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He can't even write a coherent, grammatically correct sentence. You need him like you need a second head. Make it easy for him and MOVE ON. Under no circumstances should you "continue talking to him". His feelings - whatever they are or aren't - are not your problem. Has he been considering YOUR feelings?
/r/askFDS03/09/21 04:09 AM
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Are the men who gravitated toward the red pill ideology even capable of redemption? Will they follow fds advice (to be competent, healthy, and treat women with respect)? Or will it be like people who jump from diet to diet? This goes deeper than just the redial and FDS and pickup artists and gender relations and all that. Fundamentally, this is about society and people becoming lazy, complacent, and entitled - in all areas of their lives. And to be honest, this is true for both women and men. Da…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 05:09 PM
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It is horrifying beyond words. Any words I try to use how utterly horrific it is, they end up sounding trite and come nowhere near describing the depth and evil and horror of the situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 06:28 PM
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Tell that to the women now being mass raped by the Taliban in Afghanistan This exactly. Taliban is going door to door to find 12 year old girls to rape. Not only are they wearing hijabs and burkas and god knows what else, they are literally hidden away inside buildings to the point where the Taliban must compile lists and hunt them down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 03:58 PM
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Thanks for clarifying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 05:46 AM
11

What the ever loving fuck. ​ She needs to talk to a lawyer because there may have been laws broken and she may be able to go after this girl and the moderator legally or at least get a restraining order. ​ And it goes without saying she needs to divorce this outhouse scum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 08:49 PM
450

Wow is this true? OF is like 99% porn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 08:13 PM
7

According to legend, he still sits there to this day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 08:55 AM
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I'm so happy I could help! HUGS!!!
/r/askFDS18/08/21 01:44 AM
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Don't let your past experiences affect how you think about yourself or color your present interactions. I know this is WAY easier said than done, LOL, believe me! You may have been unpopular for any number of inane reasons -- this dude does not - nor any other dude you will talk to from now on, either in a romantic context or a strictly platonic one - knows how popular or unpopular you have been in high school. Do not continue to judge yourself now by how your high school experience was. You're …
/r/askFDS18/08/21 01:38 AM
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Don't feel bad. He is literally throwing shit against the wall and seeing what sticks. This is only and all about getting a reaction out of you. If he thought calling you the "purple-plumed jabberwocky of the group" would get a reaction out of you, he would. That's not how a mature man engages in conversation with a woman he is interested in. Just ignore him.
/r/askFDS18/08/21 01:25 AM
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It is very frustrating. It is not bigoted to point out facts. It is bigoted, in my opinion, to act like one culture/ethnicity/race is less capable of changing, improving, addressing faults than other cultures are. Unfortunately, the world is still very misogynistic, regardless of culture. Men's feelings are still more important than women's safety, across all cultures. What is happening to Afghan women and children is HEARTBREAKING, but you get called a bigot if you point out that 90-100% of peo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 12:01 AM
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Thank you for the article. My intention is not to malign or be bigoted toward certain cultures. All cultures have good and bad aspects. Western cultures are very misogynistic as well; they just express it differently than various other cultures around the world. There are certain realities that I believe would be detrimental for us to to turn a blind eye to, particularly if they affect women's safety and well-being. If we want to create a better world for women, it is imperative that we CORRECTL…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 11:01 PM
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"many men are trying to escape the horror coming their way" ​ The horror is much more for women and girls. The Taliban is going door to door forcibly taking girls as young as 12 to rape and marry them. They published decree, requiring imams and religious leaders to compile lists of girls and women aged 15-45 to give to Taliban leaders so that the Taliban can take those girls and women, rape them, and force them into marriage. Girls and women are raped, forced into marriage, tortured, and killed.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 07:35 PM
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Right! Is SHE getting psychological counseling??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 07:25 PM
65

The fact he threw acid implies he's from a handful of certain cultures. This has nothing to do with mental illness, and everything with culturally and societally-induced misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 07:24 PM
17

Take heart, ladies. Elon and Jeff are battling it out for who gets to be the first one on Mars. Just a little more patience, and soon all of Elon's fanboys will be there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 08:05 AM
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Yep. The only thing stopping this sociopath from living out his fantasies is our laws. He still sees her a property, he just knows legally he can't *literally* own her and treat her like an object. But if he could, he would. He's really not much different internally from the Taliban.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 08:02 AM
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Exactly what I was thinking! Twitter is full of all these "pls be understanding these people are terrified and just want a better life" .... and what about the women and children?? Why is it mostly fighting age men or in some photos/videos 100% fighting-age men?!?! They had 20 years to train and learn from US & UN troops how to fight for their country against the Taliban. A day after US leaves, they surrender, leave their wives to be raped and killed and forced into marriage and their children t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 01:41 AM
9

Well now that the Taliban is back in power, sounds like this dude should move to Afghanistan.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 01:36 AM
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I thought he was gay?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 10:33 PM
2

That must be it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 06:40 PM
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I understand and I'm so sorry you had that experience. When I read your initial post, it sounded to me like you were referring to OP, not to OP's rapist. You referred to people using the term "fear play" and since OP was using that term (and not ironically, either), it sounded to me like you were referring to OP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 06:38 PM
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Love the advice JuSt CoMmUnIcAtE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 06:35 PM
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She's basically a single mother who was impregnated by her roommate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 07:02 AM
47

A friend of mine hired a match making service in a different city and said it was a collosal waste of time and money. The match maker gave her some matches she wasn't interested in, and then kept cajoling her to meet this one match that my friend KNEW she wouldn't be attracted to "JuSt GiVe HiM a ChAnCe". My friend went on the date and surprise surprise... she still wasn't attracted to or interested in him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 07:01 AM
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I'm just genuinely curious. If GF makes 10% of what he makes, how did he legitimately expect her to pay for half his expensive shit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 02:53 AM
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this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 01:29 AM
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If a grown man cannot handle the "anxiety" and "awkwardness" of sitting at a meal for 90-240 minutes and having a conversation with another person he is presumably interested in and wants to get to know better, then I'm not sure he's someone you should be looking at in terms of long term, serious, romantic relationship material.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 01:27 AM
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Ah ok. I slightly misread your intent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 12:23 AM
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The closest to a misandrist shooting up a place because she hates men is Aileen Wuornos, except she didn't go on a shooting rampage, but rather was a serial killer who targeted men because they raped her and beat her. So definitely not a femcel/incel, but the opposite. ​ The difference is that misogynist incels who go on killing rampages do so because they feel entitled to women's bodies and are not getting them. A misandrist who goes on a killing rampage does so because she has been abused (rap…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 12:18 AM
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So making casual chit-chat on the bus will be a date. It's like they consider literally any - even the tiniest - interaction between themselves and a woman a date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 11:22 PM
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What is WRONG with people these days? What's wrong with her is that she was violently sexually abused as a 12-13 year old and hasn't dealt or addressed it in nearly 10 years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 11:20 PM
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100% agree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 11:19 PM
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To be fair, OP is way beyond pick-me. She was severely abused and traumatized as a child. This isn't pick-me talking; this trauma-induced mental illness, PTSD, violent child sexual abuse victim etc talking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 11:19 PM
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Of course she only sees the good in everybody - she has a FUCKING BLINDFOLD ON. One that's clearly rose-colored with printed rainbows and unicorns on the inside.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 07:38 PM
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....Standing outside on a crowded street in the mid-day sun is now a date?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 07:32 PM
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Men have been committing violent acts because they feel entitled to women's bodies and butthurt when they can't get them since the beginning of time. And we're called the irrational ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 12:28 AM
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Well, that escalated quickly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 07:36 AM
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A relationship coach who doesn't seem to be in very stable place psychologically no less... His relationship to money is not normal or healthy and that indicates deeper psychological issues he has, that also overflow into relationships. I would not want to take relationship advice from him.
/r/askFDS11/08/21 10:31 PM
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Yes. He's literally agreeing with FDS. Thanks, scrote, for admitting we've been 100% bang-on this entire time!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 07:35 AM
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I think you need to think about what you really want to do, and then create a logical, practical plan. ​ You said you want an animal sanctuary. what would you need to achieve that? What set of skills would be most helpful? Would psychiatry be more helpful in running an animal sanctuary, or veterinary science? Just because you study something doesn't mean you HAVE to go into the jobs that most people who studied that go into. Don't look at university as a way to train yourself for a specific job …
/r/askFDS10/08/21 12:19 AM
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Or hell, even an "old soul" who is the same biological age as him, since he claims he focus is "souls" and he seems to like "older" souls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 12:14 AM
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especially Belgian citizens who initially ignored your scrotey son and only started talking to him after he pestered and stalked them online. His parents make me rage so hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 08:38 PM
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Yet his parents think she's OnLy TrYiNg To GeT a GreeNcarD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 08:36 PM
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Asked whether they have experienced much judgement about their relationship, Jeremy said that his parents were a bit concerned that Charline wanted a green card" ​ You have to be fucking kidding me. Yeah, a 19 year old in BRUSSELS, the de facto capital of the European Union, is the evil manipulator here, trying to get a green card from an innocent, "childlike" 48 year old teacher in Vermont, whom she initially ignored and only started talking to after he stalked her on across several social medi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 08:32 PM
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I don't know what's worse: they fact he needs a chore sticker chart, or the cringe rewards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 09:12 PM
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Instead of crying about it to women, why doesn't he start having those conversations with other MEN?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 06:04 PM
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I'm just confused. Men seem to think that we, women, can do something for them that they themselves can't do. From the smallest things like wiping their ass, picking up their dirty socks, to walking them through how to get a job, balance a budget, cook, clean, take care of the kids, pay bills, get an education, get a well-paying job, bring home income, etc. -- and do that not only for us but for them too! They seem to think we are superheroes! Then why is it that as soon as we hit the profession…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 06:04 PM
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Yeah, you're probably right. Although what he said wouldn't make sense because if he's like "It's ok, I'm not looking for a sugar baby" that sounds like he thinks she might think he is and not want to. But of course as we know, irrationality and nonsense never stopped a man from coming up with insane delusions and fantasies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 04:41 AM
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It's delusion. They are delusional. They live in an alternate reality. What's funnier about his sugar baby comment is actually the fact he said he WASN'T looking for a sugar baby. So he legitimately thought he had what it takes to interest a woman 10-20 years younger just on his looks, beer belly, and scrotacity alone!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 01:45 AM
50

Where's her husband in all this? Why couldn't he drive her?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 06:01 PM
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Yeah, they don't sound mature and if they're mostly still in their (early) 20's and college students then it's not extremely surprising they're capable of acting this way. Is there a possibility of transferring to a different job at your university? I'm really sorry you're experiencing this. Just remember this isn't forever, it's not even a job in your career journey. It's just a job to make money and pay for school. Some of those people will probably be gone at the end of the school year. I kno…
/r/askFDS30/07/21 07:49 PM
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And this is at your university gym? How old are all these people? ​ Is there something about you that stands out? Are you very attractive, dress differently from most people, have a different personality (maybe you're more reserved, or maybe you tend to think differently than others and just tend to say things most people don't really relate to), are you into any subculture (anime, DD, whatever) that is noticeable, are you nerdy, are you an immigrant with a noticeably different culture, etc, etc…
/r/askFDS30/07/21 06:03 PM
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My guess is that your female boss is jealous/feels threatened and is triangulating other employees against you. This guy seems like a spineless manipulator who just tries to figure how to weasel himself into the best position and so is taking advantage of your boss's insecurities and dislike of you to make sure he stays in a better position than you and controls you. If he knows your boss doesn't like you, that's a surefire way to keep her on his side.
/r/askFDS30/07/21 12:20 AM
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Well, no good deed goes unpunished, as we have seen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 11:38 PM
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So... preschoolers? And men still think they're better suited to run politics, business, finance, military, etc?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 06:32 PM
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Thanks for sharing insight and giving us a behind-the-scene peek at men who saying dating an FDS woman is a "nightmare" yet still are BEGGING you to take them back. ​ But, why did you message him and ask to still be friends?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 06:23 PM
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He's looking for mother love, attention, and care that he either never got from his mother, or he got too much of (and thus was never able to grow into a stronger, more centered, and self-confident sense of self).
/r/askFDS26/07/21 09:33 PM
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or old men, for that matter
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 06:43 PM
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STD clinics
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 10:25 PM
132

The sheer entitlement and self-delusion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 10:24 PM
131

If the guy is truly as wealthy as he comes off on insta, I'm sure he'd know this, and paying her legal fees isn't that big of a deal to him. I bet you anything that what he's REALLY after is getting her attention and having her see his wealth and fancy cars.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 10:29 AM
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The workout comments can also be their glaring insecurity if they are overweight. I once went on a couple of dates with a delusional, old, overweight LVM who literally would not stop talking about how much he LoOoOvEs working out and going to gym. I'm very slim so I know it wasn't him negging me. I think it was more about him trying to prove to me (more like trying to convince himself) that he's into fitness. Maybe it was a new lifestyle change and he was trying to hype himself up. I dunno. Dude…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 10:27 AM
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Let’s punish women for covering up Some countries punish women for not covering up enough, others punish women for covering too much. What is this obsession with women's bodies and how covered or not covered they are?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 10:18 PM
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What the actual fuck? How do shorts inhibit athletic ability where bikini bottoms don't?? IN fact, they're usually more comfortable when you're very active and you don't have to worry about accidentally showing an ass cheek, so they should be preferred.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 10:17 PM
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I agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 07:38 PM
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The author is advocating for a women's trade union that can record and handle sexual harassment cases. A women's trade union would be AMAZING!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 07:36 PM
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If they're dating you, you're clearly attractive enough for them to be with you. No one is forcing men to date women they aren't attracted to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 09:32 PM
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Also, he himself freely admits that HE is offering nothing of value. He's openly proud of this ridiculous double standard. What he doesn't seem to grasp is... why? If you're not offering anything of value and ARE PROUD OF THAT, what godly reason would a woman have to be with you??? She's literally better off alone. So..... men don't have to offer value, but women have to offer value in order for no-value men to become albatrosses around their necks?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 01:46 AM
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You'd think they'd pick up on the hint.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 01:29 AM
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The worst part of the this entire debacle is the latent attitude that we women need to "earn their respect." As if we are from the get-go placed in a lesser-than status than they are and need to "prove" ourselves to them that we are worthy of them treating us like full human beings. ​ They can FUCK RIGHT OFF.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 05:11 PM
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Yes, and I responded to the other user.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 07:49 PM
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You need real cameras for that, not dummy ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 06:30 PM
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yeah that's why I took it back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 12:10 PM
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As women we tend to try to drop hints or *subtly and indirectly* say no. We're afraid of being too direct, either because we're afraid it's not polite, or we're afraid of being accused of misconstruing the situation, or we're afraid of their reaction. But I think it's very important for us, as women, to directly and in no uncertain terms tell someone no (if we feel safe to do it). Tell this man: "I do not give me number out to people I just met." "I am not interested in going to your daughter's …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 08:24 AM
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I'm not sure that would deter him. In his mind he's probably not doing anything wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 08:17 AM
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Actually I take that back. Even animals are not this irrational and evil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 06:41 PM
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Animals
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 06:41 PM
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Context: I just found that you can see and read blocked messages and found this entire circus of messages from clowns. What app/phone/provider is this on?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 09:47 PM
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They think we are slaving away in the fields, dreaming of the sun setting so we can hobble home to our week-old crust of bread.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 09:45 PM
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​ The advice columnist is way too lenient in their response. I would've been like, "WTF is wrong with you that you're sexually harassing a friend who has repeatedly told you she's not interested?" was waiting for someone to say this! I personally don't care for the answer because it makes it sound like the "lady friend" is too dense to "appreciate" out scrote and that he basically shouldn't cast his pearls before swine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 09:30 PM
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Actually, I really don't think they know that at all. I think they are deeply delusional and truly, honestly, deeply think everything is about them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 04:00 AM
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Why would he do this? ​ He sounds like a narcissist. They will try to get inside your head, see what your vulnerabilities and trauma are so they can control, manipulate, and gaslight you better. Google narcissists. ​ Here are some good YouTube channels about narcissists. ​ Dr. Ramani - my favorite: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9Qixc77KhCo88E5muxUjmA ​ More Channels on Narcs https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCfGUmsIsci2t1NxGqgWGFRQ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC-hiM5uYfUeDkZhTBML7J7A http…
/r/askFDS09/07/21 08:56 PM
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ahh got it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 08:34 PM
6

Wait... what?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 08:13 PM
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Women didn't have rights for the longest time because we were supposedly "irrational" and "hysterical" and "unable to control ourselves"...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 08:39 AM
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Think about yourself. You will find someone else. DO NOT move to a whole new country for a guy you've only known for a month.
/r/askFDS06/07/21 09:08 PM
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Welcome!!! BIG HUGS. We are here for you <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 06:51 AM
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Thanks, I figured it wasn't all, but didn't know enough to make a definitive statement either way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 10:27 PM
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Mature men are attracted to YOU, the PERSON. Yes, of course physical looks play a part in attraction, but someone who is emotionally mature and healthy will want to be with someone whose personality he likes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 09:18 PM
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There is also a chance that OP is Muslim, since some denominations (or all?) allow up to 4 wives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 09:15 PM
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Because they want to get their dicks wet. They just want the physical release. That's literally all that is. It's like eating ice cream. You don't care who the person behind the counter is giving you the cone - you just care about the cone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 04:01 AM
5

Oh, yeah I see it now lol. Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 06:19 PM
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who is the author?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 05:32 AM
8

If you're trying so hard to make it "easy" for him, why shouldn't he also try to make it easy for YOU? Also, why do you think you're so hard to love and be around that you have to bend over backwards to make it "easier" for someone to stand spending time with you?!?!? You deserve a man who wants to be with YOU and thinks spending time with you as you naturally are is ALREADY easy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 05:30 AM
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The guy who replied to her was blunt, but he told her the truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 05:26 AM
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I'm definitely getting Cool GirlTM and Not Like Other GirlsTM vibes from her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 05:12 AM
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but they want you to SMILE!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 06:32 PM
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The point about inherent inequity of women vs men in society is one thing. But the more important point (in my opinion) is that you want to be with a man who LIKES YOU, WANTS TO BE WITH YOU, and MAKES AN EFFORT. Even if men and women were truly 100% equal in society, a man who is truly interested in a woman and wants to make a good impression will always pay for her. Even if he doesn't make a lot of money, he will want to provide what he can for her. This isn't about him buying you $200 dinners …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 06:20 PM
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Even his family knew that she was hungry. If they knew that she was starving herself like this, they would have felt shameful for raising such a selfish boy. They knew she was hungry but didn't lift a finger to buy her dinner, or offer to pay for her scuba diving though. He's selfish for a reason - he didn't raise himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 11:54 PM
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They're declaring war on people who just want to ignore them. So... they want to force us to acknowledge them? Talk to them? "Date" them? Fuck them? They're literally admitting they want to go back to the dark ages where women did not have rights and were legally forced into arranged marriages and state-sanctioned rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 05:48 PM
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I don't think you need to do anything unless and until he makes a move or expresses interest. Right now, he's behaving in a way becoming of a well-bred gentleman. A high value women will recognize that for what it is, and welcome gentlemanly behavior. As soon as he expresses romantic interest or hits on you, you can either just be honest with him and tell him you value him just as a friend and are not looking for a relationship, or you can laugh off his come-ons.
/r/askFDS22/06/21 06:26 PM
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Of course, I understand. :(
/r/askFDS21/06/21 10:28 PM
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I mean, you would be hard-pressed to find someone with literally ZERO green flags. Even the world's worst serial killers, genocidal dictators, and terrorists showed *some* green flags. Many sociopaths and narcissists are notorious for eagerly lavishing their new love interests with gifts, dinners, and affection in the beginning. Red flags are issues that are non-negotiable. Like deep-seated personal issues that will affect your mental/physical/psychological/emotional/financial well-being. Or thi…
/r/askFDS21/06/21 07:10 PM
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His therapy and anger management issues are a red flag, and they also give more context to his inability to eloquently express his feelings for you. And if his "thinking" consists of just repeating in his head what you said, that's not "thinking." It doesn't really sound like he's ready to date. He needs to work on himself some more and develop his self-awareness. There are some therapists that offer services on a sliding scale, or he can try to do self-guided therapy (google prompts, shadow wor…
/r/askFDS21/06/21 06:13 AM
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You might as well write in bright red lipstick across your forehead that you're a prostitute if you're going to go to an expensive bar alone to meet men. You will get approached by men looking for a prostitute, even if they don't put it that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 08:29 PM
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Don't go to bars to meet men. For daytime: volunteering, charity, your hobbies, bookstores, art galleries, sports, etc. ​ For evening: theatre, ballet, opera, galas, comedy shows, etc. ​ Also it's better to go with a friend if it's something like a show or a gala.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 08:27 PM
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thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 04:35 PM
251

Watch Dirty John: The Betty Broderick Story for why to NEVER "build with a man"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 07:47 PM
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They see women as objects. Not as human beings they love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 07:46 PM
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I've very recently started looking into "Shadow Work." It's basically a sort of self-therapy - you get in touch with the "shadow" part of your psyche and try to integrate it with your conscious psyche. The idea is that your shadow self was the part of you that was abused, invalidated, etc. Usually this goes back to childhood. So it's about being 1000% honest with yourself about that part of you, healing that part of you, validating it (no matter how "bad" or "wrong" you make think it is). I thin…
/r/askFDS16/06/21 03:20 AM
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The video wasn’t on the flash drive, it was just her way of letting him know that she knows about the video. ​ Ah, ok. I kept waiting to hear the punchline that somehow included the video. Like, I thought she deleted his masters thesis and the only place it still existed was the flash drive where he had saved the video, so if he wanted to submit his thesis he'd have to submit the video along with it, or something and expose to the professor/school what a scumbag he was...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 12:12 AM
71

Ok I'm a bit lost. ​ he filmed them having sex and showed his friends. And then she waited until the last minute to delete his masters thesis? Did he save the video on her laptop: Why was his masters thesis on her laptop? Or was the video saved onto the same flash drive as his masters thesis? I'm having trouble understanding how the two are related.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 06:01 PM
11

She's being gaslighted by two narcs, poor woman. Probably grew up with narc parents which is why she's asking for validation for her feelings. SO many of us were abused in our childhoods, victims of narc parents, etc. And we've been trying to find love and safety in the arms of a man, only to find another narc. I think many if not most pickmes are like this - they just want a safe harbor and think that any man is better than no man. But the truth is if you're not careful, you will end up running…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:20 AM
4

drop him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 06:42 PM
21

This is beautiful, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 02:08 PM
4

??? And? If men peak at 30, was the point to show you how ancient he is?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 07:32 PM
3

That you, especially for #9. I really need this today!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 06:08 PM
26

And this is the reality of the average prostitute who actually has a choice in the matter. This! She's one of the "privileged ones", the ones who go around claiming that it's "empowering" for women to sell their bodies and fling their literal feces at naked masturbating men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 07:08 PM
24

They're not rational.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 06:58 PM
20

She looks scared, and of course he's not getting the hint and instead cornering her even more. See, animals are just like us!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 06:49 PM
9

Because there is SUCH an epidemic of young women thinking they are entitled to: being treated well, open communication, commitment, love, nice dates, gifts, being treated like a lady, be protected, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 06:32 PM
17

That initial tweet is so evil. ​ "Grown men, date underage children, but for the love of God treat that underage girl like shit so she grows up thinking she's not entitled to anything other than hollow words and gaslighting!!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 06:30 PM
28

Men not picking up on body language during sex is because they're just there for the sex and not for the woman. this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 03:39 AM
2

Always meet in a public place - preferably a restaurant. NO park/walking/hiking dates! Do not go over to his place. Either drive there, or if he wants to pick up you or get you an uber, meet him somewhere that is not your residence (a coffee shop, busy strip mall, etc). YES tell your friends/family/roommates where you're going and give them the address of the restaurant. Turn on location sharing with them on your phone. Tell them if you they don't hear from you by a certain time to call the poli…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 04:36 PM
78

Not absolving the Ghislaine Maxwells of the world at all, but there would be no Ghislaine Maxwells if it wasn't for MALE BUYERS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 05:12 AM
26

Also, if we're complaining about "typically gendered lines," I wonder how does "the man brought in less than half of what his wife brought in terms of money" fit into that??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 05:10 AM
30

What a gold digger - expecting her husband and father of her children to subsidize 30% of her life and her children's lives!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 05:08 AM
3

The point of body positivity for women is for us to be recognised as having value outside of being attractive. The thing is body positivity doesn't say "It doesn't matter what a woman looks like, because her value comes from inside." Body Positivity Movement says "Fat is sexy! Fat is beautiful! Men should think obese women are sexy!!!" Which.... does not solve the problem AT ALL and instead perpetuates the idea that for a woman to be considered valuable, she must be considered beautiful/sexy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 09:14 PM
2

🤣🤣 "You seem to have a good memory! (That crazy reference you made sounds like it's from SUUUUUUUUPER long ago). Maybe you have some tips on that I can pass on to my gramps?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 02:54 PM
121

As women, we are the bait. This is why many dating websites/apps have a payment model where women join for free, but men pay. This is also why many clubs and bars have a cover charge for men, but free for ladies, or low drink prices for ladies on certain days of the week. There's no free lunch, and if something is free then YOU'RE the product.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 12:12 AM
75

"Oh, it must referencing something before my time."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 06:52 PM
33

​ Entitlement or possible negging? Why not both? Also, narcissistic and delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 06:45 PM
18

Recognizing yourself as a full human being with bodily autonomy is *CLEARLY* the height of toxicity. Those poor men have no recourse against such abusive hateful behavior but to rape you! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 06:43 PM
17

this has to be it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 01:55 AM
29

It's because they hate women. They hate womanliness. They hate femininity. The hate the divine feminine. They hate anything that is unapologetically feminine, unashamed of being feminine, and draws strength from its femininity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 01:41 AM
8

"Would you rather him cheat on you with a blonde, or with a brunette??"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:38 PM
3

FeMaLe EmPoWeRmEnT 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:37 PM
5

Dude I can't even. I'm raging so hard. This guy is a complete textbook narcissist. Even when it's not about him, it's about him. Even when he harms another person, it's because he - an adult - didn't have access to resources from society to tell him how to not be a COMPLETE SELFISH FUCKING BELLEND. THIS IS WHY WE NEED FDS - TO NOT END UP LITERALLY FIGHTING FOR OUR LIVES FOR GIVING BIRTH IN 21ST CENTURY AMERICA.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:06 PM
1

Bobby Lee or Ethan?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 05:50 PM
13

“ Bill Gates regrets ever meeting with Epstein and recognizes it was an error in judgment to do so,” So let me get this straight. Melinda Gates, who is a person other than Bill Gates, knew of Epstein's crimes all the way back in 2013 when Bill Gates started hanging out with him, and SHE had a problem with Epstein, but Bill Gates, the person who actually spent personal time with Epstein, just had an "error in judgement"??? If his wife knew, then Bill definitely knew. If Bill knew that Epstein was…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 05:48 PM
2

"bonus points if naturally hairless" 🤡 ​ If he trying to get married to an adult woman, or a pre-pubescent girl?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 05:39 PM
18

True. I guess I was mixing up two concepts - being a sex worker, and addressing the SW's insults that FDS women are ugly. What I meant was that since SW fling the insult that we're ugly and that they get paid to have sex around, then that means that in their mind beauty=men want to pay them for sex, and beauty=empowerment. But then they claim sex work is empowering. So, according to their logic, sex work is empowering for women, but you have to be good looking in order to be a prostitute. But si…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 05:14 PM
29

It's really sad, because they are reducing themselves, and all women, to a fleshlight. Men are paying them to fuck them and then NOT deal with them afterwards. It's harsh and so sad but true. I don't know how many times I've heard and read men say that you don't pay a prostitute for sex; you pay her to leave after. Women who are in healthy relationships with HVM and DON'T charge for sex are loved and cherished for being themselves - their boyfriends and husbands love them for them, as humans wit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 05:09 PM
20

It also strongly suggests that there is a barrier to entry to sex work Yep. And this barrier to entry is: good looks. Which is not something people can control without a LOT of effort (either you're born with good looks, or you get surgery). So.... again...... tell me how something you're born with is EmPoWeRiNg???? The sex workers themselves even use lack of good looks as an insult to us - so if you're an ugly you're shit out of luck, I guess? Female empowerment missed you because you were born…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 05:01 PM
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I have yet to meet ANY FDSer who has issues picking up men. They approach US. As I understand it, the WHOLE POINT of FDS is to SIFT THROUGH THE TROVES OF MEN THROWING THEMSELVES AND THEIR DICKS AT US TO FIND ONE WHO IS SUITABLE, or if no such suitable man is found, to learn how to ignore them and make sure they cease bothering us and negatively affecting our lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:48 PM
46

To be fair, Russia is very macho which has obvious negatives, but also positives like this. Men are taught they should protect women, pay for them, (also be the boss at home), etc. but this video definitely very emblematic of the dominant male-protector-hero culture in Russia. Also, I'm not sure who is saying that Russia is a individualistic culture. It's actually a very high-context culture, which means it's a very collectivist culture that values interpersonal relationships. Individualistic cu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:45 PM
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It takes ONE MAN. Men follow men. First man spits and pushes, next man spits and pushes. First man saves life, next man saves life. 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:27 PM
96

It's funny that they say "you must suck a lot of dicks" as an insult... almost as if they know that it's degrading 🤔 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:21 PM
97

Also, what's this attitude that having a job is demeaning? That working and using one's skills, talents, knowledge, experience, gifts, creativity to contribute to the world, and to expand one's knowledge of the subject, is demeaning?? Fulfilling work is one of the most important things in a person's life. It just shows their attitude: "I shouldn't have to work; working is demeaning. I should sit on my ass and eat bon-bons and watching reality TV, but still have money every month to live on."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:20 PM
58

And ketchup bottles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:16 PM
215

What boils my blood is all the "frumpy" and "you're probably ugly" comments like, what are we, 10? You can't claim to be a feminist then deliberately try to overpower others through doing exactly what big daddy patriarch wants; oppressing and policing other women based on looks. It even worse than that. They are equating women's looks with her fuckability. They are saying FDS is 1) "sucking dick for free" (i.e. can't even get a guy to pay us to suck their dicks", AND 2) that we are "frumpy" and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:15 PM
8

He's 28, what is a "younger woman" to him? Plus, he's been doing this since he was 20. So has he been messaging like 15 year olds??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:06 PM
23

And yet she came here to give us "dating advice" since she was "almost married" but then decided we were a dumpster fire. 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡 Poor girl. I hope she wakes up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:58 PM
11

This guy is an animal. Hey now, don't insult animals like that. Unless you mean a roach or a vulture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 04:38 AM
8

It truly is sad how much effort women put into humanizing and inventing heroic narratives for men that hit me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:13 AM
55

I looked at her profile and apparently they were planning on eloping in Vegas 🤡. Eloping. After 8 years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:10 AM
40

look, if you’re gonna do the old he provides / she takes care of the home, it means he PROVIDES 100%. The thing is SHE PROVIDED FOR HIM while he got his PhD and built his business! She did all the housework plus put her own academic/career advancement on hold to get a job to pay the bills so he could pursue a PhD and build his business. Now he wants to screw her out of her investment (time, energy, home care, and money), while still forcing her to take care of the house and kids and pay 50% of b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:06 AM
42

In my experience, men (of any race) > women (of any race) (according to how society treats us)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 11:01 PM
5

I understand there's a bro-code among cops, but what this guy was doing is illegal! This is terrifying! There have to be ways to protect against this kind of stalking and harassment from figures of power!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 10:58 PM
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I don't know if it's legitimate cognitive dissonance, or they are just knowingly straight up spreading disinformation when they screech that "what FDS post-wall hags don't understand about HVM is that a RICH CHAD can fuck whomever he pleases!!!! Why would he settle for one woman who has standards when he can pay 20 year olds for sex?!?!??! FDS are delusional if they think a HVM will want them and they will be waiting forever lololololol"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 12:37 AM
4

​ She has to pay for her vacation "because she's an adult" but he lives with her rent-free and didn't contribute even to maintenance costs (and also lived with his parents rent-free until he was 26). Okaaaaaaaaay. Please tell me this is a troll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 02:27 PM
3

I don't purport to know what is rolling around inside of someone's head and what precisely they mean when they use a particular word. However, in my experience, most of the time someone (male or female) referred to "gossip" they meant "idle talk" with a tendency to be malicious. Since that is the official definition of "gossip," that's the definition I'm using as well. ​ I would discourage us from allowing men to misuse words and attribute false meanings to things. Just as we shouldn't start cal…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:08 AM
5

Gossip to me is superficial and generally has a pickme flavor, this. and the official definition of gossip says it's "idle talk"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 09:15 PM
12

According to dictionary.com: gossip [ gos-uhp ]SHOW IPASee synonyms for: gossip / gossiping on Thesaurus.com noun idle talk or rumor, especially about the personal or private affairs of others: the endless gossip about Hollywood stars. light, familiar talk or writing.Also gos·sip·er, gos·sip·per. a person given to tattling or idle talk. ​ ​ Nothing here suggests anything meaningful, like telling your friends about your relationship troubles, your pains, heartaches, etc. It's all IDLE talk about …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 06:46 PM
5

Sharing experiences about an LVM with close friends can be therapeutic and healing, I wouldn't call this gossip. Talking about things that affect you emotional (or otherwise) isn't really gossip. It's opening up about your emotions, personal life, burdens, etc to your friends. If you are telling your friends about a LVM on the prowl (who hasn't personally hurt you terribly) you are warning them, which again isn't gossip. Gossip would be if you were talking about some random guy whom none of you …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 06:40 PM
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Exactly. And "Can you believe that dress she wore???? It was SO short - does she think she's 20 again?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 06:37 PM
3

Agreed. Sure, sharing harmless/innocuous information about others is fine. I wouldn't really call that gossiping. But invariably much of gossiping is intrusive and mean spirited. I don't think it's FDS to talk about other women behind their backs, unless it's to say how impressive/successful/inspiring/etc they are, or it's a genuine discussion about a troubling topic with an goal to find a solution (for example: a friend has an eating disorder and two other friends want to figure out how to help…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 06:35 PM
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When a man can't hold down a steady job and bring home a paycheck THAT'S embarrassing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 02:57 PM
10

One time, when I rejected the (very pushy) advances of a man three (THREE) times my age, he got very serious and asked me if I was a lesbian.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 02:09 PM
2

You're right! Somehow I read "drinks" and thought a bar. So prostituting yourself for around $4-5 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 11:58 PM
10

TIL: If you're not willing to prostitute yourself to a complete stranger for around $5, you are disinterested, disrespectful, masculine, and bossy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 11:05 PM
2

Well, at least she got picked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 06:04 PM
10

Right? Shouldn't they be THANKING US for taking ourselves out of their dating pool??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 02:19 PM
13

I think it's too early to know only a month in. Just go with it, always stick to your boundaries, and see what happens. If he's lovebombing you, eventually the mask will slip off. I think this is one of those situations where you just need to give it time and see. I think at around the 4-6 month mark you should start looking at it closely to see if he starts slipping. Before that I think it's hard to tell, especially with the crypto LVMs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 02:16 PM
105

only sexposi plz
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:25 AM
358

My kink is dinners a fancy restaurants and fat wallets spent on me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 02:16 AM
2

Thank you. :) I only said it because I didn't want it to come off as "Well, I think it looks good, so therefore it's ok." It doesn't matter what other people think. What matters is what YOU think. Even if I, or anyone else, hated natural hair, you should still wear your hair natural because that's what you want. I think that men's demands for how women look, dress, act, the very fact that we are getting educations and careers etc has to do with them wanting to control us and being angry that the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 02:08 AM
4

Personally, not that it matters, but I think natural hair on black women looks really good and often better than processed hair. But I tend to think that most natural things tend to look better on anyone. Regardless, men need to stop expecting women to live up to their personal standards regarding looks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 03:24 PM
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Looking through the comments of the video, and the scrotes are literally, straight up admitting they don't care.. "Because the goal of smashing is to nut, not make the other person nut. We don’t care if y’all do lol" "It’s an alpha move🤷‍♂️blue balling women is fun, it keeps them coming back for more lol. It’s effortless" but, but, but, buiuuuuuuuut females have it So EaSy!!!!1 They have MuLtIpLe OrGaSms!!!!!1111 WAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHH 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 03:16 PM
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Honestly I think he said that to get away from the "you're anti-sex, you're a prude" crowd. I suspect he might not have a problem with pornography depicting a loving couple, but the problem is when we say "pornography" we almost always DO NOT mean that kind of porn, because 99.9999% of porn is violent, degrading, dehumanizing, and glamorizing pedophilia.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 03:11 PM
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And an industry where a woman's entire success and worth is literally just her looks. As soon as you throw in some skill, like in film and tv acting, men are paid more again. And don't even get me started on the porn industry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 09:23 PM
6

College and job applications should be submitted without names. Just a contact for the person. There's plenty of room for discrimination during the job/college interview, but at least the initial screening step would be focused on merit only, with no room for racial/gender/ethnic etc biases to seep through.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 09:20 PM
4

Yeah I get it. I've seen some nah sis tags on memes or humor/sarcastic posts, so I thought people would understand my meaning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 04:51 PM
3

I suspect it's a LVM larping as a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 03:26 PM
12

Thanks, I added an edited to my comment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 02:38 PM
13

we take care of the kids and such as if we’re the problem. And that is unpaid labor! Funny how men think house work and raising kids is nothing and shouldn't be paid. ESPECIALLY when you take into account domestic labor, women work more than men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 02:20 PM
1

This is the type of guy who will turn around in 2 years and complain about all the "over the hill 29 year olds" who spent their 20's on the "cock carousel" and don't appreciate a "Nice Guy™" like him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 02:05 PM
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Just to clarify: This tweet is clearly a joke made to underline the stupidity of the "WoMeN gO fOr LoWeR-pAyInG jObS" wage gap argument.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 01:59 PM
30

it is. ​ EDIT: It is my opinion that this tweet is intentional satire, and that is why I posted it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 01:58 PM
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Na, sis re falling for the "wage gap" lie ​ EDIT: It is my opinion that this tweet is a sarcastic joke, targeting people who say that the wage gap exists because women go for lower-paying jobs. This tweet, in my opinion, does not agree with that theory, and is sarcastically saying that women go for lower-paying jobs such as "female CEO" as opposed to "CEO" and "female engineer" as opposed to "engineer" and "female doctor" as opposed to "doctor." In doing so, this tweet seeks to underline the abs…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 01:57 PM
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22 year old woman: minds her own business 63 year old man: I was attacked! I was manipulated! She knew what she was doing! Why, one day she came in with a gap between her socks and the hem of her pants - I could see her ankle - and she also looked at me when she asked me for the audit reports. I was seduced, I was completely helpless against her dark magic! I am the ViCtIm hEre!!!!!!111 I am too inexperienced to protect myself against these barely-out-of-college jezebels and temptresses who are …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 11:13 PM
88

Ladies, raise your hand if you've ever been called a temptress, bad girl, vixen, femme fatale, "you know what you're doing", etc. just because some dude wanted to stick his dick in you and somehow thought this meant you were the manipulative villain seducing him, and he was the poor innocent victim caught up in sexual game of cat and mouse. Bonus points if the dude in question could have been your father or older. 🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 06:10 PM
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“Reviews of the shoes suggested such a girl would be “publicly displaying her vanity ... that her own good looks would encourage pursuit” and that the wise boy would give the spur-shod girl a wide berth “because of the unmistakeable evidence of spurs on the heart and probably the tongue.” ​ So you mean these shoes are effective at getting men to leave me alone? Sounds good to me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 04:11 PM
7

I wonder if it's truly ignorance or if they are maliciously repeating lies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:30 PM
10

they have literally flipped the definitions of HVM and LVM. I noticed on another redpoll-like sub, they keep insisting that HVM are what we would call narcissistic players. And they keep insisting that that is what we want and what we're after, and that we desperately want someone to fuck us. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:29 PM
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I watched it, and yes that is a very valid point. I understand that the blood clots are different, and the blood clots in the JJ vaccines are much more dangerous. My point is that even though the danger from the blood clots themselves is different, I am focusing on the risk getting a blood clot at all. If you die from both kinds of blood clots, it doesn't really matter what kind of blood clot it was. She admits that some of the blood clots from birth control and pregnancy can be life-threatening…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 02:15 AM
16

"I might have a sore shoulder, so the girl I want to pump and dump should take on the risk of getting a blood clot to protect me!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 01:59 AM
13

Oh I totally agree. It's just the principle that society noped the fuck out of male birth control as soon there was a whisper of a hint of *possible* and SLIGHT side effects/risks. Yet women are expected to take birth control with much greater risks, and there isn't a conversation regarding this, just "ho hum, here's the obligatory list of side effects. so anyway, better get to it!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 01:51 AM
3

We always blame the woman caught "red-handed" succumbing to the ideas that society has shoved down her throat her entire life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 03:30 PM
1

All these arguments start with the faulty premise that: ALL YOUNG WOMEN FUCK CHADS BUT WON'T GIVE NICE GUYS™ A CHANCE. Whereas the fact is that most young woman want a meaningful relationship with a boy who actually likes them and doesn't use them as a cum dumpster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 06:14 PM
42

Exactly. "Open-minded" as if that's something a woman would be into - walking off disabled randos because they think being horny needs "therapeutic release."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 05:00 PM
10

So how did he write that ad? And how will he communicate via email? Or does he have a "non-sexual" assistant who does writing and looking for prostitutes-non-prostitutes?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:58 PM
1

File a report. This is physical assault. He threw his bodily functions at you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 12:11 AM
36

So many science deniers on that thread smh. ​ I've been lurking on that sub, mostly for the entertainment (like watching a trainwreck). I am legitimately shocked at the number of women 30+ who DO NOT GET IT. ​ Everyone other post is about some 30+ woman crying about the guy she slept with within 1-3 dates who is now ghosting her, and she is COMPLETELY CLUELESS as to why.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 10:15 PM
3

exactly. as I was watching this, I was like ".......what are you describing as HVM???" everything he said was something a LV man would do/think, and he even contradicted himself by calling waiting 3 months for sex "dangling a string in front of a mouse. and after he gets it's he'll move on" ​ THAT'S THE POINT. THAT'S EXACTLY WHAT WE'RE TRYING TO AVOID. The type of dude who sees sex as a string being dangled in front of him is NOT the guy we want. The type of guy who sees sex as the prize ("do yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 08:29 AM
39

In a couple years they'll be telling us we're slut-shaming prudes if we don't put pics of our vaginas as profile pic on dating apps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 08:07 AM
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Not having sex on the first date isn't to prove we're "gf material", it's to weed out the men who only care about sex. Jeez. THIS!!!!! ​ Aparting from the gross woke mysogynistic libfem gaslighting, the entire article's argument is "don't worry, you may still be worthy of a man picking you even if you have sex with him on the first date!" The focus is still on being worthy/good enough for some gross dude! NOT about true empowerment, which is: do YOU want him? Do YOU want to pick him? Is he worth…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 08:04 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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