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| 4 | He showed up at my door last nightREMEMBER: Closure is made up and he could have sent your “stuff” through the mail, he never had to personally deliver anything. It’s all a ruse to get in contact with you and seek revenge. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 02:22 PM |
| 10 | He wants to move in togetherOP, I’m noticing you keep mentioning wanting to get married later on, why do you have to hold on to this relationship in order to get married later? He’s telling you he supposedly wants to marry you in 1-2 years and you aren’t ready but I’m also getting the sense that you feel like you’d be settling. Why continue with the charade? Do you think you won’t be able to find someone else who will respect you, your aspirations, and your boundaries? Do you think this is the best you can do? I know you c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 02:38 PM |
| 23 | Ladies, I'm in desperate need for some advice. Please help!!!👑You wanting to leave is reason enough to leave 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 06:57 PM |
| 8 | Groom smashes bride’s face into cake & she rightfully is leaving him🚩Red flag? That was a fucking black flag 🏴☠️ 🏴☠️ 🏴☠️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 01:49 AM |
| 53 | Women who dated covert narcissists, did their narcissism get "worse" over time?Make no mistake, Narcs of any kind, covert or not should be avoided at all costs. These people aren’t brilliant manipulators and abusers but it does come natural to them and it’s debilitating. Listen to your body. If you suspect the man you are with is a Narcissist, carefully remove yourself from the relationship and DO NOT engage after it ends. They will run a smear campaign against you, stalk you any way they can, and dedicate their sad pathetic lives to make you pay for leaving and threatenin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 02:28 PM |
| 14 | FDS exercise: How many red flags can you spot before he went bashit crazy?✋ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 01:50 PM |
| 49 | Absurd Things Your Ex's Mom Would Say That Are REDFLAGSHere’s another red flag statement, picture this NVM’s mom and I are sitting alone in the car, NVM ran inside to get something real quick, unprompted she says 🚩”I hope you don’t keep your children away from me” 🚩 We never had kids. We never talked about kids that entire day. What in the actual fuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 02:49 PM |
| 18 | He knows he’s hurting her but he enjoys it 🤮🐍THIS MAN IS A RAPIST🐍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 02:41 PM |
| 17 | Ex-boyfriend won't stop texting me 2+ years after breakupBLOCK HIS NUMBER, DO NOT RESPOND TO HIM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 05:20 PM |
| 13 | You can now block users on SpotifyThank you so much for sharing!! This was the last profile on social media to block my Nex and his flying monkeys. I now have more peace ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/21 04:05 PM |
| 19 | NVM screeching about losing money in a divorce 🤣🤣🤣 get wrecked. They always blame the woman for a failing marriage and make her out to be LaZY as if she did not raise kids and do housework full-time. She DESERVES some equity.Men do snap, we have copious amounts of evidence proving that men snap. WTF ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 06:48 AM |
| 35 | I have an album saved of the best (re: worst) OLD profiles I’ve come across. I present to you: Men Who Love Telling on ThemselvesAll of their hair looks crispy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 12:16 AM |
| 7 | Why do men think that saying "enjoy being single forever" is supposed to insult us?Insults are simply projections of the insulators insecurities | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 05:26 AM |
| 42 | Conservative men can be so misogynistic that I can no longer tell the difference between reality and satire.His “18 - 26 years old” request is really the 🍒 on top of this dumpster fire of a dating profile | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 07:44 PM |
| 10 | Golddigging husband wants hardworking wife to buy him a new PC (so he can undoubtedly waste time playing video games). All the comments were praising him but god forbid if a woman does the same. Men just love to project.He wants a breadwinner He wants your dinner Until he ain't hungry anymore He wants your shimmer To make him feel bigger Until he starts feeling insecure I wish somebody would've told me the truth See, he's never gonna know what to do With a woman like you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 10:26 PM |
| 55 | What abusers believeLeft a narcissistic fiancé, at the time I didn’t realize he was abusive as I was so used to being treated like shit. This entire list resonated but the two points that stood out the most were: You are responsible for my emotions The relationship is not over until I say it’s over I left him, I broke up with him and had many MANY conversations about my unhappiness in the relationship and what I needed from him and he CHOSE to ignore everything. He was bewildered when I left and acted like it came … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 01:51 PM |
| 74 | "If He Wanted to, He Would" The B Side DiscussionWe should approach “if he wanted to he would” with the caveat of uncovering his intentions. Narcissists care about how other people perceive them, so he might plan something nice under the assumption that he’s celebrating you, but really he’s doing something for himself and taking you along for the ride. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 04:32 PM |
| 19 | Man Stands her up, lies about it, then floods her inboxLet’s break it down: She gets ready for a date, goes to date, he stands her up. He: ☎️ Call One Doesn’t communicate that he will be late or keep her in the loop in a timely manor Two hours later, lies about father being in hospital Tells her she’s uncool for not responding after an hour Informs her he checked with his friends to make sure that he was in the right Acknowledges she is a busy woman with work then promptly demands she contact him back anyways Claims he was super honest and since he … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 02:26 PM |
| 15 | Have you taken your husband’s surname? Or, will you take your future-husband’s name?If a man gets upset that you won’t change your name for him because you don’t want to then he ain’t the one. If his follow up argument is it’s important to have the same last name for your future family then he can either change his last name to yours or you can both change your name to something you both like. Tired of the goddamn argument of ItS TrADiTIon. Yeah it was also tRaDItiOn to use your daughter as a transaction/exchange of property. FuuuuUuuuuUuuuck that dude. MOST IF NOT ALL MARRIAGE… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 01:15 PM |
| 46 | One of the few times you know for sure a man is being 100% honest with you.Yes! Let it be known this also means he doesn’t directly tell you but shows you. Really look at his actions. Late for date? Jail Aspiring devils advocate? Jail Making rude comments about your friends? Jail Jokingly questioning in front of everyone as to why you stay with him? Right to jail Showing up to a date with dirty finger nails? Double jail | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 03:27 PM |
| 148 | What are some examples of imbalanced relationships that stand/stood out to you in media? I’m currently rewatching Harry Potter for the first time since joining FDS, and I’m finding Hermione’s relationship with Ron… a lot less endearing than I used to 🥴Ross and Rachel’s relationship on Friends. So no one told you that Ross is a huge NVM. 👏👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 12:50 AM |
| 1 | That’s why you should always demand proof, don’t just accept their wordsThe the “blindsided” argument is always the piece de resistance 🤌✨ Deliciously stupid, utterly pathetic, and yet astoundingly hilarious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 06:49 PM |
| 72 | I absolutely love reading stories like this. Like what do you expect the outcome to be?29 year old GIRL?! Is his friend a 32 year old boy? At what point are we adults? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 01:12 PM |
| 3 | Look out for these traits in yourself, acc. a narc in therapyBeautifully said, thank you for posting ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 07:55 PM |
| 53 | Psychologist ScroteEw then don’t get married | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 04:33 AM |
| 11 | Is she high maintenance tho?🗑 you know what to do | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 09:46 PM |
| 7 | Sex work is not empowering. It’s exploitation and the men know it. Sorted comments via controversial and got all of these replies.So you agree, you think participating in pornographic activities is a bad thing 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 05:29 AM |
| 26 | The edit is hilarious. Why do they make it so easy for us? Keep telling on yourselves scrotesCongratulations you played yourself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 03:43 PM |
| 85 | I pray that one day pick me women will be free from the shackles of male validation.I be damned, I be damned if I listed to facts about life from the mouth of a man with an unwashed ass | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 12:58 PM |
| 81 | What's a 🚩red flag you encountered this week?Male coworker said my idea was “cute” 🤬 Sir would you say that to your male counterpart? Fuckin nah dude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 08:08 PM |
| 87 | I can’t evenThat’s a lot of words to say “my only form of male validation is through my son bc my husband is disappointing” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 11:58 PM |
| 5 | im so sick of men saying they're viewed as "success objects" and comparing it to how women are viewed as sex objects.It’s easy to claim success with the cards were stacked in your favor the whole time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 01:30 PM |
| 10 | Normalize breaking up because you’re unsatisfied; you don’t have to wait until everything’s burningA thousand times this. If you want to break up that’s it. It’s over. Goodbye. That’s all she wrote. Nobody is owed an explanation or cLOsuRe. Pick up your own damn mess and I’ll pick up mine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 05:25 AM |
| 14 | Normalize breaking up because you’re unsatisfied; you don’t have to wait until everything’s burning✨NORMALIZE BREAKING OFF ENGAGEMENTS TOO✨ Just because you initially said yes and changed your mind doesn’t mean you HAVE to suffer the rest of your life. You are allowed to change your mind. Your feelings are valid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 05:19 AM |
| 9 | Anyone else absolutely hate posts like these? There's just so much to unpack here.Wow you’re so ~ wOkE ~ Now go do something about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 01:01 AM |
| 77 | Link Between Widespread Attraction to Minors and Eating Disorders?I didn’t even think about encouraging hairless beauty standards, great point! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 04:57 PM |
| 64 | So sorry her period is annoying to you! 😡 And how proud he seems of his complete ignorance of female bodies. Notice she's already used her amazing body to create his children.Additionally, if you are relieved that you are having your period because it means no sex, it probably means he’s not that great and you need to leave him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 07:17 PM |
| 6 | As she should !It’s not a joke if the other person gets upset or hurt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 01:36 PM |
| 213 | Imagine your boyfriend telling you he won’t hesitate to hit you because he’s afraid you’re a psycho...Wow 🤩 she found a man who’s willing to hit her?? That’s so hard to find these days. How droll | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 09:11 PM |
| 5 | "You need to forgive!"The only person worth forgiving is yourself for dealing with such trash | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 04:37 AM |
| 125 | Cry me a river.“Go AhEAd aNd LeAve mE LikE EVerYONe eLSe iN MY LIFe haS!!!!!” NVM who blame you for their family, friend, and past relationship issues. Yo if everyone else leaves you maybe the problem is you. GO TO THERAPY. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 02:34 PM |
| 17 | Is the perception of being nice or kind really so different for men and women?Are they still taught to be providers? Seems like they are taught to pump and dump instead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 03:23 PM |
| 69 | Ah yes, how could you turn down an awkward marriage proposal in the middle of the street? 😩👏🏻👌🏻I’ve been proposed to in public and I can honestly say I hated it so much. Not only did I feel pressured to say yes because there were so many people/friends watching but I was also miles away from home and dependent on him to get back. It was manipulative as fuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 02:13 PM |
| 8 | Ghosting is okayMen get upset when they are ghosted because they expect to control us and they are thinking of it from the perspective of why they ghost women. Women ghost men out of safety, men ghost women to hurt them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 03:34 PM |
| 12 | I have no wordsThis grown man needs to be aborted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 12:24 AM |
| 16 | Men threaten us with "you'll be forever single" while our dating pool is THIS....no thanksAre they talking about girls or women? I know they are referring to women but the word choice is telling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 01:04 PM |
| 8 | Men 👏 Dont 👏 change 👏 EVEN FOR THEIR DREAM GIRL. FDS works ladies. Left my NVM fiancée 4 years ago and he immediately started dating the most beautiful woman I had ever seen. My heart was broken then, but this is them now!!“So swipe left if you don’t get off to being slapped in the face and choked until you pass out...” 🤪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 01:21 AM |
| 43 | Nothing surprising here given that videogames are a breeding ground for LVMI worked at GameStop and my male manager admitted the only reason he hired me was because he needed more women working in the store and not for equality reasons.🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 05:15 AM |
| 18 | The Pink Tax and Makeup CultureI thought these videos included makeup application to deter men from paying attention and commenting. Totally get the pink tax and beauty standards points BUT sometimes makeup feels like putting on war paint and maybe that’s what they are going for? Your guess is as good as mine. 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 02:02 PM |
| 10 | FDS principles lands on a political news channel. A few FDS’ers in the comments defending this woman for setting standards. So many complaining dinner is expensive and she’s a gold digger for the bare minimum.What I find particularly entertaining about their “critique” is that it’s not a true breakdown/rebuttal to her statements and more about sharing their poor life choices and ideals. 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 04:44 PM |
| 14 | And this is why you demand more for yourself and set clear boundaries and expectationsIf it matters to you, it matters. He’s not the only one in the relationship???? Just because he doesn’t care doesn’t mean what you care about isn’t valid. 11 years??? Really????? I can’t. 🗑 BIN THE BOY | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 10:19 PM |
| 15 | When you get taking to someone you think you might like ...but it turns out they’re liberal feminist.If we stay true to her character I think it’s great. Another post featuring her insinuated she uses mascara though and that’s not what Darias all about. She wouldn’t use mascara because she doesn’t feel like there is a need to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 01:17 PM |
| 19 | Scrote wants pity for getting dumped after stringing ex along for 10 years.Boo fucking hoo 🎻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 04:00 AM |
| 2 | Three German Men Market a Hot Pink Glove to Dispose of Period Products Like a Doggy Poo BagSo essentially they are telling on themselves and projecting ✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 04:28 PM |
| 2 | Amy Poehler’s Movie “Moxie” on Netflix 🍿Yes! Exactly. Definitely a one time watch and I agree, would have been better to have it as a series because they could have explored a lot of interesting themes. I thought it was a fun movie, though a little corny when it came to the Riot Grrrl inspiration. I love the Riot Grrrl movement and I think they could have leaned into it more without the stereotypical aesthetics being shoved in your face constantly. If you or anyone else would like to learn more about the Riot Grrrl movement I highly r… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 03:57 AM |
| 33 | Never go to therapy with your abuser. You're just getting more and "improved" abuse and they get more excuses and ammo to use against you.Haha it’s like we dated the same person. ✔️ Paternal abandonment ✔️ Death of grandparent that helped raise them ✔️ Was going to propose to his “crazy” ex but she cheated on him ✔️ High-stress job that he hated but refused to leave ✔️ Cried and sulked to get his way ✔️ Insisted I was always overreacting and my anxiety was getting the best of me 🎻 He always had a never ending list of sorry sob stories to manipulate and relinquish accountability Could go on but I just want you to know that you aren… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 01:49 PM |
| 73 | Seriously, what IS IT with the 20 something girls?! No need for “freaking out” or being scared and “terrified” you'll “never find love”. Those types of posts make me fear for the next generations...1000000000% this. Speaking from experience, I was in that position and it is terrifying what that does to your psyche. Be single and find the good in being single. You owe it to yourself to find peace alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 01:19 PM |
| 3 | LVM Gift AlertSomehow this comes off like a threat | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 01:28 PM |
| 4 | Pick me propaganda! This “advice” is clearly targeted towards women because 99% of men are going to get off regardless. Don’t excuse sexually incompetent men that don’t make an effort you off, there’s already way too many of those. Thank you. ☺️✨Who is this for? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 02:07 PM |
| 20 | Men can’t handle life changing eventsSome also twist the situation to make you feel guilty for not including them in your grieving process. “It hurts my feelings that I wasn’t invited to your family members funeral” DUDE you never knew them!!! My NVX found out one of my friends died and he got so upset he took the rest of the day off of work, he barely knew the guy... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 01:24 PM |
| 3 | My female neighbor gave me this ring! She’s moving to another country and gifted several women on our block beautiful pieces of vintage jewelry. Female friends will always care and appreciate one another!STUNNING!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 10:27 PM |
| 4 | Marquis de Sade and BDSM (more in comments)That’s De Sad 😢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 01:57 PM |
| 11 | Sorry but no, withholding sex isn’t a real thing because nobody’s entitled to your body under any circumstances. In her BIO she calls herself a psychologist. 🤡Don’t care. I Would rather be ✨single✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 09:34 PM |
| 6 | How is ass guy and boob guy a thing but a height/ abs/ beard gal is not?I’m a “It’s a no for me” woman myself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 05:02 AM |
| 4 | ‘Studies’ showing dad bods are more attractive to womenI’ve known men who let themselves go, because of heavy drinking and poor diet and could be described as having a “dad bod” with no kids, who still have THE AUDACITY to say things like “man when I met you I was really concerned you didn’t have big boobs but then I found out you wear a sports bra. Good thing your boobs are big bc I’m a boobs and ass man.” I’m into healthy men who take care of themselves. Go fuck yourself. Dad bods aren’t hot, it’s just another way men keep the bar low. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 01:19 PM |
| 5 | Just a friendly PSA- You are not his therapist and not required to beYes! We need to stop pretending there aren’t consequences to their decision to not get help. I have been in relationships similar to what you described and I too fell into the roll of stand in therapist. It’s exhausting and unfair. Bottom line, nobody should be surprised or offended if their relationship ends because they refuse to get help. It’s not your girlfriend/wife’s job to carry your emotional baggage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 03:35 PM |
| 35 | How do you feel about men since following FDS?“I’m still attracted to men, but I love myself more.” YESSSSS 🙌✨ love that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 01:23 PM |
| 25 | I never support violence against anybody but this scrote is making me see red.So is creating a human gory too? Like does sex disgust him as well? Seems like it would if any NATURAL HUMAN THING DISGUSTS HIM. He’s trash and it’s time to kick him to the curb. 🗑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 11:54 PM |
| 4 | #NotAllMenThat’s the spirit 😎 I love it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 03:27 AM |
| 16 | MEN are "The Wall"When a man says women have a shelf life, let him know access to you has ✨expired✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 01:28 PM |
| 124 | It may not be All men but it’s enough menNot all men keep women alive Not all men keep their hands to themselves Not all men respect boundaries | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 10:37 PM |
| 46 | Tinder is going to start allowing its users to do background checks on potential dates and scrotes are FURIOUS.Body count means two vastly different things to Men and Women. Men count bodies as sexual achievements. Women count bodies as victims. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 02:46 AM |
| 12 | "Not all men, but enough men" stop letting men paint you into a corner by accepting their already false statements.I wish we could flip the #notallmen script on them and use it to our advantage. Something like “#notallmen treat women with respect.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 02:41 PM |
| 3 | She told him straight and held to her ideals - a Reddit GOAT post from years ago.Deadbeat mom? No. She Relinquished her rights to be a mom because she didn’t WANT to be a mom. She was forced to have this child BY YOU and your fee fees hurt because you’re tired? What did you think was going to happen? She’d have the baby and change her mind??? This was FOR YOU and you’re STILL complaining. Congratulations you played yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 02:31 PM |
| 35 | “Unplanned pregnancy” Men will trap you with a baby. Then you never finish school and end up being reliant on them. Stay vigilant queens!I doubt he’s “completely” ready for a baby. He’s only saying that because he doesn’t want her to abort HIS spawn and expects HER to make all of the sacrifices. Of course he’s okay with her career being affected and trapping her longer without even a proposal. HOW EASY for him to make that decision for her. I hope she leaves and does what’s best for herself. This man is selfish to say the least. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 09:35 PM |
| 50 | What's your cringiest moment with an ex LVM ?I asked him what his deepest darkest secret was, and he lied and said he didn’t have one. A day or two later we are hanging out (not even a real date 🤡) and he says “I need to tell you something, remember when you asked if I had a secret? I lied. I never graduated high school.” This dude was 4 years older than me and I was midway through college at the time. 🤡🤡🤡 I felt bad for him bc he said he had intense back issues and was abused when he was in high school and “that’s why he never finished.” … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 04:10 AM |
| 3 | A guy walked into my apartment & I realize to exist as a woman is to be constantly reminded of my own vulnerabilityI don’t understand why he walked in?? I say this because one time I was visiting a friend and she lived in an apartment. I had only been to her place once before at the time and couldn’t remember which floor she was on. I got to the end of the hall and confidently opened the door bc she said it was unlocked and lo and behold it was the wrong apartment. I felt embarrassed but the second I opened the door I KNEW it was the wrong place, and said sorry the family inside from outside the doorway and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 03:28 PM |
| 5 | MeNs InFiDeLiTy Is DiFfErEnTIf you’re using “irresistible biological urges” as an argument you might as well call yourself an animal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 11:50 PM |
| 47 | Guess I'm Strange AF ThenMen tell each other not to date women who have a mental illness, are a bad lay, or terrible with finances so I’m not sure what the argument is here? Oh right, it’s that women shouldn’t dare to have standards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 03:57 AM |
| 4 | REd flags in datingI am living for exposing gaslighting scenarios!! More please 🙌✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 06:29 PM |
| 11 | NVM narcissist ex resorts to literal mail after 6 months no contactNarcs be like “I’ve been trying to reach you about your extended Narc abuse, please respond” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 08:25 PM |
| 14 | Beware of misogynistic women, too!Somebody feels ✨Attacked✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 06:00 PM |
| 9 | I can hardly stomach relationship advice on other subs after my FDS awakeningIt’s not difficult to pay attention to what another person likes. Whenever I’m out with someone I care about and they point to something and say “oh I’ve always wanted one of those” or “hey this is super cool” I literally take my phone out and either take a quick pic or google it and save it to a list so I know what to shop for later. IT TAKES 2 SECONDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 05:32 AM |
| 17 | beware of men that aren't over their EX and the subtle ways they let you knowYes! THIS!!! If you find yourself in conversations/situations with him that make you think it’s you vs his exes/other women that are “interested” in him, LEAVE. He does this to make you feel like shit. Sure he may make comments that emphasize how you’re “better” than the others, but pause and think about that for a second. He does this to manipulate you and boost your ego so you won’t leave him while simultaneously inflicting doubt that somehow some other chick could come along and “steal” him f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 07:03 PM |
| 11 | Let's talk about 'well meaning' friends and family who try to set you up with some scrote who is far beneath your worth. How do you deal? And what is wrong with your fam/friends to do this to you?!I’ve had a coworker who wanted to set me up with one of his friends because his buddy was going through a rough patch and “it would be good for him to try out dating a creative type.” 🤮 Bruh I’m not an ice cream flavor NO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 02:30 PM |
| 2 | Red Flags ExplainedThese traits are very common with Narcissists, BEWARE 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 07:36 PM |
| 25 | WHO is teaching us? Maybe the sky high rates of rape and murder? The abuse women receive on a daily basis? Nah, #notallmen! But please don't dress like that to the party.No. You don’t get to blame all women for the actions of men. We live in “daily fear” because time and time again we are shown that men have the upper hand, that saying “no” doesn’t matter, and we should just “put up with” abuse. No. You don’t know what it’s like to have to lock your doors the second you get into a car, to have to take extra security measures to keep yourself safe in your house, to consider carrying covert weapons in order to protect yourself in public “just in case”, to question… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 11:52 PM |
| 50 | Wholeheartedly agree! Stay safe out there everyone.I love this!!! Another motto from a true crime podcast “FUCK politeness” (in regards to creepy dudes) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 05:10 AM |
| 3 | The Peter Pan “momma’s boy” is a Narcissist tooA thousand times this! Speaking from experience, relationships like this will crush you and your spirit. Stay away 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 10:12 PM |
| 52 | "You should've asked" is a comic made by Emma that describes the mental and emotional load put upon women. You can find the English translation hereMy ex used to tell me to remind him to do things all the time. “Remind me to message my friend tomorrow morning”, “Remind me to get gas before we go home”, “Remind me that I should look into blah blah”. At one point I snapped. I’m not Siri, I’m not Alexa, I’m not your fucking mom, nor am I your personal assistant. He said he was sorry but then continued to not remember things. It was so bad I started marking everything down in a community calendar and AGAIN I was the task manager. Apparently I n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 12:33 AM |
| 3 | The importance of learning to think "not my problem" when a man tries to make you responsible for any of his issues or mess or dickYES THIS! My ex would constantly complain about things he needed medical attention for. At one point he needed surgery and I kept asking him to schedule it and let me know when it was so I could help him out. NOT ONLY did he drag his feet for no other reason than laziness (he wasn’t scared of the procedure), but also made me sound like a nag to his friends. “Oh she keeps telling me to get this done, it only hurts sometimes, doctor said I need surgery but honestly it’s not that bad, but ugh I gue… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 03:15 AM |
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