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83

Yep. I've been with multiple men who were far more abusive than anything your average man says his worst relationship was. They could never begin to understand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/22 03:41 AM
75

Right! How are we femcels? Many of us could have a man in our bed within the week if we wanted to, we're just sick of being treated like we're worthless and crazy 24/7.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/22 03:39 AM
3

Surely you're being deliberately obtuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/22 03:34 AM
62

He can tell whether or not society is on the decline entirely based on whether or not his dick gets hard when he looks at a magazine, hilarious. Seems that's the bulk of male issues, but WE'RE the ones who are unstable and emotional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/22 08:21 PM
984

He's bad at even pretending to care
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/22 04:23 AM
24

Yep. I set all the sliders to be as broad as possible but still only got like 57 percent. Really makes you think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 08:49 AM
30

They know they're out eyeballing others/cheating. They figure that if they're doing it she is too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 08:37 AM
17

I searched for stuff like cloth diapers and other such things for my baby and made the mistake of scrolling too much, eventually wound up in adult baby fetish territory. :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 11:31 AM
18

Real talk. My aunt clearly brings home a lot of money. She's got a beautiful house with a spiral staircase, two kids in expensive private schools and playing sports, gets new cars every 2-3 years (which might not be impressive to a lot of people but the rest of the family is dirt poor to the point of eating ramen every day). But if you aren't immediate family you won't know what she does or just how much she brings home. Bragging about having money is a great way to be targeted. There's always s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 11:13 AM
29

First time I heard this statistic was from a sheriff herself. She also told me that about half of her calls were for domestic violence too. That judge doesn't get it! It's much worse than she thinks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 07:00 PM
107

I wish I'd found FDS back when I was 19 and entering into an extremely abusive relationship. I mean, I knew it was here but I was led into thinking that any male critical spaces are just full of hateful people. I didn't vibe with liberal feminism back then and thought it was the only kind of feminism left on earth. So I turned to conservatism. After the relationship ended my own personal views of men changed, I found on a visit here at 22 that everyone was right. Radical feminism was right here …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 03:35 PM
79

I read only a few tweets but that was a few too many. Absolutely vile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 02:17 PM
23

Not even hiding that they see women as livestock.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 09:12 PM
295

It's a vulgar way of saying someone is really good at sucking dick. 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 06:29 PM
59

My grandma asked not to be buried next to her husband too. The plot had been all set up with her name on it and everything but she instead asked to be cremated. She got her wish. I remember I saw her stone there as a very small child. When asked if the man buried there was Grandpa (he died before I was born), she said "not everyone has a grandpa and that's okay. That stone has my name on it but it's not mine." He was her second abusive marriage and she was glad to have him gone. Her story always…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 04:49 AM
3

I had an ex once who had regular night terrors. He'd swing at me, kick, and flail in his sleep. Did he get help for this? Of course not. Snoring though, man even in my pickme days I couldn't do it. Makes me MURDEROUS with rage when I'm trying to sleep and have to try to sleep over a damned chainsaw going off all night.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 05:25 AM
76

Oh my God, right? I'd be DOOMED.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 05:14 AM
2

While you're at it, disable RedditCares. They'll look for every method to reach you, even if it means reporting you as suicidal to Reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 09:54 PM
86

Missionary gets such a bad rap. If you're super in love with the person it's actually amazing. Much nicer on the knees too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 05:28 PM
33

Matt is who I'm going for!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 10:17 AM
65

This is art.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 09:43 AM
214

Men are allowed to ask for whatever they want. They want a woman who goes to the gym 5 days a week, does an hour a day's worth of prep before leaving the house, coordinates outfits every day, pays for various beauty treatments when they themselves roll out of bed, sniff-check a holey tee shirt, spray some Axe, and do nothing else for themselves. If they can get away with that shit then women can set their standards wherever they damn well please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 06:50 AM
132

I know a skinny chaser who's well over 500 lbs. He talks all the time about how he doesn't like "fat chicks". The fucking audacity. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 07:16 PM
68

If you hate your situation and you have the means to leave then GO. Don't keep touching the hot burner. Guys go nuts over you. Word gets out that you're single and they'll line up begging for a chance. Be as picky as you want, because you can and because you deserve it. And also? Dude, you're bi. Girls who hit on you know that. Take a few of them up on it instead of crying over some asocial asshole who calls you his girlfriend and then acts like you don't exist for weeks at a time. Oh, and you f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 04:15 PM
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Hell nah. A man's comfort with my period (or in this case lochia) is something I take into account very early in. If you're going to be such a weak, spineless little shit about my vagina then you haven't earned the privilege of sex with it. Hopefully this poor thing wises up soon too. :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 03:14 PM
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Pumpkins, watermelons, Pringles cans stuffed with jelly, stuffed animals, let's not forget the video with the catfish, lol men got no damn business acting superior over what young girls have done in a pinch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 10:06 PM
329

Definitely not a man who's "going his own way" lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 09:59 PM
97

And men will stick their dicks in Hot Pockets, what's his point?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 09:47 PM
154

I went one year single after my abusive narcissist ex, in a state I'd never been to. This ex had completely warped my mind so badly that I couldn't even speak unless spoken to for a whole month after leaving! x Learned to be comfortable alone, that a guy's just there to add to my life, not to complete it. x Turned down so much male attention that I realized how empowering "no" really was. x Embraced my hobbies and amassed a pretty impressive retro gaming and old, obscure tech collection. Explore…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 09:54 PM
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It took me a long time to realize it, but it was my ex's attraction to minors that led to my OSFED in the first place. He wanted me smaller and smaller, was always looking at smaller and smaller girls, gaslit me into believing I only had value if I was under 100 lbs despite lipedema and making that impossible, told me I hit "the wall" and was ugly because I was too old (I was 18-21, just 2 years younger than him wtf). Now, I know what to avoid. If he's into women with eating disorders (or even j…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 06:23 PM
52

I already dislike Activision Blizzard as a company because of their practices. Sadly this doesn't surprise me at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 07:20 PM
106

This is so double standard!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 01:53 PM
9

My lipedema has absolutely ruined my self esteem growing up but reading positive things by others who also have it means so much ugh 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 12:04 PM
98

And in some places this shit is so normalized you can't even mention it without someone interjecting with "mY mOm AnD dAd WeRe 15 AnD 25 wHeN tHeY gOt ToGeThEr AnD tHeY'rE hApPy!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 11:44 AM
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Pick me boys crack me up. If I find out a guy is one I never let him hear the end of it. Give his ass something to cry about. Is it mean? I mean sure, probably but if you're actually that mentally ill you wouldn't weaponize it like that. Easily my biggest male peeve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 06:46 AM
214

Derailing, so we can't call them out because we're busy defending ourselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 02:07 AM
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There's a reason "fat", "ugly", and "lonely" are some of the first things they call us... But their sub is about being unable to find a single woman who will even look at them and ours is the complete opposite. I don't think they get that because they can't handle the idea of people like us not giving into their entitlement. ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 04:29 PM
43

They want me to be a perfect fucking fantasy that changes with their kinks but God forbid I ask for a man who vacuums every now and again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 01:12 PM
39

And you get the whole bed to yourself, freedom to watch whatever you want without him on his damn Xbox all day, being able to get up and do whatever whenever... ahh bliss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 01:06 PM
52

And don't just put 3 in 1 into the palm of your hand, slap it on, and rinse either! Use a washcloth, a loofah, something with a lil grit that'll actually take the gunk off. Can't believe this needs to be said either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 12:19 PM
51

When will my heart learn that's what I'm really after. Women are amazing. Such a shame straight men are so much easier to find than bi or gay women in my area. :'(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 12:14 PM
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Down to do cute self care stuff like face masks, shopping for candles, getting fancy coffee drinks with me, maybe wearing matching outfits. Offers to make dinner and being good at cooking. When it's my turn, showing a genuine appreciation for what I've made (I work hard on improving my skills so gas me up a little!). Loves cats, even when they're annoying. Likes going outside and enjoying nature. Gives thoughtful gifts, sometimes unprompted, and enjoys getting them too. Open to new experiences, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 12:09 PM
11

The terrible editing too like wtf, clearly being distracting isn't what they're trying to prevent because I can't take my eyes off of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 11:33 AM
14

It's because they don't want women to leave the kitchen. Can't even go outside apparently because if something happens it'll be our fault for some reason.. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 11:29 AM
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if a guy can see it, you're giving him permission to touch it Aight, so you're cool with men touching all over your face, hair, and hands? Sure hope a foot fetishist doesn't catch you wearing sandals... Or are we all wearing garbage bags with tiny pinholes for seeing out of now?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 11:26 AM
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I was definitely a bit worried about the lurkers but I figured it would benefit our members more. Many of those guys spend time on parts of the internet where privacy is preached heavily already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 11:14 AM
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https://myactivity.google.com/ Go here on the account in question and be amazed at the information they store (and while you're at it, turn yours off!) https://www.google.com/maps/timeline Google knows where he disappeared to last Saturday. https://www.cnet.com/how-to/find-all-the-apps-youve-ever-downloaded-on-your-phone/ Or you can see what apps he's downloaded. Is he at your house, using your wifi? Incognito mode isn't so clever after all. https://kb.netgear.com/24224/How-do-I-view-the-activit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 08:50 AM
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Every time I've had a hunch about cheating I've been right. Every single time. One time, no provocation or signs or anything, I decided to check a guy's gallery on his phone and found a nude video of his ex in the Snapchat folder. You start listening to your gut, it'll only get sharper until you start feeling like some sort of psychic. That voice in your head knows exactly what's up. Listen to her, not the bad faith actors trying to brainwash you into thinking you're crazy for not blindly throwi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 08:29 AM
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That's why I'm so standoffish towards men I don't know well, in the hopes they'll lose interest. Saying no is really difficult for reasons they'll never understand. Say it to someone who's unstable enough and you don't know what could happen. I'm actually really shy and timid and having to change my whole presentation in public just to stay safe absolutely sucks. :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 06:43 PM
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Men can go on about how we gotta have flat bellies, perky DD cups, absolutely no odor, do squats, have clear skin, not get older than 18-25, dress and act like like Barbie dolls, but as soon as women have ONE (1) preference all the sudden we're judgemental and shallow!! Amazing. The gall!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 07:56 AM
47

This is the third year of me putting my foot down and man do I feel free. Everyone knows I won't put up with any bull. For once, I'm the one they're talking about when they say "she's gonna kick your/his ass". I'm not agreeable, but you know what? My boundaries are respected. Abusers run for the hills. Be a "hard-ass", or firm but kind, or whatever you want to be but put your foot down. If you're not ready yet, that's okay. I'm actually extremely timid, physically frail, and quiet. Didn't start …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 10:35 AM
26

At this point in my life, I'll take lab grown as long as he treats me better than the "genuine" ones do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 05:26 PM
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'Cause he spends it all on weed, video games, or making his shitty car sound as obnoxiously loud as possible!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 05:25 PM
14

Exactly. It's more than looking, it's consuming. It's using women as a tool, something you use to accomplish a task and nothing more. You don't feel real love towards your car keys, your toilet plunger, or your toaster so why would you love the thing you just use to ejaculate? It's been proven too, that porn reduces the grey matter in your brain. Makes your dick useless too. Makes things other than being a disgusting creep impossible to even think about, let alone enjoy. I don't want some automa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 11:28 AM
35

What is it with tech guys and being pedos!! I get most are social outcasts but even the ones that aren't seem like they are too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 02:22 PM
2

It's all fun and games until you get a clot, boys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 01:33 AM
14

Same! I read somewhere that FDS was some hive of scorned women discussing ways to score free meals from men. Naturally I had to come check it out. Seems like it's happening an awful lot. Keep advertising, neckbeards! This sub is changing lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 01:07 AM
196

Remember to get the recently deleted folder too so he can't restore them later!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 03:54 AM
178

That's what I do. Yeah, it's given me a reputation but I don't necessarily think it's a bad one. I feel way more confident and it shows. I don't repress my feelings as often and people treat me with more respect and interest. Other women seem more comfortable around me than they used to as well. Anyone who hasn't tried it, do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 08:38 PM
30

Right? They're just pissed that dick is free and easy. We can be as picky as we want (which is what this sub is about!) while they can't get ANY women to pay attention to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 02:23 AM
31

You can have a sex drive without wanting to watch videos of women getting beaten, raped, and humiliated for money wtf. That first guy is such a gaslighting little shit! You absolutely can find men who don't watch porn. It's pretty rare but I can set my standards wherever I please (and my guy now doesn't watch it, for reasons that go beyond his dick, doesn't want kids, does chores as soon as he sees they need done sooo it's possible).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 08:27 PM
4

Got one for genital herpes cream that I keep seeing over and over again. I don't have that, have never Googled it, I don't know why I'm being shown it! Not male focused but still annoying. Is that not how ads on here are generated or something?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 08:08 AM
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They say that but men who open up and listen are the only ones who give me good sex!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 11:58 PM
3

Like we're some kind of amphibian!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 05:57 PM
5

My town doesn't even have regular bars. All we got is Walmart and a few fast food places lol. Part of levelling up is me getting out of here for good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 05:56 PM
11

It is hard sadly. Especially where I live (rural West Virginia). :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 06:10 AM
56

Some legitimately do. I've known men who have gotten women pregnant who don't even know!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 04:39 AM
39

It's a good thing I'm bisexual is all I can say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 03:37 AM
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Can't find the clit/don't think it's real Think 100% of women orgasm by being jackhammered dry for ten minutes straight or via agressive anal Think periods shouldn't even be an issue because you can "just hold it" Think UTIs are STDs Think if a vagina doesn't smell like birthday cake flavored Bang it's because she never showers and has diseases I can go on and on about men's lack of sexual education and complete deadfaced stupidity about women and their bodies but these are just a few.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 03:22 AM
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And the characters you're supposed to like are ones that are designed to be "hot". It really says everything you need to know. That realization really made me relax though. I thought it was due to some deep seated misogynistic feelings for years too. I couldn't enjoy women on TV or in movies, and don't even get me started on games. Cartoons are nailing them though, on the plus side.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 08:33 PM
67

Oh man, yeah. Red velvet, refrigerated, cream cheese icing... that's better than sex right there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 08:14 PM
70

The whole "settling for a beta" thing always cracks me up because the men saying it are usually single. Imagine sucking so bad that no one will even settle for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 05:27 AM
34

Absolutely. When my then 17 year old sister got with a 24 year old man our mom was the first to warn him not to show up at the house again if he liked his head intact. The only parents who allow it do so because they're abusive, were groomed when they were younger, or are predators too. I'm completely convinced of that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 08:31 AM
40

"He looks so much younger than he is!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 08:22 AM
7

My comments keep getting removed too for being "low quality". I don't completely know why, probably mass reports? It's frustrating, and it's always several at once too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 07:37 AM
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This became my rule number one for two years now and I don't regret it for a second. If it ain't yours too you're missing out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 07:35 AM
45

And even if a few of us are we're just playing men at their own game.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 07:27 AM
83

There's no way he can get even the worst pickmes on earth to do this shit lmao. Maybe one or two but not multiple. He's gotta be high as absolute dog tits if he thinks this story is even remotely believable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 07:25 AM
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But FDS is tooootally the same as those people guys! Reddit said so. 🙄 I cannot wait for that group to burn to the ground. Redpill men are absolutely disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 07:22 AM
17

Congrats and welcome! That's the magic of this community, it makes you see the world and yourself differently. It opens your eyes to the truth that you really aren't crazy and that you deserve the best. 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 07:05 PM
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Point 3 would have saved me years of pain and suffering. And if the woman who followed me knew it she'd be better off too. If every ex he's had was abusive, then he'll tell the next woman you were abusive too. Don't fall into that trap!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 06:56 PM
3

It never stops! It fucking blows. There isn't even a good reason women are expected to do it either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 06:52 PM
6

Lol right!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 05:12 PM
30

Kid me was just as nontraditionally feminine as I am now. Mostly played with the local boys, preferred boy's clothing, loved to wrestle, liked tinkering and burning stuff. I even tried to learn to pee standing up. The tiny, insulated little Lutheran community in Illinois I grew up in thought it was awful and that I was some kind of demon. Adults always told me that no man would want me, that it wasn't Godly or whatever, that I needed to start learning how to dress and to stop with the toilet jok…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 04:58 PM
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As if we're stupid and don't know more big, fancy words than them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 04:41 PM
9

As if rock stars have a reputation for being great people to date lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 12:40 PM
13

She can have mine, he dries his ass crack (sweaty or showered) out in front of the one fan in the room. While she's at it, take the one that threatened to torture and murder me after I dumped him for cheating on me with a 16 year old, or maybe the one that's still so hung up on me that he bought my favorite kind of car, listens to my favorite bands, and still keeps all of my letters and drawings from high school in the passenger side visor despite ditching me for another girl 7 years ago (I know…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 12:32 PM
16

Absolutely. When my youngest brother was younger, he was a better man then most men I've met. He'd get the door for you, come hang out with you when you were sad or thought you were lonely, even bought family members lunch/dinner/Dairy Queen Blizzards with his allowance money (which we slipped back into his little wrestling themed wallet when he wasn't paying attention).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 12:15 PM
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Pretty much NO ONE sleeps with a non-relative friend of the preferred sex without at least thinking about them in a romantic or sexual context. I had an ex that loved pulling that shit, including kicking me out of our bed, making me sleep on the couch so his friend could sleep in it with him! Took all the liquor I had (as well as the company of our old roommate who was extremely pissed too) not to bust that door down and threaten them both at knifepoint but I wanted to seem "cool" and "not insec…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 11:55 AM
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Good. If women having rights is such a bad thing, then we don't need you anyway lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 02:32 AM
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We get these stories all the time, including me. FDS saves lives. I hope when Reddit finally cuts us down (and you know they will) we can keep that momentum moving. Glad to meet you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 03:57 PM
16

That guy is such a dumb asshole that I don't even want to believe that was real lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 03:54 PM
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My dogs were so bad about that growing up. One was a little Chihuahua and he'd always find a way, the other a Mastiff who could open doors. Had to take that trash out constantly or they'd start dragging that shit out in front of guests! Still solved that problem for free, no stupid gloves needed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 03:52 PM
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Can confirm. Every guy I've been with who's used that filter is a special kind of moron. I mean, it's a kind of stupid most people never even witness. Also, that filter means they have a Snapchat, and you know what that means (they spend all day touching themselves).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 07:05 AM
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That's what I was just wondering. I avoid Tik Tok so I don't know. It's a stupid replacement at any rate. Sounds really childish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 08:48 PM
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Or. OR! I could dump his ass because it's not my responsibility to coddle and "heal" his issues. He doesn't respect women? Plenty of other guys out there. Time to bounce. I choose what my dealbreakers are and where my boundaries are. No one else gets to tell me what to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 08:29 PM
29

They will go as low as they think they can get away with. Every time. It's vile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 04:49 PM
69

Seriously. And if there's any amount of ambiguity or doubt, just... don't? Like you're not a victim just because you want to stick your dick into whatever you want without any effort or consequence. Teens under 18 DEFINITELY look and act like kids, and if you're attracted to that then you deserve to get put on the registry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 04:48 PM
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That explains why my brother went completely bald by 18. My dad, not as much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 03:21 PM
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She's way too pretty for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 03:18 PM
6

I wear men's clothing mostly, tee shirts and jeans. I just don't like the way a lot of women's clothing fits. It's like it was designed to make you feel as insecure as possible. It's not like it's boring or low effort though, I bring in a lot of other stuff I like: vintage sweaters, flannels, boots, etc. My hair isn't very short, it's the length of your average pixie cut but I get it done at a barber. I let it grow out a few months until I feel it gets too unruly, and weirdly enough people seem …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 03:59 PM
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men do not like women who... Then why do I still consistently get male attention? I do basically everything I've been told not to do (I'm masculine to the point of being read as male 95% of the time, not particularly warm, nurturing, or bubbly, have a postpartum belly that I don't obsess over getting rid of, am open and very opinionated about radfem topics) and I still have to fight 'em off with a bat. It's almost like they really DON'T care if women age, don't shave their legs, are over 120 lbs…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 11:22 PM
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I'm sure I'm screenshotted somewhere. Doesn't matter, won't change my opinion. If me treating men even remotely like men treat women makes them so upset they have to seek validation from strangers to cope then awesome. Just words, snowflakes. Don't be so sensitive. Freedom of speech, opinions, deal with it and stop being so hormonal. People might think you're crazy. ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 04:13 PM
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It does mean you get reported to RedditCares (lol riiight) or you'll have your comments mass reported more often though. They're so desperate to get under someone's skin, anybody's!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 01:11 AM
3

Not overweight but I do fluctuate like crazy. I'm 5'4" and fluctuate between 120 and 150 lbs. I have certain bodily "things" (lipedema, diastasis recti, loose skin, deep stretch marks) that mean that I'm proportioned and overall shaped in a way that's just not what comes to mind when you think of someone who is conventionally attractive, you know? Does not change the attention I get at all. Dudes who love the whole "thicc" thing have been all over me ever since the lipedema first showed up at 13…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 07:28 AM
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Sex work isn't feminist. Point blank.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 08:29 PM
6

Until I do it, then I'm a "b*tch".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 08:23 PM
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My ex did that too. His favorite "joke" was always "I'm gonna go hang out with my new girlfriend now." Knocked it off when I started responding back stuff like "What's her number? Maybe we can go out to lunch, figure out how to convince you to lose that haircut" or "Damn, you got a woman to like you? She's gonna wise up quick when she sees what a catch I am." It was really effective when he was with his friends. They just wanted to make fun of someone. When I flipped his script they'd get off of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 07:15 PM
13

What double fucking standard? Every man I know could benefit from some color correction, some concealer, a little highlight. Women aren't playing some exclusive little game here. Men are so pressed about makeup but they can do it too. They can do the whole shebang. Put on some moisturizer, cuticle oil, exfoliate. It's clear they aren't actually interested in attracting women because if they were they'd know that we love hygiene. That rant aside, any man who thinks a woman looks like the thumbnai…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 02:02 PM
46

Access to our what??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 12:00 AM
7

Lol or they'll mass report comments as being low quality or spam or something. So desperate to show off their fragility while insisting that they're the alphas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 12:05 AM
257

We have access to everything that people claims causes violence. I picked up violent video games, bands and genres school shooters have been known to enjoy, grew up in a rural community that was lax about guns around kids, access to the internet, was into creepypasta, all of that from an age that's honestly way too young, and nothing. Even had the past that would make someone feel the need to act out violently. None of my female peers who had similar interests, even the most terminally online an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 02:32 PM
238

This. Last guy I was with was with, I made sure off the bat to show him how to please me. He was eager to do it. As a result our chemistry was just awesome and because I was fulfilled, I gave it right back. For the first time in my life, I enjoyed sex. I initiated it. Naturally when the next guy came around I expected the same. I put up with way too much from men in the past. Never letting someone who doesn't know where the clit is see me naked again, because I call the shots now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 05:58 AM
167

Considering people are trying to force the general public into thinking loli and other animated CP content is victimless and just a kink, I'd say it isn't long. We're already supposed to be cool with men creeping on 15-18 year olds after all. :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 01:50 PM
286

I have a dick stomping kink that I'm VERY attached to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 01:45 PM
92

The only good sex tourist is a dead sex tourist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 07:45 AM
35

Hey, I might be fat but you were the one who messaged me first! 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 06:11 PM
64

Yeah, that'll teach women to be heavily pregnant in public! You should be heavily pregnant and barefoot in the kitchen instead! Or better yet, just not exist outside of porn and strip clubs. Everything is womens' fucking fault, I swear. If another man, one who was bigger, stronger, and felt entitled to other men decided to victimize him and he couldn't fight back it would be a completely different story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 04:11 PM
122

I know they do because I've had friends of guys I've been with try to hit me up before. He knows they do too because he lusts over his friends' girlfriends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 04:05 PM
13

Not an exact equivalent but I love calling dudes "Kyle".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 03:45 PM
105

Yeah, they just want money! Every one of them liked it! Think of how traumatized those poor powerful men are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 05:14 AM
70

Music, videos, games, I'm hyperaware of all of it. Basically stopped watching anime except for shows that I know 100 percent beforehand that they handle women and girls appropriately. AAA games are basically out of the picture. I avoid TV, social media (curated feeds and content on accounts I do have), movies, top 40 artists. Exceptions exist of course. It's been hard but I find I compare myself to others less and am overall happier for it. There's a gap in my ability to relate to others but as …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 05:08 AM
337

Crazy, bitchy, hormonal, hateful, controlling. Old hag, nag, ball and chain. Women, am I right? Men can be anything they wanna be but they can't be responsible or self aware. If we're mad, it's our fault. If they're mad, it's our fault even if we were neither there nor involved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 05:01 AM
234

As if guys don't stomp their feet and cry over wearing condoms in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 02:58 AM
88

Gotta get me one of them. My dad's like that and it was always so much fun to "conspire" with him as a kid. Still remember the trail gear he got her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 10:46 AM
26

Not to mention that you can get an STD without having sex. Tanning salons, hotel sheets, sharing drinks with friends, kissing relatives, not even just cheaters. Always test because you really don't know!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 05:25 AM
107

I followed men's opinions on sex for years. It led to me having absolutely zero sex drive, zero interest in sexual activity, and the complete inability to find people sexually attractive until I was 22! No development through childhood or teens, nothing. I genuinely believed that I was broken, alien. I was programmed to think that the only way I could be was like women on TV or the people men openly fantasize about. I know I'm not the only one either. It took me completely removing men from the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 05:13 AM
12

I wish I could wear heels too. My balance sucks for a different reason (autism) so if I want to be taller I have to settle for comfy shoes with tall soles ;_;
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 05:27 PM
23

That's what I've been telling my younger sister! Dudes will stick their dicks in Hot Pockets, pumpkins, Pringles cans lined with gelatin and plastic bags, his attention ain't special.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 02:00 PM
192

Seriously. I caught someone eying me up at the grocery store just a few days ago! And as soon as he was done, he just gave me "the look" complete with head tilt and lip biting. It was really uncomfortable and definitely didn't seem like some kind of mean joke. I was in a pair of jeans that were too big, a baggy Pokémon tee shirt, and a men's Dickies jacket. Hadn't showered since the day before, no makeup, haven't had a haircut since last July, I stand like a guy, like there isn't a sexy bone in …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:35 AM
221

Many people with EDs watch her too. People I know felt encouraged when she began eating more. They saw she could still eat and even gain weight but still look great. These male fitness Youtubers were never known for their perspective though. Every take they have is absolutely moronic (such as claiming that taking any form of medication while you're young means you're fat and out of shape). How people can listen to that garbage is beyond me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:08 AM
19

Everyone treats me different. I'm 24 and am usually guessed as being much younger and taken less seriously. I came over to my boyfriend's friend's house and in the car his older sister seemed really cautious about me. She was asking questions about, like, who I stay with and if I'm being treated okay at home (really bad part of the country). I was confused but didn't think much of it until I told her a bit about myself, that I moved out here, take care of myself, and have lived on my own for 5 y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 08:55 PM
161

I've learned my lesson about people like that. I cut off anyone the FIRST time I hear them defend a sex offender. A man I once called my stepdad repeatedly tried to debate age of consent with me just out of the blue. "Oh the girls who this happens to are being manipulative, they just want money. The boys, I'd have killed to be them when I was their age." I for the most part ignored this. I was adopted by a different family, was 21-23 years old, lived on my own for years, barely even knew this ma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 10:31 AM
10

Man's biggest fear is a hurt ego.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 09:47 AM
7

Any expert worth their salt would recognize what's wrong with relationships like that, ESPECIALLY someone who claims one of their focuses is on trauma (specifically sexual abuse). Not a lot is known about his personal life, but I wouldn't be surprised if he's okay with stuff like that because of skeletons in his own closet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 10:57 PM
11

"Yeah, I'm a pedophile. Everyone knows I am. But I'm untouchable because I'm Woody Allen." Said it point blank and people still think he's innocent. Christ.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 10:16 PM
14

The people defending Woody Allen in the comments are pissing me off. Why did I even bother to click that. Talking about false memories, brainwashing, everything being a-ok as soon as someone turns 18, I could just scream. He's a PREDATOR. It's okay to call out and demand consequences for celebrities. They aren't delicate little baby kittens that need protection, in fact their status makes it easier for them when they're in legal hot water. Call him what he is, a danger to society, and clear him …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 10:14 PM
50

My thoughts exactly. They whine that women get lighter sentences for this shit, then go home and jack off to videos of teachers taking advantage of students. They write songs about it, write creepy comments about it, and tell victims they're sooo lucky and that they should feel like "real men". Somehow this is women's fault that men fetishise male rape victims. Right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 09:45 PM
128

Statistics don't lie. Spent a lot of time in foster care and psych programs as a kid, and as an adult I find I attract people with really bad pasts too. I've heard so many stories. Every woman and girl I know who's been sexually victimized as a child was hurt by a man. Every man and boy I know, also a man. And they're disturbingly common. Chills me to my fucking core. :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 08:47 PM
5

I definitely think he's a sociopath too. He's textbook. Luckily I was able to repair the DS! I still have it, and I dumped the asshole three years ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 04:05 AM
183

AND if they were really the "visual" sex they wouldn't keep mistaking grown women for kids or even the wrong gender (and vice versa). 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 09:28 PM
113

My ex sucked about that shit. He'd break my coffee mugs, because he knew how much I loved them. I had an adorable one with Rudolph on it that was a Christmas gift from a longtime friend and a vintage one with a rainbow print that he knew was my favorite. I also collect My Little Pony and Nintendo stuff (it looks classier than it sounds, promise). When I busted him for cheating on me AGAIN one time, he smashed my brand new galaxy print 3DS XL against his desk. He once beheaded one of my favorite …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 08:35 PM
302

"Chill out. It's not that serious. You're so hormonal." "It's a joke not a dick, you don't have to take it so hard." "You good, dude? You're acting crazy. People are watching." Some of my favorites. Obviously only used when I know I'm safe from harm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 03:55 AM
165

Though in a different context (dad went to jail, mom was neglectful) I can relate to having to be the one to take care of the family like that. It really messes you up. I mean, for some you get a good work ethic but for a lot of the rest of us it's a trauma that's so hard to recover from. I grieve the childhood I lost every single day. People who do that to their kids due to a lack of self awareness absolutely suck. It makes me mad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 03:35 AM
8

Congratulations on your successful weight loss! I know that couldn't have been easy. That's a procedure I hope to get one day too. I've only lost 70 lbs but the loose skin is enough to interfere with the sorts of things people really take for granted. Stuff like that is a fantastic example of plastic surgery being used for good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 03:02 AM
11

Definitely girth but hands are more important to me. Can't be too big or have fingers that are too short. Gotta be soft, no chewed up skin. Gotta know what they're doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 02:49 AM
13

What a sick creep. I don't even want to know what ages they first met at.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 10:41 PM
28

This prick really thinks he's not publicly proving her point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 09:59 PM
35

God yeah. My English Mastiff would have noticed and deleted him from existence before I even noticed he was there. She lives with my parents and baby sister now, and they couldn't possibly be in better hands. On the subject of big, protective dogs I really should have listened to her opinions on the guys I brought home growing up. The ones she barked at were always the abusive ones, and the ones she'd take it easier on were not. Like a sixth sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 01:03 AM
13

West Virginia: extreme misogynists (we're talking beating women and refusing to let them speak unless spoken to), no education past middle school, no job in sight, think WV is the only rural place in America. Meth. So much meth. They're all on fucking meth. Only point I can give them is that they don't try to convince you they're someone else--they're proud to admit they're narrow minded, racist, violent monsters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 11:30 PM
90

Oh, they absolutely did. Always stood up for me. They'd sit down on me down on the couch and make him wait on me. "Hey, you want some ice cream? (Ex), go get this girl some ice cream!" "Don't interrupt her!" "Actually, she was right. Don't be an asshole." They would not under any circumstances let his mom into their house (they were his paternal grandparents) after they found out she'd been inflicting her own form of abuse on me. I miss them so much. They were wonderful people. The grandma was t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 10:04 PM
137

He gave me a "gift". It was a coat his ex forgot in his trunk. He forced me to wear it, said I should take it as me replacing her. He told me it was so romantic, should have been sooo reassuring. Instead it was humiliating. I cried every time I had to go out in it. His grandparents found out he did that and went out and bought me the most gorgeous full-body length, duck down winter coat for Christmas though. There's good in this world after all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 08:06 PM
137

Many don't even wait until teens. I've been told repeatedly that I look much younger than my age, and I began getting catcalled as early as age 10-12. I'd take a 20 minute walk to the gas station with my sister who's 3 years younger for some candy or a fountain drink and clearly middle aged men would roll down their window and scream things like "take your tops off!" or detailed descriptions of what they'd do to us sexually. It stopped as soon as I started to pass for an older teenager. Absolute…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 01:20 PM
52

That's how I got here. Read a post, thought "aight, bet", after a few posts began a sigh of relief as I realized that I really am not alone in all the things I noticed about men and the world around me. Applied the principles and began to enjoy the benefits. At this point I was 23 and considered myself a staunch antifeminist from the age of 14. I could not be convinced by anyone. I was a trans man, thought sticking with men and denouncing my existence as a woman would make me safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 12:05 PM
52

That's another plus I forgot to mention--pees in the toilet (litter box in their case)!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 11:28 AM
140

Immune to many diseases, eats pests, avoids confrontation, they clean up spilled garbage, like they're already kinder and more responsible than every man I've ever dated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 11:21 AM
141

I dunno, I would need to find out a little more about the guy. Make sure he's not a pseudointellectual trying to con me into thinking he cares about things other than sex. Men who like books are definitely out there of course.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 06:33 AM
59

Need me a man who gives me all the money so I can decide what it's spent on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 06:29 AM
233

If treating men 10% of the way they treat women is "toxic" then I must be the grossest person on earth. Seriously. How the fuck can you be so socially and emotionally stunted that THIS is bad compared to what men do to us. There are whole entertainment genres dedicated to humiliating, torturing, and demeaning us (porn, rap music, country music, etc). Every adult comedy movie makes us the butt of the joke, every other genre makes us a prize to be won and owned. We're expected to shut up and take …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 06:20 AM
37

It's true. It started with breaking a keyboard with his fists over League of Legends, then it moved to my coffee mugs, he tried to smash my DS, he took one of my favorite stuffed animals and ripped it into pieces and left it under my desk. Took no time at all to move on to me. Now, I see frustration taken out on ONE thing physically, or hear someone talking about doing it, and I'm out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 01:36 PM
11

Ugh, right? I'm bi, damn it! Why do I keep winding up with men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 01:10 PM
24

I'm getting a whole cheesecake sampler, a box of chocolates, and the ingredients to make some luxurious shrimp Alfredo from scratch (my two favorite foods and a classic 2/14 staple). I'm gonna do a face mask and put on some fluffy new aloe socks I've been saving for a special occasion, cozy up in my softest pajamas and the blanket with the foot pockets, and take a nap. My birthday was a few days ago and it really sucked so I'm gonna use Valentine's Day to make it up to myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 01:02 PM
43

Fuck. That.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 08:01 PM
38

Gross is what it is (the objectification, not the genitals themselves). The word "vag" makes my skin crawl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 10:38 PM
32

well, it doesn't work like that Except it does. My ex loved it. He's crazy about it. All men love it. That's why there's so much porn of it. Come on, are you gonna keep being boring? I need variety, I'm a visual creature. I'm better off just masturbating at this point. Since we're flipping the script, the way men react when a woman says no, but do it to him. ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 02:47 PM
28

I dated a guy who used the dog face Snapchat filter in like every Facebook post. Dude looks like a foot and he knows it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 02:36 PM
33

Right! This isn't art, it's an advertisement for fertilizer! Why does it have to feature women with 90% of their legs showing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 03:48 PM
28

genetic predisposition to look at attractive potential partners is why we're here today Speak for yourself. I know many of the women around me aren't with these dudes for their looks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 03:45 PM
66

I desperately wish men went through the same physical changes women do during and after pregnancy. I don't mean "sympathy pains" either (aka salty the attention is on someone else). I mean cavernous stretch marks, loose skin, diastasis recti, losing your gall bladder, like that'd be great. Don't let them off Scott free. If they won't take the childcare then they can take the pain of childbirth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 01:32 PM
96

That's something I can really appreciate about the guy I'm vetting now. I know basic tasks like that shouldn't be put on a pedestal, but he's the first man I've had who will take the initiative to cook and clean instead of expecting me to do all of it (while he takes on no extra tasks in exchange). It's so nice! Never putting up with being someone's maid again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 10:33 PM
-5

I don't think one single rapist is gonna look at this sign and go "ahh, yep. You're right. I guess I'm not gonna rape today!" Seriously. Whoever designed this billboard is a special kind of clueless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 02:01 AM
61

They love to reap but plug their ears and screech when it's time to sow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 01:54 AM
84

Single women have been statistically proven to live longer than married ones. The positives just keep adding up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 01:51 AM
19

You know it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 02:21 PM
89

Men stop abusing women because you're mad at the world challenge
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 11:00 AM
144

Had a guy cheat on me with a 16 year old girl last summer (we were in our early 20's so YIKES), and when confronted he exploded. Went on a screaming rampage, stomping around the property and punching trees. Threatened to wrap his car around a pole. You wanna know what he blamed that bullshit on? His dad dying. He really was traumatized. Everyone knew he was sick. He also blamed CSA for going after that kid. I told him he became the thing he hated and that because of that he'd lost every shred of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 11:00 AM
9

My sister's ex gave their kid a video game character's name. It's fucking obnoxious. She's never even played the series or anything, just let him talk her into it. :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 08:18 PM
36

They know, they just act like they don't so they can easily impose their will onto others, and to make them look crazy if they try to say how they really feel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 01:52 AM
9

That's what I did too. Is he desperate to give me a piece of his mind because I said I refuse to screw men who punch holes in walls? Seethe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 02:06 AM
238

"LOL woman mad. So emotional, such a crazy nag right boys?" seems to be the mentality. Men like that think tormenting women is comedy gold because they're immature children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 02:46 PM
5

I once got into it with my ex stepdad about showering. He'd do it once a month and I'd do it every day or every other day. He came to me after a shower once and said, "why do you shower so much? You don't do anything but sit on your ass all day." I didn't, I had a really active social life and we were all always outside in the summer heat. Think it dawned on me that men just don't think they stink. How they can be unbothered by a greasy face with greasy hair stuck to it is beyond me but it's all…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 12:18 PM
58

Damn, this is her second marriage. And apparently they've only been married a few weeks... I really hope she learns one day that she deserves to be loved. I mean really loved. Respected.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 11:23 AM
99

LOL If he's got a wife or something she's absolutely faking it. There's no way he's made a single female orgasm happen (or even seen one in porn).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 07:56 AM
216

They just want to blame women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 01:19 AM
21

I watch him sometimes as background noise while I clean or do other stuff. I love hearing his opinions on new trends and drama (I wanna say his Shane Dawson apology analysis was really good), they get pretty spicy sometimes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 11:10 PM
18

Oh shit. I'm a big true crime fan and I've been following his case for ages. He really stuck with me, as some cases do. I'm really happy he's been identified but so gutted that this was who he really was. :( Let it be another reminder not to get too attached to strangers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 01:19 AM
76

A lot of men dislike cats because they can't control them, just like cat ladies. It's sour grapes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 11:19 AM
7

F. Scott Fitzgerald sucked, but this is still really sound advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 11:17 AM
47

"Watch it with him! It's hot! My girlfriend loves it! Don't be so insecure! You don't want him to leave you for someone who will, do you?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 11:15 AM
51

My ex's obsession with 80-100 lb women made me develop an eating disorder. I know it's not possible for me to ever get that size because of my lipedema, but I couldn't ever seem to get through to myself. Going on three years out and I still have those women drilled into my head. Porn cuts deep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 11:11 AM
127

Depends on what he watches. Anime can be amazing, with great female leads (any Ghibli movie, Madoka Magica to name a few) but if a guy just watches the shit that objectifies women I can't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 11:03 AM
4

He REALLY sucked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 04:14 AM
25

Yay, it's THAT position. The one that physically hurts. A dude once told me he liked that position because it let him pretend he was screwing someone else. :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 11:09 PM
48

Seriously. If that's how he views women in general (and little girls because that plays into the kink too) , just imagine how he sees her or any children he cons her into in the future. Guarantee it's no different.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 11:00 PM
3

LOL right! He owned almost nothing so he could skip town faster and expects the women he's with to pick up the rest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 10:55 PM
8

Seriously! I dated a guy who had literally no furniture in his whole three bedroom apartment save for a computer desk, computer chair, and a bed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 09:55 PM
34

"Talking about feelings" = blame shifting, projection, gaslighting, punishing you for daring to challenge his eggshell of a facade as if cheating is a God given right and acting like a total asshole when confronted will make a woman completely submit and never mention it again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 09:11 AM
51

They already defend murders against women and girls like Bianca Devins. They see murder as a great response to rejection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 09:09 AM
251

It ain't even like borking a ton makes a dude good in bed either. If anything it makes them overconfident. Best lay I've had was a virgin who I taught how to please me. Not a single benefit in dating easy men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 08:49 AM
110

Those are some dirty ass feet. Men, visual creatures as always. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 04:49 AM
68

Comment from the post: If you’re happy with a string tied around your finger, or even a piece of rubber then WHATEVER. It doesn’t matter what any of us think, so long as you are happy with your engagement and your future husband that is all that matters. You can certainly look around for ideas (I’ve gotten some great ones here) but don’t feel like your ring has to meet any standards but your own. Fuck. That. A ring like this is a red flag in and of itself and you're naive if you don't see it. It…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 03:20 PM
39

If neither one of us is orgasming, then why are we screwing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 07:41 AM
66

Damn, those muscles! I'm inspired now. 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 07:39 AM
14

Okay, you win. That is disgusting beyond words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 02:45 AM
87

"You've got big calves for a white girl"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 07:12 PM
29

https://explore.newsner.com/wedding-photographer-punch-groom-child-marriage-bride-abuse This article has a pretty neato pic of the groom's black eye. Sadly child marriage is all too common in Turkey. Thanks to him though 100 other wedding photographers in the country pledged to refuse to photograph marriages with children. What a guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 10:05 AM
14

I've met some heavy sleepers but I don't think I know any that sleep THAT heavily. That's like, sleep-through-a-fire-alarm heavy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 09:56 AM
5

I've wanted grey hair since I was a kid. It's so beautiful. On the subject of ageing, anyone ever seen the gaming YouTuber Food4Dogs? Women like her make me actually excited and ready to embrace the present and future like her. Britta is one of my inspirations for sure. 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 04:29 PM
13

That's like the only excuse dumber than claiming you're on a dating app to make friends! (Except claiming you're on Tinder to "study the UI". Believe it or not I've heard that one.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 04:19 PM
42

No such thing as mediocre pu**y. Mediocre to them just means she didn't give him exactly what he wanted during the whole time he knew her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 04:12 PM
18

He knows he only needs one pair of quotes, right? And not for things that aren't quotes? That aside, no wonder he doesn't get laid. He's a disgusting, self-serving asshole. As if I care what some random internet creep twice my age thinks of my pubic hair and breasts (which I don't have control over, contrary to his completely unwarranted opinion). Hey, lnceI Dave! I like my men showered and young, with a full head of hair and no pot belly! See how little you care? Because that's how little I car…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 04:05 PM
11

I started saying that list out loud too. I share my stories with others, make playlists that remind me of why I left. I make my most prominent association with them be the things they did, use the songs I found to reframe myself as the strong person who said "no more" and decided to walk away. When you begin to miss them, start asking yourself why: Is it because you're idle and therefore have time to ruminate? Ask yourself what you did with him that you can't do alone or with friends. Really thi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 03:53 PM
146

If you're a fan of true crime you learn quickly that all beauty means to men is that they want to possess you. So many beautiful women murdered in cold blood because the man knows he could never possibly do better, or because he sees beauty as power and wants to be in control. I think there are definitely social advantages you get by being conventionally attractive but as far as finding a mate that's good to you is concerned it doesn't really matter. Confidence draws the right kinds of people to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 03:23 PM
4

What the heck is that thing? I mean, I know what it's supposed to represent but what does it do?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 10:46 AM
68

He definitely knows they're real. He's trying to get under her skin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 01:31 AM
67

You got your sex advice from PORN, and yet you dislike when your partner isn't satisfied? Are you sure about that, because they don't show you what a woman having a real orgasm looks or feels like in porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 06:57 AM
51

And it's gonna be dry. So dry. Every woman he's been with moaned from pain, not pleasure. Not that he knows or cares about the difference.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 06:43 AM
40

Kind of just wanna go one round. More than that kind of hurts, and besides I can only finish once and get very little satisfaction from penetration so what's the point? I had a guy who really could go multiple rounds one time and it sucked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 06:40 AM
71

This is rape. What a pig!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 06:34 AM
47

If this is too much or needs an NSFW or something, please tell me ;_; I feel so crazy nervous sharing this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 06:32 AM
10

I'm feeling really inspired. Might have to try this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 05:53 AM
35

I absolutely love that show. My real life mom does too and the mom is her favorite character. She said all the same things, that it was brilliant social commentary and that she sees a little bit of a lot of people she knows in real life in the characters, including herself as Nichole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 11:25 PM
15

I was just thinking that too. Do I really not have a type, or have my standards really gone down that much?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 10:54 PM
15

What a riot! Clearly such a catch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 06:06 AM
42

They think the women in these situations are in it because the men are soooo irresistible, or for money. Tell them it's because they're too young or inexperienced to know any better, and they're forced to confront the uncomfortable idea that they're not gonna find a teenage girl who actually loves them for a half a second. They hate that and will make every effort to make you pay for daring to try to crack their bubble. After all, muh legality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 05:53 AM
53

Right? I'm getting ready to turn 24 and it's like the dudes I had trying to get with me went down by half. I look really young too, which means I lose another 10% or so once they find out I'm not actually 16.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 05:46 AM
124

They get so salty when you tell them no too, like it's their God-given right to "have" people younger than the duration of their first marriage. I enjoy spending my early 20's with guys my age. My pool of eligible partners is pretty big and not picked through too much yet. I live a wild life full of travelling, spontaneity, partying, and I need someone who doesn't need to go to bed at 7 pm. I want to grow and learn with my peers, to decide when I'm ready to settle down. Men will kick and scream,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 05:31 AM
30

Never been called "girly" by someone who wasn't using me as a placeholder until a teenage girl showed up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 04:56 AM
226

And then claim every other woman he's been with before had orgasms nonstop, that you didn't enjoy it because you're "not as sexual".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 04:14 AM
9

Imagine if the other person put their hands on him after. I'd pay to see that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 01:51 AM
39

As if toxic masculinity isn't taught by men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 08:43 AM
53

I thought it's just women being women and their hormones Nope, instead it's just men being men and their hormones. Who'd have thought??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 06:19 AM
33

Because she needs to kick him out yesterday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 09:09 AM
142

I'm a gamer too but gamer guys are a whole different breed. They ruin everything they touch online and off. It's not that hard to tell your friends you need a pee break. I do it, and I have to deal with more steps than men do, and oftentimes your friends need to go too and appreciate you asking. It's just laziness (and also addiction, gaming is extremely addictive but I won't give any passes for it just like I don't for drugs or alcohol).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 05:23 PM
50

Yeah, he probably knows he's been peeing on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 05:13 PM
8

He looks exactly like six other guys I know, but they all have better hair and take better pictures!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 05:10 PM
11

My grandma and grandpa bought a shared plot, but she asked to be cremated so she wouldn't be buried next to him. She was a strong-willed, hard-nosed, famously secretive woman. It's a shame the men in her life were the reason she closed herself off from the world like that. As a kid she seemed to let me in a little because we were both quite alike, and under that shell she had so much passionate, tender affection for so many things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 04:56 PM
17

Without being overly specific (HIPAA), entirely too many 12-17 year olds having kids, sometimes multiple, with grown men, some as recent as the 80's. Multiple marriages between 15-17 year olds and 20-30 somethings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 04:49 PM
7

Yep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 04:46 PM
26

That's because saying that shit is a manipulation tactic. He's attempting to guilt you for either setting a boundary or enforcing boundaries. He knows what he did wrong. I don't play games like that, that's for 12 year olds and socially stunted weeaboos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 02:07 AM
93

The marriage and birth certificates I saw when I worked for the VA, I swear to God. The past makes me fucking MAD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 01:53 AM
2

Hell yeah!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 07:40 PM
17

"I don't know how that got there!" "It's a nude video, in your Snapchat folder, and there's a girl in your recents named "💕 My Princess 💕" whose Bitmoji looks just like the person in your video. I'm not stupid." "I know what it looks like, and I look pretty guilty right now, but--" "You do." "I don't even use Snapchat." "Here are screenshots of your score taken over the past few days. See it rising? Here's every time you opened that app, including the date you saved that video." "You're creepy. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 03:28 PM
11

Two-step authentication can be an annoyance, but it makes it harder for people other than you to get into your accounts. It'll trigger a popup, or a text message depending on the site that tells you the name of the operating system and the general location of who's trying to get in, and you can just deny logins from there. Check to see what devices you're still logged into. On the Google app, tap your profile picture on the top right and click Manage your Google Account. Swipe left through the t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 03:20 PM
26

Copied and pasted from another reply: These are all on mobile. For Facebook: Go to your menu (bar on the far fight side) and scroll down to Settings & Privacy. Click Your Time on Facebook, See Your Time (handy as well), and then Activity Log. For Google: Open the Google app. Click More, the three dots on the bottom bar. Select Recent, and My Activity. Scroll down, it's all there. You can open the pull out menu to the left and fine tune what you're looking for too. Hopefully I explained it all ok…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 02:56 PM
5

These are all on mobile. For Facebook: Go to your menu (bar on the far fight side) and scroll down to Settings & Privacy. Click Your Time on Facebook, See Your Time (handy as well), and then Activity Log. For Google: Open the Google app. Click More, the three dots on the bottom bar. Select Recent, and My Activity. Scroll down, it's all there. You can open the pull out menu to the left and fine tune what you're looking for too. Hopefully I explained it all okay. Some people are aware of all this …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 02:55 PM
1

Yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 02:41 PM
22

Makes me feel like I'm gonna puke. Hate seeing this happen without consequences for the predators (and the old men/pickmes that defend it).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 08:34 AM
128

You can check activity on Facebook too, and though not as accurate Snapchat recents. You can find an ungodly amount of disturbingly personal information through someone's Google account too (what apps they've downloaded and when you open them, search history, location history, Google Maps usage, it's terrifying. I busted a guy for using MeetMe once, presented him a list with date and time of every time he opened/redownloaded the app and who all he messaged thanks to information pulled from his e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 08:09 AM
64

My adoptive parents got pregnant in their early 40's (they thought my mom was infertile for years but then it just happened one day) and my sister came out medically fragile. Holes in her heart, no rectum, Downs Syndrome. The first two things were taken care of. My parents are in a dire financial state, and even though we all love my baby sister with all our hearts, and her smile is the purest stuff on earth, we kind of expected it. My biological parents were in their mid-30's and I came out wit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 01:46 PM
36

The "I'm not like the other girls xDDD chicken nuggets" was the icing on the cake. Years ago I was of the opinion that rings were expensive, impractical wastes of money because I'm really tomboyish and don't wear women's jewelry ("save it, buy me PC parts or paintball gear or something instead") but I realized within the last year or so that it's about more than the ring. It's about your worth. I'm worth saving up for. I'm worth the process of sizing, figuring out what kind of ring fits who I am…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 01:05 PM
4

Visual creatures my ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 10:54 AM
74

Ex hit me up just this morning. We were high school sweethearts, each other's first loves, but as soon as he moved to the other side of the country he cheated on me with the first girl he met. Strung me along right next to her for years, and then I found FDS last December, made it a pact for 2020. He wanted to see me for New Year's, I said sure because I wanted to drop the hammer in person. Told him on that night in no uncertain terms that I was done being second place. I warned him that she'd d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 05:34 PM
34

If only. I would purposely go start fights just to neuter people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 11:24 PM
35

If you have to tell everyone you're an "alpha", it means you're not. Dude's 100% trying to bolster himself and is being dishonest about his real accompaniments. She's probably doing better than him, and he's definitely not happy with his life right now if he's this salty about someone from so long ago. He's miserable and he won't admit it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 11:21 PM
27

Oh God, do I feel that. Last guy cheated on me with a 16 year old and threatened to torture and murder me when he found out I was with someone else after we broke up. Thank God my boyfriend was home to protect me ( the ex rolled up to my house not ten minutes after the threat) because who knows what he would have done otherwise. When people tell you who they are, believe them. Betrayed, disrespected? Be lucky you got a red flag. A lot of people don't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 11:26 PM
245

"But muh numbers game! If I harass enough Asian women one will eventually fall in love with me!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 06:45 PM
2

Fuck that. How about I win this one by dumping him on the spot and finding a guy I don't need to psychologically torture myself for in order to be with? Or better yet, inner peace with only myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 10:21 PM
31

So glad I've never bothered with OLD. I don't mind meeting fewer candidates if it means the connections I form are organic and safer. Met a person online one time years ago at 18 through the Facebook "shitposting community" and it resulted in me being kidnapped. That was all it took to scare me straight. No way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 08:56 PM
224

They don't want to "communicate". They see that as "nagging" and being "on your period". Just another case of "women, am I right? So sensitive." If you don't have common sense for what's decent and respectful, your ass is out the door. It's no skin off my nose to silence and shut down men who try to silence me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 08:44 PM
23

My ex tried to do something similar. Busted him for cheating on me with a 16 year old (we're in our early 20's), he told me I was "just hateful" because I "didn't get to be a teenager". What even the fuck was that. Luckily it was post-FDS so I saw right through it, threw the proof in his face, and immediately dumped him. Incredible how they'll weaponize your trauma like that, only showing they listened to you while you confided in them by gaslighting and using your own issues against you. Always…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 02:40 PM
36

This makes me so fucking mad I don't even know what to say. I know that exact feeling she's feeling right now, and it's not the kind of feeling that comes from nowhere. Sick, disgusting, weak little boy needs to use and abuse so he can feel like a big, tough man. Pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 11:11 AM
11

That's great until he's into a body type that isn't yours or things you cannot/will not do. Much harder to fake being okay with it then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 02:17 AM
44

Projection, sour grapes, lack of interest in self-improvement, chip in their shoulder, having the same kind of entitlement that makes them think they don't need to shower, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 02:04 AM
36

I've been with exactly one (1) man who didn't try to make me do all the cooking. Actually, he insisted on doing it all himself, even when he really didn't feel like it. He had a ton of really garbage traits, but he made me realize that not cooking at all is a dealbreaker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 02:01 AM
35

It was okay like 6-7 years ago but nowadays no way. Deletes your messages when you log out, or if you log in on another device. I trust it even less than Snapchat. Snapchat, my mom and little sister are on but Kik is on your phone for only one reason almost every time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 08:18 PM
53

And then they use it to bully women about it later. "Most chicks I've talked to love anal, you must be in a minority". "Girls love being choked, I don't know what your problem is", etc. When in reality their sources are either totally made up or majority by pickmes/male LARPers in Reddit comments sections.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 11:01 AM
20

So glad you mentioned Ramona Flowers. Seriously. It seems like everyone I've met thinks she's a "dream girl" and that their relationship was what they aspire for and it's always put the worst taste in my mouth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 10:43 AM
46

One thing growing up in rural America has taught me is that marriage, engagement, isn't an achievement in and of itself. Just about anyone can do it, and just because you did it doesn't mean it was the right choice or that you're happy. Looking at some of these couples, man. I'll gladly get married at 60 if it means I'm not getting involved with that. It doesn't measure our worth, and the opinions of those who try to push you into thinking it does don't matter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 07:08 AM
16

Making my own decisions for the first time, realizing just how much control you really have to do whatever you want (within your means of course, I know some factors you really can't change) is so incredibly satisfying and gratifying. Breaking the chains of my abusive ex and beginning to chip away at the lifelong traumas that hold me back is genuinely fun. Hop on a bus, take yourself out on a date. Listen to a new album from your favorite artist in the pouring rain. Bake a cake, eat it for dinne…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 06:37 AM
61

Being treated like this hardened me up against the world. Made me put a wall up, stop trusting and when I was wronged I lashed out to extremes in an effort to inflict as much pain as possible. The "little jokes" build. You get your feelings played with. It crushes who you are, drills a deep hole into your chest that fills with anxiety, dread, rage, self-loathing. If I were good enough he wouldn't hurt me, you tell yourself. You feel like you're never gonna be good enough, so you beat yourself up…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 06:15 AM
144

...did the anal guy straight up not use lube?? The fuck, dude. If someone suggested that be done to him he'd freak out, I can't believe men don't realize that. Like, you have an anus too. There's no excuse for "not knowing", it's obvious to anyone with eyeballs that it would hurt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 05:45 AM
20

Needed this. His ass is dead to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 12:32 PM
23

Porn makes it look easy. They don't care that it hurts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 12:19 PM
68

Truly visual creatures.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 12:16 PM
16

Replying is a waste of time but if you're gonna do it this is the way to go. Very sharp and to the point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 07:52 AM
50

I've been working on reprogramming myself away from these behaviors. I do my hygiene and dress well. I'm not any less desirable because I don't check every single box in a man's mind. It's hard. My body is covered in saggy skin and cavernous stretch marks, my diastasis recti is so bad it causes a lot of physical problems and when I touch the warped, mangled skin on my belly I want to curl up and cry. But if I decide to get that "mommy makeover", I'm gonna do it for me and not for a man. If he tr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 07:47 AM
33

Me too! It's so much easier to breathe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 03:40 PM
19

You keep letting him get away with the bare minimum, girl. He'll feel no incentive to change if you continue having sex with him even though he isn't trying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 03:39 PM
90

Right on the money. He was a web developer, PC gamer, and obsessive anime fan. Presented himself as a formerly impoverished, severely abused twenty-something who escaped his home life through sheer willpower (which, to his credit was actually true), travelling the country and discovering himself. Just claimed he needed a partner from a similar background to join him. Considered himself a stoner and a "psychonaut" despite being almost totally uninvolved in both. He definitely thought the world ow…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 03:35 PM
166

Can confirm this. I had an ex once who had his "dream girl" down to her very genetics. Had to have straight pink, blue, or red hair. Had to be very dangerously underweight. Under 5' 4". Needed to have a specific nose, breasts had to be small, had to do her makeup a certain way. Wanted tattoos, piercings, but not "too many". East Asian. Rich but not independent. Puts on a confident act in public and then completely submits at home. Hot, but not so hot that he'd be threatened by the attention of o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 03:19 PM
59

Nerds fucked me up something terrible. I was an outcast, didn't fit in anywhere and it seemed no one liked me. I was a vulnerable, autistic foster kid bouncing in and out of inpatient psych and everyone thought I was kinda scary and way too weird to talk to. The school nerds kind of welcomed me in but I realize now that it was just because I was a girl. Outside of school they wouldn't talk to me, didn't want to hang out. It was like they were ashamed of me. They'd never even text but they were a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 02:34 PM
56

That's nearly half his age. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 04:10 AM
78

She was way too good for that bald, evil POS. Beautiful woman. He killed her because he knew she could do better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 04:03 AM
47

The number of times I've had to explain that the vagina is a self-cleaning organ, I swear. Just because there's moisture there doesn't mean I'm horny. The opposite is also true. I might be horny but not wet. Touch my body, give me a little love. You gotta start me up a little bit. Do not try to jackhammer me dry or I will get up and leave your naked ass in the dark. I've met guys who think they're sex gods who didn't know this. Met ones who didn't know what or where the clit was. Even more distu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 03:33 AM
38

I was NOT ready for that plot twist, damn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 03:17 AM
131

FDS turned me from "anti-feminist/egalitarian" (barf) to radfem. I realized it was just liberal feminism I hated, and that there was a word out there to describe how I really felt... and it was in the last place I'd ever expect to look. Found this place over a year ago in some sort of cringe sub and joined to see how "bad" it really was. I learned I wasn't crazy and that I didn't have to choke down the "cool girl" pill in order to be successful in my love life. I immediately started cracking dow…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 02:59 AM
4

I've had way more than two, seems like everyone does it ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 06:43 AM
10

He probably doesn't even know what "no makeup" looks like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 06:40 AM
11

Yep. That's what they do. Basic hygiene is "gay", but not sharing photos and videos of women they just touched themselves to. It's stupid common. Super gross. They'll share your nudes in the same way but be less excited about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 12:04 AM
179

They will 100% chase after women in the server. Personal experience. He'd go after them all, and it's really sad how many will respond. And if he doesn't do that it's 8-12 hours of them literally screaming into the mic and smashing their keyboards with their fists until 4 am.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 03:05 PM
11

I've had bad experiences with software engineers/web developers too! A disturbing number of pedos, obsessive gamers/anime fans, cheaters, substance abuse/alcoholism, the like. Lots of "male feminists" and they're brutal to other women in the field. There are good ones out there obviously but I've run into so many full on sociopaths in the field that I'm starting to just red flag 'em.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 02:59 PM
39

Okay fuckin Edgemaster General. Having feelings is cool and whatever but when I read this kind of stuff I can guarantee the guy's gonna be emotionally immature, have violent outbursts over not getting their way, and I'm gonna have to be the one to regulate his emotions because "therapists don't help me".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 02:19 PM
105

Yeah, I'm sadly not surprised. They want to see violence or porn, or not to see women at all. They hate us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 01:58 PM
22

What the FUCK. Every word of that was one nightmare after another.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 12:50 AM
58

"I don't like the way they feeeel!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 03:42 PM
33

My mom would have busted his kneecaps out as soon as she found out he got me pregnant. Wouldn't have a chance to be in her house, eating her food, unsupervised and cuddling in her daughter's bedroom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 03:41 PM
37

Used to be a serial paragraph typer. Now people wonder why I don't send more than a sentence anymore. If it's not this, it's "okay/k/yeah" or just being steamrolled by someone else's anger when they haven't even bothered to read what I've already said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 03:31 PM
54

The line about people in their mid twenties and people under 18 is the only thing I'd disagree with here. I know she corrects it at the end of the paragraph but 16 and 20 is not okay. 17 and 24 is predatory. Any person older than 20 going for people under 18 is more than "problematic". They're predators and they'd date even younger if they legally could. I one hundred percent agree though. We need to stop normalizing this shit, and start speaking up. Shame the old ass people going for kids, let …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 03:22 PM
196

Sure, women do rape. But even then it's still less than teenage boys and FAR less than men. I notice it's the same people who see women as weaker and less capable who talk over people about this too. Funny that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 01:50 PM
388

"Hey, I'm not into you" Dude: proceeds to try to take advantage of interest that isn't even there by trying to make the woman jealous Like don't even kid yourself. You're rejected. She doesn't care about your date that isn't even real. Have fun getting rejected again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 03:07 AM
188

When they threaten your life 😍😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 03:03 AM
9

I won't admit to anyone IRL that I watched it haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 01:03 PM
15

No way! It's just animated like that. It's raunchy as hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 01:02 PM
9

JUST AN EYELASH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 12:59 PM
11

Or they're waiting to try to one-up you in general. Hate that shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 12:32 PM
5

There is a lot to unpack here. Holy shit, what a pair of monsters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 02:07 PM
87

They gonna cite sources on this one or not? Even outside of this subject I hate reading news headlines in meme form. They're usually completely made up or pulled from some satire site.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 11:29 AM
21

Being a gen Z girl really does suck. Thanks to social media rather than just pressure from celebrities it's pressure from my peers. Guys think they have the right to whatever they want because of this hypercompetitive culture and will guilt, goad, and threaten you to look like their favorite"e-girl". I once worked for a company operated by only foreign men where I got a lot of the same. There were some really good people there, like one man who knew I was a vulnerable teenager in another state w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 11:18 AM
72

If that older dude is such a catch, why isn't he already with someone? 😒 All I can say about age gaps is that men who seek them out would go for even younger if they could. If AOC became 13 they'd go for 13. Don't trust that they like you because you're "mature for your age". It's power and control. I find it absolutely disgusting that I'm supposed to sit down and accept that shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 12:23 PM
79

God forbid we dish out a single percent of what we get. Dudes are just mad they can't bully us into submission.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 03:30 AM
10

I think this IS Kaczynski. Dude's idolizing people like this, it's probably for the best that he's away from people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 03:13 AM
13

My adoptive dad is the absolute best. He's certified in just about everything you can be certified for, save for underwater welding (he says he's working on that). He refuses to let any member of his family call a repair guy. For a peanut butter sandwich he's always happy to help. He's close with all of his kids, raised us all in a house in the woods and shared all of his hobbies and passions with us. We were always working on some project, like the chicken coop or my brother's wrestling ring be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 03:05 AM
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Team up with? As in, willingly becoming homeless for a total stranger? Like hell. Dude ain't coming in my house either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 02:50 AM
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My ex was financially abusive and would demand every cent I earned... for three years. Let's just say I could have put myself through college instead. :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 02:47 AM
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I stopped reading at "tasty little tunas". Cannot stomach another word. Edit: forced myself to read the rest. Really wish I didnt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 02:29 AM
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I'm 23 now, but some lessons I learned this year: Stand your ground. It's scary, but empowering. Rejection is terrifying but even outside of a dating context people admire self respect. Let your boundaries be known. It's easier for a woman to find a guy than a man is to find a woman. You don't have to bargain or put up with shit you hate. Dump and move on. Don't gaslight yourself. Society isn't always right. Look for likeminded people; they're out there. You aren't crazy. Never assume the men in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 03:24 PM
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