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CULTURAL MISOGYNYcurlywurlyprincess/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 10:33 PM
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 REDDIT HATES WOMENcurlywurlyprincess/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 10:27 AM
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RANTcurlywurlyprincess/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 01:07 AM
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FDS TRANSLATES MENcurlywurlyprincess/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 10:33 PM
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SHOWER THOUGHTcurlywurlyprincess/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 06:53 PM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTEScurlywurlyprincess/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 05:18 PM
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REMINDER 👑curlywurlyprincess/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 03:31 AM
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RANTcurlywurlyprincess/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 12:26 PM
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MESSAGE FOR MALE LURKERScurlywurlyprincess/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 12:18 AM
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REMINDER 👑curlywurlyprincess/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 09:48 PM
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Story time ☕curlywurlyprincess/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 09:48 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?curlywurlyprincess/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 07:26 PM
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REMINDER 👑curlywurlyprincess/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 04:33 PM
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RANTcurlywurlyprincess/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 10:45 AM
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GLOBAL RESISTANCEcurlywurlyprincess/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 10:49 PM
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MESSAGE FOR MALE LURKERScurlywurlyprincess/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 04:00 AM
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LEVEL UPcurlywurlyprincess/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 12:00 PM
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LEVEL UP BRO! curlywurlyprincess/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 08:05 PM
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WHOLESOME CONTENTcurlywurlyprincess/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 06:08 PM
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curlywurlyprincess/r/askFDS23/05/21 06:10 PM
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SHOWER THOUGHTcurlywurlyprincess/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 09:45 PM
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REMINDER 👑curlywurlyprincess/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 02:11 PM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTEScurlywurlyprincess/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 04:54 PM
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SOCIAL GROUP STRATEGYcurlywurlyprincess/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 01:47 AM
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LVM MYTHScurlywurlyprincess/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 12:58 PM
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why would I go 50/50 on a date if there’s a 50/50 chance he’s a psycho/stalker/creep? By going on a date with a man you’re literally risking your life and I have to PAY for that risk? How about no
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 03:25 PM
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I’ve never heard or seen this…sounds so nasty tf😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 12:28 PM
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I literally just had a scrote DM me that I deserve to be “hate fucked” by my former “victim”. Why can’t men just be normal for once. Why is everything so violent with them. I don’t understand them and I don’t think I want to
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 10:56 PM
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good points, I sensed something was off with that 🤔 he pointed out all the ways we’re similar to emphasize we’d get along but it was just weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 09:59 PM
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Lol I don’t think he’s “in love”, I actually suspect that deep down he hates me a little. Or obsessed? No idea but it doesn’t matter anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 09:49 PM
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one of the best comments I’ve read on this sub. So concise & powerful. Thank you 💝
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 08:59 PM
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he was absolutely dying to have his ego stroked and I never gave him that satisfaction. Even when he told me I looked good I didn’t say anything back because why would I lol. I wonder if he ever cared about his girlfriend’s compliments…probably not. If he did he wouldn’t be trying so hard with me, would he 🤔 I don’t even know the girl but I know she can do so much better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 08:53 PM
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Your definition is accurate imo. I’d add punishing women for expecting more putting male needs at the forefront blaming women for what men do them Basically pickmes exercise toxic femininity. We are conditioned to become pickmes from a young age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 08:39 PM
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I see your point and I don’t mind being criticized. I just find difficult to respect men who try very hard to impress other women when they’re in relationships. If he kept his cool I wouldn’t have responded this way. Like I said we spoke some more and I just sensed his LVM vibes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 08:29 PM
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ugh yes. one time I wanted to dress up as the witch from spirited away but my LVM ex told me that I was being boring & not fun. And he got me this stupid “sexy” painting costume. So I literally had body paint & a frame on and went as a slutty….painting. I am ashamed of my pickme past🤮 I was so excited about my original costume, never going to please a man EVER again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 06:22 PM
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I absolutely hate the “kink community” and the kind of shit they promote. If you don’t want to have a flamethrower blown up your ass while being fisted on a bed of nails you’re “prudish” and “sex negative” whatever the fuck that means. I’ve had to cut off friends because they were so judgemental and encouraged me to engage in dangerous activities. I’d rather not hang around people like that. My kink is being anti-kink😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 04:22 PM
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if they don’t have the capacity to fix themselves I shall not have the capacity to give a fuck. Thank you, next 💅🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 02:15 PM
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All men - gay or straight - consider women inferior. Gay men are no exception to this but their sexism manifests in different ways since they don’t date women. We can discuss further via DMs if you’d like
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 02:13 PM
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he thinks he’s so tough for not giving a shit and laughing while the woman is pissed. Somebody let these losers know that behaving like this doesn’t make you manly, your dick isn’t going to get bigger
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 02:04 PM
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Gay men on average take care of their appearance so they’re ahead of the average straight scrote in that department. However ~ controversial opinion incoming ~ I feel like gay men tend to practice a different flavor of misogyny. It may not manifest in a typical way but it’s still there because they’re men after all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 01:58 PM
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he’s trashy as fuck and so smug about it too. He actually thinks he’s “cool” for not caring about his sons bday. What a complete loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 01:47 PM
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Violence is so beautiful /s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 01:45 PM
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I love your comment and fully agree😍. LVMs will destroy your life and sleep peacefully at night
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 10:59 PM
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you raise a really good point & I’d agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 10:52 PM
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I think the worst DMs I get are from insecure males who tell me their dick size and ask if I consider that big. The answer is always no. Seeking validation automatically puts them in the small dick energy category anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 10:50 PM
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gonna use that, thank you🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 10:47 PM
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it absolutely is projection. They think it’s actually gonna bother me lmao. Like you’re threatening me with a good time here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 10:47 PM
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i miss the times when men were self sufficient and knew how to do things with their hands. now they’re literally useless
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 10:20 PM
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honestly the idea that men get more desirable with age is just ridiculous. I’m physically attracted to men in my age group (20s), not 40+ year olds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 04:36 PM
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I remember going on a camping trip with a bunch of friends and I had a lot of luggage/bags with me. I like to stick to my routine even when I’m not home. The guys kept poking fun at me the entire time and even some pickmeishas joined in. I was unbothered but it’s funny how girls get targeted for caring about their looks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 07:49 PM
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Lol what, how’s that high maintenance 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 07:35 PM
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men: women have no personalities, they’re all the same also men: sports video games beer x1000 That guy sounds bland af, ew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 04:31 PM
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It’s only dark humor when it’s about women, rape and dead babies. As soon as women poke fun at men they cry “b-but if the roles were reversed there would be outrage”. Meanwhile dark jokes are so common and nobody is outraged. Men are extremely sensitive and cannot stomach being made fun of. For women it’s literally just everyday life. Interestingly enough I don’t know any “dark jokes” about men….
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 02:18 PM
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My standards are pretty much the same as yours and luckily I’m now with a guy who ticks all of my boxes. I don’t want to put him on a pedestal but I’m surprised that men like him still exist. He’s literally everything I’ve been looking for and has an actual personality unlike most men. Plus he’s easily one of the best looking guys I’ve ever seen mmh🤤. Vetting for months finally paid off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 01:09 PM
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Because men are raised to believe that their value is tied to things they can control - wealth, status, personality. So when they realize that a feature they cannot control is important to a lot of women they freak out. It goes against their understanding of the world. “Women are supposed to like me the way I am- how dare they zero in on something that is beyond my control?” That’s why they get triggered when you bring up dick size. No amount of personality is gonna make your dick attractive if …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 12:08 PM
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The next time a scrote claims that women live life on easy mode just remember posts like these. This guy didn’t have to pay any bills, had easy access to sex whenever he wanted, had a main chick who supported his goals, a side chick for fun and emotional support etc. What did he do apart from having a penis? Scrotes scream about “pussy pass” but this guy had a dick pass. Imagine how easy this dude’s life must’ve been. He is so privileged he literally had the audacity to admit he stuck around bec…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 11:59 AM
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39 reports? Damn I knew they were triggered but that’s just hilarious. Imagine caring that much about one woman’s opinion. If only they cared what their SOs think about them and acted accordingly… And thank you so much! I really love this community and it’s really the only place I can air my unfiltered views. Uplifting women and reminding them of their worth is something I love to do as well so I like when they reach out to me. Thanks so much for providing us with this amazing space and keeping …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 11:31 AM
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poor girl, she’s gonna spend the rest of their marriage proving herself to him. Nothing she does will ever be good enough because he doesn’t think she’s good enough. I bet he criticizes every little thing she does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 12:53 AM
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Either way her husband sounds trash. Lol saying that the female form is nothing to be “ashamed” of….as long as it caters to him of course 🙄 artsy LVMs have a unique creepiness to them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 12:24 AM
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Idk if I’m understanding this post correctly but it seems that she had no problems with the sculpture until her looks changed and people started making comments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 12:18 AM
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wait, the sculpture was around for like 10 years and now she is concerned about the impact it may have on her kids? Am I missing something?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 12:15 AM
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typical psychotic male 🤏🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 09:16 PM
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men who get easily offended are so unattractive. small dick energy 🤏🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 10:29 PM
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thank you🤣💚
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 07:32 AM
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The audacity of ugly men to complain nobody finds them attractive….first of all men aren’t judged on their looks at all. Imagine how privileged and whiny you have to be to complain you don’t get special treatment…for being ugly. I mean at least work on your hygiene. The era of “congrats for having a dick” and that being enough is OVER. Women can get their own money, men aren’t a necessity anymore. So now we can be extra choosy…which means ugly dudes get left behind. And they’re so salty about th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 03:02 AM
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“I can be loud, but I enjoy silence” “I’m 5’9, but can be 6’2” “I can be stupid, but not when I’m being smart” His whole profile is a bunch of nonsense, I’m dumber for having read it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 02:41 AM
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“I like laughing” cos all other humans hate laughing. What a unique individual who likes…..laughing. Where can I find out more about him?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 02:37 AM
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“👀Red flags” absolutely not, he’s just shy about you meeting his family /s Bf turns 40 and spends time with the wife and kids, he’s literally not thinking about her at all. Men really do play many parts to keep up the lies, so many faces….
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 02:18 AM
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tragic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 07:44 PM
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that guy sounds like he can’t build a fence lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 05:48 PM
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yes thank you! 50/50 is a scam because it rests on the presumption that men and women start on equal footing…. we do NOT. Women literally start from -100 and play catch-up with men their whole lives, how the fk will 50/50 remedy that? It’s like asking two individuals- a poor person and a wealthy person - to donate $1000….that money is not the same to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 11:54 AM
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Why are men so violent? Why do they commit the majority of murders? At this point I’m convinced the average scrote regularly fantasizes about murdering women and children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 02:16 AM
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It’s because men are only nice to women they want to fuck. They think our brains work that way too so if you’re nice he thinks you want sex. Remember ladies, men do not have the same mindset as us. Most of them have zero empathy or respect for people they consider ‘inferior’.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 02:03 PM
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I’m straight but this girl has me feeling some type of way. I’m smitten 🧐 and that hair >>
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 08:23 PM
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An amazing woman who was too pure and good hearted for the royal family 🙁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 06:50 PM
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He’s only 17, if he doesn’t get help immediately he’s gonna pose a real threat to women in a few years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 06:49 PM
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This is actually very concerning. What % of men truly believe that if they give a woman help in any sort of form they’re entitled to her body? How common is this mindset in the male population? I mean I know plenty believe this but like…is it really a mindset they’re raised with?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 11:04 PM
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Lmao what is this. So embarrassing I can’t even finish it 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 04:54 PM
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Bumble is literally the worst and I’d never use it (not that I use dating apps anyway). It’s peak pickme, you literally make the first move to impress a guy who probably doesn’t even wash his ass. Men don’t respect you if you make the first move. They just view you as a desperate chick, fast and easy sex guaranteed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 04:32 PM
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yup, if I was any good at art I’d draw really dramatic paintings of big beautiful dicks. They’re so aesthetically pleasing 🤤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 01:56 PM
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foreplay is super important and not just an add-on, it’s part of sex. Without lots of foreplay it ain’t gonna work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 01:48 PM
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💀💀 I was not ready for that murder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 01:07 PM
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It is something I have to actively unlearn. Being nice and agreeable just let’s men stomp all over you. All to often we make the mistake of thinking that men behave and think like us. They don’t. They don’t have empathy the way we do because apparently that’s not masculine. I only reserve that inner voice for women now 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 12:06 PM
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Scrotes with small dicks who are angry that women don’t want them definitely give me rapey vibes. The creepy thing is you usually can’t tell who they are irl. You think you’re having a simple conversation with a scrote but inside he’s seething and resenting you….
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 11:55 AM
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big dick, big wallet & big heart 🤍 >>>
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 11:45 AM
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yes I know there are women who don’t like big dicks and that’s completely fine. I am not judging them. I am referring to the pickmes who constantly lie to coddle men and pretend that ALL women like small dicks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 11:41 AM
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Women are conditioned from birth to feel empathy for men. We are socialized and brainwashed into putting their desires above all. Life is so much better when you stop giving a shit about their feelings🖤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 11:03 AM
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A few years ago I met this cute guy and we were texting one evening. I asked what he’s doing and he said he’s driving. Shocked, I asked “you mean you’re driving right now?”. And he said yes, he was literally driving while texting me. Blocked that reckless, selfish loser straightaway. No ragrets✌🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 10:45 AM
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fantasizing about a HVM who does NOT have a “dad bod” (🤮) or limp wrists
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 12:06 AM
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toys >>>> LVMs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 11:55 PM
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he’s hot but I hate his character in Euphoria lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 05:43 PM
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I used to think he’s this sweet romantic until I heard 24k magic where he sings about “bad bitches” and their “ugly ass friends” 🙄🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 01:37 PM
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men are monkey branching opportunists with no moral code
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 01:34 PM
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that is gross, sad and true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 01:11 PM
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He’s just going to “leave the door open” so she can find him rolling around in weed and chip crumbs waiting for her door dash sex service. Hell no. Fuck off, Bruno Mars. We don’t want what you’re selling. I know you’re serious but why is this post so funny to me🤣. I actually thought the song was kinda HVM but you made some good points. It’s about a woman choosing whether to spend the night with him but it almost feels like he’s “allowing” her to choose? Well women don’t need permission to choose…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 12:27 PM
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and that’s legit advice too, why offer a free service when there’s an entire profession dedicated to this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 11:02 PM
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There’s tons of reasons, could be a standalone post. TL;DR men don’t see us as equals so 99% of the time the ‘friendship’ doesn’t work
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 11:02 PM
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“across the river” 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 10:07 PM
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How can LVMs keep saying “not all men” when I see these stories literally every day? It’s heartbreaking, poor baby 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 10:05 PM
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truly goals lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 10:03 PM
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Wow this is a really, really good post. I totally agree with you that a man being lonely isn’t the same as a woman being lonely. Men need a home to come back to which means that ultimately they need us way more than we need them. The greatest scam they ever played was to convince us that we need them just as much. That’s simply not the case. This is why I think women should be more confident and understand that we’re the ones doing all the choosing at the end of the day. You honestly made some a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 10:01 PM
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this is what pickmes think they have to do in order to keep a man. They’re so busy trying impress guys they lose themselves in the process.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 11:00 AM
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Lol that is your average male’s sense of humor. Wit demonstrates intelligence and that’s something most men lack. They’re dull, uninspiring and basic so they’re incapable of making clever jokes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 07:44 AM
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because men desire power + control above all. They know they can’t do that shit with grown women so they seek out young, vulnerable girls. Absolutely nothing to do with the biological clock or whatever they claim
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 12:48 AM
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What an amazing episode 😍😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 11:50 PM
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men don’t respect women who accept cheap dates. They mentally put her in the “easy lay” box and stop trying to impress her altogether. If your standards are low he will behave accordingly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 11:10 PM
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aaand the award for pettiest LVM goes to 🏆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 07:27 PM
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Yeah, I’m still forming my opinion on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 11:16 PM
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I got some porn sick zombies with a small penis humiliation fetish that followed me and sent dick pics. Men are so pathetic nowadays
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 11:04 PM
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So sorry you experienced that. It happened to me and it took me a long time to get over it. This is why I stopped being nice to men, they’re all disgusting. Actually thought about making a post about it but it’s pretty vile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 07:47 PM
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Well put. They see their wives/daughters as property that must be kept in check and other women as theirs to enjoy 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 07:43 PM
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yesss. They literally walk around with dried shit stuck to them🤢. How can they ever pass judgement on a woman’s looks when they’re so filthy? This is also why I don’t shake hands with men, god knows where those nasty hands have been
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 07:00 PM
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Shame is an important human trait and keeps us in check. The reason men are so lost today is because we’ve turned into a shameless society that encourages all sorts of degeneracy. Shame is good
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 06:44 PM
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Because they’re busy commenting “😍😍“ under porn stars’ social media instead of being real men and taking care of their families
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 06:16 PM
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A guy like that is not someone I’m not interested in dating. I like men who are confident in themselves and don’t have to watch other men to get off. It’s such a sad state to be in 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 01:55 PM
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The fact that she’s actively ignoring it makes me think he’s in his late 40s/early 50s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 10:18 AM
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Why has she not specified his age? He’s probably 7-8 years older. Anyway the pandemic hasn’t turned him into ‘anything’. This is who he always was and now he’s comfortable enough to show it because she’s trapped with the kids. He will continue to pull stunts like this because he doesn’t respect her as an equal, he never did. This is why it’s important to carefully choose the father of your kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 09:34 AM
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thanks🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 03:06 AM
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His definition of team I have a penis which means I’m the boss here. You will do as I say because you’re below me. If you don’t let me emotionally abuse you everyday don’t even bother. I’m seeking a sex toy I can control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 03:02 AM
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It’s so embarrassing how they seem to think it’s a flex. It doesn’t make them look manly, quite the opposite actually. Men who consume porn are insecure, weak and lack the very qualities I prefer. If he watches porn everyday I don’t trust him to be man enough to keep me safe in an emergency. How can he? His testosterone levels are most likely nonexistent and years of porn watching has turned him into a passive voyeuristic creep. He will not take action when I need him. As you said, I have a long…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 02:55 AM
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My belief is that they all experience it at the start but the feeling dulls the more they’re exposed to hardcore porn. Feeling shame/guilt is actually a sign that he can still be saved. But once he starts feeling nothing….it’s pretty much fucked. Those dudes are creepy and I do not want to to be around them 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 02:45 AM
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And don’t forget they often experience post nut guilt. They’re basically so disgusted with themselves after watching (oftentimes weird) porn that it fills them with shame and guilt. That is literally their soul crying out for help but instead of working on that they consume even more porn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 02:30 AM
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That is so nasty. I don’t understand how men can ever do that to their wives 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 02:27 AM
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baby girl doesn’t even have to list all of her accomplishments. She is the table But fr, black women are faaar more educated than black men. This causes a lot of compatibility issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 12:19 AM
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Thank you🎉 I don’t hate men. I just want them to leave me alone. All my life I had to deal with their bullshit and it’s exhausting. I just want to live on a scrote-free island. To me, no men = pure bliss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 02:10 AM
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Ex did that 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 01:57 AM
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oh yeah, I meant that women + men aren’t the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 01:40 AM
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I wasn’t being hostile 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 01:26 AM
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great post, social media can be incredibly useful for vetting. One time I met a guy at a party and we swapped our Insta/SC. He was cute and I was thinking about hanging out with him some more. Later that night I went through his insta and he was following so many girls that looked similar to me (I’m mixed) that it seriously grossed me out. Something was just off. It felt like he was fetishizing me. He got a swift block and I never spoke to him again. I strongly encourage WOC to drop any guy who …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 12:42 AM
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Sounds a lot like “what do you bring to the table”. A woman is the table. The man has to bring something to her and make sure she feels comfortable, happy and safe. A woman automatically enriches a man’s life by choosing to be with him. We’re not the same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 12:26 AM
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that’s why I prefer being bitchy. Guys will overanalyze the smallest actions and become convinced you’re into them. Being called a bitch > some scrote thinking he has a chance
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 11:23 PM
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It’s “not all men” until they say they don’t want daughters because they know men think and act. If it’s not all men why can’t you trust that your daughter will be treated well?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 11:14 PM
207

It’s great that mods are v careful with flairs. Scrotes have already admitted that they’re trying to infiltrate this sub by pretending to be pro-FDS. Mods are doing an excellent job keeping this sub clean and scrote-free, thanks a bunch 🎉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 06:58 PM
32

I wear whatever feels comfortable. Generally the baggier the better. My ex would constantly complain about that and even bought me some “sexy” loungewear. And then he would always touch me up even when I was busy (on the phone etc). Always had to look good for him😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 06:17 PM
27

I like men who do things with their…hands…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 06:10 PM
4

god, why am I straight
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 11:12 AM
338

Not all men indeed. I have a bit of a crush on this one 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 11:04 AM
151

you’re right, they offer absolutely nothing. Many of them can’t even get hard bc porn ruined their dicks. Yet they have the audacity to spew garbage like this. If you fulfill his porn desires you’re enabling his addiction and he’ll require you to do more extreme acts to get off. One day he’ll ask for anal, the next he wants to shit in your mouth🙃. I fucking hate porn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 09:15 AM
539

The dehumanization and degradation of women is a normal part of every man’s sexual health, cool. You know what? I’d rather stay single than have sex with a man who can only cum when he uses extreme violence against me 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 09:00 AM
24

I should’ve said that 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:59 PM
46

He was doing so well up until that point. Men always gotta ruin everything with their unnecessary commentary. They need to learn when to shut the fuck up tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:24 PM
25

yup, my toxic ex was slightly older and had more experience. He already had lots of practice manipulating girls while it was my 2nd relationship. The guy I’m currently seeing is my age. I prefer that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:07 PM
175

Uh that’s a really weird comment from the hygienist. What is it even supposed to mean? I was recently out shopping with a friend and dropped something down the stairs. This random guy picked it up for me and said “here you go, sugar lips”. I gave him a weird look and he huffed and puffed and said “Jesus, learn to take a compliment”. Nah dude. Do not call me sugar lips wtf😖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 06:58 PM
35

I think it’s time for women to start acting dumb. Don’t clean up, let your husband come home to a messy stinky house with no dinner prepared. When he gets angry tell him you would’ve done all of that had he only asked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 04:28 PM
119

I can smell the poor hygiene through his text 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 04:21 PM
73

Men are so ungrateful. I am not getting pregnant unless he proves himself to be high value and reliable. I am not putting my life at risk for some worthless guy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:55 AM
69

yes I agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:22 AM
122

These men shouldn’t be around children. There’s a high chance they’ve molested their daughters at a young age. I do not for a second believe they’ve never acted on their sick urges. This is so disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:21 AM
53

What’s up with all those pickmes in the comments? If you give an ugly guy a chance you’ll boost his ego and he’s gonna run around thinking he can get any woman. This is why you shouldn’t date ugly men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 06:51 PM
13

Yeah, he was extremely possessive and I actually made a post about that relationship. I wish I left sooner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 09:32 AM
62

My ex was good at giving me orgasms but he didn’t like it when I masturbated. He said that I shouldn’t have fun without him😬. The only time he ‘allowed’ me to masturbate was when he watched. One of the many toxic things I had to endure in that relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 09:09 AM
61

Women are angry at men because they oppress/abuse/rape/kill us. Men are angry at us because we’re women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 01:13 AM
22

Really happy for you! You already took some big steps to better yourself so you should be proud. Celebrate little victories. I love posts like this 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 12:37 AM
9

It’s interesting because I’m into gaming but it’s not my entire personality. A lot of guys literally have NO other hobbies besides that and it’s so unattractive. The truth is they just want a sex doll who watches them play for 16 hours straight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 12:29 AM
493

What older men offer: Baldness The audacity ED Out of shape bodies (older men aren’t pressured to look perfect so they don’t give a shit about keeping fit) Why would I want any of that. They tend to be the most forward as well 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 12:03 AM
116

We’re so used to viewing everything through a male lens but men cannot stop for a moment and appreciate a woman’s point of view.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 11:49 PM
135

When it comes to music I feel like a lot of guys think it’s ‘gay’ to appreciate female artists. They’re so pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 11:47 PM
45

🤣wish I could see them. Someone even took screenshots of my comment and posted them on a sub they just started. They’re so upset lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 11:27 PM
293

That’s a lot of confidence for a man with such skinny arms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 08:24 PM
178

Exactly. Male logic goes somewhat like this: I have a penis which means my opinion is IMPORTANT. Woman opinion not important. Listen to *ME*🤬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 08:21 PM
4

It took me so long to internalize this and I still slip up sometimes. We are conditioned from birth to give our everything to men who give us nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 08:14 PM
477

To the scrotes who lurk on here everyday I’d like to say a few things: Dick size matters Expecting a woman to go 50/50 on a date is trashy and just shows how low value you are Hit the gym. Men have an easier time losing weight + putting on muscle. You have NO excuses. Stop treating the women in your life like shit Edit: This comment triggered a lot of insecure men 🥱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 07:54 PM
85

Agreed. People tend to believe men and women are seen as untrustworthy. We have to lie to coddle their fragile egos, i.e. saying that size doesn’t matter. I absolutely refuse to keep lying about that. They do not appreciate our honesty when it benefits us. When we tell the truth* to protect ourselves they suddenly get angry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 07:14 PM
1

I agree, thank you 💙
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 07:07 PM
121

It’s an instant red flag. Men know how damaging it is to label a woman crazy so they weaponize that term to silence us. When a guy claims his ex was crazy he is not to be trusted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 05:30 PM
110

It’s sad how so many women on Insta sexualize themselves. It’s like everyone is trying to out-porn each other with the most ridiculous poses catering to the male gaze. Male attention is so worthless yet these beautiful ladies put it on a pedestal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 02:37 AM
16

He constantly used to say that nobody else wanted me and that he was the only guy willing to “put up” with me. He said that he accepted all of my flaws and still decided to stay with me 🙄 I’m not gonna lie and say I was perfect. It was a toxic relationship and I’ve done some petty things but it was all part of my defense mechanism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 07:30 PM
20

those pickmeisha friends just made me feel worse about everything. I started to think that something was wrong with me but the truth is that they’re the type of girls who always put a guy’s needs first and call that empowerment. Well I don’t find it empowering to be treated like a sex doll🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 07:27 PM
37

yup, I had to cut off many ‘friends’ but it was for the better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 07:24 PM
20

Thanks, this is pretty much the only place I can vent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 06:46 PM
154

You’re right and it’s because men are seen as unique individuals. A man is a person, a woman is a woman first. Everything one single woman does represents half the global population, apparently. For example when there’s a gif of a woman driving badly the LVMs repeat the tired old women can’t drive jokes. But if a man does the same nobody comments on the fact he’s a man. This is also the reason that a guy will hate all women when one woman has rejected or wronged him somehow. He doesn’t stop to t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 06:37 PM
9

I’m glad too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 06:32 PM
12

Thank you ❣️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 06:32 PM
197

Good men know that the vast majority of men are trash. He won’t be offended because he’s not trying to gaslight you like a LVM scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 09:07 PM
14

This is a blatant lie. Men use women as their (unpaid) therapists and unload all their emotional baggage on us. Why can’t they vent to their homies if they’re real friends? It’s funny bc men claim that women secretly dislike each other but that’s just another LVM myth. When women befriend each other they listen, communicate and vent. Men do not form meaningful friendships with each other. They just bond over their shared hatred of women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 06:43 PM
97

Men will say “no homo” and jerk off together but eating fruits is gay. The logical gender™️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 06:31 PM
194

It’s creepy and predatory. When I was 18 this 33 y/o guy kept asking me out on dates and promising to take me to nice restaurants(he was pretty well off, worked in finance). He kept sweet talking me cos I’m guessing he thought I was naive due to my young age. Of course I was creeped out but I tried to reject him politely. I explained that I’m too young and not ready for a relationship. He said that I’m “mature” and have a “womanly figure” which meant that I was ready for a relationship with an o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 06:28 PM
315

More than half the men I come across are like this. They think their opinions are important just because they have a penis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 06:17 PM
107

He’s definitely gonna lose sleep over this, so proud of you 👏🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 05:39 PM
12

I like the casual snooping post because I fully support it. If I’m gonna let a man into my life I have to take every step to ensure my safety. I’m not gonna ignore all the red flags just because I want to be a cool girl who thinks a potential husband should have 100% privacy. I’d rather snoop and avoid harm early. It’s literally a survival tactic. By the way I love this idea, mods!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 05:51 PM
253

This isn’t a flex. You can get McDonald’s without having to do porn and exposing yourself to violent men, stalkers, creeps etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 10:13 AM
14

Have fun doing all of that just to get cheated on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 08:49 AM
53

Yeah that makes sense. It really depends on what kind of job/hobbies he has. However consistent late texts and short replies are a red flag imo. Also if he’s really into you he’ll catch up with you as soon as he can with a thoughtful response.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 05:29 PM
61

I’m convinced men wake up in the morning and their very first thought is “how can I hurt a woman today?”. That’s why they get morning wood tbh🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 02:31 PM
25

According to my ex I’m crazy yet he’s the one who was controlling and manipulative. Men are pros at gaslighting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 02:20 PM
20

ugh yes 😻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 01:03 PM
185

Apparently asking men to wash their ass is asking for too much and being too “picky”. The bar has entered the lowest dimension. I also like a man who has good relationships with the women in his life (i.e. mother, sister etc) and treats them with kindness and respect. Adding this one to trigger the scrotes lurking: I love men with big dicks 🤤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 10:43 AM
30

I like fine af Fridays because it triggers scrotes. All we’re doing here is appreciating men’s beauty meanwhile they have subs dedicated to a female celebrity’s armpit or right toe 👎🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 09:22 AM
83

It’s scary how normalized BDSM has become. It’s not “empowering” to be abused and degraded by a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 09:10 AM
77

Don’t blame yourself. I think women are generally non-confrontational because men will literally murder/rape/abuse us if they feel we have ‘wronged’ them. It’s literally all about their pathetic feelings yet they try to convince us they’re the logical gender…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 06:29 PM
6

yeah some people get weird about it and some (especially men) use it as an opportunity to neg. I just learned to ignore them 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 10:37 AM
19

It started off as a compliment but then he must’ve not liked my reaction because he suddenly accused me of faking it. I think he just wanted to get my attention lol It’s a common neg I get from dbags. The amount of crap they say is just ridiculous so I usually ignore them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 02:53 AM
312

Male logic: this woman is with me which means I have a chance with *all** women which means I can do even better!*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 11:02 PM
39

I’ll help you out. Look at what he’s wearing. He’s not hot or muscular enough to pull off a basic shirt like that Also noodle arms 👎🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 10:55 PM
124

Athletic men have a beautiful form and a good posture. This scrote has neither
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 10:47 PM
364

First of all his arms look hella small so idk why he’s describing himself as athletic. Also “female to bundle into the back of his car” sounds creepy. Is he Ted Bundy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 10:41 PM
71

Today this girl complimented me and it put a smile on my face. We had a quick chat and she was super nice. Around 20 minutes later this guy gave me a compliment - actually I’m pretty sure he was negging me. I have heterochromia and he said that I must be wearing contact lenses and blah blah. I didn’t even bother responding. Compliments from men are either insincere or creepy. They’re completely meaningless to me. I always remember compliments from women because they’re so genuine and sweet ❣️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 10:25 PM
12

Coffee dates are an insult to women everywhere. The height of the audacity 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 10:06 PM
132

It’s funny because they think their essays are so original when they all write the same shit. Every single one of them. So predictable🥱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 09:02 PM
196

Thank you for this amazing, well written post. Content like this keeps me coming back to this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 08:31 PM
95

I fully agree with this. As women we have to prioritize our safety so there’s absolutely nothing wrong with ‘casual snooping’. I’ve done this in the past and it has saved me a lot of trouble. If he’s got nothing to hide he won’t mind being open with you 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 12:54 AM
14

the hell? he must’ve bumped his head
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 07:52 PM
106

I know right? Why do they think it’s an insult? Maybe it’s because men literally cannot live without women but women are just fine without men. In fact 99% of the time we’re healthier, safer and happier without them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 06:43 PM
205

Lol a lurker messaged me saying that I’m gonna be a “lonely hag” in future and that I should settle down while I’m young. Uh a life without a worthless male draining me of my energy sounds infinitely better, sign me up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 06:29 PM
17

I have no idea why they act like that. It’s like they’re toddlers who are unable to process their emotions so they’re confused all the time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 12:54 PM
38

Men will say that women don’t know what they want but they’re the ones who seem confused af. One guy told me that I’m not his type because I’m too “argumentative” and “hotheaded” (I am not but if a woman stands up for herself she’s immediately labeled that). He said that I have an awful attitude and that men don’t find women like me attractive. He went on a whole rant on how men want to come home to a sweet woman who doesn’t give him headaches. I just laughed and said okay. A few days later he o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 12:30 PM
35

Haven’t read that book but I will! Thanks for the suggestion. It’s hilarious being told by a guy that your attitude is a turn off only for him to ask you out later. Do men even know what they want 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 11:07 AM
115

This is a question about scrotes and their thought process Over the years I had several guys admit that they think I’m “bitchy” and dislike my personality. I’ve been insulted for not allowing men to treat me like shit and demanding respect. Because of this I’ve been labelled “difficult” by some and men seem to dislike my personality. Yet these same guys ask me out and want to have sex with me. What’s up with that? When I dislike a guy I don’t want to have sex with him. Why do men want to fuck pe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 10:30 AM
12

Congratulations 🎊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 07:37 AM
23

Yeah that comment rubbed me the wrong way idk. Not sure what it’s supposed to mean really 🧐
/r/askFDS23/05/21 11:41 PM
102

I hope that was your last date. He sounds like a loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 11:30 PM
53

I was wearing a high neck, long sleeve maxi dress but scrotes will always find a way to sexualize you in their pornsick minds 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 09:58 PM
35

It wasn’t my friend. I actually found out that it was another girl I met there. Not sure why the scrote felt the need to hide this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 09:25 PM
111

wow, that’s so true! I never really thought about this but why do men make sexual jokes to embarrass you in front of others? Like they want to belittle you and put you in your “place” like you said. It’s some fucked up power play and older men do this in particular imo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 09:20 PM
216

I think you may be right tbh. He asked me that question and followed it up with a nasty, bitter comment. I blocked him straightaway. I’m tired of existing in a world with these deranged males.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 09:08 PM
91

I’m not taking it to heart but I think it sucks how women cannot even exist in public without some gross men inquiring if she does porn. Incidents like these make me even more distrustful of men than I already am 😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 08:49 PM
52

Love posts like this! I am proud of you and all women who do their own thing despite scrotes trying to keep us down. I’m also proud of myself and all of my achievements. Also really happy that I found this community that keeps me motivated to always do better for myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 08:16 PM
16

yeah you’re right, I think it’s a bit hard to tell at this point however I am willing to wait and see. Definitely don’t wanna end up with someone who’s selfish in bed.
/r/askFDS23/05/21 08:09 PM
53

Yeah, so I’m guessing this is the exact opposite? He did say that he doesn’t watch porn (anymore) but I feel like guys just say what you wanna hear.
/r/askFDS23/05/21 08:05 PM
299

I love the way she holds such a high view of men meanwhile 99% of them consider her inferior…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 02:07 PM
9

Definitely agree with your point that men think you’re down for more sexual stuff. I feel like a lot of guys assume I’m into butt stuff because I’m a mixed black girl. It’s so degrading and highlights just how much porn distorts their perception. I am not into anal and never will be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 07:19 PM
7

I know right. Strength comes in many different forms. Women and men complement each other well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 05:48 PM
16

He just kept sending me these long, ridiculous texts. He said that I’m a shitty person for ghosting him, called me all sorts of slurs (stuck up bitch, slut, whore etc), accused me of “using” him, told me that he has so many other “bitches” who want him. He even send me a video of two girls sucking his dick. What a man, I’m so impressed🙄🙄 He called me a bunch of times and whenever I blocked him he’d reach out via a different number. This stopped after about a week. **Oh and he sent me a bunch of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 05:26 PM
4

You’re welcome ❣️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 05:19 PM
21

I know guys who started balding at like 23. Tragic 🥲
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 04:43 PM
12

I don’t get why. Is it to show off, like you’re a possession or something? Men are so gross 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 03:13 PM
32

Men are stronger than us and that’s okay. Some women love to pretend they can beat up a guy twice their size - that’s just not realistic. I don’t feel inferior to men because they’re naturally stronger. They can use their strength for good, i.e. protecting women. I prefer a strong, muscular HVM who takes care of me. 🤤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 02:12 PM
97

Do men realise how creepy that sounds? I think they do and it’s just one way to play mind games/restrict our movements.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 01:37 PM
19

Yeah I recalled he was a scrote but I thought that quote was nice lol. Most philosophers were misogynistic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 01:35 PM
124

Yay 🎉 Male lurkers are mad because they’re low quality. Most are out of shape, balding, have no aspirations, cannot even cook, rely on others (especially women), are doormats, have small dicks, stink like shit, don’t even brush their teeth, don’t strive to be better, treat women like crap etc. I could go on and on but you get my point. They especially get triggered when you say size matters. Guess what scrotes? Size matters, deal with it 💁🏽‍♀️ High quality men are not bothered by FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 01:10 PM
504

Shit like this always hurts to read. Girls, please stop building up men who don’t give a shit about you. This man used her and now he’ll go find the woman of his dreams. He’s probably been texting another chick already - men don’t leave unless they’ve got another woman secured.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 11:01 AM
59

Agreed! In my experience ugly guys tend to have shitty attitudes or they’re super, painfully awkward. Some of them are straight up rude and love to power trip in situations where they have authority (i.e. police officer). Give an ugly dude a little bit of power and he’ll take out all his anger on you lol. Handsome guys tend to have much better personalities imo. They’re laidback and have positive attitudes. Of course not all of them are great but at least they’re more fun to be around. Ugly guys…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 09:58 AM
56

That’s literally my point. They literally have all the cheat codes handed to them and they’re still out of shape and useless. I love this quote by Socrates: “No man has the right to be an amateur in the matter of physical training. It is a shame for a man to grow old without seeing the beauty and strength of which his body is capable.” Get to the gym you useless scrotes! “Dad bods” are NOT attractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 09:47 AM
480

What’s sad is that doing all those 3 things isn’t enough to avoid the attention from men. I remember one time I was at the bus stop and this guy kept staring at me. I had my earphones on and he literally pulled one out to talk to me. You know what’s even creepier? He said that a girl like me shouldn’t be out alone because there are “bad men” out there. And then he asked me where I live. Literally walked back to the busier part of the street and took an Uber instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 09:37 AM
116

Brendan is 26 and doesn’t like vegetables? Thank you, next. (Also wtf is up with those names - Brandon, Brendan, Landon)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 09:20 AM
14

You deserve so much more, sis. Your standards should be super high. Make it clear that you deserve the best and nothing less then that. Some might call that bitchy, high maintenance behaviour but it worked for me. My ex is an ex for a reason but he constantly spoiled me when we were together. Bought me so many nice things before we even started dating. I never asked for anything but he knew that I’m the kind of girl who expects to be treated like a princess. If I acted like a chill, ‘cool girl’,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 09:12 AM
42

My safety always comes first. I noticed they were talking about me and took the necessary steps to keep myself safe from a guy who turned out to be nutty 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 08:32 AM
52

Totally agree with your 2nd paragraph. All men are capable of racially fetishising you but with white dudes there’s this extra level of entitlement. It’s like they genuinely think they own you and it’s so fucked up. Also some of them are seriously obsessed with penis size, it’s weird. My first bf was Asian and white guys constantly commented on our relationship and asked me why I’d be with an Asian guy. The most common thing they said was that he probably can’t satisfy me in bed because he must …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 08:29 AM
56

ugh what a creep
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 07:42 AM
55

Only porn sick men share pics of their date with their buddies. It’s degrading and nasty. I felt like some object they were rating and discussing. Why do men think everything is about them and how it makes their penises feel? It’s not flattering at all and Idc what a bunch of douchey scrotes think about me. I agree we have to vet much harder. Being constantly fetishised gets so tiring 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 07:40 AM
107

Yup, and his reaction when I blocked him was scary too. He completely freaked out. Going through his texts saved me a lot of pain in the long run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 07:31 AM
2

yeah I did 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 10:10 PM
59

dang, that is so sweet 🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 10:05 PM
10

TIL fapping over video chat gets women pregnant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 10:00 PM
283

Keanu seems sweet but scrote’s obsession with him is a bit creepy. He’s literally everything they’re not: attractive, humble, kind, interesting etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 09:51 PM
1

Btw I just got the apprentice flair. How’s that different to newbie? I read about it on mod posts but not exactly sure how they’re different edit: oh it’s gone now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 09:43 PM
3

damn right, he should go back to the kitchen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 09:07 PM
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Content like this is what makes this sub so amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 09:05 PM
14

Looking at the downvotes… your post and our comments are triggering scrotes lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 10:22 AM
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Turkish people are fine as hell imo. One of the best looking guys I’ve ever seen was Turkish🥴. He was so sweet too. God bless beautiful, kind men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 09:10 AM
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Good looking guy, I like his lips too 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 08:43 AM
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Proof that men will abandon you when you need them the most. They’re loyal to themselves first, always. They lack compassion and empathy. Women and men are not the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 08:27 AM
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Men are so good at that and they can afford to do it because their gender isn’t considered intellectually inferior
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 11:18 PM
121

Woman: hey nice shirt Man: Ooh she wants anal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 10:28 PM
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I agree 100%. I never compliment men and that’s the way it should be. I used to know a really hot guy and one day I did the mistake of complimenting his looks. That was silly because hot guys know they’re hot so there’s no point in telling them. Anyway he got waaaay too big headed and started treating me differently. Almost like he thought I was into him (I wasn’t). It was so awkward and annoying. Afterwards I started paying him less attention and at times outright ignored him. Hell I even gave …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 07:17 PM
58

Meanwhile her little “Chernobyl mutation” refuses to go down on her. Tragic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 07:03 PM
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Yup. After my “size matters” post I had several guys send me dick pics to judge their size. Insecure males are so unattractive 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 06:39 PM
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FDS angers those who believe that women are inferior to men. You can’t be anti-FDS and pro-women. Edit: As a side note - pretty sure I have stalker scrote(s) following me around Reddit and downvoting everything. Lol get a life and a bigger dick while you’re at it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 05:29 PM
6

We love to hear this. Keep it up ❣️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 12:37 PM
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Now that I think about it - we are the table and they have to bring something to us. We’re already complete and they’re merely additions to make our life even better through support.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 06:53 PM
156

Scrotes are reading this and use the tired old “what do you bring to the table” line. So predicable, so boring. I bring my presence to the table. Just being me is a blessing in your life. Men have to prove themselves to women, not the other way around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 06:19 PM
115

So a mini expedition
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 04:31 PM
112

This is so vague lmao. Explore what.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 04:25 PM
8

Screw him! Take care of your wonderful cat. I’m sure you’ll do a great job💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 04:19 PM
22

😂 I know right. Big dicks are always fun to play with even if they don’t fit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 02:39 PM
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She’s a cool girl. She doesn’t feel hurt or jealous when her man does that because she’s tough & cool. Unlike other irrational, jealous females /s She shaped herself to become the kind of girl her LVM bf likes. Low standards, always the cool chick with no feelings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 02:38 PM
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yeah. They paid me v well and I loved the kids so I thought we ended on a good note. Shortly after my last day with them she sent me that text. It took me by surprise and then I just felt angry, hurt and disgusted. I said I’m not interested and she tried to convince me so I just blocked her. *Oh and the husband reached out to me too 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 01:55 PM
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Lol he doesn’t want deep and meaningful conversations about nature and the universe, he wants to tell you about some pop science bullshit he read and force you to just listen. Men who claim they prefer deep philosophical convos know literally nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 12:49 PM
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I think we can all agree that nobody likes porn abused dicks. They look like sad, soggy noodles
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 10:36 AM
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She didn’t even want a threesome, she literally just wanted to ‘watch’ us. She said that she liked to see her husband “enjoying” younger women. How pickme can you get?? Some of these women are seriously brainwashed. The whole situation made me uncomfortable and I felt so betrayed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 10:30 AM
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This is so disgusting. It reminds me of that time I used to babysit and after I stopped working for the family the wife asked me if I’m interested in sleeping with her husband while she watches. The language she used was so objectifying and disgusting and I felt extremely uncomfortable. Women who use other women to please their husbands are horrible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 10:19 AM
21

Me too. Circumcised big dicks🤤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:55 AM
67

Wow. I am so sorry you had to experience this. Notice how he suggested that the cat should be outside the day after he got scratched? Men literally cannot accept rejection in ANY form, not even from animals. It doesn’t like me? There must be something wrong with the cat, not my aggressive, intimidating behaviour. It has to go! Anything to shift the blame. They’re never wrong, are they? What’s worse is that he knows that it’s 100% his fault, he just doesn’t care. Once again I’m so sorry you had t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:34 AM
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When they state their preferences no one judges or bothers them. When we state our preferences we get rape/death threats.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:11 AM
65

Right, pencil dicks aren’t attractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 08:59 AM
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It’s simply really. Whenever a man does something good it’s all men. Whenever a man does something bad it’s not all men, “he’s not a real man”, “he’s just a boy” etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 11:54 PM
3

He probably told her that the lasagna didn’t taste nice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 11:45 PM
3

All of these are sickening. The basketball pickme is sad. The one who made him lasagna and asked for his hand in marriage is also tragic (I bet he never cooked anything for her). The 2nd one is another tragedy - how the hell are you asking, as a woman, “would you have me as your wife”?? But that scrote comment about ghosting her is especially fucked up. Wtf, why are men so demonic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 11:41 PM
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I got the same PM…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 10:47 PM
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FDS is the best thing I’ve found on the internet. I’m so grateful for this amazing space and I never knew there are so many likeminded women. Wish I could meet all of you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 10:44 PM
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Scrotes hate this sub because they know they’re not high value men. They’re insecure and get 0 attention from women irl. I assume any scrote who PMs me is a porn addict with limp wrists and a weak jawline
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 10:03 PM
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Exactly this. Women are pressured to look perfect and this leads to all sorts of trauma. In sharp contrast the vast majority of men have no excuse to be out of shape. For one, they lose weight and gain muscle A LOT faster than us. Secondly, they can work out in the gym freely without getting harassed by creeps making them feel unsafe. Thirdly, they don’t have to do house chores, looking after kids etc so they have way more free time than women. All they have to do is stop jerking off to porn 24/…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 09:10 PM
13

You deserve it 💞🎀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 08:15 PM
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Yeah I don’t feel bad either. It’s the smug “I’m pragmatic” attitude that annoys me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 06:55 PM
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Absolutely! And what they value is whatever directly benefits them because they’re inherently selfish. They’ll spend 10k on a gaming system and VR porn but wouldn’t buy their wife of 10 years flowers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 06:13 PM
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Lol they’re so sensitive, it’s unsettling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 06:11 PM
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I’m 22 and old men disgust me. Most of them have shitty hairlines, huge bellies, unhealthy looking skin, out of shape etc. Usually their breath stinks and they have poor hygiene. I feel like they think young women are into them so they’re waaaay too confident. I literally feel so uncomfortable when an old scrote tries to hit on me lmao 🤢 with his wrinkly dust covered dick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 06:00 PM
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I’m still getting PMs, yikes. I really hit a nerve with this one didn’t I
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 05:55 PM
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The description of his low budget wedding made me sick lmao. Your friends can take photos with their iPhones, really?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 05:49 PM
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This is so tragic. How has being “awfully pragmatic” benefitted her over 10+ years? This has I’m not like other girls vibes, like she’s not a “irrational female” or w/e
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 05:44 PM
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dang you’re so right. It’s a pathetic state for a man to be in yet they seem so proud of it. Wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 08:04 AM
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We love to see it sis 🎉🎀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 07:22 AM
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They hate single moms because they want to punish women for daring to believe they can exist without a bf/husband. They think she should be miserable and unhappy for being “unable to keep a man” (that’s how scrotes view it) so happy single moms infuriate them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 07:18 AM
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That is wonderful 😪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 08:14 PM
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Fuck them people and spoil yourself, sis. You don’t need kids and a husband to live in a big house. You’re a complete person on your own and deserve whatever kind of home you desire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 08:09 PM
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Men hate women, period. We will never be enough because in their eyes we were born incomplete and defective. Men only love men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 08:06 PM
2

Mmh yes 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 06:07 PM
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I’m new to Reddit and didn’t know this was an option. Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 04:22 PM
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I’m super new on this sub and got a rape threat after my first post…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 04:12 PM
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Beautiful. Never lower your standards 💚
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 01:44 PM
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how are we even the same species as them. They’re so disgusting 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 10:19 AM
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I’m new here but made some posts that already triggered scrotes. I received some gross/violent PMs. Why do they think that’s gonna change my mind?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 09:59 AM
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Poor diet and lack of exercise. They are walking festering pieces of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 09:58 AM
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A guy going 50/50 on a date is literally the biggest insult
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 08:29 AM
132

Someone tell that dude that being 6’5 is not a personality
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 09:15 PM
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Women having standards = “cringe” Men expecting women to meet impossible standards = “it’s just a preference” or “men are biologically hardwired to like xyz” Btw those losers in the comments are angry at her because they all know she would reject them lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 07:15 PM
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Lmao this is amazing. #2 is great
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 06:15 PM
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Most men are simply not attractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 05:34 PM
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Men need women more than women need men. That’s always been the case and that’s why they trick us into believing that we need them to be complete
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 02:16 AM
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