Worst proposal I ever saw.

NessaMonsta17 · 2021-06-06T01:34:34+00:00

Like the guys in slippers. And all the comments are stating she should be grateful... Umm what. I mean they could be a nice couple. And maybe he does wanna marry her and means well. But this set up, this plan, this interview was garbage.

All the Pickmeisha's are saying that she should of been greatful to even be purposed to. I'm like what.. The guy is in slippers. Your kidding right. She never showed she was ungrateful, she showed that she was disappointed that he thought she wasn't a little more effort.

I think he needs to be shown the ropes from some HVM, but he probably had no mentor in sight.

A HVM would of told him not to do it like this but to seriously step it up s few notches.

A high value man would know this is a special moment and would make a bigger deal about it and capture him and get looking their best.

I'm just floored by how many people think this was some rare grand gesture. When clear it was the most minimal.

pretty_kill · 2021-06-06T01:34:22+00:00

Lmao I love the end. I wanna know what happens next.

Edit: To watch what happens next you have to request to follow his insta 🙄 I’ll edit if I find out, whenever this dumbass accepts my request (I’ll unfollow right after)

Edit 2: so I finally found it. Basically she snaps the ring case closed and told him no. She told him he needs to replan it because she “deserves better” (not wrong there, sis). He was like, babe I already planned all this. And she was just like no you have to replan it and walked away. But it seems like she’d say yes if it was in a better location lol

Mella_20 · 2021-06-06T03:49:02+00:00

Damn 🤦🏽‍♀️ Its fake but still annoying.

Speaking of crappy fake proposals, have y'all ever heard of proposal pranks? Like the guy will pretend to propose to his gf, she will say yes and cry very real tears of happiness, only for him to say "haha gotcha", making her upset and disappointed for no reason. Pranks should end in both people laughing in the end. Not someone laughing and the other crying.

w0rmsongs · 2021-06-06T01:42:22+00:00

This has to be fake.

DontAskTwice-A-Roni · 2021-06-06T04:38:35+00:00

The video is fake/staged, but scrotes and pick mes in the comment section were mad. Lmao! They were saying she was rude and it was sweet that he even considered proposing.

Imagine having self esteem so low that you think being picked and proposed to in a grocery store parking lot is a privilege. They act like men are doing women a favor by being in a relationship. These people are beyond pathetic.

Platipus6 · 2021-06-06T01:58:44+00:00

Girl needs more spatial awareness. A dude creeping up behind me like that, I'd have whiplash.

Hikari3747 · 2021-06-06T03:57:34+00:00

The YouTube comment are calling her rude.

We live in a sad world where women are rude for expecting a romantic marriage proposal. Didn't this guy see any movies with proposal scenes??

Ceadeus_vatura · 2021-06-06T02:47:12+00:00

If you ever settle for a proposal on a dirty parking lot then that is all you will ever get in your marriage. This is the bar you set for him in the future. He will not suddenly step up and be more thoughtful and romantic just because he chained you to him as his ~~wife~~ bangmaid.

LVM like that will always try to get away with putting in the least amount of effort as possible and you are allowing it. The power here is all yours. You set the standart on how other people are supposed to treat you. If you say yes or play nice not to hurt his poor feelings (which is just him feeling guilty about it so he gaslights you to make you feel like it is your fault for having "insane" expectations or not being grateful for literally even less than the bare minimum) he will realize he can get away with it and should you call him out for his behaviour in the future he will say "you changed".

He will act all mad and surprised about what happened to you since for him you were the ideal woman and suddenly you DEMAND all these things from him which you never did in the past so he will fight back. Obviously he doesn't want to do more if all his life you never expected him to. He was living a comfortable life before and everything seemed fine for him so what the problem? Why should he change all of a sudden? Surely you are going to stay anyways if he just says you are unreasonable or a gold digger.

Obviously this video is fake but let's not pretend like there aren't men out there who do this. The red flags: 1. slippers? really? didn't even dress nice 2. it's public 3. it's a fucking parking lot. not even a fine restaurant, not some place with a great view over the city or a beautiful romantic scene. a dusty parking lot. 4. it's all about him. the questions are about how great he is and how grateful she should be that he "allowed" her to be with him. 5. the comments on the video. this is the kind of men who resonate with this video. if one of those tricked you into a relationship run as fast as you see through his bs. read them and see what you DON'T want in a man because they are just trying to lower your standarts and not meet them!

Crafty_Collar8183 · 2021-06-06T04:18:30+00:00

Any person who puts on you on the spot are losers.

RussianCat26 · 2021-06-06T12:19:38+00:00

"iF sHe lOvEs HiM iT wOuLdNt mAtTeR wHeRe hE pRopOsED"

If he loves her, he would propose in a way that makes her feel loved. Instead, he disrespected himself, and her, publicly. Surprise proposals are incredibly disingenuous. The only losers who surprise a proposal are the ones who don't know the answer before asking. How embarrassing for both of them.

liondale · 2021-06-06T08:01:13+00:00

he was considering marring her? I'm in stitches 😂😂 girl better drop this guy.... So low effort

queenagave · 2021-06-06T09:01:46+00:00

Lmao. She said "unexpected" but meant "low effort", "lame", "not even a fraction of any woman's dream."

-Despite the fact she was, rightfully so, thinking, "ehhh. Okay?? This kinda sucks?....but at least I have a man and we've come this far...?"

ItsFreezen · 2021-06-06T11:30:02+00:00

No this is not a romantic gesture and it's disrespectful because he humiliated her on camera without her consent.
"Girl, are you seriously doing that to him??? He’s a guy. This is his romantic gesture and by you saying that you turned that into a negative. So what it’s a parking lot? At least he is proposing. I mean damn lady! Don’t be so ungrateful. There are women out there that DO appreciate his gesture and would jump on it in a heartbeat."

tomatfrogbubbles · 2021-06-06T18:34:48+00:00

Probably fake for views.. Most tiktok stuff like this is.

freelancepsychic · 2021-06-06T15:45:21+00:00

I think it's fake/staged because of how bad the acting is

so_lost_im_faded · 2021-06-06T20:57:17+00:00

If this isn't a fake, then it definitely gives the vibes that it was made more for tiktok and popularity, than to actually celebrate and elevate their relationship.

justforfds · 2021-06-06T17:42:03+00:00

If someone is asking you for something, it's they who should be thinking about feeling grateful.

My brother (reasonable guy but not 100% HVM) took his wife from the UK for a week long trip to New York, spent more than 3 months' salary at Tiffany's for the ring (because she likes their stuff) and proposed at an exclusive private restaurant after a carriage ride through Central Park. He saved hard for that and that year still paid for overseas holidays besides that because he felt it was a trip for him, nor for her.

My ex, on the other hand, rolled off me after sex and blurted out a proposal with no ring, raged at me for wanting to see a few shops and finally proposal pranked me in a campaign of disrespect when he was trying to get me to dump him.

🎵🎶What a fool I was, what a dedicated fool...🎵🎶🤡

aquietsword · 2021-06-07T06:33:56+00:00

So it's def fake right? What's up with the youtube comments on such a fake vid? Good luck to the pickme desperates that would be so happy with some low effort bs proposal like that.

Title	Worst proposal I ever saw.
Author	NessaMonsta17
Upvotes	51
Comments	34
Date	June 6, 2021 1:27 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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