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"Informativity"? WTF does that even mean?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 12:14 AM
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So this scrote thinks that a marriage is more binding than having children. Having children is OK because he can walk away at any time? You can't make this shit up. A scary amount of people have the view that a child is less of a commitment than a marriage. Its bizarre and sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 12:11 AM
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In the comments he also goes on about not marrying her by law because he wants to be able to walk away at any time. What a scrote. This guy is afraid to marry her because he wants it to be easy to leave in case he finds a new piece of ass. And yet...he's fine having children with her!? He actually thinks it'll be easier to ditch a baby-mama than a wife!? Does he not realize that having a baby with his GF will tether him to her for as long as that child is alive? Even if he completely abondons th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 12:09 AM
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This!! I can't understand why this otherwise intelligent women is even considering procreating with this complete scrote. Sadly, sometimes otherwise smart women have TERRIBLE choice in men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 12:04 AM
94

Teen Vogue is basically a grooming magazine. In a sane world, every one on its staff world be in jail right now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 11:33 AM
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THIS! At least a gay man might enjoy it. But I guess its not fun for pornsick scrotes if the receiving partner isn't crying and in pain
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 11:31 AM
13

This is also a warning not to date men who have an unhealthy attachment to their mommies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 06:16 AM
41

There's no way the prenuptial agreement is invalid! Kanye and Kim are both super wealthy (and Kim has divorced once before). Rich celebrities KNOW how to guard their assets when they marry because most of their marriages don't last long.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 06:34 AM
4

This reads like a bad fanfic. No way its real. LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 06:29 AM
4

Sadly, once a woman is an adult, there's not much you can do if she REALLY wants to date a shitbag. And sometimes begging her to leave will just make her dig her heels in further
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 06:41 AM
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After a second date, I told a guy that I would not have sex before marriage. Thats when he let me know that he was still married (but he and his wife were TOTALLY on track to get a divorce any day...). Never saw him again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 01:50 PM
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This! She never even had sex before, but pretends to be into rough dominating sex? Sounds fishy. Young women nowadays are groomed by the media, Tumblr, their boyfriends, etc to accept BDSM and kinks as normal before they ever have sex. They're also preemptively groomed to believe tender, loving sex is "vanilla" and boring and not pleasurable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 04:51 AM
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Yeah. It’s never a kink of serving women pleasurably, a kink of giving women multiple orgasms and tender affection, or a kink of extended, erotic foreplay. Isn't it convenient that every sexual thing that benefits women is labeled as "vanilla" and "boring" and "heteronormative"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 03:31 AM
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Sex Posi people: "DON'T KINK SHAME ANYONE EVER!!!!" Girl: "My kink is regular, affectionate, non-violent sex" Sex Posi People: "LOL, why are you so basic and boring!? You expect him to cover your bedroom in rose petals and sing you love songs and somehow get off without violence!? Entitled b!tch!!!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 09:47 PM
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No one is coming to reward you for your sacrifices. This is a good rule for life in general. Your junkie cousin will not show gratitude for you buying him groceries. Your dumbass friend will not bail YOU out of a financial jam no matter how many times you helped her pay rent after she wasted her rent money on bullshit. Your parents and siblings likely won't even thank you for working 3 jobs just so they could stay in their home. Etc... Being a martyr in a relationship will never pay off. I wish …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 09:21 PM
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Did they seriously make the black couple look like Barack and Michelle Obama? Last time I checked, Michelle didn't pluck Barack off the street and love him until he had the guts to do politics. LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 02:17 AM
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Yup. All ya gotta do is bring the abuse into the bedroom and it magically becomes “just sex”. “Bbbbbbbbut, I only beat you up when we’re naked.” -Battered Wife: "Every day, my husband strangles me and calls be a stupid b!tch..." -PickMes: "OMG, that's horrible!! You need to leave him!!" -Battered Wife: "...during sex" -PickMe: "Wow. First off, don't be a kink shaming bigot!! Second, have you tried CoMuNiCaTiNg BeTtEr?? Maybe ask him to buy you flowers and snuggle you afterwards? You wouldn't be …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 12:43 AM
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Yeah, no. I'm not gonna act like his mommy in the hopes that MAYBE he'll buy me flowers on my birthday or whatever
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 06:05 AM
27

The best ending would be if both girls broke libfem conditioning, ran off together, and reported the scrote to the police
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 05:48 AM
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And what is she going to do when he renders the girlfriend unconscious or with physical injuries that need immediate medical attention? Sadly, her battered wife syndrome seems so strong that I suspect she'll help him hide the body. 😥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 05:40 AM
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The word “aftercare” in itself is messed up. Like maybe something is wrong with what you’re doing if you’re so mentally drained after THIS! Sex is supposed to be FUN! I shouldn't need a goddam therapy session when its over!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 05:39 AM
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The only thing people are saying in the comments are he needs to learn about BDSM so he can get better with the aftercare. There is nobody telling her to run. And THIS is precisely why kink and sex positive culture is so toxic. It trains women to believe there's something wrong with them if they only want "boring, vanilla sex" and that they're lame prudes who just need better aftercare if they cry after their boyfriend is rough with them. This nonsense wouldn't be tolerated if the boyfriend slap…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 05:37 AM
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I don't think the wife being 26 has anything to do with her understanding of right and wrong. This is Karla Homolka/Katherine Birnie type behaviour. Sadly, I can see it coming to that if she doesn't leave him before he escalates...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 05:30 AM
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This is how most "poly" relationships end up. The dude gets a harem. And Woman#1 is tasked with the aftercare for Woman#2.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 05:18 AM
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Or he'll bully you into keeping the baby so he can "own" you for the next 18 years. Technically, once two people have a kid, they're tethered for as long as the child is alive. The kid doesn't get released into the woods at eighteen. They have college graduations, marriages, children, etc. And they will want both parents around for that stuff. This is why it gets to me when people have kids together and then balk at marriage because it's "too much of a commitment". As if creating a new human lif…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 06:22 AM
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Yeah, even if they don’t become violent, there is a big chance they’ll try to love bomb or guilt trip you into having the child. They’ll future fake all the way to the mat ward but leg it the minute they have to change a diaper . Yep. Then they get to be the "fun parent" every other weekend while the mother does the day to day hard work of actually raising the kid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 06:17 AM
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This is so scary, but doesn’t surprise me. I’ve heard of men turning abusive towards women who are pregnant, but not of men killing the woman. Terrifying. Sadly, the number one cause of death for pregnant women in developed countries is homicide.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 06:16 AM
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I'd counsel against even telling a guy like this you got pregnant. They can turn posessive and guilt-tripping. Block, delete and move on. Seek support from people who really love you. THIS! The woman in the OP story had no obligations to this dude. Telling him was a mistake. Also, sadly, some men react violently if they get a woman pregnant because they don't want to get "trapped" into paying child support or being a dad. If a woman gets pregnant via a casual partner she barely knows, the safest…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 11:24 AM
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Sadly I'm not surprised. We need a database for trash men like this. At least warn other women. I'd love to see a secret Scrote Yelp happen. LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 11:20 AM
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And if you say casual sex can be harmful for mental health and that women face unique risks (such as pregnancy!) that men just don't face, sex-posi people will shout you down. If you take your time with having sex you're a prude or are even considered an entirely different sexual orientation (demisexual). Like??? The sex-posi morons act like abortion magically mitigates women's unique risk from casual sex. However, even if we lived in a world where abortion was freely accessible for everyone, be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 11:18 AM
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You can’t expect a man who’s using you for casual sex to give a damn about your feelings. And he likely won't give a damn if you have a good time during sex either....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 11:12 AM
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People should be able to discern that the behavior he's showing isn't cute, funny, or healthy in slightest, and keep their dislike for Kim separate. I think this also stems from the belief that "bad people" can't also be victims (just like the sexist belief that promiscuous party girls can't get raped). Kim isn't a Saint. Therefore she cannot be innocent ever
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 08:31 AM
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…I’m kinda scared for their children. Ditto. He seems like the type who might escalate to a full blown family annihilator. I hope Kim is screen shotting those Instagram posts for the custody battle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 08:22 AM
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A LOT of abusers act like Mr Sunshine outside the home. So nobody wants to believe it when their partners and/or children come out with abuse accusations. This is a common thing with "normal" dudes. And its turned up to 11 with celebrities who have mobs of sycophants eager to do their bidding
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 08:20 AM
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Publicity and pressure from her mom. That family will do anything for attention because that’s what makes them money Yep. The Kardashian girls have been pimped out to the media since they were teenagers. Sadly, I'll bet there are few people in their lives who aren't narcissistic, gold-digging scumbags. So they don't see red flags until its too late
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 08:16 AM
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He's inadvertently doing Kim a favor by putting all his craziness on the internet. Its great documentation for her to use to get full custody and/or a restraining order
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 08:13 AM
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Ugh. If he were a "real man" who wanted to "fight for his family", he would deal with his mental health issues PRIVATELY! Then, once he's in a better place, try to rekindle things with Kim PRIVATELY! And, if Kim is firm on wanting a divorce, work on a co-parenting plan PRIVATELY! This Instagram nonsense is clearly a ploy to pressure Kim to take him back lest he leak more intimate details to the public. But he's trying to frame it as a public declaration of love. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 08:11 AM
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Second: how the fuck are we supposed to have children in our early 20s if we can’t afford it? How can we partner up with and build lives with men who themselves are either languishing or struggling to build careers? They expect 20 year old women to pair up with established men who are 40+ years old and have money. Completely ignoring that most of those relationships have unbalanced power dynamics & that sperm deteriorates with age just like a woman's eggs (so a 20 year old mother isn't much of a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 03:35 AM
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This prick tried to "correct" his racism by naming all the women of color he enjoys watching get sexually abused on video. JFC....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 11:12 PM
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Yep! And if your landlord demands you bang him or else he'll jack up the rent, he's just helping you find empowerment via sex work!!! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 11:58 PM
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And they'll pretend to be SHOCKED when the brothels fill up with desperate, impoverished aboriginal women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 11:55 PM
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Men who claim to be "Socialist" and "anti-Capitalist" are all liars. Their worker solidarity dies the moment an ex-prostitute says "sex work is exploitative and wrong". When a sex worker is languishing in poverty, they tell her she just needs to bootstrap harder
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 11:54 PM
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I've heard multiple horror stories about German women on unemployment being asked to work in strip clubs or brothels. They can fight it NOW. But, if sex work is normalized, it might be mandatory in the future
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 11:51 PM
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Next thing you know, the moment a girl turns 18 she can get exploited into SW. This already happens in Germany and other places with legal brothels. When will the adult age be lowered. A common thing I always hear when men idolize the young Texas recently passed a law making 21 the minimum age to work in a strip club or other sexualized establishment. And the scrotes LOST THEIR SHIT over not being able to ogle teenagers at Strip Clubs or Hooters in Texas anymore. I wish this law would be adopted…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 11:49 PM
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The legal German sex work industry has shown that it doesn't work. When its legal, the only way to meet demand is via trafficking. And the legality of the practice gives the pimps an extra layer of protection Look up Elly Arrow's YouTube channel. It does a great job laying out why legalized prostitution failed in Germany
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 11:44 PM
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Does this mean they’re getting unionized and comprehensive healthcare across the board, plus family leave and protections against exploitation? AMEN! If they're going to legitimize this exploitative industry, they should go all the way and require that sex workers get all the protections that a male construction worker is entitled to. Unfortunately, the downside to that would be that traffickers would just double down on hiding trafficked Romanian & Thai girls in the back room while bubbly White…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 11:41 PM
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Or they could…you know, give these women jobs with a livable wage. But lowering the obscene cost of living requires WORK, sacrifices, and hard decisions. Its much easier to just throw the lower classes into the prostitution meat grinder and pretend its some victory for civil rights
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 11:36 PM
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I'd love to ask Samantha Ratnam if she'd be okay with her sister or her daughter doing "totally empowered sex work"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 11:31 PM
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I waited until I was engaged (I wanted to wait for marriage, but I was weak LOL). Setting a sexual boundary is a fabulous way to weed out LVMs who only want sex. A HVM will respect the boundaries you set.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 01:35 PM
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Rich men whine about baby traps. But rich/famous women are vulnerable to this as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 05:52 PM
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Who the hell is Rocky?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 05:50 PM
9

That moron thinks they'll understand him when they grow up. He doesn't realize that growing up, experiencing romances themselves, having their own kids, etc will only make them despise him more!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 07:58 AM
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If he was such a stellar dad, they ALL wouldn't have been so quick to cut ties with him. I call bullshit as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 07:54 AM
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I can't bring myself to laugh because an innocent baby is paying the price for the scrote's bad behavior
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 07:25 AM
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I feel so bad for that poor little baby who’s going to grow up in a sad broken home, with that sad broken man. I feel the same way. That boy is the real victim here. His mother bailed and his older sisters want nothing to do with him. All he has is his worthless scrote of a father. And he has to live with the blame for breaking up his father's first marriage. I hope the sisters have a change of heart one day and make time for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 06:43 AM
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And even if the woman did baby trap him, its HIS responsibility to take precautions with his own peen. Preferably, by not cheating in the first place. But, if he intends to step out and doesn't want a baby, he should get a vasectomy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 06:32 AM
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Oh, I'm sure they weren't. I was just pointing out the reason most scrotes won't marry the "party girls" who give in to their every sexual demand (but then complain when their "vanilla" wife sets a sexual boundary)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 07:27 PM
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Isn't it funny how these male feminists only care about the aspects of "feminism" that make it easier to service their dicks? /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 03:34 AM
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So accurate it hurts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 03:32 AM
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Handing out those materials in universities feels like a threat. Its like: "Make sure you study and get good grades, ladies! Otherwise, you'll NEED this brochure detailing the street corners where you're slightly less likely to be picked up by a serial killer"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 03:31 AM
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As the mother of a one year old, this post hurt me. I hope this woman runs away with her mother & her baby and doesn't look back. The postpartum period is rough (ESPECIALLY if she had a complicated delivery). If this scrote wants her to put out, the best strategy is to do things like cleaning the house without being asked, make sure the baby has clean/sanitary bottles, take the baby for a few hours so she can sleep for a long stretch, etc. Listening to him whine for sex just makes her feel like …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 03:28 AM
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REMINDER that this mess of a man did not marry his kinky exes (if it was so important to him, why didn't he marry them?) Because "sluts aren't marriage material". 🙄 Scrotes want this impossible unicorn woman who can simultaneously act like June Cleaver AND a perky porn star. They cannot understand that such a woman doesn't exist in reality
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 03:20 AM
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The rules are always changing. They don't want a "slut". But they also don't want a "frigid prude" who sets too many sexual boundaries or (HEAVEN FORBID) requires some level of commitment before having sex. This is why you don't compromise your boundaries for a scrote. You conform to one set of demands, and they'll just spring more on you. And you'll get nothing worthwhile in return
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 02:50 AM
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I read that book as a teenager. It was good prep for what to avoid in adult relationships. LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 02:40 AM
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But the girls' kink is collectively humiliating scrotes! What to do when kinks contradict each other? 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 09:03 AM
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True. I'm honestly surprised this article didn't posit that these girls are bigots for not respecting his polyamorous sexuality or whatever
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 01:18 AM
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If you're gonna scam people via the internet, don't put personal details on your profile. LOL I'm against doxing. But this isn't a case of a guy's life being ruined because he told edgy jokes on Twitter. He was messing around with multiple women's affections/lives. He fucked around and found out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 01:16 AM
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If you're using a watermark because you're afraid he'll share it, than you can't trust him with racy pictures. End of story
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 02:05 AM
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Imagine wanting to get impregnated by that man. Eugh. Barf. I know these women are often desperate. But I can't imagine any amount of child support money being worth having to co-parent with this asshole. Not to mention how damaging it would be for the kid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 02:03 AM
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And even if they legitimately are victims of a terrible ex, endlessly fixating on how much the ex sucks is a sign that a guy is not mentally/emotionally ready to date again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 03:41 AM
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Ugh. If Drake is afraid of gold diggers, he needs to either get a vasectomy or stop fucking around with random women. Its clear he gets off on hurting the women he sleeps with. And this gives him a feeling of justification for doing so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 03:08 AM
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Ugh. Of course he's a mommy's boy who was coddled and grew up being told that NOTHING is his fault. I hope this girl gets out. This guy has "Chris Watts" written all over him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 02:55 AM
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"Women don't do enough!!", they shout while sitting on their ass playing X-Box all weekend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 02:50 AM
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I think he gets off on hurting these women. And he feels justified in this stunt because the girls "deserved it" for trying to be sneaky. Like you said, there are far easier solutions to this issue than sneaking Tabasco into the bed. He did this because he enjoys hurting the women he has sex with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 02:48 AM
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I have always said entertainers and athletes should just get vasectomies and freeze their sperm that way they can only have children with their wives. THIS! If they're so terrified of "gold diggers", this is the perfect solution.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 02:43 AM
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Uh...do I even want to know the context of this?....🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 02:41 AM
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Ewwww. This reminds me of those creepy websites that countdown the days until a female child celebrity turns 18
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 02:33 AM
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At least the prenuptial agreement forced them to have separate finances and he doesn't have access to any of her accounts. He inadvertently did her a favor. If they had merged finances, he would have bled her dry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 09:33 AM
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but what's the point of a relationship? The poly scrotes want all the benefits of a steady girlfriend/wife at home while also being able to sleep around like a frat boy. They think they're entitled to have it all without any sacrifices or trade offs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 05:37 PM
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LOL @ "He is now homeless" I HIGHLY doubt he's too destitute to afford a hotel (if he doesn't have a vacation property he can move to). Also, the wife doesn't get the house the SECOND the divorce is finalized. He's entitled to time to move his things and find a new place to live (unless there is a restraining order in place due to DV). They seriously expect us to believe that Perlman is living in one of the infamous Los Angeles Tent Cities because his wife took literally every penny he had! That…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 05:42 AM
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If it was the other way around they'd call her a lazy golddigger who is not pulling her weight in the relationship. Yep. Any woman who doesn't do the lions share of the housework while also contributing at least 50% financially is painted as a gold-digging tramp on this hellsite. Ironically, the men who cry the most about "golddiggers" are ugly, basement dwelling virgins who live with their parents. LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 03:19 AM
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Lastly. These types of men are usually the ones reminiscing of the good old days when women were silent and grateful to be sold by their fathers and “didn’t ask for so much.” Which is hilarious because, in those situations, the girls' families typically required the guy to show he could provide for a family before he'd be matched with a bride. The scrotes who whine about "gold diggers" would be even worse off in a culture where arranged marriages were the norm! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 10:07 PM
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The irony? Critics accuse us of being golddiggers when it's the exact opposite. FDS tells women to make their own money and don't settle for a guy who can only bring money (if that) to the table. THIS! No one on FDS is claiming that marrying someone like Donald Trump or Mark Zuckerberg is a life goal. Its not about snagging a sugar daddy. Its about not getting tethered to a leech!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 10:02 PM
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This is how controlling abusers start. They begin with a little thing like mocking her need to use a special hair towel everywhere she goes. Then it escalates to "you eat too much" or "you spend too much time on the phone with your sister every week" until he's ground her self esteem into dust and she needs to get his permission to wipe her own ass I hope Towel Girl stays away and never returns to him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 05:47 AM
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Whats hilarious is that these dudes believe they can INSTANTLY snag a young, pretty, fertile wife/GF the second they're ready to give up the gigolo life and settle down! As if relationships don't take time to build up to the level of trust it takes to move in together, get married, and/or have kids! They really think they'll have unlimited options once they're past 35 and their looks are fading. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 03:45 AM
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It will never happen because if it was brought to a spotlight, it would expose the disgusting and sick nature of it and that is not wanted - so it continues to work away from daylight It also won't happen because most of the TV executives are gross older dudes who prey on younger women. They won't greenlight a TV show dedicated to calling out other nasty old men like them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 05:24 PM
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Some new girlfriends tried to show me the “Call Her Daddy” podcast. Same gross internalized misogyny. Saying that ugly women should be #GRATEFUL# for the opportunity to blow a man. But HEAVEN FORBID a beautiful woman (or any woman, for that matter) has standards and won't pay attention to men who look and smell like unwashed Bridge Trolls! Women who aren't grateful for every dick opportunity are just arrogant! Internalized misogyny is one hell of a drug.... 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 10:06 AM
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The lib fems are sucking up to Mindy, oh thank you for representing us Yeah. Because the idea of young women as mindless sex toys is soooo underrepresented in the media! /s Libfems make me sad....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 09:57 AM
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Sex and the city, Girls, Insecure, Girlfriends, Living single, Run the world, Etc. Maybe this is my nostalgia talking; but I never saw Living Single as promoting the idea of "your life is empty if you're not having casual sex every other night in search of the penis of your dreams".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 09:55 AM
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The TV show that she made where she was a doctor, I stopped watching it after her boyfriend tries to anally rape her and she brushes it off. WTF!? O_o
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 09:50 AM
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Not surprised. Kaling is the textbook definition of a Cool Girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 09:48 AM
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Why is the "sex crazed college girl" being pushed so much (noticed it started getting forced in early 2000s and still isn't stopping). The cynic in me believes its a ploy to collectively groom young women into thinking they're lame prudes if they're not down for acting like porn stars in college. It could also be a sinister ploy to paint college girls as tramps so they're less likely to be believed when they accuse a boy of sexual assault
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 09:45 AM
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I think it depends on the ages of the people involved. Normally, I think a ten year age gap is weird and not a great idea for a relationship. But I had no issues with it when my 90 year old grandfather married his 80 year old girlfriend because they were both in the same social circles and the same stage of life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 01:54 AM
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He's so nasty looking It confused me when Davidson made fun of Dan Crenshaw's appearance. Like, Crenshaw wears an eyepatch, but he's still decent looking. While Davidson has the face of a date r@pist. LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 08:35 AM
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Also, if he describes multiple exes as "crazy", "b!tches", etc; RUN AS FAR AS YOU CAN AND DON'T LOOK BACK!! One crazy, horrible ex is possible. But if they're ALL "evil", the common denominator is him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 08:31 AM
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I can't believe the husband didn't immediately kick him out and file a complaint! WTF!? The husband is almost as bad as the panty-sniffing maintenance creep! I can't imagine just offering coffee to someone after I caught him digging through my laundry basket. 🤢 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 09:08 PM
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Edit: Also wondering--they don't appear to have kids. She mentions being mistreated by doctors after a vaginal birth in the video. So she might have a kid (either via him or a previous relationship)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 06:59 PM
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But, I think there is this weird undertone in the channel promulgated by Shane-that women who wouldn't date someone like him are just ableist, and I don't support that vibe. I got that vibe from them when they did a video explaining why they refused to do a Dr Phil show about inter-abled relationships. They both mocked the idea of caregiver burnout. And, as someone who has had to care for two disabled relatives, that REALLY rubbed me the wrong way! If Hannah genuinely never suffers burnout or fr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 07:45 AM
18

My thoughts exactly. ALL the adults involved in this are trash! The only person deserving of sympathy is the baby (who will sadly be used as a tool to sow drama between his idiot parents for the rest of his childhood)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 07:05 AM
5

Wouldn't a pre-nup help protect a woman in this situation? Isn't that what most rich dudes do when they get a young trophy wife? I assume a rich woman could do the same with her trophy husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 01:41 PM
34

AMEN!! Its appalling that young people today have to pretend they have some weird, unusual sexual orientation to justify wanting a connection/commitment before having sex! That used to be a perfectly normal expectation! Now you have to "justify" it by claiming queerness or whatever. Its all part of the new, woke twist on the Virgin/Wh0re Dichotomy. Now, instead of Virgin or Wh0re being your only two options; you have to choose between "asexual, sexless prude" or "crazy porn s!ut who is down for …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 11:30 PM
80

That is hurtful as hell. I just can't imagine her not being devastated over him saying 2-3 more years. Didn't their relationship start when he cheated on his first wife with her? I think she probably understands that this relationship is temporary (unless she's one of those naive idiots who believes the "my wife doesn't understand me" sob stories)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 09:44 AM
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No way that's not a dude. Pick me women don't talk like that. My thoughts exactly! That post was so fake! If a young woman (even a Pick-Me) was only interested in dating for fun and had no desire to settle down and get married, she would date hot, exciting men her own age! Not lame, middle aged salary men who prowl the gym for young girls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 03:09 AM
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LOL These scrotes are writing fan-fiction about their middle aged future selves!!! This is 1000% more pathetic than the teenage girls writing their Mary Sues into Harry Potter fan-fics. 🤣🤣 Also, yet ANOTHER group of idiots who don't understand that male sperm deteriorates with age just like women's eggs (so it really isn't a good idea for dudes to have kids after 40 even if the wife is in her 20s)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 02:54 AM
188

Also, the mothers of LVMs tend to be VERY involved in their sons lives and marriages. To a very uncomfortable degree....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 08:11 PM
72

I just don’t understand the timing of it all. Me neither. I don't see how a couple who both work full time and have adult responsibilities can manage multiple romantic relationships when most people struggle to maintain one. There's no way anybody is getting the love and attention they need. And don't get me started on how unfair poly set-ups are when a couple has children....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 10:16 AM
116

One of my women friends is poly and she said it’s so difficult to find men who are. A lot of them say they are, but get all weird when the women actually have other men. All the poly people I've met have been men and their harem girls. Its rare that men tolerate their steady girlfriend fucking around with other dudes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 09:48 AM
49

I feel even worse for our monogamous bi-sexual and lesbian sisters who get the constant "Oh! Will you be our third!??? It's my boyfriend's birthday, and I want to get him a threesome" messages. Ditto. According to lesbians I know, the whole "Will you be our third???" nonsense is why a lot of lesbians don't date bisexual women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 09:42 AM
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They want to be single while enjoying marriage benefits. Exactly! They want the benefits and security of having a live-in wife or girlfriend without any of the drawbacks. And the wife/girlfriend can't enjoy the poly set up because she's too busy keeping house to go out and meet other men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 09:39 AM
121

My issue with the poly community is how culty it is. I used to just say, "Its not for me. But if other consenting adults choose it, who am I to judge?". But then some friends got into it and being poly became their ENTIRE PERSONALITY! Like, this one male friend of mine can't go more than an hour without preaching the glory of polyamory like an evangelical Christian preaches the glory of Christ! And they feel the need to constantly dump on monogamous and "vanilla" people. Its INSUFFERABLE! And no…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 07:57 AM
26

It doesn't make sense to blame her. But we saw people speculate that Gabby was abusive because she admitted to scratching his face in the police video. And even after she was found dead from strangulation, some scrotes still think Brian might have killed her in self defense or whatever. Misogyny rots the brain
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 05:36 AM
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This is a good point. Most parents don't want to believe that their child could do evil things. And they probably believed Brian if he lied and said Gabby ran off into the woods or whatever. That said, even if Brian was innocent, not talking to the cops male it harder for Gabby to be found. Hell, if he was innocent, his stonewalling was even MORE egregious because he withheld information that could have helped the cops find Gabby before she died!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 08:58 PM
179

I'm glad tax payer money won't be wasted on a trial and keeping him alive in jail. The state has already wasted too much time and money looking for his worthless ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 01:23 PM
64

I definitely don’t feel bad for his family and had they called authorities early on, they would likely still have a son. There's a definite tragic irony to his parents' behavior. If they hadn't coddled, protected and enabled him after he returned without Gabby; he'd be alive today. But, because they tried to "help" him, their son died alone in a swamp and now the whole world hates them. I can't say I'm crying for them because they all behaved terribly and prolonged the suffering of Gabby's famil…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 01:20 PM
158

I really hope Brian Laundrie's fate teaches other enabling families a lesson. If the Laundries had done the right thing from the start, their son would be alive (albeit behind bars) and their family's reputation would be salvageable. But, because they covered for him, Brian died alone in a swamp and the whole world (rightfully) hates their guts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 01:07 PM
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Honestly, I think its better that Gabby's family was spared a trial. Laundrie (and many internet scrotes) would have tried to paint Gabby as an abuser who brought on her own death. And I doubt any answers he could give would soothe their grief. At least now they know he can't hurt another woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 01:01 PM
19

I had parents who stayed in a toxic marriage and never attempted counseling, separation, or anything to mitigate their constant fighting. Its horrible and I desperately wish either one of them had had the courage to just end the marriage when it got that bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 11:15 AM
34

You also have to factor in financial constraints/abuse. Leaving is VERY difficult when you can't access more than a few dollars and have nowhere to run to and nobody to lean on for support....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 11:11 AM
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Also no, it's not acceptable for women to be emotional women literally get punished for being female and human can we stop saying stuff like this? THIS!! Women who cry too much are often labeled "Drama Queens" and accused of faking it for attention/sympathy. And the term "White Woman Tears" is used by men of all colors to invalidate any White woman who cries regardless of the reason. I'm so sick of people acting as if all men are emotionally repressed and all women are free to sob on a fainting …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 12:12 AM
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My strategy was to set boundaries on the first date. I told anyone I dated that I was dating for marriage, I wanted kids someday, I wanted someone who was fiscally responsible, and I would not put out until we were married. That eliminated all the LVMs right off the bat and I eventually found someone who met my standards. Good luck!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 11:41 PM
18

This is such a HUGE flaw in cartoons and comics. And male artists almost never get called out on it. I love Bruce Timm's shows. But he's one of the worst offenders and it seemed to get worse with time!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 06:59 AM
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Lol. It wasn't even sexist! Men's biological clock is a scientific FACT. You were helping that man by informing him that he can't expect to be able to father healthy children in his 40s, 50s, 60s, etc even if he's able to land his 20 year old dream girl. Scrotes are so dedicated to their delusions....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 04:23 AM
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I got banned from one of the dating subs for pointing this out. Lol For pointing out the male biological clock? Or the fact that having kids after 35 is super difficult?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 04:47 AM
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Also, the biological clock isn't just for women. Men's sperm also deteriorates in quality as they age. The idea that its fine for men to father children well into their 40s, 50s, & 60s is a dangerous myth. Also, as someone who had her first baby at 35, waiting until you're older makes things SO MUCH HARDER. If you want kids and you can start early, that's a much better idea
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 09:13 AM
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I had my first baby at 35. And you're not wrong. I love my daughter and I'm glad I didn't settle for some scrote when I was young. But I wish I had the energy I had in my 20s so I could keep up with her. This is definitely something older parents need to consider. Its SO DIFFICULT if both parents work and you don't have family or a nanny you can tap in when you need a break
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 08:32 AM
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Glad y'all returned. This is one of the few female-friendly places on this hellsite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 06:19 AM
25

I never thought he was dead no idea why Its because his parents don't behave like people who have no idea if their son is alive or dead. If they thought for one second that their worthless spawn was in danger, they would help the cops find him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 01:48 AM
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Some idiots STILL believe that Gabby was the abuser in that relationship because she admitted to scratching his face in that police video. So I think its far more likely that his lawyer might claim self defense (despite Gabby being half his size). However, I'm sure plenty of "sex positive" scrotes will say dumb stuff like, "Maybe they were both into choking and she died by accident!! DON'T KINK SHAME, YA BIGOTS!!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 01:44 AM
19

He's watched too many shitty rom-coms if he thinks his fat, boring ass is destined to marry a 20 year old with a tiny waist and dainty feet!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 08:54 PM
12

"Self employed" probably means "my uncle gave me a pity job shuffling papers at the shop he owns" And the audacity of him talking about women like we're customizable build-a-bears. He is NOT handsome enough to be that picky down to a woman's damn shoe size! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 08:50 PM
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It always trips me out to see other people complain about this sub. They act as if we're promoting male genocide over here when all the posts are more like, "set boundaries early on" and "don't put up with abusive behavior". But its Reddit. So of course refusing to date a guy who has no job and doesn't bathe is considered a hate crime. LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 04:59 PM
66

Not only is this disturbing for all the obvious reasons. But also....baby formula is NASTY! My baby was just weaned off of formula and that shit STINKS (which is annoying because you cannot tell when its gone bad). Which means this dude worked to aquire a taste for it! I hope this story is a piece of Reddit fiction. But, if not, this woman needs to take her baby and RUN!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 04:58 AM
11

Its so hard to vet nowadays. Especially now that antisemitism has become trendy on both the left and the right. The right wing scrotes tell their "edgy" jokes. And the left wing scrotes endlessly interrogate you about Israel and demand you apologize for every negative thing that country has ever done (as if you can call the Israeli PM and make him change the laws). If I wasn't already spoken for, I would just swear off non-Jewish guys. Its not worth the extra headache of educating the goyim abou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 09:03 PM
99

And 40k is nothing when you have to live in a city like Los Angeles
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 04:58 PM
31

His worthless family is probably hiding him somewhere with plenty of comforts and video games
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 01:55 PM
19

His lawyers are going to use this. They're going to paint a picture that he was abused by her so that they can claim that he acted in self defense when murdering her. The idea that he was in fear of his life from a tiny woman like Gabby is absurd (even in the off chance that she was abusive). But some scrotes are dumb enough to believe it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 01:49 PM
10

You should take anything Nancy Grace says with an ocean of salt. LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 01:47 PM
25

He's 23. He just aged like milk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 01:43 PM
210

Focusing on the money is especially stupid because most women in the sex industry barely scrape by and have to give a large cut to their managers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 01:39 PM
53

Not to mention perpetuating the ludicrous idea that a 90 pound woman and a full grown, able-bodied man are equally dangerous in an abusive situation (so, therefore a man would be justified in beating his girlfriend to death for scratching or slapping him)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 01:35 PM
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Sadly, this doesn't surprise me at all. To this day, people are still trying to minimize Chris Watts' horrible crimes by claiming his wife Shannan was domineering, lying about her illnesses, doing MLM scams, etc (as if ANY of that would excuse what he did to his family even if it was true). And some even believe that the smoothies Shannan gave him made him do it! I'm not kidding. So.....yeah. It didn't surprise me when numerous people started painting Gabby as a crazy abuser because she scratche…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 01:31 PM
37

True Crime communities are garbage. They get off on writing insane fan-fiction about people who suffered horrible tragedies. And they don't care when the victims' families beg them to stop it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 05:39 PM
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And of course, certain corners of the internet are trying to paint Gabby as being the abuser for slapping him, that she's mentally unstable due to anxiety, and that he was defending himself... The same thing happened to Shannan Watts. The True Crime dipshits have concocted all these conspiracy theories about her being at fault for the murders of herself and her children because she was "domineering" and made her poor, helpless husband drink her MLM diet smoothies. As if THAT'S more believable th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 05:36 PM
7

I'm very attached to my kooky ethnic name. So I'm not changing it for anybody
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 10:06 AM
4

Last time I went to Comic Con in cosplay was awful. Men were gross and got huffy when I refused photos because I was in a hurry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 10:13 AM
20

Damn. I'm sad to be proven wrong on that. The baby makes it even worse. Its bad enough for her to stay with him because she loves his worthless ass. But keeping a baby around an abusive sexual predator when she has plenty of resources to leave him!? Fucking gross....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 12:23 AM
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And she’s bankrolling his whole life… disgusting That's what boggles my mind. Minaj gets NOTHING out of being with him. He doesn't earn money. He's not famous nor influential. He's ugly. I'll bet money he's terrible in bed and doesn't clean up after himself around the house. And they don't have kids together (thank God). Being married to him is an active drain on her finances and reputation. And she STILL stands by him!! It makes no sense even by Pick-Me logic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 06:05 PM
65

Nah. These weirdos tend to look like either a twig or Jabba The Hutt with little variation in between
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 02:43 AM
33

Don't forget that steampunk hat worn without costume. I've seen too much already and have lost passion for the style 😤 Steampunk is fun as long as you just enjoy the art and avoid the community like the plague
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 02:42 AM
129

My biggest issue with polyamory is the way its acolytes incessantly proselytize it! I have friends who fell into the poly cult. And its exhausting to be around them because they have to bring up their poly-ness ALL THE GODDAM TIME!! Not only that, they actively shit-talk monogamous and "vanilla" people as if we're all too prudish and stupid to see how wonderful it is to fuck multiple insufferable weirdos at once. One of my friends literally said he felt "discriminated against" because he got an …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 02:37 AM
33

The teeth and steam punk hat/goggles of the dude made me laugh 😂 It gave me flashbacks to my convention days....😖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 02:25 AM
18

Whats "OLD"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 02:24 AM
62

Most of the poly people I've known who weren't raging sociopaths had a shitload of unresolved trauma that they foolishly believed the poly life would fix.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 02:23 AM
27

OMG that song is amazing! Thanks for sharing! 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 02:18 AM
66

You're the odd one out if your sexuality isn't somehow tied up in the convention. Don't forget having to virtue signal your politics (and watching others do the same) the whole time as well. Because heaven forbid conventions be an ESCAPE from that real world bullshit! That, and a half dozen corporations bought out everything and homogenized it all down to the very lowest common denominator. I'm old enough to remember when indie comic retailers could afford booth space at major conventions like C…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 01:57 AM
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other women don't turn us into man haters....men do that PREACH SISTER!! Congratulations on getting out. We all know how hard it is to escape an abusive relationship. I wish you luck in building a new support system. Stay safe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 01:21 AM
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And this is why nerd conventions aren't fun anymore...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 08:00 PM
55

ENM?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 07:59 PM
5

This guy expects women to pay for the "privilege" of living in his shit pit and serving as his bang maid!? And the victim can't even smoke weed or have a dog!? Why do the worst men have so much confidence!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 03:33 PM
9

Wasn't Cardi B the one who got shit on for revealing that, when a guy tried to buy sex from her back when she was a homeless stripper, she drugged him and stole his wallet instead of letting him pay to r*pe her? I have a lot of issues with her. But she's absolutely right here. Scrotes need to be held accountable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 02:26 PM
15

Scrotes honestly believe they can still father perfectly healthy children when they're 80 years old. As if women's reproductive systems are the only ones to age with the rest of our bodies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 07:58 PM
52

I once made the mistake of entering the gaming room at a con. These unwashed dudes were sweating it out to DDR in an enclosed, windowless room. The smell....if you could bottle that smell, you could sell it as female repellent. The stench hit me like a punch in the face just from opening the door. I spent the rest of the day worried that the stink stuck to my clothes.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 06:52 AM
75

The thing about Short Men is that they're hypocrites. They call women shallow for wanting tall guys. But there are plenty of tall women who will happily date shorter dudes. But they have no luck because men have issues with their girlfriends being taller than them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 02:03 AM
17

THIS!! If a guy doesn't fret about your feelings/wants/needs, he's not worth your time. ESPECIALLY if he pouts every time he gets denied sex or anything else he wants
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 11:58 PM
25

I have a 1 year old. My fiance and I are lucky if we remember to shower every day. We don't have the mental energy to keep tabs on who got takeout last time and how much said takeout cost. LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 08:06 PM
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And I'll bet the scrote makes more money than her and still expects all expenses to be split 50/50 right down to the penny. The fact that he can keep meticulous tabs on this crap proves that he does no child care. Nobody caring for a baby while also working has the energy to do accounting for every purchase
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 07:15 AM
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Divorce would be better for the kid as well. Growing up with parents in a toxic relationship isn't fun. And at least the courts would mandate the scrote to ACTUALLY pay his fair share in child support (instead of the 50/50 bullshit he's currently pulling).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 07:09 AM
29

AMEN! A LVM is just another child you have to care for. Except they're larger and have the ability to punch you unconscious and clean out your bank account. Being a single mother is difficult. But being a single mother tethered to a worthless man-baby is worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 01:31 AM
125

LOL. This should be the response whenever someone suggests a woman should be a Cool Girl and tolerate her man going to strip clubs and Hooters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 01:40 PM
400

~JuSt CoMmUnIcAtE~
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 12:55 PM
52

His deadbeat antics are well known by now and I'm sure the TLC money has dried up. Plus, middle age hit him like a ton of bricks! What woman in her right mind would date him at this point!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 12:58 PM
49

That show was really exploitative. And I don't think Kate is much better than her husband because she sold out her children's privacy for a cheesy reality show.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 12:56 PM
306

IMO the leftie misogynists are worse because they have successfully cloaked their sexism under a veil of being "progressive". At least Rush Limbaugh never claimed to be a feminist ally while calling us "femin@zis"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 09:07 PM
62

Can you imagine being married to a guy like this and having to play his Pet Karen every time he needs to complain about something, dispute a bill, make an appointment, call the cable company to cancel the plan, dispute a credit card charge, etc.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 12:19 AM
34

Ditto. Part of recovery is learning how to manage that stuff. Making other people be your Anxiety Nanny doesn't fix the problem
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 12:16 AM
132

THIS! He didn't want to be "The Karen". So he foisted it on his date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 12:14 AM
1

.....and then everyone in the office clapped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 11:13 AM
138

You’re right, it’s not just the high rent prices. It’s also toxic households that young women get abused out of. This is a good point. Women from shitty families often resort to moving in with the first guy to sweet-talk them because they're desperate to escape their parents. And then they just jump from one abuser to another
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 04:29 AM
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My grandfather and his wife (they got married when they were both in their late 80s) didn't bother moving in together because they had both been in their own tiny apartments for 10+ years and neither wanted the hassle of moving all their stuff to a bigger place. Thankfully, they were in the same building; so it worked out. LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 04:26 AM
18

Yeah. If he thinks its cool to drug a woman for being "annoying", I shudder to think what he'd do if a woman did something to make him angry...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 06:14 AM
2

Result? Custody has just been changed in HIS favor, due to her "alienating" her daughter against him. The. System. Is. Broken. Good Lord! That is horrifying! But it can't be true because the courts are totally biased against dads!! Reddit told me so!!! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 02:43 AM
23

I don't get this mentality either. Especially when a couple lives together for years, has multiple kids, and balks at the suggestion of marriage. Like...you can make a clean break after a divorce. But having kids together will keep you tethered to the other person for LIFE!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 02:27 AM
37

I just hope they didn't vlog their poor kid as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 02:23 AM
163

Good lord. She was married to an adult baby
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 02:21 AM
4

Even when they're child abusers it's pretty hard to get their parental rights signed away. This too. There are so many horror stories of kids being forced to spend time with their abusive fathers even when they beg not to because he was convicted of abusing them and/or their mother. And, sadly, some of these children have died because of this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 11:51 PM
15

To be fair, obtaining child support comes with allowing a man a level of control over the lives of his ex & children. And this isn't a desirable trade off if the guy is abusive, controlling, etc. It isn't just about ego. There are horror stories of kids being forced to visit their fathers even after they were convicted of abusing them because its a condition of the child support
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 08:56 PM
7

That's why he targets young girls. Many of them aren't experienced enough to know that 50k per year ain't shit for a man pushing 40.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 08:47 PM
45

The thing is, unless the other parent is some kind of career felon, drug addict, or child abuser, it’s not so simple. Remember, despite the fact that a lot of these men don’t want to lift a finger to raise their own kids, they’re not going to so easily sign away their parental rights I can vouch for this. I know a social worker and she sees men do this all the time. The men cry about their baby-mamas being gold diggers and the system being rigged against fathers. But then they drag their feet on…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 08:16 PM
36

IKR! The ONE advantage of a young woman dating a middle aged man is supposed to be that she's taken care of. And this poor girl isn't even getting THAT! Also, as someone who recently had a baby, those medical costs rack up even WITH insurance. I hope this poor girl has a supportive relative she can run to because it is obscene that a man who makes THREE TIMES his young girlfriend's income expects her to pay all the medical and post-partum costs for HIS GODDAM BABY!! And these are fights she shou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 08:01 PM
29

wow I didn't even think of this. wtf Sadly, shit like this has happened before. 😥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 07:35 AM
131

That stood out to me as well. Why would this dude invite an adult (and presumably childless) neighbor to the birthday party of a kid she's never met? It seems like he uses his daughter to bait women into interacting with him. That poor girl....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 07:33 AM
1

Wow, title ix and abortion are totally the same thing! Its not just Title IX. Biden legislated away our rights to have ANY intimate spaces to ourselves. Including homeless shelters and rape crisis centers. But I guess its easy to shrug that off if you're privileged enough to never need those services. He & Harris also pushed for incarcerated women to be caged with male felons (including sex offenders) who claim to have internal lady feelings. I know its easy to ignore this because most people do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 07:05 AM
2

What the hell does Biden's wife being a doctor have to do with weather or not he gives a shit about women's issues? Ben Shapiro's wife is a medical doctor. Does that make him an expert on women's health? LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 06:57 AM
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To be fair, the Democrats have been destroying basic women's protections like Title IX at a dizzying pace. I honestly don't think Biden is any better than Trump as far as feminist issues are concerned. So I can see why a lot of women felt compelled to sit out the last 2 presidential elections
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 01:05 PM
6

The Spears conservatorship is unusual. I'm from California and I've dealt with conservatorship issues regarding elderly relatives. I have never heard of a young person capable of holding a job and voicing their wishes being held under this kind of extreme guardianship against their will. These types of conservatorship arrangements typically involve elderly/senile people and/or people who are severely mentally/physically handicapped and cannot manage on their own. Its unheard of for this to happe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 01:05 AM
6

What happened to Jolie? Is her ex claiming she's unfit to raise the kids?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 12:45 AM
32

She might try to steal his sweet basement and his PS5!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 04:26 AM
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"The Whores are just using me to get to my super valuable Star Wars action figure collection!!!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 04:17 AM
2

I didn't know Brittany was paying child support for kids that aren't hers! How the fuck does that happen!? Do the California courts have a vendetta against her? Is that why she's forced to be her father's slave while also supporting her worthless ex-husband and his terrible life choices?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 02:22 PM
3

Certain low value men can smell female vulnerability like a shark smells blood. And they zero in on women who have low self worth and are too naive and/or stupid to stay away from dudes who already have a harem of baby-mamas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 02:18 PM
4

Not to mention the irony of putting his daughter on a pedestal (or at least pretending to) while treating other people's daughters like trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 02:14 PM
23

It sucks that the apparent only options for modern women are "porn s!ut pickme" or "prudish fundie" with nothing in between
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 12:38 PM
8

Also, these articles whine about women's selfishness causing low birth rates. However, when young women DO have kids (and require social services because they're broke, chose a shitty baby-daddy, etc), they're criticized. And when women have children after age 35 (when they're more likely to have stable finances and a stable relationship), they're shit on for having babies when they're "old". We're blamed for all child related social ills even when we don't have any babies at all because HEAVEN …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 12:17 PM
5

This was me in high school. I never saw the point in dating when I was still a kid. Better to wait until high school is over so you can figure that shit out as an adult
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 09:18 PM
42

Back when I was still dating, financial literacy was my #1 deal-breaker and I made that crystal clear by the first date! My childhood sucked because my parents were stupid with money. So I will NOT play financial babysitter to a boyfriend or a husband in my adult life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 09:04 PM
1

Holy shit there's a FDS podcast now!? 😃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 08:54 PM
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I hear bare back gay porn is ~SuPeR EmPoWeRiNg~
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 08:48 PM
52

Even that isn't common anymore. These days men expect women to do all five jobs and pay half the rent And if the woman doesn't pay at least 50% of the house expenses, she's painted as a gold digging slut (even if she does most of the housework and child care in addition to working full time)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 11:42 AM
15

Lots of... "But men are victims of abuse, too!!!" And... "If feminists cared about equality, they'd dedicate equal time to building rape crisis shelters for men!!!!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 06:10 AM
40

Number one advice I give to pregnant women - GET THE EPIDURAL AMEN!!! I was in labor for over 24 hours and the epidural allowed me to get some precious sleep!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 07:13 AM
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Maybe the next time he has a root canal, they should talk about him skipping anesthesia. "My grandpa did his own root canal with only a pair of pliers and a rag soaked in whiskey! If you use a dentist & anesthesia, you're a p*ssy!!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 07:12 AM
7

I call bullshit on her dating him for THREE YEARS before visiting his home and discovering the nest. Like....what? I know those stupid friends-with-benefits situations can drag out forever. But she was seriously considering moving in together when she had never set foot in his home? Thats dumb even for a Pick-Me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 05:49 PM
15

Being a prostitute or stay at home mom... on the other hand If being a prostitute was empowering, men would be fighting to keep women out of brothels; not trafficking in the most marginalized and impoverished groups of females in the world
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 02:30 AM
24

Pretty much all of the "feminist" subs on Reddit have been colonized by misogynist dudes and their dutiful handmaidens. That's why saying anything even mildly negative about prostitution, porn, or any other industry that profits off of rape & female exploitation gets you banned and labeled a hateful SWERF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 01:30 AM
8

Sadly, because this is a female sub on Reddit, entitled scrotes believe it has an obligation to be inclusive of everybody (including people who represent everything this community is against). Scrotes and pickmeishas believe that females on subs like this exist to play nanny to others and tell them how valid and wonderful they are. And they get butthurt when we say "no". I'm glad this sub is holding firm to its values. There are countless subs where people can go if they want validation for thei…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 01:20 AM
8

When should this conversation occur? If you're dating for the purpose of finding a long term partner and/or for marriage; it should come up by the third date. I get that some people (mainly younger people) are unsure if they want kids. But if you KNOW for a fact whether or not you want children, you should clear that up ASAP. You don’t want to get attached and sink lots of time into a relationship only to find out that he desperately children and you don't. Or that he only wants 2 kids when you …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 03:03 AM
6

I see. On the bright side, it gave you an easy way out of the relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 02:56 AM
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I waited until I was engaged to have sex. I'm so glad I set that boundary. My friends said I was crazy and would only attract fundies and dudes who would cheat behind my back. But I eventually found someone who was worth it! Stay firm in your boundaries, FDS Ladies!! Its worth it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 05:03 PM
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I just told my bf of a year that I don't want kids and he flipped and told me I ruined his life. Did he really wait a year to tell you that children are a deal breaker? Why on earth didn't that come up sooner?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 04:52 PM
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Also, even if the men mom dates aren't predators, its damaging for the kids to get attached to mom's partners only for them to dissappear when the relationship fizzles out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 07:29 AM
10

I'm out of the loop. Who are the people in those pictures?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 03:31 AM
32

Also men: "my 50% should come with free cooking, cleaning, and life coaching, tho" And don't forget 80-100% of the childcare should children come into the picture. And 90-100% of the elder care should one of your parents require assistance in the future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 03:06 AM
9

But , if that's what's happening, their priority should be addressing the eating disorder. If you're not able to go to a restaurant then you aren't ready to date because you have bigger fish to fry. Agreed. Only being able to tolerate unhealthy, garbage food like nuggets and fries and being unable/unwilling to even TRY new things is a major problem. And it needs to be addressed and fixed regardless of one's relationship status or "disability".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 02:28 AM
15

And so are the basement-dwelling, unemployed, 35-year-old Mama's Boys who think attractive young women with good jobs and their own apartments owe them dates/sex/etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 02:05 AM
13

Those deal breakers aren't petty if you're looking for a long term commitment and/or marriage. My big deal breaker is fiscal responsibility. When I first started dating my current fiance, I told him straight up that if he couldn't maintain a savings account and spent money irresponsibly, it would NEVER work no matter how much I love him. I spent most of my 20s bailing out my financially irresponsible parents and their bad choices made my childhood a struggle. I would sooner die alone than relive…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 01:50 AM
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The libfems are more cancerous. At least the trad women don't pretend that complete servitude to a man is super progressive and feminist. And at least the trad chicks tend to get a ring and an actual commitment from their scrotes before putting out and getting subpar sex. LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 09:57 AM
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Reddit leaves rape & pedo subs alone. But if a GC sub/thread sprouts up, They pounce on it and it's typically deleted within an hour. We all know where their priorities lie...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 11:24 PM
34

I've heard many times that I'm a "prude" because I don't want to be sexually abused. I've been told that I must be "asexual" because I don't think sexual abuse is hot and because I've only had one sexual partner (my fiance). Apparently, rejecting kink and choosing not to fuck everything with a pulse makes you an asexual prude. Modern liberalism has failed women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 09:08 PM
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The funny thing is that lots of short, ugly, etc men are able to get dates. They just have to get off their Mommy's couch, get a job, and cultivate a half-decent personality. Also, if Elliott Roger taught us anything, its that money & good looks don't mean squat if the person is a whiney, entitled shithead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 10:38 PM
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Its not fair to blame Sandler. The trope of "Fat, stupid slob hooks up with brilliant supermodel" existed long before he was even born
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 10:30 PM
7

He probably just moved in. Those beautiful floors will be irreparably damaged within a month
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 09:57 PM
7

Agreed. Such a waste of a beautiful home
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 09:54 PM
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Men of the past built actual palaces and <cathedrals, modern men should be >ashamed if they can't even have >company over because there is only 1 >chair. Average men of the past achieved things because they were expected to add actual value to society if they wanted to be respected and obtain a wife (and, therefore, sex). Modern men have no such expectations. Even unemployed, unwashed losers who live on their Mommy's sofa can find some Pick-Me willing to have sex with them. And if they can't, th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 09:52 PM
8

I want to put this slogan on a billboard
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 09:21 PM
10

This old quote about online dating is telling: "In online dating, a man's biggest fear when meeting a woman in person is that his date will be fat/ugly. A woman's biggest fear when meeting her date in person is that he'll kidnap, rape, and/or murder her"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 09:14 PM
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Men expect us to have some magical radar that allows us to instantly know which men are dangerous. That's why they get all butthurt when a woman is wary of them even when they have no bad intentions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 09:11 PM
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Either accept or reject traditional gender >roles, scrotes. You don’t get to have >both. Exactly! If they want to marry a gorgeous, 18 year old virgin who acts like a 1950s housewife; they should be willing to act like a 1950s husband and earn enough money by themselves to support a household (even if it means working 50+ hours a week)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 02:47 AM
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Also, no man has been forcefully drafted in the USA since the 1970s. Unless shit REALLY hits the fan, I highly doubt the military is going to drag fat MRAs out of their mothers basements to fight overseas. Seriously, I hate it when 20 year old dudes talk about the draft as if its an imminent threat to their life & freedom. If they're that terrified of being drafted, they can just identify as women to weasel out of it. LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 02:32 AM
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Like ok and? no one even said yall >weren't consenting in the first place? >that's not even a part of the argument?? Women consent to getting themselves (and their children) into relationships with violent men every day. But, according to modern liberals, that's fine as long as someone (preferably the man) is getting off on it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 02:29 AM
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But men just hate women now, it’s >scary. They want obedient housewives/>sexbots while offering nothing. The >entitlement is out of this world 💫 THIS! Modern young men are so entitled and lazy! They think they deserve to have a woman wait on them like a servant/prostitute (in between working her full time job and paying bills) while they play video games and maybe work an easy part-time job. Women today actually have it worse than 50s Housewives! At least society back then expected a man to fina…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 07:34 PM
11

I love to kink shame. Kink shaming is my kink. ~_^
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 04:58 PM
51

Also... "What do you mean you don't want to be polyamorous!?!? Poly is a sexual orientation!! If you're not willing to open up the marriage so I can fuck around, you are literally oppressing me!!!!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 07:54 AM
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Its the woke reversal of the virgin/wh*re dichotomy. In conservative circles, you're seen as "used goods" if you had too much sex before your wedding night. But, in woke circles, you're viewed as a sex-hating prude if you're unwilling to do whatever depraved sex act a guy wants by the second date. No matter how we play the game, we cannot win
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 07:47 AM
5

Depressing. But accurate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 07:43 AM
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But these neckbeards got yelled at for hitting their sisters when they were kids. So they're convinced chivalry is a misandrist plot to de-power men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 05:30 AM
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Whores who don’t have sex huh! The Prude-Whores are the most oppressive & evil of the man haters! They are demons capable of being both frigid virgins and massive skanks at THE SAME TIME!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 01:29 AM
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It sucks that 3 innocent people died with him. But the world is still better off with him gone. Like....Kobe coached his daughter's basketball team and sponsored teams for underprivileged girls. Heaven only knows how many poor girls he raped who kept their mouths shut because of the media lynching his other victim received Speaking of the other people who died in that crash, its fucking gross that their deaths were ignored just because some famous asshole was in the chopper with them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 04:02 AM
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He was also newly married and his wife >was pregnant. I cannot understand how >his wife stayed after that. She probably assumed/hoped he would die soon (HIV was a death sentence at the time he was diagnosed)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 02:56 AM
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Not only that, Kobe basically admitted to raping her in his own statement (he said he just started having sex with her and ignored her cries because he assumed ALL women wanted him because he was famous and that all women enjoy rough sex because he enjoyed it). Chances are he raped many more helpless hotel employees and other "peasant" women. We only know about the one girl who was brave enough to report it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 02:54 AM
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Dunno why people suck Kobe’s dick >when he sexually assaulted someone Too many people worship celebrities like gods no matter how obvious it is that they're scumbags. I live near Los Angeles. The Kobe tributes that littered the city when he died were downright creepy. You would think he was the goddam pope or something. Even if Bryant was a saint instead of a rapist; its off-putting to see people deify a man simply because he's good at basketball
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 02:47 AM
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And you just know that none of these LVMs would bravely "stand by their woman" if she cheated on them and/or sexually assaulted a child. But they expect us to put up with men who add nothing but pain and humiliation to our lives
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 02:41 AM
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Idk, rich women get trauma bonded too We also have to consider that rich dudes have expensive lawyers and ironclad pre-marital contracts they can screw their wives & kids with if they leave. Not to mention if the rich dude is a beloved celebrity (making the wives less likely to be believed if they come forward with abuse allegations). And the fact that their man will likely get away with it if he murders her (see: Nicole Brown-Simpson) That said, I'm torn on a lot of these women personally. Its …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 02:34 AM
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IMO, the Supreme Court's power needs to be reduced. The fact that we have this same freak out whenever a Justice retires or dies is proof that the court is already ridiculously partisan and few of the Justices give a shit about the constitution
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 07:40 PM
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AMEN!! Its depressing to see so many people act as if RBG was obligated to act as a shill for the Democrats and step down when Obama was in office solely to help them maintain power and stack the court. Her job was to uphold the constitution; not the Democrat Party
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 07:31 PM
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The whole system that they cling to their >seat until they die is ridiculous Its also ridiculous that the Supreme Court has so much power at all. Its obscene that one president can unfairly stack the Supreme Court in their party's favor for DECADES simply by being "lucky" enough to be in power when more than one Justice either retires or dies. This also leads to the Justices facing pressure to stick around LONG after they should have retired. Not to mention the ghoulish death watch that occurs a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 07:11 PM
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Sadly, this is somewhat common among left-leaning pickmes. They have to play the role of The Cool Girl who is totally sex positive and wont kink shame her man for visiting prostitutes and harassing massage therapists. If she doesn't, then she's a right wing prude. These are the same women who claim to be bisexual, try to pick up lesbians in gay bars, and then try to talk said lesbians into letting their boyfriends watch them fool around
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:57 PM
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And please don't try the "don't move in with an abuser" line. Anyone who has been abused will tell you the abuse is subtle and creeps up. A smart abuser won't show his colors until it's harder for you to walk (moved in, married, kids) Also, time and life stressors can change people for the worse. A man who is a fantastic partner early on when circumstances are good can become a monster when stressful things happen (ie a job loss, financial difficulty, death of a loved one, relationship struggles…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:54 PM
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I wish I had learned this in my 20s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 09:16 AM
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No one said banning porn will magically make teenage boys into angels. I was just pointing out that the fact that very young kids now have easy access to hardcore, violent porn at the touch of a button is making their skeevy tendencies worse. There's no way growing up on that crap doesn't fuck up their minds and their sense of other people's sexual boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 07:16 AM
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I hope scissor girl didn't get arrested. ​ I know teenage boys have always been gross. But I can't help wondering if the increase in porn culture (and the availability of hardcore porn to young kids) has made it worse. It's hard to teach a boy to respect his female peers when he spends more time watching videos with titles like "Teen sl*t gang b*ng" than he does interacting with actual girls his own age in a healthy way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 05:14 AM
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I cannot believe he continued to work while undergoing chemo and surgeries (not to mention keeping it a secret from the press). I've watched relatives deal with chemo and it made them constantly nauseous and basically bedridden. Boseman was tougher in real life than the character he played in the Marvel movies! I just hope that he had time to rest and be with his loved ones in the end
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 06:54 PM
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She also forgot that, even if you achieve ALL the things on the list, you'll still get criticized. Have kids and hold a job? You're a bad mom. And if you have no choice but to work, you're irresponsible for having a kid before your finances are perfect. And if you wait until your circumstances are perfect to have kids, you get shit on for waiting until you're over 30 to get pregnant and putting your kid at risk for birth defects. The only way to win is to not play their game
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 06:35 PM
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"I object to Greta Thunberg being exploited politically. So I'm going to threaten to exploit her sexually! Take THAT, environmentalists!" ​ I have an idea. Why can't we all just agree that nobody should exploit kids?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 09:07 AM
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It's insane we have to go to these lengths just because these turds can't take "no" for an answer!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 09:03 AM
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This was his attempt to fix the damage >he caused because he’s had a taste of >what he thought he wanted and it turns >out he didn’t like it so much. Let me guess! He thought other women would be lining up for a taste of his dick the moment he was single again. And he was SHOCKED when that didn't happen. LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 12:24 AM
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I never understood that mindset either... “if I can’t have it, nobody can.” Especially with men when it comes to women. What really baffles and infuriates me is the men who will do that to their own children when they don't get what they want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 07:03 AM
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Watching crime shows like Unsolved Mysteries made me severely paranoid as a child. I learned early how depraved men can be (and how females have a target on their backs from birth until death) from watching those shows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 07:01 AM
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I'm honestly surprised that a rag like the NYT bothered to cover this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 06:28 AM
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It's just like an angry/bratty toddler who would rather break his toy than share it with another child. It's a classic case of "If I can't have it, NOBODY can!". It's scary how many grown men regard women (and even their own children!) this way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 06:25 AM
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I know this is off topic. But I just checked in and I'm amazed & delighted that this sub survived The Reddit Purge!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 01:25 AM
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Sadly, Black men are just as sexist as any other group of men. So they're reluctant to go against their preferred wank outlet no matter how many racist videos of Black women being raped are posted there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 02:51 AM
7

His favorite childhood outfit from the 90s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 10:22 AM
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Don't forget the gross bridge trolls who are paranoid that every woman they sleep with is scheming to steal his valuable sperm so she can bear a child before her biological clock runs out. And that they should have the right to opt out of child support if they just don't feel like dealing with the consequences of PIV sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 04:07 PM
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I’m surprised that he’s (apparently) monogamous, he totally sounds like the kind of pseudo-intellectual douchebag who thinks staying with one person forever is an outdated social construct for the unenlightened. Unless he’s just that much of a pretentious edgelord and overall black hole of charisma or charm that even the delegation of pickmes that make up the polyamorous community won’t touch him. I'm more inclined to believe that this story is fake (just like most of AITA). And it's just the fa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 02:13 AM
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He discovered Atheism and read some Dawkins. That automatically makes him super smart and better than any of us silly females!! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 02:08 AM
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Was I absent during the time scrote-mod flooded this sub with "how to trap your boyfriend by stealing his money & sperm" posts? Because most of the threads I've seen here told me NOT to tether myself to losers just to get money and/or babies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 07:14 PM
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He looks like Alfalfa from the Little Rascals (or a shitty Jimmy Neutron cosplayer)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 07:06 PM
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Because it discussed minors apparently? Lots of threads on that sub discuss minors. I think it got taken down because it made young men out to be perverted shits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 05:18 PM
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Also imagine trying to defend that woman at a trial. She consented to many rape-like scenarios, so he can just say “she consented to this one, too” This is actually becoming a problem. A few women have died during rough sex and the men they hooked up with claimed it was a consensual kink (like choking) that accidentally went too far. And some men have even managed to get off the hook for killing their female partners by claiming that she consented to being beaten/choked/whatever during sex (or c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 07:03 AM
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Someone over there literally compared being gay to kink. I'm appalled. What's worse is that they don't even realize they're parroting classic homophobic talking points. All the people who protested gay rights back in the day claimed that legalizing gay marriage was a slippery slope towards society accepting shit like pedophilia and the compulsion to rape as "innate sexual orientations"! And now these "sex/kink positive" assholes are doing just that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 06:57 AM
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I would hope for both bestiality and CP that they would inherently understand that aninals and children cannot consent, but who knows on the rest. Pure pornsickness. The sex positive crowd would argue that as long as they don't use footage of actual child r*pe (ie they use Japanese lolicon or just watch porn featuring eighteen year olds who look young) than it's fine and we shouldn't judge them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 04:10 PM
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Like, If I’m with some white guy and he wants to call me racial slurs during sex, I’m going to go ahead and assume he’s a racist. Likewise, if some man is turned on by calling me misogynist slurs, I’m going to assume he’s a misogynist. Agreed. It's insane to see people claim that one's sexual proclivities are somehow completely disconnected with who they are as a person. As if a dude who wants to call me racial slurs in bed because it makes him hard is any better than a dude who shouts racial sl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 03:59 PM
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Maybe therapy is her kink! DON'T SHAME HER!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 03:51 PM
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Didn't you get the memo? The only time it's acceptable to kink shame is if your kink is being treated with respect in the bedroom and cuddling after sex (aka being a "boring vanilla prude"). /s ​ For real though, I feel kinda bad for people who cannot get sexual satisfaction without including a mess of weird kinks, toys, etc. I can't imagine being so deep in some weird kink that enjoying "normal sex" is nearly impossible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 03:42 PM
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That line made me sick, too. ​ Like...does that person honestly believe that it shouldn't raise instant red flags if a dude gets off on child porn? Or snuff films where people and/or animals are tortured? Or if he cannot get it up unless he's playing out a violent rape fantasy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 03:36 PM
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So true. And now these entitled, pornsick freaks think that their kinks are a goddam sexual orientation that deserves reverence and protection. And young women are being pressured not to express revulsion towards certain kinks out of fear of hurting some poor pervert's precious feelings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 03:31 PM
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Well, if those selfish suffragettes had dedicated some of their activism towards protesting the draft, it would have been snuffed out 100 years ago! Heaven forbid men have to get off their asses and fight for their rights all by their lonesome! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 06:10 PM
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Cardi B succeeded in spite of her previous career, not because of it. She only succeeded because women in rap are expected to dress and act like prostitutes. And even then, many of her "fans" turned on her when she talked about robbing a john than had paid to rape her back when she was a young, impoverished stripper. ​ Cardi B is another case of people only respecting sex workers when they parrot the "Happy Hooker" narrative. Once they dare to talk about the ugly side of it, the sex positive cro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 05:41 AM
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"Upward mobility"!? How can you be upwardly mobile in an industry where you become less valuable the older and more experienced you get!? Sex work is the only industry where a 15 year old with zero experience is more sought after than a 35 year old who has been in the industry for ten years. Even if a young girl is happy doing sex work now; her shelf life is only about five years before her perverted fans move on to younger girls. And good luck explaining that five year gap on your resume when y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 06:33 PM
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Wtf she just came out with that out of >nowhere, literally nobody asked. The >kinksters are always so defensive it’s >embarrassing lol. The kinksters also can't go five minutes without giving you all the details of their sex lives. And if you respond with "ew TMI", they cry about being shamed/oppressed. It would be funny if it wasn't so pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 10:31 AM
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I'd rather just not do that. I personally >dont wanna catch some filthy disease or >catch a gross infection. No thanks Not to mention the safety risk of going home with some man you barely know. Though I suppose the author of this article thinks that being locked in a basement rape dungeon is "empowering" as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 11:28 PM
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Ouch. This hit me where I live
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 08:34 AM
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It’s sad a lot of women are financially >dependent on these scrotes. Not sure >about her situation but if I had to guess I >would bet she is too. And if she cannot work due to cancer, she might be dependent on him for her medical insurance as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 03:13 PM
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What would he do if the mother was >alive? Best case scenario, he'd dump ALL the child care on his wife and barely interact with his child. Worst case scenario, he would have found some other reason to resent/neglect that poor baby. And he would have probably ditched his wife & kid the moment she asked him to change a diaper
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 10:31 PM
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I don't understand why some people think you NEED to fuck someone in order to know if you're sexually compatible with them. I think an unfiltered conversation about boundaries and expectations can accomplish the same thing. ​ IMO, it feels like this dogma about "you need to have sex to know if you're compatible or not" is just a bullshit excuse that men use to coerce young and/or desperate women into having sex before they're ready. And it also feels like a way to shame religious/traditional peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 01:59 AM
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Forgive my ignorance, but what does it mean to have a "High N number"? I've never heard that term before
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 01:50 AM
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"If he hurts you during sex or asks you to do anal, be choked, face fucked, or slaps you just be open minded!!!!" "And if you dare act repulsed at the weird, freaky shit he tries to coerce you into, than you're a kink shaming BIGOT!!!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 05:04 AM
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Remember ladies, if you’ve had bad casual sex it’s because you’re nOt cOmmUnIcAtIng eNoUgh ​ Ugh. I hate it when the "sex positive" dipshits say that kinks, BDSM, casual sex, etc are wonderful and empowering if you just ~communicate~ with your partner. It basically tells women who didn't enjoy it that it's THEIR fault for not communicating correctly before caving in to their boyfriend's whining and letting him choke her in bed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 05:01 AM
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