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#JustLVMThingsHmtnsw/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 03:10 AM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESHmtnsw/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 04:00 AM
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QUEEN SH*THmtnsw/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 01:16 AM
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NICE FOR WHAT?Hmtnsw/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 02:45 PM
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QUEEN SH*THmtnsw/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 03:34 AM
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GREEN FLAG 🟢Hmtnsw/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 03:00 PM
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LEVEL UPHmtnsw/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 01:10 PM
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LEVEL UPHmtnsw/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 09:22 PM
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LEVEL UPHmtnsw/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 04:03 PM
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SCROTES MADHmtnsw/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 02:40 PM
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MOOD FOR LIFEHmtnsw/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:37 PM
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REMINDER 👑Hmtnsw/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 07:23 PM
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Story time ☕Hmtnsw/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 12:33 AM
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RANTHmtnsw/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 06:17 PM
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How-To High ValueHmtnsw/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 01:56 PM
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LESSON LEARNEDHmtnsw/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 09:18 PM
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DISCUSSIONHmtnsw/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 02:51 PM
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DISCUSSIONHmtnsw/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 04:34 PM
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LVM LOGICHmtnsw/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 10:12 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYHmtnsw/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 11:41 PM
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How-To High ValueHmtnsw/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 04:13 AM
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FDS HUMORHmtnsw/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 12:26 AM
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NAH, SISHmtnsw/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 11:05 PM
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#KickHimOut2020Hmtnsw/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 12:23 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYHmtnsw/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 12:18 AM
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PORN SICK, LIMP DICKHmtnsw/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 02:35 PM
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MOOD FOR LIFEHmtnsw/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 08:45 PM
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LVM LOGICHmtnsw/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 04:13 PM
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SCROTATION REPORT Hmtnsw/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 02:37 AM
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MOOD FOR LIFEHmtnsw/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 01:49 AM
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FINE AF FRIDAYSHmtnsw/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 01:49 AM
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And that her worth is not lesser if she doesn't have a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 08:29 PM
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Thanks. Yeah, I always suggested the local pub because the staff knew me/ I felt safe IF anything were to go awire. Plus, I have social anxiety and drinking helped ease me. Pubs don't pressure you to drink alot like bars because it's an easy going atmosphere. I've had a number of men try to take me home because I was drinking, but with drinking and chilling, it's a lot easier to be aware of his intentions than if you're straight hammered. At least for me... I get WAY too friendly as a happy drun…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 10:09 PM
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All that matters is he has a "trophy wife" to look cool. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 08:34 PM
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Ex wanted to stay as friends after he came out gay. I wouldn't of had a problem if he hadn't used me as a beard to figure it out. 5 years turned to ash and not looking back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 01:40 AM
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Out of all the guys I knew in college, the one I call my best friend is gay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 01:37 AM
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I do this and it's a problem. I know. 🙄 Why am I like this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 12:14 AM
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Good thing I never donated because I'm broke anyway. HAHHAHA
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 10:49 PM
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Largest I've had was 7.5". He was good and good at everything els (but not the best at those other things). And I've had everything else in between, just depends on the person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 10:37 AM
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That's literally what I just said- size doesn't matter IMO and it does for others and that's fine. and the spectrum of possible features that matters is very wide. Aesthetic as a person wise and dick wise, I absolutely agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 10:34 AM
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I made less than $20k while in college and when I took a break while my ex got 3 raises and made up to $60k/year AND we split rent 3 way evenly with a roommate who was getting $1k/month from his grandfather + the money he was making from work. I was the poorest and was still expected to pay evenly. I will never do that again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 01:16 AM
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I agree. That is why I say "motion of the ocean is more important than the size of the boat." Dude with the smol dick was really into me and we got along great out of the bedroom too. He wasn't insecure about his size at all and it showed. meanwhile people keep saying "oh if he's big he just won't do anything cause he thinks that's it" or "if he's small he will make up for it" Well, that's said because those people probably had both (such as myself). I've had big and small ones that were good an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 10:19 PM
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Idk. When I saw it I was like Oh shit.. this isn't going to work out. But he surprised me. Like hot damn. Reminds me of a story my friend told me. She said she got with a guy whose dick was like the length of her thumb and she was like, there is no way that's gonna do anything. At that point, just have mad finger and eating game.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 09:23 PM
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"If you ain't an anaconda remote control, I don't want to sit on you."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 08:46 PM
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I think the smallest I've had was 4. 4.5". One of the best fucks honestly. Dude made up with technique for what he lacked in length. I don't expect all smaller guys to fuck on that level nor bigger dudes who think having a big dick is all that matters like technique isn't important.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 08:45 PM
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And women who say size doesn't (average is fine or even a little below) as long as they actually know how to fuck because apparently all those women are just lying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 08:41 PM
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I've wanted to download TikTok just to follow all the accounts that get posted here. But l already spend too much time on Reddit, so I don't need another app sucking my time. Love my IG too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 04:17 PM
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I like things as long as it is a "1 fits all" because it has an extra stretch string around the waist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 02:30 AM
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"Girls mature faster but can't be given responsibilities because they are t0o EM0ti0nAl. Besides cAnt trusT w0MeN beCauSe aRe moRe liKely to lEaVe da w0Rk plAce beCuAse prEgnanCies."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 05:26 PM
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It's apparent this person's first language isn't English. Usually people apologize before hand that they don't have good English when they are insecure about it. By the language writing and certain words, I assumed she might be Asian. Then she describes her husband as "Greek God" and it reeks of WMAF. IF this is actually the wife AND she is Asian, he probably just got up with her because "hot Asian that I can boss her around because *tHeY sEe wHiTe mEn aS suPeriOr bcUz aSiaN mAN smOL pEePee" She…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 09:58 PM
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her dad inhabits the underside of a bridge. A troll
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 09:08 PM
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Also, my partner has remarked multiple times that he misses when I couldn’t smell during covid because he liked being able to be stinky. I hate this. I can't take this seriously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 02:14 AM
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That's why I love MJ Harris
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 02:07 AM
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When I used to go to the bar, I would dance with girls and have them dance with me and ask them about the guy they were with. And sometimes even try to steal them from said guy because I thought said dude was trash/ was treating her bad. Like he wouldn't want to dance and want her to come to him so he can talk with his bros type shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 02:34 AM
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Jesus the real MVP fr fr.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 02:16 AM
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I'd love to see an actual study on this. I bet the good man % would be lower for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 03:36 AM
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I have a gay friend who has OF and I've seen some of the guys he follows. There are some fit ASF men on there to make money off of men like him. When I saw the guy on the ad, I was just like... it seems to me that most of the men who are down with sharing sharing nudes are gay men. It seems like straight dudes are only willing to if he has a woman/ "gf" to bang and use her as the way to get views/ make money. That's my assumption though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 01:15 AM
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My thoughts exactly when I first saw it. Smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 12:52 AM
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That's what I'm saying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 12:51 AM
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😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 12:51 AM
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She's the woman that is co-founder of the "Quest Nutrition" brand protein bars and drinks. She also has a show called "Women of Impact" that you can watch full episodes on YT. Her name is Lisa Bilyeu.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:51 PM
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Oh shit. I'm knees.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 03:34 AM
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Reminds me growing up I always liked watching military movies because [hot men with shirt off]. Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 03:34 AM
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Dark and handsome. I'm here for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 03:32 AM
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My ex didn't give two shits what I wore as long as I didn't take his comfy pants when he was home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 03:31 AM
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GF asks for $20k ring. She makes more than he does. He doesn't want to buy a $20k ring and would proablly dump her IF she wasn't making bank. Wow. He needs to go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 03:26 AM
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I don't go on the front page of Reddit. Ever. On phone or PC because it's mostly garbage. I like the subs I'm in, interact with said subs and move on with my day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:47 AM
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I haven't heard about that book so I'm so happy for the recommendation. Definitely going to look into it! And I'm super happy for you! I know some Vegans are like, if he ain't Vegan it ain't going to happen relationship wise. Sometimes I feel that same way, but I've dated a guy who was so sweet and considerate of my Veganism even though he ate meat. And that is important to me. Respect. I'd rather be with an omnivore that respects me being Vegan than being with a Vegan who tells me I'm not doing…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:45 AM
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Absolutely!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:41 AM
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And yet, want to leave their wives and try to score a girl 30 years younger. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:41 AM
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I feel that. I quit drinking not because I was an alcoholic, I just didn't want to keep toxicating my body and hindering my sport progression. I'm seen as unattractive in that since because [boring].
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:39 AM
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Never been tricked. I think the island question is stupid and a weak argument for the sake of trying to agrue and justify their lifestyle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:36 AM
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I feel that. I remember before going Vegan I'd say that I could never go Vegan. You def don't know what the future holds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:35 AM
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Right. Or how like eating fruits and vegetables is "unmanly." Um.. not being able to get it up due to blood blockage from high cholesterol levels isn't manly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 12:56 AM
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I'm really glad you brought this up because I definitely agree! If I could Pin your comment, I would. So important.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 12:40 AM
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Reminds me of the girl who told the story about the lights going out due to a storm or something and OP's bf used a special candle her deceased sister made her without her permission when she was at work. She got upset and told him not to use it. The next day he did it again and the candle was gone. Long story short, he told her that it turned him on when she was distressed and didn't like her losing weight because she was happier and not the depressed woman he fElL iN l0Ve wITh." Shit blows my …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 01:54 PM
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Why did I choose to be hetero? Oh yeah, sexuality isn't a choice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 01:49 PM
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Right. Idk if you know MJ Harris, but he makes a lot of videos regarding money and relationships (intended for women mostly) as a gay man. He's talked about how he will go on dates with men who make less than he does and some will get bent out of shape MJ makes more than he does. Sometimes they will get bent out of shape due to MJ's friends who are well to do out of Jealousy. I remember once he talked about that he isn't against dating a less off to do man, IF has has ambition to work on himself…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 12:13 PM
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I know!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 05:31 AM
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Oh noooo. Thanks for letting me know. Shame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 04:58 AM
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I find it funny you said this because I was out for a smoothie the other day and this girl walked by with her Great Dane. No leash, well behaved and so precious!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 02:50 AM
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I have issues with 1 and 2. 1 because low self esteem. Don't pick on women. Only have issues when dealing with men. Cynicism is one of my biggest inner battles. 2 because I do hate confrontation and have some dealings with people should know how to read my body language / mind since I can read their body language. These are something I'm working on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 01:58 AM
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I don't want kids and I like sex too. Haven't found a good match (but not trying either). I know that a lot of single women/moms are choosing to stay single because "1 less child I have to tend to." And it's sad because raising a child is hard, even with a partner. Hope you find a sperm bank and nanny that works for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 01:36 AM
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I feel that. I remember I would wear some guy's military dog tags on my Keychain to keep men away when he wasn't around. I used it as a protection charm and looking back feeling safer with that is sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 01:25 AM
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Right! At least Kevin Hart keeps himself up. Have you SEEN his wife!?? I think he is a wholesome guy. So is the Rock. But those other guys look like they smell and I'm surprised they even managed to get laid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 01:23 AM
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I like Kevin Hart and Storm Xu. Like I hate Will Ferrell. There's a famous Hispanic guy. Not funny. The guy from 50 Dates [edit: I remember: Adam Sandler] or whatever, can't even remember his name. Not funny. Anything having to do with "my bR0s" not funny. Is his name C.K Lewis? Pass. That ugly Asian dude that plays as the typical "Asian nerd genius that can't get laid" in shows. Not funny. Can't remember his name either. I really hate when guys talk shit about how women don't belong in the come…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 01:16 AM
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Right. It's ironic because all they do is "j0kE."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 01:07 AM
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Damn. I'm glad you're not with stupid anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 01:06 AM
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Yes. Her name is Lisa! Tom seems like a great guy. They discuss relationship stuff often and he does some like a HVM. He interviews a lot of men on his show and from what I've seen, a lot of the men seem to be HV/ self driven, not in a toxic mindset.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 01:06 AM
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I mean, it is a "dog eat dog world" and people ain't denying it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 01:04 AM
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EXACTLY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 01:03 AM
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I was watching MJ Harris and he touched on this. Where a man takes you and how much he spends on you is a reflection of not only his wallet but also how he values you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:56 PM
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" I don't want to spend money to get laid." "Ok. Thanks. I'm not your girl. Bye." "wHy u gOt aN aTtiTuDe!??"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:39 PM
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How does Mrs Trump do it? $$$$$
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:35 PM
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"You're not afraid to be "single" / undesirable." I think "undesirable" should be in quotation marks too because "single" = "undesirable." But being single doesn't mean that. I know that's what you were getting at though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:17 PM
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*"Undesirable"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:12 PM
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This makes me so happy for you. I've only had 1 man treat me like that and I pushed him away because I wasn't used to the treatment and thought he was playing me. Looking back he never love bombed me. I was just overly cynical. I have some sexual attraction to women but I don't think I do romantically. Hopefully I'll find my person who tells me they love seeing the green in my brown eyes when the sun light hits them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:11 PM
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I would like to get married but I don't want kids. But the longer I stay single voluntarily, the more I just want to stay single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:04 PM
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mic drop
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:00 PM
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I've been told I have "Big Dick Energy" and that's why I'm a "bitch" but "it's OK because bitches get respect." Being a nice PickMe doesn't get you anywhere. That saddens the altruistic person inside of me to some extent, but 🤷‍♀️. I'm done being a door mat and not respected. There are other ways to be do altruistic work outside relationships that won't get me used and abused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:31 PM
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Yes! And I saw that interview! It was very good. My mother doesn't watch WOI and came across that interview and sent it to me. I told her I already watched it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:06 PM
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Yeah. My mother was called "Devil child" because she had a backbone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:06 PM
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Absolutely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:05 PM
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He just needs to have a good job, not smell, be a Christian man and make sure you don't have to work so you can stay home and take care of the kids comfortably. That's what I was taught how a man should be. You need to be educated, but only as a back up just incase your marriage goes to shit. sigh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 05:38 PM
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Absolutely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 05:36 PM
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Right. Or just cultural ideologies because of age. Like I was talking to a Korean guy who was a military rank below his roommates. His roommates were also older than him by like a year or two. When he went back to his apartment after spending the weekend with me the house would be trashed. He was relatively a clean guy and they basically made him their maid because "younger lower rank guy." And he hated it but never did anything about it other than complain. He didn't use me as a therapist about…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 03:34 PM
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Yes. I love her Women of Impact series.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 03:06 PM
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That's cool! I never had those, but I did have dinosaur bone sets that you could put together and have your own dinosaur archeological collection. That was fun!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 02:46 PM
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"I want to pass down Jewish heritage. How dare I be a nAzi." /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 04:19 AM
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Exactly. Not all men. Yeah, not all men are HV and it's a problem. Look in the mirror, guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 04:17 AM
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and a remote control she’ll never have the choice of. Yep. Ex bought a nice TV for the living room. I never used unless he and my roommate weren't home because when they came home - "it's ours."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 04:14 AM
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Yesss. I had a Godzilla action figure that you could move his tail, hands and mouth and he would ROAR and back spines glow blue when he did. IT WAS AWESOME. And then my little brother broke him and I was severely bitter about it for a long time. I was like 9 and he was like 2.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 04:02 AM
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Yes! And thank you! I haven't been this happy in a really long time and that speaks volumes to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 08:04 PM
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Yep. Met a dude who was like "I've never done anal and would like to try it." This was after I thought he was a good guy. We had discussed it before when we first met but always forgot about it because we just enjoyed each other. I asked him if he brought any lube. (I had some but I acted like I didn't). He said no. And I was like, ok then it ain't happening because you need lube to have anal. "I diDnT kNoW thAt." Ok. Clear sign you watch porn more than you say you do and that you watch women ta…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 08:02 PM
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I got into OLD after my breakup in Feb 2019. I went inactive on OLD July 2019. I officially deleted my Tinder profile November 2019. So I've been out of "the game" for quite some time. I decided that I didn't want to deal with men anymore and I decided to use that free time to learn a second language. Which has been so good to me, I managed to get a job that I love because of it and I've met some amazing people a long the way as well as learn about different cultures. I think I found FDS January…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 06:38 PM
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My ex did something like this. I made less than $20k trying to pay student loans while he made $60k and we still split bills. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 12:33 AM
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That's the plan and she isn't about it and he doesn't like it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 12:31 AM
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This made me cackle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 12:29 AM
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Rich people sit on their money and spin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 12:27 AM
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Says the guy who thought of putting less money in savings. What he gonna blow it on?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 12:24 AM
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This this this. And not to mention the money you'll save not having to pay for labor... the part that is sometimes just as expensive if not more than the parts themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 12:23 AM
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That's what I'm saying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 07:46 PM
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That's what I thought. When I saw him he looks like all he eats is steak, cheese with his only vegetable being a potato. My mom was like "He's a husky ex-football player type" and I said, there's nothing "husky" about that belly. It looks like a beer gut.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 06:43 PM
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I use this as a vetting strategy Same. I'm Vegan and judge meat eaters but definitely judge harder with men who act that eating meat = "I like vagina" / "I'm a Real Man" bs My ex was a big meat guy and he came out gay. So def a meat lover. LMAO. He didn't like pineapple on his pizza. Like this shit is so dumb
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 06:37 PM
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"GIrlZ r dUmB"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 06:31 PM
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I'm just like, dude. Get tf over yourself. I was reading the comments on the video and the top one was by a guy who said The best part of bring a man, a real man, is getting to enjoy whatever it is you like without caring what other people think about it. And I'm just like, TY. Just stfu and eat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 06:31 PM
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Like I was a PickMe before but some of the shit I see I'm just like "that's an obvious red flag" like... what are you doing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 03:58 PM
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Pull out from raw and THEN put a condom on? I've never heard of such talking out of the ass. Men *know* they aren't going to bother with a condom and just cum on you, or a towel or something. Not put on a damn condom while about to nut. These men really gotta think women dumb AF.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 04:20 AM
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It's when I see posts like these I'm glad I'm voluntarily celibate. ​ JC.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 04:17 AM
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I thought of doing this with my ex. Looked into rings extensively on different metal types. Was talked out of it by his bros. ​ So glad I listened to them. They were right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 04:13 AM
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THAT'S WHAT I'm SAYING
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 04:03 AM
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First thing that came to mind was why did she not have a pass code or something on her hidden folder? Or like, make it not an obvious thing like "the dog's name" or a birth date. ​ And like what a fucking creep. ​ I hope she throws him in a dumpster fire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 03:55 AM
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I see SO many posts about men, video games and destroyed relationships. ​ I like video games but I won't date another Video game guy. Especially one that will sit at the computer before biking or playing some kind of sport before it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 03:19 AM
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Love her so much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 05:26 AM
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Whatever floats your boat. I prefer less hair. Like I love Ali Wongs joke about Asian men "It's like fucking a dolphin." Muscular and hairless. Less sweat and don't smell after working out / sex. So good. My mother on the other hands finds hairy chest super sexy and I know a lot of women like hairy men. It's just not my thing. At all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 05:01 AM
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gorilla legs 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 04:56 AM
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"BUt w0mEn aRe moRe likEly to Be bI / Ok wITh bEiNg wItH w0mEn/ exPerImEnt."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 04:55 AM
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Reminds me of the story someone posted/ shared of a story some guy made about how he shared nudes with some girl with his friends. He ended up liking her and wanting to marry her and was like "but my friends have seen her naked and idk how I feel about that." Like shithead, you shared her nudes without her consent because you didn't respect her and now that's HER fault for sharing nudes with someone she felt she could trust?? You don't deserve to marry her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 04:53 AM
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My user flair or "chubby and desperate?" Chubby and desperate is just a twist on "fat and desperate."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 03:31 AM
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Love her. And I'm so glad she finally became Vegan. Go be difficult, love ~
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 03:45 AM
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I'd like to read studies on this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 04:06 PM
1

I'm really sorry that that happened to you! I am curious though of how you two met! I've recently thought of possibly getting back into the dating game but I'd like to "meet in the wild" and just stay off OLD (I've been off for 2 years). Though honestly, I've gotten to the point of being afraid of sex (even with condoms / because celibacy feels so safe) and don't want to bother with a relationship because [reasons] and it is one of my fears that I'll be "loyal" to someone and yet they bring some…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 06:06 AM
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I never slept with men as a form of validation. I slept with them as a way to get sex. I was bigger at the time so I'm sure I was seen as "chubby and desperate." But I really wasn't. Jokes on them. LMAO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 05:49 AM
3

My thoughts exactly. Wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 05:38 AM
8

The negging. Jesus
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 05:15 AM
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"Skinny fat" therefore not fat so therefore, "athletic." 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 05:13 AM
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Constantly analyzing and vetting for life. Sounds fucking exhausting. Cats and plants, please..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 03:36 AM
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White passing Latina here. Out of everyone in my family, it was my Puerto Rican grandfather that pushed me to get into math and science and focus on college more than boys growing up. My mother wanted me to go to college because she couldn't because her parents (mother) were not supportive. But in turn, it was to help me get a man- an educated man. "Go to college and find a man in a good paying field." A man who is preferably white, like she pursued. If he isn't white, Latino is OK. Second choic…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 03:27 AM
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Working out is attractive. Reading is attractive. Finding a man that lifts books as much as he lifts weights? I've only found 2. I feel they are a rare breed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 03:03 AM
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"Only attracted stupid women and scared away the ones I actually cared about." Idky I laughed at this, but I did. RP get mad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 03:00 AM
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I block men who follow me but never say anything. Where did they find me? If not in the plant or Vegan sub (no posts related to said plants and Veganism) probably here. I refuse to be someone they use as an easy convince to check in on a "FDS snob."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 02:56 AM
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Or says some shit like "Oh yeah, she kinda cute."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 02:50 AM
84

I follow Rose on IG. She has truly blossomed without Ed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 02:48 AM
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All the rapey scrotes were accurate though. If men could have their way, that is how they would act. The makers of WW know that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 11:20 PM
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Crazy seeing comments of 1-3 years of getting to know someone before getting a ring that means forever. People change. I'm def not the same person I was 8 years ago. Marriage is something I want but it is also kinda strange.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 05:43 PM
5

You would think the older people get, the more aware of their actions they are. People are generally really dumb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 05:27 PM
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Being "one of the guys" is like being in the know how of dudes friend group think ans feel about women and the women they associate with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 03:11 AM
20

Why would you want to stay with someone who treated you like that during "free use." Why would you want to stay with someone who was ok with the idea of "free use?" He should say, "I just want to make you feel good." Like. Free use as in "free range to pleasure you with my finger when you beg for dick." Idk. But it shouldn't be this abusive shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 08:11 PM
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doesn't get laid by woman "YouR juSt a Wh0Re!" Yeah, one you tried to get your dick wet with because [wh0re] but it didn't work out because [wh0re]. Lol Stay mad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 07:46 PM
30

I snorted reading this. 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 07:43 PM
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They were nice women too. Look at Princess Aurora. The victim of Maleificant only because her parents were rude to Maleificant. Aurora just wanted to be free to do her own thing. She sang with the birds like Snow White and Cinderella. All 3 women were sweet and understanding. I did think Prince Phillip was the most handsome out of the 3 men. The guy who pursued Cinderella was considered the most charming but he didn't fight a damn dragon to get to the girl. The dude who went after Snow White did…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 07:41 PM
3

I absolutely adore this man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 09:23 PM
3

SAME
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 09:21 PM
5

Living
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 12:17 AM
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As a straight woman, I've never smelled like fish except for the one time I had BV (didn't didn't get it from sex). It was awful- the pain and all. Other than that, I haven't had any complaints from men. So, what these guys talking about? Either getting with a nasty girl or never been with one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 11:59 PM
8

Can we post more pics of really hot dudes on here? I'm def down for more hot Asian guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 10:57 PM
3

The biceps. My weakness
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 10:44 PM
11

I had just quit my job to finish focusing on school and couldn't afford to. He didn't know about it because we didn't talk anymore, I just paid our roommate. Ex came up like last minute to kick me out since the lease was about to be renewed. He helped me move or otherwise I would have signed on the lease again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 02:08 PM
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Shit, I wish I could get my youth back and not spend it on putting a man first. When I moved out from my ex, he paid for the Uhaul and gave me a $800 PC and nice desk to go with it. Would have been great to get an "Inconvienced me fee" too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 12:50 PM
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Truth. I'm just not in that mindset. Like I don't see how people put up with others they actually don't like for something in a "friend setting." Not professional or academic, but friends. Like, idc what you have, if I don't like being around you outside academia or work, nothing you have is worth of putting up with your ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 12:46 PM
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"Holes" "Fuck hole" "Pussy" "Stank pussy" Scrote my ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 03:51 AM
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I know Shia LaBeouf went on a rant a couple years back about when it comes to men and women he feels like he can't trust anyone because he just assumes people are after his money and not wanting to talk to him as an actually friend/ lover. Went on saying that once you end up making a certain amount of money, that is all that matters about you. (And how he will never escape being the "Transformer boy" lol ). As the saying goes "It's lonely at the top."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 03:46 AM
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What irritates me is when make up is geared towards women, created by men and then men put it on and boast about how they do it and wear it better than women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 10:25 PM
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Dick value is low. Men put out quicker than women. Men want women to be like men. Cat value goes down. Now dick and Cat value is low. But Men don't want a low value Cat. But they also want women to be like men. It's a vicious cycle with women because Men can't come to terms with just being gay for their bros.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 09:35 PM
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I'm surprised I haven't found someone screaming about how racist this post is. EVERYTIME I've talked about how trash white men are SOMEONE tells me that I'm racist. But anyway, I've had 2 discussions this week about this kind of behavior from white men BY white females at my work place. One today was like " I had to serve these bros and they talked over me when I tried talking to them and ignored me then turned around and would get cocky because I wasn't " helping enough." " I asked if they were…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 03:59 AM
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So about the whole not waiting for the right purse and men being confused on not getting the "perfect one." Men do this too. It's called making a woman a place holder ( or a beard if he is lowkey gay).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 03:40 AM
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Most accurate post in this sub
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 09:36 PM
5

but how do you forget one of the dudes in your phone is now married to your friend? You don't or don't consider that woman a friend and/or[probably] both.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 12:34 PM
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God. I love Ali Wong. Haha. Thank you for that. But yes, I have a preference for Hispanic and Asian men because of my "off the wall" standards. Love me some Dolphins.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 12:32 PM
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"My wife serves me with titties hanging out because my dick game fire, my guys." 🙄🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 09:38 PM
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When I read that, I had a feeling that ex- best friend knew what she was doing and wanted to get OP to find out to rub it in her face. Women can be catty as fck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 09:33 PM
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Yeah, I feel not being shorter than you. He can be the same height as me if he doesn't have a short man complex, but not shorter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 12:51 PM
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"Fart in their hand and smell it." I've witnessed dudes trying to light their farts on fire. 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 03:22 AM
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I read the title and rolled my eyes. These women out here hurt my heart. Shit is sad what they put up with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 03:15 AM
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I prefer shorter guys. I don't like men that are broad shouldered and tower over me. I'm average height. Easier to fit in cars and find clothes that fits him. My main thing is no/ very little hair. I don't like hairy asses, beards or legs where I can't see you legs because it's literally just hair. Hate back hair. Not out to date a gorilla. Don't like hairy chests. I don't like pepperoni nipples. Those are my, I guess "off the wall" standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 03:08 AM
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naked mud butt??? I just fcking LOST IT. 💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 02:35 AM
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I bet he stinks because of the hair. I know when my hairpin hairs grow out they tend to stink more than usually despite bathing and DO. It's the damn hair. Hairy men are gross regardless of smell, imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 02:34 AM
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LLMMMAAAOOOOOO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 07:36 PM
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I'm not looking for signs of stroke or ED. lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:14 PM
16

Ewww. I didn't like beards before, but damn. I'm missing out on a lot. Whew. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 04:25 AM
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Having long hair with a round face makes the illusion of having a slimmer face. Everyone playing. But on a more serious note, lol, I don't like beards. Hide the jawline, I'm out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 04:23 AM
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Yeah, being with someone who knows you're okay with it but doesn't push it/ forgets about it because he just enjoys everything with you is nice. But talking about poop dick, I've known guys who won't go down on a girl because "her period comes out from there." 🙄 I feel sorry for the women who date them and actually like being eaten out. I know I will never compromise on not getting out ever again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:02 PM
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The guy I'm seeing knows I'm okay with it and we've talked about doing it. But everytime we have sex, we never think about it because we just really enjoy each other "vanilla" style. He isn't pushy about it and it hadn't come up since the first 2 times we talked about it. He says he has no fantasies and is "simple." And honesty, that is SO refreshing. I used to be a Kink girl with my ex. And now learning FDS and enjoying vanilla sex, that's all I want. Just passionate, safe vanilla sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 03:19 AM
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I've done it before. Twice. And each man took it slow and didn't want me to be in pain. Vetting is so crucial. And if you don't like it/don't want to do it, never ever allow someone to push your boundaries to accepting to do it. Don't allow men like this that kind of access. Or any access to your body for that matter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 03:15 AM
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I feel like the gay community adores the dad bods. "Cubs and bears." And straight men are like... why can't I just be that way? And is trying to make that type spill over into heterosexuality and push for women to accept that look. I know so many gay men who one is thin and the other is a whole dad. Like my ex came out gay and before doing so, he gained weight and wanted to be a "cub" and his new boyfriend has a complete dad bod and is starting to have a receding hairline. Like I thought he was …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:39 AM
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Rights. Reminds me of this IG influencer who was like, "patchy beards and beer bellies are valid." I'm sorry, skinny privilege is a thing among thin women. Yes, skinny women may get hit on more/ sexual aggression from men, but they are still put on a pedestal regardless of eating disorders and may being unhappy with their thinness. Fat women are treated like trash. Overweight/obese women report sexual abuse more than any other size group. So no, I'm not going to accept fat men when thin AND fat …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:33 AM
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Yo this so much. Sometimes I think of putting myself out back in the dating market just for causal sex but 8/10 the sex is shit or the date is shitty and don't worth my time or sexual health. I came out the last phase clean. Don't want to push my luck so imma stay out and keep my legs closed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 12:58 AM
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I saw a post the other day that said "They treated you like shit because they ain't shit. There you go. That's you're closure." Dude ain't shit. Got nothing more to say. Don't tell shit how bad they smell because they sit in it all day and can't smell it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 02:43 PM
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Oh. I see.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 11:01 AM
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Woman bigbrain. Jealousy played off as disinterest. [Small brain violence intensifies].
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 02:38 AM
1

Awe. This really breaks my heart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 02:31 AM
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Mean while, there are subs that will ban you just for subscribing to them and not saying anything because you are subscribed to this "bigot" sub. Circle jerk my ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 02:16 AM
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It would be nice if more people thought this way when having children. We'd probably have less orphans (putting women who couldn't have access to bc/abortions aside) and more mentally stable adults as a whole. Like it irks me you have to get a license to drive a car but can willy nilly have sex and pop out a baby and be totally mentally, physically and financially unprepared. You have to take exams to do important shit and shit that can put the well being of others at risk (driving, owning a gun…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 02:09 AM
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No it doesn't. Parents in general are more depressed than childless peers. Depression concerns in mothers Small study on mothers that work tend to be happier even when dealing with trouble in relationships with their kids. Sounds like you're projecting since I'm not putting motherhood on a pedestal or pandering to it. "DrAMaTic"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 02:00 AM
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So apparently stating how stressed someone looks is bad mouthing them? Never said having grey hair was bad. Don't twist the point I was making.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 10:17 PM
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But I don't reek of insecurity talking about the man's appearance. Ok. Was literally just stating how bad stress can be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 10:14 PM
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Man, idk what causes the Swiss cheese. Met a guy who had fairly nice skin. He went back to his home country for a year and then back to America and I noticed his skin got bad. Like what in the world happened over there? Wouldn't you be more stressed in a foreign country? Like damn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 09:25 PM
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I've never met anyone who says men age well. The only time they do [implying] is when it comes to race. "Asian don't raisin." "Black don't crack."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 09:23 PM
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My old boss in his 30s went from decent late 30s man to looking he was going in 50 after his kid was born. My academic advisor looked great pre-covid. Nice auburn hair. I saw her at a meeting about 3 weeks ago and good lord, I almost didn't recognize her. She was greying bad and had more wrinkles. That's what having 3 kids during a pandemic will do to you. So grateful I'm single and childfree during these trying times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 09:20 PM
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I think I know which one you're talking about. There's a lot of good women centered subs but allowing men to access/ view them is gross. It's sad when you just want help or show off a new style and you become some stranger's you don't even know exists choice to beat his meat to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 08:46 PM
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Reminds me of the story of the woman who was in a breastfeeding group on FB that was suppose to he women only. The main mod allowed men who apparently paid to be there and could view intimate photos of women breastfeeding their children/ talking about breastfeeding issues. One of the women who was a mod called out the main mods shit about how gross it is and that it's supposed to be a safe space. She made a post to FYI all the women and the main mod removed her from the group and was like "the m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 04:34 PM
3

Same same same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 03:41 AM
3

Right, but you could change your perspective.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 10:03 PM
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You could say that the time and money spent to make yourself "fuckable" just makes it harder for them to get laid by said woman. "You gotta be the time and effort spent to go out on the date. I'm not going to put $45 NAKED Urban Decay eyeshadow on for a $6 coffee date."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 09:28 PM
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He's upset that his friends have seen her naked.. dude, it's your fault for sharing pics without her consent to others in the first place. That isn't her fault. She doesn't need you. Hope she got dick pics and shared them and say "People have seen your dick pics. They say it ain't good enough for a ring."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 02:15 PM
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I picked up running and tell people I don't drink anymore because it hinders my running. I don't get invited out anymore- aka, the trash threw itself out. I am on a road to self healing and an introvert, so being alone doesn't bother me too much. It does get lonely sometimes, but losing weight, getting fit and going to therapy feels much better than going out to drink, be tempted to smoke and overall just make bad decisions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 09:29 PM
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Love this. I enjoy flirting and meeting new people too. When I was actively dating I met some pretty cool guys from various cultures. Learned a lot, shared some good laughs and stories. Had deep conversations. There were good eggs and bad eggs, but the good ones were fun (whether I slept with them or not. Eek). Deciding to be childfree is liberating. No one can shove the "biological clock" down your throat because it doesn't matter. I got called a "Single-Loser" by my mother today and depsite it…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 02:23 AM
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I'm part of a woman accountability group and have gotten really big into fitness. It's come to a point where I'm encouraging my friends to pick up running (as that is what I'm passionate about most outside lifting). I had a [male] friend reach out to me today asking about how to go about getting the right kind of shoes to get started in running. It feels really good to be turned to for advice! Last night I was invited to go out to drink but I turned it down to workout because my body is a priori…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 09:07 PM
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Right. Like, be real and not half ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 09:00 PM
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guy in gym "To be more attractive to women, exercise these 2 things: Kindness. Respect."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 08:15 PM
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It's pretty pathetic a video like this even has to be made to say it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 12:02 PM
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I'm working on it with one friend. My mother agrees with some of it but still tells me I need to hurry and find a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 10:45 AM
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Hmm, I can believe a woman did. I get told all the time by women that I need to lower my standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 10:42 AM
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This is interesting. I've never had a woman tell me I'm intimidating to men. I've have men tell me I'm intimating. Well, I've had one. And he basically said that men who feel that way are weak and need a weak woman. Goes back to the whole "love a submissive woman in the kitchen" archetype.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 01:25 AM
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Reading through this post is why I'm hesitant on posting a before and after photo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 01:15 AM
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I did a quick Google and first thing that comes up is Mary Queen of Scots for her husband slept witha man part of their court. It's probably her story I'm thinking of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 09:23 PM
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Is that the queen with the gay husband? I think there was a queen that had a husband who was actually gay. They stuck together to keep him safe and so she wouldn't have to be bothered with another "king to marry." I can't remember which queen that was though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 09:07 PM
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I ignored red flags in my last relationship just so I could keep the peace and still have a bf. Won't be doing that again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 04:50 PM
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I've heard about that and completely forgot. I really need to look into it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 04:17 PM
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Was going to say this. Also, good thing OP didn't because Bless her clit not being licked by such nasty. She dodged a bullet there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 03:48 PM
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Thats what the nurse said. I've never had a STD so to catch something on your own that you could catch from a man was baffling and annoying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 03:30 PM
13

Thank you so much!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 03:12 PM
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This would have been a blessing like 3 months ago. I ended up spending like $300 because I don't have insurance when I got BV. Didn't get BV due to sex though as I'm voluntarily celibate. Idek what caused it BUT NEVER AGAIN. What mg did you take?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 02:29 PM
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A man that spits for lube and gives you a UTI... needs to go see the dentist like ASAP. Like, did he ever eat you out?? Ew ew ew ew ew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 02:27 PM
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I remember years ago reading a post on Reddit by a guy who was dating a woman and he found out she had slept with like 32 men prior to them meeting. I forgot out he found out. I think he asked and she was honest about it because she didn't think it was a big deal. But oh, it was. He was contemplating dumping her because her body count made him uncomfortable. It's only OK for men to collect bodies because [man] but if a woman does it, she is broken.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 02:25 PM
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All the most powerful queens just had dudes on the side because getting a "King" would have just taken their power away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 12:33 PM
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I was actually surprised so see a man speak on this at the end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 10:08 PM
27

Straight men on some other shit. Fr.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 08:32 PM
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I used to be 3/4. I think not being one of the guys is going to be the hardest to break because I've been so since I was child growing up around mostly male family members and all Tom boy females. I think too I have quite masculine energy about me. I'm def not hyper fem but I would like to be more fem. I think I'm rough around around edges as a self protection thing for a slew of reasons I won't get into relating to childhood shit. Oof
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 10:49 AM
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I used to be the same way. It wasn't until after the end of my 5 year relationship I went on a sleeping spree. I was still picky with who I slept with (never caught anything- blessed). I get into arguments about the hypocrisy of men and women sleeping around. My folks ask me if I have and why I take up for "trash women who don't care about you." Sleeping around helped me learn a lot about men and about myself. I don't encourage it because men are trash and women are at a higher risk for diseases…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 10:45 AM
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Decentering your life around a man is so difficult to break. It's been so deeply ingrained in all women (those part of the gay community too) that it is essential to be with a man in order to be successful + have children if you're a hetero woman. Idk if gay women get pushed to adopt or whatever (generalizing here) to fulfill that "being a mother is a woman's sole purpose in life" role that society likes to tell us. Do I feel down sometimes because I don't feel "wanted"- yes. Do I feel great for…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 02:56 AM
8

No lie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 07:05 PM
19

Forehead kisses. ;-; Only the sweetest of men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 06:32 PM
6

Love to see it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:45 PM
19

He shot himself on the foot on purpose and is now crying about he has a bullet hole in his foot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 01:26 PM
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Last guy I was seeing went down on me and didn't ask for a BJ in the car. He raised the bar on a lot of things. So much so, when I talk about that bar with my family, I get told my standards are too high/ need to compromise because men can't reach the bar. If 1 man can create a high bar, another can reach it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 12:20 PM
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This. Also, white men act as if they own white women. (And I'm sure men of others races do the same with their women).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 12:18 PM
21

absolutely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 12:07 PM
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What's the point of sexual acts if you don't orgasm? I've given blowjobs and not gotten off. I've gotten eaten out and the guy didn't get off. Save and build it up for later.. so at some point orgasm is to be achieved through PIV/sexual acts before you call it a day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 01:21 AM
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Same. But with everything said and done, I'm glad I didn't catch anything. Glad I judged right (more or less : p ) and didn't sleep with any nasties. Which is funny because I got made fun of the men I chose to sleep with by a girl who ended up getting chlamydia.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 12:25 AM
15

So many men and PickMeS triggered. "Not my fault your pussy broke." 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 03:37 PM
134

Lmao Where is the lie!?? 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 12:56 PM
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I honestly think men who say that don't get laid very often... if ever. Or they really just don't care about sexual health. I've met plenty who didn't forget to bring a condom because sexual health was important to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 12:26 PM
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My ex did it twice out of the 5 years we were together. He came out gay. So I'll tell you I will never trust a man who doesn't like to eat. Guy I was seeing up until recently was a Godsend. It was like, he was sent to make up for lost time with my ex. There was 1 guy who was SO BAD at it, I wanted to cringe. Immediately turned off. The dog lapping. Ew ew ew. Now that I'm not seeing Godsend Eater anymore, idk if I want to take the risk of letting someone eat and actually be a dog lapper. No no no…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 12:24 PM
33

I've had 1 or 2 tell me this, so that tells me it's actually BS. All the other men didn't like wearing condoms (who really does?) but did not once make a "I cAnT cuM" excuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 10:45 AM
189

Only if he doesn't lap tongue like a dog drinking water. It so, gtfo. Useless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 09:35 AM
4

I did that last summer. I had already been off of OLD for almost a year by that time, but I wanted to get rid of all the useless contacts in my phone. Felt so good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 02:32 AM
55

its not painful unless its really skinny Same. On the smaller side doesn't bother me as long as there is some girth to it. If it's just a hot dog, long or short, I don't want it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 02:26 AM
17

I Google it myself and the first thing was "Why do men gaslight." I shit you not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 02:17 AM
6

Funny because I'm not a fan of both tall and/or white men. 6'2 looking like a broad shoulder scarecrow, nah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 01:59 AM
26

Most won't call back after the first date. I went on a date once. I talked to the guy some and within 2 days was like "lets meet up to talk instead" and things seemed to have gone well. I did the whole "text him after the date to say you enjoyed yourself and like to see him again" or whatever nonsense. He was like "yeah me too." Nothing again. I don't think I sent anyone a text regardless of how I felt after that. The whole "go getter" PickMe thing doesn't work in your favor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 01:47 AM
0

I do agree. Thank you for your time!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 06:02 PM
0

I know it's not how I WANT it to be. I do understand that there is a professionalism at different levels based on the work culture. Having face tattoos or completely tatted up is different from having one or 2 or even a sleeve be visible. I'm saying I don't think people should be judged the same on those different grounds but they are more than not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 05:43 PM
1

It's another thing to declare you have the right to operate a strobe light by the highway. Lol Got cha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 05:32 PM
0

it's distraction. I get what you're saying from this but it's like saying women shouldn't wear skirts or whatever because it's a distraction. A "distraction" that doesn't add or substract from someone's actual worth or what they bring to the table. My field is in Agriculture, which has a very "conservative" culture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 05:25 PM
1

And this is exactly why I hide them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 05:07 PM
4

The tattoo is actually of Black Phillip from the movie "The Witch" but no one knows who that is/ people don't like how he was identified as Satan... so I just say it's "Capricorn Inspired." Or I just say, I like goats. It's not actually a Capricorn as his lower half is hoofed and not fish tailed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 04:56 PM
5

I was talking to my coworker today that my ex left me for a man who had a dad bod at 28, looking mid 30s and starting to bald. Idk what it is with gay men and dad bods. 9/10 gay men that I know personally that aren't dad bods themselves, date dad bods. Most [hetero] men I've come across are like "women like fit men." Duh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 01:26 AM
36

"Rebranded anger as not an emotion." Only when it applies to men. As women, it is very much so an emotion that we aren't allowed to have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 11:48 AM
1

Your whole comment is how I'm feeling right now. Def feeling some type of way and I'm jaded.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 07:38 PM
6

For those that haven't seen it, you can watch it on YT right now for $5 instead of $19.99. FYI. Watching it now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 11:26 PM
6

Ooohhhh noooooo AND an ugly penis. Double wham
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 11:15 PM
26

I don't go on 4chan because of the horrible things I've seen there on women, children AND men. From death of children and women to necrophilia to killing baby animals. Never again. I came here because it seemed a bit more positive and that trash was more hidden. It feels like 4chan is muking its way to Reddit and it makes me very sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 10:09 PM
298

There is an "Iron Gym" in my town. There was a branch strictly for women. "Iron Gym for women." It cost more than the regular one but offered classes like yoga and pilates. The regular one doesn't. I go to the regular one. Full of bros and IG fitness babes. Everyone stick to themselves and focuses on themselves. And from what I've heard the bros don't grunt and throw things down like the ones at Max Fitness (never been so wouldn't know). I've had some guys come up and talk to me/ give me pointer…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 09:51 PM
2

I glad this was shared because I sometimes feel the same especially when I have a family that continously reminds me that men will view a woman who had never married in her late 20s/30s as a whore and that I will basically won't be taken seriously because I don't have a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 05:37 PM
6

My father does it too. If he isn't Christian he is trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 04:49 PM
37

I get lectured all the time by my mother about how I should date older. I should never date younger. Ever. I try to stay in my age group but all this "Do this. Not that. Act this way. Not that. Have this religion and not that. Dress this way and speak that way." I just want to go out to the woods and be free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 10:52 AM
16

Or like do something better with their lives like making a new deadlift PR.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 06:57 PM
7

I think pretending to be someone you are not outside of role-playing communities is fucking stupid. Like get over self.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 06:57 PM
9

I will never take advice from the internet again. When my ex came out "bi" I thought about breaking up with him. But I didn't because I loved him and wanted to be "unDerSTanDInG" of the LGBT community. I went online and some pickme was like "At the end of the day he PICKED ME" (This was before I knew of FDS). That was 3 years in the relationship. 2 years later he dumps me for coming out gay. I'm not out here trying to silence Bi/ say they are not valid but I will NEVER date a bi man ever again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 05:46 PM
31

I know. I was told that growing up. Guess what? I ended up growing up and being a push over and allowing others to talk over me. I'm working on fixing that, but still.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 04:03 PM
44

I was spending time with the guy I'm seeing and I asked him what turned him on other than the obvious? He said he doesn't have any kind of fantasy. He just like the simple things. He said he really likes making his partner feel good and get off more than he likes getting his own. (Which is true- he's done that since day 1). He is a fucking gem and it saddens me that there aren't a lot of men like that out there. I like making men feel good, but it is SO NICE to get my part whether he finishes be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 03:06 PM
48

Not surprising. I bet those men wished it was how it was back in the Roman days. Women were not allowed to go out of the house unless given permission by her husband. "Women should be seen, not heard." Like a child. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 03:00 PM
2

I've talked to a couple and have noticed that. When it comes to degrees, I've noticed I get along with those best that are in my field (Science- Chem, Bio, etc) not particularly Engineering or Math "science"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 01:58 PM
81

I remember "men don't like asking for directions" from Finding Nemo. Thank you Ellen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 11:56 AM
87

What bare minimum? He couldn't even buy her a full meal!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 11:48 AM
19

That would be fantastic!! Haha. A friend and I tried to do something like that in "Create your own Character" in Soul Caliber. His name was "Mr. Fancy." Basically a Chippendale. 😂 But a full fledged out video game would be great. The closest to "eye candy" I can find is when you take a dip into the hot springs of Tsushima.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 11:44 AM
9

No. You're missing the point. I talked about the men to go along with OP. That most "good guys" you won't find to be active on Reddit. I talked about my mother because of the shit she spews at me for trying to no longer be a PickMe and this is the shit I deal with when I talk about all these women's problems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 11:18 AM
32

So frail.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 10:40 AM
45

It's only OK to have women in games if it's like a fighting game and they wear bikinis or other skimp outfits and their titties bounce when they do an upper cut. They have to have long legs too. Be all legs with big boobs. I play single player games because I hate the gamer community as a whole. I'm tired of "hanging out" with those kind of men. I've gone on dates with men who asked if I played PubG. Never have but I know in the past I would have tried everything to play with a cute guy. Now I'm…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 10:39 AM
35

Higher status men can be shitty too. Went on a date with a Financial Analyst for Hyundai and he was pushy because he had money. His breath was rancid. I ghosted him and he ended up texting me about how he only wanted to fuck me anyway. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 10:34 AM
40

Same. I never look at the front page. There's a lot of shit I don't care about so there's no point. I also try to stay out of massive subs like one for kittens or dogs or cute animals. Stuff like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 10:28 AM
11

Same. This account was made to follow FDS and other women based subs/ try to make it a majority woman space/ have little interaction with men (yet have had men in my DMs about why I shouldn't be here) 🙄 But like, I know good men (or at least men that I've found via Reddit and have followed to IG, have long term gfs, focus on work and exercise and are not very active on Reddit). I've met 2 that wow like 2 years ago and one of them is actually really inspiring fitness wise to me (not IRL) just via…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 10:26 AM
29

Ewww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 02:40 AM
11

Dude I'm talking to isn't very hairy and I told him why I like not very hairy men. The "hair sticking out of your ass crack" line was one of them. LMMAAAOOOO This meme is so spot on on how I feel about beards/hairy men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 02:39 AM
12

I guess best thing to do is treat them same. You win some you lose some. No point in taking life seriously in terms of relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 02:26 AM
3

LMMMAAOOOO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 01:36 AM
14

Lol it's like when people ask you ad a vegan "have you ever had meat?" Sure there are some vegetarians turned vegan who never had meat but that is SUCH small number. Yes. I did. Yes, I loved Chick fil a spicy sandwich. Salmon was my go to BUT - [vegan reasons here that are more important than taste]. I know how good bacon is. Doesn't mean it's good for all parties involved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 10:56 AM
9

Yes. I do agree with this. I have come across my fair share of nasty women. Women I have done nothing to them other than just exist and being part of a group. But like, she kept talking shit about my ex's mother (who I adored). Stating about how she shouldn't have married a man like 5 years younger than her. How she shouldn't have married a foreigner and that she was a whore because she married later in life and that's why they had separate bank accounts. I finally gave in and shared that the fa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 09:35 PM
61

I asked my mother why she is always on the man's side and she said because she's met so many nasty women in her life that you can't say it is always the men. Which is true BUT she NEVERS takes the women's side and just defaults that it's the woman's doing that caused the drama in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 04:09 PM
3

I'm surprised- and yet not - that a lot of people here didn't already know this. People really need to get out in nature/learn about nature more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 05:49 AM
45

Another reason I'm glad I'm no longer on OLD or dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 05:45 AM
14

Robbed, Raped, molested and killed. Men just worry about being robbed and possibly killed. They don't get the raped/molested part. Therefore women have it worse than men. Can't change my mind. Edit: and if anyone wants to say "men can get raped too." How often have you heard of a man getting raped after being caught out in public before being murdered? I'll wait.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 02:41 AM
1

TRASH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 05:59 PM
55

And the guy to the left. ALL OF THEM thirsty asf. Ew ew ew ew ew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 10:12 PM
39

The benefits to being "one of the guys." You get an inside look at how men - "your friends" talk about women. Very eye opening indeed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 04:28 PM
12

Oh no! You followed the 6 month no put out rule and he tries to pull that shit. Omg. With another man is interesting. I bet he gonna come out gay later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 02:39 AM
20

I'm just like, she hot asf. You get em girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 02:37 AM
16

Absolutely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 11:53 PM
25

I matched with a guy on Tinder who was cute, liked to workout. I wanted to go have lunch with him... until I found out he had a child via his IG. Unmatched and blocked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 11:46 PM
33

I'm in my late 20s and don't want kids. My mother tells me I'll probably end up with with divorced older man with kids. I appreciate my step father for stepping up to the plate and being my father but I don't want to do that. I don't want kids period in my life. Maybe if they are out of the house... but then the father gonna be like in his 50s and nah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 11:45 PM
117

I knew a guy who would smash a fat girl he wasn't attracted to get laid. He was fat too. She ended up with a guy who was thinner than her but treated her well. The guy I knew is still single. Good for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 10:55 PM
2

I love her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 10:49 PM
3

You hear this all the time. It's cool to have a study to back up the jokes but it's sad when you hear a woman say she has 3 kids with one being the husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 01:37 PM
1

Got cha. I couldn't drink milk. Maybe it's the taste for him. shrug
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 08:04 AM
18

Idky I thought it was due to more protein and less sugar. The lactose makes way more sense. Lol Logical.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 11:07 PM
63

I can't eat regular yogurt but I can eat Greek yogurt. I can't tell you what it is that causes my stomach to go RREEEEE at regular yogurt. It's beyond me. I wonder if your husband is that same way? That's the first thing that came to mind, anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 08:43 PM
82

I find this interesting. Guy I'm currently talking to is a Korean National and he always has me pick places to go because "he eats everything" and wants to go somewhere I like. I don't think he does it out of "low/no effort." We've gone to many places where he asks me about things that I may like and order according to that. Sometimes he gets soenthing he likes but will get an appetitizer or something else that I would particularly like. We end up sharing/eating off each other's plates. I mentio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 08:41 PM
12

(One of) my worst nightmares. That poor woman. It is so paramount to put yourself first. Always.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 02:06 AM
34

I feel not remarrying is a HVM trait. I had an Art professor who painted Bill Gate's daughters room and large theaters over in Italy whose wife was a violinist. She died several years ago and he said he would never marry. He never did. He honored her to his death 2 years ago, continuing his art work and teaching, being a good grandfather to mixed grandchildren and kept up her instruments as if she were to return to them. Good dude. May he rest in peace with his wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 02:04 AM
7

Right. "W0mEn nEeD t0 sT0P pIcKInG sHiTTy mEn."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 06:56 PM
7

Right. Lol. I didn't even respond. I looked at his account, took a screenshot, blocked him and made this post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 06:54 PM
9

An account over a year old just for DMing women about how piss he is. Tsk tsk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 03:51 PM
7

No post or comment history.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 03:32 PM
56

"If I'm going to be treated like trash, at least let him be attractive if nothing else. So that way when I leave him I won't traumatized myself because I slept with something who made me gag. Just need to level up from my stupid mistakes and learning how to take the blind fold off."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 02:59 PM
25

I haven't come across a post or comment about a woman who has had a drug dealer ex. If I have, it has been very small. I've read comments about men who were ugly and smelly- not attractive. The OP had no self esteem. This guy sounds like he randomly picked me to spew that without actually spending some time reading through everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 02:46 PM
4

What is he 3? That handwriting is awful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 09:19 PM
9

America has restrictions but that doesn't mean people abide to them. Like where I live we have social distancing rules but people still almost pack out bars and down town with or without masks. Edit: but I get where you are coming from.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 04:25 PM
1

Lol I live in a college town so it means nothing really. Where do you go online for them? Amazon/ particular website? I like Trojan bareskin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 04:03 PM
3

Yeah, but I'm not trying to add an extra expense for just wanting to masturbate. Ugh. I do have a few lying around from my pickme days. Hmm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 03:52 PM
4

I might get some of that and try again. Not being able to use my toys out of fear sucks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 02:00 PM
3

I just use soap and Luke warm water. I might have changed the soap and used a more scenty one. Maybe that was it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 01:58 PM
7

When people say partner I automatically think they are a homosexual couple and don't necessarily want to say that they are. Like, if speaking with someone they know is conservative or something. "My partner, blah blah blah. They blah blah blah." Most people I know that are heteromarried just say "husband/wife" or their name.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 01:28 PM
21

I see women post this shit all the time. I don't understand why women are even bothering trying to date when you should be socially distancing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 01:24 PM
10

I took a longer than should have time to graduate college and I'll be dammed if someone looks down an me for that. A degree is still a degree and better than not having one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 01:23 PM
37

When I talk statistics to my family they tell me I need to know where those statistics came from. How many people were involved. What cities they were done in (because bigger/liberal cities) skew the data so that way the study gets to meet the agenda it wants. I'm told I shouldn't live my life in fear of statistics. And yet, I am told there are stereotypes for a reason. 🙄 Edit: spelling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 01:10 PM
5

I have a thing when it comes to toys. I got BV from a silicone based one. Haven't had sex in over a year, didn't change my bath soap or laundry detergent. Didn't change anything so that is the only thing I can think of where I got it from. I always clean it before and after use. Most expensive dont-have-insurance doctor visit to get that taken care of. AND FOR WHAT!?? Never gotten an STD so it's not like I'm higher prone to catching stupid things because I caught something stupid before. Or mayb…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 01:04 PM
3

Rolls-Royce because not a Pinto. 💁‍♀️👸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 04:50 AM
18

Yeah. I noticed that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 12:09 AM
3

Idk why you care about your new roommate and their stuff. I don't really like sharing kitchen things. Never have with any of my female and male roommates. That perosn isn't going to be your roommate for the rest of your life, so take it. Glad you did, but I would have from the get go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 06:39 PM
1

I did this once.. only out of insecurity because he was fitter/thinner than me. Self sabotaging behavior. I know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 06:19 PM
16

My thoughts exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 02:27 AM
36

When I read what you shared, the first thing that came to mind was that she was better than him and men get bent out of shape over that shit. I played COD and whooped hella ass and they would get nasty with me, rage quit and say shit like "* I didn't expect her to be this good.*" He couldn't best her in game so he beat her Irl. Men have such fragile egos. He also sounds like a psychopath. "I'm perfectly fine" says the guy who plans out a murder. Sounds like some "based on a true story" movie shi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 02:26 AM
91

I'm so tired of reading women bending over for fucking trash and getting upset about it. It reminds me of myself back in the day (to an extent. Some of those stories the women are HELLA pickme). And how I don't even want to bother with dating. Period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 02:20 AM
92

Dated for the easy until something "better came along." How much you wanna make a bet? Why are people like this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 12:09 PM
3

I think it's because boys are still weak and immature while older men are not (give or take), so girls would be married off to older men who could work the land and actually take care of the girl/woman. Outside being younger is fairer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 08:13 AM
4

I honestly wish America had CCTVs like Korea does. It's a cut into privacy but I think it would help with protection in public areas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 02:46 AM
5

Everyone saying "I hope no one swipes on HIM." I saw it as the girl objectifying herself. The pic as a "you could have a taste of this." Probably after having a full body and pushed up tit pic. Am I the only one?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 02:19 AM
3

I bet these are the type of men who would love for it to be back in the 1600s when girls getting her period meant adult hood. And I bet these the same men that wouldn't even be able to work the land and be a good man in that sense. AND back in the day, those were heavy church times. Everyone knew what you were up to. Get fucked trying to fuck around. PIGS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 02:15 AM
14

Religion- made by man- is used to give people morals "You can't have morals without religion." /s science shows men lack morals in a general sense compared to women *Religion- made by man- is used to give people morals "You can't have morals without religion." /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 02:06 AM
7

I find this interesting because every time I've heard that, it was from the guy and 9/10 = breakup. When it was from me with my ex, I was going to hand it to him and was on the verge of breaking up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 02:02 AM
99

I had a guy tell me to call him Daddy. I did it once. I was like wtf is this shit? I really don't see how people are into that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 02:01 AM
199

She took one for the team
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 02:00 AM
21

I was thinking the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 02:00 AM
140

Her man voice got me dead. 😂😂 Stupid 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 01:59 AM
12

Reminds me about how my mother was getting on to me about not waiting for marriage and how I would be a better "pick" if I had waited. That is what I get for dating trash men. My father told her to leave me alone because it's already in the past and it doesn't matter. I told me mom, oh yeah, them I would have to watch out for a man who was going "being good" so he could fuck the virigin. Fucking disgusting. ALL OF IT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 12:40 PM
10

As a single woman in my late 20s, I'm told I need to start looking for a husband because I'm getting older/my biological clock is ticking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 04:28 PM
19

Right. BJs aren't the same as eating out. Eating ass and pussy ain't the same tongue game either. "t0uCh hEr lYkE dIs." molestes boy way younger Greek culture was very homoerotic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 11:09 AM
3

Matched with a guy from Tinder working on his PhD in BioSystem Tech and I graduated with a B.S in Agriculture. One night we got talking about his research studies of some kind of bacteria and I discussed about mine on a disease caused by algae. In the middle of that [text] convo I realized how hot it was and that I liked the idea of someone who I could talk with that had some understanding of my own studies. My ex installed security cameras (and got paid well) but that scholarly connection def w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 05:10 AM
4

I stopped using FB because it started "friend suggestion ing" me my ex's new boyfriend that moved in a month before I could leave into the house we had leased together. I haven't used it in almost 2 years now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 02:25 AM
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And Greek men would sleep with younger boys (like 18) to "show them the ropes" of "how to be a man." Then after "he was shown" he would go off and "be a man" to a fair lady.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 02:24 AM
7

Omg. This is why I don't do anything like that on any kind of platform. Especially FB! No. No. No. No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 02:12 AM
1

Ohh. I find it interesting you mention that. Growing up I was always told I was a "gluton for punishment." I'll look into this. Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 01:21 AM
3

That's what I've been trying to do. Definitely trying to be self aware and act accordingly to fix it. I think because I know I need to work on these things, I tend to push this guy away. I feel like it's a "right person, wrong timing" kind of thing as I had gotten out of a 5 year relationship nearly a year before meeting him. I think the biggest challenge I need to face is healing my inner child. I've done some shadow work- just a matter of stop being so against myself and concerned about what o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 07:53 PM
8

I've dealt with so many shit men that when he came along I couldn't believe it. I think it might be too late and if it is, it's a lesson learned. Pretty upset with myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 03:00 PM
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Women are less likely to do those things. Men are more likely to do so. Let the men out so they go do it again and then bring them back in for money in a vicious cycle. At least, imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 05:01 AM
30

I'm a cynic. Found the closest man to be HV I've ever met and all I've done is vet him to hell and skeptical of him for everything. Like I'm waiting for him to fuck up and he never does. It's kinda toxic honestly and I wouldn't be surprised if I end up pushing him away due to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 04:56 AM
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"Duty to give a bj." Wtf?? I know plenty of women who like to give bjs and those who don't. That shit ain't no fucking "dUtY" especially if said woman finds out you got a nasty dick. NAH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 04:42 AM
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I went to HS with a girl who had an abusive asf bf. Like he threw a dumbbell at her in their apartment when they were engaged. She finally dumped his ass. They were around the same age (early 20s). She is now with a guy old enough to be her dad and gave him two sons. She always kept herself thin and is now plump and happy (by her FB photos). Another girl I know is dating a guy old enough to be her dad as well. "Love of her life" for about 2 years now. Because young men are trash and I suppose ol…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 03:37 AM
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"she wants me so bad she never replied 👁️👄👁️" Dead. 😂😂💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 03:25 AM
35

Right. SAVAGE AF. HAHA
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 03:14 AM
4

😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 03:11 AM
8

This is so lovely! I've bought lingerie for myself too (in the past) for reaching weight loss goals. One I fit in better now because I've lost more weight! I'm alone this weekend and have cried all day for the past two days and watched Netflix and ate popcorn while eating my feelings. I've been holding shit in so I finally caved in. Today I watched Women of Impact on YT about self love and that when you sense a red flag that you aren't just crazy! Then! I watched about how to properly start weig…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 02:55 AM
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Reading all these sending a dick pic to men reminds me when this guy sent me a dick pic. Not blurry nor nasty. Tasteful photo and I can't remember how the convo came up but I ended up sending him his own dick pic and he was like "I've never had someone send me a dick pic... especially my own back." I feel like that is one of those "once in a lifr time things." I didn't send a guy just any dick pic, but his own. LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 04:43 AM
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If it ain't pretty and in 4k, I don't want it. Blurry dick pics are the worst.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 04:39 AM
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I met a guy who ate me out without me asking after being with a guy for 5 years who only did it 3 times. This dude always made sure I got my orgasm(S) in. Every time. I've actually quit dating because of him even though we are no longer together. I refuse to have anything less than that again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 04:35 AM
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I know. But I was stating also.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 02:24 AM
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My ex couldn't get it up sometimes and he turned out gay. What's missing in real life hetero sex compared to porn hetero sex is the men (for the other man to view). Men jerking off to men. Change my mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 01:52 AM
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pick my nose and butt I AM DYIINNNGGGGGG 😂😂😭😭😭💀💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 01:38 AM
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If I posted about loving small dicks or short men I am 100% sure I would have gotten millions of upvotes but how dare I say I prefer big dicks. Nope. I prefer dicks on the average side. 5-6". I've had some smaller (not micro) and some of them put down better than guys with bigger dicks. (Up to 7.5"). I got down voted and chewed out at that I was lying because "all women love big dicks." The bigger I've had have just been jackhammers like size is all that matters. 🙄 But trying to tell a woman why…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 01:36 AM
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You are right, I do live in the US. I work but I'm being limited as part time because I work for a non-profit. They tell me I'll be able to move to full time when things pick up [ I work at a Botanical Garden] (hoping at my 3 months mark. 1 more month to go to find out) and then hopefully I can be insured. There is no way in hell I'll be getting any surgeries done without insurance unless they say "you got cancer, we need to yeet your shit now." I'd be fucked but double edged sword there. Just u…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 07:05 AM
190

This hit home because I am on my period atm. Oof.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 06:55 AM
119

I went on a date with a guy who was a Financial Analyst for Hyundai and he drove a new Infinity Q50. (Such a nice car. I want one and I wanted to ride in it but I didn't even dare to go there). Dude had rancid breath and was pushy because he had money. He wanted to go do things other than sit at the bar. I wanted things to end so I made myself really boring that yes, I do enjoy sitting at the bar with my friends being boring and watching tennis on TV. That's what I do for fun. /s He was trash (o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 01:45 PM
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I wish you the best!! 🙏 Stay strong!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 07:49 PM
12

So it is honorable for men to have sex but if women have sex it is seen as degrading oneself. What fucking sense does that make? What, a man gets married to have kids and now his wife is trash because she had sex with him? So having dick inside you degrades your vibration no matter if it is your husband or man. Oh man. Do people not see how men are degrading themselves? LMAO But man, you need to get an education and move out or vi-versa. You need an out of that culture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 07:34 PM
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This is why I don't do Uber/Lyft by myself. I did it once and got a man. But I was lucky because all he did was talk about how proud he was of his wife and her accomplishments on XYZ (not related to kids, but work and education) and how much he loved her. Nice dude, but I don't expect every Uber/Lyft driver that is a man to be like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 03:38 PM
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"Being honest doesn't get my pp wet. When I'm honest, women don't like that I actually just want to treat them like trash and hump and dump them."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 03:35 PM
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Apparently being married = babies in the future. 🙄🙄🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 03:33 PM
37

The accuracy is real
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 03:25 PM
35

I thought that way until I was like in my mid 20s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 02:25 PM
21

I find a man like that too. If I wasn't dealing with him I'd def wouldn't bother with men anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 02:23 PM
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But get mad if you don't put out soon enough. 🙄 Edit: spelling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 02:13 PM
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If not having women be submissive, go 50/50. After watching that video someone posted the other day of the woman whose fiance wanted her to go 50/50 after years of paying for everything- he was living a double life and wasn't asking his gf to pay shit. Men will take care of the women they actually care for. I split 50/50 with my ex and he was talking to men behind me back and was misogynistic (came out gay so no surprise there I guess). But even his straight men friends were misogynistic. I thin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 05:49 PM
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I didn't know that! Is that for any country or only America? He isn't part of the American military, was just here for training.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 11:31 PM
10

Right. I told my mother that sexuality isn't a choice (as she was going on being homphobic). I told her that I didn't choose to be sexually attracted to the sex that is more likely to rape and murder you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 12:09 PM
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Back in highschool the boyfriend thing worked when I was at Publix. I lied though, but still. The guy from Walmart was while in college. I had a guy follow me in Dollar General and mack on me in front of his like 10 year old daughter. Iv even had my pictures taken while at Walmart (I didn't know what was happening at the time) but that one pisses off the most. I used to carry around my friend's military dog tag as like a protection charm on my car keys after he left to go back to Korea. I hoped …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 12:05 PM
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I had an interview for a job for the University I went to. (I would love to work for the University. Idk if I'll get the job but I was so excited to even get an interview because usually I get sent an email about how I wasn't good enough to make the cut). Told me friend and they are usually quick to respond and it was delayed. They asked how much it would pay and when I'd hear from them again. I mentioned that the Uni would help pay for a Master's after working for them X amount of years. No con…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 07:18 AM
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Had a friend of 8 years and I went crying to her because of a breakup and she told me to get over it and that she didn't really care. Guess who wasn't there to give her a shoulder to cry on when HER BOYFRIEND BROKE UP WITH HER. Guess who didn't call me crying because she knows how ruthless I am and would have thrown that shit right back at her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 07:11 AM
9

Makes me so glad I decided to quit dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 06:46 AM
8

Change.org let's go
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 06:45 AM
6

Satanic Rules of the Earth #5: "Do not make sexual advanced unless you are given the mating signal." Satanic Rules of the Earth #9: " Do not harm young children." Children are not developed enough to be able to correctly judge and give consent to sex. Even for teens- bigger children. This shit is blasphemy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 06:43 AM
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"My dog will probably like you more than me." OK.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 06:38 AM
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When I see men with good eyebrows, I assume he is gay. And probably the really sassy kind who thinks their shit don't stink.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 06:38 AM
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My boss talks a lot and mentioned having a problem with listneing to speak and not listening to listen (which a lot of people have that problem). I noticed he likes to try to talk over people too. He has done it to my a few times and I just shut up. Usually I don't but I do because this is work and the less personal/non work things I say, the better anyway. It wasn't going to be work related. I mostly open up to those older woman (in her early 60s who is child free and a divorcee who has decided…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 06:28 AM
7

"I follow Dave Rasmey and Joe Rogan" starter pack.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 06:22 AM
18

I remain straight The struggle is real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 06:20 AM
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"YOU ARE A SPECIAL BOY WHO DESERVES MANY BEAUTIFUL WOMEN". They have religion for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 06:19 AM
18

Frat boys have a stereotype for kidnapping, drugging and raping women for a reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 06:17 AM
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I'm 28 and after my break up at 26, the guys I've gotten along with the best/didn't completely have their dicks running their life were around my age (28-33). Every dude I've met at 40 has been a creep so I'm expecting 38 might be the cap for "prime" and it just goes down hill again for whatever low % of men that just aren't complete fucking garbage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 06:14 AM
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"Collect engagement rings like Thanos." Sounds like to me the real Thanos is actually a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 06:11 AM
8

OHHHHH NOOOO 😂😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 05:59 AM
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Only met one guy from OLD that held my purse for me when I didn't want to anymore. Got out of the car to hold an umbrella for me so I wouldn't get wet. Cooked for me. Took care of me in bed. No we still aren't together but I quit dating after that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 02:29 AM
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Had a guy come up to me in the middle of Walmart and asked me out. I told him I was going to see my bf out of town that weekend. He asked me for dinner that following Monday. What part of I HAVE A BOYFRIEND did you not understand? I told him just because my man was out of town didn't mean I was going to see and look for guys in town.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 01:48 AM
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The comment on the bottom of that text is Gold.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 01:52 AM
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After my ex came out as gay after spending 5 years with him and talking about marriage, I'm done with long relationships. Next month we will have been broken up for 2 years. I've only met one HV-like male since the break up but he is a KATUSA... so... yeah. When I think of my future, there is no one but me, my cat and maybe bringing in another animal. I don't even feel like dating/ dealing with any man outside the man I talked about above.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 02:31 AM
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Is this serious? I guess I'm so detached from society and people in general.. and so out of the loop. Like I never thought to use porn as a way of "this is how I should have sex. This is what sex is like." 🤨🤨🤨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 02:20 AM
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I really like this boat and pier analogy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 02:16 AM
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And she got pregnant by that man. EW EW EW EW!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 06:43 PM
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I was talking to a guy once who in passing I mentioned I really love coffee. I enjoy drinking it in the mornings to kick start my day. He didn't like coffee but the next time I saw him he brought me two Holiday coffee mugs! (Not a Christmas present, just cause) and he said he saw them and thought of me and how happy it makes me and grabbed the cups. We weren't even official and I had only known him for maybe a month at the time. None of my past boyfriends did anything like that so it meant a lot…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 12:09 PM
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Yeah, he was a closeted gay that's why he went above and beyond.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 07:03 PM
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Girl, I had it so bad once from this guy it literally made me cringe and go ew- stop. It was like a dog trying to lap water with numb lips. Sloppy. EEEEWWWW.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 11:43 AM
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Psstt. Right They past out second orgasm if not the first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 11:40 AM
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are expected to work like 18 hours per day and spend huge chunks of their free time drinking with their boss and colleagues. No doubt one of the reasons why Japanese suicide rate is one of the highest in the world. Toxic work culture. I've met some Korean guys that deal with the same thing and they hate it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 05:44 AM
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Talking about that. I've slept with a number of guys and the ONLY 1 (this guy wasn't even an official boyfriend!!) asked me what I wanted/liked and wanted pointers on how to do better for me AND he listened. He always made sure I got taken care of even if he finished first. Shit isn't that hard. So like why is that so hard for so many men???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 05:39 AM
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"Are you dumb? You're doing it wrong." I can NOT. 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 05:37 AM
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Not to be a Debbie downer, but my ex would talk to people on other platforms (such as Tumblr and Kik) not via texting and he always made sure to delete those apps from his phone (and lied about having an account) whenever I was around. Because I used to do that with his phone too- look at it for music and answer texts for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 05:08 AM
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I've lived with 6 men in my life. My ex and our mutual friend as a roommate. Both relatively clean. Like I didn't have any issues. Then ex and I broke up before the lease was up and towards the end before I moved out, his new boyfriend moved in (you can guess why we broke up). Moved into a place to get away from living with ex/basically got kicked out of the house- 2 men. I took over a gf's sublease since she and her finance were moving in together in different town. 1 guy was a firefighter who …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 04:58 AM
3

I literally "what?" Out loud. What the actual fck?????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 04:47 AM
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And never trust a man who says he has a big d*ck. Absolutely. Or how fire his dick game is. 🙄 The best I've had never boasted. They let their dick and hips do the talking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 04:23 AM
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Right. It is always the woman's fault some how. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 04:16 AM
4

"$150 is full money worth" of a human for sex. OK. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 04:04 AM
2

The "deadly sins" can actually be your friend if you have a healthy balance. This is when envy plays in your favor- time to go get better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 05:00 PM
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Awe, this made me so happy! And I'm glad your children didn't think it was weird. Good on them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 04:56 PM
3

Looks like he lives in a garage. His looks appear to be placed on what I suspect is a washer/dryer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 03:36 AM
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Roasted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 03:34 AM
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Whhhaattt?? Wow. I bet he was embarrassed by her for getting pregnant out of wedlock and probably found her not worth anything. THIS IS SO SSAADDD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 04:49 AM
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I merely responded to a comment about how a woman had a friend who ended up being a shitty friend and was basically saying that just because someone is a woman doesn't mean they are good people and you should vet even women. Like it was not meant to be blown up like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 03:03 AM
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Congratulations. I am so proud of you!! You are worth your freedom! 🌻 I know what it is like to struggle with weight and having not built good, beneficial friendships because you were busy with your "man." Towards the end of my last relationship I was dipping my fingers more into witchcraft and my spirituality. And bless it, I feel so much better focusing on that and myself over a man. I've lost 45 lbs since the break up almost 2 years ago now. (Fat on my body is so stubborn but I'm still proud …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 02:13 AM
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This is what I'm saying. Talk about projecting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 02:04 AM
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That happened to my mother with my biological father. I think they were together for a year before marriage. He was controlling. Same thing happened to my ex's mother. When my ex and his brother were highschool age, his father cheated on my ex's gf at the time mother who was like his History teacher. His ex broke up with him shortly afterwards and she didn't really give him a reason why. It wasn't until he found out about what his dad did that it hit him. His ex probably knew about it while he w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 01:51 AM
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So lovely!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 01:23 AM
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Sounds like she wanted to keep it and he didn't. I feel so sad for her parents. My heart really does go out to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 10:46 PM
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I've had women im not even friends with nor have done anything to them try to do that. The guy was my ex at the time but she tried to sleep with him to get back at me for just like existing. I'm glad he turned her down and told me AND his best friend (who was HER EX/BOYFRIEND) at the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 10:40 PM
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Goddess bless the flair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 11:14 PM
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Shit is fucked. I've been talking to a guy 3 years older than me with a degree in Finance and is teaching me Financial things. I have a Bach of Science and I've been trying to learn about how to handle money better. Weird how the universe works in mysterious ways. It sounds like this guy is just like "I have money/know how to work with money but I won't teach you anything because I like you being stupid and in the dark." DisguSTING
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 09:40 PM
14

I hate dirty talking. I think it is stupid. I hooked up with a guy once who was into it and I basically told him to shut up because I'm not fucking to talk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 05:14 AM
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We were more like a monogamous FWB because he was only here for military training and then had to go back to his home country. He didn't hide that fact from me. So it wasn't a surprise or anything nor was it a sudden ghost situation.He told me from the get go. Before leaving he didn't try to be like "oh yeah let's do LDR of 7k+ miles away." "If he wanted to, he would have." That is true but I'm very cynical and skeptical so that kind of thing wouldn't of worked out for me anyway. We still talk t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 01:50 AM
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A hot guy is still a hot guy to me. Yeah, I'd like to sleep with them but it is a lust that is look but don't touch kind of lust. So this is why I follow hot men on IG and call it a day. That might sound "femcel-ish" or whatever, but I'm focusing on myself for once. So yeah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 12:07 AM
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I'm a gamer myself but I refuse to date another dude gamer. I had the same issues with my ex of not wanting to have sex and putting his bros and games before. Like I literally thought of breaking up with him so I could go get dick elsewhere. I have a high libido and don't want a man that can't get up. He came out gay a year later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 09:40 PM
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It doesn't bother me because I'm not even looking to date or sleep with someone. But if I was wanting to be serious, I definitely agree and would not be okay with going long periods of someone not talking to me. I don't like texting ALL day, but hearing from them just a little bit everyday would be somwthing I'd want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 08:55 PM
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He sends me nudes occasionally. Considering is the key word. It could go either do it or don't. I'm the one on control of us meeting or not. If he decides to stop talking to me it wouldn't bother me. I do work with a lot of people from his cultural background so it's nice to be able to ask questions that I have considering cultural differences and what not and possible translating things for me when I need it. So I do get something out of him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 08:50 PM
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I already said I basically stopped sending nudes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 05:18 PM
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I know he isn't my friend. I say that when I talk about him to other people. He has tried to make meeting up happen but hasn't because I've made it not happen when he brings it up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 05:03 PM
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I met a guy who would make a 45 min drive every weekend to see me. He paid for all the dates, he cooked and cleaned. He would buy me gifts (not love bombing. He never got manipulative over the fact that he did) and he would take me out AFTER having sex. I did cry in front of him once because I was feeling hella defeated and couldn't help it. He didn't judge me and it didn't scare him off. He would come over even during that time of month (I don't like period sex) and we would just hang out. I qu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 02:58 PM
10

Women also say to never share you're real body count. Some dude asked me how many I had been with... I lied and said 5. That was still overbearing for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 02:47 AM
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That's why I watch lesbian porn even though I have like no desire to eat kitty. 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 02:45 AM
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I had a guy match me on Tinder just to ask how getting laid was going and to chew me out about having "Hail Satan" on my profile was immature and he wouldn't be surprised if I wasn't getting laid because I'm stupid. "Hail Satan" has been a great conversation starter and men with a sense of humor found it amusing. Like, fuck off tight twat. I blocked him with text bubbles still going.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 02:41 AM
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"Go die L0SER" What is he, fucking 12?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 02:38 AM
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Damn that's awful. My dumbass fell while walking to the bathroom during a date once. I had been drinking but I wasn't drunk. I thought it was a good idea to do leg day the day before wearing high heels. My knee gave out and I fell. Peolle looked at me like I was a stupid drunk (good. Less embarrassing. Blame it on the alcohol and not me actually be a dumbass). I came back and was like "did you see me fall?" "No." He still bought all my drinks. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 02:30 AM
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I had a feeling someone was going to bring this up. And I understand that. Sugarless cakes and keto "sweets" are a thing too that is something you could easily suggest to a friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 12:07 AM
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Thank you for the positivity. I'm in my late 20s and suffered from dogma, depression and a failing 5 year relationship. I'm going to do something for myself on my own terms for once. Both of my family has traveled the country and abroad way before their late 20s and I know if I don't act on a opportunity now while still young and free to do so, I know I was regret it.... whether I end up liking Korea or not... I think it will be good to have that traveling and other culture immersion experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 05:53 PM
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Right. I'm definitely not going to pursue anyone that doesn't have a degree like myself.... when or even if I decide to place myself back in the dating pool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 05:50 PM
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First time I've heard of it but I'm listening to it now~ Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 04:07 PM
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I'd never hear the end of it was my family. Id be told I need to grow up and be normal and do my God given duty. I've been thinking getting an ESL certificate and turn my tutoring job into teaching and then try to teach in Korea for a year or two. I have some American and Korean friend over there so I wouldn't absolutely be alone in a new country. This will be my only time to do something like it because I'm not tied down to a man and I haven't found a good job once I graduate in this semester. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 01:59 PM
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I came across some girls who was talking about their friend and how they were sad she didn't want anything sweet for her birthday because she didn't want to get fat or whatever. They were planning on making her a cake and were like "But it's your birthday." Having cake once a year isn't going to make you fat. Sure you'll gain water weight but it isn't fat. I think it is important to find a "happy" medium. Especially if she was keeping her weight in check for men... I think she is missing out on …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 01:52 PM
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In the Witch community this is called "Shadow Work" digging into the ugly- facing your inner Demons- to fully understand yourself and come out a better person. Edit: spelling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 01:49 PM
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☝
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 03:05 AM
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Men that talk about their dick the most are usually the worse in bed. LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 02:33 AM
2

She sounds like a boss. I hope things really get going for her so she can drop his ass once the second child is a bit older and easier to handle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 02:12 PM
19

"Enjoy your shattered glass." 😂😂 I cannot. But srsly tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 02:04 AM
5

Had a guy work his way up (chatting me for a few days before low key asking for nudes). I was like nah. He was like "but we both find each other attractive." And I was like "Yeah, but just because I find a man attractive doesn't mean I'm going to be like ' Yeah titties.' " 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 03:25 AM
3

Girl, the caption has me more dead than the meme. "Shitsonality disorder" 😂😂😂💀💀💀💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 03:06 AM
15

I've been the happiest Ive ever been since being single after 5 years. My ex did me a blessing by coming to terms being gay and calling things off. Looking back I realized that relationship wasn't for me (even when things were good that I miss). I occasionally talk to men but have no interest in dating despite having a voluntarily 0 sex life (and I really enjoy [PIV] sex) because the lack of fear of pregnancy and STD, avoiding negging, toxicity, power tripping and someone telling me what I shoul…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 08:13 PM
9

Own the Shit Power
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 09:58 PM
32

I got so tired of men's shit I deleted Tinder and used that time to pick up a foreign language. I'm a year in learning it and I'm feeling so blessed I made the switch. DitchDicks&PickLinguistics
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 09:43 PM
76

That happend with my mom and my real father (her first husband). He was super sweet until the marriage papers were signed and she moved out to Utah from Florida to be with him. She left him after I was born... went back to her abusive mother. This is shit I fear too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 09:39 PM
15

Ohh noo!! I've had that happen just being outside. 😒🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 09:09 PM
42

That's what I get for leaving my window cracked during the summer to let fresh air in at night. Won't he doing that again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 09:06 PM
39

Oh man. That's awful. Glad you're not with that anymore!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 08:32 PM
102

One woke me up by crawling on my arm earlier this past summer. Like I felt it in my dream. So I had a close call. Just ew ew ew ew ew ew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 08:05 PM
48

Queen shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 07:45 PM
19

So I responded “sup train wreck” 💀💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 07:43 PM
11

Does he have a profile pic next to a raggy Mustang and holding up a bunch of dollar bills with two chains?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 07:34 PM
373

Having a roach crawl into your mouth when asleep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 07:31 PM
13

I'm fcking dead. 😂😂😂 Oh noooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 07:30 PM
112

What I find crazy is that men want sex but if a woman puts out too easily or has a high body count she isn't respected compared to the woman with a lower body count. I honestly think it makes them feel "special" of ' Yeahz I was able to get in there and XYZ didn't!" AND, we are disrespected because they are insecure that we will (can) compare them to other men. So we actually have something to judge against them and even have a bar of sex quality to reach. They don't like women having a bar set …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 03:13 PM
8

I deleted one trying to find a name of a reference I wanted to use for a job application TODAY. I didn't even read the whole thing. Just cringed and deleted it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 04:03 AM
2

Look at the overwhelming amount of women who found it via a link in another sub. I bet 90% of those links were bashing the sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 04:15 PM
32

" I am the Queen and the worker. Do you think I'm a fool to hire someone to maintenance this?" "What do you think you will be maintaining, sir? It surely will not be this."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 02:19 PM
5

Absolutely!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 12:03 PM
15

She is so cute!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 03:45 AM
9

If you have low self esteem though, you get on reddit and ask other people, and you can expect pickmes and LVMs to try to drag you down to their level with their advice. Did this with my ex years ago. Didn't know about FDS. How I wish what I knew now. Time heals all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 02:49 AM
10

I was dancing dirty with a girl once at a party and some guy who had the hots for me got confused and thought I was a lesbian. He wanted to ask me out but was unsure about me because he'd only known me for a short while and saw I was with women. He even asked me if I was when we were alone out side. I said "No, I like dick." And walked away. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 02:18 AM
4

I'm so happy that you managed to get out of that! Reading your story felt like I was reading a horror story. :( Glad that things ended (seem to be ending?) well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 02:12 AM
13

Every big dick I've had was a jackhammer. I don't mind smaller dicks, something about that hip movement. I won't fuck a 🤏 though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 01:37 AM
11

🤌 This one too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 01:35 AM
7

He is mad at you for not liking anal and accused you of bait switch... and says he wouldn't have married you. This man sounds like he needs a husband not a wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 11:16 PM
12

I prefer average to a little smaller dicks because I enjoy anal (with someone who respects you and is willing to work with you). Only done it a hand full of times with that said. I see smaller sizes as "anal safe." The men I've slept with that were bigger were more likely to jackhammer and think their size would be good enough so I'm not a huge fan of larger ones. I've never let a guy in if he eagerly asked. Those types definitely won't listen to you and cross boundaries and fck getting hurt bac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 11:14 PM
39

What is with men changing drastically after marriage. It's a damn stereotype. Happened with my mom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 11:06 PM
8

All I read was Husband: "I want to pay money for women who will allow me to treat them like trash."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 11:04 PM
21

Can't out fart or burp them. It's an insult to fragile ego.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 12:23 PM
32

For me the meaning is in all of it. I baked my ex a homemade sugar cookie (his favorite) and made it into the shape of his car with details and everything. It was the front end, so headlights and the works. (I even made some Pokémon ones for myself to work on my craft). I've never had anyone do anything like that for me on that scale. The closest thing to it was, I was seeing a Korean guy for a while and he made me homemade Korean dishes. Some of them was the first time he had ever cooked them b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 12:21 PM
2

You're right, but I mean, LVM usually don't take you out on a date after he busts his nut either. This guy paid in full.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 11:56 AM
65

Had a man who would eat me out and he did it well AND I didn't have to ask. Bless him. (It was important to me because my ex never did that for me). Definitely made up for lost time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 09:18 PM
37

I had a man once tell me he thought I was intimidating. I took it as a compliment. Own the power. Wear the crown.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 09:15 PM
6

I only dated men I wasn't attracted to back in highschool to get my mother to shut up and leave me alone about not having a boyfriend when my "ugly" friends had boyfriends. 1 broke up with me and the other I broke up with him. My mother and I have completely sifferent tastes in men so what I think is attractive she thinks is ugly... so it's a cycle of bickering. I will never date a guy I don't find attractive even if he has a lot of money. I won't be having sex with his money. I'll just get my o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 11:31 AM
6

"Eat dirt" Lamo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 01:41 AM
4

My ex did all of those. It was SO NICE having a handy man. I learned how to do a lot of things on my car to save money through him. Def didn't complain about cooking for him [mostly]. Just wished he wasn't such a picky eater. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 11:53 PM
24

Dead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 10:15 PM
24

Oh shit that is awful. One year my ex bought me a PS4. He made more money than me and I couldn't return a gift in the same price range. I did get him something he needed though and that was a terabyte hard drive for his PS4. He definitely made use of it. Now I just wish I had it instead because I need it. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 01:14 PM
5

I think you're going to have extremes of the spectrum regardless of race. I've dealt with sweet men and asses of all races.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 03:19 AM
42

I watched a Ted Talk yesterday by a woman who was born with a rare disease that makes her unable to gain weight, fragile and blind in one eye. Someone made a short clip of her and put it on YT... it got million of views and people told her to "do everyone a favor and shoot herself." If men can't get a boner off of it, it is worthless and doesn't deserve existence. She decided that internet strangers opnions shouldn't hold any value because at the core of of the hate, they are insecure with thems…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 02:36 AM
5

Yeah my mom tells me all the time about how I need to stop being picky. We had an argument about how I shouldn't be judgmental about the color and size of men's nipples. I argued that men can have their preferences in small/big boobs/butts and no one tells them to not have those preferences but I can't have preferences because " y0uRe pICKy."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 12:36 AM
14

My ex bought me my own PS4 after already buying his own. I saw on my Snpachat that an old friend bought a PS5 and the first thing that came to mind was she bought it with her own money for herself and her man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 11:40 PM
3

Meh. I once looked up Ulta on Google to see if it were open. Went there and it was not. Google wasn't always accurate with Covid hours
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 09:37 PM
10

Oh he is. He recently turned 21 and my mother is like "I've met this girl who I think would make a great house wife for you." I hear about it more because I'm older (and the only female) and my biological clock is ticking and already fucked up for taking forever to get my B.S. so now that I'm about to graduate with my B.S, it's time to find a stable job and just do it and go find a man to settle down with to have kids so I can "achieve true happiness." My brother and I are really close and have …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 06:35 PM
2

Wtf did I just read?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 05:33 PM
28

According to my family, providing me with a car and sending me off to college were sacrifices and I need to pay them back with finding a good husband and more importantly grandkids. I'm not against the idea of marriage. I just don't want to settle with anyone or have to make a great compromise to my inner person to make it work.... and I don't want kids... so.... yeah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 05:31 PM
21

I had a guy hit me back up to ask if the Starbucks we met up at was open or not (due to covid). 😂😂 Boy you make you 2 hour drive to find out because I don't live on that side of town anymore!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 03:25 PM
35

“You’ll be single forever with that attitude!” Omg. I read that in my mother's voice. 🙄 The accuracy is real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 02:18 PM
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"Trashy" because a woman is wearing a shirt that says "shit" and "fuck" on it while calling out men on their shit. "She isn't going to be fucked by a decent guy wearing that shit." /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 03:56 AM
1

My brother actually sent me the article about her the other day. I was a bit surprised. But super cool for her!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 01:57 AM
2

Happy Birthday! 😺💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 01:52 AM
22

True that. I was seeing a Korean guy who basically did everything this guy does (in the post). He didn't go into too much detail about his family but from the gist of it, his father was a drunken asshole that partied a lot, expected his wife to stay in her place and (I wouldn't be surprised if he cheated on this guy's mom). He was much closer to his mother and older sister than his dad who is never around. He didn't like drinking even though it is a part of Korean culture and was super focused o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 01:42 AM
6

Right. That's like what I'm trying not to get into.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 01:13 AM
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I like a mix of both. It's nice to have sex with a man who listens... as rare as that is. 😒🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 01:10 AM
10

I came here to say this. I have a preference in men that tend to get teased for having smaller dicks. I've had X sex with men with big dicks and the sex sucked. I've had sex with Y men a bit on the smaller side and the sex was amazing. It's not the size of the boat, but the motion of the ocean. Big dick =/= automatically good at sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 01:09 AM
12

Right. My father talked about how he is a good man because he is a provider, but complains about having to do anything around the house. My mother doesn't work. But like, recently she broke her ankle and he hated having to go run errands for the house and for her. The other day when I was home I watched him tell her to go clean the dog shit out in the back yard (she is out of her cast and walking around but has a limp). I told her to go sit down and that I'd would do it. Dad said no, he was goin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 01:05 AM
12

I'm just trying to get so financially independent that whatever I do won't even matter because I'll have money to back myself up. I'm on the outside looking in at my parents marriage and they are miserable. My mother married two different men from the same church. She was/is unhappy and yet pushes me tl find a man in the church because "common ground." I'm a Pagan... so.... And I don't want children... so.... Edit: I've been hearing this shit since I was a teen too. I'm 28 now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 12:57 AM
25

I know that in Korea, it is popular for couples to wear matching shirts so I don't doubt that there was intention at play with the clothing here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 12:53 AM
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Why am I not surprised it's an Asian man? People like to talk about how misogynistic Asian men are, but like 8/10 when I see a man getting praised for being HV- he is Asian. He sounds like a dream.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 12:51 AM
24

Good to see this. My father gave me a lecture about how I need to stop being a feminist because "feminism isn't fun" and that "never getting married will make you miserable." And how I need to find a man to get married and settle down to "be normal." This man is more gun hoe for me to find a man (my mother doesn't care if he is unattractive to me as long as he has money and is white). I want to pull my hair out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 12:03 AM
8

Men just want to boast about how they fucked so-and-so for bragging rights.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 08:24 PM
10

You're welcome. https://instagram.com/leendadong?igshid=mbmiftqy69hw
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 02:43 PM
12

Where is the lie?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 01:39 PM
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I follow her on IG. I love her so much! I love the one where she goes. "My boyfriend asked me for some space." shows a picture of the solar system. "Here is space... it has Venus, Jupiter and Earth, where we are from."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 01:07 PM
5

The only reason I found this sub is from dumb ass scrotes talking shit about it Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 03:26 AM
12

My friend's (male) boyfriend was like "Im a Queen" and I told him no. I'm the only woman at the table and I go by Queen and there can only be one. I'm So queen to the point my phone calls me Queen. I refuse to let men (idc if they are gay) take over the name of women in high power.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 03:24 AM
12

This made me literally LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 03:22 AM
23

Or they go to the bathroom to clean up and you use your hand to finish becuase you're almost at peak and he was too pathetic to help you finish. Might as well of used your hand in the first place. :')
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 12:49 AM
12

I had this conversation with my brother the other day. I was like, if she selling nudes, that money is hers. He was like "If I'm helping her [hypothetical girlfriend] do her OnlyFans videos] "she gotta give me a cut for helping." 🙄🙄🙄🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 08:17 PM
9

I matched with a couple looking for a 3rd back when I just on a hump and dump sleeping spree. Dude would complain about how he was in poly relationship with his wife and she went and slept with someone he specially told her not to sleep with and she had no remorse about it. I only talked to the husband and knew what the wife looked like. He thought of getting a divorce from her but they stuck it through. He kept asking me out for lunch and send nudes (I did in the beginning but then ignored his …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 01:28 PM
68

this is why you don't create life and go drink expensive bottles of champagne with your girlfriends instead And that man looks like he smells like swamp ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 01:18 PM
3

As my mother says "all the good ones get taken by the tjme you're 30." I've heard in Asian cultures (I'm not Asian) these people are called "leftovers." I'm 28 so I guess I'm fucked for staying with a POS for 5 years thinking "he was the one." 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 01:12 PM
3

I grew up being told by the guys I knew (in College) that I look fre in glasses (I don't wear glasses) and would make a super hot Librarian for Halloween- the tie and all. Never went to any of the Halloween Parties dressed as one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 01:10 PM
51

That WOMAN reporter was like "we encourage it with gay men." WTF Is THAT even suppose to MEAN!!???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 01:03 PM
14

They don't see women as people, so of course they don't see us as partners. When I was going through a hook phase post a long relationship breakup, that is basically how I treated men. I even had a platonic male friend tell me "So, you treat men how men treat women." You damn right. They think I was desperate and just using me as a jump and dump, but jokes on them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 02:52 AM
2

💕👸💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 11:06 PM
10

I live in the States. And on top of that, in the Southeast which is one of the most conservative areas outside like central to southern Florida, within the country.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 11:02 PM
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This was years ago. I looked it up and he ended up getting 8.5 years jail sentence over it. This was back in 2015... so he is still in there. He used University equipment and found to have guns and other drugs on him. He was 64... so older than I thought. Edit: id share the the article but I don't want to since it's related to my personal location.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 02:55 PM
42

I KNOW Shit hit me like a ton of bricks. Like it really made me realize how fucked my ex was. Me and this guy never officially dated because he was only here for military training and let me know right from the get go (so no lying/building up a fake relationship just for him to disappear). We still talk as friends but like... that shit really got me feeling some type of way. I'm really grateful to have met him because Lord knows I needed it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 01:41 PM
38

But isn't that a thing like... everywhere? It sucks but I don't think it is something that should let women just decide to stay couped up in their house for the rest of their lives. Go out and enjoy it, just STAY SAFE as much as you can while living.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 01:38 PM
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I have a male gynecologist. He is very kind and respectful. Never gave off creepy vibes. I told him I was sexually active so he gave me some free BC under the table because he hated seeing all the young women walk up into his office pregnant and was like "I don't want to see you walk in here one day like that."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 01:02 PM
39

"BeCuAse w0MeN hAvE iT eASy"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 12:56 PM
23

AMEN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 12:23 PM
49

🙄 Apparently sticking up for your self is anti-fem because "mAn hAtErS."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 12:22 PM
120

I enjoy giving head. I haven't slept with a man in almost a year. That's been my own decision due to covid and practicing celibacy voluntarily. Last guy I slept with didn't ask for head, but I did it because I enjoy them [as long as clean, healthy guy/penis]. He was gentle with me and always made sure I finished and would eat me out (God bless him, he was the best). And he would be excited to eat the out and I wouldn't have to ask. I refuse to have anything less than that in my life again. So no…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 12:11 PM
92

There was a Chemistry professor that was creating and selling date rape to frat bros to use at the local bar at my Uni a few years back. Luckily got found out and immediately fired. He was old [late 50s] white, fat and hairy. Fucking disgusting. And the BR0S were totally okay. LIKE I WANT TO SCREAM. Edit: fixed typo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 12:00 PM
29

At least they gave you a reason. I got banned from r/feminism for talking about abortion (related to the post). My first comment was my last. No reason why. I guess talking about abortion is against the rules or I'm subscribed to some "hate sub" which I can only think it's this one or r/wgtow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 11:56 AM
56

I want to be living it up in S.Korea. my family tells me I need to grow up and settle down, but I'm trying to visit Asia. Period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 11:53 AM
44

This is me. Decided not to take a particular path because it would have caused strain on my relationship due to distance. Like 6-7 hours distance. Sometimes I want to shoot myself for putting a man before what I wanted. I mean, I also didn't want to take Organic Chem but I should have sucked it up and done it anyway because now I'm just in a cesspool of self loathing, regret and talking to a therapist to avoid going into a black hole again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 11:51 AM
1

I think it is Low Value to even date rn. I've been talking to this guy that I met on Tinder for over a year now. There was a dry spell where we didn't talk. I originally matched him when I was going through my post breakup- hook up phase. He made it very clear he wanted to hookup before covid. I wanted to BUT I decided I wanted to meet him at least once before doing so. He said ok. We still talk and now that Covid has hit we are waiting to meet after it blows over. Still going to do the meet bef…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 04:32 AM
19

"BUt viRGIn aHurDuR."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 03:44 AM
10

I've never dated a guy who didn't change his underwear. Wear the same pair of jeans if not dirty, sure, but underwear???? Gtfo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 11:19 PM
18

Say it louder for those in the back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 10:53 PM
3

I feel really bad for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 10:49 PM
4

Takes a gamer to see the BS spewed by gamers. One of the benefits of having a "male" hobby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 09:37 PM
46

I don't have TikTok and I'm trying not to download it, but thankfully she uses the same username on IG.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 01:50 AM
0

I don't think we even had our food yet. But yeah, gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 12:32 PM
11

Not even surprising. They hate to see anything not white.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 12:31 PM
4

That is great! Glad to hear it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 12:29 PM
49

This is the dumbest shit I have ever read. 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 03:46 AM
52

Right, like Barbie doesn't suffer from an eating disorder and cynicism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 03:45 AM
84

My father made a comment the other day about a woman wearing short shorts and a tight shirt and how she can't get mad if something happens because "she's asking for it wearing that." And I was like, "Women were raped back in the 40s and they dressed more modestly" but my comment got dismissed. Tbh, it sounded like he was jealous my mother doesn't look like her. "Young and tight." I have piercings and tattoos but I dress boho modestly so you wouldn't know until I took my clothes off. As soon as I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 03:41 AM
119

Not just a woman, but a non-white woman. White males definitely don't like to see it. Boomer white women don't either. Kamala taking this position is beyond huge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 03:30 AM
32

I remember watching investigation shows growing up and there was one about a woman who was beaten and drowned in a bath tub and it made me terrified of men. Growing up I was a tomboy and didn't care for dating. Looking back now that I'm older, I think watching those shows about women being abused by people who they thought they could love/trust just subconsciously turned me off to the idea of trusting others [men] and I always wanted to learn a martial arts and be a strong "badass" more or less.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 01:43 AM
8

I know FDS pushes for dinner dates but I'm iffy about that because of 1 experience I had. I went on a date with a guy who was like, "I usually prefer thinner girls but you have a nice shape" and more or less was saying about being a bit on the chunkier side allowed for "more cushion for the pushin" and I just wanted to GAG. I'm more liberal leaning and he was going on about conservative shit that I did not agree with. And I just could not wait to get away but didn't want to be rude. He was more …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 01:39 AM
20

she hides the toilet paper and turns off the wifi. 😂😂😂 "I cook for you and you can't even talk to me so I make it where you can't even wipe your own ass." I cannot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 11:58 PM
48

Oooo. I must have missed it but thanks for sharing! This is why I love FDS. 💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 03:50 PM
36

Ewwww. I'm sorry you had to go through that. I've never gone to a bookstore as a date. I went once with my Language Exchange partner (male) and we looked around at the Manga section some but it wasn't "meet me at the bookstore for a date" kind of ordeal, more like let's get to know each other some and be dumb at the bookstore. LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 03:39 PM
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SAME girl same! If I had not of left when I did, I would have been stuck living with my ex and his new moved in boyfriend AND a 3rd male roommate (we got along, but STILL).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 02:56 PM
16

Just because you're good at being a Warlord in Video Game world, doesn't make you fit for the real world to do so. And yes, pun intended.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 02:54 PM
8

mAh PeNiS!!!1 😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 02:56 AM
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So glad I decided not to get back on dating apps. I keep contemplating and I always talk myself out of it. I thought about it again today and ai decided not to. This is confirmation that I made a good choice not too (again). Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 02:53 AM
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I've mostly tried Vegan versions of Korean and Japanese dishes. I want to dabble into Chinese and Vietnamese dishes. I try to stay away from pasta (unless it's a noodle Asian dish) and do veggie noodles. When I first went vegan I didn't know what I was doing and broke and I gained a lot of weight because I ate a lot of pasta. :/ I try to have beans and lentils as my carby staple. I love trying different styles of salads and experimenting with spices with tofu. Haven't had much experience with se…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 05:02 PM
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I'm a white Latina whose Latina side gets dismissed because I'm very white passing. I get told I'm lying about being Hispanic. I prefer non-white men when dating/finding men attractive and it is crazy because I'm told I have a fetish for Asian and Latin men. But it's ok for white men to make fun and turn around and claim how every man wants to fuck an Asian woman/they are the best to fuck and women who have "Jungle Fever" for black men is OK and hot but if you "Yellow Fever" you need to leave As…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 04:54 PM
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Ooo, that's a hard one. I'm a huge fan of Slutty Vegan burgers from Atl. Vegetarian Soul (sales Vegan only food-Atl based) has amazing Mac and Cheese. When it comes to cooking at the house, I really enjoy cooking Asian and Indian inspired foods with SweetEarth seitan strips/products. What about you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 04:46 PM
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Hiiii!! 🥑🐇💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 04:21 PM
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Ewwww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 02:38 AM
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Love you for this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 02:38 AM
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Money used to learn something isn't wasteful, imo. Hope you enjoy/enjoyed your coffee.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 02:33 AM
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is public now, and he sees this as reflecting badly on him. Yep this. When I went Vegan, I would make posts about it. Didn't post slaughterhouse videos, just information and sometimes complaining and I was embarrassing my ex because he was now dating "a cRaZy vEgAN."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 12:10 AM
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I just learned that was a thing reading your comment and my jaw literally dropped. So sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 12:03 AM
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Right. If I remember right, she was associated with owls which I find ironic because Athena- a woman associated with war, political power and highly respected despite her being over "male things", on top of being a Virgin (symbolizing having control over herself) symbol was an owl. It's like here is an Owl, being associated with a woman with XYZ positive attributes gets "spoiled and demonized" by a different woman (from a different lore) who more or less wanted to be (independent and powerful) l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 02:44 PM
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Basically Lilith and she was demonized.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 01:09 PM
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I feel this on a spiritual level
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 02:08 AM
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I used to have set dates two weeks ahead because I was already booked on the weekends because I worked late during the week and couldn't set weekday dates. "Oh, you want to hang? I'm busy the next two weekends. Let's meet on day X."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 03:48 AM
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17 bodies falls down to 7 that actually was worth anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 11:20 PM
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I know dudes whom if I were to say something like that they would be like "Calm down." B!tch. MAKE ME
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 11:57 PM
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I fucking cannot 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 11:55 PM
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My my ex and broke up the first time (I know. I know better now). Ex's best friend at the time "was there for me" to listen to me complaina nd shit and then he got nasty because he got tired of listening to me and me not putting out because "he was nice." Yeah, only nice because he liked me way before ex and I started dating g and he was trying to use me being upset as a way to fuck me to help me "get over my ex." Ex and I got back to together and I told ex what happened and that friendship burn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 11:54 PM
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Hahaha, RIGHT. I enjoy lurking at certain male nude pages on Reddit because I'm single and it is astounding how many old creeps try to hit up these young guys. Men gonna creep whether you got a dick or a vagina as long as you're under 30. GROSS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 11:49 PM
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This is powerful and I feel this rings true way beyond dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 11:44 PM
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Right. Because apparently the most attractive women are teens but legally you can't have them so the next best thing is just barely legal (18-22).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 07:01 PM
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Oh shit. Damn. Last I read on it they were trying to make moves. Fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 12:55 PM
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The man who treated me the best in AND out of bed was a bit on the fem side. Like I thought he was lowkey gay at first. Nope, just a strong guy who isn't afraid to be squishy, mushy and melt in your lap. We only dated a while before he moved back to his home country. We still talk as friends. However, I learned a lot of what I deserved from him and if I ever decide to date again, I think I want a more fem guy. He was competitive and sometimes jealous of other men BUT he wasn't toxic nor played t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 03:15 AM
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Been nearly a year since I've been with a man. Only time I get like a YI is due to sweating too much and not changing fast enough. What is great though is that when it happens I don't have to worry about it possibly being a STD. If I don't feel good or have breast tender shit I don't have to worry about "oh, am I pregnant?" (Pull out with partner/ not on BC because $$$). Anyway- it is such a refreshing feeling not have to worry about it anymore. Like I get excited just knowing I don't have to wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 01:19 AM
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This is like the coolest single mom I've read. I know a single mom who I went to highschool with but she is a bad ass. She has a man now, though - after losing 100 lbs. But you go get it!! 👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 12:19 AM
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Awe. I like this. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 07:57 AM
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I want to be a spoiled brat who gets lots of love too. #goals. Haha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 12:33 AM
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"Talking filth the same day I was in labor." That's some shit a man would murder a woman over. AM I WRONG??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 10:12 PM
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They hate it because "KPop Idols look like girls." KPop idols are "too feminine and wear makeup." It destroys everything they were taught of what a man should look and act like to get the girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 09:35 PM
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😂😂😂😂 It seems like the only way you can have a guy friend in the friend zone is if he isn't into tacos and butterflies but more into burritos and pucker lips. 😂😂 But in all seriousness. I have a bi male friend who is in a relationship with a man. Before I even knew he was bi we had a mutual understanding that we weren't attracted to each other and just genuinely enjoyed each other's company with no sexual alt motives. I have a straight guy friend who I even admitted I have feelings for him (back…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 03:32 PM
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Not even a Beta. Below an Omega. What's that? I think dirt. Grits of rock that people spit on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 01:36 PM
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All too often we dismiss even the tiniest red flag because of our own desire to want someone and in the end we lose ourselves I did this. Ignored them. When I found concrete things I STILL stayed because "Im uNdERsTanDIngG." To make a long story short- ex came out gay after 5 years. I was his beard. BUT Im the bad guy for telling him to fuck off and not be friends anymore. Ok. Im not homophobic at all. My best friend is a gay man. Its just... after EVERYTHING, (I didn't knownwhat a beard was til…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 01:34 PM
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Yeah, fuck you Alex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 01:31 PM
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I slept with a guy who loved my boobs., but proceeded to neg, "You would be really attractive if you lost some weight." That was AFTER losing 30 lbs. I know! I'm working on it! THANKS FOR THR REMINDER. I kicked him out and he was like yeah, we probably won't see each other again. I EYE ROLL Obviously. Then he proceeds like a week later to text me that he wants to sleep with me again to redeem himself (he came early) and play with my boobs because that was his first time playing with boobs that b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 01:28 PM
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Reminds me of one time when I fell into the dark pits of Reddit... one sub leading me to another. There was this fat (I think more like on the morbidly obese side) gamer (the cheese stained, old pizza smelling, lives in mom's basement kind) who made a post of what he was looking for. Said he wanted a small petite Asian woman would would clean and cook for him and she had to make sure she had long Asian hair because it's pretty and be OK with him playing video games all the time. Oh BTW, he does …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 01:23 PM
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This hit SO HARD. Never really thought about it but you are right. Shit is wild. Thank you for your Ted Talk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 10:09 PM
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I've been talking to a guy (way before Covid) and we haven't met yet [and that had fallen on me/my decisions] and said guy doesn't want to meet during this time and I respect that. I thought about a legit walk in the park but I think that's lame and still poses its risks. I have a friend who essentially says guy I'm talking to is LV because he is too much "of a b1tch" to actually meet [despite said guy making it very clear he wants to meet]. Guy I've been talking to and myself have yet to catch …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 02:15 AM
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I live with a male roommate and I really dislike him. Dirty. Stinks. Pathetic. Like.. I have 2 males friends who have met him and they are like "he is worthless." He tried hitting on me after I told him a guy I was seeing moved back to his home country but I shut that down. Dude got covid and brought it into my house. (Luckily I didn't get it). I shut down him even trying to make small talk to me. He only talks to me via text asking for utility money or ask me a question. I'm here because it is …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 12:12 AM
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Omg. That is AWFUL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 11:45 PM
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💀💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 07:05 PM
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had an "amazing" date in a laundromat Idk what girl you're talking about and I thought I was a PickMe but holy shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 07:01 PM
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I finally called my University's Counseling services in order to get therapy. I asked 2 questions: Are you still proving therapy (because Covid) Can you do it every year or only once you're entire time in college? Answer 1: Yes. Answer 2: You can do it every year. All I want to say is that I am happy I can get therapy again (for free) and I am upset because previously I didn't know you could use it again.... or I would not have dropped out of college for 2 years to try to catch a break.... This …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 12:35 PM
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This. I let my front down a lot with my mother and she was like "You've changed/ you need to get laid." (It's been a long time) but that has nothing to do with how I'm acting now. I just give less fucks and those less fucks care less about how you feel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 07:54 PM
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I was seeing a guy where I stated in passing I really enjoy coffee. coffee culture... the whole shebang really. He was more of a tea guy and didn't drink coffee. Next time I saw him he brought me 2 coffee mugs. They are Christmas/Holiday mugs. They aren't the best (the handle gets hot) and not exactly the type that I would personally collect BUT I cherish them because that was the first time someone got me a mug randomly because they thought of me. My ex would get me collectable mugs when he vis…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 06:26 PM
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Right. And just imagine if zombies were like how they are in "Last of Us."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 01:44 PM
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I dated a guy for 5 years who dropped out of Mechanical engineering but was able to get on installing security cameras across the country (lucked out because his dad works at the same place). When we broke up he was making between $60-65k. I was just a depressed college student making less than $20k struggling to pay my half of the bills along with student loans when I got dropped out of school for 2 years because I was mentally burnt out). Anyway, I'm back in school about to graduate with my B.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 01:25 PM
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Saving
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 01:13 PM
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I tutor English to Chinese nationals and it warms my heart when the woman clients tell me how they are working on pursuing education and don't really care for dating or having children/don't want to settle as a mother. Sure they want to have men that provide but they would also like to provide for themselves. A lot want to get into top Chinese universities and if not, just do well overall and get to go abroad. It makes me really happy they express it to me even though they feel like they can't r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 03:53 AM
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You too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 02:24 AM
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Oh wow. That is so cool and nice. Wish that was a thing here b
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 12:14 PM
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I know when I go running and see creeps off in the distance, I ALWAYS feel better when someone near by has a dog.. . so I try to keep up with them on the trail on my way back to my car because I feel too uncomfortable to continue running by myself. After my dog died and I got a cat, I come to realize I really love just having a cat. But on the other hand I would love a running buddy and just someone there (dog) to make me feel safe when out by myself because sometimes you just can't exist and en…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 01:07 AM
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What is mind blowing is that the first thing women think of to be afraid of IN THE WOODS is a man. Not a bear or a courage but a fucking human with a dick. That shit is whack. BTW, what is the book called? I'd love to give it a read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 01:02 AM
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Amen. 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 12:53 AM
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I've had men worry about me and I'm just like "you're the one I'm worried about, not myself." Out of the ones I have asked about their tests, I haven't had any issues. Blessing there but I def won't be sleeping around again. Never got anything when didn't use protection and never had an oppsie. So im counting my blessing and not going to gamble my luck again. I striked out lucky so I'm good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 09:48 PM
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I've worked retail pretty much all my life and I'm about to graduate with my B.S and I'm so terrified of having to resort to retail or hella heavy customer service based jobs. I just fucking HATE customer service. I want to be in a lab but that's for Master students usually and I need either join the military to help afford that, or get out more loans OR hope I get a job that pays enough so I can pay off my debt for my B.S and then save up for my M.D. I want to close the chapter of retail/restur…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 02:17 PM
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This hit home because while reading through this I was like "that used to be me." I swear FDS is like the therapist I need in the meantime of not being able to afford one (one day I'll get one and continue to read FDS). Answer to question: I'm close to my brother and we talk nearly everyday. What is crazy is that he does have some LV qualities but does things that men in my life hasn't done. For example: he was going to buy me a running jacket and took pics of the different colors they had in my…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 06:52 AM
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I'm glad someone found it useful. Completely forgot I posted this. You're welcome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 09:18 PM
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"Good luck finding someone who actually brushes their teeth every morning, like me not doing so is a flaw." That is all I read. Wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 04:34 PM
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They absolutely know. There are some male dominate subs where men are like "Bruh, don't do that because it makes it harder for non-creeps to get laid." They even struggle with the BS of other men. Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 11:37 PM
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THIS. Absolutely no OC
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 12:31 AM
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I wish I knew. :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 01:17 AM
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Right. Getting help with the kids definitely helps too (which money helps obviously). Crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 01:48 AM
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Also just having a really good skin care routine too. I know Paris Hilton is all about skin care routine. Like I would be too if I could afford a legit red light mask and some of the tools used at a spa. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 01:05 AM
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Now answer me this- how many of these women have children?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 01:03 AM
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I have a bi [male] friend who was trying to get serious with a guy who was emotionally unavailable. Dude ended up saying he was hung up on a guy he never dated and didn't even know if he [the guy he was hard crushing on) was gay or not. Like how you not know if he is Hetero or not after all these years? Some men wild (narc) trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:41 PM
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Wow. The fre years age gap is one thing but 20? 🙅‍♀️ I've found a lot of men that age on Reddit hunting for younger (gay) guys. Don't ask me how I know. These dudes out hunting regardless of sex and it's sickening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:38 PM
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Ok. Thanks for the clarification. That's what I thought but I'd rather know for sure than to assume I'm right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 03:14 AM
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I've seen so many women look at Western girls as stupid for dating [at least Muslim men] (I don't want to use desi incorrectly so I'm going to avoid using it) because those kind of men usually use them as a living flesh light before getting married off to some random Muslim girl. I've noticed these kind of men be complained about just about as much as American men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 02:24 AM
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Ran into one. His Tinder profile said 28. We didn't talk for a year. He said he was 33. Like boy, I know your profile would be saying 29 by now. He was still hella fine but miss me with that shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 02:18 AM
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You go Hannah. The universe works in mysterious ways... make the best of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 02:17 AM
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"Nob0Dy wAnTs uSeD g0oDs."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 02:16 AM
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This hit pretty hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 02:08 AM
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Queen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:29 AM
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That cock and bull ginger won't give you STDs. Good choice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:25 AM
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WOW. Just wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:22 AM
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You beat me to it. Haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:19 AM
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Reminds me of the skit Ali Wong did about how when she got married to her husband- his parents asked they do a Prenup to SAVE HIM from HER trying to take his money if they filed for divorce later. So the joke goes that if they were to get divorced he would be fucked because she's the bread winner and it would be his family's fault (and his for being ok with it). Because that was before she became the big comedian she is today. LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 01:20 AM
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This just made me realize that the closest guy that is a HVM I've ever slept with never did that to me. Facials don't bother me- everyone has their guilty pleasures- but I did just put two and two together. Either way, I'd be fine if he did. LMAO. Goes to show who is eagar to degrade you and who isn't says a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 11:52 PM
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Oh wow. I never dated that low. I prefer mine to be fit, nearly hairless and actually keep up with a skincare routine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 05:54 PM
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I'm about to turn 28 and feel that way. Like people make you feel that life is about over when you hit 30
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 05:00 PM
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I dated a giy in highscool during our senior year who dumped me for a freshmen. And then he and his friends were like "aw man, damn, you fucking a freshie/so cool" 🙄🙄🙄 And Im over here crushing on a man almost 10 years older than me. lol Look but don't touch.... well now I can touch as I'm at the age if dating either mid 20s or up in the 30s. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 01:20 AM
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You can tell when they fresh out of highschool. Reek of cringe and silly smiles and lanky muscles. I really don't see what is so attractive of men and women of lates teens and early 20s.. But I've always been the type to like older/filled out folks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 12:19 AM
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I didnt know that. I thought it was just blacks period. Yet I'm not surprised, that's how things ended up being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 06:26 PM
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Right. And it's fucked up about how they compile "all black women are ugly." And these are probably the same type of guys who fetishize the hell out of Asian women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 02:05 PM
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There was a guy on Reddit right around when Covid-19 hit that ststedhe wanted an open marriage for like 6 months or something. His wife was having more fun than him and he wanted to end it and she was like "No. Onc ethe quarantine lifts, I want to have my 3 other months like we had originally planned." I find it funny that if they aren't the ones having all the fun, then no one can have fun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 03:47 AM
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Ignoring red flags that your man might actually be into men for the fact of staying together to say you have a boyfriend... Only for him to break up with you 2 years after you found out he was "bi" and stayed with him because you are "unDERstAnDinG" during your 5 year relationship because he came out gay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 03:26 AM
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Lol Reminds me of a married guy looking for a third. His wife knew and she slept with others (he told me about how she slept with some giy he didn't want her to sleep ait and their drama). ANYWAY After getting out of a 5 year relationship I was like "fuck it, I'm down for a 3some." We chatted some... found out I wasn't as interested. We got along but meh. He kept wanting to meet up and Id blow him off until i eventually told him that I (after spending some time on this sub) did not want to be a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 03:23 AM
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Funny because everyone I've seen from here is like banging. Hot girls looking for winners here. Ok? Ok. Thank you, next.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 03:17 AM
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I have a friend's military dog tag that I carry around on my car keys. I've noticed some men eye it sometimes when I'm out and about as I lowkey use it as like a protection charm. How awful is that? Sad. I know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 03:14 AM
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Had a guy come up to me at Walmart and asked me out. Said I was going out of town for the weekend to see my bf at the time (true). He then asked if I would meet up for dinner with him when I got back into town. Like, just because I'm in a LDR doesn't mean I'll be seeing folks IN TOWN. Geez.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 03:11 AM
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The women on the left are lighter skinned than the woman on the right. Def gives racist vibes as well... as for when women finally got the right to vote, blacks couldn't until much later. There is so much going on in this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 03:08 AM
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Love this! I went on my IG a few weeks ago and deleted all photos of my me and my ex... even if I liked how I looked and even of the dog we got together. The only pics I didn't delete of him or the dog is if it had MY DOG that died in it and/or my cat when he was younger (all with the dog) so no more pics of my ex (up close) anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 03:02 AM
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I ALMOST CAN NOT BREATHE 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 02:59 AM
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I grew up listening to her. Absolutely love her. Your comment makes me feel old just now listening to "Only Time." It's def a classic and she will die a legend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 02:54 AM
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LMAO Reminds me of the guys I knew through my ex. I have a preference for Latin and Asian men and when they (white and black men) found out I had slept with an Asian guy it was "smAlL pEePee" jokes. Like bro, you sounding hella gay for wanting to talk about a man's you don't even know penis. Like do you watch Asian male porn? Is that how you know All Asian men have small penis? /s Telling me how I'm doing Asian men a service for sleeping with them because they can't satisfy a white Latina woman …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 10:14 PM
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Found this post due to your most recent post but I want to share my preference! Preferbally 5.5-6.5" uncut, with an upward curve with some girth. Not a coke can nor a hot dog. Has to be anal safe and not "loosen up the pussy." Tight balls over droopy bull balls. I find men that tend to be on the "Average/Smaller" side preform better sex and eating game than men with bigger dicks who don't like to eat out, have a weak finger game and just jackhammer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 09:51 PM
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Nope because I'm broke. Ex bought me a PS4. I bought him a terabyte hard drive for his PS4. Not exactly equal to the price of a PS4 but I tried. It's the thought that counts I think, which is better than say being able to afford the PS4 but choosing to do a beach walk instead because it's way cheaper.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 08:53 PM
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"Your standards are too high. You'll end up alone."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 03:38 AM
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My parents wanting my late 20s self to find a man to give them grandkids. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 06:24 PM
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Yeah I don't like that word either, hence why I used it. Not compromising = "standards too high/you'll end up alone because no one is perfect." Yes, no one is perfect, but I'm learning to live my life for me and will only invite someone in who adds to it more than they take away from it. No more, no less.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:51 PM
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Brushing your hair and teeth. LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 04:15 PM
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I'm so happy I don't feel the clock ticking Same, girl. Same. It's as much of a reliver as it is a blessing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 02:52 PM
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LV dickstand I can NOT. 😂😂😂 Tbh, I feel like this [may possibly] account more towards women who want children [compared to CF women] because they [feel] they need to settle for someone in order to have kids before their "biological clock" time is up. As with being CF, [we] don't have that pressure against us to [settle] for the sake of having kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 02:33 PM
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Sounds like you're trying to train a dog. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 06:46 PM
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"BUT he's so hot though!" /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 04:45 PM
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I havent seen the movie yet but this is great. There's a KDrama called "Crash Landing On You" and it's about this SK woman who built her own fashion empire by herself who gets lowkey shit on by her elder brothers because she hasn't taken a suitor (who is simply after her money and won't allow it) yet is so successful her father wants to hand over his business to her. Well, she ends up getting lost in NKorea by a freak accident and has to find her way back to SK before she is announced dead and h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 01:47 AM
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"I work a dead end job and she says I'm Incredible. Makes me feel good. I don't like her saying her friends are incredible because I need her to only say it to me because I need them more to stroke my ego."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 04:54 PM
8

I only had the "wouldn't stop and easier to get it over with" once. Said no 3 times but he STILL INSISTED. It also made me realize I had MAD FEELINGS for someone else. It is the closest to thing to rape I've felt even though he did not abusively force himself on me. I took a plan B for just in case even though the pull out method was used. Had him pay me back and he apologized and I'm just happy I got the money for the Plan B and no STDs. Quit sleeping around after that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 10:00 PM
26

Yeah, I got that too. And I got "You looked so nice with long hair." No one tended to it BUT ME. No one asked how I felt about it expect other women who did it too and we talked about how refreshing it was. I'm growing my hair back out now... it's to my shoulders now but I don't regret cutting it. That chop was much more than losing my hair. It did a 180 to my life. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 09:44 PM
60

I cut my hair shorter than my ex thought I was going to do. He thought I was doing a bob. I did Pixie cut. I think it trigrered him because a few months later he came out gay to me. 💩🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 09:25 PM
2

Thank you!!! Yes. I'm finishing my B.S way later in life but I'm so grateful to be here (and never been pregnant, no kids, no STDs, in good health). Glad you got your education before a man too! I won't be putting a man before my education ever again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 04:34 PM
16

Lasagna. These comments are lit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 03:06 AM
11

Oh nooooo. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 03:06 AM
4

water faucet I am dead. 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 03:06 AM
3

AMEN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 03:01 AM
2

I wasn't. I was just stating. I clearly said I wouldn't pay for therapy for anyone but myself. Without saying it I was stating that at the end of the day, people should look out for themselves. If you are encouraged or feel the need to go to coupke counseling, you're basically burning money because it's the same thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 01:39 AM
1

I know a guy who paid for relationshop therapy out of pocket to try to get his ex to stay with him after she cheated on him with his best friend. Then she was the type to pretend she was interested in him just so he wouldn't talk to other girls while she talked and dated other men. She had that man on a collar. It was really toxic. But yeah, I wont be spending money on therapy for anyone but myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 01:30 AM
3

Note to my 17-19 yr old self: " Don't just date a guy to get your mother off your back about not having a boyfriend. Don't cry in front of ex when he breaks up with you out of fear of your mother and not because "y0u l0ve hIm." We both know that shit nonsense. You nevrr believed in highschool boyfriends. Just because a guy says he will fly down from New Jersey to take you to Prom so he can see his friends- that shit isnt sweet. Prom isn't really that important. Don't live your life in fear becau…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 01:27 AM
7

Privilege
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 11:45 PM
11

When my ex dumped me I went back to school (graduating with my B.S this Winter!!). I'm in a lot more student loan debt than I should be... because I took two years off of school and merely made minimum payments while I was out of school. But it is what it is. I'm looking forward to a bright future and eventually getting into a Masters Program... because at the end of the day I value advanced education more than a relationship. Sure the expense is going to suck, but I think having advanced educat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 10:56 PM
3

Yeah I would know and it hasn't gotten me anywhere good. I am selfish but have always put others before my self and that shit is fucking stopping.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 10:54 PM
19

Right. To spread their seed even more so because it's better/more superior than their men's. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 04:38 PM
77

Well, humans are essentially pretty selfish, let's be honest. Society just pushes the agenda that women shouldn't dig into their selfishness because men are already doing that and someone has got to have their cake and eat it too... but it can't be women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 03:30 PM
35

"Throwing dick pics like flowers girls at a wedding." I CANNOT. 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 03:28 PM
43

As a straight woman, sometimes I can't stand straight men. Edit: Let me just say that I get along better with men that are part of the Spectrum than I do straight men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 03:02 PM
59

Polygamy was a survival tactic. Knock up 2-3 women and then go off to war that you may not come back from. But hey, the women are pregnant so essentially men were mere sperm donors and fought battles. We don't live like that anymore, so there is no need for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 02:57 PM
11

Tiana's man was the lowest. He was negative value. She deserved way more than what he offered. At least Aladdin saved Jasmine from being Jafar's sex slave and Shang come through with dissing his culture's misogynistic ideals towards women even though what Mulan did was to be punishable by death. What did what his face I don't remember do? Nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 11:49 PM
13

Or her toes. Mahbe that's why it seems like a lot of tnise men have some kind of a foot fetish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:27 PM
27

Nah. It's her heel in those sandles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:06 PM
5

Love me a man who colors and tweezers his eyebrows, uses toner, lotion, wears a mask and BB cream. There is nothing unmanly about good beauty habits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 02:28 AM
41

The last one... Anytime I complain about men to my mother she always says "Forget your ex and move on." Like... it's not just my ex, it's men period, mother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 01:37 PM
18

I live in a Hick state and I'm wanting to move so that way the dating pool will be more than frat bros, military bros and country bros.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 12:37 AM
2

I did that. He ended up making $45k more than me and then dropped me for penis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 12:34 AM
21

This is why I will never date another video game guy even though I'm a gamer myself. They are such trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 12:27 AM
9

Your comment gives me hope. You're living my dream. In my late 20s but working on getting to a position to do those things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 12:26 AM
2

"I d0nT lIkE t0SseD sAlAds, br0."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 08:45 PM
21

Same. My ex hated vegetables and then I went on dates with men who liked spicy food so then we (I could have him take me to Indian or Asian restaurants) and we would get vegetables together and share our meals it was attractive like WTF? LMAO. But seriously, I refuse to date another guy who doesn't like working out and eating his veggies and is a picky ass eater.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 08:41 PM
13

This has me crying- his death, what he did while battling his own challenges- and I've never even met the guy. Life is strange.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 05:34 PM
0

What's the sub? I haven't heard of it. And yeah, addictiom doesn't discriminate but you don't see men going on reddit about his gf's addiction and him feeling insecure about the men/what she watches and how it's hard to get her to cum in the same way and amount you see women do it, either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 10:16 AM
12

I feel that. I was talking to a fit dude and we even slept together and I just assumed he saw me as an easy fuck looking for "validation." We hooked up first and I thought it was going to be a one night stand. I asked why he kept taking to me considering he was fit and I wasn't- he said it's about "your mind." [English isn't his first language] and my size did not exactly matter. He was always excited to go workout with me and take me out on dates and hold my hand in public [so wasnt ashamed of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 02:35 AM
7

Yep. Dropped 45 lbs and picked up a foreign language. Slept with some dudes that ate the kitty post breakup and realized wtf was I doing compromising on not getting eaten out. I practice celibacy now but wouldn't have it any other way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 02:21 AM
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I think porn addiction is just a man's problem. I grew up watching porn and I don't have an addiction. I just preferred Tumblr more back in the day because it had gifs of the parts I wanted to see without having to look for it in the video. Lol Rarely watched it when with my ex. Now that I'm single I watch it occasionally more with my picky ass. Lol I prefer my own visualization... so it sounds like to me that men lack imagination.... in turn, imo, a lack of maturity- empathy, social skills with…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 02:14 AM
6

I was talking to what seemed like a HVM... only to turn out like the others. I was convenient until I wasn't. Instead of complaining about the things I didn't like that he was now doing, I just told him "I wish you the best" and I'm out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 12:40 AM
3

Oh shit I love this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 12:34 AM
3

Yeah they got mad that I couldn't pitch in for the TV or even small things like a welcome door mat. My money literally went to student loans, rent, utilities, gas and whatever I had left for food and a little spare to eat out with friends. I'll def look into Suze Orman because I've never heard of this. Thanks for the comment. I appreciate it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 09:39 PM
6

After being with my ex who made $60k a year and I a broke college student to only making around $14k a year when I went to work full time because I took off from school for a bit- we split the bills 3 ways (we had an extra roommate) and I struggled to eat and basically had shit hung over my head because I was poor after we broke up but still lived in the same house due to a lease....it got to the point I sold nudes to an old highschool friend to scrap by for gas and to pay utilities. I don't eve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 05:24 PM
1

Yeah. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 03:49 PM
1

This guy texted me how he missed me and I was like, well let's do a phone call. I did it to see if he would flex... and he did. Telling me he was busy and then went on a vacation that weekend and then the following weekend said he would and then said he got extra work and I was just like "I wish you the best." Byeee
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 01:39 AM
11

"Not looking for a hook up = you're easy." LMAO What kind of sense is that even?? When I was sleeping around I didn't have "Not looking to hook up" nor did I have "looking to hook up" either. That poor girl though. She better be wearing Louis Vuitton fucking that old.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 01:37 AM
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Lol I found this hilarious. I was playing Call of Duty online though and this guy was talking mad shit to me about how I needed to stop playing because I suck as a woman. Two other dudes I didn't even know took up for me and started talking shit to the guy talking shit to me. We came together as a team of 3 and stalked the guy throughout the battle session to the point he raged quit. Those guys didn't have to help me. Hell, they could have joined the dude, but they didn't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 12:44 AM
9

Oh yeah. Lioness are "Boss Bitches." They do the hunting, taking care of the kids and drive the men off because the ladies watch after one another. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 10:47 PM
9

It seems to me that only men care about a woman's number. Ive never read a post of women going "oh, so and so man had sex with too many women." I think it's due to insecurity. Insecurity of not being able to out perform the last guy. But like why does that even matter when your sex game shit?? Legit had a guy ask me my number and thr last time i had sex and his performance was SO BAD. Like dude, you can only get mad at yourself. LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 10:46 PM
4

LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 10:44 PM
28

Not wanting children really helps overcome the "I have to settle because my biological clock is ticking and I WANT kids." issue. Lol My parents aren't going to like it because they are always taking about me finding a man tk have kids and finally "be normal." But I have other plans.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 06:26 PM
1

"You do YOU! BOO!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 05:41 PM
7

LLLMMMAAAOOOO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 10:33 PM
11

This is so me. Omg. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 01:12 PM
23

Adidas sandal LMAO Maybe you're a bitch I mean, I am definitely am. So me. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 01:02 PM
17

A man "subtly" took my photo yesterday while I was waiting in line for the self check out. Didn't say anything to me. Be careful of men who don't say anything either. I think those are more creepy than the "you're pretty" guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 12:38 PM
15

I like dick but I don't put men on a pedestal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 04:00 AM
17

How? I went on a date with a giy whose breath was so bad I could smell it from across the table. I could not wait to leave. I made myself so repulsive so he would get mad and just lose interest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 03:55 AM
7

Lol My platonic male friend always asks me "Are you okay?" And I say "I'm just tired [of fucking BS]." BS ain't his or we wouldn't be talking but Covid-19 and other shit got me hella drained.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 03:49 AM
1

"My dog is going to like you more than me." - says the guy trying to find a quick hump and dump. Pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 03:46 AM
3

Had a friend of 8 years. She told her mom she didn't even like me at first. She tried to "friendly compete" with me. She occasionally hits me up on Snap to tell me about what's going on in her life- graduation, her bf [that I've never met] graduation, and I keep info I give of my life to a minimum. Had someone ask me how I was the other day after not speaking for a while. They asked questions and I'd answer. Noticed when I asked certain questions they refused to answer. Deactivated my FB for abo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 03:43 AM
11

I was on a language exchange app and this guy slid in my DMs and was like "I like your face. Have you dated X kind of guy yet? Let me get your snap." I told him that he had not even attempted to help me with the language I'm trying to learn and ststed if he was implying for nudes I wasn't going to send them. "iM n0t tHaT kInD of GuY." He lived about 2 states over and said he would drive to see me. And I was like "it's that a bit far [for someone you literally just met]." He asked for my Snap aga…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 03:31 AM
2

Sounds like PornHub is spilling over into the big screen lowkey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 03:27 AM
1

I'm grateful I've never dated a guy this fucking pathetic. Shitty to certain extents and LV, yes, but not like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 03:24 AM
3

I. AM. DEAD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 03:18 AM
7

Right. I saw that and was like "why this girl dating a man old enough to be her dad?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 09:04 AM
5

By how she was at the end with the 👌, it sounds like she was mocking men and girls who "aren't like other girls/like one of the guys." All the stuff she said you can pretty much already do on Tinder anyway. LMAO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 09:01 AM
1

"Gamer girls. Nice try phony." I triggered a guy just for being female in an online shooter game. Talked shit about how I sucked and should just get out. I played as a Sniper and he said I did that because I couldn't handle being a scout or whatever else. No. I just really enjoy the distance type (archer, magician, the like). It was interesting because two other guys took up for me and we teamed up to hunt this guy talking shit to me until he raged quit. LOL But as much as I enjoy gaming, I don'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 08:44 AM
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Came here to say this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 08:32 AM
2

My ex wanted to split things. He made almost $60k and I didn't even make $20k as college student on hiatus. I struggled to pay rent and utilities (AND we had had a roommate to make things cheaper ) feed myself and make partial student loan payments. He did pay me lunch and dinner a lot but pretty much from where he wanted to eat since he was paying. We've been broken up for over a year now, I'm in my last semester in college after getting back in last Fall and dropped 50 lbs (and still going!) T…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 07:58 AM
2

Knew a guy who did this. His Tinder profile said 28. We talked some but never met. A year later he texts me (while I was currently cleaning old phones numbers out of my phone and blocking). He beat me in texting me before I got to his name. We chatted. He sent face selfies. He looked older than what I remember AND he was wearing a mask because Covid. Couldn't even give me a full face pic. I aske how old he was again- 33. (OK. Caught you lying on your profile). We chatted and it came up about how…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 07:46 AM
4

More like stop being a soft ass ball sack and grow a vagina.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 07:37 AM
2

Thats probably because of the kind of career she has. I feel like if you're not famous trying to be single and CF, you count as one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 07:10 AM
24

Supporting other men is "gHey"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 01:38 AM
16

I know that. I should have said "bisexual." Since men "love" "women×women" aka "lesbians." Someone else here put it as [porn lesbians]. That's the point I was trying to make.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 05:36 PM
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Latin and Asian Nationals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 03:55 PM
57

Wanted to share this becauee I've noticed that usually anything related to the LGBT+ community, the focus is on men- not women. Though in society, it is deemed ok for women to be lesbian and looked down upon for men to be gay. A lot of men "fear" being labeled gay yet the majorty of those strictly in the gay community (identifying as gay or lesbian) and not bisexual ARE men. The majorty of lesbians are older. Ive known some women who married abusive men and are now with women. So I'm just curiou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 02:55 PM
6

Just do it. Once you do it enough you won't care as much. However, be careful if you go out to eat by yourself. Sometimes I've been overlooked and the hostess will assist couples. I've been ignored a few times and when I address it they say the bar is available. Or if you day table for one, they look at you with pity. Sometimes it can get lonely and [if you're like me] have jealousy seeping in seeing girls with friends or couples. But im not going to let not having someone hold my hand stop me f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 04:32 AM
7

I dont even know what to say to this other than wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 04:03 AM
5

I was commenting on a post the other day talking about how I prefer to go on dates with non-American men because even at the end of the day, these guys are trying to hook up, they at least aren't overly sloppy about it. They got somedecency (dinner dates and no problem paying the bill). And reading through the comments people are like "that sounds like a North American thing." Don't doubt it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 03:57 AM
2

Calling shit out. Mic drop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 03:49 AM
30

Didn't George Lopez pull something like this after his wife donated an organ to him? 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 03:45 AM
65

Ex didn't like eating pussy. Came out gay 5 years later. Will NEVER trust a man that don't like to eat ever again. Holy fuck. Why did I do that to myself?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 03:42 AM
3

My mother doesn't like the idea of me dating non-whites. And she's a Half white Latina who tends to forget her Spanish side. She tells me "[pushing me to date white men] is because she's looking out for my best interest."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 02:35 PM
18

Last time I was out at the bar, I saw this really pretty Asian girl with this ugly white dude and I'm just like girl- just becsude he white doesn't mean he is a prize.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 02:31 PM
1

I feel like American men are more likely to talk about how great their penis is before anyone else and/or how they would fuck you. At least when it comes to Tinder so that's a generalization. I feel they take the longest time to ask for a date be coffee/drinks/lunch-dinner while non-Americans are like lets skip this texting stuff and meet in person sooner than later. And it's easier to talk about non-sex subjects like hobbies, goals, who they are, etc. You can be polite with how you come across …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 02:25 PM
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I met an AM who used lotion and toner every night and put on lotion on his legs before a run. That man ain't going to crack ever and look young forever. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 11:54 PM
32

"I want her to be small, but with a big butt and never talk back to me and be small enough where I can easily choke her." Men are so groossssss 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 11:50 PM
2

From S. Eastern US. Most dates ranged from coffee, lunch/dinner to drinks. Coffee and a nice stroll was an easy "ice breaker." No sex. Drinks did not always = sex. Lunch/dinner did not always = sex. Most guys footed the bill. Those that didn't, no second dates. I was into hook up culture at the time so I would hump and dump men and never see them again even if they wanted to see me. Some I did hit it again because they took care of my needs (not many) and then we faded which was fine because I w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 11:30 PM
2

🤯 wtf did I just read? Really? REALLY?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 10:46 PM
30

Language learning and getting back into exercising have been my "Queen shit, b!tch" go tos. Nothing else makes me feel more badass other than doing a night mask. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 10:42 PM
5

"Kings don't ask me what I'm looking for, peasant."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 10:26 PM
8

A guy who runs a business isn't going to talk OR spell with grammatical errors like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 10:24 PM
45

This hits home. "You need to stop fucking dudes that don't like you." is mad I won't sleep with him. sends me dick pics when I didn't axe for it Me: "You need to stop fucking girls that don't like you. BTW, not finding penis attractive." Ok, Bbyyeeee
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 10:18 PM
18

LMAO. More or less. It's fucked up fr fr.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 10:14 PM
45

I've (White Hispanic F) had white guys tell me they are glad I haven't slept with a black guy because that would just make me disgusting and lowest on the "fuckable" totem pole. These same guys make fun of me for sleeping with an Asian but ALL they fucking talk about is how much they'd love to sleep with an Asian woman and how they are God's greatest gift on earth. And then turn around with "sMaLl pEe peE" jokes. Like have you actually had sex with an Asian man? It's like white guys magically kn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 10:09 PM
1

Rght. That's what I'm saying. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 12:47 PM
13

This post is triggering because I hate my past PickMe self so much I don't even know where to begin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 04:45 AM
86

"I know if the Lord can forgive me for everything I do, I can forgive him." Girl needs to find some Satan in her life. "I have passive suicidal thoughts." This poor woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 04:41 AM
4

"We made a deal not to cheat." I seriously believe there are various levels to being a PickMe. I was one but holy fuck, not that damn stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 04:34 AM
6

I stopped sleeping around when I reinstalled Tinder to find a guy to hump and dump and he ended up texting me after he got back home from sleeping at my place (lived 45 mins away) and telling me next time he wanted to actually take me out. I thought it was just going to be a one night stand but nope- he took me out, cooked for me, cleaned. My platonic male friend stated he must really like me if he took me out and actually watched Netflix to watch it- in turn- did not just want to have sex with …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 04:30 AM
7

Lmao not even then
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 04:06 AM
11

DEAD 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 03:38 AM
5

I legit lost my shit out loud. L.M.F.A.O!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 01:06 AM
5

Wow. Im sorry you had to go through that. I'll probably have a conversation like that at some point. I was talking to my mother earlier today and she was telling me about how this cute missionary girl at the church told her she wants to have 4 kids because she came from a big family and she has 3 other siblings. [My mom is desperate to find my 21 yr old brother a gf who is wife material aka to be a baby machine She told me that my dad was like "That is good to hear [that she is a decent woman] b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 04:13 PM
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Same. My dad would be like "don't try to be all independent." That's kinda what I'm trying to do. Like honestly, I feel like they regret sending me off to college because now I'm "liberal" and slowly becoming a "radical feminist." I "need to find a good, decent man to settle down with and have kids with. You know, have a normal life."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 01:10 AM
8

Yep. Moved in with ex. Lived together for 2 years. He was talking to men behind my back and came out gay. Essentially I was a beard. I found out he was talking to men behind my back and thought of dumping him [but he was like I'm bi and choose you. He chose me] to later end up just using me as a beard until he was ready to come out full gay. If I could slap my PickMe self I would pull her hair out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 01:07 AM
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Saving. I need to send this to my mom next time she starts hounding me about finding a man to cum dump in me to give her grandkids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 07:52 PM
17

*THATS NEGATIVE VALUE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 07:50 PM
21

I told me mom this and she got really quiet and pretty h much wanted to get off the phone with me because "I don't know anymore." Aka "I'm tired of fighting with you telling you what is in your best interest and you buck me all the time."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 07:21 PM
68

Or having children. "You need a man to hold your hand and ruin your body with his children in order to fulfill your destiny as a woman."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 07:19 PM
13

Shit. Some of this is shit my mom says when I we argue about what she and I want out of a man for me. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 07:17 PM
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I watched an interview of a guy and Dave Ramsey and they were going on about how ridiculous a woman was for asking the guy to drop $500 for dinner on a first date. $500 is a lot of money- that can go towards a house payment, car payment, concert tickets, etc and they were like "some women ask for too much. No one in their right mind would drop $500 on a woman on the first date. There's no foundation of a possibly return on such an investment." First thing that came to mind was she probably thoug…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 06:27 PM
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I almost broke up with my ex because I had to beg for sex. I was tired of it and wanted to get laid good. I didn't because "buT I l0vE hIm. WE beEn dAtInG s0 l0nG. I wAnT t0 maKe iT w0rk." He ended up coming out to me a year later AFTER we signed a lease together on a house. I was so pissed for putting someone first I went on a sleeping spree and invited the men to the house when he was gone for work (he traveled) and sometimes when he was home because he came home early or that is just how the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 03:22 PM
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I remember I had a barbie doll of Meg. I was a bit of a tomboy but I loved my Meg doll. (Thinking back I wish I had a Mulan one because she is my favorite). I do remember stating I liked Meg and mom bad mouthing her. I think saying she was basically a tramp kind of woman (like when she was talking to the centaur) that's the kind of men she found herself with because no decent man wanted her/when you try to be too independent. Some crap like that. It was forever ago, but still.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 02:59 PM
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I slept with a guy once who had a tendency to cum early, but he always took care of my needs afterwards (and cooked for me, and cleaned and took me out). Best kitty box eater I'd ever met. Didn't complain because my ex of too long never ate me out because "I just don't like doing that." So getting good head was long over due. And this guy asked how/what he could do better to better please me. Like girl, trying real hard to not be head over heels for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 10:52 AM
1

He is wearing the exact same button down (color and pattern to a T) of this ass I know! Officially the "I'm an ass" shirt. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 10:42 AM
17

I've always like Meg (and Mulan) for their independence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 09:47 AM
14

http://imgur.com/gallery/FaJ6JZL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 03:46 AM
9

I want to travel and don't care about kids. I'd like to get married and possibly travel with said husband. But good for you for putting yourself first and not the idea of "but I have a man and I'm going to try to make things work." Nope, go find your HVM who wants to settle down too~
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 03:08 AM
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Brett is the worst.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 02:37 AM
5

ShutDownTheBachelor
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 02:55 AM
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I hate being mocked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 12:20 AM
6

Meg > Cardi
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 06:03 AM
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Lol I was FWB with a guy whose mom was a divorce lawyer. Been divorced herself (met real dad and step dad). Real dad told me basically he knows his son is garbage and (when I move off to Uni, later that year when we had that one on one talk) he stated there are more fish in the sea. His mom was nice but heavy on pills and just overall seemed unhappy and tired (of her son, I know for one) and fwb stated she did everything for step-dad who he thought was trash. Crazy stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 04:29 AM
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Man, I was just thinking- a lizard got it better than me. Oof.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 01:40 AM
5

When my ex and I broke up (the first time) I vented to his friend.... who only listened to me by "being nice" in hopes I would fuck him as a pay back for listening to me rant. He never slept with me and lost my ex as a friend. Before we broke up, I had a guy tell me that if we ever had any issues or if I needed a shoulder to cry on, he would be there. Garbage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 01:36 AM
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