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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 15 | "Nice" guysMen who are self-aware enough to consider themselves a nice guy, and take a weird amount of pride in it, are dangerous. Speaking from past experiences: every man who has verbalised at least once to me that they are a nice guy has turned out to be very malicious, aggressive and possessive. It’s my biggest red flag now, when I hear it I’m out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 05:11 AM |
| 3 | This gave me a good chuckleI would say 90% of the men I’ve ever found attractive in my life have been around my height and it’s literally only ever been other men who feel the need to contribute their opinion | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 12:29 AM |
| 3 | This gave me a good chuckleThey act like height is a personality trait and they can’t comprehend why he is more confident/successful/intelligent/charming than them without it because it makes them realise they need to have something else going for them than a few extra inches of body lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 12:27 AM |
| 153 | This gave me a good chuckleMy lovely fiancé has never cared about height. I don’t think he even knows what his height is. I’m 5’9 and I would say he is 5’8. Over the years people (mainly other males) have joked “she’s taller than you!” “I can’t believe she’s taller than you!” or a variation. He will literally just look baffled as to why it’s been brought up. They can sit him down, gather around and give an entire speech about our 1 inch as they get so frustrated at his lack of reaction and he still genuinely just doesn’t … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 01:00 AM |
| 8 | Have you ever dated a man who didn't like your posts on social media but did for other women?YES and it was the worst and most toxic relationship I’ve ever had. I’ve spoken about this particular man on here before but haven’t talked about this. So after we had been together for months I realised he had never followed me on Instagram but was always on it, so I followed him one day. Weeks/months go by and I say, ‘hey you still don’t follow me back on Instagram’ and he goes ‘um yeah, I saw you did that.’ I say, ‘oh ok, and?’ He says, ‘I don’t need to follow you or see your posts or like yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 11:28 AM |
| 32 | RIP Jyoti. Justice was truly served for you. But it made me realise that I don’t see many stories like this where the violent men are being adequately punished for their abhorrent crimes.It’s so infuriating. Like inferring that her doing something completely normal contributed to their actions. But that’s what those parasitic lawyers do in these cases, they try and tear the poor victim(s) down completely to the point where they are too scared/exhausted/depressed to contribute any more | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 04:14 AM |
| 21 | RIP Jyoti. Justice was truly served for you. But it made me realise that I don’t see many stories like this where the violent men are being adequately punished for their abhorrent crimes.I read that there were 6 total, and one was a minor. The other one apparently committed suicide in jail. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 03:57 AM |
| 39 | RIP Jyoti. Justice was truly served for you. But it made me realise that I don’t see many stories like this where the violent men are being adequately punished for their abhorrent crimes.I’m in Australia and keep a huge knife in my bedside table and I carry an army knife with me simply because I can’t have pepper spray or a taser. I would rather not use a knife to defend myself but I have to feel safe somehow. But according to our laws here, if I were to defend myself and cause excessive harm to my attacker (even an intruder in my own home) I can also be punished. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 03:55 AM |
| 23 | /askmen is a gold mine for LVM. Considers going to a pub for a drink a date, and appalled when the girl doesn’t treat it as such. Is proud of himself for cleverly saying sure I will get drinks but shocker... walks out!Yes the classic plot to make an amazing, successful guy interested in me because I just really wanted him to buy me a vodka soda at a dodgy pub! But the best part is, I’m an awful woman who is just taking advantage of his $6 and not going to suck his dick, but he won’t know until he’s bought it! This kind, generous gentleman will soon realise I’m just after his money, like all of us are. Fucking hell, it makes my head hurt just thinking about men’s views on the situation. Imagine that poor girl … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/20 05:17 AM |
| 2 | Beware of aggressive drivers/truck guys.This is the exact reason I want to switch from my lovely speedy low car to a big SUV. Because of guys like this. It’s literally become a personality trait of men who own cars like this and I know EVERY single goddamn time there is a truck infront/beside/behind me, the motherfucker driving with one hand, one arm out the window is going to do something dangerous. Swerving/speeding/tailgating is just the standard I see everyday. Recently in a double-lane the lane ahead of me was clear and the one n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 03:45 AM |
| 27 | Is there such a thing as a male pick-me?Nope! I have had 3 experiences with men that would fit into this. Each one ended with disaster. They assume whatever time we’ve spent together was us building a relationship. Regardless of the fact I made it clear it was not. Where I saw a friendship/casual dating, they saw us at a stage where our ‘families are ready to meet, maybe we should all go on a big holiday together! You should move in!’ I was dating multiple people at the time and when they realised this, lashed out, called me 100’s of … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 10:50 PM |
| 7 | Here in the wild you can see a Pickmeisha giving advices to another pickmeishaIf a man knows you are uncomfortable with something, and makes no efforts to change/amend the situation, it is a huge red flag and perfectly reasonable grounds to seperate. He either cares enough about you to make the right decisions or he doesn’t. There is no do or die reasoning behind going to a strip club, it means; ‘I want to do this for X reasons. If I do it, you may say Y or do Z. My desire for X reasons is far greater than the outcomes of Y and Z. So I am doing this and fully accepting wh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 10:43 PM |
| 7 | Ladies, do you have any examples of subtle negging?I realised over time that only unattractive/insecure men are under the impression that beautiful people are constantly told they are beautiful, and how incel-ish it is for them to think good looking women would be concerned over not getting told by them. Good looking and genuinely confident men are always upfront and flattering (respectfully!). I cringe thinking about the time I dated a LVM who negged me and he saw me really dressed up for the first time, he was visibly nervous and shocked - he … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 02:40 AM |
| 63 | Ladies, do you have any examples of subtle negging?When you are conventionally attractive and they go out of their way to never, ever compliment you. They assume you’re used to being told you are beautiful - and assume you will pick up on the lack of it from them and start to wonder why/get concerned. It doesn’t matter what you look like or how many times a day you do or don’t get told you’re beautiful: if a man who wants to be with you can’t compliment you then he’s insecure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 12:35 PM |
| 7 | Making this thread to prove male shallowness: What physical features you have no control over has a man criticized on you before?He told me, with no prompting whatsoever, with no context or reasoning - “you would be a really great candidate for breast implants because you’re slightly pigeon-chested.” Dickhead, you were a personal trainer. Not a doctor. He said it while I was topless and already aware I was self-conscious of my small boobs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 06:01 AM |
| 4 | Making this thread to prove male shallowness: What physical features you have no control over has a man criticized on you before?Me too - I’ve commented about this elsewhere but all men (that I’ve encountered) who are about 6ft and under always zero in on my height immediately. Always. They always try to slip in back-handed compliments, “you’re really hot for someone soOo tall” or just feel the overwhelming need to point it out “wow, you’re so tall! Really tall! Wow!” just to get me feeling a bit insecure and vulnerable. Um, no. I’m not that tall. You are just average/below average height for your gender and I’m just abov… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 05:54 AM |
| 4 | Why men knowing how to clean/keep a house is more important than you realiseYes I definitely think that’s a bad sign. I cook/eat out probably 30/70 but still always have plenty of food in the fridge. Nothing in there means he is not cooking, ever! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 12:41 PM |
| 13 | Two wonderful comments on yet another "AITA for spending next to no time, effort, or money on my fiancé's engagement ring???"Holy fuck I’m actually laughing at this comment. This is amazing. UTERUS DIGGER!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 12:24 AM |
| 8 | This week in my city a mother and her 3 young children were doused in oil and set on fire by their father and burnt to death. He prevented bystanders from trying to save them. Lead detectives first statement was to consider if he was ‘driven too far’.That’s it! They literally look at that and think “wow, cruel bitch probably wouldn’t let him see the kids. Dads have rights too! She drove him to do such a horrible thing.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 12:20 AM |
| 4 | This week in my city a mother and her 3 young children were doused in oil and set on fire by their father and burnt to death. He prevented bystanders from trying to save them. Lead detectives first statement was to consider if he was ‘driven too far’.In her text messages she shows how she’s happy to be away from him and his fucked up behaviour, he threw their daughter in his car while he had a DVO and wasn’t supposed to have the children and took her interstate for no reason, already demonstrating his violent, unstable and cruel tactics to intimidate the mother. Why he wasn’t thrown in jail for that I will never understand. Men and their delicate egos out here killing entire families. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 12:18 AM |
| 3 | This week in my city a mother and her 3 young children were doused in oil and set on fire by their father and burnt to death. He prevented bystanders from trying to save them. Lead detectives first statement was to consider if he was ‘driven too far’.Yes we need to be vetting hard and change the standards for women. No more unacceptable behaviour from LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 12:12 AM |
| 12 | This week in my city a mother and her 3 young children were doused in oil and set on fire by their father and burnt to death. He prevented bystanders from trying to save them. Lead detectives first statement was to consider if he was ‘driven too far’.I am so SO sick of the police taking the most ‘conservative’ approach and not doing anything because “we can’t do anything since he hasn’t actually done anything yet” or “you don’t have enough proof”. Even if they do, the dates and interactions and paperwork are all dragged out, giving the perpetrator ample time to plot and carry out violent crimes. When a woman says that her and her children’s lives are in danger due to their abusive father it should be go time. She’s not lying. Men are actuall… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 12:11 AM |
| 10 | What are some HVM traits or behaviors you like?They are amazing traits! I definitely think being able to control their urge for sex is more important than we realise. The more we establish that touching or kissing does NOT automatically mean we are wanting sex, the more standards will rise. How many times have we wanted a simple kiss from a man and then are having sex when we didn’t really feel like it? Well for me, enough times to find a man who specifically didn’t do this! Initiating/accepting various levels of intimacy without assuming se… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 12:20 AM |
| 4 | [Discussion] What are your deal breakers, and why?Mine is definitely having weird boundaries around money. Needing to split everything 50/50 even as a 25+ year old. You are attempting to court me - expect sex, love, affection, loyalty, trust, effort and kindness, but still have convinced yourself that not spending money on dinners or dates “weeds out the diggers!!!” I am your potential future wife and you can’t spend some money on me? Next | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 10:24 AM |
| 8 | 🤮🤮HAHA so accurate. Has nothing, or barely anything, to bring to the table yet expects a woman out there to do absolutely everything or she’s worthless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 10:59 AM |
| 2 | She waited 9 years for this... it’s not so much the diamond size, it’s more the fact that it obviously doesn’t even fit properly!I love that they both seem happy but there’s literally no point in having a ring at all if that’s what it is. There’s no point having a stone on it if it looks like that. It looks like it’s a joke | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 09:48 PM |
| 6 | She waited 9 years for this... it’s not so much the diamond size, it’s more the fact that it obviously doesn’t even fit properly!She says that it’s perfect but I can’t help feeling like that’s her putting on a brave face... she says that she loves the minimalist design but it’s not even an aesthetically pleasing minimalist piece of jewellery. I just can’t picture any of the women I know (plenty of non-flashy gals too) actually wanting this as their ring. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 09:46 PM |
| 2 | Signs he's doing the minimum possible in order to hook you/sleep with youHaha I think it does! I also hope it just makes them realise ‘damn, can’t bring her self confidence down, I might genuinely have to be a good guy’ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 06:44 AM |
| 19 | Signs he's doing the minimum possible in order to hook you/sleep with youI get that too! I think height in general is a sensitive topic for a lot of men (unless they’re like well over 6 foot) and with me being 5’9 over the years I’ve noticed the less self-assured men will never fail to comment on it. I always say, “oh do you really think so? In the modeling industry I was one of the shortest. I’m glad you think I’m tall” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 10:55 AM |
| 1 | “I’m leaving for a $15,000 holiday tomorrow! Do you think I can afford your dinner too?”Haha not Henry Cavill but he is an actor! I wish it was Henry 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 02:03 AM |
| 1 | “I’m leaving for a $15,000 holiday tomorrow! Do you think I can afford your dinner too?”Aw so sweet! Thankyou. I hoped people would read this and realise their worth! xx | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 02:01 AM |
| 3 | “I’m leaving for a $15,000 holiday tomorrow! Do you think I can afford your dinner too?”I don’t know how to cross post but if you can feel free to do so! I am in a porn free relationship now and it is amazing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 02:00 AM |
| 3 | “I’m leaving for a $15,000 holiday tomorrow! Do you think I can afford your dinner too?”Aw you are sweet. I look back and think maybe if I didn’t see what a toxic relationship was like, then I might not fully appreciate my amazing one now. That’s the only good thing he ever did for me hahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 01:58 AM |
| 10 | “I’m leaving for a $15,000 holiday tomorrow! Do you think I can afford your dinner too?”I kind of know what that means, if it means he treated me badly on purpose, gave backhanded compliments, in order to lower my self esteem and keep me around, then yes he was haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 01:56 AM |
| 7 | “I’m leaving for a $15,000 holiday tomorrow! Do you think I can afford your dinner too?”If the guys that wrote the hate directed at gold diggers actually had any money, you better believe they’d be spending some of that on women! Broke bastards love inventing negative connotations around women because it suits their lack of financial ability. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 11:48 AM |
| 10 | “I’m leaving for a $15,000 holiday tomorrow! Do you think I can afford your dinner too?”I’m 24, we have money but it’s not the sole determinator in our relationship. I came from a bad childhood and crave stability so that’s why it’s attractive to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 11:44 AM |
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