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MESSAGE FOR MALE LURKERSOTD-esi/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 07:55 PM
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THINGS SCROTES SAYOTD-esi/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 04:43 AM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMEOTD-esi/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 04:47 AM
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LIES MEN TELLOTD-esi/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 06:19 PM
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SCROTES MADOTD-esi/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 03:19 AM
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MESSAGE FOR MALE LURKERSOTD-esi/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 01:20 PM
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DISCUSSIONOTD-esi/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 09:20 PM
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RANTOTD-esi/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 10:10 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYOTD-esi/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 11:15 AM
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TRIGGER WARNINGOTD-esi/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 10:02 PM
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I'd like to watch your channel as well please!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 07:24 PM
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Yeah, when I actually went there, it was super dirty and all the metro stations smelt of urine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 12:02 PM
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I love your art so much!! It is so meaningful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 08:24 PM
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This is exactly what happened with me with the first fuckboy I met - he would tell me all the creepy details about him, his family and his exes (another FDS red flag, I know). Im grateful that some friends I knew revealed some other things about him which were disturbing, and I blocked him completely after that. He manipulated me to sext with him (didn't send him any nudes thankfully).....while he was having sex with my roommate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 09:40 PM
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Yeah, they're not going to be kicked out of their jobs bcs alot of corruption occurs in elections in India - even if all of India uses electronic voting machines, politicians are still able to buy votes and do things which are akin to stuffing the ballot box.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 06:26 PM
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Im commenting years later but I really cannot decide if he's an actual HVM for that reason. They seem to be so much in love all the time, but the cheating rumors have me divided. And it really does not look like a Charles and Diana situation where they can't look at each other. Obviously, what we see in a public figure's life is just the tip of an iceberg, but one can pretend only so much in public.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 05:19 PM
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Im sure there's an evolution based reason for this as well, but I can't remember it at all rn. All I can say is that women have good reason to vet bcs they face more risks if they sexually reproduce (more of female resources + energy used, etc.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 05:17 AM
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It would for an HVM, yes. A LVM will enjoy degrading a woman's confidence and make her feel like she is lucky to have sex with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 05:00 AM
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Yeah people like to say that she had "15 minutes of fame" with her modeling career, and that's probably bcs she said no to some awful scrotes in power....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 06:59 PM
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This!! FDS was the only place that said that women should not pay for dates. I stayed for the other bits of wisdom I got.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 08:07 PM
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I cringed so much when I saw the original post. Like please sir, don't brag about being an LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 03:09 PM
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I disapprove of Zayn's choice of using "Dutch"- he is definitely using it as a slur, but Idt it's racism (more likely xenophobia). It doesn't surprise me that Zayn turned out to be abusive. He proposed to Perrie Edwards and she had to convert to Islam in order to marry him. There were so many rumors of Zayn cheating on her as well. I was initially so jealous of Perrie as a Directioner, but I feel so sad for her now. And I'm thankful she got out. ETA: Jake Paul supports him..... ETA #2: I saw a t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 07:20 PM
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This. I don't want to have a child at all, even if I do, I will use a sperm donor. I love children very much, but I cannot bear to deal with a stupid NVM along with dealing with the burden of raising children (pay cuts, unpaid maternity leave, etc.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 06:31 PM
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Child pornography
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 10:37 PM
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Yeah, a girl I know doesn't leave a guy who is showing some really huge red flags, because she cannot "imagine herself being single". She will willingly be treated like absolute trash by this guy instead of leaving him and achieving peace.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 06:28 PM
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Yeah, he can keep the groomsmen but look for another bride. OP should drop him ASAP w/o any explanation. How far away is the wedding? Look, Im far from getting married (only 20 y/o) but if I came to know that my fiance stepped into a strip club a few years ago and did not inform the bride-to-be about their fiance's actions, then they most likely are not trustworthy. It is quite possible that your fiance may have been involved in arranging the stripper for another friend's bachelor party. "We are…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 03:42 AM
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Yeah, Im atheist, celibate and single. I will not have sex without feeling assured that the guy I am having sex with actually loves me, prioritizes my needs and wants to marry me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 10:24 PM
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Yes, apparently the right time biologically for having a baby is early 20s.....but it is just impossible for an average woman today to have a baby in their early 20s at all. You're right though- several women do give birth in their late 30s bcs it takes time to become successful in a career. You wouldn't want to throw it away for a baby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 10:22 PM
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I learnt in one of my sociology classes that the "actual wall" is 27 y/o, but the average person in the USA can afford to have a child only after the age of 31. Besides, it is so difficult to have a child at the age of 27 - most people finish their degree at 25 years of age, then it takes time to find the right partner (HVMs don't fall into our laps), and then you also have to spend a few years in the marriage before even thinking of starting your family. I certainly want to have a child, but on…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 03:02 AM
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This is exactly what happened to me in HS. Im hoping the guys who sexually harassed me rot in their marriages in the future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 04:30 AM
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This is exactly what happened to me in HS. Im hoping the guys who sexually harassed me rot in their marriages in the future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 04:30 AM
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I thought 6" was long.....do men have penises longer than that??? (Also I never have had sex so that may explain why I'm uninformed)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 04:06 AM
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Its women all over the world. A woman on r/India told me that not every Indian woman is molested. Well.....that's bcs of two reasons - 1.) You're a pickme and you're stating wrong facts and 2) Many Indian women don't have enough sex education to know in what ways they can be molested.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 04:52 AM
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This is such a real thing! My college subreddit is also pretty toxic. Their responses to racial and sexual issues on campus is so telling of the general view of the people in my college (this is a so-called liberal college in a so-called liberal city). They also discredit many issues of racism people face on campus, and many people argued back and forth with me when I talked about all the racial microaggressions I faced on campus. The moderators are like them and they don't see any fault in thei…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 03:47 AM
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I thought of that, but her IG account is private. Besides, making another account just to send a link to the FDS handbook is alot of effort to put into a friendship out of which I won't get anything (Im saying this bcs I've helped out many people in the past and I've gotten nothing out of it, and this seems like one of those scenarios as well. I'm just nice to people, but I can't be giving them too much space in my head).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 07:31 PM
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Yeah, she knows what the solution is but she is not willing to break up with him. There's nothing we can do at that point Ig...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 10:27 PM
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This is what I think as well. I think its best to keep myself out of it so that I can save myself the embarrassment of being labeled as intrusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 10:26 PM
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Thats a great idea! I'll probably send her one of the podcasts. Though she does use reddit. She does understand that she should breakup but doesn't want to because "she has not had an intimate relationship in months and he is the only person who has been intimate with her in the past few months". So I'm divided on whether to respond to her stories at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 10:25 PM
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What did the Kennedys do to Marilyn, if you don't mind me asking?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 03:26 PM
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I took an evolutionary biology class last semester and one of the many things that we studied was how sexual reproduction has so many demerits for females, which is why females have evolved ways in which they can identify "better" mating partners. But IRL it is somehow a problem when homo sapien women do it 🤣 Eta if any biology pro can name the actual theory I'd really appreciate it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:26 PM
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Problematic shit in this post: 1.) He goes to strip clubs. 2.) She stays with a man who went to a strip club REGULARLY. 3.)This man had a party during a pandemic, not to mention the STDs you can get through multiple partners. 4.) This man invited a stripper at home WHEN HIS WIFE WAS PRESENT to his basement. 5.) This man introduced his SON to a stripper. 6.) Wife is still not indicating signs of leaving despite all this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 11:21 AM
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Must be one of the mods irl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 11:10 AM
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My mother told of this one time when she was working in an Indian school as a teacher (extremely stressful job, iykyk). There was a bus and autorickshaw driver strike which happened once when she was 6 mos pregnant, and it was raining that day, on top of that, she was wearing a saree (it was compulsory). She received absolutely no help from my father and my grandparents to come back home. She still despises them today for that incident. ETA: It was raining HEAVILY that day. Idk if this changes t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 08:08 AM
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I think at this point all of us should stop getting married. There is no way to come out of this until men realize that they need to keep up with their responsibilities regularly and sincerely. ETA: This is happening in the cities. Urban India has a TFR of 1.7, aka 1.7 kids are being produced on an average per woman (indicating a population decrease in cities, as an average TFR of 2.1 is needed to sustain the population). However, in the rural areas, it is quite the opposite - the TFR is ~3, ind…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 08:00 AM
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Daka daka daka daka
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 06:53 AM
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I always hate why they do this. Like cmon, discuss this with your fucking therapist, IM NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR THE CONSEQUENCES! Just like how William made Kate wait for like 10 years. Bruh, Kate isn't responsible for the way your dad treated your mother. Talking to a counsellor or smth, don't make Kate wait for nearly a decade.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 03:08 PM
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Tbh, there's a Georgia Tech as well, how am I supposed to know which Tech uni you're referring to?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 08:24 AM
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Thank you! Which schools did you apply to and what were your stats, if you don't mind me asking?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 07:31 PM
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Congrats girly!! I also want to be an OT and I'm applying to schools this year!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 08:42 AM
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Stupid question - what is SM?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 04:27 PM
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The first dating guru I subscribed to after my first relationship! Truly the best imo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 04:23 PM
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Why would people find him problematic? I love him so much! Is it bcs he promotes FDS-like theories?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 04:22 PM
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Can someone ELI5 the vanilla kink?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 04:08 AM
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Thank you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 08:03 AM
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So at the top right of my reddit app I get a symbol of a coin w the word free written on it, I was getting one free award almost everyday from Thanksgiving to Christmas
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 08:03 AM
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Yeah if you have your free awards left please give them to this post!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 04:19 PM
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I not only hate arranged marriages, I also hate rokas. I am absolutely not establishing exclusivity within TWO WEEKS of meeting someone. After a roka it always become about "working a relationship out" rather than spotting red flags.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 12:44 PM
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Also to add to this, women attempt suicide more than men, men are much more successful at commiting suicide bcs they use more violent methods for committing suicide. That's what the research says🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 12:39 PM
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Wdym HVM??? No normal person will joke or even think about killing his wife. He is a psychopath....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 11:33 AM
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Def asking a local lingerie business to make this for me when I have the $$$
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 08:56 PM
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THIS. Tbh the ones who actually go through poverty and are trying to build themselves up don't let anyone else hold their baggage. I look at all the first gen students around me and I cannot have the resilience they have. That's a whole another kind of levelling up which requires tonnes of fuel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 07:28 PM
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Im so sorry this has happened with you. One of my toxic exes actually fucked my roommate while he knew I had feelings for him.....you know how things went with that roommate lmao; took me weeks to get over him but guess what? That was my first FDS like lesson: don't fall in love with a guy who gives you these fuckboy vibes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 07:25 PM
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The ones who don't ill treat their partners and don't regret their choices (aka HVMs) do get over their exes! It is as simple as that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 07:22 PM
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Lmao toxic minds think alike....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 07:20 PM
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Oh nooo! Better luck next time. Hope you get one of these before we run out of all the good ones /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 07:18 PM
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Even I got it! Can't believe anyone else did not get it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 04:58 PM
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Hmmmm looks like he sent a mass message to the extent that ALL 100K people got the message(so did I).....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 04:55 PM
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I joined here when this sub had only around 14K people the last year. I stuck around because everyone around me + on reddit was on the "split the bill" page and I was not. FDS seemed like the thing that was the most close to my opinions on dating. Adopting FDS completely took me months after but it was so worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 12:54 PM
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And I am absolutely very glad on how she told the manager about the entire situation and the manager was very accommodative.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 11:54 AM
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This, you can see her collarbones poppin😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 03:56 PM
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Her skincare slaps fr (even if she applied foundation it isn't possible to get your skin to glow like this)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 06:42 AM
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Lmao ALL DESI MEN ARE THE SAME. During my pickme days I fell for a guy who looked exactly like a hip Haryanvi with an American accent. This guy didn't even walk with a rhythm, and did not care about what he would wear, while I trained myself to naturally catwalk in HS bcs I wanted to be a model. He wore a fluorescent pink shirt with track pants. You know how bad it went.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 08:47 PM
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Atleast all the brown men in the Brown diaspora have this superiority complex that they earn alot and they can easily get girls bcs of their citizenship.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 08:44 PM
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Lol I posted the same thing in ABCDesis! I ofc got banned for sExIsM aGaInSt mEn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 08:42 PM
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Ahh okay, thanks for pointing it out! I was not aware of that. I will keep this in mind for the future. What word should we be using instead of "Islamophobia"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 03:15 PM
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"Slut shaming" they like to throw words around!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 03:10 PM
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Anyone who thinks that Ben Shapiro is their daddy has a whack mind anyway. Just like the guy in my university who told me that I was a racist for "generalizing all the white ppl" (read: I was talking about microaggressions on campus).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 03:10 PM
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Lmao there were a WHOLE BUNCH of guys sexually harassing me in grade 12 - it was atleast 15 guys out of a grade of 80 people harassing ONE girl. The whole school knew about it, and by the end of the year, the harassment became so rampant that people from grade 6 were using the same slurs against me. They're still studying in Canada and doing internships in great companies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 03:08 PM
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This kinda shows me how I absolutely cannot trust the men around me. My parents were always right! Wish they took steps in teaching me how depraved men are and how to protect myself rather than placing restrictions on me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 03:04 PM
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LOL! He actually is very hardworking so I'll give him that. But he also is friends with another loser guy who treated me like as though he was giving rice to pigeons. So thankful that I don't date his friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 06:12 AM
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I kinda predicted that at this point ngl. Sometimes it feels like running into a wall of bricks so I just put my message out there like a sticky note on a bulletin board and let people digest it for themselves. Jammies gave excellent responses to everyone tho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 06:06 AM
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The feminism subs are genuinely the only place in the world where you can speak this and you won't be interrupted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 06:05 AM
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Thank you for this, Jammies!! Really grateful for the content on this sub. And yes, I have absolutely not seen a single decent person worrying about false rape accusations or talking about them. I remember a guy who told me the rape accusations against Kavanaugh sounded entirely false. From a mutual friend I came to know how he invited her to his dorm to watch a horror movie and was WAY TOO CLOSE TO HER. He was repeatedly making passes at her which she did not like at all and she was super angry…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 06:02 AM
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This is routinely discussed in the academia subs where students use professional writers for their essays when they student doesnt know shit about the subject, but the essay looks so technical, that it is almost cannot be comprehended.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 01:02 AM
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How does everyone even know that their name is after an old girlfriend? Like how massively do you have to mess up to let your kids know about your past sex life?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 09:11 PM
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You should have filled it with crap and dumped him after.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 08:54 PM
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LOL! He literally talked about how he has stopped trying during dating bcs girls were ghosting him and I can see why🤣🤣also Idk why all the girls around me think he is hot🙄🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 08:35 PM
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Thanks. Unfollowed a guy who told this to me today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 06:49 PM
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Omg this will be my response from now on for the scrotes. Im copy pasting this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 01:36 PM
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Not only is it in a store bag, its in the lowest quality bag that the store keeps. Plus HEB has dozens of chocolates, gifts, cards etc and he could only give you a BOTTLE? Imagine roaming around a big ass HEB with tons of things and deciding to get your girlfriend a bottle. (ETA #1: buying a gift from a grocery store for your gf is itself NVM quality, but if you decide to go there you should atleast get her smth nice!! ETA #2: when I went shopping to HEB with mum I wanted to buy a bottle I saw, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 06:38 AM
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As of now my mom knows about it, Im not so sure if my father knows. I told him about another incident of sexual harassment in my school. He took it up with the school, teachers were quick to act on it but they dismissed it as there was lack of evidence and we couldn't do anything. The guy's parents were informed though. This incident also happened in a monarchy where you can't say "this happened in xyz place" bcs it is often taken as portraying the country in a wrong way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 11:20 PM
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Same. I told my teachers as to how I was being sexually harassed and none of them did anything ever. The whole grade knew about it, there was no reason for as to why the teachers did not know. I want to write a negative review of the school but it is tied with my father's company (aka it is a school for the kids of the company's employees. I don't want my complaints to have any negative effects on my father's job esp bcs it is also layoff season due to COVID).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 07:07 PM
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She can be friends with my golden retriever in the future!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 02:46 PM
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Lmaoooo this is too good 👏👏 also fuck platonic convos with random men unless you've met them through a group.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 02:41 PM
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This statement would have sounded better with "equally paid" instead of "paid" but I agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 02:37 PM
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Renal failure bcs his thirst lead him to normalize hardcore porn...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 12:03 PM
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Lmfaoooo do these guys not understand that you can take mifepristone + misoprostol and abort safely? The more affluent peeps in the ME generally go to India to get their abortions done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 09:52 AM
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After looking at the grocery bill, Im happy I live in TX for now even though it is the place for racist and xenophobic nutjobs (bcs of cheap, good quality groceries at HEB - I spend 250$ with takeouts on some days of the month, and I cook Indian food most of the time)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 11:33 PM
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Thank you, nurse!! Can you please get me my food? /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 09:57 PM
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Bruh NRIs are also trash tbh. Most NRI men think that girls back in India are "easy catch" and they want to marry for a green card. It is absolutely disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 03:52 PM
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Male suicide rates in the USA are high because men are more likely to succeed while attempting suicide - they use violent methods for committing suicide such as guns, razor blades, etc. Women attempt suicide more than men, but they don't succeed as they use less violent methods of suicide. Due to higher availability of guns, male suicide rates in the USA are increasing and suicide is the 2nd highest # of deaths caused by guns. Source : my abnormal psychology class.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 03:12 PM
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LMAO the logic 😂😂😂who would put in all the effort with research, internships, GPA, MCAT, extracurriculars, shadowing and leadership if they want to get the MRS degree? Seducing a doctor takes less effort than that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 11:25 AM
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Another red flag - I've heard for as to why there are alot of girls who arere premed - iTs bEcAuSe tHeY aRe AbLe tO rOtE LeArN eAsILY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 03:41 AM
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My best friends and I are from 2 very different states in India, my mother tongue is Hindi while her mother tongue is Tamil. She can speak Hindi for most part (bcs she also learnt it at school) and I can understand some basic Tamil and sing small parts of some Tamil songs. I cannot believe that this man does not want to make any effort to understand/speak his wife's language. The wife would have had such a hard time getting used to speaking English at home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 11:34 AM
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Ahh okay, thanks! I live in TX now so Idk if that changes things. I also never thought of engagement rings, they would probably cost around $5k back home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 07:05 PM
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Question: what is an appropriate budget for a good quality ring? Back where Im from, a good quality ring costs about 10K riyals (one dollar = 3.66 riyals). I see rings on Pandora's website and Im finding it hard to believe that they cost only 80-100$.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 01:53 PM
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"WhY dOeSnT sHe RePoRt iT To THe pOliCe!!" I've only interacted with the police of about 2 countries - India and America. America has a backlog of rape kits, Indian police won't file a report and press charges unless there is significant pressure on them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 11:05 AM
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Yeah Im surprised that there was not a single comment that said "OOOOH THAT SUB IS FILLED WITH GOLD DIGGERS!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 10:42 AM
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That actually sounds very tasty!! Can you drop the recipe?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 04:06 AM
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Someone start a GoFundMe for the gf so that she can have enough money to separate from this guy and sort out parental rights legally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 03:47 AM
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The hostility towards midwives in that thread is funny because they understand that the male students give off creepy vibes 90% of the time and the OB/GYNs don't care about patient comfort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 03:30 AM
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Yeah no way in hell would an old B&W Bollywood movie have a leveled up woman, its mostly all pickmes and their depressing stories 😪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 01:17 AM
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Lmaooo Im screenshotting this comment for future use
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 12:44 AM
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LOVE DERRICK JAXN! He's like the only male dating expert I will ever follow!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 02:45 PM
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Plus they're gonna have to pay money for a therapist. Why not have a bangmaid who will do the same thing for cheap with free sex? /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 12:11 AM
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Exactly! The number of people who think I am inventing shit up in the name of misogyny is qt an all time high. This includes women too. Just because you haven't experienced it/understood what's happening around you doesn't mean that these things don't occur.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 09:56 PM
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I've had the same experience with xenophobic men. My ex was Indian American and he didn't want to date me bcs I was Indian. What are you going to do with your green card if you cannot walk with a rhythm? Their arrogance pisses me off to no end. This is why I don't like dating brown men of any kind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 08:08 PM
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This is the best comment on this post😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 02:38 PM
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Watch this happen in 30 days. The GOP is ready to lose the election if they have a 6-3 majority in the SCOTUS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 02:34 PM
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Men will never face the responsibility of their recklessness because we have allowed them that. This time, they're just going to walk away and leave the burden of raising those kids on the gf with no child support.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 02:33 PM
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It's like as though they have mice in their pants
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 05:39 AM
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He not only dates younger women, he dates 21 year olds......
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 11:24 PM
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Even if I had to buy my bf a PS5 Imma do this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 12:09 AM
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HV Cattos are the best!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 07:53 PM
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I hope things are much better now for you. This sub is definitely very supportive and helpful with these kinds of issues. My friend, albeit not actually seeing this sub introduced me to an FDS way of thinking and I've never looked back. Have you moved out?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 04:48 AM
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That is what all the misogynists and pickmes do. Just a part of what the other commenter and I were discussing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 04:46 AM
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Definitely. There have been SO MANY POSTS on various social media forums where I've been making logical comments and debating against 100 men and a pick me comes and says "YOU'RE THE PROBLEM!!" and destroys all of my efforts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 03:37 AM
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Yeah definitely. I absolutely hate pickmes who say "FEMINISM BAD!!". They make this 1000x harder for us. If you can't see the sexism deeply embedded in our society then it is not my problem man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 03:31 AM
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Here's the link! https://www.reddit.com/r/findareddit/comments/is6lf9/a_subreddit_for_women_who_want_to_leave_their/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 03:25 AM
1

Oh. Subtle Curry Dating too!! Its filled with pick mes and yucky scrotes 🤮🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 05:55 PM
2

Wait who is that? I'm not so sure, is he a dating expert?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 04:58 AM
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Yeah, I ignore my ex even though we sometimes have lunch with a mutual group of friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 02:47 PM
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This should be no surprise to me, it happens at all frat parties! That's why frat parties are generally free for girls! Pro tip: you should avoid frat & srat parties, but you should ESPECIALLY AVOID the FREE ones for girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 02:46 PM
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Tbh, even sociology research says that married men commit less suicide, but Idt the research says the same about married women. ETA: read about it just now, apparantly this is an ongoing debate for women but has been proved for the men (https://jech.bmj.com/content/54/4/254)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 12:52 PM
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Hmmm it does bother me if it is noticeable, but I get even more angry if I see that a person has a stereotype about someone/something through the way they speak (for example, "That's a Black man that is multi-talented" "She's a Black woman who is very hard-working", usage of the word r*tard)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 04:52 AM
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Holy shit I'll never be this artsy....I can draw beautiful biology diagrams that's all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 04:37 AM
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Tbh there is no such thing such as "discrimination against men". Hating men will never result in a crime against men 99% of the time. Men won't be offered lower salaries or be discouraged from pursuing STEM subjects. Men won't be trafficked to work into brothels and strip clubs. Men won't have creepy stares from women who are admiring their butt and testicles. A man is not at a risk of his nudes being shared online w/o his consent. Y'all really need to stop with the "hating all men is bad!!" BS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 11:47 PM
13

Yeah I screenshotted for outfit ideas, I can only pull it off after a thousand squats!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 03:06 AM
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Tag them in the thread. It is not wrong for you to do it here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 11:33 PM
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WE💏 SEALED IT ✅WITH A NIKE RUBBER RING☑ It's not about the ring 💍‼️it is about the LOVE😍🥰💞 if you only care about the ring❓then you're not ❌ in love💞 you only care about the money 🤑 and the superficial stuff😳😲💯learn to see the depth⬇️in someone's actions😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 05:16 AM
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Thanks for the tip!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 05:08 AM
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I agree with the reality shows thing but I actually don't like the Kardashians bcs they have a penchant for culture appropriation which is a real put off for me ETA: I also think FDS should have it's own reality show like Big Brother where there are two teams of HVWs and pick mes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 05:07 AM
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Yeah I agree. It literally occurred to me only just now that I could have been discouraged from pursuing my STEM passions easily by my teachers but they knew that shit wouldn't fly with my parents. I'm thankful that my parents push me to excel in STEM but not every girl in my school had parents like them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 08:52 PM
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This is good, but there is still room for imrpovement for eg. How a man's in laws would wait his ass and accept any nonsense that he does but they aren't gonna accept the same thing if their daughter in law expects that from them, parents don't allow daughters to go out late at night, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 04:15 AM
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My brother lives with me and he can't relate with anything I say so I would disagree. This convo literally happened 50 minutes ago. Me -"If you don't think there is sexism in Education, why are there very few women in STEM? Why are there 2-3 women in each engineering class?" Bro: "Because they don't like engineering!!" Me: "why don't women like engineering? Doesn't that imply that women are discouraged to go for engineering and CS? Why did you think of the CS girls in your HS class to be stupid?…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 03:39 AM
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Maybe he should find an English teacher to date "Koi na, Im fine w/o an English teacher!!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 05:51 PM
1

Ahhh yes, will he bring r/Chonkers to the date? /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 02:24 PM
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