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QUEEN SH*Tsushiwalrus/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 05:11 PM
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SCROTES MADsushiwalrus/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 05:42 PM
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QUEEN SH*Tsushiwalrus/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 09:55 PM
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FDS MEMESsushiwalrus/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 10:40 PM
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LIES MEN TELLsushiwalrus/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 05:11 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYsushiwalrus/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 09:29 PM
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DISCUSSIONsushiwalrus/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 02:54 PM
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RANTsushiwalrus/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 04:17 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYsushiwalrus/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 11:39 PM
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RED FLAG 🚨sushiwalrus/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 06:09 PM
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RED FLAG 🚨sushiwalrus/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 06:15 PM
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It only “counts” if you’ve slept with people the man knows in order for it to get back to them. Otherwise they have no way of knowing your past and most men don’t care/want to know. The issue arises if you have some sort of reputation so that the information is forced on them by outside parties. Men are the ones telling other men about women’s body counts a lot of the time unprompted. They aren’t asking women directly or even other men.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/23 05:07 PM
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That’s funny because my friends constantly complain about their husbands leaving shit in the sink instead of simply putting it in the dishwasher. They never take stuff out of the dishwasher either
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 04:13 PM
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This is such a weird argument to me. Men always complain about women not knowing how to cook or clean but the women they’re complaining about live in cleaner living spaces than them and don’t subsist on ramen noodles. Do they think women just order takeout 3x a day and hire maid cleaning services every single week?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 01:55 PM
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I think a man wrote this as some dumb fantasy not a woman. This reads like a Tyler Perry script.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 08:22 AM
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Putting 7-9 in the danger zone is a bit much imo considering most people don’t get off work until between 5-6PM. Someone could get off work, drive straight home, and immediately text you the moment they get in the house and they would be in your casual fling category. I agree anything after 9 is suspect except for certain circumstances (ex: you both are night shift workers, you both are watching a movie or show and earlier you discussed texting through it to get commentary, etc.) There are excep…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 08:08 AM
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Can we have more context about that list? What sub was it posted to and what comment is it a response to? It reads like neckbeard satire. If that poster is being dead serious then 🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 07:51 AM
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He backtracked when his mind games failed lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 07:47 AM
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Nope. According to some of the people in this sub if things go south you can’t analyze the situation and use it as a cautionary tale for other women and you can’t call the person a pickme because “it’s mean”. You can only bring up a girl being a pickme when the consequences are minimal so overall in her situation being a pickme doesn’t matter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 08:21 PM
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Refusing cheap dates is one of the easiest ways to weed out men who just want a one night stand so for that reason alone it should always be implemented. 50/50 is for monogamous committed relationships if you choose that’s how you want to do things. If a man is courting you then he pays 100% every time. No exceptions. The moment he stops paying if a discussion about exclusivity hasn’t happened kick him to the curb. Men invest in things they value. They don’t hesitate to spend $500+ on a gaming s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 05:12 PM
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If that’s the case just don’t call any woman a pickme then since you don’t know what their situation is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 05:00 PM
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It could be a death wish though if she’s in an abusive relationship. Some people think death is the only way out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 04:51 PM
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There needs to be a better way to weed out these shitbags.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 04:46 PM
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OP never claimed she wasn’t a victim of abuse? I think it’s pretty clear her husband is an abuser since he didn’t care if she died as long as he could get his dick touched. A pickme can be a victim of abuse. A pickme isn’t a terrible person or human being. Most women have been or are pickmes because society designs us to be. Being a pickme doesn’t make you a terrible person or mean you should be hated. You guys are acting as if OP implied she deserves to be abused or mistreated I don’t get it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 04:45 PM
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So if someone engages in pickme behavior we should make no mention of it because it’s putting women down and we should just sit back and watch them continue to do whatever harmful situation they’re in? Saying someone is a pickme isn’t saying they’re unworthy of respect of kindness. They are worthy of all of those things but they don’t have it in their current situation. You may be offended by this post but I’m glad OP made it because I’m sure viewing it made some women aware of bad situations th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 04:39 PM
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I think the person was trying to say if he was horny and desperate he could have fucked off to another room and just jacked off instead of harassing his poor wife. They were saying he had no reason to even ask her for sex at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 04:19 PM
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That is not the definition of a pickme. You can be a pickme without putting other women down. Pickmes are women who put themselves down for the sake of having men acknowledge them. It’s somewhat common for pickmes to also bring other women down because if you don’t value yourself as a woman there’s a chance you may not value other women, but it’s by no means required. You don’t have to be a shitty person to be a pickme. You just have to want men’s attention and love above all else. This woman ch…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 04:14 PM
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Someone that isn’t a pickme would not allow a man to have sex with them less than 24 hours after giving birth. She allowed it because she doesn’t value herself and values the man in her life more. You can feel bad for someone that is a pickme and sympathize with their situation. Pretending that a women’s self worth and views of herself don’t impact how she allows people to treat her is disingenuous and it helps no one. Getting rid of a shitty partner only gets rid of the symptom not the problem …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 04:09 PM
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Women need to force the men they’re with to watch them give birth viewing the actual c-section or vaginal birth. Make them watch you get any resulting care like stitches too. These idiots just don’t get it unless they physically see it. If a scrote still pushes you for sex after watching all of that then just break up honestly. He views you as nothing but an object.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 04:04 PM
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Lmao yes. These pathetic losers will use any opportunity to try to pick up women it doesn’t matter what platform it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 11:07 PM
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Exactly she needs to ask why he’s still living at home. Is it because he could never afford to move out until she came along?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 07:42 PM
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That’s why they’re complaining. They want the gold diggers to give them a chance but it’s not happening lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 07:36 PM
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And then Kevin Hart proceeds to cheat on his trophy!!! Even when these men get what they’re after they fuck it up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 07:34 PM
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So the guy that films these goes around to anyone with a fancy car at this particular Dallas shopping center and asks what they do for a living and he records their answers. In the full video it shows him asking a bunch of men and she’s the only woman he approached. The first man in the video looks like Colonel Sanders 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 02:55 AM
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Thanks. My “friend” got mad because some of the drink from the other girl got on her black shirt and it wasn’t visible. She said we were immature and needed to grow up (because not just dealing with male abuse is immature I guess). Never spoke to her again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 10:43 PM
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I have no doubt in my mind the majority of no’s were male lurkers. I knew they were going to do that but I made the poll anyway because the fact that they tried to troll and derail and the responses from women saying yes still outweighs that says it all. They’re so predictable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 09:55 PM
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Hmmmm I have a sneaking suspicion that scrote lurkers are voting and still their no’s are outnumbered 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 08:30 PM
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I don’t think she suspected him until she saw his very very strange reaction to his girlfriend being ganged raped. His response is what made her put everything together. If he acted like he gave any fucks she probably wouldn’t have suspected it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 06:02 PM
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The boyfriend was 100% involved. If the attackers had no relation to her at all they would have obscured her faces and not made the conscious effort to make no noises at all. One smelled exactly like the boyfriend and they conveniently dropped her off right by where she lived? And this all conveniently happens after the boyfriend is mad at her for cheating and makes a comment about how easy it would be to attack her since she walks the same time everyday? He’s been observing that it’s the same e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 06:01 PM
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This was such a small mistake honestly. You didn’t deserve that at all. If they took issue with you not asking they should have just told you please ask before touching someone’s dog. You were a fucking child. They just wanted an excuse to abuse someone. People touch my dog all the time without asking and I’ve felt nervous about it but never rage which is required to physically assault someone. How is this behavior okay? 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 03:17 PM
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These men are sick. If rape wasn’t considered a crime that carries jail time I have no doubt in my mind some of these upstanding men would have no issue participating. You can look at wartimes and slavery for historical proof on that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 03:10 PM
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When I was 23 I was walking through a nightclub looking for my friend who go separated from our group and felt someone push me. I turned around and saw an angry incel looking guy staring me down. His friend apologized for his behavior and held me by the shoulders and started walking me away from him. This made the incel even angrier and he tried kicking me hard in the back of the leg but it ended up being a weak kick because I didn’t go down. His friend screamed WHAT THE FUCK and I ran towards t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 03:07 PM
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You could have a zoom date where the guy sends Uber eats to your house or Venmo’s you cash to get whatever you want while you guys chat but I haven’t seen anyone propose this!! I can see why guys instantly jump at virtual shit or walk dates but we can easily require them to have some effort attached to those things. Let’s see how quick they are to suggest zoom meetups then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 12:54 AM
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I don’t really believe this. There are always signs. We just choose to ignore them or give multiple chances because from infancy we are taught to give others chances, forgive, be understanding, yadda yadda when men aren’t taught the same thing. We have so much intuition as women. Most just don’t realize it because it’s been snuffed out since our fucking infancy. Men like this will always slip up. Nobody can pretend and hide who they are that fully otherwise these men would be high paying actors,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 11:55 PM
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Yeah that’s nasty. I don’t want low quality community dick. If any and every woman can have access to you then I don’t want you. You belong to the streets. Just like these men say about women. Dick is abundant so you can easily be replaced by someone whose dick doesn’t have 100,000+ miles on it 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:37 PM
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Yes and I refuse to be a rebound. Oh the other girl you were interested in didn’t want you so you’re ready to settle down with me? I don’t want you either bitch!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 04:28 AM
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What’s fucking loser. Is he pretending to be monogamous with her or does he refuse to put a title on their relationship and she just accepts it? I hate men. If I get any inkling that there are other women being spoken to I immediately cut them off
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 02:50 AM
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The best part is that Jada never cheated since both Smiths have been in an open relationship for at least a decade now 😂 Yet they still came out in droves to support their fallen brother Will who got his wittle feelings hurt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 07:01 PM
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I like these too now thank you for giving us cute facts about them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 07:23 PM
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There’s no way that roid freak convincingly pretends to be a decent person. There are a subset of people that can genuinely fool, but if we are all honest with ourselves the majority of shitbags we’ve dealt with were obvious shitbags we just chose to ignore the obvious. I always listen to my intuition now even if I have nothing else to go off of. If I get bad vibes from a guys he’s out. Red flags and he’s blocked before even realizing he’s been cut out of my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 07:18 PM
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Lmao I love her for this. Also I’m so sick of these scrotes being disingenuous. Where the fuck are you going that sushi costs $60 for two people? Are you some gross pig beast that’s ordering 3-4 rolls for yourself alone? Just say you aren’t willing to part with $30 for a party of two and go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 12:18 PM
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You aren’t scared about them knowing where you live? That’s what keeps me always driving separate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 12:22 AM
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I got an angry DM after calling Tory Lanez a manlet on here 😭😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 12:17 AM
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Lol they’re instantly blocked they don’t even get dignified with a response.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 11:38 PM
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Freedom to marinate in their filth while they struggle to pay bills and blame all their problems on the women who refuse to be saddled with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 07:30 PM
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They’re the ones that claim they’ve been forced into marriage, trapped into marriage, miss being “free”, wonder what could have been, etc. Then as soon as their wife gives them the chance to be single again they get enraged and offended. They’re so stupid lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 05:48 PM
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Exactly. We know there are men out there that are willing to put in effort so we need to refuse the bums that try to lowball us. Quality over quantity everyday always.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 05:44 PM
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I used to be obsessed with sloths and a guy that was into me knew so he invited me out for lunch. Before lunch he said he wanted to stop by the local museum because he heard there was an interesting exhibit there. In the butterfly house there was a sloth!!! I will admit that was super sweet and I talked about the sloth the entire time during lunch. He could have just done the museum to be cheap but he combined it with a lunch afterwards because he wasn’t trying to just be cheap. If men care they…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 03:58 PM
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I swipe left instantly I don’t even bother reading. They’re either Using a baby pic as some weird manipulation tactic. You know as soon as that photo was snapped they launched that baby into the arms of a parent then walked off They have a kid which I’m not interested in Men like to use pics with dogs that aren’t theirs too. If I bring up your dog pic and you confess it’s not your dog I’m unmatching you for trying to lure me in with a dog you don’t even have access to for me to play with. I saw …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 03:54 PM
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These men consider anything above a chili’s fancy though. They act like someone is expecting them to get reservations that you can only book weeks out at a place where a dinner is a minimum of $100 per person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 03:51 PM
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You know it’s a free local science museum too. Not a museum that has a temporary showing of something exclusive. I had a guy invite me to an art showing of a bunch of Georgia O’Keeffes where the museum was having special cocktails to pay homage to her and dinner came with it. This kind of museum date where there’s an event going, or it’s a museum where it’s very difficult to get tickets is a 10/10 date idea. The free museum is something you do with your kids or you’re dating in high school.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 03:49 PM
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Lmfao. These men are truly pathetic. Whenever a man suggests a coffee date I tell them plainly I don’t do coffee dates. 9.7/10 they immediately suggest an actual date because they know coffee dates are unacceptable. They just try it to see if they can take advantage of you. When this happens you can choose to block or give them another chance, but just know they try to lowball everyone first to see who they can take advantage of then act accordingly when they see you aren’t a pushover. Coffee is…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 03:44 PM
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I dated someone who worked intelligence and security “relations” for a middle eastern country I won’t name. He obviously couldn’t give me details about work but he used his real fucking name. Any man hiding his identity is cheating or has a very disturbing record he doesn’t want you to see.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 03:30 PM
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If you’re someone that likes taking nudes because it makes you feel like a hottie fine. Take as many nudes as you want and just put them in a secret folder and stare at them yourself. Hype yourself up. You can be hot without a male input attached.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 03:24 PM
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I’m dead at the pickmeishas being officers 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 03:23 PM
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Lmaoooo these men always claim they don’t need to support women, want a woman that can hold her own, etc etc but unless the guy is a sugar baby looking for a come up they always get insecure and resentful if you have more earning potential or make more than them. They can’t handle it. Men want you to be successful but only if it’s less successful than them. I will never date a man that doesn’t make more than I do again because the constant competition, tearing down, manipulation, and resentment …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 08:51 PM
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He didn’t mean it in a positive way he was trying to neg me and say I was masculine. I’m pretty sure he made a reference to quarterbacks. So I forced him to look at my “masculine” shoulders anytime he was around lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 02:35 PM
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Imagine giving your vagina to a below average sized dick because he bought you tacos for $10 🤢🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 11:04 PM
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A lot of women do change their appearance in order to please men though. This is something that happens very frequently and I hope more women recognize when they’re doing it and stop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 10:52 PM
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They complain but the girls they jack off to on Instagram and the girls in the porn they watch are the exact thing they complain about. Nothing they say can be taken seriously. They want to shame the women they’re with into not doing “high maintenance” things because they: Are afraid she will attract a better man and he will be ditched like he deserves Is afraid he can’t afford to help with maintenance costs because he’s broke Both are undesirable types of men for me. If a guy truly had a prefer…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 10:48 PM
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I once dated a guy who told me I had broad shoulders. I made sure every single outfit I wore when I saw him from then on was sleeveless, off the shoulder, cold shoulder, etc. He never said shit again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 10:45 PM
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Trust me. If the guy is giving $300 specifically to avoid being put on child support then the child support is going to be calculated higher than that amount. That’s why he’s trying to avoid it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 04:36 AM
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What a fucking idiot. His child support payments will be a lot more than that $300 that Pickmeisha is whining about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 03:06 AM
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...you’re right. If she chooses to continue this pregnancy she will be stuck dealing with this loser until he decides on his own to go away. She’s really going to struggle for decades if she doesn’t abort. Abusers get women pregnant on purpose because they know choosing the smart option to abort is the hard option because of public guilt and shaming. This is depressing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 11:18 AM
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The men that constantly whine about the court system treating them unfairly and doing them wrong aren’t telling the whole story the vast majority of the time. This is 2020. Men can get 50/50 without much difficulty. Every other weekend is basically a default always earned unless you live far enough away that it’s simply not possible. There’s a chance she could choose to be a single mom if she successfully gets a restraining order from this man that extends to her and the child since he’s a rapis…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 10:58 AM
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I think this could actually backfire on her since he wants her to have a child with him specifically so he can be financially supported. If he was able to figure out where she moved to he could file for custody, move to where she is, then in court argue he has financial hardship due to him having to move to be near her. He can also blame the move on being unemployed. If he’s granted custody she would then have to pay child support to him. Moving only works if the father is a deadbeat that doesn’…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 04:33 AM
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I think we will just have to agree to disagree here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 03:29 AM
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This girl is in her 20s so I think it’s completely fair for men in her age group to not be interested in being a stepdad. This isn’t a woman in her mid 30s to 40s. I wouldn’t date a man who had a kid and I wouldn’t date a man who was divorced as someone in their 20s. If I can state those demands I’m not going to pretend to be shocked if men in my age range have the same. There’s nothing wrong with not wanting to parent in your 20s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 02:56 AM
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And if she does decide later down the road she wants to be in a relationship this situation is going to have a big chunk of HVM and even average men eliminating her as a dating prospect if we are being completely honest. Her decision to keep the pregnancy is going to negatively impact every aspect of her life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 01:22 AM
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Yes I warned her too! I saw she responded to someone who stated the obvious that he would “never do that” so she truly had no idea. Imagine if she never posted to reddit asking if she was an asshole for not selling off her flat. She would probably still be unaware of how gross he is right now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 01:12 AM
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She said she went to the doctor and got all the information on an abortion but she decided that the fetus is half hers and she said she has an attachment already and that she is willing to be a single mom. She knows abortion is an option but it’s not the one she wants to use.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 01:11 AM
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Exactly. The quickest way to ensure your kids grow up in poverty and struggle is to breed with a broke ass loser. The easiest way to make sure your kid struggles in forming healthy relationships growing up is to breed with a deadbeat. The easiest way to increase the chances of your children being abusers or ending up in an abusive relationship is for you to be in one while they witness it. Who you choose to be the father of your children will impact your children for their entire lives. It’s not…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 12:47 AM
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Going after money is less shallow than going after looks lol. You are born with your looks. If you aren’t born with money you have the ability to earn it. Men just want excuses to do the bare minimum while simultaneously demanding perfection from women. If women didn’t care about money and only went for looks men would be just as mad if not more!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 10:38 PM
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Yep. The majority of plastic surgeons I’ve seen are unattractive. Why are none of the ugly fucks doing the surgery having surgery themselves???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 10:34 PM
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I would abort too without thinking twice about it. If she just wants a baby she can get pregnant again immediately after with a sperm donor. Or she can wait till she finds someone who is able to actually be a decent father. This is such a bad situation. If he keeps trying to snatch away the trap baby for cash the child will hurt. If he abandons them never to be seen again the child will hurt. If the child finds out they only exist because the father raped their mother in an effort to secure cash…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 10:28 PM
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She posted this in a pregnancy sub “I'm like... newly traumatised. Literally within the last 48 hours I've broken up with the baby daddy after finding out the pregnancy was planned on his part but not on mine (he poked holes in the condoms). I don't really think it's fully hit me yet, to be honest. I feel sort of numb to it/him. I'm thinking of booking a therapist appointment ASAP but I'm in England so the NHS would take months and they'd probably just refer me to a support group rather than 1 o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 09:35 PM
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Update to this previous post. Idiot admitted in texts and on phone calls she recorded that he wants full custody so he can get child support off her. His start up is hemorrhaging money and he can’t afford rent. He wants the baby to be a life insurance policy for him. OP wants the baby so she isn’t getting an abortion, but she is going to have to deal with this scrote for a long time before he just disappears all together making the baby feel abandoned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 09:31 PM
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Omfgggggg we all told her he probably knocked her up on purpose and she kept telling us he would never do that!!!!! She seriously needs to consider her options. I would abort without thinking twice. Wow wow wow. Edit: I went on and made a thread so we can all talk about this rickety.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 08:59 PM
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Sometimes when something is super funny you will run away from it, jump up and down, sit down, clap your hands, etc. it’s just one of those weird quirks humans have sometimes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 02:24 PM
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My favorite thing to do now that they’re more desperate than ever in quarantine 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 04:13 PM
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This is what I want to know. Share with the class 👀✏️📖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 04:12 AM
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That was survival mode on behalf of Tory not herself. She said on video that after this man shot her she lied and covered for it because she was scared of Tory being hurt by police due to being a black man. This is very dangerous and disheartening thinking. Why is your abuser’s safety your first priority? Black women are significantly more likely to be abused and murdered by their partners and they refuse to report it because they have been brainwashed to value their abusers first and foremost b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 07:17 PM
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They aren’t together anymore but she shouldn’t have dated that obvious LVM in the first place. She was always out of his league even before he showed he was a violent psycho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 01:37 PM
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Despite their wealth both women are also with men who cheat, are abusive, have tons of baggage, etc. Offset is trash and I don’t think I have to explain why manlet trigger-happy Tory Lanez is a problem. No matter how successful certain women get they still stay with bums way beneath them. Why does everyone overlook this when analyzing them? Men don’t really hate women like Cardi and Meg because they actually have a chance to be with them despite providing nothing. They’re only concerned with the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 01:17 PM
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They’re both getting everything they deserve. Some idiots will only learn the hard way. I guarantee she won’t try this shit again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 03:15 PM
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That wouldn’t happen. For an alienation of affection suit to stick you need evidence the other party knowingly and willingly entered the marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 02:24 PM
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Lmaoooooo he wanted to make sure the 300k she has to pay doesn’t come out of his pocket. How much you want to bet that now that the husband and mistress can actually be together since their spouses want nothing to do with them they’ll never speak again 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 02:12 PM
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Or Tori Spelling who left her husband for the man she cheated with. Dean later went on to cheat on her 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 12:33 AM
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Lmfao that’s why I stopped reading I started getting anxiety on page 7 for no reason 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 08:45 PM
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Everyone should know by now not to fuck with women from North Carolina. If they don’t physically beat your ass they’re going to make your pockets hurt as they should. There’s a reason why some women from NC refuse to give up residency even if they haven’t lived there for years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 08:43 PM
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No one party involved (cheater, mistress, or wife) needs to be a resident in one of those states to file. The affair can happen in a state outside of those, but if someone is a resident the alienation of affection state can hear the case. It’s called a long arm statute.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 08:41 PM
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Lmao it’s never worth it. Imagine paying 300k for dick when it’s out here in abundance 😭😭😭 300k, public humiliation, debt, and the loss of her own husband is the cost this woman paid to keep fucking a married man. She lost big time. I saw someone comment that the mistress was renting out a married man and had the nerve to pitch a fit now that the bill was due. That pretty much sums this all up. Keep your legs closed to married men you have nothing to gain from it and neither do they if they live…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 07:56 PM
26

If a mod can confirm if links to other sites are allowed I can post the discussion forum this was posted to. It’s more than 30 pages long lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 07:01 PM
65

Here are the states that have alienation of affection on the books: Hawaii, Illinois, Mississippi, New Mexico, North Carolina, South Dakota, and Utah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 07:00 PM
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Yes. People who didn’t read kept asking why the wife was only suing the mistress, saying this was probably just a scare tactic to get the mistress to stop sleeping with the husband, etc. so OP posted this “The wife has kicked him out. She's done. She's not trying to fix her marriage. He apparently got his own demand letter. And, honey, let me tell you it's official. She already called the law firm to check because she was hoping it was a prank. It is legit and she has 10 days to respond.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 06:53 PM
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He lives in Omaha so the vast majority of women of any age there are white wtf is he talking about
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 12:40 AM
11

Is this in a fucking mall lololol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 11:43 PM
4

Imagine watching someone you’re supposed to love sell their prized possession that was owned by their dead mother to pay to save their dog’s life. Imagine watching this and being fully capable of fixing it by paying for it yourself but opting to do absolutely nothing. Y’all. I would be in fucking jail right now if I were her. He would have no teeth left. I can’t believe this. He better be hunting down that violin and get it back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 11:41 PM
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Lol at her making excuses that she didn’t know he was a smelly bitch before marriage because they didn’t live together. According to you he brushes once a week and has been disgusting since childhood. You noticed he was fucking gross when you were dating unless you only dated virtually then got married (which wtf). You knew he was a smelly freak and chose to marry him anyway 🤢🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 01:57 PM
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Can you imagine going out with someone on Valentine’s Day and they spend the entire time on their phone filming? I understand she was excited but this was tacky and it lets her man know she’s not used to being treated well and that she’s overly invested. He can easily use this to his advantage. She’s already bragged and shown him off on social media. He can do some fuck boy shit and she will probably stay to maintain appearances so she doesn’t have to explain to social media why they aren’t toge…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 03:48 PM
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This is why when I go on dates I’m very vague about where I live. I will just say downtown because I know they’ll assume I live in an apartment and I won’t add them on Instagram or anywhere they can put two and two together that I have a home. If the guy I’m seeing also has a home I just act impressed and ask him questions about his place lol. The home is staying solely in my name because when I marry I plan on moving to a new home with my husband and turning my home into an Airbnb or rental pro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 09:19 PM
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I don’t think he has an issue with it at all. He knew she was insecure about it and is feigning disgust with it in an effort to manipulate her and get her to sell. He’s perfectly fine using the money from a sale that was gained through stripper money. The real issue is that she owns her condo and he has no rights to it. He’s probably embarrassed she has more income and wealth than him since she has property in her name while he’s renting. While the new place would be 100% funded by her his name …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 08:48 PM
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She’s only 2 months along so she doesn’t have to continue this pregnancy. She most likely will though since a lot of women are ashamed to get abortions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 06:59 PM
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I think a lot of the responses are from women. I did see a few men comment who have wives who were in past abusive relationships so they were able to see the red flags too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 06:48 PM
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Not only was she voted NTA, but the majority of the comments are warning her he’s trying to get access to her property so that when they break up he’s entitled to half of it. Some posters are telling her that since she’s only 2 months along and she’s only been with this broke man for 1.5 years she should seriously consider if she wants to continue this pregnancy and risk dealing with his manipulation and emotional abuse for 18+ years. It will only get worse not better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 06:34 PM
175

And men say we are the gold diggers. Men are more than willing to secure the bag from a woman if they have the chance to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 05:12 PM
51

I guarantee he will try to hit you up again in a few weeks and claim he broke up with this imaginary girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 07:45 PM
18

So glad you did not fall for his tricks. MEN DO NOT CARE IF YOU ARE SEXUALLY COMPATIBLE. As long as a guy is able to cum which they can do by looking at a fucking chicken sandwich they’re satisfied. If sexual compatibility was something men genuinely cared about there would not be so many women reporting unsatisfactory sex lives with their partners. There are women who have never even orgasmed for fucks sake!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 07:42 PM
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The funny thing is plenty of guys get lucky enough to land a girl before she truly realizes her value. They’re just fucking idiots that rarely take advantage of it. They’ll continue to play the field, disrespect, ghost, cheat, etc. Then that same dumbass when he decides he is ready to settle down will try to rekindle with the same woman. He’s already acknowledged that he got lucky, but he still wants to act like the prize. Men are so stupid. The more time passes the chances of a girl realizing h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 07:01 PM
10

I didn’t even know this was something that could happen. Scabs?!?! What will it take to get them to stop 🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 06:20 PM
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What a fucking idiot. I guarantee he has been doing this bullshit for years too and she had a child with this fuckbag despite his failings at basic human decency. Did she even read what she wrote? He’s raped you multiple times to the point where you threw up. This isn’t a relationship. You’re a sex slave that takes care of his spawn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 04:46 PM
4

I hate how people delete their posts that are attached to throwaway accounts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 11:55 PM
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Could anyone find the link to this or was it deleted because I want to see what people told her. I still can’t get over this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 10:29 PM
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Lmao he knows damn well that girl is not a 4/10. The only thing worse than a delusional loser is a lying loser
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 10:28 PM
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See this ladies? Men will value a neonate they have no physical or chemical connection to over you. An neonate they have no intention of feeding, changing, or tending to at night is more important than a woman they married, have known for years, have spent time with daily, has a family, friends, life, etc. They would rather kill you to save an essential stranger. This may sound harsh but you have to keep in mind men do not go through the bombardment of hormones and do not go through the physical…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 07:34 PM
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You should have spit lucky charms in his leprechaun ass face 🤮🤮🤮 I’m 5’8 and I would whoop his ass if he tried to pin me lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 07:27 PM
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It’s always a 5’8 and below men treating women like trash wtfffff. It’s like they know they are undesirable so they have to constantly beat down your self esteem so you don’t realize it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 06:15 PM
9

Inflammation of the cervix can be a condition but here is a list of a few other things
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 04:44 PM
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No. You either have a condition or the guy is being entirely too rough with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 04:23 PM
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If the sex is trash I’ll just starfish it and stay dead silent. You suck and deserve to know it. And if you have to ask if I came the answer is no and I will reply no every fucking time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 04:22 PM
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LMAOOOOOO after I wrote this a black man DMed me saying how dare I claim black men have patriarchy over the world with everything that’s happening. I never argued that. That’s what black men want. What they have is patriarchy and power over black women only. And this angers them because they want the power white men do. They don’t see a problem with the disgusting amount of power white men have. They only see a problem that all men don’t have it and think they should be able to join white men to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 03:15 PM
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Yes. We can’t even see her entire face and I can tell she’s gorgeous. Her hair and outfit are amazing. Yet she’s been convinced she’s so undesirable she has to date whatever man looks her way and she has to make the first move all the time because she’s not worthy of the chase. So fucked. I’m very curious to see what’s going to happen once black women collectively realize they are worth more and deserve more than what they have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 03:08 PM
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Yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 02:29 AM
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To make black women undesirable to other men so they have fewer options To have black men live in a patriarchal society where what they say goes because they’re men while simultaneously having everything backwards where the women do proposals, make the money, and do traditional women’s roles like housework and child rearing. Black women are just seen as mules and vehicles to get black men to victory in the eyes of a growing number of men. Then when black women fail because nobody can be everythi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 01:32 AM
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Evidence rejecting and keeping LVM out of your life leads to healthy, vibrant skin
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 11:09 PM
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Lmao. Typical broke loser lashing out at you so he can hurt you before you hurt him. He’s clearly insecure about being jobless and knows it is undesirable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 11:00 PM
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I think that’s the real reason men want women to keep low body counts. If a woman doesn’t care then as soon as a guy starts acting shitty she can just leave and find someone else. What is the downside of moving on if there’s no stigma attached to leaving men? The stigma is attached to the sex. I understand why the libfems argue for free sex and sexual liberation because of this, but they’ve gone about it the wrong way and end up actually just benefitting these fuck bois even more. Liberal femini…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 10:57 PM
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So men in general have been trying to be as lazy as they can, but I’ve noticed that a lot of these reverse proposals that get posted online are black women proposing to black men. People are working overtime to make black women masculine and take over masculine roles while the men get to be feminine and act like the prize. Women proposing should not be normalized. Black women proposing should be condemned and called out because there are more sinister intentions behind it. Fucking gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 10:50 PM
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If women weren’t so concerned with their body count I think this would happen way less frequently. When women are afraid of being tarnished from having too many partners they’re more likely to stay with the same loser just so they don’t have to add another person to the list. If women didn’t care as soon as a man fucked up they would leave faster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 10:47 PM
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This is fucking disgusting. If you do not dabble in the BDSM community the chances of this go down. Any male that is a part of that shit is a gross sexual deviant that sees you as nothing more than an object. I’ve been with some losers. Huge ones. I can say that not a single one of them has attempted hurting or scaring me during sex. Not once. Have they been shit at sex? Yes. Have they been more concerned with getting themselves off? Yes. Have they lied and claimed to be givers but they give you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 09:33 PM
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Lmao eww.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 06:21 PM
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BLOCK NOW.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 06:20 PM
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Lmao he had his chance. Now public shaming must commence
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 02:19 PM
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Ger her, Jade
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 02:41 PM
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That’s why you have to reject them so hard when they do this so they never try again 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 01:41 AM
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At this point I wouldn’t even want a discussion. It’s been 9 years. If he does propose it’s only because she pressured him and not because he wanted to. If he wanted to be married to her he would have asked years ago. He doesn’t care about being married to her. She deserves better. She’s wasted 9 years and should waste a second more with him. Nobody wants to be in a marriage they had to force.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 03:31 AM
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Keep in mind all black people only make up 12% of the US population. Black women make up even less than that. This is an epidemic. Black women are being murdered at exponential rates compared to their population size. More needs to be done to bring awareness and support victims so they can get out before it’s too late and they aren’t afraid to be seen as “traitors” by calling police on their abusers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 03:13 AM
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Wtf is he good for if he can’t provide money or child rearing? Divorce this slob!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 03:05 AM
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There was an app called Lulu that did this and there was also a site called dontdatehimgirl.com Both were taken down by men upset they were up there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 02:23 AM
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You have to drag these dirty dicked bastards to the doctor it’s repulsive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 10:47 PM
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A lot of men won’t even get tested unless someone explicitly tells them to. Never getting an std test so you can remain blissfully ignorant is still a shit move. These men out here are nasty. This is why hookup culture is dangerous. There’s someone in the thread saying the chlamydia may be worth it since he’s attractive 🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 10:05 PM
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She said fuck worrying about being judged I’m going to make sure women know this man is an STD spreader. Big props to her not staying silent. Of course scrotes are treating her like she punched a baby on film, and there are a few Pickmeishas rabidly defending their trash like a delirious raccoon, but most women seem to be supporting her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 09:56 PM
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The VP at my old company told me during a pretty bland, ordinary work dinner that he didn’t want to go home yet because it was more fun hanging out with us than his toddler and infant daughters. Disliked him ever since.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 03:34 PM
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Lmao. None of my boyfriends ever even knew I am a phenomenal cook. They just get to see me Instagram my craft as exes until I notice they watch me then they get blocked. These girls are out here providing food, alcohol, AND sex? Couldn’t be me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 04:53 PM
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As single women we already have our own damn tables. These idiots are insane if they think we will leave the tables we worked hard on to go help them build theirs. Fuck off lmao. I’m only leaving my table if you have a significantly bigger, better table that benefits me. If it’s a table that’s equal to the table I already have why would I abandon my table? If it’s shittier than my table why would I abandon my table? Men are truly delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 02:33 PM
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Yep. I bring absolutely nothing to the table. I decorate the table that’s already been built. If you aren’t capable of building a table, bye. If you’re capable but want me to do the labor for you, bye. I refuse to lower my standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 02:37 AM
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I’m torn. I 100% do not want to cohabitate before marriage, but I have multiple friends who have stated if they moved in with their husbands before marriage they never would have married them. That makes me double think my choice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 11:08 PM
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They actually do regret it. Studies have shown that when you ask women what their biggest regrets are when they’re older they tend to say they wish they travelled the world more. Men say they wish they spent more time and was more present for their families. Unmarried men say they wish they had settled down. It does catch up to these men eventually and they go decades regretting their shitty life choices.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 09:35 PM
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If these men were actually attractive and had a job that didn’t provide shit wages I wouldn’t even take issues with them having ridiculously high standards honestly. The fact they have the audacity to be undesirable in every aspect of life and still want to be picky astounds me. What age do males start becoming delusional, because male and female children are the same for the most part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 05:42 PM
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That’s the predominant feminism now. If you mention not agreeing with them they threaten you and claim you hate women. That’s why that sub gender critical was created
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 07:54 PM
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I agree that modern feminism has ruined women with all this sexual liberation and celebration of sex work tbh. We are going backwards and creating a generation of Pickmeishas and easy prey for these sick men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 07:36 PM
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It can honestly tell you a lot about a person based on what they wear. Men that wear ostentatious clothing when going out tend to be trying to trick women into thinking they’re rich when they aren’t. People who wear clothes with fish and deer on them like to hunt. People who frequently wear shirts from runs clearly enjoy running or supporting charities. People that wear gang colors are probably in a gang or are affiliated with it. People that wear confederate flag shit...you get the point. Since…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 07:28 PM
12

I’m shocked he didn’t kick her out the moment he found out about the pregnancy honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 09:23 PM
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I’m not proud of her and I don’t think she has strength. Strength would be getting an abortion instead of risking your life to have a baby by someone who treats you like absolute shit. Have fun being a single mom with no support sis since that’s clearly what you think you deserve. I guarantee he will find another Pickmeisha girlfriend too instead of him being avoided and shamed for being a deadbeat dad and poor partner. I have no respect for women who have children when they know from the beginn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 09:20 PM
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Oh she knows how sex works. She says in the beginning that she’s not on birth control so she wanted condoms but her lvm doesn’t like them. She also references her irregular cycle and immediately went to the pharmacy for plan B after it all went down. She has all the information she needs but her pickme brain pushed it to the side for a chance to be chosen by a low value male who is incredibly stupid and reckless. Only the best suitors for Pickmeisha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 09:57 AM
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Why do the idiots that make these comments not realize peasants and other lowly members these obvious cave dwellers descend from didn’t live past the age of 32? No fucking shit they had kids younger because they didn’t have the option.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 07:58 PM
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That girl is a fucking idiot. You’re that desperate for male approval that you’re letting a man you’ve know for only a few weeks go raw when you aren’t on birth control? These pickmeishas are truly something else. A normal person would never accept that behavior. I think boys have Pickmeisha radar and they know who to try.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 06:29 PM
12

Lmao at running out of hair. It was just too late for him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 12:54 AM
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Every baldy needs to do this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 04:13 PM
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Omfg. Keep him away from heavy rocks and sharp objects 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 03:19 PM
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I think deep down he’s full of rage and resentment because he’s ugly and has always been. Here is a photo of him at age 27. Woof. His father is very wealthy and he used his money and connections to start up his ventures. Imagine how it must feel to know everything you have is because of the abusive father you hate. Without his fathers money he would have nothing. Look how ugly he is. What remotely attractive woman would look at him twice? He has to know that the only reason any girl would even t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 02:03 PM
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Grimes’ mom is fucking amazing for this. Get her, Jade!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 01:55 PM
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Exactly. They don’t change at all otherwise we wouldn’t hear married women complaining all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 05:15 PM
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The acoustic guitar with no bed frame has me SCREAMING. Guilty as charged dating one of these losers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 12:39 AM
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Bumble by its very nature was designed for beta males who are too weak to reach out or message a girl first. Even if you don’t invest effort and put hi as a first message the chances of you talking to a LVM is very high even if he’s masquerading as high value. If the man was successful on tinder where men have the ability to reach out first they wouldn’t need to be on bumble. Bumble is for the rejects that are too lazy to reach out to women first, to scared to reach out first, or get few matches…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 12:37 AM
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Probably because you left it hurt his pathetic ego so he jumped into a relationship to “prove” something to himself. A friend of mine dated a guy for two years and they ended up breaking up because he didn’t want to take the step of her moving in with him and he said that he just wasn’t ready for commitment. Less than a month after they break up he meets a girl at a convenience store hours away and starts a long distance relationship. Within like two months he moves this girl into his home which…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 02:46 AM
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It’s not even this half the time. The downgrade trope is a thing for a reason. A man can be completely into you and not want to commit because “timing” is off 🙄 When a guy decides it’s finally “time” to be in a relationship they panic and take whatever girl is receptive. If the girl available isn’t “up to their standards” it doesn’t even matter. The timing is right so he picks her. Men do not think the same way women do. Holding out for something better is something that takes patience and effor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 08:06 AM
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If I feel the need to vent I go on and write the paragraph and put it in my notes app so I can read it over. If that doesn’t suffice and I need someone to see it I will send it to a friend who will respond supportively which isn’t what you were gonna get if you sent it to your SO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 06:28 PM
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That sub is pickme central so the fact she is taking this step is amazing. I hope she finds this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 09:46 PM
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“Relatively easy access to upward mobility”. Nothing about sex work is easy. The men you are letting fuck you are the ugliest men of society. I would rather work my corporate America job than have the memory of an obese man having his rosacea flake off into my face as he fucks my asshole as hard as he wants. Money isn’t everything, and my mental health is more important than cash from repulsive men. Sex work removes choice. You are nothing but an object, and anyone willing to pay has access to y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 09:35 PM
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It’s disturbing how sociopathy is a completely acceptable trait in the male community. How have they gone their entire lives never being held accountable or feeling the normal human emotion of guilt? If I know someone wants a relationship and I don’t I’m not going to lie to them just for my own gain. It’s gross and creepy. I had a guy once adamantly tell me he was looking for a relationship and we were in constant contact. As soon as we hooked up the first time (I didn’t even want to but really …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 04:24 PM
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Yeah him being single at age 35 is a huge red flag imo. Significantly more women want to settle down than men, so if a guy values a relationship he should be able to find a decent woman pretty quickly and easily. If you’re a man and still single at 35 the vast majority of the time you’re either a) undesirable so women avoid you b) a dumbass that was greedy and decided to play the field until your attractiveness severely declined. Of course you want to settle down now that women don’t want your a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 04:17 PM
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I wish men weren’t so idiotic about sex. If we both want it why does my value diminish? I hate having to wait months to do anything because I’ve run into a situation where I did this, developed a bond, and when he was ready to take things seriously and we finally had sex his dick was small and he lasted like 3 minutes tops! It didn’t matter how many times we had sex he fucking sucked, and if I had known that upfront I wouldn’t have wasted my time. We ended up breaking up because I wasn’t attract…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 04:12 PM
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When I found out Adriana Lima’s husband cheated multiple times I realized looks do not fucking matter. If a man is a cheater he will cheat no matter what you do. If a guy wants to ghost or string girls along it also doesn’t matter what you do. If a guy doesn’t want to be attached he’s thinking that way with all women. You can be his dream girl and he still will not commit to a relationship. As soon as a guy feels he’s ready they will settle down with whatever woman gives them attention first. It…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 04:03 PM
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Lmao. They’re so ugly they have to trick people to come into their gross poly community
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 05:40 AM
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I have never once seen one of these polyamory men actually look attractive. It’s mind blowing to me. Why would any girl want an arrangement like this with someone who is average on their best day? Then this particular guy is a bartender so we know he can’t make up for his looks with money. What does he have to offer?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 05:32 AM
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“If we all treat women like shit they’ll be forced to accept it. When these fUcKiNg SiMpS treat women like humans they’ll expect the rest of us to! I like being able to benefit from male privilege and the thought of equality enrages me.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 12:18 PM
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She really embarrassed herself here. If she ever wakes up she will have to pay him alimony smh. If she wanted to marry someone in healthcare she should have just gotten with a doctor in a different specialty than her. Doctors tend to marry each other. I’m very disappointed in her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 11:47 PM
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a lot of male nurses have this complex unless they are dating a fellow nurse or a CNA. It’s one of the professions I recommend women be cautious of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 01:19 PM
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Jim is inconsiderate, not attractive, and makes significantly less than her. Gina wtf are you doing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 02:11 AM
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Right? Like girl of course you like it with that flair of yours smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 12:45 AM
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I understand why she’s using an alias and laying low by basically just disappearing, but since she decided to go on a publicity tour championing porn and how empowering it was I really do think the least she can do is reach out to a website and pen a piece telling the truth. Nobody will be able to discover or find her simply by sending in a letter. She was only found out on a grand scale last time because she gave her name directly to jezebel I believe and she gave all the details of what was go…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 07:44 PM
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Some of the couples are doing it purely for the money which is why the rooms always look broke down and ratchet looking. Others are situations where the male gets off on knowing other people are watching them have sex (wtf) and the woman is just trying to please her degenerate boyfriend because she has no dignity. If you loved someone why would you want to share that intimate moment with anyone else? I get why some couples film sex and keep it solely for their eyes only (I wouldn’t do that eithe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 07:07 PM
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I watched some of the video of Belle Knox (Duke porn Star) on her first scene because she was trying to champion porn and act like she was proud of it but articles that described her scene made it seem super disturbing. Not only was it disturbing, but this girl was 100% raped on film. There were no blurred lines. TRIGGER WARNING ⚠️⚠️⚠️ In the video there are scenes where you can see her trying to push the guy off and at one point when he sits on her she begins wiggling as hard as she can to avoi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 04:14 PM
3

Wtf is a redneck smile and is there even an Israeli equivalent? It’s like he just googled negative things to call an American and redneck was the first thing to pop up 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 02:48 AM
2

The interviewing process would take time and a while to figure out how it’s done for people just stumbling across the sub with no post history to look into, but I think people that are recommended via current members should just be invited and that’s it, and whether the invitation is accepted or not is due to the current member’s standing. Ex: someone with a Pickmeisha flair’s invitee is immediately rejected but someone who posts good content’s friend will be accepted I’m curious how many women …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 11:12 PM
8

I don’t think it would stop growth it would just be slower. Having a community of committed women that isn’t huge is better than a large open forum where anyone can come in and lurk. Also for some reason I just got an automod notification saying a comment of mine was removed for being a male. Wtf?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 08:08 PM
19

I’ve stopped offering explanations and as soon as a guy irritates me I either ignore them and don’t dignify them with a response or I block them. Men have no problems ghosting a girl or lying and providing bullshit excuses instead of addressing the actual issue. I’m not providing what wouldn’t be provided to me any longer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 08:03 PM
4

Can’t you make a sub private? After awhile this may need to just be a word of mouth sub where we invite women we know will benefit while simultaneously keeping men out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 07:51 PM
24

How are you having dudes not respond to your nudes and you’re still talking to them? I would be so humiliated and that would be my wake up call. I’m one of those idiots that has a hard time letting go even if the relationship is dead but some situations are so embarrassing you’re forced to move on. This is one of those.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 01:17 AM
14

Don’t underestimate these freaks. I could see on digging through someone’s post history who has a 10 year old account in the hopes they can amass enough general information to try to stalk the person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 06:22 PM
99

I’m considering making a throwaway account specifically to post here too. Apparently the scrotes have been harassing women here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 03:49 PM
3

Exactly. Making money has made me more self-sufficient and has increased my standards not decrease them. My life is great on my own. Cute house, cute dog, cute outfits, cute me. If a guy can’t elevate my status to phenomenal I don’t want him!!!!! If my life stays the same with you in it or gets worse why even have you around? These men are so dumb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 04:24 PM
11

They’re fucking insane. At least he admitted it most men just have that dialogue in their head then take it out on you with no explanation so you think you’re actually to blame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 11:10 PM
11

The woman who created bumble worked for tinder and knew the ins and outs of it so honestly I don’t think it was ever a good base concept. She knew scrotes were whining about not getting the matches they thought they deserved, and would know about the common argument the scrotes used that women simply used tinder for attention and an ego boost. She created bumble so that scrotes could get an ego boost since they weren’t getting it from tinder. Then she frames it as some women empowering app when …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 09:29 PM
21

There honestly aren’t any but your best bet is tinder. I know that goes against what a lot of people think but it is the most popular dating app out there. By virtue of that statistically there will be more decent men on it. Since the site has been so mainstreamed and normalized the chances are heightened that a HVM will be on there out of curiosity or at the encouragement of friends. You will have to wade through a huge hay pile of LVM hay but HVM needles are on the app. A higher number of HVM …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 08:14 PM
78

Yep. They know they are the uglier one so unless they make significantly more money than you they will resent you. They’re aware you have the most power in the relationship because you have more options so they will either treat you like shit because they need to get their aggression out or they will neg you until you have no self-esteem. Date an ugly man and he will treat you like the ugly one. I’ve fallen into this trap and I’ve seen gorgeous friends fall in to it also. I have a cousin that’s …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 05:58 PM
13

Maybe some of us should take one for the team and fuck every anti-abortion politician and get pregnant on purpose. Abortion would be fully funded with no opposition in each state by the end of 2020 smh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 05:49 PM
17

Do you really want to bring a child into this world with a scumbag like this as the father? It’s a lose lose. I personally would abort because the guy is a fucking loser and no child should be saddled with this embarrassment. I would let him know exactly why I’m aborting it too. These Pickmeishas need to choose very carefully who they allow to create life because a lot of these bums don’t deserve their genes to carry on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 05:45 PM
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Whenever they do those dating app studies they use okcupid which is not the site the vast majority of people are using. Whenever I see a study and they use okcupid or POF I immediately discredit it and stop reading. Those sites overwhelmingly attract losers that don’t do well on the modern sites so whatever analysis they come up with is irrelevant for the majority of people dating. It’s like doing a study on tardiness in high school students and only analyzing the kids that are in after school d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 05:32 PM
10

Yep. All men love gold diggers some just hate that they can’t afford them. That’s the real issue here. Also he just shows his lack of dating experience because I’ve never asked a guy to pay for a date. They automatically know they’re supposed to and they ask for one check instantly. He’s just embarrassing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 12:20 PM
19

Something tells me it’s 5 inches at best 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 10:20 PM
18

They need to look into some damn hair plugs as well. Nobody wants their balding asses🤢. It’s the one reason I won’t date a man over 31 right now when I’m in my 20s. They just go to shit after that. The fact these men have the audacity to say they don’t want anything serious while being ugly is so wild to me. The actors they use as reference points are attractive and rich why is this a hard concept for them to grasp? Stop being ugly!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 06:20 PM
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They always end up telling on themselves. A man will always tell you what you need to know and they do it subconsciously. He didn’t mean to admit if he could get a hot girl he would and pay for everything she desires, but that all he attracts is ugly women so to make up for it he makes sure she has lots of money and that he doesn’t have to spend any. But that’s what he ended up admitting. There is always a double message when LVM write/speak, and I’m so glad women are seeing that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 06:12 PM
53

I love that sub. Some girl gave herself 10 toes on one foot by accident lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 06:01 PM
74

The funny thing is that he can’t offer money. According to him he only dates women with 6 figures that split 50/50 and aren’t attractive. Those women make just as much as him and they’re having to pay for their own stuff so what does he really offer? He could only offer money to a woman who makes less but the hot girls he wants don’t want him 😭😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 05:59 PM
28

Eating your own shit particles for a subpar embrace lololol. This is embarrassing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 05:57 PM
58

Yep the Instagram model can be broke too but the ugly women who he exclusively date have to make 6 figures lol. He’s so transparent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 05:56 PM
100

Exactly! He is only proving our point! If a man finds you attractive he will not make you pay. Why would we want to date men who don’t find us attractive? If a man makes you pay it’s an insult and he should immediately be blocked for the disrespect. He’s delusional too. I have friends that are not pretty based on society’s beauty standards and they get their shit paid for so as long as you aren’t hideous a man will pay. I’m not an Instagram model but am conventionally beautiful (I know it hurts …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 05:55 PM
105

The same men claim you have to have money for women to want you yet a huge chunk of them are single. Something doesn’t add up...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 05:47 PM
48

Only the broke men think it’s sexist so who cares. Men with money have used it to woo women since the beginning of time. Let the broke losers weed themselves out it saves you the trouble.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 05:46 PM
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He’s either making shit up or is dating unattractive pickmeishas exclusively. Notice how he doesn’t bring up attractiveness regarding the women he dates, but brings it up for Instagram models that guys buy things for. He’s dating ugly girls and is giving them an ugly tax of making them split 50/50 because he’s angry he can’t get the Instagram model type he feels he deserves. He admits the women he seriously dates have to pay 50/50 but that Instagram models can get shit for free. Read between the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 05:44 PM
4

The sexual perversions thing is a huge flaw. You acting like that’s something that can be overlooked because you have a decent salary is troubling. Also I see you made no mention of your appearance at all in this post besides to post self hate about being Jewish. Jewish men can be hot. If you aren’t that’s a personal problem you should work on. Focus on enhancing your best features and if you still aren’t satisfied plastic surgery is an option. Women like to be physically attracted to their part…
/r/askFDS22/03/20 01:33 AM
11

Imagine being so lazy you have to solely rely on others for food. Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 03:34 AM
33

These are the only options when it comes to no photos Cheating Ugly Dangerous and potentially violent Swipe left always no questions asked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 03:05 AM
12

Hinge and bumble are full of losers that were not successful on tinder despite it being set up to men’s benefit. Don’t waste your time on either app. Tinder is a dumpster fire, but bumble and hinge are worse because it’s where the rejects of tinder go. HVM can be hard to find OLD but you’re most likely to find them on tinder since it is the most mainstream app and basically everyone knows multiple people who have used it resulting in it being normalized.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 03:02 AM
23

So he thinks he’s a 7/10 but he’s only had one girl in his 20 years of life express interest? And according to him she was below average in looks? LMFAO. I remember once a guy my friend had a crush on told me he thought he was a 8/10. I laughed out loud and he got mad 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 02:48 AM
9

As in introvert I would be completely fine with my man playing video games so I can be alone and do whatever I want without him clinging to me some days, but once someone prioritizes video games over hanging out with their significant other when they want affection or they stop helping with household duties it’s a huge issue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 09:48 PM
7

Honestly good on him for the hairplugs. The rest of these uglies should at least consider putting that effort in because 29 and balding? Automatic rejection 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 09:20 PM
9

I hope they leave the property to someone else lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 07:42 PM
18

If they say that I would just say great I agree with moving slow until feelings are fleshed out. This means no sex of course, and when you reject his sexual advances remind him he’s the one that wanted to take it slow :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 07:38 PM
73

...I’m so sick of these freaks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 12:34 AM
5

They are the prize for a pathetic Pickmeisha who bases her entire worth on having a dick inside her. I’m so tired of these bum bitches having a platform and fucking up the game collectively for all women. Sometimes I think the world would be a significantly better place without social media.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 08:25 PM
127

It’s disgusting how he pretends to be a self-made man when his father is a multimillionaire who funded all of his start ups. He owes everything to his dad and government subsidies but I guarantee he’s against people getting welfare. I’ve never liked him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 08:23 PM
2

Humbert Humbert was not a wrinkly old dude. He was attractive and gained the attention of not only women his own age, but Lolita. If you’re telling the truth that your mom made you read it in elementary school then it was a pointless move on her part. An elementary school child is not capable of understanding or contextualizing that piece of work. I say that as someone who was an advanced child and went to a top college. Children are not capable of abstract thinking until about 10, and their abs…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 04:46 PM
1

Men learn how to be men from their fathers. Women learn how to be women from their mothers. If a dad is a piece of shit men will learn that’s how you’re supposed to behave. If a dad is nonexistent he subconsciously blames the mother and thinks she’s the reason no father is around. You cannot control what household you grow up in, but breaking cycles takes an extraordinary person. It goes against nature. If the man you are speaking to comes from a bad background if he is not extraordinary and phe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 03:30 PM
52

Imagine staying in a relationship with a loser that can’t get hard because he’s watched too much porn. Couldn’t be me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 05:45 AM
17

Honestly abusers aren’t the only people you’re going to scare off being 35 minutes late for a date. A HVM wouldn’t lay into you like this guy, but you most likely would not get a third date. It is incredibly disrespectful to show up late for a date. 10 minutes is a good grace period, but after that I don’t blame anyone of any gender if they get up and walk out. If you know you will be late let the person know in advance so they can choose to reschedule or adjust the time they show up. Once 10 mi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 05:34 AM
13

I will read it. If you’re happy with him and want to stay that is your choice. People can definitely be harsh on here but I do think motive matters. This is a space for women by women and it was created solely to encourage women to be in healthy and happy relationships and be the best they can be. If people are harsh it is out of concern for you, not to degrade and troll you which you will find on other subs. I know you don’t know me but I want the best for you sis. Other women here do too. Upda…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 07:40 PM
3

I love my father but he is definitely low value and I’ve found myself in the unfortunate cycle of dating emotionally available men like him. Every single boyfriend of mine except my last one fell into this pattern. Now that I’ve recognized it I make conscious attempts to avoid falling into and continuing the cycle. My father grew up in very severe child abuse so he truly is a victim, but I have to want better for myself and my children. The big difference is my father had a LVM and LVW as a pare…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 07:35 PM
5

He grew up in a kind of chaotic household because his brother was severely mentally ill but his parents had a strong relationship together until the dad died. LVM teen to come from LV households. It’s a cycle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 05:30 PM
24

Pickmeishas that trap baby do it to trap LVM 8/10 I don’t understand it. Why do you want him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 05:28 PM
74

If I ever get pregnant out of wedlock I’m asking are we going to the courthouse or nah? If he doesn’t immediately say yes I’m aborting and the relationship is over idc. Being a father is a privilege not a right, and I’m lowering my desirability having children so I’m not doing it without some form of commitment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 05:26 PM
39

“Last week I was planning my wedding to the father of my child, and on and off boyfriend of almost a decade. Things weren't always great, but we were soulmates.” GIRL. If you were soulmates you wouldn’t be 10 years in with no ring. How embarrassing. The baby is 11 months old too so this all could have been avoided if she got tired of wasting her time 3 years in. Damn. I really hope seeing other pickmeisha experiences wakes some of them up. Older pickmeishas suffered so you young pickmeishas woul…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 05:22 PM
14

There are good men out there who provide both financially and emotionally. I didn’t think they existed till my mom met my stepdad. He’s the reason I have such high standards. My mother got cancer too and is older than my stepdad by a decade and he doted on her and nursed her back to health. He treats my mom like a queen constantly and knowing men like him are out there makes me so fucking angry when I read these stories of sweet women getting fucked over. My stepdad is proof men are fully capabl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 05:11 PM
15

The bedrooms are dead because after marriage the men let themselves go and are ugly. I wouldn’t fuck these men who complain either they’re ugly and it can’t be overlooked!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 05:08 PM
8

Why do you have the pickmeisha flair tho 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 05:06 PM
14

Tell your sister to get off bumble. By design it solely attracts low value men. What high value man wants to sit around and wait on their hands hoping the woman he’s interested in reaches out first? Only lazy men or men who can’t get girls on tinder use bumble. A lot of these men just swipe right on every single girl, waits for a girl to swipe, then waits for the girl to reach out. Even after all that there’s a good chance he won’t bother to respond because it’s just an ego boost. At least on ti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 01:04 AM
20

Exactly. Paternal age is linked to intellectual disabilities and scientists think paternal age can have a correlation to autism now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 12:36 PM
16

She couldn’t just date a body builder or security guard then? She’s insane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 09:55 PM
17

Exactly how the fuck did she think they were in a good scenario?!?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 09:45 PM
8

They are, but they have more access to high volume people than the average person which is what makes it so insane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 09:24 PM
47

She’s dating a cop? Celebrity women just love scraping the bottom of the barrel I swear. She is in the position to be in close proximity to HVM on multiple continents and she chooses some random from Oklahoma who sometimes is on A&E. Tragic and embarrassing. Nicki Minaj takes the cake on letting a broke man come up off her though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 09:24 PM
11

So there are people who genuinely do not pick up on the social cues that someone is attracted to them, but that only happens when the person has low self-esteem or an underlying trauma where they grew up constantly rejected so they never experienced the situations before. Whether or not you are willing to take that on is your personal choice. The vast majority of the time 100% a guy knows how you feel if you are expressing interest and not hiding it. The guy either doesn’t like you back or he’s …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 08:32 PM
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I personally would look at severity. If the guy suffers from occasional depression or anxiety but he regularly sees a psychologist or psychiatrist I would be open to it. If it was anything more severe than that (bipolar, borderline, sociopathy, schizophrenia, delusions, etc) it’s an automatic no. Anything that has a strong genetic component like bipolar is an automatic rejection as well because I don’t want my kids to suffer something like that. I had an ex that was bipolar and he was an absolut…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 08:29 PM
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On point 3 if it’s not feasible for you to get home because you do not think you can navigate home safely immediately go to the girls bathroom and stay in there. Some girl in there will be willing to help you. If they can’t get you home they can try to get a phone number out of you to call someone you know for help or worst case scenario 911. I’ve helped girls who were simply too drunk and lost their friends by ubering with them to their place then ubering myself home after they’re dropped off. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 08:17 PM
4

I’m not going to run out of red flags because I don’t date men with children no questions asked. I’m just being honest with you and letting you know that your chances with a non-troubled woman under 30 without kids is very slim to none due to your age and having kids. You are setting yourself up for failure even thinking about our demographic. You need an older woman if you want to have a decent relationship. Time isn’t really on your side so immediately focusing on the target demographic we are…
/r/askFDS12/03/20 08:37 PM
3

A lot of people I know have doubts about their relationship and get married assuming marriage will make their relationship better honestly. Not being married at all is better than being married to someone you can’t stand or getting divorced so I’m fine with the rate plummeting.
/r/askFDS12/03/20 08:33 PM
6

Same. I’ve never had to ask for it either except once. All my past men have gone down on me without prompting . The majority didn’t even expect a blowjob in return I would just opt to do it at times to be nice. The one that didn’t immediately do it I complained and he did it but I still kicked him out 😅 I say this as someone who actually likes giving them too. Never do it first or every time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 07:07 PM
3

I’m assuming this is about fwb not one night stand randoms, but still. Fwb most of the time benefits men more than it does women unless there are very specific rules in place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 07:02 PM
6

Even if he is changing his views and is a great person now I don’t see any women under 30 without children wanting him. The fact he ever saw that as an option for himself is just plain delusional.
/r/askFDS12/03/20 06:53 PM
3

She left it there along with her key to the house to indicate that she had been in the house and saw him. Hence leaving the key behind. Also leaving the breakfast and video game behind let’s him know that she was there to give him a gift. Even the shittiest fuckboi will feel at least a twinge of guilt at that, and the girl with him chances are would have felt too disturbed to stay there. I’m sure his guilty ass tried calling her to explain but he was blocked lmao. It was a power move and she’s a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 06:50 PM
5

Why do you think a woman without children under 30 is an option for you? Are you wealthy? If not your preference is not a genuine option. You need to re-evaluate.
/r/askFDS12/03/20 06:40 PM
5

I didn’t see he wanted women under 30. Wow. He doesn’t even need to read this entire thread then. The answer can be summed up here: no woman under 32 without children will ever be interested in OP unless he’s a millionaire or she is a pickmeisha with past trauma related to dating or her father. No decent woman without a child will ever be an option for him. We are not interested in older men with children without financial compensation. Ever. It’s not worth it. He needs to face reality. Be with …
/r/askFDS12/03/20 06:36 PM
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Yep. This is why people need to not take marriage and having children so flippantly. Do not get married to someone unless you think you can deal with them forever. Do not have children with someone unless you know you can deal with them forever. If you end up with a divorce it reduces your options of a decent partner. You will still have decent options, but less of them. If you end up leaving someone you have children with unless you can find a decent partner that also has children because they …
/r/askFDS12/03/20 05:19 PM
5

I immediately rule them out. I make no exceptions. The most I would ever do with a father is fwb. I’m in my 20s with no kids and have never been married and I expect the same from my partner. I do want children when I’m married. If you are a single parent your best bet is to date someone who also has children, or someone who is older with no children and interested in having children of their own. I don’t see a younger unattached woman of value being interested in a man with kids, but an older w…
/r/askFDS12/03/20 05:10 PM
1

EMTs/paramedic, cops, firefighters, and male nurses hands down. Lawyers get a honorable mention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 01:36 AM
12

Whenever I’m tempted to do this I send it to a friend of mine that will validate my feelings and then I make paste the text in my notes app addressing the person by name. Sometimes I look at it. Sometimes it never gets looked at again. Eventually I delete it and don’t need it anymore and I successfully avoid giving the male troll attention it craves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 01:23 AM
8

Carlton was also shown on the real housewives of Atlanta working for Cynthia and he was significantly more flamboyant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 10:26 PM
5

A lot of people are hip to that being something others watch out for so they will just play nice to the waitstaff for the 10 seconds they appear in and out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 06:27 AM
10

I don’t think he did deserve better. At first I hated Jessica, but after looking deeper I feel more for her in the situation out of those two. Jessica made it clear immediately where she stood. She chose Barnett’s potential proposal over Mark’s guaranteed one. Mark knew she did this and still opted to propose to her even though he claimed “he was no one’s second choice”. When they got to Mexico a source spilled tea that Jessica knew she wasn’t into Mark and she requested to leave but production …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 06:10 AM
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So a lot of people overlook the context that all of the contestants of this show are living in Atlanta. In Atlanta there is a huge occurrence of gay black men on the down low marrying women for appearances and still sleeping with other men secretly. With that in mind Carlton waiting until after the proposal to reveal being bi understandably raised a huge red flag for Diamond. Carlton said himself on the first episode that he wanted to settle down with a woman simply because they are more nurturi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 06:04 AM
2

I’m literally only holding out because I want children in a two parent household and two incomes. Otherwise I would be done with men immediately no questions asked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 08:38 PM
11

It’s also bullshit. They absolutely do care about those things. If they’re looking for a sugar mama to freeload off of they’re going to try to target those women. If they make less money than those women they will be insecure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 03:10 AM
2

I’m scared to dive into the sex toy world because I know once I do I’m done with men forever lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 08:51 PM
42

And only offering a starting salary of 32k with those credentials lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 02:23 AM
55

Only have sex with him if you absolutely can’t control your urges. Can you handle once a month or less? Other than those times don’t contact him or respond to anything. If you can’t let go use him strictly for sex and that’s it. As soon as the act is done get up and leave. Stay for one round only. I strongly recommend just finding someone new, but understand that can be hard since guys have seemed to have gotten uglier by the day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 02:19 AM
13

Or at least marry well off so if he wants to ditch you you’ll be getting a hefty financial settlement out of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 01:56 AM
14

“Most guys would leave you for someone hotter if they could”. THIS. This is 100% true thanks to online dating giving people the illusion of endless choices. It’s an addiction just like gambling. Even when a guy has accumulated a huge amount of chips they keep hitting in the hopes they will win even more. The vast majority lose it all whether they only amassed a few chips or a buttload. After losing a ton of money they typically learn and don’t go back. If they do go back they try their hand at a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 08:33 PM
13

There are men out there like that. They’re the ones that are laser focused on their careers and don’t have the time to be a fuck boy. This is one of the many reasons why I will only pay attention to men who make more money than I do. Not only do I not have to worry about them being insecure about making less than I do and trying to assert their dominance by competing with me or cheating to feel like a man, but they don’t play games because they don’t have the time to. I would rather be alone and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 04:40 PM
16

Yep, and it’s a huge ego blow to realize that not only can they not get better, but they can’t get on par with what they had. Some guys will have no dignity and come crawling back. Most will know they have no chance and they will quickly get in a committed relationship with someone on their level to soothe their ego a little, and end up bitter and resentful towards the new girl. The amount of men who claim they settled in marriage or regret getting married are the results of this. The number is …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 12:58 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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