Queen as usual | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 10:53 PM |
| 88 | r/AgainstHateSubreddits never denounced Aimee Challenor, and never denounced pedophilia. Currently, their top post is bashing FDS for wanting female-only spaces which they consider "hateful" (notice how they don't have anything bad to say about pedophilia)It's such a shame because AHS does actually criticize reddit misogyny a lot so I feel like they could potentially be a great ally. Unfortunately, it's just not possible to be allied with people who are trying to hurt you. I used to be one of those people who thought trans women should be included in FDS until I became a mod and was able to see some of the horrible things they say to us in modmail and in the comments. Now I understand the importance of female-only spaces: it's just not possible t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 08:46 PM |
| 75 | Why is no one talking about the type of rape where a partner pesters you into having sex?YES almost half of the times I have ever had sex was when I didn't want it and my BF would just badger me for sex until I gave in. It was about energy preservation. I knew that if I didn't just give in and let him fuck me, he would just pester me and make my life more difficult. Or he would emotionally punish me by acting moody and passive aggressive. Now that I have FDS I know that ever happens to me again, I'm walking out the door. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 04:48 PM |
| 63 | I really feel so sorry for this generation of women.And they have the audacity to complain and blame women for their porn addiction like "it's because women won't fuck me that I'm FORCED to watch porn" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 04:36 PM |
| 112 | I really feel so sorry for this generation of women.It's only a matter of time before they start trying to expand the Overton window to include sexual assault as well. Watching porn used to be something to be embarrassed about. A few decades ago you wouldn't hear men proudly and publicly defending their "right" to watch porn because it was seen as something shameful. Imagine what public discourse will be like 10 or 20 years from now: "my boyfriend is a serial rapist and I hate it" "wow, you need to show him SUPPORT and let him do what he wants wi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 04:31 PM |
| 150 | I, too, enjoy free sexual expression.I express my sexuality by grimacing then block & delete the moment a guy waves red flags 🚩💀🤣😈 that's what makes me feel empowered! 💪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 06:38 AM |
| 32 | FDS Podcast Episode 2 is HERE!!! FAQs about Feminism, Double Standards, Being Friends with an ExAw thanks!! We love getting feedback about the production quality. We're all mostly self taught and there was a lot of trial and error when we first got started, so it makes us feel warm and fuzzy that people notice and appreciate it 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 06:18 AM |
| 75 | This showed up on my *FDS* feed. NOT AN FDS POST. The audacity! Needless to say, I reported it.Reporting an admin announcement as "misinformation" lmao diabolical 😈 I love it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 02:37 AM |
| 301 | Men falling over themselves to prove that they’ve never come across a sex offender. Just look at all that logic, evidence and sound reasoning 🤡Men be like "I PERSONALLY do not think I know any sex offenders, therefore sex offenders do not exist. Checkmate, feminists!" 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 10:44 PM |
| 16 | This is why FDS exists. To counteract the army of redpillers/PUA who have been taught to prey on vulnerable women.Tomorrow! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 10:13 PM |
| 35 | "It feels like patriarchy has entered a whole new chapter. Men are being taught to hate women in a new way. Let’s call it “hyper patriarchy.” The internet makes everything faster, harder, dumber, and meaner. And that’s what it’s doing to patriarchy, too."No worries, it was such a tiny mention that it was easy to miss 😂 your point still stands: there needs to be more discussion around porn radicalizing young men to hate women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 06:43 PM |
| 98 | "It feels like patriarchy has entered a whole new chapter. Men are being taught to hate women in a new way. Let’s call it “hyper patriarchy.” The internet makes everything faster, harder, dumber, and meaner. And that’s what it’s doing to patriarchy, too."There was ONE passing mention: boys who don’t have much experience with women, whose only experience of women is through p*rn and social media I feel like he definitely could have gone into more detail about how porn also radicalizes young boys into seeing women as bodies to be dominated. In fact it's probably the #1 cause and it happens long before young men discover incel forums. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 06:30 PM |
| 113 | This is why FDS exists. To counteract the army of redpillers/PUA who have been taught to prey on vulnerable women.I swear, half of the women on FDS ended up here because we've been chewed up and spat out by some redpiller at some point in our dating history. Women have had enough. We're finally fighting back. And it's scaring the shit out of them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 05:51 PM |
| 295 | This is why FDS exists. To counteract the army of redpillers/PUA who have been taught to prey on vulnerable women.But remember, it's FDS that's the toxic one for wanting to warn women about guys like this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 05:28 PM |
| 31 | This is why FDS exists. To counteract the army of redpillers/PUA who have been taught to prey on vulnerable women.Sorry! Done | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 05:27 PM |
| 8 | Today I removed a troll post designed to paint FDS as Anti-gay & called AHS out in the comments. Oddly, one of the AHS mods suddenly banned me from their profile. I have NEVER contacted this mod personally. Wonder how this mod 1) knew about this REMOVED post & 2) figured I was talking about them? 🤔Last time, they said we believe in "jewish space lasers" because I left a comment saying they're probably getting paid to shut down feminist subs and post pro-porn propaganda on reddit all day (because they clearly don't have day jobs). It's either that or this mod lives in mommy's basement and is serving corporate interests for free which honestly, I don't know which one is more embarrassing 😂 My comment clearly struck a nerve, and their "jewish space laser" response to it was such an obvious D… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 05:22 PM |
| 21 | Imagine dating a NVM like thisYes, some men actually love dating women with eating disorders | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 05:13 PM |
| 55 | Today I removed a troll post designed to paint FDS as Anti-gay & called AHS out in the comments. Oddly, one of the AHS mods suddenly banned me from their profile. I have NEVER contacted this mod personally. Wonder how this mod 1) knew about this REMOVED post & 2) figured I was talking about them? 🤔The best part is that they're gonna make a whole damage management post about this claiming "FDS is promoting Qanon conspiracy theories!" But since everyone can see right through them, they're basically just advertising their own lies and depravity for the world to see. lmaoooo I love to see it 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 03:49 AM |
| 10 | Reminder: FDS is about a specific way to date. It's not for everybody. Totally cool if this is not your cup of tea, just move on. We are not going to change our beliefs to accommodate misogyny.Onlyfans is basically an MLM and yeah, we get women all the time trying to spam us with their codes and when we ban them they go apeshit and screech "bUt iM a WoMaN tHo" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 03:45 AM |
| 162 | Today I removed a troll post designed to paint FDS as Anti-gay & called AHS out in the comments. Oddly, one of the AHS mods suddenly banned me from their profile. I have NEVER contacted this mod personally. Wonder how this mod 1) knew about this REMOVED post & 2) figured I was talking about them? 🤔Looks like someone just accidentally exposed their alt account 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 02:34 AM |
| 12 | Reminder: FDS is about a specific way to date. It's not for everybody. Totally cool if this is not your cup of tea, just move on. We are not going to change our beliefs to accommodate misogyny.Exactly, and I agree with u/MismatchedEyeliner 's breakdown. I'm not saying that women who do those things are subhuman. I'm literally just saying "go and live your life however you please, FDS just isn't for you" Being polyamorous, or into BDSM, or having low standards is not an inherent quality of womanhood. Criticizing those things is not misogynistic. It's fine to disagree with us, but please go do that elsewhere. There are plenty of subs to choose from that criticize FDS. We don't have to m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 10:02 PM |
| 15 | Reminder: FDS is about a specific way to date. It's not for everybody. Totally cool if this is not your cup of tea, just move on. We are not going to change our beliefs to accommodate misogyny.Calling out literal racism is completely different from saying "this could be said a little nicer" I'm not saying anything prejudiced against a legally protected class in my post. Kinksters, polyamorous people, porn addicts, etc. are not oppressed. Frankly it's a little offensive that you would even draw that comparison. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 09:26 PM |
| 34 | Reminder: FDS is about a specific way to date. It's not for everybody. Totally cool if this is not your cup of tea, just move on. We are not going to change our beliefs to accommodate misogyny.Some women prefer more average sized penises, and that's totally fine. Some women like larger ones, and that's also totally fine. We don't standard shame. My problem is when one woman says she wants someone with a larger penis and then gets dragged by the tiny dick brigade for "body shaming" Women are allowed to have physical standards. Whether that's height, penis size, whatever. Just because he doesn't meet her standards doesn't mean she's "body shaming" him. Also, the simple act of refraining… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 08:53 PM |
| 71 | Reminder: FDS is about a specific way to date. It's not for everybody. Totally cool if this is not your cup of tea, just move on. We are not going to change our beliefs to accommodate misogyny.Sometimes I go there to try and unban legitimate users who got caught up in autoban but 99.99% of the messages there are "fUcK U sToOpiD wHoRe". Most time consuming and lowest yielding mod activity (and most emotionally exhausting) FOR ANY GOOD FAITH USERS READING THIS WHO GOT CAUGHT UP IN AUTOBAN THIS IS WHY YOU SHOULD HAVE AN ALT THAT YOU USE ONLY FOR FDS 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 07:00 PM |
| 165 | Reminder: FDS is about a specific way to date. It's not for everybody. Totally cool if this is not your cup of tea, just move on. We are not going to change our beliefs to accommodate misogyny.So true. Like, if you're a guy who wants the woman to pay for dates then why do you care what we're saying at FDS? Clearly we are not compatible. Why do these guys still want to date us when we are not compatible. There are plenty of pickmeishas out there who want to pay for you 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 06:47 PM |
| 32 | This is not a cult to brainwash women into isolation. I've started to isolate from shitty men long before I found FDS. A mini argumentative essay.These are the same sort of men who say that it's "sexual abuse" when a woman doesn't want to have sex: "my wife is WiThHoLdiNg sEx, she is so CoNtroLLiNg" They're literally inverting the meaning of feminist language. Now THAT'S manipulation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 04:49 PM |
| 261 | Another day another woman suffering from the "I dont know what consent is also men are oppressed" diseaseI rolled my eyes so hard when I saw this one 🙄 Probably 40% of ALL of the times I have EVER had sex, was not consensual. Most of those times were when I was in a relationship: my boyfriend wanted sex but I didn't, so he would just badger me until I relented because it was easier to just let him fuck me than to put up a fight. (I know, this was pre FDS and I had weak boundaries, should have just dumped them). Now I'm just imagining stopping my rapist like "hey, are you consenting to this?" and hi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 04:42 PM |
| 21 | Not to be a downer but things just feel bleak right now, very grateful for this community of women ❤️Spot on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 04:33 PM |
| 25 | This woman had to apologise for assuming affection after sex is normal 🤦🏻♀️"Sorry if I offended anyone for saying you're supposed to cuddle after sex" WHAT. HOW IS THIS CONSIDERED OFFENSIVE. WTF. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 10:56 PM |
| 38 | Why can’t we talk about misogyny and the dangers of sex work regarding the Atlanta shootings?Annoys me so much when they say that criticizing prostitution is equivalent to "taking away a woman's right to consent" and an "attack on women's bodily autonomy" Fuck offfff. Nobody from FDS is gonna come arrest you for being a sex worker. I'm so tired of men and pickme's inverting the meaning of feminist terms. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 09:42 PM |
| 17 | Weight and the behaviours around itYES and the worst thing is even if you do manage to lose the weight you'll still have scrotes criticizing you! Always always ALWAYS prioritize your physical health over being sexually appealing to men! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 09:37 PM |
| 160 | Beware of bars/clubs/restaurants that offer "Free drinks for ladies!"If a bar is advertising free drinks for women, then women are the product. Their paying customers are the NVM who pay to access to inebriated women. These venues also tend to attract cheap stingy men because they don't even have to buy the girl a drink. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 08:05 PM |
| 1 | No surprise that 95% of the stories here are about men.Can you please resubmit after cropping out subreddit name? Part of our anti-brigading efforts. Scrotes have been trying to get us banned for "brigading" by harassing any sub that gets mentioned here 😑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 07:53 PM |
| 24 | Uh-oh, the scrotes found our podcast Patreon and are BIG MAD. "How DARE those evil bitches monetize their own podcast!!!" Misogynists don't see any value in anything a woman does, so when women receive money in any way shape or form, they freak out and call it "scamming" "grifting" "a cult" etc.Or do it just to spite them 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 07:15 PM |
| 82 | Uh-oh, the scrotes found our podcast Patreon and are BIG MAD. "How DARE those evil bitches monetize their own podcast!!!" Misogynists don't see any value in anything a woman does, so when women receive money in any way shape or form, they freak out and call it "scamming" "grifting" "a cult" etc.I have no idea either. It seems they haven't even decided which narrative they're going with so it's all over the place. Some are gloating that we're making hardly any money ("dozens of dollars" and "more podcast hosts than contributors") - duh, we just launched like 2 days ago. Others are catastrophizing about us making too much money (guy who "did the math"). Cute that these guys think that 17k annually is "making some serious bank" 😂 Still others assume that we're broke and unemployed and tha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 06:34 PM |
| 155 | Uh-oh, the scrotes found our podcast Patreon and are BIG MAD. "How DARE those evil bitches monetize their own podcast!!!" Misogynists don't see any value in anything a woman does, so when women receive money in any way shape or form, they freak out and call it "scamming" "grifting" "a cult" etc.Something tells me these are the same type of men who complain about being "scammed" when a woman doesn't sleep with him on the first date 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 06:01 PM |
| 56 | Female self-defense protip: style your hair using tiny knives so that you always have an easily accessible self-defense tool on your person. It's time we BRING 👏 BACK 👏 HATPIN 👏 HYSTERIA 👏Why not? "It's just a hair pin" 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 04:50 PM |
| – | Female self-defense protip: style your hair using tiny knives so that you always have an easily accessible self-defense tool on your person. It's time we BRING 👏 BACK 👏 HATPIN 👏 HYSTERIA 👏Inspired by this post 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 04:35 PM |
| 102 | Punishing women for defending themselves is nothing new: in the early 1900s, when women started using hat pins to defend themselves from male violence, male lawmakers tried to ban hat pins.Because UK cops want to be able to continue murdering women without getting pepper sprayed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 08:17 AM |
| 73 | Punishing women for defending themselves is nothing new: in the early 1900s, when women started using hat pins to defend themselves from male violence, male lawmakers tried to ban hat pins.It's for this exact reason I'm skeptical of media narratives surrounding rapists who are immigrants/nonwhite [SEE DISCLAIMER]. These narratives are almost always used to promote some kind of racist agenda, and those agendas are also used to harm innocent women within that group. It's also worth remembering that racists are almost always anti-woman as well. For every black or brown rapist in a European country there's probably 5x or 10x as many white rapists that never get reported on. Disclaimer… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 08:09 AM |
| 88 | Punishing women for defending themselves is nothing new: in the early 1900s, when women started using hat pins to defend themselves from male violence, male lawmakers tried to ban hat pins.Exactly correct! Men operate like a mafia. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 07:48 AM |
| 31 | Unless he waxes his butthole, men are not allowed to complain about "impossible male beauty standards"This is the worst thing I have ever read 🤢🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 02:01 AM |
| 53 | Unless he waxes his butthole, men are not allowed to complain about "impossible male beauty standards"Nope, that's a buttcrack | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 08:23 PM |
| 84 | Unpacking the Male Gaze: Birds of Prey vs. Suicide Squad (I feel like this is why the odds are always stacked against women, because so much popculture is all about MuH PeNiS)Our society protects and incentivizes abusive men. Even the "good eggs" will code switch and may be tempted to do performative misogyny when in the presence of other men to maintain his social standing. Guys who treat women with basic human decency and respect are called "simp" and "pussy whipped". Men police other men to enforce the status quo, which is female oppression. Men just have too much to gain by preserving patriarchy, and too much to lose by siding with women. That's why I don't buy "… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 07:00 PM |
| 2 | Men love to remind women that they can physically dominate us because they are bigger and stronger than us. That's why I think women shouldn't be afraid of gaining muscle and having a little extra body fat, so we have more mass to throw around in self defence.All they're proving is that they're illiterate 😂 I specifically promoted being within a healthy bodyfat percentage, around 25-35%. The idea that a woman would prioritize her health and safety over being sexually pleasing to men is beyond comprehension for their pornfried coomer brains 🤭 And no, I'm never going to post a physique pic, no matter how much they hound me for it, because I know they would just masturbate to it. They can say whatever they want, I'm not gonna fall for the bait. I know w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 06:45 PM |
| 218 | Unpacking the Male Gaze: Birds of Prey vs. Suicide Squad (I feel like this is why the odds are always stacked against women, because so much popculture is all about MuH PeNiS)YES I just watched this video and was about to post it here so I was so happy to see someone already shared it! Blew my mind when she pointed out how men get OFFENDED when a female character is portrayed as a whole human being and not a sex object. Men are so used to women being depicted as an object of desire, that their brain registers it as abnormal and wrong when women exist for our own sake and not for men's pleasure. Probably why men get so offended by FDS, men are so used to using reddit … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 06:41 PM |
| 35 | The FDS podcast is now LIVE!!! Weekly Discussion Thread: Episode 1Tbh I didn't go too much into my backstory on the podcast because it was recorded before the whole Vice showdown and at the time I was too embarrassed about my libfem pickme origins 🙈 Then after Pickminique wrote that dishonest article about us I was like "finally! Someone who is even more embarrassing than me!" which made me go "fuck it" and throw caution out the window and roast myself in more detail in that post. As for JK Rowling, I am a huge Harry Potter fan and it would be my dream to actu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 06:16 PM |
| 3 | Roasting my past libfem pickme self 🤡Yes, if you send me a DM from your old account with the link to your new one, I'll approve you FYI u/yellow_pterodactyl | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 05:43 PM |
| 68 | Men engage in violence with other men in a whole different way than with women. With men, it's a "battle of the equals" where the other man is given a heads-up of what is about to happen. Women don't get a warning because men really don't see us as equals.You see the same thing happen in nature, too. When two males of the same species fight (whether for dominance or over territory/mates) they will "square up" against each other. There is no "element of surprise" so the fight is more or less "consensual". In contrast, when a predator attacks their prey, they'll either ambush them, stalk/creep up on them, or attack them from behind. Predators rely on the element of surprise and don't reveal their presence until the last possible second. The prey do… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 06:05 AM |
| 11 | Men love to remind women that they can physically dominate us because they are bigger and stronger than us. That's why I think women shouldn't be afraid of gaining muscle and having a little extra body fat, so we have more mass to throw around in self defence.Honestly it was mostly trial and error and watching a lot of YouTube videos. My personal favorites are megsquats, Stephanie Buttermore, Jeff Nippard, Natasha Oceane, and Jeremy Ethier | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 05:23 AM |
| 14 | Men love to remind women that they can physically dominate us because they are bigger and stronger than us. That's why I think women shouldn't be afraid of gaining muscle and having a little extra body fat, so we have more mass to throw around in self defence.YES and that's why I think technique + brawn = unstoppable 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 03:03 AM |
| 19 | Men love to remind women that they can physically dominate us because they are bigger and stronger than us. That's why I think women shouldn't be afraid of gaining muscle and having a little extra body fat, so we have more mass to throw around in self defence.Yeah and they are super brutal with petite women and basically treat them like a human fleshlight | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 03:02 AM |
| 19 | Men love to remind women that they can physically dominate us because they are bigger and stronger than us. That's why I think women shouldn't be afraid of gaining muscle and having a little extra body fat, so we have more mass to throw around in self defence.LOL this reminded me of all the times guys tried to prove their manliness or whatever by trying to pick me up only to really, really struggle with it. I'm a lot heavier than I look because muscle is denser than fat. I had a dude once try to fireman carry me only to completely fail at it and almost drop me. When I started laughing he acted all butthurt like NUH-UH UR JUST FAT like looool dude just admit you're weakkkkk 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 01:34 AM |
| 28 | Men love to remind women that they can physically dominate us because they are bigger and stronger than us. That's why I think women shouldn't be afraid of gaining muscle and having a little extra body fat, so we have more mass to throw around in self defence.Funny because right wing men go on and on about why they should be allowed to have guns for "self defense" yet there's a bunch of triggered scrotes offended at the thought that a woman might gain weight for self defense 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 01:08 AM |
| 128 | Men love to remind women that they can physically dominate us because they are bigger and stronger than us. That's why I think women shouldn't be afraid of gaining muscle and having a little extra body fat, so we have more mass to throw around in self defence.Trying to add this as an edit to my post but reddit is being a piece of shit so here we go: I just wanna emphasize the strength-in-numbers aspect which I feel I didn't go into as much detail as I should have in my post. The thing is, even if you're a woman who is tall, buff, and generally huge, your chances will be much worse if you find yourself solo against a group of attackers. That's why you hear so many stories of gang rape, because much like wolves, men know to hunt in packs. That's why a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 10:52 PM |
| 79 | Men love to remind women that they can physically dominate us because they are bigger and stronger than us. That's why I think women shouldn't be afraid of gaining muscle and having a little extra body fat, so we have more mass to throw around in self defence.Gimmick fitness is exactly it. I've been weight training for years, it takes a lot of time, effort, and a good diet to gain muscle. You're not gonna wake up one day and "accidentally" look like the Hulk. If anything, I find that women actually end up looking more feminine and curvy when they lift weights. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 10:17 PM |
| 16 | Men love to remind women that they can physically dominate us because they are bigger and stronger than us. That's why I think women shouldn't be afraid of gaining muscle and having a little extra body fat, so we have more mass to throw around in self defence.That's totally cool, and in my last few paragraphs I discuss why it's okay to have different goals and that there's no one "ideal" body type. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 09:27 PM |
| 31 | Men love to remind women that they can physically dominate us because they are bigger and stronger than us. That's why I think women shouldn't be afraid of gaining muscle and having a little extra body fat, so we have more mass to throw around in self defence.OMG okay no joke, I knew a guy who claimed to be into "cow tipping" (which is a fucking lie, anyone who says they've been cow tipping is a liar, it just doesn't work that way). I saw on Facebook apparently this guy was trespassing on some rancher's property and got his face kicked in by a horse. It was awesome 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 09:19 PM |
| 33 | Men love to remind women that they can physically dominate us because they are bigger and stronger than us. That's why I think women shouldn't be afraid of gaining muscle and having a little extra body fat, so we have more mass to throw around in self defence.I'm on the taller side and some of my friends are very petite, like 5'-5'2". Sexual harassment is so much worse and scary for them. When we are in a group we feel much safer than when we are alone. I wanna get big enough to just manhandle any threat that might come our way 💪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 09:12 PM |
| 94 | Men love to remind women that they can physically dominate us because they are bigger and stronger than us. That's why I think women shouldn't be afraid of gaining muscle and having a little extra body fat, so we have more mass to throw around in self defence."Don't fight against your rapist!" is just male propaganda. Many rapists will specifically incapacitate the woman so that she can't fight back (roofies, alcohol, hitting her on the head). Rapists go for easy pickings. They want women to be afraid and submit all on their own. It also makes it easier to get away with it because if there was no struggle he can always claim the sex was consensual. Fight like your life depends on it, because it PROBABLY FUCKING DOES. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 09:00 PM |
| 37 | Men love to remind women that they can physically dominate us because they are bigger and stronger than us. That's why I think women shouldn't be afraid of gaining muscle and having a little extra body fat, so we have more mass to throw around in self defence.Exactly. Men like this don't actually want a real fight, they just want women to be scared. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 08:56 PM |
| 86 | Men love to remind women that they can physically dominate us because they are bigger and stronger than us. That's why I think women shouldn't be afraid of gaining muscle and having a little extra body fat, so we have more mass to throw around in self defence.YES that's what pisses me off so much. Society has brainwashed women into thinking that "healthy" means being as weak and vulnerable as possible. I'm already starting to see changes in this though. More and more women are getting into athletics, weightlifting, etc. and want to get jacked and don't GAF if neckbeards don't think she's sexy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 08:55 PM |
| 82 | Men love to remind women that they can physically dominate us because they are bigger and stronger than us. That's why I think women shouldn't be afraid of gaining muscle and having a little extra body fat, so we have more mass to throw around in self defence.Men who like to boast that men naturally have more skeletal muscle are usually weakass little bitches who have never even stepped foot in a gym. IME, actual fit dudes seldom say shit like that. Some buff guys even have lowkey body dysmorphia and worry that they're actually not big enough. I dated a guy who was a boxer and he took it very seriously that he was stronger than most people. He said all the time "I signed a document saying I can't fight anyone except in self defense, I could seriously… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 08:51 PM |
| 67 | Men love to remind women that they can physically dominate us because they are bigger and stronger than us. That's why I think women shouldn't be afraid of gaining muscle and having a little extra body fat, so we have more mass to throw around in self defence.A lot of predatory men go for women only if they think she won't fight back. Criminals/attackers generally want to get what they want with as little personal risk as possible and will retreat if their victim is giving them too much trouble. You see this a lot in CCTV footage where a criminal is trying to rob a store or attack a woman, if their intended victim starts putting up a fight they run away. You see this in nature, too. Predatory animals generally go for smaller prey, or they will only g… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 08:31 PM |
| 185 | Men love to remind women that they can physically dominate us because they are bigger and stronger than us. That's why I think women shouldn't be afraid of gaining muscle and having a little extra body fat, so we have more mass to throw around in self defence.While it's true that the average man is larger and stronger than the average woman, I don't think it's accurate to say that women will always be physically less strong than all/most men. I just had a scrote comment that the "average man is stronger than 99% of women" which is simply not true. There are a lot of short men, weak men, skinny men. A lot of those men target and abuse smaller women because it makes up for their sense of failed masculinity. Also, in a PvP situation, it's not all about … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 08:21 PM |
| 55 | Ladies, take note of the men around you who are saying "not all men". They are promoting a pro-femicide agenda. Don't have sex with them, don't give them your attention, and don't patron their businesses #BoycottNAMALTLOL yeah in one of my group chats, one guy was trying to pull the NAMALT card and he got dragged. Even other men were dragging him. Solidarity ✊ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 10:17 PM |
| 131 | Ladies, take note of the men around you who are saying "not all men". They are promoting a pro-femicide agenda. Don't have sex with them, don't give them your attention, and don't patron their businesses #BoycottNAMALTNVM are the true narcissists, psychopaths, redpillers, abusers, rapists, killers, etc. LVM are just ordinary men who coast by and benefit from the culture of fear that the NVM have created in the minds of women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 09:03 PM |
| 21 | Wow, male provider everyoneI HAD A FRIEND WHOSE FATHER WAS LIKE THIS. My parents were a lot of things but one of the positive things about them was that they were always generous hosts. Whenever I had friends over, my parents always fed them well. There was always juice, soda, etc. in the fridge to offer guests the moment they walked in the door. I had this one friend though whose dad was a police officer and a total psychopath. Whenever I went to her house there was a strict "don't eat any of the food" rule. The first ti… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 05:18 PM |
| 40 | Life advice for men from men...I cannot tell you how many times I've picked up "career advice" type books that say something like "maximize your productivity by getting a wife to cook and clean for you, freeing up more time to achieve your own goals!" and then I just have to put the book down and shudder. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 05:00 PM |
| 102 | A clown in his natural habitatI love the phrase "I'm a bloodhound when it comes to abusive men" gonna start using it 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 09:43 AM |
| – | Proof that men who say "not all men are like that" are EXACTLY the type of men who are "like that"His message was in response to this comment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 09:10 AM |
| 70 | Proof that men who say "not all men are like that" are EXACTLY the type of men who are "like that"Saying "not all men are like that" IS the warning label. Anytime you see a guy on social media say shit like "not all men are rapists" I guarantee you that man is probably a rapist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 09:06 AM |
| 25 | Other Women’s Subs Are Starting to Slowly Figure Out What We’ve Been Saying All Along About Males In Women’s Spaces. It’s Starting to look a little FDS-y out here.There is a literal incest subreddit where (mostly) men talk about grooming and impregnating their daughters/sisters/mothers. There are men there who explicitly say that they had children just so that they could have sex with them. It's quarantined, but bloody hell. Why are those spaces allowed to exist but all the female-only subs get banned with no warning 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 07:12 AM |
| 439 | Saw this on Twitter — horrifyingMore proof that men don't feel empathy for women. Psychologically terrorizing us, making us fear getting raped or murdered, for their own personal amusement. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 01:40 AM |
| 11 | NEVER hire a male personal trainerMeh, I'm not opposed to having one in my scrotation if he's training me for free, in fact I've done that multiple times. I don't fuck them either, unless he's been vetted and made it to the 3 month mark (hasn't happened yet tho, because they always end up doing something that pisses me off so I block and delete before that point) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 12:38 AM |
| 181 | Pleasantly surprised by this guy in my DMs sharing a useful tip: men in homeless shelters are using online dating to find women to mooch off of, often after getting kicked out for abusing/cheating on another womanYet another reason to expect men to pay for dates. That standard alone eliminates all the hobosexuals 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 03:48 AM |
| 482 | Pleasantly surprised by this guy in my DMs sharing a useful tip: men in homeless shelters are using online dating to find women to mooch off of, often after getting kicked out for abusing/cheating on another womanAnd men have the audacity to go "tHeRe aRe nO mEnS SheLTeRs" Of course there are men's shelters, they're just regular homeless shelters | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 03:14 AM |
| 2 | Place Your Bets! Dominique's statement soon$10 says her next article is an exposé saying "see! These evil women harassed me so much I was FORCED to set my twitter private!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 12:27 AM |
| 3 | This is the funniest, most pathetic thing I’ve seen all week. Scrotes are w i l dFor a second I felt like I was going to have a heart attack because I thought he was kidnapping a real woman 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 12:23 AM |
| 22 | I think they’re onto somethingOne of our stalker subreddits (DO NOT go there or else they will cry "brigading!!!") | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 11:26 PM |
| 3 | Baby was a little dark skinned so Dad loses all sense and empathy. Slanders and bullies mom... Just wowIt's tragic the way that young women are made to feel ashamed for the shade of their skin, even by their own families, the very people who are supposed to be their safe space within a greater culture that is especially hostile to WOC. When my friend's younger sister was born she was very light skinned, and their grandmother (father's mother) exclaimed "she is so beautiful!" and showed obvious favoritism to the lighter skinned grandchildren growing up. All her life, my friend was told stuff like … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 11:23 PM |
| 49 | I think they’re onto somethingThere has been a serious effort to brand FDS as a hate group as part of a greater ideological struggle. The AHS users/mods who call FDS white supremacists, alt right, fascists, etc. seem to post on reddit like it's their full time job, probably because it is their full time job. As in, they are probably on some corporation's payroll for the sole purpose of cherry picking to discredit feminist movements as hateful terrorist groups. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 11:13 PM |
| 19 | 5 lies about FDS in Vice's latest hit pieceThey say that the solution to their mental health woes is legalizing prostitution 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 10:58 PM |
| 112 | I think they’re onto somethingCan't wait for AHS to write a whole post about this saying "FDS promotes eco fascism and advocates for genocide against males" 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 10:19 PM |
| 13 | Even with 3 kids and a considerable age gap, men will still jump ship for a younger woman and leave you with all the bills. Being a SAHM is risky af!"wHy dO u HaTe mEn tHo?" 🤡💩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 10:16 PM |
| – | This is an infuriating but good reminder as why we dress to impress ourselves NOT LVM!!Please resubmit after blurring out subreddit name (part of anti brigading efforts) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 10:13 PM |
| 7 | Roasting my past libfem pickme self 🤡it's okay to disagree with FDS and live life however you want, but you don't have the right to tell me what my standards should be. This 100%. If other women want to have low standards and pander to men, go right ahead sis, it's your funeral. Pickme's come here to tell us to lower our standards because they have low self esteem and feel they're not allowed to ask men for more, so when they see other women asking for more, it triggers this crabs-in-the-bucket mentality | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 10:11 PM |
| 101 | Rethinking Self Improvement: "FDS hAs HaRdLy aNyThiNg aBoUt SeLf iMpRoVeMeNt, iTs aLL jUsT mAn HaTiNg"To which men respond, "mEn dOnT cArE aBoUt uR cArReEr i cAnT fUcK yOuR dEgReE" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 09:51 PM |
| 11 | Roasting my past libfem pickme self 🤡Thanks to FDS I realized those tears are crocodile tears. In the past whenever he begged me not to leave and would make all kinds of promises which made me feel bad so I would stay 🤡 FDS helped me see that he's not crying because he loves me, he's crying because he doesn't want to lose his free servant/bangmommy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 09:03 PM |
| 188 | Recognizing Red Pill Strategies So You Can BLOCK AND DELETEIt's so weird to me that they think money increases their SMV but refuse to spend money on a woman. It doesn't matter how rich a guy is, if he refuses to spend money on you, his worth is no different than a poor man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 07:46 PM |
| 53 | Baby was a little dark skinned so Dad loses all sense and empathy. Slanders and bullies mom... Just wowI think it was more he hated that he made a fool of himself in front of the whole family but rather than apologize and admit he was wrong he decided to just project all of his shame onto the person he believed "caused" it which was the BABY. Who didn't even choose to be born! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 12:39 PM |
| 126 | Baby was a little dark skinned so Dad loses all sense and empathy. Slanders and bullies mom... Just wowI have heard of a few cases like this and sometimes it happens even when both parents are POC 😔 I have a friend who was born with darker skin but since both of her parents are lighter, her dad accused her mom of cheating. DNA test and yup, he's the father, but he never really let it go, and basically treated her like the unwanted "ugly" least favorite middle child. Her parents are now divorced and fortunately she's always had her mom in her corner, but guess who ended up internalizing colorist b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 12:03 PM |
| 116 | Another round of free publicity for the sub. Stories about FDS men come up with amuse me every time. Really? I think you attribute "threatening someone with violence when they reject you" to the wrong sех.Oh yeah, we get a lot of that. On the FDSsuperfans sub you can see some examples of that in the mod queue. We recently had a guy spamming us with anime nazi porn with titles like "YAAAS QWEEN, TRUE HWV" I guess to screenshot and go, "see! FDS are Nazis!" 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 11:28 AM |
| 583 | Another round of free publicity for the sub. Stories about FDS men come up with amuse me every time. Really? I think you attribute "threatening someone with violence when they reject you" to the wrong sех.Killing someone for not having sex with you is a uniquely male behavior. If anyone ever did post that here they would get dragged because that's not what FDS is about. I love it when people go "I remember a while back..." but never seem to have the receipts. Like, are you sure you read that on FDS? Or was it on one of your gross little incel fanfics 😂 Edit: oh and I love how the one who is clearly lying has 9 upvotes and all the ones telling the truth are downvoted to oblivion. See that's exactl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 10:34 AM |
| 268 | Roasting my past libfem pickme self 🤡Its okay, imo a lot of women become pickmeishas as a way of coping with living in a shitty, sexist world. For example I used to be pro-porn simply because of how normalized it is, nearly every guy my age has been watching it since they were 10. So I gaslit myself into thinking "porn is fine! Totally normal and healthy!" because most guys watch it, so if I want a boyfriend (and society tells women that we have to couple up) then I would have just have to put up with it. It blew my mind that FDS s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 10:23 AM |
| 41 | TypicalI've seen the show Dr. Pimple Popper which isn't that bad, needless to say I was totally unprepared for that subreddit 🙈 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 07:42 AM |
| 125 | TypicalBIG MISTAKE I WILL NEVER BE OKAY AGAIN. Over 7k upvotes on a post about an INFECTED TATTOO THAT THEY POPPED WITH NAIL CLIPPERS AND APPARENTLY THE GUY DIED OF A STAPH INFECTION AAAAAHHHHHHHH | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 07:21 AM |
| 153 | TypicalWeirdly enough, the 2 biggest trending subreddits today are FDS and popping. Kinda makes me wanna go over to popping to see what's going on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 07:13 AM |
| 6 | 5 lies about FDS in Vice's latest hit pieceYeah before I pinned I had over 1.7k upvotes, now it's down to 1.3k. MRAs thinking they're actually doing something when it's just fake internet points 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 06:53 AM |
| 24 | Dominiqe Sisley (Vice Writer) strikes me as a Pick Me who hasn't really dated around. Being completely honest.Yeah I almost feel bad for her. Based on how she responds to criticism she seems very immature, so she is probably very young, naive, and inexperienced. I was not unlike her even 2 years ago: before FDS, I was a full blown libfem pickme and tweeted stupid shit like that all the time. I look back on some of the stuff I wrote back then and cringe at myself. Who knows, maybe in a few years as she gains life experience, she might grow and mature too. I just feel bad because my name was never tied to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Dominiqe Sisley (Vice Writer) strikes me as a Pick Me who hasn't really dated around. Being completely honest.Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 02:07 AM |
| 83 | [TRENDING] /r/FemaleDatingStrategy - Female Dating Strategy (+703 subscribers today; 176% trend score)The morning that Pickminique's article was posted we had 140k subscribers and change, now we have almost 142k. Nice :) Edit: over 142k and counting! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 01:08 AM |
| 54 | 5 lies about FDS in Vice's latest hit pieceExactly, economic pressure and neoliberalism doesn't just affect men, it affects women too. But you don't see women going out and committing mass shootings. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 10:11 PM |
| 249 | As we all know. Dominique Sisley recently posted a wild article on FDS. Apparently she can’t take criticism either. This is what happens when you try to explain what FDS’s main purpose is.Her latest tweet is basically PeOpLe aRe cRiTiCiZiNg mE ThErEfoRe iM RiGhT Sis if you can't handle the heat, get out of the kitchen. She also wrote an article sympathetic to incels hahaha what a clown 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 04:45 PM |
| 8 | 5 lies about FDS in Vice's latest hit pieceSeems like she reached out to a lotttt of our members, she had to churn through a lot of people to finally find a member who said something that fit her narrative 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 04:35 PM |
| 153 | 5 lies about FDS in Vice's latest hit piecePICKMINIQUE ALSO WROTE AN ARTICLE SYMPATHETIC TO INCELS LOL HOLY SHITTT SHE IS A FULL-ON MENSRIGHTS ACTIVIST 😂🎻🎶 [For the sake of brevity, I'm only including excerpts] The Story of the Incel Is the Story of the 2010s In the last decade, ‘involuntary celibate’ has come to define a distinct kind of modern masculine rage and misogyny. After stabbing three of his housemates to death, Elliot Rodger... began uploading a video to YouTube on his laptop... “Since I hit puberty, I’ve been forced to endure… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 04:08 PM |
| 5 | 5 lies about FDS in Vice's latest hit pieceIt was never good, it was founded by Gavin McInnes, notorious alt right crazy misogynist. Same person who founded the Proud Boys | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 03:35 PM |
| 25 | Men are entering Academia with the express intent of preying on students. Like most LVM and Predators, they try and infiltrate the ranks of trusted institutions to find their victims and hide their intentions behind the authority of their title.LOL he said he was a "spy"? Like an actual spy on a "mission"? Ridiculous. A good spy would never straight up tell someone "I'm a spy" unless they were really really dumb | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 06:47 AM |
| 27 | 5 lies about FDS in Vice's latest hit pieceBROLEY, LOL "Pickminique Broley, Queen of the Coolgirls, defender of male egos" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 05:52 AM |
| 43 | What Dominique Sisley (Vice) said she was writing about FDS vs. what she actually wroteSis sold her soul for like $200 probably 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 05:21 AM |
| 138 | 5 lies about FDS in Vice's latest hit pieceExactly, I'm so tired of seeing men go "if you have any boundaries you're just going to alienate men!" So? If me having a spine is alienating to men, good. That means FDS is working. We don't want men like that around us and we're not gonna debase ourselves to please them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 05:14 AM |
| 116 | 5 lies about FDS in Vice's latest hit pieceApparently she bothered to read the handbook, because she referenced some pretty niche stuff like how to ask for a napkin, put on a coat, that a HVM will hire a maid because he doesn't see you as one, etc. which are offhanded remarks we've mentioned maybe once or twice. But she didn't mention the important stuff we talk about all the time, like porn, patriarchy, narcissism, male/female socialization, etc. She was just nitpicking details she thought would make us look petty and frivolous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 05:11 AM |
| 7 | 5 lies about FDS in Vice's latest hit pieceIt's so weird because she clearly read our stuff, even referencing (unimportant) details like how to ask for a napkin, how to put on a coat, the maid thing, etc. Those are things we've mentioned like, maybe one time each? But she didn't talk about porn, narcissism, abuse, patriarchy, etc. which are things we talk about all the time. So she's clearly just cherry picking unimportant details to try and make us look frivolous and greedy. Vice is generally pretty low-tier journalism, barely one notch… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 04:59 AM |
| – | Article on Vice about FDS is laughably inaccuratePlease no direct links to Vice. We don't want to give them any clicks or money | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 04:33 AM |
| 23 | According to Vice: Women's Sexual Appeal to Men "Cornerstone of Civilization" 🤢In countries with generous social programs and gender equality (Germany, Sweden, Netherlands, Denmark, etc.) the prostitutes there are very seldom local women. Almost always they are poor women from Eastern Europe or Asia. Very telling that when women have access to good wages, healthcare, etc. they rarely choose sex work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 04:28 AM |
| 77 | 5 lies about FDS in Vice's latest hit piece"Men have NEEDS" (but women aren't allowed to have needs and if we express our needs we are selfish and hateful) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 04:15 AM |
| – | We can’t even go to the doctor in peace. There are lvms everywhere, OP did the right thing.Hi please resubmit after cropping out subreddit name (part of anti-brigading efforts) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 04:12 AM |
| 52 | 5 lies about FDS in Vice's latest hit pieceThey also produce QUALITY documentaries like the one about the guy who eats roadkill or the one about an artist who paints using only his own pee 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 04:09 AM |
| 121 | What Dominique Sisley (Vice) said she was writing about FDS vs. what she actually wroteCreating a sense of urgency is a well-known manipulation tactic with allll sorts of applications (sales, human trafficking, con artists, etc) so it wouldn't surprise me if that was intentional | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 04:04 AM |
| 126 | 5 lies about FDS in Vice's latest hit pieceMan: is misogynistic Woman: "that's misogynistic" Men: tHaTs SeXiSt!!!1!1!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 03:38 AM |
| 507 | What Dominique Sisley (Vice) said she was writing about FDS vs. what she actually wroteShe probably justifies it like "if I was honest about what I was writing they wouldn't have responded!" Basically the same logic as guys who lie about wanting a relationship to get you into bed and then ghost you right after sex: "if I was honest then you wouldn't give me what I want! I HAVE to lie, you see" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 03:35 AM |
| 237 | What Dominique Sisley (Vice) said she was writing about FDS vs. what she actually wroteI laughed hard when I saw that too 🤣 I've never seen someone call a man "ass garbage" here but knowing the nerve it struck I wanna start using it. Pickminique probably has a BF who leaves skidmarks everywhere and we make her feel personally attacked | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 03:31 AM |
| 54 | 5 lies about FDS in Vice's latest hit pieceWe don't like to publish those lists because 1) we are constantly adding to it, and 2) we just know that male trolls would use it against us somehow. The biggest offenders are obvious ones like entitledbitch, theredpill, mgtow, etc. but there's a lot of less obvious ones. It's better to just use an alt for FDS only | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 03:27 AM |
| 253 | 5 lies about FDS in Vice's latest hit pieceRIGHT like if we try to CoMmUNiCaTe with them, they don't understand. If we treat them the way they treat us they go OMG U EVIL BITCHES DOIN A HATE CRIME Uh...yeah? That's the point. We are trying to show you that you are doing a hate crime towards us | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 03:24 AM |
| 173 | What Dominique Sisley (Vice) said she was writing about FDS vs. what she actually wroteRight??? Like the article was already written. She was clearly misrepresenting herself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 02:28 AM |
| 110 | 5 lies about FDS in Vice's latest hit piecelmao right? "How dare those evil bitches want good things and not want bad things! Hmph!" As if that isn't something that literally every living being on earth is programmed to do, for the sake of survival (or is that BioLoGiCaL DeTeRMiNisM? 🤡) But no, only human women are shamed for that. We are expected to go against our instincts and willingly subject ourselves to pain and deprive ourselves of pleasure. That's patriarchy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 02:18 AM |
| 174 | 5 lies about FDS in Vice's latest hit pieceShe should write for the tabloids, her writing "skills" are completely appropriate for trash media like that. Although Vice isn't exactly quality journalism either 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 02:14 AM |
| 369 | What Dominique Sisley (Vice) said she was writing about FDS vs. what she actually wroteEh, the response we gave wasn't anything new and since she published hardly any of it, there was no harm in responding to her message. We are very careful not to give information that could be used against us (such as doxing). The media is still going to write about us, and our forums are publicly available information. We don't respond to all press inquiries but we might still do it in the future. I'm mostly posting these screenshots because when people google her name I want this to come up. O… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 01:52 AM |
| 143 | 5 lies about FDS in Vice's latest hit pieceYeah she had like, 4 or 5 sentences giving lip service to the benefits of FDS and the rest was just misinformation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 01:38 AM |
| – | What Dominique Sisley (Vice) said she was writing about FDS vs. what she actually wroteThis is regarding the latest hit piece about FDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 01:31 AM |
| 9 | SINGLE MOTHERS: NEVER SAY THAT YOU HAVE KIDS IN YOUR ONLINE DATING BIO. Pedophiles deliberately target single moms on online dating websites to get access to their kids.At no point did I suggest that women should lie. Just that they shouldn't put it in their bio, because it makes them a pedo magnet. Also, that is completely different from men lying about not having kids. They're not lying about not having kids because they want to protect their children, they're doing that because they want to cast the widest net possible to improve their chances of getting laid. Women aren't using OLD to prey on children en masse, men are. Also, women generally don't lie about… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 06:35 PM |
| 35 | SINGLE MOTHERS: NEVER SAY THAT YOU HAVE KIDS IN YOUR ONLINE DATING BIO. Pedophiles deliberately target single moms on online dating websites to get access to their kids.All I'm saying is not to put it in your profile. Telling them within the first few messages is fine, but saying it in your profile makes you a pedo magnet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 05:16 AM |
| 42 | SINGLE MOTHERS: NEVER SAY THAT YOU HAVE KIDS IN YOUR ONLINE DATING BIO. Pedophiles deliberately target single moms on online dating websites to get access to their kids.I know, but what I'm referring to is a lot of women put it in their bio to effectively "pre screen" those types of guys to shield themselves from the pain of being rejected personally. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 01:51 AM |
| 19 | America's Next Top Model is male propaganda that grooms young women to think they're not allowed to say "no"YES this episode absolutely had my blood boiling. My heart broke for Keenyah, she deserved to be treated so much better than that. And yeah ANTM is soooo problematic. For example the episode(s) where they "switched races" and forced the models to do blackface. So embarrassing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 09:53 PM |
| 119 | America's Next Top Model is male propaganda that grooms young women to think they're not allowed to say "no"I feel zero sympathy for Jay Manuel. The way he talked to and about the models was just so fucking MEAN and I don't buy that he was forced to say all of those things, those were his words. Ultimately, he got rich from a show that abuses women. He's complicit. He deserves to be scrutinized, too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 09:28 PM |
| 300 | Came across this today I have no wordsLiterally, "my ideal woman is an object in the general shape of a woman" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 04:11 PM |
| 20 | Rape is effectively legal in most countriesOne of the biggest human rights crises in my country right now is over 1000 missing or murdered Indigenous women in the past 30 years, most were either not investigated or were poorly handled due to police bias. One of Canada's most prolific serial killers, Robert Pickton, targeted impoverished women who were Indigenous and/or sex workers. He was able to go on killing for so long, even though he was a reportedly "sloppy" murderer, because the police didn't give a shit about women who were poor, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 11:02 PM |
| 34 | Unisex Facilities put women and girls at risk of assault. 90% of complaints regarding changing room sexual assaults, voyeurism and harassment are about incidents in unisex facilities.The legislative building in my province didn't have a women's washroom AT ALL until the freakin' 1990s! Female politicians had to go to a completely different building to use the washroom. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 09:04 PM |
| 101 | Rape is effectively legal in most countriesYeah a lot of people seem to think that Canada is a liberal paradise but it's really not. Compared to the United States it's definitely better, but only because the USA is practically a failed state. Not really much of a competition there. Canada is the equivalent of one of those "NiceGuys" who points to the existence of abusive men as evidence they're "one of the good ones". So long as worse men/countries exist, NiceGuys have no incentive to improve and get to look good by doing basically nothi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 08:48 PM |
| 2 | Misogynistic men are misogynistic because 1) they are male, and raised in a culture that is male supremacist, and 2) they benefit from the oppression of women. Not because they are "all secretly gay"Half of our moderation team is WOC including our top mod who is black and we routinely get accused of "promoting white feminism" It's like when comedians want to say something sexist so they say "white women" instead of just "women". Antifeminists have caught on and have started saying "white feminism" instead of "feminism" when they want to say something antifeminist and somehow that's what people consider progressive nowadays. Like, I don't even feel bad for white women specifically, I'm just … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 08:23 PM |
| 108 | Rape is effectively legal in most countriesPrioritizing a rapist's hearing over a woman's life and bodily autonomy is peak cultural misogyny 🤬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 08:00 PM |
| 78 | Unisex Facilities put women and girls at risk of assault. 90% of complaints regarding changing room sexual assaults, voyeurism and harassment are about incidents in unisex facilities.Story time [trigger warning] I once needed to use the washroom at the grocery store. They only had single-room unisex bathrooms, one was unlocked, so I went in. To my surprise, there was a middle aged, hairy, obese man standing in there shirtless with his pants all the way on the ground and his hands on his dick. I immediately was like "holy shit!" and turned on my heel and got out of there. I went to complain to the manager and he was just like "oh, okay?" and didn't seem to have a problem with… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 07:01 PM |
| 53 | Patriarchy is basically just racketeering, a scheme in which men offer solutions for the problems that they have createdMale police officers rape women in their custody all the time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 06:09 PM |
| 99 | Patriarchy is basically just racketeering, a scheme in which men offer solutions for the problems that they have createdgold digging harpies if you demand anything better, you are a selfish entitled bitch Emotional blackmail and threats of loss of social standing is still a form of coercion. And I agree, even nonabusive men benefit from the existence of abusive men. Women come pre-abused and these "good men" get to "look good in comparison" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 02:49 PM |
| 280 | Guy records a disturbing, upsetting conversation between him and his exasperated mother after she finds a tiger plushie he modified with a fleshlight. He refuses to go on family trip unless he can bring it with him.At first I was laughing but then it got really sad. He has no shame, he literally said the plushie with a fleshlight was "everything that means anything to me" The part where she says "what happened to you? How does a handsome boy end up like this?" was heartbreaking. I often ask myself, how do bright young boys end up degenerate, pornsick, and so devoid of human emotion? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 10:17 PM |
| 70 | Governments should pay women to be single mothers 💅I'm not saying women should have kids "for the birthrate" I'm pointing out how most governments pathetic attempts at increasing it have been self serving, ineffective, and designed to subjugate women to low value men. If they were serious about increasing the birthrate they would put their money where their mouth is, but they won't, because preserving patriarchy is more important to them 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 07:14 PM |
| 28 | Governments should pay women to be single mothers 💅Boys are more likely to grow up to be low value when raised in the presence of a low value father. Single motherhood is better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 07:05 PM |
| 61 | Governments should pay women to be single mothers 💅Exactly. Governments don't want to create a situation where women can raise children independently of men. They want to assign each scrote his own captive punching bag because lonely horny dudes tend to start fascist paramilitaries or whatever | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 07:00 PM |
| 72 | Governments should pay women to be single mothers 💅Oh definitely, I think all women should be paid for their reproductive labor. I specify "single mothers" because in a some countries, financial aid for mothers is only reserved for women who are married. Single mothers deserve extra support, not less. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 06:51 PM |
| 20 | Misogynistic men are misogynistic because 1) they are male, and raised in a culture that is male supremacist, and 2) they benefit from the oppression of women. Not because they are "all secretly gay"It really depends on how much you criticize gamers and porn 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 09:19 AM |
| 94 | Why are “Sexperts” always claiming women that DON’T have sex on the first date 1) have internalized misogyny 2) are sexually repressed or 3) are worried about being “girlfriend material”? How ‘bout it’s because we JUST DON’T FUCKING KNOW HIM AT ALL 🤯Right??? Like you can't just say, "if you don't want to have sex on the first date you're perpetuating misogynistic ideals meant to control women's sexuality" and then go, "but only have sex if you want to!" That's like saying "if you don't fuck me, you're a misogynistic prude, but if you do fuck and me and it ends up being a horrible traumatizing experience that leaves you feeling used, that's on you! Because you consented to it!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 05:32 AM |
| 63 | Misogynistic men are misogynistic because 1) they are male, and raised in a culture that is male supremacist, and 2) they benefit from the oppression of women. Not because they are "all secretly gay"I believe one got a warning for harassment and I didn't hear back from any of the other reports 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 03:28 AM |
| 47 | "A high value man won't wait 3 months for sex"The whole tone of this video is basically "no, for the love of god don't make me wait 3 months, pweaaaase, ME WANTY SEXYTIME NOW!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 03:06 AM |
| 192 | Misogynistic men are misogynistic because 1) they are male, and raised in a culture that is male supremacist, and 2) they benefit from the oppression of women. Not because they are "all secretly gay"After I wrote this post I got bombarded by DMs like "I'm glad you got raped, TERF" "you deserved it" "you probably orgasmed you dirty whore" and "I fapped to this" Some of those accounts were also active in the so-called "anti hate" subs. So, I think it's pretty safe to say that these scrotes don't actually care about social justice one bit. They call us "TERFs" because then they get to do whatever they want to us and we can't even complain about it, because in their mind, we "deserve" it. They … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 02:53 AM |
| 117 | Can someone break down this guy's motivation for posting this?This type of reaction is a lot like when you're in an abusive relationship and you try to "communicate" to your abuser that their behavior is not okay and they go, "oh my gosh, I can't BELIEVE you think of me that way! It really hurt my feelings blah blah blah". They expect you to comfort him to help shield his ego from feeling even one drop of shame. Abusive people love to play the victim when they get called out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 03:22 AM |
| 176 | This is why it’s so important to have financial independence and a career as a woman, so if your partner runs out on you one day, you won’t be blindsided like this poor mother of 3 young kidsIf their mortgage is 4300/month then it's barely 3 months. You can't just walk out on your SAHM of 15 years, give her 15K, and wash your hands of your family. I hope she takes him to the cleaners 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 02:54 AM |
| 23 | Why is every man on Hinge competitive about “everything”? Oh, to be so vapid and simpleminded. Must be nice!Because men lack emotional intelligence and are overly competitive | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 01:27 AM |
| 209 | 84k subs and how does this even exist?This is what we mean when we say "we live in a rape culture" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 01:26 AM |
| 67 | Having boundaries does not make you controlling or insecure, and cut anyone out of your life who tells you otherwise.Yeah men have become really invested in spreading the narrative that "women who withhold sex are controlling and abusive" Ummm no, feeling ENTITLED to having sex with a woman even when she doesn't want it, now THAT is abusive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 10:53 PM |
| 25 | A great example of how porn addictions are normalized in TV shows and moviesWhat show is this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 10:52 PM |
| 120 | Another truth bomb from this guy!Jesus Christ... there's 21 parts??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 10:51 PM |
| 60 | Rape Culture Makes Me More SuicidalI can definitely relate. When I was younger, the more I learned about the rampant misogyny in our society, the more I felt depressed, powerless, and at times even suicidal. FDS actually helped improve my mental health because it made me realize that, since women are most likely to be raped/killed by someone they know, the best "self defense" is ruthlessly vetting the men in our lives, or avoiding men altogether. You can reduce your risk of being attacked by like 70% just by avoiding men in your … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 10:41 PM |
| – | She Already Knows the Answer, but the Comments were Trying to Convince Her It was NormalPlease repost after cropping out or blurring subreddit name (part of anti brigading efforts) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 10:31 PM |
| 96 | Reddit: Feminism will destroy societies - Reality: Countries with a strong sense of gender equality have the highest standards of living, and even men are trying to escape patriarchal hellholes to live in those very countriesBest way to karma farm on Reddit is saying "as a woman/minority, I don't think this is offensive" Very telling that on reddit, some of the most highly upvoted posts are ones that cater to the feelings of racists and misogynists. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 10:30 PM |
| 46 | Making a man wait to have sex is a vetting strategy that has NOTHING to do with "purity culture"It's not about trying to convince misogynists, it's about being proactive and having a counter-narrative for the newbie women who visit us, whose only perception of us is the slander. We generally don't respond to every piece of criticism (there's way too much for that, lol). Only when it matters. In this case, I'm responding to that smoothbrain sex pozzy libfem Gigi Engle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 03:48 AM |
| 51 | Why do men believe "nature" excuse/justify their own violent and perverted behaviours... but when it comes to women, our "evil hypergamous nature" must be controlled?And that's why women should never feel bad about ruthlessly advancing their own interests | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 03:44 AM |
| 72 | Making a man wait to have sex is a vetting strategy that has NOTHING to do with "purity culture"Exactly. It is more pleasurable for me to have sex with someone I love. Guys admit that they don't care about the woman's pleasure when it's just a hookup, they only care to make a woman cum when she's his girlfriend. Casual sex for women is 99% of the time just consenting to be some man's human pocket pussy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 12:54 AM |
| 164 | Making a man wait to have sex is a vetting strategy that has NOTHING to do with "purity culture"Exactly. For all their moral grandstanding about "consent" these "sex pozzy" morons only seem to care about consent when women are saying "yes" to men. If a woman says "no" to men they mock and demonize her for being "sex negative" and lame. It's not consent if there's only one option! It's like North Korea saying they care about democracy but when you show up to the voting booth there's only 1 candidate on the ballot, to which you have to respond affirmatively, or else you get shot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 11:47 PM |
| 63 | People respond poorly to Gigi Engle’s newest Pro-Kink article on Instagram, and rather than self reflect, she comes for Redditors. Gets told about herself by some infamous Redditors. 💅I wonder how much money she got paid to write that article. I bet these "sex pozzy" feminists get kickbacks from the porn lobby and other influential predators. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 09:50 PM |
| 61 | Jane Austen knew this stuff long before Sherry Argov didYes!!! This is why I've always loved Austen. Lizzy is such an FDS Queen! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 09:26 AM |
| 113 | This is so disgusting🤮 Please stay safe"Women are easier to kill because they're more trusting. Sure, they'll scream and beg for mercy but they're still easier to kill" LADIES THIS IS WHAT MEN THINK OF WOMEN WHO ARE TRUSTING. Abusive, shitty men can and WILL use your "positive" qualities to take advantage of and harm you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 06:56 AM |
| 346 | I took it all.This wasn't petty, this was glorious 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 05:08 AM |
| 1 | Should I date someone who has never been in a relationship before?Please post to r/askFDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 04:52 AM |
| – | Reminder not do date mama boys.No direct links to other subreddits | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 04:48 AM |
| – | The way she shuts down this LVM’s sexist “joke” is perfectionThis has been reposted a couple times already | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 04:42 AM |
| 1 | Am I disgusting?This is more appropriate for r/askFDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 04:37 AM |
| – | Pardon my language, but this man is cancerous and dangerous.Removing this only because I don't want to give this asshole any clicks (and therefore money) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 04:33 AM |
| 62 | I Am a Tinder Guy Holding a Fish and I Will Provide for YouI will provide you with many orgasms and sea bass I snorted 😂🤭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 04:03 AM |
| 80 | Male Egos are so fucking fragile.Patriarchal conditioning starts young (particularly "not all men are like that! You have to give each man the benefit of the doubt!") Imagine the effect that 60 y/o man's negative reaction might have on the mind of an impressionable young girl. "Oh I'm not allowed to say when boys are being bad, better keep it to myself to avoid a negative reaction" This is just one of many ways that men condition women and girls into tolerating abuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 12:17 AM |
| 2 | Why are men such assholes about women's muscles???When guys give me their unsolicited opinions like that I always ask, "oh, are you a personal trainer?" 99% of the time, it's "no" and I just roll my eyes and ignore him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 09:20 PM |
| 13 | The Gaslighting Is Over-Black Women and WOC? Wear Your Hair HOWEVER You Want, Including Straight, Extensions etc. Keep It Realistic and Healthy Looking and LIVE YOUR LIFE.It's such a shame because both are so beautiful! 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 08:53 PM |
| 59 | Why you can’t take BDSM into your new HVW life.This is so true. The higher value men I've dated were extremely uncomfortable with BDSM. Even if I asked them to do something, they couldn't really get into it. They acted like they were playing a part because it just wasn't part of their nature to get off on someone else's pain/humiliation/degradation. Of all the guys I've met who liked inflicting pain/humiliation/degradation, 100% of them were bad people. Being a good person and being a "dom"/sadist are mutually exclusive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 08:38 PM |
| 60 | The Gaslighting Is Over-Black Women and WOC? Wear Your Hair HOWEVER You Want, Including Straight, Extensions etc. Keep It Realistic and Healthy Looking and LIVE YOUR LIFE.Yeah I've always thought it was so shitty that black women get mocked for having natural hair but if they go get a weave or wear a wig, they get mocked for that too. That's what we mean by "impossible beauty standards" = simultaneously getting criticized for not meeting them AND for trying to meet them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 08:31 PM |
| 161 | Jezebel continues to prove why LibFems are a joke. Here’s some more manosphere fuel brought to you by Tracy Clark Flory’s desperation to be validated. “FeMiniStS sEcReTLY lOvE tHe PaTriArCHy” 🤡🤡🤡This author is a traitor to all women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 05:13 PM |
| 36 | I'm convinced that men invented patriarchy because they saw how male livestock are treated and they didn't want to be subjected to the same fate.I wish humans were more like bonobos. For them, sex is about bonding and connection. In humans, male sexuality is about domination and degradation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 08:48 AM |
| 91 | I'm convinced that men invented patriarchy because they saw how male livestock are treated and they didn't want to be subjected to the same fate.Women in early agricultural communities weren't just lying around in their mud huts being pregnant all the time. They worked too. In fact, even nowadays, subsistence agriculture is largely done by women. The whole concept of "woman stays home with the kids while the man earns an income" is a fairly modern concept and was only something that was afforded to middle/upper class people. Working class women have always worked outside the home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 06:33 AM |
| 20 | I'm convinced that men invented patriarchy because they saw how male livestock are treated and they didn't want to be subjected to the same fate.Your comment inspired me to caption this meme | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 05:52 AM |
| 130 | Dating in the 21st century. Funniest roast of men I've ever seen. Her twitter is yellowspoongirlEven if I am sleeping with a guy who has a big dick, if he asks, I always tell him it's the "2nd or 3rd biggest dick I've ever had" Gotta keep em humble, no woman likes a guy who is too "cocky" 🤭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 05:45 AM |
| 54 | I'm convinced that men invented patriarchy because they saw how male livestock are treated and they didn't want to be subjected to the same fate.With increasing automation, manual labor will be a thing of the past. In fact I think that's why we have so many problems in modern society: low value males are more idle than ever before, and fill their free time with porn, video games, and hating women. It's interesting because plenty of men nowadays are effectively neutering themselves with porn-induced erectile dysfunction. I ain't even mad about it, I say we put all the men in their own room with a mattress, VR headset, pocket pussy, and fe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 04:55 AM |
| 79 | Males wanna make fun of women going to the bathroom together but...I've had guys interrupt me literally MID. REP. to ask how many sets I have left. Super dangerous especially when I am lifting heavy, such an asshole move not to wait until I'm done my set to ask. Then they stand super close and tap their foot impatiently waiting for me to be done, trying to intimidate me into rushing. I make sure to go eeeextra slooooow when they pull that shit, just to be petty 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 04:46 AM |
| 113 | Males wanna make fun of women going to the bathroom together but...I always laugh so hard when I see groups of guys working out in the gym. It's usually teenage boys or old men who don't know what they're doing so they need to go in a group to feel more confident. Oh and they usually have terrible gym etiquette. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 03:36 AM |
| – | “My husband, whose extremism I’ve ignored for 17 years, joined a literal terrorist group. What should I do?” “Have you tried communicating”Please repost after blurring out reddit usernames and subreddit name | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 02:06 AM |
| 43 | Confirmed by Science: Men are less moral than womenThey also feel less empathy than women https://newsroom.ucla.edu/stories/womens-brains-show-more-empathy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 11:12 PM |
| 90 | "Would you punch a woman in the face for 1 billion dollars?"His response was so wholesome 🥺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 03:49 AM |
| 39 | What if men aren’t actually bad at sex, what if they just enjoy hurting women?Remember: "donkey punch" is a sex act in which a man punches their sex partner in the back of the head when they're about to ejaculate, because it causes the anus/vagina to "tighten" There are entire porn movies about this. And yes, the porn actresses actually get punched in the head. It is a sex act where men are literally getting pleasure from causing a head injury by inflicting blunt force trauma. Male sexuality is depraved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 03:25 AM |
| 129 | The only worthwhile heterosexual relationships are where both people love each other, but the man loves the woman slightly more than she loves him.Oh I definitely agree, the above advice is only really applicable if the man is already HVM. LVM are tyically insecure, so they are often cruel and negging to their dreamgirl. Just because you're his dreamgirl, doesn't mean he's your dream man. A low value man will mistreat/abuse just about any woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 02:47 AM |
| 124 | 50/50 is a scam, exhibit #126272"She agreed to it" is almost always used as an excuse to exploit and scam women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 12:49 AM |
| 3 | Why are men such assholes about women's muscles???YES that is so true. Guys who are fit but still insecure will often go out of their way to remind me that they're still stronger than me, and could still overpower me if they wanted to. Even if it's true, just... why? Feels like they're just trying to intimidate me needlessly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 12:15 AM |
| 25 | Saw this on Instagram... seem like it belonged hereMy kink is being taken on romantic dinner dates and spending quality time with someone who loves and respects me. My fetish is genuine intimacy focused on mutual pleasure, devoid of any pain and degradation. Don't kink shame me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 10:32 PM |
| 57 | Why We Can't Seem to Escape Male Sexual Exploitation--It Goes This DeepWhat men call "penis envy" is actually just "being jealous that men don't experience sex-based oppression" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 06:43 PM |
| 137 | Why are men such assholes about women's muscles???Yeah by the "logic" of these marshmallow looking MFers, does that make him a woman? So dumb | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 10:16 AM |
| 91 | 6 Marginalized & Vulnerable Groups of People Porn Has No Problem FetishizingSexual coercion of female prisoners Raping immigrants/refugees fleeing violence Sexually abusing trans women and lesbians Fetishizing slavery and systemic racism Teen Child Porn Sexually abusing people with intellectual or physical challenges/disabilities The disgusting thing is that all of these things are happening in real life. Female prisoners ACTUALLY get sexually coerced. Immigrant and refugee women ACTUALLY get raped and discarded by immigration officials. LGBT women ACTUALLY get assaulte… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 06:18 PM |
| 138 | Vincent Cassel and his girlfriend. 31 years of age difference. This is disgusting.Biologically speaking he's old enough to be her grandfather 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 05:13 PM |
| – | This is a REAL MGTOW scrote video giving advice on how to verbally abuse and manipulate women!! So many trash males out there. Ladies, watch out for this scum!🤮Removed because this has already been posted | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 04:29 PM |
| 20 | Fearmongering about single mothers is just male propaganda to make women afraid of leaving their shitty baby daddies.I don't see single motherhood as a weakness, I see it as a strength This is exactly why men hate single mothers so much. It's because she is proving that she doesn't need men, and (low value) men hate that. LV men hate strong women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 04:23 PM |
| 149 | Fearmongering about single mothers is just male propaganda to make women afraid of leaving their shitty baby daddies.Makes my blood boil when men are disgusted by breasts doing the thing that they BIOLOGICALLY EVOLVED TO DO aka feeding babies 😡😡😡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 07:05 AM |
| – | You can’t change his mind. Run. It’s sad to see women beat their heads against a wall for NVMsPlease crop out subreddit name and username | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 05:24 AM |
| 76 | LVM Triggered on a Post of a Woman Giving Birth. Apparently if the Woman is Giving Birth Willingly, She Doesn't Deserve Gratitude.Lmao I bet none of these guys ever even been to war. They think that playing Call of Duty means they're entitled to do the whole stolen valor routine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 11:53 PM |
| 10 | When a guy talks about male depravity, it's "funny and relatable". When a woman talks about male depravity, she is seen as paranoid and hateful for "generalizing men"Because they think it's a man's right to be rapey, disgusting, and degrading to women. They only have a problem when it's their private property being degraded. Totally fine to degrade women who are public property tho! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 11:33 PM |
| 17 | 🚨DON'T BUILD UP A MAN- Via Deborrah Cooper's channelThe only winning move is not to play. Women win by forging our own path and staying the hell away from LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 05:26 PM |
| 29 | "Women can have a man who is either attractive or a good person, but not both. If you want to date a hot guy, expect him to treat you like shit. If you don't want to be abused, you have to put up with having sex with someone you're not attracted to"Oh trust me, they are terrified. That's why they're so obsessed with shutting us down. Their fragile egos can't handle admitting that they might be the problem so instead they project and blame shift so that they don't have to be the ones who have to change. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 01:22 AM |
| 117 | "Women can have a man who is either attractive or a good person, but not both. If you want to date a hot guy, expect him to treat you like shit. If you don't want to be abused, you have to put up with having sex with someone you're not attracted to"That, and also all the pickmesexuals who write for cosmo and other women's magazines, who tell women that if they want a decent man they need to lower their standards. That women are getting abused because we're "hung up" on "unimportant" stuff like income, height, etc. Why can't he be both? Women are already expected to be both. Why are only women told to lower their standards and not men? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 11:35 PM |
| – | Would you consider her a pickme ? I feel like I understand her message but it seems like she’s using this for validation given the men in her comments...She is repeating some pickme-culture copypasta, so not her original idea. I'm leaving it up only if the discussion remains centered around pickme culture and women who perpetuate cultural misogyny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 10:40 PM |
| 18 | Things your rapist can use against you in courtI cosign this entire post 💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 10:28 PM |
| 50 | Don't ever "sext" a man, even if it is only messages. Because if that man ever rapes you, he will print out those conversations and show them to police, and the police will dismiss your rape as "consensual"Is it bad that when I started reading about the "rough sex defence" that my first thought was to consider myself "lucky" that I "only" got raped and not murdered? I think about all the men I've ever sent a kinky text message to and I think to myself "those guys could straight up murder me and get away with it" Chilling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 07:15 AM |
| 129 | Don't ever "sext" a man, even if it is only messages. Because if that man ever rapes you, he will print out those conversations and show them to police, and the police will dismiss your rape as "consensual"Yeah any man reading this and feeling anger instead of compassion is either a rapist or a sociopath or both. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 06:56 AM |
| 38 | Don't ever "sext" a man, even if it is only messages. Because if that man ever rapes you, he will print out those conversations and show them to police, and the police will dismiss your rape as "consensual"And then the police will have copies of your nudes. I loathe to think about how many police officers jerk off to the nudes of the rape victims they're supposed to be investigating 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 06:54 AM |
| 177 | Don't ever "sext" a man, even if it is only messages. Because if that man ever rapes you, he will print out those conversations and show them to police, and the police will dismiss your rape as "consensual"I know that now. At the time I was young and sheltered. My parents had given me terrible advice "always tell the truth!" and "always trust the police!" I look back on that now and cringe at how fucking privileged and/or stupid you'd have to be to give that kind of advice to someone. All cops are bad. Even the "good" ones are bad because they stand by when their buddies do horrible shit. The truly good officers get fired the moment they speak up against injustice. So if they're still in the force… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 06:10 AM |
| 190 | Don't ever "sext" a man, even if it is only messages. Because if that man ever rapes you, he will print out those conversations and show them to police, and the police will dismiss your rape as "consensual"They think they're entitled to sex, and them getting busted for it is automatically a false accusation This is SO TRUE. I've never seen it put into words so succinctly like that before. Also, I'm sure plenty of guys don't even think it's rape when a man anally rapes another man because FAR too many guys make disgusting jokes about men getting sexually assaulted. If they laugh and joke about other men getting raped then it's no wonder they take it even less seriously when a woman is raped. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 05:44 AM |
| 49 | Don't ever "sext" a man, even if it is only messages. Because if that man ever rapes you, he will print out those conversations and show them to police, and the police will dismiss your rape as "consensual"That's the thing, there's literally no way of knowing if he's the "right person". We have no way of knowing if he would do something like that, until he does. Seeing the statistics on men and rape, that is not a chance I'm willing to take. High risk, low reward. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 05:25 AM |
| 55 | Reminder: Friends with benefits is a scam!A free prostitute. [Tina Fey Albanian accent] "So you are lower than dog?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 05:20 AM |
| 299 | Reminder: Friends with benefits is a scam!This makes my blood boil. "I already fucked her so why would I put in any effort?" THIS is why we don't let men fuck us until he's already proven himself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 03:27 AM |
| 49 | NVM runs over jogger and kills her. His first thought? Take her into a field and sexually abuse her dead body. Men ALWAYS think with their dick....ALWAYS!Agreed 100% it's rape. Even corpses have bodily autonomy. I'm just saying, in his demented mind, he probably isn't thinking it's rape 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 02:00 AM |
| 151 | NVM runs over jogger and kills her. His first thought? Take her into a field and sexually abuse her dead body. Men ALWAYS think with their dick....ALWAYS!How the fuck was he able to just "go to work like normal" the next day??? I ran over a squirrel once and cried. Imagine running over a WHOLE HUMAN BEING and not only not feel bad about it, but also think to yourself, "hmm, I should have sex with this corpse" WHAT THE FUCK | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 11:30 PM |
| 1 | The guys that say “Not All Men!!” When you look at the front of their Reddit page.Nah it's all good, I removed it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 10:58 PM |
| – | The guys that say “Not All Men!!” When you look at the front of their Reddit page.This belongs on FDSsuperfans | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 10:56 PM |
| 8 | Men can be a gamer OR he can have a girlfriend. Not both.I'm not getting downvoted by FDS users, I'm being downvoted by the loser gamer incels brigading this sub 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 09:40 PM |
| -21 | Men can be a gamer OR he can have a girlfriend. Not both.I agree that shit men are shit men regardless of their hobbies. Not all shit men are gamers, but all gamers are generally shit men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 04:44 PM |
| 80 | Men can be a gamer OR he can have a girlfriend. Not both.The difference between video games and other hobbies is that video games are designed to be addictive. Those other hobbies (sports, woodcutting, fixing cars, etc) are usually a green flag because they require self discipline, work ethic, ability to choose the more difficult thing over the easier more dopamine-inducing thing. I dated a mechanic whose hobby was fixing up classic cars. His hobby was never an issue in our relationship because he knew how to put down the wrench when appropriate. Also… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 04:22 PM |
| 0 | Ladies is it not normal to receive gifts if not a special day??This is more appropriate for r/askFDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 01:45 PM |
| 1 | How would you split tabs in a 10 year age gap?This is more appropriate for r/askFDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 01:41 PM |
| 58 | The teenage Dutch girls who seduced and executed Nazis. I'd love to watch a Netflix or HBO series about these brave women.Hannie Schaft was a Dutch resistance fighter during World War 2. She was known as "the girl with the red hair" Schaft was interested in politics and social justice from a young age. While pursuing a law degree to become a human rights lawyer, Schaft was forced to leave university when she refused to pledge allegiance to the Nazi occupation forces. Her resistance work started with small acts, such as stealing ID cards for Jewish residents (including her friends). However, she wanted to work with … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 12:08 AM |
| 1 | The "other woman" should be an ally, not an enemy. Instead of getting mad at the other woman, you two should be working together to get revenge on the man who cheated you both 😈😈😈There are 16 states where adultery is literally illegal. I'm not American, but in my country if the man cheated or is abusive, it absolutely does matter in the eyes of the family court. It especially matters if you have a prenup with him, if you included an infidelity clause. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 04:25 PM |
| 4 | The "other woman" should be an ally, not an enemy. Instead of getting mad at the other woman, you two should be working together to get revenge on the man who cheated you both 😈😈😈I wrote this under the assumption that no woman here on FDS would knowingly screw a married man. It's literally in the handbook. It's basic, foundational knowledge. Obviously once you find out, you would stop dating him. If she knows, then yeah, there's not much you can do except collect your evidence when you contact her, then take him to court. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 04:19 PM |
| 3 | The "other woman" should be an ally, not an enemy. Instead of getting mad at the other woman, you two should be working together to get revenge on the man who cheated you both 😈😈😈See my edit. There is something wrong with your brain if you read this and think this post is about "supporting pickmes fucking married men" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 04:11 PM |
| 0 | The "other woman" should be an ally, not an enemy. Instead of getting mad at the other woman, you two should be working together to get revenge on the man who cheated you both 😈😈😈Did you even read the post? I said IF YOU FIND OUT he is actually married, implying that you DIDN'T KNOW he was married. I wrote this under the assumption that no woman here on FDS would knowingly fuck a married man. Once you find out and start helping his wife get revenge, the assumption is that obviously you're not fucking him anymore. The other woman doesn't always know. Men lie about "going through a divorce" or "being separated" all the time. He could be cheating on you with multiple women,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 03:55 PM |
| 59 | Imagine pandering to men so much that you cover up your emotions with an act that caters to LVMOr run by a woman with an onlyfans | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 04:26 AM |
| 169 | Why overt and extreme misogyny is a problem even for misogynists: It results in women being armed with knowledge misogynists never intended them to have (that they are openly hated, and they will be hated no matter what they do), and this activates women’s “jezebel” side.This post is sooo true especially the gold digging part. For as long as I can remember, I had this fantasy of marrying a good, honest, hardworking man, then living a simple life together homesteading. I don't even want a lot of money, but it's like every guy I meet is either broke, bitter, and jaded calling all women "gold diggers" OR if he does have a little money he thinks that he can buy any woman and that "all women are whores, even married women, just on a longer term contract" My attitude … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 07:55 PM |
| 153 | "it's just biology" is psuedoscience that LVM gravitate to. In the past it was used to justify slavery and racism. And now it's used to justify mistreatment of women.I love the way they screech when "it's BioLoGy" is turned back onto them: "In nature, only a very small percentage of males have the privilege of mating and passing on their genes" "Males must compete with one another to impress the females" "Only the strongest, smartest, most genetically fit males are selected by the females to sire their offspring" REEEEEEEEEEE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 06:59 PM |
| 300 | Just say you’re a broke lvm and go.I have done this exact thing multiple times. If a guy asks for separate checks, I smile and block him literally right then and there sitting at the table with him. Waitress comes back, I pay my share, I walk out, never speak to him again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 07:11 AM |
| 54 | Ah yes, because unsolicited touching gets us ready to be raped 🤮If a guy touches me without my permission I reflexively swat him away. Also this whole thing is pure projection, he even admits to it with the "blood rushing to your penis" bit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 01:18 AM |
| 287 | "FDS needs to be shut down because they are body-shaming men!" lmao OKAY LIL' BITCH, welcome to our world!If you ask me, I don't think we body shame men enough. When women are body shamed, we try to improve our appearance by losing weight, getting plastic surgery, and spending tons of money on hair/nails/makeup/clothes/whatever. I am not seeing anywhere near that kind of grooming effort from heterosexual men. Maybe if we start body shaming men, they will start washing their shit-caked buttholes and start flossing their nasty teeth. The way I see it, there are two ways to achieve "equality" in this a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 01:11 AM |
| 22 | Men learn how to manipulate women by learning how to manipulate their mothers.No, I am not blaming women for how men are. I am saying that mothers are often used by their sons as a sort of "training ground" to practice how to manipulate women. This is based on my observations that men who treat women like shit also often treat their mothers like shit. Or, sometimes the opposite: some are mamas boys who expect to get the same high level of servitude and lack of boundaries from their future girlfriend/wife. I also discuss how fathers play a massive role in this dynamic. In … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 10:04 PM |
| 12 | When you have kids with a manchild, you are literally taking away resources from your children. It is child abuse to have kids with a man if you know he is immature, lazy, selfish, needy, and/or insecure.What gave you the impression that I was suggesting "you made your bed, now lie in it" when I literally said that it's better to leave a toxic man than to raise a child in a dysfunctional two parent household. My advice is effectively: if you make your bed, DON'T lie in it. Also, victims can also be perpetrators of abuse. That doesn't make them immune from critique. I know countless families where women are mistreated, but those same women also abuse their daughters and their daughters-in-law. St… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 05:16 PM |
| 40 | Former SWer looking for input, advice, wisdom, etc. from FDS on how to move on with my life & heal.I'm truly glad to see you here 💕 Seems like you are already taking great steps towards healing (therapy, deleting accounts, scrubbing your internet history). You absolutely deserve to feel proud of yourself for this. It takes time to rebuild one's life so all I can really say is be kind to yourself. Be patient. There will be times during your level up journey where you may be tempted to be really hard on yourself, and when that happens I ask you to exercise self-compassion. When we cringe at our… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 02:45 AM |
| 41 | From another thread. And the scrotes are butthurt 😂. I don’t support playing games but when SO many men flat out LIE about what there looking for on OLD, this is what women are resorting to... smhMen and their "hoe tests" smh 😑 They say they're "vetting" but actually it's just a pretext to manipulate women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 01:14 AM |
| 149 | 18 year old radfem standing up against sugar baby culture and the exploitation of minors. Proud of my generationNow I'm just imagining a sugar baby bragging about getting a bunch of "gifts" but are actually just those branded items you get for free at events/universities/work "Look at what my sugar daddy got me! A bunch of pens, magnets and hats from my university's welcome week! It's so thoughtful because I've always wanted a pen from my local student union" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 11:25 PM |
| – | This. how is sex a “need” when some (most) women go years without orgasming?Blur reddit usernames | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 04:46 AM |
| 81 | Another thing to vet for?Lol men b like "you WILL inhale my anal gases and you will not complain about it!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 04:42 AM |
| – | ah yes, those normies will never understand my natural urge to wank off to violence against women /sPlease repost after blurring reddit usernames | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 03:50 AM |
| 59 | Scumbag Steve was ahead of his time. He is the penultimate opportunistic NVM.Ah I see you too are a fellow connoisseur of antique memes 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 11:53 PM |
| – | mAyBe hE's dEpReSsEd, yOu sHouLd bE HeLpiNg HiMThe unwashed-ass-apologists are out in droves today! RIP my inbox which is now full of "HOW can you POSSIBLY expect a man to know what you want unless you COMMUNICATE with him??? Imagine if YOUR BOYFRIEND broke up with you over something so minor without telling you!?!?!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 11:44 PM |
| 41 | mAyBe hE's dEpReSsEd, yOu sHouLd bE HeLpiNg HiM"ARE YOU CLIPPING HIS TOENAILS FOR HIM" ARGHIEKSMSNDJRL Ummm I'm sorry WHAT. Is he a DOG? Jesus Christ 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 09:58 PM |
| 19 | A Buddhist take on how to deal with abusive NVM: it’s better to be alone.Can't wait to see how our critics spin this one: "FDS uSeS ReLiGiOn tO pRoMoTe DiScRiMiNaTinG AgAiNsT ViCtiMs oF aLcOHoL aDdiCtiOn" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 08:42 PM |
| 60 | Even in countries where prostitution is legal, women are still trafficked and forced into itI remember going to Amsterdam and walking through the red light district at night and it was just... sad. Most of them were smiling but only with their teeth. The smile didn't go all the way up to their eyes. When I looked into their eyes all I saw was pain, emptiness, trauma. They did not look like they were actually enjoying themselves or even wanted to be there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 11:20 AM |
| 192 | mAyBe hE's dEpReSsEd, yOu sHouLd bE HeLpiNg HiMYou'd be surprised. I already have scrotes in my inbox complaining yOu ShOuLd sUpPoRt eAcH oThER, iF u bReAk uP WiTh aNyOnE wHo iSnT PeRfEcT uLL b FoReVeRaLoNe cUz aLL tHe pErFeCt PpL aRe aLrEaDy mArRiEd. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 11:09 AM |
| 200 | ...what’s YOUR worst case?Oh my personal favorite is "if ALL the men in your life turned out to be trash, then maybe you're the problem" Like OH GEE THANKS JEREMY. Why hadn't I thought of that? Clearly, the only reason I meet trash men is because I'm trash. Definitely not a convenient, intellectually lazy way of blaming women for the abuse they receive and absolving men of responsibility. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 09:23 AM |
| – | My bf randomly blocked me. What would you do?This is more appropriate for r/ askFDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 08:20 PM |
| – | My boyfriend bought another girl discord nitroPlease read handbook before posting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 06:26 AM |
| 27 | It's time for women to start thinking about equity instead of equalityUgh, the 3 date rule is the worst. The sheer PRESSURE for sex just makes me want to avoid dating, period. Dating is supposed to be fun but I feel like I can't even enjoy myself because I'm dreading the end of the date knowing there's like a 90% chance he's gonna try and sexually coerce me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 11:12 PM |
| 11 | You deserve to have high standards even if you are overweight.Now I want to be thin so I can enjoy my body, and no one else I had the exact same realization. I'm still proud of myself for losing the weight and keeping it off so far. I just feel so much more comfortable. My knees don't hurt when I go hiking, I have less joint/back pain, my legs don't rub together/chafe while I walk. Even just lying in bed feels better. My advice to all women is if you want to lose weight, make sure you're doing it for YOU. For your own health and happiness. None of this "re… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 11:08 PM |
| – | Men with kidsThis is more appropriate for r/askFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 10:57 PM |
| – | Starting to date again... am I nuts here?This is more appropriate for r/askFDS. Please read the handbook before posting here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 10:44 PM |
| – | How to tell a guy he is moving way too fastThis is more appropriate for r/askFDS. Please read the handbook before posting here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 10:37 PM |
| – | What if your LVM ex's friends come for you?This is more appropriate for r/askFDS. Please read the handbook before posting here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Need an honest perspective(crosspost)This is more appropriate for r/askFDS. Please read the handbook before posting here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 10:26 PM |
| – | (SUICIDE TRIGGER) I, F (22), Used "36 Questions That Lead to Love" on new BF (26), on Question 7 (Secret Hunch You Know How You'll Die), he told me he is "99% sure" he is going to kill himself one day.This is more appropriate for r/askFDS. Please read the handbook before posting here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 10:17 PM |
| – | Why am I fighting for a relationship I don’t even want?This is more appropriate for r/askFDS. Please visit our sidebar to read the handbook before posting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 10:14 PM |
| – | Man lives with ex-wife.....Please post to r/askFDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 10:05 PM |
| – | Ah yes! and while we are at it, why don’t we all just also volunteer to be his maid too?? 🤮 Nah sis...Removed because this gets reposted a lot | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 09:39 PM |
| – | I appreciated this post but it has tons of pickmes making excuses for being on child duty 24/7 while their scrotes get a full night sleepAs part of our anti-brigading efforts please repost after blocking out all reddit usernames and blocking out the name of the subreddit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 09:38 PM |
| – | Was I overreacting when I didn’t want to give last name, number and address on first date?This is more appropriate for r/askFDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 09:36 PM |
| 15 | You deserve to have high standards even if you are overweight.In my experience, overweight or unattractive men actually tend to be more abusive because 1) they have a chip on their shoulder and are resentful to women for rejecting them in the past, so they take out their resentment on their girlfriend because she's the only woman he has access to. 2) They are afraid of being alone but they still feel entitled to female companionship, so they'll resort to abusive tactics to prevent her from leaving. Attractive guys tend to have less blatant resentment of wo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 09:17 PM |
| 63 | It's time for women to start thinking about equity instead of equalityA friend of mine in high school got cervical cancer when she was THIRTEEN because her stepfather had been sexually abusing her and gave her HPV. This was 2 years before the HPV vaccine came out. This poor girl missed over a year of high school due to cancer treatments. Fortunately she survived but not all women are so lucky. HPV in women is NO JOKE and it is DEADLY. Men don't give a fuck about preventing transmission because they aren't personally harmed by it. Their attitude is basically "who c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 09:02 PM |
| 43 | You deserve to have high standards even if you are overweight.I think we may have the same friend lol! My BFF since elementary school meets that EXACT description and I love her approach to dating! She has high standards and LV men HATE her for it. Even though she has a pretty face, beautiful eyes, perfect hair/nails/grooming/fashion, educated, smart, witty, etc. Low value men have the same attitude towards slightly overweight women as someone who goes into a store, finds a designer shirt with a loose thread, and goes "this should be 50% off because it's d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 08:04 PM |
| 394 | You deserve to have high standards even if you are overweight."needs" Nobody needs sexual intercourse, they just want to abuse women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 01:03 PM |
| 24 | New take on Avril Lavigne's Sk8er Boi by Ashnikko, "L8r Boi". A little crude for some, but the message is on point.The whole album is straight FDS Fire! 🔥🔥🔥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 11:12 PM |
| 21 | A man who doesn’t assault women should not be put on a pedestal. We don’t glorify treating women with the bare minimum of respect. This video shows a great level of self-awareness.I agree. Maybe 1/10 are like straight up sociopaths, narcissists, physically abusive, etc. ("Negative Value Men") Another 8 out of 10 are still harmful to women, but in a more passive way: just casually sitting back and enjoying the male privilege that was established by the more blatantly abusive men. Low effort, entitled, casually sexist, selfish, limited empathy for women, probably emotionally abusive, see nothing wrong with lying and manipulating women to get sex. ("Low Value Men") IMO only … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 09:06 AM |
| 164 | Yas KWEEN! Thanks Tik Tok and @soul.igThere's something about this woman's eyes that make her simultaneously hypnotizing, terrifying, and beautiful. Ice Queen energy ❄🗡👸🔪❄ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 07:06 AM |
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