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I'm honestly super thankful my husband doesn't game. His hobbies are outdoors and exercise-based which is great. He is also super present when he comes home from work and engages with our daughter. I don't think I could hide my resentment and hatred for someone who spent their time at home with headphones on staring at the screen for hours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/22 12:46 PM
169

yeah this really can’t compare to the horrors of buying someone a meal 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 11:34 PM
81

No. I’ve never even had a successful date from OLD. Turns out talking, smelling, seeing the person is necessary for me to assess chemistry. None of the people looked as good as their photos. I had zero follow up. Ending up meeting my husband organically in person
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 11:02 PM
177

Yeah I’d also rather young college age women spend their free time doing something more important/can build their resume. Maybe do some community volunteering, spend time making lunches for the homeless, hang out with girl friends going on trips, join a book club, start a food blog. Spending time to pamper/better a random group of guys isn’t going to do anything for you in the long run. 🤡 Tell these boys they offer pre cut fruit at the store nowadays
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 02:49 PM
68

Women like this make the mistake of thinking if they could just achieve perfection or meet his standard the abuse would stop. No matter how hard you try, it will not stop. To the original poster, the abuse isn’t because you are doing something wrong, it’s because he wants to exert power and control over you. He likes making you anxious. He likes being able to make you feel shitty about yourself. In the comments she says he has had an affair, which doesn’t surprise me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 05:15 PM
114

Exactly. Just a headless, fuckable section of flesh. That’s all this guy sees. What a joke
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 06:10 PM
321

Yeah it’s the main thing I noticed. This man talks about women as if they were not human beings. Just numbers and tallies judged by how “bangable” they are. Fucking screw men like this, nobody should be sharing their body with a shit head like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 03:32 PM
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Heck I’m 32, technically too old for him, and I would never date a 50 year old
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 05:38 PM
50

Besides the point but if he’s still a resident he’s only making like 60k. You don’t make “doctor” money until after all years of training and medical school which can be 7-10 years
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 02:28 PM
127

This is giving me real “army wife” vibes. Your husband’s accomplishments are not your own. If you want the clout of a doctor go become one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 02:20 PM
18

Yeah I have had on and off problems with acne my entire adult life but have NEVER had a pimple in my nether regions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 02:37 PM
6

This sad post reminded me to put on my awesome raw diamond engagement ring. I feel bad for her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 03:16 PM
7

My husband would never get me a vacuum for a gift because he pays for monthly house cleaners lol. Also usually if we do clean he does the floors. But I guess this woman got picked so she must be happy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 03:14 PM
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It’s because she’s posting on a medical questions subreddit and part of the rules is to put detailed information about yourself, height/weight, medications
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 02:28 PM
168

If he can't stop gaming to give you attention you're in a shit relationship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 06:02 PM
151

This is why I think I’m going to really educate my daughter to either have a birth control implant or iud. I do not want my 17 year old ruining her life getting pregnant from some scrote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 12:27 AM
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I have honestly never seen anyone on FDS complain about men's height. Like we are all out here screening for men over 6' only. I think men are more obsessed about height than women are tbh. My husband is 5'8 on a good day but I love him to death because he is a good father, a household contributor both financially and household chores/tasks, and takes care of me emotionally. FDS is out here trying to help women find men who actually ADD VALUE to their life instead of make it harder, or worse, su…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 04:19 PM
10

These people don't stop think if anyone 'fitting their standard' would actually want to date THEM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 04:16 PM
25

I’m pretty certain if you delete the app and aren’t active they stop showing your profile as available to swipe on so I’m casting x for doubt on the whole fiancé situation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 04:28 PM
38

How amazing you can look and what you can accomplish when you aren’t bending over backwards for someone’s dusty son
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 04:04 AM
89

Lol they will spend $60 plus tax on the newest video games but god forbid they spend $15 bucks on a meal with a girl they're trying to date
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 05:47 PM
213

This is the part where we throw our heads back and laugh .gif
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 02:13 AM
159

I see this in the relationship subreddit a lot. Men accuse their gf of being a 'bitch' for not doing some completely insane self-sacrificing thing, like watching his brother's kids all day for him. Then she tries to fight against being seen as a 'bitch' and prove that she is truly nurturing by doing the dumb self-sacrificing thing. Man benefits, woman is super unhappy. I say you shouldn't let these insults bother you. If someone called me a 'bitch' for setting boundaries I would say, fine I am a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 04:00 PM
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This has got to be a joke, you take off engagement and wedding rings all the time. To take a shower, to sleep, to work out, to get your nails done? These people are just media succubi
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 07:47 PM
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Aside from the usual “my husband doesn’t care for me or our children” this man literally has a maximum timer set for 30 mins alone time with his wife. Like, I could not imagine being married to someone who clearly hates me so much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 12:33 PM
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Learning how to be kind to myself was really important. Learning how to find value in myself besides my looks. Being secure in loving myself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 08:54 PM
201

It took me 3 years to get “back in shape” after my first and only child. My husband did not give me any grief about my body ONCE and that’s how it should be
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 07:14 PM
229

I commented in that post before it was on here. It's basically a matter of self-respect. Men are inherently selfish and naturally prioritize themselves and their well-being over a woman. He sees this relationship as temporary and does not see it worth risking getting a life-long STD. Which to be honest I think is the right attitude. Yes, he lacks compassion and kindness, but he is also preserving himself. For some reason many young women think that going into caregiver mode and sacrificing parts…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 03:44 PM
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Men always SEVERELY over-estimate their ability to pull random girls. There are so many posts from 'poly' men who don't realize this and get bent out of shape that women have more options.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 07:30 PM
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Even on Twox the comments made by women about womens experiences are downvoted by men and replied to, you just now see “the mod has removed this comment for derailing” because every man feels like they have the right to debate the lived experiences we have
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 07:34 PM
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I said this in another thread about a man complaining that there were no childfree women on dating apps. Spoilers, it’s because without creating a bio kid/nuc family you are pretty much useless to women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 04:37 AM
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This is exactly the wrong thinking. Dating is not “build a man.” It’s such a huge fallacy to think you can change a person, make him want to work harder, make him want to do better, make him want to achieve more. That is on him. 100%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 08:42 PM
113

Hookup culture is so gross I have a hard time believing a woman would use such dehumanizing language
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 03:02 PM
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Also on number 3 when you make more money than a man he generally will grow to resent you. It is rare to find a man comfortable with not being the bread winner and if he feels insecure about his masculinity he will take back his power in other ways- emotional or physical abuse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 06:05 PM
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I saw a post the other day about a man complaining that there were no childfree women on dating apps and it’s mostly because without forming children/nuclear family men are absolutely useless to women in today’s society and are mostly a net negative on your life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 05:52 PM
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I would not be doing things like signing a lease with someone where the length of lease is longer than you’ve even known him. There is no guarantee you would make it beyond a year of dating and then you’ll be trapped in a living situation. It’s clear this has shown you that you do not know this man like you thought you did and his presentation of himself is dishonest. I can’t imagine coming back from these things, plus saying you’ve overlooked other things is a bad sign. I noticed in your post y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 02:01 AM
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LMAO I love how you put it, your own wife doesn't even want to have sex with your fat ass anymore why would I?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 05:43 PM
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I got auto banned from that for posting in fatlogic because god forbid I wanted women to know that the uterus doesnt cause a tummy pooch and in fact sits below your pelvic bone unless >12 weeks pregnant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 05:38 PM
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Amen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 03:36 PM
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It's because young women have casual sex not for pleasure but for validation. More women in their 20s should be in therapy building their self esteem so they don't feel they need male validation to exist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 03:34 PM
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True, just gross gross gross. My husband is younger than me, I’m so thankful for that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 04:07 AM
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There’s nothing I love more than when men compare women’s body parts to food items and act like we should like it /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 10:44 PM
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Also smarter women might have better education which leads to financial independence. When you aren’t stuck in a relationship due to lack of resources or housing you have more freedom
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 12:18 AM
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Seriously, go read the breaking you know what subreddit daily for a week and you will realize almost all of them are over worked, under appreciated, depressed, and desperate for some inkling of kindness. How is being alone and happy worse than that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 06:17 PM
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I hope I don’t get downvoted for generalizations but I believe men have casual sex for the orgasms and women have casual sex for the validation. Ultimately, the guy always gets what he wants and the woman is left feeling empty. Her body her choice? To let herself get used for his benefit? Sure, it’s her choice. But super wise for the OP to be trying to talk to her about how it’s just not worth the heartache and the icky feelings afterwards
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 04:25 PM
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10$ says she’s actually really insecure that she isn’t engaged and this is some weird coping strategy/defense mechanism
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 01:49 AM
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It’s because being rejected by a woman is the worst thing they can imagine happening. This sub is just full of advice on how to avoid rapists, moochers, abusers, predators etc but apparently that’s “violence” to them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 05:47 PM
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This literally looks like a description of a heathy relationship with someone who is generous and wants to take care of their SO. I’m sure his wife also provides for him emotionally, physically, and domestically.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 07:13 PM
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His behavior in front of everyone else versus behind closed doors. I had an abusive ex that acted like the kindest, sweetest boyfriend if someone was watching. The caring person I saw just absolutely vanished when nobody was there to monitor him. Then he would cuss at me, ignore me, threaten me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 01:19 PM
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I think it's helpful to see a screenshot or c/p of another post on reddit in order to get female-centric perspective on the situation away from the reddit echo-chamber. On relationship posts you get mostly men commenting, telling a woman looking for advice to "jUsT comMuNiCate" and "maybe he's just depressed, that's why he never contributes to the chores!" and make it seem like it's all the woman's fault. If only the woman would be more understanding. Very often advice to set boundaries or leave…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 06:04 PM
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As a 32 yo with a toddler I am so glad my fiancé doesn’t game. There is so much work to do with kids, life, housework, getting exercise, etc there is just no time to do it. I bought a ps5 and probably haven’t played it in 2 months and my fiancé hasn’t played it ever. We have too much real world stuff going on. I used to game an unhealthy amount when I was in my 20s and I have absolutely zilch to show for it. If I were still young and dating I absolutely wouldn’t date someone that spent a signifi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 12:53 AM
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The most frustrating part about 50/50 men like this will be the same ones who go online and state that a woman's career or earning power has ZERO contribution towards if he wants to date her or not. Ok so you want some young, hot girlfriend who happens to not have a career or be educated, how do you expect her to go 50/50 on your shit? It's all cognitive dissonance. They want someone young and hot but they don't want to pay for anything and if she asks for financial help she's a gold digger but …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 05:22 PM
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Lol sorry Albert Einstein
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 06:15 AM
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Honestly men don’t run the world they just take all the credit. Look at Einstein’s wife and Jeff Bezos’s wife. The reason Marie Curie is so famous is because her husband insisted on her recognition. Women are always behind the scenes acting on projects and supporting their husbands. They just aren’t given credit where credit is due
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 01:44 AM
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My college boyfriend did this too. He would get girls numbers and save them as guys names
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 01:48 AM
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Based off of his posts it seemed like he couldn’t even act like a normal human being enough just to TALK to a girl. Like why are all of these men just so heinous? They want to fuck someone but can’t even fathom trying to be someone fuckable, likeable, kind? There is just zero thought or empathy towards women that becomes palpable enough to repel them before he even says hello
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 04:28 AM
186

He is old enough to be her dad. He was twenty fucking 9 when she was BORN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 07:34 PM
341

I love this, you know she was just dying constantly getting messages from this guy and just wanted it to end
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 02:44 PM
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Honestly most of them don’t read anything here carefully or thoughtfully, they just see that women want to be treated well on a first date and not have sex right away and they go straight into crying about wAllEt RaPe and how pissed they are they can’t get easy sexual gratification
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 01:54 AM
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Yeah I agree. I’m short and have only really dated average height guys. I’ve never seen a woman outright reject someone for being too short, but definitely for being insecure and assholish about his own height
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 02:07 PM
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When I was younger I went through a phase of casual sex and it had nothing to do with desire or sexual attraction but instead major self esteem issues and compulsive need for male attention/approval. I knew I wasn’t having good sex I just wanted a man to want me. It sucked
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 04:47 AM
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I’m sure many responses were saying how clearly he was depressed and needed her to continue to love him through his depression and get him help with counseling and continue to be his bangmaid to show “support”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 07:54 PM
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And then the number one thing men complain about during sex is “she doesn’t look into it, enthusiasm please!” Perhaps you shouldn’t pressure women in sex they don’t want to have. Perhaps just jabbing her with your dick is hurting her and she’s trying to cover it up. Perhaps you suck in bed and she isn’t getting anything out of it. But according to them we need to just fake being into it more? And they follow up with, oh we don’t want to have sex if you don’t want to! But if say you don’t want to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 05:17 PM
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I think people hear 'red flags' and think it has to be something obviously abusive when in fact it's just subtle and repeated disrespectful behaviors. Like you had to ask him out, you're sitting around waiting for him to text you back, he ghosts for hours or days at a time, dismissive of your feelings/concerns, you have to ask him what your relationship status is etc. So when pickmes finally force them into moving in and having a long term relationship and they act terrible in the home and don't…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 03:37 PM
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Yeah I’m not touching a shitty misogynistic jock even if he is hot, when I was in college the hockey guys would regularly get girls black out drunk and then pee on them when they fell asleep
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 02:15 PM
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Unable to do normal adult tasks of living like wash sheets, cook basic meals, clip toenails, make doctors appointments Thinks “passing on his genes” would be cool but wants to do zero difficult parenting tasks or responsibilities
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 10:09 PM
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I really don’t know where this hostility comes from, I have never had to ask a man on a first date to pay for me. They just do. That’s what someone does when they’re interested in you and enjoy being generous and treating a woman they are invested in. If a man refused to pay or insisted on 50/50 I would immediately lose interest as it sounds like they are more concerned about tit for tat spending and not sharing anything with you. This isn’t a double standard because I love taking out my friends…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 05:36 PM
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I’m sure if she did manage to convince him to have kids he would’ve gone out with friends at night leaving her with the baby, not be able to help parenting because he’s “tired from work”, and probably immediately start an online affair because she “doesn’t want sex” anymore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 09:49 PM
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No. They aren’t that dumb. They are lazy and manipulative on purpose and they know they don’t even have to pull the bare minimum of their weight because pickmes will NEVER leave. “Please no break up advice because that iSNt aN oPtiOn”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 08:32 PM
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Shit like this is why I can’t feel any positivity towards “sex work.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 06:53 PM
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'Sorry if my wording bothered you' is a real non apology.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 03:26 PM
2

Couldn't agree with this more
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 03:19 PM
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Something like what my ex did which was following tons of girls on IG and messaging them on their story with fire emojis or telling them how cute they looked. Not technically cheating but flirting and getting attention from random women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 01:52 PM
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Too many pickmes recognize the lack of effort he puts in and complains about it but then says “breaking up is not an option!!” Like you realize he can sense that you are desperate to not leave the relationship and he knows he can act however he wants and you won’t end it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 03:36 PM
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I like the part where it said other adults/extended family acted as help in the home and relieved the burden of chores and childcare when that’s EXACTLY what husbands are SUPPOSED to be doing. Just shows how absolutely lazy and useless some of them are
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 03:32 PM
10

I really hate vegetables!!! - 5 year old and also this grown ass man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 11:46 PM
67

That’s the thing though men believe women rejecting them or wanting nothing to do with them is the worst thing they could ever experience. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 08:50 PM
23

Maybe he will have a clothes nest on top of the bed by then
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 11:33 PM
22

Having kids is hard even with a contributing, supportive partner, just like OP said. I have a 2 year old and work full time and get about 1-2 hours of free time per night and wake up every day at 7 am no matter what. It’s just a huge lifestyle adjustment. No more laying around in bed for hours or having sex whenever or going to sit down and have some hobby time. Everything is scheduled if you want your kid to develop and sleep well. You’re tired constantly. You immediately just have to de priori…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 02:12 AM
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Scrotes suggest walk dates to display their unwillingness to spend any money or commit effort to any woman. Its not even remotely romantic and then they complain when a woman isn’t interested in being physical with them afterwards. Like yes there is no chemistry because you made no effort to woo her at all and did an activity we all did with our grandparents so we could spend time with them during lockdown. It’s not sexy to walk next to someone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 07:11 PM
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He has this crazy complete narrative in his mind about her before he even meets up with her!! It goes to show he doesn’t even think of women as people with their own feelings and reactions and preferences. Just little robots to play a part in his narcissistic fantasy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 07:06 PM
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I hate that soo much. It’s not toxic to tell someone that they are upsetting you. Toxic would be like keying his car when he’s at her house. Having a problem with a man’s shitty behavior is not toxic and is a normal, healthy reaction. I worry for women who are scared to be honest with their partner about their emotions. It’s like they know underneath their man has no capacity for empathy or kindness
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 03:33 PM
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Literally “offering” something 100% free for me to enjoy and access in a way I choose to. But yeah the sunset is way better standing in a parking lot full of stale piss puddles
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 03:04 PM
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I legitimately think it's always the broke or under-earning dudes who complain of a 'gold digger' over paying for one meal. Apparently $15 was make or break for their budget after they spent all their money on weed and video games.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 11:03 PM
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I died at the hotdog omg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:04 AM
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The thing is men can sense how desperately a pickme in their life wants to settle down, buy a house, get married. She has to nag and prod because the man is so secure in his position in her life - he knows that he can do whatever he wants and she still wants to get married. The only time I’ve had a man actually meaningfully change behavior is when they believe you will end the relationship. Too many women give off the air of “I just want this one to work” instead of realizing they can say, hey y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 12:46 AM
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Why do women act like “not having a job for 9 years” is some sort of flex? What are you going to do when you age and nobody wants your dried up ass anymore? I have a doctorate and a good job, retirement plan, benefits. AND I can be sexy and more importantly have self respect. Like cool, have fun selling sex for money, but one day that well will dry up and what are you left with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 06:01 PM
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It’s honestly celebrating the fact that men have super low emotional intelligence, poor maintenance of friendships, and nothing to offer real women their own age. Like yeah that old man has nobody after his wife died because she kept his social calendar and did all the work of caring for friends and family. If he actually took care of people other than himself he would have friends. He has no idea how to be with women without literally paying for them because he has zero to offer except money. L…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 05:54 PM
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I almost reflexively downvoted this because of how terrible it is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 06:32 PM
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I keep telling myself this but I really think a big limiting factor is that most of the parenting still falls on women. If the baby is sick I’m expected to take off work. If she needs a doctors or dentist appointment I have to schedule and take her. I do drop offs and pick ups from daycare. I have to manage what size she is and when she’s growing into new clothes. Most men don’t have the expectation/responsibility of learning milestones and shopping for baby things. If I had the money yes it wou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 05:37 PM
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Why do men think that women are remotely stimulated by or interested in walking on a hike for a first date? That’s shit I do with friends, family, or when you’ve already been dating for a long time. There is nothing romantic about putting on sunscreen and exercise clothes to go walk around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 05:22 PM
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I still have this problem in my relationship - the delusion they have that because they worked a normal 8-5 day they are just so tired, can’t possibly help cook or watch the kid, can’t do any chores, can’t get off the couch. I told my boyfriend that every adult works including myself and it’s not normal for a young healthy guy to be so tired. I said if he’s so tired he should go to the doctor because there must be a vitamin deficiency or something wrong to make him behave this way after work. Th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 02:32 PM
8

Or men could just not shoot innocent people and deal with their mental health but what do I know
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 04:00 AM
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I’ve seen some relationships posts where the women have to literally convince their man to shower with them before sex so they can help them wash themselves so they aren’t disgusting. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 05:04 PM
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I’m 31 and I feel hot as shit. I have a career that allows me to own my own home, drive a new car, buy high end make up and skincare, the clothes I want. I can pay to go to the salon regularly and get the color I want. I have never felt more free to be as sexy and stylish as I want to be
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:56 PM
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Yeah I’ve never seen so many men triggered by women who decide they want a man to pay for a dinner date. All you have to do is just not date that woman if it really offends you?? They’re just getting scared of the ideas we proliferate so it will get harder to get someone to fall for their shit. Nobody is “gold digging “ an 18$ dinner. We can afford our own dinners. We just want you to show actual interest and effort
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 09:16 PM
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Yes my ex was an ER Np and he was the absolute worst. Ended up getting so drunk he jumped out of my moving vehicle and I had to call 911 while he was bleeding from his head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 02:09 PM
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The only reason I would believe this is if their job was in healthcare, first responder, essential worker, etc. Scribes, med students, city employees, many people I know who are young and healthy are fully vaccinated (such as myself) due to the contact with patients or the public
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 04:54 AM
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I think it’s hysterical when they call us female incels. In my experience it’s harder to find a man who isn’t willing to sleep with you. Friends? Yup. Strangers? Definitely. Dad’s friends? Absolutely. Our coaches and teachers? Sadly yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:15 PM
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We don’t hate men we learn to fucking live with men and cope with it as best we can. I’ve learned from FDS how to advocate for myself, how to stand up to abusive behaviors, and how to leave terrible and dangerous situations with men. I’ve also learned to value myself and stop giving away sex and love like it’s nothing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:48 AM
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Lmao nobody is negging no matter how many times you write negging. Nobody is hating on being married or marital status. I’m hating on the concept that being married is something to strive for. Like another comment said, it’s just a circumstance. It doesn’t guarantee you have a happy and healthy relationship. It doesn’t guarantee you won’t get cheated on. It doesn’t guarantee you won’t be abused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 06:43 PM
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That is a good way to put it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 06:40 PM
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There’s a difference between being supportive of friends and defining marriage as an accomplishment. I think it’s great if/when my friends get married and are happy about it. However, when you think these things are goals/accomplishments it’s more likely you’ll see divorce or separation as a failure. Women who get brainwashed into thinking their lives are meaningless without marriage are hesitant to leave unhappy relationships because getting into that marriage was their “goal”. More women shoul…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 04:37 PM
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But it’s not an achievement. Having and maintaining a successful relationship is. Having a cohesive and happy family is. Signing a piece of paper is something anyone can do with whoever is willing. I wish people would focus more on the substance of the thing instead of feeling like they’ve done all the work by deciding to get married
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 03:46 PM
59

Marriage is not an accomplishment. It’s just not
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 02:35 PM
2

Is this Rupi Kaur? I love her whole book Home Body
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 05:12 AM
7

Yeah I’ve looked it up in regards to having to evict him as a tenant but so far I haven’t had any problems in the relationship to warrant it. I just know that I find peace in knowing I can exit my relationship and not be financially ruined or be worried about childcare or food or rent. My state also doesn’t have common law so he really doesn’t have anything except tenant rights probably
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 07:39 PM
33

I’m not married to my long term partner and I prefer it that way for now as I solely own our home, I own my car, his car is even primarily in my name and kicking him out if some shit went down would be super easy. I advocate for all young women to work on their career and get as much coin as you can because money is power, freedom, independence. I would never ever be a stay at home mom because they essentially have no power to leave. Only put yourself on that position if you have a hefty savings…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 03:50 PM
43

The funniest thing to me is that men come here and find that they relate to it. Like you don’t think it’s a problem that you see yourself in these posts where women complain about being abused, taken for granted, mistreated?? Time to find a therapist if you think you need to defend LVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 11:43 PM
293

Men when looking at a picture of a beautiful woman: 6/10 no tits her knees are creepy, hair not long enough Men when confronted with their own inadequacy: how the f can u say that u cold hearted shallow bitch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 09:58 PM
3

I’ll add that being UPSET or ANGRY when someone lets you down or hurts your feelings is a normal reaction that you should express without guilt or second guessing if you “have the right” to be mad. Don’t ever apologize for feeling hurt or let him turn himself into the victim. Be mad, stay mad, call out scrotes, set boundaries
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 02:44 PM
45

How about stop doing mommy shit for men who can feed themselves?? Even if you’re a wife you have no obligation to cook for another adult
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 06:57 AM
14

It’s because pickmes don’t listen and learn from the behavior these men display, they don’t take them at face value. Instead they think about what they COULD act like, and that this will be DIFFERENT this time because they will just LOVE their man hard enough or some shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 04:15 PM
142

Because they need a new bangmaid to do all the housework and cleaning and take care of his responsibilities
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 05:59 AM
23

I swear a man’s true fantasy is to hang around the house like a teenage boy, getting his wife to take care of all responsibilities while he binges on video games and junk food. Scrotes are like, How dare my wife expect me to be a grown adult and actually fucking take care of myself, my body, and the people in my household!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 05:08 AM
17

Don’t even call it wife shit because no woman is obligated to cook dinner as a wife. The first time he asked her, a full time worker in his field, to start meal planning his lunches and dinner the answer should have been No, and if you continue to ask me I will no longer come over. That simple. Men are responsible for FEEDING THEMSELVES
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 08:45 PM
16

Just sit him down and COmmUnICATE to him and teach him why it's important to care about another person's feelings!! Men need to be taught what to do obviously!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 08:00 PM
14

but...like... is it rude and mean if I tell him all the ways in which he is horrible and failing all of my needs? I tried so hard to make him love me!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 07:57 PM
69

Science is also proving that the age of sperm matters as well as far as birth defects etc, so it's definitely not true that men can just have kids 'whenever'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 10:19 PM
4

This book of poetry is definitely worth buying, there are many awesome little pearls. It’s called Home Body by Rupi Kaur
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 09:19 PM
153

Some men are admittedly just super lazy, conditioned for years by their parents, peers, educators, that doing the bare minimum is enough. As a young girl growing up I was expected to work really hard at school, get good grades, with the goal of being able to provide for yourself without a man. Men were allowed to just get Cs, do well enough at sports, play video games, have a girlfriend, and nobody pushed them to do more. Women are criticized constantly for not doing more, not being enough, whil…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 05:46 PM
48

I’m so sick of the advice given on reddit, just sit him down and tell him what you want him to do! Why is my adult partner needing me to “sit him down” like a 5 year old in trouble and why does it need to be spelled out so clearly that he is being disgusting in our shared living space
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 04:08 PM
17

Yeah it can be real if the woman demands nothing from him. If he didn’t feel that any of this was his responsibility he wouldn’t remember or know how to do it. Seriously some women let their men get away with behaving like actual 14 year old teenage boys as far as zero responsibilities at home
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 03:57 PM
45

This is just fucking bullshit. I have one child with a man who tried to pull some childish behavior and didn’t fully contribute to parenting duties so I kicked him out. I said if you make me feel like a single parent I would rather be one. This is why owning your own home and having your own income separate from a man is so key. I make enough to have the power to demand better behavior. Our daughter is 2 now and he learned very quickly he would rather equally contribute than not be involved in o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 03:53 PM
71

Remember all our children’s birthdays, take them to the doctor, buy their clothes when they get too big...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 03:23 PM
8

I’m 31 and I feel so much better than in my 20s. I have a career and the money to spend on high end makeup and skincare, a fancy gym membership, a new car. I own my own house and can easily dictate the role of any man in my life because my shit is separate from them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 03:25 PM
76

Just remember that his money will never be “yours.” It will be a tool for power and manipulation when he wants it to be. It will be in separate bank accounts. It will need permission for you to use it. It will need justifying every time you want to make a fun purchase. It will prevent you from making independent financial and housing decisions. Make your own money
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 04:52 AM
51

Age means nothing, I just was reading a dumb AITA post about a woman who had to kick her 39 year old boyfriend out for being a video game playing bum and his mother literally had to come pick him up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 08:58 PM
7

Women in their 30s are in their prime. Men perpetuate this myth that we need to partner up early so that young women who haven’t fully developed themselves personally and professionally will be in a rush to settle for less. I’m 31 and I have never felt more attractive - I have a stable job and can afford my own home, high-end make up and skincare treatments, gym membership, etc. Scrotes could never
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 02:55 AM
71

It’s almost like men benefit from the myth that women get old and decrepit and undesirable after 30.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 05:05 PM
10

Right? Last time I made an OLD profile I could easily get a moderately attractive man to offer me a quick lay the same night, the only problem is as a woman I don’t want this shit! It’s not satisfying, risky for your health, and at worst degrading and humiliating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 11:07 PM
11

When my daughter was an infant I noticed she had cellulite on her butt when giving her a bath. It has NOTHING to do with age
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 01:40 AM
20

If it’s never painful you have stretched your booty hole soooo far you’re about to feel some hemorrhoids or something wrong with your colon. If it’s the easiest orgasm ever something else is wrong or switched around in your internal anatomy like w-t-f
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 07:54 PM
114

What kind of lazy-ass man-babies need to be told by their women that they would like to be taken on a date??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 07:49 PM
63

I think it might be time for me to become sterilized, nothing is more terrifying than an unwanted pregnancy and no way to terminate it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 02:29 AM
33

Out earn me Chad then we can talk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 03:00 AM
100

If breaking up is not an option for her then he knows he can do WHATEVER THE FUCK HE WANTS without consequences. Literally. If you aren’t willing to set boundaries and let go of the relationship the man will sense this and capitalize on it by behaving horribly and seeing just how much you will tolerate. There’s no incentive for a man to change if you just let him walk all over you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 05:25 PM
30

Dead end job at 30 years old gag me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 05:16 PM
12

I told a lvm on another sub to stop hitting on strangers and actually try to meet women through friends groups, hobbies, etc and they all had a nice freak out about what a bad take this is. I’ve never given a strange man a second glance. Stop invading our personal spaces and leave us alone while we’re out doing shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 10:15 PM
3

It’s really not about trying to prove I’m “datable” but that I bring more to my own table than what a man can (more often than not)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 03:28 PM
30

I love these “what about YOU??” Questions LVM ask because I just tell them I have a doctorate degree, make good money in a consistent field, own and afford my own home, own my own car, have no student loans, did it all without a man doing my laundry or making meals for me like they expect women to, WBU??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 03:19 AM
13

I bought my own house and it’s the best thing I could’ve done for my relationship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 11:06 PM
1

Same. I really want this shirt too as someone with a doctorate degree!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 02:01 AM
1

I also feel like they are overestimating their worth. Do they really have enough money to call women “gold diggers?” Most men who complain about paying for a meal are actually 24 and broke. Does it really hurt you financially to pay for a 12$ entree and a 5$ drink? Or are you just mad this woman didn’t like you enough to give you sex in return for a cheap meal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 05:57 PM
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