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Thank you. This is really what the problem is with some of these guys. They take polite platitudes as proof that people are trying to hold them back or lie to them. Everyone is told Looks don't matter. There's someone for everyone. Just be yourself. It's what's on the inside that counts. Don't judge a book by its cover. Its just most of us know these are just polite things that people say to make people be nicer/more polite but no one actually makes dating decisions this way. And most people kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 07:22 PM
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This sub alone daily has hundreds of comments calling modern women useless and trash. I've lurked other male subs and seen the same. Also YouTube and manosphere Twitter do the same. I've seen men in the manosphere suggest women past a certain age, fat women, black women, single mothers, and other women considered undesirable should be killed off because men don't find them attractive or because they're evil met to nervous chuckles and mild astonishment (but no pushback) or outright support from …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:04 PM
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Crazy how men have created things like the "manosphere" and this sub where they call women inferior lazy whores but women are the ones who get called out because they voice fear of men or refuse to compliment random strangers who may bother them. The former misogyny is ignored as venting and the latter is misandry to be worried about. Misogyny is much more common. You just agree with the message so you don't think it's a problem. Mgtow, incels, and PUAs came before all the recent misandry you're…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:49 AM
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Its ridiculous in the way that she considers it a valid reason to withhold or withdraw sex from a relationship that she is currently in, yes. 🙄 That's the whole point in her post. She is asking should she end the relationship or continue to see him (in which she would continue as before with no withholding). This has nothing to do with withholding sex in a current relationship to get what you want as she wants to end the relationship from incompatibility not agree with me or else. He has even sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 03:13 AM
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And frankly I think you've confused this 2x conversation with other conversations around the Texas laws where some women were saying withholding sex was a good idea. Now you see this in everything, but it doesn't apply to this conversation because they're not telling her to withhold but to break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:33 AM
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I said she had a value that was a deal breaker to her. She (not you, not me) has the final say on whether this is "valid." You said her value is ridiculous. That has nothing to do with what I said or your post. Your post is not about being prochoice. Your post is about withholding. Now you're not even talking about the withholding part. You're arguing that it's an invalid thing to consider a deal breaker. It doesn't matter your opinion on that. What matters is hers and her boyfriend's and whethe…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:26 AM
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I'm talking about your idea that she's "withholding." That's the point you're trying to make. This isn't an argument about what is worth valuing or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:19 AM
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That's not what they said at all. Wth? I just texted him that I’m not comfortable being sexually active with him unless he’s pro-choice and then he responded saying he will support me even if it hurts him to do so (the edit). He then clarified and said that it “doesn’t matter” why his feelings would be hurt and that he would set them aside to be supportive. She has a value. He doesn't share that value. She doesn't feel comfortable they don't share that value. Others are urging her to BREAK UP wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:17 PM
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So having to wait for sex is getting treated like shit? And you have proof that hot guys don't have to wait and that husbands didn't get first date sex or is this just something men have made up. Actually recent article came out saying something like 1/3 marriages started out from a hookup.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 07:11 PM
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How do you know the treatment women give hot guys vs. boyfriends or husbands?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:05 PM
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This is my point. I see men crying about this sub all over Reddit. There's nothing said here that can hold a candle to the past 15 years of the "manosphere's" crap or what regular men write about women on Reddit in mainstream subs to up votes and support. Who do they think they're kidding when they say this place is toxic but talk like that? But they act like women here are evil for not going Dutch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 09:16 PM
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Frankly, no I've never heard or seen a woman say or comment that a man is no longer hot because he's broke. I have heard women say a man became less attractive after she learned he was broke or his personality sucked. This is usually how it is articulated which is going along with what I'm saying. There are men below talking about how they know hot guys with no money who hookup a lot. I saw a news video once where a hot homeless man was bouncing from woman to woman's apartment after having sex w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 04:39 PM
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I'm sure they are making that distinction because why were they interested in the first place? Why did they swipe right? Because they found the guy physically attractive. A hot man doesn't suddenly become ugly because he's broke. He's still hot. He still has a cute face or a great body. He's just not seen as boyfriend material for these women. Just because a woman said a guy became less attractive to her doesn't mean he became less physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 02:55 PM
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You hear a lot of stories, from women, of men that they were initially sexually attracted to, but lost that sexual attraction upon finding out they were broke, or not very accomplished, etc... No... They didn't lose sexual attraction. They lost attraction for him being a serious future partner. They were sexually attracted which is why they were interested in the first place. But upon finding out that he was broke they became unattracted to him (not attractive enough to date). Which is what this…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 02:19 PM
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Yes. The same men who call this a "hate sub" post to misogynistic subs all day long and they don't even have to use an alt. Lets all the lurkers know that misogyny is much more common and accepted than misandry on this site contrary to what they say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 10:13 PM
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And I say this as someone who would never discourage a woman from dating a less attractive guy or a shorter guy or someone she wouldn't consider before. I just can't stand how men try to pressure and nag and demand women to lower standards and shame women for being shallow and at the same time they are being shallow. They tease men for dating fat women. They tell men not to date black women. They call single mothers horrid names but complain about us. Do the men of reddit not see that? Of course…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 07:55 PM
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Lol. I saw a man say she is asking women to commit domestic abuse against men. Withholding intimacy is abuse apparently. And they call us entitled!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 09:38 PM
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Exactly. They are really attached to the idea that there is a class of women with super high sex drives who enjoy having sex dozens of times day with men they're not even attracted to even old unattractive wrinkly men. They also need to believe porn stars enjoy the sex they have where they're grimacing and crying so the stars are only paid after doing interviews saying they enjoyed it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 08:50 PM
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The reason you all get this attitude is that these lonely men are many times incels (not regular virgins) and many times express their frustration in misogynistic ways. Are you really surprised when you're complaining that women are shallow to a woman that she gets defensive? I hardly ever see incels venting without basically saying women are discriminating against them and are bad people whose choices need to be reined in because of this discrimination. This is a threat to women's choice and ob…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 05:04 AM
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That's because that type of empathy doesn't count. Empathy for them is really lowering of standards and ultimately dating them and having sex with them or as called above "intimate emotional availability." Didn't know women have be "intimately available" to show empathy. Does this apply to men as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 01:19 AM
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Yep. Many a mainstream subreddit is full of their incel crap. r/ videos r/ science r/ unpopularopinion. And I've seen them whining that this site is misandric and misogyny is not tolerated... Get real. They make many subs and websites hostile to women. And what's more annoying is that it's the same incel/Chad/MRA comments over and over that add nothing to the conversation. They are really just trying to radicalize regular men on other subs/sites to hate women but the men of Reddit are concerned …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 01:53 PM
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Right. Two x chromosomes has this problem. It's not super bad because they remove the comments but I don't even see the comments here lol. The mod team is on top of it. It's amazing. Truly these types of men love to go to women's spaces and try to make us feel like crap. It angers them when they are not allowed to abuse us on these subs. I used to visit a women's site where the men there lived to post misogynistic crap and try to break women's spirits. Eventually they were banned. They cried and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 05:05 AM
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It's not accurate. I commented that over there. They are using the entire male population. Why are they even including married men? Women are interested in single men in our age group. The men over there are really using this to say women have high standards lol. So a 20 year old not being interested in a 40 year old is high standards? Also when you think about assortative mating, most people will be around their peers who typically meet these standards. This tool really just says what percentag…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 02:01 AM
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Whoever made this calculator is bad at math or doing this on purpose. For example, why would you include the entire male population when we should only ever care about single men? Is that high standards? Lol. This really throws the numbers off. Not married and not obese are apparently high standards. The calculations are obviously wrong. I don't know if it's on purpose or what. But wanting a man who is single, 20-40, not obese, 5'7", any race, and like 40k income is 10%. Now we know what men mea…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 06:17 PM
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Horrible. The parents have to be very careful how they talk to her as it could drive her towards this loser. Her whole life ahead of her and she wants to get married to a 30 year old who grooms high school girls. What a POS. Does he think marrying her will make the parents like him? Make him look more respectable and serious? He probably wants to "lock her down" before she realizes that she can do better. He will want children probably immediately. The mother should encourage the daughter to put…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 07:17 PM
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That sub must be full of misogynists. Just a few days ago a woman told her boyfriend her dating past and all the men over there told her she wasn't entitled to a relationship and called her promiscuous but now this woman is also in the wrong for being upset about her boyfriend's sexual past. All you ladies are correct about their hypocrisy because it's what they do all the time. Oh and just imagine if a woman wrote she used to be a sex worker and her boyfriend broke up with her. What would they …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 07:30 PM
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Someone mentioned above. This many times comes from eating animals. HIV came from eating bush meat. Covid 19 we have been told started in a wet market from bats or a pangolin. Previous coronaviruses also came from bats and such. MERs people can get from just touching sick camels but it came from bats.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 06:33 PM
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I know. I just had to say something because some women post there and they don't know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 05:10 PM
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I was just talking about this in twoxchromosomes. A man there was focusing on the woman not giving a clear no. I was like you're victim blaming her for a minor thing and letting him off the hook and making her indirectness the problem rather than his boundary pushing. Women are socialized to be polite and then some men use that politeness to say they didn't know we meant no. I see male redditors say this constantly and the men who hate read two x always pop up to blame women in cases like this. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 01:53 PM
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Right. But they're men. They can do it. Because they say so. But not women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 10:42 PM
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Absolutely. PUAs are usually the biggest hypocrites about that but most of them are no catch because they are so misogynistic and abusive so I doubt many women really care what they have to say. I just find it funny how they have this attitude of pressuring women to put up with their abuse when women can find a better man or stay single. I feel sorry for the brainwashed women who listen to this and think these men are right or important in any way. In Western countries, they hold no power over u…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 09:45 PM
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I think I've come across his YouTube channel before. He is similar to many other PUAs. Basically he slept around with a bunch of women. Now he wants be "traditional" and they preach about getting back to traditionalism. Of course the only reason they've become oh so holy is that think it will give them the ability to control women under the cloak of religion and those are the only women who will put up with this stupidity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 09:30 PM
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The comments over there... They said she was a bad person, called her materialistic, and said she was treating him poorly by not saying "I love you" as much. 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 03:25 PM
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I know you're getting downvoted but it seems fake to me as well. Like something made up by the woman hating subs on this site to foam at the mouth about women's p**** pass being denied and their revenge fantasies. All the emojis Don't judge me And like you said the idea that the guy on a date would only want to see her nudity and not have sex. I mean guys ask for nudes all the time and they still go on to date the woman in the hopes of getting more than just pics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 02:45 PM
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I know couples that dated that long but they were young (like in college late teens or early twenties) when they started. I think this is normal and preferable for such young couples to date longer as people change after graduating, getting a job, making money, and living in the real world but I think past 28 or so most people do not date so long.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 12:54 AM
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Because it's inconvenient for unattractive men who want attractive women. When they like attractive women, it's normal and evolution. When women like attractive men, it's "high standards."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 06:40 PM
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I agree with the meme a lot and I am not white. This is definitely a thing especially on Reddit. But the man should be white not black lol. Men of color do like white women and I hardly see them saying anything negative about white women except for one thing where they join in with white men. White men and men of color love to direct misogynistic things at white women when criticizing their dating preferences under the guise of wokeness. This is definitely a thing. But I find it mostly comes fro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 06:59 PM
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They have normal news stories and more serious writing but they are right leaning and also post trashier stuff as well somewhat like Daily Mail but not quite as trashy lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 06:16 AM
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Thanks for the insight. I knew most women were barely making money but I had no idea it was so low. It's gross how this is promoted to young girls to have this follow them the rest of their lives under the idea that they will become rich. Why do we hear so much about the few women getting super rich? It's all a lie very similar to how years ago they were promoting being a sugar baby so much saying the women don't have to have sex with the men. OK sure. They're grooming these young women. It's sa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 12:57 AM
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It's the NY Post. They post stuff like that all the time. I'm sure his superiors love his article and the reaction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 12:22 AM
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Right. He might be taking notes from our criticism to make v2 lol. But seriously I heard of a like 50 year old white man masquerading as a woman of color sex worker on Twitter. They are many times behind some of this nonsense and trying to sell it to libfems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 02:19 AM
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Right? Especially the part about making fun of clients. Sounds like a man wrote this. Also "Captain save a h*"??? Doesn't that sound like something a man would say especially in this day of complaining about simps. I've never heard a radfem say that phrase. And also wouldn't that apply to the client not the sex worker? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 02:15 AM
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I saw that idiot saying he's in the closet and that criticism of bdsm is like criticizing gay people... 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 11:59 PM
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Good. Many people in that degenerate sub basically told her Sorry for you but you need more education on bdsm. You should have used the safe word. How could he know you weren't enjoying the pain? My ex and I did bdsm and he crossed the line once with closed hand punches, I didn't break (thinking that calling my safe word wasn't good) but cried and curled up, he stopped the scene, cuddled in, gave me whatever I needed and never did that again. See how different the response was, I didn't need to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 11:47 PM
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I saw a video on Twitter where some male vegans were branding female vegans. Let's make a point about abusing animals by abusing women. And why only women? We know why.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 08:30 PM
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Yeah I do agree that the trashy floor is unnecessary. Pajama bottoms would have conveyed the message much better. Most people can't tell that's what he was even going for. I've already seen a PUA with videos using this to talk about evil "modern women" so yeah the cluttered floor gives a different message than "zoom date during the pandemic." Yeah, he probably was making a jab at women. As you said other choices would have illustrated this much better. What he has drawn shows a slob. I think mos…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 04:05 PM
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Someone commented that she needed to cOmMuNiCaTe. 😒 BDSM spins on discussion, negotiation, and mutual agreement. Talk this shit out. Have a voice before you start playing with Master/slave dynamics. Work it out before you fuck it out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 02:02 PM
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Most are like how scary. A few people point out the dangers of choking. Others kind of imply nothing is wrong with choking/strangulation but that the guy was arrogant and inexperienced and just didn't know what he was doing and that other men can safely do it and to find someone else and re-explore it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 07:43 PM
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Just trusting the balance of your life and death to someone like that? A FWB at that. In one of the comments she admits no one wants to date so she just has to get a steady FWB. So she wants a relationship but the guys don't. If a man doesn't think you're good enough to date is he really a person you should trust (not that you should trust anyone) when it comes to this? Does he care about you? It's so sad to hear of women dying from this, and many times it's from some casual relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 01:53 PM
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So sorry. I've added the trigger warning flair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 01:38 PM
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Sorry. Added flair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 01:35 PM
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So this woman's older FWB decided to choke her with a pillow case from behind and she blacked out. Is this a thing in the kink community that I'm unaware of? Seems even more dangerous than regular choking. This seems very crazy and violent from the FWB to choke her with an object when he can't even see her face to see if she is okay. Someone sent her an article of a woman who died from this. She basically lols and says it would be on brand for her to die that way. Also she talks about having som…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 06:29 AM
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Wow. Below she writes in an article about how being in love made her basic... For years, I’ve scoffed at couples for doing lovey-dovey stuff—holding hands in public, eye fucking in restaurants, posting photos with captions like “Can’t believe I found you!” It all seemed mawkish and performative, as if they were imitating a version of love they’d seen in a Katherine Heigl movie. I’d think, I’m transgressive—I have threesomes with people I meet at the bodega at 3:00 a.m. and you’re all just a bunc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 07:20 PM
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I do believe there are men behind much of the stupidity promoted in lib fem sexual "empowerment" such as these articles. They hire women who have the viewpoint they want to promote and marginalize women who don't. Or it could be as small as men praising women who want FWB and denigrating women who want relationships as old fashioned prudish Karens. Remember that libfem who wrote that article at The Verge (a tech site) bashing this sub? That was the first article she wrote there and all her stuff…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 06:01 PM
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Right. I would suggest that people here be very careful about the slightest thing that could be seen as transphobic or homophobic. These threads will be the ones that get the sub shut down. There are many misogynistic places much worse than FDS but they know to repeat the approved mantras about trans people which is why they stay on. All those pro women subs were kicked off because they were considered TERFy. FDS has stayed because we never really talk about trans stuff here (rarely some people …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 02:22 PM
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Yes. Those subs have some good advice but typically end up telling women that we're the problem which is why most women should stay away. Even if these cool girls find FDS too mean or something there needs to be a female centric dating sub for advice because those users are mostly men. Their advice about a porn addict would be most likely that you should join him in his hobby. 😒 I wouldn't be surprised if there are closet incels or MRAs in control of these communities. One thing I would suggest …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 05:23 PM
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I saw a a guy say that women treat men like dirt. He said that unattractive men are invisible to women because we don't see them as sexual partners. Not seeing men as sexual partners = treating men like dirt. I've seen men saying women HATE unattractive men because we don't find them attractive and don't want to date them. These males literally think we are committing hate crimes by not having sex with men we don't find attractive. Isn't it interesting how misogynists have started using words of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 02:56 PM
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It was in r/JustNoSO. See my other comment for more detail.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 01:23 PM
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Wow. I was nosy and checked out that post and her post history. This woman was in a relationship with married to a 50 year old at 24. They had been together 2 years. They didn't live together. He thought seeing her once a week was too much work and time consuming (probably because at 50 he has nothing in common with her and was already cheating). She also is a nanny. Maybe he found the idea of being with a younger caretaker intriguing. 50 year old hubby tried to meet up with one of her new frien…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 01:17 PM
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Not to derail but I swear this pickmeisha shit is a millennial woman quirk. (Not that women of other generations aren’t: they can be in different ways.) I’m talking about letting men string you along for decades, prostrating themselves and kissing male feet, begging for attention, working your ass off to fund his porn and gaming lifestyle, letting him choke you, and the whole crabs in a bucket mentality that if you want more than a curb stomping from a dude your an evil conniving gold digger. It…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 03:15 AM
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This isn't about cheating. I know cheating is bad. Stealing like in my example is bad. Murder is bad. But if I see differences in judgment and punishment for black people or gay people or women or disabled people I think that is worth pointing out. Notice in my examples these people have committed crimes that are against the law not just cheating which is morally and ethically wrong but not against the law. My point is this: just like racists want to punish people of color with harsher judgment …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 01:49 PM
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🙄 I'm not comparing racial discrimination to cheating. You're being obtuse. I'm comparing differences in treatment because of race, sex, and other traits. I don't think that's hard to see. My example compares two people who did the same crime - stealing - and somehow you say I'm comparing cheating to racial discrimination...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 01:17 PM
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This is a perfect example as it shows two people who did the same thing: cheated. Showcasing double standards usually requires having two people who did the same thing being treated differently. Just because a woman has done something bad doesn't mean we can't recognize differences in judgement/punishment. If a woman steals something and gets 5 years and a man does the same and gets 1 that is something worth discussing. If a black man gets 5 years for something and a white man gets 1 would it no…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 01:03 PM
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This isn't about being like men and getting passes. It's about men cheating and doing whatever they want and getting passes - no being seen as the victims or justified. It's about men's double standards. Offset should be treated just like Jada. Woman cheats = woman bad. Man cheats = woman also bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 12:43 PM
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Yes. Them banning banfemalehatesubs really made it clear. Banmalehatesubs is still up. This site thinks men experience more hatred than women which is anti reality. Something needs to be done about male hatred but not that against women. Women are supposed to just deal with misogyny. Rape porn is just kinky sex. They're sick. I have a question. Will we be able to report and boot any "brigaders" that will follow us from here similar to reddit content moderating? They will still lurk and follow us…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:55 PM
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Do you know if any of the other subs were backed up?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:52 PM
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Wow. Was it transphobic? No. Was it misandric? It documented what they said on their own subs. There is a banmalehate subs. It's still up though. I wonder what could be the difference. I just went over there they were bragging about how they got away with it. They will come after the site too though. They bragged about kicking off the_donald at nytimes but that sub is mostly inactive. And these males will whine that life is "gynocentric" and men are held to higher standards. I wonder will they d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:47 PM
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This guy is specifically mad about women wanting financially stable partners. The others say women's standards are too high when it comes to physical attraction. We are looking for Hollywood movie stars according to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 05:36 PM
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Basically all this blather is next level rape culture misogyny because women supposedly owe men sex. Right. I hesitated to say this was rapey but that's kinda the vibe I get when men start complaining about who women want to date. Not a day goes by on Reddit that some man in a major sub is not whining like this about women's dating preferences. What is this BS? It's pushy and weird that men think that women have to be equal opportunity with our dating lives. Men are not. That’s so unfair so obvs…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 01:23 AM
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Right. He is talking about finances because it's something that seems okay to judge women as gold diggers or bad people or c*nts as he said it for liking. But this idea that women are oppressing men with our dating choices is applied to things outside of money all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 10:35 PM
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Lol. That sub is run by incels. They are basically trying to make attractive women think they are matched evenly with unattractive men. So when a woman like that wants an attractive man they will say he's out of her league. She should lower her standards... TO ME!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 04:08 PM
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She asked was she wrong to feel jealous. Is that an okay emotion to have? Women are afraid to speak up against bad relationships because they're so busy trying to sound like a cool girl whose not like those other jealous girls. Omg just imagine the state of relationships 10 years from now. Is that ok? I am right to be feeling the way I am? I like her and want to continue a relationship with them but I don’t want to feel less than to him 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 09:37 PM
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"Our girlfriend" 😂🤣😭 What are women doing these days?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 09:30 PM
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What's funny (no sick and telling) is that is a sub called justice served where they basically root for vigilante justice all the time but now they're upset and talking about how the law should handle it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 08:53 PM
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This is probably fake. Not saying it couldn't happen irl but given that I know men on Reddit make up stories to make women the oppressors of men I doubt it. I assume most "reverse the gender" double standards stories on this site are fake. Not because I think women can't do bad things but because I know that many men on Reddit like incels and mgtows have an agenda (women bad, men good). I've seen them talking about making up stories like this and posting in popular subs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 04:30 PM
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Lol. He says the strategy doesn't work. But the point is to weed out men like him. So some PUA (more likely an incel) dumps you because you won't have sex with him quickly. Such a loss. And what does it mean that a woman is "no stranger to casual sex." How would he know that? Is his assumption that a woman who is an experienced lover must have had a lot of casual sex? What if she's had a lot of sex with one guy in a long term relationship? Lol. How would he know the difference? What kind of ince…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 12:17 AM
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Lol! What's the best hard drive to buy as a gift for his porn collection? There should be a flair for libfem posts like "Libfem Dating Strategy". LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 07:12 PM
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Right. She came here and stayed for months. Why? I'm so over these suck up handmaiden libfems coming here and starting drama and then going to whine to men for attention and sympathy/karma. She said she's going to create a sub. Good. She can take her fellow libfems with her. They can create their own dating strategy instead of trying turn this place into Cosmopolitan. I'm tired of libfems constant need for rah rah cheerleading for everything they do. "I fELt JuDgEd." OK. Then leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 02:20 PM
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I agree. The threads can be harsh. I saw the post you mentioned. She was upset that others were making fun of her. I think if people want to do "rescue missions" the poster should use the flair but also remind people to be gentle. But it's also a bad idea to flood the initial thread because that is considered brigading which could get the FDS sub in trouble. Someone said she just dms the poster with encouragement. Tells her she's right and not overreacting. Tells her to check out our sub. I thin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 05:33 PM
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Right. I think the sub could get in trouble for brigading and harassment of other people. Everyone is trying to shut this sub down and that would give more fuel. I've noticed in other subs everyone scratches out names. I think it is done to keep people from pinging users who could then complain of harassment. Many times the person who posts the screenshot here is also subscribed to the other sub which is how they came across the content so it's okay for her to reach out for a rescue mission but …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 05:07 PM
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They are VERY threatened. I never hear liberal feminists talk about radical feminists without making up straight up lies about rad fems and their beliefs. This is the "smear someone as a nazi" technique. It can be very effective. How many times have people come from other parts of reddit and said when I actually read what you guys post instead of the smears from other redditors I realized you weren't so bad and actually kind of right? I think people are burned out on liberal feminists promotion …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 10:39 AM
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A bunch of libfem BS. She seems soooooo obsessed with porn, prostitution, and BDSM. Like the entire article is her whining that this place is not accepting of that. Why doesn't she go over to two x chromosomes if she wants to hear the prevailing narrative of being pro porn and pro prostitution. There are much bigger subs that support her position but God forbid one small sub go against that. And that's what these people can't stand. Disagreement. Ridiculous. It really read like those women like …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 10:09 AM
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This male has posted to shortcels. An incel sub where they talk about how women having rights has ruined their opportunities. A sub where they kick out tall guys and call them a gay slur and tell them not to post about being tall (no whining about that though). A sub where they call women every slur possible and make memes dehumanizing us. A sub where they do NOT let women post (omg so mean banning on sex) but THIS is the worst sub he's come across because it bans men. Their hypocrisy makes me s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 03:40 PM
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Stay safe. It's amazing how butthurt they get about a few subs on Reddit or a small youtube channel when there are 10s of thousands of videos by these vile males spreading hatred of women. They can dish it but can't take it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 06:05 AM
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This is exactly it. Men will whine about this sub and Gender Critical all over the place but say nothing about the hundreds of misogynistic incel subs, mgtow subs, p* pass denied subs or just the general sexism in popular subs like unpopular opinion. But then they're posting about how this place is just as bad and they call out sexism on both sides. Give me a break. It's like that previous post about conservative youtuber Lauren Chen hating on this sub. They say they call out both sides but some…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 11:20 AM
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It's propaganda. They want to scare women into thinking if we don't do it we'll die alone. Also I'm pretty sure most of those dudes are lying about how active their sex lives are lol. Like what attractive men who are having so much sex and success with women spend that much time arguing on the purple pill debate sub?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 07:59 PM
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It's truly ridiculous. Men have dozens (probably hundreds) of subs where they make fun of women aging, make fun of women getting punched by men, call women all kinds of names, post their pictures from dating sites and make fun of their looks and they have the nerve to complain about this sub. How long has the PUA stuff been around? Over a decade? Did she make a video dedicated to them? She only put that in the end to make it look like she was fair. The men of reddit can dish out misogyny but the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 05:54 AM
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This sub regularly posts feminist articles. There's a very popular one here now about Uber rides and how unsafe women feel. Maybe you should find another sub if you don't like the feminist posts. Many people like this sub the way it is as some of those posts are the most popular.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 02:56 PM
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Lol. That's because there aren't child brides in our neighborhoods. You act like it is common for people in America to get married under 18. It's not. I've never met anyone under the age of 18 married. We hear these stories from other countries all the time and your response is it happens in America too. Well FGM happens in America too but not as often in Somalia. It's also not considered socially acceptable by the population. I don't agree with 16 and think it should be increased but please. US…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 02:43 PM
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