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| 30 | About Bennifer and Latina Pickme CultureYeah....I stopped looking at other latinas as role models a long time ago. Stopped having role models period. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 09:45 PM |
| 9 | OH NO! I’ve been outed as ‘vanilla’ by some p*rn-sick scrote who says my sex life must be boring. Whatever will I do?!?!? #VanillaIsValidUgh I walked in on guys discussing a porn video and one said this "She must love that, why else would she be doing that. Just look at her face!" Of a video of a womans vagina being stretched out to maximum proportion. This is how they think. Pickmes endanger us all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 10:23 AM |
| 19 | What would a world made by women, for women look like?I was disappointed to find that matriarchal societies still baby men. Since the men are seen as incompetent and unfit to make decisions they still reap all the benefits of women doing all the work. Like wtf :( I'd rather live in a society where only the men that are deemed valuable and beneficial to women are allowed to partner with us. No more useless men-children please, in any -archy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 10:12 AM |
| 3 | Boy moms and their pickmeisha tendencies?For some reason I was thinking back to my childhood when I started going through puberty and noticing my body hair. My mom looked so downcast when she found out I shaved my legs for the first time. Her words were "why did you do that, you are perfect just the way you are." I thought she just didn't want me to grow up but now I'm thinking a man would never love me like she does. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 12:42 AM |
| 20 | I've noticed that a lot of women here have toxic mothers. While it's true that mothers are often unfairly scapegoated for all of society's woes, it's important to remember that mothers also socialize their children to perpetuate patriarchy.For real. Too many women think it's their right to have children when in fact they would be terrible mothers that damage their children. At some point we have to stop blaming "the patriarchy". Who knows but even if "a matriarchy" existed I still think it would have horrible mothers. Some people just shouldn't breed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 09:12 PM |
| 2 | I cried myself to sleep when I found out that the guy I loved thought I was an idiot and a weak slut because I just didn't know how to think well and study well because I couldn't find a guide and I couldn't figure out how to be a proper woman to be treated properly because of where I came from.I remember there was something going around a few years ago about the "feminization of the educational system" and how it is "leaving boys behind." Something about them not being able to sit still in elementary school. I don't know how accurate that is because I didn't look into it....... But anyway I remember thinking to myself what are they taking about..... My college science and business course are almost 50/50 gender ratio (maybe slightly more males), these guys are doing fine??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 12:55 PM |
| 12 | 3 lessons I learned from my dad's two mail-order brides.It's amazing how people demonize an entire country. The people on here making accusations of child slavery when their own country has the most child abuse Ive seen. Step parents and boyfriends beating children to death, mothers beating and starving their children, family molestation, abusive foster parents. Its scary in the US for children too. But they want to throw out an extreme incident and play holier than thou. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 06:48 AM |
| 4 | 3 lessons I learned from my dad's two mail-order brides.They are being triggered for some reason. Do we forget that males at any age prefer to work for money. I work with white men who brag about their work ethic and how they started working as kids lol and that's here in the US. Inner city kids want to hold down a job but we don't ask them to stop because they'll never be Warren Buffet. Inequality is unfortunate all around but people should look at their own countries too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 09:32 PM |
| 3 | 3 lessons I learned from my dad's two mail-order brides.Which is probably more is the reason why they didn't want to go back......... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 08:58 PM |
| 2 | 3 lessons I learned from my dad's two mail-order brides.Actually these relatives suffered more abuse by their own families. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 08:57 PM |
| 11 | 3 lessons I learned from my dad's two mail-order brides.There was a time when parents would send off a child to live with a wealthy family to be their help. It was a good arrangement. The only draw back is that those kids didn't want to go back home to the poverty. This was told by a couple elderly relatives who were these children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 05:15 AM |
| 38 | Modern relationships in a nutshellOh no, they are not in poverty. They are working class. Like on their own they can only afford the rent but not much else, no luxuries. But together they can can afford a house payment if the man is doing overtime every week. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 06:42 PM |
| 101 | Modern relationships in a nutshellA support system is so crucial. These same girls have parents that own their own homes but their parents subtly let them know they would be a burden if they come back. WTF. Lets stop putting down countries where girl are made burdens at birth when we are doing similar in "developed" nations. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 05:17 PM |
| 163 | Modern relationships in a nutshellI'd rather move back in with my parents than with a man out of economic fear. In fact my parents specifically told me their doors are always opened, that they don't want me negotiate sex(relationship) just to have a place to live. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 04:54 PM |
| 59 | Modern relationships in a nutshellI had the same belief too. That marriage was supposed to bring two people together against poverty. But then they start having children, and then the woman is working plus baby and her nagging pushes the man to have a foot out the door.......and OH GAWD. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 04:49 PM |
| 261 | Modern relationships in a nutshellYes. Most of my lower and working class acquaintances in my area are moving in and buying houses with boyfriends under the guise of "taking it to the next level" but really its cause they can't afford to live on their own AND have nice things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 04:26 PM |
| 0 | The Hypocrisy of Career MenGreat post and although insightful there is one thing I am unsure of. I believe women just love differently. I am around girls with that were never "taught" to be wifely or sacrifice yet when they become girlfriends and wives they want to accomodate and make their boyfriend/husbands life easier. Myself, I grew up spoiled and self centered (only child lol) but when I was a teen and got my first boyfriend I wanted to baby him. I just don't know, I feel like women shoot themselves in the foot with … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 07:04 AM |
| 0 | Do you think men notice how these two things are treated differently online by men? And why we are tired of it?Yeah......and even if a woman did cheat just for dick I don't know if I would hold it against her. Like I said I consider it such an extremely private thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 12:51 AM |
| 12 | Do you think men notice how these two things are treated differently online by men? And why we are tired of it?In general I don't judge women who cheat. It's such a personal thing to me, and doesn't really change my view her. I dunno..... it's an unpopular stance. My aquantences have ostracized other friends that have cheated and it puts me on the fence because I'm expected to be horrified and also shun her when I don't feel that at all. Women would like to hold other women to higher standards of conduct I guess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 03:59 PM |
| 6 | This is exactly what liberal feminism gets us 🤢I remember myself and my friends doing this also. In elementary school, also in earl 00s. It was not until I was much much older that I started to understand that my body parts are being stared at and sexualized by older males. When I didn't think it was "sexy" at all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 11:46 AM |
| 46 | Used or new, we will run you overMy dad told me since childhood men see women as furniture. I am always surprised that other women are suprised and offended by this. Wish more dads would prepare girls for this world......... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 03:31 AM |
| 29 | HVM in media done right, David is a HVM and all the rest, in my opinion, LVMHe spared her. He was supposed to run that sword through her actually | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 04:43 PM |
| 7 | "She cheated on him, omg what a b*tch!" vs "He cheated on her, yeah well ALL/MOST men cheat"From the mouth of the same man I heard him call a man a doormat and pussy for staying while he called a woman who stayed a saint. WTF | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Single Mothers are NOT responsible for shitty male behavior & low performance. If that were the case, every society that has high rates of marriage & low rates of divorce would be a pillar of stability, prosperity & peace, which they aren’t.I think there are a different set a stats for never married mothers....I could be wrong | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 06:16 AM |
| 0 | How to let go of the yearning for marriage/ children?Meh, I also thought my parents marriage was the ideal and thought I wanted a reflection of that. Getting older I observed and learned things about them that turned it upside. I think that nobody is entitled to a happy marriage. How have your parents peers faired? You own peers? If you're simply waiting I'd suggest you look into Christian women singles groups....plenty of inspiration there for ladies "waiting for their Boaz" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 07:13 PM |
| 7 | A degree is never going to get up and leave you one day, queens.I'm convinced that a woman that is fixated on making a home and a family will just take the nearest idiot to fulfill her dream. No pity. Seen this too many times. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 06:35 AM |
| 8 | A degree is never going to get up and leave you one day, queens.Love this. I personally know a couple that met while in grad school, both have continued phd programs and various new jobs geographically separate but married and unbothered and happy as hell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 06:23 AM |
| 4 | Here's to never being that friend againWhen that friend is your mom and that fuckboy is your dad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 12:42 AM |
| 3 | I wish my parents had given me a short talk about sex and what kind of guy I should dateNo one was ever good enough for me according to my dad. The last guy he met he called ugly and stupid. He turned out to be a tool though so there's that But, yeah I've heard parents settings rules pushes their daughters more into the arms of mediocre guys. Rebellion? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 04:04 PM |
| 2 | I hate how common it is for men to do degrading/ abusive shit during sexI would try to put up with the pain. Now I just get up and leave | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 03:22 PM |
| 22 | I hate how common it is for men to do degrading/ abusive shit during sexI don't get it. I was shocked when someone slapped my tits like wtf is this, does this mean something, so many questions | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 10:51 AM |
| 21 | LMAO Man wanted to incorporate porn into his relationship, but fiancee exclusively likes Interracial Porn featuring black men with huge penises and now his fee fees are hurt. Reminder that men are full of shit and hypocritical about porn use in a relationship.I wish I could love this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 10:36 AM |
| 2 | Youtuber Pick Me Dating AdviceOh god. My daily get up is boots, skinny jeans, a nice top and a couple jewelry items. I show up to a date i.e sex appointment and the guy takes one look and asks why are you dress up we not going anywhere. I'm not dude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Someone else having problem leveling up in 2020?You may have taken on more credits than you can handle at the moment. Even the act of learning takes practice until you get better at it. Possible to drop a couple classes to focus on the rest? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 08:47 AM |
| 11 | I had a phone screen with a LVM — always ask if he has kidsI think we were talking to same guy oops........ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 06:27 AM |
| 2 | Take responsibility for your lifeIt's just kinda sad bc no matter how much support some one gives to change her life she won't budge.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 06:01 PM |
| 2 | Take responsibility for your lifeI'm close to someone who refuses to be honest with herself, as in she loves getting financial support from him. She buys herself expensive clothes, shoes and eats out a lot and only half heartly looks for jobs. The price of this is a toxic relationship but when shit hits the fan she comes crying that she's a victim. It just gets tiresome listening to the same story over the years. Fyi he's not physically abusive shrugs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 05:53 PM |
| 11 | "If you don't cook for your husband you might as well NOT get married"Yes, Im dating one that learned to cook his indian food off of YouTube | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 06:30 AM |
| 9 | "If you don't cook for your husband you might as well NOT get married"Lol! I was always told to go study or play also. And I do warn guys upfront, so far it's not a deal breaker! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 06:26 AM |
| 31 | “He can look at porn, ogle other women, go to strip clubs, say sexual things about other women in front of me..” -pickmeishaI'm just judgemental, not really sure if it's insecurity... Could be. I feel some sort of disgust about men and strip clubs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Unpopular opinion: If you're dating men in their 20s, pay more attention to their work ethic than their actual incomeYes! Young men are starting out and Im not even sure if men start exhibiting HV traits in childhood. That said there is something about a man fully engaging with life. You can see it in the way he moves about and talks. They are woke and strategizing their next move. His philosophy and responsiveness to the world around him sets him apart. Im a little suspicious about older men who have made too many wrong moves in their youth and their net worth is kinda reflects that in the now.....maybe Im be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 06:33 PM |
| 3 | As a female...Lol! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 08:20 PM |
| 2 | As a female...The first time I came across a big dick I got scared lol. I said to him I don't think I can do this, you're too big! He says "no its not, its normal size" WTF | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 08:45 AM |
| 2 | Before you get deeply invested, find out if you’re his ideal TYPE. What posters were on his wall as a teenager? Who does he admire? Stay WOKE ladies!Hahaha other person I'm dating says I look like this Indian actress! I wish I remembered her name but oh my god I look absolutely nothing like her WTH. I don't know what that means..... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 07:21 PM |
| 7 | Before you get deeply invested, find out if you’re his ideal TYPE. What posters were on his wall as a teenager? Who does he admire? Stay WOKE ladies!I think Instagram is a good indicator. See who they follow. Im small everywhere but the guy I was dating obsessively followed girls with big asses, breasts and tattoos. Video vixen hood types I guess. Far from what I am! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 11:57 AM |
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