| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 115 | He asked me the colour of my underwear!!?!?! | MESSAGE FOR MALE LURKERS | Tam2kids | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 08:17 PM |
| 74 | Someone trying to set me up with their son who lives 9 hours away and works at McDonald's and is 15 years younger. | NAH, SIS | Tam2kids | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 06:17 PM |
| 67 | A good way to keep head out of clouds | STRATEGY | Tam2kids | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 03:01 PM |
| 51 | Watch this movie....Seriously Single on Netflix | Story time ☕ | Tam2kids | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 11:49 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 24 | Saw these in response to a post in a FB group I’m in. They both really hit meThis is true. I am working on me because I seem at attract very needy men. I don't keep them, but I keep attracting them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 03:01 PM |
| -25 | Old pervs have no shame 🤮I am sure it wasn't a high quality picture.....anyways the girl watching should have said something outloud....sorry don't use your phone in here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 07:14 PM |
| 8 | Residents at Waratah Lodge share their dating adviceHow come I can't see the whole thing?? I click on it but it doesn't show the whole picture. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 02:12 PM |
| 4 | "Nice" guysNice to me = step on me and wipe off your dirty shoes!! I don't want someone who always agrees with me so that an argument won't start. I don't want someone who will not pick a restaurant because they want me to pick it. I want someone who has their own mind to make decisions and to stand their ground. Nice guys aren't nice, they are malleable and nobody wants that. If they do at the beginning....they won't after awhile. It's boring and there is no challenge. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 03:15 AM |
| 13 | Worst thing I’ve read all day...I was dating this man and after 3 months he tells me he can't afford his house anymore. He tells me he's going to sell it. I asked him where is he moving to....he says he will move in with me. I never laughed so hard in my life. I told him I didn't know where he got that idea from. He was going off about how his ex wife was taking all his money, he even shower me his pay stub.....I guess he thought I was stupid. I asked him why doesn't he reduce the amount they take off for his profit sharing...… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 11:11 PM |
| 24 | Once again, men freely telling the Internet how broke they are!I had a male friend that made me laugh all the time. I actually peed myself laughing once and another time he made me laugh till I farted really loudly. Sadly he got a girlfriend and she put a stop to us hanging out. He told me she never laughs at his jokes she only rolls his eyes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 02:19 AM |
| 2 | Someone trying to set me up with their son who lives 9 hours away and works at McDonald's and is 15 years younger.Same girl, same!! Been away from my husband 13 years now...haven't found a decent man yet...but that's ok because I would rather be alone then lonely with someone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Someone trying to set me up with their son who lives 9 hours away and works at McDonald's and is 15 years younger.Some women would be so proud to have a man like that. 😁🥴🧐😬🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 04:00 PM |
| 4 | Someone trying to set me up with their son who lives 9 hours away and works at McDonald's and is 15 years younger.Wow!!! That's just hilarious!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 03:59 PM |
| 11 | Someone trying to set me up with their son who lives 9 hours away and works at McDonald's and is 15 years younger.The thing is he wasn't in management. She mentioned that he does various things there in the kitchen. Also he can get a job as a janitor. I am not knocking either of these jobs but at his age he should be doing something much different. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 01:18 AM |
| 10 | ExactlyI had a guy tell me the supervisor and vice president of the company he works for put his up to trick him into dating a fat chick....then he thanks me for saving him from having to meet up with her. Wtf?? Does he hear what he is saying??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 12:12 AM |
| 32 | This is why we Vet for SexI also have this book. I haven't read it in a few years...need to reread | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 02:24 AM |
| 20 | So proud of this queen! What an achievement!She is not only intelligent and powerful but also gorgeous!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 12:09 PM |
| 5 | Anyone else watching the Indian Matchmaker show on Netflix. Wasn’t sure how to “flair” this one!Great show | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 03:40 AM |
| 10 | Remember this post every single time a man complains that his ex/current wife/girlfriend refuses to have sex with him. Makes me wonder how many posts on r/ deadbedrooms are from the perspective of the abuser. No, she's not "asexual" or inherently "low libido", he's probably just an asshole.Omg my ex husband gave me that same feeling. I always felt like it was just him visualizing porn but using my body to get off. He didn't care about me or how I was reacting at all.any times he would accidentally slip into the wrong hole....and them expects me to be super happy to have sex with him. So glad I left. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 02:22 AM |
| -5 | Women can’t have a safe space without it being violated by creeps like this it’s sickening how some men will really go out their way to catfish women as an attempt to instil fear and insecurity within usAll I wish is that I had small boobs. Having big boobs sucks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 12:31 PM |
| 88 | Yep 👏🏼I was married, unhappily for many years. I told my ex husband...I would rather live in a tent then be with you in this house. He always talked about how we had it so good....a nice house, 2 cars.....I didn't care about that. My ex wouldn't talk to me for days if I called into work sick, he would ignore me if I didn't clean the house, he would threaten me all the time. What kind of life is that. I have been free from him 13 years!!!! I don't live in a tent but I am super happy to not have him aro… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 12:18 PM |
| -16 | This pickme is traveling across the country for a man and wants to dress so she can get laid. Shes wanted him "forever" and seems like they only met once before. Do NOT chase a man and do not rush into sex! She is lowering the bar for him!I don't believe it's real. If she was a model in real life she wouldn't need to ask strangers what to wear. I think this is fake | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 01:59 PM |
| 6 | This pickme is traveling across the country for a man and wants to dress so she can get laid. Shes wanted him "forever" and seems like they only met once before. Do NOT chase a man and do not rush into sex! She is lowering the bar for him!Looks like model photo's | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 01:06 PM |
| 15 | No shade to single parents, but the way this is worded is a huge red flag 🚩Go on the step parent sub on Reddit....you won't even consider dating a single parent after you read most of those posts. Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 09:53 PM |
| 11 | Re: men age like wine and are in their prime in their 40s. GOD HOW I WISH THAT WERE TRUEPickings are slim for sure. Another man messaged me and all he said was hi how are you. I said I am great and then asked him a question about his profile. He answered and then said ps...I am great too btw. So he was mad because I never asked how he was. Lol. What is wrong with men?? Obvs bitter Over someone. NEXT..... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 02:51 PM |
| 40 | Re: men age like wine and are in their prime in their 40s. GOD HOW I WISH THAT WERE TRUEI am 50, been on again and off again dating for 13 years. There isn't much out there to date. Bald men don't bother me at all....I dated a couple. What bothers me is that most men just want sex. I can have sex with someone in their 20-30 if I wanted. . I am looking for more. ..someone to have deep coversation with.....a companion my own age. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 03:34 AM |
| 3 | LVM and their livesFeminism means different things to different people. I want to make the same wage as a man doing the exact same job as me....but I still want a man to treat me well ...open car doors, help me put my coat on etc. I think that we need to go back to when men treated women more than just a warm place to put it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 02:20 PM |
| 27 | LVM prefer forever-gfs over being single!A ring with out a date is pretty much just a piece of jewelry to shut her up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 02:13 AM |
| 20 | LVM prefer forever-gfs over being single!I had a guy friend that had a gf....or shall I say still has a gf. He told me many times he didn't see a future with her but didn't want to hurt her. He was waiting for her to break up with him. They are together now like 8 years. I told him time and time again that she would be more hurt to know you aren't 100% invested. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 02:09 AM |
| 9 | Do not date men who ascribe to "sex positivity" or are "woke" about women who do sex work. If he supports sex work/porn, he supports human trafficking and abuse for his own gratification. You cannot have one without the other.My ex told me his ex sister in law is an escort. He talks to her frequently and when I asked why he wants to have anything to do with her, especially since he has two young daughters, he says.....well she has always been nice to me.....her work has nothing to do with her relatives to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Are there any older women here who are happily single?Because this man isn't doing it. Clearly you aren't happy with him so just leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 08:00 PM |
| 2 | Are there any older women here who are happily single?Why can't you just keep initiating it?? You said if you initiate then you have sex.....so be the one to initiate?!? You can't change how he is. You guys could go to sex therapy and see if that works....but in the end of you aren't sexually compatible, then it won't ever work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 07:31 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, line up for your chance to give this man head in his car! This self proclaimed disease-free, kink-friendly cheater could be all yours (for an afternoon) for the small price of your dignity! [BARF]He may find a crazy lady who wants to cut off his Weiner because she hated men...... That will be hard to explain to his gf. He's taking a huge risk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 01:36 PM |
| 7 | Can someone reassure me that I did the right thing by walking away?I was dating a man who lived 3 hours away. He asked me to come see him so he could show me around the town. It was like 2 months in. I went there by train and he picked me up an hour from his place. We drove around, he showed me where he worked, then he took me back to his place where we sat and watched TV all afternoon till it was time to take me back to the train station. We did get take out food to take back to his house. He mentioned one time time that wanted to take me to a steakhouse but o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 03:42 PM |
| 15 | Can someone reassure me that I did the right thing by walking away?You should have excused yourself to the bathroom and left him with the bill. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 03:38 PM |
| 2 | Can someone reassure me that I did the right thing by walking away?This was the first time he took you out?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 03:31 PM |
| 10 | “Uh, hi? Are you ignoring me?” Yes, yes she is.Hang in our homes?? Hang it on a billboard!!! Hang it on every billboard!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 02:53 PM |
| 2 | He asked me the colour of my underwear!!?!?!It means they're not sorry for what they did, just that you didn't like it. It means the exact same thing as "I'm sorry you feel that way." It's also a way to save face without admitting fault because if you supposedly had understand what they meant then you would be okay with it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 02:33 PM |
| 21 | Scrotes mad they can't get modelsI hate men like this who want an attractive lady. Really? Like take a look in the mirror. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 12:12 PM |
| 6 | He asked me the colour of my underwear!!?!?!Online!!! 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 03:37 AM |
| 9 | He asked me the colour of my underwear!!?!?!That's hilarious!! I will save that for next time....as I am sure there will be one....most guys are rude!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 03:36 AM |
| 6 | He asked me the colour of my underwear!!?!?!He's only 2 years older. He's never been married, so I am pretty sure that's not a good thing in your 50's. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 02:34 AM |
| 37 | He asked me the colour of my underwear!!?!?!Now he says he is sorry he offended me.... Not sorry he asked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 09:10 PM |
| 2 | How are LVM always this delusional? 😂They are actually both very attractive in their own way. But because he spoke up as if he was more attractive that drops his looks down a couple notches. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 11:19 PM |
| 5 | Polgár was Women's World Champion from 1996 to 1999. On the FIDE rating list of July 1984, at the age of 15, she became the top-ranked female player in the world. In 1991 she became the third woman to be awarded the title of Grandmaster by FIDE. In chess, she is a master, in life she is a queen!He is my ex for lots of different but the same reasons. People who can fly off the handle for a simple board game are not good people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 12:49 PM |
| 107 | Polgár was Women's World Champion from 1996 to 1999. On the FIDE rating list of July 1984, at the age of 15, she became the top-ranked female player in the world. In 1991 she became the third woman to be awarded the title of Grandmaster by FIDE. In chess, she is a master, in life she is a queen!My ex husband and I played Scrabble once....just once, because I won and he threw the entire game across the room. 😬🤯🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 11:27 PM |
| 22 | Husband is a porn addict who ejaculates in the shower and doesn’t clean it, leaving the evidence for his pickme wife to clean. He lies and gaslights. They now have a child and he’s doing it in the child’s bathroom. He’s also not attracted to her post baby body.I have a question....why did you stay with him and why did you make a baby with him?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 04:19 PM |
| 3 | 30% of men are now sexually inactive but please do tell us all about how all that sex would be waiting for you out there if it weren’t for your wife 🙄I have dated bald men....I find it sexy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 01:25 PM |
| 34 | 30% of men are now sexually inactive but please do tell us all about how all that sex would be waiting for you out there if it weren’t for your wife 🙄My old boss was a fat, gross, ugly gargoyle. He was loaded and couldn't find a lady, until he went to China. Those lady's don't mind having an ugly ogre in their bed, because now they have freedom and money. For me it's a hard no!! I would rather be alone and living in a tent them to have that beside me. To each their own. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 01:24 PM |
| 29 | Well?I have dated men in both those pics. Some men are very clean. It's got nothing to do with being men....it's how they were raised. I myself don't mind a small mess. I am not a hoarder by any means but I don't get bent out of shape over a small mess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 09:32 PM |
| 3 | No, they don't improve with age 🙄🤮He's probably making sure he didn't attract gold diggers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 03:24 PM |
| 14 | The guy I have been speaking to during the Coronavirus lockdown seemed relatively okay and I was willing to meet him, and then he came out with something that completely turned me off him and I blocked without a word.. that's the problem with these men. They don't want a relationship....they just want sex. When a man asks me about what my sexual prefer are before I even meet him....it's a no for me. Bye bye. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 04:27 PM |
| 2 | He proposed!!Congrats!!! That's so amazing!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 04:21 PM |
| 25 | My friend sent this to me. She told me in under a minute, 6 other girls retweeted this. I hate how universal this is!I dated two men that loved giving oral. That would be what they would focus on for most of the sex session. I however would rather have penetration. I would have to tell them to stop and have intercourse with me. I wasn't complaining but I want all the experiences, not just that one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 04:15 PM |
| 38 | After five years together and no ring, I broke up with him and got myself my own diamond!He didn't deserve you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 03:07 AM |
| 8 | Imaginary sky daddy apparently endorses sloppy three minute jackhammering.Yes that's a good idea. I think it's kinda the same as lying to your partner when you fake it. Tell him....sorry I haven't finished..please help!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 07:50 PM |
| 20 | Imaginary sky daddy apparently endorses sloppy three minute jackhammering.We aren't just a pretty face!!! Lol Anyone who is trying to get pregnant should make sure to have their orgasm after the male.....and maybe a few times for good measure. Also the sperm stays active for a few days....so maybe about 4 orgasms per day? Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 06:54 PM |
| 51 | Imaginary sky daddy apparently endorses sloppy three minute jackhammering.Actually I am pretty sure that female orgasm is important in reproduction. The female orgasm creates oxytocin which helps to propel the sperm to reach the egg. So he is wrong ...of course. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 06:45 PM |
| 7 | My boyfriend sent me this...he knows I am not trying to live together until marriage. Ladies am I trippin or is this a potential proposal?👀I find it really odd that he is buying a home, without any input from you, knowing that you want marriage soon. I think this is a sneaky thing he is doing. He should wait and have you enjoy the house hunting with him. The whole fun part of buying your first home is looking for one together and imagining your life there. I smell something fishy. I personally would ask him why he is buying a house right now, maybe it's just an investment property? I would tell him that I am not interested in seein… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 05:05 AM |
| 1 | This man is a joke, and gross, and I don't know why I'm wasting my time explaining things to him.Tell him your Kitty's don't like other people to lick them. This guy is disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 01:59 AM |
| 15 | OLDER WOMEN ARE NOT ATTRACTIVE TO MEN ?Lol yes. I meant finding. I am not a sugar momma. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 11:31 PM |
| 32 | OLDER WOMEN ARE NOT ATTRACTIVE TO MEN ?I am in my early 50's. I never have a problem meeting men....I just have a problem funding the right one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 06:08 PM |
| 3 | One of my old friends shared this on facebook and tagged her husband... can't imagine 1. knowing anyone this irresponsible 2. thinking that this is cute/funny or 3. that she'd actually air her problems with him publicly like this......She lived away for university and when we went to gather her stuff to come home you couldn't even see the floor. The garbage can was empty.... because she never even tried to get the stuff in it. Lol. Anyways I came home from work yesterday and her entire room was cleaned and spot less. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 12:10 PM |
| 11 | One of my old friends shared this on facebook and tagged her husband... can't imagine 1. knowing anyone this irresponsible 2. thinking that this is cute/funny or 3. that she'd actually air her problems with him publicly like this......Omg.... My 21 year old daughter is like this. I can't believe how she is so messy!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 03:32 AM |
| 53 | They hated her because she spoke the truth.My old boss had a younger woman that he married from another country. He goes to this other country to find a woman because he wants someone who he can teach them about how we live.....in other words she wouldn't be smart enough to see through his garbage!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 02:14 PM |
| 9 | Boundaries and Standards. Nice remindersLike I said I can't expect the man I date to have an amazing career if I don't have one myself. However anyone I date must have a job that he has been at for awhile or at least has always had a job. It can't be a min wage job but he doesn't have to be a Dr...and he doesn't have to love his job....most people don't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 02:12 PM |
| 57 | Do Not Send NudesThey can be charged now for forwarding pics. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 12:17 PM |
| 17 | Boundaries and Standards. Nice remindersI don't even have a career I enjoy....can't expect that of someone I date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 11:59 AM |
| 3 | This is some next level NVM bullshit. Could you imagine thinking your friends are more important than you wife in labour. Chuck him in the bin IMO.Why are some people so horrible? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 12:28 AM |
| 56 | This is some next level NVM bullshit. Could you imagine thinking your friends are more important than you wife in labour. Chuck him in the bin IMO.He was a jerk. One day I was having bad chest pains and I told him I wanted to get get it looked at. He said he will mow the lawn and then we would go. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 02:32 PM |
| 11 | This is some next level NVM bullshit. Could you imagine thinking your friends are more important than you wife in labour. Chuck him in the bin IMO.I guess these things need to be discussed before having kids. Men are such jerks sometimes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 01:52 PM |
| 166 | This is some next level NVM bullshit. Could you imagine thinking your friends are more important than you wife in labour. Chuck him in the bin IMO.My ex husband told me that he wouldn't be at the birth of our son if I had him on a certain day because that day he had a meeting at work. I told him if I go into labour no matter what day he better be there or he won't ever see the baby. Of course I went into labour that day and he was there!!!! He wasn't happy but he was there. Now that kid is 17 and him and I split 13 years ago. He was a very emotional abusive man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 01:51 PM |
| 9 | Throw every man away who doesn't recognize your worth. Ladies, treat your man like an accessory, not your entire outfit. Remember that a man's supposed to chase, whereas a woman's supposed to choose. But now, the men have become spoiled and women, desperate.Amen!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 07:48 PM |
| 54 | Never ever ever beg someone to stay. This concept has been romanticized in the media, but it's toxic to your soul and mind. You teach other people how to treat you, so treat yourself with love, respect, and dignity.I never beg.......I say ok, wish you the best..... Then they have a lost look on their face. One guy said .... Oh I think I made a mistake. I told him, once those words exit your mouth they are fact and I can't look back now. See ya!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 02:04 PM |
| 6 | I don't want youI can't hear her message for some reason.....but anyways she is gorgeous!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 11:09 PM |
| 63 | Don't date people who don't value your time. Point blank.And the funny thing is that if he tells his friends this story you will be made out to be crazy!!! In fact you aren't crazy, you are demanding respect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 04:30 PM |
| 5 | People Who Don’t Want Hookups Are Super Unique and Stuff - Demisexuality 🙄I never realized it till this post that I am indeed demi sexual. I always have people telling me I am old fashioned or goodie goodie. My friend always asks after a first date....well did you cream your jeans? Did you want to fuck him? It feels so weird to here that because I just don't feel that way about some stranger. I go on the date and I talk to them to see if they make me laugh or if we have something in common. My first thoughts are never about sex. I don't think about sex until a few mon… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 12:27 PM |
| 6 | How to let a man know if they date he suggests is not appropriateI am learning so much from this sub. I dated a man who lived 3 hours away. After meeting half way a couple of times he asked me to come to where he lived so he could show me around. It was winter so I guess there wasn't much to do. I took the train close to him, he drove an hour to pick me up from there. We drove around and he showed me where he worked and a few other places. Then we went to his house and watched TV. !!! Can you imagine. I went 3 hours to see this person and he took me to his pl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 12:41 PM |
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