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MALE DEPRAVITYlight_workerx3/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 03:12 PM
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Same for me ! Wayyy too exhausted by lunch time lol Plus, it's my only time of really being by myself since I'm a mom to a 3 year old lol I think my co workers understand that though so it's kind of nice .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 08:24 PM
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Thank you for this I appreciate the help ! Seriously I really do ! I did the best I could do today for this situation and they told me he was already off the bus route . So we will see what else happens .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 11:58 PM
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Yes there's a camera . I asked them to look so they can see for themselves. I know the school was really caught off guard by the whole thing and I'm afraid they may think I'm crazy ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 01:21 AM
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I just took the time to do this ! Thank you all so much for this advice . At first I didn't know how to even comprehend what happened but it just did not sit right with me ! Like the way he was looking at me and licking his lips it was obviously sexual and did it RIGHT when the monitor had her back turned to strap my son in! Then whispered kind of quietly , " I hope I see you again " ... like no I'm so livid about this !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 11:24 PM
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I wasn't shocked which is just sad . I have been hit on by older men all of my life .. I already reported him . Just absolutely wrong .. and I agree. I wish the same ! 😔😪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 03:24 PM
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My thoughts exactly !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 08:53 PM
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Yes I completely agree. I always blow men's spots up allll the time . 🤣 I do not care . Especially men that are taken/ married that try to message me on social media . No f**ks given !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 01:30 PM
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Sounds like she just wants attention and also seems like she has some type of mental illness .. how she mentions that when she was single she felt "useless and frustrated because she had total control for her life " .. in my opinion she seems lost...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 11:00 PM
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Yup I completely agree ! I've said this almost my whole life I've always been attracted to the men that are gentle and kind . I was never attracted to those "popular guys" in school or anything . Although I was considered "popular " 😒🤣 . I was made fun of for going out with someone who was gentle .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 10:45 PM
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Thank God she's moving out!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 08:37 PM
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Unbelievable!! The dude doesn't even have a fucking job ! But she's "controlling " ... Smh . Divorce is right around the corner for her . Unless she's fine with taking care of him like a child all of her life .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 07:35 PM
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Yesss exactly !!! I hate reading posts like those !! The comments always make me want to throw my head against a wall . In my opinion, I do think it's cheating .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 08:30 PM
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Yeah the judge is definitely throwing this case out lmao what a bunch of BS !! 😂😂🤣Poor girl though .. she's nervous. She needs to know that this doesn't hold any weight at all!! Haha 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 01:28 AM
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A few years ago when I didn't know any better I used summer's eve for a few months . I remember my ex telling my that his pee pee burned when he entered in me . I stopped using it , went right back to just water and a good shower head that could disconnect . I swear I have never used summer's eve since ! I smell great , I eat healthy and I only drink water . No complaints since! 😅😅 Moral to my story is that our bodies can naturally smell great ! You don't need to buy that crap it is so bad for y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 08:50 PM
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What in the actual fuxk . What would be the purpose of this ? There's no excuse . That's BS. That guy is a weirdo . She needs to tell DCF immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 06:35 PM
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It was the first time for her . They never had really done that . I remember her saying to me that he was just being immature but she was devasted and hysterically crying . It was so messed up . She went to sleep completely sober and she's a heavy sleeper she didn't know . It was all in her hair and on her forehead. She said he got a kick out of it . This is actually how they broke up . Oh I so wish I could expose him so no other girls date him 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 09:28 PM
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This literally happened to one of my best friends !! A long time ago ! . She even came down stairs in the morning and all the guys in the house where laughing at her because she had cum on her forehead and in her hair without her knowing. It was such a messed up situation I was fucking fuming!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 03:08 PM
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I agree ! This happens to me as well . Now this makes perfect sense !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 04:16 PM
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Ewwww he looked so gross lol 🤢🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 08:17 PM
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You deserve the best of the best ! I loved the part that he dried the seats for you so your bum wouldn't get wet ! And how he is scanning and on alert at all times ! That's how it should be ! I am that way and I expect my partner to be that way too . I'm happy for you and these were good tips to make sure us women are aware of in future partners .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 11:41 PM
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I really hope this is fake because this is disturbing ASF !!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 11:17 PM
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Congrats!! I loved reading this !! You GO GIRL!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 08:19 PM
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This post was very much needed ! What you wrote at the end is so true. We have to consistently vet !! I made a huge mistake with my son's father . Granted he is in our son's life , there are still things that I am concerned about . Anyway, this was a great post !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 08:38 PM
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💗💗💗🔥🔥🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 07:04 PM
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This is my second comment : I was also told that he doesn't want to "pacify" me as if I was a god damn baby . I was so insulted by that . Also he always says " well this is self inducing stress , you have to learn to not let this bother you .. " ohhhhh I was FUMING after that . He has said that numerous times to me after it was something that HE DID or even if I just needed support from stressing about other things . I hate that I'm tied to this guy for the rest of my life because of our son . I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 07:00 PM
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Yup . I heard " I'm sorry your feel that way " almost anytime I had an issue to try and communicate about with him . What's even worse is that is ALL he would say . There would be NOTHING ELSE he would say to resolve whatever it was . Not even a hug or a kiss just NOTHING but looking straight at the TV and just stonewalling me to death . But I'm the "cRaZy" one for breaking up with him ....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 06:54 PM
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You are spot on with this comment! I recently found out through my child's father's friend that he told them that he wanted to keep me in his life forever so he thought having a baby with me was the right thing to do when we were only a few months into dating and getting to know each other... Smh and he also said to them " that pussy is mine forever I can have it whenever I want now " ... I guess he said that jokingly to them but deep down I know he truly thought that way when I was pregnant he …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 07:57 PM
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I am so very sorry !!! I too feel I was baby trapped . I hope you can find the support you so desperately need . And I know child care is just a money sucker. It's all so damn hard . Nevermind taking care of a child which just sucks the life out of you . I pray that things will work out for you . I seriously do . 😔😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 11:22 PM
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I am crying . This is great post !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 07:10 PM
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This person took the time to print this out and everything 🙄🙄🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 01:03 AM
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I'm dead 😭😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 08:20 PM
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Yup . This happened with my son's father. It all started changing within like 6 months. I kept making excuses for him until I finally woke up and had to accept the fact that it was all a facade in the beginning. He still says that he isn't good with feelings and we're not even together anymore lol like randomly he brought that up .. I said well , maybe you need to learn before you get into another relationship . 🤣🤣 He got so mad because he just wants me back but the damage is done . 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 08:10 PM
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Yessss same here !!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 08:03 PM
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Yesssss ! I thought the same !! 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 07:57 PM
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Right on !! 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 07:57 PM
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I was about to say ..most of them aren't even attractive in the slightest ! Lol 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 05:04 PM
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I am horrified . Absolutely horrified right now .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 05:45 PM
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I am FUMINGGGG FOR HER RIGHT NOW!!! OMG !! IM SO GLAD she posted the screenshot online and put his ass on blast !! What a horrible human being !!! I would literally never ever ever talk to someone again if they said that shit to me . How mean !!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 08:30 PM
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This is 100% truth !!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:19 AM
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I know right lol !! That was my first red flag and I honestly didn't know too much about his music until like a few months in to our relationship. Seriously he had a whole seperate Facebook and everything for it . You're absolutely right he is a bit of a narcissist. And he is a licensed electrician but he does his music as a hobby basically. He does always say that he's not giving up on his dream 🤣🙄 like whatever buddy. .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 04:42 PM
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Okay so wowwww I can definitely talk alot about this . My son's father talked about his ex alot . Of course ,not in a good way . But he literally always compared me to her . He would always say " see , you support my music 'she' never did ! ". There were alot more but the most FAMOUS one was " my ex was ONLY into vanilla sex ! She neverrrrr was open to trying anything else with me " .... So long story short he groomed me to be into his " fetish" which is totally a bunch of porn scenes he watches…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 07:49 PM
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Ughhhhhh I just wanna scream !!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 07:30 PM
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Yesssss !!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 07:25 PM
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Omg this sounds like my kids father . Also the night before we broke up , he yelled at me and picked my son up with aggression .. I asked " what's wrong ?" He says " I can't hear my show and you should be hurrying up with his bed time !!" .. I was reading him a book for goodness sakes !! 🙄 Something he has never done and also I went off on his ass because why are you sitting there all damn day watching tv while I'm breaking my back with our kid ?! Oh I was FUMING!! Yup.. be a better dad guys !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 08:11 PM
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Yeah he definitely is a loser. Like always though , I was so decieved in the beginning . He totally acted like a different person .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 04:41 PM
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I don't speak to them anymore solely because they are associated with him but yes you are right ! And that is extremely disturbing that it wasn't even alarming to them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 01:08 AM
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Yes wowww this has happened to me with two people as well ! Also , while being fully clothed just randomly , my ex would do a quick peck on my boobs then my lady down there and then my ass ... Then he would smile and walk away ... I would always say , " well what about my lips ? Like wth ... Another thing he would always do is when I would leave to go to the store or to work he would say " can you leave the pu**y on top of the fridge before you go ?!" ... He would be saying it as a joke but it a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 07:47 PM
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Same here . Hollywood really brainwashed me at a young age .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 07:23 PM
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This takes me back to the time where I was being physically and emotionally abused by my ex . He hit me and shoved my face against the car window while screaming at me and his best friend and the best friends gf were right there in the car with us and they didn't do anything about it . Then, while I was alone with them a different occasion the best friend said to me how he " feels so bad for me and that I don't deserve any of what's happening to me" etc etc .. I remember saying " then why don't …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 07:17 PM
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Yessss!! Life is all about growing and learning anyhow !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 07:12 PM
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Yup this has happened to me before with two different scrotes but they only threatened me for a few days and then left me alone. I still was paranoid for a long time though . I am very sorry you're going through this !! Either way , threats should NEVER BE TAKEN LIGHTLY .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 08:12 PM
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Sometimes at the end of the day , I am amazed at myself . How I can handle so much everyday and not pass out . There is just too much mental and physical work going on in my everyday life . Lol I have a toddler and I work so it has been very stressful . At the end of the day, I am very proud of myself . 💪🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 08:09 PM
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Yes same here !! I'm glad you are at that point in life . I felt the same way. Definitely has helped my mental health alot .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 08:02 PM
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Yesss love this !! 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:59 PM
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Ummm... Yeah. I'd run so fast. 🏃🏻‍♀️💨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 07:33 PM
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Omg I remember this !!! I was horrified reading this !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 10:57 PM
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Wow lol hilarious !! You go girl !! This sh*t has been happening to me alot recently as well. It's always, " you look sooooo good omg I miss you!!" And " whatever happened to us ? I wish I gave you so many babies " .... Like please STFU AND LEAVE ME ALONE 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 05:12 PM
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Lol I wish I knew who this was as I live in the Boston area . 🤣🤣🤣 Who the hell does he think he is ? " I want thin to average" ...🙄🙄🙄🙄🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 05:00 PM
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Thank you I appreciate that. Sorry I didn't realize I went off on a rant in my comment lol yes I deff think I'm still in my healing stage where I have to just let go of all the things I let him get away with in our relationship at the time. I have been looking forward to so much in life and I am most certainly in a better mindset now .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 09:31 PM
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That is sooooo thoughtful !! So happy for you ! This is how it should be ! Meanwhile, I sit and think about the father of my child that didn't get me a gift for my birthday which was a few weeks after we found out I was pregnant and we were still NEWLY in a relationship. I gave birth to his damn son and he didn't think of anything to get me at all . Even the months after our son was born , it was mother's day . My first mothers day ... This asshole didn't get me ANYTHING not even flowers . When …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 06:29 PM
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You are absolutely right ! Omg I can't stop laughing , I'm going to say this for now on. 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 07:50 PM
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Good for you for kicking that weirdo to the curb !! I would've told him " well that may turn you on but it totally turns me off .. goodbye !" I can't believe this world .. I feel like I don't even belong here anymore . 😂 Anyway , proud of you for making the right choice !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 07:40 PM
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I am so glad you posted this ! I have thought about this before . I deff think there should be a term but I don't know exactly what it would be called. 🤔🤔🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 08:00 PM
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My child's father (now ex ) did some of these things in this post . But one thing that really pissed me off was at the beginning of my pregnancy , he bought these ridiculous white stilletto's stripper heels for me to wear during sex... I was kinda like wtf ?? He was JUST starting to introduce me to his kink , which was duct tape type stuff (if you get the picture ) ... This mf had the audacity to do that when I was feeling shitty from pregnancy. He ALSO bought ANOTHER pair 5 months in to the pre…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 07:36 PM
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Wowwww if that really is true then that school has a big problem on their hands . I bet you anything at least some of the girls would mention this to their parents / guardian right ??! I know I would've told my mom in a heartbeat if that was going on. Smh this world gets crazier and crazier everyday . 😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 07:53 PM
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Wow I remember reading this post !! I literally could not stop laughing , the way she wrote this post . " His nest " omg that is just ridiculous 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 05:25 PM
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Yesssss. I completely agree!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 05:06 PM
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Right !? Same here ! Lol 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:48 PM
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Definitely had extreme panic attacks and depression but at the time I thought we were in a like "honey moon phase " and I had no idea where the panic attacks were coming from . Then I realized later on , that it was my body's way of alarming me of who this guy really is . Then with my abusive ex who I was with a long time ago , I developed celiac disease . Doctor said it can come at any time of your life and doesn't have to be hereditary. Looking back , I swear from the stress back then that's h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 01:17 AM
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Gtfoh !!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Somebody really did this wow . What a loser !!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 07:51 PM
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Love this !!! 💖🌹💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 07:21 PM
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Love thissss!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 08:26 PM
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Omg so true . My best friend's husband was just diagnosed with MS and she would never leave his side !! I can say he's pretty high value though and I think if the tables were turned he wouldn't ever leave either . But this is so sad and just goes to show most men are selfish when it comes to their wives illnesses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 05:16 PM
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Spot on !! This is exactly how my ex was and I even explained this to him when we broke up ... Still didn't understand what I was saying ! Ughhhh 😩🙄 so deceiving in the beginning ! It angers me to think about it . Then one time he said " well it's been over a year since we been together I can stop holding doors for you ! " He said it as a "joke" but I was pissed because first of all I don't expect you to open every single door for me but yeah it would be nice to keep doing it from time to time b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 07:14 PM
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Ohhhh just shut uppp!!! These women need to stop . Please just stop. My ex PA was so out of control . It's not fair to condone this BS!! I'm so fed up .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 07:05 PM
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Right ?! I think about this all the time !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 07:04 PM
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This is what's been on my mind recently . It was all for a reason . And a good one at that !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 06:50 PM
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Me too .I run for the hills . I'm lucky to have never tried it and I already know I would absolutely hate it !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 12:55 AM
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Right ?! I feel the same way !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 12:49 AM
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" Babe could you please look at these youtube work out videos on how to get rid of hip dips while I brush my teeth and wipe my ass for the first time in 9 days . Thank you !" .. like excuse me ?! The audacity!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 07:44 PM
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Yup I've seen some of those on youtube one time when someone was trying to spread the news about this guy . I was so disgusted . They even took some of the videos down on youtube . To obviously " protect " him . It's so sad that people are naive to the fact that hollywood is evil and the people running it are evil pedos. It's right in front of our faces if you really pay attention . It's not fair that these young women at such an early age are expected to act , sing , dance and then get raped an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 07:30 PM
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Lmaooooo 🤣 my exact thoughts !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 07:14 PM
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Right ?! I was so confused when I saw those I'm like what ?! I thought it was great to have hip dips ?! Now they want women to change ANOTHER thing physically . It's so obnoxious .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 06:57 PM
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Congratulations 🎊 you should feel so proud of yourself ! I've been there before . My ex had some HV traits but his porn addiction and a few other things were just too much for me. We know our worth and that's all that matters at the end of the day . Maybe your ex will learn from this too ! It's not good to be possessive like that ..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 11:24 PM
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Yup ! There's no being proud of your husband for that ! My ex would fold our kids laundry once every like 7 months or so and he would say to me " aren't you proud that I did that ?" Like no how about clean the dishes everyday /night , wash the floor and clean the bathrooms and make the bed ?! I do that shit daily so no I am not proud of you for that and he would literally just have a jaw dropped. Ridiculous...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 08:28 PM
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Right !? Same with my son ! It's just appalling how some men can live like that and not feel uncomfortable or anything . They're too consumed by their video games and porn that they can't even wipe their ass correctly . I'm fine with being single for the rest of my life if it goes that route because I deff don't want to be with someone where I have to wonder if they even wiped their own ass that day . Like c'mon now 🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 12:40 PM
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No problem !! I saved your post it really gives me hope that I can have this one day! This is what I've always dreamed about ! Good work sis!! ❤️💜❤️💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 08:23 PM
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Also eye contact ! You feel he is genuine with you! He looks you in the eyes from time to time with such love . You should feel so comfortable and adored !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 08:12 PM
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Exactly ! ABSOLUTELY disgusting !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 07:50 PM
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Right ?! Luckily it's never happened to me either ! Idk how these men can be so lazy to not make sure their ass crack is cleaned properly . I'm literally disgusted reading these .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 07:31 PM
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Ugh so gross . Huge turn off . So proud of you !! I literally have been doing the same thing , just blocking all of these gross simple minded dudes . Ughh 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 07:25 PM
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Oh geez . This is definitely me 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 04:35 PM
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Unbelievable 🤦🏻‍♀️ my favorite is when I get told because I'm "young" that I'm not in pain ... Well I was diagnosed with myofascial and fibromyalgia so I guess it's all just in my head then ?! I'm 28 years old not 12 ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 04:33 PM
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Ohhhhhhh I love this !!!! So on point !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 09:14 PM
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Omg this is my ex . He grew up with all of his friends and some of them he totally disagrees with them on alot of things. Funny thing is one of his friends made a comment " about where my friends are at?" When the guy knows I have 4 really close friends it's just that I became a mother to his POS friend and I barely see them anymore because I'm too busy mothering .. lol I couldn't believe he said it with an attitude and everything like the guy was "upset" that he never met any of my friends and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 09:11 PM
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I literally have gotten more than a handful of women and my friends to follow FDS and they all love it! They all have said this was the best thing that could happen to them and that now they know they aren't crazy ! 🤣 I love this sub!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 08:30 PM
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The funny part is , he's probably the one who is Immature 🤣😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 06:30 PM
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I completely agree ! We deff need to make young women more aware of this! And thank you I have deff been making a the right moves in that aspect .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 10:01 PM
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Oh yeah it's even been making me look at my dad differently . They will literally say right in front of me and my mother " oh so and so news reporter is very good looking huh ?" And also my dad seems to have a more of a relationship with my child's father then me ! He barely talks to me anymore . It's just wild. 🙄😑😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 08:56 PM
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Omg you are describing my child's father . He literally has to go and talk to both my brother and my Dad all the time about sports and whatever else. I notice when my dad walks into the room he stops looking at his phone and starts trying to be respectful but when it's me and him in that room he doesn't take his eyes off the phone . Either way he shows that he is more enthusiastic about his guys friends, my dad and my brother more than me. That was added to the list of reasons why I dumped him .…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 07:42 PM
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What a loser 🤦🏻‍♀️🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 07:39 PM
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Ewwwww 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 05:58 PM
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Same here . Omg I could have written this !! You go girl !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 07:12 PM
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" you're probably a cheating slut anyways " ... Says the dude messaging me while his girlfriend is in the bathroom getting ready for their " date night" 😂😆 yeah okay buddy 🖕🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 07:11 PM
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When he had gotten me upset and stonewalled me to death when I tried to resolve it , he would fall asleep on me KNOWING I was crying right next to him or in the middle of still taking to him . He would also say " I'm not talking about this with you end of story !" .. he just brushed EVERYTHING under the rug . Also never took responsibly and never would apologize to me especially when a apology was extremely necessary. Started making sexist comments after a year and a half of being with him ... A…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 11:58 PM
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Oh I deff ain't doing that shit again 😂🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 02:09 AM
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I love how looking at the picture your nails match your ring kind of ! So pretty ! 😍😍😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 01:16 AM
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Ugh 😩🙄🙄🙄😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 12:09 AM
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Reading this made my head throb . She needs to be out of this asap!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 11:34 PM
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What a loser .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 02:01 AM
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Exactly . There is honestly no excuse . I bet you anything the guy in this post made it seem at the time to other women he was sleeping with that he had feelings for them. He probably played with their heads like crazy. Not giving this guy credit because all of a sudden he realized his awful actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 02:05 PM
2

Omggggg get out of here !! That is so ridiculous 🤣😂. I didn't see that post !! I'm about to try and go find that one ! Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 03:09 AM
1

So sweet!! It's too bad my child's father is cheap jerk !! This year I'm starting off fresh and I don't even want to date or anything. I feel free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 10:44 PM
34

Wow ill never forget I got the worse massage from a male at a massage place , he didn't try anything sexual but he absolutely sucked !! Didn't even massage me correctly , dug his knuckles into my lower back so hard it was hurting for weeks . He also talked my ear off when all I wanted was a little relaxation . I was LIVID I called there higher ups . But that poor woman , this is so uncalled for and completely an invasion of privacy . She needs to sue !!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 09:56 PM
8

Wait grown men play with legos ? I'm so confused .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 07:56 PM
3

That is gorgeous!!! 😍😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 01:28 PM
25

Rightttt?! 🤣😂 Like I didn't know something that we have to do in life is TMI? Not like you said you "had to go take a shit " like some of these other bozos would say ... 😂🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 10:07 PM
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Why is it everytime I bring up about me having to go and take a shower a guy always automatically thinks that's a sexual hint ? It's happened to me before as well. Or I'll be like " I just got out the shower I'm going to run over to wherever etc etc .." they will automatically say something sexual to me . Like wtf . This poor woman though .. how awkward and dumb .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 08:59 PM
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I'm so disappointed in the world we live in . I just bawled my eyes out watching this because my neighbor who was a young girl (10 years younger then me ) just turned 18 this year and was just brutally murdered at the hands of a "sugar daddy" who is 30 years older then her !!!! He also died too he was killed by the cops .. yeah I can't take it anymore .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 07:01 PM
17

I know how you feel 😔 my LVM child's father who is now my ex didn't get me anything for Christmas the only 3 years that we were together . One year he had me "pick out " a perfume at CVS 🙄 .... No card no nothing . After the first two years of me giving him thoughtful gifts and nicely handwritten cards I was done when I realized he didn't care to do any of that for me.. On top of no gifts he was low effort on everything else . . No non sexual affection, porn sickness, no intimacy , no going out …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 08:51 PM
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Ohhhhhh but if you snoop because you are suspicious and deserve to know the truth you will be called crazy and not trustworthy! Gtfoh .. Idc snooping has showed me who the real person is that I am with at the time . They can snoop my phone I wouldn't care at all! .. if you don't respect me behind closed doors then you can get out of my life .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 01:11 PM
20

The second somebody asks for a nude and or send a nude to me, I am immediately turned off and I block right away . IDGAF anymore these types of men are trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 11:41 PM
4

Wow . I have no words .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 08:47 PM
5

What In the actual fuck is wrong with people?! Who would EVER do this ?! This is awful . My son's father has a huge scar on his cheek from getting stabbed accidentally at a house party when he was 18 . My parents would NEVER make fun of his face . That is so cruel . 😡🤬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 01:31 PM
5

This is beautiful !!💜💜💜💜🤗🤗 Happy for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 08:09 PM
8

50 cent always proves how much of a POS he really is everytime he talks .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 07:28 PM
14

Gtfoh!! This is beyond low !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 09:06 PM
1

🤣🤣🤣😳😳😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 05:19 PM
4

Yessss girl !!👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 08:40 PM
14

Well okay Randy, you have officially proven you are a scrote to the internet . 👏🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 07:33 PM
8

Ewwww!!! Unfortunately this incest bullshit has been so popular. I can't understand why men like to fantasize about that kind of stuff . It's horrible !!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 05:11 PM
4

Lol I can't stop laughing 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 01:26 PM
3

Good for you !! You're absolutely right , it would be considerate to just get a new damn chair ! And honestly why does HE not get annoyed by the creeking of the chair ?! Wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 05:05 PM
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Lol 😂 I know why in God's name do I want to have porn sent to me ?! That's such a boundary to cross with people especially when you don't know their view point on porn ... Some men are so damn creepy . .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 05:00 PM
2

Gtfoh ! That's terrible !! I can't believe the other woman is even with him .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 12:25 AM
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That is absolutely fucking terrible that he said that to you and I'm so so sorry ! Thank God my child's father doesn't say anything about my appearance but he did want to turn a blind eye to the sacrifice I have made to my body and showed no empathy towards me . I even made a post about it when I first was starting out on reddit a few months ago . Things got worse sense then too he has said other hurtful things to me like when I asked for help one time he said " it's not my fault you can't handl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 01:01 AM
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Exactly and not to mention as someone who has a child , when I was pregnant I was only eating healthy foods , not over eating and I STILL GAINED 53 pounds !! So it's just pregnancy in it's damn self that can get you big . It's so unbelievably sad that some evil ass men can have the nerve to be so damn cruel and they won't even look at their wives/gfs the same either. Also they will berate you and make you feel like shit about yourself if you ask for some reassurance. My child's father was a litt…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 12:06 AM
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Yup I developed an auto immune disease while being with my ex from years ago and now my recent ex I started getting such bad panic attacks while being with him. I couldn't understand why my body felt like it was falling apart, I always have muscle pain and clinched jaw muscle pain .. I thought I was happy the first year of our relationship but looking back on it, that's when the panic attacks were worse .. I truly believe my body was trying to warn me about him . He seemed high value as I have m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 07:10 PM
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Ummmmm excuse me ?! Who says this kind of shit ?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 06:05 PM
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Imagine being married to someone and thinking they are only going to be with you and then they drop a bomb saying they want polyamory? And that they are still wanting to have sex with their first love ? Hell no ... HELL NO .. that is so extremely disrespectful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 01:00 PM
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My child's father took me out on our first date to a really nice high end restaurant and he showed up to the house with purple roses lol we had been texting to get to know each other on Facebook and he knew my favorite color is purple . So that really impressed me at the time . He ALSO came to the door and walked me to his car ( I know I should have drove but at the time my car was in the shop being fixed ) but he opened all doors for me . He was great in the beginning with dating . I never had …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 12:56 PM
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Every women should run away if you feel this happens way to early on. Please everybody be vigilant of these things !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 12:46 PM
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Wow 😳🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 01:00 PM
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That was very validating to me, thank you! I'm glad I have women like you to stand by each other and help each other ! People can hate on FDS all they want but it really helps women for their SAFETY!! You also made it so clear that they hate I'm breaking the rules by not allowing them to have me when they want! Such entitled men. It disgusts me !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 12:36 AM
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That's exactly what it was . I don't know why but I've had quite a few different men get extremely upset with me if I reject having a fling with them or if I reject sex with them . Most have said hurtful things to me . But this guy crossed a line with me because it was a personal jab at something that has traumatize me . Something I never even talked to him about it private before either , he just knew what had happened to me through the grape vine . Completely gaslighted me off of another abusi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 11:16 PM
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I do know one guy actually that doesn't spit lol my child's father . I've thought of it before. He never spit except when I watched him brush his teeth . That is a good thing to me , because spitting is somewhat of a turn off .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 08:46 PM
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Absolutely disturbing. Why do they want to assault and kill us so badly ?! This is pure evil right here .. also did he think he was going to get away with it ? I'm confused to this absurd , irrational , maniac type of logic ??!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 08:15 PM
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TW: physical abuse Oh get this .. a few years ago I had just gotten out of an abusive relationship. This guy that had a crush on me (who I had known and been friends with during my teenage years ) he also knew who my ex was as they are from the same town . I'm from the town next over . Anyways , my ex went to jail after he beat me up in our driveway which was on a very busy main road and we had neighbors that lived in the same duplex as us . My ex got in a drunken rage and was pissed that a cert…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 08:01 PM
3

Look how absolutely disgusting they made her place look like !? Even in the kitchen area !! Holy shit and made her legs hairy ?! Wtf?! Insulting ..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 07:39 PM
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Same here .He absolutely started to really change about 8 months in and for 2 years I held on thinking he was the same like he was in the beginning. I think that's what hurt me the most in the relationship.. because I was so DECIEVED .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 07:24 PM
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I swear sometimes they seem jealous of us in a way .. because they know we have emotional intelligence,we are loving, nurturing and we just have a strong powerful energy .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 11:22 PM
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Are you kidding me ?! Wow !!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 07:52 PM
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Dudee wtf that guy really freaked me out walking behind her like that !! And then to stand in front of her house ?! Like wtf was his motive ?! He obv was up to no good !! He looked so scary omg !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 12:47 AM
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Ewwww!! Oh hell no . Please leave this Jerk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 12:26 AM
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Obnoxious . That kid needs to grow up . How does he not understand his behavior??! I'm sure people told her to "communicate" with him as if an eviction says enough as it is 🙄 if I was her , I'd tell him to go game with a pick me and throw tantrums at her house . 🖕🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 06:42 PM
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Omg so true . My son's father hates it if I eat a sweet potato in front of him . My son loves sweet potato too . He won't stop talking about it while we are in the middle of eating it . He does it EVERY TIME!! Ruins my whole meal when he does that .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 08:43 PM
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😂😂🤣🤣 That's exactly what I was thinking ?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 08:03 PM
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" Well, sounds like a YOU problem . Have you EVEN TRIED TALKING TO HIM ABOUT THIS ?! JFC I don't understand why NOBODY voices their concerns to their SO . Also please don't with hold sex , you just make things worse . Now go find a therapist!!! " Smdh ..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 07:54 PM
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Me too I completely agree!! It's absolutely disgraceful. I will never put up with porn sick men ever again . They absolutely disgust me and they suck at putting efforts into a relationship. Its all about their fantasies and their dicks. They deserve to be alone in that case . Cornballs !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 01:38 PM
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I couldn't imagine . I would never ever let a porn sick dude impregnate me that many times . Wtf. How do these dudes get that far gone in their minds ?! Don't they know these porn girls are in it for the money and don't care about these guys at all. They should feel so ashamed of themselves. This guy shouldn't even be married or even have any more kids , he can't even pay that much attention to his wife or their family ! He could be putting in all that energy to get her something for Christmas !…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 01:19 PM
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Same here !! I was on this sub reading everything in awe . This sub was exactly what I needed ! This is the best part of 2020 for me for sure ! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 09:32 AM
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Ugh I'm literally sick to my stomach 🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 09:29 AM
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I know I'm angry all over again just writing it . Now looking back on it I should've never let that slide for one damn second I was so pissed !! I honestly feel decieved by him! He was so different in the beginning . If I knew how much of a sexist asshole he really was in the beginning I wouldn't of ever been with him .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 12:52 AM
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Wtf doesn't surprise me . What an asshole .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 05:34 PM
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Lol this most likely is because he probably barely helps her with the child. Also she probably doesn't get to see her friends or do anything on the weekends ... This is exactly what was going on with my son's father and I . He has a big group of childhood friends who are very much close . He would always leave me and the baby to go hang out with them . What's even worse is when we would go over to one of the friends (if there was a kids birthday party or something ) he would immediately run to h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 02:00 PM
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I keep mine shaved and trimmed and haven't done bare since my early twenties. Every man I have been with has loved it . Never complained about me smelling or anything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 12:42 PM
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Where can I get a probiotic spray?! 🤔🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 12:37 PM
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Well said !! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 01:39 PM
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💜💜💜💜💜💜 Yes girl !! This sub is truly a life changer ! I've never felt so damn proud of myself in my whole entire life . I'm so glad she slapped some sense into you !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 01:36 PM
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I'm crying this is so sad !! What a great father they have !! Reminds me of my uncle , he was like that with his kids when they were younger . My neighbor has ALS and she has participated in many different medicine research and she is still alive after 12 years of having ALS ! It kills me to see she can't use her hands or any part of her body for physical movement . We need to be so grateful that we are healthy as of today and be grateful for our hands and our whole entire body !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 01:31 PM
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I'll never forget when this NVM said to me, " A man has needs c'mon we can go somewhere together " Nah bro ... You are not using me for "your needs" ..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 12:53 PM
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Me too. In all honesty, it turns me off if a guy excessively plays video games. It's one thing to play once or twice a week but if you're playing every hour of your life to the point you barely shower ,barely wash your clothes and barely can schedule your life accordingly all because of video games then yeah that's just gross to me .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 12:14 AM
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Lol my ex said that his ex gf spit on him one night in an argument . Another one of his ex's through his cds out the window while driving ...Gee , I wonder why ?! He also said to me from the very beginning he was kind of an asshole and made sarcastic jokes alot . I should have listened and took him seriously ! What's so annoying is he has been telling the same jokes to the same friends and ex's for yearssss. Every year i realize he still tells and laughs at his same jokes and comments . Half of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 07:50 PM
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This is like my father .. all he knew how to cook was a grilled cheese . He would maybe throw in a slice of tomato in there to switch it up 🤦🏻‍♀️🤣 I love my dad but I deff am grateful to have my mother around as I have learned from her wonderful cooking .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 12:38 PM
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I can't 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 07:01 PM
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That's exactly how it feels . This is the new normal . It's crazy , one day I hear about "onlyfans " a few months ago and all of a sudden since that day it was like all these models and women just hopped on the bandwagon so damn fast . If you haven't noticed , most of these women are such followers . They follow every trend or new thing that is socially acceptable. All their morals are thrown out the window . They literally let the internet choose how to live their life . They almost literally d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 01:10 AM
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" with no kids (my ex gf swallowed them all lol)" .... What in the actual fuck ... Why would anyone ever write that ?! These scrotes are literally deranged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 12:47 PM
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I know right ?! " Just be happy that this is his mid life crisis!" .. umm absolutely not ! He embarrassed the shit out of her .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 12:43 PM
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Lmaooo omggg I cannot stop laughing right now 😂😂😂🤣🤣 sad thing is this is the absolute truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 04:42 AM
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Alright that's it!! Somebody put this child in his car seat and bring him to his mother ... How does he think that's acceptable?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 04:38 AM
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Yeah I commented on this .. I couldn't believe the other comments that were before mine . Pissed me off that they were really telling this girl to go get a prescription like excuse me!? She has every right to feel the way she does . It's just blatant disrespect to like other girls pictures while you're in a relationship !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 09:52 PM
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Girl , he follows those women because they're attractive in his eyes and because he MOST LIKELY IS TURNED ON BY THEM . It's insulting to your intelligence that he said the "Tile floor" bullshit .. please if you feel it in your gutt that something is off then maybe you should break it off . Especially if you are turned off by him .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 04:38 PM
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Yesssss! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 03:27 PM
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🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮 so sick to my stomach reading this ..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 05:46 PM
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I'm in my late 20's and I'm so grateful in my high school years I was dating my first love. He absolutely ADORED me !! We lost our virginity's to each other and everytime we had sex it was so loving and so meaningful . I swear I even miss it sometimes . I truly felt loved .. I'm sorry you experienced all of that at such a young age ! Younger women have most likely dealt with the same .. it's truly heartbreaking .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 12:41 AM
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Lol .. my child's father has been asking for a ps5 for Christmas since the summer time . I told him absolutely not , your mother can buy it for you . Since he has never made an effort to get me a Christmas gift or a birthday gift . He always just brings me to the mall to "pick out what I want " ... Like no you asshole I'd rather you think of something thoughtful and get it for me . Even if you can't wrap a damn present you can put something in a present bag or have your mommy wrap up a gift for …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 06:20 PM
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I found FDS from someone who commented on my post in r/loveafterporn. I was dealing with my child's father (now ex) who is a porn addict to some degree. I realized when I found this sub how sexist he really is . I got over how much he decieved me in the beginning of our relationship and realized how Low Value he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 01:51 PM
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He probably put up the facade of green flags that aren't true to him . Deep down inside he's probably just a LVM that wears a mask to get HVW in bed with him . I've lived this before ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 01:06 PM
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You can totally tell that he's a liar ..he sounds like one of those jocky type guys in high school that sit at the back of the bus talking about "how much nikki wanted his dick " and " oh she was begging for it " ...why is it that all my life there is always that one clown that talks like this around a group of women. Like nobody wants to hear your lying ass . 🙄 Shame on this clown#13765 . You get an award for your clownery on trying to convince other clowns to persuade a Muslim women . POS..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 01:03 PM
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😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 12:49 PM
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Wow. Smh . I am so sorry your that your friend has became so desperate. It is hard to watch and extremely cringe ... I mean after 10 years ! How does she not question what he really wants from their relationship ? I really am blown away by this one. I hope your friend wakes up and realizes how one sided their relationship seems. .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 12:44 PM
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Yeah I don't really do hook ups like that because I had a traumatic experience one time in my early Twenties. Also the way it's presented kind of turns me away . I feel like personally , sexually I like to feel like I have somewhat of a connection with the person or else sex is just weird to me if there is no emotional /mental connection .
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 05:11 PM
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Yes or I later suddenly realize something in the way they approached me was a little off to me Or I can tell that they only wanted to sleep with me . Usually it was because I had an off putting feeling in my gutt so I knew I didn't need to go any further with the person .
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 01:48 PM
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Exactly ! So you're absolutely correct that's not considered " ghosting" but to these perticular men it was to them . Anyways your post cleared up my thoughts on this . 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 12:54 PM
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Thank you for writing this post because I was starting to have thoughts and feel a little bad that I "ghosted" a few guys before but it was on social media . Maybe exchanged 5-10texts and we NEVER met in person . I think the way I ghosted them wasn't necessarily mean because I didn't owe them an explanation and it's not like our conversation was even that serious or that long .. but they decided to harass me after on different accounts and tell me how much of a POS I am for "not giving them a ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 12:47 PM
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Wow someone tell this woman to throw this boy in the dumpster and lock it . What a clown !!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 02:19 AM
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Hahaha 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 12:52 AM
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I was diagnosed with " myofascial pain" which hurts your jaw muscles and your upper back and neck muscles from clinching my jaw in my sleep. It's really considered an "emotional pain" from anxiety and depression. I hated giving my (now ex) child's father head for so long he expected it EVERYTIME we would have sex as foreplay for him .. he wouldn't always give me head and that would just make it worse . Anyways I remember it irritating my jaw muscles so badly. Even the next day it would hurt . Ug…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 06:49 PM
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That's exactly the type of selfish prick that he is !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 03:28 PM
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Knowing she didn't feel well he writes in the post " Admittedly , I wanted to pick a fight " .. after his friends left . He really is a POS ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 02:46 PM
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I know I seen this and I could believe what I was reading last night !!! My god that scares me ....what is bad also is he FINALLY brought her to the hospital after he COULDN'T STAND LISTENING to her in pain anymore because he was trying to get some rest . Imagine being with someone that when you tell them you need to go to the E.R they tell you to take a tyelnol and go to bed ?! Like wtf she almost could have died !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 01:35 PM
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Wait ...did she expect people to not call him disgusting ? Sorry but if you "love" him that much you should kindly tell him that it's pretty gross to not change your clothes and make sure you wash yourself regularly. It's sad that she would even have to tell a grown adult that ?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 12:39 AM
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Exact same thought I had ! I would deff be more like my brother ! My brother is a very thoughtful, down to earth guy and that's how I am as a woman too! I think my parents are so proud of who we are today !
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 01:13 AM
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How is this even allowed ?! WTF ?! AND AWARDS TOO?! GTFOH!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 01:13 AM
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Lmao I just literally chuckled 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 01:11 AM
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Yes! I agree. I've realized since I joined this sub that I have lotsss of stories to tell. A few months ago I was thinking to myself at work about how much I've been through and how I am so lucky to even still be alive today . That's why we need to talk about these stories and make women aware and help each other !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 01:04 AM
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Nope. Sorry still pedophilia.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 11:35 PM
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Omg yes this is how it should be ... This is how it is with me . I hope if I find a partner in the future that he has this mindset .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 09:43 PM
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Oh yeah I'll never forget the time I went on a date with this guy like 3 years ago . He owns a few businesses and he seems okay before going on the date with him . So he took me out to dinner and we left the restaurant ( I am already back in his car at this point ) he asked me to go to a hotel room with him that he got for us for the night and I ended up getting such sketchy vibes right away when he said that . I said , " no I don't feel comfortable doing that , will you please bring me home ." …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 09:35 PM
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You're right I have came to that realization the other day lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 12:45 PM
2

Whatttt?!? I cannot even 🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 07:36 PM
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Yeah that's nothing to take lightly . My ex almost killed me from strangulation . Well he made an extremely disturbing comment when we watched the show "power" ...Tommy kills his gf " his suppose love of his life " but she betrayed him so he strangled her to death . I remember my ex saying how he needs to dispose of the body the right way ... Let's just say I have a restraining order on him because he was extremely abusive to the point he literally almost killed me a few times . So yeah from rea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 06:40 PM
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Are you kidding me wtf? And you both earn 6 figures ?!! The audacity!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 01:25 AM
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This !! This is EXACTLY what I was thinking !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 12:20 AM
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This is so spot on . I completely agree with this !💜💜💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 10:16 PM
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Exactly my thoughts !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 09:45 PM
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I was just thinking this !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 06:00 PM
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Holyyyy shhhhhiii.... Damn girl . An extremely heartless clown!!! 🤡🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 02:06 PM
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Omgggg 😩 I don't understand how hard is it to know what your gf likes and think of getting her something! My now ex bf ( my son's father as well) got me nothing for Christmas and my birthdays . Back then I was afraid to say something as I didn't want to look selfish . A few days after the holiday he would take me to Walmart or cvs and say "pick out a perfume , I just didn't know what to get you for Xmas! Or bday!" ... Like I was so appalled and shocked .I should've left sooner but I had my son a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 01:32 PM
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Yup . My son's father got me pregnant like 4-5 months into our relationship . I had been on birth control for years so I was so shocked when I found out I was pregnant. Anyways, he would constantly joke around and would say , " yup I got you pregnant, seen how beautiful and fine you are , got you off the "market" and told you to sit your ass down for 9 months !.." He used to say it in a joking way , around friends or when we were alone . Deep down I knew their was some truth to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 01:12 PM
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You are spot on !!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 01:00 AM
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This was my exact thought .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 11:22 PM
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Whatever the case was , she probably felt pressured or forced. Also let's remember as a young adult you can make irrational decisions sometimes. She thought it would be private because that's what she was told . Instead it was posted online for the whole world to see.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 06:59 PM
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It's not women's fault that he has trouble reading them . You can most certainly figure out someone's personality by them talking about their hobbies. The clues are right there . But also, he can give an example when he asks the question . Idk he sounds like an idiot .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 04:03 PM
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I wish I knew who the wife is so I could show her this. What a POS !!! It's so disturbing the way he is talking about her . I can't believe he post AITA? When clearly he is that and MUCH MORE . Should have posted AITPOS?? Yeah you're clearly a piece of 💩.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 02:47 PM
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Wow just brought back memories of the bra snapping !! I remember bending over to grab my books out of my locker and my ass getting smacked . But no teacher ever really did anything about it when I would tell them to make these boys stop .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 05:56 PM
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That's exactly how he put it too. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 05:48 PM
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Ughhhh I hate this . I got flashbacks while reading this of my now ex boyfriend making comments like this in front of our friends, family and in front of our son . I shut that shit down so quickly . He was so embarrassed when I brought it up to him in private . I was like " shouldn't you know as a 34 year old man that saying that stuff makes you look so damn immature , you make everyone feel uncomfortable" ... I remember him being so pissed off /embarrassed he had nothing to say... He was upset …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 02:21 PM
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I have never done this in my whole entire life. I don't understand why some girls think this is cute . I maybe would send one message and that's it. Figure they are busy or sleeping . Like I am certainly not trying to look that damn desperate .. lol wth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 02:13 PM
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Yeah he deff sounds bothered that she wasn't throwing herself at him . I have had guys get so mad at me for not wanting to sleep with them that they have called me all sorts of horrible things . Also what an ass! He even brought up her childhood , that deff says alot more about him than her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 01:38 PM
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Wow I just cried . This seems to be rare now a days . Tell your dad and your mom how amazing they are . Your family also sounds so comforting ! Edit: so sorry about your mom's passing ! 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 01:31 PM
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This was spot on !! I always wondered why my brain always craved some true love . All my life I've been this way !I'm using FDS for the same reason , I'm more aware now . I am perfectly fine at setting up standards to where I truly want them to be and also my main focus will not be to get a man . My focus will be working on the things that I love to do and figuring out my last steps to my career that I always wanted .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 01:21 PM
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I'll never forget. I met a guy once that said the sweetest thing , "women are so precious to me , I really don't understand how men can treat women badly " I was in shock when I heard him say that . He was just a classmate and a friend but it gave me hope that some men have that mentality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 01:16 AM
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👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 08:43 PM
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Exactly ! That's what nice people usually do ! He wrote that because he's clearly desperate for someone other than his wife to hook up with .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 12:50 AM
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Right ? I was expecting therapy , therapy , therapy ! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 05:32 PM
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Yeah tell that to the swans .. 🤣 they find one mate and keep them for life . Even after one has passed away .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 05:30 PM
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Ohhh good Lord. She just has no idea how damaging it really is. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 05:26 PM
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I agree. There is a tremendous amount of pressure to cater these fetishes to them. Yeah he is abusive in a way. He has a little narccism in him. He isn't a truly bad person but he refuses to see his lack of empathy and his problem with porn . I truly blame society and media on conditioning these man child's .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 04:45 PM
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Wow I am so terribly sorry you had to go through that roller coaster . You must had been so confused in your head everyday . I can't even imagine the gay porn on top of that . You know what I believe we have been going through this for a reason . We need to be the change ! We need to help younger generations realize how toxic porn is ! If I didn't get with my son's father , I honestly wouldn't of been educated on all of this ! Mine was the opposite. He lured me in . He decieved me. I thought he …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 01:56 PM
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Same. Once he introduced me to his kink and fetishes I thought I was doing it to please him . But really , he was using me to re enact his porn scenes 🙄😩 after that we never had normal sex again . I also can't believe I put up with it as long as I did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 12:48 PM
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You are so right !! That's exactly what I've just accepted now . Nothing I say really changed his way of thinking . That's how my mindset is now, I'm way too beautiful and too much of a good woman to be stressing out over someone that truly just doesn't care about anything .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 01:38 PM
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Exactly !! He literally would say something similar to that everytime we fought too. Like as if he was trying to remind me . Like gtfoh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 12:45 PM
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You are absolutely correct !! He is capable of it he has a close friend group who are all married and they treat their wives so great . Also he watched his dad be so loving to his mom , I honestly don't know where he went wrong. Now I'm realizing most of his ex's left him for this exact reason . He even told me he wasn't really attracted to his ex and barely even loved her but was with her for 5 years !!! That was my first red flag ... I asked him , " why didn't you just leave then ?" He told me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 12:13 PM
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This is exactly what I have been dealing with.. he thought because the connection was so great that he didn't have to show any affection or spend quality time together, or do date nights ect. Ect... Like it was in the beginning. I realized a month or two ago that this is not what I want for the rest of my life !! Imagine , being with a guy for only 2.5 years and it has felt like we have already been together for 30 years already .. barely anything going on with us on top of all the negative thin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 11:10 AM
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Yup I completely agree ! I've reached out for help for my Porn Addicted ex boyfriend and he never wanted to go to counseling or do anything . In fact he didn't even see that he has a problem ! So we have decided to seperate this last week . He literally has sucked as boyfriend anyways , and I've just decided I deserve better . I was so DECIEVED in the beginning , he was a completely different guy . All just to get in my pants . Yeah reddit be killing me with all of their advice it's always thera…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 12:24 AM
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That's weird this has been on my mind lately . My son's father has had the show " Blue Mountain State" on for the past few weeks (when my son is asleep ofcourse ) and literally his immature self has to laugh at every corny scene and there is SO MUCH SEX in that show . Every episode! Everything they talk about is about porn, masturbation, and sex. There are females wearing skimpy clothes and are ready to have sex in a drop of a dime ... The show takes place on a college campus but it just irritat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 12:01 AM
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Ughh I've been working in housekeeping during this pandemic and that's how I know there has been men in the unit that I'm cleaning. Ughhhh🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 11:12 PM
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😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 11:11 PM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 02:53 PM
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This is what I've been saying my whole life , I am so happy to be a woman ! Despite all the bad things women go through , there is just something about us , we are so unique and so strong . You can just feel our energy !! I believe if past lives are true , I must have been a women for the majority of those past lives lol .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 12:57 PM
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Me too 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 12:26 PM
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Thank God there is a term for this !! That's what my son's father did to me all the time ! Always switch the topic , I always had to say " can we please stay on topic , seems like you're avoiding what I'm trying to talk to you about . " He always seemed annoyed that I caught on to that .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 03:29 PM
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Sounds like the father of my son . I swear this conversation has happened multiple times . So Annoying ..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 02:14 PM
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I'm so sorry you went through all of that !! I completely agree ! I was never into the hook up culture . I always was in long term relationships but in between those I did get sexually assaulted a few times . One even being when I was 15 years old , my best friends dad tried when he was bringing me home one night from her house . I was terrified .. anyways we have to be the change and teach our kids this is not what they need to be doing . Way to risky .. I have a son I want to teach him to be k…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 11:44 PM
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