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NAH, SISCityshy/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 08:21 PM
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72

You've hit the nail on the head so perfectly. Scrote know no limits. Slot of them definitely go after and achieve full custody, very easily, no great effort on their part, and purely for malicious reasons or to avoid oagibf child support, to keep trying to control and abuse the mother via the kids. It's so awful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/22 09:47 PM
9

I feel so angry for her and her child. This pig of a man is wrecking them both, and they would be certainly better off without him in the picture
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 09:42 PM
113

Spot on 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 06:32 AM
19

And still he won't ever get a taste of how hard it actually is because society is so much kinder and more helpful to single dad's, especially ones with a victim mentality and son story like this. He will lean on anyone and everyone, and still extract free emotional and practical labour from any woman in a 50 miles radius
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 10:06 AM
18

I can't even read this. I mean, I did. But just ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 09:50 PM
43

Exactly. I just can't with this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 09:40 PM
25

Now I know I'm getting old, I had to move the phone closer to my face to see what that was 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 10:11 PM
51

Holy sheet. No way. Is FDS still on that list or have we managed to take it down? Absolutely ridiculous. None of our values are in any way extreme
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 10:09 PM
65

Too accurate more like, some FDS Super Fans going to be real mad 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 09:31 PM
2

Uggg, massive eyeroll. I knew where this was going as soon as you said PhD. Obviously he already excelled when he got his Masters in Mansplaining 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 08:00 PM
3

This is really good way of putting it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 07:49 PM
3

So he could just.... not watch? And especially not then decide to come over and invade your space, interrupt your meal, and insert his ridiculous opinion (which is the only disgusting thing there, excluding his face probably). Just wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 07:45 PM
2

Damn that sounds good
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 07:41 PM
73

What struck me as sad is how the physical abuse was mentioned casually and then glazed over at the end where she only says how mentally and emotionally abusive he was. That kiser slapped her multiple times, and probably more than that. So sorry she went through all that. But it's great reading how she thrived once she kicked him to the kurb
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 10:31 PM
13

He seriously doesn't get that it's not just abut the 'stupid towel', it's the principle. Who tf is he to sneak anything out of her suitcase, overriding HER decision to pack her own belongings. The audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 09:38 AM
11

😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 12:21 AM
123

Yep, or apparently we just shouldn't be out ever or have lives. I'm so bored of the hypocrisy, damned if you damned if you don't, double standards, danger and bullshitery. Men need to leaves us tf alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 01:58 AM
18

this right here^
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 08:03 PM
71

Couldn't have said it better. Fuck this guy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 08:17 PM
17

He just couldn't stop digging, could he? Huh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 08:14 PM
158

Fire them all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 04:21 AM
55

Your comment resonates with me so much. Damn, this is true. So true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 05:39 AM
9

Holy crap
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 04:23 PM
179

And of course he doesn't want to go to the effort of emptying the overfull trash can. Imagine the state of him and the rest of his place
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 08:37 PM
9

My NVM wrote seething blog posts about me after I dumped him, one of which said something about the breakup being God for me and no one else. Like.... Yeah, I don't have to consider what's good for someone else when breaking up with you. As I had to sacrifice my own happiness to keep him happy. If dumping you is selfish, then hell yes I'm selfish. He also confessed if we'd had kids together he'd have petitioned for custody just to spite me and keep me in his life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 06:05 AM
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I'm all the time thinking of things and seeing things to post here but don't know why I feel sk shy about posting anything. IRL I'm very confident speaking my mind and advocating. Maybe I'm a bit of a technophobe. Yeah I know what you mean about things you thought you enjoyed, or felt you should enjoy, and even convinced yourself you enjoyed. I've come out of the fog too and seeing clearly now. I do wish I'd found FDS sooner though for spotting red flags, continuous vetting and not settling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 01:52 PM
3

I'm glad you shared it. If I were more reddit-literate and less post-shy I'd have done the same. We need to be shouting this from the rooftops. And yet guys ask (about situations like this and abusive relationships etc) 'why didn't she leave?' 'why did she stay?' When the real question should be WHY ARE MEN LIKE THIS and what can be done to prevent them becoming scrotes in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 01:33 PM
6

I was wondering when this would end up here, saw it and thought of FDS. This is why it's so important to speak up, kink shame and spread awarenesson recognising red flags, pirtecting yourself from scrotes, levelling up and loving yourself first and foremost. This guy is absolutely a rapist POS. A dangerous one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 01:12 PM
15

Eurgh. "I'm sticking with you, cuz I'm maaaaaade out of glueeeee"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 02:53 PM
7

Umm... Somebody gonna tell her the ring is a chain of maggots or some shit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 02:52 PM
150

Exactly what I was thinking. What a woman 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 02:25 PM
47

Exactimondo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 05:54 AM
12

Really interesting, and thinking about it yes. Of course there are multiple factors, but that makes sense and I'll look into it more
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 07:28 PM
10

Sentient trash bag, gosh I needed that laugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 10:31 AM
21

You: Him: (asking you out at basicslly the last minute and just taking for granted you'll be free and waiting on his every whim) You: I have other plans. Him: shocked pikachu face The End P. S. Block delete etc
/r/askFDS19/07/21 08:26 PM
6

Good Lord and Sweet baby Moses in a basket what in the hell did I just read?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 07:31 PM
8

Absofuckinglutely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 07:38 PM
5

I am so sorry you endured 20 years of THAT. Ain't no man worth your health, mental or physical. So glad you're feeling more yourself now.
/r/askFDS12/07/21 08:40 PM
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Women are usually made entirely responsible for contraception, and men are comfortable with this because the 'blame' can be put on us for falling pregnant (not to mention the sacrifice to our health, emotional labour etc). Men don't get a god damn say in what happens with the pregnancy of it happens. Our body. Our choice. Their say was in preventing it. If they were ones who would fall pregnant themselves I bet they'd care more about using a condom. They can choose not to be part of the child's …
/r/askFDS12/07/21 05:18 AM
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Exactly. And sometimes it's denial, they feel so entitled and justified they don't think they're one of those guys, but they are. They are too stupid to realise they are a rapist POS
/r/askFDS09/07/21 09:14 PM
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Do NOT reply. If he is so desperate for money he shouldn't be spending it like that in the first place. Secondly his asking for it back is treating this as a transaction... I.e he feels he paid for a service he didn't receive from you. He feels entitled to women and like you owe him something because he bought you a drink/dinner. Gross. Thirdly you had to spend the most valuable thing you have, time. If anything he should pay for wasting your time and effort not just expenses (food/drink). You h…
/r/askFDS06/07/21 06:33 AM
5

At first I thought maybe I'm reading it wrong but then I read it again and in my mind replaced the word disblaed with black for example... And yep. It doesn't read well.
/r/askFDS01/07/21 06:25 PM
6

I'd love to read that thread. Crazy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 10:41 AM
3

This is the truest thing I've ever read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:01 PM
7

Excuse the serious typos and incoherence, anyway that's my two cents.
/r/askFDS25/02/21 12:08 AM
10

Highly religious. Bingo. Immjjsyybtakingna stab in the dark but I'm going to go with complex sexual self shaming issues stemming fromnoverlynreligous upbringing etc. Don't want to offend anyone religious here but religious upbringings are not known for their healthy sex education, more for the shaming or hiding of it
/r/askFDS25/02/21 12:07 AM
2

Maybe he is HV and maybe he isn't, just gifting or buying things isn't what makes a man HV. There's also the possibility like someone said above that maybe he is a HVM but not your HVM. More importantly it seems you already know you need to work on your self love and self worth. Absolutely ensure that is not contingent on him. Your self love is to do with you, no one else, and it's actually easier to connect with yourself solo than in a relationship. I could be totally wrong but just by treading…
/r/askFDS22/02/21 09:01 AM
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I think you love the idea of him, and want to be loved by him. If he's made you feel that he despises you and has criticised your appearance he didn't even a friend let alone soul mate or life partner. He's an enemy in disguise and is standing between you and self love and actual happiness. I guarantee you are worth more than the way he is making you feel
/r/askFDS20/02/21 11:48 PM
6

Sidenote: there's no amount of money in the world that could make me want to be with a guy like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 11:56 PM
4

Damn, so true. Plus not only do we have to be scared of getting used for free labour of every kind we also have to be scared of getting raped, killed, acid attacked by any man at any time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 11:54 PM
4

Hahaha 😂 cue Shania Twain... That don't impressaahh me muchhh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 11:40 PM
2

This is so accurate it made me laugh. How are they too too stupid to realise this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 11:04 PM
6

Ewwwww. Like you'd need an excuse not to sleep with him on a first date (or at all). The entitlement is strong with that scrote. As our fellow queen's would say, the scrotacity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 11:04 PM
6

Most likely this is someone who is clingy, attention & validation seeking, and could also be mummy issues. Maybe they're a nice guy, but is just being 'nice' enough? No. They need to respect your boundaries, and constant texting is a bit of a red flag like they're checking up on you, as well as demanding your time and attention (feeling entitled to it).
/r/askFDS07/01/21 10:47 PM
6

Nevertheless, I like it! Scrote won't like the idea of being called shrunken and used up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 10:38 PM
13

Love to hear that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 03:48 PM
51

Ugh, the lock key analogy is gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 02:47 PM
99

Sick fucks. How can anyone do this shit, or participate and distribute.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 03:22 PM
13

What a sad story, all that time without basic freedom and deprived of happiness.
/r/askFDS22/12/20 01:45 PM
5

Brilliant idea. Regarding sanitary and beauty products etc my personal advice to young girls would be use natural, organic products and near the vagina/vulva nothing at all just water. I'd add in stuff about reusable pads, the dangers of tampons. The importance of birth control but also the dangers there and making the right choice, e.g no birth control is without risk, messing with hormones , or copper coil causing toxicity in some people and failing then being kept in during pregnancy. Maybe a…
/r/askFDS12/12/20 02:16 PM
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Yep. Also I can't think of a more physically demanding job than growing a human being in your body, pushing them out, breastfeeding and raising children. If that ain't a physical job someone tell me wtf is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 08:21 AM
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I used to be, and damn being straight can feel like a curse. It's a lot of work finding HVM, and it shouldn't be but when the majority are LVM/NVM it's inevitably exhausting. I just put my energy into dating myself and following my passions, now married and at peace
/r/askFDS29/11/20 01:13 PM
4

I'd be out of there quicker than you can say jimmeny cricket
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 09:34 AM
5

Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 09:14 AM
16

Let's fix the last sentence: I mean, I can't understand why men can't do a small and meaningful thing like not put his shriveled dick inside other women, and actually have a shred of loyalty, respect or integrity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 08:58 AM
17

Poor woman. I bet it hurts her that he has no pictures of her and advertises himself as single, but if she's ever brought it up he would call her crazy, paranoid, possessive or use the excuse that he's just a private person and doesn't advertise those things (but really happy to advertise he's single). "I thought you're different to all the other girls, I thought you were cool. You know I love you baby, I don't need to put thst on facebook"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 08:53 AM
52

I wish this was true all the time, some abusive LVMs target strong, confident ("fiery" "intimidating") women because its more fun and more of a challenge for them to conquer and wear her down. Sometimes they want their victim to fight back. Awful but true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 09:54 PM
4

Ugh, so true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 09:16 PM
14

100% remove this person from your life. Show them this post, it speaks for itself. You can't fix a "friendship" like that
/r/askFDS15/11/20 08:38 PM
7

Yep!
/r/askFDS15/11/20 08:29 PM
11

You answered your own question at the end, you're clearly intelligent, thoughtful and see the good in people. He's absolutely not the one, he just feels unattainable now that's all. You made the right choice, your gut instincts are spot on. Also I don't like the way he basically tried to turn it round on you by saying you should have called him etc, and I think I detect sole gaslighting where he's basically de ting anything changed from the beginning as if it's all in your head. He's not taking …
/r/askFDS15/11/20 08:28 PM
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You don't love him, you love the idea of him. And he hasn't finally committed, because he never will. Not truly. A cheater never changes, not that much. Sorry but these are the harsh truths and I think you already know it but still holding out hope. I totally feel you because I've been there, and you may not feel strong enough right now but that's because you're still stuck and have this energy vampire draining the life out of you. Rip off the bandaid. Do it quick. Block. Delete. And don't look …
/r/askFDS15/11/20 08:19 PM
1

I'm sorry for what he put you through, especially as a fellow mother, that's so awful. Happy you got out of that and hope you're thriving now without LVM anchor holding you down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 11:05 PM
4

I'm sorry for what he put you through, especially as a fellow mother, that's so awful. Happy you got out of that and hope you're thriving now without LVM anchor holding you down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 11:05 PM
9

His poor wife. Clearly he's not putting effort onto parenting or being a husband, he's not even being a friend to his wife, he's her literal enemy and she just didn't know it yet. The filth he's probably putting inside her vagina and effing up her PH with his potentially HPV riddled cocktail sausage is gross. The total violation of trust and lack of respect is behind belief. Psychopathic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 10:50 PM
21

Really well said and interesting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 02:10 PM
19

You're expecting good things from them because you yourself are a good person, being emotionally available isn't a bad quality but it is one that leave you vulnerable. I don't think the key is to become totally emotionally unavailable, but to assess quicker who is HVM, LVM or NVM, and if in doubt chuck them out. I think you'll find it hurts less if you ditch them quicker. You want someone who is also emotionally available, and willing to show it. Don't lower your standards by even 1%. Ever. List…
/r/askFDS05/11/20 09:29 AM
18

How on Earth can anyone interpret this as hate instead of simple truth?! Hate is the double standard imposed on women daily, and the total lack of effort to have any self awareness that these types of 'men' make.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 08:49 PM
5

Love this response, I was already bursting out laughing since the 'absolutely hideous' line 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 08:57 PM
25

That's HV right there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 10:19 AM
20

Haha oh Greg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 08:07 PM
10

This is a massive red flag. I think ultimately it doesn't matter now where the money is going, he's already answered the real question which is are you invested in us, and the answer is no. One of the FDS lessons is to accept and really see what they're telling you, when they show their true colours, believe it,dknt excuse it or ignore it. Sorry you're going through this. You are seriously much better without. Short term pain for long term gain
/r/askFDS22/10/20 08:34 PM
2

Absolutely amazing work, and spookily accurate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 08:27 PM
13

Ugh he sounds awful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 08:50 AM
1

Wow!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 05:14 PM
44

Exact what I was thinking. Inspiring! Also I'm really hungry now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 08:06 PM
1

Ew
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 07:50 PM
10

I'm going to have to check it out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 07:37 PM
12

I believe you. Good on you for finding your strength
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 12:00 PM
33

Ah I see. How original
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 07:39 PM
10

Uh oh what's Leo done? I'm not up to date on celeb stuff. Love him as an actor though. Also loved Kevin Spacey... Awkward.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 07:32 PM
2

Preach 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 07:20 PM
4

Killing me 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 07:33 PM
3

Congratulations! Advice wise, ignore mainstream parenting books like the plague and don't listen to anyone who tells you to do CIO or sleep training. Follow your instincts. Safe bed sharing (safe sleep 7), can be a life saver, prepare a safe Co sleeping space even if you don't intend to do it because most people will do it by accident in risky positions. Research the Fourth Trimester and all the best ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 07:44 AM
11

This is brilliant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 07:38 AM
11

I would definitely judge a man by the friends he chooses to associate with. HVM should have high value friends
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 07:23 AM
2

Yes!! And why on Earth is this seen as extreme or sexist, its just logical
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 07:15 PM
10

Absolutely love the comment at the bottom from feralradfem
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 07:04 PM
24

Can't understand how anyone can hit or yell at their kids. If you can't self regulate why on Earth would you expect a baby/toddler/child to be able to. Punishment is awful parenting from shitty people who cba to do the research or develop empathy and self control. They don't deserve to be parents
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 01:36 PM
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I think it's more they'd be happy you bringing them the coffee and croissant whilst they lay about doing absolutely nothing, and expect you to meanwhile clean the kitchen or single handedly raise the children because they're the only one who is entitled to breaks, and of course being waited on and mothered like the giant man babies they are. (trying not to vomit at the thought)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 06:16 AM
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