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MOOD FOR LIFEeluriaeve/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 03:07 AM
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THINGS SCROTES SAYeluriaeve/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 08:59 PM
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THINGS SCROTES SAYeluriaeve/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 11:47 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYeluriaeve/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 05:12 PM
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LIES MEN TELLeluriaeve/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 08:04 PM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESeluriaeve/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 08:55 PM
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MOOD FOR LIFEeluriaeve/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 07:39 PM
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QUEEN SH*Teluriaeve/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 12:22 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYeluriaeve/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 08:28 PM
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THINGS SCROTES SAYeluriaeve/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 08:14 AM
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SCROTES MADeluriaeve/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 04:30 PM
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TRIGGER WARNINGeluriaeve/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 05:25 PM
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RED FLAG 🚨eluriaeve/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 03:38 AM
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MINDSET SHIFTeluriaeve/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 01:41 AM
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WHOLESOME CONTENTeluriaeve/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 05:16 PM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEeluriaeve/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 04:12 AM
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NAH, SISeluriaeve/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 06:05 AM
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QUEEN SH*Teluriaeve/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 12:20 AM
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My experience was men who made a joke about literally anything that I would say. Especially when I would try to have a serious conversation. Could be about work, plans, something going on with me, the relationship, etc. Just answered with jokes 🤡 Went on for years in some cases.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 04:07 AM
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Yes 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 07:09 PM
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He was a fussy little bastard, lmao, but he succeeded in shaming and humiliating me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 06:02 PM
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I wanted to go out to dinner (very early on dating this kid) and I got a long, stern lecture about how many calories per dish at the restaurant that we were near that I wanted to go to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 04:47 PM
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I fart up my own room tyvm. I don’t need a damn man for that (thanks IBS)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 05:32 AM
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Been watching this shit show unfold ☕️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 07:25 PM
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My ex did that to me for like a year and 8 months (who’s counting though 😅) saying he didn’t want a relationship but he just loved me so much he wanted to spend all our time together and then when I wanted to date other people he threw a fit. I’m like, but you don’t want to date me or have sex with me, soooo?!?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 11:21 PM
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They trip like they on drugs bc the bar exists only in our minds now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 08:38 PM
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Jaysus, did you date my ex? They don’t just use women for sex, they use you for therapy too. It’s so much easier to have a woman at their beck and call or whatever 24/7 so they have someone to cry to without doing the actual work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 07:47 PM
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Yup. I was treated like something crazy and diseased after that whole debacle. They labeled me a “bully” somehow and tried to force me out by treating me like shit. That wasn’t the only time I tangled with someone about their bad behavior or treatment and when I tried to call it out with proof and evidence, it backfired on me. I was so traumatized by everything that went down at that place that I haven’t been able to work since last January. Now that everyone else has seen the light, miraculousl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 06:42 PM
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Yes! Reminds me of the time my coworker asked me out and I turned him down, among other things he had dated another coworker there before me and it turned into this huge mess where they took his side and she had to leave. Anyway, after I turned him down he acted like a giant man baby for three months and was hostile to me and everyone else there that whole time. I GOT IN TROUBLE FOR HIS BEHAVIOR!!! It was my fault for how he was acting and when I went to them and said I feared for my safety ever…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 06:32 PM
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What I keep thinking about is how to vet these guys if I ever decide to date again when things go back to “normal” someday. I doubt these guys are just going to own up to not taking things seriously in most cases unless they’re the type to be so delusional they will brag about it. The truth always comes out eventually, and I’m afraid I’m going to end up with someone seemingly high value that turns out to be a covid denier and put themselves and everyone else at risk. Edit: spelling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 08:59 AM
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When in doubt, throw it (him) out. Wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 06:18 AM
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I firmly believe these mgtows didn’t actually want to go their own way, they just don’t want to be labeled as incels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 11:58 PM
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This is so sad and those commenters are disgusting. How anyone could think that shit is funny is beyond me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 05:38 AM
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Same. I was trained to be a pickme girl by friends and family all my life!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 04:05 AM
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Congrats!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 03:05 AM
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The language they use to tell the story, to you or anyone else, is always important.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 02:53 AM
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Just ask him if that means you can sleep with other men then and watch him freak out (from afar) lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 02:11 AM
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And then he brings up being poor 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 10:09 PM
36

Eh. I’m still turned off by both. It’s been almost a year since I broke up with the abusive narc LVM and I still want to vomit at the thought of any of it lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 08:28 PM
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Sometimes I just can’t understand how humanity has survived up to this point (although it’s not looking good, is it? lmao) with all these whiny baby fucking man children that have been in charge of everything for so long. They will literally piss and shit everywhere to manipulate instead of cOmMuNiCaTiNg like an adult, and they still think women are terrible and somehow the weaker sex?! I just can’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 07:25 PM
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He’s doing it on purpose for some reason. Anyone else notice how it started all of a sudden after she got pregnant? He’s turning into an abuser if he isn’t already doing it in other ways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 02:55 PM
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Based on my experience I would have to say yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 07:26 AM
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The only pattern that I can say for certain is that they all disclosed severe trauma or “abuse” to me right off the bat. Like within the first week or two. Some of them disclosed that they were in recovery and it turned out later they were lying. Some lied by omission and never said they had a problem, which they did. Some hid it better than others. All of them knew about my no drugs or excessive drinking dating policy after I dealt with the first one. A few of them love bombed me like crazy and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 07:13 AM
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I will message you tomorrow. 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 07:07 AM
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I have had this happen to me several times with people I’ve dated. They all turned out to be: Drug addict. My age. (Said he was clean, lied.) Currently in prison for killing someone. Drug addict. 10 years older than me. Hid it really well. I had NO idea. Compared his ex to Satan. Said he died one day while she was yelling at and berating him. She had to call 911 and he was revived. Probably bc of drugs now that I think about it. Asked me to marry him and left me pregnant and alone. Ghosted while…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 02:36 AM
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Yeah what kind of fuckery is this? Asking normal first date questions, get put into only fwb category. Wut?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 10:18 AM
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What in the clown fuckery is this bullshit? Dump his ass and let the other girls cook for him. 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 06:07 AM
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Never gave up my extensive library for anyone. I would have been making room for literal garbage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 09:56 PM
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He said he was a very private person and he had a right to keep his phone and its contents private too. He’s the kind of person who wont even tell you the gender of someone he’s talking about. He will tell a story about a friend or coworker and call literally everyone “they”. I always thought he did it on purpose. He said that he “didn’t want to identify people by their bits” lmfao sus much?? Idk he was the weirdest person I ever dated and damaged my mental health to the point I had a literal me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 06:46 PM
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I love these! Never in my life have I dated a man who let me look at his phone to even use it for something normal before snatching it out of my hand, and I never got that, because I don’t hide things so I never cared if they used mine? My most recent ex even used to “test” me. He’d grab my phone and use it for all kinds of things but if I tried that with his it would have started world war III 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 11:36 PM
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This. My ex who made easily three times more than me complained that my birthday dinner for both of us cost him $100. I wish I could bill him for all the free therapy and physical labor and all the shit I bought him 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 08:34 PM
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My PoCkEts HuRt 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 08:32 PM
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I’d have vomited into the sink 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 08:30 PM
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Bahaha so accurate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 08:29 PM
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Isn’t that something? It’s definitely a thing I noted, that they all also had several pics with or taken of exes and female friends. Also, I’m not a 10 (but I’m also not a bridge troll, I’d say a solid 8) and I’ve been called pretty, beautiful, or hot by several people I’ve dated even years after the fact. So I can’t imagine it’s them being embarrassed to be seen with me, since they’re so vIsUaL and all. 🙄I don’t wear tons of makeup, I’m goth but I don’t look like a clown. I haven’t hooked up wi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 08:27 PM
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You know what I realized here? No man has ever either asked to take a picture of me or wanted to take a selfie with me. EVERY. SINGLE. ONE. of the pics I have with my exes, I took. I did have one who was an artist who used to draw me/us all the time but he was still a LVM who ghosted me and moved out while I was at work one day bc I caught him stealing drugs. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 05:19 AM
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What the fuuuuuuck did I just watch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 12:32 AM
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All the tacos 🌮🌮🌮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 05:37 PM
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Allll of the comments are calling him out. I deleted him. Known him for years but this was some bullshit I didn’t want to see in my Facebook feed tonight. 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 04:21 AM
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Her videos are hilarious. I think they’re skits however, I can say I’ve known men who do stuff like this so it’s not like it’s outside the realm of possibility. 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 04:11 AM
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Lol at someone downvoting your comment though 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 02:16 AM
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What a clown. And a mooch 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 10:20 PM
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“Might not be a NoRmAL fight.” Sometimes I wonder at the insanity that these women put up with and think it’s just a normal, everyday thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 09:50 PM
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I know I regret moving here lol. It was 2005 and I thought it would be so much better than where I grew up. Men have been disgusting everywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 07:25 PM
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Young healthy men just don’t wake up from their sleep all the time. It’s a terrible shame. 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 05:08 PM
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When I tell you my eyes almost popped out of my head and flew away. His dad knows what’s up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 05:07 PM
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Yup 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 07:30 AM
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Is that the same guy plus 80 covid lbs?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 12:16 AM
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Yup. This guy doesn’t give a shit about anyone but himself and he can’t hide that even using fancy language.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 09:58 PM
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Could you fucking imagine if the roles were reversed what a giant, probably violent mantrum would be thrown? But since it’s a woman, well, that’s different. Ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 09:26 PM
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He doesn’t want strangers in his house...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 09:20 PM
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Absolutely. It’s the networking for child exploitation especially. I was sick when I heard that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 06:06 PM
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*manipulating someone into sending them and then sharing them on porn subs. This is why we don’t send nudes IMO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 06:05 PM
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Are you being serious or sarcastic?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 06:04 PM
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He sounds like a narc. Inflated ego and whatnot. Won’t let caregivers into his home, he knows best. He’s just a fucking asshole and I hope when it happens to him, his kids abandon him to die alone. Absolute shitbag. Cancer and cancer treatments affect the brain. My stepdad was talking to people who weren’t there and in some cases passed on long ago, and that was BEFORE any kind of chemotherapy or anything. Fuck this guy. If there’s a hell I hope he burns in it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 05:56 PM
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I used to get massages and pedis with foot massages all the time when it was safe pre covid. There’s also some data I’ve heard about hugging yourself (I know it sounds wonky but I believe there’s some truth in it) by crossing your arms over your chest and like squeezing or patting your upper arms. If I can find the post I’ll link it here. I give myself foot rubs. Snuggling pets - my cats won’t ever leave me alone when I’m sitting/laying down. I’m sure things like dry brushing would be good for t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 04:42 PM
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“Spit roasted” 🤮 They come up with the most vile names for things. Is it just me?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 04:35 PM
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Oh my god. I’m glad I resisted that society driven urge all my life. I’m coming up on not being able to have them anymore and I’m relieved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 08:41 AM
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I came here to say the same thing lmao! I was like wow it looks so much like mine
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 07:28 AM
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Not allowed to stay inside the house alone? What are you, twelve? That’s some weird shit right there. I’m sorry you were treated that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 05:00 PM
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This was like a horror story
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 07:20 AM
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The gold stuff is gold leaf. You can find it some arts and crafts stores
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 03:31 AM
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I’m gonna look more into this today. I don’t spend a ton of time googling things that I feel would be skewed sexist but I’m gonna have a look. Thanks you guys for bringing it to my attention. 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 06:50 PM
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Lmfao the picture though 🤮 Why do they think they can get away with being so fucking picky like this? Yikes. It’s the inflated fucking ego for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 06:48 PM
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Omg yes. His whole little perverted collection, the bastard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 07:08 AM
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Can you give an example of this? I’m curious to see it for myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 05:12 AM
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There’s a whole thing about this. Men joke about it all the time, I’ve known several who you’d never think would say something like this. In one of my other comments on a different post I talk about this, and other issues around childbirth. I’ve read things that made me afraid to have my potential partner in the room if I ever gave birth because of the number of men who just weren’t interested in sex with their wife after seeing her give birth, because it destroyed their attraction to her for wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 01:17 AM
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Oh it was that it wouldn’t impact their sex life. Honestly when I pressed it was she wouldn’t be all stretched out after having a natural birth. I don’t remember the exact wording he used but it was disgusting. After I flipped out about why they were talking about their sister in laws vagina the day she gave birth, he made me out to be “too sensitive” and crazy because they didn’t see anything wrong with the whole conversation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 11:23 PM
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Sadly from what I’ve seen on Reddit it’s more like: “I (f22) found out my boyfriend (m38) of ten years cheats on me/masturbates to underage girls and donkeys/eats babies, etc BUT he’s such a good man and I don’t want to leave him. What should I do, Reddit? Communicate more?” Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 11:17 PM
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Omg, cheating, talking to (trying to get back with, IMO)his ex, leaving her out of his life on social media, all the porn. This guy is a flaming dumpster fire and she keeps going to Reddit to ask for advice. Relationships like this can make you physically and mentally ill. I’ve been there. Hope she figures it out and gets the hell away. 😓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 11:06 PM
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That would be grounds for immediate breakup for me. I once had an ex who, when his sister in law had a baby, joked and laughed with his other brother about something that I didn’t quite catch when they got the news. So I asked what did I miss? What’s so funny about her having the baby finally? He says “Oh, we were just saying that Eric was lucky because she had a c section”. I knew what he meant but I asked for an explanation anyway. I moved out shortly after that 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 10:51 PM
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His misogyny is showing though. 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 06:42 PM
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It’s the “chaste” for me 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 02:24 AM
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They fall on deaf ears lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 02:23 AM
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The story here is that this girl let this guy pick her up after work because he was supposed to take her to dinner. Instead he drives 30 minutes away to his house to “watch a movie”. Tried to get her drunk despite her repeatedly telling him she doesn’t drink, and then tries to get in her pants. She refuses his advances and he went nuts and got up and started pacing around ranting and raving at her. She said she didn’t feel comfortable getting up and matching his aggressiveness, and waited until …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 02:20 AM
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They’re “kind” to you because they want to sleep with you. Probably all of them would jump at the chance. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 06:52 PM
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Magnanimous though 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 04:23 AM
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Lol! But also why don’t more people block? I’ve always wondered. My block list on social media for instance is like a mile long. Ever mistreated me? Blocked. Toxic ex? Blocked. Nutty family members who believe weird conspiracy shit or are hypocritical-religious? Blocked blocked blocked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 12:23 AM
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I just can’t with men anymore. Just when I think I’ve read about the depths of depravity and bullshit I see stuff like this and I want to bleach my brain. Sometimes when I lie awake at night I think about how terrifying and disgusting roughly half the people on this planet are and thank the gods that I am bisexual and never need to date a man again. Throw the whole man away, omfg I made the mistake years ago about reading an article about “the husband stitch” and how many men who watch their wif…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 12:18 AM
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I can’t believe anyone would believe that, but they do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 12:06 AM
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Omg the toothbrush thing. Holy shit I just can’t. I’ve been pissed at people before and I can’t imagine doing anything even remotely like this. Is it me or is it mostly men who do horrific deprived things?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 10:11 PM
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I can NOT be the only one 😅😅😅 I’ve been spending the past few months doing self work and figuring out how I keep attracting men that don’t know how to wipe their ass, apparently 😅😅😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 10:07 PM
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I came back to say this too. He’s into BDSM soooo it’s not a giant leap to think he got a little too rough. I think it even says in the article that he likes that he can do stuff to her that he couldn’t do to a real woman?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 06:15 PM
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Lol! “Let me be known as the weirdo who marries and carts around a sex doll” 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 06:12 PM
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They absolutely do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 06:11 PM
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It’s because they only think with their dicks once they figure out how they work, honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 05:46 PM
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Mommy was probably so happy that he found another mommy to take care of his dumb ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 07:22 AM
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This whole thing is so uncomfortable 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 12:06 AM
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He probably things it’s “gay” to clean his ass 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 10:37 PM
51

Wouldn’t that itch?!??! Omg I just don’t get it. 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 09:20 PM
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The things they would have us believe if they could. Can I just say about these LVM. The effort that goes into like gaslighting and trying to convince women that what they’re doing is just fine? Just so they can be lazy, or not spend their money on you, or whatever? I have never in my life felt like I had to justify so much bad treatment of another person. Oh wait, that’s because I don’t treat people like shit 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 08:28 PM
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Grossss 🤮🤮🤮 So this may just be me, but let’s be real ladies. Has anyone else who has ever done an ex’s laundry ever noticed the amount of shit stain skid marks from the LVM that don’t know how to wipe their ass? My stepdad was the first one I ever noticed this with, and I had a couple of exes in the past who had disgusting underwear. Like, everybody poops, but I never ever ever in my life had actual shit stains in my underwear. Never. What the actual fuck???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 08:23 PM
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“Men get driven to the hospital having a heart attack” ... omg! 🤡 I’m chronically ill and I have a handful of times I begged my ex to take me to the ER and he just shrugs and says I’m fine and didn’t take me!!! I even took a Lyft myself once 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 01:18 AM
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I tried this for a while because I got tired of guys on my level still trying to date up from me in various ways. I dated two guys who were way less attractive, one of which was about a 5 on the attractiveness scale and even had a tiny penis. Lost his grocery store job, didn’t have a car. Broke, shorter than me. He still had an inflated ego and thought he was God’s gift to women even though he was pretty much a NVM in looks, personality, and finances. The other one turned out to be an emotionall…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 10:27 PM
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I gave one of my exes a brand new, pretty nice laptop a few years ago (I believe it cost me around $600) because he wanted to use it to start writing a novel or something. A couple of weeks later he slept with one of my best friends, and I found that out from her long term boyfriend. They dated for years after that. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 06:19 PM
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I always called it the bait and switch. The ones who say in their profile “looking for a relationship” and then you go on a few dates, hook up (back in my pickme days) or whatever and then they say “oh I’m not looking for a relationship right now, just something casual” fucking clowns 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 08:30 AM
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This can NOT be real. Omg the audacity 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 10:41 PM
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Yeah there are. I was thinking of a Facebook group or two, where this seems to be from originally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 07:24 AM
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That shirt he’s wearing looks like someone took grandmas handmade quilt and turned it into a shirt lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 03:43 AM
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Yeah there is. I’ll see what I can do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 08:07 PM
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This is one of the wackiest things I have ever read. Just goes to show how someone can manipulate you until you lose everything. For what? Love and approval? Someone warned me of this when I started seeing my ex, and I didn’t listen. They actually sent me the number to the suicide hotline and said I would need it. I did, in fact, lose everything after getting involved with him. It’s my fault for staying, I just want to say that. After years of him manipulating and gaslighting me, jerking me arou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 04:54 AM
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I’d have cried... and then broken up with him. This is really a cruel thing to do. But he’s just JoKiNg right?🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 01:56 AM
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He was quick to shut that down lol! He can explain it all to you though 🤡🤡🤡 What a stupid fucker
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 01:26 AM
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I think my takeaway here is that men don’t see women who do porn or OnlyFans as human, so they have no problem coercing women to get what they want out of us whether it be sex, housework, children, nudes/porn or money. Cynical me feel like the vast majority of men don’t see women as human at all and that’s why it’s so easy for them to abuse and rape us, or try to control and use us for our emotional or physical labor and child rearing or whatever. I’ve never in my life felt or been shown that an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 12:42 AM
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Wish I could. Unfortunately I found it like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 08:57 PM
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I LOVED the first season of this show. I didn’t know there was more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 08:52 PM
32

I’ve spent 2020 being chronically ill and fighting for my life, my mental health, and going to college. Men are still chasing after me. Admittedly LVM that have been blocked for acting foolish, but still. Oh and I just turned 39 the other day. 😅😅😅 This guy is a fucking clown. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 09:13 PM
38

No one is going to care or notice if she doesn’t get anything. Just get out of miserable situations. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 09:03 PM
14

Omg I’m so sorry you have to deal with his shit. My stepdad used to call me pizzaface (among other things) for years even though I didn’t really have acne, so this sent me into orbit. Lovely fucking memories. Fuck LVM/NVM fathers. Good for you for not forgiving him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 09:00 PM
11

Yep, it’s the same guy. Rapist vibes much? 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 07:30 PM
10

I’m pretty positive this same guy has videos of how to manipulate a woman into sleeping with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 07:29 PM
108

Omg they truly don’t, though. 😅 Really puts the ridiculous “romantic” things I used to do with these “men” into perspective.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 10:22 PM
31

Men are so fucking stupid I just can’t anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 08:38 PM
82

Not extreme. Get the hell out of there! Throw the whole ass man away. Wtf is wrong with men these days. Edit spelling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 04:17 AM
48

I marked it as spam but I went in and screen shotted to show my mother and then I thought all the other newbies could learn from my mistakes. The funny part is that although I’m disabled, I am not receiving any kind of aid, so idk what the fuck he’s talking about. 😅 Edit: spelling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 09:23 PM
84

He just got done telling me yesterday how poor he grew up 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 09:21 PM
12

Mmm spaghetti in a bucket, my favorite 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 06:14 AM
198

Wow the comment section is a flaming dumpster fire and the one person saying it’s actually dangerous for women to go to men’s apartments is downvoted to shit. 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 05:52 PM
5

Good call. I would have ghosted him too. 💜 When I get my PhD you can bet people will be calling me Dr. I’m not spending this many years and this much money going to school to let the stupid, jealous men who haven’t disrespect me. It’s just one more way for the misogynists to try to put educated women back in their “place”. I’m not having it and I’m glad that people are calling it out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 04:27 PM
20

“For women... you just need to not be overweight and you’re fuckable to the average man”. There, I fixed it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 10:28 PM
5

What... what the hell are 49ers in this context? I’m afraid to ask 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 03:17 PM
3

Yeah deal with what exactly? He’s going to use this to guilt her for being less than him for the rest of their relationship. What do you be this woman is going to be posting again months from now about how he won’t leave the topic alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 04:53 PM
10

Let’s also talk about the huge list of reasons they used to institutionalize women throughout history because their family or husbands wanted to essentially get rid of them or take advantage of their finances somehow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 04:25 PM
37

The second someone butchers my name 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 12:11 AM
25

I think you’re right. I was thinking a manipulation tactic of some sort
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 03:36 AM
3

I’m so glad I have the DM option turned off on here. Blehhh I used to get so much bullshit lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 02:47 AM
28

It’s not just the bedroom though, it has always been all across the board.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 02:42 AM
156

This is a thing, with LVM. The biggest excuse I consistently ever heard whenever I would bring up an even minor issue is “Well I can’t do anything right so I might as well not try anymore”. Why is this a thing???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 02:21 AM
9

Just turned 39. Wish this would have been around when I was in my late teens early 20s. Would have saved me a lot of dealings with dumb ass clowns 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 05:48 AM
11

Oh let’s all add to our job by taking care of the dumbass men that we work with. And they make more than us why?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 05:41 AM
4

The audacity 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 05:39 AM
115

Somebody’s been dating my ex again 😅🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 02:30 AM
19

You said it right here. The majority of us are being exploited by whatever job we are doing for likely not enough pay. 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 02:11 AM
69

This whole thing. The levels of depravity, honestly. If I wasn’t already wanting to stay away from men for the rest of my life this literally makes me want to become a fucking hermit. I’m so disgusted. 🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 06:09 PM
27

You say he’s texting you? I was able to get my number changed for free from t mobile because I was being harassed. Worth it. 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 05:07 PM
3

Can confirm, this happened to me. I’ve been sick for more than a year now. It wasn’t just the LVM, my workplace was toxic as well but I’m sure it wouldn’t be this bad had I been able to relax at home/ in my personal life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 06:43 AM
9

Fucking clown 🤡🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 02:02 AM
60

Big red flag. Both the not disclosing and the age gap. Men dating much younger women is frowned upon, because they have shady reasons for doing so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 02:01 AM
42

This used to drive me bonkers when I was in my 20s. I would get all manner of condescending treatment from both men and women. My personal favorite was when I would get called “Miss” at work and they’d ask me a question, and then imply I was too stupid to know the answer and that I should ask someone else. I’ve always looked about ten years younger than I am, so that doesn’t help. Someone even told me once that their dog could do my job. 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 07:53 PM
7

That glamour shots Christmas photo is wild. It looks like a mosquito bit him between the eyes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 01:10 PM
6

This can’t be his apartment, probably just a room in someone’s basement
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 02:52 AM
4

We actually had a good discussion going. I’m done being censored/suppressed in women’s spaces. 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 06:17 PM
5

This is mostly how I align as well. I may one day date again, but for now and for the foreseeable future (likely many many years while I complete my education and get my life back together) I am going my own way. FDS is teaching me that that what the patriarchal society that raised me taught me about dating, marriage, and a woman’s place in the world, was all wrong. And that living my life all these years to find and please and keep a man is what ultimately led me to the utter collapse of my lif…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 06:08 PM
12

Aren’t wgtow because of shitty behavior, violence, and misogyny at the hands of men??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 05:36 PM
12

Yeah that was another thing that stood out to me. Basically no “man bashing” which is basically calling out men’s actions and misogyny being the absolute worst. It all seems a little backward on their part, to be honest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 05:36 PM
14

Yeah that’s what mostly got me. There are whole threads in this post of them arguing about how much of a cult we are and how awful our sub is. They included a link in that post to a site that tell you what a cult is. I think a lot of women here on FDS are probably between still dating and considering wgtow just because of male depravity and knowing how rare it is to find a HVM. I see thoughts and comments like this every day. I feel like them being openly hostile towards FDS is not really the wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 05:33 PM
89

How sad. You really never can trust men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 05:08 PM
319

Blames his wife for his cheating at the end. Hope he gets what’s coming to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 06:27 PM
26

Good for you! I’ve found this year that self respect includes a lot of self work and finding out why I would accept the bare minimum from someone who doesn’t really care to have me in their life. Texting is no place for a conversation of this caliber and the whole thing is so disrespectful on his part. You deserve so much better than being second to someone’s hobbies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 05:53 PM
83

Anyone that says “per se” un-ironically in a sentence is 100% a man lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 01:10 AM
6

Thanks for sharing this. I’m following them now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 06:01 AM
68

They rated her like 6-6.5? She’s beautiful!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 01:38 AM
3

I’ve never seen her post her nail color. It is a really nice color
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 10:24 PM
50

This makes me laugh every time I see it. It can’t be real. No one is this stupid. 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 09:18 PM
1

Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 09:08 PM
9

I wish I would have known this back in 2016. It would have saved me YEARS of nonsense and trauma at the hands of an ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 08:35 PM
8

Cloaking? Do you recall where we could find the article? I’ve heard all kinds of new terms for their bad behavior but this is a new one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 08:34 PM
11

Anyone who gets out of a long term relationship and doesn’t work on their own issues and is in a new one weeks later is a huge red flag. Especially during a global pandemic. 🚩🚩🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 05:23 PM
62

The last time some dude told me when I was on the way to our date that he “wasn’t feeling it, sorry” I immediately blocked him everywhere. Lol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 05:01 PM
33

Haha I came here to say exactly this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 05:00 PM
103

Yup. Bye husband. He tried to call her bluff to maintain control and now he’s gotta be panicking. If you give them an inch they will take more than a mile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 04:59 PM
8

That’s good to know. I guess I’ve only seen the good articles posted here and there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 04:09 AM
21

People are just attacking her in the comments too 😓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 01:08 AM
37

Holyyyy cow. I don’t even know what to say about this. How can he think this behavior is normal or ok?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 12:04 AM
24

So at some point a few years ago my dumb ass decided that I was going to try “dating down” because of some bullshit article or study that I read. I figured that all of the hot guys that I had dated that were on my level of physical attraction and stuff just acted like glorified fuckboys that knew they could do better than me, even though I’m hot (so I’ve been told) and educated and had my shit together. So I ended up going on some dates with this guy who was probably about a 5 on the looks scale…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 10:58 PM
145

Fuck. It sucks because Teen Vogue has some really good articles a lot of the time, the kind of shit that would have helped me so much when I was growing up. This is shit 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 10:30 PM
154

hIgH bOdY cOuNt 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 10:23 PM
7

Hope she divorces his ass too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 08:13 PM
1

You’re welcome! I love his content. Everything I’ve seen him post is so spot on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 07:20 PM
3

Yeah they do. It’s interesting that it’s almost like a script and I’ve seen so many examples of this. It’s such good food for thought that so many people who are like this arrive at the same way of thinking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 07:19 PM
1

Haha this made my day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 07:17 PM
3

Same. Some of his videos are so funny too. I like that he takes serious issues and makes a valid point but puts a bit of humor in it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 07:16 PM
2

He is not. He has an Instagram and is on twitch but no YouTube unfortunately. It doesn’t look like he posts his videos on insta either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 07:15 PM
5

So true. 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 09:47 PM
51

Why does his name have to be Josh though 🤡 Honestly reading this almost sent me into a panic because it could be word for word the situation that I just posted about. I don’t know why people who don’t care about you want to keep having access to you other than this. So the person I posted about flat out told me that he sought out my attention because it made him feel better about himself. That’s it, that’s all. They can’t stand if you want nothing to do with them because it makes them feel bad a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 08:42 PM
1

Honestly I never thought that he hated me. Things weren’t always shitty, just like with any situation that you find yourself ending up in, people can act nice and normal for long periods of time before they show their true colors, and he was what I considered a “friend” for quite a long time before anything romantic happened and things started to turn bad. I figured he was just another fucked up person and in the grand scheme of things with what was going on in my life at the time, it was by far…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 07:19 PM
19

One of my exes actually threatened to take legal action against me for going through his phone and finding and screen shotting his making plans to date other women and all the shit he was talking about me to other people while we were together lol. I honestly believe if he weren’t so cheap he would have tried, so watch out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 06:28 PM
2

I agree with a lot of this. I requested a woman. But for a bunch of reasons, he was the only one that had availability and what they thought was the education and experience to diagnose and treat me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 06:19 PM
1

Thank you. I mentioned in another comment above that I’ve never had a therapist, save for one, that I felt like really helped me. And this is having been in years of therapy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 05:45 PM
1

Oh absolutely and I know that is a factor because this person literally gets hysterical over thinking people see him badly, I’ve seen it in the past lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 05:44 PM
3

He didn’t know a lot about this particular friendship/ past relationship because the focus all this time has been on all the other “fires” that need to be put out with my mental and physical health conditions. Long story short I have become disabled, am waiting on trying to get on disability and I have lost everything this year, including all of my social support save for like one or two people that I never get to see because of covid. I told him that this person had been very important to me in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 05:42 PM
1

This is what I don’t understand. I feel like every therapist that I’ve ever had has not been “good” except for one. The whole reason I am so mentally and physically ill is because I basically have no boundaries and I let a toxic work environment and a toxic ex walk all over me for over two years without trying to stand up for myself, and the couple of times I did I was gaslighted into oblivion. In all honestly I should have been hospitalized this year at the very least because of my complete lac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 05:36 PM
3

The reasons I ended up with this therapist are because I initially was seeing someone with those credentials, and something happened on their end so I ended up with this lady in the interim who I liked very much, but I have so much going on that she expressed that she didn’t feel as though she could help me. She recommended trying to find someone with PhD credentials because of all the things I had going on. This person I ended up with was the only one available to take me on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 05:22 PM
18

Yeah the big lesson here is that I don’t owe anyone access to me. It is a pattern. 99% of the time I’ve had a man reach out to me it’s always because they want sex at the end of the day, even if there are apologies and they try to make amends. In my past I’ve been very forgiving, and I think that’s how I end up being the one they reach out to for the ego boost or whatever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 04:35 AM
7

I agree. I found it is always LVM who try and say that blocking is too extreme, etc. mostly coming from men who know they might be the next to not have access to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 04:32 AM
9

He is to some degree. I think he was trying to teach me to voice my needs and establish my boundaries for once and it is working, so for that I guess it’s a good learning experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 04:31 AM
39

Yeah. This therapist that I am seeing is the first male therapist I’ve had except for one several years ago for a CBT short treatment. I felt I needed someone at a PhD level and he was the only available. I still have mixed feelings about him but he’s been helpful at the same time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 04:29 AM
7

Oh gawd, there are people in the comments that are defending mansplaining. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 07:20 PM
10

Reading all your stories has made me realize we all dated the same damn man. I just can’t fathom how there are so many men out there that act exactly the same. What the fuck! 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 07:15 PM
18

My abusive ex managed to situationship me for about a year before I blocked him the first time around. He didn’t want to officially date me or even have a sexual relationship with me but told me not to try to date or hook up with anyone else because he wanted to be together, eventually. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 04:48 PM
6

Whooaaaaa major yikes 😳 I’m so embarrassed for her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 03:52 PM
48

I second this, huge red flag. Every man who didn’t want to post me on social media was not committed 100% and still either had their eye out for someone else or had some “crazy ex” that they secretly wanted to get back with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 07:10 AM
1

I almost posted this when I saw it. I just can’t. Men in the comments are like “should have talked to him about it” like WHY WON’T IT READ 😅 Also what an ass. And her mom has cancer too. Why can’t the trash take itself out before shit like this happens
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 12:41 AM
14

I just watched some more and I have to stop because I’m cry laughing. His videos are so funny 😅😅😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 12:38 AM
8

Also have you heard of Warsan Shire? A big favorite for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 12:30 AM
6

Oh there’s a deal? Here’s me seeing if I can fit more books on my shelf. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 12:29 AM
44

Ohhhh so he does say stuff that cruel, all the time. What an ass. Hope she figures it out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 11:54 PM
23

I just shared this from her Instagram. I haven’t read this book in particular but I have one of her others. Love her writing/poetry so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 11:51 PM
56

I mean where is the lie lol Every time I watch this I love it more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 10:47 PM
65

I still can’t. Incelephant. I’m crying every time I see a notification for this. 😅😅😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 09:50 PM
103

I laughed SO HARD because this was really not what I was expecting. 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 08:50 PM
2

Number three! I always got sucked in by those. Like several over the years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 07:04 PM
29

The egos, they were fragile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 07:02 PM
37

Eew. She does indeed look like she’s about 14. Ew ew ew that makes all this look even more disgusting on his part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 07:22 AM
15

lol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 04:23 AM
29

Major yikes. Serious issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 03:26 AM
22

Holy shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 11:35 PM
25

I think a lot of guys are just parroting what they think is appropriate to want in a woman, or what women want to hear, but deep down they just want a woman they can control who will do what they say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 11:33 PM
34

It’s their way of taking us down a few pegs because they don’t want women to be “smarter” or more educated than them. I think I mentioned that the biggest psycho tantrum that I saw my LV ex husband throw was because I wanted to go to college, which he knew before I married him. He tried talking to me a couple of times about what he was going to “allow” me to do. The hell you are, you fucking ingrate. I was single for years after that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 11:23 PM
38

This is my favorite, from a woman: “Withholding sex for months/years should be considered a form of abuse, IMO.” In that case, I’m off to see about taking my narc ex to court for four years of abuse 😅 /s What a clown stance 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 11:18 PM
12

Welp, that explains a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 07:45 PM
25

I just this year learned what run money was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 05:13 AM
27

“Indeed” lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 03:33 AM
49

Apparently she doesn’t even have access to the mail key.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 03:06 AM
73

It doesn’t sound like she can. I have firsthand experience with two of her diagnoses and I can honestly say there’s no way I could possibly work or support myself in this condition. SSD will absolutely tell you to fuck off in some cases- you could be dying of cancer and they don’t give a shit. This world is not a kind place for people like us. I only hope that she can find safety with her mom or other family if she needs to. This was the first one in a long time that made me feel sick when I rea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 03:01 AM
29

This makes me fucking sick. It’s so triggering that I’m crying for her and for myself if I’m honest. As someone in a similar situation as her with mental and physical health issues and cognitive issues from years of abuse, I have absolutely been driven to planning to end my life before multiple times by the actions of someone like this who was supposed to care for me and keep me safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 02:57 AM
31

Yeah that was really cringey. The way that so many of these men see and think about women just makes me want to puke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 10:10 PM
19

I’m proud of you. I’ve been in a similar situationship and it took me so long to get out of because I kept getting those empty promises. Now I look back on it and realize they were just to keep me around out of convenience and boredom. We’ve all been here, and now we know better. 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 10:08 PM
34

I second this. If a fuckboy says they want to be in a healthy relationship it’s only to get women to put up with their fuckboy shit thinking if you do all the right things you have a chance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 09:57 PM
25

This 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 08:02 PM
117

When I started out in the veterinary industry, one of the receptionists at the first clinic I worked at was married to the owner. She worked and slaved away to put her husband through vet school and she would show up to work with designer bags that cost $5-6k. They lived in a house that was worth over $2mil at the time. She used to try to give me advice like work hard and help your man succeed and this is your reward. Lmao. She got incredibly lucky is what she did. I tried that a couple of times…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 06:51 PM
147

What’s crazy to me is how many of my abusive and manipulative exes told me their ex was crazy and then proceed to be the absolute worst and made me fucking crazy. How did it take me so long to figure out?! I feel like I could write a book!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 06:46 PM
112

I forgot about that site. Makes me wanna vomit 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 06:32 PM
9

This is a big struggle for me. I just now this year at 39 stopped giving a shit about shaving, but I also am descended from apparent werewolf stock and you could probably see it a mile away if I didn’t shave. I remember being shamed into shaving my legs by the girls in my class in elementary school. 😑 I was the only one who didn’t because I wasn’t allowed to by my mom, and it was such a huge deal that I did it in secret one day and I still think about it all this time later. It’s something I fee…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 11:11 AM
75

I watched more of her TikTok and this girl knows what she’s doing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 06:16 AM
6

Hey 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 03:47 AM
9

Mine messaged me on an Instagram account that I seldom use that I thought I had him blocked on. I didn’t even read it. I deleted the whole account and the rest of my social media that he might have found. Lmao that should be answer enough. It still fucks with my head though, I’ll admit that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 01:06 AM
250

She had to turn her comments off on that video on TikTok bc all the scrotes came out to harass her and then said they should just take it to Reddit. I like her 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 01:01 AM
18

Haha I don’t even remember. This was last year and I can’t even remember what I did yesterday. It reminded me of a podcast a different ex tried to recommend to me and it was spouting some soft pua bullshit. Should’ve known back then. 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 12:40 AM
8

My ex told me that I was ”hypocritical about gender issues” when I started following fds. Lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 12:31 AM
58

Omg yesss!! I remember listening to like part of an episode of a Joe Rogan podcast and going wtf is this?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 12:03 AM
4

I think that’s why I heard “him”. Grew up listening to this kind of accent lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 03:02 AM
79

Ughhh it’s the trimming for me. Making it as short and concise as possible and it’s still really long so you’re taking out any extra words and whatnot. 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 02:57 AM
34

Lol! You’re so lucky. You never dated someone who just wouldn’t listen or CoMmUnIcAtE with you so you thought if you wrote that shit down and emailed or texted it that they would comprehend? All that is, is a big fat waste of time. They know what you’re trying to communicate, they just don’t give a fuck 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 01:47 AM
75

Haha. I’ve written maaaanyyyy a thing in notes app and even found some when I was deleting crap off my phone recently so I was like 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 01:16 AM
7

I listened to it a few times. Are you talking about when they say “writing a text to him in your notes app”?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 01:07 AM
3

Where did they say hun?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 01:06 AM
23

How. How could someone even running the account be so fucking stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 09:23 PM
24

I... the... Do they believe this shit themselves or do they just say it because they think we will buy it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 09:21 PM
123

No the fuck he won’t 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 08:02 PM
46

Was his name really redpill?? Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 01:00 AM
7

Maxim magazine back then was always my red flag lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 05:37 PM
5

Yeahhhh and it was still the best tv show I think I ever watched aside from Dexter. I remember having to take breaks between episodes of Breaking Bad because it was so intense I couldn’t binge watch it. Both Marie and Skyler drove me batshit crazy but now that I’m older and a lot more experienced I get Skyler 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 05:50 AM
9

But still... what a weird choice of HVM mascot 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 05:41 AM
62

Of course he didn’t. Lies. Especially since you saw that he follows so many others in the past. Knowing what I know now I would follow that gut feeling and leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 11:56 PM
58

I read this as “lay down on floor tiles really well” and thought, huh. He really just told you the truth on this one. And then I read it again. Does she lay tiles in the semi nude though? Not sure how the two would correlate. Or does she just take and post semi nude photos on the side?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 11:50 PM
5

It appears these are both men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 11:43 PM
8

Most of these guys can’t answer more than one question or statement at a time. Any man I’ve ever texted that I dated even long term ignores 2/3 things that you text them 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 09:23 PM
9

Reddit really needs to do something about this. It’s ridiculous. Any other online/social media platform if you block them they can’t see anything you post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 04:50 PM
4

About to be 39 here. Just found this sub six months or so ago after abusive long term relationship with LVM has me at my lowest ever. Lurked for a long time before I started to participate here. 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 04:44 PM
5

So here’s my short story. Met “the love of my life”. Dated. He bought me a ring. We got engaged. I found out I was pregnant. We were really excited and made a lot of plans. Then one day shortly after we found out, I came home and he had packed up his stuff and moved out while I was at work. I had an abortion. The end. 😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 06:53 AM
49

No they’re too far gone when they’re like this. I see far too much of this stubborn anti scientific facts belief shit in this country and I can’t understand why. Make it part of basic education early before they start believing shit like this. However, it’s also a common psych knowledge that people will believe whatever makes them feel better or aligns with their beliefs, even if it isn’t real. It’s easier to think “loose women are bad” and justify it by making up “facts” when no one wants you f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 05:29 PM
83

That’s 👏🏻 not 👏🏻 how 👏🏻 it 👏🏻 works 👏🏻 I wish they would teach basic human anatomy facts during sex ed in schools.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 05:18 PM
117

I... wtf. “I fell terribly ill and he broke up with me” Let me fix that: “I fell terribly ill and he showed his true colors and that he would never take care of me if something happened, and broke up with me”. As someone who has been broken up with for being chronically ill, fuck this guy. He’ll do it again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 04:05 PM
7

What do you mean a mass texting list? Yeah see it can take several months sometimes for these clever trashy “men” to reveal their true selves. I’m sorry that happened to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 06:31 AM
5

I... I’m sorry. Did you date one of my exes too? What is it with dudes bragging that they were hit men? What is this, grand theft auto?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 06:22 AM
1

Yup 😓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 06:20 AM
5

This reminded me... it’s not a lie but I dated so many musicians. The last one I asked one time after a few years why he had all these sappy love songs about his exes but never wrote one for me. Ladies, are you prepared? He wrote me a song about how MY CAT’S ASSHOLE shone like a beacon in the night and then got mad and gaslighted me because I wasn’t appreciative that he wrote me a song.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 06:18 AM
5

I literally had a boyfriend tell me he was DYING rather than break up with me. Like... telling someone who loves you that you’re dying would make them go away? Jokes on him, all it did was make me more clingy and communicative. I didn’t find out the truth until he hooked up with my “best friend”. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 06:11 AM
10

I... I’ve just realized I’ve never had a man I’ve dated want to take pictures of me or with me. None of them cared enough 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 06:06 AM
25

As soon as I read this I could HEAR it 😅🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 05:59 AM
22

Major yikes. Not only is this perpetuating disgusting predatory behavior, it’s also racist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 05:25 AM
19

Haha same here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 03:19 AM
76

I’m glad that shit didn’t really start until I got too old to bother with it. I always dated men within the goth scene so I never had to deal with morons like this. Only LV goth men 🤡 Edit: spelling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 03:17 AM
89

Yes. Block and delete. Any time a man says “I’m not looking for anything serious right now” add “with you” to the end of that. He will never want anything more than to be a fuck buddy with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 03:09 AM
13

He absolutely made up that lame ass excuse, probably because he met someone close by and just wants to let her down gently. Exclusive my ass. Poor girl sounds very naive. I remember when I would have believed all that. 😓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 11:32 PM
2

Thank you for sharing this. You brought up a lot of points that seem to be reoccurring themes I’ve noticed in my own relationships with these kinds of men. I want to respond to later when I’m done with my essays.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 06:19 PM
3

Oh my GAWD! Why aren’t they this motivated to not be jackasses while we’re dating them? 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 07:22 AM
3

Hahaha. Honestly this is good quality coming from him. You should see some of his texts he used to send me. I think for some reason he purposely didn’t spell things correctly or use correct grammar and stuff because... he thought it was cute? This was the ONE TIME I made an exception and started talking to someone who couldn’t spell. 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 03:31 AM
3

I didn’t know you could leave messages on Netflix 😭 I keep asking my sister to change the password bc I’m pretty sure he still has it. He’s even messaged me on the PlayStation network and on my Nintendo Switch 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 11:22 PM
6

I think he meant contact. Honestly the fact that most of this is spelled correctly and you can understand it means he tried extra EXTRA hard 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 11:21 PM
24

It’s nice to know it’s not just me being wonky when I have a bad reaction to this type of thing after reading it. Like saying you’re sorry is not really an apology if you’re going to use excuses and shift the blame around to anything but yourself. Circumstances (that he alone caused) and all the woe is me crap. This isn’t an apology at all honestly, it’s a grab for attention and for making me feel sorry for him again and it used to work on me, sadly. Now I find it repulsive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 08:02 PM
27

Holy crap. I knew it was a lot 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 07:18 PM
16

That’s awesome! Thanks for that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 06:54 PM
123

That stood out to me. Never mind the devastation he caused me. It’s I I I, me me me. But it’s the “we are alike” for me. No, sir. We are not alike at all. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 05:42 PM
30

Nah this is from his blocked email address. That’s why I’m nuking my email address after I transfer all 10,000 things I use it to log in for to my new email address 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 05:40 PM
23

Yes and also, if he’s making this big of a deal about her wanting to go because that coworker is going to be there, and he’s getting physical about it, he’s absolutely hiding something. Even if it’s wanting to “appear” single to the coworker despite her having a boyfriend. The bigger the fit they throw about something the bigger the red flag. Not to mention being an unhinged abusive psycho. Hope she gets the hell away before his abuse escalates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 05:37 AM
6

Oh is that the tactic? Jfc I hate Reddit trolls. 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 01:23 AM
5

Haha I hope it’s that easy but I doubt it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 08:44 PM
6

I totally get it and I absolutely agree. I see them and read them all day long, every day. I just don’t see the people here coming out quite this hard to give shit to the OP, so of course I’m going to defend my thought process of why I posted it in the first place when I get multiple negative comments. Damn sure I won’t post another one after this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 08:43 PM
14

Haha someone reported me to Reddit saying that I may need help, so I get a lovely message from them with the number for the crisis text line. I am a trained volunteer for the crisis text line... 😅👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 I wonder what would have happened if my DMs weren’t turned off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 08:16 PM
12

Y’all are missing the point big time. Let’s continue to post all these examples though about men doing terrible shit to women here and from other subreddits and continue to wring our hands and scratch our heads about it lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 06:55 PM
22

Great links, btw 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 05:54 PM
7

I’m sorry you had that experience with your family. I came from the same kind of family tbh. I never knew what was at the core when I was called the “black sheep” by my favorite uncle in a group call with some family members. Oh, because I am college educated and had my own career and supported myself and didn’t buy into that bullshit of getting married and being subservient to my husband. My ex husband tried, bless him: /s lmao For years I went from ltr to ltr wondering how I always ended up th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 05:53 PM
18

They don’t know how they tell on themselves. I bet if you didn’t have it in front of you and brought it up it would be “nah I never said that” and gaslighting. Trash taking itself out 👏🏻 I had another ex who agreed to go half on paying for one of our cats medical treatments. I go about and plan it and he told me he never agreed to that when the time came, when he clearly did. Then he cried on the kitchen floor. Smdh the lies 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 05:47 PM
35

Thank you! My whole reason for posting, which seems to have pissed a few people here off, was that I see so much “WhY aRe MeN” here and there. This is why. This right here. They’re organizing in groups to talk about how terrible women are because we don’t want their dumb ass anymore but it boils down to, we’re not putting up with their shit. We don’t want their bare minimum. They have been happy and content that the bar is on the floor for them and has been for so long, they miss the days when t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 05:42 PM
13

Same can be said for the vast majority of men in all these large incel subs around Reddit. You can bet a bunch of them are still out there trying to date!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 05:37 PM
21

I see plenty of posts like this here, Idk why this is any different. It’s not about caring what they think. It’s about awareness as I said in my answer to someone else’s comment. We really truly don’t ever know what’s in some scrote’s mind even if they’re pretending to act like they have some value or decency. I’ve met many men throughout my life that turned out to have these mindsets. Ones you wouldn’t suspect at all. The more they feel like they can’t put women in their place or slap them arou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 05:34 PM
18

They randomly show up in my feed. I’m not even subbed there but I get all kinds of random shit that shows up from relationship advice subs. I also think that it’s a good reminder just how many LV/NVM out there. Coworkers, men that we pass by on the streets, friends, or friends of friends, people we come into contact with every day, that carry around this dangerous hatred and contempt for women. How many men on OLD pretending to have basic decency, carrying this kind of thinking around. I’ve met …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 05:28 PM
4

I learned this lesson the hard way. I’m currently having to change my email with every dang service because of a LVM, so I can eventually nuke the email altogether. He hasn’t sent me a msg yet but I know he will. It’s only a matter of time. You can’t really block those, they just go into the junk folder where you can still see them, if you’re looking for a misplaced email from someone/a company for instance. I just want to disappear and never be found by this person again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 04:48 PM
44

I’m curious OP, is this his response to you telling him “hey, you told me completely different things when I moved in as opposed to now” and he went with how he’s being soooo generous? And yeah it’s telling. He’s not saying travel with you to Europe someday, for instance. If I learned anything it’s always keep receipts lol. My LVM ex used to tell me all the ways he was going to spoil me when we got together. None of that happened. He gave me his old PC when he bought a new one, and every time we…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 04:42 PM
9

There’s almost ALWAYS a bait and switch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 04:38 PM
33

Me 🏳️‍🌈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 03:47 AM
10

Following because I want to see what others have to say. I don’t think masturbation is inherently negative outside of porn use, even if you’re using your imagination, if it is not impacting your relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 02:57 AM
171

Throw 👏🏻 the 👏🏻 whole 👏🏻 man 👏🏻 away!!! What a useless waste of oxygen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 02:25 AM
34

It’s easier to bitch and moan than it is to work toward changing/bettering yourself. They don’t want women to tell each other these things that’s why they’re so PRESSED when they see shit like this. Men are so angry that we’ve caught on and are starting to demand better and instead of doing better the majority of them think that joining ranks with the rest of the angry incels and hating women is the best course of action. I think I’m fine never dating again. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 06:34 PM
76

Library pencil!!! This is the best thing I’ve heard in a long time 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 04:59 AM
310

I’ve been waiting for this. I hope she divorces his ass. There’s no way I’d look at him the same after this. How humiliating for her. I’d be mortified. And he of course isn’t taking it seriously at all. JuSt A JoKe my ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 04:47 AM
11

I came here to say this, too. I’ve had plenty PLENTY of men agree that they were looking for committed relationships just to get what they wanted and then tell me later that was never what they were looking for. Back in the day on OLD I called it to myself and my friends “the bait and switch”. I’m glad I realized it for what it was back then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 10:05 PM
234

Do you ladies remember the post a couple months back in one of the relationship advice subreddits where the guy was hiding his extreme wealth from his girlfriend, living off her financial support, and let her sell her deceased relative’s (mother’s I believe) priceless violin to pay for something in an emergency and didn’t give one shit about any of it. And he was worth and had access to OVER TEN MILLION DOLLARS. Every fiber of my being was screaming. I still think about that guy sometimes and ho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 09:44 PM
13

I HAVE however had men try to mansplain to me how to play stuff or just general information like I didn’t already know. Gaming has been my lifetime hobby, like 🥴stop sir, you’re making yourself look stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 06:38 PM
22

I’m a gamer so I know how expensive it is. I’ve luckily never had some dumbass man try to tell me a lie about how expensive it is lmao. Been doing this a lot longer than you mister man. 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 06:34 PM
7

I looove her videos and I could watch them all day long. Some days I wish I could live like this, far removed from the trappings of western and capitalist society. Hard work that pays off for myself, not business owners or corporations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 05:19 PM
27

The really sad part is, one of the final straws with my LVM ex this year was something that he had told me FOUR YEARS AGO that he claimed I had wrong and that he never told me. It turned into this whole thing and then he was soooo upset and perturbed for weeks after saying that I implied that he lied to me. I didn’t, initially, I was just like “that’s so weird, because I could swear you said something completely different to me four years ago” and he turned it into this whole ordeal, which is ho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 05:50 AM
201

“An elephant brain” 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 I have one of these too and you’d be (maybe not so) shocked at all the gaslighting and lies that I’ve discovered or that have been caused just because of this. “I never said that” or “that never happened” when I had even written it down in several instances. I can’t remember shit otherwise but I can absolutely remember some minor detail that was told to me by a shady lying person, usually a man, even years later lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 12:38 AM
30

Wow is this my ex to a T. Don’t stay and put up with it, you’ll lose your damn mind after a couple of years. I can attest to that. 😓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 06:08 PM
13

Yup. She was barely in her early 20s lol and he was justifying to his friend all over the place hey as long as they’re over 18 it’s fine with him lol. Karma is getting him for being a jackass anyway. 👏🏻👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 10:26 PM
7

Did the video get taken down? Does anyone know the users @? Edit: spelling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 10:24 PM
24

The other thing I feel like fuels their obsession with this is they think all women want to become pregnant with their kid to entrap them for life and ensure that they will spend the next 18 years either miserable and forced into a relationship with some woman when he just wanted pussy, or paying her child support and be poor and destitute forever. My dad never paid a cent of child support for me and then went on to raise a bunch of kids that weren’t his with the next woman he married lol so the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 10:03 PM
29

No man shall pass between these legs. I’ve had enough of their con artistry. Here’s your crown because this is some queen energy right here 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 10:00 PM
19

I did something similar and didn’t block everywhere. Ex was in my DMs telling me that it is a crime to have screenshots of him talking to the girl (fifteen years younger than us) and how he was going to call the police and file a police report if I didn’t delete them. 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 09:53 PM
16

I always follow my gut feeling with these types of things. I’ve followed accounts from influencers/life coaches, therapists, among others, who claim they have positive messages and sometimes I notice stuff like this. I tend to notice a lot of drama or get the feeling that there is constantly ranting or negativity or general bad vibes I will not follow anymore. Trust your gut. If it bothers you, there’s a reason is what I always say. There was one lady on TikTok all happiness and witchy/hippy and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 02:16 AM
11

I turned off my DMs and chats on here lol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 11:30 PM
16

It’s stuff like this that makes me think they (LV/NVM) almost always have some other woman they never get over and we’re just the placeholder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 09:51 PM
14

Thank you for posting this. I’ve often wondered, as a bi woman who has mostly dated men because it was “easier” for all the reasons, what would happen if I just exclusively started dating women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 07:30 PM
14

Out of curiosity, what are these documentaries?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 07:05 PM
60

Imagine being pregnant for 9 months and the jackass father wants to name it AFTER ANOTHER WOMAN. I think this broke my brain today 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 07:01 PM
109

The social media one! Lol. My LVM ex had Facebook but any time I said something to him about it over the long course of our relationship he would say “I’m so dumb when it comes to using it. I have no idea what I’m doing. I don’t know how to change it so you can friend request me” etc. And used that as an excuse to not post us when he had been posting pics of him and his drop dead gorgeous “friend” when I met him, so clearly he had it figured out then. Oh but he loved me so much and they were jus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 05:54 AM
37

My ex husband threw THE BIGGEST tantrum I’ve ever seen when I mentioned that I wanted to go to college. Something he knew all along. I think he thought that I was going to marry him and like change my mind even though he never let on? So anyway, in the course of the tantrum argument, he says “You think you’re so fucking smart? I don’t need to take a college English class to know how to write a police report”. I said “I’ve read some of your police reports, and your writing is so bad I can’t even …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 03:06 AM
36

Y’all I wish more women would figure out that we can just skip the whole ass man and have a child by ourselves at this point. It’s not worth doing all the emotional labor, carry and give birth to their child, take care of a household and a child, AND a grown ass man child, just to have them drag you for being unattractive to them after going through all that. What a joke. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 09:08 PM
25

There’s a woman I follow on TikTok who talks about these issues a lot and there are men in her comments section who are convinced that women have all the power in society, women are “making up stories” of abuse and being victims of violence at the hands of men, and how women wouldn’t be victims if we wouldn’t act “helpless”. And there’s no reasoning with these men. They KNOW the truth, they just don’t care because women having any kind of power or being wary of men puts men at a disadvantage now…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 07:21 PM
3

Thank you so much for sharing you experience. It’s nice to know that I too can pull through this. I’ve come so far even just in the last couple of months. My depression was so bad during the summer that I didn’t see the point anymore, but I’m already doing better even if it feels marginal at times. Thank you 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 05:56 PM
3

It’s nice to not have this interest in dating or finding a man anymore at this point. Just thinking and planning on how to make me happy from now on gives me hope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 05:55 PM
2

Thank you! 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 05:53 PM
3

It’s funny, I always knew I would struggle with mental health issues but I never expected the physical. I took such good care of myself for so long I thought I’d never get sick like this. The new reality is hard to accept but when I finally did it made so much difference. I hope you are ok. 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 05:53 PM
3

Thank you for believing in me. 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 05:51 PM
18

Somewhere I heard recently, I think it was in my group therapy, that most widowed men remarry within A YEAR!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 12:08 AM
9

Thank you, you too! *hugs 💜 It was always my dream and now it’s time to go for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 06:51 PM
10

Yayyy! Glad you got away from him. Fellow goth witchy woman here. I’ve had men give me shit about that in the past and my ex husband tried to turn me into blonde Barbie and ugh, it worked for a couple years I’m ashamed to say. But I can happily say I’ve been goth and into witchcraft for... 26 years now. Ha! I’m old.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 05:07 PM
1

It's not nice if you're doing something for someone else only because you want to get something out of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 02:08 AM
75

Is his girlfriend a twelve year old boy? 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 10:38 PM
5

Haha you’ve nailed it! I’ve been here for 15 years and it’s been nothing but this the whole time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 10:23 PM
6

This... is this fucker serious?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 03:15 PM
1

The second part is what I’m working on now. I’m not really sure how to go about it though but I am having lots of therapy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 03:15 PM
1

The double standards are intense! Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 03:07 PM
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