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I always trust my dog's instinct. She has sniffed out LVMs all the time. She doesn't like getting touched by them, or them getting close to me. Without fail she always sniffed them out and bit them if they were getting close to me or touched her if she didn't want to be pet. She never does this with women, children or men that I'm comfortable around, like some friends or my dad. She was a rescue dog. Found her on the street as a puppy, and raised her myself. Probably some LVM abused her as a pup…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 10:33 AM
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This needs more upvotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 09:09 AM
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This is the time I'm happy being ace. I'd never give anyone casual sex or regular sex lol. And I'm perfectly content being a single woman working on a career, living with my sister.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 08:38 AM
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This would be a reason to break up with him 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 08:12 AM
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Hypothetically, because I'm childfree, if I had a baby, and their father did this instead of feeding the poor thing, I'd take the child away and kick him out. Not only is formula FUCKING EXPENSIVE, he actively ignores the safety of the child, and seems he's also selfish too. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 08:08 AM
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Oh so not only is he a creepo that edits her moms face onto porn stars and thrist trap tik toks, but he's also an alcoholic abuser. This woman cannot be more blinded. Like please, she admitted he'd try to gaslight her, and she's still with him! Dear woman leave! No financial security makes this okay!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 07:59 AM
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They get off on murdering us. They are literally souless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 11:24 AM
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I feel safer with women, but LVW exist, so be careful. I've met women who tried to pressure me, manipulated me, even cheated on me. Keep vetting, even if it's a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 11:08 AM
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This reminds me when I made a street food style meal at home with feeling and love. My sister and her best friend straight up told me it's better than anything they had before out in fast food restaurants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 04:06 PM
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If you don't want to live off of frozen meals or take out you know what the best thing to so is? LEARN TO COOK.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 02:36 PM
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I'm so proud of you! I brome NC with my ex 2 times and both times it was a mistake. So congrats on going NC for a whole 3 days!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 09:49 AM
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It's a control thing. By undermining your choices or assertiveness, swaying your desicion making, they are showing you they have a certain power over you. You'll feel vulnerable and anxious as you come to your next desicion, unsure what you want. They will gaslight you with this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 09:35 AM
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My school held dance events at fall and at spring every school year. Everyone from 5th grade could attend. But I stopped going in 6th grade. Why? I've stopped going because I got sexually assaulted by a group of boys from my class. I was the target of bullying in my class, from both the boys and the girls. So I was the perfect target because they knew I wouldn't tell anyone out of shame and I was already the quiet kid. I was lucky that they didn't rape me, one of the boys from that friend group …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 09:24 AM
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Not surprising. But I wouldn't narrow the scrotes down by political belief, god knows there have been enough "surprises" from them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 08:49 AM
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The need for superiority.... like he actually wrote out "I will always win" and deflects when called out on their mental state.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 06:57 AM
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It's so hard to spread the word tho. I'm struggling to turn my sister to the FDS side because she's so sex addicted and suffers when she has to be alone without a partner. We've always been complete opposites, but I want her to see our way of thinking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 09:20 PM
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Well, I do fear for her. But now that you posted this addendum about her defending him, I'm not surprised they got married. Hope she wakes up soon enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 09:07 PM
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Ew. That is so disgusting and dehumanizing. We've been so brainwashed by libfem that we do this to ourselves now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 09:01 PM
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That's a lot of words for "I'm a misogynist piece of shit"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 08:35 PM
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Basically iNtuitive types, like their names say, make choices based on intuition. So if we feel the vibe is off, we usually don't go with that option. It would therefore make sense that the obServing types are more logical, right? Except not really. Observant types are sometimes victims to being swayed. All the people I know who are S types, especially the SP types are incredibly easy to sway. This opinion is just based on my analysis of the S types however. I could be entirely wrong in my hypot…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 03:32 PM
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Where's the zero star option 👀🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 09:01 AM
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How emotionally damaged do you have to be to get this low? Like, actually.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 08:42 AM
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Conclusion: get a cat. It drives most men away because cats actually have boundaries unlike dogs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 03:30 PM
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It makes sense why it's mostly the NT and NF types here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 06:09 PM
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How can you disrespect yourself so much that you think a "chore date" or a man who can't do basic tasks that adults do is CUTE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 05:24 PM
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Hope she's texting about how she's about to divorce/break up with him as soon as the child is born and she can secure a place to go to like her parents.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 02:45 PM
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I'm an INTP, but yeah, same holds for me. If you're not interesting in the slightest, I won't really care about you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 09:06 AM
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Lolololol scrote's big mad. If you don't want to be called a scrote, be a man then
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 04:21 PM
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Girlie if you're reading this, YOU DID THE RIGHT THING. He broke it off with you to make it seem like you were the problem before you got the courage and confidence to actually break it off yourself. Also, if he snooped first and then encouraged it knowing what you can find, he's an S tier idiot. You are better off, trust me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 02:36 PM
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Exactly my thought. It was a throat surgery, not a hand surgery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 02:31 PM
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Okay so. Guy in question gave a lot of money away to his mom while in a relationship and his girlfriend didn't know about it. Later down the mom got 2 strokes and now he moved the mom into their home and gf is not impressed cause the other 2 kids of this woman could take care of her and he already did enough for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 06:46 AM
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I just tell them "oh would you look at that. Nobody cares. Not even your mom."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 10:05 PM
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Question. If he is a mommy's boy but instead of mommy doing everything for him, he does pretty much everything for his mom in sickness and in health, is that HV or LV?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 09:42 PM
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Thanks for the tip!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 07:08 PM
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I've honestly thought about just getting an IVF if I really want a baby in the future and raising them by myself. I'm positive I won't want a baby but in case I do want one for some reason later down the line, I'm not gonna search for a man to do that business.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 04:53 PM
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What a ducking psycho, jesus christ all mighty
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 08:58 AM
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Who would've thought. All I know of male lawyers is from Legally Blonde and I'm determined to weed out any males that are lawyers from my life, thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 08:57 AM
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Thank you for the suggestions, and you're right, 30 is still plenty young. I think the reason why she thinks otherwise is tge fact that most of her friends and other women at her age are married and have kids, and my family and parents aren't doing her any good with nagging her about a grandkid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 07:44 PM
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Lmao "alphabetized"? Girl, this is a psychopath, run for your life. Also try to contact all the girls he has pics of, or just plain delete them permanently if you can get to them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 05:50 AM
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Ughhhh it's so disgusting. So exploitative. So spineless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 05:43 AM
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I think I'm you times 10 lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 08:51 PM
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Y'all are giving such good advice I swear. I'll be using all of them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 03:54 PM
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Oh man these ads are sure whack... my dudes out here being delusional thinking this works. And if it works on a woman all I have to ask is: who hurt you????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 03:13 PM
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I'll look into wether I can find that book in our native language, as she doesn't use English that much, only for work. If I can find it I'll definitely send a copy her way, she likes reading too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 03:09 PM
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They can't say the truth without putting down a marginalized group can they?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 01:44 PM
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Oh that'd be neat. I could send it her way to help her understand the situation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 01:41 PM
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When being honest about wanting to exploit the "weaker" gender is conidered better 😭😭😭😭 Sis PLEASE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 01:20 PM
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Well, he isn't physicall or verbally abusive and he calls out such behaviour(like when my parents berate me for shit I have no control over) so I highly doubt he's abusive. Also I have been over their place multiple times and never have I seen anything remotely abusive. Realistically she does have the resources to leave. She lived on her own just fine when they temporarily broke up for that one year. Main problem would be their dog and my sisters inability to not search for rebounds. When they b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 01:17 PM
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"Can I at least do outside like the ad stated? Like the estate is big enough, juat let me outside for some fresh air" "No the only time you get to go outside is when you go to work to pay me my $900 after cleaning up and "servicing me". And maybe if you go grocery shopping, but that's too much freedom, and since you have to be submissive, I make the desicions for you"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 12:57 PM
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Lmao right? You are basically paying for unpaid labor and you can't even keep a pet that actually loves you. Like fuck you, dude. If I wanted to be a tool I'd at least go to someone who actually won't ask for rent money or ANY money for that matter. Where did "men are the breadwinners in a household" go all of the sudden???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 12:52 PM
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It's okay! Most of us project ourselves onto other's situation! I did the same with my sisters' situation, I was in an unhappy relationship too and I realized way too late, ended up deteriorating my mental health and got heartbroken. I guess I'm trying to protect her from the same fate. And again, thanks for the good wishes! Same to you too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 10:57 AM
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Of course I'm not gonna lower my boundaries because she's my sister, I'd gladly let her know when she's "too much" (I'm reserved and introverted; she's energetic and extroverted, she can be very tiring to me) but I also want to help her out. She had a moment of clarity, maybe if I get one of her "better" friends to tell her the same she'd start thinking about it and we could help her out of an unhappy relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 10:51 AM
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I'll definitely ask her those questions, they seem pretty introspective.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 10:47 AM
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I'm not too sure how I would be able to convey that idea to her. Our family is (sadly) very focused on the materialistic world. When I was s[]icid[]l they told me "don't k!ll yourself, do you have any idea how much money we put into your life?!" which just made me feel even more like shit. You can't equate life in money spent. So the problem is she thinks too much about money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 10:39 AM
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That's a good question, next time we talk relationships, I'll ask her!💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 10:35 AM
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Thanks for the good wishes, definitely going to try to help her no matter what💕 Points 1, 2, 3 and 4 are executable, however point 5 is what I'm scared of. Our parents (and most family) are zero value, and I know at least one of her friends who is a RAGING pickme who she spends a lot of time with when she comes home. I'm not sure about her other friends, but the parents and that one friend are major risks. I don't want to seem like I'm isolating her from our family and her friends, but she needs…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 10:34 AM
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THE NUMBERS AIN'T ADDING UP CHIEF, A BABY DOESN'T DEVELOP THAT FAST
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 03:52 AM
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I think most men just lack the one thing that makes us human, a soul
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 03:28 AM
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It's not really alleged when she's expecting his literal baby....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 03:24 AM
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Bruh for $900 a month you get the chance to be a literal fool and have someone make you into a mommy bangmaid. And you can't even have a dog! Smh!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 03:21 AM
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You couldn't get me to look for a relationship. I just hit the jackpot with an office job and I am only looking to work hard, believe in myself and build a career. I'mma live with my dog, hang out with my sis and my girlfriends and be happy and live my best life. Inviting men into my life would just be uneccessary stress, no thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 06:13 PM
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Why is it called "sexual" orientation anyway? Can't it be called "romantic" orientation? It puts sex on the pedestal and foundation of a relationship, when it should be romance, love, and mutual respect first over a superficial lust-based attraction. Well, I think the reason for that is the fact that Asexual and Aromantic people exist, thus the "romantic" terminology would become quite confusing. As far as I know only the ace group refers to themselves by their romantic preference.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 06:06 PM
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Yeah, telling the police it's your ex makes them think it's just a dispute between you two and you are overreacting. You pretty much have to claim you are in danger to get them to come and protect you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 05:26 PM
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I know lying is bad, especially with police, but you gotta lie to get them to come. As long as you're not in danger, they will pretty much ignore you. Cry, beg them to come, sound distressed, tell them he's been trying to break down the door and you'll have higher chances of them coming. Even better if you have your neighbors phone number, you can gang up on the abuser with matching testimonies if you harbor a good relationship with neighbors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 02:31 PM
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I am looking at flats to rent, I am moving away from my parents house because I'm starting my first office job and I'll be able to live alone!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 08:07 AM
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Women have always been the ones who care for the dead. This is just history repeating itself. We don't have to look too far back, in just the Victorian era you'd see women being at the bedside of the dying, preparing for the moment they pass (because they have to move quickly before rigor mortis sets in) and they did 70-80% of the work on the deceased body. Cleaning it, dressing it, organizing the funeral, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 08:54 AM
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Awwwww :( poor bawby couldn't eat :( this is so sad, Alexa, play Despacito no.69 :( /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 04:28 PM
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They fail to notice their own hypocrisy. Clowns, the lot of them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 07:01 PM
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By the way you described this whole thing, this is exactly how my bullies did it back in high school. I was reserved, and I liked to keep to myself and had 2 friends. The other girl, who was considered popular saw me as an easy target. She was a classic pickme even then, impressing the boys by bullying the short fat girl. I never spoke up for 4 years, then when I did nobody gave me justice. That experience taught teenage me that speaking up is a mistake, and just let it happen, it'll be over soo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 03:23 PM
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That doesn't sound like drama between girls anymore, that sounds more like workplace bullying/harassment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 03:07 PM
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Ah. That's a pretty good update. Thanks for the clarification
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 02:57 PM
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He just doesn't want to know that having sex feels good for her, because then his baby carrot cannot shoot the goo :( obviously the woman is in the wrong, how dare she feel good :( /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 02:51 PM
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As a fat woman who can't really control her weight due to hormonal issues that just don't want to get better no matter how many medications I take, I see that guy as below sub-human. Trash under my feet. No time to give him my attention. I could be outraged and go report his vid but it'd just give him a view. So like the trash he is, I'll kick it aside and make a mental note of not to trust any men ever ✌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 02:48 PM
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Even if the story might be fake, we need more Queens to have this energy. To not be afraid to dump someone who hurts you or your people who you love
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 09:42 AM
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Ooof, the math major ink well got rejected so he turned to the only thing he can do right, MATH🤣😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 09:29 AM
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Key words in this brain melting sludge of words Force Demand That's it. That's all there is they do. They push your boundaries (force) and demand shit you don't want or are uncomfortable with. Also "assertive women will boss you around if they're attracted to you" translates to "if she says a hard NO you should still try, she's playing hard to get"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 09:26 AM
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Can you be more indoctrinated and brainwashed by kink culture? Women think THIS IS OKAY now. Imagine only getting concerned when he chokes you out THE SECOND TIME. Sis needs to get out and fast, or she'll be another news segment on television.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 08:45 AM
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Love how she's already thinking of divorce. Yes queen, get someone who loves you enough to make love to you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 08:29 AM
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They're projecting their own faults and hatred on us, when in fact we're not like that at all. We actually respect people who respect us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 04:01 PM
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Yeah. That's why I was saying that at least he could've created something original to represent his love. You can be high value even if you don't buy 24 carat diamond rings adorned with sapphires. Create a sculpture that shows you put time, effort, and love into the gift. Something that you can put on a bookshelf. It doesn't have to be humongous either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 10:22 AM
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Even then it's weird. Why on Earth would a husband create a FULL BODY SIZE sculpture of his wife for EVERY VISITOR TO SEE, IT'S NOT EVEN IN THE FUCKING BEDROOM. To me it seems like he just did it to immortalize the body of his wife so if her body changes, he has another thing to look at, or possibly as a subtle reminder that he likes her at her original size before kids. In my opinion OP was very lenient with the craigslist business approach. I would've just dragged it outside somehow, grab the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 10:14 AM
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And that is?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 10:01 AM
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Hope the girl goes to the police and reports supposed co worker and the man. Then at work she reports the co worker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 08:28 AM
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If ANYONE, not just a man, ANYONE gifted me a sculpture of my naked body, I'd instantly assume it's negging. Also it's just plain fucking weird. Give me some roses instead or if you really want to go the creative route, then make actual original art, not an imitation of my body.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 08:01 AM
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$7700??? For a FENCE? You could build like 7 fences out of that money, jesus christ
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 08:03 AM
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Oh my god I wish I could fix my own car. My dad is a mechanic so some things rubbed off on me, but I couldn't fix the car if I had to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 08:01 AM
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Tbh same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 07:58 AM
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Diy queen! I personally want to start woodworking!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 07:56 AM
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Most men in my country looks like crackheads gone wrong so that's where the inspo came from
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 09:18 PM
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Congratulations! Welcome! We'll love to have you here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 04:25 PM
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Oh my god that poor young girl... how long will it take her to realize he's just using her?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 09:01 AM
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The trash is outing itself. With this much trash around, it's not even worth it for the dick ladies. Dildos were invented for a reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 11:10 AM
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No wonder most of them just seem like slimy leeches, I bet an actual leech is more clean tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 11:04 AM
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Oh my god that poor kid. She just went to watch sports that she was passionate about with her caretaker. Annnnddd here came the NVM horde to prove to us that they find joy in a little girl crying, and calling her slut 🤮🤢😷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 12:23 AM
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Probably he hates having to cook for her because she refuses the food he makes and wants little portions, thus he doesn't get to enjoy her chowing down of high calorie high fat foods so it's not fun for him anymore Obviously I'm only just assuming and this is a big reach, but to me IF the story is true and not just some attempt at getting upvotes from other toxic men, this is the only way I can rationalize it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 12:05 AM
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Ma'am. I need you to look at your last little paragraph right there at the bottom. Read it back. Any romantic partner should stop something you don't like as soon as you bring up you don't like it. He didn't stop and pushed your boundaries. First red flag. Second one is the constant questioning. If that isn't a narcissistic gaslighting technique I don't know what is. As soon as you can, leave. This is not spelling out great things for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 11:57 PM
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Absolutely disgusting. And the thing is that there are so many men who are feeders. My sister encountered one in dating, I encountered one while dating, it's so vile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 11:31 PM
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Of course he has a fat fetish and pregnancy fetish. The poor girl probably has an eating disorder because the guy is trying to feed her to obesity and she's trying to gain back control. He should do her a favour and leave if he already thought about it. Probably the worst reason for him to leave is because she's a "failed project".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 11:25 PM
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So glad I'm ace and uninterested in everyone. I mainly lurk here because of the feminist rhetoric and because this is the only sub where women can talk to eachother without the !nc3ls, the "traditional" men, and the predators being visible. The mods are truly angels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 06:07 PM
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I know, all of this screams !nc3|
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 03:26 PM
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Oh me too, I absolutely loved getting in fights. I was also low key bullying the entire kindergarten back in the day now that I think about it, I was an absolute little shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 11:31 AM
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I have been compared to a fat chihuahua with anger issues before, so I don't know how accurate that is but I am not afraid to throw hands with guys. In high school I had a guy always fucking harrassing me, one day I got so fed up that I went up to him, grabbed him by the hair and smashed his head in the brick wall. Then we threw hands, and let's just say he didn't want to come even near me ever again. We didn't get caught by any teachers so we didn't get sent to the principal, and no teacher bel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 11:27 AM
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Oh that is a viable option. However I doubt my imulsivity and hot temper would allow me to make any rational desicions. Also I chose violence today, and the story itself didn't help me calm down haha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 11:20 AM
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Oh bestie, you bet your ass I would've torn down those photos and delete any evidence of it digitally and refuse to leave until he hands over all of them or I'm smashing is phone and his computer. I'll fuckin pay for it, but I am not going to leave any evidence of my nudes to have him put it on the wall again. Yeah not only that, he'd get dumped right on the spot, and he'll be lucky I leave him with zero injuries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 11:00 AM
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"enjoys anal" "let's anyone cum inside her" Bro. That is the MALE DREAM. Or at least the major parts of the male dream. Not a coincidence that Pr0n sites always have anal trending. They are never satisfied, ever. Good thing we don't want them anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 10:45 AM
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Even if he "forgot" that is an incredibly disgusting thing to do and shows you how much men don't care about themselves. If you're sweaty, TAKE A FUCKING SHOWER.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 10:37 AM
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Oh my lord, this "I don't want to open up about my feelings" types are so insufferable. My ex was like that, I was begging him to talk about how he feels and he would never open up to me. Now I know not to waste my breath on people like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 03:12 PM
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I'm about to throw up... ugh 🤢🤢🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 08:38 AM
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I'd rather spend the money she spent on a freaking car on donating to a local animal rescue center or animal shelter
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 08:11 PM
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Reaching out to my ZVX to talk my feels out was the worst thing I ever did. I was in a low point, hella depressed, and you know what he did? Told me to k*ll myself. Which further triggered me, and my mind was spiralling out of control with s[]cidal thoughts. Wanna know who helped me? No one, but myself. Nobody tried to help when I told them how I felt, only got "oh I'm so sorry you feel that way" I didn't have access to therapy. And hotlines were just as useless, but I made it out alive in the e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 08:33 AM
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I'd rather put my time and energy and money into charities then. Not a single person on the street who - for all you know - could be an alcoholic, a drug abuser, an abusive POS, lazy, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 08:00 AM
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And this is why you buy your own condoms and if he wants to get it on that night you only accept he puts on the one you bought. If it's uncomfortable for him, well bitch, pinholes in condoms are uncomfortable for me. No compromises. Thankfully I don't need to worry about that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 03:12 PM
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He wants her to have a snatched waist and only have fat in the right places (aka tits and ass) but he himself shrouds his laziness with the "dadbod" myth, because he doesn't want to work on himself at all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 02:05 PM
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Don't find someone half as good! Find someone just as good because you deserve it Queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 08:45 AM
22

The "I'm a hobo" beard really sells it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 08:36 AM
3

Not ask. HARASS ME.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 06:16 PM
15

Yeeeess! Preach! 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 09:58 AM
17

Looks like I'm moving to Australia
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 05:34 AM
7

Ugh I honestly hate it when my parents are like "get together with (insert male friend here), you'd make great babies", "when will you lose your virginity", "when will we get a granchild" They do this ALL THE TIME. Anyway, coming back to cops, when I was in Uni, in my social classes we watched a British movie about the violent culture around soccer in England and it showed the downward spiral of two male cops who need to go to soccer events undercover so they can bring down a local gang leader, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 05:31 AM
27

Never even liked GoT anyway. I always found it obscene and full of disturbing sex scenes because it looked like there's no substance in it other than women being abused 🤷🏼‍♀️ AND THAT WAS WAY BEFORE FDS LADIES.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 03:59 AM
7

I will put $100 on him being in his early 40s. As a bonus for $5 I'll say he looks like a crackhead gone wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 03:53 AM
35

Wow. TRP ruins people, their lives, their relationships. What a SURPRISE. FDS lifts up women and try to get the best partner who doesn't display TRP tendencies. What a SURPRISE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 03:46 AM
6

It's so weird. In my family it's the opposite, it's my MOM who's anti-feminist. Granted my dad isn't the best either but at least he wants us to grow and have stable careers before family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 03:41 AM
84

I bet he wouldn't be this bold about fat shaming irl. I could single handedly break him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 03:33 AM
0

There's an LGBT OLD that let's you filter by sexuality. I use that. Although there are no asexuals within a 100 km radius of me, more like 100 miles away 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 06:21 PM
129

Lets say it all together Most👏🏻male👏🏻 cops 👏🏻are 👏🏻psychopaths 👏🏻who think👏🏻 they👏🏻 have 👏🏻power 👏🏻over 👏🏻everything 👏🏻and 👏🏻everyone 👏🏻because👏🏻 they're👏🏻 in 👏🏻a 👏🏻position 👏🏻of👏🏻 power
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 04:10 PM
2

It's easy. Seek out places where asexual people search for non sexual relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 03:04 PM
20

They have the same level of self reflection as my mom and that is concerning since she is an abusive narcissist 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 01:31 PM
32

And tgen the low value scrotes wonder why we don't bother replying to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 01:26 PM
3

I was trying to simulate toddler with speech inpediment cause lets face it, at least 80% of them are overgrown babies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 12:03 PM
303

"I want a woman who's my equal" "I will push boundaries" "I want a lifelong submissive" Hold up. Sumfin doesn add up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 11:00 AM
5

Except not really catch them. More like catch them on their bullshit and call them out on their suspicious behaviour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 03:39 AM
7

Gotta catch 'em all!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 03:10 AM
5

Honestly I have no clue. I went over the message quickly and blocked him. But I wouldn't be surprised if it wasn't trolling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 02:48 AM
7

I mean. I'm not going to go out of my way to change my settings because of some scrotes. I just look at them and laugh at them. How fragile can you be, my god.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 02:46 AM
22

I love all of them 🥺💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 08:04 PM
24

Since I posted this, on the sub I have gotten several scrotes in my DMs getting mad. Stay mad. You can't come to female places. We also see all of you downvoting our posts. Get a life 💅🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 08:04 PM
33

We're still a walking talking pair of tits and vagina to them 🤷🏼‍♀️ they'll do anything to get some even if they don't find the person attractive in any way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 07:54 PM
24

Their smol lil bwains can't get to this conclusion. After all, to us ladies this is just Circus and Bread
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 07:44 PM
31

And you get insta blocked! And YOU get insta blocked! -Keanu Reeves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 07:42 PM
49

Exactly. It's still about him. And it's still his fantasies, which undermines and shames our normal romantic requirements. Normalcy isn't shameful. BDSM is poison to young girls brains.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 07:29 PM
36

So sick in the head. I'm not religious but they do need Jesus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 07:23 PM
69

Another piece of shit DMed me saying "if youw down't giwe mewn chawnsews, youw wwon't gewt rewashiownshipws." Boo fucking hoo bitch. Cry me a goddamn ocean.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 07:21 PM
39

With dogs and farm animals? I'm in if I can have a goat and name it Bessie!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 07:03 PM
26

Honestly, even if I can't find someone, that'd be a blessing in disguise
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 07:02 PM
48

Yeah, I just mean I'm not a catch by scrote standards, since most of them just want a bangmaid and I ain't that honey. Hell no on the bang part, and even bigger hell no on the maid part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 06:59 PM
73

I'm lucky, since I am not really a catch 🙋🏼‍♀️ and I am asexual, so most people I want to date are not sex driven. I mainly became an FDS member because of the feminist ideals and to wake myself up from previous Pickme behaviour I showed in my previous relationships where I did all the emotional labour and my bf was so unavailable, just nodding when I was venting. I want someone to tell me how they feel. Not keep their feelings in because ugh manly man ooga booga, I want trad wife, ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 06:33 PM
71

Ugh, some femdom freak 🙄 We don't want to beat you up in bed while you think that's healthy, scrotes! We want equal relationships where there's no power dynamic! Wake the fuck up please!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 06:29 PM
130

Didn't even say anything to him. Insta blocked 💅🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 06:26 PM
98

The redditor faction of the BDSM scene are the actual fucked up scrotes who are so ugly/low value that they can't reach out anywhere, only online where confirmed women are posting. Ugh. Not to memtion that BDSM is just abuse disguised as sex and pleasure. Absolutely vile and scrote-like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 06:23 PM
33

UGH right? I hope he sees this and sees how pathetic he is. Disgusting pervert.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 06:20 PM
249

He wanted me to do some BDSM with him where he's tied up and I "punish" him. Ew ew ew ew ew ew. How dense do you have to be to think you can shoot your perverse shot with an FDS member.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 06:19 PM
10

I mean, this is not a surprise. Men sexualize every profession where they can get remotely close to women. Porn websites also have this massage subcategory. I'm pretty sure this disgusting scrote is making light pornography which teens can easily access, since this is not on a porn website. They don't need to get around parenral supervision because oh look! It's on youtube. I'm apalled they let this type of content on their website.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 08:07 AM
1

Hope the scrote and the parents get charged with 2nd degree murder for enabling her to basically kill herself 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 03:08 PM
1

I am having so much trouble with my weight gain. I have binged a LOT as a teen due to my parents being pieces of shit(they still are) and getting bullied in school. It made me stress so much that I just started binging on chips. Long story short, binging on garbage ruined my body. I got fat, my thyroid gave out due to the stress and my garbage diet, my intestines barely work, etc. It got to the point that I'm so heavy that I have trouble with my blood pressure. It keeps dropping below 110/60 to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 02:53 PM
8

Oh my lord this is so eye opening. I've never even considered that, even though I was always pro choice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 02:12 PM
17

Even if the sub is primarily for straight women, most of the advices can be used by anybody here. Ignoring red flags in same sex relationships is just as bad and can get just as scary as between straight people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 05:44 AM
1

Same here to be honest. But it's not just the women at the top, women at the bottom do pickme crap too. Maybe I am trying to fix a lost cause but I'm trying to educate some of them who I don't think are too gone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 05:33 AM
50

This is why I feel sad for the friends I had that became pickme's by culture and then got an unwanted pregnancy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 02:39 PM
8

I call it the scrote fest
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 02:33 PM
27

The fact that texting is such a good way for men to build fake intimacy is so true. I am on OLD and this guy hit me up. He way saying emotional he is and how many times he was let down. I told him I'm not his therapist. He backed up a little, then about a day later he confessed how much he likes me and how he could see us as a couple. I told him I need time for intimacy. He said sorry and I told him it's fine. I got ghosted after that 😂😂😂😂 This guy tried so hard to make me be head over heels for…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 09:05 AM
36

And as most low wage jobs do, it wears us down physically and mentally. Then men complain when we don't put out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 10:46 PM
6

I'd rather earn my money in a respectable way. Not by self deprecating and letting men use videos/pictures of my body as a way to pleasure themselves and feeding their need for "kinky women".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 09:34 PM
126

This is a reaccuring pattern. Recently I got employed in a factory because nobody, literally nobody employs me. So this was just "I need a job until I find a better one" scenario. Guess the gender ratio. 80% of the women are just mere workers. Out of the higher ups, I've seen like 3 women out of 15.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 05:47 PM
10

I don't mind, I'm 23. Job searching is tough, whenever I get called in for an interview I'm turned down. I'm trying to search for a job where I can use my English language skills, but not a lot of people are interested as I have no other special skills or training. I'm searching for a better job as the one I'm in is an 8 hour standing job and I'm obese from hypothyroidism. It's killing my ankles and knees and I walk like an 80 year old grandma after work. Another reason is because I want to get …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 04:55 PM
27

My dad still tries to do to this, also my pickme mom. I just managed to get a horrible job so I am still at the parents' house. My mom overwhelmes me with housework and expects me to do it after 8 hours of straining physical work. My dad is a self employed man who demands I make food after I just got home and my feet are killing me. They constantly financially, emotionally and mentally abuse me. Yet when I use the same manipulation tactics on them that they use on me they get veeeery upsetti sph…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 03:41 PM
8

My mom has been trying hard to convert me into a pickme and it almost worked, but I got my eyes opened just in time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 03:03 PM
10

I got here roughly after 10 months since breaking up with my second partner (I had a girlfriend first, then a boyfriend) but I fell for the same shit twice. After being single I was desperate to be with someone and I randomly found FDS and to be honest I though it was a female PUA advice sub haha. I was pleasantly surprised and I just keep noticing signs in life from men that are just so toxic, starting with my father. And I also realized women can be just as low value as well, and that's why we…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 01:16 PM
45

My comment will be worthless since the mods keep deleting my comments on FDS because they haven't given me an FDS flair yet despite commenting about my experiences on here sometimes. I found it relatively early, at 23. Granted I had many fuckups in life already, like dropping out of college to work because I couldn't take uni mentally, school and my parents stressed me out so much that I had breakdowns. Anyway, I just dumped my 2nd partner, a boyfriend almost a year ago when I found FDS. I was v…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 08:35 AM
38

And also, what if some of us ARE fat or ugly or whatever? We don't deserve respect because we're one if the above? Didn't think so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 10:59 AM
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