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CULTURAL MISOGYNYpovofme/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 10:07 PM
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He would’ve just painted gabby out as an abuser. He wouldn’t have told the truth even if he was alive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 07:03 PM
10

Exactly all of this. It’s fucking insane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 07:01 PM
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Imagine if the majority of women were addicted to porn of men getting hit and thrown around, called names and gang-pegging them until they cry etc. then I have a feeling men would understand why porn is so bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 06:14 PM
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What porn are women watching then? Years ago I tried to find normal porn without degrading acts on women and literally could not find anything. I think taking a look at how men call women sluts and whores and the violence and hate fucking makes it obvious it’s against women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 06:08 PM
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Same here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 03:36 PM
24

Agreed except I still won’t do them for a husband
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 03:36 PM
39

Eating and licking a pussy isn’t the same as putting a dick down your throat. Men I’ve been with understand that and didn’t care that I didn’t do it and still liked going down on me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 03:35 PM
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I don’t give bjs at all 🤷‍♀️ never have and never will. Don’t want to do it because of the discomfort and because IMO it’s a submissive act and I’m just not into that. Men give the same reaction and love PIV so that’s enough for me. A lot of women are saying they feel they have control which is honestly laughable to me.. men make it clear they see it as a degrading act to dominate women 😬 women into BDSM say the same shit. “The submissive is really the one in control” hun.. no lol. I love sex an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 03:26 PM
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I always hated the comparison to porn or prostitution to flipping burgers or whatever. Well in one you don’t have to let men literally enter you and slap you around while you cry or have many men gang bang you in every hole. I just walk away or stop talking to anyone who compares the two. They clearly have no brain cells or are playing dumb on purpose cause they jack it to porn every night.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 11:07 PM
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I hate joe Biden for that but it’s still better than having people who want to make abortion illegal, who believe a woman’s place is barefoot and pregnant, serving their husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 10:10 PM
115

Yup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 10:04 PM
29

Lol I never liked doggy, especially after I overheard a guy say it was the most submissive position 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 05:57 PM
9

Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 06:35 AM
37

Idk I feel like men with 6 or slightly bigger just say “oh yeah I have a 12 incher” lmfaoo yeah right. They lie about their heights too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 06:23 AM
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Screenshot them. Divorce him and never let him around your daughter. He could seriously be doing or will in the future something to the daughter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 04:09 PM
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Same here. I’ve actually had no problems with short guys and the one guy who was taller than me was awful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 03:58 PM
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Pretend? Some people genuinely don’t and you’re being really judgmental. Some women have those urges and some don’t. Some people have a low libido and some have a high one. Some people like men and some like women. Chill out jfc, not everyone is like you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 08:23 PM
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Well then she’s not a “late bloomer” if she never bloomed at all lmao. The point is she still doesn’t feel that way and most women are not like that. Most women feel sexual attraction to hot guys, demisexual people only experience sexual desires for someone AFTER they fall in love with their personality. I’m not demisexual but I can recognize it’s a real thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 08:00 PM
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I really think women are hurt and it does secretly effect them when men call them names. They just have really low self esteem and use it as a self harming thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 04:43 PM
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Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 04:36 PM
18

There’s no way you could say and do “race play” things and not be at least slightly racist. Same with BDSM or violence on women, there’s no way they do that shit then see women as equals after. Also maybe if you don’t want your privacy invaded then try not screaming racial slurs loud enough so that your neighbors can hear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 04:27 PM
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Yeah but I think they don’t want to believe. Like they’re in denial that something they watch and jerk off to so much, they don’t want to face it that they could’ve been jerking off to rape or someone not really consenting. They would just rather not believe it and continue to jerk off to it guilt free without anyone stopping them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 04:33 AM
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Yeah even in porn it’s clear the appeal of it is to put women in pain and to fully dominate them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 12:20 AM
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They don’t want to believe porn stars are being groomed or anything bad about the industry because they want to continue to jerk off to women being beat and crying with no guilty conscience. They want to continue to use the “it’s just acting and not real” excuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 12:16 AM
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She’s right though and I’m glad she tried to put him in his place. His wife wouldn’t be so happy anymore if she saw what he was doing while she was sleeping.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:38 PM
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That’s the thrift stores fault for making their own prices then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 01:13 PM
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Ew that sounds incesty. Why name your daughter after another woman you were listing after?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 12:53 PM
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He is taunting her to make her uncomfortable. It’s not an actual proposition. It’s probably a co worker who thought this would be funny to taunt her with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 12:45 PM
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That’s the point of fantasies. Every single guy with a rape or incest or pedo fantasy would 100% live it out if there were no repercussions or if they were on an island alone and no one would ever find out. The reason they don’t do it is because of the law or they are afraid of people finding out. If someone has those fantasies and desires then they’re just as fucked up as the people who do actually act them out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 12:28 PM
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And I’m assuming she went along with it and did it? I think women who promote and play into men’s pedo and incest or rape fantasies are just as fucked up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 12:16 PM
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Someone from FDS should start doing advice panels on more mainstream things and sites. I can’t stand reading this stuff ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 12:11 PM
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It’s a thing men call feminists when they want to make fun of them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 04:30 PM
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Is this guy 12? “XD” “#triggered” he’s so obnoxious and misogynistic I feel so bad for his gf if he even has one, she deserves way better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 04:29 PM
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Ew. I would straight up say “uh I don’t want to be a part of your weird kink” if she did that in front of me. Save it for when you’re alone jfc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 03:48 AM
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Pedos. Specifically the ones who want to feel like a “father daddy figure” to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 03:46 AM
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So she got set up? The guy probably was working with the girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 01:39 AM
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I’ve always liked guys my age or younger, I don’t get the old man craze. Younger guys are way more cute and they don’t try to manipulate you as much, old guys have practice manipulating women lol. Just depends on the individual though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 01:10 AM
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Idk I see people my age (early 20s) all in relationships and single guys are looking for gfs. There’s always gonna be fuckboys but that isn’t all of them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 01:06 AM
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The one guy who I dated who was taller than me I found out the whole time he thought I was emasculating him and he wanted someone petite 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 02:17 AM
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Hentai and anime have them the expectations of a woman the size of a 12 year old with huge balloon boobs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 02:01 AM
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Lmfao only good comeback to this shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 01:56 AM
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Yup, I don’t want to sound mean but doormats get walked on. I feel bad anytime I see women who think becoming doormats will make men love them or treat them better but that’s never how it goes. It just teaches them you have no standards and they can walk all over you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 01:41 AM
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He either shows it to all his buddies or posts them online somewhere. Doesn’t matter if he doesn’t need money, some men just get off on knowing other guys are jacking off to their gf/wife. If a guy EVER gets mad or expects you to apologize for setting a boundary than he is an abuser who wants to wear you down to never setting any boundaries with him. Leave
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 01:11 AM
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Cause they think having a even bigger dick will magically make them better at sex but no, they’re just shit at sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 06:25 AM
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I think they might have mentioned that they were waiting either because she didn’t want to at the time or something to do with moving into a new house or something? I could be wrong but I thought I remembered a vlog where they mentioned that. I’ve always liked julien but found that weird too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 08:55 PM
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A shot that would make women infertile would be an advancement right? Instead of getting tubes tied or sterilization, there would just be a shot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 08:27 PM
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Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 08:08 PM
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Another word I hate is “chick” I don’t know why but I despise it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 08:02 PM
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Thats honestly such a good idea. I hope it catches on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 01:51 AM
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Whattt, I have so many questions lol. Why did he expose that? And pewdiepie just agreed with him and confirmed it? Damn lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 01:39 AM
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I just remember one video a looooong time ago he had gross teen gets gangbanged or something porn open on a tab in one of his videos. I can never look at him the same way after that 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 01:37 AM
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This is why I haven’t bothered trying to date 🥲 fml
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 01:05 AM
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You’d think so but I don’t think it will. Regular porn doesn’t stop them, it would just become normalized and women would accept it and still marry and reproduce with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 01:03 AM
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Yup the fact that it is considered normal is so depressing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 12:50 AM
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Omg. That’s the most sick thing I’ve ever heard. Do you still talk with him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 12:19 AM
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In high school I went out with a few shy guys and even they managed to ask for my number or start conversations with me. I think even if a guy is shy or awkward, he will still ask out someone if he really wants to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 10:15 PM
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Omg that’s so embarrassing. I’d literally divorce after that 😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 09:28 PM
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Slapping your tits??? Lmfaooooo wtf 💀💀😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 09:10 PM
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What do they say?? 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 09:05 PM
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What’s his TikTok?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 05:12 PM
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And having no self confidence or respect. It goes with the wanting to be degraded in bed thing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 05:09 PM
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What’s this idea that only love or money can exist? Why not have both? Damn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 05:04 PM
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Honestly I’ve seen this stuff on tumblr and in some weird movies so it’s possible she saw it somewhere and thinks it’s edgy and sexy. Really fucked up though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 04:58 PM
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Could be a repressed gay guy thing where the shame turns into a sexual fetish? Like having women humiliated him for being attracted to men and not women..?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 06:38 AM
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Nah, mainstream porn is still way more dangerous considering how many pornstars get hurt physically and emotionally. Plus I’d rather men condition themselves to be gay or whatever than condition themselves to be turned on to torturing women or becoming pedos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 06:30 AM
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I mean.. why are they jerking it to fake CP if they’re not really into kids? There would be no point and it wouldn’t turn them on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 06:18 AM
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They don’t think it’s cute because they love doing this to women and jerking off to it but hate when women are forward about wanting it themselves because that makes them seem like a whore pornstar. Just saying, I think this is degrading asf but men think it’s “not cute” for other reasons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 05:38 AM
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Exactly. This is why men are so obsessed with porn. It’s the fantasy of women being sex objects meant to please them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 05:11 AM
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He must be really fucking creepy for that many women to do that every time he goes outside. Most men don’t have this problem that often..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 11:57 PM
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Men love this because they love to take advantage. They want a woman like this because they’re users. This ain’t a flex sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 11:26 PM
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I see pics from the 70s where men wore tight short shorts and tight jeans and shirts 🥲 why can’t that come back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 10:56 PM
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Break up and find a man that doesn’t do this. Can you send this post to her so she can read our comments?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 10:09 PM
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Madonna has always been like that unfortunately 😬 she’s so classless and tacky and always has been since the start of her career idk how anyone likes her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 02:33 PM
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Wait.. what?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 02:22 PM
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All while also expecting you to be lower maintenance than a pet rock
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 05:23 PM
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My boobs are hollow just like my heart 🥲
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 04:55 PM
19

Whattt I thought he was in his 30s 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 04:24 PM
21

I guess that’s because humans are one of the only species that the predator is the opposite gender of their own species.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 04:14 PM
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I’ve seen many comments some were on a different case of the whole “she was domineering and emasculated him” as a full excuse on why it was ok for them to murder their wives and the comments were saying that’s why women need to be submissive, or men will murder them. Insane IMO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 03:41 PM
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Or they don’t care about dominance or submissiveness and don’t play that game. They treat their SO well because he loves her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 03:29 PM
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I seriously don’t think how anyone can say she looked like the abusive one. She was genuinely so emotional and was blaming everything on herself, a real abuser wouldn’t do that. The way he was calm the whole time is a million times more of a red flag for him being abusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 02:10 AM
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Leave him. Men need to start facing the consequences of jerking it so much to violent humiliating and women degrading porn that their dicks don’t work anymore. Women don’t want that shit. If you try and help him he will just keep relapsing, hiding his porn use from you etc. it’s been seen in almost every relationship where the guy is porn addicted. Leave while you can and find someone heathy. You deserve better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 02:06 AM
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People just really want to affirm their belief that women are are actually the abusive ones and men are the victims so they latch on to any small evidence they can get and turn it into a huge deal about women being evil abusers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 01:55 AM
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Ugh I think I know exactly the one you’re talking about. I left that video like 10 mins in because I was so mad. I can’t believe people still think like this. If someone’s in a emotionally abuse relationship they’re not going to stay 100% docile and never fight back. I think men in particular are just so surprised when they see women in abusive relationships that actually try to fight back sometimes by yelling or name calling or even physically hitting so they just assume they’re both toxic when…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 01:45 AM
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Lol the only thing her “taught” her was to avoid his creepy ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 09:47 PM
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Honestly that would be such a cool statement lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 07:26 PM
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He just wanted to make sure there was still “real” women who know how to microwave lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 07:21 PM
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I’ve never cooked or cleaned in any relationship and I’ve never seen someone knock on the door and offer to cook or clean for him free lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 07:17 PM
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Same. 2 different guys I’ve dated have acted so in love for a few months then after that it’s like it’s gone. Don’t know what’s up with that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 07:05 PM
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That’s just guys in general IMO. Immigrant guys aren’t going to necessarily have those traits either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 06:57 PM
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Of course he has the playboy shirt 🙄🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 03:08 AM
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By 8 I taught my sister why people need their privacy and to not barge in on people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 02:56 AM
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I’m actually glad I’m not the only one who doesn’t do bjs. Idk why other women can stand it and are so willing lol. It’s gross and you have no idea even how clean their dick is. Also women get absolutely 0 out of it and if anything it’s negative cause it’s work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 07:10 PM
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Shane Dawson?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 06:53 PM
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Yeah idc any man who watches incest porn is weird. Some lie and say it’s not for the incest part to cover up that men are degenerates. You could just as easily look up non incest porn. Incest porn also often included rape or pedophilia. “Step bro what are you doing” thing was a rape fantasy. She gets stuck and instead her brother fucks her instead of helping her. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 06:50 PM
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I would just say “no” and walk away. Arguing with them isn’t worth it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 05:58 PM
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You’re 100% right. I can’t stand this shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 05:40 PM
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Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 05:39 PM
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This is so spot on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 01:13 AM
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Definitely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 01:12 AM
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Predators go for “easy prey” so teenage or young girls. It’s also porn that has massively sexualized “teens” it’s the most popular porn genre. Take me off this earth 🤮 It’s also probably a thing where they want to take their innocence
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 01:05 AM
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Um there’s nothing wrong with snooping, even if there was he did it to you as well. Be glad you did otherwise you wouldn’t have known what a piece of shit he is. Be glad he’s gone and hopefully you can move on and find someone better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 04:27 PM
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Probably trying to make women jealous so she over competes and performs during sex to try and be better than his ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 04:24 AM
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Cumming on women is also a porn thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 02:48 AM
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Yeah to me it’s the opposite lol. If I didn’t orgasm I’ll be irritated at him and not want to be near him but if I’m satisfied I love cuddling lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 02:43 AM
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He probably does that on purpose.. and you went to the hospital because of it and he still tries to do it??? 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 02:40 AM
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🤭 wouldn’t be surprised if the main cause was porn addiction and laziness
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 02:22 AM
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Yup exactly. Idk why people don’t get it. It’s obvious that these kinks are not okay
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 07:00 PM
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I don’t get why people can’t grasp that these kinks don’t come from nowhere. If a guy gets off on degrading women as objects he obviously thinks that women are objects outside of sex as well. Just like someone who’s racist and gets off on making POC their slaves and calling them slurs would be racist in real life as well. It doesn’t just come from nowhere. I think women are in denial because they don’t want to accept that there are so many men who get off on degrading women and they don’t want t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 06:34 PM
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I’m sure the porn he was watching wasn’t gentle on women so he lost that right 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 06:07 PM
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Yup you’re exactly right. Most men do love the powerful feeling of non consent. I don’t think it’s such a stretch considering porn anyway is just the fantasy of them dominating and having power over women and humiliating women anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 03:20 AM
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No I wouldn’t, it would feel weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 03:16 AM
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Lol so they’re basically saying that women are naturally submissive and that’s supposed to be “progressive”? Idk but all I know is I’m not naturally submissive 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 09:49 PM
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Yeah I think it for sure is. They need more extreme and taboo stuff to get off to because the normal stuff got boring and they got too used to it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 09:45 PM
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Um no they’re definitely not feminist lol. Libfems just like to say that anything that exists that one woman likes to do is suddenly feminist. Which is not how it works. There are women who self objectify themselves. Women can do things without it having to be feminist, but libfems like to preach that anything a woman enjoys is feminist maybe because of their guilty conscience or something 🤷‍♀️ I don’t expect that everything a feminist does has to be strictly feminist, you can do things that are…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 06:24 PM
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I always have said “BDSM is for men who are so bad at sex they try to make up for it by just slapping women and calling that good sex”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 06:16 PM
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Yes “everyone has fantasies” but only rapists have rape fantasies. Jfc. Break up with him. Can you send her this post through dm? Of course she doesn’t have a problem with people having non con kinks 🙄 well you should. He was for sure jerking off while playing that “game”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 06:13 PM
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Lots of men have a deep resentment for women that they try to hide but it comes out with shit like this and in porn where they hate fuck and hit and degrade women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 02:52 PM
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Exactly, you should show her all the messages of him trying to get with you while they were engaged before they get married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 02:49 PM
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Ew the part where he tried to blame you for “thinking the human body is sexual” yes, majority of people are gonna think dicks are sexual as they would vaginas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 06:08 AM
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Exactly what I thought of lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 11:40 PM
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I feel like only a certain type(s) of guys use tinder in the first place. It’s a hookup app and party guys use it to hookup quickly. Men use OLd to flip through women and “collect” as many as possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 02:47 PM
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Cause they want black women and women in general to be pick mes 😪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 01:45 AM
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I noticed it’s a lot of antisocial people who are “nerdy” who are into the poly/open relationships, I always thought it had to do with low self esteem. But honestly almost everyone my age is into the light bdsm shit that’s popular in porn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 10:57 PM
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Yup I hate how popular the anime and hentai thing is. I seriously won’t date someone who’s into anime 🤷‍♀️ because they all watch hentai along with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 10:53 PM
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And don’t ever be with men who ask/beg for nudes. Especially early on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 04:34 PM
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He’s 46???? I thought he was mid-late 50s 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 04:30 PM
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Lol sorry but what’s a tight ass? Are there loose asses? Lol genuinely asking
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 12:39 AM
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He did? When?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 06:34 PM
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Lol I idgaf about women saying they only like men 6ft+ because men absolutely have a height preference as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 08:31 PM
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I don’t at all lmao. They literally jerk off to women crying from pain and being degraded. Then developing ED and losing the drive to do anything with their life is just karma for it 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 05:16 AM
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I wonder if they would give a woman who had choked someone but claimed they liked rough sex would get a reduced sentence as well 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 05:12 AM
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Even during BDSM they call women who are into it “sluts” and “whores” so by that they’re still upholding purity culture by reinforcing the idea that women who have sex are sluts and whores. I don’t get how anyone can rationally say it’s progressive in any way. Being called a slutty whore cumrag and being submissive to men is the most regressive thing I can imagine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 08:21 PM
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I seriously don’t mind if men just did it more normal you know? But you’re right, they make it into a weird predator/prey thing where they objectify women. I don’t get how they just can’t be attracted to women but also in a respectful non objectifying way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 08:05 PM
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Lmfaooo this is the perfect response 🤣 and also very true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 07:58 PM
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/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 07:54 PM
39

This guy just wants FDS women to be scared of him so he feels powerful. I wouldn’t worry too much about it, I doubt he has the ability to track down and stalk someone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 07:52 PM
7

They’re such hypocrites. All domestic violence cases against men are “false allegations” yet there are many men willing to torture women? Yeah okay mate. I bet this guy couldn’t even look a woman in the eye in real life 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 07:45 PM
38

You definitely don’t have to tolerate that at all, if someone respects you they still won’t disrespect you even when they’re mad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 02:03 AM
32

“Kyle just has a nice ass” lmaoooo I love that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 01:58 AM
30

Yes lmfao women should start doing that. They’d for sure get mad though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 01:46 AM
26

They resent women and don’t want to give women anything. They think women live life on easy mode so they want to make women “pay” and it also makes them seem more alpha. Even the violent and degrading porn they’re obsessed with just shows they want to get back at women and secretly hate us and are full of resentment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 05:22 PM
50

Yeah the highs and lows of toxic guys can make it feel way more exciting and emotional. That won’t really happen with a HVM that’s emotionally stable and taking it slow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 04:58 PM
3

I can’t believe people are being openly racist like that and not getting called out for it. People can have preferences but making other people who don’t fit your preferences feel bad is awful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 12:11 AM
19

Lol I would’ve told him he should be willing to oblige to some “sounding” 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 12:07 AM
32

Exactly. I have no idea why h3 has so many fans (women included) like do they not remember the number of sexist videos he made? Straight up calling fat women washed up whales and stuff. He’s what I imagine the average redditor to be like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 11:59 PM
85

Omg this is what I’ve been thinking the whole time when women go on about 10 in whatever like.. hun he has a 6 inch and just told you it was 10 lmfao. Men lie about their heights too so of course their gonna lie about their dick size.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 11:47 PM
334

Not even wives should have to be a live in maid everyday. That isn’t what marriage is about
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 11:42 PM
59

Women are bad but the men are worse. Women wouldn’t be pickles if men didn’t make them feel insecure and feel like they have to do all that shit just to appeal to men. Also men are the ones making the laws in Texas and the ones raping and objectifying women in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 10:57 PM
25

Yup. I’ve been angry and lost hope for the last like 4 years. It’s made me depressed, it’s so bad in my age group I don’t see it ever getting better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 10:55 PM
48

Oh well, I’ll be lame then 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 10:40 PM
13

They just expect you to put up with it and never leave. They never take women’s threats of leaving seriously because they don’t really expect her to follow through with it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 09:23 PM
394

I remember reading a thing a guy wrote a while ago and he said always found pubic hair attractive because it was a sign of sexual maturity and stuff. I think it’s a recent thing with porn honestly. I don’t think there was much of a importance to shave pubic hair in the 70s-90s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 01:44 PM
21

They still want to appeal to men and not be like those prude sex hating feminists so they go along with porn and sex work to seem cool and sexy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 11:34 PM
26

Adding on to that article here’s some wayy worse quotes from the men who visit sex workers, pretty sure they’re taken from a review site. https://the-invisible-men.tumblr.com
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 11:30 PM
37

Yup. That’s why being on the submissive side of “getting fucked” is always used as an insult. Telling of how they view that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 11:24 PM
3

Seriously, I’m always uncomfortable by middle/high school cheerleading/dance/gymnastics uniform. It’s always a short skirt or tight booty shorts. Disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 01:28 AM
9

I guess I’m lucky lol, I always see at least a few guys who have nice ass cheek bones and jawlines
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 12:55 AM
14

It just is fucking nasty, it would feel like second hand incest or something to fuck a guy my sister was just fucking. 🤢🤢🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 11:53 PM
1

Ew 🤢🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 04:39 PM
30

Porn, they can’t view women outside of a sexual porn script anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 04:33 PM
45

You’re exactly right. It’s not about sex, it’s about dominating and humiliating women to get back at women and feel powerful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 04:12 PM
48

I seriously don’t get why they can’t see women in a sexual way without objectifying them. Anytime they view a woman as sexual they go right to objectifying her. Idgi.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 04:06 PM
5

Does that happen to everyone during pregnancy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 03:58 PM
83

“Unless he pays my rent, he’s dead weight”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 03:46 PM
39

Yup that’s why I stayed away from sex. I thought that’s what sex was and what it always was and it horrified me tbh. Then a few years later I realized vanilla sex was a thing and not all sex was violent and degrading to women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 03:41 PM
91

Yup I agree, even women are getting porn sick and developing weird kinks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 03:35 PM
55

I just say it’s disgusting that the popular videos are all promoting pedophilia, incest and rape. That it’s objectifying and violent towards women and women are always degraded to “whore” “slut” “hole” in porn and it’s not a healthy mindset to have. I think people are more likely to think of it as insecure if it’s the other reasons like you not wanting him to get off on other people etc. of course I think like that too but I usually only mention the effect it has on how objectifying it is to wom…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 12:53 AM
26

Like the other person said that’s the appeal. They don’t want to give women pleasure, they get off on the idea of women doing something that feels uncomfortable at best and painful at worst just for them to get off, it’s like the ultimate submission to them. That’s why they’re obsessed with anal and facefucking
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 12:32 AM
40

They assume most women will do it for them like porn has convinced them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 12:25 AM
106

This. He can believe in and be woke without making it his whole dating persona, if he is he is likely doing it to gain women’s trust so they let down their guard for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 09:07 AM
26

Low key woke guys are probably the best bet. The woke guys who go about it in a performative way for their own image or gain (trust with women) are the ones who could be doing it out of guilty conscience or as a facade. The ones who don’t need always be telling everyone and are more low key about it are probably the ones who aren’t doing it to show off
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 09:05 AM
17

Considering how much they make fun of and mock any interests women have yeah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 11:57 PM
22

Exactly, men aren’t looking for sex education when they choose to jerk off to women being degraded
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 09:08 PM
19

Exactly this. Thats also why their favorite sexual things are bjs and anal. It gives nothing to the women and it’s just a performance women do for them. Ultimate submissiveness
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 04:46 AM
24

Yup. It really has 0 to do with attraction. They just want to dominate and feel powerful. Like the other comment said it’s an intimidation tactic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 04:34 AM
33

The difference is men do objectify women when they think of them sexually, they degrade women and fantasize about women in a dehumanizing way. I literally just came across a subreddit for a celebrity and all the comments are about her being a fuck doll or a fuck toy and how “with those dsl she was made to be a submissive fuck toy to be fucked rough” and in one post they all were fantasizing about gang raping her. And much more disgusting stuff. Seeing that just literally made me never want to be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 04:30 AM
54

I would just tell her that it’s way too much of an over saturated market and not even the top 10% of creators make a lot. And it’s traceable on your tax returns and any future jobs will see that. Also that because the market is so saturated a lot of creators get pressured into doing more degrading painful stuff just to stand out. Most men will eventually want more than tit pictures. The average income is $150 a month… She could also have the risk of being stalked by one of the creeps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 04:19 AM
295

I don’t get how anyone likes hair pulling. I don’t like it because it’s submissive and degrading but also its one of the worst feelings for me lol. I hate when I get tangles in my hair and have to brush them out. I love when someone softly runs their hands through my hair though And yes he was definitely signaling to you that he wants to do whatever he wants and doesn’t care if you want it or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 07:19 AM
24

I swear I saw somewhere where the father admitted he had problems with the same fantasies or something but thought that Jeffery was fine
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 04:48 AM
68

I agree. I admit I shave my legs and armpits just because of society and I don’t want to be mocked lol. The people who don’t admit they do it to fit in annoy me. I refuse to shave my pubic area though. It’s gross and makes me feel 12. Might sound weird but pubic hair is a sign of sexual maturity and I’m suspicious of men who don’t like it. My first bf preferred non shaved for that reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 04:35 AM
25

I think there was a study that said that when men watch porn their brain subconsciously thinks that they’re actually fucking those women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 04:19 AM
22

Lol do men not have an imagination anymore? He can’t think of her while he jerks off? Has to be a video of it? Weird as fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 04:04 AM
38

Exactly this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 03:56 AM
107

They always make fun of “Cucks” yet watching someone else fuck a pornstar isn’t being cucked??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 03:54 AM
88

I don’t think most of them even lose girlfriends over this. At least my age bracket majority of women don’t see it as a dealbreaker and won’t break up over it. They just assume all men do it anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 03:53 AM
50

I just think they don’t see women as equal or respect them.. I don’t think these types of men can have spiritual ties with women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 03:51 AM
47

Right? They sound like such manipulators when they say that. Imagine if a woman started having side dudes and cheating then just said “it’s no big deal you’re just insecure, I’ll help you work through your insecurities about it” lmaoo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 03:49 AM
31

Human trafficking goes up in places sex work is legal so that’s not doing a very good job at trying to stop it lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 10:20 AM
14

I knew someone who just left an abusive relationship, he was always nice and funny around anyone else but would say the nastiest stuff he could to her behind closed doors. He also seemed normal, he cared about his kids and pets. Sometimes there is really no signs until you’re dating them yourself. It’s easy to act polite around others who you don’t see much. An abuser isn’t going to come across as an abuser 24/7.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 12:13 AM
2

True asf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 02:00 AM
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