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FDS SUCCESS!Honestly_th0/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 02:07 AM
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MINDSET SHIFTHonestly_th0/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 06:20 AM
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FDS SUCCESS!Honestly_th0/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 12:14 AM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYHonestly_th0/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 03:25 AM
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MOOD FOR LIFEHonestly_th0/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 03:44 PM
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Story time ☕Honestly_th0/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 11:58 AM
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DISCUSSIONHonestly_th0/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 12:10 AM
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QUEEN SH*THonestly_th0/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 01:01 PM
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DISCUSSIONHonestly_th0/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 12:00 AM
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GLOBAL RESISTANCEHonestly_th0/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 01:03 AM
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GLOBAL RESISTANCEHonestly_th0/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 03:18 PM
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GLOBAL RESISTANCEHonestly_th0/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 02:25 AM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYHonestly_th0/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 02:38 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYHonestly_th0/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 01:25 AM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYHonestly_th0/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 11:16 AM
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TRIGGER WARNINGHonestly_th0/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 08:52 AM
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BOOK REPORTHonestly_th0/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 11:59 AM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESHonestly_th0/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 10:43 AM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESHonestly_th0/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 03:42 PM
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Story time ☕Honestly_th0/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 01:11 AM
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DISCUSSIONHonestly_th0/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 06:29 AM
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FDS ANTHEM 🎶Honestly_th0/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 02:48 PM
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GLOBAL RESISTANCEHonestly_th0/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 02:55 PM
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DISCUSSIONHonestly_th0/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 01:31 AM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYHonestly_th0/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 02:28 AM
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SCROTES MADHonestly_th0/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 01:08 PM
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Excellent idea! We can also update words like “starfish” or “starfish sex”, “manlet”, “mantrum”, “testerical”, and the like. Also seen on this sub: “dirty Hail Mary” (when a guy bombs a date and asks for sex at the end anyway because he knows he’ll never see you again). I love you ladies, so creative! What else ya got?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 09:43 AM
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Somehow I imagine you as a student admiring the dreamy wannabe rock superstar (or whatever) in your biology class. Anyway, always just remember: don’t date potential.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 03:14 PM
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I’ve met ONE. Yes, only one. He’s pretty special. Not a unicorn though, he used to be a tap dancing bear. Go figure 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 05:42 AM
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That’s it. LVMs and NVMs can’t stand the competition. It’s like when they blame immigrants for stealing their jobs when, in all likelihood, their jobs were stolen by robots because the work they do is so basic it’s easily automated. Fifty years ago, the average white man with a high school diploma could rise through the ranks and become wealthy and prestigious, easily beating out minorities and women because discrimination. Today, there’s still discrimination, but the average white guy with a li…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 10:32 AM
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Without linking to the sub or directly naming it, which one is it? I can’t find the post. Thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 10:21 AM
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Yep, understood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 11:14 PM
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That’s really scary and OMG what a toxic culture! I’m glad to hear you got out of there!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 11:12 PM
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Quiet people are usually better at observing people and situations. They usually talk when they have something to say, unlike extroverts who just talk to hear their own voices and draw in admiring fans. I read that, according to research, introverts often make better leaders, but their extrovert bosses won’t promote them because of negative stereotypes. Also, IMO, most male attorneys are narcs (or psychopaths), and that goes triple for partners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 01:34 PM
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💯 all of this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 09:05 AM
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Whoa, wait, the founder died? Care to elaborate?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 08:53 AM
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Was this a tech startup? 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 08:51 AM
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I feel the name Karen has been weaponized against any woman who stands up for herself or gets angry for any reason in public. Men are allowed, even expected, to express anger, but when women do it we’re cRaZy. The fact that Ken (the male version of Karen) has not become a meme just speaks to how misogynistic “Karen” has become. It’s just another way to try to keep women small and silent. So, please don’t call yourself a Karen for speaking up when you were insulted and harassed by two men at a st…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 08:42 AM
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We need a podcast dedicated to that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 02:29 AM
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Japan has a low crime rate overall, but a serious stalking and rape problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 12:38 PM
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“Scrotes on boats” 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 10:20 AM
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What’s not to love? 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 10:18 AM
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Yes, thanks for the reminder! I see so many women praising scrotes for doing the bare minimum and it’s sickening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 10:08 AM
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He was a gold digger?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 07:11 AM
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I’d love a dm too 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 01:03 AM
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RIP 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 12:45 AM
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Blow him while he’s pooping? They have such strange fantasies. If I ever miss an ex, I just imagine the type of porn he likely watched and BAM, not missing him anymore 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 11:22 PM
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The good news is that that means not using OLD (or at least doing some serious vetting) can have real-life consequences and effect real social change. Women just need to join together (like a union).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 10:42 AM
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It looks like these companies have figured out that women (the product) are fleeing dating apps in droves and if they want to survive they’d better make sure women feel safe and enjoy using them. Don’t get me wrong—I’m all for this proposed legislation, I just think it’s motivated by profit. No one is particularly concerned with women’s harassment online or off until it starts to affect them personally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 10:20 AM
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I think some SWs hang out at classy hotel bars looking to pick up johns. Based on his comment, it sounds like he either mistook you for a SW or decided to use it as a neg. Anyway, lesson learned, never talk to men when you’re alone at a bar unless you’re interested.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 02:20 AM
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Nice 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 01:18 AM
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Exact same thing happened to me. They feel entitled to everything, and when you put up a boundary I think a lot of them just see it as an interesting challenge. 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 01:15 AM
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Sorry, I missed that. Did the fake cop incident happen to you personally? Care to elaborate?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 01:12 AM
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Agreed. And, ofc, they’re usually married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 01:07 AM
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Yes, yes, they do. The chair of my department was so problematic (allegations of inappropriate sex with students and even rape) that they helped get him out of there. But he was fAmOus and men have each other’s backs and it was cOnSenSuAl, so they used their connections to help him get a job at an Ivy League school so he could continue to assault women there. Meaning: not only was he not punished, he was actually given a much better position! Apparently this is common (think Catholic Church, mil…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 03:56 PM
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Good for you! Just please beware the scrotey grad school professors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 10:22 AM
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Is that an insect? It looks alive 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 01:26 PM
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Can you make sure he didn’t put a GPS tracker on (under) your car? This is especially important if you decide to move. I’ve read about DV survivors actually leaving the state and still being found because they were being tracked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 02:02 AM
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Ha, not India, but Asia and conservative.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 01:37 AM
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Similar experience here. I could never figure out why I couldn’t get my own apartment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 10:02 AM
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Yes, it’s the shark stare 🦈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 02:30 PM
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Signs to look for before sleeping together: When he does some random weird thing (during sex or not) that just feels off. (Sounds like this happened to OP.) For me, once l was cooking dinner and this guy I was sorta seeing just comes up out of nowhere, pulls my head back, and tries to stick his tongue down my throat. He thought it would be sexy and he couldn’t figure out why I was pissed 🙄 Pay attention to his eyes. When he’s turned on, he gets that dead-eyed predatory stare instead of looking k…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 02:26 PM
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If FDS really wants to have an impact, we need to get political. And FDS tenets should appeal to a lot of conservative women. Give them an alternative to tradwives. Partisanism worldwide is out of control. Polarization in places like the US and the UK makes meaningful political debate nearly impossible. All of this divides us and weakens democracy. I’m glad FDS is trying to unite women regardless of political affiliation. Change takes time and the first step is reaching across the aisle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 12:35 AM
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Because it’s a boys club and men are doing the hiring? Besides, it isn’t hard to make millions when you’re simply participating in insider trading.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 12:21 AM
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Just out of curiosity, what kind of men do you date now? I also have a bad impression of finance bros. Most of them seem to prefer hiring expensive SWs anyway. Saves them time and money I guess and they tend to view everything as transactional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 12:11 PM
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It was probably written by a man and I’m sure plenty of men think about it, especially considering how many actually do it. Remember that recent FDS post where the woman’s bf just casually threatened to drown her in a remote well? They weren’t even arguing. Men just feel entitled to women’s bodies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 03:58 AM
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I think part of it’s the FIRE movement and tech entrepreneurs as the new idols. Many people in their 30s busted ass, invested well, and retired. But NVM want to skip the first two steps and just jump to number 3 once they realize their “start up” or (insert get rich quick scheme) will never become the next FB. No Adam, sorry to break it to you, but you’re not the next Mark Zuckerberg. And just because he dropped out of college doesn’t mean you should have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 04:09 PM
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So awesome that FDS is spreading! Keep up the good work. Y’all Queens 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 03:47 PM
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Well, don’t take it personally that he “liked” you. I’m sure he’s literally shooting his shot with anyone “of the female persuasion” (to quote a recent FDS post from a personal ad in the 1800s.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 03:42 PM
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Yikes. I wonder why they’re divorced 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 02:14 PM
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I want to believe this is fake and he’s trolling you. Sucks to be him if it’s real 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 02:13 PM
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Thanks for translating 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 04:56 AM
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Guess he confused you with another woman he was playing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 04:54 AM
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Man: “We need to have sex first to make sure we’re compatible.” Translation: “I enjoy k!nky, strange, degrading, and/or downright abusive sex, and I need to make sure you’re ok with that before moving forward.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 01:32 AM
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Your “that’s the text message version of him poking you with his boner” and the donut example k!lled me 🤣💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 01:29 AM
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Men lust like to chat with them 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 01:06 AM
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I have a similar past (not Indian though). I highly recommend getting out of there. You made him lose face and he’ll find ways to get retribution. Best case scenario: he negs you and brings down your energy, distracting you from school and leveling up. Worst case scenario: he attacks you or your mom (and maybe even your boyfriend and brother too). My stepfather attacked me out of nowhere for a tiny stupid thing and right in front of the entire family. IMHO, you are not in a safe place and it’s n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 11:40 AM
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Nice! If scrotes are getting pissed, that means you hit a nerve with your truth bombs!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 11:31 AM
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Thank you for writing the baby boy type —it finally makes so much sense! I try to explain it to people and they give me some version of “meh, doesn’t sound so bad”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 10:58 AM
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I know. I think often people can’t see past the money and the job title to the actual person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 10:47 PM
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It was his family. His parents also wanted her gone because she hadn’t produced grandchildren and they blamed only her and not their precious doctor son. It’s terrifying that they ganged up on her like that, but everyone believed him just because he’s a doctor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 03:21 PM
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I thought he meant like with rough pasts (some jail time or juvie)?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 02:34 PM
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I knew a woman whose doctor husband had her on all kinds of drugs for “depression” because he was gaslighting her about his mistresses and she was easier to control. He didn’t want a divorce (too expensive), so he picked a fight with her at a family dinner and she’d had enough and freaked out in front of everyone. He basically said, “See? She’s crazy” and got them to help him commit her to a mental hospital so now he’s free to move his main side chick into their house. Really turned me off docto…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 02:27 PM
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Thanks. I love the comparison with Florida—easy to remember. Glad those ladies were mostly ok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 02:19 PM
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Thanks. Just curious. I have a cousin who’s a marine. He does seem a bit off tbh. He told me the marines takes the men the other branches won’t take…not sure exactly what he meant by that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 02:15 PM
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Sorry, what exactly is up with marines?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 09:23 AM
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It’s doubtful that she would get into trouble—that’d be some serious victim blaming. Don’t assume that, but talk to a lawyer if you’re unsure. Men rely on women’s silence and fear to continue to do this shit. Shine a big light on that 15-year-old—really make him feel the heat and the consequences of what he’s done. You’ll be helping out future girls too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 03:32 AM
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Get wasp spray 🐝
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 03:16 AM
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Can we dub these dumbass men “Kevins”?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 05:47 AM
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Seriously. I had one roommate leave food and dishes in the sink until they got rotten and moldy. I put everything in a cardboard box and there were no more dishes, so after a month he washed them and then started buying paper plates. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 05:37 AM
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“Because he enjoys it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 04:20 AM
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Oooh, so much this! “They like being the loudest, funniest ones in the room and it’s easier around women.” I’ll bet the majority of them are narcs. They’re looking for as much source as possible with the minimum effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 01:12 AM
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He’s negging you because everyone knows that women are nUrSeS and men are dOcToRs. You make him feel small and less than, so he’s returning the favor. You should probably just block and delete. What are you realistically hoping to get from his fRiEnDshIp?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 03:06 PM
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The recession hit Vikings particularly hard 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 07:08 AM
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Exactly! You’re not a charity or social services. Don’t stick around if a man isn’t treating you right—for ANY reason. I just finished How to Spot a Dangerous Man Before You Get Involved by Sandra Brown. Highly recommend. She emphasizes that personality disorders are permanent disorders. They can’t be cured and usually get worse with age. Avoid these men!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 06:07 AM
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Right? AFAIK, women have NO PROBLEM orgasming even at advanced ages. I think one of the biggest fears men have is ED and their loss of masculinity. Since they spend their whole lives focused on their dicks, when it doesn’t work well (or at all) anymore, their whole world collapses. They realize that even if they could land a 20-year-old (which ofc they can’t), they wouldn’t be able to have sex with her. Keep dreaming RP men. Your porn sickness will catch up with you sooner rather than later and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 09:11 AM
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Yes, 💯 this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 09:02 AM
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And also, it’s fine to break up with/not date men who are mentally ill or have any type of disorder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 05:49 AM
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They always ignore the “prettiest” one. He was angling for you. Him asking out your (less pretty) friend and getting rejected right in front of you must have been a huge blow to his ego lol. I think that’s why he gave you the death glare. He was planning to bring you down a peg or two and it completely backfired! But yeah, be careful out there. They’re full of seething pent-up rage and hate beautiful women but also want to use and discard them. Their little peepees are what motivates them ofc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 11:25 AM
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I think his behavior is leading up to this convo: OP: We’re done. I don’t want to see you anymore. Scrote: (surprised Pikachu face 😟) Are you sure? But we’re so good together. You can’t just throw what we have away. OP: I’m totally sure. 🚮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 11:19 AM
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And boundary pushing, which will only escalate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 11:11 AM
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OP, have you asked yourself if you even want to get married right now? I’m hearing “my family wants this” “suitors’ families want that” “some loser guy wanted another woman”. I mean, I’ve heard med school is pretty intense. Wouldn’t it be better to at least finish residency first? What if one of these lowlifes marries you, gets you pregnant, and sabotages your career? What if you never become a doctor and have to depend on handouts from a cheating scrote? Why not become a doctor first and then w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 11:10 AM
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First off, a man will never, ever invest lots of time in you unless he’s interested. I used to have guy friends and they thought that women who only wanted to be friends were just leading them on. So, this is not a friendship, which means you shouldn’t worry about losing it. Block him. Also, getting drunk and/or high, and doing things you regret (or will regret) is not high-value behavior. Work on leveling up yourself and maybe take a break from partying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 10:55 AM
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And also be careful IRL. He sounds like he could become dangerous. I mean, he already threatened your cat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 10:45 AM
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Yes, screenshot all the evidence and out his ass (don’t forget to use a terrible photo of his too, if you can find one)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 10:44 AM
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This is classic RP/PUA bs. And they are totally looking for insecure women out of their league to have sex with. They’re not interested in relationships, just free sex. They deserve to die alone, and most of them will because they fail to see women as people 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 09:47 AM
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Ha, IDK, I scrolled down and there was a photo of an overweight, middle aged LVM with hair…and the next photo was zoomed out and showed a cat sitting on his bald head so it looked like he had hair 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 03:08 PM
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Please, no man gives oral for two hours and no woman would let him if he tried.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 11:58 AM
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Those cats are hilarious lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 11:56 AM
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Again, never ever send anyone explicit photos ever. 🤦🏻‍♀️ Problem solved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 05:09 AM
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They’re unemployed 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 08:46 AM
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OMG, I’m dead 💀 This is the best thing I’ve read all day. You rule, Queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 10:37 AM
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He sounds redpilled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 04:36 AM
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OMG, that giddy gleeful look and the cockiness. You put it so well. Unfortunately, I know EXACTLY what you mean!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 04:35 AM
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I second this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 04:27 AM
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“Floating around on the apps.” They’re the real ghosts lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 04:24 AM
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Ding ding ding! 🥇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 09:30 AM
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He likely hurt the dog previously. That’s always a good indication that you’re next.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 04:35 AM
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This is pure gold! 🤣🥇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 11:34 PM
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I find that eating whatever I want in the daytime and skipping dinner works wonders.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 07:59 AM
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I have a condition: it’s called “sleep-punching.” When someone pulls some bs in the middle of the night, they get slugged and I go back to sleep. Sorry, I can’t help it and don’t remember giving you that black eye, so it never happened 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 06:55 AM
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Same. Must be some bs from pron, otherwise why would they all have exactly the same stupid fantasies they want to act out?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 06:52 AM
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The first. No doubt about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 03:39 AM
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Thanks, I’ll check it out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 01:18 AM
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Thanks for explaining that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 01:01 AM
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Yes, shrimp are first cousins to cockroaches 🪳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 12:58 AM
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If you just got promoted and your industry is pretty competitive, why not focus on leveling up your career first?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 12:44 AM
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Finding FDS: denial/resistance—>anger at others—>rage at myself, my past, and what I put up with—>getting physically ill because I was so worked up—>sadness—>calm acceptance and letting things go. This has taken me seven months. It doesn’t happen overnight. Next step: changing ingrained habits and unhealthy behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 12:25 AM
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I’m so sorry you went through all of that. You didn’t deserve to be treated that way. Have you considered showing your daughter this post? She probably doesn’t have the whole story and that’d be a very non-confrontational way to let her know what happened and also show her that complete strangers are offering up more support than someone who loves you and owes her life to you. Stay strong 💪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 11:48 PM
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“The only way they know how to hurt you is what is most painful to them.” 🥇🤏💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 12:48 PM
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“You aren’t sitting the bar exam here.” Lmao. I come here for the radfem inspiration and stay for the comments 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 10:43 AM
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FBI profilers say the majority of serial rapists/murderers in the US are truckers. Glad you trusted your gut.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 01:40 PM
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They now work at the gas station (true story) 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 01:23 PM
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That’s a true horror story 😱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 12:59 PM
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Also, I can’t stand it when older men start to get that musty dusty old guy smell. Like, even if they shower, it still clings to them. WTH even causes that? I’ve never smelled it on a woman. Is that what testosterone smells like when it rots?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 12:51 PM
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🤣😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 12:42 PM
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I’m dead 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 12:41 PM
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If it makes you feel any better, he’s only getting contacted by bots and SWs 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 08:00 AM
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And ice cream is 100 times better than most sex!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 07:39 AM
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This is exactly what I came here to say 🥇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 07:36 AM
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You’re right. This can be quite dangerous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 12:20 PM
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Exactly! Never breadcrumb yourself. That’s the worst.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 07:02 AM
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🥇🥇🥇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 01:51 PM
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If you can, pretty please 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 01:45 PM
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Wow, I can’t believe you got Gail Dines! Woot woot! By far, my favorite podcast yet and a big congrats on being invited to her workshop! Also, she observed that privileged women can afford to be stupid. I’d like to add that they can also afford to make mistakes, but those from the lower classes usually have one or no shot at a better life. I love that she emphasizes solidarity with all our sisters ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 01:43 PM
6

And this is why it’s important to call them out instead of smiling or giggling. I’m sure most of those other women were just as uncomfortable as OP, but women have been conditioned to be polite. Name and shame 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 09:52 AM
3

What’d he say to that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 08:28 AM
2

Thanks, I’ve never seen this explained so well so concisely!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 06:59 AM
20

My god, you’re only 18! You are simply light years ahead of those of us who put up with LVMs for years and years. Congrats—you are a true Queen! 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 06:25 AM
15

“Men are trash and we shouldn’t give them the time of day.” This should be the motto on the FDS flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 03:23 PM
3

Or “ma’am” if he’s from the South 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 01:49 AM
1

Good for you! And sounds like it’s time to find a new dentist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 01:48 AM
3

They’re sometimes called cannon fodder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 01:41 AM
1

Same, except it was our principal, who sat in on our classes periodically 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 01:37 AM
6

That is scary AF. I’m so sorry he did that. Hope he rots in a latex-padded cell one day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:11 PM
2

He sounds really triggered. I love it 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:04 PM
3

Don’t let the older women in your office convince you that your work doesn’t matter. I have it on good authority that a capable secretary is more valuable (and less replaceable) than a first or second year associate. The attorneys simply don’t want you to know your value because that threatens their authority. I think we both know you could really screw things up for them if you wanted to and you may also know a few of their dirty little secrets (if you don’t, find them out). That’s real power a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:01 PM
3

That would make sense too…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 10:21 AM
3

That’s my guess. Some words seem to be instantly flagged, but I don’t know if it’s only FDS or all of Reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 10:20 AM
2

Same here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 10:18 AM
2

Yes 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 05:55 AM
1

I just googled the mascot and now I’m gonna have nightmares 😱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 05:53 AM
3

I legit think they should just install a hole in the nest. I once had a guy confess to sleeping on and abusing a large beanbag chair 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 05:48 AM
6

One paper plate and one plastic spork, plus me huntin knife, that’ll weed them gold diggers right out lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 05:44 AM
3

“He’s not a bad man” he’s a terrible man and a sorry excuse for a husband and a father.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 04:29 AM
1

Said the male lurker in the back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 04:16 AM
2

Good advice ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 04:12 AM
1

Thanks for sharing. That sounds awful 😢 I’m glad you’re on this sub and doing things for you now hugs My mom got PPD and basically the doctors couldn’t help her. It went away after about a year, but my dad calling her crazy certainly didn’t help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 12:17 AM
5

Yikes! Sorry to hear that. I also have a mild nightshade allergy. It only stands to reason that it would get worse with pregnancy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:46 PM
2

Thanks for sharing. I’m definitely considering CF after finding this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:41 PM
1

💯! I feel the past life thing too, like a nagging feeling in the back of my mind and me thinking is that why I don’t wanna?🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 03:38 PM
2

I’m so sorry to hear that. You are literally living my nightmare. And I guess there’s really no way to know until you’re actually pregnant (although I’ve heard your experience might be similar to your mother’s—not sure if that’s true or not) and also symptoms can vary from pregnancy to pregnancy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 03:33 PM
4

bored games (Sorry, I just had to 🤣)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 03:29 PM
3

Always trust your intuition!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 03:22 PM
1

I’m so sorry to hear that. Since you’ve been there, if you don’t mind sharing, could you describe PPD in some detail? I feel it must be different from regular depression, but most of the things I’ve read were written by (mostly male) doctors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 03:19 PM
11

Do you mean things in the nightshade family (like eggplants and tomatoes if I remember correctly), or actual nightshade?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 03:13 PM
5

Add $$$
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 03:10 PM
2

Haha, got it 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 03:08 PM
6

Thanks for your post! And don’t worry, I think most of us on here only use the free award—and I’m fresh out 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 03:06 PM
18

Someone please give this post an award 🥇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 09:34 AM
14

Right. Now there’s even “Chad” plastic surgery to get a stronger jawline or whatever because paying for surgery is still easier than doing any real work on yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 09:04 AM
9

Exactly this 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 09:01 AM
2

Same!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 11:42 PM
1

Glad you got out safely. He sounds dangerous AF. He’ll be in jail one day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:41 AM
2

“Thank the universe for Covid, I never get to see him again.” Do you mean he’s 💀 or…?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:23 AM
1

Never mind about YOUR safety, he was sick, poor thing :/s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:20 AM
1

Thanks for this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 04:29 AM
2

They’re so pathetic. I love imagining them screaming into the void 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 04:24 AM
2

OMFG, he sounds insufferable 😣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 04:16 AM
26

Smashing those lights is already DV. That’s a warning that your face could be next. Please make a plan and get out safely ASAP. “Why does he do that?” is also an excellent resource. Best of luck to you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 03:41 AM
5

Dump any man who uses the word “simp.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 12:55 AM
4

Drive to work in a car nicer than all of theirs and they’ll like you even less 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 12:52 AM
9

His ego was just hurt that you weren’t flirting with him like the cOoL girls. He was likely a pedo. Glad you got rid of him 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 12:50 AM
2

Yep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 12:48 AM
6

“Women are conditioned to prioritize being liked over being respected.” 💯 this. Even most little boys will demand more respect than some grown ass women I know. You have to demand respect. As a woman, very few people will just give it to you—regardless of your job (exception is if you have powerful male family members. Then people are more likely to at least pretend.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 12:47 AM
2

Scary 😱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 11:48 PM
81

Apparently single overseas travel is now code for sugaring to many LVMs. They just can’t wrap their heads around the idea that we might have our own money and want to travel without their interference 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 03:19 PM
1

☝️😂🤣😭😆💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 12:55 PM
3

the eye roll 🙄 the smirk “I NEVER said that!” “I didn’t do that. Why would I do something like that?” “You’re a crazy b*tch.” “All my exes are psychos.” You won’t go 50/50? “All you care about is money!” “That’s just your opinion; it’s not scientific.” “That’s anecdotal. Do you have any statistics to back that up?” “Oh, I don’t know about that. What about… (the menz, etc.)?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 12:47 PM
3

Thanks, this is hilarious. Bookmarked!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 12:41 PM
1

Is Vancouver any better?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 12:13 PM
3

Wait, some Canadians fly the US Confederate flag? Wh… why? What does it mean for them? ETA: And, until now, I’ve always had a lovely image of Vancouver 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 12:13 PM
3

Thanks for the link 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 11:55 AM
7

It’s funny you mention teaching. That might explain why teachers are so disrespected in the US, but not in other countries. Men now see teaching as being done by those who can’t actually perform the job, which doesn’t make much sense. You don’t get very far without good teachers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 11:53 AM
5

The feeling = there’s no sPArK anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 04:45 AM
2

All of this is alarming, but the plastic sheet “joke” absolutely floored me. I can’t even imagine a guy saying something like that 🤢 Better luck next time!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 01:12 PM
2

Yes, I always get this too. They just want to know what flavor (pron category) you are 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 09:47 AM
4

YESSSSSSSSSSSS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 12:57 AM
3

Building up trust… then the blitz attack. Thank you; you just elucidated something for me 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 06:50 AM
2

I think it’s the context. Most men wouldn’t dream of competing with you in embroidery (that’s for gIrLs), but if it’s something mAnLy like STEM, LVM become very insecure very quickly->cue the negging.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 02:51 AM
20

And “unemployable” to boot! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 12:48 AM
6

SC?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 12:28 AM
60

Because on-demand porn?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 12:20 PM
13

Good for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 12:19 PM
6

Right? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 11:15 AM
7

If it were a rando on the street, he probably would have been charged. Once it’s DV, all bets are off because he’s somehow entitled to treat you that way? It’s like men think they own the women they’re in relationships with and other men agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 04:29 AM
6

Yeah, I’m guessing most of them are beyond saving—especially the ones with major curvature. I’ve never seen that before and I’m glad, but at least now I know what to watch out for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 04:18 AM
3

Someone did a whole post on this about a week ago. Sorry, can’t remember the name 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 11:14 PM
3

Ooh, great point!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 11:06 PM
11

These are the posts I’m here for! I’d never have known this otherwise. I’m terrified to Google it, so I’ll just ask here: Is this curvature and scar tissue permanent or can it heal if given the chance? Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 03:03 PM
18

Same!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 12:14 PM
56

Also, the “dark humor” or sarcasm is always a huge red flag 🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 12:12 PM
22

Just ask yourself: If men found evidence of your wrongdoing would it matter how they found it? Of course not. They’d justify their snooping with the evidence 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 11:45 AM
18

This is such a good point 🥇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 02:41 AM
7

What a nightmare. I’m so glad you escaped!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 01:40 AM
10

Most pharmacists I’ve encountered have been literal drug addicts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 12:41 AM
29

Thanks 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 08:46 AM
13

If you’re around other people you know, free to confront a guy next time or at least start yelling and make a scene.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 06:44 AM
47

Would you mind elaborating on some of the not so obvious problems it causes? Thanks 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 06:40 AM
10

At least you had the good sense not to go out with him. Bullet dodged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 06:15 AM
16

Thanks for this! I’m stealing the cutesy “Rude!” response ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 05:00 AM
19

I’d never share my bank statements with a man unless we were married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 04:52 AM
2

So scary. This sounds like the opening of one of those true crime shows. Be careful—especially around the drunk, gun-toting relatives and the ex-con. Also, you may want to find ways to distance yourself from them—they’ll only bring you down. Consider moving or at least being “too busy” to attend most get-togethers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 11:15 AM
7

Exactly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 08:06 AM
7

Agreed. I think it’s the ole “Why does my sex doll have an anus and poop?” This type of loser should actually just invest in a high-quality sex robot and leave real women alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 08:00 AM
15

But his scraggly beard is obviously hiding his triple chin 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 07:33 AM
2

Just another LVM fantasy. Keep dreaming you stupid f*cks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 07:32 AM
3

Yeah, I feel ya. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 07:28 AM
1

I’ve thought about doing this, but after looking into I finally decided against it. That’s not to say don’t do it if you really want to, but aside from all the money and hassle (like you might have to appear before a judge and explain yourself), after you do it, you may have trouble with paperwork (passport and international travel, taxes, credit reports, background checks, etc). You’ll have to have duplicate copies of everything AND explain to people that no, you didn’t change your name for nef…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 09:14 AM
7

For the dairy, try a rotation diet. Totally cut out ALL dairy (must be 100% or it won’t work) for 1-2 weeks and see if your face clears up. Then introduce ONE dairy product back into your diet for a week. If you are allergic (lactose intolerant), you will probably get diarrhea the first day you reintroduce milk. That’s your body saying nope nope nope!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 01:29 AM
2

Same, but I still didn’t wear makeup and was treated terribly because of it. DAIRY was the one and only culprit of my acne, although doctors tried to gaslight me into thinking it was anything else. Once I cut out dairy, problem solved. We’re sold the idea that dairy is healthy, even though about 70% of the world population is lactose intolerant. If you have bad skin, try completely cutting out all dairy 🥛🧀🍨🧈 first. It’s hard, but if you’re allergic to it, it will continue to cause inflammation w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 01:24 AM
3

Preach sis 🙌 I never wear makeup but men and women often assume I am. A lot of people really cannot tell the difference. Also, I stopped wearing makeup because I began to be self conscious without it. Never again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 01:14 AM
30

Good points. This is an excellent post! I also got a raise during covid but a male coworker was let go because he sucked. Maybe he should start an OF 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 11:28 PM
33

The comment about finding out where they are buried is no joke. So sad 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 11:24 PM
9

I hear ya 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 02:31 PM
76

Thanks for your post OP. I can totally relate about “a switch being flipped.” That’s exactly what’s it’s like with narcs, and I agree, I think they don’t really plan things, a lot of their abuse tactics just come naturally to them because they’re tried and true. They worked in the past and the narc just keeps refining them until they become second nature. Unfortunately for my narc, he got the timing wrong. He flipped his switch just when he thought he had me, but it was too soon and I immediatel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 09:29 AM
5

You spelled day wrong 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 02:10 PM
7

Oh, yikes 😬 (and you’re probably right 🤢).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 01:47 PM
1

I have a strong suspicion we’re not getting the full story. He doesn’t feel guilty about his fetish per se, but the fact that he probably coerced her into unwanted sex that night even though she told him she was too tired or didn’t feel up to it. So, he feels guilty because he knows that whatever he did to her that night pushed her over the edge and DIRECTLY contributed to her death.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 01:46 PM
3

And vaccines 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 03:33 AM
6

Ha, I had an nex tell me sex was nice but it just wasn’t the real thing. Now I understand 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 03:08 AM
14

It also releases endorphins.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 01:01 AM
7

God, what a psycho 😱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 12:52 AM
38

Or how many guys dump a woman because she was r@ped? 🤬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 12:45 AM
17

And engaging in my kinks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 12:40 AM
8

The being snappy with the main partner is a key cheating tell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 02:07 PM
3

That’s why I wait 10 minutes and leave, even if they have a (good) excuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 02:00 PM
6

So, control basically.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 01:56 PM
6

I had one tell me that so many “great men” he knows (I assume he was talking about himself) have wives who don’t think these men are all that great and instead treat them like children. So, even if he does manage to lock down a mommy bangmaid, he’ll still resent her. That’s why men look for women 10+ years younger who they can impress because these girls don’t know what’s up. They want a pretty young side piece to stroke their ego (and dick if they can manage it). That’s it 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 01:41 PM
5

Google it, but honestly you don’t want to know 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 11:16 AM
5

“A buddy with boobs.” You spelled vagina wrong...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 11:15 AM
2

This is insightful, thanks! It’s depressing that they present Brad version 12.0 on Hinge while offering Brad version -12.0 on Fruitz. I’m not surprised though 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 08:56 AM
1

Just curious, do you mind sharing how long your timeline was?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 08:50 AM
4

Debt legacy 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 06:23 AM
1

💯 can confirm!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 02:57 PM
3

Those mandatory waiting periods are ridiculous 😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 12:31 AM
6

The men only get married because it benefits them 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 11:19 PM
2

Haha, are you just with me for the lawn furniture? 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 11:12 PM
1

It’s because the bars for police academy and the military are so low. They serve as natural LVM magnets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 10:38 AM
7

That is horrible. I’m so glad you were mostly able to escape! I know from personal experience how entitled they get during their year or so of fame (before they get injured and tossed out like last week’s leftovers). Then they get depressed, spend whatever money they have left on cars, coke, and pros, but still have that “but I’m a star” mentality. It breaks most of them. The one I knew ended up in jail for armed robbery because he wasn’t about to work for a living when everything had previously…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 10:35 AM
5

You scared the big, tough prison guard 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 10:29 AM
5

I have heard that the elite compare themselves to the ancient Greeks to justify unsavory behavior. This goes WAAAY back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 12:12 AM
2

I’m sure investigators didn’t have to dig too deep. Why do I get the feeling there was a lot of inappropriate ArT on the walls? Wouldn’t that be a dead giveaway to innocent, unsuspecting visitors? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 12:08 AM
2

Which is when you say sweetly, “Hey honey, show me your p0rn collection” (screenshot and send to police).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 12:06 AM
3

It’s probably because they finally caught Ghislaine Maxwell and perhaps she’s decided to cooperate to save her own skin. There’s a pick-me handmaid if I ever saw one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 12:03 AM
3

Exactly. Remember that Bill Gates’ ego is so big that one of his previous pet projects was a hurricane zapper. You read that right: he thought he could take on Mother Nature and win. But, somehow, hurricanes are still a thing. Bill Gates—Hurricane Tamer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 11:56 PM
7

I sincerely feel that, unfortunately, they already have. You don’t need millions of dollars, just drug-addicted parents willing to sell their children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 11:51 PM
3

Agreed. They have the desire AND the means. What’s to stop them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 11:50 PM
2

It looks like she was waiting for the kids to turn 18.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 11:20 PM
2

And child marriage is still legal in many countries, so that doesn’t count either. Even in Mexico, I believe the age of consent is only 15.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 11:17 PM
7

The two most terrifying STDs: pregnancy and HIV, in that order.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 09:07 AM
2

Sure, many homophobes are closeted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 04:40 AM
1

Thanks! Yes, he was into porn I found out later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 04:39 AM
55

I doubt most married men know what their wife’s vagina looks like anyway 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 11:21 PM
2

Truth! Also, “sober as a duck” 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 11:17 PM
22

💯 this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 03:14 PM
64

I think it’s actually a lot higher, 90%+?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 03:04 PM
8

Nailed it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 12:43 AM
1

😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 09:10 AM
2

Did you seriously stop wearing clothes?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:25 AM
4

It’s not petty at all. I stopped going to family get-togethers for this very reason. Women cook AND clean up afterwards, men watch TV and drink beer. I don’t fuckin think so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:24 AM
8

He was just trying to show her how iMpOrTaNt he is. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 04:47 AM
7

Good for you, but sorry to hear you encountered such a creep. I also think it makes a big difference to hire a female lawyer—wise move there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 04:44 AM
6

Zombies are the worst 🧟‍♂️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:45 AM
7

“Dolphin” 🐬💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:36 AM
8

Muscular Monday? Hunky Hump Day? Washboard Wednesday?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:34 AM
1

I think so. I believe that’s the Find My Cat feature 😺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:20 AM
10

Cool!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 12:20 PM
12

You got some Thai (looking) symbols going on there?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 09:33 AM
3

I read somewhere that getting married makes people happy for up to one year (honeymoon phase), but plants can keep you happy for 2-3 years! 🌱 🪴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 06:27 AM
0

“He adopted EIGHT children and never consummated his marriage.” Hard cringe. Sounds like a pedo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 06:23 AM
7

Glad to hear it! I always wondered if things would have turned out better if I had learned math. I feel that it’s held me back, especially on standardized exams.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 06:17 AM
3

Same here. After finding FDS, I realized my brother is most likely RP. I knew he was a jerk, but I guess I didn’t realize how deep it went. I should have been clued in when he asked me in a very condescending tone, “You’re not a FEMINIST, are you?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 05:46 AM
5

Exactly 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 05:37 AM
29

I love the idea of proposing 50/50 and when he agrees presenting him with a bill for your hair, makeup, spa treatments, new clothes and accessories, and new (Birkin) bag 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 04:43 AM
11

Right, just saw your reply to someone else. Documenting in a notebook and telling the school are worth a try. Sounds like the new manager is trying to make you into an example because he’s new and insecure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 04:28 AM
3

FWIW, Huawei is a Chinese company, not Taiwanese. See if you can find a few other people this has happened to and try to get the media to do an expose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 04:26 AM
12

Can you secretly record him yelling at you (or anyone else) and send that to a local newspaper?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 04:11 AM
8

Not a joke though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 01:07 AM
51

He gets it! I still hate my high school math teacher who refused to teach girls and most boys (because they had “girly” brains). He chose four boys from the class to tutor and let the rest of us run wild. He also had his gf come by and blow him during the class (he would sneak out to the parking lot). This was a rural area and we didn’t have smart phones, so he totally got away with it 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 12:01 AM
40

Welp, thank you, you’ve just cleared up Mystery #566 about why men are such assholes. And he definitely pronsick and would have become very abusive had I stayed. He also thought I was pretty and cute when I was extremely angry with him. I wonder if that’s also related to pron or if he was just on a power trip 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 11:50 PM
9

Yes, I’ve also gotten hate from both sides, but especially from lesbians who assume I’m a closet lesbian and not bi. I’ve even been told bisexuality isn’t a real thing (by both sides).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 11:38 PM
15

Bahaha 🤣 A friend of mine actually left her fiancé for a woman. He got it though. He said: “You had chicken but now you want steak.” I couldn’t believe he admitted to being chicken 🍗 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:43 PM
26

That is strange. Thanks for clearing that up! ETA: Shouldn’t that mean that gay p0rn and gay men have the magic power to turn any man gay?! 😮🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:39 PM
14

Probably some scene from his favorite p0rn 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 12:18 AM
8

Bahahaha 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 11:46 PM
26

Yikes 😱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 05:21 AM
14

Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 05:12 AM
14

🥇🏅🎖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 04:57 AM
19

This happened to me as well. I started submitting written proposals so they couldn’t claim my ideas as their own—because they WILL try to. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 12:23 AM
11

Ask: 1. What are your thoughts on polyamory? (Follow up if his answer is short: Have you ever tried it?) 2. How well do you think the government handled covid? (Don’t mention a president—let him do that.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 04:29 AM
49

As a former DUFF, I can totally relate. I was also only asked out as a joke/on dares for a long time, just to have the guy and his friends burst into laughter. I’m much better looking now, but I basically don’t trust men and my immediate reaction to being asked out by men (not women tho) is to say no. They are truly vile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 01:59 AM
8

I think that was a ONS or hookup though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 05:46 AM
3

I need this on a mug and a T-shirt. Hell, maybe a tattoo 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 12:33 PM
115

Him: I want the ring back. Her: I want the last 20 years of my life back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 10:44 AM
2

Same. And moving sure helps 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 12:09 AM
2

😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 10:13 AM
2

What was the advice she gave you for minimizing cramps?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 01:41 AM
1

Very powerful. Thanks for posting!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 02:47 PM
48

God they’re pathetic. They hate the fact that they need us and then hold that against us. He probably wants a woman to submit to his k!nks and then cuddle him afterwards 😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 01:22 PM
16

Not so fast and not shocking at all—he was just mad some dude was fapping to his property: “Vickery was arrested and released on $75,000 bond, and he was awaiting trial for a charge of felony sex battery before he was arrested Thursday for manslaughter.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 01:04 PM
6

Came here to say this ☝️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 09:42 AM
34

I’m sorry that happened to you and I agree, it’s going to escalate further. Make your plans quietly and do not give him any heads up. Move out during the day when he’s at work and have him served with divorce papers. Do it suddenly and get out safely. Good luck!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 08:33 AM
23

This 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 08:30 AM
17

Wow, how empowering... for the men doing the background checks anyway. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 05:36 AM
95

Right, and believe them the first time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 05:03 AM
2

You’re awesome 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 12:46 PM
4

I ran 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 09:17 AM
3

Listen, I moved out because of my stepfather when I was 17. That was exactly 3 days after the abuse started. I had $1,000 to my name. I worked two jobs and graduated college. Are you in a better position than I was? If so, you have no excuses. He is definitely going to do something worse to you. It’s just a matter of time. Please get out ASAP. What he’s doing isn’t normal. I would literally throw up if my dad did that to me. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 12:44 AM
9

I’ve been there. Don’t be too hard on yourself. Be glad you figured it out early enough to make a clean break. Many women don’t recognize the abuse until they’re already living together or married. Stay strong—you’ll get through this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 12:28 AM
9

One thing that stood out: I noticed he would smirk when saying something particularly hurtful or manipulative and seemed to enjoy it. ASD will say something too bluntly and hurt your feelings, but they are often oblivious to their effect on you. So then I researched narcs and he ticked ALL the boxes. Also, ASD will generally not respond to jokes or insinuations because they just don’t understand. They will just stare blankly at you and either continue talking or abruptly change the subject. ASD …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 11:52 PM
3

Will do, thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 11:46 PM
6

That’s what life’s all about, after all lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 02:05 PM
16

Gotcha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 10:21 AM
9

Thanks for this. I’m done for the day 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 09:46 AM
75

It’s doubtful that she’ll finish law school anyway. How will she find the time between folding his laundry and wiping his ass?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 09:43 AM
45

Wow, never seen this. She’s a literal pickme! Popular media is apparently just brainwashing propaganda.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 09:22 AM
12

Yeah, you’re absolutely right about women having to be ready to hear the message. I’m waiting for my once-best friend to try out her poly experiment 😒. When that goes south, I’ll hit her up about FDS again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 09:14 AM
30

Awesome! Thanks for the template. I like how you addressed that it’s not just about dating because the name initially turned me off. ETA: I personally haven’t done a good job of explaining it to people either. I send them the WP article and they go “Wow, looks too radical for me.” FDS is radical, but not in TRP way that they imagine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 08:22 AM
2

How apt! That’s the birthday a narcissistic in my life 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 05:58 AM
13

My guess? It’s from p0rn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 05:48 AM
8

Cruise ships, I found out recently, are the perfect place to commit this type of crime. No “man” overboard warning systems on many of them, few security cameras on some decks. Also, they’re in international waters so no one has/wants jurisdiction and the cruise companies try to cover any incidents up. So you wait until there’s a storm one dark rainy night and over she goes. “Oh, officer, it’s a real tragedy, she slipped and fell.” Case closed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 05:45 AM
62

I’d consider it harassment if someone sent me one, regardless. Why is not ok for men to expose themselves in public or even in closed quarters (think party, or even dating in person) but online it’s fine? This is what needs to change. There should be laws against internet indecency.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 04:58 AM
31

I saw a comment on here once that said “I thought my ex had autism but turns out he’s just a narcissist.” I had exactly the same thing happen. Just something to watch out for. They may present similarly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 04:32 AM
6

So happy for you—he sounds like a keeper 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 04:28 AM
41

Yeah, that all sounds way too familiar 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 02:10 AM
9

Great point!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 02:09 AM
10

Totally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 02:08 AM
33

I misread “Scrotcratic irony” 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 02:06 AM
28

Yes, it’s one thing for people on the internet to tell you, but it really hits home when it plays out IRL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 01:54 AM
13

Yes, this is a great article!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 01:53 AM
27

We’re not together 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 01:40 AM
2

They use bottles 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 11:24 AM
5

Has a very strong and unreasonable hatred of Hillary Clinton, AOC, or any other female celebrity he has never met. Stands too close, comes up behind you instead of approaching from the side. Feels entitled to touch you (even hugs, they’re hoping for a boob feel) when you’ve only just met. Won’t let you choose your seat (I prefer to face the door/window with my back to the wall. Won’t let you choose in general (movie, route, cuisine, etc.) Radio silence on certain topics (like family). He should …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 10:58 AM
2

And women are “home cooks” but men are “chefs”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 05:58 AM
2

Where’s the lie? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 05:06 AM
1

Lol, you just reminded me a male coworker once asked what I was talking about. Him: “The male gays? Which ones?” 😭 Men really are that clueless about the issues women face day to day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 04:56 AM
3

Will you be my incubator lady? 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 04:34 AM
13

Your boss is not a HVW if she told him about you and didn’t offer you the same courtesy (because she knew you’d say no once you saw a photo, but she was hoping you’d give him a ChAnCe once you saw what a GrEAt guy he was.) 🤢👎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 04:13 AM
43

Yes, the jocks and bullies who had their glory days in high school and never went to college. They’re on a power trip for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 12:23 AM
14

I think he was just turned on by humiliating and insulting you during the fights and wanted to finish himself off. FDS has showed me that what happens in the bedroom is never separate from the relationship but always an integral part of it. ETA: I see my many possible alternate pasts on here and it’s absolutely terrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 11:56 PM
6

Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 11:46 PM
22

I’m sorry, did I read that right? STEP on your face? I mean, wtf? Was this FoRePlAy or during sex or what? This is one of the most bizarre things I’ve ever heard. I just can’t imagine...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 11:45 PM
4

This is a good picture to put on the bedroom wall.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 11:38 PM
24

This ☝️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 11:36 PM
62

Because they know their buddies on the force will cover for them and they can get away with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 11:28 PM
2

Thanks for the explainer! And yes, thank goodness for our mods. 🥰 I’ve always avoided Reddit like the plague that it is and only joined for FDS. And now I’m finding out that the rest of Reddit is actually even worse than I thought 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 03:20 PM
1

Yes, YOU out there, please think twice before posting shit scrotes say/write/do on Reddit and other online garbage. They get enough bandwidth as it is. They don’t deserve FDS too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 09:27 AM
3

I’m sick of Tinder and I’ve never used it 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 09:14 AM
2

And killers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 09:06 AM
0

Because they’re also on certain Reddit subs? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 08:58 AM
2

Ohhh, gotcha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 08:54 AM
1

How in the hell did that happen and why was FDS spared?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 08:53 AM
2

They’re willfully confusing rightful anger with hate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 08:52 AM
2

And so it should be normal for women to break up with them when they break things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 06:26 AM
2

Even if that’s true, I still think they’re using it as an excuse. They know it’s wrong but still choose to do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 05:29 AM
1

They’re losing control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 05:26 AM
2

I’ll look into the laws about pounding on car hoods here. I have a feeling it isn’t legal, but I love it 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 04:11 AM
3

Too much hard truth there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 12:36 AM
2

Do women in the West own their own bodies if they can’t freely get abortions or BC? Do women in Asia own their own bodies if they can’t get IVF without being married to a man? And don’t get me started on the ME, India, LA, etc. “Nearly half” my ass—the number is much, much higher.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 12:35 AM
3

So HVM are the imaginary numbers, yes?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 12:26 AM
2

Also, write him a letter (don’t send it, ofc) listing all the terrible things he did to you and write down verbatim the most hurtful things he said to you. Tell him this is why you’re leaving and never want to see him again, since he doesn’t bring happiness to your life and you deserve so much better. Then, every time you want to contact him, read that letter first and feel free to add to it as you remember other hurtful things he’s done. Rinse and repeat. Don’t let him weasel his way back into …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 12:15 AM
1

You don’t need a man, but you might want to consider a nanny—if only part time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 12:07 AM
4

Yeah, good thing they’ve got each other’s backs . Aholes 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 12:05 AM
4

What is wrong with people (men)?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 12:03 AM
2

In some countries it was (is?) required to also hang the bloody sheet outside for the neighbors to inspect the next day. Can you imagine how traumatizing that would be? To have everyone see that and then comment if there was enough blood, right color, etc. and still calling the girl’s virginity into question?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 12:02 AM
1

I can’t believe that throughout college and grad school, I never heard of Dworkin, while Judith Butler was discussed ad nauseum. I really wonder if Dworkin is being intentionally suppressed or if people just don’t know about her?! If not for FDS, I wouldn’t know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 11:58 PM
3

OMG, well, by that logic, since he was there too, wasn’t he also “asking for it”?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 11:26 PM
4

Right? A man waved at me to go while I was driving, so I changed lanes and he hit me! The police believed his story, so I got a huge ticket AND his insurance didn’t have to pay for the significant damage to my car 😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 11:24 PM
3

It’s because men worry about stupid shit like this—as if sailors would deign to touch them with a 10-foot pole. It’s always, always projection because for most straight men, the idea of being sodomized is worse than death.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 02:29 PM
6

I hear you about the cyclists—they’re a whole ‘nother problem. And seriously, how much time are they really saving, especially if they cause an accident?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 02:14 PM
4

When they try to talk over you, just stay calm and finish saying what you were saying while they’re talking. Then sit back and wait for their surprised Pikachu face 😮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 09:01 AM
24

Male entitlement at its finest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 08:10 AM
1

Thanks, I’ll check it out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 08:09 AM
8

That’s really scary. I hope you’re ok now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 08:08 AM
9

STOP EYE FUCKING ME! I don’t know you, but I 😍 you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 08:07 AM
1

I wouldn’t yell at him, but I’d glare and take video and be obvious about it. Scrotes don’t like it when the tables are turned and the camera is pointed at them. Plus, you can use it for evidence later in case something happens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 06:23 AM
4

Story time: my first roommate in college brought an actual homeless man into our house so he could bathe and eat! Best part? I thought he was a clean freak burglar because when I got home he was taking a bath in the tub and she had gone out to do errands because she TrUsTeD him and didn’t feel the need to tell me what she had done 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 06:19 AM
2

OMG, this! 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 06:00 AM
3

So true 🤣 A coworker once told me that he was out for a walk in the park and a man on a bench checked him out. He was all “it’s kinda nice to be treated like a piece of meat since that never happens.” I think he was closeted though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 05:35 AM
26

I’ve put my hand up in a stop ✋ position, and it’s a natural reflex for them to stop—-assuming they’re paying attention and not on their phone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 05:16 AM
3

They only understand it in the context of being hit on by gay men, which rarely if never happens to them. So, once again, it’s all projection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 05:11 AM
4

It isn’t that they don’t see, it’s that they enjoy it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 04:06 AM
6

God, why are they so stupid?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 04:04 AM
13

True that. I meant that I’ve just gotten in the habit lately of crossing the street behind random men. They’re like a sh*t shield 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 03:11 AM
20

Sure. I’m conflicted about pepper spray, guns, and other weapons because from reports and people I know personally, the fact is that unless you have a lot of mind training and can keep your cool, most people freak out when attacked and their weapons get used against them. Weapons and martial arts training can be a crutch that makes women feel safer, and then they end up putting themselves into dangerous situations. I don’t carry a weapon. Just remember that most anything can become a weapon, but…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 02:48 AM
1

What’s this book?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 01:37 AM
54

Wha...😱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 01:34 AM
42

I have noticed what you mentioned and have started walking with other women or behind men. It’s the first time men have made me feel safer (and, if anything happens he will get hit first).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 01:33 AM
15

Good point 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 01:30 AM
59

This is probably not the answer you are looking for, but I have martial arts experience—and have only used it twice (non-attacker related, like doing a forward roll to avoid a cycling accident). The real key is to never, ever let the situation get that far. This may not be a popular opinion, but I believe in non-confrontation. Even if you win the fight, you might suffer permanent injuries. It’s just not worth it. Although having actual training can increase your confidence, you’d better hope you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 01:19 AM
4

Aerobic exercise, sleep, clean eating, and no contact. Don’t even think about looking at any of his social media, old texts, or photos either. Oh, and alcohol is a depressant, so avoid it at all costs until you feel better. (Ask me how I know.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 12:57 AM
25

I think she just got lucky. I mean, supposedly some women meet and marry great guys from Tinder, but I’ll take my chances with the lottery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 12:54 AM
21

I have noticed that when I carry a big open umbrella that slows them down a bit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 12:49 AM
17

My great grandmother was a pioneer woman who built her own log cabin and hunted her own food!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 12:46 AM
5

Once you get some distance, I think you’ll feel relief and his abusiveness will become glaringly obvious to you. Just because he doesn’t abuse you as much or as badly as your ex, doesn’t mean he isn’t abusive—it just means the bar is in hell. Please leave him for good when you find the strength and can do so safely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 12:32 AM
18

Good lord, I’m so glad I never got into this although I did consider it. Had no idea it was so toxic ☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 12:27 AM
46

And what the hell was HE doing there anyway? Very sus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 11:48 PM
19

It’s not small—it’s huge! Who knows what could have happened if you hadn’t listened to your intuition. Always better safe than sorry!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 11:46 PM
22

Yeah, never understood this one. Men are so vengeful and untrustworthy. Why give them extra ammunition to ruin your life?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 11:43 PM
1

Living alone like a queen 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 11:18 PM
3

Serious question: what do most men even bring to the table? I’m at a loss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 04:03 PM
3

Have you considered moving to a more LGBT+ friendly country first?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 04:01 PM
4

🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 01:02 PM
3

Thanks for explanation, but yeesh, that’s terrible! Maybe I was better off not knowing 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 01:01 PM
3

Preach!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 12:59 PM
2

They’re divorced 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 12:58 PM
7

But they have MeNtAL hEaLtH issues!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 12:56 PM
26

Yes, unfortunately I didn’t learn this until finding FDS. But silence/lack of reaction, distancing and blocking all work like a charm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 02:00 AM
68

Where’s the closet? 😂 He seems pretty open about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 01:55 AM
5

“butters”?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 01:47 AM
9

Yes! Once you see it, you can’t unsee it. And then the unfairness becomes apparent in every aspect of our lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 01:14 AM
5

Oof, too true. I just remembered my mom basically wrote my dad’s papers so he would finish his master’s degree. Guess who took all the credit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 01:11 AM
13

Thank you for this 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 03:52 PM
31

They have it so good and then have the audacity to complain and cheat 😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 12:19 PM
2

Or man wh0res 😮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 10:10 AM
66

Right, I forgot to add nurse/caretaker 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 08:48 AM
1

Sleeping Beauty was drugged and is literally sexually assaulted by the prince. And girls are taught that this is romantic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 08:39 AM
2

Like the lumberjack in the woods handpicking wild flowers while the deer and rabbits prance about! I’m down 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 08:35 AM
1

PUAs have a term for this, sl*t defense or something similar?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 08:31 AM
2

Wow, because murder 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 08:21 AM
2

Ick, I literally forgot that some of it involves animals 🤢 Oh, but men and women are the SaMe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 08:16 AM
1

I actually caught a coworker at a previous job watching p0rn on the company computer and he didn’t even seem ashamed, just turned it off real quick. On fesshole I saw a post about a guy who got caught on the office surveillance camera jackin it at his desk after hours. HR and security made him watch the whole thing and then escorted him out 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 08:07 AM
5

And like the book says, the more you listen to your intuition, the louder and clearer it gets. Very recently I was in a situation where everything seemed fine, but then I got a cold, sinking feeling of fear in my stomach, felt dizzy, and thought I might throw up. That was the strongest signal I’ve ever received from my body and I still tried to rationalize it away, as did others I talked to. But this time I actually listened to my intuition. I don’t know what would have happened otherwise, but I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 07:56 AM
3

Oh, I just posted basically the same comment. Also, you spelled “men” wrong 😂 ETA: I checked the dictionary. “Losers and rejects” is an accepted alternate spelling 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 07:30 AM
9

Isn’t this just leftover insecurities from high school? His fantasy: To “give it good” 🤢 to that hot, haughty cheerleader b*tch who wouldn’t give him the time of day because she was a queen who recognized him for the loser he was. These men are pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 07:27 AM
232

Right, they benefit soooo much from being in basically any kind of relationship with a woman that they can’t imagine us not wanting to be in a relationship with them. They are unwilling to put themselves in our shoes for a moment. If they did, they might realize they usually contribute very little to nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 07:23 AM
105

We’ve been taught by society that this is just how a NoRmAL relationship is supposed to be. Nothing to see here ladies—move right along!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 07:15 AM
184

Agreed. They come crawling back, but not for us, just for the perks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 07:13 AM
2

“Girl chores” is redundant. They think all housework is for girls...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 05:50 AM
9

Lmao with the heating rock 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 05:47 AM
3

Totally agree. Also, don’t forget the “It must be that time of month” insult, implying that you must be crazy or under the influence of FeMaLe hormones to have an opinion. Not to mention that men tend to make most decisions under the influence of testosterone and their libidos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 05:09 AM
26

Yikes 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 11:34 PM
7

Ha, what would he even say? “Hey, honey, I can’t seem to find my secret stash of ex nudes. Um, do you know where they might be?” Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 08:35 AM
4

Like goldfish in a tank? Aimlessly swimming around in circles and trying to gulp down any crumbs that come their way? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:12 AM
3

Did any actually give you that? I know I wouldn’t want to, but I don’t blame you for being careful. Still, I think most guys would balk at that request for fraud reasons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:08 AM
6

Right. That’s a lot of paragraphs for “I’m fugly but you can’t be.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 09:31 AM
59

I bought a car from an Indian couple with an arranged marriage. The car was in perfect condition with very low mileage because the husband never let the wife drive the car. In fact, he was selling it so she wouldn’t be able to go anywhere without him and could stay home and start a family. The husband seemed normal and progressive at first, was friendly and had great English, but then I went to their house to pick up the keys and he invited me in. The poor wife legit waited on us (served coffee)…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 06:07 AM
4

If you pull the trigger you don’t need the divorce 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 05:28 AM
4

Is it possible your body is trying to tell you that you don’t like him or he’s not nice to you or simply that he isn’t right for you? Are you even attracted to him? On a scale of 1-10, he’s a... Sex should never feel like a chore. If it does, there are ALWAYS larger issues at play.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 04:59 AM
11

Probably I’m naive, so please forgive me, but can someone please explain why men put in so much effort for sex and then once they get it, they bounce? Doesn’t it require a lot more work to get it from someone else or was it just the challenge they were after?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 05:29 AM
10

Dare I say that this is why OLD is so popular with men? The sex for them is usually better and cheaper from the sounds of it. I think this article should be required reading for any woman considering engaging in casual sex with men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 02:51 PM
8

“Sir Scrotesallot” 🤣 Good for you. Keep soaring!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 12:57 AM
12

Always park near the front door, especially at night.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 03:33 PM
73

First of all, 7.7 billion people is waaaay more than enough. Too many for the planet to support and with many actively contributing to everyone’s misery. That said, in the short term, governments do need to think about the rate of replacement for national security and economic reasons. And, of course, many people still want kids. This article offers three scenarios about how birthrates could go up, like apparently Millennials and Gen Z are “flirting with traditionalism” (this reporter has clearl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 03:27 PM
9

Just saying they thought it was “life force” in ancient China. That’s why royal and noble women took young lovers—to steal their life force and look younger 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 11:08 AM
20

Wow, so “Southern woman” is actually code for “tradwife”?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 11:05 AM
100

Don’t you know women were DeSiGned to handle pain? Men, on the other hand, get all the pain meds they want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 01:50 AM
30

They’re wasting their “life force” on socks. In ancient China, older men “conserved their seed” and practiced having sex without ejaculating or, at least, making it last a long time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 01:10 AM
43

You can’t leave us hanging like that! What happened?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 12:54 AM
1

I totally get this. I hate eating around new people too—male or female. I’d suggest a “tea date.” For some reason LVM are really put off by tea (but not coffee). Maybe they think it’s uppity or are afraid because they don’t know what to order? 😂 Anyway, I find tea is good for vetting because there are fewer proper tea houses and lots of men resist if you suggest tea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 07:05 AM
3

Good call!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 05:37 AM
-1

We can be bumblers too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 05:32 AM
3

Good for you; it sounds like you’ve really leveled up and improved your life 💜 I think everyone should live abroad for a while, just to get a new perspective. I was similar to you, but when I moved abroad I found I was treated A LOT better by everyone (partly because I was a foreigner and partly because of my job.) That experience made me unable to stand for any disrespect from friends and family back home. They said “You’ve really changed. I don’t feel like I know you anymore.” But they were ju…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 12:22 AM
1

Thanks for explaining! I’d be terrified of a date in a field. He might just have been planning a picnic, but it could just as easily ended up on one of those true crime shows 😱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 12:11 AM
1

Which will be picked apart and ultimately rejected.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 11:31 PM
2

OMG, I keep seeing this on here about a date or wedding in a field. Can someone please explain? Also, as an aside, a very close family member of mine literally got married in a field 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 11:28 PM
5

I thought it was more genetic—like some women do, some can’t?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 03:14 PM
2

For 3 seconds 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 02:55 PM
1

Ok, maybe I’ll do a book report after I finish it 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 12:56 PM
4

Agreed! Thanks to OP for posting this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 12:21 PM
1

Haha, sounds like he belongs in the trash 🗑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 06:00 AM
15

I reported a coworker for serious online harassment. He started a campaign against me, got a lot of people and some management to side with him and made my life hell. He finally ended up quitting and then I did too. Glad the guy in your situation realized he was a fuck up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 05:04 AM
8

I read somewhere on here that for a lot of men, women are just prn categories. The sexy doctor in the videos he watches isn’t really a doctor. You’d think he’d be able to separate fantasy and reality, but I guess not. Yes, please report him. Was this the first time?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 05:01 AM
2

Agreed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 04:09 AM
27

Good therapists are hard to find. You just have to keep trying. Drop them when they stop helping—they charge too much to let them waste your time. I had one who asked me “Why don’t you just stop doing XYZ behavior?” Hello, if it was so easy to stop, I wouldn’t be in therapy! Dropped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 01:06 AM
3

“With every cover of my being.” If that’s English, I don’t know what it means 😂 Is he using English to try to show you he’s superior?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 12:56 AM
3

It’s scary, but good to know for future reference. If you do take the master class, please let me know what you think. I’m not sure I want to shell out the money. Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 11:59 PM
10

He was closer to the knife and blocking the door. I thought I was overreacting and he was “just angry” until I read “The Gift of Fear.” That book made me realize that the reason I had felt like my life was in danger was because it really was. Second thing the book made me realize: subconsciously I must have seen a knife, but it never registered. Last week I checked the kitchenette and, sure enough, there’s a fairly large knife inches from the sink where he’d been standing. I didn’t know the knif…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 11:56 PM
8

What a jerk. Hope you didn’t take that job. He must be a real piece of work if he couldn’t even keep it together for an interview! In general, I think men have waaay less self control than women, in part because society doesn’t demand it of them and it’s nAtUrAl if they have a temper.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 11:50 PM
10

Right, forgot about this! I’ve seen my client get this look three times now. It creeped me out so much I researched it. I found out it’s called the “predatory stare” or the “reptilian stare.” You’ll definitely know it if you see it. Apparently it’s a hallmark of sociopaths and (sociopathic?) narcissists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 11:42 PM
4

That’s very true. Then again, if they’re not going to work on themselves, we don’t don’t want them to be their authentic selves either, especially at work 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 11:37 PM
1

Good to keep in mind!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 11:36 PM
21

Exactly. I didn’t use to, but since finding FDS I always believe women now. The stories are just too similar, which means we all experience basically the same BS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 02:41 PM
29

Yeah, and I didn’t even mean to trigger him. It literally came out of nowhere due to a misunderstanding on his part. Men are scary 😟
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 02:18 PM
45

I haven’t finished it yet, actually. But 1. Mirroring (repeat the last 1-3 important words they said in an inquisitive voice) 2. Summarize their perspective and get them to say “That’s right” (not “You’re right.” 3. Use your calm late night FM DJ voice when you refuse to budge 4. Label their emotions to reduce their impact (“It seems like you’re angry.” Don’t use “I think you’re angry.”) 5. Admit negatives instead of denying them and use framing (“You’re not going to like this.”) Sorry, it’s not…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 02:15 PM
22

I’m sorry to hear about your dad. My stepfather was like that. It’s frustrating when others can’t see through their facade.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 02:05 PM
21

Thanks, you too! Knowledge is power 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 12:17 PM
1

Ha, isn’t this basically the plot of Cocktail (Tom Cruise)?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 05:05 AM
9

Right, why is ok for food (think GF, no carbs, etc.) but not for men? It’s totally acceptable in almost every other area to be picky and even shows that you’re sophisticated and have good taste.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 12:34 AM
20

It doesn’t really matter if he pays for it or not—he’s still looking at it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 12:27 AM
18

This has been the key to male success since forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 11:25 PM
12

The mafia, cowboys, and train and bank robbers were glamorized in the past. Before that, it was warriors and pirates. Unfortunately, it’s not new.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 11:57 PM
3

I totally understand why he’s worried about “broken glass”, with all these queens pursuing their careers, breaking that glass ceiling, and leaving shards of glass below them for NVM like this loser to step on!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 04:37 AM
8

Him: I just want to have fuc—fun, I said fun!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 04:13 AM
2

Yeah, totally gross 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 04:11 AM
3

That’s despicable. I hope they rot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 03:20 PM
3

Pets are great if you’re touch starved!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 03:19 PM
6

Ha, sorry, the hike thing just really freaked me out. You don’t even know him, so I thought I should respond. Be careful out there!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 03:17 PM
16

You wrote A LOT, I mean like a whole f’n novel. That says to me that you like him and are thinking about breaking your own rules already (not dating for two years). He’s already getting you to consider moving your boundaries for him 🚩 He’s too old 🚩and talks down to you (you’re soo mature for your age, you’re NoT LiKe the OtHer GiRls)🚩 He wants to get you alone in the woods 🚩（this one absolutely terrifies me. I know, I know, he already had a chance to do something but didn’t. However, he might f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 12:33 PM
13

Doesn’t matter how you dress, and you can tell them your profession, but it’s a big red flag if they want specifics. Just tell him you make enough to get by, you’re comfortable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 11:38 AM
8

Personally, I think Brad Pitt looks awful now. I can’t imagine a woman looking anywhere near that bad and getting any advertisements or roles. I saw a close-up advertisement of his wrinkly face and near had a heart attack.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 10:48 AM
16

This is a great point. I thought it was really ironic that the Met pledged to put more officers on the streets in the wake of her death “to keep people safe.” Like maybe better police oversight would work better?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 06:03 AM
22

I’m very sorry all that happened to you. And rape is physical harm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 05:53 AM
3

Call him “uncle”? Yikes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 05:34 AM
-1

Yeah, but that’s a police thing and they use that saying to justify excessive force (like shooting poc in the back because they are too lazy to run after them—yes that’s real).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 04:42 AM
11

Right? Like don’t attack me and you won’t go blind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 04:38 AM
2

I’ll protect myself first—laws be damned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 04:37 AM
4

And angry. I don’t know why that’s supposed to be an insult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 04:16 AM
4

So do I. Give ‘em a taste of their own medicine!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 01:51 AM
5

YAAAAS! Well done!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 12:42 AM
5

I’m glad you had good experiences!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 10:24 AM
3

I’ll probably get a lot of hate for this, but here goes anyway: I see a lot of people on this thread arguing for no contact, but I think it’s important to recognize that this is a lot easier for some women than others, especially depending on cultural background. For example, if you make six figures and live independently in a city away from most or all family, no or little contact is easier. But imagine living in a place where literally everyone is your extended family AND being guilted/forced/…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 09:26 AM
5

Can confirm. This works. Don’t give them a platform.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 09:12 AM
5

I’m glad you’re getting an education but don’t rely on your boyfriend too much. Keep leveling up—you can do it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 09:11 AM
1

JFC, that’s absolutely terrible. No one should have to go through that. I’m happy to hear that you got out and are doing better now. Therapy might be helpful if you can afford it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 09:09 AM
5

The mother of one of my friends tried to set her up with all these guys. She finally agreed to one when the mother offered her $500 just to show up for the dinner and meet the guy. My friend cut her hair real short and wore a tux 🤵‍♀️ to the fancy restaurant. The guy was wearing a similar tux and was super embarrassed. They had an awkward and fairly quiet dinner. My friend made $500 and her mother stopped trying to set her up on dates 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 08:19 AM
6

I agree. I don’t think we should entertain their posts or ideas on this platform—with the rare exception of discussing some new scam or tactic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 07:50 AM
4

My god, that was a real post?! I didn’t think it was possible, but they continue to sink to new lows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 07:35 AM
8

I thought red pill got banned or quarantined or something? I would ask how it could continue to exist when pink pill can’t, but I already know the answer 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 07:11 AM
9

Nose is great too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 05:59 AM
36

They bail because they realize that you know they lied about how tall they were 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 05:57 AM
41

I really wanted to get into BJJ, but one of the girls I knew who did it cautioned to be careful because all the other practitioners were men (mostly NVM/LVMs) who were eager to dominate “the new girl” by lying on top of her and putting her into some disgusting hold—I won’t go into details but I’m sure you get the picture 🤢 The real clincher was something called mat rot though. Apparently the mats get dirty from the sweat and are never cleaned, so all the guys had these terrible skin diseases tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 05:53 AM
2

That sounds great 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 05:22 AM
2

No, that’s Pepe the Frog, a racist symbol of the far right. So yeah, actually, maybe they are related 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 04:31 AM
33

Anal: The Musical 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 11:15 PM
2

This is outrageous. FDS is literally one of the least hateful places on the internet 😤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 01:47 PM
3

Right. You can also cross the street and then cross back. If he follows you back get into a public area, like a restaurant, and ask for help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 01:02 PM
7

That is horrible. I’m so sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 02:09 AM
14

I’ve never been on bc either after seeing what my friends went through. Funny thing is, I’ve had several doctors NOT believe me—that’s how common it is now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 02:08 AM
45

It sure makes sense from a male perspective...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 02:05 AM
7

One of the personal trainers at my last gym tried a different approach, trying to shame me about my weight and body when actually I’m fine with where I’m at 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 01:58 AM
19

You never hear about it like “Because men are visual creatures, they can’t stand clutter and keep such clean houses “ or “Men really put a lot of effort into their appearance and clothes because they are just so vIsUaL”. So the next time he leaves his towels, clothes, food, and garbage lying around the house, please remind him that men are visual creatures 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 08:28 AM
5

I really wish they’d just all date each other. It’d probably make everyone happier. They’d have all the sex they could handle (plus kink and multiple partners) and we’d have peace, freedom, and safety🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 05:18 AM
4

Hey, let’s not KiNK ShAme, maybe she enjoys a good dog pile now and then 😂🤣🐾
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 02:06 PM
20

OMG 🤣💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 01:09 PM
7

The funniest thing about this is that if we’re all so ugly, fat, and psycho why do they even care? Shouldn’t they be obsessing over some DrEam GiRl forum and leave us losers to enjoy life on our own terms? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 01:05 PM
7

Getting rid of a man tends to be harder than getting one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 01:02 PM
36

How pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 12:44 PM
3

Good point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 12:39 PM
80

When they’re too old and this finally hits home, many try to find a much younger—and much poorer—waifu abroad 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 09:14 AM
3

Thanks for your reply! And you’re probably right, I’m sure it’s not just Brazil where men have tried that cope, but I heard about Brazil specifically in connection with the US HIV/AIDS campaign and why it failed so spectacularly there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 08:57 AM
5

I think she should’ve used that email to sue for discrimination and hit ‘em where it hurts—their pocketbooks. But she was a cool girl 🥶
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 08:52 AM
7

The opioid crisis initially affected white men disproportionately because white male doctors assumed that Black men would sell the drugs and that women are NaTuRalLy able to withstand more pain because of childbirth. So, the only people with LeGitiMiTe pain issues were white men. I encountered this firsthand trying to get stronger painkillers for my period, but when I had a sports injury the doctors passed out opioids like candy, cuz, you know, sports.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 05:21 AM
25

Because it’s not enough for him to control his wife’s body and his daughter’s body, he needs to control his female patients’ bodies too. Maybe he should go into politics...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:59 AM
5

According to my sources. Hope CatSweets can confirm or deny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:51 AM
9

Yes, but it’s also the other (usually older) toxic men they’re surrounded by and look up to that really teach them that misogyny, racism, and classism are fine and not to worry since these finance bros are at the top of the pecking order and call the shots 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 01:11 AM
12

A friend of mine was turned down in writing (an email) for a job at a place like this (male-dominated industry). She was told she was too pretty and would distract “the boys” and they wouldn’t get any work done. Instead of suing for sexual harassment she felt flattered 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 01:04 AM
15

I heard that in Brazil only the receiving partner in sex is considered gay, but the man giving it is not. So when the US AIDS campaign went to Brazil, it spread the message that gay men were a high-risk group. And there were all these men who were married to women and sleeping with men on the side but didn’t think they were high risk because they were the dominant partner. Then they got AIDS, took it home to their wives and unborn children. Is that true? Thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 12:44 AM
5

Such great advice. Thank you 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 12:26 AM
55

Not useless. Dangerous. Otherwise it wouldn’t be so attacked. We’re a threat to the patriarchal status quo—and they know it. God forbid women have rights and respect too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 12:04 AM
4

(Sorta) funny aside, same scrote supervisor asked me one day, “WHY are you eating cake? Is it your birthday?” Like, women are only allowed cake once per year? Of course, he never policed what my male colleagues ate. I finally had to quit that job...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 11:22 PM
2

...except being rejected or laughed at by women 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 03:30 PM
7

Absolutely. Men almost never apologize.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 03:28 PM
3

If you need a case in point for the first quote, just look at Hillary Clinton and her inability to get elected because she has a low likability score 🤓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 03:26 PM
2

That’s beyond cruel 😤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 11:35 AM
2

Absolutely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 11:27 AM
1

Totally agree!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 11:18 AM
178

Ok, but his 💩post aside, why is he so surprised that women are more attracted to more attractive men? It’s because we’ve been taught that only men are vIsUaL. Men should be working on themselves, and not just their appearances. He’s definitely gross though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 10:49 AM
3

But it would be miles long...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 10:35 AM
1

Ass garbage, in fact 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 09:57 AM
2

Thanks for elucidating choice feminism so well and so concisely. Sadly, what you say is something that I didn’t truly understand pre-FDS. We have to get the word out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 09:55 AM
2

“Reverse culture jamming” (takes note). Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 09:51 AM
2

OMG, yes! I had forgotten about the Proud Boy connection 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 09:45 AM
1

This!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 09:39 AM
2

Just wow 😳 I guess I missed that one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 09:37 AM
3

The pickmeisha author cites pickmeisha dating coach “experts” critiquing FDS and claims that we all want men on a “scrotation” (!) I can’t even 🤣 Can someone, maybe our newly minted FDS “spokesperson” (not even spokeswoman, really?) please set this poor girl straight? Better yet, will one of you FDS queens please publish a real article about FDS?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 09:36 AM
31

My male supervisor asked me why I needed a raise since I DIDN’T have a family to support. You can’t win either way. They just don’t want to promote women because they don’t want to have to listen to their input, which they will have to do if the woman becomes a manager.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 04:58 AM
29

And they’ll tear down and humiliate a girl they find attractive too 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 08:19 AM
14

And it used to be legal. Have you heard about this fkd up case in NY? No jail time for raping teen in custody
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 05:25 AM
5

He’s just doing his part to train a new generation of handmaids smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 04:52 AM
1

Hasn’t there been a baby boom though? Just maybe not as large as expected?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 04:33 AM
10

Truckers are in a whole nother league. FBI says many lead double lives as serial killers and rapists. If I remember correctly, trucker is believed to be the #1 occupation of serial killers. Pilots just have side dishes in various countries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 03:41 PM
12

Maybe this is where that teacher in Texas got the idea for the chivalry homework assignment (girls must say yes to all “reasonable” requests from men. I wonder who gets to decide if they’re reasonable or not 🙄)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 03:34 PM
9

Clout $$$
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 03:31 PM
4

Can we start a petition to out the teacher and get him fired?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 10:38 AM
9

Hmm, I wonder what “A” stands for 🤔 Finger snap. A$$hole, of course!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 04:36 AM
16

Aaaaand this is why I avoid the other subs...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 12:21 AM
19

I think yes they enjoy it even if you don’t (some even more so), others don’t care either way, and redpillers absolutely believe that women secretly want it and our “sl*t defense” is what’s making us resist (just so we won’t appear to be too easy) and it’s their job to overcome that 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 11:34 PM
10

Yeah, I know that’s the actual job title, but it didn’t use to be. The aggrandizement of job titles where everyone has to add “engineer” or “executive” or “artist” to whatever they’re doing is off the charts. I’m just saying call a spade a spade. There’s nothing artistic about working at Subway 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 11:18 PM
40

This post reminded me of a guy who worked at subway introducing himself as a “sandwich artist” 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 03:25 PM
49

This may sound strange, but seeing all the hate this lovely, helpful, supportive little sub (and its mods) gets and how unfair Reddit is to us has really opened my eyes like never before to the privilege that #AllMen enjoy and take for granted every day. I never used to think so. But the fact that men cannot tolerate the existence of even one single corner of the internet that eludes their control and where their voices aren’t heard proves it. The world truly is dominated by men, and when they s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 02:49 PM
6

Easiest way to spot scrotes? Any superhero or anime paraphernalia in the background...oh, wait a minute, what is that I spy? Oh, and the lion means he’s an alpha predator 🦁 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 01:54 PM
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FDS: I wish women worldwide would stop giving men the time of day until they start treating us better. It would work, too, but we’d have to band together. Incels: OMG, do you know what they’re plotting on that horrible FDS sub? They’re trying to end mankind 😱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 01:23 PM
20

I don’t know if this counts as a “sexpert”, but I really like the dating coach Kev Hick. I found him before I found FDS and it’s surprising to me how much his message aligns with FDS. He seems to be a truly HVM who wants to help women. He’s all over social media, but here’s a link to one of his YouTube vids Kev Hick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 09:44 AM
3

With a Confederate flag and a couple of guns behind him—you know, for the race riots and zombies, whichever comes first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 07:59 AM
29

I kinda had the feeling one of my previous landlords was up to something like this. Creepy guy who always kept his bedroom door locked, even going to the bathroom in the middle of the night. Now I wish I had reported him to the police just so they could go check. At the time I thought I was overreacting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 04:10 AM
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Also, FBI says that the number one profession for serial killers is truck driver since it’s so easy to pick up random victims, cross state lines, and avoid detection. Avoid ALL truckers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 04:03 AM
41

Do we have any journalists/authors/writers on FDS who would be willing to help get the word out?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 10:26 AM
12

Ha, this is great and I’m sure he doesn’t even know how to use the dish brush, so it would be wasted on him anyway 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 10:22 AM
30

I was reading up on redpill tactics last night. I saw a post that legit said something like “women WANT men to take the lead and they want to follow “! Maybe that’s what they’re going for here. Always have your own transport. If he gets too far ahead, lose him in the crowd and disappear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 10:15 AM
20

“Interpretive sovereignty” nice term, thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 10:00 AM
2

An ex told me why men like big lips, so yeah, I guess that one’s universal 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 09:50 AM
18

I recently came across a vaginal brightening mask 😷 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 05:59 AM
1

But what if it’s not? Please be careful, be vigilant, and buy wasp spray!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:19 AM
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I liked the one about women setting up fake OLD profiles and then reporting the maga scrotes to the FBI!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 02:09 AM
5

Raid Wasp and Flying Insect spray 🐝 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 01:34 AM
36

And they use HuMoR to say what they’re really thinking about women. Hello male lurkers: we see right through that BS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 11:21 PM
3

My pickme dating days rundown: Guy freaking out about a hotel water bottle I had brought with me (he incorrectly assumed I had just gone there with a guy). He started making inappropriate sexual comments, so I googled him when I got home and found him on BDSM websites. He sent me a scary-ass email in blood red 72 pt font when I messaged that I didn’t want to meet up that weekend. He cyber stalked me for 8 years after. Met up for coffee. Guy probably 10-15 years older, though he says not. He star…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 08:30 AM
5

Right. I’ve also heard they think it looks bigger next to a woman who is smaller, so maybe she’ll be impressed? (Sorry, not likely.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 07:54 AM
2

Do women a favor and report him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 07:46 AM
2

Haha, another “alpha male” sighting!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 06:15 AM
14

You’ve got this. I did it before, and it just requires proper planning. I moved most of my stuff out slowly and secretly first. Then waited until I was sure he was at work. A friend came and we moved the remaining stuff out in one load (two trucks). Very important to get it done in one load so you don’t have to go back. Also, be sure not to leak any info to the kids or let them see you packing. Unfortunately, though it may be hard on them, they can’t know what’s going on until after you’re out a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 05:38 AM
37

Maybe men should be required to acquire the ability to bear children before being given rights. We can do so many things that they can’t AND still do what they do (often better).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 05:28 AM
6

Fact: Every day is Men’s Day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 05:25 AM
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You can order abortion pills online and receive them in the mail. It’s called Women on Web. More women should know they have other options outside what has been legislated by men to control their bodies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 11:43 AM
11

And, if I remember correctly, in the original (not Disney) version, Ariel becomes sea foam (dies) and becomes a guardian spirit to watch over the prince and his new bride 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 08:22 AM
2

Threatening to or actually giving pets drugs. (Yes, this happened. He threatened to dose my cat with acid. I moved out, he got a cat, and did it to his until the poor thing went crazy 😤)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 08:00 AM
3

I’ve wondered how men have the audacity to do this too. I’ve known some guys like this, so here’s my two cents: 1. He knows you from high school, so he thinks he’s got a secret back door to get with you (after all, you go way back and, you know, nostalgia), 2. He’s looking for a meal ticket/social climb, but doesn’t want to put in the work himself (lottery mentality), 3. He was a popular jock in high school and/or isn’t totally hideous, so what women wouldn’t be thrilled to get with him? (Mommy …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 07:51 AM
5

Just one more thing to add: you’re not going to be on the same (or even similar) level financially and that will make it all the easier for him to use money to try to control you and keep you around. He ain’t all that, trust me. And please stop approaching men. I used to do this and even if you end up with him, he will never, ever appreciate you. He’ll feel like the prize and actually expect you to do increasingly more for him, which frees up his time to find someone he’d rather be with 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 06:20 AM
7

Thank you for posting this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 05:22 AM
6

OMG, a leash! Run! 🏃‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 04:48 AM
5

Maybe just dump this friend until she comes to her senses. Her new boyfriend might start causing drama in your life. He might threaten your husband at some point (for “cheating” with this girl).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 04:15 AM
1

Ah, I see the Cliff Notes for The Handmaid’s Tale are making the rounds in the incel forums again...did they think it was a true story? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 08:20 AM
0

HE can’t even ask you or tell you how he feels himself? What else can’t he do for himself? If, god forbid, you do marry this momma’s boy, his mother is going to be all up in your sh*t, controlling his life AND yours. RUN! 🏃‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 08:13 AM
2

Like watching an anthropological study... of chumps/chimps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 08:02 AM
2

That’s a mOvE taken directly from the PUA handbook 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 08:00 AM
5

That is some serious crony gaslighting—the audacity!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 07:03 AM
3

Trust your feelings. How does it make you feel? Not good? Boy bye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 06:55 AM
4

Silence + hard stare usually does the trick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 06:51 AM
3

Yes, they often seem amused, aroused, or both. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 06:50 AM
5

I so wish I could go back in time and do this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 06:35 AM
15

His story is probably how he walked out 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 06:32 AM
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Maybe this is some new PUA BS?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 06:30 AM
6

All over him 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 06:28 AM
6

“Would you like them in a house, with a mouse...?” This is hilarious! 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 06:20 AM
4

Sorry that happened to you. Time to change dentists?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 06:17 AM
6

I totally feel this. Like, overnight, now my body type, which I was relentlessly bullied for, is fashionable and beautiful? And women are getting butt implants (!), which btw, is the most lethal form of cosmetic surgery. This just proves that the fashion industry is a fickle money grab. Anyway, never let others determine what looks good, just be healthy and happy for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 06:14 AM
10

Right. They feel like they’re losing (assumed) access and can’t handle it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 12:15 AM
9

The worst is when you don’t laugh and they feel the need to explain it 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 11:29 PM
1

Scary stuff! Be careful out there ladies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 05:56 AM
0

Ha, it almost sounds North Korean!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 03:47 AM
2

A NVM I knew in college took the virginity of a high school girl. He was soooo proud of himself and said “no matter how many dudes she f*cks in the future, she’ll always remember me. I’m a rockstar!” 🤮 So, based on that, I’d say do not reveal to any man that you’re a virgin until right before you have sex. Otherwise you run the risk of becoming his unicorn fetish trophy. Or, as some of the ladies have suggested, just maybe don’t tell him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 03:13 AM
3

It’s called Minder?! My god.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 03:06 AM
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I think some predators can tell. They’ve done research on serial killers, Ted Bundy included. He claimed he would pick his victims by the tilt of their head. Other research indicates that serial killers focus more on gait, (lack of) confidence, and other non-verbal cues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 10:28 AM
8

I didn’t say I was in a relationship with a MAN...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 10:19 AM
2

Please Google “hydrophobic paint.” This is some funny sh*t . They’ve started spraying it on buildings in red light districts and it repels liquid 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 09:49 AM
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I’d say if you’ve already been there for ten years, and this is all they have to offer, it’s time to quietly start searching for that next (and higher paying) job. They probably treat you like this because they take you for granted and figure you won’t walk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 09:36 AM
6

Intellectualize their FETISH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 09:31 AM
5

Sad but true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 09:29 AM
15

Because they don’t have unfettered access to and control over our bodies yet feel entitled to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 09:28 AM
8

For the male lurkers: Ha, we actually do know what guys want (spoiler—you can purchase it online and blow it up), we just don’t care about your wants if you’re looking to use us. Aaaand that’s why women’s careers and financial independence are SO important.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 06:35 AM
14

Pickme sort of = female simp?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 06:27 AM
16

Right, but they still get to be the ViCtImS. Even though they do it to themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 06:26 AM
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Of course not. Then they’d be GaY. Oh, the horror.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 06:23 AM
40

Redpill, blackpill, incelpill? I’m honestly too afraid to explore Reddit outside FDS after reading an FDS post about a sub called deadeyes. That’s some scary sh*t. I hope they all get banned, but I’m not holding my breath.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 06:09 AM
13

Good for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 06:05 AM
19

Good for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 06:05 AM
6

There’s one (only one!) other male on male torture scene from pop culture that comes to mind, and that’s James Bond, Casino Royale, I think. I also remember male friends being like “OMFG turn it off!” and I was like really? They can only empathize with a MALE character because that could be them, so then it’s a violation and squirm inducing. But porn is ErOtIc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 06:02 AM
10

That’s a power and control issue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 05:56 AM
9

Yaaaas!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 02:39 AM
19

THIS! Take note, lurkers!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 02:00 AM
34

Why can’t they just be nice?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 01:57 AM
23

Right, wtf is going on? And to think I almost moved there! I really feel for y’all though. I’ve got family there too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 06:03 AM
2

“According to the SPLC, male supremacy represents all women as genetically inferior, views sex as something men are owed, and believes American society oppresses men in favor of women.” “Misogyny is used as part of the glue to hold coalitions of men together.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 02:37 AM
14

Punch, bite, or headbutt the nose—just like you’d do to a vicious dog.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 01:10 AM
18

This is so horrible. Sorry NC, but I’ve crossed you off my list. You don’t meet FDS standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 01:08 AM
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Right, she shouldn’t be asking loser men on Reddit for advice anyway. It’s like asking a sewer rat how to keep your house clean.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 12:59 AM
3

This, and people are more willing to listen and be empathetic when it’s a funny, entertaining story than when you’re crying and feeling sorry for yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 12:55 AM
11

Rings can be kind of a scam. Diamond ones especially often don’t have great resale value since diamonds are inherently worthless (looking at you De Beers cartel) and what woman wants a “used” wedding ring anyway? I think it’s better what my Vietnamese-American friend did. They held a fairly simple wedding and collected red envelopes stuffed with cold, hard cash from all the guests. They netted $20-30k, skipped the honeymoon, and used the money for a down payment on a house. That’s how to do it I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 12:30 AM
10

Some pickme will still want him just because he’s not hers. Joke’s on the wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 12:20 AM
2

Lots of people do this though. Most books, movies, TV shows, and songs actually romanticize the inability to move on (as a show of devotion) rather than accurately portraying these people as emotionally stunted beings in dire need of therapy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 08:59 AM
7

He’s probably spamming hundreds of girls the exact same generic messages. Women see through that. Plus he sounds bitter AF. Real turn off right there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 07:59 AM
3

You know what to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 06:03 AM
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The name is just off the charts. I can’t even.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 05:08 AM
3

I so agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 05:04 AM
5

Can confirm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 04:59 AM
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You just have to practice. Speak up when something bothers you, even if it’s small. You can be (coldly) polite, but don’t be submissive. It gets easier the more you do it—I promise!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 04:51 AM
21

What IS that random explosive rage about? Is it just a lifetime if pent-up hatred?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 03:25 AM
7

And what is it with hoodies? Even expensive ones make a guy look cheap. Yes, even you Mark.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 12:14 AM
4

That’s correct.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 12:13 AM
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Yes, and I’ve yet to meet a self-professed “nice guy” who was even nice. I think “nice guy” must be internet slang for “resentful loser who couldn’t get laid in high school and possibly college.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 11:29 PM
3

Thanks. It’s just so hard to believe that he was able to keep the mask on right up until then. I guess he figured “F*ck it; got nothing to lose now.” It completely ruined all of my memories of him though and made me wonder what else he’d been up to...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 11:11 AM
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I’m so sorry this happened to you and can totally relate. My own grandpa looked lasciviously down my shirt when I went to give him a hug. This was just three days before he passed. He had never done anything weird before that and it just felt like such a violation. I didn’t tell anyone because I doubt they’d believe it. He was such “a great guy.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 10:22 AM
6

After her book was published she could finally start to control the narrative. And thankfully he has started to suffer some consequences, including legal ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 05:18 AM
10

This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 05:12 AM
13

What if you just wear your wedding ring every day and nod to it if they ask? If someone pushes for info or finds out you’re widowed, just say he was one in a million. Then stare at them until they change the subject or walk away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 01:14 PM
20

I’m all for this kink!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 12:36 PM
11

Remember that FDS post about Jello in a cup attached to a mop? That image is burned in my brain. After reading that, I never felt flattered by male attention again. Ewwwwww!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 12:35 PM
16

What reason did they give for banning you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 03:23 AM
3

The saying actually goes “Don’t try to teach a PIG to sing. It wastes your time and annoys the PIG.” PIG is more apt here anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 03:20 AM
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Like Piggy in Lord of the Flies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 05:34 AM
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Thanks for posting this—I meant to read the book and then totally forgot about it. Shockingly enough, a male French politician tried to get it banned, that backfired and it sold out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 07:31 AM
3

Thanks OP for posting this. It sure helps connect all the dots!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 11:59 AM
1

But even if it’s for her husband, is that all she is to him? That’s the one iconic piece of jewelry that he sees and says, “Yep, THAT’s my wife!” Sigh~
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 10:26 AM
3

Thanks, very inspiring!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 10:24 AM
2

Thanks, I’ll check it out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 01:45 AM
8

Here's the PDF: http://www.uobabylon.edu.iq/eprints/publication_3_10984_471.pdf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 11:59 AM
3

Even if you’re in a serious relationship or even married, nudes and videos are ALWAYS a bad idea and possible blackmail material. For that matter, treat email, texts, social media, etc. like you would if you were sending a postcard. Basically assume it is or could become public.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 09:19 AM
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I don’t know when the NYT’s reporting got so terrible,but I’ve sure noticed it a lot lately. What ever happened to balanced reporting? Of all the women they interviewed, none opted out of dating or swore off men until at least a vaccine is available? Pick me quote of the day: His first or second message was “want to come over?” “Well, I’m still horny, so I’ll risk it.” Dafuc?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 11:23 AM
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What’s the most cringe-worthy pick-up line a guy has ever tried on you? I think mine was when I was waitressing and a customer asked, “Do you take orders to go?” Me: “Yes.” Him: “Well then get your coat and let’s go!” Har har. PUA are disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 11:11 AM
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