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| 36 | FDS exercise: How many red flags can you spot before he went bashit crazy?Stopped counting at ten after the second screenshot,what the hell. "Please loose my number" nope, just don't say anything and block this joke of a man 😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 09:10 AM |
| 138 | On dating married menNever date a married man out of respect for his wife. Simple as that, she doesn't deserve to be treated like that. We need to look out for each other even if we can't tell her we did. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 06:41 AM |
| 94 | girl whatI read the original but not the update yet (boo spoilers 😛 jk) what a clown 🤡. I'm super glad she is divorcing him. I would send this guy a video of me every day while laughing and wiping away my happy tears with money... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 06:59 AM |
| 77 | Have you noticed there are more snoring men than women?Urgh don't get me started on this topic... My ex was snoring like crazy and I told him I can't sleep next to him because it's so crazy loud. He told me I'm overreacting and it can't be so bad,nobody before me ever told him.... So I told him we won't sleep in the same room until his snoring stops. He thought I was joking and was always frustrated when I told him good night and told him to sleep in the living room when he spent the night at my house. A good night of sleep is so much more worth tha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 12:40 PM |
| 51 | Strategy for scheduling datesWhenever I read "bubble bath" I read it in the voice of Conny from big mouth and it makes me smile because I love it when she says it. Thank you for making me smile today ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 03:34 PM |
| 7 | How quickly widowers move on from their wives shows that they don't see women as people, just bangmaidsI personally think humans are not made to be alone, BUT (!!) When your partner dies, you have to grieve, you have to "get over it" (sorry English is not my mother language, i don't know how to describe it.. what I mean is that you have to be mentally and emotionally over the death and ready to love a new person again without burden him/her with your grieve) Always have the memories and never forget your partner, but be stable to not be a burden.... I hope this makes any sense... My grandmother o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/22 11:14 AM |
| 43 | I Met My Friend's LVM During The HolidaysYeah I know. I have no idea how other girls find friends after 30 or 40 when you have no kids and are not interested in making male friends. But well... better no company than bad company right ;) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 11:38 AM |
| 45 | I Met My Friend's LVM During The HolidaysWoW, I´m so sorry... Sorry you had to waste time with this clown, sorry you lost a friend and sorry it made you cry. But holy fuck what a piece of .... this guy was. I´m glad you dont accept this in your life. Stay strong and good luck in finding a good friend that is a queen like you are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 11:09 AM |
| 10 | How often should a guy be planning dates with you?The first few dates where once per week then twice per week after a month. BUT (!) You do you, whatever you want or like, depending on how much time you have and how high effort he keeps the time with you. Do not lower your expectations und don't lower contact to other people in your life you love and care about ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 10:07 AM |
| 8 | How Are You Treating Yourself this Holiday Season?All the best for the surgery, I hope you heal fast and have a wonderful holiday!❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 09:50 AM |
| 61 | Missing Utah college student Madelyn Allen found alive, 'covered in coal' in suspect's basementThis makes me so angry 😡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/21 07:38 AM |
| 3 | 'Tis the Season for Max Scrotatiousness... Ho Ho Ho!He should have told her about the "present" the same second she first mentioned the new diet and asked her if he should get rid of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 09:25 AM |
| 8 | What are your thoughts on changing your name after marriage?I'm getting married in 4 month,I'm keeping my last name and my future husband is taking mine. Why? Why not! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 06:57 AM |
| 14 | Roe will likely be overturned.This is aweful... I´m from Austria (middle Europe) and I can not imagine how this could be possible. I´m so sad to hear that and watching this clusterfuck overseas :( All women in the states should go on a general strike, no work, no house work, no sex, no finger lifted until this is overturned. It angers me and it´s so fucking sad :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 07:32 AM |
| 9 | I have no wordsCan you imagine how fragile this guy has to be, I read his comments, holy moly. This would be a sign for me to break up with this looser. Because he is so weak, he is afraid his family would say something and I bet you, he wouldn't stand up for her. He is ashamed... Wow...🤡 What a clown | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 06:56 AM |
| 1 | I deserve better than this relationship, but I have never experienced love this deep.You already got a lot of good advice, so I will spare you mine. But let me tell you one thing. You are strong, hell you are stronger then you think you are, I know it, I know that you will do the right thing, that you will set boundaries and keep them. You will do it and you will get a wonderful life and you will find somebody who treats you like you deserve it! ❤️ Now do it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 11:36 AM |
| 13 | I will let you guys tear into this one 🤣 keep in mind that the screenshots are NOT from a dating app so that makes it even worse. This app is solely for writing letters to people in different countries and making friendsThank you for the laugh 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 02:51 PM |
| 6 | Examples of green flags in my boyfriend’s fatherMy partner knows what a piece of.... his father is (and his mother is sadly the same) so he cut contact to both and he is nothing like them. He also has two sisters and the way he loves, respects and treats them is wonderful. Always take a look at the family and their dynamic. It's so important. And it's also extremely important that you are still his number one, no matter how much he loves his family! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 08:56 AM |
| 4 | So I was cleaning my vibrator and...I could never be with somebody that isn't able to wash himself properly... Disgusting! My Partner takes a shower daily (like a normal human being, nothing to brag about) and when it's sexy time he still takes a few minutes to give "him" another splash and washes his fingers again just to make absolutely sure I won't get an infection. That's not HVM that's normal common sense, holy moly, it always enraged me when I read how low the bar is when somebody brags that his partner cleans himself... I m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 08:17 AM |
| 14 | Depravity knows no limits… even when you’re dead you’re not safeThis is just disgusting 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 12:16 PM |
| 19 | Is it a red flag if he kisses you on the first date without asking first?While I think when you have to ask for a kiss, it's the wrong time for a kiss, I would never let a man kiss me on the first date, not even on the cheek. A hug to say goodbye is fine if the chemistry is good (and don't you dare touch anything other than my back), but a kiss is for the second or even third date (in my personal opinion) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 10:00 AM |
| 8 | Any career-focused ladies have dating advice?I used OLD once 4 or 5 years ago, it was a fucking nightmare. The one clown I met from there had so many issues that I had to tell him after a few dates that I'm not willing to meet him again because if he wants me to be his nanny I take 200 bucks per hour... Never again... I hope you find a hvm, I wish you just the best! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 12:51 PM |
| 46 | Any career-focused ladies have dating advice?No direct advice sorry, just my own story if you want. I'm working as project manager for my company for many years now. Two years ago I got a new worker into my team who was supposed to work for me and help me get my project forward. Not only did he do a very good job, he came to me for advice and he made me look good in front of my boss. His work ethic and how he talked to me and other coworkers made me first look at him and I started to talk to him more often. After a few weeks we slowly star… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 09:57 AM |
| 35 | After this, she is still unsure if she should leave.What the hell did I just read 😑 this poor girl needs serious help | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 08:11 AM |
| 2 | Every LVM's apology ever, to a t. Bonus points: doesn't include an actual apology :)OMG, I had to laugh out loudly, that was awesome! Thanks oft sharing😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Happy for Britney Spears for getting her freedom.I'm glad to hear that she is finally free, I'm not allowed to say what I wish for her "parents"... But you can imagine... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 07:33 AM |
| 14 | "Real men get vasectomies"❤️ Absolutely | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 07:59 PM |
| 4 | Bikini waxing?Trim, shave, wax, grow...do whatever YOU like best for YOURSELF and not for others. If you like the look and how it feels, then keep waxing :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 11:35 AM |
| 66 | "Real men get vasectomies"I´m very much CF and I had my tubal before meeting my fiance. On our first date we talked about kids and how much we dont want them. A few dates later we talked about birth control and he told me that he is seeking a vasectomie (I hadn´t told him about my tubal back then) and it should be done in the next few weeks. I then told him about my tubal and he was very happy, because then he knew I was really serious about being CF. He stil got the snip, better safe then sorry he said. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 11:32 AM |
| 17 | No hiking dates— everI feel this, I started crunching my teeth at night... Turned out my ex stressed me too much. Dumped him and the crunching stopped 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 12:10 PM |
| 2 | Actions don't lie, how does he react in these situations?I loved to read this - my fiance is like your husband. I sometimes have really bad cramps and he got me a special stuffed animal you can put into the microwave (sorry don´t know how the correct name is, english is not my first language) and it looks like a super cute owl (one of my favourite animals) and he will always get it for me when I get my cramps. He always offers to get me special food when I have a craving on sunday (in my country everything is closed exept gas station) and he will alwa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 07:52 PM |
| 15 | Woman Refuses To Coddle Man-child on a Date, Comments Are Full Of Man Babies Saying She Has No Empathy for Mental HealthShe absolutly did the right thing. I had to end it one time after a few dates with a LVM because I wasn´t ready to become a (his) mom. And I told him that "If I wanted to hear about all your problems and insecurities and hearing you whine all day long, I would charge you 200 bucks an hours as your therapist" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 08:50 AM |
| 112 | AITA, boys shouts at girlfriend, girl moves out the next dayThen it's time for a LED-candle 😊? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 02:13 PM |
| 58 | Well done Germany on blocking Pornhub. Hopefully other countries will follow their exampleHonestly? I don't think they can push that trough. That's some of the things that are quite hard to do in Europe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 06:02 PM |
| 250 | Well done Germany on blocking Pornhub. Hopefully other countries will follow their exampleThey want to, it's not done | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 03:10 PM |
| 2 | if you're in doubt remember all those lies: "men's desirability peaks at age 50. But women's desirability starts high at age 18 and falls throughout their lifespan."🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 10:46 AM |
| 1 | Lingerie is NOT a giftUh, this so much. An ex "gifted me" some and I just knew he didn't think twice for a good present. I bet his mother bought it for him... Disgusting. I think I tried it once and put it in the trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 11:39 AM |
| 4 | What is or is not fascinating about having a child/pregnancy?This, so much this. My bisalp is still the best thing I ever did for my happynes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 12:56 PM |
| 4 | Older queens if you woke up as a 20 year old again, what would you have done differently?I wouldn't date the LVM I did back then, I would wait for the HVM I'm going to marry in a few month. The others where just not worth it 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 01:50 PM |
| 3 | How long did it take you to stop randomly cringing during the day while remembering past pickme behavior?Still on it from time to time 😅😂 always a good reminder that I changed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 12:15 PM |
| 2 | The absolute GALL they have is ridiculousYou absolutely nailed it 😂😂❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 12:05 PM |
| 3 | The absolute GALL they have is ridiculousMy eyes bleed even reading that sentence 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 12:00 PM |
| 12 | How early is too early?I can only tell you how my SO and I do it. We got engaged after 18 Month and we will get married 11 month after that. I´m 37 and he is 34, we also dated other people and we know what we have found in each other. No need to wait. And even if it´s not my plan at all, BUT - a divorce is easy and fast nowadays ... just saying ^^ We also thought about the "what will others say" and at the end our answer was "fuck what others think, WE feel ready" Wish you all the best :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 03:04 PM |
| 9 | Reproductive control is the cornerstone of male violence. From one generation to the next.:/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 05:33 AM |
| 13 | If you're *really* married, how come you're on FDS?I found FDS when I was with a LVM in 2019 and it opened my eyes how much more I´m worth. It made it easy to kick that leech out and to see what I really wanted in a man. I followed and unfollowed FDS in the last 16 month a few times, but I always come back. I´m getting married to a HVM and my best friend in a few month and I keep reading here because you ladies help me stay awake. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 05:31 AM |
| 25 | Reproductive control is the cornerstone of male violence. From one generation to the next.I´m so sorry to hear that :/ I´m located in Austria and we have the option to get sterilized - although doctors can say they dont want to do it for a woman because "YoU cHaNgE yOuR mInD"... I had to fight for mine at 32, but at the end they did it. Do you have the option to come to a country where it´s legal and get the procedure there? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 05:22 AM |
| 8 | Woman on Tik Tok reminds us that LVM neg confident women, and that patriarchy relies on women hating themselvesThe crown at the end, LOVE IT!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 05:04 PM |
| 3 | Blocked and deleted my NVM Father today. Could do with some support please 💔Don't be sorry, I've never seen it as a bad thing ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 07:59 AM |
| 4 | Blocked and deleted my NVM Father today. Could do with some support please 💔Stay strong. I blocked my "father" when I moved out at 20. Been nearly 17 years, never looked back, never missed this NVM. We don't need toxic men in our life! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 06:07 AM |
| 24 | This was posted in a subreddit (which I can't name as to not break FDS rules) where users share "cringe" content. I fail to see what's "cringe" about a woman having standards? This is why males on Reddit are singleI've seen this post a few days ago on this sub and really liked it. Saw it yesterday again on the mainpage and today again on another one. I'm laughing at the comments there, because I can't take them serious anymore. You can really feel how buthurt many comments are. Love it 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 05:46 AM |
| 49 | my friend, the wife, is upset with me for being rude to her husband. I’m sad for her.Because they are so full of hormones and can't control their feelings 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 07:18 AM |
| 71 | The same day that I posted a shot of my scientific publications on my social media, he ended our relationship with this text...Let's pray for this poor soul 🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 07:14 AM |
| 12 | Happy Friday QueensI´m right here with you sis :) I dont wear a bra since.... idk... 2008? I dont have big boobs, so they dont hurt without support and if I have the feeling I really want one (for formal clothing) i take my sportsbra. No more wire under my boobs hurting me! Love it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 05:58 AM |
| 9 | This man...his humanity... Reading this made me tear up. This IS the definition of a real manI don't know.... I think giving a woman who just had a child time to pump her milk at work is the bare minimum of normal human behavior... Nothing somebody deserves a medal for 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 09:19 AM |
| 9 | Manchild who can’t handle 5 hours A WEEK alone with his child thinks discussing who does what is “silly” (as he asserts it’s “unreasonable” that his wife expects him to care for his own child while she’s in class). There are no words (besides don’t have children with LVM).Absolutely, I don't understand them... You know... Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 11:16 AM |
| 25 | Manchild who can’t handle 5 hours A WEEK alone with his child thinks discussing who does what is “silly” (as he asserts it’s “unreasonable” that his wife expects him to care for his own child while she’s in class). There are no words (besides don’t have children with LVM).I looked at that sub yesterday and I got so angry I had to stop reading after 15 minutes. The stories they post there are nuts. Idk why they put up with that bullshit written there... 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 06:47 AM |
| 3 | I hope she divorces himurgh... disgusting, I want to shake her and scream in her face to have some self esteem | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 06:17 PM |
| 13 | If he doesn't make you cum he doesn't care about you or respect you!Uuuuuh, THAT will show her 😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 06:33 AM |
| 19 | Where being a pick me will get you.Reading this breaks my heart | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 01:43 PM |
| 35 | Can I brag about my HVM?make it two ;) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 07:12 AM |
| 4 | I paused dating this year because of how many creeps I encountered, this morning I found out staying home and not engaging with men doesn't keep me safe either.What a fucking creep | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 06:11 AM |
| 0 | How does a HVW deal with catcalling?😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 05:16 PM |
| 2 | How does a HVW deal with catcalling?I get the feeling that I'm living in a bubble 😮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 11:10 AM |
| 2 | How does a HVW deal with catcalling?Oh 🙁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 09:10 AM |
| 6 | How does a HVW deal with catcalling?I have to ask ladies.... Is this something thats common in the US? I'm from Austria (middle Europe) and never in my 36 years did someone on the streets call after me or make a comment when driving or walking past me... Never have I witnessed this behavior on the streets to other women... It sounds disgusting and primitive....🙁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 07:53 AM |
| 12 | YesAbsolutely true, but don't forget to forgive your past self ladies 💕! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 07:15 AM |
| 5 | Real HVM shitYour last sentence x1000 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 12:33 PM |
| 1 | My boyfriend destroyed my 7 year old Bonsai treeI just wanted to say I'm proud of you. A) for kicking him out and B) for having the patience to grow a bonsai! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 09:59 AM |
| 3 | The fact that she feels the need to ask if she's an asshole...Just woke up and I'm already done with fucks for today... This poor woman 🙁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 05:35 AM |
| 4 | How and Where Did You Meet Your HVM?Well, I didn't know for two years he even existed, so you can imagine how many points of contact we have 😂 and I'm in the company for 15 years and know plenty of people there 😉 But I know what you mean, it can be really risky, so always be careful 😊👍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 06:32 PM |
| 3 | Do you ever think back on a past relationship in disbelief at the things you went through?I feel you. I'm still working on forgiving me for my ex and that I carried his lazy broken ass for so long... But I don't think of it very often and the times in between get longer and longer... So maybe not only forgive yourself, but forget about the ex may also work 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 11:33 AM |
| 3 | How and Where Did You Meet Your HVM?What a wonderful story 💕😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 04:58 AM |
| 9 | You're not high maintenance, you're high value.😂😂👌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 07:20 PM |
| 35 | How and Where Did You Meet Your HVM?No, I was absolutly not looking for anybody, it was coincidence :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 05:30 PM |
| 105 | How and Where Did You Meet Your HVM?At work. I'm a project manager and told my boss I need somebody to do some work for me. He assigned me "some guy" from the department next door I never met, but who worked in my company for two years. At first I didn't really recognize him, but at his first presentation he caught my eye because not only did he do what I wanted for the project, he did way more and let me look pretty good in front of my boss. (of course there was more but that was the first time I really looked at him) We are toge… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 04:51 PM |
| 42 | Moved to the US.. can't believe how men treat women hereWoman from Austria here. I feel you sister. I read a lot on reddit about the way women in the US get treated and I often think to myself, that not even the worst NVM in my country dared to treat me like that. I never got cat called in my life (36now) and I don't get put down in my job (working in a male dominated field) I feel really sorry for our sisters in the US 🙁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 07:19 AM |
| 5 | Based on a Facebook post of the paying half debate...50% of everything including groceries, bills (like electricity, internet, insurance for my house)his car insurance and my mortgage. Basically we count together all costs we have as a couple and we both pay half. It works pretty well because we work for the same company in the same position and earn the same amount. After our marriage we want to create a third bank account with both our names on it and we are going to pay a few hundred bucks in there for everything except the mortgage, this is so… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 01:17 PM |
| 10 | Based on a Facebook post of the paying half debate...My future husband moved in with me a month ago (plan from both of us is to live together for a year then get married). We earn the same and he has to pay 50% of our living expense. The house is still in my name and that won't change until he pays half of what I already paid and that would be another 100k 🤷♀️ I know FDS has very strickt views on this topic, but at the end I'm the queen and I decide how I want to do it 😉😁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 08:16 AM |
| 3 | The audacity of this LVM!😂😂 Wonderful | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 07:02 AM |
| 1 | If the sex is bad the first time, move on.😂😂 I really like you and your writing style! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 09:29 AM |
| 19 | Reminder- when a man sees you as his wife, he will make it known to you. He will speak to you completely differently and court you accordingly.You win some you lose some 😅 glad he showed his true colors before you commited to him! 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 05:05 AM |
| 7 | Another reason why you shouldn’t accept a low effort date: men benefit from being seen in the company of a womanDon't worry too much. Laugh about PastSelf and just promise FutureSelf to do better 😉😁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 04:54 AM |
| 6 | How a HVM takes care of his sickly QueenDon't. My ex also had one or two good traits but was LVM over all... My now bf (and soon to be husband) checked nearly all HVM boxes, only missing one. You / We deserve better than a LVM with just a few good traits :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 06:01 PM |
| 4 | McDonald's worker beats down a stud and her girlfriend with a metal barahahahahahaha | /r/PussyPassDenied | 18/08/19 01:10 PM |
| 2 | She screams: "You little son of a bitch"I love the slap sound before MELISSSAAAA goes down the first time ❤️ | /r/PussyPassDenied | 02/07/19 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Female employer fires man from job for being depressed after his parents died. The comments on r/AITA show what a cunt she is.Your comments show that you need some serious help before you go full incel | /r/PussyPassDenied | 03/06/19 06:02 AM |
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