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62

Lmao what? Having hair doesnt mean your voice will he deeper.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 02:21 AM
23

Yes. Ive noticed if any guy condemns or goes on about how they hate a certain type of women it 100% means they secretly lust after it. It could be "fake" women, "whores", "fat" women, Instagram models ect. Theyre just in denial about it for some reason. Its weird and Idk the reason but its a 100% red flag if a man goes on about a certain type of woman in a derogatory way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 12:06 AM
3

He clearly doesnt trust her. Probably projection or some weird red pill paranoia.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 12:06 AM
12

Wdym?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 11:52 PM
2

I like Hinge the best, never bothered with Bumble.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 07:21 PM
11

Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 07:00 PM
2

So princess is an insult now? Lmaoo yes I am, thank you :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 06:32 PM
122

I genuinely thought it was a thing where he was abusing her and thought it was weird to post that casually then I remembered BDSM 🤔 Also why is he not sure if you were okay with how rough it was? Shouldnt that be something you discuss before? And was he straight out punching her? Is that the new BDSM thing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 04:47 AM
50

A lot of women are with older men though. Wouldnt immediately write it off as fake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 04:38 AM
5

Its always cringey when I see women simp and fall over men especially for just the bare minimum lmaoo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 03:37 AM
13

The generation before was like that too?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 02:35 AM
25

Lmaooo Id burst out laughing wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 02:22 AM
38

Projection lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 02:21 AM
13

They get off on it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 05:08 PM
14

When you love someone they can seem like the most beautiful person in the world, even when its not objectively true. Its about perspective.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 04:44 PM
128

They rather say all men do that then just admit they only come into contact with 1 woman a year and obsessively creep over her lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 07:16 AM
74

Shaming his sexuality to get off to rape? Imagine if they one day say laws against rape are "shaming their sexuality"..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 07:14 AM
60

The worse offenders (again in my own experience) have been from self described feminism celebrating men. The type that is very excited to talk about the struggles woman face Guilty conscience maybe? There was this youtube channel I used to watch of a guy and he would make a bunch of in depth videos exposing pedophilia and content made around child trafficking, saying how disgusting anyone who thinks of children in a sexual way is ect... Then it got exposed he was coercing women (much younger wom…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 07:10 AM
64

They created Samsung assistant and not even a day later there was porn of her around reddit. Wait what? Whos the samsung assistant?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 07:00 AM
47

If he even finds that shit hot enough to jerk off to in the first place Im not bothering with him. Men can still feel a moment of shame and still be addicted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 06:57 AM
7

"Tits over ass (is you gay)" Wouldnt that be the opposite? Only women have tits but gay men love ass obviously.. I always think guys obsessed with ass and anal are gay 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 06:43 AM
3

How does he know that they were false? Of course theyre going to deny it, who would admit to doing that?? They probably killed themselves because of a guilty conscious and not wanting to live with the consequences of their actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 01:10 AM
264

They do provide a lot of stress
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 11:54 PM
58

Ah men fucking their housekeepers, never been seen before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 11:47 PM
36

Shes so in love she will do anything yet he wont do anything for her unless she shoves his dick in her throat. True love right there. He clearly gives no shits about her. Youre not supposed to be so in love with someone to the point of doing anything for them, if he loved you the same way he would also do anything for you right? That would include respecting your boundaries which he clearly cant do. Everyone should have boundaries in a relationship and if he truly loved you he would respect thos…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 08:58 PM
4

when men are taught to view women as objects only good for sex, they do not compartmentalizate. Agreed but I dont really think theyre "taught" to be like that. It has to be somewhat innate or something Imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 08:39 PM
3

Yup thats really true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 08:37 PM
8

Exactly. If women were the ones committing 99% of that shit men would absolutely use it against women any chance they got
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 08:27 PM
11

The hypocrisy of everyone makes me so fucking angry. They make jokes about women then call women sensitive emotional bitches for calling it out then when women make jokes about men suddenly its sexist and aw poor men. Remember when that joke "Im either having a girl or an abortion" went viral and people ripped into her then a day or two later everyone found out it was a reverse of a joke that a male said "Its either a boy or an abortion". Something like that. I cant stand it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 08:24 PM
8

" That's anecdotal, that's your experience, that's your trauma, you can't blame all men for this, all men aren't responsible for what happened to you, all men aren't responsible for a few bad apples, it's just some outliers, et al." Yet they always want women to bend over backwards and give up stuff they desire (like wanting expensive things) just to prove that theyre not golddiggers because a few women are golddiggers 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 07:34 PM
2

True
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 07:20 PM
26

Jfc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 06:58 PM
13

Yup they really have no empathy and are preying on someone vulnerable while not actually giving a shit about them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 06:00 PM
9

Yeah it only feeds their ego like "she still wants me" and they take that as the woman "loving" and appreciating him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:57 PM
3

Whats that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:37 PM
8

Any guy who does something you said not to do is a LVM anyway. Could be a good vetting test to make up something small that you actually dont mind but tell him you dont like it/not to do it or whatever and then see if he does it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:24 AM
5

Exactly what Ive always said. They think theyre so "different' but its the same old man dominant women submissive like... thats been happening since forever. Switch it up a little at least. Women being dominant is at least something truly different and "taboo" lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:08 AM
5

Lmaoo it really is though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:06 AM
43

The "haha marriage bad" jokes men did. For years I thought I never wanted to get married because of these jokes. I thought it was better to be a "girlfriend" because anytime I saw men mentioning their "wife" in those jokes it was in a derogatory way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 12:25 AM
5

I love this post and its great advice but whats wrong with selfies? I think it shows self confidence, something that LVM would avoid because they like insecurity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 11:53 PM
24

Seriously?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 11:39 PM
62

There is absolutely no jealousy whatsoever. Same, they couldnt be more repulsive to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 11:27 PM
2

They just dont want women to be that powerful I guess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 11:25 PM
2

I can see why people lose their empathy for patients by the end of their training Why?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 06:05 PM
5

Surprised police officer isnt higher tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 05:45 PM
8

Seconded.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 05:32 PM
8

The halo effect is real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 04:53 PM
19

instagram models as people, but the reality is; they don't. Which is turn hurt all women, we get reduced to bodyparts. Onlyfans has only made this a million times worse, because now these sick degenerates see women as objects If they see women as objects now then they never respected women or believed women to be equals in the first place. It isnt women or porn or onlyfans fault that these men objectify women, its their own fault. The majority of men objectify women but its always been like that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 04:16 PM
21

No, I prefer average size. I dont like being "stretched" at all and anything over 6 is too big for me 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 01:49 AM
18

I wasnt allowed a phone until freshman year of highschool and that was only because my hs was far away and I agree with this. Ive seen a lot of people agree that giving kids phones/tablets is harmful so maybe there will be others who will do the same. I agree its for the best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 10:36 PM
3

Do you have a study for that? Thats really interesting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 09:34 PM
6

Yeah I agree honestly. Relationships from what Ive seen work better when the man puts in more effort, both end up happier that way. When women put in more effort it always goes wrong or it means he just isnt that into her. Men will be fine "simping" (Aka doing nice things and putting in more effort) for women they love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 09:32 PM
3

What did he mean?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 09:14 PM
6

"I remember my first time at a strip club when I turned 18. One of the LEAST arousing experiences of my entire life. It was very clear who was being used in this situation, and it was NOT the women." Its like they dont register using women for looks/sex as using at all, just normal. With strippers and golddiggers they are using eachother. Him for his money and her for her looks/sex but they dont even think that only seeing women as objecting is using them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 09:02 PM
8

They never experience the reverse happen to them and they never even think that they could be judged negatively for it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 08:43 PM
8

Yet they would go insane if a woman they were with had a kid and never told them about it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 08:41 PM
13

They'll take your pleasure or your dignity from you for daring to want them. Thats some low self esteem then right? They want to punish women for wanting them because they think those women are stupid for wanting them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 08:28 PM
3

Same here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 08:22 PM
5

Would be a good vetting strategy I guess, any guy not okay with it is possessive and has a madonna/whore effect so it could easily get rid of those guys. Not promoting posting nudes at all but I dont think its such a good point to say "oh look these guys slut shame so dont do that" and giving into the guys with madonna/whore complexes. I wonder how they would react if women started saying men who jerk off to other naked women are damaged and not bf/husband material cause at least thats true. Wou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 07:48 PM
6

Probably fake for views.. Most tiktok stuff like this is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 06:34 PM
17

They think the relationship revolves around them.. Theyre also supposed to accommodate to their gfs love language not just have her accommodate to his and then do nothing for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 06:25 PM
18

Looking nice doesnt make someone a pickme automatically. You can want to look nice for yourself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 05:50 PM
34

She couldve started subtly flirting with him and if he liked her he would ask first but asking a guy out like this is socially awkward and embarrassing yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 04:58 PM
2

I think its fine to make a distinction. There are people who cant feel sexual attraction to someone without having an emotional connection first and thats never been the majority of people. Most people can look at others and feel sexual attraction right away without needing a emotional connection first, both are okay and both have always existed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 04:39 AM
5

Matter of fact, my guy best friend and boyfriend are also “demi” Really? Do they themselves identify like that? Id like to find a bf thats "demi" lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 04:35 AM
17

Mostly men were writing those movies right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 04:22 AM
0

So he wants his friends to be turned on by you.. 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 04:13 AM
3

He was trying to constantly remind you that he thought of you as a piece of meat and to make sure you didnt feel comfortable, thats abusive Imo. I hate when guys just grab, I wont date a guy who does that. Its like theyre trying to remind you that they "own" you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 03:56 AM
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I live in the suburbs and my little sister has been creeped on the only 2 times she was outside near the street without anyone with her and Ive been catcalled a few times and cars have followed me and my friends on walks. "Also why does it matter if she’s a white woman in the suburbs? Is OP insinuating that only poor poc commit crimes or something?" Lmaoo little slip there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 03:24 AM
16

Her name is "sisters by birth, girlfriends by choice" and she feels she can police others on their fetishes? (not saying its a fetish but still)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 03:21 AM
5

I swear some men hear "boundary" and get a boner at the thought of pushing it. lmao probably true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:40 AM
2

They want to punish us for their own “appetite.” When you blame women for anything anyway, why not blame them for mens own thoughts too. This is so true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:15 AM
3

Yup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:08 AM
10

Yup exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 10:59 PM
5

Lmaoooo Id have the same reaction
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 10:26 PM
6

Would just laughing or giggling at them work? Men always say their biggest fear is women laughing at them and thinking of them as a joke. Either way it is kinda pathetically funny to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 10:25 PM
4

Lol, how are you trolling? I tried once but it was just boring
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 10:09 PM
3

I’m surprised men aren’t kept in cages by now. If women did the sht men do they would have women locked up by now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 09:54 PM
1

So true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 09:50 PM
2

is **** really THAT good lmaoooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 09:47 PM
11

It's like an inability to understand that bodies are different on the inside. No concept of biodiversity. So any illness, allergy another person has, must be fake. Because he can eat peanuts and he is fine! So how could anyone else possibly have a different experience? They have no empathy and cant imagine putting themselves in someone elses shoes. They have an inability to see anything other than their prospective. This is honestly why I think most men are retarded. Like they have an actual def…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 09:35 PM
4

Break up, he clearly doesnt respect her enough to believe her about being allergic to something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 09:28 PM
13

We were still products in the 50s. Men only married because they would be socially outcasted if they didnt. If you werent married by 24 you were seen as a failure and an embarrassment to their family and society. They didnt respect women at all and used women as free maids, servants, and baby makers. Just look at these ads from the 50s: Men spanking women, the porn like images before porn existed ect. All sht men still do now. https://img.buzzfeed.com/buzzfeed-static/static/2018-01/17/18/asset/b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 09:13 PM
11

If a man was drawn to porn Id argue he never valued/saw women as equals anyway. Someone who already respects women will think porn is disgusting and wont watch it anyway. Age isnt an excuse either, I just read a comment of an 11 year old boy saying porn was bad for equality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 08:55 PM
3

They still wouldnt love those women and would only be marrying for sex and to have a maid who cooks and cleans after him. Men "loving" women for what you can service him with isnt actual love. They would still be LVM/NVM because they would still only marry for sex and nothing else. They could pretend to put in effort and be HV but it doesnt make them actually HV. If a man has to be pressured to put in effort or marry then hes not actually HV. "If he wanted to he would" without being pressured, H…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 08:51 PM
1

I dont really want men to marry just for sex.. If he actually loves you he will still marry you even if he "got the milk for free".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 08:48 PM
9

Thats how you know theyre pornsick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 08:34 PM
6

One comment pointed out that that type of porn thrived off of humiliating white men. Aw, their first time huh? They wouldnt last being women at all then considering all porn genres thrive off of humiliating women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 08:19 PM
6

Ew. How could they ever think theyre even decent humans when they say that treating women like shit is a fantasy all men "need". Beyond pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 08:15 PM
7

why do they think they're special? it's so dumb its laughable I think there was a study that said something about when men jerk off to porn stars their mind cant tell the difference and registers it as they actually had sex with that woman. That could explain it lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 08:03 PM
5

They say this like they wouldnt get even more jealous if their gf/wife was getting off to males in porn as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 07:46 PM
54

about how they think it’s not possible for Asian men to be considered sexy or desirable by women Have they never seen how crazy women go for Kpop men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 04:42 PM
38

Could all be a marketing move to get more women to trust and go to him but 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 04:41 PM
28

How were they joking about it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 04:29 PM
39

Always the age gaps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 04:23 PM
31

I dont get how they see it as "empowering"... Like if they didnt have a problem with it and wanted to be a stripper fine but why do they think its empowering? Is any other job empowering to them or just stripping
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 04:15 PM
5

the men who like Hermoine because Emma Watson is hot. Wasnt she a kid in the movie...?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 06:13 AM
195

Yup. If a guy puts down a certain type of woman it 100% means they secretly love it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:24 PM
380

He likes the sister. Guys will tease women who they like and have no chance of getting and he seriously thinks shes dating her boyfriend just to show off for him?? He created some fantasy scenario in his head where the sister is secretly trying to make him jealous because she likes him. He got jealous and thats why he was saying to the boyfriend "you know shes fake right?". How does she not see he likes her sister..?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:23 PM
9

Wouldnt this just make them better manipulators though? Like the saying "if he wanted to he would" guys who dont put in effort to prove themselves make it easy for us to vet them out. If they pretend to be high value when theyre really not it makes it harder to tell, its better when they openly show their low value traits so we can avoid them. High value men will still treat the woman he loves right, doesnt matter if its common for men to do or not. That would just promote men faking it just to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 08:06 PM
5

But then theyll only marry women to get regular sex- not because they actually love them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 08:01 PM
6

Yeah I tried to find vanilla porn as well and literally couldnt at all. I just ended up being traumatized by all the violence against women because I was younger. Thats why when a man watches porn he is going to be watching violent/fucked up sht because none of it is normal or vanilla.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:55 PM
7

It takes a real, strong man to fight against it. Or just one who sees women as equals and as people rather than sex objects. Its a good way to tell what kind of person they really are though, now that they have the choice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:49 PM
9

Yeah I used to try and get into porn but I wasnt submissive and the violence against women in it just traumatized me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:44 PM
5

They get off on it because it makes them feel powerful, being able to force women to have sex with them when the woman doesnt want it makes them feel alpha or whatever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:34 PM
7

I remember reading some reddit thread where men were talking about prostitutes and the way they talked about it showed they got off on knowing the prostitutes didnt enjoy the sex and they were "raping" those women (their words) and giving them money in return. They know that theyre buying consent and thats the appeal of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:33 PM
4

Yup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:28 PM
18

"He's thinking about letting her fall I see it in his eyes" Telling on themselves. Psychos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:11 PM
10

My sister's boyfriend tells her daily how much he loves her, and sends her pages of compliments whenever she sends him a selfie..he just can not stop complimenting her. Aw thats so cute
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:07 PM
1836

So he made fun of her by saying "what are you gonna do, go call your mommy?" then after the first time his wife yells at him he.. goes running to his own mommy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 06:43 PM
10

Same here, I only like to go on top. Why did it make them feel weird?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 04:40 PM
160

And they wonder why we say theyre trash. Fucking disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 04:02 PM
150

If women actually did any of these things at the rate men are doing them now they would absolutely use any chance they could to use it against all women and to prove how evil, selfish ect. women are. Yet we are supposed to never bring up that its a problem in men. They already use some women cheating and golddigging as excuses as to why women are the worst and those dont even compare to anything you listed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 01:14 AM
69

If anything its seen as "emasculating" to treat women nicely, "simp" "pussywhipped" ect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 01:11 AM
29

But for me, germs is at the top of the list (and I felt this way before Covid). Unless a man has asked you to be exclusive then he may be out there swapping fluids with multiple women and people have very different standards around dental hygiene and hygiene generally. Ew now Im grossed out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 11:35 PM
42

Nah, Im straight and I dont either. I like to have pubic hair 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 11:18 PM
44

They really have to sexualize everything huh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 11:13 PM
3

He did something wrong by getting of on "pretend" raping his girlfriend anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 07:50 PM
5

Yup exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 07:48 PM
0

Also no woman is into rape role play. There are surprisingly some who are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 06:52 PM
8

Rapists is who gets off on it. Men should want their partner to feel good and make them feel good, not getting off on raping them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 06:51 PM
2

Because theyre roleplaying rape..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 06:47 PM
4

Same with them wanting to do anal on women. If men prefer anal over vagina they either get off on womens pain/dont want women to actually orgasm, only gets off on things that are taboo or is gay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 06:45 PM
2

No whatt I must have missed that. What year was that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 06:42 PM
6

it paints a very bleak picture if this is the kind of stuff males are literally orgasming to every single day. Their depravity knows no bounds. I really dont know why they love to get off on pain and violence and tramatizing someone ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 06:40 PM
38

Wow someone whos turned on by roleplaying rape is turned on by rape?? Shocker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 06:27 PM
5

Honestly this might be harsh but I dont have sympathy for men or women who like to sexualize rape or pedophilia (ddlg) as "fun sexy "play"). Its not fun or sexy to the actual victims that this happens to. Anyone who is into it or is okay with roleplaying it and sexualizing it is disgusting to me. Actual rape/pedophilia/incest victims dont have the choice and it isnt "fun play" to them. Its offensive and insensitive to people who have actually gone through it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 06:23 PM
9

Yet we're supposed to treat them as head of household? No sir, that's a role you earn. And I still wont be treating them like that anyway. Men who want to be "head of the household" just want to be superior to you, I want an equal who sees me as such. Even if he has more social status/resources its not an excuse to want to be treated as superior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 06:19 PM
1

Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 05:40 PM
8

If a man is truly interested in a certain woman (not just any woman), he wouldn’t think twice about impressing her with date that matches the level of interest he has in her. Anything less is a lowball (and not financially, but effort wise). This. Men who do coffee dates or 50/50 dont care at all about impressing her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 05:30 PM
5

What does FDS think of drinks as a date? I hate them just as much as coffee dates
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 05:18 PM
9

Yup so true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 02:21 AM
15

She couldve found some really fucked up porn...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 12:18 AM
2

Same here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 05:16 PM
70

Why do taller guys prefer tiny women.? It always seems creepy to me honestly. Like they could go for average or taller women and in comparison still be taller than her but they seem to go for super short and tiny women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 05:03 PM
15

Agreed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 04:38 PM
85

Is it really that common to see prostitutes..?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 04:35 PM
16

True
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 12:04 AM
9

Doesnt beer actually have estrogen in it and thats why they get beer bellies and man tits?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 08:36 PM
10

Yeah shoving meat down their throats is less gay lol. Im not dating a guy with that stupid ass mentality or worrying about being "gay" all the time on pointless sht. Honestly guys who are always worried about being seen as gay are probably secretly gay or bi. If its always on their mind and theyre so paranoid about being outed then...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 08:35 PM
122

"Impact play" do I even want to know what tf that is..? Also using "play" after everything is super childish and initializing and just really annoying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 05:13 PM
153

His idea of her giving him "affection" is probably sucking his dick every morning lmfaoo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 05:12 PM
68

So she just told the world her bf wants to fuck his mom..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 07:48 AM
360

Why the fuck guys are so fascinated to butt fucking, I will never understand. Ive seen many jokes about how they do it because they know women dont like it. Or Ive seen one that said something like when men get mad at their wife they ask to do anal next as a way of hatefucking her? Im sure men like both anal and bjs so much because they know women dont get any pleasure out of them and are doing it solely for their pleasure and that turns them on because they see it as submissive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 04:39 AM
113

Wow the way he said that while doing it is one of the most disturbing things Ive read wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 04:37 AM
74

Ew I never knew that wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 10:56 PM
73

Lmao I swear 96% of guys love language is physical touch 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 10:50 PM
8

Wow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 09:30 PM
24

pickmes will think im overexaggerating but i really wonder how this would be if the situation was reversed. imagine the hatred a woman would receive if she told her partner she would marry him if he bought her a pair of expensive shoes or a gold plated keyboard or something? if she had a hobby outside of her relationship and she asked her partner to treat her leisure the same as a marriage No she would be called a "golddigger" at best and some more awful things..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 09:09 PM
68

he likes taboos, it thrills him, Yeah, a good vetting strategy would be to stay away from guys who like breaking taboos. Theyre always going to be attracted to immoral and disgusting shit just because its taboo and once they break one taboo theyre going to keep getting into more disgusting shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 08:59 PM
116

Men will trade nudes like nothing and love to show off to other guys what they "get". I recommend never taking them, it also promotes porn use because its just essentially porn. They could keep them when you break up and share them ect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 08:54 PM
10

I hate this so much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 03:08 PM
33

If porn had switched genders and women were getting off to degrading and calling women names and roughing them up, they would never allow it and would use it as evidence that all women are evil and hate men. Yet they expect women to accept it as no big deal when its happening to us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 03:06 PM
44

Did he not want his hands being held down or are they upset at women being the more forceful one?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 03:00 PM
117

I got 12$ an hour working at mcdonalds
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 02:50 PM
53

Wrong. Men also peak physically in their 20s too. I have no idea why they think 30 year olds are magically hotter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 04:37 AM
15

They resent the power women have over them so they in turn call the women wicked and evil. Its like the temptress thing, theyre helplessly attracted to a woman but they hate that they cant help it or control it so they instead put the blame on women for being "evil" or "manipulative"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 12:03 AM
8

I think they just like the feeling of being dominant over someone thats submissive, women are seen as the most submissive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 11:56 PM
10

Yeah same here.. I really hate cooking and cleaning and never was taught or expected to do it as a kid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 11:42 PM
50

I, a 19 year old, was explaining to a 26 year old Im 19 as well, I dont think any 26 year old going after 19 year olds has good intentions anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 11:25 PM
44

I prefer hairless 🤷‍♀️ all different standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 09:13 PM
17

Nowadays we have images of women's body parts being zoomed at to sell a product. It didn't go away, it evolved. https://i.pinimg.com/236x/e2/ee/d9/e2eed9290e23b9100dd333bb436aa052.jpg Yeah apparently
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 08:40 PM
15

I looked it up and theres a few more by the same company with beheading women. Its "Mr Leggs" pants ads, I will 100% guarantee he had a fetish for it and tried to incorperate it into all of his ads. ​ https://i2.wp.com/thehousewifemodern.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/06/Mr.-Leggs_Found-in-moms-basement.jpg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 08:39 PM
29

Its not even half as bad. Men actually thought/think about women like that. Women dont really think of men like that at all. There are real women who had to do that shit but the reverse never actually has happened. Theyre still lucky yet theyre complaining..?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 08:29 PM
43

Wow wtf. I hope he does drop her, for her sake. Shed be wayy better without him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 03:44 PM
28

Real golddiggers are aware that its an exchange, the man uses her for her looks and sex and she uses him for money. People only have a problem when women start using men back because its normal for men to use women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 03:29 PM
15

The minute she found that out he shouldve been an ex boyfriend. People would be horrified by this only a decade ago. Jfc. Playing the pity card so he can seem like less of a pervert. I seriously dont care about their feelings. They should hate themselves for this. I was basically traumatized for a few years because of this shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 01:44 AM
39

I have no idea but I remember the message of "If youre meeting up with a stranger youve never met in person before, make sure to meetup in a public place" because of all the stories of girls meeting up with online guys at the time. I have no idea why women do these dates with someone they dont know
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 11:53 PM
16

What men say about women, especially behind our backs is way worse so Idc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 07:45 PM
38

Yeah Ive always stayed away from any guy into anime, hentai has the most disgusting porn. Plus even in the regular animes theres sexism and the women are heavily sexualized and infantilized at the same time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 07:40 PM
32

Id bet that by "physical chemistry"" he means seeing if shes willing to fuck him after their first cheap ass non romantic coffee date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 08:59 PM
5

I like very different things than most women on here in men and sexually. Just try to find what you like without others opinions and influence getting to you. I chose not to date in middle and most of highschool so I spent a lot of time fantasizing and I figured out what I liked without outside influences that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 08:35 PM
21

"I here ya" I dont do guys who cant even do 6th grade English.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 04:51 PM
24

And saying that women naturally like aggressive males..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 04:39 PM
10

Men would make fun of it and call whatever guy whos into that a simp. Women into this shit are just following and doing whatever men like to seem cool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 04:03 PM
9

I dont think so necessarily. Shit like this has just been so normalized in the mainstream with the young generation. Rough porn sex is basically the only sex my generation has.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 04:01 PM
48

Ew. Would never work on me, Id just be grossed out and think hes a pervert.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 04:45 AM
13

No offence but I dont want to be around anyone who already doesnt think rape is bad on their own. Wtf?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 03:03 AM
79

I dont get the "free speech" argument at all.. Porn is basically filmed prostitution. Its an act thats being filmed and then being sold.. Thats not speech. You can say anything you want, doesnt mean you can do it then film it then sell it to make a profit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 02:51 AM
94

He probably didnt get the joke and thought she was making fun of short men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 02:40 AM
69

Just imagine if a 40 year old woman got with an 18 year old boy. People would suddenly freak out about it and see why its wrong. I would be super curious to see the responses if someone made up a story about it for a relationship sub. I always say, if a kid is willingly dating someone much older than them, then theyre not mature. A mature outlook would be "ew theyre creepy for wanting to date a teenager".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 09:57 PM
41

If you tell them why then theyll just hide it better for the next woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 04:45 PM
6

True lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 04:37 PM
15

If a guy wants a sexually submissive women he 100% masturbates to BDSM porn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 04:15 PM
26

Submission shouldnt even be earned either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 04:09 PM
80

They really cant tell fiction vs reality huh? Theyre paid actors acting out a script 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 03:50 PM
31

Blindly trusting a guy would be naive.. Its a precaution
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 02:50 AM
33

Yup. If he has nothing to hide then he wont care at all. Guys who make a big deal about it are hiding something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 02:49 AM
22

He mentions something "weird" as a test. My ex seemed quizzical about "a thing", like "hey, does this sound weird?". Turns out that was his major fetish, he had thousands of videos about it and he thought about it regularly. He was gently testing to see my reaction. Yes it was fucking weird. About anything or just sexual things??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 12:30 AM
7

This is the most accurate thing Ive read about that topic, ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 05:45 PM
13

Yup exactly. Hes not a "nice guy" if he watches porn, porn is one of the most sexist things for many reasons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 05:40 PM
9

What type of porn is he watching? There is no "vanilla" porn and all of it is morally corrupt now. Incest, pedophilia, extreme sexism (calling women "whores" "holes" "slut" ect. or violence "slut gets destroyed anally" ect. The most popular genres were "forced" and "teen"... I dont see how any porn is morally okay at all. Plus what happens to the porn stars. Theres so many reports of them being forced to do stuff or having drug addictions just to cope with it ect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 05:37 PM
15

Not OP but, No. If they think porn is okay in general, then I dont want him. Thats why its so hard for them to quit. If theyre attracted to it then they always will be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 05:29 PM
25

100% of the most popular front page porn includes violence and rough sex and incest "step porn" or pedo "teen" porn. Its all degenerate. If a man chooses to watch that shit and thinks its hot I will shame him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 02:26 PM
7

Theres a study that shows when men see a woman in a bikini the object part of their brain lights up, so basically they do see us as objects to use.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 02:41 AM
28

I would love to see his face if someone had made a sexual joke about a guy fucking him back at him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 09:58 PM
8

And being numb to normal sex that they go into hard kinks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 06:57 PM
1

I keep seeing comments about you and your husband.. Why dont you leave him?? You deserve better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 05:34 PM
1

They just see bjs as degrading and gross as fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 05:29 PM
-3

Sorry but it doesnt matter to me. A good person would never have gotten addicted to porn in the first place. They would look at all the depraved shit in porn and be disgusted, not turned on. For them to have gotten addicted in the first place they thought all the depraved stuff in porn was hot and that it was okay to view women as objects. Even in that post, no mention of women or how it effects women, only himself. I feel like a lot of people who are calling it an "addiction" are giving them ex…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 03:34 AM
83

Everything is ass backwards and emotionally avoidant. So true, even sex is like that now. Kinks and rough sex are supposed to make sex as emotionally avoidant as possible and avoid actual intimacy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 10:02 PM
51

When you dress classy, or fashionably in a high-end way, or quirky, or earthy - in general, LVMs hit on you way less. It’s harder for them to sexualise you. Then they have a madonna/whore effect, plus they will sexualize any and everything. Theres a subreddit for sexualizing hijabs..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 05:47 PM
46

They would rather play games and string you along so they can feel like they’re in control. It’s not even about getting sex. It’s about tearing down women for an ego boost. So true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 05:39 PM
38

She looks like a model and has stunning bone structure wtf are they on about?? They dont even have 1/10th of her looks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 12:35 AM
32

They think theyre so alpha when they brag about women accepting their shitty cheap dates as some sort of "gotcha" when they really look so pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 12:32 AM
4

That and "lookdigger"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 05:31 PM
6

This whole post was so accurate ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 05:06 PM
32

Im glad most of them are stupid enough to do that so as soon as they do it I can leave. I dont want to be with someone with those sick thoughts if they reveal them to me or not, so when they reveal them I can gtfo of there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 06:58 PM
109

Now she will probably try and act like an even bigger pickme doormat to try and get him to love her better when really its going to have the opposite effect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 05:47 PM
37

He should also skip out on trivia and go to an anger management class gd
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 05:26 PM
7

I keep seeing people say stuff like "People sell their bodies for their job anyway" and "Flipping burgers is the same thing as being a sex worker" its such bs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 04:37 PM
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