"Nice" guys

Quicklyquigly · 2020-08-06T20:55:49+00:00

If nice is your only quality, then you are forgettable and passively worthless. There I said it. To bad if they don’t like it. And by the way, being a whiny bitch because women won’t fuck you isn’t “nice” it’s lame and weak and pathetic. And no. Women don’t like that.

lil-pink-kitten · 2020-08-07T05:11:27+00:00

Men who are self-aware enough to consider themselves a nice guy, and take a weird amount of pride in it, are dangerous. Speaking from past experiences: every man who has verbalised at least once to me that they are a nice guy has turned out to be very malicious, aggressive and possessive. It’s my biggest red flag now, when I hear it I’m out.

cellard00r18 · 2020-08-06T23:26:57+00:00

The isn’t that they’re nice that we reject them . They have other unbearable traits! They probably are clingy or have bad hygiene. We are fine with a nice guy... there’s another problem with you sir.

random-zombie · 2020-08-07T03:03:34+00:00

I'm gonna print this out and hand it to any new guys that feel the need to be my "friend"

NurseBubbleGum · 2020-08-06T22:33:34+00:00

Well said! Nice is a default setting, not an achievement. 🙌

hhgjj0 · 2020-08-07T10:56:29+00:00

Women aren't attracted to nice guys, because no self proclaimed "nice guy" is actually nice.

It's like my ex who insistted that "he's just too nice" as a reason why things weren't working out, when the real reason was his jealousy, paranoia, clingyness, accusations, suspicions, lies, manipulation, spying on me and trying to trap me.

Tam2kids · 2020-08-07T03:15:49+00:00

Nice to me = step on me and wipe off your dirty shoes!! I don't want someone who always agrees with me so that an argument won't start. I don't want someone who will not pick a restaurant because they want me to pick it. I want someone who has their own mind to make decisions and to stand their ground. Nice guys aren't nice, they are malleable and nobody wants that. If they do at the beginning....they won't after awhile. It's boring and there is no challenge.

Hmtnsw · 2020-08-07T01:36:38+00:00

When my ex and I broke up (the first time) I vented to his friend.... who only listened to me by "being nice" in hopes I would fuck him as a pay back for listening to me rant.

He never slept with me and lost my ex as a friend.

Before we broke up, I had a guy tell me that if we ever had any issues or if I needed a shoulder to cry on, he would be there.

Garbage.

sadcello · 2020-08-07T08:36:21+00:00

It's simple really. Nice guys pretend to be nice to get sex, who wants a liar as a partner?

I'll add on. Stay at home dads stay at home not because they love kids or homemaking or doing a good job at it, they're stay at home dads because they're bums, they're lazy, they don't want to work, they just play video games all day. Men don't even want housewife who watches tv all day, why should we want a househusband who plays game and watch porn all day?

What else? Short guys? We're okay as long as you're not insecure about it. Who wants an insecure person who gets passive aggressive everytime?

Virgins? Same, with addition that it doesn't give you excuse to be useless in bed, or to be a pervert and ask for pity fuck.

Struggling and unsuccessful men? Where are the men who date ugly women or fat women and help her glow up? No such man? Then why should women do it for men? Be successful and build your life yourself.

Mentally ill men? For what? So I can risk myself being hurt and killed by someone who'll never be hold accountable? At least women don't use mentally ill men like men use mentally ill women.

Disabled men? Lol, it'll surprise you when you find out how many ugly women's heart they broke because they're ugly. Not just regular rejection but harsh, "Why do you think you have a chance with me" rejection. They're picky and entitled af on top of being assholes.

All these bad, useless, abusive guys pretending to be the misunderstood good guys make me sick. They have zero self awareness.

Title	"Nice" guys
Author	ThatOneShyGirl
Upvotes	575
Comments	23
Date	August 6, 2020 4:06 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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