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Tell him you will go to the police for harassment and contact his HR department and tell them he is dangerous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 03:26 PM
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Ladies, PSA if your man isn’t providing he is worthless. If you both work and don’t share responsibilities with cleaning and cooking he’s a POS and you need to leave his ass. If you have kids he will expect you to do all that work and take care of them. Hell to the no. It’s better to keep your money, buy what you want and not cook and clean for a man child
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 04:16 PM
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I don’t see male doctors. Females make better doctor’s period. They can empathize and actually listen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 04:37 AM
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I absolutely agree. Good men are unicorns in this fucked up world
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 04:54 AM
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I don’t want equality because we women deserve better than that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 11:27 PM
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Women who buy their men expensive gifts 🤡🤡🤡 Are y’all dense? Make him buy you gifts or kick him to the curb and get a vibrator. Or make him a hand knit beanie or some thoughtful shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 11:26 PM
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Pretty much all men do it when they’re single unless they’re in a religion that heavily discourages it. If they do it when they’re with someone they’re actually having sex with, then that’s just gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 09:08 PM
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They had an open marriage. Like he was sleeping with other women too 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 08:48 PM
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Love isn’t a struggle, period. If someone loves you they won’t be the cause of your pain, ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 07:43 PM
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Queen behavior is either living on your own or making him pay 100 percent of the rent and living rent free. Don’t get tied into a lease with a guy who can literally leave you at any time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 04:18 AM
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A lot of this is true, but Nothing wrong with hating the kardashians and shorter guys are usually overlooked but make better boyfriends/husbands. Not midgets but guys who are a little shorter than average is okay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 12:33 AM
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Let my cry with my loving husband in my big house and great career I can do from home. Fuck you Jared.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 12:28 AM
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I will tell you something that might make you feel a bit better. I believe I witnessed this miraculous thing for a reason. Maybe so I could give comfort to others. As my dad was dying he kept saying he saw a light. He kept saying “oh wow the light.” Then all of the sudden he switches to his native language he never spoke unless around family and greeted my uncle who had died from cancer years ago. He was like “oh hey it’s so good to see you, how have you been? I know you miss them.” He died just…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 06:50 AM
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In the end my dad tried to remove his oxygen mask so he could die, and I kept putting it back on. I just didn’t want him to go. In just 2 years cancer completely destroyed him. I will never be the same. I have never seen a human being suffer the way my poor father did. I pray cancer will be eradicated in the future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 06:19 AM
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Say yeah I’m fucking crazy... crazy tired of emotionally stunted men who perceive showing emotions as crazy. Never. Look back. A good man will never, and I mean never call you crazy for expressing your emotions no matter how raw they are. They will also never call you any other derogatory name. As soon as you hear that you’re crazy it’s time to pack your shit because they don’t take you seriously and they never will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 02:41 AM
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Unless that is followed up with something like my boyfriend won’t let me...out of the house without a jacket when it’s cold. Then we have a problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 05:20 AM
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That’s not even rude. You again politely declined after numerous attempts to overthrow your personal wishes. Fuck you and throwing the drink on him would be more appropriate at this point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 03:58 AM
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Okay implies you're not okay. Just never fucking respond again. Boom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 10:19 PM
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Sadly, I think a lot of women lower their standards or don’t realize how attractive they actually are or what they deserve. I saw this experiment played out in a documentary I think it was called “the science of attraction” where a big group of people was rated on a scale of 1-10 in terms of attractiveness and ask to pair up with someone they liked in the room. The majority found someone else within 1-2 degrees of attractiveness levels. I think male entitlement is an issue where some men feel li…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 05:50 PM
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It’s been scientifically proven that people are attracted to other people who are similar to them attractiveness wise. They’ve done experiments on this but it seems like most all men want like the top 10% of attractive women when they fall in the bottom 10% of men. No that’s not the way it works, now go find someone on your level and quit trying for the most attractive women when you are ugly af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 02:48 AM
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Some others Financially independent and has ability/drive Has healthy relationships (family and friends) Treats service people with respect Never calls women derogatory words Kind to kids and animals (even if he doesn’t want kids and animals) Generous with time and money Encourages you and others Doesn’t pressure you for sex Thinks of you before himself and his own needs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 05:20 PM
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He needs to get the fuck out then. Lovemaking is a privilege someone you love does with you and it's enjoyable because you love each other and want to make each other feel good. It's not just ME STICK PEE PEE IN HOLE ME FEEL GOOD. I don't even think they realize how unfulfilling that kind of sex really is. If you want to make your pee-pee feel good buy a sex toy, you whiny little bitch. You're better off raising one child on your own instead of two. He should be getting up with you to do bottles…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 09:04 PM
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If you haven't discussed marriage within the first year of your relationship and it's something you want... he needs to waste someone elses time. Meanwhile you're cooking his food, being his maid, doing his laundry and sh*t wasting your youth and beauty like the dutiful ass-clown you are. He doesn't have to buy you a ring and any day he can just walk out and that's that. I never understood people who had been together 6 years and hadn't gotten married unless they were super young when they got t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 04:54 AM
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The most powerful thing you can be in life is a women who would like the company of a worthy man but does not need him. You have accepted he can leave at any time, or do something that you find unacceptable and you have the strength to let him go or leave him. Yes, you’ll be sad but you love yourself enough not to settle. Life is all about what you’re willing to accept. If you accept low pay at a job, accept your station in life, accept a shitty relationship it’s easy to have all that. Lots of w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 06:28 PM
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I have never accepted men who watch porn while with me and really they shouldn’t watch it period. My fiancé and I have a great sex life and he’s very attentive to my needs. Porn is dehumanizing and degrading to women. It portrays unrealistic sex and body image what women are expected to enjoy when it comes to sex. It’s addictive like a drug and permanently alters the brains of men who watch it. To get the next “high” they seek sex acts that are more degrading and extreme. There are men who liter…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 08:36 PM
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New Yorker here. It means you’ve made it in a sense if you’ve got enough money to live here or if you can thrive here you can make it anywhere. It’s one of the centers of human civilization. Endless restaurants, fashion, entertainment, museums, all kinds of traveling pop up displays. We have the best of everything. Yes it’s crowded, noisy and there’s lots of garbage everywhere but this city is normally bustling. We are dealing with a horrible tragedy right now but New Yorkers are tough and we ge…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 08:02 PM
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The second he didn’t freak out and drive you to the ER and stay by your side the entire time or in the waiting room he revealed himself complete gutter trash. My sister has a straight male friend who stayed all night in the ER with her when she was having a health issue. This is basic human decency. Such an disgusting thoughtless human being. I can’t believe some men can seek out sex like this without caring whatsoever the person. Sex should be a connection on an emotional and spiritual level. Y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 03:24 PM
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Agreed. I actually am marrying the guy who said he didn’t want to have sex with me for a long time so he could show me how important I was to him and he was in it for the right reasons. We waited 6 months (still fooled around) it was hard for both of us but worth it. Holding out for a ring is the best idea though. If he’s a regular scrote he will bounce as soon as he knows he’s not getting it. I got hpv from one of those lying fuckers who said he loved me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 05:41 PM
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Guys do this to good women who won’t give it up for nothing to put out. I waited 2 months of dating to have sex with a guy who tricked me like this and as soon as he fucked me like 8 times he dumped me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 05:13 AM
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It’s not a terrifying time. Just stay quarantined order your groceries in advance. Sanitize and wash your hands frequently. Paint your nails and watch Netflix. Do an online class. Spend time with your pets. Read. Craft. Clean your house. Do your makeup. Watch Youtube. Take long baths. Learn to do something new. You’ll be fine... everything will go back to normal in a few weeks or a few months and you’ll regret talking to people you shouldn’t have when you realize that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 07:47 PM
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People will always criticize and talk shit. Fuck them. Hire a housekeeper if you’re both working and can afford it otherwise he better be doing his part taking out the trash and doing the dishes and helping with the laundry etc. If you don’t decorate hire an interior decorator to help you or do what I do and spend your weekends working on decorating your place. Get a food delivery/grocery delivery service.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 07:04 PM
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I really believe this is changing. If you don’t have a college education, a career, and your own interests outside of being a wife I feel like people will judge you big time. I have been out of work for the past 6 months due to personal stuff and I feel judged like “okay you’re going back to your career when?” “Why don’t you have your masters?” Lol My mom and dad downright told me not to have kids for awhile and to pursue my dreams. Also, I’m nearly 30 and no one has mentioned kids to me. 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 05:56 PM
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If he had issues with you being a single mom he could have just moved along instead of doing one of those negging insult/compliments on you. What a piece of shit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 05:28 AM
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Just in general don’t make decisions like this when your upset. Just leave it. Be alone for awhile. The other person likely doesn’t care or they wouldn’t have put you in that position. If they do care they’d be trying to work things out and seeking you out. He’s likely already dating, having sex with someone else. Keeping silent is e best thing you can do. Tell your mom, your dog, your friends and your cousin but do not give him the satisfaction of knowing you give a shit. It feels so much bette…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 12:37 AM
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Okay yes I’m an east coaster now (wasn’t always) lol but also Sicilian and black Irish. Black Irish not meaning African American but the darker featured Irish that likely have Spaniard DNA. I guess the least accepted form while still being technically white.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 07:55 PM
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I don’t know what kind of white people they’ve been around but my Italian Irish ass would have backhanded him or thrown a drink in his face and been done with that relationship. You disrespect me like that in front of other people you’re about to know what disrespect feels like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 11:47 AM
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This post seems overly pessimistic. I agree guarding your heart, and having your own life and way to make money is the best thing you can do in case stuff goes south. Because there are no guarantees in life. But constantly thinking men are probably cheating when they’re not can actually drive them away from you. I’m not going to not show my husband I love him because I’m afraid. That’s not love. He shows me he loves me everyday. He’s vulnerable and open with me. I know he’d never cheat. I have e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 01:04 PM
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Thanks for explaining. I’m very much anti-pick me. I’m just new here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 02:11 AM
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It was actually a very good book. Touch should be meant for rubs, holding hands, hugs, arms around each other. There are so many things that are considered touch that are not sex. It upsets me that some men would use that as a reason to pressure people into unwanted sex. Edit: Also, what does my tag/flare mean? I am new to posting on this sub so I don’t quite understand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 03:46 PM
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This is like the backwoods, blue color 40+ crowd With lines like... No drama No time for games I’ll spoil u I’m a good guy (no you’re not) I’m just seeing what’s out there Looking for my “future wife” “Queen” “Princess” 🤮 Anything with a dead animal, shirt off, or posing beside a new car or house = automatic no. The classier ones wear buttons downs and are posing with their thumbs up doing some adventurous travel thing like surfing or caving. If they tell you their income right off the bat or sa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 05:42 AM
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He will hit you again. Being alone is better than being with someone you have to walk on eggshells around/who makes you feel bad. He will not change. Your relationship is not the exception. You will find someone else. You have no reason to be ashamed. It’s not your fault. Emotional abuse is abuse. It’s no one else’s business and you don’t have to explain your decisions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 01:54 PM
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Immaturity really does come at any age. There are Men in their 40s who act like 20 year olds and 20 year olds who act like 14 year olds I’ve dated younger and older and same age but it’s all about who they are: not their age. TThere’s a lot of fish in the sea but there’s more garbage than fish. I married a wonderful divorced guy with no kids 13 years my senior and I’m 29. I love him and he totally worships me. I’m very strong willed, independent and career driven but I expect a man to be a gentl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 05:59 AM
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