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Personally I’ve been doing my makeup every day during lockdown even tho there’s no one about. It might be body dysmorphia that makes me feel the need to not have any facial imperfections whilst at home but I’m sure plenty of other women also just do it for fun. I also enjoy just experimenting with different hair and makeup looks, that may be the artist in me haha. It’s the same reason I still spray fragrance every day during lockdown, I just enjoy it and it lifts my mood. Interesting point thoug…
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/21 12:04 AM
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I think you may benefit from looking at the sub r/pornfree and you’ll see on there other people who are dealing with the same thing. You may find some clarity there. And yeah OF is becoming way too mainstream imo. I believe we’re headed towards a dystopia with porn, onlyfans, social media, drugs and any other quick-reward methods of dopamine boosts becoming more prominent than anything else
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 04:43 PM
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Please please don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 06:53 PM
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Before I reckon because it will likely change the way you interact with them. And lol dating coworkers could potentially go down a Jim and Pam route but more likely it will be Ryan and Kelly (idk if you’ve seen the Office, if not then ignore the reference lol). And I don’t take Myers Briggs too seriously because something like personality can only be measured on a spectrum. But according to the system I 100% identify as an INTP and it makes me feel more normal, because I’ve never felt like I fit…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 12:57 AM
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I can’t quite every study but there are a ton and it shows that it can reduce grey matter in the brain, thus increasing chances of dementia and other brain damage related diseases. It leads to an increased likelihood of depression, anxiety, social isolation, dopamine dependence etc. It also leads to misinformed expectations of women and sex and therefore a less satisfying sex/dating life, and often insecurity about your own body. It’s also been proven to be more addictive than cocaine I think. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 09:10 PM
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This is the exact defensiveness I’m talking about. Good for you and your gf having common interests but you can clearly see from the post there are hundreds of reasons to be against porn. And my boyfriend and I are perfectly happy without porn in our relationship, and our chemistry is good enough that we don’t need the internet to come up with new ideas but go off! ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 08:53 PM
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I see your point and I completely agree with you! Not only do companies deflect criticism by claiming its infringement on freedom, but so do their users. Especially with porn. Any person who has been watching porn since they are a kid likely won’t realise how they are being taken advantage of or the unethical horrors that go into making pornography and will defend it to the ends of the earth by saying anyone who doesn’t like it is ‘insecure’ or a prude, that criticising their use of it is an inf…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 11:53 AM
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It definitely was. I get that the president started the war on drugs as a means for social control but that caused the mass opinions of it in America. Incidentally I’m from the UK. The word normalised here means that people don’t judge you for doing it, which isn’t the same as being common. And it has often been seen as deviant unless you’re rich, double standard I know
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 04:23 PM
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Yes people always were that way but not having everything conveniently available is a good thing because as you say, the struggle of attaining them leads to more life satisfaction and general mental well being. And ok I’ll be interested to hear about that. I’ve heard lots of mixed reviews about the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 04:18 PM
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Yeah obviously it’s not the only cause but it’s definitely linked. And porn industries exist because they take advantage of its users and the actors
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 04:15 PM
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The main difference is that back then it wasn’t normalised, it was still seen as deviant. Nowadays all you have to do is go to a club and you get people offering you drugs
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 10:54 AM
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They would have done the same things, but they didn’t have it so that’s itrelevant. People now want everything without trying since they can have it. Which ultimately leads to a lack of development, growth and a decrease of satisfaction in life, hence an increase in general depression, anxiety etc You also said it yourself. Pornhub takes advantage of its users and their boredom/mental health
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 10:52 AM
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Porn is probably part of the reason they’re lonely. They watch it from such a young age and get false expectations of how sex, women and dating will be and it’s a shock when it isn’t that way. Dropping the porn could do wonders for your dating life and my ex porn users can attest to that. And no it’s not hypocritical because unlike people who use porn, people who don’t use it (even if they’re single) can see that it isn’t a replacement, it’s not even as good as junk food as you put it. And it’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 10:50 AM
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I’m taking specifically about porn addiction which is much more common than people realise, and even viewing porn regularly without becoming addicted has been proven to affect the brain. And I know that’s not how they naturally were because I was with them before and after their addiction and at those points they were kind and considerate. The poem addiction also changed the way they acted in public any time a woman between ages 14-60 would walk past. He’d go and invade their personal space and …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 10:46 AM
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Part of my research was a survey on the use of, and attitudes towards the use of various drugs. It may be limited because it was only one geographical location but other research suggests by accredited professionals points to the same thing. It’s a while since I did it so I can’t remember exact sources but if I remember after I get back from work I’ll link them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 10:43 AM
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Thank you! The purpose was actually to discuss policy changes to protect the UK from drug use and cyber drug markets. Obviously you have to be hella thorough and dig a lot of information up, so I got quite deep into the social normalisation of things that would be considered modern drugs, that affect mass amounts of people. Porn, MDMA, weed, social media etc. And the evidence overwhelmingly pointed to the rise of instant gratification lifestyles and a connection with mental health issues, though…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 05:59 PM
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I did my dissertation on this in uni - drug and porn use have become highly normalised because with the current options for entertainment we now live in an instant gratification-based society where people want everything immediately with little to no work. It’s the same reason people just can’t cope with staying inside during COVID, whereas people have gone through worse things in the past (think wars) and obviously struggled, but at the end of the day they managed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 05:35 PM
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Read through all of this. I’ve always had guys call me an uptight bitch for not agreeing with porn use or supporting the industry and being totally against it. Apparently hating porn means I hate sex and I’m ‘controlling’. Also dated a porn addict and it makes people into the most base, manipulative abusers. Glad to see that I was right and other people are waking up to the evils of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 05:31 PM
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Beautiful people tend to be perfectionists when it comes to their looks and possibly other things. They don’t have to have work done but they likely always find new flaws that they don’t like and aim to fix, whether that involves dressing for body type, exercise, facial yoga, makeup, hair, skin care, etc. And the perfectionism comes from insecurity - maybe they were unattractive growing up or overweight or something. Not saying overweight is objectively unattractive but they may have felt that w…
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/20 11:20 AM
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As a woman I feel that would be the same for me. So it looks like either no kids or a Nanny lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 10:04 AM
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Thank you. Well that’s exactly why I lurk there, to avoid them should I become single again. And tbh I agree with you on these points. I just feel like it should be called out when people are doing things that are hurting others and if they’re not hurting anyone then you can express personal disagreement but it’s not anyone’s place to say that they should not being those things because it’s objectively immoral. I support men who don’t want to date only fans girls, I understand that, and don’t re…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 07:00 AM
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Manipulation is a toxic behaviour. It isn’t based on love or respect it’s based on tricking people into doing something by breeding insecurity and fucking with their state of mind. Same way gaslighting is a toxic behaviour and also manipulation. The thing is though that a lot of these guys are older and go for young women like 17-22. I’m 22 and I know as I’ve experienced this first hand. So the girls it works on are those who are still too young and naive with low self esteem to realise exactly …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 06:10 AM
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You don’t think that sounds toxic? Using someone to make someone else jealous? That’s such a red flag. It will breed insecurity and make for an unhealthy relationship and besides if it works on them, they probably aren’t that mature and they might not even really like you, they just want to feel like they won. This is exactly the manipulative behaviour that a lot of feminists don’t like and speak out against but then they’re told to shut up because they’re just dumb feminists and should just hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 05:34 AM
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See I’ve seen the opposite. Throughout history women have never been allowed high powered positions and it was men who enforced the patriarchal system of men being providers and women housewives. So women have then been completely justified in expecting men to make more money, because without the man’s income they would have been unable to survive or at least live a decent lifestyle. It’s something that’s been enforced for many years and men and women both blame each other rather than the leader…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 05:11 AM
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I agree the porn industry needs heavy limits. I just will go back to my main point and say it’s not immoral to sell pictures on the internet - it’s safer for the woman and also makes it less accessible. I do however agree that participating in the free porn industry is immoral. Because that is hurting millions of people. The women who create only fans content either don’t care about porn addiction or don’t know about/understand it. However they also don’t force anyone to buy their content. I do …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 04:56 AM
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Exactly. I don’t feel valued like that and a lot of men don’t feel valued in that system. Yet red pillers tend to believe that only men are capable of being providers and they should be the ones who lead. So they put themselves in that position where they only feel valued for their money/resources, shame other men who don’t want this traditional role (call them stupid, not enlightened, blue pilled) and get mad at feminists who don’t want this traditional dynamic. It’s very hypocritical
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 04:45 AM
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This is exactly what I’m talking about tho. I’m very anti porn because I dated a porn addict and it destroyed me. But people sell these photos because there’s a market. And why is it any different to free porn? Where they don’t verify the age and consent of all the participants? With only fans they have the option to post what they want to post, they’re age verified and they make an income rather than being exploited. There’s such a big market because many men are sex obsessed and porn addicted.…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 04:40 AM
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I’m not saying in any measure that women should be able to do whatever they want and not get called out. I’m saying that they shouldn’t be demeaned for doing what they want with their own body, as long as they’re not hurting anybody. For example I don’t want to be a housewife. However I’m not gonna judge and demean the women who do and call them wrong because they’re “anti-feminist” or lowering their limits. Some women want that and it’s not hurting me so I don’t judge them. And I don’t have to …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 04:25 AM
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The thing about that is cheating is an objectively immoral thing because it hurts people. A single woman deciding to sell pictures on the internet hurts no one and is therefore not objectively immoral - you can disagree with it but you have no right to tell them they shouldn’t be doing it, you just don’t date them and don’t buy their content. Cheating is becoming very normalised for men and women and it’s very wrong. However I will point out that for most of history men have been able to cheat i…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 04:15 AM
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There are some gold diggers yeah, but what about male gold diggers? They exist. You were saying earlier that there’s nothing wrong with whataboutism. So yeah male gold diggers exist and it’s not talked about. Don’t you now feel like I’m just trying to minimise what you’re saying? Male gold diggers don’t bother me I just won’t associate with them. But I can use it as a defence mechanism when you call out female gold diggers. And the thing is that red pill guys aren’t warning other guys about real…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 04:09 AM
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The difference is you can say you don’t agree with something and you don’t have to date people who do it. But to try and tell people who do that they are less moral than you or are doing something objectively wrong is just incorrect. I wouldn’t do sex work but I’d someone else wants to I know that’s not my business or my place to say they shouldn’t. I believe that if they’re not hurting anyone then it doesn’t warrant other people telling them they’re doing something objectively wrong. And the th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 03:28 AM
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For example people who are part of the red pill community posting on every other subreddit about the 80/20 rule. No one actually bothers to critically evaluate that study they just see the statistic and decide they agree with it and repost it everywhere else on the internet. It’s like how racists take that statistic about black people committing ‘most of the crime’ in the USA but they don’t think about the potential causes for that statistic such as impoverished communities. They just see someth…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 02:10 AM
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Yeah see I don’t see that. All I ever see in the media are Mens issues and why feminism = bad. But if you feel that men’s issues aren’t spoken about enough then speak about them. Don’t put down women for speaking out about about their struggles just because you can’t relate to them, and don’t make it into a competition where if women are getting sympathy or media coverage that means everyone hates men. Don’t combat everything a woman says with “well men have it worse” or “what about men’s strugg…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 01:34 AM
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Yeah it’s like they use the most extreme radical views on the internet to try convince others why any kind of feminism is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 01:30 AM
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Other people are free to do what they want without you trying to make out that they’re morally inferior to you. Freedom of expression is not a free pass to be an ass 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 01:28 AM
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Maybe she doesn’t see it as immoral. Which is none of your business and it’s not your right to tell her otherwise. I’m not comfortable with doing it but I don’t judge someone else for doing it because it’s their decision to make money that way. You can disagree with something and not try to force your views onto others you know. You’re not that important.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 04:16 PM
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I literally was trying to explain this to a manosphere Redditor the other day and he wasn’t having it. I tried saying he probably gets his social media algorithms recommending him that crazy radical content because thats what he pays attention to, so it’ll look like it’s much more prevalent than it is. But I’m just a woman and a dumb feminist so what do I know 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 04:12 PM
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There are also a ton of people on the porn free subreddit. It might not be the majority but I think it’s an issue that’s much more common than people realise, since people are exposed to it from such young ages and I think not many people are aware of the dangers. But yeah as for my original point, there are people who will leer at and actually drool over other people right in front of their partners, which isn’t the same as just looking. And I think this is what OP is experiencing, hence why th…
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/20 09:53 AM
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That’s not really the case because once you experience something yourself you tend to notice it happening around you. Please don’t assume that I’m making things up based on one ex and one other person. I wouldn’t have made the point had it not been something I’ve observed many times. Also if you check out a sub called r/loveafterporn many people talk about having the same experience.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/20 09:41 AM
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You’d be surprised tbh. It’s extreme but I’ve seen it plenty of times - my ex boyfriend was a porn addict and he used to stare with his eyes wide and mouth hanging open, drool physically coming out, and invading girls personal space. He’d do this with pretty much every girl or woman who walked past between the ages of about 14-64. I’ve also been walking about and another woman’s boyfriend has looked at me that way which is very uncomfortable. It’s not normal behaviour but that doesn’t mean it’s …
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/20 06:48 AM
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You make a good point but I think there is a difference between glancing and appreciating beauty, and fully staring and making it visually clear that you are sexually aroused by the other person, especially if your partner is standing right next to you. Imo the guys who do this tend to watch way too much porn and are imagining the random women they see naked or in sexual scenarios.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/20 04:26 AM
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There are many reasons to be against porn. Porn addiction is real and free porn sites don’t verify the age and consent of people who upload. It’s exploitative if it’s ‘actresses’ and it’s customers. And people who view it as cheating are valid - the only reason you don’t see going into a digital brothel as cheating is because porn is so normalised and there are so many addicts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 03:09 AM
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I think there’s merit to the idea but it’s also a good idea to differentiate between whether someone is currently going through a ‘hoe’ phase, man or woman, or if they’ve changed and realised they don’t value that lifestyle anymore. People can completely change in a few years especially teens to early 30s, so people who reject others who’ve slept with a lot even if they no longer value that lifestyle may be limiting themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 09:17 AM
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Men say it’s harder for them to get laid than women therefor they shouldn’t be slut shamed. But I say all that extra effort just for some pussy makes men much bigger sluts. Always trying to move to girls, always jerking off to porn and constantly thinking about when they can next get laid, then calling women sluts because they got rejected or because they go for a different guy. It’s ridiculous when you think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 04:36 PM
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It’s not a question of parenting ability, I know I’d be a decent mother if that’s what I wanted, but I don’t think kids are inherently a blessing. I’ve seen so many happy marriages broken up after having kids, so many people with regrets, going broke etc. Kids are an unquestionable strain on life, resources and relationships. It’s just like how if you’re with the right partner, you shouldn’t have to get married to prove you love them. You shouldn’t have to have kids to feel like you’ve taken eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/20 04:07 PM
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Yeah, there’s also the risk of bringing children into a loveless marriage etc, I just didn’t want to go into them haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/20 03:01 PM
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I’m F22 and attractive and the thought of having kids seems like an all round bad idea. Lucky I’m with a partner I love so I’m not alone but I’ll never pretend to love and be attracted to a guy so I can bring more kids into this over populated world, and give up my life in the process. Call me selfish for not wanting to give up my life for kids but I think it’s more selfish to give into your primal urges and thus continue to overpopulate the planet and bring children into a world where quality o…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/20 11:29 AM
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Art and fiction writing are so interesting they’re literally things I do myself that you can talk for ages about
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 12:22 AM
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Tbh I purposely lurk on red pill so I know exactly what kinds of men to avoid should I become single again. That’s not likely for me rn as I love my man, but you know... My bf would get so turned off if he thought everything I did was to impress him and be a good girlfriend. There are many guys who love when a woman is true to herself. So keep the clothes, and though he may not like them at first, wear them with confidence and he may just love you in them! :)
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/20 08:49 PM
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‘Improvement advice with some misogyny in the mix’. Nah that’s what it used to be, now you all just refer to women by their ‘sexual market place value’, talk about how your over-tired wife should be giving you blowjobs on demand, talk about the best strategy for ‘translating tinder matches into lays’, daydream about a life where you get loads of women pregnant then leave them and the child to have sex with ‘foids’ as you call them, you have dumb concepts like AWALT and the wall, things that are …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 02:54 PM
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Ah yes, the typical “you disagree with me because you don’t understand” move. I do understand and I’m telling you that being overly selective about who you date is not comparable to animal torture and it’s not a suitable analogy because animal torture would clearly not have been founded on good intentions, and a woman not wanting to date you is not the equivalent of torturing animals. And yes it is a lot of man hate, many people stay on the sub because it’s amusing and to them it’s satire, just …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 01:53 PM
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No because women who want to be treated like kWeeNs aren’t actually inflicting pain and torture on anyone. They’re a bit annoying that’s it and you don’t have to date them 😂 funny how you can compare standards you don’t agree with to animal torture.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 01:26 PM
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Someone’s a bit biased. I remember there being a lot of info just about how to avoid manipulation tactics, guys putting on a show just to get into your pants, good comebacks when guys make sexist remarks and how to protect yourself against harassment. If you think those things are bad then you got a problem. Besides the red pill is just as toxic, I don’t see any truth on that sub and it’s mostly just woman hate. The whole AWALT thing is absolutely ridiculous. But no one wants to bash that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 01:22 PM
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No it’s really not 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 01:20 PM
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Yeah but see this is exactly the kind of thing that most sane rational people can look at and decide not to adhere to. I feel like some people on the sub get very keyboard happy and love just spreading hate but anyone with half a brain can see that a relationship/dating takes two people. That doesn’t mean you don’t deserve to be treated with kindness and respect but obviously you have to give that back. And the idea of a man paying for all your meals at the most expensive restaurants etc kinda c…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 09:41 PM
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It used to be a really good sub, but now you kind of have to view it with a mental filter. If you’re able to separate the actual nuggets of dating advice from the simple man hate and entitlement, it’s still a good sub for identifying red flags early and having reasonable standards, e.g. not going back to a cheater or recognising when someone doesn’t really care about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 04:02 PM
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Idk what’s worse, being called females or being referred to by our ‘sexual marketplace value’.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 11:49 PM
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Just gonna put it out there. Letting it be known that you have standards is in itself an attractive trait and also beneficial to the individual. Developing confidence is something that will both make you more attractive and more happy in your life, so everyone should work hard to feel more naturally confident. In this case, the phrase fake it till you make it really applies. Also the idea of a guy being super confrontational is such a turn off to me ew.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 12:44 AM
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Guys who sleep around a lot would always put me off. Makes them less respectable imo. Especially if they get around a lot but then want a girl who doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 08:42 PM
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Didn’t see a single comment about Offset saying “where does he belong...?” Referring to, of course, the streets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 10:11 PM
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THIS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 03:34 PM
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I’m in the UK, tbh I know a lot of women who are as you describe, but my group of friends and I for sure are at a point where we don’t want to be treated how the typical immoral ‘bad boy’ treats us, and much prefer men who are good people and make us laugh. Obviously being handsome is a bonus too haha. But yeah I do feel like it’s a minority of people, especially at my age (22) who have taken the time to develop their personalities, goals, preferences etc. But we do exist and it drives we must w…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 09:29 PM
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What country are you from? And tbh I do have to say it is pretty low, but for men and women. I feel like this generation in general is pretty immature and self reflection is an alien concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 08:05 PM
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Nah again, that’s a lack of mental development, because they’re confusing abuse/lack of consideration for others with strength/dominance. But people of any age can lack mental development, it’s definitely not dependent on age.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 05:08 PM
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You see choosing wrong dating sites etc. As an accusation? That’s so immature. No ones blaming you for anything, it’s advice. You’re looking in places where you don’t find good women. That’s not saying it’s a man’s fault that’s saying there’s good women wherever you’re not looking, so go look there. And there’s really no hope for you if you think a woman wanting to be friends is a manipulation tactic. Also, it’s not a somebody’s fault for not being attracted to you, same as it’s not your fault i…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 01:45 AM
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You really are misinterpreting my point 😂 my point is that you are saying women never put in any effort or take responsibility for their actions, saying they don’t mature until men stop giving them attention. But you are making a massive generalisation, and making the mistake of think that you know what all women are like, despite not being one yourself. Please, grow up. Just because you haven’t found a decent women does not mean there are no decent women, which is exactly the kind of thing you’…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 01:12 AM
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Again with the assumptions. You seriously underestimate the ability of modern day men to play a character for extended periods of time, waiting patiently to make a move and get what they really wanted. And it’s true, many women now would rather be just be single and not put in effort, but you’re making a massive generalisation, saying that all attractive women are full of themselves and expect effort whilst putting none in return. Women are people and many of us are kind, considerate, caring, in…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 12:41 AM
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That is not a logical argument to what I said - these are clearly the bitter words of someone who has limited success with women. Maybe it’s your attitude keeping you single :) it’s funny that you claim to know more about the mentality of women than an actual woman. Please, get some help 😂 and the ironic thing is, you say I’m a ‘typical woman’, saying it’s your fault that women make bad choices then blame it on there being no good men, however if these are the types of women you go after, maybe …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 11:57 PM
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You have a very narrow view. You really think that line of development is the same for every woman? That every attractive woman is immature and wants ‘bad boys’, that no attractive women take it upon themselves to grow and be better, for the sake of being better? As a woman myself I can tell you that you are very wrong. Many attractive women possess enough basic intelligence and common sense to look at how their choices are affecting their lives, and adapt accordingly. Yes you always hear the ‘t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 11:37 PM
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Mentally developed women who are genuinely good people will find morality attractive. If a woman is not attracted to morality, she’s either very immature going for the typical ‘bad boy’, or just not very moral herself. Developed women will be attracted to strength and a man they can respect, but they’ll know better than to associate those things with a lack of morality
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 02:54 PM
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That’s not really true, women who haven’t really developed mentally find that sort of thing attractive, I find. But as most women grow, mature, find themselves and their true likes/dislikes, the whole ‘bad boy’ ex con, drug dealer, violent types become less and less attractive. Many women I know have gone through this transition, myself included, though some are still stuck in that immature phase. I cannot respect a guy who gets his way with violence, aggression, or by having no consideration fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 02:52 PM
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I was 19 years old and didn’t know any better at the time, so yes I did. Then found out the truth and was left feeling used and small.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 02:49 PM
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Would be hard to make it illegal due to lack of pronounceable evidence, but from personal experience when I was single, I’ve had a 30 year old lie and say he was 25 in order to get with me (I was 19), and guys lie saying they wanted to be my friend or that they liked me, in order to get with me. It doesn’t feel good and it just seems like an extremely low, depraved thing to do. Just makes them completely undeserving of any respect in my eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 11:37 PM
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Oh don’t worry it’s pretty easy to see why men can find various bodies attractive - it’s all in the proportions. But something really jarring about the comments on this post are the fact that people tend to agree, that if you have curves, you’re either fat or fake. As someone who’s suffered with eating disorders, even when I was at my most underweight, I still carried ‘weight’ in my ass, thighs, hips and breasts. They jiggled when I walked and I could squeeze them. I still had a decent amount of…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 11:31 PM
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Only thing about that is that as a woman, it is natural to have a little curve on your stomach. Personally I’m not at all overweight but because of that thing called a uterus, even when I’m underweight I still have a little bump there. It’s nothing to be ashamed of.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 12:54 PM
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