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scraggly moustache Looks he put in extreme efforts to grow it too only for it to sprout into a patchy malnourished barely there shadow of a stache.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 03:32 PM
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Musty loser indeed! Hahhahah thanks for the chuckle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 03:27 PM
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I wish porn weren’t so mainstream it's sad how many women also support it. It's such a casual everyday thing nowadays.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 06:29 PM
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I swear I didn't even know about him until she started dating him. Then I forgot his name again until today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 08:32 PM
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Let's not forget the abuse she suffered at the hands of Chris Brown. She has a type.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 08:30 PM
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Women disappoint me over and over in this life. This. Poor choices and decision making all around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 08:29 PM
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I also still wonder why people are having kids right now of all times, terrible decisions all around. SAME! Why are not more people concerned about this?! A baby?? In these times? With a LVM?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 08:28 PM
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My heart sank when I read the news as I really like Rihanna. Moves by such celebrities normalize this practice i.e. it is ok to be a BM in general and that too with a LVM. Think about the message they send to young women out there with their actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 08:22 PM
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Yet she keeps on taking him back and he knows that very well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 06:17 AM
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I greatly enjoyed both The Wolf of Wall Street and The Sopranos, but purely from an entertainment perspective. I think they are very well made and the actors are excellent performers. I'm also a Scorsese (and David Chase) fan and have seen all his movies. Having said that, I wouldn't want to do anything more with the protagonists and that's where I draw the line. I think of them as purely fictional (although the former is based on a real life person). It's synonymous to enjoying a crime thriller…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 08:16 AM
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having too much fun without him This is it! She told me he spends all his time with her and doesn't even see his friends. Completely monopolizing her time. They've been together for 10 months and she has not met any of his friends, and so hasn't he, as I am her only close friend and she knows I will call her out on her poor choice if I met him.
/r/askFDS24/10/21 03:58 AM
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Thank you for the advice, I will do this the next time I see her (if and when he 'let's' her) -_-
/r/askFDS24/10/21 03:53 AM
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I thought so too. It's really sad because my friend is an independent vibrant woman and she doesn't see what this guy is doing to her. She used to do exciting things by herself all the time including traveling solo internationally, and it was so inspiring. Now she spends all her time with this guy. I bet he won't let her do things she enjoyed anymore and she will accept it.
/r/askFDS24/10/21 03:51 AM
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Or when training your pet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 10:16 AM
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This is why it's so important to have a great relationship with yourself first and foremost. This includes being content and happy by yourself. Only then can you have a superior baseline for comparison.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 10:02 AM
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Hahaha can confirm this. An ugly that I blocked on IG TWO years ago started stalking me on LinkedIn of all places. He visited my profile every day and left a message why did I block him. Had to block him again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 09:24 AM
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It said 'ok' and left
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 09:20 AM
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when observing cultures with multigenerational households, such as Asian culture for example, the daughter-in-law is still expected to look after her scrote and his parents. The division of labor doesn't get split equally. The concept still is that the daughter is "given away" and now belongs to the husband's family. Came here to say this. Often times the scrote's family will side with HIM when HE is acting up and they are well aware of his scrotish behavior and it's clear as day that he is in t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 08:34 AM
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Lol why real estate agents?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 12:17 PM
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Bus Drivers - cheaters, Mechanics - likely has a criminal record Lmaoooo this made me guffaw like a maniac
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 12:14 PM
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Those who never went to college are a hard pass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 12:12 PM
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Why truck drivers? Does this include all delivery fellows or only truck/long route drivers?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 12:10 PM
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Cops, military guys, CEO at self employed, firefighters, paramedics, doctors because of God complex, lawyers, fitness instructors, bartenders, finance bros, entertainment industry, artists, yoga instructors
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 12:08 PM
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This is the correct answer. They have thoroughly seen and lived the parts of that person that you have merely glimpsed. Nobody knows that person better than them. Take what they say very seriously, especially if the same thing is coming from multiple family members.
/r/askFDS30/09/21 03:21 AM
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Wow what an epiphany this infant scrote just had 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 02:40 AM
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Pumped and dumped
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 02:14 PM
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Such a crass way to describe oneself. Experiencing second hand shame on her behalf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 02:12 PM
12

This made me squirm so bad. It's all downhill where she is heading with this mindset. One thing I've noticed ubiquitously is how defensive these pickmes get when they are questioned or someone points out what they are doing wrong. The hostility is through the roof. Miss, you've posted your 'concern' on a public forum and are requesting 'advice', learn to take it when its offered!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 02:11 PM
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Omg such an eye opener! Last year I was swindled by a man for $20 while I was loading up groceries in my car. He approached me while I was distracted and begged for money saying his car broke down and he needed to pay the tow truck. He looked believable and my usual critical self didn't even fathom wondering why would a tow truck ask for cash upfront or inquiring what was wrong with his car etc. and handed him cash thinking I would appreciate the help if I was in his situation. Lo and behold, he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 08:28 PM
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This was amazing! Do you say 'excuse me' or something to get their attention as you get closer so that they can move out of way or straight plow through? I usually shout out or scuffle my shoes loudly as a headsup when it is a bunch of people hogging space in front of me. Once this guy stopped, glared at me and muttered something under his breath which I didn't catch as I marched past him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 05:27 PM
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Especially early on. Or ever
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 09:31 PM
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MaYbE yOu sHoulD cOmmUnICAtE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 07:29 PM
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This is exactly what grinds my gears too. Number of years a couple has been together does not equate to a good marriage/relationship by default. It's just like platonic friendships aren't about who you've known the longest. It's the quality. Number of years together doesn't mean shit if it's a crappy relationship. Pre FDS I used to always wonder how come so many people are in relationships or married when good guys are in extreme scarcity, now I know they are just shitty relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 05:56 PM
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The key is to catch them in the act while the 'representative' mask is still on, and prudently recognize the real scrote lurking underneath whenever the mask accidentally slips in between i.e. through constant vetting, timely detection of red flags and taking prompt action (block and delete) at the first sign. Only a smart scrote will be able to put up with the act 100% of the time without ever showing any glimpse of his real self, and let's admit, majority of them are not smart. And it is not a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 07:56 AM
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Absolutely do not link your social media’s to your datings app Also make sure your social media is private at all times!
/r/askFDS30/04/21 03:50 AM
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If you want to be sneaky and still rage against the patriarchy, then screenshot it, create an anonymous email account and send it to her. Depending on how she reacts, you may still want to step back from your friendship. I was in a similar situation except that I did not know the woman but knew the man through social media from years ago. I reported the guy on the app, created an anonymous account and sent the wife screenshots on Facebook. She tried to call me through fb but I didn't answer as I…
/r/askFDS28/04/21 03:40 AM
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There are a multitude of reasons I have decided to remain childfree. I'd like to preface that I have immense admiration and respect for those that want and have children. These views are entirely my own that I have formed over intense introspection of my own life and experiences, as well as those of people around me. I don't remember ever having that maternal instinct or urge to have kids ever since I was young. Growing up I always thought it was something a woman is 'supposed to do' after marri…
/r/askFDS16/04/21 05:37 PM
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"He will use you for practice." Boy, did he!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 04:57 AM
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They win bc they detach quickly This hit like a ton of bricks
/r/askFDS08/04/21 03:32 PM
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Walk by like a tank 😂🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 10:22 PM
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Had me at "Old ass child"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 09:35 PM
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So thankful for the FDS 3 month rule What should be the frequency of in-person dates during this 3+ month rule? Should it be every other week? So roughly 10 dates in? For e.g. you could be talking to someone but only met them a handful of times and it's been 3 months, would that be considered sufficient time?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 07:10 AM
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Yes, can confirm. I order Uber for my parents and other people from my account all the time with no issues. I just leave a message to the driver that it is for someone else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 04:19 PM
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Yea obviously no HVM, the discussion here is about LVMs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 06:43 PM
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No pubes around the toilet seat, or anywhere else for that matter No skid marks in the toilet Preach. Skid marks, pubes and pee on and around the toilet, sink, bath anywhere in the washroom are GUARANTEED if there's a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 02:45 PM
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Give them rope to hang themselves with. HAHAH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 07:25 AM
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I think perhaps he is being extra careful in not coming across as needy or clingy this time around and could be intentionally not texting as frequently as he used to before, assuming he did. He probably must have introspected on why it didn't work the first time. Another reason is him being busy at work or not attached to his phone, like others have said. Nevertheless if he is persistently consistent in his efforts and actions, it is worth giving him a chance. You can bring it up casually when t…
/r/askFDS19/12/20 07:44 PM
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This is serious!! 99% of the times baseball caps are worn to hide baldness
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 07:05 AM
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While I don't keep stats on how many times a guy initiates a convo, I make sure I don't initiate more than him and I don't ever double text. If I am on read for more than two days without any other form of communication, I either unmatch or don't continue the conversation anymore - these are my hard rules amongst others. To me tracking data would mean I am starting to actually care, which I absolutely do not want to in those early days. I ensure that I remain skeptical without being obsessively …
/r/askFDS25/11/20 06:59 PM
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This is real. We need a filter to weed out bald or balding guys. Then there are hatfishers. You'll see a decent looking guy wearing a hat in the first few pics, and then bam! The last pic is without a hat with a huge ass shiny bald head poking out. Some don't bother with a bald pic but there's a 99% chance he is bald if all he has are baseball hat pics. Had one guy that did this and I straight up asked him if he was bald and he's like you got me there but that he is the sexiest bald guy I'd ever…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 01:56 PM
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Must've been a Chad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 07:15 PM
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When someone ghosts you, make them dead to you. Block and delete!
/r/askFDS14/11/20 03:12 PM
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My goodness! Why are you torturing yourself by keeping him and his asshat friends around and letting them control and mess around with your mind? Better to be alone than being with a bunch of manipulative fools costing you your peace. Please, please immediately leave this toxic situationship and never ever look back. No handing out explanations, just block and delete. Your future self will thank you.
/r/askFDS11/11/20 12:32 AM
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"You are ugly. Bye."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 12:12 PM
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Report Brian
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 02:07 AM
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Sure, as long as you can do it next time too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 11:52 AM
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For a guy*. Do it by all means for yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 05:01 PM
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Or leave a job or change schools
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 07:29 AM
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Don't initiate contact if you've left bumble for the same reason or else what's the difference. On Hinge you can see which people have liked you so this guy can reach out to you first if he wishes. Hinge allows both men and women to start a conversation. Moreover, the FDS rules say to never chase a guy. I'd let him take the lead.
/r/askFDS18/10/20 07:14 AM
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Stop beating yourself up. It's done. Chalk it up to experience. This guy does not deserve any real estate in your life and you know it. Read the rules, revisit your boundaries, internalize them and make a vow to never ever compromise them no matter what the situation is. Remember that you're very young and still learning to navigate your way in this world. Be kind to yourself. We've all been there. Nobody was born a FDS practitioner but you're here now. The boundaries you will establish and enfo…
/r/askFDS17/10/20 06:38 PM
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I agree with your grandma. I mean back then they didn't have the means to determine who the dad was so it could very well be any man! The whole idea is superficial, based on lies, oppressive and just another tactic to control women and gain the upperhand. It's time to crush it and win back our power
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 02:43 AM
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Part of the reason these men are screeching in defense is because if a child gets their last name based on the parent that puts in the most effort (i.e. mothers), these men's 'family name' will no longer be advanced; they'll actually have to put in the work to further it. The concept of 'male heir' will no longer be relevant. In conclusion, THEY will lose their privileges which they've been entitled to for centuries with zero effort on their part simply by virtue of their gender. Completely agre…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 06:44 PM
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It's all about CONTROL and exercising it when it is convenient for them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 06:33 PM
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100%. Excessive fan following on social media, open profile, too much content on the profile and frequent posts is also a red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 05:01 AM
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"You can cry as long as you wish, as long as it is on my twig"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 04:31 AM
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Always a good idea to Marie Kondo/purge the contact list every now and then
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 02:49 PM
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This is great. I also deleted and blocked guys I am no longer attracted to or have no intention of talking to. They no longer serve any purpose in my life. They don't need to see what's going on with me and I could care less about theirs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 03:41 AM
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Ask him directly, "Are you still on Tinder?". Do it face to face. Another tip is to spring it on him when he's not expecting it all to get an honest response. Don't preface it or anything. Take him by surprise. He wouldn't have any time to think of an excuse. Closely observe his facial expressions when he is processing the question, including the time he takes to reply and of course his reaction following. It may not be anything to be concerned about (i.e. maybe he unintentionally only uninstall…
/r/askFDS12/10/20 09:46 PM
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Men: Use money to attract women Also men: Women are gold diggers When they can't sustain women they can't afford in the first place, they start calling them gold diggers 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 05:18 PM
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We also kind of agreed we can’t really be together long-term because of our religious differences. You answered your own question right there. If religion is a dealbreaker for you both then nothing else matters, you shouldn't even be debating his value. He could be a HVM for all you care (which he is definitely not based on the information provided), in the end either or both of you will not stay in this relationship, so what is the point? You're basically wasting your time until one of you pull…
/r/askFDS11/10/20 06:37 AM
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I hope this was not a true story
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 01:55 AM
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Why did she do this to herself?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 09:03 AM
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they look like Steve Buscemi. My god, hahahahah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 04:18 AM
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LMAOOO this made me chuckle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 04:15 AM
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Omg I've been looking to get into woodworking lately but don't know how to start. I want to be able to build my own bookshelf and furniture someday. How did you get started? Should I sign up for a class or invest in self learning first?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 04:07 AM
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That confidence man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 03:54 AM
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If you are not together anymore, why are you still following what he is upto and that too after a year of being broken up? Why is he not blocked and deleted? It could be various reasons why he introduced his new muse to his friends but not you when you were together. Maybe because they have mutual friends so he had to? Or may be he wanted you to be a 'secret' gf hidden from the world, which is a glaring red flag and a huge indicator he was a LVM. Only he knows the reason, and honestly it shouldn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 01:51 AM
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This is amazing! Goes both ways - do yourself a favor and stop keeping and staying updated with those who are no longer in your life. You don't need to tell them how you're doing or know how they're living their lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 10:15 PM
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I hate buying cars, which is why I keep mine forever. LOL ditto. I am taking good care of mine so that it will last me years and delay my next purchase
/r/askFDS25/09/20 05:23 AM
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He looks like he has used all those excuses himself at some point and is now passing them off for clout. The vibe isn't genuine
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 04:44 AM
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The softsoap 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 06:44 AM
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Pleaseeee do it! Time to expose these so called pRoVidErs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 05:52 AM
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I read this bs story on the TIFU sub; a guy was embarrassed he shat himself in front of his wife, and was later trying to console himself by commenting he has seen her give birth so now they're equal. Like wtf??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 04:06 AM
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Omg someone finally said it! I never got the idea of displaying moments that are so private and precious so ostentatiously on social media for the sake of public approval, likes and whatnot. I mean doesn't it make them feel conscious and affect their natural reactions? Can we quit whipping out the stupid camera every fucking second and live in the moment instead?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 04:58 AM
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I don’t even want to know how dark and gross smelling his piss was. Disgusting. LOLLLL I have this exact same thought everytime I see people who don't drink enough water. Don't they get grossed out and concerned by the stink, color and density of their pee?! I guess not because they've clearly never given their bodies the chance to pass clear, odorless urine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 07:17 AM
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I took bite out of some cake and saw a pube sticking out Hahahahahahah I am wondering how did it get into the cake
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 06:46 AM
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So you are saying you are back to talking to him after what he put you through and are preparing to meet him again? I am sorry but what was the point of your post then?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 04:29 AM
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Assuming OP and this guy had frequently texted every day up till the 2nd date after which this guy suddenly goes radio silent without any reasonable explanation, it's definitely a massive red flag. Not only that but he still didn't respond after she sent the flirty text. An unexplained absence that lasts more than 24 hours means he is not interested or is dead. The latter was clearly not the case since he reemerged. He probably made his comeback like nothing happened and didn't acknowledge his d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 02:30 AM
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but after not texting me for almost 2 days Now it is your turn to ghost AND block him for good. Do not entertain him any further. His original plans fell through or he is bored so he is reaching out to you after TWO days as a backup plan. No person who is interested in you would go hot and cold on you. He's a jerk, drop him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 01:56 AM
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dating is a gamble Think of dating as a gamble and it will start to make sense. When you gamble, you win some and you lose some. It's not about you, it's just the nature of the beast. Every time you put yourself out there, you take this risk and that's the way to go except to not invest in a prospect until we are sure that there will be a favorable return (which you have realized through this experience). When you put down money to buy stocks, you collect data and conduct extensive research prio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 12:33 AM
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Causal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 10:50 AM
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Hate these "are you real?" types of stupid comments. Was on an app that doesn't have the bluecheck feature. This app targets a niche community and isn't sophisticated or efficient enough to allow you to make changes to your profile, update pics etc right away. My profile had two clear pictures and I had tried adding more but my profile would just go under 'pending' status unless I undid those changes. Anyway, after a minute of complimentary "hey, how are you" this guy asks me if I am real and to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 08:45 AM
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Can't comment on the statistics; I am not aware of any studies done on the subject of % of asshole men existing around the world as it is subjective but 100% concur that there are relatively fewer decent men out there compared to the asshats. Will also state that % of women with low standards and lack of boundaries is also relatively higher, which perpetuates egregious male behavior and lets them get away with it, not withstanding cultural, physical and biological attributes. I compare this with…
/r/askFDS16/08/20 07:01 PM
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Call the cops
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 03:22 AM
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I once matched with a guy who was a bus driver. He proudly repeated several times during the time we talked that he picks up women on his bus and has had the most success that way. Of course this guy hit on other females in his car before OP. I simply don't engage in conversation with Uber drivers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 08:12 AM
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bad hygiene Hahaha YES! Met a self proclaimed 'nice' guy with crusty ass teeth. Eww no sir
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 06:38 AM
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Exactly, it appears no boundaries were established ever. So obviously he would question her refusal now because all along he's been thinking he is entitled and that she be available at his every beck and call.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 05:21 AM
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I didn't read the age first and thought this guy was a juvenile. Imagine being 33 years old and still pulling this kind of shit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 05:17 AM
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Exactly! Like excuse me, why do you have to say 'to be honest' in the beginning of a sentence? Clearly everything else that you say is not honest??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 05:30 AM
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Hahahha "I was goiNg thRouGh somE stUff pErsonAllY". Have heard this one very often. It's complete bs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 05:28 AM
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Sean Penn looks like a personification of liver disease 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 04:12 PM
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Disgusting and brainless
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 05:10 AM
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Even if it IS biOlOgicAl, they have the choice to not act on it. The ability to not act out on instincts and urges is what separates humans from animals. They must be completely dense to use biOloGy as their pathetic excuse to get away with their egregious behavior
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 05:09 AM
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Same. I was fishing to see the author's name
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 04:54 AM
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Exactly. Fuck them and be on your merry way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 12:05 PM
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LADIES we need the confidence of this chump right here with his hairline on its way to kiss his ass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 03:50 AM
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LMAO hey will you be my plan B?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 03:48 AM
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Plsss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 01:32 AM
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Looks like a shifty creature creeping from the shadows
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 01:30 AM
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Apparently this site was revived in February after its shutdown in 2018. https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/pke3j7/someone-is-trying-to-revive-the-infamous-revenge-porn-site-anon-ib
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 04:50 AM
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This is beyond appalling! Ladies, you can sign the petition here to take down the website. They ask for name and email information. https://www.change.org/p/to-take-down-the-website-anonib-ru-take-down-the-website-anonib-ru?source_location=topic_page
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 04:37 AM
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I don't think it is a good show unless you're watching it for nothing other than pure entertainment. It paints a realistic picture of the arranged marriage culture, however it perpetuates everything that is wrong with it (classism, colorism, sexism, to name a few). I was filled with cringe and disgust a few episodes in and couldn't stomach it anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 09:44 PM
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100% agreed. The number of years a couple has been together is no indication of a successful marriage. It's comparative to friendships too: you can have much stronger friendships with people you met recently vs those you've known forever. Duration is not indicative of success or happiness in relationships. Why is the divorce rate so low in arranged marriages? It's because how can those who didn't get married by choice divorce by choice?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 09:37 PM
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chinless wonder Hahahahahaha chinless and doublechin wonders
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 07:58 PM
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The comeback is always 'oH aTleASt bEArd iS nATurAL'. Natural or not, it serves the same purpose as makeup i.e.alter or enhance the appearance and hiding flaws. No reason makeup should be looked down on when it does the same thing for women as beard does for men. Imagine if women started going around complaining about beards the way men do about makeup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 07:56 PM
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Sounds like a diabetic daddy with demands
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 03:21 AM
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Wish he had taken his own advice at staying young. Would've helped his hairline stay intact for longer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 11:36 PM
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It's written by a black man. Look under the About section (main menu on the left hand side)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 02:42 PM
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Well said. It's like a naked man offering you his clothes except he doesn't have them in the first place
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 07:06 AM
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I dated a demon 😂 Haven't we all?! Glad you're not with his demonic ass anymore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 06:39 AM
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'Pretencious' 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 05:13 AM
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Interestingly, when it's a woman who cheats, the man she cheats with is never labeled as 'the other man' or homewrecker (I've never heard it used for a man). It's her who gets called a cheater. So why shouldn't the same rightful name calling extend to cheating men? Why should the woman take the entire blame regardless of which side of the table she's on i.e whether she's the perpetrator or an accomplice? Whereas men get a free pass in BOTH situations. Sickening double standards. This is so heavi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 03:45 PM
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Or ask him if he wants a vag pic and when he says yes, send him a screenshot of his own face 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 03:02 AM
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He's a lab experiment gone wrong
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 02:45 AM
4

The trash took itself out with that description coupled with that picture
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 02:16 AM
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They are selectively visual. They conveniently turn blind to the sight of anything that requires cleaning but have on demand 20/20 vision when it comes to porn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 03:01 AM
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The only men who don't cheat or don't watch porn are the ones that haven't been caught yet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 02:25 AM
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You had me at wide-shouldered 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 02:07 AM
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What is with majority of guys wanting kids more than women and then doing the bare minimum to raise them?! And by that I mean putting in effort comparable to that of mothers although they will never be able to match up even if they tried. I fail to grasp the logic behind this. If I want a human being to the point of bringing it into this world I would help raise it in whatever way I possibly can at the very least. Or they shouldn't want kids if they can't be bothered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 01:58 AM
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This post has inspired me to start powerlifting, something I've always wanted to but never did. What are some good resources that can help me get started? I don't know anyone that's into working out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 11:06 AM
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LMAO exactly my first thought. Who'd want to own all that trashy bling anyway. Just because it has got a designer label on it doesn't mean it looks classy. It's so obvious she's flashing all those things to make herself feel better about her profession, not to mention displaying her obvious lack of taste. You don't see high paying professionals like surgeons or lawyers making childish tiktoks flaunting their possessions. Money can't buy class or taste. Those horrendous talons! Make me think of p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 10:38 AM
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Very informative article on why women fare better single. Is-it-true-single-women-and-married-men-do-best?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 03:49 PM
13

So freaking true. You're NEVER alone right from the point you step outside of your house, to your destination and back. Male eyes follow you everywhere, no matter where you go. Doesn't matter how old you are or what you're wearing/whether you're attractive or not, as long as you're a female (more so if you're by yourself). It's absolutely disgusting. The most messed up thing is it is so normalized in the society, nobody questions it or fights against it. There are no rules. It is a scary place f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 11:49 AM
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Insensitive piece of dirty cretin. Hope he wasn't entertained any further
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 11:33 AM
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This! Plan and execute your exit plan in secret. When it's all done, then tell him. That way he cannot draw you back in. The more time you spend with him, the longer it's going to take you to find the one who deserves you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 09:56 PM
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HE is living in HER apartment, constantly pissing on HER floor and SHE is cleaning it? And now HE is mad? His audacity, blatant disrespect of her property and total disregard for her, and her tolerance for disrespect from him is applaudable. She should've made HIM clean it from the very first occurrence. He's a definite and hopeless POS but she's an enabler in this scenario for putting up with it for as long as she did for the sake of avoiding confrontations. She perpetuated the situation furthe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 09:41 PM
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What a shitbag! And she decided to have FOURTH child with him 🙄 He deserves none!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 09:29 PM
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I wore a bra after almost a month today just so that I don't get too used to not wearing one and that was the longest, most uncomfortable hour I've had so far since the lockdown began. I took it off the moment I could. I cannot believe I used to wear one every freaking day for 12 plus hours and now I can't even for an hour. It's going to be an adjustment having to start wearing it on a daily basis when this is over
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 04:44 PM
1

The guy with ugly tattoos and patchy facial hair looks like he breaks his own heart everytime he looks in the mirror
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 06:48 PM
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This is good advice. On the flip side, on many occasions I've ended up finding out a lot about a guy in a matter of seconds after seeing his social media page. For e.g. was talking to a guy on an app and he seemed decent. Asked for his username, looked him up on social media and found out his page was public (which saved me the trouble of actually adding him to access his page). He had over a thousand posts and most of him showed him surrounded by females and partying out. That was an instant tu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 09:46 PM
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Exactly my first thought! It's like she'd rather he indulge in whatever vices he has in front of her than in her absence so that she feels a modicum of control. I once knew a woman who let her man do things to her she wasn't comfortable with because she thought that would keep him from seeking other women, only to find out later that he was still cheating on her all the time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 07:48 AM
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The issue is men have this abundance mindset while women have the scarcity attitude. The average woman who is above an average man in terms of looks will give the average as well as the below average man a shot if they act right, have a personality they can tolerate or a combination of any such reasons because she thinks she may not find another one i.e. scarcity mindset (personality trumps looks scenario). Which by default means men have more women to pick from because majority of women think t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 08:49 AM
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Some day these fine women will cringe at the thought that they cried rivers for these ugly ass cretins, gave them the power to break their precious hearts and have that 'what was I thinking?!' self talk. It's in that moment we realize our self growth and there's no going back. We've all been there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 08:31 AM
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Yes, really hope someones does him dirty as he did so many others. Having just a realization about how badly he treated those women is not enough for his redemption. It's a shame ugly old scrotes like him can get away with shit like this unscathed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 09:39 PM
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Same! He was so cringe. Looked like a pathetic has been who graduated a long time ago but kept on going back to his high school days. He wasn't even good looking!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 04:14 AM
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This is one of my biggest peeves. They are investing minimal effort to get you to continue responding to them without meaning anything by it. They aren't into you enough to ask about your interests and actually getting to know you. If they're draining you, stop replying to them. I'm sure their texts don't warrant replies if they're sending 'WYD cutie' kind of deathly boring and meaningless messages. You don't owe them anything. Protect your energy and don't give them the time of your day. If the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 09:05 AM
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They're just testing boundaries and figuring out how far they can push us to get what they want without 'offending' us by directly asking for it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 06:21 AM
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Exactly. It's her problem now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 06:42 AM
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I got bumble after a long time when a friend said the quality of guys is better on there than Tinder (not proven, most guys on Bumble also happen to be on Tinder). But I've been so discouraged with how entitled majority of guys are on there when it comes to responding or carrying a conversation. Just because a woman has to message first doesn't mean the onus to move the convo forward should be on her. Although I liked the filter feature - that helped me weed out guys that didn't meet my height p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 06:59 AM
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Agree with everything. The exception to the rule when it comes to messaging first is Bumble where a woman is supposed to open the conversation. I've found myself unwillingly leading the conversations most of the times just because I sent the first message. Most matches I got there almost never continued a conversation worth having resulting in me unmatching them all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 06:51 AM
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Saw it and felt repulsed. He's a 40 year old and his age preference for women is set to 20-40. By the end of the episode he realizes he needs to slow down and changes his preferences to 25 to 40 year olds lol. That was the only change he was shown to make as a result of getting called out on his fuckboy tendencies. Also shows that polite behavior like opening doors and paying for your date's meals means absolutely nothing during those early stages, he was only using that to entrap the women in h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 06:34 AM
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Such an empowering post! What did your dad say when you said that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 12:09 AM
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So glad you stopped messaging him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 11:10 AM
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Sorry OP. Getting ghosted sucks but unfortunately that's the sick reality we all live in. Although he was nice and all, understand that two months is not a long enough time to know someone. His good morning texts meant nothing, he could be copying pasting the same text to several other women for all we know. Don't let that mislead you. Now to get over him: Step one: DO NOT under any circumstances reach out to him. Do not give him that satisfaction. If possible, try not to analyze why he did what…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 11:00 AM
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1) You can continue texting if it helps you with isolation but do not expect anything coming out of it and also do not get attached to this guy. Be aware that it may not go anywhere after the quarantine is over, if it continues until then, that is. The fact he's frequently updating his profile obviously means he is actively seeking/talking to other women. If that bothers you or your conversations are low value/you think he is losing interest I suggest cut him off or slow fade. Three dates pre lo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 10:18 AM
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It's different between friends and someone you're dating. I wouldn't apply the same standards to both. This guy is clearly playing games/uninterested but lacks the ability to voice it like a mature person. He's avoiding confrontation and taking the easy way out by ghosting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 10:01 AM
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Unread message doesn't mean he's unaware about the message. He probably read it already in the message previews. He's leaving it unread on purpose. People do this all the time to avoid responding. Four days is long enough time. It's intentional
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 09:58 AM
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You didn't see it coming, that's why you feel blindsided. If this has not happened to you before or you weren't aware of this type of behavior before, you couldn't have foreseen it. You will be better prepared next time. We live and we learn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 06:55 AM
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This! The moment that feeling of confusion and doubt starts to creep in, it's a sign that he is not worthy of our efforts, and that it is time to dump him and run for the hills and never return, especially more so during those early stages when he has shown nothing for himself. No further validation of this feeling is required from any other source. Women are highly instinctive by nature. Sadly we second guess ourselves way too much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 06:46 AM
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Some guys love sharing intimate details about themselves with females, doesn't matter whether they're strangers. They come across as vulnerable and make their listeners feel they are the only ones they're disclosing themselves to. I am sure he is doing the same with other females he's talking to and means absolutely nothing by it. It's nothing more than a manipulative tactic to entrap females and make them feel like he trusts them enough to share so much about his life. He had a reason to go col…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 05:13 AM
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There could be any number of reasons as to why he's acting hot and cold, most likely he is talking to other girls or is simply not interested in carrying on with you but is stringing you along as an option until you step in and end it. Don't analyze why he is doing this. Just know it is not an accident, he knows exactly what he's doing. It's not your job to decipher his behavior. Only pay attention to how he is treating you. First date tells you almost nothing about him - more often than not it …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 04:57 AM
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Same!! I have tried to date multiple men but it never works out for me. I'm not able to devote time and attention to more than one or two men at the same time. I get exhausted, overwhelmed and lose focus trying to maintain a fun conversation or something deep or meaningful if it's multiple guys. I also personally get turned off when I get to know that a man I am talking to is talking to other women, and start to withdraw. I think I am on the other end of the spectrum and this is something I have…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 11:48 PM
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They never do. They just give themselves away by making those lewd comments
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 09:26 AM
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Met an essential worker online who defended his wish to meet irl on the account of him being 'out and about everyday in close quarters with general public and still being healthy'. Said 'there's no danger if both of us are not sick, stay apart 6 feet and have no physical contact'. I stood my ground and declined.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 09:25 AM
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Gold advice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 11:13 PM
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When a guy says he is not looking for a relationship, please believe him and leave. Even if he wants it, it is not with you. You will not change his mind by staying. Save your efforts and respect your time. There are many posts on FDS discussing this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 11:08 PM
3

Here's another hairless Harold
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 10:59 PM
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I didn't know whether to laugh or cry 😂 In the end I just reeled in disgust
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 10:58 PM
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Her post clearly says she used the embryo to get her friend to stop asking for it and that people are judging her for having a baby out of spite - which is really what she did. It doesn't say she had plans to destroy it nor does it mention they had looked at options of donating them to others, they were debating what to do with them. I'm just saying donating could have been a viable option to putting them to good use i.e. give someone who would make a good parent the gift of a child given she re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 12:16 AM
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Exactly. While I commend her for calling out her friend's husband, why did she feel the need to use the embryo herself given she already has enough children just so that her friend would stop asking her for it? Makes no sense. It's like having extra money and using it because you don't want to give it to someone else although you don't need to spend it. Why not give it to someone who actually needs it? She could have donated the embryos to a deserving couple if she really wanted to put them to a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 05:11 PM
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100%. How do you get an indication whether a man you're seeing is using reddit given it's all anonymous unless he divulges it himself or you see him using it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 02:34 PM
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It's very much possible but again hard to confirm given they didn't divulge a lot of information and details on how exactly her husband stumbled upon those cubs in the first place. Even if the cubs and other animals were rescued she didn't let them out in the wild. She wasn't running a rehabilitation center for wildlife. Her conservatory wasn't like a traditional park where animals can roam freely in their natural habitat. They were all caged, just like Joe's animals. Again, perhaps her agenda w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 02:31 PM
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That scene where they showed her and her husband playing with cubs in their backyard full of animals
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 11:04 AM
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I can't believe these responses! God save us! Scrotes are in abundance. Not a single comment or response that is aligned with FDS rules. Literally all of them are screaming "become a pickme if you want to land a man!". What's more alarming is that non FDS females are actually reading this "bad" advice and are at risk of applying it. How do we save them?! Also where are all the HVMs at? Don't they use reddit? This makes me profoundly sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 07:55 AM
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I think the only thing that set her apart from Joe and Antle as per the documentary was that she wasn't breeding the tigers for profit or using them to gain popularity. Aside from that, the animals were still held in captivity at the end of the day. She had tigers as pets before she opened the zoo, just like other characters. After she started the NFP, it's hard to say if they were better cared for, although the documentary didn't show or focus on any abuse. Nevertheless, it was still a zoo at t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 06:11 AM
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My go-to answer is "because my standards haven't been met by the modern man, and until they do I'll happily remain single". Leaves the man sheepish, folllwed by quick topic change
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 05:25 AM
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Yeah I hate how whatsapp doesn't have a setting to turn off "online" just like they do for Last Seen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 10:38 PM
2

Now I know why it smells like farts or ass when men get up from their seats
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 10:36 PM
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How could he be leaving marks right after showering??? Worst of all, he's trying to normalize it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 10:34 PM
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As a 28 year old he should have his shit together if he is a HVM. Him not cleaning his place when you visit means he doesn't think you'll care or he doesn't care you'll care = he's a lazy slob. Doesn't seem to have any money? What does he do for work? Either he is bad at managing money or doesn't make much but does have enough to splurge on weed. Complains about condoms = he is disrespectful and doesn't care about yours and his health. You're seeing each other during this time =you both don't ca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 11:05 PM
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She came off as insincere and ingenuine whereas Joe was brash and spitted out whatever was on his mind without thinking. Although both were equally manipulative, Joe came out as less conniving in comparison because of his mannerism. Moreover, it wasn't clear how Carol's Big Cat organization was any different or better than Joe's zoo (maybe I didn't get it). It wasn't like she was letting the animals out in the wild after they were rehabilitated. She was against animal trafficking but at the end …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 07:38 AM
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Please send it to me as well. Thank you so much!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 02:39 AM
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When a guy says he's not into you or doesn't want anything serious, BELIEVE HIM and LEAVE no matter how much you don't want to. Don't try to change his mind and don't stick around hoping he will change his mind, he won't. It will hurt in the moment but it's nothing compared to what you may undergo if you choose to carry on with him after he has disclosed his feelings. People always show us who they are but we want them to be who we want them to be and end up playing ourselves. Self respect must …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 01:58 AM
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Get this a lot. Usually the ones who claim to be street smart are the ones who did poorly in school and couldn't get into a good college or dropped out/got kicked out, and the woman they are with is well educated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 09:47 PM
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He definitely told the intern (and who knows how many others) about you. It's too big of a coincidence for the intern to just come across your LinkedIn profile out of nowhere, considering the timing and the fact you don't interact with that group meaning he did not know about you unless he was told. The curiosity probably got the better of him and he had to check you out for himself. I don't understand why are you giving this guy Gee the time of your day. You know he is not compatible and you ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 08:56 PM
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Off topic but this is the whole premise of Bumble. A woman has to text first. I'll open the conversation and expect the man to lead it after that but it doesn't happen in most cases
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 10:32 PM
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I keep the read receipt setting off just for my own peace of mind. If someone (not just a man) doesn't get back to me I don't obsess about it because the read receipts are off. It goes both ways, sometimes I am too busy to respond but have seen their message. Keeping the read receipt setting off saves me the trouble of explaining the delay in responding. Having said that, if a man I am talking to takes longer than 24 hours to respond without a valid reason, he is dropped. Let's face it, these da…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 02:01 PM
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Pot belly Paul/No Hair Harry had me dying hahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 01:46 PM
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