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| 2 | "I'm sorry if..."Im so sorry, that's hard to deal with not only a creeps going away thing but the women who should be supportive of you acting that way... You deserve respect and to feel safe. I'm glad hes gone. That doesn't mean it still wont affect you. Absolutely tell management it's important to start a trail on him regardless of he left AND more importantly get that support. If you feel management isn't supporting you after you told then, I'd look for better opportunities, women should not be in a workplace… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 08:06 AM |
| 7 | Imagine finding out this is what your husband thinks of youLVM love to cuddle too, the narc/needy ones love to use this time to manipulate their partner emotionally after sex, future faking them with pillow talk. My NVM ex complained I didn't stay and cuddle with him after sex. I didn't realize that even as brainwashed under his spell I was, I subconsciously was repulsed by the act cuddling him. He used cuddling to lovebomb/trauma bond me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 07:53 AM |
| 11 | Young woman is uncomfortable with her boyfriend being close to past sex partners and of course /relationships shames her for it.Dude is nearly 30 dating a young woman who is "barely out of college still cant rent a car" age... F**kin creep. Misogynist sex addict written all over this post. Someone dm this woman to FDS, she needsa get outta that before he gives her an STD and abuses her more :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 07:39 AM |
| 9 | Easiest way to get to know how shitty a man is?This is funny. My "lefty socialist" ex was the DUMBEST scrote. He lied and said some false things like AOC betrayed Omar and threw her under the bus about something and I simply googled it and found it was the complete opposite. He refused to admit he was wrong with the facts in his face and just wanted to hate AOC cause she was "faking being working class" cause she went to a prestigious university. A man's attitude to AOC is an easy filter. Run from "leftist" males. They are typically worst th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 07:29 AM |
| 3 | The 2020 pickme hall of shame award goes to you, Nichol Kessinger 😡The fallacies in this defense of a malignant pickme is masterful. Its almost like both of them can be wicked in different degrees and can be held accountable for the result of dead childreb and a dead mother. Bs that a woman doesn't have power to influence a weak idiot like Chris. He killed them and this bitch supported that. Are you really this dense to think evil pickmes dont often push their already pieces of shit married "lover" 0 value males to hurt their spouses emotionally or physically? … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 07:09 AM |
| 5 | The 2020 pickme hall of shame award goes to you, Nichol Kessinger 😡Preach! Its misogynistic to infantalize and simplify women. Yes, most of us are badass goddesses but we are also of a monstrous human race and some women are evil to the degree (most) men are its a given to happen. Handmaidens come in all degrees. Feminism defending sociopathic pickmes is the same braindead defense of libfeminism saying sex work is empowerment. Yes, he is an evil sociopath and is a great example of how dangerous any man can be, but shes also a great example of an evil pickme and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 06:58 AM |
| 41 | Sabotage from male family members...*misogynist sociopath | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 06:48 AM |
| 14 | Ladies, ALWAYS listen to your gut feeling!Those people who didn't tell you are trash too. If you associate with a scumbag its a responsibility to do so, I hate when people go "im staying out of it", if someone murdered or raped a girl its the same obligation to expose. If I had any friends who were doing fuckery I'd out them immediately and already have. And they aren't my friend after that, cause I don't have abusers or pieces of shit as friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 06:45 AM |
| 2 | Setting Standards for First Dates - OLDThe link on the actual post is removed or the content. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 07:35 PM |
| 3 | Setting Standards for First Dates - OLDWhat app filters for EU men? I get this could work outside the US but otherwise I dont get how you are doing this, what magic lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 07:31 PM |
| 26 | I look like myself againWomen will never win in patriarchy, is something I really resonated with recently. Stop playing by their rules and their game <3 Beauty is not dictated by men, it's what makes you feel beautiful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 07:40 AM |
| 44 | I look like myself againCurly brown hair is gorgeous, goddess waves I call them! You are not "less attractive" for now not being a cookie cutter male fantasy, you are actually more beautiful being simply your authentic gorgeous self. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 07:39 AM |
| 10 | Your weekly reminder not to ever ask a man outI think this fds practice is meant to stop you from pursuing and getting attached. Women should enjoy flirting with men but not just one. I think if you don't take it seriously and see it as a fun thing to do with him, detached at your core but have fun flirting when hes around. This shows interest so he isnt trying to figure you out and you aren't taking it seriously in case A. he doesn't ask you out B. he does and is shitty C. hes great and you can continue to enjoy dating him while vetting. W… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 09:27 PM |
| 12 | Your weekly reminder not to ever ask a man outHe called the girl who approached him desperate just for asking him out. Id say thats pretty harsh and he sounds like a narcissist twat tbh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 09:21 PM |
| 13 | Your weekly reminder not to ever ask a man outWho cares if hes hot, thats shallow. Men aren't the prize no matter how attractive they are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 09:20 PM |
| 20 | Your weekly reminder not to ever ask a man outThis guy is a tool too. Name calling a girl who initiated a date? Yikes. Yes women shouldn't initaite but thats now expected and it doesn't necessarily reflect anything about her yet (unless shes in FDS, we dont live in an fds vacuum). Also you're right, a genuinely interested man will pursue her and do everything to impress her (in a healthy way). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 09:19 PM |
| 39 | Your weekly reminder not to ever ask a man outYour friend is LV. Calling her desperate for doing what women are told to now a days by lv dating advice aka asking him out? Was she actually desperate (Iike.. really?) or was he being an arrogant ahole? I bet the latter. Poor girl probably was just excited by him and was doing what dumb scrotes insist on these days. LVM call anyone desperate that shows interest, my diagnosised sociopathic ex called girls desperate if they told him they loved him after consistent dating for months. If a guy is t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 09:16 PM |
| 1 | FDS Media Coverage! “Reddit's Female Dating Strategy turns love into a game. Does it work? - ABC Life”more info on this please? id love to read about this and Im sure itll help others. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 06:14 PM |
| 75 | Fish left in the sea after 30 years oldScarcity mindset. I saw all this from 18 to 30 year old men, its nothing new, but when you're older you no longer make excuses for dating losers. I hated dating in my 20s. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 07:17 AM |
| 23 | Possible red flag: if he justifies his past shitty actions with other women instead of taking accountability.Uh he's sociopathic.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 07:05 AM |
| 3 | "hitting the wall" is real. And it does usually happen around age 25-30. But it has nothing to do with looks. It's the age at which you stop seeking validation from men. And once you hit it your desirability (to LVM) will tank. It's a beautiful thing.Notice that it starts at 25, when your brain is supposedly now fully developed? Basically, they say this too cause seek to degrade fully adult women who can have critical thinking and won't be naive/put up with scrote behavior anymore. It has nothing to do with looks either, we all know women are beautiful at every age and are the healthiest gender. LVM see the age number as "what percentage of chance can I manipulate her" subconsciously. 30 is fucking young too, btw. It's still considered a you… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 06:56 PM |
| 46 | Men want casual sex/relationships, till the woman wants that too. Then suddenly they aren’t so cool with it.Devotion by a woman is for marriage imo. Why would women ever do that for a guy who hasn't proven the same through real commitments? Even having a bf, I'm sorta meh on the idea, I would rather it be really clear the "bf" title is still the interview of him and that he has a TIME LIMIT of this interview. Hes my bf, the interview process is now for directly for marriage in less than 2 years. This may sound weird but using FDS practices, I think in most situations, women should always not only be d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 12:08 AM |
| 18 | Men want casual sex/relationships, till the woman wants that too. Then suddenly they aren’t so cool with it.Love that! I've been on this wave length for the past two years, and men keep getting in my way. I'm a bit tired of these predators. You ever feel like throwing it back in their face for trying to get you to play games? Just like if a guy realizes your single and tries to enter a game with you, I feel like showing ruthlessly to a scrote trying to weasel his way in that he is not only irrelevant to my life by openly talking about other men, never initiating convos (100% unavailable) and laugh whi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 12:01 AM |
| 79 | Which one of you ladies did this? 😂Its simply sexism. Most men hate women covertly or outwardly, and are low value and compensate their lack of value by attacking those of value aka majority of women they meet. Men who don't feel disgusted by chauvism among men are weak and also the kinda guy too cowardly to be honest hes a misogynistic scotum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 06:30 PM |
| 5 | This just happened to me...feeling stupid but now on high alert SMHUh, why do does he have such "sensitive" notes on such an easily broken/hacked device? I smell bs. Ask whats the purpose of notes on his phone? (but dont say the fact that phones are the least secure devices). If he actually has a diary on his phone, ok then. I dont know why any guy would. Trust your instincts. Also observe how he reacts to your own privacy with your devices. You have the right to be sus of this guy though. Red flag especially since he was vague. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 08:46 AM |
| 7 | The bar is so low 🙃I like you and your mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 08:37 AM |
| 7 | When LVM and I took a personality test together...sidenote, I also saw the same amount (including the less skeezy looking scrotes) also said they fantasize about a coworker but "didn't act on it" 🤮💢😤 aka they objectify the women at work/will cheat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 08:33 AM |
| 2 | Is marriage really worth it ? Are men even worth the trouble ?Feel you and no, marriage is dangerous no matter what. Look at how common men kill their wives or rape them, a relationship itself is risky, dont desire marriage desire your dreams. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 09:47 PM |
| 9 | Women and children seem to suffer the most from PTSD...many psychs treat female victims like that, we just need reform and stricter requirements for mental health providers. most men dont seek help anyways, and if they do they dont stay or use it to be better abusers. id be weary of a sexually abused guy, tbh. he is high risk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 09:45 PM |
| 10 | Women and children seem to suffer the most from PTSD...or exaggerate their experiences, its easy to blame women and take no accountability for their atrocities. thats interesting with the lie detector! and incels who aren't fathers cry about the family courts in womens favor, lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 09:41 PM |
| 10 | Women and children seem to suffer the most from PTSD...idc if its biology they still should be hed accountable as ruthlessly society does to women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 09:35 PM |
| 7 | Women and children seem to suffer the most from PTSD...testosterone is the said to be an issue, men are hormonal and take no health issue of it seriously, combined with brainrot from porn, they have no emotional regulation due to their own negligence and entitlement. most men are untreated and further molded by support of patriarchy. i think its mental illness,hormones, and society. i think its like 20% more men than women are untreated for mental issues, thats just the surface. women get help, men dont at alarming rates and no consequence. The thin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 09:32 PM |
| 6 | I screamed lmaoocareful, narcs love myrs briggs to profile women. dont tell em yours, ask for theirs lmfao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 09:18 PM |
| 8 | Is it me?Its natural to want to feel pretty and want men to pursue you. But its about learning that male attention has no value, men will abuse the best of women regardless, and the attention you want is from wonderful individuals with mutual admiration. Imo Id want HVW to appreciate me over "hvm" now. Also if guys pursued me more, Id take it that Im easy prey. Be intimidating to lvm whuch is like 99% of men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 08:14 PM |
| 6 | Is it me?I have been told by men (prob lvm) that I'm stunning but intimidating cause I'm not projecting anything but confidence/self love and it makes them question their ability to talk to me or picks at their insecurity. I know what I want and go for it and have a life. I think friendly, attractive women naturally filter insecure creeps (who CAN be good looking men, they are human and just like good looking women, can be losers or really insecure). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 08:10 PM |
| 5 | Mean Girls is a great representation of what happens when pickme culture is rampant.You still have lot of work to do and I'm glad you're here. I say this with sincerity even though I'm a stranger/it's through text. You clearly enjoyed being the pickme of main attention by the two creeps for a while and very recently...and how you said "they clearly resented me", its as if you weren't provoking this? Also, you flirting with the scote for attention and engaging in their 'crossing the line/ depraved friendships', acting shocked they aren't true friends after how you acted or how t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 08:05 PM |
| 45 | Next time they talk about women "hItTiNg ThE WaLl" direct them to exhibit A: Gerard "Ridden Hard and Put Away Wet" Butler. Like an old ass Billy ChristensonI did an experiment and changed my age to to young 20s on OLD and got way more hits and intros, put it to 30 and it dropped like 35%. Its not the looks, its pure ageism. I look young adult so even if you're looking 23 at 30 , men be preying for young naive women in reality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 07:47 PM |
| 20 | Why ask a woman out if you can’t afford it? 🤡At a bar, while I was with two male friends, an older guy and his colleague were buying me drinks all night (I was careful, even said I was a lesbian lol) and when I was gonna buy them a drink, he was very stern and said "A woman should NEVER pay for any drink. NEVER. If a man makes you pay, he is not a man." He said this thinking I was gay. He and his colleague talked about how pathetic younger men were if they were so broke to have women pay for themselves. It was wild. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 06:59 PM |
| 16 | Why ask a woman out if you can’t afford it? 🤡For real, broke men who can't pay for something as basic as a date are gold diggers looking for a woman to prey on. Bums. -plays No Scrubs in the background- | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 06:55 PM |
| 44 | Why ask a woman out if you can’t afford it? 🤡Yes! It always was until libfeminism teamed up with patriarchy saying "we can PAY for ourselves". Yeah, we can, thats why men even more so need to impress us harder. Whenever I came across a scrote who said 50/50, I looked at the dead in the eye and said "Would you have Angelina Jolie PAY for a date?" (speaking monkey to them, using her as an example of a movie starlet/woman of success/beautiful/talented whatever they think is a woman out of their league). And their brains always break and go "N… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 06:53 PM |
| 18 | But god forbid you don’t take care of a LVM when he has his “man cold”If you need to run away from a bf when hes sick cause hes a selfish clown, hes clearly lvm and you should question if you overlooked/ignored the red flags. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 02:46 AM |
| 23 | To the frustrated woman still waiting for him to change: He won’t. An inside peak at their thought process....Lol you kinda have the "im not like other girls" vibe with this, ironically. Cool you dont care about women who haven't had a chance or support to wake up yet. I have less synpathy for arrogant women who act like theyve never been a pickme. Most have and its up to us to offer FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 01:55 AM |
| 2 | My profile mentions I’ve played tennis since I was a toddler.Words to live by, always! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 01:09 AM |
| 7 | My profile mentions I’ve played tennis since I was a toddler.Say a zinger with shaming them and block is fine for certain situations. Its a pleasure to throw a sarcastic one liner, good practice for wit. Than ofc block. I think this instance he definitely needed a simple block since it doesn't seem like they talked long. If you're chatting with a guy you're dating I think its ok to have a little joy in the block. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Moved to the US.. can't believe how men treat women hereSouth Bay, like... San Pedro/PV/LB? Those places are pretty wicked... PV is rich and white, SP is satans land, and LB is on the fence (I heard its getting better but rough?). Last time I was in South Bay, I heard gunshots every night, saw a guy get drive by assaulted with a bottle, and everything was depressingly rough. What towns do you think in SB are remotely ok? If anything, Id block the entirety of SoCal and go north to SF etc. So glad Im not in CA. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 12:08 AM |
| 5 | I wish all of you ladies that feeling. 💪😎Plus, after they stopped haunting your thoughts and you're where you should've been before they interrupted your life, if you ever see them ...you see how UGLY the scrote really was. 9/10 times dusty is busted. And you look in the mirror and go DAMNNN I'm gorgeous, whyd I even get within 10ft of that thing. They are only worth the cost of 2 second snort/laugh and back to being a queen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 09:07 PM |
| 28 | Ladies, don't treat your boyfriend like he's your husbandYou're being caring, and men seeing other men cared for creates jealousy (wah wahhh I want a bangmaiddd too). It is time to start BREAKING the habit of wanting passionately to nurture a guy. If he cant be a basic adult and drink water, and you wanna comment, say it once and let it go. Idk why people downvoted you, you're learning. Not all the women here are this snarky, many HVW here are supportive to newcomers. You're waking up from being brainwashed by men. Keep reading the handbook, participa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 08:56 PM |
| 6 | Men are Only "Not Perceptive" When You are Invisible to ThemThey sure freak out over seeing tits in public, notice any woman that reminds them of the amateur porn they jerked their peyronie's d to 5 mins before.... but "didn't notice" a difference of woman they actually have sex with or "like"? Ok. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 07:45 AM |
| 35 | This is why the six month period before declaring someone a HVM is a MINIMUM. Strap in ladies, this is fun.Hell yes, i wouldve sent him an invoice and not responded til he paid up. Than if hes that stupid and desperate to abuse me more and sends the funds, block em and spend that money celebrating yourself, queen it up. I successfully did this with 3 lvm who were abusive cheaters but freaked out when I turned the tables and woke up. Never again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 04:00 AM |
| 6 | Yikes.Shes a predator too, no tolerance as feminists for such an evil enabling sex addict. She clearly is sexually demented getting off to being seen as a minor by pedos, how VILE. Theres pickmes who are brainwashed from society dating assholes, and Ghislaines who are predators. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 03:50 AM |
| 8 | Yikes.thank you, same. Evil pickme. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 03:47 AM |
| 45 | Yikes.Jail herself too, shes a Ghislaine. Lotta evil pickme women supporting pedos. This crossed the line. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 03:45 AM |
| 21 | This poor woman 😭Honestly, test men about this. Say after a bit of dating you're sick, in pain, etc. See how they react. Scrote goes " :( sorry to hear that, get well soon" block him. Childish. All HV people have the decency and empathy to show concern. If he actually asks whats going on and if he can help, at least its a possible good sign, but it must be consistent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 03:43 AM |
| 17 | This poor woman 😭No woman is too old for this, being socialized since birth to be an emotionally confused doormat is literally why fds exists. Lets wanna save women from being brainwashed instead of blaming them. FDS and radfeminism is really new... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 03:40 AM |
| 12 | Scrotes be like: Don’t come back when you hit the wall 😏🤪 Asian Grannies: bitch where is the wall?You don't have to be into fitness but yes, keeping your health as a value is something both should keep in mind. Saying HVM only want fit bods is shallow, HVM have diverse preferences of high qualities and being fit isn't necessarily a HV trait, i mean, most gym rat men are lv. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 03:24 AM |
| 7 | Just don't need any more BS from 2020Id make it Fun with other females February cause Vday and show love to your female friends instead. Id rather have a lovely day with awesome women then being disappointed in a loser scrote unable to do a romantic date night cause he already trapped me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 03:16 AM |
| 4 | Just don't need any more BS from 2020they are at worse outcomes cause they refuse to get help and are already dirty. so no, we ARE better than *by being cleaner and not an egotist unable to see a doctor cause "i a man i no weak man no need dr". men dont even wash their asses let alone their hands after peeing they transmit it logically more frequently, come on sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 03:12 AM |
| 6 | From my time online dating. . .Can confirm here too, kevins are crazy ones. No wonder that movie Can We Talk About Kevin was named that lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 02:04 AM |
| 7 | From my time online dating. . .now this is leveling, good work sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 02:02 AM |
| 7 | All good until the last one... Why is it so difficult for women to realize that porn and sex work is not liberating and exists solely for male pleasure?Im anti all sex work. Including women who participate in it for just greed and being a handmaiden in the west. (ofc not the coerced, vulnerable women). It should ALL be illegal and have escape options as well as strong socialist based community resources to get women a real career and financially independent to not be having to endanger themselves or cater to rapists. Go for the root problem, poverty among women and low education opportunities. Its been proven legalization is literally a fools e… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 09:12 PM |
| 12 | 100,000 toxic monogamists just hangin outAnd johns spreading hpv to non sex workers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 09:03 PM |
| 14 | 100,000 toxic monogamists just hangin outYes, swerfs are the best :) I believe the sex slave trade is an abomination and evil women support it for coin. Liberate and educate, give women opportunities to live a fullfilled life (selling your body to depraved males aint it). How CRAZY that feminists hate sex exploitation of their gender and upholding patriarchy within capitalism. I happily exclude misogynist female pro sex libfems from feminism. You aren't welcome in this sacred space that should protect and free women. Take your shackles… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 09:02 PM |
| 16 | Another proof you shouldn’t tell men your insecuritiesPeople check their messages? Hell no. I also know my psycho narc ex knows this account and probably hate stalks me so I make sure to explicitly only use this for fds (hes aware of this place anyways). Writing this if that mommy issue predator is reading, hi boo boo, I already have 4 men I'm dating who dont look like a busted up herpe 🤣 literally a blessing fds is, making women happy blocking n dumping each scrote at a time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 08:53 PM |
| 40 | I'm grateful to my (male) friend who got me to stop being a pickme!Not really. The guys have been easily more exposed to hardcore porn by early childhood and sex addiction is prevalent with them growing up on the internet let alone being better manipulators now with manisphere influence and dating app culture. They grew up in a trashcan of tech. My 23 year old zoomer ex was one of the most damaged scrotes Ive ever come across and it directly had to do with his generations huge porn and pro sex libfem culture. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 08:45 PM |
| 29 | Do you think men notice how these two things are treated differently online by men? And why we are tired of it?We typically have more understandable reasons to cheat. When women feel trapped and dont practice fds principles, are neglected in many ways by their partner, they take the control back probably for themselves. Easy to say "just leave" when you've been practicing fds but when you aren't, patriarchy warps your confidence and mind. Women CAN cheat for the reason men do, but we all know its more common due to her inability to dump the chump, usually emotional and sexual toxicity from her partner, a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 04:33 PM |
| 13 | Don’t be Bob the Builder for a man.My exes had like 4 long term relationships and still barely grew as men. They stole those womens souls just to be able to make a better but still shitty homemade meal, brush their teeth, and know that women have unique sexual needs for orgasm... still losers who are parasitic nvm tho ultimately. NVM cant be better, just keep them away in the bottom of the dumpster. There's no saving broken scrotes. Healer pickmeishas, please don't find a guy whose needed girlfriends to be mediocre or decent attr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 09:45 PM |
| 9 | Don’t be Bob the Builder for a man.Exactly. Hes a boy. "Man up" to me means having your shit together, emotionally stable in careet, washes his ass, cooks his own food...so a bare minimum ADULT that women have easily done since youth... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 09:28 PM |
| 2 | Just in case you guys didn’t see this one...women waking up! She slapped him!Boo hoo, handmaiden. Just glad he didn't scrote further and hurt her. Pornsick loser deserved worse tbh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Just in case you guys didn’t see this one...women waking up! She slapped him!This is a proper feminist take. "Wow she slapped him" ignoring hes sexually and mentally abusive comments sound like pickmes or males. At worst, victim blamers. Women should stand up for themselves any means they think is necessary. And learn how to take a guy down for protection. Defense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Just in case you guys didn’t see this one...women waking up! She slapped him!This is a weak take. Her actions are justified. Abusive relationships are very complicated for women and your only focus on a simple slap is a lot more about you than her. Shes abused. Emotionally, sexually etc. Its LV behavior to judge a victim reacting to abuse. You have no idea what shes been through with this scrote. Ofc violence is bad, wow big brain. Women trauma victims react differently to how normal people react to abuse. The issue is the male putting her in this situation to even start… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Just in case you guys didn’t see this one...women waking up! She slapped him!Slapping a scrote abuser is justified. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 06:29 PM |
| 10 | Through lies men and women both are taught to hate women.MaleFatale! Make it a thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 04:40 PM |
| 22 | Through lies men and women both are taught to hate women.In previous times, theyd still be considered losers cause it emphasized a mans value was how rich he was and could earn. Poor men were discarded in society. They refuse to go "maybe its me thats the problem". Incels are sex addicts. Sex addicted males are short of being sociopathic monsters. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 04:39 PM |
| 36 | Through lies men and women both are taught to hate women.No! We are SO blessed to be women. Imagine being a MALE. Ugly, ballsack, etc. Women we have divinity. We CREATE life. We are those with strength, power that men wish they had, beauty, and valid anger from our awareness. When I felt so sad being a woman, I realized its patriarchy whispering in my ear. I love having breasts, a vagina, my female body all together. I love that I can enjoy my body in ways men can never. They hate us for it. I would be suicidal if I was born a male. They want us to be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 04:36 PM |
| 13 | Think about it from his perspectiveTreat yourself how youd like to be treated is perfect! Yes, all the narc mantras creating pickmes and handmaidens needa be broken down like this. You're so right. Empathy is a learned skill and we also can refuse to give it. Protect ourselves first. See men as potential Ted Bundys who walk around undiagnosed. I am reprogramming myself by not fearing men, Im a brutally strong woman whose physically broken attackers before, but seeing them with caution as I feel being close to a bear or tiger at t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 04:26 PM |
| 23 | Think about it from his perspectiveHigh level NVM loser. Wow. A good vetting process would to play the cool girl and see his porn habits and preferences. Get him to open up his types of women. I broke scrotes this way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 04:21 PM |
| 37 | Think about it from his perspectiveWe deserve love by a partner. Since we live in a world where males are a high risk to us and frankly too devolved to give any woman genuine healthy love, its best to focus the desire for love towards female friendships and building community. Than in the end, if that one HVM exists for you, youll probably meet him through HVW but if not, awesome, you stopped wasting time on males and have multiple loving relationships with women who probably appreciate you more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 04:15 PM |
| 2 | Theory: Why would men search for someone in real life when they can just jerk off at home?It's triggering.... Id try to use this to wake myself up if I start sympathizing for an insecure lvm at any point in time. This is the male gender. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 03:51 AM |
| 2 | Theory: Why would men search for someone in real life when they can just jerk off at home?She's just explaining the why. But yes, truth!! The self aware ones typically convince themselves its not bad enough to get therapy and than go on to abuse their gf. Imagine being born a male in this world and still managing to fuck up this badly. No excuses. No, your mommy issues aren't a reason to be an abusive pornsick loser. No that one girl who rejected you isn't it. No.... its just you, dawg. Get a grip. Grow up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 03:49 AM |
| 2 | Theory: Why would men search for someone in real life when they can just jerk off at home?SOO well said!! I echo your sentiments here. Men are degenerates and we still need to be aware of why they do things. They weaponize their desire for "love" playing the victim and poor little Peter only has pr0n to fullfill his lack of self and affection. They are humans, and they wielded power since the dawn of time, which has allowed them to be lazy and entitled AND WHINY. Now that women aren't an easy source of labor for them, we are in one massive tantrum pornsick scrote era until a few HVM … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 03:45 AM |
| 2 | Theory: Why would men search for someone in real life when they can just jerk off at home?YES! As Audre Lorde said "Women are powerful and dangerous". MANY of my nvm exes admitted to using sex to "feel loved" or validated by women. Literally said sex was their desperation for love subconsciously but with porn and being a hoe, they devolved further unable to distinguish what even love is. Ofc, I was the "only woman who showed them love is more than that" 🤢 (I cringe at my past for relating to this). Many people who hoe around use sex to fill a void that wouldn't be there if they bothe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 03:32 AM |
| 10 | Don't put up cameras and don't internalize it as "your own insecurities." If the person you're dating doesn't want to honor your requests on a dealbreaker issue, then you leave. Don't even waste your time wondering if they have an addiction. Put yourself first and just go.Its not discipline, its literally being a misogynist and objectifying women as sex objects. If seeing a good looking woman instantly makes you fantasize and your sexually aroused, thats called sex addiction and its due to being a pornsick idiot who programmed yourself into reacting sickly to a human being. Its not discipline, that implies its innate or expected. I don't need to have discipline to not objectify men I see. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 02:25 AM |
| 3 | LibFems: Women don’t need UBI because Sex Work is part of the “Divine Feminine” and “empowering”🤡Disgusting movie. If they talked to sex workers, they would come across the fact THEY HATED IT and are traumatized. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 02:17 AM |
| 4 | LibFems: Women don’t need UBI because Sex Work is part of the “Divine Feminine” and “empowering”🤡sex trade is slavery. but cause some Beckys like the twisted validation it gives them, its "empowering". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 02:16 AM |
| 6 | General discussion: how to not hate men after realizing the sobering truth?Your bf should than actively involve himself to get it. I dont need to be a child soldier in Uganda to get it, but community service I did immersed me in their struggles. Men need to be immersed and actively working for your and womenkinds struggles. Offer to do some kind of womens shelter community service together. Men cannot be in a bubble of their own making. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 02:09 AM |
| 1 | I’m convinced OLD is a wasteland.What was your OLD profile like? Any tips? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 08:00 AM |
| 2 | There’s one particular LVM I can’t get out of my head, no matter how hard I try.Great advice! I like that a lvm getting in your thoughts are countered with habit building and self love instead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 07:49 AM |
| 5 | There’s one particular LVM I can’t get out of my head, no matter how hard I try.I like posts about different feelings of attachments we had to lvm and feel these kinda "read the handbook" comments aren't productive. She has. Posts like these allow others to share their experiences with detaching in realistic ways. Comments like"block him easy" is dismissive and a cop out too. Feelings are not that simple and I like reading others situations or how they approached it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 07:47 AM |
| 2 | This amazing, sufficient, talented HVW woman should be the FDS mascot!Link to her YouTube? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 04:55 AM |
| 6 | Nope. He is not going to be my projectThey get plenty of affection. Its just HVW don't give it freely to sniveling losers who lie forcing a trauma bond saying "Ive never had affection :< Im a hurt little boy inside" . No, you just abused your partner to the point she found touching you repulsive Im sure. Also, maybe wed be more inclined to be affectionate if men stopped sexually coercing, abusing, or degrading us in general? Put down your pornsick limp dick and learn a womans affection is not something you are ever entitled to. Ever… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 08:28 PM |
| 48 | LVM only say this when they are looking for an ego boost from Barbara the Builder/Therapist Theresa. Don't fall for it! Remember: the only person who can save him is himselfIts literally cluster a personality disorders. More men have them and most mentally ill men refuse therapy and are undiagnosed narcissists. society enables these psycho-scrotes. Watch out for the ones who "tried" therapy and theyll weaponize their shiny new psych terms at you and make you think your the crazy one. My psycho scrote ex's first convo with me was about how Tony Soprano used therapy to be a better criminal. He used the sopranos to be inspired about how to be a better grifting scrote.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 08:19 PM |
| 27 | LVM only say this when they are looking for an ego boost from Barbara the Builder/Therapist Theresa. Don't fall for it! Remember: the only person who can save him is himselfOr who cry that you call them an asshole when they are emotionally abusive, saying its abuse to "call them names" cause its literally a crime to call scrotes such words after they gaslighted, degraded you and manipulated you. Poor babies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 08:14 PM |
| 16 | LVM only say this when they are looking for an ego boost from Barbara the Builder/Therapist Theresa. Don't fall for it! Remember: the only person who can save him is himselfDamn, are you me?? This was my relapse lvm/pickmeisha healer story recently. These are narcissist cluster A level nvm. Literally the most manipulative demons. thought I was prepared for bs but I'm so grateful to hear these stories cause I'm sure it'll lift the fog for many. Also FDS was in quarantine??when I happened to be with this scrote. Gotta copy and print out as much info cause I clowned on hard without my fds daily reminders. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 08:12 PM |
| 9 | Confessions of a former pick meWow, yes. Same. Those twisted expectations from your toxic exes warped the ability to even want a healthy balanced relationship. If a guy wasn't lovebombing me it was a turn off, like hes emotionally dead or unavailable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 10:58 PM |
| 31 | Dear Reddit LibFems: Nobody died and made your self important asses the gatekeepers of feminism. We're not "fake feminists" because you don't agree with us, nor are you as inclusive and non-judgmental of women's choices as you pretend you are.Sadly, libfeminism has gotten plenty of women who have options to chose sex trade cause "its work just like any job" and those prostitutes in particular are the loudest in defending the sex trade. The ones who have options, buy into the "glam of escort business" and actually stay are really really batshit and drugs get them too. There's also many who front as camgirls but like strippers, do side prostitution. They typically do it for "the lifestyle" aka getting a bunch of sick male validation, d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 03:55 PM |
| 1 | a) very honest man. or, b) profile made by an ex. Either way... nope!Definitely a b? Uh. This is exactly what we should do to abusers. Shes a *badass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 04:21 AM |
| 5 | The problem with liberal feminism and "sex positivity" aka selling your self online when people say "it isnt hurting anyone" when in reality these people are hurting other women by proxy. -Thoughts?Most women here have no idea what kinda women prostitutes are. They never interacted nor understand their own choices in being the professional pickme for patriarchy. Many hookers are some of the most evil, fucked up people. Ofc they are. Some are victims but many definitely are not. They should be blamed in enabling sexual abuse by giving sick fantasies to men. I knew a John. He said if he didn't have access to prostitutes (legally), he would've been less likely to go to one. He would've still … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 04:39 PM |
| 4 | The problem with liberal feminism and "sex positivity" aka selling your self online when people say "it isnt hurting anyone" when in reality these people are hurting other women by proxy. -Thoughts?Women definitely contribute to their own oppression here. We needa stop defendimg depraved women who support the sexual objectification of our gender. Prostitution in many cases in the West is just ultimate pickme shit. You think hookers cant be sex addicts or deviants? Lol wake up. All of prostitution and its supporters needa go. Its not "victim blaming" if a Mexican is criticized for supporting racism (like being a Trump fan) towards other Mexicans is it? So why is it victim blaming for holdin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 04:25 PM |
| 28 | Words of advice to the Poly-debate. You aren't "radical" or "non-conformative" you are literally enforcing stereotypes as old as time. You are a HUGE part of the patriarchy. Charles Manson, other cult leaders and sultans etc all had harems of women, you are no different. We aren't buying your lies.Polyamory is an ancient patriarchal practice, just cause some laws are in place doesn't mean its not only still relevant its literally traditional oppression. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 03:04 PM |
| 27 | If men are 'more visual', why are they ugly?That instant arousal is just pornsickness. They programmed their brain to be so hypersexed they see a woman and their pornbrain is turned on. I can look at a really attractive man (rare) and feel attracted enough to be turned on but im not pornsick where that happens outside of a relationship since my sexuality evolved with requiring way more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 06:45 AM |
| 5 | If your man looks at other women, he’s willing to cheat on youA guy literally admitted to me (not a guy I dated) he looks at other women in the idea that "I could have better", his exact words. Scrote looked like he never washed his ass. Sorry, the only "better" you are getting is the girl who is brainwashed enough to humor you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 01:01 AM |
| 7 | If your man looks at other women, he’s willing to cheat on youPickme alert | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 12:59 AM |
| 7 | If your man looks at other women, he’s willing to cheat on youI can WANT to rape a girl, the problem is ACTING on it. Nah. Shit logic. LOOKING is for neanderthals, you got a girl you are into, why are you being a coomer? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 12:59 AM |
| 4 | If your man looks at other women, he’s willing to cheat on youI feel women should be revolutionary and start deatching with any guy they date for a while by acting single (with looking at men) the same way their guy probably is. Get out of the FOG sooner too. Aligns with FDS interviewing multiple men for extended periods of time. Never fully trust a guy. Men also have a significant higher percentage of being severely mentally ill and untreated. Boundaries: I know you are looking, and so will I. Honestly, I can't be bothered to commit again unless the guy h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 12:57 AM |
| 5 | If your man looks at other women, he’s willing to cheat on youMen should have obligation....and work on their depraved sex addiction by even sexualizing strangers in the first place. Monkeys and other animals are the ones who should struggle with this, they act like their brains aren't evolved past that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 12:53 AM |
| 11 | If your man looks at other women, he’s willing to cheat on youIf a guy is in a relationship, why is he even checking girls out in the first place? What are we, 10 years old? We've never seen women before? I've seen loads of "attractive" men and not once have I felt the desire to look at them past me just walking by and giving it literally any thought, I'm a bit busy with my life and idk, admiring my partner? This is just micro-aggressive cheating, it's so devolved to me. BUT, I think women should definitely go against the grain these days, and mentally kee… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 12:45 AM |
| 3 | Never make a man go to therapy or attend relationship counseling with you. They will only do the bare minimum needed to get you to stay. It’s a waste of time and money. Work on the assumption they will never change.Yes, learned this with my ex. He was weirdly super versed with a lot of psych terms and went to therapy but "it wasn't helpful" and solved his "rage problems" with some ptsd book. He just learned to use other tactics to do damage. Definitely was helpful being a master manipulative creep. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 02:23 AM |
| 3 | Never make a man go to therapy or attend relationship counseling with you. They will only do the bare minimum needed to get you to stay. It’s a waste of time and money. Work on the assumption they will never change.If a man needs therapy, you literally just need to run. Any male with mental illness is not worth the already disastrous risk of dating a guy....Made this mistake embarrassingly too much. FDS rule should be "don't date any guy with mental illness" it's not worth finding out if he's an outlier. Even with therapy, hes in a non consequence world with brain damage. NOPE. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 02:20 AM |
| 11 | Thoughts?Nothing is ethical about prostitution lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 1 2020Somewhat of a justice happened you may appreciate. I am also very passionately against male depravity, handmaidens and pedophiles (yet have been manipulated in the past to tolerate degenerates). A guy who I dated attempted to rape me about 5 years ago. I literally threw up on him (I was sick and he targeted me in that state) and I escaped. I heard he killed himself a few months ago. Fucking shitstain is rotting in hell now forever. So one rapist is 6ft under whose own sister told me "he didn't a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 1 2020It's being a pornsick limpdick creep. Men jerking off to strangers Instagrams AND their female friends social media are virtual rapists imo. Can you imagine his degenerate thoughts simply walking in public around women? Literally predatory. It's not acceptable. Had an ex admit he jerked off to escort sites and "previously" tinder profiles because he "had access" to them and "felt in control", the depravity know no bounds and scrotes get PISSED being called out for their rapey selves. It's beyond… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 1 2020Actually, if you end up planning for a date, have THEM do the same tests. I even make men take STD tests before being intimate now and if they don't want to, byeee | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 1 2020You dont like a guy sending you supportive text messages? It sounds like you may be too unemotional available for that attention, I was there before after a cold relationship. And good insight with med student, typically they don't date cause of how intense their programs are but maybe he has a balanced life. Also remember being a dr is also a lot of hours. And, this may be harsh, but studies show drs have high levels of sociopathy to make a good dr, just be wary! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 06:33 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 1 2020Idk if you're nerdy but I have nerdy interests and I would warn against getting into things with nerd males. Many are covert misogynists since the community of neckbeards are now the mainstream outcasts with deep rooted female hatred. I dated so many types of nerds and tbh they end up being the worst boyfriends because they are literally immature Peter Pans. Avoid "avid" gamers (guys who casually play are ok), guys obsessed with nerd stuff. Ones with casual interest in geek culture is fine but n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 06:29 PM |
| 11 | Never ever skip the background check!It's important to expose em. Why did it get shut down??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 10:23 PM |
| 4 | How to make friends with women?I've been trying to find ways to make new female friends even before this pandemic! can you pm me it as well? It's so difficult finding other like-minded women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 08:35 PM |
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