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| 10 | I despise the way the porn industry has made it normal to be abused.I remember Tumblr being the most toxic platform for normalizing all kinds of perverse, sickening sexual taboos. Young girls were groomed by the "choke me daddy" culture that was rampant during the early 2010s. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 08:08 PM |
| 41 | Aaaand this is why drink dates and coffee dates are a bad ideaThere was advice on one post suggesting that you should always have plans lined up before/after your date. That way if he cancels you can just extend your plans/have somewhere to go and the day isn't wasted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 09:04 PM |
| 3 | 💩Jesus fucking christ if she doesn't report this, she is going to hell with this guy. What is wrong with pickmes?! They will literally justify anything and should be held just as responsible for letting this shit slide. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Is this the logic they are using??? 🤦🏽♀️ So which is it? Are men rapists and violent towards women inherently or not?? Are men on board with this excuse?? 😹I started reading that article about labour but it was so fucking disturbing I couldn't get all the way through 😭 Add sexual assault/rape to the millions if reasons why I am never having a child. Women aren't treated like humans. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 02:19 PM |
| 97 | Is this the logic they are using??? 🤦🏽♀️ So which is it? Are men rapists and violent towards women inherently or not?? Are men on board with this excuse?? 😹Girl literally told on herself.... she clearly doesn't think sexworkers are real women as she admits she doesn't think violence towards sexworkers is violence against women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 02:38 AM |
| 40 | imagine being happy because a little kid is crying 🤡🤡At least it's normal for a little girl to cry over something trivial. I can guarantee you these "grown men" have cried over sports/something much more stupid. I'm sure it makes them feel super manly to make fun of a little girl when she does it though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 02:34 PM |
| 8 | I'm devastated. TW Caroline's murderer was her husband.So awful 😔 I can't remember where I read this statistic, but being in an age-gap relationship puts you at a waaaaay higher risk for this. Don't date older men ladies. RIP Caroline 💔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 03:54 PM |
| 57 | Guide to Dating Single DadsLVM/NVM with kids prefer to date women w/o kids because they are scared of the women's ex/don't want to deal with other people's kids. It is a major red flag to me as they appear to be looking to "start over", for "less baggage", someone to mother their kids... that combined with the above risk factors make it not worth it IMO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 02:39 AM |
| 16 | Why you should NEVER go 50/50 on a date: Breaking down the most common argument (Part. 4)My mother used to always tell me "fair isn't always equal" and I think this couldn't be truer for the treatment of women. This is why when liberal feminists beg for equality they get men's rights activists shouting shit like "I shouldn't have to give up my seat for a pregnant woman on the bus! She wants to be equal right?!" This source also does a great job explaining the concept with along with some examples of how it could apply: https://togetherwomenrise.org/international-womens-day-womens-eq… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 11:53 PM |
| 165 | Men do not form meaningful friendships with other men. It is not your job as a woman to fill in that void.This is another reason (on top of countless others) why women shouldn't be friends with men. They are emotional vampires. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 10:56 PM |
| 41 | Why you should NEVER go 50/50 on a date: Breaking down the most common argument (Part. 4)I think a lot of libfems reject the notion that men and women aren't equal because when it is said like that it sounds like men are somehow inherently better...and this isn't even remotely true. The truth is that men and women aren't equal because women sacrifice so much more than men do just to keep the human race existing. To treat us equally, is really poor treatment in my opinion. Men and women aren't equal because as women we will endure more pain and suffering throughout our lives and ther… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 08:16 PM |
| 147 | Guide to Dating Single DadsThe final caveat is the most important and probably should be put again at the top of the post in case someone doesn't read all the way down. 🚨 LADIES DON'T DATE SINGLE DADS IF YOU DON'T HAVE KIDS!🚨 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 07:55 PM |
| 10 | A friend sent me a 🍤-pic out of nowhere and I feel betrayedIt is part of the awakening my friend. Simply way too high risk with very little reward. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 07:07 PM |
| 12 | A friend sent me a 🍤-pic out of nowhere and I feel betrayedYou're right. When I say couple friends, I envision a couple that is friends with another couple with very clear, appropriate boundaries. For example in a hetero relationship, the woman would only technically be "friends" with the woman, same going for the men... but they would all hangout/get together from time to time. Even then, scrotes will be scrotes and cross boundaries. So vetting is extremely important even with these types of friendships. Me and my SO don't really have friends for this … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 06:56 PM |
| 6 | He's a divorcee, ticks all the boxes but I need strategies on how to do more researchListen to your gut. If it doesn't feel right, it probably isn't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 04:03 PM |
| 37 | There was a post on FDS the other day on how “reverse sexism” isn’t real. It got crossposted to another sub and it’s hilarious to me that irony is something always lost on scrotes 🤣 see for yourselfOmg 🤣 "waaAaaaah! tHe BiMboS aRe CaLLiNg uS sCroTes! MiSaNdRy!!!!" ....can they get anymore stupid... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 03:56 PM |
| 21 | A friend sent me a 🍤-pic out of nowhere and I feel betrayedSadly yes. It's such a slippery slope. Just focus on yourself/friendships with HVW. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 03:50 PM |
| 59 | A friend sent me a 🍤-pic out of nowhere and I feel betrayedMale friends aren't worth having IMO. If you're in a relationship, you and your SO can have couple friends...but I don't know anyone in a successful, fulfilling relationship that has friends of the opposite sex that they text/hangout with one on one etc. It just isn't appropriate or necessary. And if you are single most men hanging around you just are trying to shoot their shot. Trying to weed out the ones who aren't looking to be just friends is waaaaay too risky in my opinion. Just don't have … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 01:29 PM |
| 17 | Why do other women get so angry at us? Because patriarchy is a religion, and we are heretics.Thank you for your post. You have put into words what I have experienced my whole life. Social ostracization for speaking my mind and not falling in line. I will continue to do so and walk the lonely path. Much better than the alternative. Stay strong ladies ✌ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 02:02 AM |
| 5 | I am so sick of hearing how men don't care about heightI'm 5'7" and people act like I am tall all the time... like no. You are short. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 07:18 PM |
| 48 | Nearly spit out my coffee reading this 😂🙋♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 03:46 PM |
| 8 | If he visits strip clubs, assume he is soliciting sexIt also shows that these women also objectify strippers/don't consider them real women. If one of her friends offered to give her man a lap dance she would lose her mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 04:13 PM |
| 30 | Men threaten us with "you'll be forever single" while our dating pool is THIS....no thanksHe also called women in porn his "ideal girlfirend".... so much to unpack here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 07:05 PM |
| 57 | Things don’t change even if he marries you. He would get you pregnant and still force you to abortNah sis, most men don't see us as human because they want to fuck us. They just see us as objects to fuck. Complicating it beyond that is giving them too much credit IMO. Also men hate strong women that exhibit the same qualities you just said they hate us for not having. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 10:31 PM |
| 3 | Why I only accept dinner dates when vetting a man.Her friends are part of the problem for sure but she also just got out of an on and off toxic/abusive relationship. Her ex has mental health issues and has been stalking her... I am trying to get her over to FDS but unfortunately she doesn't really use reddit and is tiktok/snapchat obsessed lol this my older sister too so it is harder to "guide" her for the most part. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 05:33 PM |
| 59 | Are men even attracted to women?I practically never wear makeup or even really a cute outfit lately lol (hair in the messiest unbrushed bun that droops to side, no makeup, vaseline slathered all over my face, red face due to tretinoin, mismatched pyjamas with no underwear) and my man still tells me I'm beautiful and gives me affection. HVM appreciate you in whatever state you are in and will find you attractive no matter what. Only pornsick guys expect a perfectly groomed version of you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 03:54 PM |
| 21 | Why I only accept dinner dates when vetting a man.My sister went out with this guy recently.... jobless, lives with his parents in his late 20s. He convinced her to comeover and cut his hair and then go out for a drink with him after. He bought her a drink as "payment" for his haircut and then told her that his friend was coming to the bar and that his friend didn't want to hangout with her... before she even finished the drink he bought her... Like wtf?!? The audacity is insane. Thankfully my mother and I talked her out of ever seeing this guy… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 11:04 PM |
| 7 | Men were not socialized the same way you were. Keep that in mind when you listen to them talk about women.Men gossip just as much as women do if not more. They talk shit about their friends as well as basically every woman they encounter. They will also make up lies about woman and start rumors about them to ruin the woman/girl's reputation while trying to bolster their own. I was a target of locker room talk in high school because I was hot. Everyone wanted to claim they got with me, it was so fuckig pathetic. Many men are such gossipy, insecure wimps lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 07:05 PM |
| 3 | That's what you get when you build a manSidenote...god I hate twerking and the fact that it has exploded in popularity in the last decade. Just another (successful) attempt to frame objectifying yourself as #EmPowErinG. I can't watch a music video without some chick in a thong twerking at me. So exhausting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 07:02 PM |
| 33 | Friendly reminder: we don’t have an expiration dateI can't believe ANYONE would discourage a nice couple from adopting. This world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 08:22 PM |
| 7 | they both acknowledge that women make the decision to create life yet take it for granted that we do and in doing so keep society alive and growing.This is why I'm not reproducing. I am not going to ruin my body and life for society. Society can go fuck itself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 03:32 PM |
| 14 | He says he is all for “enthusiastic consent” but his whole post is putting women down for not wanting to have sex and being upset when their partners turn to porn.Yes! Thank you. Also if a man is truly attracted to you, you shouldn't have to put on a show for him to enjoy himself... orgasming should be effortless on his part. He should be trying to make YOU orgasm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 10:24 PM |
| 38 | 1.2 million likes. Countless comments from men & boys. The new generation are no more compassionate toward women & girls as we’d like to hope. Many are still raised to be disgusting, emotionless burdens on women. I at least hope the girls are being raised to not accept this behavior.Yep. I gave up on humanity long ago. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 10:58 PM |
| 21 | Don't let outdated research and 'biological clock' concerns be a reason to rush the vetting process.Article aside, there's such a thing called wikifeet? 🤢 Enough internet for me today... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 04:40 PM |
| 23 | How many friends did you lose after adopting FDS principles?All of them. All my ex-friends are pretty hardcore libfems. None of them have had a serious relationship either. Lol I know correlation doesn't equal causation but... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 07:00 PM |
| 25 | Young girls are brainwashed into thinking age gap relationships are “hot”Truth. Someone close to me was in a 20 year relationship with someone 20 years older than them and it ended when he became geriatric at around 60-years-old and she was still an energetic 40-year-old with no kids. The guy was a literal waste of space too. Even his grown up kids didn't have anything to do with him. Don't waste your youth on gross older men!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 06:54 PM |
| 8 | A post titled “It feels like he doesn’t care about me anymore” by the lady who was fed slugs. It started so small and “innocent” to evolve into her bf feeding her slugs less than a year later. Red flags evolve into life danger sometimes.Sadly it's real 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 12:19 PM |
| 5 | A great example of how libfem pickmes are dangerous to women. FGM = Female Genital Mutilation.Sadly it was a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 04:51 AM |
| 63 | Not to mention there can be professional repercussions for not performing femininityIt's also the plastic surgery capital of the world. Coincidence? I think not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 10:55 PM |
| 231 | A great example of how libfem pickmes are dangerous to women. FGM = Female Genital Mutilation.I remember being taught in anthropology that viewing FGM negatively was just ethnocentrism. 🙄 I really hated anthro.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 09:31 PM |
| 166 | Yes, you’re cheap. Good for this queen for turning down this low effort “date”!One time when I was in high school I was at Starbucks on the weekend just chilling with a friend having a coffee, when a couple came up to us and demanded we vacate the table because that's where they had their first date and they wanted to do a photoshoot for their engagement 😬 so much cringe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 05:32 PM |
| 25 | Why comparing small dicks with small boobs is a massive false equivalenceYeah, sadly even if you have medium boobs, they are "small" to someone, or "not big" which is still an insult too lol. You seriously can't win. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 12:25 PM |
| 5 | What are physical insecurities that a man has drilled into you?Have also had comments on my height from people of all types. I am 5'7". I feel like it is is the threshold height where people start to perceive you as a threat or something. Good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 04:46 PM |
| 16 | ‘Studies’ showing dad bods are more attractive to womenIt is also waaaaay easier for men to lose weight than it is for women. They have no excuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 12:26 AM |
| 154 | Reddit's Trying Really Hard Right Now to Pretend They Didn't Knowingly Hire A Known Pedophile Apologist and Use Them to Destroy Those Pesky Feminist Subreddits Who've Been IDing all the Rape PornHonestly to me this more looks like a situation where Reddit admins were actively trying to recruit people like this. I mean just look at the filth they allow, while actively banning pro-women subreddits. I imagine the people who run this website are pretty abhorrent themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 12:12 AM |
| 32 | Male entitlementI worked at a bank in a sketchy area and was propositioned in the grossest ways by the most scummy, crusty scotes. One man kept coming back to harrass me and tried to invite me to the barbershop nextdoor after work for a whiskey and some chewing tobacco. 🤢 These men were so fucking stupid too. Like I would regularly have 60-year-old men that smell and look like ass with no money asking out me out... A 20-year-old bank teller. Do they not know we can see they have a home equity line of credit for… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 05:17 PM |
| 37 | What would a world made by women, for women look like?Let's not forget, there are some matriarchal societies in the world: https://www.townandcountrymag.com/society/tradition/g28565280/matriarchal-societies-list/ Who wants to go on a field trip with me to all of them and take notes? 🙋♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 01:54 AM |
| 3 | Pickminique is acting all smug and basking in the attention she's getting from the backlash. FDS mods over here like 😐Wow that's some next level victim complex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 11:03 PM |
| 4 | We Don’t Have Anything To ProvePreach! 🙌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 06:50 PM |
| 7 | We Don’t Have Anything To ProveA woman can't teach a man who doesn't respect women, how to respect women. Why would they ever listen to someone they don't respect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 06:41 PM |
| 18 | Why it's unfair to compare FDS and TRPI feel like the only reason the comparison is drawn/so much anger is directed at this community is because incels see us as the exact women that reject them on a daily basis. Lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 04:24 PM |
| 30 | I am more disgusted by what critics of this sub have DONE than anything SAID here.Same, all by new accounts that did not seem legit at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 12:26 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inI put my junk food there. More shameful when I have to pull out the chair to get something! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 11:19 PM |
| 5 | This is the double bind society presents women with when we try to speak the truth about male pattern behaviour. If we call it out, it’s misandrist. But if we don’t call it out and end up getting harmed anyway, it’s our fault for not seeing the signs. Head men win, tails women lose. Again.🎖🎖🎖🎖🎖🎖🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏅🏅🏅🏅🏅🏅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 06:19 PM |
| 12 | Apparently I need to lower my body standards of men now 🥴Average body fat for women is like 25% whereas it is like 15% for men! Of course he had less body fat than you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 06:15 PM |
| 336 | Pickminique is acting all smug and basking in the attention she's getting from the backlash. FDS mods over here like 😐I saw on Twitter a seemingly HVM responding to her tweet about us, saying he loves the subreddit and it helps him be a better husband. LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 05:31 PM |
| 49 | Have you guys noticed the pickmes that have realized it’s weird not to have friends?Sadly I have like one friend because a lot of my old ones were pickmeishas who were jealous when I got man that treated me right. It was very alarming to realize that the people who I had been putting so much effort into uplifting, didn't want the best for me :(. They literally would talk behind my back about my achievements and how I didn't deserve any of it. Toxic as hell. I dropped them and am happier than ever. I am also an extreme introvert with a job and lots of hobbies so it's hard to fin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 04:51 PM |
| 29 | Guess I'm Strange AF ThenAlso echoing this sentiment. I'm so glad I found this subreddit, even if it was through people who were trying to make a mockery of it. Jokes on them! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 04:44 AM |
| 298 | Guess I'm Strange AF ThenPickmeisha looking for recognition from her scrote boss... doesn't matter how much you drag other women down, he won't promote you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 02:34 AM |
| 117 | Guess I'm Strange AF ThenAgreed. Also the fact that other women start shouting misandry/incel at other women for simply demanding respect/effort in the dating realm shows how deep internalized misogyny runs in a lot of women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 02:30 AM |
| 48 | Guess I'm Strange AF ThenYeah not sure why she is upset we don't want them 🤷♀️ more small dicked, mentally ill, pornsick, freeloader guys to slap her around on the first date! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 02:27 AM |
| 300 | What Dominique Sisley (Vice) said she was writing about FDS vs. what she actually wroteI joined after someone attempted to bash this sub. Anyone with half a brain should be able to see it is nothing like the redpill/incel community | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 01:58 AM |
| 6 | 1 in 3 Women subjected to physical or sexual violence in their lifetimeMore accurate. Everyone I know that has been sexually assaulted was too scared to report the crime. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 06:46 PM |
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