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| 1 | "Where have all the Good Men gone" is just the female version of "Nice Guys Finish Last".Internet pornography has turned most men millennial and younger into depraved delusional narcissists who feel entitled to have a perfect-looking woman give him exactly the kind of sex he wants, when he wants it, as often as he wants it. This means dehumanizing women when dating or even in everyday interactions. Men wear ahegao sweatshirts to work in office environments and no one bats an eye. They sexualized their female coworkers and it’s seen as normal. This is the result of them watching inte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/21 03:50 PM |
| 22 | Then they say they're the logical sex, oofOf course it’s an excuse. Every time a man cites “biology” it’s an excuse for bad behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 12:07 AM |
| 4 | Then they say they're the logical sex, oofThis is SO true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 12:06 AM |
| 1 | The guy “friend” who secretly likes youLol why? It was just a random name I picked | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 11:58 PM |
| 3 | I waited for a year to have sex with my bfI've been dating my bf for 4 years and PIV sex is not an option. I do a little bit of oral on occasion for him until I get tired of it and he never pushes me. He is desperate to do oral on me but I don't like how it feels so it hasn't happened. He takes care of me in other ways that blow my mind and make me actually want to have sex with him. I make sure to have some stretches of time where I keep things non-sexual to make sure he's not just coming around for a booty call. I never imagined my se… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 08:46 PM |
| 2 | I waited for a year to have sex with my bfThis is the point. You weed out LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 08:44 PM |
| 6 | I waited for a year to have sex with my bfI hope he means it. My ex said some bullshit like that too and was pushing as hard as he could and full on manipulating me within the year. It was escalating quickly in the direction of rape/physical abuse if I hadn't ended things when I did. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 08:43 PM |
| 5 | I waited for a year to have sex with my bfJacob waited 7 years for Rachel, and it was like 7 days for him. Not an HVM, but still. It proves something. Always my go-to example when a man gets pushy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 08:42 PM |
| 12 | I waited for a year to have sex with my bfThis is very good. Let's reexamine the phrase "put up with" though. They're not "putting up with" anything. They are blessed with our company, time, energy, beauty, and companionship. They are still receiving more than they give even when you aren't having sex with them in most cases. I know you didn't mean it that way, but that was very red-pill-friendly lingo and I want the male lurkers to be aware that this is not a "shit test." It's basics. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 08:42 PM |
| 25 | Men fetishize and love the idea of "dad jokes" so much because it's proof of their social power/status- forcing other people to sit through uncomfortably unfunny jokes and fake laugh just to appease/not enrage the male head of householdYeah, I think they're cute, personally. Not everyone is genuinely funny. It's not something you can really "learn" if you don't have it. So guys who aren't funny go one of three ways. Puns, or "dad jokes." Dumb, not that funny, but cute, and a sign of effort. Bitterness/negging/misogyny/racism/whatever other toxic bullshit they can think of disguised as a "joke." Red flag of course. They just...have no sense of humor. Dated a guy like this. It's a sign of very low effort and feeling like they do… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 08:27 PM |
| 3 | I’m so happy I found this sub!Guy #3 can't help how tall he is. It sounds like he is giving off other high-value signs. And his height shouldn't affect whether or not you can wear high heels. Just be taller than him. I mean, if that's a dealbreaker for you then fine, but I'd personally be more concerned with lifestyle and character than something he didn't choose and can't change. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 08:25 PM |
| 5 | "WoMeN hIt ThE wALl aFTer 25" "MEn AGe liKE WinE" scrotes looking worse in their 20s than aging women in their 50s. Like what's your excuse? Basement dwellers logicI mean one gender is much more likely to practice good hygiene and skincare, so gender does have something to do with it. It's just sociological, not biological. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 07:13 PM |
| 6 | "WoMeN hIt ThE wALl aFTer 25" "MEn AGe liKE WinE" scrotes looking worse in their 20s than aging women in their 50s. Like what's your excuse? Basement dwellers logicMy ex told me this (big red piller). I mentioned how ridiculous it was to my Mom, a massive pickme. She immediately agreed with him without question or evidence. Even then, in my pickme days, I knew it wasn't right...has anyone actually looked outside? Women at any age almost always look better than men at any age. ESPECIALLY as they get older. You have to be willfully and intentionally delusional to believe otherwise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 07:01 PM |
| 3 | Being a good husband is now called "simping"He used the word pussy whipped a lot | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 03:46 PM |
| 29 | Being a good husband is now called "simping"I dated a guy like this before “simp” was a term used a lot. He definitely would have used it if he had known about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 05:51 AM |
| 26 | Men who are “jealous” of abusers give me the creepsThis goes hand in hand with “BUT YOU DID IT WITH HIM” for abusive sexual acts or those you’re not personally comfortable with. NEVER tel a guy your sexual history. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 05:50 AM |
| 3 | My latest match on hinge.. I have no words. I have never encountered something like thisOh my god he thinks he’s the prize | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 05:30 AM |
| 7 | The guy “friend” who secretly likes youDUDE I really tried it this year and never have I had so many regrets. It was BAD. It really opened my eyes to the fact that a lot of men genuinely don't register women as people. I wish I knew how to change that but at the end of the day we can only control what we do, so no more male friends for us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 08:50 PM |
| 3 | The guy “friend” who secretly likes youYou know, in college, I majored in CS and I have to say I did see guys who were genuinely friends with girls who would maybe not be considered conventionally attractive. I mean, the guys weren't attractive either, and the girls were probably more attractive than THEY were, but guys don't usually think in those terms so I don't think it matters. It seemed like platonic friendships were pretty common there. The women in the program tended to befriend each other as well, which was also really cool … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 08:48 PM |
| 9 | The guy “friend” who secretly likes youExactly. And they project so hard. Even women believe now that other women are the real backstabbers. Men say it all the time. I have watched men get into massive drama petty backstabbing fights, and then congratulate themselves for getting over it because they're not women and it would have lasted longer. Meanwhile all the women in the group have never caused or started drama at any time... They know their own minds and can't fathom that women usually aren't that way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Banned on a Supposedly Feminist Subreddit for Giving Informative Information About VaginismusMe too, but I feel like even mentioning that sub could get this one banned. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 08:34 PM |
| 61 | The D in OLD stands for dating not sex - HVM storyThat, plus look how carefully this guy filtered. If you don't speak his language or share his worldview, you don't stand a chance. That's good because he's not wasting anyone's time, but it does mean that when a person is really looking and being intentional, your chances of matching with that person are even slimmer. (A) There aren't many people like that to begin with, and (B) by nature they are hard to match with. We talk a lot about choosing power here. LVM and NVM have no choosing power. Bu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 11:27 PM |
| 11 | The D in OLD stands for dating not sex - HVM storyI'm so happy for your friend and his new girlfriend! They both sound awesome. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 11:26 PM |
| 15 | It’s the “active in” communities for me 🤣 (blocked this rumplescroatskin immediately after my response)Thanks hon :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 10:15 PM |
| 22 | It’s the “active in” communities for me 🤣 (blocked this rumplescroatskin immediately after my response)Awww this guy sent me the exact same message! And I thought I was special... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 10:13 PM |
| 2 | If your man’s place looks like this - run. Don’t walk. That apartment is a reflection of his inner state.Yeah, exactly. If my BF was like "hey you have too much stuff," THAT would be a red flag because then I know he's going to be up my ass about the way I like to live. Mess is bad. Having things around isn't. He knows the difference. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 07:28 PM |
| 9 | Besides Jordan Peterson, what are the worst red-flag authors/books LVM/NVM read the most?Exactly. A lot of his fans aren't smart enough to actually pick up on the helpful aspects of what he has to say. They latch onto the misogyny because it makes their ego feel good. They don't want to clean their room, and they won't. They want to feel like their Y chromosome makes them above people who don't have it, and entitles them to things they don't deserve. If a guy read JP, recognized that it's not the gospel, and only kept the parts about responsibility and accountability, then I'd be fi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 07:26 PM |
| 11 | Besides Jordan Peterson, what are the worst red-flag authors/books LVM/NVM read the most?Yeah, and these guys usually aren't bright enough to understand that "freedom of speech" doesn't mean everyone has to love you and tolerate your bullshit. It just means the government can't throw you in jail. You can say whatever you want, but I don't have to listen to it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 07:23 PM |
| 2 | If your man’s place looks like this - run. Don’t walk. That apartment is a reflection of his inner state.YES. When my apartment gets bad, he doesn't come over until I clean it and it's back to normal. I try to stay on top of it but it's a growth area of mine to be sure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 07:17 PM |
| 6 | If your man’s place looks like this - run. Don’t walk. That apartment is a reflection of his inner state.Yeah. A couple days before my period starts, I tend to get somewhat depressed. This month it was BAD because I also had to make a somewhat major life decision and it was stressing me out to no end. My 1-bedroom apartment went from "pretty good" to TRASH HEAP in like 2 days. Today my cycle has finally started and I made the decision, and I threw away like 3 bags of trash. Cleaned out the cat box. Got clothes off the floor. Still got some dishes to deal with but it's gonna be okay and back to norm… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 07:16 PM |
| 2 | If your man’s place looks like this - run. Don’t walk. That apartment is a reflection of his inner state.Wtf. Who "potty trains" a cat? That is not normal at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 07:12 PM |
| 2 | If your man’s place looks like this - run. Don’t walk. That apartment is a reflection of his inner state.My boyfriend seems high-value. He has a nice place and it's somewhat tastefully decorated. Sort of. He's way cleaner and neater than I am so has me beat there. But man, he just doesn't have anything. I always find myself packing stuff and bringing stuff when I come to visit him. I came over to work from his house for a bit, and I'm in a hard-ass chair at the kitchen table with my laptop. Dude doesn't even have a desk chair. He adds a LOT to my life in other ways—like actually—so this isn't a hug… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 07:09 PM |
| 9 | Most straight males see bi women as harem generatorsGood. They should be insecure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 06:38 PM |
| 10 | Most straight males see bi women as harem generatorsI had a "friend" in school was is lesbian and she became friends with my misogynistic red pill ex. Disgusting situation. Worst part was, he was rude af to her too, but respected her way more than he ever did me because she was "one of the boys." He had a clear delineation in his mind between "fuckable" and "one of the boys." Neither were really respected, but he was a lot more respectful of the ones he didn't feel like sticking his dick into. It bothers me that he's not the only guy like that an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 06:37 PM |
| 13 | Most straight males see bi women as harem generatorsThere are only two correct responses to telling your boyfriend you're bi: (1) (preferred) "Okay, cool." [never mentions it again] (2) fear because he knows men ain't shit and now he knows you have options | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 06:35 PM |
| 13 | She did the right thing and she's doubting herselfMen aren't mind readers. How are they supposed to know not to take women out on dates when they're already dating someone else? You have to communicate! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 06:32 PM |
| 10 | In response to the post about whether or not LVM cause monthly cycle disturbances. Explanation in description 😖In my experience men vastly prefer blowjobs to PIV. They like having all the focus be on their pleasure. They get off to women kneeling in front of them (I refuse to do that). They fantasize about girls swallowing their cum. They think the mouth feels better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 08:48 PM |
| 24 | In response to the post about whether or not LVM cause monthly cycle disturbances. Explanation in description 😖Yeah. A lot of LVM are thrilled about periods because it's an excuse to demand blowjobs. Whole other problem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 07:00 PM |
| 13 | In response to the post about whether or not LVM cause monthly cycle disturbances. Explanation in description 😖Men thinking that sex is something they "get" from women is the root of a lot of problems in heterosexual relations | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 06:59 PM |
| 2 | Asking a guy his 'porn preference' 🤡I mean, unless he's streaming porn in front of me or I'm going through his internet history, I will have no way of knowing. And I'm personally not comfortable snooping through anyone else's personal property. A lot of guys stream porn on their own time and keep their social media 100% clean. I don't want to talk about sex with someone early on in the relationship, and I don't want to have sex with someone who watches porn, so that would end up with me wasting my time again. No man in 2020 has po… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 06:16 PM |
| 2 | Asking a guy his 'porn preference' 🤡Question: since the vast majority of men consume porn regularly, would asking this question be a good way to weed out men who watch porn? Option 1: Don't say anything about porn. Most likely find out about it after wasting some amount of time with him. Dump. Option 2: Ask him if he watches porn. He will almost certainly lie when the question is framed this way. Option 3: Ask him about his porn preferences. This will make him think you're a "cool girl" who wants to talk about sex right away and h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 05:40 PM |
| 2 | That's still not that bad, my ex has a collection of beer bottles and rotting takeout leftovers in his room... 🤢Exactly. It is okay to live like that. It's not okay to live like that and expect women to give you the time of day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 05:32 PM |
| 10 | Seriously disgusting. And I left his name visible, as he is a public figure and has an entire page dedicated to this nonsense. 🤬Yeah. We're already ahead of them in education. I work in tech and I see more and more women in positions of power there every day. As men claim, since women have jobs, now all they really have to live for is porn and vidya (their words, not mine). I predict the wage gap closing and then going the other direction in the next decade. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 01:59 PM |
| 20 | We're called incels but they don't get it that we're running away from dicks, so many dicks, yikes.They see us as so subhuman I think this is sometimes the case, but more often than not it seems that they lack theory of mind. They are so desperate for sex with women at all times they can't fathom that we aren't also desperate for sex with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 01:49 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 3 2020human need of having sex Not a thing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 05:41 AM |
| 13 | Always trust your gut instinct. It's not snooping, it's basically confirming your suspicions. Once again proved men ain't shit. A HVM will give you no reason to snoop. You'll always feel safe and secure.Maybe you should start playing softball as well! Although if roller derby didn't do it... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 05:26 PM |
| 23 | Always trust your gut instinct. It's not snooping, it's basically confirming your suspicions. Once again proved men ain't shit. A HVM will give you no reason to snoop. You'll always feel safe and secure.Me too sister!!! I don't understand how genuinely 100% straight women exist lmao and I feel so sorry for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 03:47 PM |
| 42 | Always trust your gut instinct. It's not snooping, it's basically confirming your suspicions. Once again proved men ain't shit. A HVM will give you no reason to snoop. You'll always feel safe and secure."Reddit discourse" with a man is not something I engage in on a regular basis. It's less "discourse" and more "rEEEE." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 03:41 PM |
| 33 | Always trust your gut instinct. It's not snooping, it's basically confirming your suspicions. Once again proved men ain't shit. A HVM will give you no reason to snoop. You'll always feel safe and secure.I'm with you here. If I feel that itch, it's because my gut is telling me something is wrong and that's reason enough to leave. No man is ever looking through my phone. That is private. I have job and banking stuff on there and he doesn't need to worry about my next moves. If I can't trust him that's either a me problem or a him problem, and either way there's no fixing it so it's time to go. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 03:40 PM |
| 13 | 46, but not ready for commitment LOLJust tell him you're also taking it slow...which means no sex, of course. Sex is a huge deal and that would be taking things way too fast. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 03:11 PM |
| 7 | What is the funniest thing a LVM has said to you?How much of the $6m did you get? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 04:17 AM |
| 9 | What is the funniest thing a LVM has said to you?FDS got me to that point this year and I’ve never felt so free. It’s a huge weight off my shoulders honestly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 04:16 AM |
| 19 | Ladies, I present you LV Potpourri - a mix of different flavors of pickme/LVM dynamic, all put together into one convenient package!I mean there is no such thing as a sexual need so she probably hasn’t even considered such a thing. He’s telling her he has “needs” and she probably believed him because she loves him and wants to assume he’s not lying to her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 04:13 AM |
| 2 | May be FDS or may be that after I saw myself in a picture with my “hot” crush I was more attractive... either way, even hot men are meh now.Go be mainline progressive somewhere else. We’re concerned with the real world here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 05:35 PM |
| 25 | I’m glad more and more women are being more aware of how 50/50 is a mythThis myth that most if not all military wives are entitled gold diggers who marry military guys for their benefits and then cheat on them. Hilarious, isn’t it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 12:36 PM |
| 9 | May be FDS or may be that after I saw myself in a picture with my “hot” crush I was more attractive... either way, even hot men are meh now.I think you’re putting a lot of words in my mouth. Nowhere did I say that those places need white intervention. I have heard others on this sub say that it’s insulting to minorities from those countries to act like white guys are the worst in the world. White guys are not going to fix that or improve it (in fact a lot of it in some American subcultures seems to be rooted in white supremacy). I think that women joining forces across racial and cultural lines is a better start. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 12:35 PM |
| 7 | LVM pushes woman to the brink of insanity on thanksgiving so she throws the WHOLE turkey out of the balcony and has a breakdown.How have these guys not been weeded out by natural selection already?? STOP HAVING SEX WITH THEM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 04:24 AM |
| 117 | I’m glad more and more women are being more aware of how 50/50 is a mythThe dependa thing really illuminates misogyny because military wives sacrifice their entire lives to follow their husband around like he’s the protagonist of some movie. And then they have the audacity to complain. Well, I’m laughing at them right along with you, sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 04:18 AM |
| 1 | they don't even hide it (a collection)Every day we literally stray further from God’s light | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 04:16 AM |
| 1 | What would happen?Without getting too political, the entire purpose of the 2A is so that people are armed against tyrants. If men try to take our guns away collectively, we would need to collectively prevent them from doing so by using those guns. That’s why it would be ideal if we all did this rather quickly instead of gradually. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 04:15 AM |
| 6 | What would happen?Not if we collectively arm ourselves. We really need to be doing this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 11:06 PM |
| 27 | What would happen?That’s what firearms are for. It makes me so sad when I go to the range and see almost everyone there is male and most appear to be low value. The vast majority of gun owners should be female and every woman with a brain should be rushing to get educated and proficient with firearms. Women are biologically better at shooting than men so if we actually collectively got off our asses and put in the time, men could be nearly eliminated as a threat. I dream of a world where fathers warn their sons n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 11:04 PM |
| 8 | What would happen?My response to this is I’m already doing it and it’s awesome. Cats are so low-maintenance. Men take so much work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 11:00 PM |
| 11 | What would happen?I’m way more afraid of being married than of being alone. And I’m pretty sure I found an HVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 10:59 PM |
| 2 | they don't even hide it (a collection)I am pretty sure most of the red pill guys are incels LARPing with second accounts based on the way they talk about their very real lives | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 03:08 PM |
| 15 | What IS it with men and rankings?That’s the creepiest shit I’ve seen and reminds me of incels. No way those are real women posting there. I refuse to believe it. It’s such male behavior I can’t even fathom a woman participating in it. Edit: they literally refer to themselves as “stacies” this is not REAL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 12:56 AM |
| 20 | What IS it with men and rankings?They like role playing that they could ever be a chooser in a sexual or romantic situation. Let them have their fun, the poor bastards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 12:54 AM |
| 3 | Men trying to convince women we need "a man."Yeah they feel threatened that we can do stuff now. It's so weird. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Men trying to convince women we need "a man."He was also Judge Turpin | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 04:33 PM |
| 6 | Men trying to convince women we need "a man."A post on here awhile ago explained "hypergamy" in a way that made a lot of sense. With the current state of the modern man, only the top 20% of men are good enough for the top 80% of women. This isn't biological and they can easily change it. But they don't want to put in the work. That man doesn't know you or anything about reality. Block and delete. By the way, I also had a crush on Alan Rickman lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 04:18 PM |
| 13 | I’ve been seeing a lot of forever-GF posts lately and thought this was kind of wholesome to contrast (although not condoning the drink date 🙅🏼♀️). It’s rare to see men articulate emotions like this (even if it is on Reddit, hopefully he tells her as well)"I'm a man and I actually like my girlfriend and almost see her as a human being! Praise me!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 03:43 PM |
| 10 | Men trying to convince women we need "a man."Men get so mad. I've had men practically yelling at me on the internet telling me that women will be killed by other men if they don't have a man to protect them. Meanwhile all statistics and research show the polar opposite. If I let a man live with me it's a gift and a privilege that can be revoked at the slightest sign of trouble. And I intend to have a handgun to back that up if he thinks physical resistance is an option. I've dealt with that before without the gun and I will never do so aga… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 03:34 PM |
| 12 | Being reasonably lazy and selfish is the key requirement for healthy boundaries. Just say no and do your nails instead.Why does it have arms? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 03:31 PM |
| 12 | Being reasonably lazy and selfish is the key requirement for healthy boundaries. Just say no and do your nails instead.Don't do wifey shit for anyone who isn't your husband unless he has already been proactive about doing husbandy shit. And if he slacks off then stop. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Thought you all would appreciate this.Honestly sounds like he subscribes to some manosphere stuff and gets off on lying to you and making you doubt yourself. He probably read a post on the red pill that made it sound all badass and powerful when in reality he looks like an asshole with questionable intelligence. Why are you telling him anything? Time to gray rock. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 03:29 PM |
| 9 | sex is not a need, it’s a wantI was homeschooled. Your mother can make you a pickme. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 03:24 PM |
| 3 | sex is not a need, it’s a wantYeah a man tried to tell me that it was on Maslow's hierarchy as if psychologists from the past are in any way relevant. According to Freud, bucko, you wanna sleep with your mom. Oh, what's that, no one buys that anymore and Freud was crazy? Really makes you think... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 03:24 PM |
| 9 | sex is not a need, it’s a wantI'm living for FDS copypastas | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 03:23 PM |
| 16 | So nice to see positive examples of fatherhood!!As I've gotten older I have started to so desperately crave a man who will be a good dad. All my fears about motherhood are directly related to LVM behavior. I think I have found a HVM, and if he really truly turns out to be someone who will just let me relax and have kids and not have it ruin my life, and who will add joy into the family like this guy, I don't think there will be anything else that can give me more peace and happiness. All the evidence so far says that he will be like this, but… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 03:22 PM |
| 2 | Happy Holidays! 😜oh my gosh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 03:20 PM |
| 2 | Petition Signed 😎 💅🏼I've been doing this for years. Get on board. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 03:18 PM |
| 21 | they don't even hide it (a collection)Ladies and gentlemen, the logical sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 03:14 PM |
| 23 | they don't even hide it (a collection)But women are the ones who climb from branch to branch!!!1 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 03:13 PM |
| 30 | they don't even hide it (a collection)I feel this. I am in an LTR now with someone who appears to be HV but idk if I would be able to hold out in a new relationship. I don't want to have sex early by any means but it just feels like a requirement. This sub has helped me realize I'm not the only woman on the planet who feels this way and that eventually we will re-normalize making men wait and work for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 03:13 PM |
| 26 | they don't even hide it (a collection)That is a small minority of guys who are pretending to be smarter than they actually are. It's a waste of time to go on there. The most effective part of the red pill is getting women to read it and assume all men behave like them so we feel like we have to settle for them. No, there are plenty of HVM out there. Don't waste a second of your energy on red pill types. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 03:12 PM |
| 49 | they don't even hide it (a collection)No, don't fuck em. That's the opposite of what we are trying to do here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 03:10 PM |
| 21 | they don't even hide it (a collection)I love that false dichotomy there in the last one from the logical sex. Either women aren't equals, or you can treat them like garbage. Funnily enough they don't advocate that the other way around, or even for men to treat each other poorly "because they're equals." "We're equals, so we should treat each other as poorly as possible and lie to each other" is a textbook example of a non sequitur. Most women are way too smart for any of this. More male fantasies and delusions that they have any pow… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 03:00 PM |
| 3 | Who’s surprised? 🙃Okay, but I've been on dates where guys did that exact kind of performance. It was quite clear what they were all about and they didn't get a second date. So it's less about a HVM feeling embarrassed by a woman doing the "man's" role and more about that stuff almost never being genuine regardless of the chromosomes of who is doing it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 02:58 PM |
| 3 | If any of this is real, she has more things to worry about than her meat dildo deadbedrooming her.I have a female cat and she is super loving. She was in high demand and I can't believe I was lucky enough to adopt her before someone else did. She's the cuddliest cat of all time. I get accused of being a "cat lady" on the internet a lot, and am proud to confirm it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 02:56 PM |
| 64 | sex is not a need, it’s a wantIt's not a need, obviously. Don't even entertain the notion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 08:58 PM |
| 7 | If any of this is real, she has more things to worry about than her meat dildo deadbedrooming her.Is it bad I really didn’t want a male cat even when my therapist told me male cats tend to be more loving? I’m not ready to share an apartment with a male anything lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 08:21 PM |
| 2 | LVM “All men ogle” myth BUSTED 😎When I say "pressure," I mean things like: hey, he isn't texting me as much. Therefore I must send him a nude. [cringe] Or hey, he seems a little distant. He said he didn't want to make out because it's hard for him to stop and I have a boundary there. He must mean I have to keep going or else he'll dump me! "Pressure" could also refer to any kind of initiation. For example, he reaches under my shirt. Am I into that in that exact moment? No, but if I don't go along with it, he'll leave. He never… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 07:31 PM |
| 3 | So anyway, sex is not a needMost men don't have any connection between sex and intimacy due to porn use | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 07:28 PM |
| 30 | I would have left him and his horrible friends at the altarI need to print this comment out and hang it somewhere visible because it is really really really true and no one says it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 07:20 PM |
| 8 | I post a lot of stuff from FDS on my Instagram story, and a male friend responded this. I sometimes forget how radical FDS seems to the real world (because it feels so right to me).I get "who hurt you?" a lot. It's a way to invalidate facts by trying to make them specific to you. It also is a way to make it seem weak like you're holding onto something someone else did to you. I wouldn't have dignified this with a response. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 07:18 PM |
| 5 | Dirty Nails 😡Yeah my dad taught me that since men don't have to wipe when they urinate they don't need to wash their hands either. I thought that was normal. Also he taught me that men don't sleep in underwear because it's uncomfortable. My boyfriend knows how to wash his damn hands and wears underwear to bed. Just saying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 04:13 PM |
| 5 | Selfish LVM and giftsI had an ex like this. He was always whining about "expectations" because I wanted him to talk to me on a regular basis and get me gifts for occasions like I did for him. For some reason, that logic didn't work when he was trying to coerce me into degrading sex acts because "that's what girls are supposed to do or else it isn't a real relationship." Now I'm dating someone who seems to actually like me and sometimes I smile thinking about what my "expectations" are like now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 04:11 PM |
| 2 | Have you found any HVW in media as role models?Aren't most Whovians women anyway? Why did so many guys suddenly care? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 04:06 PM |
| 3 | Have you found any HVW in media as role models?Really? She married Mr. Darcy even after he basically told her he thought he was better than her. I mean, supposedly he changed, but he still said it? I wouldn't be able to come back from that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 04:05 PM |
| 3 | In which universe are flowers and dinner equivalent to blowjobs??In which universe do guys do nice things for their girlfriends/wives on Valentine's Day? At the very least, you do something for each other. More commonly, the girl puts in a bunch of effort and the guy does something cheap and bare-minimum and rushes to have "Valentine's Day sex" as quickly as possible. Guys whining about Valentine's Day is a red flag because they know nothing is actually expected of them. They are trying to make sure you know they are exactly like every other guy so don't expe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 03:30 PM |
| 7 | Who’s surprised? 🙃THIS HAPPENED TO ME except my bf didn't care whether the waitress left or not. But it's ridiculous how establishments always hand the check back to the guy even when most of the time they're not the ones paying. Also I just remembered this EXACT situation has happened to me with a no-value ex who wanted to "pretend to pay" so he wouldn't be embarrassed in front of the waitress but also so that I couldn't "gold-dig" him (even though I outearned him). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 03:28 PM |
| 17 | Who’s surprised? 🙃Most HVMs would be offended and embarrassed by this treatment I don't get this. Most HVMs that I'm interested in aren't hung up on what's "masculine" and what's "feminine." I dare you to find a guy who cares about gender roles and is actually high-value. I've met dozens of guys who would be offended by this, but they would also be offended by their girlfriends disagreeing with them or having a say in major decisions for the family. Men need to be able to accept kindness and receive just like we … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 03:27 PM |
| 5 | If you really want to decipher men as quick as possibleYeah I cringed at this too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 03:22 PM |
| 6 | If you really want to decipher men as quick as possibleYeah but there's a difference. Scenario A: Bob finds an Asian woman he gets along with and goes out with her. They get along great and he treats her with love and respect. Bob doesn't have any problem with white girls. He respects his white mother, his white sister, and has white female friends. If Bob and his girlfriend break up, there is no reliable way to predict the race of his next girlfriend because he doesn't have a racial "type." Scenario B: Patrick has grown up on hentai, anime, and Jap… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 03:20 PM |
| 9 | If you really want to decipher men as quick as possibleExactly. I disagree with "they couldn't get a white girl." That implies "white girl" was his first choice. These guys watch a ton of hentai, anime, and Japanese porn and have come to the conclusion that Asian women are submissive sex freaks who will make them sushi. They seek them out specifically because of this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 03:17 PM |
| 7 | If you really want to decipher men as quick as possibleI'm not sure whether it was on reddit or where, but some guys were swearing that girls never know how guys "really are" because guys always put up a facade around girls. And even if you think you see how they "act around their friends" you don't because you're present and therefore the facade is up. (1) THAT'S your facade? I don't even want to know what you're really like in that case. (2) As if you've never lacked awareness that a girl was around or forgotten. Men and their perfect omniscience.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 03:15 PM |
| 3 | So anyway, sex is not a needThat's what always cracks me up about people who say stuff like this. I'm so tired of the assumption that women have no sex drive. No, Patrick, we've just been socialized to control ourselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 03:09 PM |
| 103 | So anyway, sex is not a needI mean most people, male and female, are in agreement that when sex is actually good, women get WAY more out of it than men do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 11:48 PM |
| 22 | The way he talks about fictional women will be the way he talks about youAttitudes toward Skylar White and Jim/Pam Season 9 are really easy litmus tests for value in my opinion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 11:48 PM |
| 10 | The R/roastme threadsWhat an asshat. Glad he's an ex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 09:23 PM |
| 9 | The R/roastme threadsMy boyfriend stayed with me in the hospital once and I was snoring away in the observation room. He took a picture of my mouth wide open. Personally I do find that funny given our dynamic and he's not a negger or an asshole in any way—he saw an opportunity for a funny picture and took it. I do the same to him and we're good. We made them into custom WhatsApp stickers and send them to each other as reactions. If a guy did this as an intentional neg it would be very clear and a different matter. I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 09:11 PM |
| 27 | Same. Every month. You’ll live.I'm always baffled how men strut around like they are so brave and warrior-like, bragging about how things like "courage" and "chivalry" and "heroism" are masculine attributes. Meanwhile they are terrified of needles and insects. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 09:08 PM |
| 49 | Can We All Say Bravo To This QueenExactly. At some point marriage does need to be a partnership and we as women do need to participate in that and make sacrifices where need be. I will always be smart and have backup plans, but if I'm married to someone that's an agreement and I will be looking out for him instead of just after myself. However, if I were stuck in some patriarchal marriage in the Islamic religion, I'd hold onto my money and not share a cent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 09:06 PM |
| 5 | People really think "communication" is going to help herImagine if they put that effort into being a good and well-adjusted person | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 07:24 PM |
| 5 | This is what happens when a guy watches porn regularly. Their sex-life expectancy is 2 years or less.I mean this seems like at least a step in the right direction if people are recognizing that there is a problem and trying to fix it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 07:19 PM |
| 19 | What a HVM looks like. He's always doing stuff like this for his wifeThis is ridiculous nitpicking. I'm sorry. I know that we all have seen abhorrent behavior and assume all men are ridiculous. But the truth is he's using that title because he likes being married to her. I agree that we shouldn't glorify bare-minimum behavior and make it abnormal. But this isn't bare-minimum. This is a very nice thing to do and nit-picking it will also be discouraging. We're trying to build a better world here. We need to find a balance and this ain't it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 07:16 PM |
| 37 | Vogue YouTube makes Pick-Me Porn. Karley Sciortino Describes Finding Another Woman’s Panties in her boyfriends bed TWICE and then wearing them.literal dirty laundry :puke: | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 07:12 PM |
| 25 | Can We All Say Bravo To This QueenYeah these types of religions are just vessels for men to financially dominate and abuse women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 07:11 PM |
| 191 | Can We All Say Bravo To This QueenNormally I wouldn't agree with this but given the context of the highly patriarchal culture, if he wants to have all the privileges and benefits men get in Islam, he had better do his share. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 07:10 PM |
| 54 | The question was « What job do you do that you enjoy ». She said escort and really dared to say that women selling their bodies would « decrease » men’s depravity and hate towards women!!Sex is not a need | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 06:48 PM |
| 3 | /r/againstdegeneratesubs made a change petition to ban fds lol scrotes madMy mind is blown that Jackie Aina is the only mainstream black beauty guru. My mind is also blown at how many super mediocre male beauty gurus there are. I mean it's our own fault for not creating the demand but I try to follow whoever I can and there is not a man in my subscription list. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 06:43 PM |
| 3 | I feel so sick after reading this. “She should know I would never do that to her.”If he says that, he's thinking it, and that alone is a red flag. Bye. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 06:16 PM |
| 7 | I feel so sick after reading this. “She should know I would never do that to her.”They are never kidding SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 06:14 PM |
| 5 | I feel so sick after reading this. “She should know I would never do that to her.”This is what I worry about. Even when you're with an HVM you're still living with a giant tangle of testosterone and muscle with apparently "baked-in" violent tendencies (this is what men tell me, anyway). Who's to say he won't snap? My boyfriend and I were having a convo about this the other day and he seems to sort of get it. I will always have backup plans and safety nets no matter how long we are together. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 06:13 PM |
| 2 | How To Get A Man To Legally Claim A Child You Know is Not Biologically HisThis is 100% factual. I shudder to think what my younger brother has been exposed to. He seems normal on the outside but you never know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 04:53 PM |
| 3 | How To Get A Man To Legally Claim A Child You Know is Not Biologically HisThese guys like to think they're really smart but they're absolute idiots. Very few women fall for this. The ones that do are young tho and that's all they care about so guess it works out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 04:53 PM |
| 4 | How To Get A Man To Legally Claim A Child You Know is Not Biologically HisIt is literally this simple. Men are animals. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 04:52 PM |
| 5 | How To Get A Man To Legally Claim A Child You Know is Not Biologically HisMen are the ones that pressure for sex in suboptimal situations. Men are the ones that whine about condoms. Women are almost NEVER responsible for unplanned pregnancies other than that they went along with what some guy who pretended to care about her tried to force her to do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 04:52 PM |
| 1 | How To Get A Man To Legally Claim A Child You Know is Not Biologically HisThat was hilarious to read. What a fantasy. In real life men are not smart or capable enough to manipulate people like that. And imagine getting so worked up to kill your own child because you're that selfish! With someone you slept with no less! I could never. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 04:51 PM |
| 10 | A lesson in how men lie. Dont accept excuses, block & delete!A NVM I dated suddenly had his phone constantly running out of charge when he got tired of abusing me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 04:46 PM |
| 13 | /r/againstdegeneratesubs made a change petition to ban fds lol scrotes madMakeup subs are also like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 04:08 PM |
| 15 | A r*pe guidebook disguised as a "guide for frat boys to seduce freshman girls". Fucking disgusting. (found on another sub)I love the last line like every woman in college doesn't know to stay away from frat houses. Just when you think they can't get any dumber... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 04:02 PM |
| 8 | A r*pe guidebook disguised as a "guide for frat boys to seduce freshman girls". Fucking disgusting. (found on another sub)This is me, too. I think I may have found an HVM but if something goes sideways I am 100% done with dudes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 04:02 PM |
| 10 | Why are mothers such Pickmes for their sons?Yeah the whole "white feminism" thing really rubbed me the wrong way. Seemed like an excuse to let men of color act like animals and blame women for it under the guise of being racially progressive. No thanks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 03:51 PM |
| 3 | Act like LVMs are invisible to youThis is how I act around all men all the time that I don’t know | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 04:32 AM |
| 3 | Please gods tell me this is fake #justboisontinderthingsmaybe Oh you sweet summer child | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 04:29 AM |
| 3 | Remember ladies, if he wanted to, he would!!I disagree. Yes it’s probably performative but I was taught what to expect from men via observation and it was a LOW bar. If I had grown up seeing videos like this I would never have allowed men to treat me the way they did. If we can encourage and popularize these videos then women will quit settling and men will learn to step up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 04:25 AM |
| 0 | This is what I imagine who most of you ladies here have to deal with. "The sex" lolAm I racist? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 04:15 AM |
| 5 | This has to be the worst tinder profile I’ve ever laid eyes on. This man is a walking red flag.This is so accurate it physically pains me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 04:12 AM |
| 2 | This has to be the worst tinder profile I’ve ever laid eyes on. This man is a walking red flag.I dated a guy like this in high school. It’s because they saw that girls liked Sherlock. They’re not that bright. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 04:11 AM |
| 6 | This has to be the worst tinder profile I’ve ever laid eyes on. This man is a walking red flag.Then he’ll make a “Chad” profile with a rapist bio and get mad that it gets more matches than he does | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 04:10 AM |
| 1 | This has to be the worst tinder profile I’ve ever laid eyes on. This man is a walking red flag.Lol he thinks he’s the prize | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 04:09 AM |
| 3 | Am I the only one who is heterosexual and would - in theory - love having a loving partner and a family, but after seeing all the degeneracy of men, has just given up on it completely and deemed men in general to be undateabl/unwantable?I think some of this is skewed because we are online a lot. So we see the men who are online a lot. Women who are online a lot tend to be relatively normal. Men who are tend to be abysmal sea slugs. So all you see online are sea slugs. My boyfriend is a “lurker.” He uses the internet to receive entertainment, but doesn’t comment or post hardly EVER. He doesn’t seem to be a sea slug so far—quite the opposite. Like most men, he grew up on porn and had some toxic ideas baked in but he seems open to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 04:07 AM |
| 9 | A pickmeisha lesson: LVM are expensive.That should be for her, not him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 03:14 AM |
| 5 | I'm new here and I kept seeing TheRedPill and MGTOW mentioned, so I went to check it out, completely unaware what they were... Jesus Christ, now I'm considering staying celibate foreverAs in...lack of reading comprehension or basic intelligence? And inability to use markdown...they go through a post point by point and misinterpret it like they are actually mentally challenged. I need to be able to carry on a conversation with a man in order to be attracted to him, and these guys ain't it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 03:12 AM |
| 25 | The relationship between misogyny and early death?More and more men genuinely tell themselves and each other that women being able to support themselves means men have no meaning in their lives anymore. It's like all men were good for was controlling and dominating women financially. That's their excuse for refusing to improve themselves like we have and instead game, porn, and abuse substances until they die. Also there's a high correlation between being a poor developing country and being misogynistic. It's almost like once you finally get to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 09:32 PM |
| 16 | I'm new here and I kept seeing TheRedPill and MGTOW mentioned, so I went to check it out, completely unaware what they were... Jesus Christ, now I'm considering staying celibate foreverMen use this all the time as an excuse to use women like objects and abandon their children | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 09:29 PM |
| 11 | I'm new here and I kept seeing TheRedPill and MGTOW mentioned, so I went to check it out, completely unaware what they were... Jesus Christ, now I'm considering staying celibate foreverI used to care about stuff like this but a man who thinks this way is never getting anywhere near me so why even bother reading it? Life is too short to care. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 09:28 PM |
| 46 | Beware of men who want open relationships but later decide to change their minds when they see that their partner have way more options than themI have heard multiple men say it’s fine for men to sleep around because it doesn’t mean anything to them and it’s just physical, but women attach emotions to it. First of all, speak for yourself, Patrick. I’ve met tons of dudes who get emotional about sex. Secondly, you’re saying men behaving like animals and using women like literal sex toys is supposed to somehow be the superior option? Fuck. Off. Call it out, ladies, every day. The logical sex my ASS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 05:52 AM |
| 7 | r/AgainstHateSubreddits plunges further into hatred and misogyny, calls women "scum" and "piece of shit", says we deserve to be paid less than men and are unsuitable for management, implies women should be used as incubators by low income men to keep the birth rate highThe types of men that populate those cities are so repulsive to me. I could never. Rural guys have their stereotypes but seems like the odds are still better with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 05:40 AM |
| 83 | So many men have this sense of entitlement when the topic of "men's mental health" comes up. It's so god damn rampant.Also that's not even true. Most of them had monstrous abusive fathers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 08:30 PM |
| 15 | Props to this girl !He was so insecure he had to do anything to feel big and powerful. So he couldn't resist telling me. I'm grateful for it because it taught me how to spot and avoid manosphere types. Last I heard he's still pulling that crap on whatever insecure broken girl he can find. I feel so bad for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 06:14 PM |
| 34 | Props to this girl !My ex did this to me. He literally told me he was doing it. It worked until I finally dumped him and I have never been happier. Now "dread game" is more like "excitement game" because losing that guy was the best thing that ever happened to me. If another guy tries it who knows how awesome my life could get? It cracks me up how they think they matter and add any value to our lives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 06:01 PM |
| 9 | This is what indian women deal with. Then these guys wonder why the world thinks so low of them.Good. They created that society. They should suffer from it. Sex is not a need. I always say that the minute a guy starts crying about it. It isn't. No arguing. No debating. Full stop. Goodbye. Time to turn that narrative around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 05:58 PM |
| 6 | Look at this beautiful 65 years old woman but these red pillers say women hit the wall at 30. It's not true. Women are very attractive older too and women need to embrace their unique beauty and love themselves from inside out. Don't listen to those idiots. Love yourself at any age.You are beautifulYeah when some scrote introduced me to the concept of the wall I was so confused. Like...has he ever been outside? Has he observed human beings? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 03:40 PM |
| 3 | A discussion on how to deal with the pickmeishas we interact with in every day lifeI love my mother but the pickme behavior just makes me sad and really screws with my head. I had to unlearn so much that she drilled into me unwittingly. I have a boundary up now where I call out and correct every pickme thing she says. It's really weird and feels disrespectful because she's my mom, but honestly she needs to hear it and have someone on her side whether she knows it or not. And she seems to be opening up to FDS-type thinking. I hope I'm not annoying but I hate seeing her devalue … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 03:02 PM |
| 7 | Can we talk for a moment about LVM and steroid abuse?These are the guys who scream and cry about women getting plastic surgery or wearing makeup. Hilarious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 02:59 PM |
| 3 | Such.. bitterness.That's fine, bro. You're allowed to have standards and say them and get thousands of upvotes. But you already had limited options and you're just limiting them even more. Also, this means you can't have sex with anybody you listed on your no-fly list. Relationship or GTFO. Sorry, I don't make the rules. Those women deserve better anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 02:57 PM |
| 12 | LVM on OLD... seriously, this is the garbage we have to sift through with online dating. Recommendation... just don’t...I'm looking for an INDEPENDENT man. A man that doesn't need a woman's body or sexual favors, has himself relatively celibate. Or at least never watches porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 02:55 PM |
| 21 | Adult Toddler Wants "Chocwit Ice Cream." I Can't with This.This is it, exactly. Psychoanalyzing men gives them way too much credit. It's always about his penis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 02:53 PM |
| 8 | Adult Toddler Wants "Chocwit Ice Cream." I Can't with This.And violating her underwear. RUN. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 02:52 PM |
| 13 | Adult Toddler Wants "Chocwit Ice Cream." I Can't with This.Yeah men don't have humor, they have sexual depravity they disguise as "jokes" because they're idiotic enough to think that will give them a free pass. CALL. THEM. OUT. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 02:51 PM |
| 2 | This is what indian women deal with. Then these guys wonder why the world thinks so low of them.They CAN lead the family, but they are not entitled to. Nor are they inherently qualified to. This is a very important distinction to make. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 02:46 PM |
| 5 | This is what indian women deal with. Then these guys wonder why the world thinks so low of them.I had an Indian friend for a bit who swore that India was super progressive and men were actually oppressed there. I remember thinking...that doesn't sound right...but he actually lives there so who am I to argue? He identified as borderline-incel so why I even wasted my time is a mystery. I try to see the good in everyone but sometimes you need to just cut them loose. And by sometimes I mean "always." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 02:45 PM |
| 5 | This is what indian women deal with. Then these guys wonder why the world thinks so low of them.Indian men don't even wash their own underwears I dated an Indian guy. His mom's friend was dying of cancer so she went to visit her in India for a month. That meant he couldn't bring his laundry home for her to do it for him. So instead, he let his stinky laundry pile up and ordered more clothes on Amazon. Then, when she got back, she got to wash all that for him. I try not to let NVM live rent-free in my head, but sometimes I smile thinking of how his horrible behavior and terrible choices are… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 02:44 PM |
| 12 | This is what indian women deal with. Then these guys wonder why the world thinks so low of them.If money is the most important resource, then why are men so obsessed with women? Their lives are pointless without us. They do not contribute anything compared to what we do. And maybe in India you can hire help for cheap, but in the US you'd have to pay at LEAST 6 figures for a housewife/SAHM equivalent. That's a bit conservative considering it's one person doing about 5 official jobs and being on-call 24/7. Way more than most men make. I will call this out each and every time I see or hear it… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 02:42 PM |
| 13 | Bisexuals: Don't share your orientation with your man. No good comes of it.This thing where straight dudes try to strike deals with their bi girlfriends that "cheating with women is okay, but not with men!" is exhausting. Do you know how dumb you sound? And yet bi pickmeishas fall for it every day. Find a gorgeous lady and dump his ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 02:36 PM |
| 29 | Bisexuals: Don't share your orientation with your man. No good comes of it.I'm bi and I strongly disagree with this. It's not a good relationship if you can't share something as important as your sexuality. Also, it changes the way things look. If your BF is spending a lot of time with his friend Albert, and you think he's straight, then that's great for him. If you find out he's bi, then suddenly all that time with Albert is looking a little excessive. This isn't to control people, but rather to be fully aware of the entire context of a situation and all possible outc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 02:35 PM |
| 25 | r/AgainstHateSubreddits plunges further into hatred and misogyny, calls women "scum" and "piece of shit", says we deserve to be paid less than men and are unsuitable for management, implies women should be used as incubators by low income men to keep the birth rate highBut you MUST live in NYC and SF!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 02:27 PM |
| 23 | r/AgainstHateSubreddits plunges further into hatred and misogyny, calls women "scum" and "piece of shit", says we deserve to be paid less than men and are unsuitable for management, implies women should be used as incubators by low income men to keep the birth rate highImagine thinking that you HAVE to live in a big city. Reminds me of the LVM I went to college with who were obsessed with Silicon Valley and hookups, and also terrible with money and hygiene. Yes, please, go to NYC or SF. Leave the actually decent parts of the country to the rest of us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 02:24 PM |
| 22 | We are high maintenance because we maintenance ourselves not menIs there a version where the women go through the men's rooms? Because I can't even IMAGINE what they'd find. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 02:21 PM |
| 43 | We are high maintenance because we maintenance ourselves not menI think a lot of them are horrified by the fact that a woman wants to invest in herself. That will take time away from focusing on HIS needs. I mean, just think of all the tired old memes about a woman who takes too long to get ready to go somewhere. That time could be used for SEX. Think of the penis, for heaven's sake! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 02:20 PM |
| 30 | We are high maintenance because we maintenance ourselves not menI've been explaining this to everyone around me who makes a stink-face and asks "who I'm all dressed up for" for years. Cultural misogyny runs deeeeeeep. Once you meet a HVM, he gets it. He admires what you do for yourself and tries to get on board and join you in as much of it as he can. He knows he could never and is grateful that you do. And every now and again, you see the fear in his eyes, because he is aware enough to know your worth and knows he will always be running to catch up. Luckily… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 02:19 PM |
| 6 | If this ain’t the truth 😂 Love this generation of women lovingly giving pickme’s a reality checkAnd then he will go cheat on you, whining all the while about "Josie" and "dependas." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 02:15 PM |
| 2 | There is no energy like that which comes from prioritizing yourselfI’ve already started some of them and already feel better. Can’t wait for you to have the same experience! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 01:50 PM |
| 3 | There is no energy like that which comes from prioritizing yourselfI think the logic was “men don’t bother and instead put their time and energy into other things that benefit them more!” But like since when is emulating men, who are often unwashed and miserable, the standard? And I feel so much better when I am extra for me. I have yet to meet a man with this energy, but I know plenty of women who exude it. I mean I get that too much money and time put into looking nice for others can contribute to things like the wage gap. But also to a certain point men beco… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 05:28 AM |
| 8 | There is no energy like that which comes from prioritizing yourselfSorry your ex was such a clown. My mom is in her mid-50s and just starting to really get into self-care, baths, etc. My dad cheated on her repeatedly over the past few years. I hate the way he's destroyed her confidence but it brings me joy to see her slowly becoming more confident and investing in herself. I love treating her to self-care items and seeing her happy. I'm so glad you got rid of that dead weight and are putting yourself first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 09:26 PM |
| 3 | There is no energy like that which comes from prioritizing yourselfHere is the post. Got really negative reception but I have already adopted several points from it and purchased a couple of the products. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 09:22 PM |
| 6 | Female hypergamy is a lie. The reality of the "80/20 rule" is that 80% of women are quite literally equal in value to the top 20% of men. This is why we are seeing so many single high value women, and single low value men.Super hot alpha male? We're gonna reward one guy who is doing the bare minimum with multiple women? Seems like a huge step back | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 08:15 PM |
| 2 | How to leave when you don't have a "good" reason?The only real way to leave a LVM without it becoming a long discussion is to tell him you're not physically attracted to him. It's all LVM understand because that's the core of what their relationships are about. Of course it won't be true—women see way more than physical appearances and are much deeper than that. But to a LVM, he will believe he can't change it (incel logic), understand it (he'd dump a girl who didn't turn him on in a heartbeat), and realize that it means it will be harder to g… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 07:47 PM |
| 9 | LVM takes his date for a walk in the park and proceeds to sh*t himself in the bushes. Karma for organising an awful ‘date’.Yeah fetish posts aren't usually very subtle at all. If this was one, I have to hand it to him. I didn't notice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 07:36 PM |
| 4 | LVM takes his date for a walk in the park and proceeds to sh*t himself in the bushes. Karma for organising an awful ‘date’.He said he brought "some" drinks so I was assuming he brought some for her. I mean even for where the bar is now that would be astoundingly selfish. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 07:33 PM |
| 2 | I’m so tired of men harassing and trying to intimidate me in publicYeah I haven't had to use public transportation much in my life, thank God, so I haven't dealt with nearly as much of this as some other people I know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 04:15 PM |
| 8 | One of the thousands of reasons why I never want to live with a man or have childrenI feel the same way, but also I was home schooled myself and sheltered and I see how a lot of my friends turned out...they can't wait to escape into the depravity of the "outside world." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 02:43 PM |
| 2 | How a HVM handles your illnessYes! The one or two times my BF and I have been drinking together he always makes sure I am drinking plenty of water. I love him! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 03:54 PM |
| 4 | How a HVM handles your illnessAfter years of being whined at by friends and family for being frequently nauseous and having blood sugar drops, and then more years of being basically abused by my NV ex, I felt the familiar pit in my stomach that night when I realized my upset stomach wasn't just going to go away. My boyfriend was coming to visit. He was bringing pizza, and he was driving almost an hour, in traffic, to see me. (He hates traffic even more than the average person.) We all know boys don't do that out of love. He … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 03:52 PM |
| 3 | A Church Girl's RantI wish we could be IRL friends because your church experience seems so different from mine. My church preaches "complementarianism" which is literally "separate but equal" for men and women—separate, but not equal at all either. Most church guys I meet are extremely misogynistic and see themselves as anime protagonists. It became such a huge stumbling block that I nearly left the faith. Now I'm realizing that the faith community was the issue so I'm trying to find a new one of those. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 03:32 PM |
| 77 | I can't even, at this point. Scrotes are letting their children sexualize women. LVM dads will raise LVM sons. Let's stop blaming the moms.This reminds me of a similar thing where the dad took his three underage sons to Hooters. One was looking up in awe, one was looking down in awe, and I think one was disinterested. This was on reddit and EVERYONE was laughing about how one was a boob man, one was an ass man, and one was gay. Disgusting. This website acts so progressive all the time, but still misogynistic as fuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 02:48 PM |
| 2 | And they wonder why we call them incels...Male brains don't fully develop until the age of 25 FTFY | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 06:00 PM |
| 3 | Honestly, this wakeup call really is what I needed to turn me off the idea of spontaneous blowjobs for goodI was complaining to my boyfriend about this and he said it is so weird how often that comes up on reddit. He says he compliments guys all the time and gets compliments from other guys all the time. It's almost like the sea slugs that crawl onto their computers each morning aren't really representative of the world at large, which is full of fully functional adult men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 05:43 PM |
| 19 | 50 shades of Indian Patriarchy which I feel is more like the universal patriarchy! These 4 slides will tell you. Link to the entire article is in the comments.I had to beg my Indian ex to meet his parents too!!!! His mom was super chill. I've never met anyone who was simultaneously terrified of and also SO disrespectful of his mother. The dissonance was alarming. I'm currently dating a Hispanic-American guy and he's AMAZING. He got my standards off the ground long before I found FDS. I'm here because I want everyone to have what I have. Settling for less was so damaging and such a waste of time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 03:56 PM |
| 37 | 50 shades of Indian Patriarchy which I feel is more like the universal patriarchy! These 4 slides will tell you. Link to the entire article is in the comments.I dated an Indian guy for awhile and DAMN this is accurate. Of course many desi guys are able to unlearn the entitlement they are raised with, I'm sure, but uh...he wasn't one of them. The stories I could tell... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 02:57 PM |
| 21 | ladies and gentlemen welcome to the stage...pickmeisha!Agreed. This sub goes harder on the "pickmes" than on the actual men who are creating this world with their entitlement. Reminds me of RedPill where they laugh at "beta bux." That kind of toxicity is not what we need here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 01:49 AM |
| 4 | Saw this floating around on Twitter and thought we could do an FDS version. Please share your examples of non-compliments from LVM"You look better with [x]." "You look better with your mouth shut." Also, a guy trying to "encourage" the correct behavior from you and thinking he's being subtle gets the same boot. "Wow, you look so pretty barefaced!" (after trying to get you to stop wearing makeup) "Wow, you'd look so good with short hair!" (after complaining about your long hair getting in the way/being annoying) "Wow, you look so sexy in that turtleneck!" (after wanting you to "dress more modestly") It's VERY easy to tell w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 09:22 PM |
| 33 | Never Chase a ManWith regards to your last point, I think it's based on this dangerous myth that I see played out in movies/TV where men treat women like garbage until they meet The One (tm) and then pursue her and treat her really well. An example off the top of my head is Jim from The Office. Often held up as the most wonderful example of Soulmates (tm), Jim treats first Katie and then Karen like absolute garbage (as if they weren't WAY out of his league) and then pursues Pam and treats her soooooo well (until… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 09:19 PM |
| 12 | “Don’t do things for me” - from the horse’s mouthYou put this into words much better than I did. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 08:27 PM |
| 13 | “Don’t do things for me” - from the horse’s mouthEhhh this is a slippery slope. I'm not here for male ego. This sounds a lot like "don't tell a man he's doing something wrong even if he's driving down the wrong side of a road for an hour because it will emasculate him" from the Undeserving Wife or whatever the name of the book is. Any guy who is worried about being "emasculated" has just crossed himself off my list. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 08:27 PM |
| 3 | Pickmes are just as toxic as the low quality men they worship and defend.I have not seen our culture admiring any women unless they're doing low-value behavior that men appreciate, such as being super sexual, giving blowjobs, or being female versions of male superheroes who don't do anything more interesting than physical fighting (see literally every "woke feminist" superhero movie e. g. Wonder Woman, Captain Marvel, etc). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 08:08 PM |
| 5 | So when will Two X get banned for being “uninclusive”? Lady makes a post about self-love and a man immediately makes it all about himWow you just hit the nail right on the head. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 04:12 PM |
| 5 | So when will Two X get banned for being “uninclusive”? Lady makes a post about self-love and a man immediately makes it all about himI literally cannot even make eye contact with a man without him leering at me in many cases. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 04:11 PM |
| 8 | So when will Two X get banned for being “uninclusive”? Lady makes a post about self-love and a man immediately makes it all about himIt's so ridiculous. I lean conservative but the conservative movement seems like it's doing everything it can to alienate women. I saw so many conservatives blame women for Trump losing in the aftermath of the election. Like have you looked in a mirror and considered that the blatant outspoken misogyny perpetuated by nearly all conservative pundits could be the reason women overwhelmingly vote Democrat year after year? Of course not. Woman bad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 04:11 PM |
| 3 | LVM “All men ogle” myth BUSTED 😎Yeah if my libido was still as high as it used to be, idk if I would have managed it. It's not easy. It's an insidious, evil thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 04:09 PM |
| 12 | I'm having some flashbacks...What is inkwell lite? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 02:34 AM |
| 6 | LVM “All men ogle” myth BUSTED 😎We do manual/oral stuff. Personally I'd prefer not to but I met him right out of an abusive relationship where sex was all I was good for and I caved to the slightest bit of pressure from him. He is really careful not to pressure me but he does want it a lot and I don't have the stones to turn him down most of the time even when I want to and I know he'd be okay with it. It's 100% me and my issues. Even with that said, sexual stuff is amazing with him. I never knew it could actually be enjoyable… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 02:33 AM |
| 19 | Finally blocked my ex everywhere. You'll never guess who called me two hours later.How tf did he get into your bedroom? You should involve the police NOW. This is very alarming. Do you have access to weapons? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 11:59 PM |
| 82 | LVM “All men ogle” myth BUSTED 😎My bf all but quit porn not long after we got together (this was pre-FDS for me). Recently I "checked in" to make sure he wasn't watching it at all anymore—this was right before I found FDS and right after I started learning about how exploitative and all-around damaging porn can be. I realized porn was to blame for almost every male problem I've ever had (a LOT). He mentioned he did on occasion and I told him that wasn't cool—he said okay. Our sex life—well, I should say sexual life, since we p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 11:57 PM |
| 86 | I'm having some flashbacks...The interesting thing about this is that the MGTOW guys genuinely believe they are going their own way. To them, having NSA sex with women and/or using them for free labor of various types doesn't count as not going their own way. What they are rejecting isn't women's bodies or their services. They are rejecting giving anything back into the relationship. As long as they are not participating in it financially, emotionally, or time-wise, they consider it "going their own way" even if they have a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 11:46 PM |
| 29 | I was reading the comments on this video and I came across this!!Men fuck couches | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 08:49 PM |
| 10 | I was reading the comments on this video and I came across this!!Even babies are calmer than a manchild like this One of many reasons women often leave the man but keep the kid | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 08:48 PM |
| 38 | I was reading the comments on this video and I came across this!!There is literally no way. FDS is foolproof. Unless he actually becomes high-value and literally continues it his entire life. But then who really got duped? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 08:47 PM |
| 11 | I was reading the comments on this video and I came across this!!pair bonding Ah, I see exactly what kind of video this is. Have these guys ever considered for a second that the more men women deal with in ANY capacity, the less she ever wants to deal with another one again? the LoGiCaL sex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 08:47 PM |
| 74 | sEx pOsiTiVe dating coach who is in polyamorous relationship with NVM discovers that he's not attracted to her during pregnancy (but don't worry, he's pro-fetishization of pregnant women!)Ah yes, the two types of women: Blonde and Exotic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 07:28 PM |
| 3 | "New in town"I'm in this picture and I don't like it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 06:27 PM |
| 22 | Meanwhile on MGTOW... So the issue is that we’re not subservient and “in our place”anymore? That’s why scrotes are so pressed? They feel they should still be able to “Sean Connery” us? 🤮It's actually supposed to be "Men Going Their Own Way" but they just obsess over women so | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 05:39 PM |
| 17 | What my 6 years LVM boyfriend thinks about 50/50 before I moved in vs. when I moved in.50/50 on groceries is never actually 50/50 with men because of the disgusting ungodly amount of food they consume. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 05:36 PM |
| 44 | Meanwhile on MGTOW... So the issue is that we’re not subservient and “in our place”anymore? That’s why scrotes are so pressed? They feel they should still be able to “Sean Connery” us? 🤮Men Getting Triggered Over Women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 05:33 PM |
| 9 | Meanwhile on MGTOW... So the issue is that we’re not subservient and “in our place”anymore? That’s why scrotes are so pressed? They feel they should still be able to “Sean Connery” us? 🤮Seconding this. MGTOW post this shit to feel better about themselves and to upset women who read it. They're not actually improving themselves or doing anything to help themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 05:33 PM |
| 2 | UPDATE: Leaving LV husband of 3 yearsYou should DEFINITELY get a lawyer. He will try to screw you over and leave you with nothing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 03:11 PM |
| 6 | Oh Holy HellLet me introduce you to being gay | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 02:50 PM |
| 52 | Oh Holy HellTHIS is why some women resort to being manipulative. It's a trope—instead of saying what she's feeling, she sulks around and acts passive aggressive. "Why, oh why won't she just say what she's FEELING?" cries the man. "Women are so miserable! They're so overly complicated! They're so irrational!" The reason, bucko, is that she has already tried telling you 11 times in the past. You don't care because her feelings don't matter to you. So now she is resorting to making your life miserable in the h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 02:43 PM |
| 4 | Facebook friend posted this. 🤮🤮🤮Flair checks out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 02:34 PM |
| 26 | The “Arrangement” 🤣I knew a woman who got into a situation like this out of desperation. Unfortunately it was an online friendship that included her online boyfriend, and he and the other guys in that group were SCROTES. I sometimes wonder how she’s doing, but with her choice of man I doubt things will improve for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 10:34 PM |
| 15 | Guy touches on points where a man get offended if a woman dates other men - humourLiterally everything about this video is my ex, but this is especially him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 07:36 PM |
| 10 | Facebook friend posted this. 🤮🤮🤮What does that even mean? "Feminized" men? Whenever I hear people say this they're usually manosphere types obsessed with "the differences between men and women" with the implication that femininity is a bad thing overall. No thanks. I actively look for men who can carry conversations, process their emotions in a healthy way, and wipe their own asses. A lot of people consider that "feminine." Also, this picture shows a person being babied. Are you saying being babied is feminine? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 07:34 PM |
| 14 | Poor woman, awful husbandSeriously. I know how sexist this sounds, but I have never once seen a good thing come out of men hanging out with other men. They make each other worse. I am pretty sure my boyfriend is high-value. I have met his friends and they seem high-value, as well. Friendly guys, always treated me with respect and kindness, often had genuine female friends whose pants they weren't trying to get into, paid for both his and my drinks/food on multiple occasions when we're not close and they're getting nothi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 07:09 PM |
| 40 | We regret to inform you ...THAT'S why I had to do all my bioinformatics projects on a website named "Rosalind." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 07:03 PM |
| 3 | I’m so tired of seeing men trying to control how women dressYou know, I've been getting more and more into alternative aesthetic. I've ALWAYS loved dark makeup/hair/dress, but lately I've been REALLY into it and I couldn't figure out why. It seemed like it might be about more than just the aesthetic. I think it's because it's so repulsive to men. They HATE seeing women express themselves in ways that don't get their dick hard. Red costume contacts, a fake-ass black wig, and hella eyeliner get the job done. It also keeps men from staring at me or (God for… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 09:43 PM |
| 14 | What theory explains why women seem to just be better quality than men, especially in the last 10-20 years?I really like to avoid the biological arguments when possible. Men love to use it as an excuse for bad behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 06:15 PM |
| 17 | And I will not be stopped!!She said "next," not "right at this very present moment in time." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Please STOP doing this.the logical sex rarely understands logic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 07:11 PM |
| 23 | Are literally all the men sitting there laughing at us as they ask us on "walking dates" and try to get us to come over to their apartments?Some guys really are just lazy/clueless and do it because they can get away with it and they don't think about it. Manosphere types absolutely DO compete for bare minimum and laugh at us. They love seeing how degrading they can be, and things like this are examples. Just go to any redpill-type sub and prepare to lose your faith in humanity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 05:01 PM |
| 146 | Please STOP doing this.But of course if you call this OBVIOUSLY inappropriate behavior out, then all you hear is: "Waah! The MeToo movement is ruining everything! I don't even know how to interact with women at work anymore! Guess I can't ever talk to women again! Guess I can't ever promote a woman! Guess I won't hire any more women!! It's just so confusing the only option is to take it out on all women professionally!!!!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 04:59 PM |
| 6 | Went out with my classmates today and one of my male classmates paid for ALL of our tab.I had a classmate do this in high school. It made me super uncomfortable at the time but he had no ill or sexual intentions. Just a nice guy I was acquaintances with that happened to end up at the same diner after an event and we had milkshakes. Wasn't cheap, either. Hope he's doing well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 03:54 PM |
| 6 | Perfect response!Looks like a T-mobile ad to me. They dominated subways where I live and the bright pink color is their trademark. Plus it's about texting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 02:42 PM |
| 3 | Can people ever leave women alone?It's literally blackface for women and why it hasn't been stomped the fuck out by now blows my mind. Society, left and right, really despises us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 02:17 PM |
| 4 | Can people ever leave women alone?YES. Gay men/drag queens SUCK at makeup (with a few notable exceptions) and yet they dominate the industry. Not creative, not interesting, just have penis so they must be at the top. And then they get praise for being "so brave." Meanwhile most of them are misogynistic as fuck and we're all expected to bow down and talk about how beauty makeup techniques are "borrowed from drag." Lmao no, adding white eyeliner to my eye to enlarge the appearance is called common sense. Only a man would want cred… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 02:16 PM |
| 2 | Stop letting men down "nicely"This is big truth. I'm always confounded by how obsessed men are with who I find sexually attractive. I barely even consider that because sex is like 0.01% of a relationship to me. But it's ALL they think about so they assume I must too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 02:10 PM |
| -1 | If a man brings this guy up on the first date, run for your f*cking life.Careful, you can get banned for wrongthink here. I made similar comments about B3n Shap!r0 and got a 3-day ban. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 05:43 PM |
| 4 | For 3 years I had hope in changing my LV husband. I gave him his last chance 2 months ago and I’m finally leaving.And also, although it's very popular to dog on American/Western sexism, the West is actually way ahead of basically the rest of the planet (with some exceptions maybe in Europe). Third world countries in particular are heavily patriarchal. I'm dating a Latino guy and it's something I'm always on the lookout for, especially since his dad clearly adheres to those values and doesn't seem particularly high-value from what I have observed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 05:25 PM |
| 11 | No 50/50 birthdayDemanding photos is fair to some degree because there is an increasing number of men in dresses trying to hijack lesbianism and force themselves onto women who don't want them. But as a bisexual I can relate to that last part lmao, and can add the ladies who are pickmes trying to find a unicorn to get their boyfriend to shut up about threesomes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 05:09 PM |
| 38 | Scrote on r/divorce is surprised his wife left him when she caught him watching porn. He refers to women as "random sluts" and thinks his wife should be fine with his porn use since she's hot.The misogyny against military wives disgusts me. I don't care if 99% of them ARE like that. If you feel comfortable saying "not all men," you need to cut that shit out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 05:03 PM |
| 6 | What happened to dating (and men) in the past years?I'm somewhat conservative and I used to follow some pundits who are really into #2. They actually think that since women are finally reaching their full potential that "men have no purpose." I'm so embarrassed for them. And then they wonder why women vote Democrat...it's because the loudest conservative voices are saying crap like that. The logical sex. Sure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Someone find this woman and bring her here. What a SCROTE.If you're attracted to women you're not straight lol... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 02:47 PM |
| 8 | Someone find this woman and bring her here. What a SCROTE.Yes, this reeks of manosphere. I would bet big money that he is a regular in one of those circles. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 02:45 PM |
| 18 | Calls his wife a “total bitch” 2 months postpartum and almost no one is calling out the disrespect"Paycheck dispenser?" Does he not realize being a "baby dispenser" is much more effort and investment? Shut up and pay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 02:41 PM |
| 2 | Anna's New Video- You Need To Watch This.Yes! Most men wouldn't recognize the worth of a handbag because most of them are clueless about such things. But I try to look super high-maintenance at all times to steer scrotes away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 02:39 PM |
| 9 | I called myself hot and a man said I was being conceitedand yet they never are | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 07:20 PM |
| 33 | I called myself hot and a man said I was being conceitedThat's what's so gross about that One Direction song. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 07:20 PM |
| 37 | I called myself hot and a man said I was being conceitedLiterally this. By being a woman, as far as any men alive are concerned, I am a 10. I could be the ugliest woman alive and compared to men I would still be a 10. Also seeing some of them rage at confidence, especially body confidence, is so satisfying. So that's a bonus. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 07:19 PM |
| 58 | I called myself hot and a man said I was being conceitedThis plays into the whole LVM trope of "my gf posts on social media too much and social media is shallow." He just doesn't want her to realize her worth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 07:18 PM |
| 25 | I called myself hot and a man said I was being conceitedI will always rate myself highly to men. The LVM and especially manosphere scrotes get so mad. It really warms my heart. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 07:17 PM |
| 2 | Serial killer Ted Bundy admitted porn prompted him to dehumanise women, but MUH PEEN ain’t ready for that conversation 😒I'm coming out of it but it takes actual work. Thanks for the well wishes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 07:16 PM |
| 23 | Exactly this.Exactly. And women need to stop "simping" for old wrinkly guys. The whole "silver fox" thing plays into this. I express visible disgust anytime I see an older man with a younger woman. It needs to be un-normalized. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 07:15 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered November 1 2020It's funny because most psychologists agree that anger is just a cover for actual grown-up emotions like sadness, fear, embarrassment, and vulnerability. Anger is just how men, who have not bothered to learn how to handle their own emotions, dump them onto others. They're having the same emotions we do, but with less control over them. Also, when we PMS, our hormones are the most similar to males. So uh...there's some biology for the "rational" sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered November 1 2020You can't "rebut" the first one because you are a woman and they have already convinced themselves that you are illogical. So therefore they don't have to listen to anything you say. QED! Personally, I've been on the planet with eyeballs and ears long enough to know it's BS. Men are always the gold medalists for mental gymnastics. Not women. I know the truth, and it doesn't bother me that men talk shit to avoid having to face their own shortcomings. That's just human nature. The second one is so… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 07:11 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered November 1 2020I have had plenty of "friends" like this. It destroyed my mental health and confidence. I've found it's better to be alone for now because I can't trust myself to choose well. I'd recommend you drop this friend and take some time to recalibrate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 07:02 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered November 1 2020Jordan Peterson is such a trash heap. I lean conservative but I can't stand him and so many conservative pundits are just trash. The woman-hating is really spiking too. They all need to work on themselves. I've listened to Peterson and it's clear he has an actual personal problem with women and needs to address it instead of teaching young men to also be dysfunctional. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 07:01 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered November 1 2020in tech A lot of incel types are in tech. He might have a misogynistic chip on his shoulder. All this stuff about being annoyed, "this time"—it sounds like manosphere stuff where his biggest concern might be that you're a "gold digger." It's not for sure. It's all just speculation. I'm just putting it out there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 06:59 PM |
| -2 | Unattractive man catfishes women because he feels entitled to have a more attractive woman.I did read it. I mean yeah he adopted, which he should have, but again, that's bar on the ground behavior. Women do that shit all the time and are expected to. Because he has a penis he gets applause? Not from me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 06:50 PM |
| 3 | Don't fake your orgasms!Wouldn't they know if you didn't? Muscles contract and reactions happen usually. Sounds like a way for them to offload the burden of making sure you have fun onto you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 06:47 PM |
| 4 | Don't fake your orgasms!Yeah just because men act like wild animals doesn't mean we should. Stay on your thrones ladies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 06:47 PM |
| 9 | Anna's New Video- You Need To Watch This.The minute someone starts in about HOW COULD YOU POSSIBLY NEED A $200 HANDBAG or I HAVE ETHICAL CONCERNS ABOUT THE DIAMOND INDUSTRY (so I'm going to buy you a ring pop instead, is the quiet part), I'm out. I don't particularly want an expensive ring (I lose/break things constantly) and same goes for the handbags, but it's just a way for men to reassure themselves that they don't have to do ANYTHING anymore except take out their dicks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 06:45 PM |
| 2 | Serial killer Ted Bundy admitted porn prompted him to dehumanise women, but MUH PEEN ain’t ready for that conversation 😒Yeah so many of them have some kind of hatred for their mothers and then take it out on other women. I really hope men get over themselves and start going to therapy instead of acting like violent toddlers. I'm so embarrassed for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 06:40 PM |
| 2 | Serial killer Ted Bundy admitted porn prompted him to dehumanise women, but MUH PEEN ain’t ready for that conversation 😒I can't believe I had to scroll this far down to get to the part about Dobson. I'm sure porn did contribute to Bundy's depravity, but Dobson literally scarred me somewhat for life so let's just can this entire thing and move on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 06:40 PM |
| 2 | Serial killer Ted Bundy admitted porn prompted him to dehumanise women, but MUH PEEN ain’t ready for that conversation 😒I mean I'm bi and I feel this way genuinely in most cases lol. Then again I also started watching porn in childhood and saw women being sexualized WAY before that and yeah...women were basically objects to me despite me being one. The cognitive dissonance was astounding. I'm disgusted with my past self. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 06:39 PM |
| 3 | Serial killer Ted Bundy admitted porn prompted him to dehumanise women, but MUH PEEN ain’t ready for that conversation 😒Lots of men are still advocating for "chivalry." To them, that means going back to the 50's when they don't have to see women as human. Chivalry is a red flag to me. Everything else you said was spot-on in my eyes though, just wanted to share my opinion about that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 06:36 PM |
| 7 | Serial killer Ted Bundy admitted porn prompted him to dehumanise women, but MUH PEEN ain’t ready for that conversation 😒what the hell | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 06:36 PM |
| 3 | ‘Please forgive me it was a one-time thing’I'm so done with this ridiculous stereotype that I started just giving my preference when my BF asks. What do I want to watch? This movie. Where do I want to eat? This restaurant. What do I want to do tonight? This activity. The result is that I usually get everything I want! I also ask him too, and one day I even told him: if he asks me, I'm going to give him my opinion. But that doesn't mean we HAVE to do it. It just means I'm not playing games about it anymore. If he asks for input, he's gett… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 06:07 PM |
| 9 | Joining FDS, I found it a bit weird that men couldn't comment. Joining r/TwoXChromosomes, I realised how fucking good the rule isThis is so accurate it physically pains me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 06:01 PM |
| 4 | Joining FDS, I found it a bit weird that men couldn't comment. Joining r/TwoXChromosomes, I realised how fucking good the rule isOh and constantly having male superiors leering at them and threatening/propositioning them sexually. I majored in CS and had an amazing male mentor. He never did ANYTHING gross even though I kept expecting him to. 100% professional, HVM, amazing dude. Really I owe a lot of where I am today to him. My mom kept telling me he must have a crush on me and must like me. Gross mom. Guess she was wrong! But deep down I always wondered, because since when have men seen women as people? He turned out to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 06:01 PM |
| 10 | Joining FDS, I found it a bit weird that men couldn't comment. Joining r/TwoXChromosomes, I realised how fucking good the rule isBuh-buh-but men are turning to drugs and video games and porn because now that women work they have NO PURPOSE!!!!1 —Jordan Peterson, probably | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 05:59 PM |
| 6 | Joining FDS, I found it a bit weird that men couldn't comment. Joining r/TwoXChromosomes, I realised how fucking good the rule isI'm honestly surprised they haven't been forced to change the name | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 05:58 PM |
| 9 | Joining FDS, I found it a bit weird that men couldn't comment. Joining r/TwoXChromosomes, I realised how fucking good the rule isYES and let's be honest no one there is an "actual lesbian" but that's all I'll say | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 05:57 PM |
| 8 | Joining FDS, I found it a bit weird that men couldn't comment. Joining r/TwoXChromosomes, I realised how fucking good the rule isI've checked the rules and it seems ambiguous how hot our takes are allowed to be here, especially given the fate of other genuinely feminist subs. However, let's just say that even the "women" posting on TrollX often...aren't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 05:55 PM |
| 5 | Unattractive man catfishes women because he feels entitled to have a more attractive woman.He doesn't respect any women. He's just lying to himself and the world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Unattractive man catfishes women because he feels entitled to have a more attractive woman.[x] | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Unattractive man catfishes women because he feels entitled to have a more attractive woman.nO NO NO NOT PLASTIC SURGERY!!! THAT WOULD BE FAKE AND PEEPEE WOULD NOT BE HARD ): (although I would never be able to tell because I have no clue about any of these things). —LVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Unattractive man catfishes women because he feels entitled to have a more attractive woman.Uh I don't think littering kids all around the universe is HV behavior. Especially since he clearly had kids with someone he wasn't married to. Yuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 05:51 PM |
| 8 | Unattractive man catfishes women because he feels entitled to have a more attractive woman.If someone asks me to rate myself, I'm a fucking 10 and that's the end of the conversation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 05:51 PM |
| 10 | Unattractive man catfishes women because he feels entitled to have a more attractive woman.I guarantee his attitude makes him uglier than his physical appearance does Of course it does. Men project that women care about physical attractiveness. Most barely notice. We've been socialized to empathize with men and see them as human beings, so physical appearance doesn't matter as much to us. All they see are bodies when they look at women, so they cry that women are the same way. Incels always have repulsive personalities. I've seen plenty of short, meh-looking dudes take care of themsel… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 05:50 PM |
| 15 | The concept of female privilege??Yeah they project so hard. Thinking sex with men is this wonderful thing. It's not. It's usually bad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 05:18 PM |
| 9 | The concept of female privilege??Because in their minds getting paid to send scraggly dick pics to attractive women would be an easy and fun way to make money...except of course the more appropriate analogy would be for them to send degrading, difficult-to-take pictures to gay men. Even then it wouldn't be the same because they don't face the same potential professional consequences down the line for having that in their history. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 05:18 PM |
| 25 | The concept of female privilege??Even if you did it's literally because you are BAIT to get paying men in. It's SO dehumanizing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 05:16 PM |
| 16 | The concept of female privilege??I stopped going there once I realized it was just a place for redpillers to live their fantasy of talking down to women. I thought it was an actual debate sub, but they basically ban any pro-woman arguments. Gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 05:15 PM |
| 2 | A few months ago, I would upvote and find this extremely cute...My boyfriend and I work on our cars together using YouTube and some knowledge he had prior. I hate going to shops or the thought of calling a tow truck/AAA because it's full of predatory men. I have had really good experiences actually going to mechanics and tire shops as a young woman alone, but that is never guaranteed and where I live, as classist as it is, blue-collar men are just not usually high-value. Guys at my apartment gather around their souped-up cars and leer at me as I walk by. I w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 05:10 PM |
| 8 | I’m SO tired of this food trope being used by men to excuse their shitty and shady behaviorMy boyfriend had to beg me to meet his family lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 05:07 PM |
| 26 | Exactly this.Yeah. Men are already less attractive to begin with. Hairy. Hard edges. Poor personal maintenance. Then they age and it really starts to show. The "fine wine" myth is just that—a blatant lie from the manosphere and pickmeishas. Women age much better than men do on average. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 04:44 PM |
| 14 | Learning self defense and or carrying pepper spray is so important.Exactly. Exactly! The thing a lot of men don't realize—especially a lot of the ones that like to wax about the "biological differences between men and women" as though getting born with a Y chromosome and all that comes with it makes them superior—is that those differences are REALLY IMPORTANT even between men. Yes, a man and woman of similar size will still not quite be evenly matched because of his testosterone, muscle mass, heart size and whatnot, but there is a reason weight classes are so i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 08:11 PM |
| 7 | Learning self defense and or carrying pepper spray is so important.Yes exactly. I feel as though I've given off this impression that I'm Caitlin Bennett or something. NO. I don't own a gun yet (plan to buy one in the coming months) and they make me really nervous even when practicing in a safe environment like a gun range. But you know who benefits from that nervousness? Predatory men. Time to pull up my big-girl pants and get over it because I want to be the one deciding whether I live or die, not some scrote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 07:30 PM |
| 7 | Ugh, a few articles that empower me to stay single somedaysI agree so much. I didn't even realize that I replied to you, but I'm glad we're having a positive interaction lol. Thanks for the kind words! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Why I no longer date men with who suffer from mental illness.Men aren't socialized to take care of their mental health issues. Obviously if he's in therapy actively working to improve himself, then fine. But most men usually treat therapy the way vampires treat sunlight. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 07:19 PM |
| 22 | Ugh, a few articles that empower me to stay single somedaysMy mother says she is my greatest admirer now. I live alone and do me. I'm in an LTR but it's icing on the cake of my already awesome life. What I will never tell her is I only got here by systematically rejecting the things she taught me every day of my childhood and adolescence. She constantly encouraged me to deprioritize and degrade myself while of course remaining sexually "pure" because that's all that matters. Anytime a boy treated me like garbage it was my fault and I deserved it. She ne… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 06:51 PM |
| 2 | Learning self defense and or carrying pepper spray is so important.I would consider making sure you research this thoroughly before paying for a class. I have read from women who practice BJJ that anyone who is much bigger than you—which in most cases, men will be—will be able to pick you up and put you down and it doesn't matter how good your technique is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 06:45 PM |
| 9 | Learning self defense and or carrying pepper spray is so important.yes!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 06:43 PM |
| 31 | Learning self defense and or carrying pepper spray is so important.There's already someone on this sub who is mad at me for repeating this, but pepper spray can be wrestled away from you or can be otherwise ineffective. Self-defense does not matter if it is against someone who has been hopped up on testosterone his whole life and has bone density/height/weight advantage. Someone else on this sub described self-defense classes for women as "theater" and that's exactly what it is. It's something that does not protect you, even if you get really good, and gives yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 06:42 PM |
| -1 | If he doesn't make you cum he doesn't care about you or respect you!ok | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 06:35 PM |
| -2 | If he doesn't make you cum he doesn't care about you or respect you!I will defend him because the facts are that he is more pro-woman than the average man on any side of the political aisle and is very supportive of his wife, and I would like to have a marriage one day where my husband supports my career like that. If you take issue with that, then you're letting your politics get in the way of reading what I'm actually saying. You aren't a mod and you're not an expert on distinguishing between LVM and HVM. If you don't want to see my comments, just scroll on pa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 05:26 PM |
| 1 | If he doesn't make you cum he doesn't care about you or respect you!My agenda is to have men face consequences for their bad behavior. If you don't like it, you don't have to agree, but women of all political beliefs are welcome here and I am certainly not the first or only woman here to advocate strongly for women to purchase and become proficient with firearms. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 04:56 PM |
| 4 | If he doesn't make you cum he doesn't care about you or respect you!Yes, sexual labor is real. If I have to explain to you what to do, it's not sexy. Read a damn book. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 02:04 PM |
| 2 | If he doesn't make you cum he doesn't care about you or respect you!Men like that should be taken out back and shot like the disgusting animals they are | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 02:00 PM |
| 10 | They will ALWAYS find a way to blame women for their misogyny.Most men tell each other to lie by 2 inches. They tell each other we can't tell and that it's the only way to get a date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 01:46 PM |
| 10 | They will ALWAYS find a way to blame women for their misogyny.The only correct response to "men don't like that" is "I don't like men." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 01:45 PM |
| 14 | They will ALWAYS find a way to blame women for their misogyny.Men will always talk like they know women better than women do. It's an ego boost. Not worth your time sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 01:45 PM |
| 14 | They will ALWAYS find a way to blame women for their misogyny.Yeah all these ladies having their preference is fine, but you know the lurkers are going to take their comments back to their manosphere caves and start spreading more lies about how ALL women want tall men, it's BIOLOGY! Um no not all of us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 01:43 PM |
| 4 | It's men who suck the fun out of everythingI don't think there's a man on earth that's not like this, regardless of value. Even the highest-value man is still a man. edit: Of course a high-value man would also drop anything for other things, like spending quality time with you doing non-sexual stuff or helping you out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 12:19 AM |
| 3 | Reason no. 6394573 not to date LVM’s. Your hair will FALL OUT!It's almost like male bullshit is the reason some women age poorly rather than some mythical "wall." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 11:36 PM |
| 18 | “I want you,” does not mean “I want you.”HOT TAKE BELOW: Having sex for the sake of having sex is base, animalistic, depraved behavior. It is not normal. It should not be normalized. It is debased and should be shamed by our entire culture. "But biology—" I don't give a shit about biology. Just because that's the way you feel doesn't make it okay. As many "logical" men would like to remind us, facts do not care about your feelings. I don't care what your body is telling you to do. We are separated from animals by exercising control ove… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 11:20 PM |
| 28 | It's men who suck the fun out of everythingMen are the real drama queens. "Women are so dramatic" is classic projection. I've NEVER had drama caused by women in my life. I have had plenty of drama caused by men too many times to count. At least once I witnessed guys having drama among themselves and then congratulating each other that at least they weren't girls because then it would have never ended. Uh, none of the girls in our group had ever created drama. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 11:14 PM |
| 40 | It's men who suck the fun out of everything"Fun" is always code for "sex" to LVM. Always. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 11:13 PM |
| 30 | It's men who suck the fun out of everythingThe title is so true. Things I'd like to do today: Study, work, clean, play with my cat, try a new restaurant or recipe, engage in as many of my creative hobbies as possible, go out shopping, check in on my budget, take a walk, self-care. Things men want to do today: Sex. Which one sounds more fun to you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 11:12 PM |
| 1 | I’m at a loss of words. This woman’s husband doesn’t give a shit about her or women in general and she’s asking what to do? How can people like this exist?No, I don't see that, which is why I evangelize it everywhere. Several of my friends have started going to the range since the pandemic started, but it's not enough. I agree that the institutions need to change. Lots need to change. But it won't, at least not anytime soon. And all throughout history, no matter what society was like, there were men who attacked and killed women, usually for sexual reasons but sometimes for ego-related ones. My life is more valuable than that, and it's time men fa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 05:39 PM |
| 31 | Boy becomes a douche after woman refuses to share her ig for privacy reasons. The level of entitlement this scrote has is unmatched.Most of them aren't. That's why so many of them get caught. They're just depraved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 05:34 PM |
| 17 | Boy becomes a douche after woman refuses to share her ig for privacy reasons. The level of entitlement this scrote has is unmatched.Man, good thing she didn't give him her Instagram. Clearly dangerous and unhinged. My boyfriend mentioned the other day that it kinda sucks feeling like he can't help women stuck by the side of the road or walk near them at night or even during the day because they'd probably be worried about his intentions. Then he IMMEDIATELY followed that up with his understanding why this is, that it's perfectly logical and shouldn't change, and that it would be WAY worse to have to be the woman worrying abo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 05:33 PM |
| 10 | The truth about the ‘friend zone’I thought he looked like Clay Aiken | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 05:31 PM |
| 24 | The truth about the ‘friend zone’YES YES YES YES I'm done with male friends. I have a boyfriend and that is PLENTY. Girls or GTFO. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 05:30 PM |
| 8 | Men with an impossibly long list of "preferences" don't actually require a potential girlfriend to meet every single one, they just want the opportunity to devalue any woman who might date them, and an excuse to always keep one foot out the door looking for someone betterAgree 100% but they will never be choosers so it's a non-issue either way. Even if they weren't inherently dangerous to some degree, they are still WAY more desperate for sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 05:24 PM |
| 1 | I’m at a loss of words. This woman’s husband doesn’t give a shit about her or women in general and she’s asking what to do? How can people like this exist?I really disagree with this. Yes, men do have guns, but women SHOULD be exercising our 2nd amendment rights. I can't MAKE women do it, but you can lurk in this sub and see plenty of women agreeing with me. Guns are "the great equalizer" and we all need to become proficient with them. And I really disagree with that last part, too. Of course we'd be lynched in the court of public opinion, but that's called being a woman in 2020. In actual courts of law, women generally receive lighter sentences t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 05:23 PM |
| 11 | My LVM brother and his live-in girlfriend of 5 years criticized me today for my status as a single woman.Imagine needing other people to be happy. It seems so codependent and almost diseased to me. I feel freest when I'm not super attached to anyone. Maybe there's something wrong with me though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 02:56 PM |
| 8 | Romcoms may have tried to twist our perception of healthy relationships but this lady schools all nice guys into thinking otherwise.Oh man this is the most real thing I've seen all week | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 02:53 PM |
| 10 | Romcoms may have tried to twist our perception of healthy relationships but this lady schools all nice guys into thinking otherwise.Well let's be honest, the types of men that decide to hog a piano in a public park aren't usually very good at it. We had a "public pianos" program at my university. I loved it because I got to play occasionally, usually when no one was around if I could make it that way. But often there would be some guy who gave off really bad incel vibes just playing away for waaaay too long, and it was always basic stuff done poorly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 02:53 PM |
| 16 | Men with an impossibly long list of "preferences" don't actually require a potential girlfriend to meet every single one, they just want the opportunity to devalue any woman who might date them, and an excuse to always keep one foot out the door looking for someone betterYes! It did almost seem like a competition as to who could have the most contempt for these gorgeous celebrities. It was hilarious! Meanwhile they project as hard as they can, whining that "women only want guys like Jason Mamoa!" Uh...no. He's not my type, and he's not a lot of people's types, but they are so obsessed with knowing us better than we know ourselves that there's no getting through to them. Which is fine, because they never look like Jason Mamoa, so I won't have to deal with them an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 01:46 PM |
| 11 | So sad :( the future is not brightas if his clientele wasn't 100% gay men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 01:25 PM |
| 7 | So sad :( the future is not brightAlso why do they think women have this burning desire to have sex with men? We aren't men, and sex with men is usually bad—not just bad as in no orgasm (that's assumed), but bad as in painful or will lead to medical complications. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 01:25 PM |
| 15 | But if I say "respect me and don't watch porn" my standards are too high 🙄🙄Even most mainstream pickmeisha types would run from a guy like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 01:10 PM |
| 58 | Men with an impossibly long list of "preferences" don't actually require a potential girlfriend to meet every single one, they just want the opportunity to devalue any woman who might date them, and an excuse to always keep one foot out the door looking for someone betterThey're roleplaying as the selective sex. I've commented this before in other threads, but it's so relevant here I'll share it again. If you have spent even a limited amount of time in any manosphere subs or Internet corners, you know that men are aware that they are not the choosers. They are constantly crying about it and fantasizing about a world where rape is legal and women have no financial independence so they are forced to settle for scrotes. They literally say this and advocate for it. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 01:05 PM |
| 5 | RiChArD’s small scrote brain can’t comprehend women working for a body that doesn’t please himRefusing to take care of your mental and physical health is a dealbreaker for me. You don't need to be an enlightened guru or a CrossFit trainer, but if you're treating me like a therapist and/or you're obese, we have a problem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 12:56 PM |
| -1 | I’m at a loss of words. This woman’s husband doesn’t give a shit about her or women in general and she’s asking what to do? How can people like this exist?Yeah but it actually is THE issue. 2A is THE most important feminist right. This is definitely a case where you are putting your politics above what is actually best for us as women. If we can't have guns, it's open sesame for men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 12:54 PM |
| 1 | RiChArD’s small scrote brain can’t comprehend women working for a body that doesn’t please himThe criticism of MGTOW I've always heard is that all they post about is women. WGTOW seems to post about men a lot. So I was just saying in that regard, they seem similar. No, women of WGTOW/FDS do not stalk/pester men. Men come here and PM us. I haven't been here that long and it's already happened to me once or twice. Scrotes mad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 12:52 PM |
| -2 | I’m at a loss of words. This woman’s husband doesn’t give a shit about her or women in general and she’s asking what to do? How can people like this exist?I'm talking about the right to bear arms. Free speech is of course very important, but 2A is really important specifically to women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 11:32 PM |
| 1 | I’m at a loss of words. This woman’s husband doesn’t give a shit about her or women in general and she’s asking what to do? How can people like this exist?I'm talking about the right to bear arms. Free speech is of course very important, but 2A is really important specifically to women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 11:32 PM |
| 6 | I hope she divorces himMy bf is HV, but your comment made me laugh because his sister gave him a hand-me-down desk and it's HUGE. I have never seen a desk that big. Like, it's legitimately too big to even be used comfortably. I don't know who designed it. It's so absurd and it makes me laugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 09:44 PM |
| 10 | I hope she divorces himYeah, I told my BF that when we move in together we need at least 3 bedrooms and 2 bathrooms. I will always need my own space and my own bathroom. His standards of cleanliness are much higher than mine (thank God), and I don't want to have to clean the toilet every time I use the bathroom during my period. Plus I'm high-maintenance and introverted. I don't think the relationship would survive us trying to cram into a tiny space together. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 09:43 PM |
| 6 | I hope she divorces himMy boyfriend keeps talking about how when we buy our house, he's going to make sure I have an attic room to do my crafts and be introverted in. We've also discussed a man-cave for him to play video games, have friends over, and workout in, but he's more interested in making sure I have that attic room. Don't settle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 09:41 PM |
| 63 | Manchild who can’t handle 5 hours A WEEK alone with his child thinks discussing who does what is “silly” (as he asserts it’s “unreasonable” that his wife expects him to care for his own child while she’s in class). There are no words (besides don’t have children with LVM).I know right? My vagina snapped shut like a Venus flytrap when I read this post | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 09:36 PM |
| 12 | RiChArD’s small scrote brain can’t comprehend women working for a body that doesn’t please himTelling on themselves lmao. No woman wants you ogling her. It's disgusting Richard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 09:24 PM |
| 9 | Most Stay-at-moms do not get the luxury of building a career, or even the luxury of a personal life This is how women end up in a financial trap with no support.Yes. I was raised in a conservative bubble and then released into a surrounded bright blue liberal bubble. The one thing they both have in common? Disdain for homemakers (and other traditionally feminine things). We need to stop agreeing to this arrangement. Let men take care of their own shit and be adults. They're perfectly capable of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 09:21 PM |
| 5 | Most Stay-at-moms do not get the luxury of building a career, or even the luxury of a personal life This is how women end up in a financial trap with no support.Great, now your brother will be a LVM who expects his wife to be his mommy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 09:19 PM |
| 5 | Most Stay-at-moms do not get the luxury of building a career, or even the luxury of a personal life This is how women end up in a financial trap with no support.Yes. Every SAHM should be making a salary. Maybe not as much as she would make performing those duties as an actual career, considering room and board is covered, but plenty for her to spend on herself and to save. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 09:18 PM |
| 5 | Most Stay-at-moms do not get the luxury of building a career, or even the luxury of a personal life This is how women end up in a financial trap with no support.After seeing what happened to my mother, I will NEVER do it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 09:17 PM |
| 28 | RiChArD’s small scrote brain can’t comprehend women working for a body that doesn’t please himplus literally anything vaguely woman-shaped could get his peepee up because men literally fuck couches so...either way not a concern | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 07:23 PM |
| 64 | RiChArD’s small scrote brain can’t comprehend women working for a body that doesn’t please himIt's amazing they think it matters at all. Most men, even guys like this, admit that women are the selective sex and the choosers. That's why they're constantly seething and fantasizing about a world with legal rape and forced marriages. Awhile ago, I was hanging out with some male friends (no longer; they were all low- or no-value) and they wanted to play a "rate celebrities" game. I watched these absolute loner loser guys who for the most part were NOT attractive in the LEAST rate gorgeous cel… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 07:22 PM |
| 16 | RiChArD’s small scrote brain can’t comprehend women working for a body that doesn’t please himMany of them do | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 07:19 PM |
| 109 | RiChArD’s small scrote brain can’t comprehend women working for a body that doesn’t please himI don't know what men are getting from that statistic. Do they think it's because men are more loyal? No, men are just fine to cheat and stay married for as long as they can. Men are fine to just phone in the bare minimum. Women aren't generally like that. We usually are doers and movers and shakers and if something isn't working, and we have exhausted our other options, we enact the change we want to see. When a man... refuses to go to individual therapy refuses to go to couple's therapy refuse… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 07:18 PM |
| 34 | RiChArD’s small scrote brain can’t comprehend women working for a body that doesn’t please himOh god I am so worried about his daughter. My dad is only mildly sexist and it messed with my head to a large extent. Can you imagine what she's going through? Is there a way we can reach out to her? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 07:14 PM |
| 3 | Look at this incel bullshit, they've put "sex" under basic physiological needs. Normalizing rape logic as "education" 🙄🤮Well any sex for a man is good so that won't really be a good argument to use against them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 06:56 PM |
| 3 | When you redownload OkCupid and see that your LVM ex has done a profile makeover and writes about how he’s so great and 6” and wants to take you out to eat but you see beyond the facade. Pray for the ladies in my city y’all 🙏There was something like this, but then all the men freaked out because girls could just say whatever they wanted and what if it was a LIE???? and then he doesn't get SEX anymore? So it got taken down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 01:40 PM |
| 33 | The next step to taking away our rights and freedoms as women has been taken. That's why we need FDS more than ever.They also have some kind of weird hangup with going to a damn doctor. Natural selection at its finest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 01:32 PM |
| 11 | The next step to taking away our rights and freedoms as women has been taken. That's why we need FDS more than ever.This is SO true. And those are the same guys who claim to be "logical." Lol what? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 01:31 PM |
| 12 | The next step to taking away our rights and freedoms as women has been taken. That's why we need FDS more than ever.THANK YOU. This comes up in every thread about abortion. The men start in with "but I might have to pay money and/or occasionally be a Disney dad!!!1 not fair ):" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 01:30 PM |
| 113 | Look at this incel bullshit, they've put "sex" under basic physiological needs. Normalizing rape logic as "education" 🙄🤮SEX. IS. NOT. A. NEED. I will never let this slide. I will always say it, no matter who is making the claim, no matter where I am. It is NOT a need. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 02:15 AM |
| 1 | FDS Moodboard for my fellow queens ❤This is my favorite mood board so far | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 02:13 AM |
| 9 | She did not hesitate to put his ass down lolIt's AMAZING. Omg. I always found those nasty long-ass pubic-looking hair patches on guys to be a travesty growing up at the pool, but once that's out of the way, you can see all the lines where his bicep and tricep connect to his torso and it arouses me. I could literally stroke a smooth man-armpit for hours. Personally I never understood why this wasn't the standard for men. Do they actually not have empathy? Do they think that for some reason we like all that hair but they don't? Do they ever… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 02:07 AM |
| 78 | NO, NO AND NO. Women NEVER liked serving men.blog post: name of man quote: attributed to man It always blows my mind how some men pretend they have women "all figured out" and that they understand us better than we understand ourselves. It used to actually bother me, but then I realized it doesn't affect me because I cut all people out of my life who treat me this way, men and women alike. Now it just gives me secondhand embarrassment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 05:27 PM |
| 3 | oh honey noOh trust me, I've seen it. I got super confused in the middle of the book because there was so much backstory and about 50 plots going on at once involving 700 different characters with weird French names. That video helped me keep track of it all in my head. There's a whole 3-page story about this cardinal that has a ring with a lion on it, and when the cardinal is wearing the ring and he shakes someone's hand, the lion bites them with poison and the person dies a day later. That's a small part… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 05:24 PM |
| 7 | oh honey noWait I think I remember this from the Count of Monte Cristo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 05:09 PM |
| 5 | The deck has been stacked against us since the dawn of time.Where I am, it's almost more like women are afraid to be FEMININE. Our culture despises traditionally feminine pursuits and worships traditionally masculine pursuits. Most women I know try to avoid being traditionally feminine, preferring instead to be "not like the other girls." To some extent, I get it. I chose to major in computer science because that's the kind of major that men do that allows them to be financially independent. Playing the game of life like a man helps because so far the wo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 04:56 PM |
| 195 | She did not hesitate to put his ass down lolIf he wants natural, I'll give him natural. But when I tell him that "natural" involves putting exactly as much time and effort into personal hygiene as he does, suddenly he's not complaining anymore. They don't care about "natural." They just want you to look a certain way FOR THEM. They don't want you to express yourself with makeup, hair, or fashion, but they want you to get their peepees hard. Well when it comes to personal appearance, all work and no play makes Tossed Salad a dull girl. If … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 04:50 PM |
| 13 | Never going to date a cheap man ever againIt's because of the cultural lie that sex is just as great for women as it is for men. Maybe it could be, but only if men step up their game. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 04:46 PM |
| 10 | Never going to date a cheap man ever againActually I went out with a lot of SEA guys in college. One was an LTR who was super cheap despite his parents paying for everything—to him it was about degrading me and proving a point, and sadly it worked. I was humiliated and always trying to get him to pick me. He got my standards so low the bare minimum behavior—basically anything NOT bad, just neutral—got me to be all grateful and gushing. Yikes. I had a few dates with other SEA guys. Most of them actually INSISTED on paying for me despite … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 04:41 PM |
| 17 | Never going to date a cheap man ever againA decent grocery store bouquet is usually less than $15. There is no excuse to cheap out on flowers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 04:32 PM |
| 29 | Never going to date a cheap man ever againIt blows my mind when men eat twice as much as you do (and often fancier food) and then act like they're really concerned about paying the 10% of it that's mine. Bye! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 04:31 PM |
| 32 | Never going to date a cheap man ever againGuys like this will buy expensive gaming systems, build expensive PCs, call themselves "watch-heads" or "sneakerheads," and then suddenly become very concerned about the ethics of the diamond industry when it becomes time to get engaged. Run, do not walk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 04:30 PM |
| 347 | THIS!! I see women on here sometimes arguing with men and posting their “sassy” or “savage” clapbacks, he doesn’t care he just enjoys getting a rise out of you. Bad attention for men is still attention. Block them and pay them no mind.There is NOTHING that upsets men more than a woman ignoring him. NOTHING. Well, except maybe her laughing at him. So do the two-step routine: laugh, and ignore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Man admitting that women don't like sleeping with him and never orgasm from it 🙊I don't think he's perfect, but I listen to him regularly and would say the quotes you have cherry-picked are really not representative of him on a larger scale. Compared to male actors and comedians that I bet most of us enjoy on a daily basis, I think he is fairly pro-woman. It's one thing to say things that we might not always agree with, but it's another thing entirely to actually sexually harass and demean women, which he hasn't done. Again, this is an "agree to disagree" situation. I long … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 07:20 PM |
| 128 | BrilliantI think that Hollywood specifically encourages unfunny female standups and pushes them to succeed in spite of their lack of talent. The result of this is that very few people watch or like these female standups, and it creates a narrative that "women aren't funny." Then you get two camps of people—those who are "feminist" and feel that they have to support these terrible standups even though they aren't funny, and those who use it as an excuse to dog on women. This supports a "divide and conquer… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 06:42 PM |
| 68 | There are many men out there, so sadistic, so sick that if you consider leaving them they will plan revenge porn in advance. Beware of men video taping youThis definitely didn't happen. Very few men are dumb enough to pay for porn of some random girl when they can see perfect-bodied models in horrific situations for free. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 05:34 PM |
| 17 | Saw this on AITA today. Lady has issues with videogame induced rage yet defends the guy in comments. (Swipe to see)Men are REALLY conditioned not to go to therapy or have any emotional intelligence or take care of themselves or basically do anything good because it makes them "feminine" and that's the worst thing a man can be. It's so engrained into some of them. It's infuriating to deal with, but I see some guys come out of it and honestly I feel for them. Not that they have it harder than we do or that it's even a competition, but it just seems like a lot to overcome just to be able to do basic self-care t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 05:30 PM |
| 7 | Saw this on AITA today. Lady has issues with videogame induced rage yet defends the guy in comments. (Swipe to see)This is why I stopped going on that sub. It had me convinced that HVM literally don't exist and that even the ones that seem high-value will turn into monsters if you let them hang around for too long. It was really messing up my relationship with my boyfriend because I was projecting these horrid men's traits onto him when he wasn't doing anything wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 05:26 PM |
| 5 | Man admitting that women don't like sleeping with him and never orgasm from it 🙊If he really believes that, then he BETTER not be trying to have sex with ANY women and he BETTER not be watching porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 05:23 PM |
| 180 | BrilliantWomen are WAY funnier than men in real life on average in my experience. I have a whole conspiracy theory about why female standups are so remarkably unfunny compared to their male counterparts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 05:21 PM |
| 12 | Learning this saved me from trouble thousands of time.Life hack: make people disrespecting you feel worse than anything else you could feel. That was how I finally got over my no-value ex. I just kept replaying his disgusting behavior over and over in my mind until every shred of attraction I'd felt to him for god knows what reason completely evaporated. Focus on the bad until you can't see the "good" anymore. Then carry that energy into future relationships. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 05:20 PM |
| 3 | Trash Scrote Husband Gaslights Wife on PodcastGo ahead and open up that marriage. See how it goes for you dude. Your wife is gonna get wined, dined, and pleasured in bed way better than you can while your sorry ass can't get a single match on Tinder. Embarrassing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 07:29 PM |
| 8 | I would never, ever do this. I want to be happy for her but this is not it.Not CHILD SUPPORT! THE HORROR! men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 07:25 PM |
| 8 | I would never, ever do this. I want to be happy for her but this is not it.I remember when I bought myself flowers for prom because my no-value ex had to "study for a test" (he has never studied for anything in his life and his grades showed it). I just remember feeling so embarrassed and always covering for him. And the way it reflected my value that I let someone treat me so poorly...I really wish I could have a do-over. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 07:25 PM |
| 15 | I would never, ever do this. I want to be happy for her but this is not it.Forget that, she had his KID. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 07:20 PM |
| 36 | Why do LVM get so mad when they see a woman being loved properly?The hate for women's basketball is the biggest tell for me that most men are still misogynistic deep down. Even in the most "progressive" of circles it's a free pass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 12:50 PM |
| 10 | It’s the colorism, misogyny, ageism,and blatant disrespect for me. Black men are taking a full on L for this one.I have a question and I'm not black so hopefully I don't get attacked for it because I'm not trying to be racist by any means. But I've just been watching what's been going on in the US for the past several months. George Floyd robbed a pregnant woman at gunpoint. I understand that many people believe he didn't deserve to die, and I don't think he deserved to die for that, either, necessarily. But he has been canonized like a saint by mainstream media. Artwork of his huge face is being plastered… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 12:43 PM |
| 14 | It’s the colorism, misogyny, ageism,and blatant disrespect for me. Black men are taking a full on L for this one.He had all that time because he has no girlfriend and never will. These images are borne of bitterness. We don't have to worry about him because no woman will ever be affected by him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 12:37 PM |
| 10 | It’s the colorism, misogyny, ageism,and blatant disrespect for me. Black men are taking a full on L for this one.I think the moment I realized manosphere guys had totally detached from reality was when I heard about "the wall." Oh, you mean the wall you hit at like 15 during puberty? Because skin care and emotional intelligence are almost exclusively female attributes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 12:37 PM |
| 17 | It’s the colorism, misogyny, ageism,and blatant disrespect for me. Black men are taking a full on L for this one.I'm white and I came across a group of black guys being disgusting and sexist as usual on a public Instagram page. I called them out for it and they basically used my race to attack me. I feel really bad for black women having to deal with that. No race of man is a treat by any means, and I'm sure those guys were just a particular type of gross attracted by the content of that post, but I have to say it was a very different and unique type of ugliness than I'm used to seeing on a regular basis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 12:35 PM |
| 3 | It’s the colorism, misogyny, ageism,and blatant disrespect for me. Black men are taking a full on L for this one.I'm SO with you. There are SO MANY pickmes in the church who almost seem to love being degraded by men. None of them are paying the least bit of attention to Jesus. And it makes sense. The Scriptural canon gives Paul MUCH more of a voice than it gives to Jesus Himself. Paul's letters are not on the same level as Jesus's words and actions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 12:33 PM |
| 20 | It’s the colorism, misogyny, ageism,and blatant disrespect for me. Black men are taking a full on L for this one.Latinos are awesome. Just make sure you find one that isn't sexist. Their culture is a coin toss. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 12:27 PM |
| 18 | It’s the colorism, misogyny, ageism,and blatant disrespect for me. Black men are taking a full on L for this one.They do think that and will say it to your face if you make the mistake of talking to them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 12:26 PM |
| 1 | I paused dating this year because of how many creeps I encountered, this morning I found out staying home and not engaging with men doesn't keep me safe either.b but sometimes girls don't touch their penis! can't you see how oPPRESSED they are? men are the REAL victims here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 06:59 PM |
| 2 | I paused dating this year because of how many creeps I encountered, this morning I found out staying home and not engaging with men doesn't keep me safe either.Listen, you can be liberal, conservative, whatever. But if you are a woman and you are against 2a or want to restrict it, go back to the circus. Second amendment rights ARE women's rights. The logic is so simple my cat could probably understand it. If we don't have weapons, men's bodies are weapons and they WILL hurt us. They need to face consequences and no one else will take care of us besides ourselves. Self-defense classes are money-grabbing jokes made to "build confidence." I could be an ex… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 06:55 PM |
| 2 | I paused dating this year because of how many creeps I encountered, this morning I found out staying home and not engaging with men doesn't keep me safe either.I love you and I want you to train me in your ways. I am in the process of learning to shoot and saving for a gun. Ammo is INSANELY expensive where I live due to the pandemic. I'm talking $35/box of 9mm rounds. So annoying. So I'm still practicing with a .22. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 06:54 PM |
| 2 | I paused dating this year because of how many creeps I encountered, this morning I found out staying home and not engaging with men doesn't keep me safe either.They leave it open so you know they went through it. They get off in involving you in their entitlement and sexual depravity. I wear the badge of "Karen" with pride. Get that scrote fired. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 06:52 PM |
| 1 | I paused dating this year because of how many creeps I encountered, this morning I found out staying home and not engaging with men doesn't keep me safe either.You should do everything in your power to get an actual gun. I'm working on it and plan on moving to a state where I can concealed carry. I'm not going to live my life in fear over some entitled scrotes. It's time men faced some consequences for harassing, threatening, and assaulting other citizens. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 06:51 PM |
| 4 | I paused dating this year because of how many creeps I encountered, this morning I found out staying home and not engaging with men doesn't keep me safe either.This is disgusting. Get a portable door lock. They're inexpensive on Amazon and can be added to your deadbolt and other locks. Get a home security system. I live in the US in a state with very restrictive gun laws. One thing a lot of manosphere losers whine about is how the law favors women. I'm pretty sure if you shot a man who broke into your house after a pattern of him doing so and the state ignoring your pleas for help, no judge/jury would give you much consequences regardless of the situat… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 06:48 PM |
| 28 | This. I felt this was since i was 13 and got exposed to hardcore porn. People told me that i will change my mind when i grow up. But now i'm 21 and still feel this way, even worse now after my encounters with men and all the misogynyAlso objectively, it's disgusting. A penis in your mouth where FOOD goes and your TONGUE is? Oozing nasty fluids? PUKE. That is a natural response, and should only be overridden if the dick in question is attached to someone who is REALLY high-value, and also has impeccable hygiene. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 06:36 PM |
| 6 | This. I felt this was since i was 13 and got exposed to hardcore porn. People told me that i will change my mind when i grow up. But now i'm 21 and still feel this way, even worse now after my encounters with men and all the misogynyYeah, like at this point guys just expect it. Lol maybe if you're good, but probably not, dude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 06:34 PM |
| 35 | This. I felt this was since i was 13 and got exposed to hardcore porn. People told me that i will change my mind when i grow up. But now i'm 21 and still feel this way, even worse now after my encounters with men and all the misogynyI mean, yeah, I had exes and have seen/heard men talk about oral sex in an extremely degrading way and getting off purely on the physical pleasure of it. However, my boyfriend is currently more eager to eat me out than I am to have him eat me out, and insists on cuddling/holding my hand when I give him oral. Any reference to "red knees," getting on your knees while he's standing, him holding or moving my head, any talk about swallowing his emissions or ejaculating on my face or in my hair, or ot… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 06:33 PM |
| 2 | HVW Hitting Some Roadblocks, help me keep leveling up!98% of men will not cook you dinner, cuddle up with you, and bring you flowers. They will subtract from your life, endanger you, destroy your health, and badger you for sex. The 2% of men that are high value will come to you. You are already doing everything right. I think the way the numbers work out (98/2 is probably hyperbolic though), there aren't enough high value men for every woman. Even if we all leveled up and became amazing goddesses, there wouldn't be enough. So some of us are realist… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 02:22 PM |
| 2 | I'm loving social distancingI find I can get this effect with a full face of very visible makeup and a nasty RBF. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 02:19 PM |
| 12 | Apparently I wasn't actually having fun because I didn't drink.Never gonna stop reminding you ladies that "fun" = sex. If you're drunk, you're more likely to get naked and do something that would get him hard. Whether he's there or not, he wants you drunk in his fantasies. GROSS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 02:10 PM |
| 535 | Same 😞It's really demoralizing, especially when we as girls grow up to be taught that men are so wonderful and will adore you and do anything to see you smile. I took that Disney energy into my first couple relationships and went above and beyond to do little and big gestures to make him realize I loved and cared about him. They appreciated it a little, but were much more interested in what they could get out of me sexually, which wasn't in the movies. Ngl, I'm a little bitter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 02:04 PM |
| 3 | Your partner just went through a life changing, PAINFUL, major surgery and all you can think about is your dick and kinks? As someone working on getting my own breast reduction, this makes me really angry. It take a full year for your breasts to be properly healed from a BR btw. 6 weeks is nothing."shy" is a word that men have also sexualized. He's trying to find a way to get off even to her refusal. Gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 03:15 PM |
| 4 | Your partner just went through a life changing, PAINFUL, major surgery and all you can think about is your dick and kinks? As someone working on getting my own breast reduction, this makes me really angry. It take a full year for your breasts to be properly healed from a BR btw. 6 weeks is nothing.I practice premarital abstinence. For awhile I got guys off my back by telling them this and it usually got rid of them quickly. I mean, no woman is worth forgoing immediate physical pleasure for, right? But plenty of guys were like "well we can do other stuff" NO. WE. CAN'T. Fuck off. Funnily enough, I met a guy who DIDN'T push at all. And now we do "other stuff" all the time. Because he actually turns me on and I want to. I always smile thinking of the manosphere scrotes who whine "but she did… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 03:15 PM |
| 18 | This woman posted about her ex threatening/stalking her, contacting her family, breaking into her house, etc., this smooth brained waste of oxygen decides to bring up the fact that “men can’t be violated when girls go through their phone” and some stupid pick-me agreeing with him.That's because crazy gf compilations are seen as "funny" because the men that make them have no empathy and aware that there is no threat. Crazy bf compilations would involve actual violence and abuse and would not be viewed as entertaining. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 02:18 PM |
| 3 | I know this is 7 years old, but I looked up “push pull relationship” online and found this. He actually stated this behaviour makes him seem like a HVM? I bet people still use these horrible tactics! I wouldn’t label this “seductive” either, more like ABUSIVEThey think they're calculating and manipulative. It may work on very young and inexperienced girls, but to most of us who have life experience, it would look clumsy and ridiculous. Men are generally not good with people or pulling the strings in social situations, so they count on naivete and a young girls' desperation for validation and love to let them get away with this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 01:40 PM |
| 2 | I know this is 7 years old, but I looked up “push pull relationship” online and found this. He actually stated this behaviour makes him seem like a HVM? I bet people still use these horrible tactics! I wouldn’t label this “seductive” either, more like ABUSIVEA lot of women don't know their worth, especially the younger ones. And that's all the pornsick freaks want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 01:39 PM |
| 3 | I know this is 7 years old, but I looked up “push pull relationship” online and found this. He actually stated this behaviour makes him seem like a HVM? I bet people still use these horrible tactics! I wouldn’t label this “seductive” either, more like ABUSIVEIt works on very young, insecure, and inexperienced girls. Which is all these pornsick freaks want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 01:38 PM |
| 4 | I know this is 7 years old, but I looked up “push pull relationship” online and found this. He actually stated this behaviour makes him seem like a HVM? I bet people still use these horrible tactics! I wouldn’t label this “seductive” either, more like ABUSIVEHe knows. He says sometimes he feels guilty for using it. Not guilty enough to stop. What do you want to bet it doesn't work as well as he thinks and most people are laughing at him behind his back? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 01:38 PM |
| 4 | I know this is 7 years old, but I looked up “push pull relationship” online and found this. He actually stated this behaviour makes him seem like a HVM? I bet people still use these horrible tactics! I wouldn’t label this “seductive” either, more like ABUSIVEThey're not ready, they're eager. The fastest, easiest way to get sex is always the path 90% of them will take. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 01:37 PM |
| 3 | I know this is 7 years old, but I looked up “push pull relationship” online and found this. He actually stated this behaviour makes him seem like a HVM? I bet people still use these horrible tactics! I wouldn’t label this “seductive” either, more like ABUSIVEThis works on very young and insecure girls. Which is probably all this guy wants anyway. I had an ex that pulled this crap and it worked very well on me because I was under 20 and super insecure. If I saw this behavior now I would be the one laughing and leaving him with the check. And I wouldn't be back for any reason, because I don't need a man the way he needs a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 01:36 PM |
| 2 | I bought the berries & chocolate, dipped them myself, a card, flowers, & her favorite wine for < $30. My mom is supporting me during grad school & tonight I’m making her fave dinner + this surprise. I’m a broke graduate & I found the time to do this for the queen in my lifeAmazing! My mom is the queen in my life, too, and she's coming to visit in a couple weeks for her birthday. I have a ton of presents for her and we're going to do all her favorite things. I'm not paying for all of it, but I'm going to make sure she has a great time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 01:30 PM |
| 3 | Ah yes, we're responsible for your insecurities and perversion and definitely not youI mean if it made him stop raping people... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 01:18 PM |
| 2 | We need to stop normalizing the 'men are indecisive' narrativeSO well-put. Bravo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 09:41 PM |
| 4 | We need to stop normalizing the 'men are indecisive' narrativeThis is me. I'm not a "forever girlfriend." I've just seen men become despicable evil creatures after seeming wonderful for years. I'm in an LTR without marriage by choice so I can take my sweet time vetting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 09:38 PM |
| 4 | We need to stop normalizing the 'men are indecisive' narrativeSex is not a need. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 09:34 PM |
| 5 | Maturely handling accusations of "not being able to find a man."And good luck finding a man who will actually listen to you and rub your feet. I found one, but sometimes I think he must be the last one on planet earth the way other men behave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 07:45 PM |
| 39 | I was told by OTHER WOMEN to don't shame and that sex work is work while trying to stop a 16yo from becoming a sexworker and meeting up with a 30yo sugar daddy?? Are people REALLY becoming this brainwashed? Shes underage, what the hell?Uh was that actually a woman or a man pretending to be a woman on the internet? Because it was definitely the latter | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 07:39 PM |
| 7 | We need to stop normalizing the 'men are indecisive' narrativeThis comment reads as incredibly condescending. But anyway, we do some sexual stuff together. Enough for me to know that he's giving and capable of expressing intimacy sexually, and enough for me to know I'm not gay (which I wasn't 100% sure about before). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 07:24 PM |
| 5 | We need to stop normalizing the 'men are indecisive' narrativeLiterally this. Sexual compatibility is a decision. Does this mean he will get every sexual act out of me? Uh, not if it hurts or I don't like it. Will I get every sexual act out of him? Intimacy and closeness expressed physically? Probably, but I don't care too much either way. Sex being A BIG DEAL is a sickness that needs to stop being perpetuated by society. It's nice icing on the cake of a relationship. It should never be a deciding factor unless people are sexually abusing or hurting each o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 07:23 PM |
| 7 | Bi-women don’t want a threesome, you porn-sick loser.With LVM "fun" ALWAYS means sex. ALWAYS. And the "fun" part is for them, NOT you. He doesn't care if you want to be with women or if that's enjoyable for you. It is about HIS penis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 05:44 PM |
| 2 | Bi-women don’t want a threesome, you porn-sick loser."If she did it before and won't do it with you, it's a shit test and you should DEMAND it." —Manosphere Types In all seriousness, I'm a bi girl and it's a major nuisance but at this point I just laugh. They're so delusional. They're lucky enough they had a chance with one girl. Why on earth do they think they could have two at once? Look in the mirror, Patrick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 05:43 PM |
| 2 | How does a HVW deal with catcalling?Yes. If you can't stand to ignore, the second best option is to look absolutely disgusted. Like his appearance is revolting. Bonus points for an exaggerated scan of him from top to bottom before making the disgusted face. Nothing tears men down like knowing women don't want their scraggly dicks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 05:06 PM |
| 12 | How does a HVW deal with catcalling?I did this once. I learned in a self-defense class that making DIRECT eye contact in a situation where you feel a man might be threatening you is one of the easiest ways to get them to back off and look for an easier target. I try to avoid acknowledging men in general, but once a guy approached me and started talking to me and I just STARED into his eyes. He was easily over a foot taller than me (I'm short and he was tall) and he got visibly nervous and finally asked why I was looking at him lik… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 05:04 PM |
| 17 | How does a HVW deal with catcalling?Yep. I just totally ignore, full spaced-out RBF. These men want to feel power. They get off on it. If you react positively, then they get their sexual pleasure from it and they'll escalate. If you react negatively, they still get off on it and now they have an excuse (in their mind) to threaten or enact physical violence. If you ignore them, it cuts DEEP. Just read some of the posts from incels. Nothing makes them more miserable than knowing women are unaware of their existence. And enacting phy… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 05:00 PM |
| 21 | Ah yes, we're responsible for your insecurities and perversion and definitely not youI literally lived my childhood with older women bending over and quietly whispering "Your bra strap is out." Even as a kid in a Christian conservative environment I knew that was some bullshit. It is LITERALLY a piece of elastic. If someone is aroused by that it is a HIM problem. What is even the logic? Wouldn't it be worse if there was NO evidence I was wearing a bra? ThE lOgIcAl SeX. Yeah, right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 04:56 PM |
| 13 | Ah yes, we're responsible for your insecurities and perversion and definitely not youThis is what I'm saying. Like I don't want to advocate violence or break any subreddit rules, but we really need to find a way to deal much more harshly with people who think these things. If it's to the point where he feels comfortable enough sharing it online, it's way past the point of being dangerous. It wasn't that long ago that LGBT people got sent to conversion camps. Maybe we need something like that for the ACTUAL problem people like this to zap them out of their entitlement and sexism. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 04:55 PM |
| 37 | Classic example of scrote stringing his forever girlfriend along. I hope she dumps himI would also say it's important that you can also provide for both of you. People do get injured or sick or lose their jobs, and marriage is for richer and for poorer, in sickness and in health. Your lifestyle should not disappear or be threatened if he can't work for some reason, either. Of course you both SHOULD be working, but life happens. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 04:45 PM |
| 3 | We need to stop normalizing the 'men are indecisive' narrativeThis is almost verbatim what red pillers say about women riding the "cock carousel" until finally settling down with a "beta bux" after they've "hit the wall." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 04:42 PM |
| 3 | We need to stop normalizing the 'men are indecisive' narrativeThis x300. This needs to be printed on a poster and handed to everyone at birth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 04:40 PM |
| 19 | We need to stop normalizing the 'men are indecisive' narrativeLike are men ever indecisive about sex? Nope. Expect that kind of energy to be put into everything or walk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 04:39 PM |
| 25 | We need to stop normalizing the 'men are indecisive' narrativeYeah. Don't blame or hate on pickmeishas. Even older women condition younger women to act like this. I grew up in a relatively conservative environment and then got released directly into a libfem environment. It's a miracle anyone has made it to this sub at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 04:39 PM |
| 3 | We need to stop normalizing the 'men are indecisive' narrativeAgree. I feel too young for marriage and have been in an LTR for 4 years and have at least 2 more until I'm ready to be married. Most people on this sub would say that I'm a "forever girlfriend" but I literally chose this. My bf was interested in getting married sooner but I wanted more time to vet. We sure as hell aren't having sex until marriage, either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 04:38 PM |
| 1 | We need to stop normalizing the 'men are indecisive' narrativeI'd take this a step further and say we need to stop normalizing the "men are [anything]" narrative. I've never heard men or women use "men are [x]" to encourage positive behavior from men. It is ALWAYS excusing terrible behavior. Anyone with a brain can look around and find men who are good people doing good things and treating others well. Even in this post: "Men are literally hardwired to be competitive and go after what they want." This sentence is used to justify things like men not taking … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 04:36 PM |
| 6 | How Men's Rights Activists Swallowed the WorldGod I wish women were controlling a "new world order." The world would be a much better place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 08:06 PM |
| 3 | Do you find men when you reject them romantically will then try to see if they can get sex from you?Yeah, I went through this phase not long ago. The next part is realizing that even though a lot of guys are like this, probably even MOST, not ALL of them are and there are some high-value guys out there. So just ignore the bad ones and focus on the good. That's how I keep myself from being a straight-up misandrist honestly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 07:39 PM |
| 3 | Do you find men when you reject them romantically will then try to see if they can get sex from you?This. This is the answer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Chronic Pain and LVMsI'm not sure if what I have counts as chronic pain, but I do have pain once or twice a week that tires me out and makes me less "fun" to be around. I used to have people in my life that complained, accused me of being dramatic, tried to force me to "power through," tried to police my moderate use of ibuprofen while chugging dangerous amounts themselves for THEIR pain, and just overall minimized and made it all about them. Those people are either out of my life or have made significant changes to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 02:41 PM |
| 1 | What's the best part about being a woman?To me this is probably the biggest one. So many men are just obsessed with sex and are either chasing it or miserable that they aren't having it. Men seem capable of spending HOURS just on sexual stuff. In my hetero relationships, I have to remind myself to slow down and enjoy it. But spending that much time laying in bed playing with genitals comes at a cost. So many other things we could be doing...having new experiences, getting ahead in life, exploring new places, but no...same old thing. Ev… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 02:47 PM |
| 2 | Imagine admitting that the only thing stopping you from assaulting women is the law.I am usually a big believer in egalitarianism, but I think concealed carry laws should apply differently to men and women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 02:44 PM |
| 3 | Imagine admitting that the only thing stopping you from assaulting women is the law.The problem with this idealism is that knives and other weapons are much weaker than guns and open you up to the possibility of hand-to-hand combat. Guns don't. Even if someone tries to charge you with a gun, they have almost no chance. If someone takes you by surprise and is on you before you can draw your gun, then that's bad, but so is the case with every other weapon. You do not want a dude attacking you when you're holding a knife. He can wrestle it away from you and use it against you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 02:43 PM |
| 2 | Imagine admitting that the only thing stopping you from assaulting women is the law.literally yes. the irony flew over his head. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 02:42 PM |
| 1 | What's the best part about being a woman?This is what I was referring to in the OP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 02:42 PM |
| 9 | Imagine admitting that the only thing stopping you from assaulting women is the law.If I were you I'd try to leave. I'm serious. Countries with restrictive weapon laws do. not. care. about. women. They are essentially creating a world in which women are subject to men's depraved whims. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 07:49 PM |
| 16 | Hates porn because…muh penis!I love it when men talk like sex is a need. They're so weak and clueless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 07:48 PM |
| 11 | Imagine admitting that the only thing stopping you from assaulting women is the law.I wouldn't align myself with any men. Who knows what even the seemingly "good ones" would do in an anarchy situation? You'd almost certainly have to sleep with them. Gross. I think all women would end up in a massive commune somewhere. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 07:47 PM |
| 4 | Imagine admitting that the only thing stopping you from assaulting women is the law.I genuinely don't understand how straight women exist. I can't comprehend it. Have you seen women? HOW | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 07:45 PM |
| 11 | Imagine admitting that the only thing stopping you from assaulting women is the law.Yes and it's 2020. We have technology and weaponry available. Being tall with big muscles can only take you so far. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 07:44 PM |
| 21 | Imagine admitting that the only thing stopping you from assaulting women is the law.I was arguing with a guy today (he's very young and I hope he will grow out of it) and he pulled the men are "protectors and providers" line. Like protectors FROM WHOM??? Also he wants to be a history teacher so I don't think he is going to have much to provide. LOL! I'm literally going to start praying to God that him and people like him grow out of that mentality because they are the future! And a lot of "disenfranchised" guys his age are starting to think this way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 07:43 PM |
| 11 | Imagine admitting that the only thing stopping you from assaulting women is the law.If you are reading this: Buy. A. Gun. Even in my bright blue state you can buy a rifle with no license and carry it around in public and it's perfectly legal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 07:41 PM |
| 4 | My post FDS level up collage. Focusing on my family, studying, God and healthI've noticed there seem to be a lot of religious ladies here and I used to be religious but...almost all organized religions explicitly teach sexism? How do you reconcile your worth as a human being with your religion? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 07:40 PM |
| 41 | Finally, an unpopular opinion we can get behind!They know we don't want to see it. It's a power move and they get off on upsetting us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 08:15 PM |
| 19 | LV date Hall of ShameMy ex never got naked, but he refused to leave all the time. It was so fucking scary. I hate to admit he scared me but he demanded sex I didn't want to give him and frequently tried to force himself on me. Never full-on raped me, but a lot of coercive sexual activity. Later a rumor went around that he raped someone. He denied it but I saw the fear and guilt in his eyes. I know he did it, but the girl never reported him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 06:33 PM |
| 4 | This makes me sick to my stomachIf you were raised like this (I was home schooled for awhile and many of my friends had "home school prom"), I would recommend the book "Pure" by Linda Kay Klein to start deprogramming yourself. I'm still working on it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 10 2020Do it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 03:51 PM |
| 2 | How can I stop feeling like men are entitled to me/my body?No advice, just wanted to say I've been there (I'm Protestant though). I'm even dating a religious guy who said he was fine with abstinence but I caved at the first sign of escalation because I know deep down no man will stay with a woman who isn't pleasing him sexually. Sex is just too important to them and our culture teaches them to expect and demand it. I'm in the process of leaving my church which teaches women < men; it was my understanding that the Catholic church also teaches this. It's … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 01:15 PM |
| 3 | Carry easily accessible self-defense items sisWow you said this so perfectly. I looked into BJJ for awhile and basically learned it’s useless against a guy if you’re a girl. Buy. A. Gun! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 01:42 AM |
| 2 | “I pReFeR gIrLs WiThOuT mAkEUp”Damn that third paragraph is me LOL. You just psychoanalyzed why I’ve been having a goth “phase” since I left for college. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 12:20 AM |
| 5 | “I pReFeR gIrLs WiThOuT mAkEUp”They really don’t. I’ve had guys explain that makeup makes your skin bad. Um...not if you have a clue about double cleansing. Sorry you’re uninformed but please don’t try to explain this shit to me. I am an expert lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 12:19 AM |
| 3 | “I pReFeR gIrLs WiThOuT mAkEUp”As long as she looks perfect but isn’t having any fun with it... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 12:14 AM |
| 1 | “I pReFeR gIrLs WiThOuT mAkEUp”For many of them it’s a genuine preference and they’re upset we aren’t getting their dick hard. For others it means we have standards and put in effort and might expect the same from them (the horror). Either way it doesn’t matter. I love doing myself up and can be very alternative with style. Pulling out the green metallic lipstick is part of the vetting process. My boyfriend supports and encourages my makeup hobbies, and also compliments my bare face. He has the right idea. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 12:14 AM |
| 12 | Carry easily accessible self-defense items sisCountries with restrictive rules about weapons are basically telling women that their lives don’t matter and men have a right to do whatever the fuck they want to them. When you make weapons illegal, the only weapons left are your bodies, and men will ALWAYS win that fight. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 12:10 AM |
| 4 | Carry easily accessible self-defense items sisI have major RBF. Like not the kind you joke about—the kind that genuinely puts people off. I’m a cute girl and I get much less attention than girls who smile a lot and are generally of a pleasant demeanor but who (in my opinion) are less objectively attractive than I am. I can freeze a room over with my vacant, uninterested stare. I used to get pestered to smile more, but I’m grateful for it now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 12:08 AM |
| 8 | Carry easily accessible self-defense items sisIs it wise to warn someone that you have pepper spray ahead of time? Does anyone know? I feel like this would just alert him so he could physically overpower me and take it from me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 12:05 AM |
| 13 | Carry easily accessible self-defense items sisBUY. A. GUN. 2nd Amendment Rights are WOMEN’S rights. Even in my bright blue state with super restrictive gun laws, you can buy a rifle without a license and carry it around in public if you want. Castle doctrine applies to not only your dwelling but also your vehicle. I have felt and been made to feel the most unsafe in parking lots. This is important. Don’t be dumb. Learn how to use your gun. Learn gun safety. Keep your cool. But don’t be unarmed. Look up gun channels on YouTube. Almost exclus… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 12:04 AM |
| 2 | Do not trust them with anything...People who claim to be Christian while also being alt-right blow my mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 11:59 PM |
| 0 | This Brave Nurse Came Forward to Whistleblow about ICE Doctors performing involuntary hysterectomies on immigrant women.I’m pro-life and I’m outraged. This is horrifying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 11:56 PM |
| 49 | I love how I can’t speak about how women feel uncomfortable, only for men to say it’s our fault.Yeah I dress super duper high maintenance ALL the time. I’m a scrote’s worst nightmare. Sometimes I can even see the fear in my boyfriends eyes. It keeps away the losers for the most part, like a first line of defense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 11:55 PM |
| 17 | Is this a pick me mentality?I hate to say I had a phase kinda like this but it was with Indian women. My ex was Indian and near the end of our relationship he got super pro-Indian and super anti-white/anti-Western and mentioned beautiful Indian girls and commented on Indian beauty subs. Then he slept with an Indian girl while stringing me along. He’s gone and I am no longer racist. I was aware at the time that he was the problem and not the girls, but my heart was not having any logic at the time and they made me feel sick… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 11:46 PM |
| 3 | FDS Role Model: Eartha Kitt CollageHer character design (and character) are FANTASTIC. One of the best characters in any Disney movies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 11:40 PM |
| 26 | Dear men, I can't speak for every woman, but using photos of yourself holding a baby 🍼 or with children 👨👧👦 on your dating profile does *not* make us more attracted to you. It's *always* an automatic left swipe for me regardless of anything else on the profile. 📸To me they’re just obviously using a baby to get sex. Did they spend any other time caring for that baby, or did they just snap a picture and hand him or her back to the nearest woman? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 11:32 PM |
| 8 | Rules of Misogyny in case you forgot or didn't know. And I'm sure there's more to add to it.I KNOW I LOST it at that one. If I took a shot for every time someone tried to tell me a makeup technique “was invented by drag queens” I would be DEAD (and probably happier). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 11:29 PM |
| 5 | Don't ever allow a man to "we" youI know a guy who does this. It’s so transparent but the other guys in the group don’t even notice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Halfway doing FDS [is not as effective]Yeah, it’s always nice when they make it a little easier on you by being so repulsive even you see it. What’s your career? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 11:19 PM |
| 1 | If a guy vehemently hates cats, run.Yeah I was honestly really shaken for awhile after. So weird that a medical procedure could be so traumatic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 11:18 PM |
| 13 | When I read this I knew it belonged hereNo, I went through this phase and I feel it coming on again. Don’t be afraid to be alone. People who aren’t used to having boundaries ATTRACT assholes, and so in a way they are also assholes—to themselves. If you start letting people in again and they boundary-stomp, go right back to square 1. If you let your new boundaries waver, they might not last long. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 11:15 PM |
| 1 | When I read this I knew it belonged hereSoon you learn to relish it 😈👸🏽 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Halfway doing FDS [is not as effective]Yes, there’s a lot of different information out there so I don’t judge anyone for the choices they personally make. Just enjoy some hot baths and read some good books. Now is the time to relax free of dating hassles! Even leveled up, dating seems exhausting having to fend off pornsick perverts. How’s the breakup healing going? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 04:12 AM |
| 1 | Halfway doing FDS [is not as effective]I think it’s a damn good time to be an introvert because there’s no way this pandemic is going anywhere. I’m in a relationship and I am seeing my boyfriend but I can’t imagine trying to date right now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Halfway doing FDS [is not as effective]That’s one hell of a diet | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Halfway doing FDS [is not as effective]Is FDS against female-dominant BDSM if the woman is genuinely into it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Halfway doing FDS [is not as effective]Why do you think it won’t last that long? Numbers aren’t down and a vaccine is nowhere in sight. And frankly I’m not sure I trust a vaccine developed in under 4 years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 03:45 AM |
| 5 | Just letting y’all know that they finally added the emoji to respond with to unsolicited pictures of body parts 🤏🤏🤏It’s a hand making the “tiny” symbol with the index finger and thumb as if yo indicate how small something is | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 03:41 AM |
| 3 | What are some good books with HVM as the love interest?Yes. I always roll my eyes when people idolize him. He had some HV behaviors but not enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 02:17 AM |
| 3 | What are some good books with HVM as the love interest?Isn’t Mr. Knightley also pukingly old? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 02:16 AM |
| 5 | What are some good books with HVM as the love interest?Oh yeah, him insulting her and telling her she’s below him? Total HV behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 02:15 AM |
| 7 | Why do men neg women, when they don't look great themselves?They know and they want you to feel like they’re out of your league so you don’t get wise and dump their ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 01:06 AM |
| 42 | Now they can't blame our mood swings either 💅🏽🤣This is really obvious. Men are so emotional and erratic. They’ll happily share how “angry” they are because that’s a macho emotion, but they don’t realize anger is just a cover for sadness/fear/embarrassment. I was in a friend group of mostly men who loved to talk about how emotional women are. One day two of them, 19 and 30 (!!) years old, had a raging bitch fight. All kinds of horrible names were called, it was all online so one kicked the other out of the group, it was embarrassing. Then aft… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 12:52 AM |
| 6 | I was disgusted when I saw this, not gonna lie 🤢My ex pulled crap exactly like this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 10:37 PM |
| 24 | If a guy vehemently hates cats, run.Cats don’t randomly scratch people unless you suck at cat body language and force yourself on them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 10:33 PM |
| 7 | If a guy vehemently hates cats, run.YES OMG. I couldn’t believe how spot-on this sub is but this is the comment to let me know I have found my people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 10:32 PM |
| 3 | What are some phrases LVM say in the beginning that are red flags in the early phases that we may not notice?Suck WHAT? Boy bye! 👋🏻🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 10:31 PM |
| 21 | If a guy vehemently hates cats, run.I cried after a Pap smear from a lovely female doctor. I think if a man hit my cervix I’d kick him in the balls. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Any other ladies who had LV fathers who affected how they looked at men and what kind of spouse they potentially want?My dad is emotionally unavailable, mentally ill, and extremely self-absorbed. That's the short version. I'm more afraid of becoming like him than of ending up with a man like him since I've been told my whole life that I am similar to him in both looks and personality. The only fear I have is that I'll end up with a man who won't put any effort into our relationship or family. My dad only expends effort in his career. He has like two hobbies (if you count phone games) but he doesn't really try t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 03:27 PM |
| 1 | How do we feel about weddings?I don't want a wedding at all. I have no friends and my family is dysfunctional as hell, plus I'm not that close with them. It will just be another one of BF's family gatherings that I have to fit into. He wants it, though. I think I will suggest a courthouse wedding with just us two for me, and then we can have his big party with his huge family and I'll be the smiling bride (as long as he pays for it). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 03:17 PM |
| 10 | The problem with liberal feminism and "sex positivity" aka selling your self online when people say "it isnt hurting anyone" when in reality these people are hurting other women by proxy. -Thoughts?YES. Pickmes also do this. All the women who will sleep with men on the first date or third date lead them to expect that, and they won't even consider women who want to wait. Liberal feminism has just spoiled and pampered men while leaving women in the dirt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 03:09 PM |
| 12 | Before I joined FDS, I went on a coffee date with a man (38M) who told me he planned to buy a Tesla. He asked me to dinner and suggested a place, then asked if we can go to a place of my ethnic cuisine. The next day he asked if the place was $$ bc he was on a budget.. Sigh!He wasn't joking, it was a shit test | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 03:08 PM |
| 12 | Before I joined FDS, I went on a coffee date with a man (38M) who told me he planned to buy a Tesla. He asked me to dinner and suggested a place, then asked if we can go to a place of my ethnic cuisine. The next day he asked if the place was $$ bc he was on a budget.. Sigh!We don't want money. We want EFFORT. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 03:07 PM |
| 7 | Before I joined FDS, I went on a coffee date with a man (38M) who told me he planned to buy a Tesla. He asked me to dinner and suggested a place, then asked if we can go to a place of my ethnic cuisine. The next day he asked if the place was $$ bc he was on a budget.. Sigh!My NV ex was obsessed with Teslas and moving to San Francisco to work in Silicon Valley. I majored in CS and there was just a particular type of guy... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 03:06 PM |
| 2 | Dude, just say that you hate women and move on.p r o j e c t i o n | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 03:01 PM |
| 5 | Men rate women’s physical attractiveness on a 1-10 scale. Women rate using 0s and 1s (f*ck yes or f*ck no). Thoughts?Unless a guy is really ugly (and I mean really ugly), it doesn't matter to me. I will not find a super hot guy hot, or an average guy hot, or anyone hot, until I know his personality. Assigning numbers to human beings is a male thing as far as I'm concerned. The other day some of my male friends wanted to play "smash or pass" with celebrities. I couldn't help but giggle as one by one they rated all these gorgeous celebs sub-5. It's a fun time for them to LARP as ever getting to make a decision a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 02:50 PM |
| 7 | The bar is so low it’s literally in hell. Tired of LVM online.Yes, we are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 02:47 PM |
| 0 | Can he find the clit? That is the question.To be fair, we both were kinda-sorta practicing abstinence and I was super unwilling to let him even look at me down there because I have so much shame and discomfort. I was taught my entire life by both church and liberal secular culture that sex is something women either give to men, or men take from them, and it's the price of admission to get a man to treat you like a human being instead of just ignoring you. He was really excited to touch me and eat me out, but I had so much reluctance and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 02:42 PM |
| 2 | MeN aRe VeRy ViSuAL CrEaTuReSMy sex ed was a James Dobson book that taught that women like guys for their personality and guys like women for their looks. I have carried that around my whole life and don't think I'm ever going to be able to really trust a man as a result. Even if I get married, a part of me will probably still see him as just an animal deep down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 02:38 PM |
| 1 | MeN aRe VeRy ViSuAL CrEaTuReSThe countries are Latin America, India, and the Middle East, for those wondering. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 01:25 PM |
| 4 | MeN aRe VeRy ViSuAL CrEaTuReSA much younger "friend" of mine send me a PragerU video explaining that Men Are Visual Creatures. Nope. Not gonna watch that. I've already heard/read/seen it 3000 times. Just an excuse for animalistic behavior. Be better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 01:24 PM |
| 10 | What are some phrases LVM say in the beginning that are red flags in the early phases that we may not notice?Man you hit the "overly religious" nail right on the head | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 01:21 PM |
| 11 | What are some phrases LVM say in the beginning that are red flags in the early phases that we may not notice?OH MY GOD my ex used to get Uber Eats three times a day IN COLLEGE. There is no fixing that kind of asshole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 01:19 PM |
| 9 | What are some phrases LVM say in the beginning that are red flags in the early phases that we may not notice?Anything sexual. If he even brings it up I'm so turned off. I'm not even sure yet what an appropriate time frame for this would be. This obviously includes dick pics and anything overtly sexual, but in my opinion it's even WORSE when he is clearly trying to "hint" at it with all the subtlety of a three-legged grizzly bear crashing through the woods—and then says he was "kidding," pretends not to know what you're calling him out for, or otherwise backtracks when you call him out on it. Bonus (neg… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 01:18 PM |
| 25 | What are some phrases LVM say in the beginning that are red flags in the early phases that we may not notice?any touting of what makes a male a male and a female a female This. I'm fairly right-leaning (at least for a redditor), and I pretty much have to avoid any self-identified conservative guys for this reason. I have some as friends and I have to periodically take breaks because they are just so steeped in misogyny. They genuinely don't even realize how bad it is. This also goes for religious guys. Doesn't matter that most of the Bible and Jesus Himself actually don't support this, they hone in on … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 01:15 PM |
| 3 | Can he find the clit? That is the question.I was going through a personal crisis realizing my BF had really stopped taking initiative with, like, everything. I was raised religious and then got into a relationship with a bona fide redpill-following misogynist who was obsessed with sex. My entire life sex was this huge issue and obstacle. I had no clue how to enjoy it or if that was even possible. So I bought a copy of "Come As You Are," which is often recommended around reddit, and read it. It was really helpful. I asked my BF if he want… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 09:18 PM |
| 4 | Double dose of misogyny I caught on r/unpopularopinion.I find women just as funny as, if not funnier than, men. Men not being able to laugh at women's jokes is just a lack of empathy. My boyfriend laughs at my jokes as much as I laugh at his. It's a requirement for a guy to date me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 01:35 PM |
| 6 | I meant this as a joke but his response just gave me a great insight into him as a person. Gonna start telling lads I’m “crazy” more often to weed out the weak ones.yeppp | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 01:27 PM |
| 14 | I meant this as a joke but his response just gave me a great insight into him as a person. Gonna start telling lads I’m “crazy” more often to weed out the weak ones.Words like "interesting" and "fun" are always sexual when coming from LVM. Same for "boring"/"bored" but in reverse. They're obsessed with sex. RUN. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 01:26 PM |
| 5 | 🤷I went to class dressed to the nines and with a full face on almost every day because that's who I am and what I like. It's a huge stress reliever for me. I got so much crap for it. "Guys like Natural girls." "Just keep it simple and classic. Guys don't like those patterned leggings." Fuck. Off. I met my current boyfriend wearing it ALL. He introduced himself to ME. He is my #1 supporter in all things fashion and makeup. He's bought me wigs. I can't believe I used to do anything but laugh at tho… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 04:05 PM |
| 15 | I wish my friends and family would stop pressuring me to settle.My mom's go-to line is "no one is perfect." She said this about... multiple "friends" who treated me like garbage and mocked me behind my back and to my face a roommate who remained friends with my borderline abusive ex after we broke up and left me to clean up all her shit out of our shared apartment despite the fact I had cleaned out everything of mine except what they still needed AND I hadn't lived there in six months by the time she moved out a boy who intentionally strung me along as a las… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 04:02 PM |
| 3 | Never make a man go to therapy or attend relationship counseling with you. They will only do the bare minimum needed to get you to stay. It’s a waste of time and money. Work on the assumption they will never change.this this this this this I'm so tired of being told to "communicate" and that "boys don't get hints." I have already communicated. And when it comes to videogames and careers, boys are great with hints. They just don't care. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 03:51 PM |
| 5 | Does anyone else feel kind of disgusted that some men expect you to have their child?This | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 12:48 AM |
| 7 | If he wanted to, he would. (HVM prepares a 30 days of birthday surprise)I think it raises the bar. If women see that it's possible to be treated this way, they will tolerate low-value men even less. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 12:22 AM |
| 3 | Boyfriend mad she did things to her rapists she “hasn’t done with him”Go over to purplepilldebate or, if you have a strong stomach, trp. They unironically, dead seriously advocate for this type of thinking. Bone-chilling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 12:17 AM |
| 2 | I'm glad my son will be able to grow up seeing women hosts for science shows.Because women are too emotional and aren't logical!!! Reeeeee! /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 12:14 AM |
| 3 | I'm glad my son will be able to grow up seeing women hosts for science shows.Men with sisters tend to be better with women in general. The two guys that come to mind who grew up with multiple sisters were very successful with women. Weirdly, men with just one sister seem to be worse. Every guy I can think of that I know with just one sister is much more misogynistic. All anecdotal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 12:14 AM |
| 1 | The amount of upvotes & awards this has is terrifying.He showed his hand by revealing that all he is looking for is physical affection/sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 05:12 PM |
| 2 | Does withholding sex work from men work the way withholding affection works on women?I don't mind him practicing if he has a clue. I don't want to remind him where the clit is for the 100th time. He needs to look up some vagina diagrams if it's that hard for him. It becomes a chore for me rather than something enjoyable. If men focused all the energy they put into getting their balls emptied into pleasing women sexually, they'd have a LOT more sex. Heterosexual sex is rarely enjoyable for women so of course we want it less than you do. Red pill could be eliminated entirely just … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/20 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Does withholding sex work from men work the way withholding affection works on women?Okay, wanting a guy to take a modicum of care to think about ME in bed does not make me a lesbian. It makes me tired of male bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/20 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Does withholding sex work from men work the way withholding affection works on women?Before. I stated that in the post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/20 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Does withholding sex work from men work the way withholding affection works on women?Because it's my thought experiment and that's one of the constraints I'm putting on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/20 01:39 PM |
| 3 | Does withholding sex work from men work the way withholding affection works on women?Yeah. I used to think FDS was as bad as the red pill but it really isn’t. They uplift good men and laugh at bad ones. I don’t agree with their values or what they look for in a man, but they aren’t plotting how to torment men and hating the men they’re with the way red pill guys do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/20 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Does withholding sex work from men work the way withholding affection works on women?I don’t want an experienced man any more than men on this sub want an experienced woman. Inexperience is hot. Inability to Google or read a book on how to make sex for a woman isn’t hot, but it’s par for the course. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/20 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Does withholding sex work from men work the way withholding affection works on women?God I hope not. That’s my boyfriend’s worst fear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/20 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Does withholding sex work from men work the way withholding affection works on women?When worded this way, this is almost exactly what FDS teaches, except instead of just withdrawing, they go straight to breakup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Does withholding sex work from men work the way withholding affection works on women?Yes, but my understanding is that most women know what to do with a penis better than most men know what to do with a vagina, and sex usually revolves around the man's pleasure. This is anecdotal so feel free to throw it out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 06:56 PM |
| 4 | Does withholding sex work from men work the way withholding affection works on women?THIS makes sense. Thank you for the explanation! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 06:33 PM |
| 4 | Does withholding sex work from men work the way withholding affection works on women?Hmm, a consistent and rational answer. Thank you for your perspective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 06:32 PM |
| 4 | Does withholding sex work from men work the way withholding affection works on women?No offense but how often does a woman get good sex from a man? Without having to teach and baby him through it? Men are great at a lot of things; sex isn't usually one of them. Women almost unanimously report that sex with women—even a straight woman experimenting with a lesbian friend or another straight woman—is WAY better than with a straight man. The fact that women are still getting with men proves they are NOT doing it for sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Does withholding sex work from men work the way withholding affection works on women?Tell me more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 06:28 PM |
| 0 | Does withholding sex work from men work the way withholding affection works on women?Nah, this post had two purposes. (A) Test of how self-aware red pillers are. They claim women lie about or are ignorant of their own behavior and desires and claim they know more about female psychology than actual women do. Can they describe their own psychology? So far, not a single red piller has addressed this or given a good answer to the question. (B) Get a genuine opinion from a man who is presumably mostly interested in sex and not much else from women (red pill) based on his own thought… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 06:28 PM |
| 2 | Does withholding sex work from men work the way withholding affection works on women?a now valuable man Where the entire thing falls apart, for those of you wondering | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 06:25 PM |
| 2 | Does withholding sex work from men work the way withholding affection works on women?Why put in more work just to get the same lack of effort and romance with the same aging boring pawing face day in and day out when you can put in the work towards hotter richer more romantic younger? And yet red pill swear their "dread game" works. I'm asking if it works the other way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 06:23 PM |
| 5 | Does withholding sex work from men work the way withholding affection works on women?I'm sorry, I have no clue what you're talking about. What's the raw potato in this situation? Is sex a raw potato? Is sex a cake? What are you trying to say? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Does withholding sex work from men work the way withholding affection works on women?lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Is the marriage/birth rate declining because women don't want it? Or is it because men are of increasingly low quality.Men do literally all of these things LMAO | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Does withholding sex work from men work the way withholding affection works on women?just when you think red pill can't get any more retarded | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 05:24 PM |
| 6 | Does withholding sex work from men work the way withholding affection works on women?If you're mad at someone, you genuinely aren't up for being sexual or affectionate with them because you're angry. There's a difference between punishing someone by withholding sex, and genuinely not wanting sex with that person because they've upset you so much you've temporarily lost attraction to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 05:23 PM |
| 6 | Does withholding sex work from men work the way withholding affection works on women?Obviously. That's why I'm asking TRP to see what they have to say about their own psychology. They love to invent and project onto women's psychology, but they're oddly quiet in this thread for some reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 05:22 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: Do you believe that your time, presence and attention is inherently more valuable than a man's?Unfortunately, as long as men are more obsessed with sex and women's bodies and often even attention/affection than women are obsessed with men's bodies/time/attention, the demand for female attention will always be higher. Does that make it more valuable? I don't think so. I don't think sex = economics. But that's more of a spiritual/moral belief. If we reduced sex/love to supply and demand, women are MUCH more valuable. Men on this sub claim not to care about female personality/attention, but … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 05:21 PM |
| 2 | Do you want to be loved for your abilities, accomplishments, and achievements by someone you're dating?Yes. I am an intelligent, well-educated, articulate, accomplished woman with an interesting career and several interesting hobbies, all of which I'm pretty good at. I want those things to be recognized or I will start to fall out of love with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 05:12 PM |
| 2 | Men who ask questions for women on this sub will never be good with womenWell I'm obsessed with him, but he seems mainly out of love with me so maybe you're close | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 05:11 PM |
| 4 | Does withholding sex work from men work the way withholding affection works on women?So you think the average man (not a red pill subscriber) would really just move onto another sexual partner immediately instead of trying to improve things with his current girl? Interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Does withholding sex work from men work the way withholding affection works on women?I'm assuming that sex would also be withheld in a manipulative way. Nothing overly cold, just like the sexual equivalent of "dread game." Be "not in the mood" or "tired" a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 05:10 PM |
| 3 | Does withholding sex work from men work the way withholding affection works on women?I'm not talking about commitment, I'm talking about affection. This would involve verbal affection, regular initiation of texting, non-sexual cuddling, interest in her life, etc. And he isn't fucking her because she's withholding sex. Please read the post before commenting! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 05:08 PM |
| 4 | Does withholding sex work from men work the way withholding affection works on women?Bingo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 05:06 PM |
| 4 | Men who ask questions for women on this sub will never be good with womenMy boyfriend bangs me and asks questions to me all the time about what I like and what I want from him. When he takes that advice, our relationship gets better. Just like when I asked him for tips on how to give better blowjobs, my blowjob game increased drastically. If you're red pill, you don't care about the other person's happiness though so I can see why this would be counterintuitive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 05:05 PM |
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