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Wtf. Also double wtf for him expecting an interest free loan and that she should still pay him $600 in rent per month(but dont worry he'll just subtract it from what he owes her). She needs to keep it in retirement or buy her own house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 11:50 AM
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He's going to do a podcast but only heard a little about FDS? Bs he's probably neck deep in manosphere and he's trying to bait you into a casual interview so he can railroad you with crazy accusations, while your unprepared.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 06:26 PM
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Block him on everything and never unblock ever again. Stop answering him. Block and delete forever. It's like your addicted to any scraps of attention he's throwing you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 07:15 PM
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Total garbage and to end with: [What seems to be clear is that the path to marriage increasingly runs through college. While the figures on single men’s declining economic fortunes are the most sobering, they are not what surprised the report’s authors the most. “It’s quite startling how much the partnered women have now outpaced single women,” says Richard Fry, a senior researcher at the Pew Research Center. “About 43% of partnered women have completed at least a bachelor’s degree compared to a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 05:06 PM
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I feel like that song has an awareness of how ridiculous his expectations for his recent ex are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 03:47 PM
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"If you ignore the blinding pain and severe health complications the knife sticking out of you is kind of pretty."- this guy's letter. Seriously. He cheated and fucked with you head. What you need to do is write a letter about all the horrible things he did. Put the two letters together and burn them. Don't invite that craptastic circus back into your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 03:45 PM
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Shes pretty, too pretty to date someone with such a poorly maintained beard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 09:00 PM
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Thank you. I have no problem with a guy being in therapy. My question would be why would you bring it up on a second date. Maybe he was opening up. Or Maybe he's setting the ground work for him having issues that he's "working on" because he's a "sensitive guy" and can you work with him on his short comings he's "trying so hard".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 07:42 PM
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You can-ish. Your supply likely won't get any where near what it was, it will be really hard work constantly feeding and pumping every 2-3 hours and there are medications to help but ultimately it would be a waste of time. She likely wouldn't produce enough to sustain baby with out formula. Some women are very good producers who could but I would sat most women, when they lose momentum for an extended period of time, would be unlikely to get back to where they were.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 02:26 AM
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Just remembering that guy from the batman/joker movie theater shooting. Went with his fiance baby and small kid. He has the baby. She has the 5 year old(I think). She drops to the ground with the kid. He takes off with the baby. Realizes the baby is making noise and PUTS HIM ON THE STAIRS. Ran for it got in the car and DROVE AWAY. Mom looks up and sees the baby on the stairs and has to drag herself(shot in the leg I think) to get the baby and protect her other child. They were still together las…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 06:21 PM
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I don't think he changed, actually. I think she was pushed past a stress and responsibility level she was able to control into one she couldn't handle on her own and needed support. I doubt he ever helped around the house or was responsible for anything outside of work and now he's supposed to actually do something that isn't serving himself. She was a stay at home wife before baby. His demand that baby sleep through the night as a newborn is weird and rather than call out how unreasonable it wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 01:35 PM
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EXCUSE ME?!?! Almost dropped my damn phone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 04:39 PM
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She is in a difficult spot. She can divorce him and he will likely get some custody so she gives up her daughter to him unsupervised for long lengths of time or she stays with this pedophile under the impression that she can always keep an eye on what he's doing with her daughter(spoiler alert, you cant).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 01:05 PM
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The sentence: "These life stressor have put intense pressure on the marriage..." and the bullet about how he thinks stepping back from work and tending to the home will make the marriage worse. I wonder if his only reason for not divorcing is she'll get half.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 05:26 PM
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So she thinks it's a flex that she lived her life and achieved so much while allowing a man to leeach off of her. I don't need someone without a backbone helping me take control of my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 03:34 PM
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Oh geez. So she smeared a bit of cake on his face (which is a fairly common thing at weddings) so he threw the whole cake at her? Wtf. That's anger issues right there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 05:18 PM
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To prevent a witch hunt. people who may have information the contradicts that theory may not step forward which could delay finding her or stall the investigation. So as not to spook him. To avoid a defamation lawsuit if they are wrong(defamation is making wrongful claims about someone that damages their reputation). To get his cooperation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 01:40 PM
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She should call his momma. Also, never invest even a cent in a boyfriend or a fiances business without a contract. You are just throwing money away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 02:35 AM
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Oh no. I'm fairly certain I have ADHD inattentive and was going to find a doctor to get treated. Any tips on finding someone who won't dismiss me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 01:55 PM
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My dad in his late 40s called his doctors office saying he had shortness of breath and chest pain. Drs office tells him to hang up and call 911. Instead he has my mom drive him. He walks up to the ER check in counter says he has shortness of breath and chest pain. They don't even take any more information he is literally put in a wheelchair and taken back immediately. Deep vein thrombosis and pulmonary embolism just like this woman. Men live in a totally different reality.. This is why women are…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 01:50 PM
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Could have brought 2 cameras(one each), a picnic, scheduled for a time not immediately after work, bought her a cool beverage like Lemonade or a smoothie, scoped out the areas to find a place to go with a lot of shade, found a restaurant with outside seating(and fans) so they could be taking pictures as they eat. Idk he just kind of took her to the park like you would a dog.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 08:44 PM
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"Huh my pile of trash looks different. Better dig thru it like a freaking racoon." Wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 01:26 AM
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I don't think it's the "guilt-free" I think it's the porn industry skirting indecency laws that would get them prosecuted or sued by the states. These guys would be watching the videos even with out the "step" in the title
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 06:21 PM
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Oh you mean the word salad that doesn't know their audience or article type and is like a 12 yearold trying to write a research paper on a topic they know nothing about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 04:31 PM
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So for him passion is any kink he can find. creep
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 03:53 PM
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I've seen men bring women to their lowest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 01:37 AM
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Got a job after-school working for $6.00/hr. Do you know what that meant to my father? I had to pay for gas for the car($4/gallon), my own school lunches, hygiene products, clothes(I just went with out), and all entertainment for myself when we went out as a family. I did not have a cellphone simply because I would have to pay for that myself as well. My dad made $150k+ per year in a lcol area. Oh and here's the kicker. I managed to save up $500 in my dependent savings account despite all that. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 08:13 PM
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Yeah I'm suspicious of the "She threw x at me" I've seen fights like that. Normally the guy is using his size to intimidate and encroach on a physical boundary during the fight and throwing or shoving something towards him is used to get him away from her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 01:38 AM
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You find out if they use porn by asking "what kind of porn do you like/watch" it doesn't put them on the defensive or engage their "evasive manuvers" mindset. Most will lie to avoid getting turned down if you ask out right. If you assume they do they will tell on themselves. Guys who don't watch porn will just say they don't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 08:33 PM
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It was they labeled her asshole for "strong arming" him into marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 05:49 PM
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Scroll to the second pic. He was cheating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 05:45 PM
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And he still couldn't save up money over a 3 year period for 1 semester of college.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 05:43 PM
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There's not really a best case scenario. Scenario 1 is he's trying to put you in your place, knowingly. Scenario 2 is misogyny was so ingrained in his upbringing that his mind refuses to accept you could ever be a doctor. This will come out in all parts of his life in how he treats and views women. This doesn't mean he will be physically abusive or even unkind but he won't treat you with the same respect and trust he would a man. Scenario 3 is he's confusing you with another woman and doesn't ca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 04:18 PM
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Please do something with the website. I find it difficult to find and view content. The blog hasn't been updated since October and the whole layout and navigation is a mess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 06:55 PM
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Don't you dare give a kidney or portion of liver to this man. He can go on the donor list (if eligible). He left you in poverty. The cause of his failed organ is likely due to his poor choices. Don't put your self thru pain and suffering for someone who doesn't love you. Someone who decided you weren't worth his time, money or encouragement. Tell him your saving them for your mom or future children. Tell you'd rather donate to a litteral stranger as they would be more deserving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 06:34 PM
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How stupid are some women. She thought it a reasonable ask that he needed her for sexual stimulation while recovering from surgery. I've seen this shit dozens of times of women after birth not waiting the 6-8 weeks after child birth to have sex. Or making it the 6 weeks and its very painful but they don't want to stop him. How low is your selfestem that you just need to be his fleshlight while your under stress and physical pain. God damn. Say no and walk the fuck away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 01:43 AM
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You can feel the iud string with just a finger you can tug on it with 2 fingers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 08:53 PM
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This. In my personal experience women in spiritual circles(teachers, clairvoyant, reiki, etc) are seeking to help others. The men are all there to get attention and praise. They always want to be the center of attention and so many people lap it up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 12:55 AM
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70 hours my ass. He probably works that 2 or 3 weeks out of the year and averages 50 the rest of the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 05:50 PM
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Every man telling a story is lying and exaggerating. It took me so long to realise this. Basically in my early 20s I finally started socializing regularly with 2 or 3 friend groups. The guy majority ones always had great story's they shared and I never felt I could contribute much story wise because while some cool things had happened to me they didn't really measure up. It never occured to me to lie or exaggerate a story. Why would anyone do that? It never occurred to me that they could be lyin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 12:23 AM
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Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Receiving Gifts, Acts of Service, Physical Touch: Do you like compliments, spending time together, getting flowers, having your SO take your car to get its oil changed for you or hugs. Sorry you can only pick one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 12:38 AM
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You could literally work at the McDonald's for an hour to be able to purchase this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 04:46 PM
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A cleaner comes every other week maybe once a week max in places like the US, Canada, UK. They are are huge help interns of actual cleanliness but: Women often still get dumped with transporting child to daycare/school and back, getting kids up and dressed and at night changed into pj's, cooking, dishes, laundry, daily tidying up, baths, bedtimes, grocery shopping, errands, doctors appointments, etc. I know in other countries, where that have a very large impoverished class, havimg a daily clean…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 06:26 PM
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He should go find him one of those childcare compensation jobs he keeps tripping over. Problem solved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 06:16 PM
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Disagree. You dont owe anyone your time, explanation or a second chance. Ghost away. Explaining doesn't mean they will improve themselves. It means they will do better at hiding the red flags for the next woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 05:20 PM
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Thy only told you this incase the woman from their past reaches out to warn you so you'll instantly distrust the information given. It's setting a narrative with no evidence that it's the truth but the human brain will treat it as truth when challenged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 03:15 AM
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This. Your stress is cranked up to 100 from the pain, fear and anxiety. Someone so much as breathes wrong and their probably going to get yelled at. Shes either pickme to the core or fake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 01:53 PM
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Do you mean 6 weeks? Its 6/20.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 09:14 PM
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Wife: is there anything new you'd like to try in our sex life? This guy: id really like to fuck another person. Wife: This guy: like really soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 03:27 PM
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No you can gift upto a life time limit of $11.7 million to a person. Over that and the giver must pay taxes. He has to declare anything over 15k on his taxes but OP doesn't need to do anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 07:06 PM
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BuT THerE ArE mEN on ThE ReGiStrY FOr PeEInG OuTSiDE. Is the bullshit reason men have put forward to abolish the registry. I checked my local area every once in a while. I have never seen someone on there for even indecent exposure. Its always incest, rape, rape of a child under the age of 11, child molestation, attempted rape, attempted aggravated rape, agravated rape etc. Its like they all heard 1 story about a guy 10 years ago and assume its the standard for the registry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 02:46 PM
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Omg i almost down voted you because I skipped over the first sentence. But Jesus christ. Hes work 10hrs less doing nothing else and spending half the money. What kind of capacity is that when the needs of the family are so high.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 07:39 PM
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Apparently talking about pregancy, birth and breast feeding aren't "regular adult conversations". How on earth does he think he's the mature one in the relationship?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 10:13 PM
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I guarantee this dude does not do house work already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 10:11 PM
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Found the post. She works too. He is unsurprisingly unresponsive to people asking how much of the child rearing, house work, and mental load he takes on. I give this marriage 5 years tops. This poor woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 04:38 PM
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Guy: I'm looking for something casual Woman: I'm looking for a long term partner. Our needs aren't compatible. Guy: well fuck you too. I didn't even actually like you. You wish I liked you. Woman: ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:11 PM
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Please pm me a code
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 12:46 PM
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Porn sick bullshit. Probably involves a 30 min blow job and 50 different positions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 11:19 PM
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Like he's not hideous and I'm sure he cleans up ok but he's no hottest man alive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:09 PM
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Whats Her tiktok?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 02:27 PM
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No you're carrying it for wasps but if you happen to be attacked any object is a potential defensive weapon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 08:00 PM
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Its ok the police will protect you. Oh, wait.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 07:55 PM
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What kind of plan is that? Wtf scotland? If a woman wants to get pregnant she will find a way. The conception part was never the issue for the majority of women. Child care, shit work schedules that leave you feeling as if you neglect your child or don't have enough time with them, and money are the issues, . A universal basic income per child per month and subsidized daycare would relieve women of some of the burdens that they consider barriers to motherhood. If the government covered childcare…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 07:21 PM
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Its the reason they had to hand feed men to get them to stop raping women too drunk to consent. Men didn't care or believe them that a woman who cant say no didnt say yes. Instead they had to make the boogie man "false rape accusations". Men don't believe they rape. They don't think that one time they had sex with a girl who was almost passing out could ever be considered rape. Rape has to be violent, it has to be a scary stranger, it has to leave a physical bruise Men can see or to them it wasn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 03:08 PM
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"This guy should get a promotion. The bump in pay will help him support his young family." "I don't think she would be able to put the over time and effort in. she has young kids at home. She probably won't want to potentially give up time from them and she'll need to work around their school schedule."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 08:44 PM
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Sounds like the author spent the last 10 years neck deep in the manosphere and 1 hr cherry picking FDS. The entire article was a strawman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 03:40 AM
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Dang. Vices expectations for men are lower than a pickmes if they think those are things we are being too judgy on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:21 AM
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For me to enjoy sex you have to be someone I want to have sex with. If I look at you and I'm instantly filled with anger or resentment of the burdens I have to carry for you then I'm not gonna be horny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 03:32 PM
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Can't have her experienci joy on one of the hardest and most rewarding days of her life, can he. She might end up with self esteem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 02:50 PM
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BuT NOt aLl mEN. They are once again trying to pull the limelight over to the "real" victims of childhood sexual abuse: all the iNNoCenT men who cant hug strangers kids at the park.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 03:02 AM
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It would depend on how she got to that point and what their early marriage looked like as to who is to blame. At some point living with constant demands and critique you just give in and do everything as perfectly as you can. You adapt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 01:33 PM
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Theres more he has christmas ones too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 12:27 AM
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Pushing her unhealthy perspectives on others so she doesnt have to face her trauma and continued victimization head on. "It's not real if you dont acknowledge it" level of disbelief.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 10:01 PM
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Lol this is mostly to recoup the cost of storage, insemination and testing. Dont want diseased spunk in you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 04:47 PM
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Lol it's such BS not even the market agrees. Artificial insemination with donor sperm $800-1000. Surrogate $50k just to the surrogate. Not even including the egg harvesting, fertilization, storage and implantation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 04:23 PM
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Found the original on the "feminist" sub. Top comment is a man telling her to communicate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 09:19 PM
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High quality ones thru an agency are that high. Your renting someones body out to grow a baby. Alot of risks and lasting effects. I wouldnt accept less than $50k.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 07:04 PM
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IT wAs OuT oF CHaraCtEr. No that was his character. He hits people who upset him. He knows he can get away with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 09:58 PM
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"So your gender is trash but I think your special" well geez thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 09:30 PM
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Tell a man to communicate and he will gaslight the fuck out of you. Got it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 02:07 PM
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This. Unpaid labor in a marriage is recognized as the contribution it was/is during a divorce. One of the parents had to sacrifice for the household and family and that cripples life long earning potential.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 07:30 PM
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Using donor sperm isnt that expensive. Atleast not compared to donor eggs or surrogate. I googled a while back and it $800-1000 per session and most women conceive withing 6 sessions. You still need the medications but if you have insurance then it shouldnt bee too bad. Consider instead if hes a good partner (who got a vasectomy without your permission or input while engaged) and will make a good dad(is he only considering this now because you would leave?). You dont need him if he isnt. Is the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 06:56 PM
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The ex fds one I saw was 90%men 10% pickme/men pretending to be women. It was very cringe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 05:18 PM
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I honestly dont know what his issue was. She should leave. He said she has basically no school debt. Plus she could go to school during the week and work as a nurse on weekends. He was ridiculous. And it's not 4 more years of school for her its 1 maybe 2.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 03:59 PM
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A lot of women give up on the relationship long before they end the relationship. Turn around time means nothing if the relationship was on deaths door for months.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 05:30 PM
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Apparently the bar for a good dad is: are the children in danger of dying? If the answer is no your a good dad. How dare she want him to put effort into parenting. How dare she hold him to the expectations of a mom. The measure of a good parent is the standards moms are held to, not dads. If I would look down on a mom for raising their kids a certain way then you're damn straight i will look down on a dad for doing it. No free passes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 03:42 PM
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Nagging= he knows what you want/want done. Your under the false impression that if you ask often enough he'll start to care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 07:10 PM
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BUt wHAt ABouT tHe MEn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 11:59 PM
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Unconditional love for my babies everyone else needs to act within my boundaries for me to even start liking them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 04:07 PM
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They dont want to know they want an opening to argue against it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 08:49 PM
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Calling the parent who stayed immature is a big red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 02:06 PM
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"Way to quick" you have to really dig down into my character to find the good bits. Lol I'm a mom a father who has no active role in his children's lives is a straight no go for me. Childfree women should also count this a no go. Sure you both dont want kids but he has shirked one of the biggest responsibilities that has appeared in his life and that tells you exactly who he is. The only exception is if the child was fully adopted. Not ignored until the mom found a husband who adopted but fully …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 02:04 PM
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Ok NYC-ers what's cheaper $80 for 1 trip(plus gas) or a taxi or public transport. I thought you had decent public transit why wouldnt he use that. (I come from a state that has like no publix transit)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 11:30 PM
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She should have been making sure the estate was in order months ago. Or she could have just divorced him, taken half and let him waste his half on a home care nurse and maid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 08:52 PM
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Gave me chills.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 06:49 PM
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I think they write their own schedules basically. They are in high demand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 12:13 PM
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This is iamverysmart material. How can someone write that and read it back to themself and think that it is well written. It's like the paragraph mugged a thesaurus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 06:44 PM
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Men really dont understand how their wives lose attraction to them and interest in sex because we are just fed up and angry all the time due to their unwillingness to contribute to the household. This is why women initiate divorce more often then men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 06:30 PM
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Parents expect their daughters to "mature faster" so they start piling on responsibilities and etiquette expectations at an early age while holding sons to the "boys will be boys" bullshit. Then their daughter is holding it together well in their early 20s and their dusty ass son dropped out of school, can't keep a part time job and spends 10 hours a day playing video games in their basement and they act like they dont know why they ended up so different.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 04:23 PM
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I wish I had FDS 10 or even 15 years ago. I wish someone would have taught me to stand my ground and not compromise who I am and what I like. Men are awful and unwilling to compromise or be compassionate. I will teach my daughters better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 03:20 PM
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I thought FDS opts out of being on r/all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 08:23 PM
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When I was younger I thought it would be cool to be a doctor. Now I work in the medical field and no thank you. Not only are the hospital shifts ridiculous but most specialist have 2 or 3 jobs. The nephrologist rounds at the hospital, his outpatient office and a dialysis clinic. That OBGYN rounds at the hospital, does oncall, and rounds at their out patient clinic while also scheduling surgeries. No thank you I like having a life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 07:07 PM
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Buy him luggage, pack his shit, and kick him out. If he lacks any interests out side videogames what does she see in him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 07:42 PM
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As with all this self employed sex worker stuff (cam girls, onlyfams, phone sex operators etc) only a very very small percent are taking in thousands per month. The average woman is getting a few hundred max and that's after putting in almost full time hours because not all the work they do is paid alot of it is getting clients, being available(unpaid) in case a client is wanting something and getting a product up. And then they have to pay self employment tax onto of the earnings. Basically its…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 04:11 PM
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When the women have their kids they have less time and patience to mommy their man-child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 09:03 PM
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Shes an idiot. They dont agree on one crucial point of compatibility. Children. Why would she stay in this mess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 09:01 PM
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So much power in being degraded /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 03:12 PM
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First of all we are still fighting to keep and expand abortion rights for women. Every step of the way the Right tries to take this right. Second of all the government doesnt want to pick up your financial slack just because you dont wanna. Third of all having a child effects the mothers body, social life, and career. Women have harder times advancing their career when they have children because they have less available time, often inflexible schedules, inflexible in their ability to move locati…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 08:01 PM
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And running shoes? Why is this not an every day purchase? Why is she waiting till christmas? The only thing that's really a gift is the necklace. Hes not thoughtful with his gift giving but she not even thinking of what gifts she wants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 06:26 PM
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Woke up one day with a case of the babies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 07:48 PM
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Truth!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 09:27 PM
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Also running around cleaning and tidying up for hours while the other parent sits on their ass playing video games or playing on their phone is a whole new level of stress, anger, resentment and exhaustion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 09:21 PM
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When you no longer care to keep them as friends. Just start commenting shit like "I see someone finally passed Parenting 1101 after 6 years of trying" bet the mom likes the comment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 09:15 PM
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They think every woman has this inherited knowledge of how to care for a new born. No we wing it, ask google and ask our moms. They dont even try.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 09:12 PM
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It's not appropriate unless one person is the home maker and the other is the SOLE earner. Which is rare nowadays. But men are quick to point out when they are the "Pimary" earner. Ok buddy. Unless your family can comfortably live off just your income, cut it with the primary earner BS. She quits and your both up shits creek. Stop invalidating her contributions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 08:57 PM
56

Doesn't matter if he earns more. Men will always prioritize(even frivolous) purchases for themselves over anyone else in the household.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 08:35 PM
1

I had a female gyno do that. I had a severely retroverted uterus. I think it's no longer taught as a standard practice anymore though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 04:38 PM
1

The race thing can have some relevance if you were pregnant. Certain races are more likely to be carriers of specific genetic disease (Jews are more likely to carry tay sachs for example) and they would then recommend genetic screening.For my ob this is asked on a questionnaire with the new patient paperwork it asks about the ethnicity of both yourself and your partner. Here's an article that tells you the increase risks for certain genetic disease by ethnicity: https://www.bmc.org/genetic-servi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 04:36 PM
27

Best news I heard all day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 03:32 PM
2

URGH. This makes me so mad. You hold onto those items as long as you need to AITA OP..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 06:12 PM
14

And how would you not know? Everywhere she sat or was laid down would be a wet spot. The diaper would be huge and falling off. That isn't even touching on if she pooped. Unless he didnt feed her at all and so she barely urinated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 04:28 PM
24

The only people who post asking for advice online are people in crappy relationships with unfixable problems. Of course the advice is going to be divorce/break up. If they were 2 healthy people in a healthy relationship they would have figured this shit out already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 05:52 PM
4

HELOC hell no. I thought you meant it was a cash out refinance with a lower interest rate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 04:46 PM
22

"If you dont tell him..." no. If his default is sexual violence then it is him with the problem, not me. On date one I shouldnt have to read a list of all the things I dont want a partner to do ( "do not stab me, do not shit on my chest...").
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 03:04 PM
10

I have girls too 3 and 2. Advice I have gotten is make the sex talk an ongoing sex conversation. Make consent, respect and what healthy and unhealthy relationships look like, part of that conversation. Make them think about their boundaries, teach them to identify coercion and manipulation. Wish me luck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 07:24 PM
21

Libfem- trying their hardest to make a safe space for ALl mEN that they are making even more women victims of violence and exploitation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 07:13 PM
3

YA books are written with a faster pacing then adult fiction. I find them more entertaining. Adult fiction gets bogged down with overly descriptive details where as YA moves the story along much quicker. This is just my opinion. I read both but when im in different moods.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 04:47 PM
3

I've watched several episodes. I swear every other episode someone tries to rape her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 04:40 PM
8

I cannot find this post anywhere. Did he delete it? What were the comments like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 01:15 AM
9

He changed his tune in the update comments stating any threesome would be a problem. Sure, dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 02:42 PM
28

Come on. You know the only time to bring up mens day is on women's day because mens issues are important too. And we can't not focus on them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 05:17 PM
17

This is illegal in all the states I can think of. Call 911 instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 03:48 PM
14

Yep. Incomes are the lowest and it's probably the highest group with single parenting. $36k for 1 person(man) isnt poverty. $36k for mom and 2 kids is poverty. Also why the the under 18s are so close in rank.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 01:38 PM
12

Just another gimmick to sell books and conferences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 07:32 PM
1

Oh definitely gonna be better(crispier) then microwaving then. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 06:18 PM
10

The kind of person who only makes (himself) microwaved food and hasn't actually cooked for the family on any kind of regular basis. Also you would smell the melting plastic within like 2 minutes of it being in the oven. Also this didnt happen. You cook nuggets at 400 or 425 so he didnt take them and put them in the oven from the microwave because there would have been a 10 min wait for it to preheat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 03:13 PM
7

She should just divorce. Suddenly she will have every other weekend for her hobbies while he has visitation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 07:56 PM
26

The men posting on that sub are ridiculous. They write in such vague ways that you know theres a reason the wife is leaving that they are failing to mention. And they are incredibly spiteful about their ex as well. I wish there was a women's only divorce sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 07:17 PM
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And she had to clean.. oh but according to him the house wasn't really messy to begin with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 04:40 PM
7

The entire thing makes no sense. She's to mentally unwell to make her own decision but is well enough to be paraded around like a show pony? How is that looking out for her best interests. It's horrible. I wish her peace and freedom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 06:27 PM
9

I think I read the ACLU was looking into it but I haven't heard anything since.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 05:45 PM
3

I need someone to create a username like FeministTabloid and just comment shit like this on every r/relationships post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 06:07 PM
17

16-18 it will hit them like a ton of bricks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 06:04 PM
9

Communication is key. Your trying to tell me that a grown man can't "comprehend" when I tell him I need him to do more around the house. Bullshit. No one has hit him in the head with a brick. They communicate with their actions. If they dont change their behavior it's not because they didnt understand what was being asked it's because they dont care enough to change because it's working fine for them as it is. They are saying loud and clear that your suffering and pain is a sacrifice they are wi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 05:49 PM
6

You do still need to be vigilant especially if you visit any pagan pride events or anything like that. I know there are list circulating of known predators who frequent events. Also a group near me disbanded a decade ago because one of their requirements to be initiated was to perform the great rite (almost all covens do a symbolic great rite this one insisted it had to be a litteral) and one of the students was a 15 year old girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 08:40 PM
50

He can't order online? That's what women of non "standard" sizes do. Fucking manchild.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 05:31 PM
32

Sounds like hes doing the thing some men do. When they get to a point where they no longer want to be in a relationship, they rewrite the history to free them from blame and guilt. "We may have been married for 10 years but I never loved you" kind of bull shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 12:58 PM
52

At no point in his ramble does he seem to view girls as people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 02:13 PM
1

Agreed. Arrested for standing up for social injustice is acceptable. Arrested because you chose a violent solution to a problem or you chose to make a stupid choice and break an alcohol law in public is not. What does that say about their problem solving and unnecessary risk taking for a good time. I'll pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 03:53 PM
2

There is still a massive difference in 10 years adult experience and 30 years adult experience. A man doesn't look for someone with that little experience and see them as their equal and respect then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 02:18 PM
5

1/2 + 7 rule is some bullshit men made up so a 30 year old can date a 22 year old or a 40 year old can date a 27 year old and say it's not creepy. The older you are the more experience you have with people and the more you know yourself. Age gaps make it easier for the older partner to manipulate the younger because of experience. Also there is a reason that he doesn't have a woman his age. Hes been weeded out by his own generation because there is something wrong with him. At 20 you are a prope…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 12:56 PM
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The question is are you around 29 or are you 40-55. You dont see the creepiness and inequality in experience until your at the older age looking back. 17 year olds dont see the weirdness and naivety in dating a 26 year old until they themself are 26 looking back at the experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 03:26 PM
8

He might like you but he doesn't respect you. TELL ON HIM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 03:29 PM
52

Men pick up artistry: how to get and use as many women as possible. Female dating strategy: how to weed out shite men so you can have a respectable high value husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 10:32 PM
11

I felt like the only ok guy was Matt. All the other guys seemed manipulative and abusive. Stefan was the love bombing dude who has anger issues. Tyler probably raped atleast one girl. Enzo was ok till he turned off his humanity. Just throw all the Originals away. Rick was an alcoholic. Jeremy was a whiny little bitch who could never empathize with anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 08:07 PM
7

$70mil non disclosure agreement more like it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 07:37 PM
1

Possible his income is under the table.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 10:47 PM
2

A finger is no use instead of a speculum. I believe they may need to feel once but a speculum creates a tunnel to allow for them to see and to gather samples. To do this same thing he would need 2 fingers which would be larger than a speculum. I'm sorry this happened to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 07:45 PM
1

Hes happy in the relationship because all the burdens fall on you. All the new responsibilities fall on you. You prop him up financially. His version of compromise is he gets everything he wants and if there is room he may let you have what you want. Read the handbook. Dump him. Sell the house. Get your 70% out of it. Travel the world. What youre getting right now is what youre going to get in the next 5 years, 10 years, 20 years. You are financially propping him up and being his maid and for wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 07:35 PM
7

Babies with clear pacifiers are so friggin cute. What the fuck is wrong with these scrotes. That's disgusting. I hope none of them have any access to children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 06:30 PM
3

Good advice. He would notice if I suddenly got paid less/less went into the account. He watches it like a hawk. I'm thinking of applying for a credit card though. He hasn't "let" me have one since I ran up $700 on one when I was 23. Never mind the fact we refinanced the mortgage twice to get rid of his debts(including $10k in cc debt each time). I have legal insurance thru work that covers family law and divorce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 06:33 PM
17

I'm trying to imagine what his room must look like. His mom came home and found them and then they had to leave? So he was in the living room? Why wouldn't he have just taken her to his bedroom from the get go? Also if he spends $100 one time he can't afford necessities? Like game subscriptions and monster?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 03:35 PM
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Thank you for this reminder. Right now I'm trying to level up my income and then I'm asking for a divorce. I tested it over a month ago. I told him I wasn't going to continue the rest of my life working fulltime and doing everything with the kids, cooking and cleaning the home while he sat around playing video games or doing whatever he wanted after work while I was default parent and housekeeper. The next week he picked up the kids from daycare 3 times and did the dishes twice and nothing since…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 02:53 PM
15

So I first came to the sub because I heard it was a hate sub and I wanted to see the drama only to realize... yall have something to say! Like damn. I just started scrolling thru and started nodding. This is such a refreshing subreddit and really helped me find my voice again. My relationship is ... ugh ...crap. but now I unapologetically make plans and choices that prioritize myself and my kids while I work on my plans for the future. I brush away guilt as I make myself and my life better. I fe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 11:04 PM
30

I always read it as "negative value male" because their presence in a relationship sucks the value you already had, out of your life. They make your life literally worse than if you were alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 03:40 AM
29

Oh they listen. They just dont care enough to change for your benefit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 11:10 PM
13

The csection thing doesn't make sense. It's no sex for 8 weeks for a csection because you have a healing internal wound that can get infected and would be exposed to bacteria with sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 04:29 PM
29

The Netflix sub is auto removing comments and posts with the term "cuties"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 04:00 PM
13

Dowry was intended as a gift to the couple to help them adjust financially to their new household/family size. Bride price is the real bullshit. The husband must pay the brides family for their daughter as if purchasing a slave as the family will experience a loss of labor losing their daughter. For a dowry the money goes to the couple but for a bride price the couple pay money to the womans family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 06:13 PM
35

I read a similar article a couple weeks ago and it's the straw that broke the camel's back. And it made me really think how my husband would react to me being sick. I know my husband and while I'm not sure he would leave I know he wouldn't take care of me. I know he's not the kind of person who would clean me up if I were incontinent or empty a bedside commode if I needed one. And it breaks my heart because I would do that for anyone I love. And I realised he has never had compassion for me when…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 09:32 PM
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I'm feeling this on a spiritual level right now. Fuck my marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 05:04 PM
4

There are tricks. Before you Jack up the car. Try to loosen the lug nuts. If there wont move use your body weight by stepping on the wrench thing. Give it a little jump if you have to. Do it for all the knuts until you can easily move then with out jumping/stepping. Same thing at the end once you've tightened each as much as you can. Drop the car off the jack and do the body weight step/jump thing until they will no longer move.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 04:58 PM
1

He even admits himself that there was a change from sole earn to becoming primary earner. Which means the wife is now, in his mind, a secondary earner. So he gets to share the additional responsibilities that the "secondary earner" would have time to do if she wasn't picking up his slack.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 04:00 PM
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