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| 6 | Is it just me or would anyone else break up with this guy?Agreed! I’m like leave that lady alone 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 04:52 AM |
| 12 | Is it just me or would anyone else break up with this guy?I think the GF is being annoying in RL for continually trying with someone who doesn’t want to be her friend and annoying for beating around the bush in this post. Seems like she’s doing this BECAUSE deep down she thinks something is going on, in which case she needs to address it or leave him. If not, I think it is weird and thirsty how she keeps trying with someone who is rejecting her. My read is the “friend” is getting embarrassed and or cheated on by her baby daddy and is terrified the gf w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 04:46 AM |
| 16 | NEVER tell scrotes that you’re a virginWay back in my college days, I had sex with an older guy I BARELY knew (I know, yikes). The next day he facetimed me in the middle of the night to ask if that was my first time, it was so ridiculous I trolled him and went along with it to see what he’d say. He wanted to know what made me “choose him” and that he was “honored” I busted out laughing like “it was NOT my first time lmfao wtf”. It was so gross how excited he seemed about it. Back to the topic at hand lol: I didn’t tell my at the time… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 03:45 AM |
| 7 | Radical Directness Feels AmazingAgree! I think if it’s very early on it’s possible that there is confusion or miscommunication, the radical direct approach works to get things clear. But if you know he’s playing games just block and delete | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 02:29 AM |
| 54 | There are men out there proposing like this. Yet, Pickmeisha over there still claims to love her onion ring and ‘wouldn’t want it any other way’, because TrUe lOvE. Quick reminder that if a man truly loves you, he will put effort in such a special moment.I’m convinced some women are God’s favorite | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 12:43 PM |
| 11 | Men will marry any woman who says yes even if he isn’t attracted to her. Note he is overweight, but wishes his wife were a “petite athletic woman”.Yep. She fucked up when she pursued him and let him know she was basically desperate for him. He used and abused her as they usually do. Don’t ever be desperate for a man and work on your appearance and self esteem before dating so you don’t get taken advantage of. Men prey on this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 09:44 PM |
| 7 | "Nice" guysWe’re talking about men here not women. You’re derailing, babe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 09:36 PM |
| 32 | This is why we don’t accept walks as first dates ladies! In the comments, he admits he doesn’t go above and beyond with nice dates, and that she should be grateful bc she’s a student with no income.The tea here is that his girlfriend convinced herself that a random ass walk through the park was a “romantic date” (and prob thought she was low maintenance unlike the OtHeR GiRLs) UNTIL she found out that other girls were out here being wined and dined lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Pickmeisha is messaging girl to rub it in her face that she's dating this guy. HVW is unbothered? Yikes this is all terrible for everyone involved. If it happened to me would’ve just blocked her and him immediately bc what in the nonsense | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 11:33 PM |
| 12 | A level up a day keeps the dust awayDisagree... If you’re in a big city literally homeless men on the side walk will ask you on a date on the way from work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 01:46 AM |
| 23 | Have you ever been honest about a guy’s unsatisfactory performance in bed?I’ve told an ex-boyfriend before, he sulked then asked for ways that he could improve. Tips are don’t fake it and don’t have the convo before/during the act. I did it shortly after, I ask “how was it for you?” And if he’s worth a damn he’ll ask it back (if he doesn’t please stop having sex with him) and you can just tell him the truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/19 03:31 AM |
| 19 | Found this lying BOY of a Boyfriend on Bumble Dating App. I wish I could find his girlfriend and introduce her to this sub right here - FDS !Seems like his GF found his profile and changed his bio to that lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/19 03:26 AM |
| 1 | I'm not showing enough interest??....Wait....stop this happened to me too!!! I said I had fun and he was like “if you had to rate the date from 0-10” lmfao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 11:52 PM |
| 1 | A Perspective on CommitmentThissss! It could just be offhandedly too. I’ve called a guy I’d only gone on a few dates with my boyfriend to the bartender/valet or my Uber driver just because it’s easier than explaining our not yet defined relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 11:45 PM |
| 2 | Went on a date with a dude I met last weekend. He complained about spending money on a date that went nowhere and implies I should have cut it short. Lol I’m so done dating.You could not have been nicer in this rejection. No matter what you say they’re update/snippy/straight up angry, which is why we ghost their asses. Good luck with the next date girlfriend :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 11:41 PM |
| 20 | They’re slowly starting to get it. r/MensLib discussion of porn.Couldn’t keep reading after the first 6 part essay vehemently defending PORN. Like if it isn’t an addiction WHY ARE YOU SO OBSESSED WITH IT | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 08:56 PM |
| 8 | Ratio of ugly ass men to beautiful womenMy city is like this...The women are GORGEOUS, well dressed, and take care of themselves. The men are bleh (not generally horribly ugly) and most rely on money to get women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 08:25 PM |
| 8 | Second date and he already asked for exclusivity?Sounds like a love bomber to me too. All the guys I’ve dated that asked for exclusivity very early on we’re crazy/insecure/possessive. Don’t let him pressure you, move at your own speed, tell him you plan to to that. If that upsets him run far away because he’s crazy Also ladies she’s 21 and hormone-filled, I think she’s allowed some making out lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 03:04 AM |
| 2 | Ladies, I need to know if I’m overreacting or if I should block - I feel pretty disrespected in this exchange.Echoing he just wasn’t that into you. Guys into you don’t talk to you like this, nor will they get snappy with you and text you “byeeee” after the slightest disagreement. Either way he had no plan for the proposed “date” and the way he said it DID sound like you were a seat filler, not a nice or romantic way to ask someone out. You dodged a bullet and you were straightforward, not overreacting! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 02:56 AM |
| 9 | "AITA for proposing to my boyfriend as a woman" Another cautionary tale of a forever girlfriend. Hint: never marry a man you have to force into marriage.Sorry but, why would any woman would propose to a man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 02:48 AM |
| 2 | OLD Men and Lies About HeightReason number 992388282 I stopped OLD. I think nearly every man I went out with from an app lied about his height lol. The only one who didn’t (was actually 6’1) was also the only one I ever went on a second date with and eventually had sex with haha. Liars never win. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Do guys really think the third date rule is real?That phrase seems to be what you all are harping on, I doubt he took it literally. He knows that if he’d like to go out with me again he can invite me out and I’d say yes. I probably will hint at being free after Thanksgiving IF he re-engages with the same effort as before. I don’t have as much of a issue with the suggestive comment (I do think it was a bit tone deaf tho, since we’d never had any sexual undertones and barely broken the touch barrier atp), if he’d kept momentum going and didn’t c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 02:43 AM |
| 27 | Men and pick mes circle-jerk and praise man for acknowledging lack of basic social decencyReminded me of the rant I posted here a few weeks ago “why can’t men stop talking about themselves”. They literally praise the woman for performing emotional labor for a stranger and lament on why more women do not do the same! Several men give their own personal anecdotes about how they also don’t give a shit to ask the women they date a thing about themselves and were shocked to find out the women didn’t like that. A few pick mes chime in to say that they don’t mind at all when a guy talks sol… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 02:06 AM |
| 51 | This is a tinder date and he suggests I book and he pays me half. Why the heck would I pay half. This is not a relationship! Haha how would you nicely say no boy you are paying. He is cuteWait, you are meeting your tinder date at a motel and he is asking you to pay for said motel??? Girl what’s going on here 🤕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 01:31 AM |
| 57 | Im tired of women who find gross stuff about their boyfriend's being criticized for snooping.I once told a boyfriend to his face that I would never snoop if he didn’t give me a reason to. But, if something gives me reason to believe he’s cheating I would definitely look into what’s going on. Rather look into it and be wrong/a snooper than be cheated on and disrespected unbeknownst to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 01:26 AM |
| 6 | Do guys really think the third date rule is real?I agree, in fact I think he’d be less likely to pull away after attempting sex as to not send the wrong message if he really liked me. Don’t want to retype but, if you scroll up to frustrated queen’s thread I explained a bit there how I believe I’m showing enough interest (besides us getting all the way to a third date in this dating climate 🥵) I met him at a Halloween party in the city. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/19 04:59 AM |
| 4 | Do guys really think the third date rule is real?Our date was originally supposed to be a movie, but, turned into dinner and a movie and I still wanted to spend time with him after the movie so I agreed to go to a bar by the theater with him and lost track of time talking and stayed out later than I planned... That’s more than reciprocating. Plus, when he said he couldn’t wait to see me again I told him I had a good time and we should do it again soon. I just didn’t want to schedule something right then and there and also I’d like for him to p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/19 04:48 AM |
| 43 | Girl finds mountain of nudes and porn depicting asian girls on her boyfriends' phone. Comments gaslights herinto thinking SHE'S wrong 🙄Weirdos. It’s TOTALLY not ok when your boyfriend is pining after/fetishizing women who don’t look a thing like you. You can rest assured he’s thinking about them when having sex with you and if he was ever able to attain one of the women he lurks would leave you in the dust. Common sense!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/19 09:53 PM |
| 2 | If he loves you, he should help plan your escape from the labor market.Just want to say after reading these ladies comments: Being a stay at home mom does not make you lazy or a “mooch” and is a job within itself. 9-5’s aren’t for everyone but, there are other options. I recommend you date foreign men maybe? Some of them maintain these “traditional” values but, may be a bit misogynistic so watch out. But, you should have your own money/businesses/ some form of income because you never know if a man will wake up and decide he doesn’t love you anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/19 06:22 PM |
| 12 | Man: I’m not like other guys you may have dated. I’m different, I match your interest.Lol the actions aren’t the problem as much as the words are. It’s not being straightforward with your feelings if you follow up with declarations of how much you aren’t like other men and how you won’t do said things out of fear that you will gasp actually sound like you like me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/19 02:42 AM |
| 0 | Can we just talk about the nerve of some guys on Tinder?He’s gross and entitled for no reason but, I’m sorry why go back and forth with a stranger on Tinder? Just unmatch. He doesn’t deserve your energy and mental effort. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/19 12:36 AM |
| 4 | How Reddit's relationship advice sides with menSurprise surprise | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/19 12:10 AM |
| 3 | How to test an ex who comes back regretting?They never see the light. It is only a matter of time after you let him back in until he returns to his previous shitty behavior. Promise you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/19 01:00 AM |
| 19 | Where to meet guys irl?Go to lunch/happy hour alone and sit at the bar. If you work out (and don’t get gym anxiety) join a gym, if you have a dog dog parks, any groups or clubs for your hobbies (find on Facebook), concerts, go to EVERY outing like anytime someone invites you to a birthday party, engagement party, friendsgiving, potluck make a conscious effort to go and look nice. Basically anywhere and everywhere. Except your house. I’ve accepted I don’t like OLD. I deleted all apps and that made me go out more, if I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 06:08 PM |
| 0 | Yet another man “accidentally” anally raping his girlfriend. Ladies, this shit is NOT AN ACCIDENT.You all are kind of creating a narrative that does not exist here btw. She does not describe a lot of the things you all are saying she “probably” deals with. Obviously if she described a ongoing clearly manipulative, gas lighting, abusive relationship I would not blame her. I still don’t “blame” her. A big part of this sub is accountability. Some people call the women harsh because they’ll simply be like “Your boyfriend fucking sucks and YOU let him use you. Love yourself and put yourself first… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 03:37 PM |
| 68 | Yet another man “accidentally” anally raping his girlfriend. Ladies, this shit is NOT AN ACCIDENT.This and the other post is so fucking disgusting and terrifying. Wtf. It’s so sad that women are so desperate for a partner that they will literally reason away RAPE and other concerning behaviors. They put this in relationship advice like it’s my boyfriend won’t remember to put the toilet seat down. GIRL HE HAS ANALLY RAPED YOU. CALL THE POLICE. REPORT HIM. BLOCK HIM, NEVER SPEAK TO HIM AGAIN AND GO TO THERAPY. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 02:22 AM |
| 17 | No, I will not meet you at your house.This just happened to me! He asked me if I was was doing anything I said not right now, what do you have in mind? And he asked if I would come over for dinner... I told him yeah no thanks 🤢 and he had the nerve to act confused as to why I didn’t want to come over and ask what was wrong, when I didn’t respond all day and he called me twice and texted me basically begging me to respond trying to recover. Delusional. This isn’t our first meeting but, still. What makes any man think pretty high qual… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 02:10 AM |
| 4 | Confront moids and low effort losers or block and go?Drink dates are low effort like “house dates”. You refer to it as a “laid back” introduction because it does not take much thought, money, or time...So, low effort. I don’t online date so the guys have already met me before and know that they are interested so there’s no need for a laid back introduction. And I said me “calling the guy out” would be me saying I expect him to take me out on an actual date, I don’t think that’s weird. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/19 12:43 AM |
| 3 | Woman fucks on the first date and gets ghosted. One guy she didn't fuck on the first date DTR'd her but it didn't work out. Then she fucked another guy on the first date, and he ghosted. Daily reminder to make them work for it!She sounds depressed and like she may have low self esteem and is overly sexual to garner and maintain a mans attention. I’m sure they can smell the desperation on her and take advantage. She should talk to someone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/19 08:10 PM |
| 3 | Tell the man in your life that you don’t want to take hormonal birth control and that you want him to get a vasectomy or use condoms instead. Watch their hamster wheels spin.Yep, had a horrible experience on hormonal BC. Was in a LTR and he begged and begged for me to get on it, I was only keen on it bc I also worried about pregnancy. Was horrible, I felt like I had every side effect possible. I turned out to be one of the people who have a decreased sex drive on it. Went from sex 2-3 times every time we saw each other to possibly once a week. He was soon after begging me to get OFF it. Turned out it cleared my skin and regulated my period after I got off it though.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/19 07:55 PM |
| 10 | A very common negging technique: Men "forgetting" your nameMy friends and I talk about this ALL the time! So many guys do this, it must be in the red pill rule book. A guy I went to college with, have mutual friends with, or even met before at another location or on an app will come up and talk to me and pretend to have no idea who I am. I often will just be like “We’ve met before. At ________. Where you also tried to hit on me. So I must’ve been somewhat memorable.” They’re usually embarrassed after that and will admit to knowing my name. If they still… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/19 05:21 PM |
| 4 | So where do you actually find partners..I’m in my twenties too, I also quit apps so its usually bars/lounges/clubs and parties for me, I live in a big city so everyone (meaning all different type of men) party/go out. The BEST way though imo is mutual friends/house parties, any time a male friend of mine who works at a top Fortune 500 or a quality guy one of my friends are dating is having a event, gathering, birthday/Christmas party, friendsgiving, I make sure I get cute as fuck and show up to meet their also successful coworkers or … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/19 01:08 PM |
| 3 | How do you fend off dating fatigue?Same... I have doubts about changing my routine/picking up hobbies I’m not actually into to meet a man though. Like I have a bit of gym anxiety so I prefer to go to the gym in my building at off times when I know that getting a membership to a good quality gym and going at peak times could be a good way to meet someone 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 10:34 PM |
| 1 | How do you fend off dating fatigue?This is also good advice! I may just become a weekend dater from now on. Would save me some sanity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 09:52 PM |
| 1 | How do you fend off dating fatigue?Sending good vibes! I try to take breaks too but, I have a high stress job that easily swallows all my time if I let it and then life happens and makes me wish I had a person so that gets me back out there and then a few months later after a series of low quality sucky guys I’m exhausted again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 09:51 PM |
| 5 | How do you fend off dating fatigue?Thank you! First: I guess I’m using great personality here to mean guy whose personality attracts me/I get along with easily. I do have several narcissists in my family tho lol. Second: I think I just very much want “the one” to be one of the guys I have that exciting instant connection with. Because of that in the past I have easily fallen victim to love bombing, I’ve been working on it and understanding slow and steady doesn’t mean dull and boring. Third: I agree w/ FDS stance on FWB but, this… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 09:43 PM |
| 3 | How do you fend off dating fatigue?For reference: I’m going to be 27 very soon, objectively attractive (7/10 face, very in shape, a bit short, nice butt, small/average boobs) and I have a corporate 9-5. I live in a big city and go out a lot so primarily I meet guys at bars and clubs but, also on social media thru DMs and I have 1 dating app but, the guys I find on there are pathetically desperate so don’t use it much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 03:13 PM |
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