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getrippeddiemirin/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 11:28 AM
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This is too accurate 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 10:14 AM
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It’s crazy how you can watch shows and movies from the 80s-90s, and the men in their 20s-30s were actually attractive back then
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 10:04 AM
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This is great info to have!! I love each time I check the subscribers here it’s increased by a couple tens of thousand women ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 10:00 AM
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Ive recently been forced to acknowledge how little my pickme Mom has always been there for me emotionally. It’s rough, but also seems to answer a lot of questions and explain several things I’ve worked hard to overcome
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 11:12 AM
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They’re too stupid to even be subtle about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 09:37 AM
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I’m not the only one thinking of how the (presumably) hot water striking the fecal matter would easily release all that fecal bacteria into the air on water droplets then help it all circulate and coat everything in the bathroom including their toothbrushes right?? And the scrote, regardless of whatever washing he may or may not do while in there, will be coated in fecal bacteria, as will your towels, so now you’re rubbing that literal shit all over yourself?? Fucking repugnant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 10:06 AM
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The way she’s describing the porn addicted scrote needing a sponsor, accountability partners, and relapsing?? This is actually one of the most pathetic things I’ve read in my lifetime. Like, wow you’ve ruined your dick and now need to waste all these resources and peoples time fixing a problem that never needed to exist in the first place. Good job, idiot male
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 09:56 AM
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Omg Pinkpill was my favourite sub from days of old!! Thank you!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 11:35 PM
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Oh crap. Thank you for the correction 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 11:34 PM
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Please check out Ovarit and/or spinster.xyz. Women owned, female only platforms 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 09:25 PM
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Don’t forget we have Ovarit as well to post on. All Women owned, female-only, Plebbit alternative
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 09:24 PM
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I only realized this two years ago and am still trying to cope with this harsh reality about males
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 05:27 PM
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This is a double post I think: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/nvrig2/when_the_mask_comes_off/ And I agree wholeheartedly, OP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 01:32 PM
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He’s not actually as hungry as he claims to be, this is about control. Chances are this Cluster B case study is 60lbs+ overweight as well, while lying about the gym as much as he lies about his supposed hunger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 10:15 AM
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Not only all this, the entire world and society is designed to cater to scrotes. Imagine having everything around you set up for you, specifically, to succeed, but you still resort to living with your parents and jerking off to pixels all day It’s actually pathetic. Imagine being a male who managed to fail in a world designed to prop him up? Like, how defective as a person do you have to be honestly?? There mere thought of these scrotes makes my vagina dry up into a raisin
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 09:43 AM
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Whenever a guy in my life has talked about going to a strip club, OF, or anything my reaction is always, “OH. You have to /pay/ for it?” 😬😬😬 Make a yikes face and turn away. Maybe snicker. They get sooooo triggered!! It’s hilarious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 10:18 AM
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There are a lot of military vets in the cycling community and just big oooof to the lot of them. I literally only know one who’s close to normal. Special shout-out to the 20 year old boys who like to say they were “in the military” even though they were just in the reserves and went away every other weekend to LARP badass in the woods outside of the city. Shit makes me crack up every single time 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 10:12 AM
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Keep in mind too, the money these women make from their filmed rapes isn’t paid to them for access to her body. The actresses in porn—and any sex worker caught up in that industry—are always being paid for her silence
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 06:37 PM
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There was a post a couple of weeks back where a gynecologist detailed how she would intentionally cut the IUD chord extra short because scrotes would try to pull them out of her clients Sick fucks, really.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 02:16 PM
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Cortisol and other associated stress hormones DO affect our immune systems!! You’re super right about that. Stress hormones tend to weaken our immune response Dr Gabor Mates book “The Body Keeps the Score” goes into this far more in-depth. Actually now that I type it he may not be the author but Eirher way, he has a lot of excellent literature out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 10:21 AM
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They know the difference, they just don't care
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 03:51 PM
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A microcosm of the pickme mindset when it’s left to fester at the hands of males
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:47 AM
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I deeply enjoy getting message and chat requests from them containing paragraphs I won’t ever read. They’re so triggered over the smallest things and devote so much time to being a toxic little leech it’s refreshing to know how much of their own time they waste with little theatrics like that ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:09 AM
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Even watching older movies and media like, men in their 30s used to be actually attractive and now they’re all grotesque ogres. Like what are we even supposed to do with that? Fat, balding, shit personality, selfish, can’t dress, never took care of their skin or ate anything other than takeout so they’re looking haggard at 32; so many of them are acutely mentally ill and not even working on it; make less money than me, don’t own property or cars…. Like what are they even here for other than to b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:04 AM
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I fucking love the generation of girls we have entering adolescence these days. They get it and I’m so, deeply happy. I started to see the pendulum change just as I was leaving college and at this point I’m an Elder Millennial and just so ecstatic about the culture these girls are creating for themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 01:22 AM
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I'm gaining a lot reading the discourse here regarding this piece that I haven't had in past discussions. Thank you again, FDS. Everything the Women here are writing adds depth, and rings so true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 05:40 PM
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At what point is statistically most not considered all? 🙄 YesAllMen should be the new hashtag
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 03:06 PM
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I learned my Mother has herpes because a man she was engaged to have it to her to “ruin” her for anyone else so she would always be alone. He was sick beyond belief. This September she and my father are celebrating their 30th wedding anniversary
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 04:34 PM
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He still looks like hell. Substance abuse has ruined him forever 😵🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 07:46 AM
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You feel that way because you’re right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 10:37 AM
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And yet that’s what internalized misogyny does to a Woman. Don’t blame the Women, they’re the symptom of the problem, which are the dirty scrotes and their patriarchy as always
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 01:52 PM
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Sounds like he’s fried his brain and can’t get a normal endorphin hit so he’s constantly looking for the next fix to distract from the emptiness inside he rightfully feels What a loser
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 12:14 PM
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I actually burst out laughing. Wow 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 08:38 PM
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I <3 Radfem Black’s posts on Tumblr
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 10:24 AM
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Building off of that; if they think THATS what Anarchism entails then it’s just more literature they couldn’t be bothered to read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 10:15 AM
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Don’t forget John Travolta!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 07:12 PM
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“I’ll take your word for it” Then watch as they either take a minute for their pea-brains to understand you just insulted them, or start scrambling and backpedaling ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 06:22 PM
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For real realizing this was a gamechanger for me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 01:45 PM
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Literally I noticed LVM, abusers, and other breeds of Scrotes always stunk to me. I now take hating the way they smell as a great indicator to walk far, far away. It's like my gut instinct, except it's on my face lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 01:44 PM
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Building off of this, why is it that so many single males' homes all have the same stench to them? It's like you've said with the stink, musky, sourness. You can always tell when a male lives alone because of this!! I've had two roommates, the guy that lives in the unit near the front door of my current place, friends, work colleagues, dudes I had dated.... their homes just fuckin' reek!!! It's actually noteworthy when a male's home or apartment doesn't have this nasty odour to it--and the odour…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 01:43 PM
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Rest assured, he’ll most likely end up picking them back up again the second things get “too hard” for him.... so the next time a Woman looks his way and snickers lmaoo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 10:33 AM
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On the other hand, it’s very useful when scrotes announce themselves when they assume you’re on their side
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 10:29 AM
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Hot take: Kiwi Farms has better moderation than Plebbit.... excluding FDS of course. The FDS Mods are in a league of their own 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 09:49 AM
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It doesn’t even matter, as so many Women here are pointing out. I’ve had the same scrote tell me, from one week to the next, “I love how direct and clear your communication is” turn into, “I’m not a mind reader!! How am I supposed to know you said that?” Like fuck off lmao. They’re dedicated to MiSuNdErStAnDiNg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 12:39 PM
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What a cutie pie
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 05:50 PM
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It’s good to be reminded that men, if they put the smallest amount of effort in, can actually be attractive!! Fancy that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 10:13 AM
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This is pickemism in its final form if that is what they're doing--and you make an excellent point that they probably are
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 12:20 PM
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Males are defective cradle to the grave. Abhorrent behaviour, yet none of it is surprising
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 08:30 PM
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Ive recently had to admit to myself, after therapists trying to push me to the conclusion since 2017, that I grew up in an abusive household and that my dad was/is abusive. It’s a lot. It also shines a light on so many things that didn’t make sense to me growing up, and the fact that I knew I’d never marry a male because I wouldn’t want one of those feral animals shitting up my home life and disturbing my peace
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 10:47 AM
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Here with you, sis <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 10:32 AM
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You learn to read the signs in their words and actions. Once you have it down, the pornsick limp dick really just announce themselves very loudly. Even if he doesn’t /say/ anything untoward long enough for you to get physical, you can always tell the second he lays a hand on you—even non-sexually—if he’s a porn addict and not worth your time. Even the way they touch is non-sensual and just devoid of intimacy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 10:31 AM
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Building off of this—AND GIRL YES TO ALL OF WHAT YOU’VE WRITTEN—I’ve noticed most of what males think “sex” is, is really just masturbation... not even necessarily mutual. He jackhammers in his porn-replicating idea of what sex is supposed to be, which is nothing more than using your/ the Woman’s body to masturbate. They then ignore your clitoris, even when you correct them or place their hand there, so you end up pleasuring yourself while he masturbates into you. Sex with a porn consuming scrot…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 10:15 AM
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Males ALWAYS project their defective characteristics and shortcomings onto you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 04:35 AM
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I enjoy when men jerk their heads around to stare at me while I barely acknowledge them outside of my peripheral vision. They’re so desperate. I’ve even had men I was out with comment on them 😬😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 05:06 PM
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My Mom always says this, no matter how many times I correct her, or point out that she and I are both very different types of Women, who surround ourselves with different types of Women, and that my experience is not her own. Very tiring
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 02:14 PM
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Thank you. I also just want to say, even vocalizing the abuse here as I have is a big step. It's incredibly difficult and painful to need to redefine your entire, formerly thought to be "happy except for...." childhood with the cold, truthful lens that comes with adulthood and growing. I've been working through just that shifting of the view I had of my formative years for so long, and the understanding about myself that comes with it. It's hard for me to call abuse abuse, because its fucking pa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 01:02 PM
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It makes them so disgustingly unattractive as a class 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 11:53 AM
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I already am planning to move to the other side of the country early next year :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 06:22 PM
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Honestly it’s one of those things where he’s LV af, but he does actually care deeply and love me and has made major sacrifices for my wellbeing and to put me ahead my entire life. Unfortunately, the LV side of him has also damaged my Mother and I, while continuing to perpetuate a cycle of abuse less than he himself experienced, though still present and hurtful. It’s complicated and—for better or worse—not all bad or good to both large and small degrees. He’s not in my life much as-is, so the ext…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 02:14 PM
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Are you me? I’m so sorry you had to live through that as I know the stress and pain all too well. Proud of us for making it through and moving onto better things :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 02:07 PM
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It’s not even necessarily a “warm body with a vagina” for scrotes. The vast majority of them are really playing, “Any holes the goal!!” On any given day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 11:58 AM
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My LVM dad thought I “disrespected” him, so he decided to go back to his usual vitriolic, personal attacks. It’s exhausting. I told him I’m sorry he felt that way. This was over a month ago and despite me not actually doing anything wrong I know I’m going to end up needing to apologize (for nothing) to keep the peace eventually. It’s going to be one of those, “oh we were bOtH iN tHe WrONg” bullshit things males need to hear to calm down and even admit they did something unacceptable in the first…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 11:37 AM
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Honestly even a 📬 who isn’t related to you, living as a roommate can go full destructive scrote on you and make himself a burden upon you. Generally speaking, just give them a wide berth otherwise they’ll impose themselves on you any way that they can
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 11:34 AM
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I’m gonna add an /s here because your sarcasm took me a minute because I got so angry lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 11:08 AM
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It's a wonderful idea, but I don't have the bandwidth right now to take something like that on. I'd feel like an ass to just come begging without a willingness to participate as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 11:56 PM
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I wish we could reopen Pinkpill on Ovarit ;-;
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 09:19 AM
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Agree wholeheartedly and just want to add that it’s not up to us to drag them up to our level. Just because a male has the capacity to be better than he is, doesn’t mean it’s up to you to drag the humanity out of him kicking and screaming. If he hasn’t done the personal work on his own, he won’t bother to do it for you. If he wanted to, he would have. Protect yourself by leaving those with no emotional maturity or will to improve in the dust where they belong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 08:54 AM
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Oh my goodness I’ve had the same experience with FDS validating everything I grew up believing before I tried to be “nice” when I hit college/my 20s and everything got shitty!! Studious tomboy who tells it like it is, too. Very little experience with males in my formative years because they just had nothing to offer me, eventually had to deal with all the crazies that see taking down Women like us as “hunting big game.” I feel so vindicated and validated after decades of seemingly everyone beati…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 08:48 AM
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The Ys are always projecting. It’s kind of ridiculous. I was talking about being chronically ill to a man I was vetting (that turned out to be insecure as fuck as a baseline and therefore unsuitable) ask me whether I wanted to keep dealing with it on my own..... like, I’m not alone?? I have an amazing and expansive support network of amazing people in my life. Just because I don’t have some manchild Scrote hanging off my breast, doesn’t mean I’m in any way lonely, or unsupported 🤔 It told me a l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 08:25 AM
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The worst part is, too, that when they start porkin' up, they don't stop. Most Women would notice we feel differently, our clothes might not fit the same, and dial back the treats. Dudes will just power through until they're 40.... 80....120lbs overweight!!! I don't understand it. One guy I was vetting talked all last year about how he wanted to "go back to skinny times" while continuing to balloon. He claims he needs to train a specific way to scuba diving lmao like ok there, Weekend Warrior. N…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 04:07 PM
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When they do this with me, I’ll usually step on their feet or “accidentally” trip them up then when they turn to look I just shrug, “Careful, champ.” Then turn away from them. Not a one of them has ever once attempted any followup inside the gym to on the street
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 11:36 AM
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Also if he’s been renting the house out for any amount of time, let’s assume 20 years here, he hasn’t been around to do needed and meaningful repairs. The house and land its on have most likely depreciated starkly in value—moreso than they would have if he had actually been living there and maintaining the property. We know landlords go for the quick, cheap fix and rarely spend the time or money on a meaningful upgrade when something breaks down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 10:17 AM
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Yes, just be careful about which hobby groups you join. I’m big into cycling, and little did I know joining my local cycling community would just be 90% fat old LVM in stretched-out Lycra that get pissed when you point out you can see their ass through their too-small Rapha bib shorts. I just wanted to make more Women friends!!! Oh well, the few of us found each other out there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 09:59 AM
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YES!! This!! These are skills I’ve been consciously working to develop for years now. When I was growing up, I was never taught how to form strong relationships, and do simple stuff like ask people follow up questions, or remember a specific date. People didn’t do that for me, and my parents relationship is not something I’m looking to emulate in my own life. You know I’ll even now tell them one of my animals had to go to the vet, or that we got in a certain case at the Wildlife Rescue and it’s …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 09:56 AM
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Imagine if scrotes out 1/8th of that effort into making themselves actually likeable and desirable as mates
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 09:02 AM
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These are my favourite messages to receive lmaooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 08:20 AM
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Have you and your doctor spoken about even something like Nuvaring? The pill, for me, was horrific, but Nuvaring worked really nicely for over a decade for me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 11:19 AM
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The boomers that failed to raise their kids properly still have them at home
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 10:29 AM
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It’s like that South Park episode with voting between a Giant Douche and a Turd Sandwich. If both your choices are shit, then why bother?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 12:11 PM
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Here’s a good one for ya: In college I actually still thought males, as a class, were worth my time so I was trying to date after the barren wasteland of attractive males that was my high school. Friend knew a guy, oh he was so great, etc etc etc so I agreed to be set up on a date. I don’t remember details as this was about 10 years ago now, the date wasn’t anything special, but I got a weird gut feeling about him. He seemed perfectly fine and ACTUALLY HAD TABLE MANNERS WOW, but there was just s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 12:05 PM
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SAME I wanted to laugh react, but this isn’t Facecrook
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 10:47 AM
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According to mind I really cling to my “deflecting bullshit” when I don’t respond to his insults. I also “just don’t understand how the world works” and “Always have to do things to hard way” like oooookkk bud enjoy dropping out of university. I was the first person in my immediate family to graduate from higher education. Now my dad is dealing with testicular torsion because I pointed out I’d never want to grow, live, and die in the same Province I grew up in.... which is something he’s done. G…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 10:43 AM
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As Gail Dines so eloquently has put it, “ Hurts my heart to say this but In porn culture we need to rethink pedophilia as a category that stands apart from normalized male behavior. In porn “sex” is the eroticization and weaponization of men’s power over the powerless. Women and children fit into this latter category and hence what we call pedophilia is conformity to, and a logical extension of, male sexual privilege. Not a deviant act.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 12:19 PM
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The Hodge Twins have really let themselves go
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:49 PM
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I burst out laughing when he called her a “deadbeat” AHAHAHAHAHA
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 03:09 PM
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The podcast Behind the Bastards has done two, 2-part episodes on Zuckerborg. They’re a great listen and his well of depravity goes deeper than we know: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/105-behind-the-bastards-29236323/episode/part-one-mark-zuckerberg-the-worst-30417725/ And this is part 1 of their second two-parter: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/105-behind-the-bastards-29236323/episode/part-one-mark-zuckerberg-should-71796243/ WORTH A LISTEN THIS BEHAVIOUR IS NOT SURPRISING
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 11:11 AM
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And now you won’t waste one more precious second of your time and life on these dead-end losers ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 11:01 AM
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There’s a growing body of evidence suggesting just that. Same with codependency.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 10:40 AM
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Fuuuuuuuuuuck every single part of that entire experience oh my god
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 09:42 AM
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So he did nothing but parrot basic tropes about girls he read online. Classic!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 09:32 AM
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First red flag is that he’s divorced with a kid. The last girlfriend or wife probably ran screaming from this unempathetic trainwreck. Bet you $5 he only sees his daughter every other weekend.... another red flag from this scrote Oh wait sorry did I say red flag there I meant dealbreakers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 09:31 AM
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Then they’ll become angry and vindictive because you never do things together and you’re always going out on your own to do fun stuff
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 09:13 AM
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Be thankful you’ll never end up trapped like her. I do the same with my Mom, but could never tell her so
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 09:08 AM
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Well a big problem with that too is that males are incapable of accessing the spiritual and ethereal realms like Women do. They’re an emotionally dead sect of people who lack empathy. A male mysticist is just a dude listening to what his narcissistic or otherwise cluster B personality disorder tells him. Not comparable to a Woman mysticist in any degree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 08:49 AM
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Gail Dines is another Feminist who’s been speaking out about the damaging effects of p*0n for decades. Check her out too!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 01:59 PM
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"Compliments" from men have only ever made me feel annoyed tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 03:24 PM
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Make one on Ovarit? :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 10:13 PM
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In retrospect, that show fucked me up regarding relationships and interactions with males at a crucial time in my development. Sigh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 03:57 PM
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It’s the one thing they consistently show up and do 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 06:00 AM
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Tbh even in my pick me days of college, I always felt embarrassed when I went out with a guy and would pay for us. Shoulda just not done it instead lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 07:10 PM
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I keep seeing more and more women—and their sons—describing the male as the “sperm donor” which seems a tad vulgar, but truly does just hit the nail on the head with most of these scrotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 11:20 AM
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In college one of my coworkers used the response, “No thanks, I’m working on someone.” Which I just fell in love with, and started using. It’s nice because it tells them no, while seizing the concept of power within a relationship away from them. They’re not used to women being active pursuers, just passive, so it throws them off. Then whenever they start asking questions I just describe basically my ideal guy, say we met at the gym so I’ve basically seen ‘the goods’ already so I know it’s worth…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 12:22 AM
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I think to most of us reading, that first sentence says more than you or I ever could about them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 03:23 PM
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If it helps I had an Australian roommate for 3 years who I spent that entire time thinking was like 38-40ish. Turns out he turned 34 when I moved out. He was 31 when we moved in together. OOF And he was all you said, obese, pasty, bald, horrible fuckin tattoos like wow, main hobby was drinking, no close or meaningful friendships, emotional, masturbated with the door open..... just wow. He’d also let his equally emotionally dead friends sleep over in the living room, but then I’d wake up to some …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 12:16 PM
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I’ve unsubscribed like three times now, but they keep sending me more emails!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 12:00 PM
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I think you might be also stuck, a bit, in the scarcity mindset. As if males are a limited resource, and as you age the pool of seemingly acceptable ones appears to shrink. Rest assured, there are over 80 million excess males on the planet (https://www.hrw.org/world-report/2019/country-chapters/global-0) It takes a long time to unlearn patriarchal brainwashing. Just promise to be kind to yourself—don’t be hard on yourself. I do it too still, sometimes. As long as you are mindful, aware, catch yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 05:06 PM
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Scrotes will literally fuck a McChicken. Male attention is NOT a prize, and women half your age—or any other woman out there—are NOT “competition” Read the handbook, please
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 10:45 AM
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Straight facts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 10:56 AM
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If women were attracted to money then why are Elon Musk and Jeff Bezos both divorced? Idiots.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 09:34 PM
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Same!! It’s really so sad... and the worst part? I also enjoy games—I’ve spent numerous years working at a AAA game studio. I can’t date gamer, can’t talk to them, can’t do much of anything because they’re so repulsive. I wish someone had waved a flag at me when I was younger or throughout school saying the people I was surrounded by would NOT improve. Ugh. I smoke weed and play video games. Any male with those hobbies seem to be devoid of any others, or seem to make their entire day/afternoon a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 09:26 PM
7

There is also “dog repellant” which is just pepper spray. You can get it at most camping/ outdoor stores like SAIL or MEC, or at your local army surplus
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 10:57 AM
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Which is basically why you don’t argue your humanity with scrotes. They don’t care, and therefore don’t debate in good faith—really not worth your time and energy, just block, delete, and move to the next dick in line
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 10:51 AM
16

A male is not, and will never be, a “NEED”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 11:32 AM
70

BAM I gotcha https://archive.is/RS7Lm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 09:49 PM
15

Sounds like an alcoholic roommate I had the misfortune of cohabiting with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 08:49 PM
24

I’m an Earth sign and have a propensity for reading old books I get for free. I’ve noticed in many older tales about the upper echelons of society, they refer to “his” or “her” bedroom quite often. This seems to be somewhat consistent through Britain, Germany, and South American countries like Argentina. I’m beginning to think sharing a bedroom is a fairly recent development—or something that begun during Colonization so the males could “keep an eye” on “his” wife. Couldn’t have her sneaking off…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 01:13 PM
13

At what point do we stop blaming the defectiveness of males on socialization? We’re all about listening to them when they tell on themselves, so maybe it really I BiOLogY that they’re all so selfish, violent, emotional, reactive, and generally toxic. Women the globe over for all of recorded history have been dealing with the exact same problems from Scrotes. It hasn’t gotten better— in fact it’s gotten worse for women at every turn. At what point is statistically most not considered “all?” The m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 11:24 AM
6

The array of technical skills he’s showing in this one video alone is blowing my damn mind!! To be able to create patterns—which I assume he does given that he is making his own fabric on top of everything else—for such a wide array of dress types blows my mind. His attention to detail and skill necessary to even execute some of these things is wow. To even be able to work with so many different fabric types I am in awe, honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 02:36 PM
193

My unstable roommate that attacked me because he decided we were in a relationship was literally like, “Wow I’m so depressed can you get me shrooms to reset my brain?” Like oh hello that’s the 40th red flag this week. If anyone in your life is sick enough that they think a big, sudden change will magically make them better, dump them. Recovery from trauma, abuse, pickmeism, depression—ANYTHING requires consistent effort over a long period of time. You cannot suddenly move to a new country, get a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 02:20 PM
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Not a red flag, a dealbreaker. We need to stop kneecapping our boundaries and what we will and won’t put up with with softer language than the situation calls for
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 11:32 AM
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I found reading The Gift of Fear by Gavin de Becker helped me distinguish between anxiety and genuine fear/my gut telling me something. Another thing is something my therapist told me years ago: Sometimes listening to your gut means listening when it’s silent That made a huge difference for me. Now, my anxiety can go bonkers and I know what that feels like. It’s very different to a gut feeling. If my anxiety is going crazy, but my gut isn’t, then that tells me what I need to know :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 11:30 AM
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The boy in OPs video can’t spell lmao. And he’s a NURSE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 11:50 AM
38

Studies say it usually is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 11:30 AM
5

This is like that episode of South Park where all the boys feel bad about being boys because 📬 are scum, Butters starts the “wieners out” thing, and Kyle says something like, “Wow I’m almost starting to feel bad about being male!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 12:10 PM
14

You’ve perfectly summarized DARVO Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Oppressor
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 10:58 PM
4

📬s favourite game to play is called “Any Hole’s the Goal”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 01:48 PM
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Yes, I don't think that's what she's saying either. I also think the simplicity of my original comment aids in its effectiveness. I use it as a reminder myself sometimes, referring to many situations in life :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 05:53 PM
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Just because it’s been normalized and accepted by the majority doesn’t mean it’s ok
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 10:17 PM
11

SERIOUSLY!!!! And like, after losing my virginity I have spent the following 10 years seeing more dicks than the 10 years prior to his. Basically, more than 2 lol. I now look back and see how that nice dick was one in a million and he made sure to COMPLETELY WASTE IT FFS!!! Like "Check out this Bugatti but it has no engine lol" Goddamn waste.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 02:33 PM
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First dude I ever banged had ED at 19(!!!!!!) from gorilla gripping it to porn. Sex maybe once a week. Never gave me an orgasm. Expected me to do all the work. You know what the saddest thing about all this was? Dude legit had a gigantic dick. Honest 9 incher, couldn’t touch my fingertips to one another when he was erect. To be crude, dare I say, a legit horsecock on that one!!! Worst sex of my entire life. Such a waste of what might have been a nice penis. Sadder still, the scrote attached to i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 12:58 PM
21

I miss the days when “kino” which is German for “film,” was internet slang for something beautiful, well-composed, artistic, etc. Not..... the usual filth the lesser sex has warped this into as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 02:43 AM
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This is a BIG first step in breaking a pattern of toxic and otherwise bad-for-you behaviours. I am so proud!! We are so proud!! Keep it up!! :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 07:15 PM
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It’s probably the same thing that makes these morbidly obese gamers think me, a Nationally ranked and sponsored athlete who was on my National Team’s development squad, would ever give them so much as a disgusted glance. It makes no damn sense. Porn has rotted their brains
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 10:48 AM
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I GAGGED
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 01:01 PM
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This More male projection and cope. I bet they also think a young 20 year old woman would unironically find some 40 year old scrote more attractive than someone her age who still has all his hair 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 11:47 AM
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Last year, when males would try to use me for emotional labour, I started telling them to go to a therapist. Then, because I worked for one of my city’s crisis lines (it got to be too much for me), I give them a list of resources. Idk if they thought I’d waste my free time counselling them about their dead dog or whatever because I was working for that crisis line, but seriously. It’s cut down on the annoying demands for free emotional labour and therapy from them by seriously at least 90%!!! Hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 11:56 AM
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When I was like 10 I used to be on Neopets all the time. Dad downloaded a virus or 12 from watching porn and I got banned from the computer in the computer room (90s- early 2000s) until I found a bunch of porn he had downloaded before school one morning and showed my Mom Growing up my Dad was LV as fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 11:03 AM
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Yes we call this “himpathy” as males are incapable of feeling true empathy for other people, though it is easier for them to do for another scrote. He experiences “himpathy” for his daughter, mother, wife, because he sees them as possessions and extensions of himself. He perceives a threat to the women around him as a threat to his “property.” Males do not experience the full range of emotions women do. The few they are able to express—other than anger—all relate back to males using women and gi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 10:59 AM
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I actually finally ran into one of these scrotes in the wild!! He was attempting to distract from a debate about male violence, rape, and porns impact on all of this by claiming FDS told women to drug their dates and steal their wallet. It was actually almost a textbook example of strawman argument in conjunction with typical male hypersensitivity and theatrics when they feel like a statement made might slightly almost refer to them and make dudebro nearly reflect on what gets his PP hard. Very …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 11:30 AM
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It was also a running joke and conversation Jim and Pam were having about when or how he would propose to her. Jim made sure she knew it was imminent, and if I remember correctly, Pam only got duped three times if that before the real proposal came
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 02:39 AM
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I’m only 28 and you’re who I wanna be as I age
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 01:47 PM
15

I can hear the calliope from here 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 12:24 PM
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Fellow Canadian here. You can carry bear mace as a self-defence item, and it’s only illegal to discharge it within city/town limits usually. You can also pick up “dog repellent” from almost any camping or outdoor store, as well as any army surplus shop near you. “Dog repellent” is pepper spray. Also, if you’re (unfortunate) like me and live somewhere like Toronto, if you go into any chinese mall like Pacific Mall or whichever one is in your local chinatown; they usually carry things like brass k…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 11:36 AM
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You and I both, sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 09:41 PM
15

I had a potential HVM I was/am courting. He said that he thinks he isn't truly a man until he becomes a father. I don't know why, but that sent up every red flag I have and I'm probably going to remove him from the rotation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 01:44 PM
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“I can change him!!11” Girl did he shit himself lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 02:26 PM
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Probably dabbing the head with the TP? If you’re a woman who has issues with lil toilet paper balls and bits on your labia after wiping, try dabbing instead. I discovered it when my crotch was especially tender once and haven’t looked back!! It gets everything you just need a lil ball in your fingertips or whatever
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 02:51 AM
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Omg it takes so long for hot water to reach me on the 4th floor of this old Victorian imagine a -22C morning and HELLO NOW YOU'RE AWAKE Better than a cup of coffee to get you moving I bet lmao :P
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 08:42 PM
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Someone exploitable for resources and/or labour. Someone they want to possess. Something that is pretty and will be seen as the perfect accessory for the vision of themselves said males want to show other XYs. A trophy to be won or otherwise taken
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 08:40 PM
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Tbh I'm living in a rental and have been very pleased with general fresh feelings by using those flushable (but not actually flushable) baby wipes. Unscented, hypoallergenic, toss 'em in the bin when you're done AND as a bonus whenever I travel anywhere over night I just stuff a small fistful into a baggie and take it with me. Fresh fanny wherever I go!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 06:27 PM
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Male sexuality is defined by dominance and control. There isn’t anything more to it than that because they aren’t exactly complex or intricate creatures to try and figure out. That’s why a male will gleefully attempt to fuck a pie, goats, pigs, stuffed animals, a cantaloupe, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 11:31 AM
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And 10/10 times that trunk junk is NOT a squat booty like the gay men at the gym are rockin 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 12:23 PM
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This is gospel. After spending a couple years on FDS, PPF, and other women-dominated subs, the quality of the discussion is leaps and bounds above anything I have to endure on non-women dominated sites and pages. There’s no going back to the grunting Neanderthals and their shirt excuse for a “conversation”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 12:11 PM
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Legit on a special day I expect more than a $5 thing of chocolates. $20-30, Lindt, Godiva, local artisan chocolatier—whatever—just hit me with something unique. Those $5 pittance offerings are accepted on non-holiday days. You’re a goddess; demand to be worshipped as such. Don’t settle ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 11:50 AM
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Sounds like a fantastic day to stay inside and binge your favourite podcast while painting tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 11:48 AM
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“Females” 🙄🙄🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 11:45 AM
19

At least you figured out where his off switch was. Dude sounds exhausting from this story alone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 12:49 PM
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Yes that is the expectation.... is this scrote bragging about doing what’s expected of him and/or the bare minimum? Yikes, as always
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 12:38 PM
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I think a lot of this comes back to a fundamental misunderstanding of stoicism philosophy. We know how XYs like to bloviate and talk.....endlessly, with pity little understanding of the concept they’re attempting to address. They think no emotions==stoicism which no, little buddy. Actually as I type this, a new theory pops up; they can’t tell diction from reality. Most of these characters are fantastic within the media they are portrayed in, but outside of that? Irl?? Fuck no!! My comparison is …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 11:27 AM
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Cry harder it’s a real panty dropper lmaaooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 11:12 AM
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I know you’re joking, but I am coming in here stone-cold serious: This type of disease vector is not worth your time, attention, or safety. He is as negative value as they come. Do not fuck, do not pass GO, do not risk your vaginal ph, do not acknowledge. A Scrote like this one is leagues beneath you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 12:03 PM
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I’ve reported some dude for calling a woman a “sheb**n” and anyone calling him out “mud sharks” and facecrook didn’t do shit. On the other hand, my friends comment got auto-reported for use of the word crazy when he said, “Oh you crazy Canadians” Fucking trash site
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 11:57 AM
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Scrotes don’t get any more useful at 25. Or any other age. It took a group of women older than me—the youngest being 32–yelling “NOOOOO” when I made the comment, “I thought they’d grow out of it.” XYs don’t advance, grow, or improve on the whole. I’m 28 and couldn’t tell you a single time in my life some Scrote did me any good or has even been able to meet me on my level. That gap has only grown wider as my career has advanced and these boys don’t even have a drivers license at 26. Just pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 11:55 AM
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If males start paying a “dude tax” like we do a “pink tax” on dumbass products like this, then I’m all for it. Gonna also bet that cost more than $2.50, and it’s only 48 wipes instead of the standard 72/100. Products like this are a stupidity tax lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 11:45 AM
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Man the second I read “I’m more of a girth girl myself” I was just DONE laughing 😂🤣😂🤣 Can’t wait to use that one out in the wild
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 11:46 AM
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I’m Canadian and would be interested too!! I’m very handy with general maintenance and repairs and am working as a technical director (my first career) while I go to school to become a firefighter!! Wildfire firefighter, of course. I have many years of gardening, hunting, snaring, and foraging under my belt too :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 11:39 AM
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Came here to say this.... and I live in my country’s most populous city. Literally 51% of the total country’s population live here and I couldn’t tell you the last time I saw a male worth turning around on. Maybe last January, but he’s a coworker so it hardly counts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 09:50 AM
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Sleep deprivation is, of course, a form of abuse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 12:04 AM
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lmaaooo but think about it. Ricky and the rest of the boys are supposed to be depictions of the lowest of the low. Stupid, violent, fuckhead criminals.... but even then, Ricky doesn't just leave his family hanging. Your average Scrote is a worse example of a father than the deliberate personification of the worst type of person imaginable!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 09:47 PM
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This is a naive view and sis if you “need” to ask your husband/bf/pet scrote “permission” to do any damn thing then you need to dump him yesterday
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 03:13 PM
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I’ve purposefully changed my language to say “males and women” or something to that effect unless the male in question has shown himself deserving of being called a man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 04:09 AM
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lmaooo yesss and even Trin’s wedding money?? Ricky has always done The Most for his family. He’s a complete failure of a person, but not for lack of trying otherwise!! You can’t say he doesn’t care 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 09:20 PM
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Yuuuup.... but let's be real we all did that for a time in high school after reading Deathnote for the first time LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 01:37 PM
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Can someone send this woman a recipe for homemade fabric cleaner?? It’s like 3 ingredients sheesh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 12:22 PM
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Maybe he has been reading too much manga and thinks sitting like L is endearing or cute or whatever
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 12:21 PM
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HAH it’s remarkable how many scrotes grew up watching TPB and somehow think Ricky is someone to emulate. But even then, the boys tell each other they love one another all the time and Ricky goes out of his way to be there for Trin/Lucy/Mo/his family. He’s a damn moron, but not a complete deadbeat(least not intentionally), nor is he emotionally stunted and unable to express himself. Same with Julien and my boy Bubbles who is the best of the three So anyway scrotes will see 10+ seasons of that and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 12:06 PM
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Be a lot more peaceful I’d imagine lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 10:50 AM
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https://www.pdfdrive.com/the-gift-of-fear-e39893700.html ❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 10:29 AM
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Thank you, Mods 💗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 12:11 PM
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Yaaassss get it girl!!! That’s my EoY 2021 goal!!! Oh the freedom must feel so good ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 12:09 PM
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As a bisexual woman I’d just hit back with something like, “I guess all the orgasms I wasn’t having with males don’t count as sex either” or something to that effect. Just need to work out the verbiage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 12:57 PM
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It’s been a problem in the past whenever we’ve had a big influx of new users. The Mods might need to make another reminder post because you’re spot on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 12:28 PM
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I'm shocked they had jobs to lose tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 11:23 PM
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SIS this had me howlin' 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 01:46 PM
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Ugh I just felt my vagina dry up into a raisin YUCK
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 10:09 AM
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Thank you, love. I have already yeeted the abusive males from my life as of a year and some ago. The healing, mercifully, comes fast. I am not OP and hope she reads your kind words—I couldn’t hope to say them any better myself 💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 02:28 PM
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Working on an exit plan, maybe. A lot of these males go full violent chimp out if they don’t get their way or find out you’re leaving. The most dangerous time for a woman is when we leave an abuser. Have faith; we’re all on our own journeys here and at different points on the road <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 12:12 PM
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I can count on one hand the number of times I’ve entered a single man’s apartment and NOT dealt with that stench. I had a roommate once I just started blasting half cans of Lysol into his room at the threshold because it was fumigating the entire living room with his disgusting reek
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 12:08 PM
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Males are fucking deranged
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 11:48 AM
6

PLEASE read the Handbook
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 01:38 PM
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Even when it comes to true crime, female criminals are just more interesting for exactly this reason!! Males will decide to kill because “m-m-much dick!!1” or because Mommy didn’t love them when they were 8, but they never bothered going to therapy and fixing themselves, so they’re now 40 and still buttmad over their parents not cupping their balls enough for them when they were children. Women criminals, however, regardless of the crime, always have some sort of actual trauma, or were manipulat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 01:17 PM
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I like to make glaringly transparent excuses like, “I have to go wash my cat” before leaving. One time a scrote made a joke about washing my cat meaning washing my “pussy” (hate that word ugh) and I neutered him with a sharp comment of how the state of my vagina won’t ever be something for him to worry himself over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 01:11 PM
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lmaoo we have the best Dads. Mine told me to, “Start kicking them in the balls and keep kicking them and don’t stop until they stop moving. When they’re on the ground aim for the rib cage or the skull”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 12:20 AM
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Tbh if the scrote gives you even smallest but if doubt as to whether or not he’s going to/is acting right then he’s already failed as a partner and equal. There’s the door. Buh-bye
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 12:23 PM
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Sis, you can make your own choices, but if a scrote even gives me a WHIFF of bullshit I distance and disengage. If you’re exclusive and he’s making you question the relationship then he’s already failed as a partner. There’s the door
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 12:22 PM
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I always grew up being told we came from Vikings and our family crest has a lion on it so that means we’re royalty. I’m like, “Ok dope” and ran around treating it like some sort of secondary zodiac sign lol Well a couple years ago my Dad did the 23 and Me thing. So much Viking. Much history. He identified with being Irish a bunch, but now he brings up being a Viking so much!!! It’s cute. Maybe because it’s my Dad and the DNA test really solidified old family rumour and some of the write up we ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 01:01 PM
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Read even just the first two chapters of Why Does He Do That? By Lundy Bancroft. The whole book is available free online. It’s not about you and never was. He is a narcissist and defective—as most males are these days. You’ve done nothing wrong by being brought to a breaking point. You’re not hysterical and your reaction was completely normal and valid. That scrote is dirt. PLEASE read these two chapters and heal. They did more for me in my healing journey than months of therapy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 12:19 PM
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I think I'm disgusted by the learned helplessness of them all. It's absolutely pathetic, honestly. They're xy, have had the ENTIRE SYSTEM our societies are built on cupping their balls and whispering sweet nothings in their ear.... yet they'll still so incapable of just doing better? Seriously??? There's something more than laziness at play here--there has to be!! This might just be yet another area of life in which males are defective and ultimately a burden. Regardless I'm glad to have pinpoin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 01:43 PM
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Sperm banks don’t even accept males below 5’7” so why should I? 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 10:38 AM
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One thing I have noticed is how desperately some males claim to need therapy, be upset that “nObODy tAkEs mALe meNtAL hEaLtH sERioUsLy,” etc etc yet do everything in their power to stay completely static. They never take responsibility for their piss-poor mental health, never do anything about it, complain about their dead end job while making no change.... Like I don’t understand it. Just endless whining and complaining and carrying on, but not making any moves to improve themselves or their st…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 10:36 AM
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This. I never argue with another woman. When and if she becomes ready, I’ll be here for her. Heck, I think we all will be!! One thing I need to add too is the more I unapologetically promote the FDS mindset and point out patriarchal bullshit, I’ve yet to meet one woman who listens to what I have to say and doesn’t agree with at least some of it. Sometimes that one questioning feeling is all it takes. She can take it from there ☀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 10:26 PM
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Yeah yeah let’s see if it sticks. It’s easy for XYs to pretend for a few weeks. Call me in 6 months 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 10:21 PM
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I wasn't even fuckin' 'em, but these are my last three roommates. Good thing I'm pissing away $1800/month on a mortgage instead of rent now, and they haven't a hope in hell of buying property in this city--let alone province.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 03:38 PM
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These posts make me need to share these videos to my Facebook, but I don’t need another piece of chinese spyware with me 24/7 lmao. Easier to get the link from the source code for these Reddit posts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 11:27 AM
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One thing that’s struck me about the few Japanese women (and men) I’ve met is their sharp sense of humor. A scrote wouldn’t notice something intangible like that, unfortunately ):
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 12:14 PM
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UGH yes even in my pickme days, that 20 year age gap made me gag, but I remember explicitly choosing to ignore it!! Another woman pointed out to me that even when it comes to The Sandman, the female characters are all the “crazy” one, the sexy one, and the one that hits all his buttons to make his PP hard. Not only that, Desire only does cool stuff when s/he’s in “dude mode” which is the final detail that really made me drop the whole man and sell my books. The relationship between Richard and D…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 12:07 PM
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This. Big time. I ended up despising my former favourite author Neil Gaiman because of this. His writing is tripe I don’t know what a woman like Amanda Palmer is doing with him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 03:06 PM
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I have nothing to contribute but to say that your chicken comment reminded me of a roommate who would cook chicken in the microwave He was a diETICIAN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 03:05 PM
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He’s a 31 year-old virgin, talking about women as if he has any say, opportunity, or options to get laid is something else entirely. The delusion, narcissism, audacity.... this is psycho-medically fascinating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 02:54 PM
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I'm really proud of you for daring to believe in yourself. Males produce their own demand by gaslighting and lying to us about things that are for males/their hands/their brains/etc. Realistically, women do better work. Period. If you set your mind to it, you CAN do it!! I believe in you, sister :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 03:08 PM
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Ugh it's so true. N*m are parasitic by nature. I make such an effort to help out all the ladies on my street and friends whenever I can to avoid that. One former neighbour wanted to change her patio around, but got quoted like.... thousands. I handled all the heavy lifting and hard labour and built new garden beds too!! Turns out she had most of the items around her property that could be used instead of buying new. Double win!! She made me paihia and would invite me to BBQs with her family. Jus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 11:24 AM
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Lots of us queens out here are the handyman too. Couldn't tell you the last time I met a male with a toolbox. Let alone one of those proper, locking, multi-drawer Snap-On mothafuckas? Nah they're like $2000 for a toolbox these boys have a plastic handheld one from Canadian (Crappy) Tire if they're lucky. I don't have any time for a scrote with a toolbox that cost less than my favourite torque wrench for real
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 11:08 AM
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You’re working on it. But by bit. That’s progress and diligence. Don’t minimize what you have accomplished so far, and the work you continue to put in :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 12:26 PM
8

Usually because what they’re trying so desperately to show off is truthfully nothing to turn around for
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 04:46 PM
21

This was a hard truth to learn when I was younger. I thought I was “safe” with gay n3m. Big oof. At least none of them tried to rape or grope me—as if that’s not already the bare minimum
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 01:35 PM
5

You are unintentional goals
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 01:33 PM
32

S A V A G E 😂💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 11:53 AM
9

I’m so proud of you for making your dream a reality for both yourself and your grandmother!!! She must be so in awe of your intelligence and diligence 💜💜💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 11:50 AM
12

Literally been seeing this BS since GaiaOnline in.... fuuuck 2004 I don't know. It's mind boggling they all think and talk like this, and somehow seem to think any of this bull qualifies as conversation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 07:08 PM
6

How do you and I have the same neighbour? And guy from the sports club we both attend? Or, literally, every male I've ever spoken to on a whim more than once. They're defective!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 07:07 PM
34

I was in denial until last year, because of these sick bastards and their fetishization. Even now, I intentionally keep my orientation and preferences obtuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 06:17 PM
18

So proud of you for finding the strength to advocate for yourself and make the best choices for your mental health!! This is no small feat, and you are taking control and in the driver's seat!!! :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 03:35 PM
21

Please follow her advice, OP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 06:59 PM
17

As I’ve matured and spent more time on FDS and Pinkpill, I’ve noticed so many more instances like this!! It’s like the wisdom/ honesty of youth and the Divine Feminine told me aaallllllll these things about males—or even as a child when scrotes started acting up I didn’t try to justify their depravity and saw it for what it was—that I tried to ignore or train out of myself when I went through my Pickme phase. FDS is showing me all those instincts were correct even if I’m getting that sense of va…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 11:22 AM
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Ever since high school conventionally attractive and well-off guys always set off my spider senses. I thought they were all douche bags. I thought I was young and insecure, and would “grow out of it.” When I say with my emotions longer I realized these guys I had been labelling “douchebags”.... well, there was more than that. I “knew” they would hurt me and that they were a threat. That if they tried anything they’d have gotten away with it and probably already had. My surface level reaction of,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 03:12 AM
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They're as ugly as they've always been, I'm just less scared to say it out loud
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 11:23 PM
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So proud of you!!! Welcome and enjoy your time here. Don’t forget to read the handbook, then read it again We love you and your fellow sisters are so glad you’re making yourself your biggest priority and joining us ❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 10:56 AM
17

Hello are you me? You’ve put this so succinctly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 10:52 AM
8

💯 It’s somehow reassuring to know I’m not the only one who does this. Even if they aren’t a worthless drunkard, an obsession with alcohol is so immature and the sign of a stunted development imo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 01:00 AM
2

Thank you!! I want to read them haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 01:24 PM
6

Do you happen to have a link to that study? Sounds fascinating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 11:51 AM
7

I NEED that D.Va neon light!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 02:02 PM
11

I like that one comment that implies I don’t ALREADY live in a city with a million dollar average home price. And, I make just over $70k a year... I don’t see why expecting a potential mate to at least be on my level is considered a big ask lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 12:31 PM
15

Another recommendation for a good moisturizer would be anything by Aveeno, honestly. I really won the genetic lottery and have rosacea (face), eczema (hands, face, neck), and keratosis polaris (arms, legs, booty). On top of that I am white as hell, but get so dry from my sensitive skin I get ashy or as my friend put it “floury.” Girl this Aveeno stuff is a godsend for me. The Aveeno eczema cream is pretty pricey, but honestly slather it on anything and your skin will be soft, soothed, and it doe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 11:29 AM
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You’re being frugal and planning ahead!! Imagine if the average person could plan a year in advance like that!! No apology needed, these are made for kids anyway :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 11:15 AM
4

Everyone pointing out your flawless manicure and stunning ring, but has anyone ever pointed out those nailbeds you’ve been blessed with? So proud of you for your achievement and marking this milestone in your life properly <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 10:46 AM
7

I think it comes from LVM and other forms of low quality male gaslighting. They choose to believe women are “sUcH CoMpLeX cReATuReZ!!1” when..... no, we’re people. XYs who fail to understand women, or are of low emotional intelligence really enjoy spreading that lie. They lack the social graces to ask, or to understand the signals we send and need to turn their incompetence around and twist it into being something that’s our fault. If people in relationships are meant to be mInD rEaDErZ then it’…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 10:59 AM
20

Ewwwww, community penis that's so dirty and way worse 🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 02:53 PM
0

She or the child mentioned she was 28 giRL I--
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 02:42 PM
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Pretty sure that phone is like 8 years old. I remember the broke dusties at my college would have those pay-as-you-go, $0 things from the grocery store back in the day. I think it's supposed to be that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 02:38 PM
9

Maybe she does as she mentioned going into her room
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 02:33 AM
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I’ve met numerous rats with a better grasp on the human emotional spectrum than the average human male
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 02:58 PM
7

I’d just only add to not make the threat unless you’re prepared to follow through when the scrote continues to not act right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 10:21 AM
8

His chosen discourse betrays the self-serving, performative nature of his post here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 10:18 AM
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Ok but I actually don’t text much and even my parents need to wait a couple hours for a response lol. Actually, now that I think of the number of scrotes that have gone ballistic in my inbox waiting for a drop of my attention, this might be a good thing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 10:43 AM
2

South Carolina is one hell of a state lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 04:59 PM
9

I’m 28 and have been absolutely enthralled by this pandemic allowing me some quality time to reconnect and rediscover myself. Spend time with your first love—YOU—and remind yourself what wonderful company you are ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 09:28 AM
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My ex was not previously very violent I’m glad you got away from that filthy scrote. ANY inkling of violence whatsoever is grounds to leave. Be it emotional or physical. Violence does not exist in a static vacuum, and males will always escalate it further. I am glad you are away from that animal. You don’t deserve or have to put up with ANY violence of ANY sort from ANY scrote 💜💜💜 Keep levelling up and staying safe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 09:19 AM
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It’s deer anus taxidermy “art.” Apparently the Americans are really into it 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 08:38 AM
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The only people I’ve ever met who listen to that Benzo addict are all severely depressed, anxious and/or dissatisfied with their lives on the whole. I had one woman I worked with who swore by him and sent me videos of his lectures to watch. I ended up tuning him out entirely then went back to listening to podcasts right quickly. This woman and her family swore they wanted to start a letterpress business and move away from the city we live in. She got the opportunity to take over a well-establish…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 12:42 PM
3

Proud of you, sis ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 11:23 AM
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Romcoms. The media. The list of reasons is quite long unfortunately
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 08:07 AM
19

Guess we can add it to the list of things men can’t be bothered to do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 12:25 AM
4

"Well, I wouldn't buy a purse if it didn't add something to my life. It's the same with males. I'm not going to settle for less than, or someone that damages the peace and tranquility I've built for myself."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 01:34 PM
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This guy has such low self esteem it's in the negatives. Gonna bet it's with good reason too because it so often is :S
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 01:29 PM
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facts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 03:55 PM
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Oh yes please!! While I’ve never partaken in bondage, domination, sadism, and masochism (it helps when you write it out) I’ve been drawn to it in the past. I’ve recently begun to see a pattern of how sex is something I’ve wanted to have ‘done’ to me instead of participating in due to trauma, and how that leads to things like bondage seeming appealing. I hope the mods approve this!! A lot of us lurkers do a ton of reading, then ruminate how the experiences of other women relate and give insight i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 03:44 PM
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Oh my goodness thank you!! I’m glad our message is getting out to more women, but it feels as though it’s begun to be diluted over the last few months
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 02:21 PM
13

In high school some scrote asked me on a date. We ended up eating pancakes made from a mix in a trailer his parents lived in on the property because the house was hoarded and dilapidated to such a degree they just gave up. That boy and his brother lived in the hoarded house without the parents. We’re Canadian and they didn’t even have maple syrup just that high fructose ‘table syrup’ crap. I was 16/17 so I sat through that disaster and went home and was sick all night from that shit. What the fu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 12:32 PM
20

Always watch out for hatfishing lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 04:30 AM
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I feel l Ike this is right up there with being told, “I’ll never do anything to hurt you.” As major red flags
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 11:22 AM
8

Everything about the dysfunctional relationship between these two is the antithesis of FDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 08:20 PM
16

HBO has a really good documentary on this called Plastic Disasters. One woman loses both of her legs from above the knee after getting liposuction. Another woman loses control of the lower half of her face and has issues breathing and swallowing after a facelift. Some dude’s nose cartilage and skin all but collapses after a nose job It’s messed up that’s for sure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 10:04 AM
3

I’m a technical director and yet too elderly at 28 to know how to share these TikTok vids to Facebook. This woman’s vibe is LIFE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 09:03 AM
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We need the story of your levelling up journey like oxygen 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 06:11 PM
5

And men pretend they’re not self-aware.... 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 04:21 PM
3

“I have a really quick wit and sense of humour” PRESS X TO DOUBT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 11:49 AM
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The queen energy radiating from your posts has actually taken wrinkles off of my face thank you looool
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 11:38 AM
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It’s such a good book and brought me so much peace a couple years ago after an attack
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 07:02 AM
5

OH that bottom row triggered flashbacks for me loooool damn girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 06:59 AM
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Times of transition can be the loneliest. Congratulations on amputating the scrote from your life!!! It’s hard now, but it will all be worth it!! As you said, you deserve the best ❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 06:57 AM
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They’re not even relationships half the time you’ve been texting these desperate scrotes for a week and they start dropping how they want to meet your parents. Buddy no you’re not important enough to get to that level
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 06:52 AM
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Yeah but those broke dusties can’t afford to cover our breasts with Swarovski crystals like Rihanna 💅🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 06:43 AM
5

Knitters unite!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 10:35 AM
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So proud of you for taking that big step!!! He’s a vile, toxic, abusive sack of shit and you’re free!!! Just remember, times of transition can be the loneliest. Know this and keep moving forward with your head held high; don’t let it be the reason you fall back in with that cocksnot. If you’re worried about retaliation of any sort, please read The Gift Of Fear by Gavin de Becker. From what you’ve said, he has the capacity to continue to harass you over a sense of ownership and entitlement. Be re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 12:08 PM
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If you ask males the word for women like us are any of the following: bich, cnt, hole, gash, prude, stuck-up, frigid..... I could go on. Frankly I think those are all weird ways to spell out, “Wwwwaaaahhhhhhhhhhh nobody wants to fuck meeeeee” but hey what do I know 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 07:51 AM
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she has to pay all their costs. Because she wanted children? They’re not fucking cats
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 01:21 AM
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Let a man slip once and he’ll be ice skating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 09:22 AM
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LVM= Low value man HVM= High value man NVM= negative value man Read the handbook, ladies!! All this and more are covered therein. It’s there to help your fabulous selves ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 09:19 AM
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Wet ass 😺 I actually watched the video, which I never do because I don’t even keep up with popular music, and remarkably I don’t hate it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 09:16 AM
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So happy I’m not the only woman going through this struggle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 08:17 AM
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As a Nationally ranked athlete who lived in the gym for years.... just all of this. All of it. And lord forbid you’re a muscular woman who knows TF she’s doing. I could type paragraphs but I swear to hell EVERYTHING YOU TYPED ABOVE plus they’re insecure as fuck 9/10 times. It’s such a bizarre dichotomy. I had one dude harassing me for months at an old gym because he decided to offer me “advice” while I was doing some zercher squats to “improve my front squat” like hello dumbass it’s a different …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 08:16 AM
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I had a scrote one tell me, "What's your is yours and what's mine is yours" and I was like ??????? why would I want your stuff tho bro?????? and he got mega triggered. Turns out he decided we were romantically involved when we weren't and I told him numerous times exactly this. He ended up physically attacking me. Block and delete. It's there for a reason
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 05:04 PM
8

I've been preaching the good word everywhere I can
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 04:59 PM
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As another woman on here has said, "Don't give them the gun then trust them not to use it."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 10:27 AM
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Remember too: these projections and accusations are based on their own behaviour. They presume everyone else is as depraved and vicious as they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 12:38 PM
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I would have left.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 12:37 PM
4

This x100000
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 11:27 AM
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Building and having good credit, at least in my country and many others, are fundamental things every functional adult needs to do if they want to successfully buy a home, take out a loan, etc later on in life. If he's above 25 and his credit score is lower than 700 (and I'm being kind) he has a LOT of work to do separately from you. He won't be able to keep up and become bitter and violent when you go out and buy some property, a new car, or say "fuck it!" and book that expensive vacation. If h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 02:22 PM
9

One of the reasons you never travel to meet a male, sis. Glad he's an ex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 08:46 AM
10

Hello I am 27 and make almost double this wtf $50k high earner lmaooooo Starting wage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 11:16 AM
9

May I propose using “undies” because it’s adorable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 03:42 PM
5

I usually hit them with something along the lines of, "Sorry to confirm you can't afford the price of admission"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 10:19 AM
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THIS AINT BUILD-A-BITCH, SON 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 09:15 AM
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It’s up there with “panties” for sure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 09:09 AM
24

That word nubile gives me the creeps as badly as the word panties
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 09:08 AM
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Giving a 10-year ex so much as the time of day is foolish. You were too good for them then, so giving yourself another decade to widen the gap even further just puts them so beneath you they’re not even in the same league let alone playing the same game
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 09:06 AM
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I always thought things like Peralta jokingly being hurt about Becky from grade 6 like in Brooklyn Nine Nine was just a TV trope..... but like, it's actually a real thing they do. 20+ years later, still sobbing about that one girl from high school. Legit some of the most pathetic, vagina raisin-ing things I've ever heard
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 11:50 AM
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Sis I'm with you 110%. I think my biggest regret is that it took me to 27 to stop believing the lies they told about themselves and their nature.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 10:15 AM
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It’s not even a sociopathic child on a mans body, it’s just men. It is their nature. Full stop
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 09:00 AM
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Yeah or don't even bother with that because why the hell can't they just ask you out? If they can't even handle that they're clearly not interested in you, and therefore not worth your time. Block and delete lazy scrotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 07:19 PM
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That’s because male sexuality is all about control
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 08:31 AM
7

I AM DECEASED 🤣 🤣 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 04:37 PM
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Knows what she wants and goes for it, capable of making it happen, forward-thinking enough to see the red flags with your ex, AND any issues that may come up with your vacation??? Girl you're too good for 99% of males in your age bracket. I wouldn't worry about being able to find some guy to have a child with--you're leagues above them emotionally, mentally, and physically from your post <3 Keep healing, sis. You've got so many more phenomenal decades ahead of you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 01:56 PM
12

Mmmmmhmm. I wouldn't even send them a casual tee from Target the quality would be too good. Hit 'em with a K-Mart or Walmart link
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 01:44 PM
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She's carrying closer to 20-30lbs of excess adipose tissue and visually looks to be around 30% bodyfat. I say this without judgement. I say this without a shred of hatred or tearing down. I say this as a nationally ranked athlete who's body composition has been measured for about a decade. I wouldn't say "She's overweight, BUT looks gorgeous!" I think you meant to say, "She's overweight AND looks gorgeous!" Beauty and being overweight are not mutually exclusive, QUEEN!! That goes double for you,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 01:08 PM
7

Many of the men I work with are the same way. Very refreshing to see that, at least for the few I'm thinking of, they don't appear to wear the typical entitled male mask--they're actually just normal, functional, proper men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 09:42 AM
16

Males choose to live like this the world over. Genuinely wonder why
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 11:19 PM
17

This guy..... wow. His wife is such a queen getting her doctorate while caring for 5 children and one oversized manchild. It’s a shame she has to drag this Negative Value scrote up the ladder of success with her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 09:23 AM
2

How old are you? I don't ask this to be a jerk, but you sound a lot like me when I was younger. You're also correct that we're ruthless--FDS is about ruthlessness!! We're ruthless in the pursuit of our goals. Ruthless in vetting potential mates. Ruthless with our own high standards for ourselves. I, too, have felt the sting of other women slapping some sense into me on FDS. It's not about being right or wrong, it's about demanding and doing better for yourself. Without compromise. You don't want…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 05:26 PM
3

Roll with pigs and you'll get covered in shit. FDS is about leveling up in ALL aspects of your life. Playing games with others--regardless of your reason--is low-value, pick me behaviour. It doesn't serve you or your goals, other than temporary gratification and the ego boost of prodding someone to make a fool of themselves even more than they already have. It feels good in the moment sure, but you're better than playing games of any sort. Playing games is the antithesis of what FDS is all about…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 11:24 AM
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In my experience it is best to be avoided
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 10:07 AM
4

Literally they need to start advertising to men more because holy hell their skin tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 01:26 AM
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When I was younger, one of my closer girlfriends of the time wanted to set me up on a date with a guy she knew. I said sure, why not, because she was someone I had a high opinion of. The date went fine enough, but he set off my Spidey Senses. My gut feeling was acting up on and off all night which was abnormal. I ended up not giving him a second date and WOW did I get called every name in the book!! All by my girlfriend no less!! Stuck-up, closed-off, frigid, the works. We didn't speak for weeks…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 01:23 AM
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I'd call it narcissism if anything A Narcissist's Prayer That didn't happen. And if it did, it wasn't that bad. And if it was, that's not a big deal. And if it is, that's not my fault. And if it was, I didn't mean it. And if I did... You deserved it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 09:19 AM
5

Proud of you, sis <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 11:40 AM
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Girl, don't be so fucking hard on yourself. You're allowed to be naive, be fooled, make mistakes. You've learned, you've grown--more and more each day. Nothing you have done deserves to have you constantly beating yourself up over it for months or years after the fact!! If you still feel deep shame, then that's programming by your abuser. When you start ruminating and feel the guilt and shame well up, remind yourself that you have made mistakes, it is ok. And don't give into replaying that memor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 10:55 AM
6

Yes and times in transition are always the loneliest, which makes them that much harder. You're doing a wonderful job :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 10:57 AM
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Don’t devalue or lower yourself and accept a lesser person into your life to escape loneliness. Embrace spending time with your best friend—yourself!! And always make sure you do right by her. You are worth it, and worth so much more than some low effort scrote ❤️ Keep leveling up, Queen 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 10:07 AM
6

Shit like this is why I switched over to saying, “I’m not interested.” And when (not if) they push, give them a full read neck-down before asking them if I should continue to dissect all the repugnant aspects of their personality as well? They usually get super triggered, cuss me out, then finally fuck off. I usually audiably snicker or laugh at them when they do. Or if you get the old, “I just wanted to talk to you, bitch” hit em with, “What makes you think you would have something worthwhile t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 10:01 AM
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If it doesn't get rejected by her body, leaving a big mass of scar tissue in a very inconvenient place
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 10:38 AM
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Girl, same. I also was young enough to think males would cut that shit out as they grew up LMAOOOOOO @ me :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 02:25 PM
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Regrettably, lesbianism isn't the all-encompassing barrier of protection I had hoped it would be at the ripe old age of 14.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 11:09 AM
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Sounds like that poor girl has some deep-rooted self esteem and boundary issues. No tea, but seeing a therapist would help her in some pretty fundamental ways. Poor thing. I'm very sorry you've had to be privy to that entire collection of situations
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 11:07 AM
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Sugar in the gas tank. A lot less effort. Will destroy the engine
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 10:12 AM
6

Never fall for a male's potential, only what he shows you in the right now. You will lose yourself attempting to help him come into his own and live up to that potential, and he will resent you for it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 10:03 AM
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Yay!! Thank you!! :D As a 27 year old fool, knowledge from women older than us is one of the best gifts imo. Thoroughly convinced XYs push their BS about women 40+ in part to create a rift between you and us youngins
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 11:42 AM
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-"fellow females" -reference to being "in heat" in username -referring to subset of Japanese fetish porn with "guro" in the name Porn sick, limp dick, low-to-negative-value moid alert
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 10:49 AM
21

1000% this is a dude
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 10:48 AM
1

Wow is this me and my college ex?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 09:19 PM
3

Those are the things you value most, which is why you keep coming back to them. Its good that you have things you care so deeply for as a constant in your life!! I'd say its a good thing, if anything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 09:21 AM
3

They do, though, because they constantly whine and carry on about it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 12:18 PM
13

Please read the handbook. Yikes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 12:15 PM
5

Hasn't managed to keep the disgusting creatures away from me, unfortunately
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 11:47 AM
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Excellent crosspost. Cannot upvote this one enough
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 01:14 PM
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If I'm remembering correctly, the book The Gift of Fear by Gavin de Becker (ESSENTIAL FDS reading) has a whole chapter on why your pets seem to know things about people you don't. I think it comes down to you basically gaslighting yourself to ignore the warning signs, but your gut instinct knows the dude is whack. Your pets sense your gut instinct and respond to what is being said, without the "oh it's probably fine" self-gaslighting to temper their response. I personally think it's a bit of col…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 12:06 PM
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It's true. Your observations are BASED AND PINKPILLED
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 10:59 AM
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I admire the optimism of this comic, assuming males care
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 11:41 AM
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Don't waste your time or energy telling a male what it did wrong. Dogs have a better sense and desire to improve themselves and grow than a human male. Block, delete, silence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 04:02 PM
11

If you go to the contact itself, on an iThing, you can block ALL communication froma number. I've had to do that a couple times in the last year. XYs are testerical
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 04:00 PM
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Various men from the post, but I'm also in the "these are too thoughtful to be from an XY" camp lol. I want to believe a fellow FDSer has found this many HVM to treat her like an absolute queen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 12:06 PM
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My favorite thing about this quarantine is some abusive alcoholic roommate I lived with for all of 4 months, who during one of his tirades told me how much he hates me and never wants to see me again, kept calling my phone--6 months after the bullshit. Actually had to block/mute that one. I H8 U UR DA WOZZTTttt I miss yooouuu soom uuuccchhhh TT_TT Like just fucking.... pick one? Oh wait I chose for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 01:08 PM
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Same here, and I know this, but even now years later I find myself apologizing to my coach for talking too much about workout, nutrition, performance details, new research, etc. This sort of damage is so insidious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 03:26 PM
14

He’s just trying to gaslight you into thinking you’re “crazy/ hysterical.” Block and delete the dude is low value as they come
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 05:38 PM
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Good thing he’s an ex then
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 05:31 PM
14

Super valid, but maybe the boy is fine in bed as long as he keeps his mouth shut? When I was younger and in college I had a couple dudes in the rotation I kept around for the D cuz that's all they were good at
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 12:50 PM
3

I guess those LVM do have a purpose after all lmaooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 12:47 PM
1

I refer to you ladies as "One of my feminist groups"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 12:46 PM
13

Why do you gotta call me out this harshly at 830am on a Saturday? I followed the same steps as you, but never took a closer look at my root behaviour and beliefs. I've been a huge pickmeisha in the past, so insights like these are invaluable. Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 12:32 PM
1

This
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 02:45 PM
5

Same along with most of the ones in my life in general what the fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 03:57 PM
9

I also think this is just more evidence of why you don't waste your time or resources training a male. They can't change, and any assistance you give them to try and drag them up to your level is ultimately not worth it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 04:23 PM
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Atta boy, Bob
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 08:56 PM
3

Proud of you. The removal of your piercings are a symbol for all the mental work you're already putting in after finding this sub <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 05:52 PM
3

Yeah I've fallen for this more times than I'd care to admit. At least I've finally learned my lesson with a big help from you ladies and my therapist!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 05:49 PM
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Thank yoouuuu. I had been scrolling through his IMDB page looking for something that seemed to match
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 01:02 PM
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Do you happen to have the name of the movie? Love me some Rami Malek
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 12:06 PM
2

Dump, block, delete that low value scrote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 02:26 PM
1

All of this right here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 02:23 PM
3

They still want access to you without needing to put in any actual effort like they had to when you were dating. An ex is an ex for a reason. Half the time these simpletons' idea of post-breakup "friendship" is a booty call at 11pm once a fortnight. Don't waste your time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 02:19 PM
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They still want access to you without needing to put in any actual effort like they had to when you were dating. An ex is an ex for a reason. Half the time these simpletons' idea of post-breakup "friendship" is a booty call at 11pm once a fortnight. Don't waste your time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 02:18 PM
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XYs are stupid, impulsive and selfish. Their mental capacity starts and stop with “m-m-muh dick” Had a boy in college who decided he JUST NEEDED to try anal and would try to stick it in. I told him if he did the research about how to do it safely and enjoyably, I’d try it once. Of course, I did the reading up on it and every time he’d try to shove it in or whine about wanting to do it, I’d Mom-lecture him on the protocols. He eventually shut his fucking mouth about the whole thing because he was…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 11:33 PM
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*cracks knuckles* OH BOY OH BOY -Decided to try and pick me up at Whole Foods. Was 18 I think... bad with boundaries and a pickmeisha. Wasn't suuper into it since I think he was mid-40s, but set up a date anyway because I was 18 and didn't know better. He picked me up in some mid-2000s BMW (this would be around 2010) with midlife crisis red leather interior. He drove around the corner and started sucking face. I managed to get him off me, got out of the car, and left. Didn't return any more call…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 06:07 PM
5

Yuuuuuuppp
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 05:50 PM
3

Very true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 05:50 PM
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I mean warning sign #1 with that boy was him only dating her for over 5 years, not even bothering to propose, and wasting her time....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 02:40 PM
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Anecdotally, I have a dude friend who is 26 and can't drive. He's constantly complaining that women don't want to date him because he can't drive, or just works retail, lives with his Dad, etc. He's also fat and complains when overweight women match with him on his dating apps. I mean, he's finally going back to school after all these years, but come on. That description also makes him seem like an absolute monster, and he's got a good heart, but until he listens to me/his Dad/his other friends/…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 05:49 PM
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That dude needs to take his erratic tantrums from a permanent 8 to a permanent 3. Glad you got away from that one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 06:00 PM
11

I worked with one that grew a beard to hide all that and a big ol pair of buck teeth too :B
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 01:04 PM
1

I remember some deranged psycho I once knew, weeks before attacking me for not playing into his delusion that we were in a relationship, made the comment, “Wow, you must really love that cat, huh?” And that’s when I became worried for my senior rescue kitty’s safety. We’re both doing wonderful now so don’t worry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 01:17 PM
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Like also what woman uses the word "pussy" to talk about her own vagina? Thats such a male word it's just gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 02:52 PM
9

Queen shit <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 03:05 PM
16

"Do you want the number to my therapist? She's fuckin' awesome with listening."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 02:47 PM
6

I joined a club for my interest in cycling. I've met almost exclusively HVM through that, though many are taken--but that's not the point. The more high value people you surround yourself with, the higher the chances that a HVM would be among them. Birds of a feather and all. It also helps, in my mind, that cycling is as expensive of a sport as it is. To do things at our level, there is a financial bar of entry people must pass--automatically eliminating people without a stable job or income. So…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 02:17 PM
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Even just the way this guy types screams fuckboi I swear it’s the presence of the phrases: ok, haha, and 😜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 08:35 PM
11

Not respecting boundaries is kind of the biggest red flag you need from someone to know you need to RUN NOW!! And they can claim their narcissistic sense of entitlement over your body and actions is for the sake of 'woke' culture all they want.... it still tells those of us with a brain that the person making those claims is fucked in the head
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 01:36 PM
3

And here we see the garden variety male's ever-present whine, "B-B-B-but muh DIIIICCCKKK"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 01:26 PM
3

But we never did to begin withhhhh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 08:37 PM
14

If only they'd actually hurry up and go their own way already. Been talking about it for years now....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 06:06 PM
4

Proud of you, sis. Let the good times roll
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 06:55 PM
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Honestly of late I've started to make comments like, "That truck is sexier than any man I've seen all day" and I'll stop saying it when it stops being true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 05:39 PM
2

Proud of you, sis <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 01:12 PM
6

lmaoooo I remember you originally posting about this boy's not-apology. This pathetic boy is actually hilarious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 01:10 PM
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"Any hole's the goal!" - XYs, mainly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 05:25 PM
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Adding to this, I had a roommate that was an obese coke addict who drank heavily and when he told us all he was 33 one day the table fell silent. We had all assumed he was 40+
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 02:25 PM
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