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Why is his eyes absolutely dead? Why does this photo look like it's either a drivers license photo or some psychiatric ward intake photo? Or even worse is this a school portrait? Why don't these guys "go their own way"? Just curious not hahah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 12:39 AM
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How utterly romantic "Wanna fuck?" Like you've been reduced to a body part. Sigh. What an arsehole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 06:03 AM
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Ooh screenshot it though - just to have that reminder of what a scrote he is. Could come in handy later on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 06:01 AM
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Horrible. Utterly depraved. Rest in peace Eno. You are beyond pain fear or hurt at this stage. We respect you and send you love to the beyond. RIP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 03:35 AM
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Ok, how about, if men stop acting like a scrote then we'll stop referring to them as a scrote. Oh like that's going to happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 10:41 PM
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I have a policy to not date anyone related to work, so as he's your son sorry... A further series of standards and policies also apply to anyone that's trying to date me. Also strict criteria, terms and conditions also apply. No NOOO nooooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 07:28 AM
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Jaded? Nah just sick of bullshit and don't want any more thanks!! Always go forward never go back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 05:42 AM
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Oh sweetheart, this is not your fault. You know this right? This is not a reflection of anything you did or didn't do. This was his downward trajectory because of what ever it was in him that thought that way. Not your fault, it just happened. Greif is a bit like a chronic disease. You will get bouts of it, and you will feel all the feelings about it, but in the end you will come out of it stronger and wiser. Some self care is needed here, nice food, something you enjoy? Bath? Do that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 03:39 AM
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Get all excited about the wedding, and... abandon it. Play the run away bride, ditch this sorry fucking mess of man, and your tone deaf family and run off to some where sunny for 6 months. Then move on. Make new friends, move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 03:20 AM
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Yep. That comment hit hard. "My US Midwest Church-Y conservative upbringing in the 1990s groomed me for this." Fam, I feel you. Neoliberal and the toxic politics of Ronald Reagan, have infused misogynistic attitudes towards women for decades. I hope things are well now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 03:12 AM
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Shhsh, I'm in my fortress now. There's a double moat and a big banner that says "No furk bois allowed in." I've just installed a portcullis (a big metal gate) at the front that has "No is a complete sentence" in big red letters on it. Out side the moat, on the road to the fortress is a gibbet (an iron cage) with the skeleton in it with "I sent a dic pic and this is what happened" above the gibbet. There you go https://allthatsinteresting.com/gibbet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 11:58 PM
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Yeah I'm gonna need some harder concrete stone to reinforce these walls. Get me some of that hardened concrete barriers also the ones that are utterly resistant to pestering, threats and whining? Yeah good. I'll also have a few spikes protruding from the walls? Yeah ones that spear through expectations of sex on the first date, lowering of standards, that sort of thing. Cool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 10:32 PM
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With the current horror that is unfolding in Afghanistan right now? I don't think any man has the right to make that sort of soul destroying edict. You are not some one anyone should listen to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 08:09 AM
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This LVM or rather predatory domestic batterer, is fishing for your weaknesses here. "Tell me what are you afraid of?" So I can terrorize you with it later "Tell me your deepest darkest secrets" So I can file that away for emotional weak points later "Tell me your greatest fears so you never have to feel scared ever again" Because I'm going to give you something to be really scared about... Age gaps, financial gaps, past girlfriends who did him wrong, forced intimacy, unable to say no to him, sk…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 01:17 AM
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Please please tell me that you blocked that scrotal fucker and laughed your arse off? If I encountered that in a bar I'd punch him in the groin and say "I'm a tiger" and walk off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 08:44 AM
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Hey, don't be so hard on yourself. This is not your doing! You did well nipping it all in the bud! Making it harder and harder to reel you in hopefully your neighbourhood creeper will get the message. There is also no harm done by getting in touch with the local police. File and incident report just test what sort of response you'd get. Phrase it like - I don't know what's going on but it doesn't feel legit right? No harm in just dropping by the local cops.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 07:36 AM
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Translation: Hi, Even though we have not spoken for a while - "I am glossing over the fact that we have broken up." I just wanted to say, that even though I've moved on and I'm happy with my girlfriend... "I'm reiterating that she's a girlfriend at the moment - I'm also keeping my options open" I hope you know I will always love you no matter what. You are my soul mate... "Here is the usual unfocused word salad around what I think you want to hear. This is also building you up for the discard yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 05:46 AM
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If she wakes up and realizes that she's caring for two children, the baby and the LVM, it just might make sense to go it solo. If LVM continues with this delusional idea that his life isn't changing much? He will wind up alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 11:51 PM
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This all happened about 10 years ago, and the scars from the divorce and the dysfunction are still apparent. But I'm so proud of her. She still shines in her own way. The main painful thing for me was that I was ostracized a looooong time ago, and it took many years of reflection and understanding that broken people need scapegoats to take the blame of their behaviour. This is a maladaptive coping mechanism for people who aren't really grown up. So when the divorce happened I was the one person …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 01:06 AM
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She's changed for the better really. Got tougher and more savvy, but I do worry sometimes. I'm living in another country these days and going towards citizenship there. She had a few freakouts, but by and large has started to skew towards a normal life. She lives a more rounded life now. She's not dating because she has a very specific wish list and that helps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 08:52 AM
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Oh absolutely, I've got nothing to hold against the poor woman that's taken on the cot case that is my relative. She's been lied to and sold a lie over and over. I do feel really sorry for her. She's from Thailand. It also doesn't help that I'm friends to the ex-wife (#2) that put up with his rubbish for a couple of decades before he left her - by informing her via e-mail. I also wonder how many other women that will fall by the way side falling for a some what lack luster ex-lawyer that does no…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 12:30 AM
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Described a relative to a "T." Aging lothario with third massively aged gapped wife and different culture and a toddler. I now have a cousin that's of a different ethnicity to me and an age gap of 40+ years. Needless to say I am 'no contact.'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 02:15 AM
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It's not being 'nice' or anything it's accepting that the current situation around online dating and other such things, encourages incredibly entitled men who are mentally controlling and need to be stopped. You must be cautious because arsehole LVM can create such chaos and mayhem, because they are amoral and don't have a concrete idea of who they are. It doesn't matter why that is; not your circus not your monkey, it's about protecting yourself from abuse that you do not deserve or have contri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 04:15 AM
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What shit advice!! Sorry but Gen Xer myself I'd never say anything like that. I believe in the tenants from FDs is to vet and vet hard. To many LVM have made it hell for women in the past. You don't need to put up with that shit. You have every right to be suspicious, and not blame women for men's shitty behavior. Let me first assure you that if you feel it, it's happening. If your gut says flee, or run or anything of if you feel like there's this creeping sense of ick, or you can feel your nose…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 03:24 AM
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Yep that's some words of wisdom right there. Also - if you look back and cringe at something? Don't beat yourself up about it. You learned from this experience and moved on. Don't recriminate yourself for past mistakes, just don't repeat them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 12:53 PM
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I hate this sort of scrote with a passion. Also, I hate the way my white skin has been used as some sort of horrific bench mark??? Sister - you are beautiful exactly as you are, let no worthless dickhead tell you otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 06:32 AM
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Marrying a scrote that buys in to the idea of obsessing about virginity and all the misogynistic, controlling arsehole stuff that goes with that is as about as appealing as being compared to an object such as a car or a camel. Perhaps we could examine his temperament, teeth, earning ability, and any Red Pill nonsense and can make our own assessments from there....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 06:15 AM
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I know that this was sold as the "soap opera" for the season, but I loathed it. It didn't land for me. The Mr Big character always grated on my sensibilities as a callous individual that was just this arsehole that was always grimy. The praise of the callous upfront arsehole that literally enjoys psychologically damaging Carrie. Carrie didn't get her happy ever after she got what producers thought we wanted, which also didn't land. In short - Carrie was the interesting one with emotional depth. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 10:14 AM
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This is unfortunately a rather toxic relationship that is full of bad boundary setting on Carrie's part. Carrie has too many pickmesha bullshit going on, and rather than going in to fashion or being an early influencer or even directing her column in to something a bit more feminist? She's down the rabbit hole with Big who is a commitment phobic, disinterested workaholic. As this scene illustrates, the casual cut off which is common with LVM. They are talking about a move to Paris, which is an i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 09:54 AM
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The entitlement of these people knows no bounds. They screw over their offspring's shot at a happier life and like crabs in a bucket. It's also to an extent an Indian, Asian and anywhere where there is a dowry culture, or familial piety you have this ugly entitled and down right wrong culture of mistreatment of women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 01:03 AM
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It's because this is the demographic tipping point. Aging Chinese Boomers 57-75 have insisted on their garish and transactional nature of familial piety and servitude. They expect 18-28 year old's to marry their son, have kids and take on the triple whammy of responsibilities of aged care, child care, job, study, husband and enjoy being utterly controlled by that family. The carrot is the idea that they get to inherit everything when they are gone, but the stick is that after a decade or so of s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 11:38 PM
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You had me going in the first part ngl....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 09:34 PM
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There are two things that irritate me the most. Firstly, in any prison population what group ends up committing the most violent crime, men or woman. The evidence I will present are crime statistics taken from a city and region of 5.6 Million people in Australia. Clearly Men make up greater numbers in prisons and remand centers on domestic violence. https://www.crimestatistics.vic.gov.au/family-violence-data-portal/family-violence-infographics/victoria-police-family-violence-related Secondly, I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 01:12 AM
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What was I thinking. Just no. No NO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 06:30 AM
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I can imagine a big pile of dishes...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 09:41 PM
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Yet according to the latest research; Hatch, S. G., Esplin, C. R., Aaron, S. C., Dowdle, K. K., Fincham, F. D., Hatch, H. D., & Braithwaite, S. R. (2020). Does pornography consumption lead to intimate partner violence perpetration? Little evidence for temporal precedence. The Canadian Journal of Human Sexuality, 29(3), 289+. https://utpjournals.press/doi/10.3138/cjhs.2019-0065 The opening statement is this "The relationship between pornography use and violence has been extensively researched. Nu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 02:03 AM
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Brilliant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 09:50 PM
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There are so many ways to say this; NO. Nooo NOOOOO.... Hell no. Fuck off and die No. Scrote be gone no NOOOO I don't want to be your pixie wanderlust fairy. Fairy's don't have to eat I do. I also use the bathroom so I'm not interested in being that camper that leaves human excrement in exotic locals. If you want to go live out your Jack London dreams of "Call of the wild" then since you're Canadian I'm sure you will have no problems finding all the solitude you seek.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 09:49 PM
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Yeah it's an anchoring bias. Just as OLD presents so much trash as candidates, thus you lower your standards thinking that this sub is about capturing some mythical HVM is simply not true. It's about encouraging a strong set of standards, removal of toxic people, defending that gut instinct and allowing what's left over to present evidence that they are HVM. With out evidence and proof there is nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:06 AM
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Larry King died in this year, 2021. His talks show ran from 1985 -2010. Assuming this drivel is referencing the time slot of 9pm till 10pm the zenith of Larry King's career is around 1993, when he hosted a presidential debate between Al Gore (better known as a climate change advocate) and Ross Perot a billionaire tech magnate. Always look at things in context, and who ultimately this is benefiting. This is a historic snap shot of the sexist drivel that was also around the Ronald Regan era of "Fa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:47 AM
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Got to the police with this information. Also linked in has a feature to see who's been scoping you out online, so you are able to lift his details from that if he decides to delete his bumble account once he realizes that he's just made a viable threat against you. Don't directly engage with him, but pass on details to the cops. Cops need to know about this abuser and if he's true to form... this might be adding information to an open case on him. Don't be afraid, but step up any home security …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:29 AM
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I know right?? I reported it as harassment to the Reddit mods and they replied that the couldn't see the harassment. What they fail to see I think that just like OLD or in any online arena, is this utter contempt for women. It's like, you exchange pleasantries and.... the slow disintegration in to insults, or the neg, or the attacks or the digs begin. You just don't have time. Block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 07:11 AM
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I agree. A clear moment is when somebody else pointed out to me that "You're not in control of some one else's behavior" It was clouded in hippy new age speak but the underlying message was there. A clearer thought is where is the evidence that this person will take an active role in managing his or her mental un-wellness or addiction? Tearful withdrawals / pleas to be better don't count that's only whining about the current issue on the table. Life's to short to take on some one else's untreate…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 12:34 PM
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Block and delete is the final word. What it says is - this conversation is now at an end and I never want to hear from you again. If this conversation has been steered in to an uncomfortable, slimy but still tone polite area of conversation and weighting up all the possibilities that it's only going to get worse and set you up for the inevitable abuse.... just block and delete. These men are on enough social media to pick up cues that they should not do. If that's to hard right away and it's all…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 01:37 AM
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I had to click off that web site because I was flinching at the cruel way that these men were absolutely baseless evil really cold, detached, clinical almost about women who despite their best intentions were in that situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:48 PM
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I just blocked a lurking scrote. Apparently he relates to my home town and architecture. Then added wanna go out to dinner and have fun? Then the tell me about yourself closer. I swear my chat function in Reddit is for unfiltered scrotes that think that they are god's gift to women. I'm like ok, sure you can talk to me here, here's a chance for you to be polite and offer up information about yourself. If you like architecture sure- do you want to talk about how a minimalist architecture works fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:31 PM
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I think the minute you said that you would not put up with gaslighting and abuse because of your experience with a depressed ex that blamed everything on his mental illness you set a hard boundary. Which was a bloody good idea really. The second was laughing at the idea of a BDSM daddy/master relationship. It is hilarious and pathetic when men do that as it implies they are so insecure with everything about themselves that they need to abuse women to get a sense of control over their lives. It w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 12:30 AM
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He threw two toddlers down an oil well and strangled his wife to death. The only person with any dignity in this story is Sandy Ruzcek, Mother of Shannon Ruzcek, grandmother of Bella and Celeste who took the death penalty off the table because she has some incredible dignity about not wanting there to be any more killing. The legal system will not let Watts out. 3 life sentences and a further 48 year sentence. AS for the mistress, well this is your life your bf is a convicted felon that's no dou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 12:00 AM
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Come on over to/r/LNPCorruption it's aimed at Australian politics thought. Plenty of pissed anti-murdoch stuff there. Murdoch's evil goons and empire has propelled Australian politics and elected some of the most inane stupid people ever in the form of the Liberal National Party of Australia. Nuff said. That sub is to help vent about failed Australian politics. But again meet Kevin Rudd... https://thenewdaily.com.au/news/politics/australian-politics/2020/11/14/kevin-rudd-media-diversity-murdoch/…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 07:34 AM
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Well, if it helps I and 499,999 other people in Australia signed a petition to establish a political royal commission in to what sort of crap Murdoch has pulled. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zapbp6r3MV8&ab_channel=KevinRudd This is fairly key as it was Adelaide that spawned this beast of evil. Edit - I can't link any more items out side of FDS - but Kevin Rudd former PM of Australia called for a senate enquiry in to media diversity. Rupert Murdoch is responsible for Vice and Cat Marnell - the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 04:04 AM
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Don't forget Murdoch's entire fuckery of Australia where it owns and overwhelming majority of the daily papers, it's links to Sky news and Fox news in the US. Yep Murdoch was responsible for Trump. Murdoch is responsible for a major shift to the right's neoliberal views and various other shity outcomes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 10:58 PM
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She's not very well. Enough said I guess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 09:19 AM
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There is no doubt in my mind that this scrote is a LVM. There is nothing tangible that this guy gives to this poor girl. He's stringing her along like it's a casual thing and the more years she invests with him the more he thinks he's getting away with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 02:37 AM
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If it helps, every time you feel that awful sense of cringe, you can also note that as you learnt from that situation, and are much better adjusted as a result. You don't need to beat your self up over a silly mistake that was made long ago. This reflects more on the rather nasty scrote that liked to humiliate women, rather than anything to do with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 01:34 AM
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That scrote's ability to smooth over everything is impressive. Just lie and gas light and lie some more, and shift the goal posts. Ahem. Could the girl chat to the other girl? Prehapse if they both know that each other exists then this delusional situation can end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 01:20 AM
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Dear HR I was attending clinic today on this date and my coworker Dr --- said " " about my body and then carried on to doing [x y z.] I bring this to your attention because I feel that concerns have been raised with me about other areas of his performance but this especially needs to be addressed. At this stage if he is forthcoming with an immediate apology and is cognizant of the potential for harm here, I will consider this matter some what resolved. If there is further blame or additional inf…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 03:17 AM
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By the time the child is about 6, school age showing independence starting to question things there is a good chance that "Dad" is long gone, and whining about child support payments. bUt nO oNe UnDeRsTaNdS hOw HaRd iT iS To Be A dAd on Tinder....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 10:13 PM
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The amount of detachment from "dad" is amazing. He'll be around for the so called "golden moments" then will piss all over the family either checking out or just neglecting the house work and ignoring it until it crumbles out from underneath him. He's pretty much not interested really. This situation is what creates sole parent families. I bet old Dad in about 30 years is going to wake up and wonder why no one talks to him and he's alone. Idiot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 09:05 PM
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I'm sure that NVM has something profound to utter once he's finished his cone, and failure to get past level 3 on Call of Duty that hasn't changed the map in over a decade. I'm sure the rage quits and outbursts of bad language and the musty earthy smell that comes from his favorite chair that promotes skin psoriasis eczema, is such an appealing prospect. The part time wood butchery/tinkering with the house is such a refined rare skill these days. If he was actually any good at it there'd be a fu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 09:59 PM
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You sisters are the best. I got an early night, then got back to it this morning. Just line things up and with a little nudge they will fall in to place. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 09:42 PM
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Hay babe - there must be some of that luck going around at the moment because...... I just got accepted for a fellowship program! Just checked my email 10 minutes ago. More details to come but so long as I graduate on time it looks like I'm gonna be eligible for some serious coinage. The term vomiting rainbows comes to mind. Then I try and play it cool and chilly because I know it's good news and just kept it rocking to yourself first. Edit - so Awesome that she got her paper published. Serious …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 06:07 AM
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It helps to feel your feelings with out any additional distractions like wine, or substances. If you can manage to get through the process of reclaiming your lost emotional energy it will serve you well. This could be seen as your emotional systems rebalancing themselves. They want to know what was wrong so they can never do it again - so thus it repeats in your head. But what you could do is look at something like cognitive behavioral therapy and examine the evidence around it and what to notic…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 05:07 AM
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They do wait to shit all over your golden moment don't they? Firstly congratulations on the publication. It's a big deal and that is awesome. I presume "leuge" is league, and it's some sort of pathetic cry for attention. Publication !!! Woot!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:55 AM
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Spotted in it's own link, rejection violence. Where men on any sort of platform get all shitty when you reject them. https://www.abc.net.au/news/2021-03-20/rejection-violence-in-dating-apps/13253626 I've also had a couple of things that bother me about reddit. I've posted here or in a couple of other subs and I'll get plenty of likes for it. Then I'll get a guy, generally a guy posting a follow up question, generally with a not so subtle put down. I'll answer thinking that was the end of that th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 01:55 AM
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So, last year a investigative journalism team in Australia; released a in-depth investigation in to Tinder it's a 4 Corner's report. Basically a serial rapist was using Tinder in Queensland and the reporting function on tinder didn't work. Several women were sexually abused and the Tinder "team" as such didn't do enough to ensure this product was free from harassment and or accountable enough. Here's the You tube link https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IFFTMfp5iQo&ab_channel=ABCNewsIn-depth Just be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 10:52 PM
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Where is the published peer reviewed evidence that doesn't overwhelmingly name men as the more aggressive individuals that perpetuate relationship violence? There is no opposing opinion here. It's rather sad and one sided that in relationship violence it's generally men. Rather than try to address their scores of violent men and seeking mental healing and therapy we get this back lash of men challenging the data, men minimizing the effects or damage, men not really understanding the impact of th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 05:25 AM
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I would like to state categorically, that individual Men need to be held to account for their bad behavior. The days of accepting shitty behavior are hopefully coming end. There is simply no excuse for abuse or abysmal treatment of women. You don't have to put up with it anymore as society changed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 09:56 AM
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Vice is garbage anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 06:42 AM
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Piers Morgan has finally been cancelled which is brilliant. He is just another sexist shock jock that has been traipsed on our screens that is past his used by date. He's had Rupert Murdoch's hand up his backside for the last few decades and is everything that FDS is up against. Rupert Murdoch is the Australian Media billionaire that brought you the Fox Network and News Corp and supported Trump and his career for the last few years. Rupert Murdoch is an Australian with American citizenship, and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 08:55 PM
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Agreed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 08:18 PM
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Yeah, watching the starter marriages isn't pretty. There really was that pressure wasn't there?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 11:01 AM
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What you want at 21 is not what you want at 35.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 11:00 AM
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It's rare to see it right? Because most military and police and other male organizations have ingrained sexism and misogynistic practices. With the Australian Army realizing that if they want competent medical field officers that tend to be women, they had best change this. Considering the ongoing clean up of C-PTSD and TBI from former veterans, with complex health needs that these men require, there is an ongoing need for psychiatric nursing specialists that tend to be women. Continue down the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 01:38 AM
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I just want to post a link to an incredible speech made by a General David Morrison, in the Australian Army calling out sexism in the Army. It's about 5 years old, and the General has since retired and had thrown his support in to some good causes. It's the most HVM thing I've ever seen, and gave me hope. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s_TfZdIhIgg&ab_channel=ICMISpeakersandEntertainers I know that it's not usually things that you see on FDS, but just occasionally you see a shift change in men t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 10:56 PM
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My skin literally crawled reading that tweet. Rating women on their access and desirability are we? How do I put this. If you can imagine my strong Australian accent - "Could the bell end with the smelly scrote that honestly has the mentality of a broken down drunk in the public bar, that literally thinks that he's worth anything, please sit down and shut the fuck up."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 11:04 PM
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I'm not sad that a crusty old republican with awful views on women has finally shuffled off this mortal coil. I'm not sad at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 05:18 AM
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This is part of the old way of thinking that was to blame women for sexual assault. If it was possible to nominate an item of clothing and a time to go out and do stuff and it would be guaranteed that you wouldn't be sexually assaulted or harmed??? Like we'd all do that. Edit - like telling a rapist, sorry no you are not allowed to do that because I'm wearing my no rape bangle see? Not allowed. If only. :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 04:36 AM
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"and that I could come to if I wanted..." Did he just announce his sudden interest in strip clubs with a female friend at an anniversary lunch, and that your attendance was optional ??? To clarify; he want's to go to strip clubs with a female friend, and he's informing you of this development at a supposed anniversary lunch? So given that this was supposed to be an event in lieu of Valentines day and your 1 year anniversary; this "lunch" was supposed to be a respectful event for you two as a cou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 04:28 AM
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I'm so sorry for your loss. That's such a LMV thing to do, not be there for you during a period of loss! It's like they almost see this as an opportunity to hurt you by being callous during a sad time. But then suddenly expect you to be over it to entertain them. Here's to a new start.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 08:50 PM
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LOL - look at you go!! Nice. Shine on sis. You got this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 11:10 PM
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We love Britney, especially that "Work it" song. I've studied to it a few times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 10:28 PM
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I'm not going to google "bbc" I've got no idea but this has so many red flags all over this shit. NOOOoooooooo Fark off scrote. We want no depravity here. Go away now. Lilly Allen's "Can't knock him out" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5tpWEgLLQNA&ab_channel=MsKelly1996 Chorus "Can't knock em out, can't walk away, tries desperately to think of the politest way to say, just get out of my face just leave me alone, no you can't have my number because I lost my phone."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 10:21 PM
7

What's on the play list? I'm also wishing you health and healing and kindness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 10:11 PM
1

Oh so true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 12:52 AM
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The benefit of wearing a face mask in a time of covid...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 08:57 AM
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Oh yes, the neglect and hostility until you leave game. The initial phase of being attentive, loving and enjoyment.... only for it to turn on a dime and be grudging tolerance, then criticism, then neglect. After suffering that twice in 4 years, I had some real issues. All you can do is leave and block. If they were genuine about the relationship, they wouldn't have been such arseholes to deal with and would have made some effort. They didn't and here we are. The also generally have overbearing n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 09:05 AM
11

A Myers-Briggs personality description does not explain temperament, or personal attributes. It might describe some behavioral traits in hypothetical situations though. What ever, take me out to dinner at a good restaurant and if there is any chemistry or adversely any Ick factor - I'll let you know in a text in a few days time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 08:52 AM
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I'm not "most woman." Bye Block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 08:46 AM
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Leave. This is a shit test, if this gets 'accepted' and rug swept and you have to play along, then this crap will dished out again and again. Set up another job when you are ready of course, and then leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 12:07 AM
2

You see I'm not looking for failed callous fitness coach so that's a no from me. [block.]
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 06:28 AM
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I bet from her perspective it's a completely different story. Like "I didn't go around telling everyone, I had a meltdown and spoke with his mother / sister / exgf... then she did this." If he can record her supposed exact words, then that would be a nudge to you know clean up his act? Yeah right. Kickhimout2021
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 06:21 AM
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Get a nurse aid in there. They can do that sort of thing...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 06:15 AM
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So you have an angry cheating scrote. What's in it for you?? Move away, leave, don't even say anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 06:10 AM
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That is so depressing. As some one with those characteristics I recoil at the thought that they would want to hang me like some sort of trophy over a fire place. Piss off scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 06:07 AM
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Oh yeah that lawyer scene looking haunted for what he did. But the bit where she gets pissed off and kicks over the trash can did it for me. The pissed off, what was I thinking you know you can't trust men, moment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 03:27 AM
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This will be sold when the divorce kicks in surely...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 12:02 AM
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Yesss yess let the strategy flow through you, feel the empowerment...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 11:52 PM
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There's no scientific evidence of "hitting a wall" when it comes to declining fertility. Most women in their mid 30s, some women will start to loose fertility, if that's a concern please see a fertility expert and plan accordingly. Freezing eggs, viable donner genetics and plasma can be keep indefinitely. It's not an if or never question but again seek reliable advice on that one. It's all about, healthy diet, exercise, quality of life, preventative measures and social awareness about changes an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 12:11 PM
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The amount of soul crushing time that was wasted by scrotes in my 20s... I'd best see an optometrist or an eye doctor because my retina's are in danger of detaching from the amount of eye rolling that was caused by that delusional period of my life. I'm thanking what ever dark entity that I either pissed off or appeased with my suffering during that time. Scrotes gonna scrote I guess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 10:09 PM
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So if he still has the $300,000 or so he could just pay $299,500 and slowly drip feed the last $500 back in small amounts over the term? Has he blown it on something? This does have the feel of some one that's involved with gambling or highly risky share trades. There is an incredible amount of market volatility at the moment due to Trump (again) and his instability to spook markets. Yeah you can't dump your emotional bullshit on people when dealing with loans, rentals or things you owe, or at a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 08:32 AM
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If he can't organize a simple yet elegant band from anywhere, even a pick mesha can spot that as a red flag. Play silly games win stupid prizes. pfff polyamory. What a joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 03:26 AM
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That is insanity. Fuck me that is insanity. By removing the ovaries he started early menopause for that women. Plus ethical violation and playing god much!!!! Multimillion dollar law suit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 02:12 AM
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He's a joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 07:19 AM
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I won't let them off the hook with that excuse either. Also easy, I'm not condoning supporting or enabling these people's behavior in any way shape or form. Because it is inexcusable. They wouldn't listen to me anyway. They are their own trash. [EDIT!! I'm in Australia so I'm not in the US, I've only started to review some of the US stuff as it comes up on our feeds after the days events. HOLY SHIT! They really are pretty bad aren't they?? ]
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 07:19 AM
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Just unreal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 05:05 AM
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I want to say they are sick. [edit. I am at a loss. I'm not in the US, so I am looking at this from an outsider's perspective. The fact that openly white supremists were armed and oh just, words fail me rn.]
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 05:03 AM
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Nope the symbols you wear are appropriate, measured kindness that is wholesome. He has lost his way and is sick. The symbols are supposed to make him reflect more on the right way of behaving. This is not a reflection on you. It would have been smart to invite a member of the first nations to ritually cleanse that house, to ask the troubled spirits to leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 04:59 AM
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He's not that crazy shirtless guy with the face paint get up and horns is it? That guy Jake Angeli? Because that guy would be all kinds of abusive nightmare.... Well the bright silver lining of today was, that American congress has finally affirmed Biden as the new President.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 10:33 AM
2

Exactly. It is a really interesting to consider this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 01:10 AM
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Thanks for your thoughtful comments. Thanks for explaining what "juicing" is and pointing out from your area of expertise that it's not healthy. It's really comforting to think I don't think that's right and some one else on FDS thinks so too.... I'm slowly looking on a deeper level at nutrition, its a slow process. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 05:12 AM
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Yep. There has to be standards and I think someone else was on here talking about a gym experience where a scrote 40 something was trying some bullshit, trying to flatter her when all she was trying to do was lift some weights.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 04:47 AM
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So he'd have plenty of medical debt to come then. Nice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 03:58 AM
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Exactly and well done on your fitness goals. I'm a bit jealous to be honest. But that guy's skin looks all wrong, his muscles are all around his neck and it seems very inflamed to me. Is that normal ??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 03:46 AM
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I'm sorry for your loss. Although it was 6 years ago, I utterly understand that it changed your life course and it is hard to completely let go of things like that. That shitty experience of entitled men who want to impose themselves on you at the Gym, or at vulnerable moments are by that definition abusive arseholes. I had two exs in a row that did that and that shit was hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 03:42 AM
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The smell... Shudder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 03:02 AM
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Is Mr Ego Killer's profile really up on OLD?? Because, I thought professional body builders didn't do girlfriends, due to it getting in the way of broccoli and chicken eating. It seems really strange that it would be up on there. I personally would never date a body builder. Just no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 02:59 AM
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Exactly - you see these scrotes all the time. They sell all sorts of evil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 11:17 PM
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There is so many reasons why I'd trust a female financial investor more than some scrote!!! https://www.theguardian.com/world/2009/feb/22/iceland-women Read this. The 2009 crash happened and Iceland's banks melted down and who sorted that mess out and came out stronger after??? Female investors that's who.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 11:16 PM
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True story: A sole parent that selling stuff on the internet. Cups with pithy slogans, T-shirts with funny tag lines, home furnishings like pillow cases with funny cartoons on them. The online retailer to sell bespoke items may actually work as a side hustle. She did that for a bit, then got a role as a nurses aid, as she quietly puts her self through school. She admits she's a hot mess but. Which is fine. Another is a school teacher, who created this business with her husband for after school a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 11:12 PM
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Consider Mariah Carey's engagement to James Packer. Lasted 18 months, and she noted the cheating and dumped him. Packer paid her somewhere between 6- 12 Million for her "time." https://www.news.com.au/entertainment/celebrity-life/hook-ups-break-ups/james-packer-pays-mariah-carey-millions-after-messy-breakup/news-story/2e99bd6d9946d4833d62684e6e35fb92 Carey has some form of NDA, and gets to keep things and not be affected by this. So it came down to "time." Packer paid Carey for her time and inte…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 07:08 AM
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Since joining this sub, I've made an interesting observation. I've increased my blocking of male users. I stupidly when I joined, was prepared to wear the back and forward from people who were subtly trolling me on Reddit. I'm currently fresh from an argument supporting reproductive rights for women, and that attracts all sorts of weird allies. But what I have found is that I get these back and forward "conversations" that descend in to abuse and they have the hall marks of male entitlement. The…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 06:53 AM
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Thanks for sharing your story! That's very interesting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 07:56 AM
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So Match has to manage it's perception of it's tinder product after a bunch of women came away bleeding and bruised from their encounters with a serial rapist on tinder in Australia. There was an investigation on it. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IFFTMfp5iQo&t=2s&ab_channel=ABCNewsIn-depth So no - as cute and "charming" as Satan is, I'd not put any support in to tinder as a match making app due to this major problem with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 12:18 AM
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Here's the accounting term of Sunk Cost Definition: "Sunk costs are excluded from future business decisions because the cost will remain the same regardless of the outcome of a decision." https://www.investopedia.com/terms/s/sunkcost.asp When the accountants say it's time, it's time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 12:03 AM
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Anyone else getting "Dirty John" vibes?? https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/dirty-john/id1272970334 He turned up in cargo shorts on the grift from prison too....homeless just wanting a place to sleep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 08:33 AM
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I'd look at a new flat. Yes COVID fucked over a bunch of things and you are broke. Time to declutter so it's easier to move, and start to move elsewhere. There is no arguing with an entitled WoW male gamer, they are feral. This is some what common, modern life is just too hard right now and thus it's easier to game online. They will happily live in their parent's basement only to be feed sausage rolls via a garage roller door as they live out their fantasies on line for months on end. They loose…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 08:24 AM
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It was power rocking until the last twist. Which I was very sad about. Bitter sweet really. But some excellent clap backs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 08:07 AM
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I use a $17 pressure cooker purchased at the height of the lockdown and have made some pretty good sushi with it. This sort of requirement to manage a boy's toxic relationship with his family is redundant. I will not tolerate a daily berate by some older woman that has no dignity or self worth and expects to have an emotional punching bag for a potential future daughter in law. I will calmly hand this over to the boy to solve. If that is not forthcomming "I'm out!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 07:24 AM
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Unreal. This is a good example of male entitlement in action. He honestly thinks that his opinion is valid right? That making girls uncomfortable at the gym is a "fun" thing to do. What a useless scrote. Let me put it this way, from a purely economic reason point, if he makes people uncomfortable that leads to discontinued gym memberships and people taking their business else where. You are paying for the privilage of being oggled at by some creep. This was not a service you signed up for and mu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 12:27 AM
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I'd report him to the gym's management. As in "Hay on this day, at this time this guy was making me feel uncomfortable by drawing comparisons between my body and a teenager. I don't think he should be doing that. Can you tell me if others have complained about this behavior?" It might unearth something. Also overt flattery and "love bombing" is setting you up for a sense of "reciprocity" he says nice things about you, you are expected to flatter his ego back. Nah this is out an out a red flag. N…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 10:35 PM
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So you were even braver and cooler by not responding to a thumbs up emoji. Celebrate small wins!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 10:28 PM
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I suspect, that this scrote has an exceptional ability to tell people what they want to hear; but when it actually comes to doing anything it's a complete and utter failure. There's nothing wrong with blowing up your life even if it looks perfect from the outside. If it is not congruent with what you need to be able to sleep at night then do it. One caveat. Don't trash a comfortable life for a flash in pan situation, and if it's some sort of dumb ultimatum, leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 07:14 AM
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Ahh yes, the ploy. I'll either make a mistake because I never paid attention and this gift will make up for lots of things; or the I can't wait till she calls me and tells me the correct laffy taffy flavour and I can gaslight her in to admitting she was wrong. Ziploc bags, unless for sandwiches are all kinds of wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 02:31 AM
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So a bit of background - https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/montreal/quebec-judge-remarks-crown-weighs-in-1.4410520 and https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/montreal/quebec-judge-remarks-crown-weighs-in-1.4375246 That judge has been kicked off the case, the comment was in French, which I don't know if it made it worse, and better news there is a new judge that has been appointed to make a sentencing hearing against the rapist. After international condemnation of that rubbish the initial judge is looking a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 03:45 AM
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OMG. This helped!! Oooh. Thankyou.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 12:07 AM
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How is that funny? Your newly wed wife just received a physical threat, from a drunk man that had probably been at her all evening, making her feel incredibly afraid, and scared for her life and the OP brushed it off as "no big deal." What if the OP had gone to the male toilets, started to urinate and in the other stall, a man had a gun and said "I like your balls, I'd love playing with them as you breathe your last" and after dealing with that threat, returned to his newly wed wife to be told "…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 11:35 PM
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I think dying alone is more preferable than being some one's endless emotional punching bag, I'm just putting it out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 01:30 AM
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This isn't about the urine in the hot tub. This is the years or so of neglect, the watering down of complaints the childishness of not being a reliable mate the on going downward spiral. It's the default "It's no big deal" of it all. It's that endless refrain when you actually need something taken care of. It's the endless picking up after him and the mental load of having to do it yourself. It's the gas lighting - you're the one with the urine in the bath tub problem - problem. It's the effortl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 01:28 AM
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Get a massage therapy session at a spa. Some one would be happy for the work and you can shift this as a reward for being - you. Or go buy your self some scented cream, scented candles and set up your room and give your self a food massage, and or home pedicure. Spend time with an animal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 01:32 AM
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What's a club goblin? Apart from an insult. Never mind, you can't take a young man seriously if all he does is weightlift and be disrespectful to women. I wonder what this scrote is studying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 01:18 AM
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Wooh. I thought this was a uniquely Australian male thing. What I have noticed is that if you grew up in Australia, that is spent more than 4 years at secondary school in Australia, your dating life tends to be pining after many ex girlfriends. They sort of float around in an unfinished, cruel on again off again dance. No one is really in to hard boundaries anymore, there is no I don't want to see you again, it's all about the stay in touch rubbish. Like 25 year olds still staying in touch with …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 04:23 AM
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Bullet Dodged. What an entitled shit bag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 08:52 PM
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He can't apologize properly. "Sry" what is that? Seriously? Sorry? Story? Clearly he'd been rude earlier with something when she calls him immature. This is oily all over innit? Block delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 08:49 PM
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They are your valid emotions. You feel all the feelings utterly reasonable. But above all, you want to protect yourself against being done over again. So you I think we all have to be naturally careful and FDS is pretty keen on vetting pretty heavily up front. Which is perfectly reasonable. It's a reminder to keep true to your boundaries and maybe consider how those boundaries were being pressed and how that works. But self care also works too. Remind yourself that these were the stand out actio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 02:30 AM
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How about giving yourself credit for getting out of that situation? Give credit to your self eventually you recognized that this was deeply unfair, and a revolting situation but you got away? Also you can forgive the situation, how it came to be, but not the behavior that was attached to another person. You may also get flash backs but that is by and large your brain or nervous system telling you to be aware of that situation as it caused you pain. Comfort yourself and remind yourself that by an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 02:16 AM
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I think you answered your own question with that last sentence. "I'm kinda turned off by him." Explore a bit more here, your gut feeling will expose something buried and something that you can't put your finger on it. I am curious about the home handywoman lie he put up. Why a tiler? I think, it's more the way he makes up stories that's probably off-putting. I bet there is a lot of future faking going on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 03:21 AM
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Yeah, this song was from the album that she made after she divorced her abusive first husband Ike. She went to a record producer with nothing but her name, promising that she would make good on any record deal. This album started a string of hits, especially the song "What's love got to do with it" which was a really incredible lived experience of domestic abuse and recovery. I heard this as a pre-teen for the first time (showing how old I am) and a product of a sole parent, but it must have don…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 12:43 AM
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What happens when a male's penile tissues break due to smoking, lack of exercise, insufficient blood flow and ligament tissue issues? I mean if we are going to judge people by their genital's shape and the ability for concentric muscle control, then we may as well give the same amount of "concern" to men here. This is utterly repugnant and shows a lack of anatomy knowledge to boot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 12:02 AM
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Or you know the facial tattoos that are clearly so helpful when looking at paid employment. ;/ Oh but I'm hitting a wall apparently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 01:14 AM
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I won't be judged by a man that has facial tattoos, or visible tattoos on his hands that look like they were drawn on in jail.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 01:13 AM
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Me being innocent was going to write screes how Coca-cola the soft drink is 40% sugar corn syrup in a can before I caught it. What's with his hair line? The long hair covers it but that's a receding hair line.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 06:05 AM
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Block him back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 06:01 AM
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Sure! I can be Aunty Eternity - and he can be Mad Max.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 06:15 AM
2

This. Is. So. Good. Thankyou. r/LifeAfterNarcissism
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 02:09 AM
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Lol!! I know I got "Pussy I'd like to f*ck" I was like - I've never spoken to you, you grotesque little man, then BLOCK. I'm like... wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 06:35 AM
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The thing is, that the minute you let on that you're female, this onslaught happens. A bit like a looong loong time ago I happily played online games, and because I didn't get a headset I said I had no mic set. Then when I got one, the minute I opened my mouth online - it all changed. The minute you stick your head above the parapet... So that means more visibility I guess. But I live in Australia, and where I am there has been greater accountability around online stalking and harassment. So the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 04:46 AM
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I'll consider it. But I'm more than happy to just block and keep moving. But I'll consider it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 04:22 AM
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Hi FDS. I'm getting a bunch of mail redirects that was posting really inappropriate things to me. I've just blocked them out of habit but I've noticed an uptick in them since joining this sub and occasionally contributing to this sub. I just got propositioned crudely - and yeah. Reddit is becoming down right lawless in some areas. Just a heads up. Cheers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 12:50 PM
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So no one liked him in Sydney or Melbourne? Wants a partner to pontificate with? Bla bla no thanks. Soccer MBA? This is an international from Australia, not a bloke from Australia. They have AFL or NFL on their descriptions. Master of Business accreditation isn't as sort after or considered as such.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 04:16 AM
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Nah - gut feeling - nah. He's not good enough. [edit - he seemed "annoyed" when you checked in with him when he was just browsing magazines, some one that's used to ignoring people he's supposed to be paying attention to. I've seen men wait for hours for some one that they are excited about on the chance that they will see that person. He's some one that's too entitled and has a thing about time management. Probably from his bullshit IT job. NAH it's a No from me. ]
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 11:58 PM
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Yes. Be blunt. Any nicely coached explanation will be ignored.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 11:56 PM
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So your friend has been with a LVM for 10 years or so, and you with the healthy emotional boundaries, are being singled out to be the bridesmaid? LVM don't change, this wedding thing is going to be the final straw for him. She's being future faked, this engagement thing was some sort of ultimatum and he's ignoring it because wedding stuff is just like that boring domestic chores that some how get picked up by some sort of invisible force that cleans up after him. Quit. I'd return the bridesmaids…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 11:54 PM
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They are "On and Off" Hard hard pass! This is a common problem with immature men / LVM, they don't break up or state their preferences. They continue to future fake anyone and when you do break it off they will lurk around on and off until there's a development. Grrrr. Also don't get involved with men in early sporting careers, MMA boxers, or body builders that focus on that at the expense of everything else. You are seen as an additional resources to fix his life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 12:12 AM
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Oh lol!!! "Super Nice" - We know you'll love the bare minimum..." Brilliant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 02:46 AM
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Wow, and this creeper is wanting to date? This is reminding me of the "Dirty John" series from the LA Times on a serial rapist and batterer John Meehan. His MO was similar. https://www.iheart.com/podcast/272-dirty-john-28464691/ Depressingly common a disordered personality with a simmering hate towards women, acts in a bizarre method trying to present himself as some sort of broken individual to be "fixed" because it's one of those strategies that worked in the past. Nothing of interest here. A …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 07:20 AM
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Oh wow did he? Wow. This does point to an deeply unstable personality, a possibly disturbed one. A worry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 03:36 AM
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It might mean he's done jail time since they encourage men to write letters. Seriously - take this to the cops and run a background check. [Edit - this has been said in a few comments so I'm kinda repeating what everyone else is saying so I get that. I also gotta love everyone on this sub that immediately reflects on creepers in the past that they have had to deal with and pass on tips. There is no denial here it's immediately backing the OP to the hilt. This is what FDS is all about.]
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 01:25 AM
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Put that note in to the police and report it ASAP and get them to run a background check to make sure there's nothing illegal going on. If he is a wanted felon or has a lengthy criminal record then he lied on his rental application. That will get him kicked out. That dumb scrote just brought a world of heat on his arse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 01:22 AM
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The whiny tone got to me. I could only hack about 30 seconds and two bits of bullshit before I clicked off. If anything, China's one child policy created the phenomena of the Little Emperor Syndrome, spoilt male children with some very involved parenting and inlaws all expecting to be looked after by a working wife who want's to spend her time and energy picking up the slack. It's no wonder that many say no to that. https://www.wikiwand.com/en/Little_emperor_syndrome
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 11:08 PM
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Perfect. Yep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 08:49 PM
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Does anyone else flinch at the red rose petal thing? Like it's a fact that the display is something you have to react and coo over; but unless you are in a hotel where some luckless maid gets to clean it up there is a good chance that you might have too? If the petals looks like they could be picked up in a matter of minutes and put into a box to be made in to something then fine. Just the over the top displays, glitter and candles that aren't properly set up... it's a complement that you have t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 01:23 AM
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Thankyou! OMG there is a term for this!! Unreal. Thank you!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 02:02 AM
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So trash takes it's self out. nice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 01:21 AM
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We believe you! You got this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 09:13 AM
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Oh good. Glad to see that it's the Melbourne Dhs putting this out. Nice. :/ If the Melbourne bail and domestic violence system could put in place proper safe guards that would work better. That whole stalking thing. Like seriously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 01:06 AM
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I agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 08:59 PM
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Hay mods - abc news just launched a story on us. https://www.abc.net.au/life/what-is-female-dating-strategy-and-does-it-work/12665322 Just an FYI - lots of additional work might be generated from this. Just a heads up. Lots of really nasty brigaders might be incoming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 08:34 AM
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My kind *Angelic self To scrote oh poor thing you! Insulted and belittled your now ex-girlfriend and then wondered why she didn't want to stick around for it. Clearly his friends had heard this all before because they were clearly egging him on. Well this is a teachable moment for him isn't it? A bit of personal growth on his part and the self reflection of just what might have lead to this event. The FDS self No you weren't to harsh, if scrote here can't be respectful, he can fuck off and die a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 05:10 AM
16

Did the scrote that sent that to her, do you need some debridement of that full thickness burn you just got? It went down to the bone. Much respect for the grammatically correct Captain. *Salute
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 08:20 AM
10

I could write so much on this topic. All of those Abrahamic religions have that fundamental misogynistic bent to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 02:47 AM
29

I'm not sure pathologizing porn addiction is the way to go. Unlike chemical addiction such as alcohol, or substance abuse - porn addition falls in to the silent robbery of attention and will often overlap into financial mismanagement. If your "porn addict" is also paying for subscription services, only fans content, additional paid content to see pay per view or engaging in online activity with sex workers, the financial pain of that is often compared to a partner's secretive gambling habit. It …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 11:14 AM
4

Oh dear. You are literally experiencing a case of over share, with a slice of "on paper he looks great" nonsense. With a horrible case of future faking. Let's deal with your comfort level first. Why are you playing therapist to this guy? Why are you letting him, live rent free in your head? Boundaries are critical because it's clear that he's sizing you up to place the next pick me / side piece in his theatre. Are you interested? Then I'd read on and weigh these red flags. So right now he's babb…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 11:33 PM
11

He had presumably a courtship phase when he could have brought up deal breakers before they got engaged. I really hope she ditched him and did not go through with the wedding, because accepting this low bar behavior will set her up for a life of being bullied by her in-laws and husband. A power move would be to beg him back, go through with it until... she ditches him at the alter. #runawaybride
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 09:20 AM
16

They will never change. Until you just get sick of it and end it. I've had at least 3 ex-boyfriends lurk on back to me either apologizing or scroating along realizing that yeah they did pretty fucking well out of the relationship but left me to miserably pick up the pieces with out them as they weren't going to change. I had to dump their arse, generally had to change living conditions have to generally get in to another bullshit situation because waste of fucking space LVM will take and take un…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 12:50 AM
5

Also that red pill negative comment at the beginning "humm I don't know too many car girls thats interesting tho" I read this sentence either he's not meet women that are interested in cars, because he's never attended a car meet or a race meet or speedway? Because plenty of women are interested in that. Or that drift of sexist assumptions around women not being interested in cars, or the fact that he wants to pit you against this mythical creature that's supposed to be perfect in everyway but y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 12:41 AM
2

Block. I'm seeing this sneery bullshit that is personally unpalatable. I don't need to prove that I'm a good cook to this guy because he has an interest in cars. Fuck right off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 12:27 AM
13

Revolting scrote. Eww.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 10:05 AM
6

I tried reading that book to get an understanding, he just published some rather bland self help psychology and pushed the idea of self actualization using a bloody lobster metaphor of all things. THEN some red pill / male nonsense tagged on to that and of course anything that gets media is good right - especially when one has a book to flog. He was made to explain himself which of course male defensiveness that the peanut gallery painted him out to be some sort of crusader. It's a tedious read …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 03:07 AM
5

Thankyou!! I always have trouble articulating what it is I hate about that character. Casual sexist bullshit works now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 11:03 AM
6

HAHA!! Oh brilliant. Scrote meet option C.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 10:29 AM
15

Yes. Duh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 11:32 PM
1

I had to look up who Offset was. I see. Ah yes. Well as an older female that myth of "being unwanted" is just that - a myth. We are dealing with men here aren't we.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 10:25 PM
3

Oh I agree. Totally agree and support your decisions about not marrying anyone and being CF. Also - I'm not advocating marriage. It's utterly weighted in men's favor and they get the biggest benefits out of being married. We tend to carry the fucking can over and over again. I am balanced and ok with those choices I've made in this area. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 09:49 PM
35

So I gather we all watched that IG video of some scrote deciding that since he wasn't getting preferential treatment, he was going to split the bill based on expectations. This little gem of course is framed as "Ho ho this is so funny that girl's expectations blew up in her face didn't it." Which it is not. Yet over and over again lots of women feel disappointed on behalf of the girl in the video, looking at his switch and bait behavior. Clearly he didn't value the dinner conversation, or clearl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 03:25 AM
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Don't think that just because you move overseas to Australia that this sort of crap stops either. https://www.abc.net.au/news/2020-09-20/priya-survived-abuse-isolation-suicide-clusters-coroner/12678298 Increased domestic violence and a suicide risk is also apparent. Don't marry that "nice guy" that promises to make it all work overseas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 02:59 AM
6

It's infuriating right? If he'd put "I'm a working retail sales guy, but my master plan is to do x, " "x" being anything like being a sour dough bread maker or programmer or music what ever. That would have been sufficient. But no, we have insecurity, lies and glossing over which creates a problem. We also have no drive or direction with this guy and that can be a problem too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 10:10 AM
7

Ok - "Investor and Novelist." Investors can be some one with $500 in a target store card. Technically it's an investment. This is the most silly job description I've ever seen, I mean honestly? It says "unemployed." Novelist - what did you read some like pulpy fiction in an airport lounge at the domestic terminal? Some dire science fiction? Do you write at all? Oh no don't I don't want to be subject to dire and uninteresting shit with a long expository back story. It's a no from me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 06:41 AM
5

Actually - I was watching a lot of Kal Penn's "The global economy" and it had an episode on the constant rise of deep fake images. With the rise and rise of good fakes out there we might need to consider some of these things. If that incriminating evidence came to light anywhere - a possible strategy could be, "That is so horrible! Could it be a image fake of some one with my head on it? I did go out with that guy a while ago but the guy I knew was not like that, why would he do something like t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 01:10 AM
4

Unmatch. It's a red flag. He's got no drive to improve his lot when you are in the frame so to speak, he'll continue to drift around until he lands somewhere which is pretty toxic. He'd also have a truck load of financial issues too which means even more work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 01:00 AM
18

Brilliant!!! I laughed so hard. "Any further questions regarding my smile or weight can be directed to my office" where I suspect that shit will go down. Love it. Love the nah, not negotiating tone too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 03:15 AM
1

David Attenborough Voice: Here we see the NVM in it's natural habitat, his immature vocal talents to attract a mate is woefully inadequate, he has failed utterly. The female unperturbed will eventually fly away perfectly aware of her worth...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 04:39 AM
12

So you are trying to have a really delicate conversation with your family about how after many years of self doubt, anxiety and messages around what is essentially a slow or fast personal revelation or an acceptance that you are a lesbian to be meet with a male going "Ooooh Likey." Reducing this to some sort of hyper-sexualized entertainment borderline mansplaning comment, displaying no empathy at all and demonstrating why she was so reticent talking about these personal things in the first plac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 04:08 AM
60

Good old fashioned abrahamic misogynistic obsession. Oh sisters...Run, Run so far away. Nothing fires up a "good" Pakistani Sunni Muslim man like being horribly entitled about having absolute control over women's bodies. This little treasure is a good example of controlling and potentially dangerous scrote that likes to use religion as a convenient excuse to unleash his terror on women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 02:14 AM
6

Oh I could write a thesis on that one too. But I'm gonna do some breathing and remind myself that this was along time ago in a universe far far away. Parental neglect and the rest of it makes angry young teenagers turn in to thoughtful women that won't even entertain this shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 07:10 AM
30

I'm in awe at how callous this is. I'm CF because I spotted some of this growing up, and I knew that I could never depend on another family member should it all turn pear shaped. But with the casual neglect in details such as these... Oh that scrote. That filthy negligent scrote. I'm just appalled at the inability to even consider potential risks to those children here. All the fun of being daddy - probably not been feed properly - hyped up on a sugar crash dumped home in car carriers. Set up fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 04:51 AM
8

It speaks to motivation and the ability to toughen up and be financially responsible if he needed too. Is he quite comfy in that middle role and puts in 4 - 5 hours a night playing the same games over and over again for months on end? Could he suddenly step up and get a better job if he needed too? Whats stopping him from doing that? Could he apply himself? Use that time to get accreditation to do so? Or another question to ask is what's stopping you from going for it? Unfortunately - some Men h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 09:39 AM
6

Oww. I'm so sorry that happened to you. I am 40+ and I do see a few of my friends in similar situations. I think you are amazing just as you are. I'd skip OLD, and look at doing some courses and night classes and what not. Just have really high standards, because there are so many broken men out there. It's hideous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 09:28 AM
11

I just want to thank the mods for letting me post here. I've just finished binge watching the "Dirty John" podcast series. It's been remade in to a series staring Eric Bana and Connie Britton, I just couldn't stop flinching as I saw red flag after red flag just from the first 20 minutes and I had to put that on pause. The podcast from Christopher Goffard is excruciating, as it outlines how John Meehan the con man scrote - who was casually destroying women he meet from OLD, and Goffard explained …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 09:21 AM
2

Blocked & deleted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 02:16 AM
14

Yep that old horrible shit. The old "she's a prude if she won't sleep with you, and a slut if she did, but doesn't want to anymore." All around keeping women in a subservient place and discrediting women in general. Evil misogynistic bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 02:53 AM
2

I'm so glad you cut your losses. Go you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 01:58 AM
4

The sunk cost fallacy. "In economics and business decision-making, a sunk cost is a cost that has already been incurred and cannot be recovered." That is the amount you have already spent here - if you are not getting it back...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 02:12 AM
2

I am not in competition for your affection. If you want other people fine no problem. But don't come crying to me, two months down the track when she slashes your tires, cuts your shirts up in to love hearts with a pair of scissors, pours paint on your car etc etc. I will laugh my arse off and say "Well that's dam funny. Some would even think of that as karma. Well good luck with all of that."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 02:15 AM
26

To at least 4 different women... Oh what a catch. It's a bit pitchy dawg, that's a no from me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 03:12 AM
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