~ archived since 2018 ~
~ archived since 2018 ~
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 27 | Porn isn't hot.Yep. Also the weird, over-the-top sounds and facial expressions, and the lighting. And orgasming the second the penis is inserted. Nothing about it is erotic or sexy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 09:51 PM |
| 39 | When your white LVM ass thought that you found your Asian slave bangmaid in China, but they actually have standards over thereYup. Where I come from, hypergamy is normal. I'm thankful for that. Cause nobody will judge me for refusing to date a guy who isn't financially stable, or can't buy a house, or has issues like alcoholism/drug addiction. But when it comes to Disney movies, we are brainwashed with the idea of this "not shallow" love, that encourages us to disregard character, upbringing, and compatibility and instead make big life decisions based on fluttery feelings of "true love", which apparently couldn't possi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 09:28 PM |
| 14 | If this is not ultimate FDS energy I don’t know what is 🤣Facts. I can't imagine ever getting mad at the other woman, especially if she didn't know. She's a victim too. We should form a sisterhood rather than fight over a scrote. Pick mes probably won't want to do that though. They're too busy trying to "win" the piece of trash man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 09:13 PM |
| 38 | Lingerie is NOT a giftI think that's different though. Cause you aren't gonna see them in it. It can be a nice gift from a friend. Cause you give it to them to lift their spirits, and its up to them if they wanna wear it or not. But there's something weird about the man you are in a relationship with giving you lingerie imo. Cause its for his enjoyment. He expects you to wear it for him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 07:58 PM |
| 238 | Lingerie is NOT a giftIt is insulting, now that I think about it. Its a bad gift, no matter how long you've been together. I would feel weird to receive such a present. I would feel cheap too. If I want to wear lingerie that is my choice, but he shouldn't expect me to wear it for him. I see it as something I would buy by myself only, and wear it if I want to. When I think of a nice gift that I can enjoy, I think of a massager, a spa day, jewellery, etc... Its really not that hard to get a nice gift for someone, if yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 07:42 PM |
| 3 | With no disrespect to other religions, I do NOT get this. At all. It’s a no from meIkr? So hard to believe, and also painful, cause even though you can't find a reason to believe, the brainwashing and fear of hell is so strong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 01:20 PM |
| 47 | With no disrespect to other religions, I do NOT get this. At all. It’s a no from meYep. They wouldn't like it at all. That's why it's not allowed for women to have multiple husbands. In fact, it is considered a sin for men in that religion to have no " protective jealousy" over their wives, meaning that it is okay for men to do things that would make women feel jealous, but women can't be jealous, cause men are entitled to having multiple wives. It will never be fair. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 12:28 AM |
| 96 | With no disrespect to other religions, I do NOT get this. At all. It’s a no from meUgh at the second paragraph. You dont need your husband to get another wife for company. She should make her own friends for that. She sounds like she has low self-esteem. As an exmuslim I'm so mad. When I was questioning the religion, I asked about the topic of men taking second wives without the consent of their wife, and the responses I got from some women were so horrible. It really messed with my head. They really don't want better for themselves. They see it as a "test" or a way to become … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 11:32 PM |
| 4 | Princess meets FDSMe too 😆😆😇 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 02:55 AM |
| 18 | The amount of times Incels have misunderstood my kindness for flirting 🤮Facts. This one guy made a joke once and I laughed, and made a joke back, cause I was trying to be nice. He assumed I was flirting and made it really awkward and weird. I felt embarrassed even though he approached me first. That's why I try to stay neutral with my reaction to men's jokes. Especially at uni. I feel like so many people have mistook my polite/kind reactions for being a fool/pushover. I dont want people to feel like I'm being mean, but at the same time, I dont feel obligated to "rea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 05:52 PM |
| 5 | Mainstream UK magazine casually glorifying age gap relationships...I see. I have like 7 uncles who I spent a lot of time with, so I guess that's why I see older men that way. Maybe a girl's relationship with her dad would play a part in her attraction to a certain kind of man. The idea of a future with a man seems unattainable to me too, but I'm trying to work on it. I deserve good things in life, but being with a man is still not important. But its never unattainable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 10:36 PM |
| 15 | Mainstream UK magazine casually glorifying age gap relationships...Facts. They're just not thinking ahead. I find some older men attractive too (usually in their 50s, dunno about 70😅😅) but I would only date them if I were around the same age. Plus I would question why a man that age doesn't want to date women his age. I doubt we'd even be able to communicate. Plus, anyone my dads age or older, I can only see them as an "uncle". I know that the world is unpredictable, and people can die at any time, but if someone is young and dating someone who is near the end,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 09:55 PM |
| 63 | Mainstream UK magazine casually glorifying age gap relationships...Ugh. Its disturbing how the "younger ones" are usually very young women. Even if you are not that young and dating an older man(like let's say you're 35 and he's 70)...Why?? I'm convinced these women have never thought about their future...ever. They never look ahead. Women live longer than men, and these women are dating men 35-40 years older than them. I dont see the logic. I've always wondered if these women ever thought about the fact that their bfs are old, and they will probably have to be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 07:18 PM |
| 9 | Just one more reason to literally never put your nude/bikini/underwear pics anywhere online or give them to anyone. What an easy way to potentially ruin some poor girl's life or career while being an identity thiefWhat the fuck? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 06:44 PM |
| 45 | Please, sign this petition!! https://t.co/vtYfrSVCGT?amp=1Signed. I really hope she'll be okay 🙏🙏🙏🙏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 01:12 PM |
| 15 | I just found this little book a friend gave me in high schoolThis is adorable 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 01:31 AM |
| 1 | How is this even funny? Just plain ass disrespectful.Its definitely sadism. Why else would he post that? He's proud of himself for being that way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 11:41 AM |
| 101 | How is this even funny? Just plain ass disrespectful.The level of indifference is terrifying actually. Its so scary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 04:36 AM |
| 73 | Truer words have never been spoken. Don't believe those fairy tales ladies.And the men know that we've been fed this fairy tale poison too. Its shown in how they will say anything to get in our pants. We are taught to put men on a pedestal and men are taught to devalue women. In Disney movies and our childhood TV shows, men are always shown to be the prize or the "popular guy" or prince, and the woman's main goal is to get picked by him. Always. So we have low standards, and tolerate horrible behavior because getting picked was enough. Its sickening. And I think women … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 12:36 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Check-inOmg same. At this point its not even a question of "can I trust a man?" I cant even trust nature. What if I have to be his caretaker for a very long time because of an illness or disability? Just because someone is married doesn't mean they are taken care of. Its the main reason I'm single for life. I dont want to be legally bound to someone, and have no idea wtf is gonna happen in the future. Even after you vet and vet and vet, you still have to have a lot of luck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 03:24 AM |
| 5 | I saw a post shared from this sub onto Facebook, with a horribly over exaggerated scenario trying to paint women in a terrible light. Thankfully everyone in the comments knows that hateful men try to constantly discredit us. In case you didn’t know, be aware of fake subs where men try to imitate us!The fuck? Why put the effort into something so stupid? Just shows how offended they are about this sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 02:24 PM |
| 21 | Why does this man feel the need to go out of his way to ask for pats on the back for something so mundane. Wow congrats you have empathy which is the bare minimum we expect from people. Idk gives me nice / woke boi vibesIf you feel the need to reassure yourself of your "maturity", you're probably not mature 😒 Same with guys who call themselves "nice". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 09:05 PM |
| 82 | such a sweet thing to do. please everyone do this, you never know when you can save someone just by taking a moment to make sure they're safe.For sure. And I would hope other women would do the same for me. Especially since uni is gonna open and ill be on my own again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 04:10 PM |
| 16 | When the mask comes offHe's being an abusive fuck for the sake of it. He knows what she meant by the sex thing, but he's committed to misunderstanding her. He wants any reason to punish her, and the "sex as a job" thing was the perfect opportunity. What an abusive fuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 03:27 PM |
| 6 | I have no wordsThat guy hates her. Who the fuck does this shit? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 02:20 AM |
| 5 | FDS is okay with double standards because 1) men are never going to stop exacting double standards against us, and 2) in an unequal world, sometimes you need to have double standards to achieve equity.Its like some wise people have said, to never play fair in an unfair world. The system works against us, and by trying to remain agreeable and pleasant at all times, we are putting ourselves in danger. I will go 50/50 when I see evidence that the world is fair, and that I will get back what I put in a relationship. So far, I have seen no such evidence. So I will do whatever it takes to make sure I am not taken advantage of. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 11:09 PM |
| 55 | I'm done with men and have never even dated oneGirl I am in the same boat 👏 I turn 21 next month and I haven't had much experience with men, but I am done with them. Even the thought of dealing with a "HVM" sounds exhausting cause you can never be sure about him. My intuition has never failed me, and I will never allow a guy to disrespect me. For "love". He will be competing with me. And I love myself and respect myself more than anyone in this entire universe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 10:50 PM |
| 9 | I don’t know what YouTube is, I am a MAN though so please praise me for intending to look after my daughters.And an attention seeker 😒 I know for a fact that guy just posted so women would praise him for being a dad. Men can make a career out of not being a shitty father to their daughter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 04:40 PM |
| 17 | I don’t know what YouTube is, I am a MAN though so please praise me for intending to look after my daughters.What a good father 🥺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 01:38 PM |
| 51 | Worst proposal I ever saw.Damn 🤦🏽♀️ Its fake but still annoying. Speaking of crappy fake proposals, have y'all ever heard of proposal pranks? Like the guy will pretend to propose to his gf, she will say yes and cry very real tears of happiness, only for him to say "haha gotcha", making her upset and disappointed for no reason. Pranks should end in both people laughing in the end. Not someone laughing and the other crying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 03:49 AM |
| 2 | I have a name. It’s not “sweetie”.It definitely seems that way. Or she's trying to impress him or something. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 04:27 AM |
| 7 | Shitty dudes will even neg your family membersI agree. He probably wants to "hate fuck" her too. Which is what a lot of misogynistic fucks like him fantasize about. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 08:58 PM |
| 34 | The "Nothing To Hide" Feint.Agree. Its why I dont trust anyone who says "I am an open book". Why would they say that? So I can be tricked into believing that whatever he says he is and what shows on the outside is who he really is? Not gonna happen. We owe it to ourselves to be skeptical of men. Its life or death. We know society is on some bullshit when snooping is more of a problem to them then someone cheating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 04:21 AM |
| 13 | Found in another sub. Think it fits here. Lmao🤣🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 12:10 AM |
| 84 | Shitty dudes will even neg your family membersIt seems like he's attracted to her sister. He wants to sleep with her, and he's angry that he shouldn't, so he needs to put her down to make himself feel better. Or he gets turned on by putting her down. Either way he sucks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 11:40 PM |
| 16 | I have a name. It’s not “sweetie”.Right? Why tf would she say that to another woman? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 10:37 PM |
| 7 | I hope she gets picked !Sad thing is that this actually happens 😔 And it can happen even after 25 years and kids. Whether or not they're married. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 08:09 PM |
| 12 | I hope she gets picked !And then after that: Its's okay for my boyfriend to have sex with other girls. Cause I'm not iNsEcURE. I shouldn't be so controlling of my boyfriend. I mean, some pick mes are already like that 🙄😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 07:26 PM |
| 30 | The delusion, the audacity 🤡😂Classic example of a redpill scrote who thinks he's entitled to women, so any rejection means that he's been wronged in some way 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 06:20 PM |
| 17 | Ask him to name 5 women he admires, excluding family membersFacts. I was gonna comment that. If you ask him to name 5 pornstars it will be easy. Or 5 underaged anime characters. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 12:23 PM |
| 43 | My Pickme past thoughts 🤦♀️ The shaaaammmmmme.Omg thats horrifying 😨 Plus it says they've been together for 14 years. That would mean they got together when he was 28 and she was 16. Typical grooming situation. I feel so bad for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 05:22 PM |
| 7 | Worst proposal ideas 💀Yup. The look on his face as he walked up to her just screamed "I'm about to take away your shine cause I can't handle you being in the spotlight for one second". The video wasn't even titled "___ wins medal". It was about the proposal 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 09:33 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on matchmaking services?Np! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on matchmaking services?Idk. I feel like "matchmaking" is better done by someone who knows you personally. Not a service. Like a good friend or family member who has your best interest. From what I've seen, many matchmaking services gaslight women into lowering their standards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 09:12 PM |
| 80 | Worst proposal ideas 💀Facts. I watched this one vid on YouTube. A man proposed to his gf after she won a silver medal at the Olympics. He went to her as she was receiving a medal and proposed. Something about that felt inappropriate. Like he wanted to show off his "trophy girlfriend" or something. I wish he would have let her have her moment. It became all about the proposal afterwards, and not her receiving a silver medal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 06:55 PM |
| 67 | Why are men never over their exes?They don't see it as necessary to get over them. Which is why men with exes they aren't over or "the one that got away" are a nightmare to be with. Men always want what they can't have, so forget about competing with the one they're pining over. Chances are they don't even want to get over their ex. | /r/askFDS | 30/05/21 07:13 PM |
| 85 | 'Nice' is a surface quality, true kindness is shown through actionsThe "niceness" goes away very fast if you don't do what they want/if you challenge their beliefs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 05:14 PM |
| 102 | How would you ever be able to trust him again? Disgusting.Sometimes, I feel sad that I'm single. Then I go on reddit, and I'm not sad anymore 😒 What is this? She better not stay in a relationship with him. Not for the kid and not for the sake of "love". A man who is that depraved wouldn't be a good father anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 07:10 PM |
| 24 | Ew. Nope! You'll always sink to their level. They will never rise to yours if this is how your "relationship" is.Ugh. I can imagine a 5 year old saying that to his mommy, not a fully grown adult. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 10:58 AM |
| 61 | Emotional abuse can be as destructive as physical abuse & everyone needs to know this.Wtf? Its disturbing to me how 99% of men don't seem to have a conscience. They're willing to rationalize and justify any shitty behavior they do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 10:56 AM |
| 231 | Emotional abuse can be as destructive as physical abuse & everyone needs to know this.Facts. They also don't see emotional cheating as cheating. They think its okay to talk to another girl, text and sext her, and confide in her about personal details, but as long as they don't get their dick wet they're good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 03:50 AM |
| 76 | Ew. Nope! You'll always sink to their level. They will never rise to yours if this is how your "relationship" is.Sounds like a parent-child dynamic to me 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 02:38 AM |
| 368 | Let's see how many of these we can come up with.. I'll go first. "He says he wants a woman to have long hair because it's feminine, meanwhile he's balding." 😂🙈Wants a threesome with another woman but will throw chairs and flip tables if his girl says she wants one with another guy. He'll get offended and say he "ain't gay" but expects his straight girlfriend or wife to do things with another woman for his pleasure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 06:06 PM |
| 68 | Found this gem on InstaAll men benefit from cheating men too (cause most men cheat). That makes the non-cheaters who are still disrespectful and lazy look like saints. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 08:47 PM |
| 51 | who's suprised? Not me.What the fuck? I'm so angry for them 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 11:30 PM |
| 11 | Since some people seem to think we mean “very wealthy” when we say High ValueFuckin facts. They hate women. I dont know if men are this obtuse on purpose, or if they actually need someone to explain to them that you can respect someone and still see them as an equal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 05:38 PM |
| 23 | Since some people seem to think we mean “very wealthy” when we say High ValueRespect is so important. So many men think they can do whatever they want cause they think their "love" is enough. Love is nothing without respect. In any relationship. Respect for their time, boundaries, beliefs, values, autonomy, etc.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 05:24 PM |
| 9 | Self Appreciation or Gratitude: what do you love about yourself?I like how careful I am. For my own sake. I dont let just anyone into my life. I respect my body and my feelings. I validate my emotions instead of hating myself for them. I have my back and I put myself first. I'm always focused on how I can improve myself. I'd like to think that I try to be fair to the people in my life. I would hate if someone would just take from me without considering that I am a human with feelings, so I wouldn't do it to someone else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 12:18 AM |
| 92 | From an article about courtship in early America. Marriage (and relationships with men in general) is and always has been a prison for womenIts the performance aspect for me. I cant see myself getting married and being happy, cause people watch you. People can never mind their own business and they expect you to conform to their ideas of how a wife should be. Also, the idea of the emotional labor I'd have to do is enough to turn me off the concept of marriage entirely. Not even with a HVM. Im an introvert, and I cant imagine being happy with someone constantly in my space, even if that person is great. I dont want to share my life l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 04:32 PM |
| 6 | I've been searching for hours and hours but I still can't find the lie 😋💅🏽I feel like it will be easier to do that once quarantine ends and I can go back to uni. I already made so much progress last year and the year before that by being away from my family (super religious, also pick me and have toxic mindsets) and doing things by myself. But now we've been stuck together in the same house, and its frustrating. I've been reading a lot though. Some valuable books that are helping me become more courageous. I have role models, not anyone I know personally though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 04:12 PM |
| 13 | I've been searching for hours and hours but I still can't find the lie 😋💅🏽I'm kinda struggling with this right now. I know what my standards are, but I still feel a lot of fear about going my own way, cause a lot of people will disagree with me. I support and look up to women who do what they want regardless of what other people think, but I still feel really anxious when I try to do the same thing. Its something I am working on. It's hard to get rid of the anxiety and discomfort. It gets better but its really hard and requires a lot of willpower. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 03:57 PM |
| 10 | A reminder to you beautiful ladies ❤️He's a man. All his comments are trolling FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Toxic polyamory and its insufferable, holier-than-thou BSYep. Its like a power trip thing with them. They're so insecure that they need to build a harem of unwilling participants in order to feel desired. Its disgusting and truly pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 12:30 PM |
| 30 | Toxic polyamory and its insufferable, holier-than-thou BSIt definitely comes off as holier-than-thou and obnoxious. They could seek out other messed up poly people, but they feel the need to manipulate monogamous people who have been with them for years. This is my problem with them. I don't care about people who mind their own business and don't harm others, but these "free love" assholes get involved with people who want monogamous relationships, and then they have the nerve to shame them for their boundaries. I cant understand why they think they'r… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 11:54 PM |
| 51 | Couldn't resist sharing 🤭Fuckin facts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 09:38 PM |
| 24 | Society needs more childfree HVWI agree 💯 I'm scared that when people my age, or my siblings start having kids, I will be seen as the "babysitter" or someone that owes them my time just because I dont have kids or don't want them. I dont owe anyone anything for not having kids. My reason for being childfree is so I can have more time and money. I'll be damned if someone assumes that the extra time and money is for them. Its just entitlement. I will help someone when I want to. Even if I have 10 hours I can spend doing absolute… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 08:48 PM |
| 6 | Ladies, what are your physical preferences?Michelle Morrone is a BEAUTIFUL-looking man 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 08:54 PM |
| 13 | Ladies, what are your physical preferences?I just know the lurkers will think we're bad for this. Theyre gonna reply with something like "no fatties" as if they haven't been saying that all this time. Dont see why we gotta have a filter but they don't. So for me it would be... -5"10-6"1. I'm 5"2 and I personally would LOVE if a guy were a lot taller and bigger than me -I dont care for six packs, but lean would be nice. -Big arms and forearms -Kind brown eyes -Personally don't like beards -Minimal body hair. This DEFINITELY includes the d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 08:39 PM |
| 8 | HVM are always HVM, even if they’re your ExThey're unicorns | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 02:56 PM |
| 12 | HVM are always HVM, even if they’re your ExI agree. A HVM will set boundaries with an ex. Even if your split was amicable, the new partner (assuming there is one) shouldn't have to deal with your ties to an ex, especially if you're doing things for them, with "love" involved. Its like emotional cheating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 02:33 PM |
| 1 | The grandmaster pickme...Ew ew ew 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 07:41 PM |
| 79 | The price of being the “cool girl” who totally looves threesomes. (But is actually just desperately trying to keep her LVM happy)Its disgusting. The fact that she finds it funny is just... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 05:41 AM |
| 4 | How to move on from a crushI do this too. It reminds me of a tiktok someone posted on here a while ago, and the girl said we should stop perceiving men 🤭 It totally works and it stops you from valuing their opinion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 06:21 PM |
| 2 | The Bar is...nonexistent.So she's living with an ogre basically 🙄🤢🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 03:53 PM |
| 9 | How FDS changed how I view every day interactions with a partner.Lol he's 18. This is a new habit. That "too cool to have female family members" attitude started in high school. He won't even set foot in a "girly" store with us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 04:38 AM |
| 85 | How FDS changed how I view every day interactions with a partner.Omg. My brother does this. He thinks its cool to act like the rest of us don't exist 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 03:35 PM |
| 19 | Textbook example of LVM we talk about here, I think we need to rescueFacts. I dont understand why he's still her boyfriend. I mean it is her first boyfriend and she seems young, but come on. I hope she gains some confidence and self-respect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 01:37 PM |
| 11 | Be as “ELITIST” as You Want in Choosing a HusbandI LOVE that you set such a standard with no fucks given 😊😊👏👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 07:46 PM |
| 22 | A guy once told me, "I'm the last thing you need right now." Then got mad when I said, "Okay."Touché 🤭🤭🤭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 01:16 PM |
| 38 | A guy once told me, "I'm the last thing you need right now." Then got mad when I said, "Okay."Great Value 💀💀Lmao I'm guessing his face didn't match his audacity 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 01:03 PM |
| 99 | A guy once told me, "I'm the last thing you need right now." Then got mad when I said, "Okay."He really thought he could Christian Grey his way into your pants 😒 "I'm not good for you". Then he proceeds to stalk her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 12:50 PM |
| 99 | Why... are men ??? 🤢😳That's so disgusting. I remember reading a post on a sub for men, asking how they react when their gf/wife cries. A lot of them responded that they would feel horny. One guy even commented "30 seconds to sad sex!". Very few said they would comfort them/offer support. They generally lack empathy, and are very perverted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 03:35 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Check-InI really don't understand the "I'm the exception" mentality. Right? People who have this mentality need to change it, for their own wellbeing. We need to see people and society for what is really is and not what we want it to be. It won't help anything if women keep idealizing these ain't shit men and making excuses for their behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 11:02 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Check-InOh yeah that makes sense. I've seen the movie. I think you're referring to the live action version. He says something like "what if I marry an honest country girl" and his dad gets mad I think. Ugh but even in the 1950 cinderella, all his dad cared about was finding a baby factory for his son. He didn't care who the girl was. She just had to "make a suitable mother". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 07:19 PM |
| 6 | LVM/NVM "Stuck" in Unhappy Relationships: An Assortmentlike a parasite Yep. They take and you get harmed in the process. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 04:02 PM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Check-InIts frustrating 😒 I wish we didn't have to be put in a box all the time. Why can't we just be? We are different from each other and don't have to follow the same script. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 03:36 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Check-Ineven a very in-demand man who might be promised to a rich man's daughter for marriage Is this bad for the rich man? Just clarifying. But yeah. I can see how men who pretty much depend on women can lose their shit if more women decide they want to stay single/ not date men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 03:34 PM |
| 74 | Weekly FDS Check-InI would like a space to discuss that kind of stuff too. As a virgin, I want to take advice from people I can trust, not people who have only male pleasure in mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 12:24 PM |
| 58 | Weekly FDS Check-InI'm surprised how much people invalidate women who say they want to stay single for good. They respect their decisions even less than childfree people imo. If you're childfree, people still invalidate you, but you're more likely to find people who respect your decision as final. They don't respect wanting to stay single at all and its frustrating. Especially my parents. I'm not "single until I find someone".I'm single cause I literally cannot stand the idea of sharing space with someone, and I d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 12:22 PM |
| 72 | LVM/NVM "Stuck" in Unhappy Relationships: An AssortmentAll these men have one thing in common, which is that they get in relationships with women they don't actually like. I think its a "man thing". Men think something is better than nothing, while we (FDS or any woman with high standards) think that nothing is better than something we don't want. Men need to start respecting the time of the women they are getting involved with, but they don't. They think they are entitled to a relationship, but they either don't know what they want or they didn't f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 06:23 AM |
| 10 | Disney lied to us. The original little mermaid movie was made in 1975 and was made to teach girls to avoid being a pickme/give up everything for a man because you’ll just be used as a placeholder until his dream girl comes along. Ending is very dark.You should definitely watch it, if you haven't already! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 09:12 PM |
| 82 | Disney lied to us. The original little mermaid movie was made in 1975 and was made to teach girls to avoid being a pickme/give up everything for a man because you’ll just be used as a placeholder until his dream girl comes along. Ending is very dark.Omg memories 😭 I watched this as a child, as well as the disney version. I remember being annoyed back then that things ended sadly for the original little mermaid but now I appreciate it. It didn't end well cause she didn't make a good decision. You can't try to make someone love you and you shouldn't lose yourself for a man. She did both and failed miserably. Disney is weird. If you never heard about the original tales, you will assume all these princess stories are wholesome, but they weren't… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 09:12 PM |
| 30 | Bought myself a crown just bcuz I wanna celebrate the scrote-free air I get to breath for the first time after 11 years✨ ANY future scrote that makes me feel less than how I make myself feel rn is not worth it 👋Love it 😊 So gorgeous 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 07:54 PM |
| 7 | wow.To say that to any child is horrible. But how can you say that to your own child who is trying to help? Like how vile of a human being do you have to be? Trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 06:44 PM |
| 18 | What did he expect when he told her he wanted to sleep with another woman ?He's disgusting. I would take it really hard. Imagine being so intimate with someone, and investing so much into a relationship, just for him to say he wants to fuck other people. How could he think thats an okay thing to say to his wife? Men don't think about the consequences of their actions. I really don't think they do. They say and do things that are horrible, and then put on the "I didn't know she would react that way" act. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 03:32 PM |
| 48 | PSA: as soon as man says that, run the opposite direction sis 🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️ This is RED FLAG. Manipulation.Ugh they really do be talking like that 😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 09:00 PM |
| 33 | PSA: as soon as man says that, run the opposite direction sis 🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️ This is RED FLAG. Manipulation.Facts. So many men could benefit from not talking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 06:13 PM |
| 361 | PSA: as soon as man says that, run the opposite direction sis 🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️ This is RED FLAG. Manipulation."Please use a coaster for your coffee" "Wow. I guess you want me to never drink anything 🙄" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 04:37 PM |
| 18 | “Does my emotional support woman have to just put up with my shit or INSPIRE me to wipe my own ass? WheRe IS ThE LiNE?!” - The ruminations of an uninspired scrote:I always roll my eyes at the "inspiring me to be better" bullshit. I'm so done with men using the women in their lives for their character development. "___ made me who I am today/inspired me to be a better person/ I am a better person because of her". Like stfu. Do you have a personality? Can you fucking coach yourself for a change? Why do I have to be a teacher for you? Its the same when your parents expect you to be a good example for your brothers who can't be bothered to improve their chara… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 01:56 PM |
| 13 | I felt this. Love and life are so much more than your relationship status.It does. You shouldn't have to "kiss a lot of frogs" and then finally meet your match as many people say. You can't control whether men will hurt you and reveal themselves to be LV but it helps to prioritize your happiness and vet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 11:04 PM |
| 36 | How is this even a question??!!I used to do that. Seeking validation. I didn't understand what boundaries were and I thought I needed "permission" to not tolerate something. Its a horrible state to be in cause not only are people pushing your limits, but you are also allowing it and thinking its okay or that you have no right to expect good treatment. Also, asking reddit for advice when it comes to stuff like that is a big mistake. They'll gaslight you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 02:12 PM |
| 15 | Luxury home in Montreal owned by Pornhub exec burned down in apparent arsonColt is disgusting. Dunno what his exes saw in him. He didn't have money, wasnt attractive and his personality sucked. And he was pretty much married to his mom. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 11:48 PM |
| 2 | Scrote hasn't washed his penis in years, has still slept with unwitting women. Disgusting.Yeah, unfortunately many of us probably did 😓 It was on the popular page, and I usually don't scroll through it cause I try to avoid the news these days, but I ended up seeing the post. So nasty. I usually avoid tifu posts cause they're always about nasty/embarrassing sex situations. Wasn't surprised about this one despite how nasty it was. I refuse to give this guy the benefit of the doubt. There are things you can't not notice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 10:32 PM |
| 4 | Scrote hasn't washed his penis in years, has still slept with unwitting women. Disgusting.Omg i read that post 🤮 I made the mistake of reading the whole thing. Absolutely disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 05:29 PM |
| 26 | Would love to see your additions 😂-Its Not What it Looks Like (Threw My Marriage Down the Drain) -Imma waste your time ft. The Audacity -Ethically non-monogamous (I Have a Small Dick) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 05:04 PM |
| 8 | Men want traditional women until its time for them to be traditional men and be providers.Ugh so cheap 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 04:10 PM |
| 35 | Men want traditional women until its time for them to be traditional men and be providers.Omg lol 😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 02:42 PM |
| 107 | Men want traditional women until its time for them to be traditional men and be providers.Hahaha facts. Honestly, how can you not laugh at a guy who insists on splitting the bill? I cant imagine going on a date and him being like "I pay my half you pay your half". That's cheap, cringe and such a turn off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 01:52 PM |
| 21 | Pickme cool girl calls us "females" and how poor men are oppressed in our society.She totally dismissed it as a "not a big deal" thing. Wtf? She literally has kids. How much is she willing to do to get picked? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 09:57 AM |
| 84 | Pickme cool girl calls us "females" and how poor men are oppressed in our society.Can't believe she implied that a man paying money has rights over a woman who carried the baby. I'm convinced she's a scrote disguised as a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 07:53 AM |
| 17 | And the decor in that house is just fabulousI hope this year brings you peace and comfort 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 10:05 PM |
| 26 | And the decor in that house is just fabulousWill do! After exams tho. As a treat 😇😇 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 07:23 PM |
| 64 | Men are most attractive in their 20smost of them are so terrible compared to what korea is putting out 🤷♀️ I’ve mostly stopped watching anything new from Hollywood In kdramas, you get excited when the main couple kisses after 10 episodes, but you get annoyed when American couples have sex in the first 2 minutes of the first episode, cause they have no chemistry at all. Hollywood writers think that if a couple has a lot of sex they are compatible. And it almost always involves a cheating situation. I'm sick of it. They don't know … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 04:52 PM |
| 182 | And the decor in that house is just fabulousIs the pic from the aristocats? I haven't seen it yet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 03:42 PM |
| 55 | And the decor in that house is just fabulousThis is what i want 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 03:32 PM |
| 14 | I’m glad more women are realizing this, but the comments are just sadWtf.The audacity. That's all he has. Wtf is up with these men who cheat and then have the nerve to be territorial? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 04:08 PM |
| 59 | I’m glad more women are realizing this, but the comments are just sadFacts. I feel really bad for the women who got married and had kids with losers like them. Men who don't appreciate them at all and openly pine for someone else. It has got to be soul destroying. These men are shameless and don't love anyone. To them, love = feeding the ego. They don't appreciate that woman when she is there, and when she's gone, they use that woman as a weapon against the next one. Triangulation is one of their most brutal methods they use to destroy a woman's self esteem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 08:10 PM |
| 193 | I’m glad more women are realizing this, but the comments are just sadMen marry women they hate. I both regret and don't regret finding reddit because of the amount of posts by men who just seem to hate their wives. If they hate them that much why did they make such a serious commitment to them? Reading posts and comments by men who think nobody will see showed me how a lot of them think, and it was disappointing but also eye-opening. Just because a man marries you does NOT mean he loves you or respects you. And also, a lot of men are addicted to porn and fantasiz… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 05:58 PM |
| 32 | How do you learn how to control/manage your emotions?There's this book I'm reading on kindle called "Master Your Emotions" by Thibaut Meurisse. It comes with a workbook. So far its been helpful for me, cause I struggle in controlling my emotions as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 05:12 PM |
| 18 | If you're not FDS, you're a Pick MeWgtow has one. Its for women who don't want relationships period. Its still growing though so there aren't too many members. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 04:31 PM |
| 421 | I’m glad more women are realizing this, but the comments are just sadMen will still marry women they are not in love with though, while looking for or missing the "love of their life". I put that in quotations because men like that have never loved anyone but themselves. I feel like most of them "settle", and the reason I put that in quotations is because these women they are settling for are usually amazing people, but they still get treated like dirt cause their husbands aren't in love with them. They just want women they can't have. And once they have her they… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 04:05 PM |
| 4 | AskFeminists: “We do not allow FDS users to participate here. “ Explain like I’m 5?I see. I used to be confused about people making throwaway accounts for relationship posts but I totally understand now. You don't want people digging through your history and bring up irrelevant details, especially if the posts gets a lot of attention. If people weren't so disgusting this wouldn't be a problem at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 01:29 PM |
| 18 | AskFeminists: “We do not allow FDS users to participate here. “ Explain like I’m 5?They go angrily combing through my comment history to look for weak points to attack me on This happened to me a few times. Some people couldn't stand seeing someone who disagrees with them so they try to "prove" that I'm a bad person through my comment history. Like people who are so insecure in themselves that they have to prove the other person is insane so they feel confident in their beliefs. And when they can't find a reason to call you crazy, they start making shit up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 09:10 AM |
| 4 | Just sharing my favorite gem from a scrote (before I disabled my chat) Their definition of HV cracks me upMaybe. Maaaaaaaayyyyyybbeee 🤭😆 Who knows. Its hard to play devils advocate whrn it comes to men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 06:18 PM |
| 13 | Things I didn’t know I needIf I could have 3 of these in boot form that would be great | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 04:07 PM |
| 107 | Men scientifically conclude porn doesn’t affect their perception of women 🤡That's complete bullshit. If porn doesn't affect their perception, that means that men hate women with or without porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 03:20 PM |
| 7 | Weird Red Flags?Fresh is good. Especially when its cold. The pink drink from Starbucks is not really strawberry milk, but thats another delicious alternative to bottled strawberry milk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 01:48 PM |
| 15 | What's the WORST COSMO ADVICE you've ever seen on the topic of dating, sex, and relationships?A bunch of weird sex positions that will definitely break one of your body parts. Why should we have sex upside down? Like please comment on the weird sex positions. And a bunch of other tips from people who clearly haven't tried any of them irl. Cause they dont work, and are embarrassing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 09:51 AM |
| 16 | Men Are Visual BSIf they're so visual why are most of them nothing special to look at 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 09:35 AM |
| 204 | Just sharing my favorite gem from a scrote (before I disabled my chat) Their definition of HV cracks me upTf is a "hoars"? And I KNOW he did not change high value woman to high value female. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 09:12 AM |
| 41 | Weird Red Flags?That's horrible. There have been several instances when I have tried to open up to someone and they did that annoying snort/laugh thing, or said lol. It wasn't funny. People like that are vile. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 08:31 PM |
| 45 | Weird Red Flags?Yes omg. Also the same guy who will not eat pink cakes or drink strawberry milk cause its "gay". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 07:28 PM |
| 85 | Weird Red Flags?Yep. Also, everyone they meet is "too sensitive" or "argumentative". Its never them who are the problem. Every woman in their life, whether its their mom or girlfriend or coworker, overreact to everything and can't take a joke. Also the same guys who think women aren't funny, just cause they don't have a fucked up sense of humor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 07:27 PM |
| 266 | Weird Red Flags?-I've seen this in a lot of men, but some are really hostile to girls with short hair. Like they will use "short hair" as an insult. Some men will leave their girlfriends for cutting their hair. -Always has a "jokester" reaction to serious situations or moving content. To me it shows a lack of mindfulness. Its one thing to be less sensitive than others, but its another thing to never take things seriously, even things that are meant to be taken seriously. I dont wanna be around a clown. A lot of… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 05:50 PM |
| 23 | You might be an FDSer if...You hate polyamory and cringe whenever a scrote or a pick me promotes it. You would rather crawl into a ditch than participate in it, you are allergic to the mention of it, and your self-esteem is too high for you to be manipulated into thinking you should do it to please someone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 10:42 PM |
| 149 | Mediocre MenFax. I went through this period of praising men who would "never cheat" on their gf or wife. I thought they were some kind of unicorn, only because I was so disturbed by all the men who shamelessly talked about how they would cheat "given the opportunity", or already cheated and have no remorse. So of course they made the men who don't cheat but behave badly in other ways look like angels to me. Sometimes I get so caught up in my list of dealbreakers that I forget my standards. Okay yeah, he's n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 04:24 PM |
| 40 | Quick Reminder On BoundariesI agree. I definitely need some boundaries when it comes to my behavior. I have a habit of oversharing and overexplaining. Also, I feel the need to respond to anyone who tries to get a reaction out of me, which should stop. Responding has never worked out for me. I do have some anger problems I need to work on. They say you can "return" someone's negative energy to them instead of letting it affect you. If I can master this I will be a lot stronger mentally. Its good that I dont tolerate disresp… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 07:55 PM |
| 1 | My abusive ex sent me a cashiers check (via my mother) for 30,000 dollars. What do I do? (Besides cash it)Looks like a trap tbh 😕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 05:31 PM |
| 6 | Murder vs. menstruationAnd a raise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 06:39 AM |
| 47 | Are there any women in this sub that have completely sworn off men, dating, romance?!? 👩❤️👨Yup! I swore off romance mainly because nothing lasts forever, and I'm not interested in putting so much into a relationship that has no guarantees. Its not worth it imo. I also like living alone. My attraction to men has been mainly through stories written by women. In real life I have been consistently disappointed by their lack of empathy and consideration for others. I'm also starting to think I'm on the asexual spectrum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 06:31 AM |
| 7 | Looking for a particular post about being childfreeThere is no true freedom for a mother. At all. The dad can still be seen as his own person separate from his kids and baby mama, but the mom will be defined by her role as a mom forever. It's a huge sacrifice that people don't think about before they have kids. When I imagine the stressful life of a parent, I wonder why someone would choose that situation. Yes, you can love them and make some memories, but what if they don't turn out the way you want them to? Will you resent them? You accept the… | /r/askFDS | 16/04/21 08:24 PM |
| 170 | Murder vs. menstruationThat kind of attitude is refreshing. Its not taboo. I really don't understand why I gotta act like period is some kind of forbidden bad word I can't say in front of my dad and brother. They know it happens. Its not a sin. Plus its super inconvenient to act like I'm not on my period. Men need to grow up. To me, men who act grossed out at the mention of periods are on the same level as men who get surprised that their gf poops and takes baths. We are humans that have bodily functions and put a lot… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 07:40 PM |
| 8 | Looking for a particular post about being childfreeI absolutely think being childfree is an easier life for women. You're not tied to any man you let into your life. You have so many possibilities. You save money. They say if you don't have kids, your 30s are like your 20s just with money. I personally can't have a kid. They say you should take care of yourself and put yourself first, but when you have a kid, you don't matter anymore. You could also be tied to an absolute douchbag for the rest of your life. Also, childbirth and childcare takes a… | /r/askFDS | 16/04/21 07:25 PM |
| 55 | Context: the boyfriend has sex with other women for OnlyFans and promotes it on TikTok. The girlfriend says she is “happy”. Comments are saying “y’all mad you get cheated on for free while they’re in a healthy relationship with boundaries, trust, and more money than you” 🤦♀️If you ever think you’ve hit rock bottom when it comes to relationships Or when it comes to life in general. Cause YIKES 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 02:13 PM |
| 2 | Rescue mission required! I really hope this is fake. Pickme has ended up as main carer for her ex’s kids (who he had with the woman he left her for, whilst she was pregnant)Really don't know how she can find the patience and forgiveness to do it. She is owed an apology. But he had the nerve to call her a bitch after everything. I wouldn't be able to take it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 01:07 PM |
| 7 | Rescue mission required! I really hope this is fake. Pickme has ended up as main carer for her ex’s kids (who he had with the woman he left her for, whilst she was pregnant)This sounds like such a nightmare 😰 Given the cirucmstances, idk why she even took in the kids at all. It can't be good for her emotional health. The scrote will never learn to take any kind of responsibility if she does this for him. He calls to let her know she's keeping them overnight. What the actual fuck? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 12:34 PM |
| 36 | 👇🏻Not surprised at all. Men have selective hearing and selective vision. We can't even say they're misunderstanding because they know exactly what's going on, but it doesn't benefit them to acknowledge. I swear when they see women or anyone really talking about something that puts their negative behavior in the light, they immediately start to come up with ways to twist the words being said and make them look crazy. And it never works so it makes these men look unbearably stupid instead. You could… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 07:52 AM |
| 471 | 👇🏻Same people who try to get FDS banned but don't care about the violent porn subs 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 10:09 PM |
| 32 | Yeah sure let's put the blame on a girl and victimize a man who in 99% of cases was the pursuer. Funny how people don't even get enraged that hard at raped victims who had their lives ruined. Omg.Facts. Also what depraved psychos upvoted this bs? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 05:07 PM |
| 7 | This man has found himself a mother.Right? Its like she's describing her child. An actual preschooler. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 04:00 PM |
| 56 | Anyone else find "kinky" people to be so boring at this point? BDSM, choking, "breath play", calling men daddy. Everyone magically developed the identical cookie cutter sexuality and it's so BORING, but they still think of themselves as wildAll I see is a lot of people who need therapy. Like desperately. They will do anything but get therapy. Instead of admitting they are fucked in the head and need help, they wanna feel edgy and not mentally-ill so they disguise all these fucked up behaviors as "kink" and not "mental illness". Like bruh. What person can confidently say "I love it when somebody restricts my breathing" and not see anything wrong with their mental health? Like whats next? Incest? "It's my kink! Don't be so sEx NeGaTi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 02:15 PM |
| 9 | Found this on a relationship sub. Women think this kind of behaviour is endearing ?! Nah sis 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ makes me wonder what else he thinks gets done by magic. Some guy commented and argued with me about how men do more domestic labour lmao I can’t handle this sub. I never want to be married.He's living in his own little world. Like a child. He sounds useless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 07:37 PM |
| 55 | A 49 year old man has an ✨epiphany✨ and people in the comments thank and praise him for his 'insight'🙌 and give him lots of awards 🏅🏅🏅They would bully her till she can't stand the internet anymore. It would go something like this "my husband pays for everything, and today I offered him 25 cents so he can buy a gum ball. It feels so good to pitch in! I'm really doing gods work!". They would tear her to shreds for being a "goldigger", and how dare she take advantage of her poor husband. Fuck reddit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 03:21 PM |
| 349 | A 49 year old man has an ✨epiphany✨ and people in the comments thank and praise him for his 'insight'🙌 and give him lots of awards 🏅🏅🏅Does he think this whole acting clueless thing is cute? Imagine getting awards and thousands of internet points for folding your laundry. And then he says "pitch in if you can" as if the work is her work only and he's doing her a favor by helping. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 11:40 AM |
| 117 | Found this on a relationship sub. Women think this kind of behaviour is endearing ?! Nah sis 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ makes me wonder what else he thinks gets done by magic. Some guy commented and argued with me about how men do more domestic labour lmao I can’t handle this sub. I never want to be married.How can she not see him as a child and lose all attraction to him after that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 11:37 AM |
| 17 | FDS is such an amazing community of supportive women who have seen some things. Shout out to all you awesome ladies!🥰🥰 This sub has been a godsend. It validated me and made me feel less crazy. I'm so glad I found it. We dont sugarcoat anything here. The tough love was exactly what I needed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 07:55 PM |
| 3 | Scrotes Are Mad 🗣😂Lowkey wanna know what the scrotes commented 🤭🤭🤭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 07:52 PM |
| 10 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InWhen he calls "chick flicks" trash. Like all of them. Or any show, movie or anime that was made for the enjoyment of women. Guys like that are misogynistic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 05:42 PM |
| 24 | There seems to be an influx on men on tiktok spreading messages that you must have sex before marriage etc for “compatibility”. As someone who doesn’t want to, this just reeks of a LVM tactic to coerce women into sexOr a mcChicken, or a hole in the ground. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 04:52 PM |
| 30 | There seems to be an influx on men on tiktok spreading messages that you must have sex before marriage etc for “compatibility”. As someone who doesn’t want to, this just reeks of a LVM tactic to coerce women into sexThe "mature" made me want to throw my TV at the screen. Its like when a guy calls you sweetie or hon. Like dont talk down to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 04:48 PM |
| 42 | Boy Meets World - Let Me Touch Something!!! I’m actually disgusted...Did nobody see anything wrong with this?!? It’s crazy watching this under a different lense. Women don’t owe men sex . If we never wanted to have sex ever, we have a right to that. Men are not entitled to sex, no matter how long.He's so gross. I've never watched the show but I've seen clips, and he's a complete loser in each of them. Too many male characters are like that though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 12:56 PM |
| 32 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InI think they resent happy women with high standards, but they don't do it on purpose, like just for the sake of hate. They have been brainwashed and have yet to wake up. They feel something negative towards women who have something they lack and they don't quite understand what the negative feeling is exactly. They either wish they could have what those women have or they try to convince themselves that those women aren't actually happy. Scrotes on the other hand, hate happy women, just because … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 12:47 PM |
| 23 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InFacts. And its so frustrating. Theres literally nothing in it for us, and anytime we try to ask for more, we are shunned by society. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 12:45 PM |
| 31 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InSame. My mom enabled my brother, and now she's always frustrated with him for assuming he doesn't have to do any work in the house. I can't even feel bad cause she held us to different standards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 12:43 PM |
| 115 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InHave y'all ever dealt with a man who assumes that people will tolerate his shit forever? I've seen way too many of them. The way they act and carry themselves, at work or in their personal lives, shows that they think people will stay no matter what. Then they're blindsided when somebody has had enough. Most show just a lack of self-awareness, or they're aware and they pretend they aren't. Either way it makes them look stupid. Is it cause nobody told them no growing up? I'm genuinely confused. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 11:31 AM |
| 61 | Excellent Advice, FDS Energy all the way!Word. This is helpful to me cause I dont want a partner, but I always have questions of "what about my feelings or desires?" I really shouldn't let temporary feelings have an influence on my decision making. A lot of older women say the same thing, about how they wish they would have invested more in themselves. It would be dumb not to follow their advice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 09:34 AM |
| 9 | Let's NOT even think of this, let's normalize not feeling like a victim for buying the love of your life a decent ring and proposing in a good manner, let's normalise that.He looks like he's thinking about whether or not he should tell her about the other girls he's seeing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 06:50 AM |
| 130 | Let's NOT even think of this, let's normalize not feeling like a victim for buying the love of your life a decent ring and proposing in a good manner, let's normalise that.Fax I'd rather sweep the desert | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 07:32 PM |
| 28 | Let's NOT even think of this, let's normalize not feeling like a victim for buying the love of your life a decent ring and proposing in a good manner, let's normalise that.Same 🙄 I'm screaming for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 07:16 PM |
| 114 | Let's NOT even think of this, let's normalize not feeling like a victim for buying the love of your life a decent ring and proposing in a good manner, let's normalise that.I can't with this. Hes clearly laughing at her on the inside. The wedding won't happen unless she physically drags him there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 07:11 PM |
| 2 | Stop mourning awful men dying.This makes a lot of sense | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 06:04 PM |
| 27 | Have you ever rejected a man because of his sexual history?I dont think its irrational at all. You can reject them for any reason, or no reason at all. Personally speaking, I'd reject a guy if he ever had a threesome. I dont care if it was one time in college or if he regretted it or whatever. I immediately label him a "coomer". It doesn't matter if its "in the past". Your decisions say a lot about your character. Sexual history is important. Not necessarily number imo but the type of act. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 01:58 PM |
| 51 | Stop mourning awful men dying.Men get better treatment, no doubt about that. I just think that in general, dead people are seen as more valuable than the living for some reason. But men get better treatment for sure. I think when it comes to "great" men vs "great" women, it is only the women who are expected to actually be good people in addition to their achievements. Its frustrating. But in general dead people achieve sainthood, at least in the eyes of those who knew them personally. I had a cousin who passed sometime ago,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 01:11 PM |
| 105 | Stop mourning awful men dying.I think its more of a society thing. Anyone who dies(with few exceptions) is given saint status when they die. I will never understand why people are given so much value for being...dead. Why don't we value them when they're alive? Whey are their bad deeds erased when they die? Its undeniable that people who are dead, whether they were good or awful, will be given respect they never would have been given if they were alive. I will never understand that. Like, they're dead. We all will die. It do… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 01:02 PM |
| 8 | Great Men are Not Good PeopleI don't want to be cruel and give some poor scrote the impossible hope of being fucked in any way. I snorted 😂😁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 07:03 AM |
| 24 | According to the comments, she’s the problem for being overly jealous...Relationship advice is a hellhole. You can tell which comments are from men, and which are from pick me girls. They are pro-cheating, or they sympathize with cheaters, or they are cheaters and want ammo to use against their partners. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 10:09 PM |
| 48 | Great Men are Not Good PeopleYknow what? I let scrotes convince me that women made no important contributions for the longest time. How many women have had their ideas stolen, or have been silenced when trying to contribute to society? Its disgusting. It seems men can't do anything without standing on someone else's neck. Same with their "jokes". Always at someone else's expense, and usually a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 10:04 PM |
| 53 | Great Men are Not Good PeopleBig facts. I'm so frustrated about this cause people will worship these "great" men like they are gods, when they're not. Usually its their dead-ness that adds to their saint status as well. It was soul destroying reading about what some of these men did though. I used to think if you did some "great" things that changed the world in some way that makes you a good person but it doesn't. I put these "great" men on pedestal all the time. Like philosophers such as Kant and Aristotle. I thought sinc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 09:29 PM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inSame honestly. I feel like I still have pick me tendencies too. I've improved a lot but I feel like there are still some bad habits I can't get rid of. Why exactly do you say you're still a pick me? If you don't mind me asking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 12:48 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inThank you 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 09:55 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inThat's true. But you still see what they said before you do it 😕 And sometimes you can't help but respond. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 09:16 AM |
| 23 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inI appreciate the mods who make so much effort to make this an women-only space, but its so annoying to deal with scrotes who try to message you cause they were offended by something you said. Idk what they expect me to say when they pm me or comment on one of my other posts. "You're right"? "I changed my mind"? They just prove my point that men can't help but harass women. Idk if its because of my age, but it makes me feel so anxious. Like dont talk to me. I don't know you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 08:35 PM |
| 14 | Hating men takes too much work, just acknowledge that they are dangerous and untrustworthy and stay away from them.I respect that. I know a lot of kids feel very anxious around their moms boyfriends, especially if the relationship is toxic. Blended families are tricky. I feel bad for the kids cause they have no control over anything. Not to say you can't find love just cause you're a single parent, but people also have to acknowledge how it could scar the children involved. There has to be a lot of care and consideration. And I think that many parents go about it in a very careless way and chase their desire… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 02:45 PM |
| 8 | Hating men takes too much work, just acknowledge that they are dangerous and untrustworthy and stay away from them.💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 01:47 PM |
| 88 | Hating men takes too much work, just acknowledge that they are dangerous and untrustworthy and stay away from them.What’s so hard about doing some of those things i mentioned? We're getting to a very weird point where men have convinced themselves that they don't have to do anything. Not even be likeable. We have women proposing to men these days cause they're so lazy and incompetent. Society is on their side though so women still bend over backwards to impress men, even though men don't do shit. They think all they gotta do is lie to a woman and say they "love" her, and that will keep her doing stuff for hi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 01:20 PM |
| 43 | Hating men takes too much work, just acknowledge that they are dangerous and untrustworthy and stay away from them.Same. I can't think of a better support to have than a group of single women who truly care about you. A HV friendship is where its at. For me its just a need to have my own space and not have to answer to anyone. I dont want to be with a NVM who makes my life hell but I also don't want to be with a HVM. I dont like romantic gestures and mushy words cause they make me feel uncomfortable, and I hate physical contact, but that's just me. I love that the ladies on this sub are able to take control … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 12:57 PM |
| 156 | Hating men takes too much work, just acknowledge that they are dangerous and untrustworthy and stay away from them.Honestly. I know this sub is technically about dating, but after I read posts and sorta "woke up" from my pick me ways, I decided to stay single forever. This sub helped liberate me. There isn't a HVM out there for me, only cause I dont want a relationship at all. Even if hes a "good" man. I just don't fuck with them anymore. Its too much of a burden. I don't feel any shame about wanting to live alone and not have kids anymore. Is anyone else here planning to stay single? Like not until you find… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 12:36 PM |
| 34 | "Men are the true romantics"Facts. Men always go on and on about how they don't like women who "play hard to get", but they really don't like women who like them back. They don't appreciate what they have until it becomes out of their reach again. That's why so many men emotionally abuse their devoted girlfriends or wives with "the one that got away". That girl can either be an ex they didn't appreciate or got tired of their nvm ways, or a girl who refused to go out with him. They will use anyone for the purpose of triangu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 08:10 PM |
| 141 | How to not catch feelings for men and protect your heartThe sad thing is that it actually works. So many of us are desperate to be seen as "good" or "nice". If you're a people pleaser, the thought of someone seeing you as mean can drive you crazy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 05:19 PM |
| 46 | Cant Even Give Birth In Peace..Tell me why women are still having babies with men 😰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 08:14 AM |
| 351 | This is why you shouldn’t take other peoples opinions about your body seriously.You shouldn't take their opinions seriously or personally. I'm sure all of you have heard it straight from the men. They do it to keep women "in check". Whether its insulting your body, intelligence, or mental state. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 09:37 AM |
| 57 | I can't imagine 😂 (xpost)Or give him the stank face. He's not gonna pretend to orgasm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 01:50 PM |
| 16 | Ya’ll, please tell me I did not just read what I read? After seeing that I went and made a donation to FDS. It was the only way I could calm down. Is this a thing?!?!?!?!Facts. Idk why they go out of their way to sympathize with pedophiles but trash feminists on the daily. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 07:02 AM |
| 8 | Reddit hates women. THEY absolutely DO! My soul dies every time I see an award in this sub.Same. Reddit is filled with shit. Will not spend even 1 cent. If it weren't for FDS and a few other subs, which I love, I'd want this site shut down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 03:52 PM |
| 6 | Don't romanticize the idea of someone who you're unsure about.Its true. It's childish people who expect second chances after crossing a boundary. Its one thing to make a mistake, but these kind of people know what they did and knew it was bad before they even did it. And its such a turn off from a grown man. I immediately see him as a child after. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 01:37 PM |
| 10 | Isn't it funny how men like Derrick Jackson only have wives when it suits them?!I watched that. It was very disturbing indeed. He's a psychopath. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 05:19 PM |
| 39 | Is this shallow?Facts. You're better off being as selfish as a man. They won't be as considerate as you are. | /r/askFDS | 01/04/21 05:02 PM |
| 89 | Scrote so mad he forgot how to spell and shitYeah I dont mind them disappearing. My number 1 problem in life is not feeling safe. Men can fuck off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 03:48 PM |
| 33 | Isn't it funny how men like Derrick Jackson only have wives when it suits them?!He's trying real hard to convince himself he's not the bad guy. It shows in the video he posted with his wife. He's one of those guys who see cheating as something that "happens" to a couple rather than something a person does by choice. They try to compare their bad actions to a natural disaster that wasn't anybody's fault. All that "we'll get through this together" bullshit that he was spouting shows that he doesn't think he's like "those other guys" who cheat for "no reason". Its the religiou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 12:36 PM |
| 87 | Isn't it funny how men like Derrick Jackson only have wives when it suits them?!Facts. I didn't know he was married until the news of his cheating came up. While I dont put anyone on a pedestal for any reason, I did respect him and thought he gave solid advice (and it is good advice, but he doesn't practice what he preaches). So when it turned out he was a cheating narcissist it kinda messed with my head. Like why did you make yourself look like a single man who has been hurt by a woman before? And why are you shaming scrotes for the same things you do? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 11:18 AM |
| 33 | Don't romanticize the idea of someone who you're unsure about.Facts. There are people who say you should "assume the best" in people and always go with the positive scenario in your mind, but I just can't agree with that. Let's face it, when it comes to relationships with men, it would be stupid to romanticize them and ignore the red flags. When it comes to vetting, I'm still trying to come up with an effective way to do it. I'm generally detached until someone proves they're worthy of being attached to. I keep my heart on lockdown and I've grown used to t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 08:17 PM |
| 33 | Guy takes girl on a non-date and then is surprised when it doesn’t feel like a dateRight? Its like me inviting a friend over, asking her to give me her valuable time, just to make her sit with me in my backyard and stare at the bushes, and make no effort at all even though I invited her over to spend time with me, and then get mad at her for not entertaining me. Then I send her home, having throughly wasted her time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 01:18 PM |
| 146 | Guy takes girl on a non-date and then is surprised when it doesn’t feel like a dateHe...took her on a walk near his house? It doesn't get any more low effort than that. He couldn't even be bothered to choose a trail far away from his place, at the very, very, below the bar that is already in hell, least. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 08:15 AM |
| 13 | Oh no, men’s porn addiction is our fault apparentlyMost of humanity has lived without porn. Men were always depraved. But come on, most of the things they do about their "sexual desire" is just a manifestation of their hatred of women. It has been shown with forced marriages, violent acts, and now it manifests in porn addiction, as well as violent acts and kink culture. None of which are the fault of women. And they never will be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 09:59 AM |
| 20 | How do you feel about men since following FDS?Repulsed. And kinda fearful tbh. In the first few months of following FDS, I thought maybe I can find a HVM. But I honestly see men and women as incompatible. If it weren't for sexual attraction we wouldn't associate. After all, why would people who have nothing in common be drawn to each other? Its not cause men can provide anything of value. I'm not sexually attracted to women, yet I still want to be friends with them and surround myself with their company. Which is why I will stay single. I'l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 09:43 AM |
| 8 | I wrote the "80% of women are equal in value to 20% of men" post that was mentioned in the podcast.LMAO 🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 09:37 AM |
| 7 | Gross! 🤮I'm glad she was able to fight him and tell him to leave. I probably would have just burst into tears from frustration. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 08:09 AM |
| 10 | Do whatever you want ladies because men don’t care!Of course. We've been knew that men will fuck a McChicken or a hole in the ground anyway so there should be no pressure to look a certain way😴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 08:32 PM |
| 123 | miss me with that coddling bsFax. Literally who is stopping them from crying? Its them. Other men. Dunno why people care more about men's supposed need to be allowed to show emotion more than women's safety. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 03:28 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else feel like the pandemic has really given them the space to Queen it up?Absolutely. 2 weeks after quarantine started, I left a patriarchal religion that made my life a living hell because of its teachings. This was after 3 months of questioning my beliefs and crying all day and all night because of my confusion and fear. Then I took steps to deprogram my brain from all the internalized misogyny. I thought that by leaving the religion I left a patriarchal society, only to realize that I didn't escape shit and the whole world is filled with misogyny. Reddit didn't hel… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 12:43 PM |
| 10 | Don’t let someone dictate who you’re going to be.I struggle with this too. There are some people in my life who make assumptions about my character and try to tell me about myself. Stuff like "nobody likes you" and " you're gonna die alone" and many more. From family members who try to be all buddy-buddy the next day and call me over-sensitive for being hurt. I am working to set boundaries as well but I can't help but feel deeply scarred by the words that have been said to me in the past. It still affects me to this day and makes me feel so an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 02:49 PM |
| 20 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inProbably like an empowering quote or something. So everytime you walk past those walls you see it and feel happy and confident. If it were me, I would put a quote that encourages me to live by my values, or know my worth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 10:58 AM |
| 7 | The last thing you should do as a woman is take “the initiative” to ask a man out and pay for dinner because you'll never take you seriously. 😷 Sis, this isn’t it.Yeah she's been posted on this sub a lot. I used to think her tiktok account was a joke but she's actually serious 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 06:30 AM |
| 74 | Be a queen ladies, a real king will follow.I dunno about this. This whole "he gave up a whole kingdom and you're with a man who can't even do __" comes up a lot on social media. Its not like he had much of a choice. And the kingdom wasn't his to begin with so he can give it up. People romanticize the royal family's life too much. They're all fucked up in their own way. Harry included. Life isn't a disney movie. There's nothing romantic about the "giving up a whole kingdom" thing. And not a single one of them is a 100% pure angel main cha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inThank you. You're right, its important to be fit more than anything else. Where I live it depends on the item, but some are permitted and some aren't. But ill work on becoming physically stronger, and I'll take up self defense classes. I used to do it when I was younger but stopped. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 01:22 PM |
| 7 | Coming from a Muslim community, I’m so sad to see sisters saying things like this. This came from a Muslim meme page where a woman agrees with the man that we’re not equal.Thank you 💕💕 I haven't been called or spammed by religious people or anything, but I know what kind of things are done to anyone who disagrees with islam openly. I'm sorry you had to experience that with the church. Its hard not being able to open up to my family but I still managed to move on. All that matters is what I believe after all. I dont need validation from anyone so I can live with not telling them. Its about safety at this point. I honestly don't know what is wrong with religious com… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 10:28 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inHas anyone here ever taken up martial arts or any other kind of self defense? This has been a major concern for me lately. Safety. I used to shrug when I heard about the dangers that a woman can experience but now I feel genuinely terrified of being in an impossible situation with a crazy man. I'm wondering if I'm allowed to have something like a pepper spray. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 10:37 PM |
| 31 | Coming from a Muslim community, I’m so sad to see sisters saying things like this. This came from a Muslim meme page where a woman agrees with the man that we’re not equal.Thank you. Leaving was a very hard and tear-filled process cause I felt like I was living a lie. I can't tell my family or I'll get disowned. My parents talked about what they would do if I left, as a hypothetical situation, so I know what will happen if I tell them. And I'm scared of other people in the Muslim community too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 08:23 PM |
| 75 | Coming from a Muslim community, I’m so sad to see sisters saying things like this. This came from a Muslim meme page where a woman agrees with the man that we’re not equal.It is so misogynistic. I left the religion for that reason.There are many hadiths that are degrading to women, including one that says if a woman does not have sex with her husband, angels will curse her all night. Just a bunch of things which imo were written to scare women into submission. Many Muslim men are kind despite the teachings but they think that their good morals has something to do with the teachings so they try to justify them. Doing a bunch of mental backflips around the misogyny … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 07:32 PM |
| 5 | A clown in his natural habitatI dont understand men. They really talk like they are so confident they can't be replaced. He sounds like a child | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 03:02 PM |
| 4 | Women are under no obligation to be inclusive towards people who are hostile to us. Calling us an "echo chamber" and whining that we "don't include opposing opinions" isn't going to shame us into changing our mind.I hate the term "echo chamber" so much. The whole purpose of a subreddit, is to have a space for people who share common interests or ideas to post relatable content. People who call such spaces an echo chamber are so fucking pretentious. Like just say you feel left out. Not every thing has to include you. I swear they know. They know and they understand why we have this space. They just don't care. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 12:38 PM |
| 7 | Media consumption and animeDisney princess movies are actually horrible if you think about it. I mean, what do most of the princesses have in common? They're all overly nice and always pleasant, and take abuse from others constantly. It brainwashed me as a child into putting up with all sorts of bad treatment, and punishing myself if I do something "unkind". Also made me hate my appearance, cause some of the movies talk about "fair skinned" or "red-lipped" young girls as being the ultimate symbol of beauty. It messed with… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 12:30 PM |
| 4 | How many of you “developed” issues while in a relationship? I’ll go first: depression and anxiety. Cured as soon as we broke up.I cant really speak about romantic relationships cause I'm young and not very experienced, but I can definitely talk about toxic people in general. Like family and friends. When they were in my life or their words still carried weight, I felt heavier, my chest would always feel tight, and I'd feel like crying all the time. The second I got rid of them, mentally, cause its not that easy to move away from your family even if they're toxic, I felt free and happy. So yeah, you can develop issues, an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 12:38 PM |
| 55 | And they say marriage is bad for men. Who tf think washing dishes is a suprise??If I were her it would be really hard to hide my disgust. I would literally go as dry as a raisin. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 08:06 PM |
| 3 | Pickmeisha (probably a scrote🤡) shames women‘s day and calls women insecure hypocrites who „criticize“ menI've seen pick-mes get picked with way less effort. Seriously she did not need to try so hard 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 06:50 PM |
| 3 | Gov. Andrew Cuomo sexual harassment case. Another lesson in not speaking about your trauma no matter how HV they may seem..Thats true. The thing is, I don't want to tell him everything. But there are certain things I can't hide. He would know about my past hurts one way or another. I dont trust men cause they will throw things your trusted them with in your face if they feel like it. That's why I decided not to date men. Its not worth it. It would be hypocritical of me to seek someone for companionship that I can't trust. I can provide for myself, and I can't open up emotionally to a man without risking my mental he… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 11:31 AM |
| 14 | Gov. Andrew Cuomo sexual harassment case. Another lesson in not speaking about your trauma no matter how HV they may seem..I agree, but I feel like it would be really hard for me to not bring up my trauma. It has to do with my family, and its such a large part of who I am. I cant act like I have no family related issues, but then expect him to understand why we're not speaking. Honestly, I wish men were not so...Untrustworthy. Ideally I would be able to tell him about myself, cause this is supposed to be a very close relationship. But I can't because of how men are. Which is why relationships with them aren't worth … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 08:20 AM |
| 3 | Do you want children? Poll.💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 04:39 PM |
| 8 | Do you want children? Poll.Facts. Relationships come and go, and people change. I'm generally more comfortable being a bit detached in my relationships and friendships, and by that I don't mean I'm absent or I dont care, but I acknowledge that they come and go. Your family will always be your family but what you want from a friend or a partner can change. And these kinds of relationships have to be maintained with consistent effort, so if you dont vibe it won't last and you'll grow apart or have tensions. And when you hav… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 03:20 PM |
| 15 | Do you want children? Poll.I wouldn't be a present mother either. Also, I wouldn't be able to look at the baby's innocent face and also be proud that I brought it into a horrible world, and if its girl, I would feel guilty for bringing her into a system that doesn't value her at all. I found my way to survive and be happy, but I dont want to bring someone into this world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 12:31 PM |
| 42 | Do you want children? Poll.I will never have a child, not even with a HVM. Its just me, but I dont want to share a child with a man, and I dont want to take care of a child in general. I wanna be free to take care of my needs and my needs alone. If I wanna leave him, there is no child holding me back. I just don't want to be tied to a man like that, even if he's amazing. Its too much risk, and too much burden. I've always wanted a cat or a dog though. But later in the future. I'm content being alone. I love it so much. Lo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 08:34 AM |
| 20 | Let’s talk about “Trad” men. And why I used to be attracted to them.I see a lot of trad couples on YouTube and other social media, and while some of them look happy and it seems like the guy treats the woman well, I wonder what would happen if the woman tries to go against what the guy wanted. That's why I think trad men are fake. They're not kind. They are just really good at fooling people. Its all sparkles and rainbows until she doesn't do what he wants anymore. Its all a mask. Like a cult. They shower you with love and give you support until you don't suppor… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 08:21 PM |
| 6 | Where to start...Its so dumb. Even if that was the case, I don't care. Delete the video 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 01:32 PM |
| 11 | Why are men?Men can die mad about this. Imagine being mad that an animal isn't sexualised anymore. What the actual fuck? 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 11:12 AM |
| 15 | Does anyone else find it so hard and cringey when reading other dating subs?There are lot of horrible truths about men that are hard to digest. One that is hard to deny is that men will do literally anything they can get away with. That's why you have to vet and set boundaries and basically train him like a dog. Its why I don't bother with them. They will only be good to someone they value. The difference between men and women is, while women might break up with someone they don't value, men will string them along as long as they can get away with. When I read stuff on … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 10:14 AM |
| 1 | He cheated and she still got married to him and had his children.He will leave her once he finds another woman he can respect. Shes just a backup. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 07:41 AM |
| 25 | Only pickmeishas get mad at the other womanThey stay mad at the other woman forever and then forgive the cheating man 🙄 They don't want to believe that their man would cheat just cause he wants to. They would rather believe the story they made up in their head about the other woman being some sort of seductress who cast a spell on the man and "made" him cheat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 05:54 AM |
| 25 | If they run at the first sign of you not accepting their low effort dates and low value behavior, then they’re scared little boys. Don’t ever worry about people who ghost you.Facts. This applies to friendships as well. HVW will respect your values and standards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 10:30 AM |
| 8 | Another reason why vetting is so crucial. Imagine passing away and the father of your children is so incapable that he uses your daughter as his maid & chef. Disgusting.This is awful. See this is why I'm put off by dating and marriage in general. I can make sure I'm not with a guy unless he treats me with respect because I know my standards, but I always ask myself, what if we have a kid (purely hypothetical, I'm childfree), and I pass away? There are two things I'm afraid of. The first thing is that he will use the child as a "mini-wife", and the other is him getting another woman to fill in the role as the mom(with all the responsibility but none of the respe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 04:41 PM |
| 4 | Can a guy who treats his romantic interests like a queen but treats women he's not interested in like they're nothing be HVM?No. Absolutely not. And one day he will be treating his girl same, after some lovebombing. Not HVM | /r/askFDS | 25/02/21 09:29 PM |
| 86 | If *men* didn't demand the service of sex workers, there would be no sex "work"Facts. Men want women to be two things at the same time that just can't be at the same time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 03:54 PM |
| 85 | If *men* didn't demand the service of sex workers, there would be no sex "work"So sickening and disgusting, and I can't believe so many women support it. When I talk about those who "enjoy it" im referring to the adult liberal feminists who insist its empowering. But they completely disregard all the abuse that goes on. And people who are against sex work are called "sex negative", which idgaf if I'm called that cause its so stupid. People are afraid to be called that for some reason. Along with "insecure" or "prude" which are being used to gaslight women these days, cause… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 01:55 PM |
| 67 | If *men* didn't demand the service of sex workers, there would be no sex "work"She's a queen. And only 18. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 12:44 PM |
| 243 | If *men* didn't demand the service of sex workers, there would be no sex "work"This topic of sex work makes me so mad. Forget the sex workers who claim to "love" their job and do it willingly, there are many more who were forced into it. I shudder thinking about the women and even children who were sold into it by strangers, boyfriends, kidnappers or their own fathers or even mothers. It is for the most depraved men literally just for their pleasure. At someone else's expense. They could have sex with someone consensually, but no, they feel the need to buy someone's body, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 12:40 PM |
| 4 | Lots of peeIts a giant heap of garbage | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 02:29 PM |
| 45 | The audacity. You have absolutely nothing to offer any woman. You are not genuine. Your partner would be better off without you and probably your daughter as well.So hes married. I dont give a fuck about the legal documents. You live with your ex, your share a child and you co-parent in the house you share with your baby mama. So married. So much wrong with this. Edit: oh shit it says partner. Not even ex. WTF. Why would he think that anyone would be interested in that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 12:05 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inI never heard of the detector until now! Will definitely get one | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 08:04 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inHoly hell that is terrifying 😰 I dont understand why men do this... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 08:03 PM |
| 9 | Applying this strategy to dating women as a woman?Dating men definitely requires this strategy, but imo, dating women still comes with its own set of problems. You still have to deal with selfish people, cheaters, abusers etc...Also they could be a hard-core pick me or libfem. But when it comes to strategy...Idk, would you even need one? We use that strategy with men cause we acknowledge our differences. But going 50/50 with a woman is fine imo. Also you could equally pursue each other. Cause there isn't that whole thing of "if he's not chasing… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 09:42 PM |
| 44 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inHey so I'm terrified of being taped during sex. Its one of the reasons I dont ever wanna date. This has been on my mind a lot lately. I mean, how do I know a guy wouldn't do it? It would be devastating for me if I were taped without consent. Its just one of many fears for me when it comes to men, along with rape, being beaten, sharing a child with an abuser, etc... Thats why casual sex is a no-no for me. If I trust a boyfriend even 20%, then I would trust a one night stand -20%. The fear is legi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Would you be ok with a marriage where you both lived in different houses? Why or why not?I would love this. I wish it were the norm. I'd love to live on a different floor of an apartment or something like that. Or even not. We don't have to live in the same area. But that's considered uncoventional for a married couple, so I'm not completely comfortable doing that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/21 08:10 PM |
| 2 | So trueThis is so important, cause imo, even if we have formed a sisterhood with other women, we still need to avoid seeking validation from anywhere but within. We can be friends and help each other out, but we still need to trust our own gut and intuition about what we think is right and wrong for ourselves, like at the individual level, instead of seeking approval from others, even our closet friends or mentors. This applies to FDS as well. We share similar values, but we won't agree on everything. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 05:26 PM |
| 2 | What's the status of your love life as of NOW?Thats amazing. It fills me with hope too cause I want to be single and childless for life, but i still feel pressure. Even if a HVM shows up I'm still not obligated to him. Its nice knowing that you don't feel the need to date someone even if they are HVM. Good on you for prioritizing yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 05:22 PM |
| 72 | The BarYes omg we need to make that happen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 05:08 PM |
| 20 | Fearmongering about single mothers is just male propaganda to make women afraid of leaving their shitty baby daddies.Facts. Also, I think there is another type of fearmongering that has to do with calling women "insecure" when they expect faithfulness from their partners. I see it a lot on other subreddits. Like if a woman complains about her bf or husband watching porn or asking for a threesome, the woman is gaslighted into thinking she is insecure and jealous for not being okay with it. It's fearmongering imo cause you don't wanna be called insecure, cause it's seen as unattractive or bad. And a while back I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 04:02 PM |
| 34 | The BarI cackled XD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 03:57 PM |
| 15 | Sorry if this doesn’t fit but this had such FDS energy to meShe's so gorgeous and also the non-libfem tiktokers are the highlight of my day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 03:55 PM |
| 9 | Might as well get something out of it 😏Same. Shes always been a savage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 03:55 PM |
| 2 | Would you consider her a pickme ? I feel like I understand her message but it seems like she’s using this for validation given the men in her comments...Queen of the pick mes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 02:37 PM |
| 1 | beware of men that aren't over their EX and the subtle ways they let you knowI agree. I've seen too many cases to doubt it. Guy falls in love. It ends somehow. Then the next girl he's either openly comparing her and using her, or he swears up and down that he loves her but his actions show otherwise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 12:57 PM |
| 13 | “I do that with all my friends”Men be having kids with these women and still have the nerve to say they're not dating, or they still want to "see where things go". Like excuse me scrote? Things have gone somewhere already, and you're falling behind. So catch the fuck up or go somewhere else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 08:32 AM |
| 14 | Does anyone else find most men on OLD unattractive?I find most men unattractive | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 08:29 AM |
| 16 | Society needs to stop perpetuating the myth that women should settle for unattractive men because they'll be "nicer". Women should be allowed to date whoever they want whether men like it or not.Facts. I've seen hideous men marry the most beautiful and bright women, and treat them horribly, and the woman still loves him a lot cause he "makes her laugh", or she wants to feel like some kind of saint for dating an ugly guy. This is not charity. Those guys want women to give them a chance despite their appearance, but there is no way in hell they would date a woman they found ugly. So don't bother. Choose someone you actually like ffs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 08:27 AM |
| 1 | What's the point in marriage?Facts. Always marry someone you can picture living without, cause you aren't guaranteed to stay together forever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 11:50 AM |
| 1 | What's the point in marriage?There are some benefits apparently, like tax and health insurance. But I do not agree that it provides emotional security. Its the biggest risk ever, emotionally. And I don't see any benefit in it when it comes to emotional security. It sounds like the opposite. Very draining and high risk. You could have a completely normal life, but then you get involved with the wrong person, and come out worse than you've ever been. If I were to get married I would do it for the benefits, and possibly money.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 11:49 AM |
| 2 | Q4All: What are the warning signs that you are pedestalizing someone you are dating?"He cheated cause I've been neglecting him" "He hit me cause he's going through depression" It can be dangerous to put someone on a pedestal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 10:51 AM |
| 1 | Your opinion regarding male pattern hair loss at a young age...Yep. Its really not our business to worry about why somebody is not attracted to us. That's their business Literally every single person on this earth is not everybody's type. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 04:18 AM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InJust downloaded the book on kindle. Thanks! Self defense classes sounds like a good idea. I'd probably want my sister to do it too, just so she can have those skills handy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 04:13 AM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InThank you. I do live in a safe area, but I'm still scared cause nowhere is 100% safe. I live with my family, I always have. I planned on moving into a shared home before covid. I'm at home a lot now of course and I haven't been out alone in a while. Before quarantine I would commute an hour and a half away from home, and I'd go home late at night so there's a lot of anxiety then cause I'm alone and I have to walk a long way to the bus from my school and I have to take the subway too, which is fu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 04:11 AM |
| 14 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InHow do you go about rejecting/getting away from suspicious men? Cause I'm genuinely terrified. I say this cause I worry for my safety, and there's unwanted attention everywhere. Two very persistent ones tried it when I was separated from my people, and one tried to physically keep me from leaving. I was a teen and he was at least 45. And another one trapped me in an elevator with him when I was trying to go home. Turns out he didn't even live in my building. He followed me home. These were obvio… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 07:15 PM |
| 1 | This is not really about dating, but it reminds me of FDS cause of the fact that its a women-only space. Reddit doesn't get it, and think its misandry when its not. This is not a debate sub. Its our space to be ourselves and be safe.Yup. Clear as day. I had to share cause she said exactly what I've been wanting to say to people who feel entitled to my space. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 07:02 PM |
| 2 | This is not really about dating, but it reminds me of FDS cause of the fact that its a women-only space. Reddit doesn't get it, and think its misandry when its not. This is not a debate sub. Its our space to be ourselves and be safe.Yeah. I also feel really concerned when people tell me i can't block or refuse to talk to someone. Like they honestly believe I'm obligated to them. Its creepy and makes me want to protect myself even more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: What are the warning signs that you are pedestalizing someone you are dating?Yeah. Especially when someone knows they're being put on a pedestal. They will use it to manipulate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/21 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Is ANY contact with an ex unacceptable?Assuming she knows he's in a new relationship, and she hasn't contacted him in months, I would say she's missing him and wants to see how his relationship is doing(hoping its not going well) so she can try and get him back. If she had simply sent him a happy new year text maybe it doesn't mean anything. But saying she's grateful for the time they had together...That sounds like something you say during an amicable split, but not months after, after no contact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/21 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Is ANY contact with an ex unacceptable?Oh yeah that's weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/21 05:00 PM |
| 3 | This is not really about dating, but it reminds me of FDS cause of the fact that its a women-only space. Reddit doesn't get it, and think its misandry when its not. This is not a debate sub. Its our space to be ourselves and be safe.Yeah 😇 The mods are amazing. Sometimes I do see what they say, but it always disappears after 2 seconds. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 04:31 PM |
| 2 | Is ANY contact with an ex unacceptable?Yeah. Especially if she didn't contact him in a while before that. Very weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/21 04:30 PM |
| 2 | Is ANY contact with an ex unacceptable?Happy new year text is okay, but not that second part. And not if the bf sent that text. Bringing up the past is kinda weird. Its like she wants to get back together. I personally am not okay with the chatting. Some people want to stay in contact with their exes and that's their business, but I won't tolerate it, unless it were a baby mama, but I'm childfree so that's none of my concern anyway. Nah, no exes. No friends, no "special place in their heart", no "one that got away". People have diffe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/21 02:00 PM |
| 2 | Your opinion regarding male pattern hair loss at a young age...Its not a "flaw", but people have their preference. I personally prefer a full head of hair. Bald heads look nice on some people. I would rather they be fully bald then have hair around a large bald spot. There are a lot of things people find unattractive that is beyond our control. Its not their fault, neither is it our problem to worry about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/21 01:57 PM |
| 6 | Q4All: What are the warning signs that you are pedestalizing someone you are dating?When you keep making excuses for things they do that hurt you. They could say something that would emotionally scar you, but then give their bullshit explanation for why they are right and you're wrong, and you believe them and assume they're right. Pedestalizing someone makes you think of them as the "objective". Their word is law and if they think something is wrong with you, you feel a deep shame and try to become someone you think would be "worthy" of that person. So when you just assume the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/21 01:50 PM |
| 63 | The Myth That Older Men Are Better In Bed 🤢It really is grooming. They've been trying to make us prefer old men, "bad boys", dad bods, men with unpacked baggage(they make it seem like something attractive in movies), messy, gamer, jerk, etc... That way when they give us anything more than a breadcrumb we think "wow what a catch! I'm so lucky". They make their 1% of good behavior seem like a prize when its not, so that way we are put in a position to compete for it, because we've been conditioned to see ourselves as special compared to ot… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 01:00 AM |
| 17 | Single dad “can’t make you the center of his world” yet.... can’t leave women alone. Four kids and two baby mamas, this guy is a catch! Leave women alone and raise your kids!Same. Y'all are savages 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 08:33 AM |
| 37 | This is not really about dating, but it reminds me of FDS cause of the fact that its a women-only space. Reddit doesn't get it, and think its misandry when its not. This is not a debate sub. Its our space to be ourselves and be safe.Yup 💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 08:35 PM |
| 1 | The "other woman" should be an ally, not an enemy. Instead of getting mad at the other woman, you two should be working together to get revenge on the man who cheated you both 😈😈😈I agree. I also think that making the other woman your ally will take some of the pain away. I say this because when you get cheated on, you might compare yourself to her and make yourself sick imagining them together. Instead of being angry with her (assuming she didn't know), form a sisterhood. Better for your mental health 💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 07:39 PM |
| 187 | Single dad “can’t make you the center of his world” yet.... can’t leave women alone. Four kids and two baby mamas, this guy is a catch! Leave women alone and raise your kids!Wtf. This is why I'm childfree and will only associate with childfree men. Men have the nerve to tell on themselves and then still wonder why women don't like them. Like bruh you put it out there, what did you expect me to do? I swear they talk like they are so confident they can't be replaced. I'm so confused by that. So many questions. Like why do you have TWO baby mama exes? Why do you expect a childless woman to like you when you can't and don't want to make them the center of your world? Wh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 05:12 PM |
| 3 | Probably posted before, but it's trueNo man is | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Do you think relationships today would be better if they were solely based around love and companionship?I need all those things. Love is only 10 percent of it for me though. It will be different depending on the person and that's fine. I'm not someone who will start a relationship just because I like someone. Its only a small part of it for me. And a lot of people would consider what I want from a partner to be superficial but that's not really my problem to worry about. To answer the question I would say no. I think it would be worse. Lots of people get involved with people based on feelings with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/21 08:21 AM |
| 3 | please add trigger warnings to postsA TW for violence would help for me as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 12:46 PM |
| 8 | Lighting the fuck outta some incense as we speak ✨🔮 💁♀️Facts! My family uses "bakhoor". When I use it i pretend I am slaying demons 😅 Some guy who came to fix something had the nerve to tell my mom to stop using her incense cause he didn't like the scent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 06:39 AM |
| 33 | OK Groomer: M(37) Wants to Marry Girl (19F) He Used to Take to School.It seems the husband has the right reaction. But if the mom doesn't get herself together and fight against this shit she's trash. She needs to straighten out her spine and stop being so... Forget "happy". She needs to be safe. I can't believe she thinks she's doing right by her daughter by being "supportive". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 12:11 PM |
| 3 | Not even if Dean provided me with everything I've ever dreamed of in life.😨😨😨😨 Wtf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 12:37 AM |
| 32 | Where's the lie?????Some men even have the audacity to give their fiance the ring of an ex wife. I dont understand their mindset. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 11:42 AM |
| 14 | You need to hear this to be able to LEVEL Up. Also that ending had me rolling.Facts. No in between. You're either have a ruthless FDS mindset or you're very libfem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 09:21 AM |
| 13 | Being single is not an insultI'm sorta at peace with that. I'd rather outlive him. I have this anxiety around the idea of a man I marry using his past with me to torment another woman. Men will date whether they have baggage or not. Women are just therapists who offer sex to them after all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 08:50 AM |
| 88 | Being single is not an insultYep. But men can't be single. They just can't. That's why they struggle to see how someone could have a life that doesn't revolve around getting the attention of women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 05:50 PM |
| 83 | Being single is not an insultIt's so weird. That's why more women should start dropping men like hot potatoes at the first sign of disrespect. But they don't. And men know this. Because of movies and social conditioning, we have been trained to want "struggle love". Women and young girls think they will be rewarded for their patience and sacrifice. There's no time to waste with someone you don't like. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 05:40 PM |
| 26 | Today's Mood:"Thats crazy" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 03:30 PM |
| 457 | Being single is not an insultI KNOW! Men will be like "hahaha cat lady", and I struggle to see the insult. Staying alone in my own space doing whatever I want, with a fluffy lovable pet by my side? Sign me the fuck up. Also, amen about the replacing part. Most guys act and talk in a way like they expect their partner to never leave. It doesn't work unless he works to keep you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 02:48 PM |
| 22 | What are some of the most difficult realizations you’ve had about men ?I realized that men will do literally ANYTHING they can get away with. Usually a woman won't stay with a guy she can't be bothered to treat nicely. But a man will. For the benefits. There is someone out there he can respect but he won't wait or try to find her. He is perfectly content stringing the other one along. There is no shame or restraint or conscience. No "hmm maybe I shouldn't do this cause it isn't fair". They will do it if the woman won't stand up for herself. I came to realize this b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 06:03 AM |
| 8 | Nothing but factsYeah men used to be just LVM, now most are NVM. Its sad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 07:29 AM |
| 4 | Realizing that I’m lean towards having an avoidant attachment style after being hurt so bad by past relationships....how should I attempt to date if I’m too scared of being hurt?Dang, I'm avoidant. Used to be anxious. Working on becoming secure 👍 I heard of something called "disorganized attachment" which described me perfectly. It means you go to the same people who hurt you for comfort. So if you grew up with bad parents who still manage to make you dependent on them, you might repeat this with a partner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 07:25 AM |
| 75 | I'll believe "not all men are like that" when I see more men actually standing up to other men when they see women being treated like shitNot a surprise that they behave that way. Their hearts don't really bleed for others. They'll get away with whatever minimum effort they can get away with, and if they can "get away" (meaning they won't be arrested or disowned) with ignoring a problem happening in front of them or continuing some trash behavior, they will. They will do whatever they can get away with. Every single one. There is no such thing as "treat others the way you want to be treated" with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 04:57 AM |
| 56 | The average male redditor starter packOh trust me "ugly" is not the only word I have for them. 99% of these anime characters they lust after are underaged. And for some reason its seen as normal. I'm so sick of it. We want to progress forward but hentai/2D-wife culture is setting us back, and creating a bunch of depraved, disgusting, and utterly hideous scrotes. Just because they're not real girls does not make it okay. It doesn't mean it's not pedophilia. It's not okay. It's not it's not it's not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 07:00 PM |
| 17 | Ladies, don't be a FWB"Grounded" is such a great way to describe it. We all need to do it, when life gets out of hand or we catch ourselves acting crazy and making stupid decisions regarding our relationships. It is necessary to come back to earth sometimes. For your own sanity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 02:38 PM |
| 321 | The average male redditor starter packI have never seen an attractive man who owns a waifu pillow. They're all ugly as shit. Edit: So many offended incels. Love you mods so much 😘😘😘 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 01:17 PM |
| 44 | Ladies, don't be a FWBImagine being born, learning how to walk and talk, going to school, then college, then work, while dealing with life's shit. Some people even know how to speak more than 3 languages. Maybe you will open a business one day or save a country. Then you allow yourself to be used as a masturbation device by a scote. It does not make sense to me. Imagine being in such a low quality relationship 🤨 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 01:14 PM |
| 1 | This is enough to make me never want to date again 😨What the fuck? Just say you hate your girlfriend. Hope she gets him arrested. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 07:43 AM |
| 1 | I'm not apologizing for not checking your pockets before doing the laundryDang. This is why I don't wash anyone's clothes but my own. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 07:40 AM |
| 8 | The wisdom in these verses... (book and author in tags)You should read it. There's some content that might be disturbing though (rape, child abuse, etc...). I haven't read any other of his books so idk if he always writes about dark stuff but just to warn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 07:35 AM |
| 10 | I’m so sorry for sharing this...I wanna cry this is so fucking gross 🤢 Why don't men wash their ass? I swear I didn't know this was a thing until 2020. BIDET. Use it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 07:31 AM |
| 127 | The wisdom in these verses... (book and author in tags)I read Kite Runner in my senior year of high school for a class. It was the best book I've had to read in school. So moving but sad. I probably wouldn't read it again either. I've become quite sensitive to books/movies like that over the years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 05:00 PM |
| 15 | HVM that aren't your physical type?Part of being HVM to me is that I'm physically attracted to him. So imo there is no such thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 11:49 AM |
| 2 | Don't get it twisted; women didn't leave "in the good old days" because they were trapped, not because they were fucking ride or die. We literally had no choice but to put up with abuse and other myriad bullshit. Men cannot stand the fact that we are no longer forced to submit.Ugh I used to ask these questions tho. I can't believe I used to think that the olden days were better because women stayed in their marriages 😦 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 08:59 AM |
| 40 | FDS Vs. The Rest of RedditI am eternally grateful for this amazing wonderful subreddit. I came here because I heard something about it being "toxic", and all I found was perspective that changed my life for the better and gave me the strength I need. I have never felt more empowered, and I am so glad I found this at my young age. I feel like I have gained thousands of older sisters who I can look to for guidance. Love this subreddit and everyone who is a part of it ❤❤❤❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 05:15 PM |
| 3 | Gender ratios among college-educated young people have been becoming more female since the 90s. Currently around 56% of new grads are women. How can all of us each find a HVM, if there simply aren't enough?I agree. Lots of HVW are settling for trash in the name of "true love". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Gender ratios among college-educated young people have been becoming more female since the 90s. Currently around 56% of new grads are women. How can all of us each find a HVM, if there simply aren't enough?Not really worried tbh. I'm not trying to get married. Not even to a HVM. A HVM is only HV is he's what you are looking for personally, so out of that small percentage, an even smaller percentage would be compatible with me. I'd have to filter that small percentage by age, income, height, their baggage, etc... But the answer sure as fuck won't be polygamy. I've seen people try to push it on here. Either I get one hvm for myself or not at all. I dont need a man. Graduating from college got nothin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 05:38 PM |
| 41 | So when a person states a boundary that makes them uncomfortable, suddenly they’re controlling and insecure. Porn is cancer.sEEms LiKe yOuRe InSeCurE Holy shit can people like this stfu? They love to use that word so much. This is the majority of reddit that thinks this way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 02:12 PM |
| 1 | FDS has got me feelin SELECTIVE a.f.Whack-a-scrote 😂 I love it. Being selective is fun. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 07:07 AM |
| 2 | Why do men refuse to break up with you when they are not into you?True true. This is sad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 06:57 AM |
| 16 | NopeUgh they always put an edit on the post saying "I'm not asking for advice on how to leave him". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 06:09 AM |
| 86 | NopeYoU ShOuLDNt hAvE sNOoPeD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 06:03 AM |
| 16 | "Most women dont have a problem with their boyfriends watching porn" - 27yo MI feel like since I haven't been in a relationship and i haven't experienced what its like to be with someone who watched porn on the regular, it seems like it wouldn't be a big deal, but that can also be due to the years of brainwashing. It really is a big deal. I mean come on. He's looking at other women. Its cheating. And its degrading. Some try to make it about the "act" but it's not. They watch it for the women. And they expect their gf/wife to be okay with it. And so does society. Fuck tha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 12:30 PM |
| 7 | Valentine’s Day Should Include Self Love 💗 How Do You Plan To Show Yourself Some Love This Valentines Day?Probably go somewhere nice with my sister 😇😇 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 09:37 PM |
| 12 | Why do men refuse to break up with you when they are not into you?Yeah I don't understand this either. So many men date and marry women they don't love and won't respect. They could date someone they into but they...don't want to? Wtf? The way they waste people's time is unbelievable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 01:08 PM |
| 12 | Avoiding men is an option.In my case, I haven't had a man in my life who wasn't verbally and emotionally abusive. Emotional abusers are really good at making it look like they are good and you are bad and crazy. They make it look that way to others too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 12:45 PM |
| 10 | Is anyone else childfree because of misogyny & hatred towards mothers?It is too risky to have a child with a man. I am childfree because of the sacrifice that comes with raising a child as well as the risk that comes with starting a family with a man in this society. I don't like how I can be trapped in a horrible relationship because of children. People hate on you for leaving and becoming a single mom, but also criticize you for staying with a horrible dad. You can't win. Also, you will end up doing 99 percent of the raising, the housework and you will also be c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 12:31 PM |
| 31 | That’s some ice water level refreshingED. Erectile dysfunction I think | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 07:30 PM |
| 38 | Assata Shakur. An iconic woman.Also, maybe you should stop being so insecure. If you feel like he is oppressing you or harming you, it might just be a reflection of your own insecurity and maybe you should work on being a better partner. Women are more emotional after all. You should trust his logic. Dont let your irrational feelings get in the way of a relationship with a GOOD MAN. It was hard to type that without my blood vessels exploding 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 04:23 PM |
| 11 | Just because you were “easy” before, doesn’t mean you have to stay that way forever. It might be hard, but start drawing boundaries and require that people follow them. It’s not selfish, and it’s not bitchy.Agree. My male family members think my standards and boundaries are crazy tho (no surprise). I find it hard to read stuff from other subs or relationship articles, cause it contradicts FDS a lot. I will only date someone who treats me exceptionally. So when I see stuff everywhere that gives advice on how to cope with someone's treatment of you without leaving, I get so mad. There is no working on the relationship if you cheat, or verbally abuse me, or ask for an open relationship. I won't go to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 09:41 AM |
| 4 | What do you think about guys who watch anime?Depends. I watch anime. Some. I avoid the harem genre or any genre that sexualizes underaged girls (too many) like the plague. One of my biggest turn offs is a someone who trashes my preferences. I like "girly" anime and movies. Too many guys trash girly anime, or movies or TV that is targeted towards girls. If he's one of many guys who think its inferior, he can go. But a lot of anime watchers are incels. So idk | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 06:06 PM |
| 3 | nOt AlL mEnMy chest is always tight when it comes to men. The way some of them talk sometimes. The audacity and the lack of empathy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 10:54 AM |
| 4 | A “Not Engaged!” Photoshoot. She’s the one who booked this session too. (The ring she’s wearing is a promise ring).Ew. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 08:49 AM |
| 35 | Whatever it looks like & feels like - it is. DO NOT DOUBT YOURSELVES.For real. People are just assuming crazy things about other's character. There is a big problem on reddit where people think life is some sort of movie. Just take a look at AITA or relationship advice subreddits. Especially when it has to do with stepmoms and wives. Its only black and white when it has to do with women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 07:08 AM |
| 210 | More and more women are starting to catch on. This is hopefulMen don't even like casual dating. They just like the power that comes with dangling the commitment carrot in a woman's face. I bet if you actually want to date a guy casually, he will take offense to it, cause how dare you be clear about your intentions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 06:08 AM |
| 95 | Whatever it looks like & feels like - it is. DO NOT DOUBT YOURSELVES.Facts. No more benefit of the doubt. People aren't TV characters. Just because they are not openly showing their ugly side doesn't mean they are good natured and have your best interest at heart. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 06:04 AM |
| 37 | Love makes you look weak to men.Derrick Jaxn is great. A lot of men don't like him lol I dont know why they have to play games all the time. Why are they so unhappy that they have to chase short term sources of pleasure regardless of the effect it may have on them or the other person? They need therapy. They never work on themselves at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 02:29 PM |
| 110 | Love makes you look weak to men.Totally agree with this. It might be different for others depending on what they value in relationship, but I don't want to love my partner with all of myself. Of course there should be love, but its gotta be earned. It doesn't have anything to do with attachment. I want someone who respects me and makes life easier for me, but I'm not looking for an intense relationship that drains me of my energy and will to live. My partner will not be my best friend. I think men got the wrong idea when it co… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 11:35 AM |
| 1 | Women gaslit SO hard on this issue that they no longer know what is up or down. Amidst all that shit she has to stop and profusely apologize that she had no right to look at his phone, no justifiable reason, when I’m reality she had every reason to stick the phone up his shit stained bum kink styleOmg 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 11:30 AM |
| 46 | The question we should all be asking ourselves about “woke” or “feminist” menMen will always talk about how "unfair" the beauty standards are for men, cause it expects them to look manly and strong and whatever. But just wait till the women say they will stop shaving and wearing feminine clothes, then the men will come with the "biology" and insist we were made to look and act like women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 10:29 AM |
| 3 | Women gaslit SO hard on this issue that they no longer know what is up or down. Amidst all that shit she has to stop and profusely apologize that she had no right to look at his phone, no justifiable reason, when I’m reality she had every reason to stick the phone up his shit stained bum kink styleIt doesn't matter if the man's phone contains his detailed plan to murder an entire village, reddit will still attack the woman for snooping and they will ignore all the suspicious behavior. Its so annoying. I would hope that people aren't that stupid or ignorant, but it seems like they are. They are so focused on being "moral" and respecting peoples autonomy when it doesn't fucking matter cause there are much bigger problems to focus on. Reddit really loves the "YoU hAvE nO RiGhT" line. They us… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 05:13 AM |
| 2 | Reminder please to set healthy boundaries in your life. Boundaries are extremely important. Know what you want, what your are not comfortable with and don’t compromise. Don’t let people use you as a doormat because you want to be nice!! It won’t get you anywhereThank you I will 🙏🙏🙏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 12:16 PM |
| 3 | Random Things That Are An Immediate Swipe LeftIt really is. Like wth do they think they are doing? Imagine having someone as a partner who can't even pull it together for the sake of a good first impression 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 12:03 PM |
| 3 | I don’t understand the obsession with wanting to live with menI've noticed the obsession too. A lot of women will act like a man asking them to move in with him is the highest honor and a symbol of commitment from him. Its not. To me its disrespect. Especially with no ring. Its just "would you like to do some unpaid emotional labor for me from the comfort of my home that you will help pay rent for?". Waste of time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 06:30 PM |
| 7 | Reminder please to set healthy boundaries in your life. Boundaries are extremely important. Know what you want, what your are not comfortable with and don’t compromise. Don’t let people use you as a doormat because you want to be nice!! It won’t get you anywhereI try to set boundaries, but sometimes the need to be "nice" and understanding is overwhelming, and I'm trying to change that. I still feel the need to take on challenging situations with people who probably don't care about me, thinking I will get their love and appreciation in return. It just doesn't work that way, but I think its the years of brainwashing and social conditioning. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 05:02 PM |
| 6 | The usefulness of Cats Vs MenSeems like they only take from you. I don't know what a man can give me tbh 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 03:13 PM |
| 33 | Random Things That Are An Immediate Swipe LeftAgree with all of this. Pictures with their middle finger up are so unattractive | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 10:21 AM |
| 16 | Narcissist mommy (inlaw) humiliates bride at alter, and LVM groom doesn't say or do a damn thing to defend her. SPINELESSDunno why moms don't feel the need to raise their sons into respectful human beings the way they raise their daughters. Its like the daughters exist to do work and improve, but the sons only exist to be loved and spoiled. The mom and son in this vid are so embarrassing. What a shitshow 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 04:06 AM |
| 7 | I felt like this belonged here. Someone who disrespects ANY boundary you set doesn’t deserve to be in your life.Praying for the day I can do the same for myself. Toxic family members are the worst kind of stress. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 11:41 AM |
| 3 | When you show your trust for a man too early, he'll perceive it as a weakness and either drop you or take advantage of it.Thats good to hear 😊😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 05:53 PM |
| 18 | When you show your trust for a man too early, he'll perceive it as a weakness and either drop you or take advantage of it.Holy hell. What a horrible human being. I hope she healed from that 😕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 03:52 PM |
| 1 | The FDS anthem 😂😂🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 06:09 AM |
| 14 | LVM coerces woman into sex while sick and then calls her a disgusting pig when she voms on him. Because she was SICK.Question is how she can still call him husband after that. Bet you he's gonna make it seem like his reaction wasn't a big deal and was justified and will make her apologize. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 11:20 PM |
| 15 | "MeN dOnT gEt AnY CoMpLiMeNtS"Ugh I can't stand this guy. Always saying the dumbest shit, and its always so pointless and rude. Can't imagine how much he negs the girls he dates, though I highly doubt this guy has ever dated a girl. Really don't know where he gets his audacity. Just says the most obnoxious things and films it, and waits for women to respond. What does he expect them to do exactly? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 06:42 AM |
| 27 | I am speechlessI try not to let these things scare me too much but holy shit I can't believe someone can be that depraved. What a disgusting thing to do, I really don't know what to say. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 03:53 AM |
| 10 | I literally don’t even have wordsUh I wouldn't feel safe even sitting in the same apartment as him let alone filming a tiktok 😳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 07:46 AM |
| 2 | A Boxing Day sermonI do. She definitely has that queen energy. Been trying to follow as many people like her as I can | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 12:34 AM |
| 20 | Pornsick Limp Dick LVM shift blame to his VIRGIN wifeThis is so infuriating. It makes me scared to have sex cause what will their reaction be? I know it has everything to do with their pornsickness and nothing to do with my body or worth, but I feel like I would still take it really personal | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 12:09 AM |
| 2 | Ya'll...I can't even...she cleaned some guys house...🤢Holy shit this is the worst one I've seen on here 😳🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 10:03 PM |
| 3 | A Boxing Day sermonYeah a lot of people really believe in "love has no boundaries" and it concerns me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 09:58 PM |
| 43 | Seen this wayyy too many times!🙄 Women are held solely responsible for breaking relationships by other women because of internalised misogyny. The poor cheating bf is a "good guy otherwise".Ugh ikr! The guy in this case is simply "stolen". Not someone who betrayed you. I don't care about the other woman. She's not the one I gave my trust to. He is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 09:57 PM |
| 4 | What are your dealbreakers?Omg yes the victim mindset. People who have this are the worst. Nothing is ever a result of their actions. They act like their cheating was a natural disaster rather than something they did by choice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 07:50 AM |
| 2 | I love cooking extravagant meals. This Xmas Eve, I cooked myself an amazing dinner. Prime rib, smoked Gouda mac and cheese, carrot salad, sous vide broccoli, and crispy duck fat potatoes...with a custard hand pie for dessert! Sipped homemade eggnog while cooking. Life is good, ladies!This looks amazing! Save me some~ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 04:58 AM |
| 13 | What are your dealbreakers?Religious Children Short tempered Cheated in the past Shorter than me, or short for that matter Cheap 50/50 Dead wife/gf (the baggage that comes with it is unbearable) Age gap Doesn't groom himself Lacks self awareness Hates feminism Coward (slave to other peoples opinions) Mamas boy No job Porn Has ever slept with a prostitute Goes to strip clubs Doesn't have a strong male friendship Treats "girly" things (movies, shows, activities) like they are inferior simply for being girly Lacking empathy … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 02:55 AM |
| 8 | What are our thoughts on social media?I think social media is the worst kind of poison for a relationship. Especially if people are using it to let the whole world know their business. Cheaters will cheat regardless of whether social media exists, but it just makes it so much easier. But at the same time, because it exists, and cheaters are stupid, it's easier for them to get caught. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 02:25 AM |
| 19 | The forever-GFs are excited about getting ring pops now, fuck me sideways...Omg... She's excited about the ring pop "for now". That means she is waiting until its okay to get a fucking promise ring. Not even an engagement ring. They will never get engaged. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 02:38 PM |
| 15 | Not this pick me again 🙄Either that or she's procrastinating heavily. Instead of focusing on herself she wastes her time trying to get the attention of men by shitting on women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 02:19 PM |
| 32 | Not this pick me again 🙄I wonder what she means by "better woman", and I am afraid of the answer. I don't want to know. My faith in humanity is already so low. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 01:32 PM |
| 54 | Not this pick me again 🙄That's what I'm saying. Her Twitter is full of attention seeking garbage like this🤦🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 06:15 AM |
| 7 | Anyone else have this view on having children?I do. I dont see a point in bringing a child into this world. It's not a great place to be, and I feel like people just do it cause other people are doing it, not necessarily because they want to raise a child. I think adoption is a better option. I'm childfree, but if I werent, I still wouldnt have a biological child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 03:48 AM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 20 2020I love this. Imma use it. It's not supposed to be fun. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 03:44 AM |
| 4 | Single dads are not more attractiveMen are....unbelievable | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 03:23 AM |
| 28 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 20 2020I just got called the "wrong type of feminist" by a pickme lol. By right type of feminism, they are referring to the type that doesn't make men upset. Cause it's not gender equality unless men approve 🤷🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 02:41 AM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 20 2020War of Hormone is a mess. People are still convinced that BTS arent misogynistic. The society they grew up in and the industry they are a part of is cruel to girls, and they didnt "apologize" for the lyrics until they were called out on it. I dont know how fans managed to convince themselves that they are woke feminists. It's all for show. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 02:38 AM |
| 4 | She had me in the first half...Imagine being forced to fight for a relationship when he messed up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 07:16 AM |
| 5 | Husband resentful he has to care for his own child, uses abusive tactics to punish wife. But guess who's TASometimes I have to stop myself from going on that sub, cause the comments always make me lose faith in humanity. Its filled with people who either lack empathy, are pickmes, or have never been in a relationship so they give advice based on shit they see in movies, cause they think life is a movie, and for that reason, they will never get over the idea of a woman daring to demand some sort of respect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 06:34 AM |
| 85 | Single dads are not more attractiveThey just want to convince young, never married, childless women to take on even more labor in a relationship so he doesnt have to unpack and sort through any of his baggage. Instead of expecting single dads to get their lives in order, you instead make them seem desirable so they dont have to do any work. They are LV to me, not because they are dads, cause that would be crazy, but because it's too much baggage and I refuse to be a stepmom. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 06:30 AM |
| 1 | I feel like I wanna throw up 🤢Maybe it doesnt say that women have to sit on the floor, but their inferior status is implied everywhere. A man is allowed to beat his wife if she disobeys him for ffs. I've been a Muslim, so I know how far a Muslim will go to justify the unjustifiable. They will do 1 million mental backflips if they have to. Mohammed married a child and raped her (cause you dont have sex with a child and not call it rape). So what if the man has to pay for everything? Is that really such an advantage to you? Th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 12:52 AM |
| 6 | I feel like I wanna throw up 🤢Thank you💕💕💕 While I wasnt exactly forced to become a sister wife, I was terrified that I was heading in that direction. It was really hard to try to rationalize a husband doing that to his wife, and I just couldnt make any excuses anymore. Theres no excuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 03:03 PM |
| 19 | I feel like I wanna throw up 🤢Exactly why I left that religion. Shes just trying to cope with the fact that she doesnt actually want this, and cant prevent him from doing it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 12:35 PM |
| 27 | I feel like I wanna throw up 🤢Are you serious? Islam is misogynistic. It's the most misogynistic religion out there. Didnt think we would be promoting this shit on here. I thought we could see past the brainwashing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 12:27 PM |
| 8 | Don’t worry about a man who doesn’t appreciate your value.Honestly, I think "let it the fuck go" is something I should start following. Been caring too much lately 💆🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 12:20 PM |
| 9 | Some women will risk their own health just so they would satisfy their LVM dirty fantasiesAlso stuff like "I usually like girls with __ hair, but you're still cute", or "you're pretty for a __ girl" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 07:42 AM |
| 6 | Some women will risk their own health just so they would satisfy their LVM dirty fantasiesIt's sad. I do that sometimes. Trying to convince myself that a less than okay situation is okay because I think I don't deserve/am scared of being in a relationship that makes me happy. A form of self sabotage. I hope she snaps out of it. Its just pick me behavior to the extreme. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 04:57 AM |
| 13 | Yikes. It’s true ladies - don’t let him know how you’re feeling. If he knows you’re interested, he will also know that you’ll accept rock bottom treatment for his attention. Not me 👋Not even his pp. It would go soft at the mere sight of him🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 06:02 AM |
| 9 | Thanks FDS... for letting me see relationships in another level. Can't even watch TV without easily being able to label HVM and LVM aka boys.Yep. Same thing happened to me. I will never put men on a pedestal ever again. I dont care how desired he is or how handsome he is, if he ain't shit he ain't shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 08:30 AM |
| 26 | Just think of the relief the ex wife must feel. How utterly embarrassing for everyone involved.I dont usually support disowning children, but I think it's okay to do so in this case 🤦♀️ An actual roach | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 08:15 AM |
| 3 | Men who cry wolf really irritate me - if you want therapy seek it but don’t compare it to “therapy is for women”.Ugh I read this earlier today and wanted to comment "what's stopping you" so bad, but I was scared of being attacked. Hes so pathetic, blaming women for his problems. Literally who tf is stopping him? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 04:48 AM |
| 58 | Being gaslit and manipulated so much that your SO talking about murdering you doesn’t look like a 🚩Hopefully she does. It's too common tho, for women to believe that their relationship problems have nothing to do with the character of their partner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 04:36 AM |
| 174 | Being gaslit and manipulated so much that your SO talking about murdering you doesn’t look like a 🚩Of course she has to start it with "we have a great relationship" so that people don't tell her to leave him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 04:18 AM |
| 6 | Imagine if he'd spent all that time and energy on any other hobby or even cultivating relationships with other humans... what a wasteGross | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 07:55 AM |
| 5 | Ain’t that the truth 💅🏻Same. My skin gets clearer and brighter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 11:32 AM |
| 2 | 🤪 Come check out our sub for posting all of the trolls and dragging them! 😂I would like an approval as well 🙋♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 08:01 AM |
| 2 | At least animals don’t fake love 😂🤷🏻♀️Oh yeah I heard of that version! It surprised me that most Disney fairytales have disturbing origins. Disney managed to turn all of them into such fluffy stories with happy endings that you would think they told the tale how it was originally. All the princes, in both Disney and the original story, have weird behavior tho. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 07:14 AM |
| 3 | Man tells girlfriend to run $400 worth of errands then refuses to pay her. She doesn't want advice on the boyfriend.Ugh of course she has to let people know that she wont accept criticism of her bf. She found a way to air out her frustrations about what her bf made her do and making it seem like it's about the "stuff". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 06:56 PM |
| 7 | Why do men expect conventionally unattractive women to be less confident?They think every woman should be unconfident. The attractive ones cause they want them, and can't have them dare to stand up for themselves or have standards, and the unattractive ones cause women aren't allowed to think they are worth anything if a guy doesn't want them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 05:34 AM |
| 22 | At least animals don’t fake love 😂🤷🏻♀️Ikr. Plus, he didn't even bother going to the people's houses to even verify their faces. Laziness. That's like me giving my friend a jacket of a guy I met at a bar and talked to for five minutes and then telling my friend to bring back the first dusty she sees who fits it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 03:37 AM |
| 8 | One step closer!!! Pornhub has removed over 10 million videos from unverified users due to Mastercard and Visa cutting ties with the site. Don't forget how many YEARS these corporations made money off exploitation.It's definitely a step in the right direction. What I don't like is them pretending like they never realized the problem until now. They knew the whole time. That's why it doesn't feel like any change is happening. The real dream situation would be people start resisting porn completely. I'm afraid of the reaction of the scrotes if porn gets shut down though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 09:48 PM |
| 62 | I thought this was perfect for us 😉I MeAn I pReFeR bLoNdEs BuT ShE's oKAY I gUeSS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 09:44 PM |
| 10 | “Why aren’t my OLD matches comforting me over my ex’s death??”Facts. Not lighting myself on fire to keep him warm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 06:38 AM |
| 13 | “Why aren’t my OLD matches comforting me over my ex’s death??”Yeah I set that standard too. I struggle with feeling mean for it though. But it's not my problem. I just don't want to put myself in a position to be compared or feel like a warm body used to make up for somebody's absence. There's a reason why 70-80 percent of widower remarriage ends in divorce, for this reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 06:26 AM |
| 18 | “Why aren’t my OLD matches comforting me over my ex’s death??”Seeing stuff from the perspectives of the people with dead exes made me disappointed. None of them feel the need to heal or respect their current partner, and have no problem wasting their time or making the relationship a relationship of 3. Subreddits arent usually kind to the current partner either. Always gaslighted very harshly and handed the "insecure" card. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 06:10 AM |
| 4 | Ain't that the truth💁♀️I don't see what he was trying to do with that dumb comment. All I got from it was that girls are capable of empathy, own their feelings, and are kind to others. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 04:50 AM |
| 7 | Women of color do not exist as a commodity to live out a fantasy. How far does someone's head have to be up their own ass to think that fetishizing someone is the same as complimenting them?Facts. I especially hate it when men say things like "I actually really like girls from <my race> or that have <my skin tone>" like it's a compliment and I should feel flattered. I used to feel flattered when I hated myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 04:49 AM |
| 127 | "Don't worry, I love men with a little meat on their bones", "Real men have abs", "I think we all know how he got that promotion", "Shh, sweetie, the women are talking.""You're funny for a guy" "Does he have a big ass tho" "Men can't drive" "When are you getting married? You don't want to HiT tHe WaLL, otherwise you'll be single forever" "And then this bitch..." "You're so cute when you're mad" (I'm legit scared to say this to a man, knowing fully well that they are NOT cute when they're mad) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 04:36 AM |
| 46 | i felt this one deep within my soulYep. 99% of men I have talked to. Enough audacity to power a rocket. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 03:24 AM |
| 26 | Men aren't heroes for doing their parenting role.I'm sick of this honestly. I've seen countless reddit posts, especially on AITA, by mothers and fathers, and what I noticed is that dads always get praised for being "amazing dads" for doing what they should be doing, while nobody talks about the mom and she is judged much more harshly for the problem they have. Nobody ever says "you're such a good mom". Tiktok dads get endless praise for loving their child too. Dads can start a whole career out of loving their child. Like it wasn't even expecte… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 07:47 PM |
| 7 | Decluttering Marie Kondo Style...Facts. Also, I feel like your family dynamics can prevent you from leaving even if you're unhappy. Like in my case, I've been conditioned to associate mistreatment and people ignoring my feelings as love, so it's kind of hard to know whether someones intentions for me are pure or not. I get attached so easily to people who give me stress. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 08:30 AM |
| 16 | Decluttering Marie Kondo Style...Omggggg! I totally use the "does this spark joy" thing when it comes to relationships. It's nice cause it makes things very simple. If it causes you unhappiness, let it go. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 04:47 AM |
| 49 | Ladies, what are your thoughts on marriage in 2020? Will it ever be equal/worth it?I think men benefit more from it. But they try to gaslight women by saying that their relationship problems have to do with their inability to please their man or their "too high" standards. They have found a way to make women compromise their values and feelings in order to get married, while men benefit from it, while still convincing women that this is what they want. Problem is now, people are committed to wasting each other's time. It's all about sex. People want to find out ways to get it … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 01:51 AM |
| 3 | I have no words.Oh I hope his dick gets in something warm. Like a volcano. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 09:30 AM |
| 12 | Thank goodness men are around to give their unsolicited approval /sWow. I never realized how sexist that comment actually is. I've seen it a lot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 11:28 PM |
| 26 | 🙄 How to be a ‘cool girl’. As dictated by men.The only reason he posted that is so a girl can say "I have all those things!!". Just to attract the pickmeisha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 03:53 AM |
| 8 | 100% AGREED!! Older men dating 18 year olds SHOULD NOT be legal!Nice to see someone with his head screwed on right | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 03:30 PM |
| 27 | Things I don’t Debate with men7)Literally any choice I make. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 07:14 AM |
| 12 | FDS Isn't a Hate Sub, We're An Angry SubIt was my anger that lead me to this sub, and freed me from a lot of things like religion and my family's toxic behavior. Being sad instead of angry just makes it easier for you to get manipulated. The person who made that quote "don't fight hate with hate" and people who try to push it on others are self-righteous pricks. Acting like their unwillingness to do anything to better their lives is something to aspire to. To me, it's nothing but a way to drag people to their level. I hate that nowada… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 02:12 AM |
| 3 | Ugh. How do you avoid people like this who keep you as an option? Audacity is all he has. His poor girlYeah cause she doesn't want to believe that his intentions are actually shit. Rather assume that the other girl did something to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 09:23 PM |
| 2 | Ugh. How do you avoid people like this who keep you as an option? Audacity is all he has. His poor girlOmg 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 08:34 PM |
| 82 | Do most men even know what love is?I'm starting to think they just throw that word around to manipulate people. When women love, they are all in with that person. They care about them and put so much effort into the relationship. They don't just wake up one day and decide they love someone else. We think that love and care go hand in hand. As for men, a girl fills in the role they are looking for, so they "love" her, but she can be easily changed for someone else and suddenly they claim to love this other person. All they do is t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 07:34 PM |
| 3 | In response to the post about whether or not LVM cause monthly cycle disturbances. Explanation in description 😖Hhhhhhh why do men? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Ugh. How do you avoid people like this who keep you as an option? Audacity is all he has. His poor girlIt was actually someone else. I realllly hope this guy gets hit hard by karma for wasting his gf's time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 05:32 PM |
| 32 | Seriously disgusting. And I left his name visible, as he is a public figure and has an entire page dedicated to this nonsense. 🤬Teens? TEENS?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 08:49 AM |
| 3 | Ugh. How do you avoid people like this who keep you as an option? Audacity is all he has. His poor girlIt's actually not me, but I'm hoping she told her since she took a screenshot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 06:21 AM |
| 82 | Ugh. How do you avoid people like this who keep you as an option? Audacity is all he has. His poor girlThat's true. She might even get mad at the ex for telling her, cause that's what pick mes do. I really hope hes been putting on an act so she can leave when she finds out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 05:46 AM |
| 8 | As women, we need to start decentering men and refocusing on ourselves and the other incredible women in our lives.Absolutely. Always love women more. That means not being with the guy leaving his partner for you. Or hating on other women's accomplishments, or valuing sons over daughters. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 03:32 AM |
| 6 | PICKME gives women a piece of her mind.Lol wait till she gets cheated on by her "king". Wtf is a king if he can't even pay for your meals. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 03:11 AM |
| 27 | Ugh. How do you avoid people like this who keep you as an option? Audacity is all he has. His poor girlIt really is. I guess we gotta vet continuously. But how can we make sure they wont hide their other face for too long? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 03:00 AM |
| 146 | Ugh. How do you avoid people like this who keep you as an option? Audacity is all he has. His poor girlIt's unbelievable. You would think that if you are going to propose to someone then you must love them deeply, but I guess not. He's perfectly fine stringing her along. Given that he's content with himself acting this way, I'm sure that his gf puts up with a lot. I highly doubt a dumbass like him can put on an act. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 02:15 AM |
| 552 | Ugh. How do you avoid people like this who keep you as an option? Audacity is all he has. His poor girlI hope she did tell her. Not even a trace of humanity in his words. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 01:49 AM |
| 11 | A lot of TV completely unwatchable after FDSI think so too. Nobody is pushing them to be better, and now the burden is on the women to bring something to the table. Yet men still have the audacity to ask for more than they can give (and they dont even give, they just take). Like in my case, my mom is always pushing me to study hard, look presentable, cook and clean, become the breadwinner, and be nice and polite at all times, with no care for my wellbeing. I was always told stuff like "you have to be this way before you get married", caus… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 01:36 AM |
| 17 | A lot of TV completely unwatchable after FDSI have yet to find one tbh. All the shows I used to watch and still watch sometimes, I watch with a new perspective and newfound disgust at all the toxic relationships. Shows like Pretty Little Liars, Friends and Glee are just filled with NVM and pickmes. Even Disney channel shows I would watch when I was a kid brainwashes women to become pickmes. They seem wholesome but they're not. The guy is always someone the girls have to strive to impress, and the girl almost always sacrifices her sense of… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 10:08 PM |
| 29 | Why can’t reddit just let teen girls enjoy things??? Without constantly shitting on them??The same culture that started the whole concept of "basic bitch", shitting on a girl for being ordinary, not even doing anything bad, just being normal. And their definition of this normal which is supposed to be bad is...owning an iPhone? Drinking pumpkin spice latte? Wtf? I don't even know how that started. I guarantee a guy just saw a girl enjoying her life minding her own business, and had a huge problem with it. Just another way to get girls to hate themselves and strive to impress others. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 05:04 PM |
| 7 | I LOVE these Solfa dating videos! (just for fun). What would be your 10 questions that you would ask to eliminate people?Ik 😭. It's frustrating. Not compromising under any circumstance tho | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 08:00 PM |
| 27 | I LOVE these Solfa dating videos! (just for fun). What would be your 10 questions that you would ask to eliminate people?Mine would be.... -do you want kids? If you do please leave -into BDSM, leave -watch porn, leave -im not religious -im also monogamous -if you have kids already leave -do you smoke/do drugs? If so then leave -marriage minded? -older/younger than a certain age Cant really think of 10 rn 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 06:33 PM |
| 4 | ThisNobody knows how to spoil a woman like a woman. Plus, you'd have absolutely no problem doing it, cause you know that women would appreciate and reciprocate it, and don't have some kind of cruel game they're playing secretly. You don't have to keep your guard up either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 02:36 PM |
| 4 | Looks like Jeannie Mai is about to take a huge L.Yeah they praise men for doing the bare minimum a lot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 08:23 AM |
| 5 | Looks like Jeannie Mai is about to take a huge L.I really don't understand her. I used to listen to her advice cause she looked like she really knew what she was talking about. She's the epitome of the pretentious woke type. She admitted herself that she liked the "thug" type. So she's not looking for someone with good character. Honestly, let her dig her own grave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 02:49 AM |
| 5 | Things My 86 Year Old Mother Says About Men and RelationshipsMakes sense. It all comes down to parenting. But the lack of good parenting for boys is a society problem. Damn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 02:43 AM |
| 9 | Looks like Jeannie Mai is about to take a huge L.She even admitted to cheating in relationships herself. In every discussion that involves cheating shes always the first to defend it. They're all pickmes tbh. Jeannie was a side chick at one point and Tamera had to beg for a proposal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 02:38 AM |
| 5 | Things My 86 Year Old Mother Says About Men and RelationshipsSo instead of the firstborn do you date the youngest? Cause I find that the middle child boys and the oldest boys are always entitled, mean spirited and lazy. All the firstborn girls are overwhelmed from all the expectations and responsibilities and lack of respect (me and my cousin basically, and our middle child brothers are the same kind of people, entitled and rude). The one boy I know who is the youngest is a high achiever, nice to be around and not entitled. But is that common among younge… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Anyone read this sub and get completely disgusted by romance movies now?I can't really watch romance movies anymore either. I used to watch them to make up for the lack of romance in my life. Now I can't help but criticize most of them. Which I don't mind, cause I'm grateful that FDS taught me to question anything accepted as "normal" or "desirable" by society. The one thing I hate is that they try to make it seem like being a pick me will get the guy to chase you in the end. Even though, yes, the guy is head over heels in love with the girl, that stuff just doesn't… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 12:08 AM |
| 5 | All in a Day's WorkShe needs to take care of things, be the one to endure and forgive and "look past" things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 06:47 PM |
| 13 | Scrote wonders “what if” he left his wife for ONS 🤦🏻♀️Even if he "understood the other side" of things and didnt cheat on her, I would be horrified to know that not only can my partner see a life without me, but also for this stupid stupid reason. Just goes to show how much he doesnt value her. If he can trade her not even for better sex, but just sex with a different girl. Wtf. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 06:43 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 3 2020I really hope so. It's extra hard when the thing that is damaging my soul and my spirit is the expectations of society to just carry all the burdens. Trying to look in myself for validation when 90% of the world seems to be against that is so hard. Takes a lot of introspection and strength but it's worth it when you get to the point where don't let anyone, and especially not a partner, try to break your spirit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 09:03 PM |
| 27 | Weird vetting tip: Do not let him take you on a date to a chain restaurantI never thought about this. Now that I think about it, when my family wants someone to suggest a restaurant to eat at, if we dont know what to pick/too lazy to look up nice places, we just suggest chain restaurants like nandos or cheesecake factory to avoid having to think. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 08:31 PM |
| 27 | Ladies, I present you LV Potpourri - a mix of different flavors of pickme/LVM dynamic, all put together into one convenient package!An actual sociopath. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 07:53 PM |
| 7 | ProjectionAlso the war. You know, the thing that started cause men are tHe LoGiCaL sEx. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 07:50 PM |
| 33 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 3 2020They really are. They can also murder your soul if that's possible. Like you could be he most confident and happy person, but then a guy makes it his mission to drag you to the depths of hell. You come out the relationship unrecognisable from your old self, and that's what terrifies me the most. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 07:49 PM |
| 4 | For any women out there that has been disrespected by their partner in a heartless way. Leave. Even if it’s the first time.Thank you :)) It's so true that we are taught that struggling for love is normal. Women are expected to endure everything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 02:43 AM |
| 7 | For any women out there that has been disrespected by their partner in a heartless way. Leave. Even if it’s the first time.I really hope I can stop being attracted to those kind of guys. I always explain my feelings too much and adjust myself to other peoples expectations and it's like I'm fighting a battle to be heard and understood all the time, rather than surrounding myself with people who respect me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 02:27 AM |
| 9 | For any women out there that has been disrespected by their partner in a heartless way. Leave. Even if it’s the first time.Thank you! Will definitely read it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 10:03 PM |
| 36 | For any women out there that has been disrespected by their partner in a heartless way. Leave. Even if it’s the first time.It seems easy enough, but what do you do about guys that are considered "good" by everyone but make you feel so unlovable and worthless? Like you know you're not happy with him but because you seem to be the only one who feels what he's doing is wrong so you stay to not be the "wrong" or "insecure" one. Sometimes the feeling of isolation makes the obvious thing to do seem not so obvious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 08:15 PM |
| 2 | I'll just be single then lolLol he's saying the word "deserve" as if being single is a bad thing. Sounds like someone got rejected. I love how he's telling the girls to make the first move cause "if you like someone make the first move instead of waiting", but he doesn't put that standard on the men cause he doesn't want to have to prove himself. The hypocrisy. Problem is there are girls who would try to prove themselves, the pick mes, but men don't want them, they want the ones that don't approach them so they're annoyed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 07:48 PM |
| 10 | If you got a dick pic, it's your fault. Remember!I'm tempted to just be mean to every man I meet. This is what being nice or polite got me. Called me, when I was underaged, a "naughty girl" cause I decided to be polite, and then claimed I had to do something about his boner. Then sent the pic which was disgusting. Pornsick loser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 10:45 PM |
| 2 | If you got a dick pic, it's your fault. Remember!I received a dick pick when I was 15. Didn't even know it was a thing, and it was from a complete stranger. How tf is that my fault? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 10:41 PM |
| 7 | How was your experience dating/marrying Engineers?Nah I would say they're pretty arrogant. Also many of them lack social skills. Where I go to school, the ones that get high grades are full of themselves and the ones that are just there cause their families pressured them have social anxiety. Nobody particularly unkind though. Wouldn't say its infested with lvm either. That would be the case for philosophy majors though. Source: engineering major | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 09:16 PM |
| 3 | Friend has LVM ex, should i not be their friend?If you don't want to be around her, don't. You dont need any reason not to be someones friend. It seems like she's really draining. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 09:13 PM |
| 26 | Just sharing this set of reminders. :)Yeah I didn't like number 6 either. It was really negative. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 05:39 PM |
| 15 | Ladies, this is why we stay away from older men.I don't think so. Not when you're 60 and 70 at least. Cause you're in a similar stage in life. Unlike a 30 and 20 year old who really have no business being together. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 10:22 PM |
| 5 | Why are women expected to change for men?This is why the whole idea of a guy changing is sold as a fantasy in movies. Because it is not a real thing. Women do change for men all the time. It's not unknown or unheard of. You never hear things like "you can't change her". Cause that would infuriate men. But we hear things about not expecting a man to change all the time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 08:29 PM |
| 25 | Imagine if every male on earth suddenly vanished ...Many women who would be released from abusive marriages they can't leave. I can go anywhere I want, and study anywhere without my parents being extra about it. It's frustrating, I'm grown but treated like more of a child than my brother who is a minor. Literally just because men exist. LGBT might feel safer. Not being talked down to in even the most blah blah conversations. No more expectation of becoming a baby factory. No more things like "female doctor" or "female ceo" or "female lawyer". No … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 08:14 PM |
| 5 | The amount of girls who admitted this is basically their boyfriend is embarassingAnd actually satisfies you in some way (hunger) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 05:50 PM |
| 40 | They fail to see the irony that that is the most Logical and rational way of actually doing it. No blood shed no killing. If you disagree with a country you just move on. That's literally the goal to world peace! Yet they think it's laughable #menarethelogicalonesmyassHis jokes about women aren't clever at all, and reeks of "nice guy" bs. It's clear from the way he talks that he has no sense of accountability. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 10:03 PM |
| 54 | Anyone else annoyed that the average man is straight up ugly?Yes omg. I guess that's why people put attractive men on a pedestal. Cause most of them aren't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 06:31 PM |
| 14 | Your egg is chasing a sperm KM 🤡🤡This so much. They be doing that with no remorse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 05:58 PM |
| 6 | May be FDS or may be that after I saw myself in a picture with my “hot” crush I was more attractive... either way, even hot men are meh now.It really was a blessing. Before that I thought that the "spark" you felt was some kind of sign that you are meant to be, even if the guy is trash. I thought it was the universe telling me he was special. But it's nothing but chemicals. Compatibility first, before anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 05:39 PM |
| 85 | Your egg is chasing a sperm KM 🤡🤡Make HIM carry the child. Have HIM spend lots of time on his appearance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 02:19 PM |
| 13 | Oof.So he hates her. Imagine being this much of an asshole when your girlfriend wants to spend time with you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 05:53 AM |
| 57 | I’m glad more and more women are being more aware of how 50/50 is a mythIts always the dusty guys who have the most audacity 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 03:33 AM |
| 46 | May be FDS or may be that after I saw myself in a picture with my “hot” crush I was more attractive... either way, even hot men are meh now.Definitely. I can count on one hand how many guys I've been attracted to in real life. And it's gotten worse since FDS. Now I don't crush on anybody. Even if they are hot. Cause LVM behavior is LVM behavior, and it's ugly. Also realizing how misogynistic our society really is. I'm as dry as a desert. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 01:38 AM |
| 106 | I’m glad more and more women are being more aware of how 50/50 is a mythI can see this guy's profile pic. He has a woman. I feel so bad for her. 50/50 is some bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 12:41 AM |
| 21 | I have a feeling it wasn’t her idea...When men say wife or the wife it's like they don't even like their partner. It reminds me of those petty fights I would have with my siblings when we refuse to refer to each other by our names and just say "her" or "him" or even "that". We could say each other's names but we were too petty and prideful. It's like when men say female instead of woman or girl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 08:43 PM |
| 9 | Why do some men IMMEDIATELY go for a woman’s looks when they’re insulting womenCause they think we value ourselves in the same way they "value" women. If they insult our looks, what else do we have to show for ourselves? /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 12:42 PM |
| 47 | There's a worrying amount of posts where the woman has no idea she deserves respect and bodily autonomy...Literally everything he did just shows he's pornsick. It's porn. It's so frustrating. I don't get how she still calls him her bf after all that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 12:40 PM |
| 3 | Men suck sometimes lolI KNOW!! I don't get it either. Unless it costs 3 million dollars I don't get why this is even a thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 12:38 PM |
| 3 | Understanding the female dating double bind in a new way and pissed about itI totally get it. Also it drives me crazy when people say you need to "find" love as if there is only one kind and you don't have it unless you are with a man. I also don't want to hide my vulnerable side and be unavailable just so a man can chase me. If this guy is so great, why can't I comfortably be myself and not worry that he will get bored and leave? I reached a decent level of self love, but I also ended up giving up on relationships completely. That's just me though. I just don't see it … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 12:25 PM |
| 4 | Exhibit #59269428 proving men are unable to handle rejection 😂Wtf that's so disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 12:07 PM |
| 4 | How Are You Happier (Even If Single) After FDS & How Has FDS Short&Long-Term Changed Your Life?5000x happier. I never wanted to be in a relationship, and now I am more comfortable with that decision because I stopped seeing men as these perfect beings we have to impress and base our worth on their acceptance of us. I am easily manipulated, so I bought into the mainstream ideals of relationships and sex. I had no boundaries and wanted to be as much of a "nice" girl as possible. I was also a giant pick-me. One thing this sub has taught me that definitely has had a long term effect on me was… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 08:00 PM |
| 2 | HE SPAT ON HER DOG... why do scrotes think they can 1) talk to someone who isn’t open to talking and 2) harass an animalI would cry if that happened. Both out of concern for the dog and the sociopath behavior of the guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 03:14 AM |
| 38 | Quick Survey - How Did You All Find FDS?I found it on some relationship advice post from some dude asking what he should do about his partner who he found out joined FDS. I had to see what all this "toxicity" was about and I couldn't find anything. Just truth, and facts, and the light that woke me up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 07:37 PM |
| 4 | Low brow humor... haha woman fart, so funny 🙄 A hvm wouldn’t do shit like this.Ugh the thing I would want to happen is for him to just shrug it off and forget about it. This takes laughing at her to the next level. I absolutely hate it when people want to take something small and turn it into this big embarrassing thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 04:19 PM |
| 7 | YesI approve this message 🙋♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 01:38 AM |
| 38 | Guys Who Quote Divorce Statistics are the definition of “Glass Half Empty” thinkers. 45% of marriages ending in divorce means 55% of marriages don’t. And all divorces are not terrible.Divorces are because of people. Anyone who uses divorce statistics as an excuse to hate marriage don't have a sense of accountability. It's not a game of luck. Its not like divorce just falls on any random couple at any time. Their relationship didn't work out. It's entirely up to the people in the marriage. I think there are a lot of people who should divorce. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 01:49 PM |
| 47 | Stop calling Jason Momoa a HVM. He's lowest of the LVMS.Thank you 🙄 Tired of people praising him just for being attracted to his wife. Thats some bare minimum shit. The rape comment made me delete any thought of him having any value at all. Such a psychopath with no empathy if he can make that sort of comment without thinking twice. He also seems to have no boundaries with other women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 01:42 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered November 9 2020I think it's codependency. It's honestly exhausting to put everyone but yourself first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 02:36 AM |
| 11 | This isn't "being the asshole," it's a power move!Omg he told on her🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 12:29 PM |
| 59 | Umm, no. She's not attracting anything. He's just a pervert. So sick of media making women's appearances the problem.The comments on the golden globes vid are atrocious. It just made me realise that having a lot of likes on something means absolutely nothing. They're mocking women for the sexual harrassment they experience by either trivialising it or acting like most of them are lying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 12:22 PM |
| 3 | Post all the high-value stuff you have ever experienced from any manI've experienced it from my grandfather. He's the only dad I know out of the men in his generation who isn't cruel to his daughters. Not just that, he dotes on them and protects them. Treats them equally to his sons, which is very rare where I come from. My mom, despite being married someone who doesn't give a shit, has a man she can count on. I was raised in a religion that requires a man to pay a "bride price" at the time of marriage. I always hated that idea. A woman can't divorce a man unles… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 03:47 AM |
| 17 | Does anyone else get triggered from casual sex scenes in movies/TV shows?I get upset from them mainly because of how unethically they go about it most of the time. Always involves some sort of coercion or cheating. It made me see sex as something that harms another person either physically or emotionally. I'm sorry for what you went through 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 03:40 AM |
| 18 | His wife is for working extra hard since the pandemic, so he decides to support her by quitting his job and living off her income so he can spend an hour or two cleaning up, cooking, and making her a cup of coffee??? What is he doing the other 38 h a week instead of working?The fact that he thinks its enough to just "support" her and he doesn't think he should be working is just... Like he still thinks that everything she is doing is her job. But he can sit back and support. But he thinks spouting out a bunch of cheese about how "proud" he is of her is good enough. Being proud doesn't pay the bills. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 11:11 PM |
| 3 | There is no such thing as closure. Don’t waste any more time, Queens, and kick him to the curb!That's so awful. I hope she snaps out of it. That's why I don't put men on a pedestal. Either I'm happy with him or I'm not. They don't deserve anything just for being. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 09:17 PM |
| 92 | There is no such thing as closure. Don’t waste any more time, Queens, and kick him to the curb!Even so-called "good" guys will waste your time if you don't assert yourself. Why would they break up with someone they can use with no consequence? The fact that men rarely break up with women is just proof that most of the emotional labor falls on the woman. Even if they find someone else they don't leave. They just wait for her to find out like the cowards they are. Cause they still benefit from using their partners. They will keeping using her while being with their side piece, forever if th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 08:15 PM |
| 2 | She did this for free?!🤢🤢🤢Is that guy not...Embarrassed? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 04:30 PM |
| 37 | Women hit a wall..??!Same. Doesn't help that he's a major creep in real life. We really have to be careful not to put pretty boys on a pedestal 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 04:24 PM |
| 11 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered November 9 2020I find myself trying to earn love from men that I am not compatible with at all, because I put them on a pedestal and I haven't fully recovered from that phase of my life yet. It's very easy for me to feel guity or bad for my feelings, so sometimes I panic and slip back into my pick me ways to avoid being more assertive, even though it feels so much better when I am. I rarely think about what it would be like with someone who is compatible with me, I only think about being stuck with someone who… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 10:29 PM |
| 7 | I love this creator.Lmao 🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 03:50 PM |
| 15 | I've thought about this for long timeThe second one really speaks to me. When someone says they will stay single, people will ask them "why do you hate love" or "why don't you want love in your life" as if romantic love is the only kind there is. What about the love people have for their family, friends and kids and pets? I'd argue that romance is the worst kind of love. It has the ability to cause so much pain and you have to be so careful. But love for your kids and your pets is so simple and pure, and you feel happy sharing it w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 03:45 PM |
| 8 | This women says feminists don’t speak for her. Not saying being a housewife is bad but she gives off pick me vibes 😓Me too 🙋♀️🙋♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 04:06 PM |
| 3 | Ultimate pickmeisha move - proposing to your boyfriend with a watchGross | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 11:46 PM |
| 4 | Been in this type of relationship before, doesn’t end well.This is why I will never be with someone with a dead ex. It's the pedestal that bugs me. I've heard countless horror stories. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 11:39 PM |
| 31 | 💅Same. I couldn't imagine agreeing to see my kids only on the weekends after I birthed them and probably did most or all of the caring(don't have kids but I know I would be furious). They don't exist but I already love them too much to give them up without a fight. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 02:34 PM |
| 18 | The majority of the comments used her mental illness against her and barely anyone told her to be careful. They jumped straight to making excuses for hin. If its a joke, it's not funny at all. There are better ways to spend your time. Yeah...I'm scared of men.For their murders, rapes, harassment, aborting, not aborting, being hit. We just can't win. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 08:59 PM |
| 43 | The majority of the comments used her mental illness against her and barely anyone told her to be careful. They jumped straight to making excuses for hin. If its a joke, it's not funny at all. There are better ways to spend your time. Yeah...I'm scared of men.Istg. Men are never joking. They just say what they are thinking, and if the feedback is negative, they play it off as a "joke". An extremely unfunny one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 08:33 PM |
| 22 | The majority of the comments used her mental illness against her and barely anyone told her to be careful. They jumped straight to making excuses for hin. If its a joke, it's not funny at all. There are better ways to spend your time. Yeah...I'm scared of men.I'm convinced they hate their partners. Refusing to stop doing certain things that bug them(that have no effect on their life) out of pure spite. Like just say you hate your partner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 08:06 PM |
| 9 | Not "questionable age differences", but a list of pedophiles...I can't believe that Woody Allen hasn't been cancelled or arrested to this day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 06:53 PM |
| 60 | The majority of the comments used her mental illness against her and barely anyone told her to be careful. They jumped straight to making excuses for hin. If its a joke, it's not funny at all. There are better ways to spend your time. Yeah...I'm scared of men.All the time. If a man acts distant, he might be "depressed" and she needs to cOmMunIcaTe, but if she is less enthusiastic than normal, she's cheating and he needs to kick her out. And if they believe she has depression, he should leave her so as to not burden himself with her problems, but she should support him and stick by him if he is mentally ill. This kind of stuff went over my head before FDS. That sub is messed up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 06:43 PM |
| 71 | The majority of the comments used her mental illness against her and barely anyone told her to be careful. They jumped straight to making excuses for hin. If its a joke, it's not funny at all. There are better ways to spend your time. Yeah...I'm scared of men.Yep, cause reddit hates women. They will pull the "you're crazy" card no matter what. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 06:33 PM |
| 35 | The majority of the comments used her mental illness against her and barely anyone told her to be careful. They jumped straight to making excuses for hin. If its a joke, it's not funny at all. There are better ways to spend your time. Yeah...I'm scared of men.Acually she's older than him by that much, but I wouldn't date a guy that much younger anyway. He's a POS and a child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 06:31 PM |
| 197 | The majority of the comments used her mental illness against her and barely anyone told her to be careful. They jumped straight to making excuses for hin. If its a joke, it's not funny at all. There are better ways to spend your time. Yeah...I'm scared of men.This is a reason why I think its better to have the mentality of assuming he's a POS until proven otherwise. There is no benefit to giving people the benefit of the doubt because at worse you could be killed, and at best you have someone with a fucked up sense of humor. Both are terrible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 06:21 PM |
| 13 | Scrote on r/divorce is surprised his wife left him when she caught him watching porn. He refers to women as "random sluts" and thinks his wife should be fine with his porn use since she's hot."Blonde bombshell even after three kids" followed by "literal trophy wife". Ew. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 04:10 AM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered November 1 2020Yeah I haven't dated either. I'm only 20. I just feel like there are certian kinds of pain I will definitely be safe from if I stay single. I don't really feel comfortable with the idea of sharing a room, let alone a house with a man either. Even thinking about dating takes away my peace. I feel like the chemicals are a trap I should avoid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 03:15 AM |
| 14 | Is this romantic or cheap?When you're exclusive I think it's fine, but not for a first date, and it shouldn't be the woman packing all the food/drinks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 01:42 AM |
| 7 | He does not respect you or your time. And is so happy about your pickme reaction to his disrespect that he brags about itWho the hell wasted their money on an award for this guy? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 01:38 AM |
| 12 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered November 1 2020Me too. I won't ever do it, cause it's too big a risk. There's something really peaceful about never being attached to a man. Since my life has never been tainted by a bad relationship so far, why not continue that? I feel like I will have added 20 years to my lifespan this way. Edit: Some rat pm'ed me offended by my decision to stay single 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 01:06 AM |
| 82 | Someone find this woman and bring her here. What a SCROTE.I don't know why I get the vibe that he is actively trying to not be attracted to her. I know guys like him that have contempt for women who get older. They don't care if they look gorgeous, they will still say they don't, out of pure spite. He is enjoying putting her down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 04:52 PM |
| 7 | Don't make the mistake of believing that men only use women for sex.For real. They don't see a person, they see something that can be done for them. I'd be worried about them even if they are looking for marriage. Some are just looking for a wife, not a woman who will become their wife. They don't see her person. They don't plan on being a good husband though, cause they are too focused on making sure the woman is as good of a wife as possible, cause that's all she is to him. It's all taking and no giving from them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 04:49 PM |
| 5 | Why are women considered controlling for having boundaries?I've been called all these things by narcissistic family members. I now realize how manipulative they were being and even though I've never dated, I'd like to see a guy TRY to call me these words. You also find that people like them use the word "selfish" a lot, to describe someone who demands to be treated with respect. It so insane, that people these days see anything that you do for your benefit as bad. Because its for the self, then it's selfish. They really got it all wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 04:38 PM |
| 8 | How I feel being surrounded by FDS Queens, supporting each other and growing together 👑Same. At first, I was beginning to think that the internet has done nothing but ruin my life and perception of reality, but there is always more information that can help you, and people who share your views. I have found my people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 06:44 PM |
| 18 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered November 1 2020I just really have to point out the difference between me now and me before I discovered this sub. It was like I was being stomped on by something bigger and scarier than me for years and years, and then I finally rose above that thing that was keeping me down and I can see that it actually isn't so big, and I can deal with it easily. Gained so much control and insight. It's liberating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 06:39 PM |
| 172 | Why are women considered controlling for having boundaries?It's just expected of us. People like to throw around the word "insecure" a lot too. They really don't know the meaning of those words. Some particularly audacious people like to claim they are being treated like "property" by their partner because they demanded commitment and respect. It's nuts. If someone told me that I would get so pissed. Like if you don't want to respect my boundaries then go. Nobody is forcing them to do anything. Hating people for being mad rather than hating the person w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 06:23 PM |
| 54 | 🤮 DaDdY iSsUEs HoT 🤮It's also used as an attack on her personality, for some sick twisted reason. Daddy issues are supposed to insult the woman yet the problem is her father who wasn't present in her life or was abusive. And not only is male trauma seen as something to be fixed, it's also expected for the woman to fix it 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 01:06 PM |
| 2 | Scientists discover how to turn women's bone marrow into spermLooks like its over for men 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 02:16 AM |
| 13 | It will be effortlessI don't think they meant that it would be perfect. It's more about compatibility. Not having to explain yourself over and over again because they get it. Disagreements are normal but not losing your hair from stress because you're fundamentally incompatible with someone 🤷♀️ There are certain things I will never fight about, at all. It won't even be a discussion. Not just with a partner, but my family too. My boundaries are set. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 02:54 AM |
| 14 | FDS got me likeIkr he's hot 🤣🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 05:48 PM |
| 38 | It will be effortlessThis is the only way to do it 👏👏👏🙆♀️🙆♀️🙆♀️ Something that should add to your life shouldn't be a challenge. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 05:47 PM |
| 2 | Tell me why you don't chase anyone anymore.Exactly! The egg stays where it is and only the best sperm can reach it. That should mean something. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 04:40 PM |
| 11 | Tell me why you don't chase anyone anymore.I can totally relate to the "not acting on attraction cause it's wiser" thing. I think it's necessary. I've never dated before, and I'm glad I learned never to chase before I even dip my toes into the dating world. I was raised in a religion that forbids dating, so I was trained to get rid of whatever crush I had cause it wasn't gonna happen, so you won't catch me getting into a relationship just because of some chemical high. I was raised to vet before marriage. Compatibility before love. Sex a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 04:56 PM |
| 2 | It’s the colorism, misogyny, ageism,and blatant disrespect for me. Black men are taking a full on L for this one.I honestly wanna cry for black women who are constantly disrespected by both black men and others. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 03:22 AM |
| 48 | You don't owe anyone a chance. You can end an interaction/relationship WITHOUT having to justify your decision.I agree. It just feels sometimes like the world is filled with people who try to tell you why you should give up your energy and peace for someone when you don't feel good doing it. The sense of entitlement is disturbing. Its very incel-like to tell someone that they HAVE to give you a chance. We don't need to have a reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 08:30 PM |
| 6 | Haha... NoNah your criminal record is still important to me. In the past my ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 06:01 PM |
| 11 | Man Sexualizes Other Women And “Gifts” It To WifeSo to him, her value depends on the size of her ass. 🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 06:00 PM |
| 7 | Guys, what’s your opinion on couples pretending to be strangers at a bar/place and then flirting with each other?I mean it's their life but I'm concerned about the mentality. Why are they turned on by cheating? I get pretending to be strangers and then getting together, but pretending to cheat? Thats off putting and they have too much free time imo. I've seen something like this on Gossip Girl. Except even worse than just pretending. The guy flirts with another girl and then the girlfriend comes and fights her pretending to be mad. In this case an innocent woman is being exploited for some dumb kink. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 04:25 AM |
| 6 | Mr. Right vs Mr. Wrong. Feel free to add more points in the commentsMr Wrong tries to negotiate your boundaries. Takes them as light suggestions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 11:54 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: October 16 2020That could work. Before FDS, I really didn't think about the talking stage at all. It's so important its not even funny. Still sounds exhausting though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 06:58 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: October 16 2020That's what I'm saying. I think experience matters to some degree. It's part of who you are and can affect how you treat people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: October 16 2020How can you tell though? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 06:26 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: October 16 2020Happy birthday! Also, I tend to do the same thing when I'm feeling down. While I try not to emotionally eat, I buy myself something tasty after a hard day as a reward for myself. It always makes me feel better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 05:37 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: October 16 2020I want to know how to ask about a guy's past, without going into too much detail, cause I don't want to go into too much detail either. I feel like a person's past matters to some extent. Did they ever cheat on someone? Why did their past relationships end? Did they ever see a prostitute? Are they over their exes? The last one I feel will probably become more apparent over time, but dealing with someone with unresolved feelings for someone else would be a nightmare for me. I don't really care ho… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 05:30 PM |
| 6 | Highlight is 20/20, but once you commit to FDS you have the tools, support, and information you need to learn better to do better. You walk away at the first hint of disrespect and/or entitlement now. But, you'll never forget the pain of learning firsthand how entitled men are. Remain observant...That is scary to think about | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 05:44 PM |
| 8 | This gem straight from Pickme hellOh i thought this vid was new. She's still younger than I thought | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 06:19 AM |
| 28 | Highlight is 20/20, but once you commit to FDS you have the tools, support, and information you need to learn better to do better. You walk away at the first hint of disrespect and/or entitlement now. But, you'll never forget the pain of learning firsthand how entitled men are. Remain observant...Emphasis on the 'fundamentally'. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 04:37 AM |
| 41 | Highlight is 20/20, but once you commit to FDS you have the tools, support, and information you need to learn better to do better. You walk away at the first hint of disrespect and/or entitlement now. But, you'll never forget the pain of learning firsthand how entitled men are. Remain observant...The lack of empathy is prevalent among them. Most of them actually have no idea how their actions affect others. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 04:36 AM |
| 28 | This gem straight from Pickme hellShe's such a joke it's unreal. Her entire channel is her acting like she is so enlightened. Her following consists of men who comment things like "this one gets it" or "why can't other women be like you". They can keep her. Did I mention she's 22? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 10:49 PM |
| 49 | This gem straight from Pickme hellIt's terrible. The "thing that every girl needs to hear" according to her is how our value diminishes with age and how we should accept it and get married young and also have babies while we still can. She feels sorry for women who can't "accept the fact" that men like younger girls, and how we should recognize that in order to stop being depressed (wtf). The whole video is her speaking like she is literally an incel in a woman's body. The whole video is her hating on women for just being. The v… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 10:31 PM |
| 49 | This gem straight from Pickme hellWhat old man is she trying to please by making this? It really sounds like she's trying to convince a 50-year-old married man to leave his wife who is older than her and she's trying to convince herself that she's more desirable than her because of her age. A literal pickme. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 10:13 PM |
| 62 | Making yourself sexually accessible to scrotes who know they won’t have to anything and still they’ll get laid. Ahh sound advice from queen pickmeishaI thought she was joking when she said lose your standards and self-respect but it turns out she wasn't. That's horrifying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 10:05 PM |
| 2 | Not the pickmeshas getting excited over the bare minimumI thought this was gonna be satire... Wtf? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 05:02 PM |
| 3 | What do you look for in a girl? "Personality" 🙄The guy who said he was 6ft lolololololol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 04:39 PM |
| 10 | The "perfect" relationship 🤮Tries to push 50/50 as if he thinks that we are the same yet insists that there are "girl hobbies" and "boy hobbies". Pick one. Also, he gives me serial killer vibes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 04:20 PM |
| 7 | Hookup/pickme culture in Emily in ParisThis is the first show I've watched post-FDS and it made me realise how common this is in other shows and movies. The whole "it's okay to betray your friend or not give a shit about your partner because tru luv" thing really got old. Gabriel treated Camille like trash, even tho she was the total prize, and way more charming than Emily. Emily herself is super annoying, and is a total slave to her physical needs. I will still be watching season 2. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 05:32 AM |
| 2 | Woman gets negged by her husband and is wondering if she’s overreacting for being upset.Ikr. It's even more baffling to me that men would have the audacity to neg the mother of their child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 04:20 AM |
| 13 | Woman gets negged by her husband and is wondering if she’s overreacting for being upset.For some people it may seem like a trivial thing but to me its just sociopathic. Its not a thing you say "one time". I don't know why they would even think thats an okay thing to say. To me it shows a complete lack of empathy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 02:38 AM |
| 131 | Happy Friday. Remember, know your worth.It's one thing to spend the night, and it's a whole other to just invite yourself. The lack of respect... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 03:01 PM |
| 68 | Woman gets negged by her husband and is wondering if she’s overreacting for being upset.Is it bad that I would divorce someone the second they criticize my body? My dad was the type to criticize a post-baby body. I had to hate him for my mom. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 01:36 PM |
| 2 | When guys post shit like this on their feed I just laugh. I just find it so cringey😆 Am I the only one who notices this influx of men comparing themselves to animals?"You should stay away from me, I'm not good for you", but then get mad when she stays away | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 09:49 PM |
| 3 | Sick of people comparing romantic love to the kind you have for your family or friendsIt totally answered my question. It's great that you're upfront from the beginning. If all people acted like you when dating the world would be a better place. I'll just let them know from the beginning then. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Sick of people comparing romantic love to the kind you have for your family or friendsThank you. I do have a question though. It's easy to say that you can just reject someone who doesn't want what you want. But if someone I loved suggested it to me I would get really upset. How can you tell if someone wants what you want? For me, even the suggestion of it is a nightmare. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 10:23 PM |
| 4 | Sick of people comparing romantic love to the kind you have for your family or friendsthank you <33333 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 09:11 PM |
| 15 | Sick of people comparing romantic love to the kind you have for your family or friendsStop focusing on pleasing others and straighten that spine out. That's my problem. Literally, anything people say can send me into a panic. The day I am free from that is the day I have truly achieved inner peace. I left the religion 6 months ago. Getting rid of a toxic mindset is an ongoing process. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 09:04 PM |
| 3 | Sick of people comparing romantic love to the kind you have for your family or friendsIt really is. I have since left the religion (secretly), but before I did the despair I felt was too much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 08:55 PM |
| 38 | Sick of people comparing romantic love to the kind you have for your family or friendsNot really tbh. Even though the people around me will be monogamous anyway, they act like they don't understand why any other arrangement would upset me. When I asked religious scholars about the polygamy thing, they would justify it with that whole "love" bs, and also tell me that its "what men want". I felt really hurt and unimportant, as a girl. It feels stupid but it made me really anxious. I just feel like if this is really how men are, then we're not compatible at all. But it's natural to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 08:47 PM |
| 24 | Some of y'all joining this subredditIkr. These things should be obvious but for some reason we need someone else to tell us it's okay to not want something in a partner. Idk if its misogyny or social conditioning but for some reason we spend so much time trying to change ourselves for other people even though it hurts us, rather than have our own standards | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 08:13 PM |
| 6 | I will NEVER get over the fact that Mariah Carey got a $70mil payout from ex-fiancé James Packer for “wasting her time” and did not have SEX with him even ONCE! And he apologized to *HER* for it! 😭😭😭😭🙌🙌🙌So...How do you get a billionaire to waste your time and then apologize by giving you enough money for 10 lifetimes? Asking for a friend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 05:13 PM |
| 95 | Some of y'all joining this subredditI never knew I could choose what kind of guy I wanted to be with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 05:04 PM |
| 6 | Twitter been killing me with these memes 💀The problem with these women is that they will have genuinely good intentions, but they expect to be rewarded for the "kindness" they give to undeserving people. Back in my pick-me days, I would dream of meeting a terrible man to who I can be "good" so he would like me and change. A form of approval-seeking behavior. Some people want to be the "main chick" so bad. Even feeling flattered that he "went back" to them after cheating. Sickness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 05:00 PM |
| 24 | Demi Lovato broke up with her narc fiancé and is living her absolute best life while he’s ‘crying’ on Instagram🧚🏼♀️Honestly, I didn't want to judge their relationship when I first heard about it, but something always seemed off with him. She talked about how nobody ever loved her "unconditionally" like he did, and I thought they haven't been together long enough for her to know that. I think he love-bombed her. I swear he always looked sketchy to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 04:06 PM |
| 10 | While you’re waiting around for them to ‘come to their senses’ and treat you the way you deserve to be treated :They'll do it for much longer, with no remorse | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 07:01 PM |
| 17 | Shower thought: why men end relationships vs why women end themDefinitely agree. I see this among women I know. A guy will decide to do something, whether it is to cheat or try and get with another woman, then his wife will leave because she can't tolerate it. He didn't explicitly break up with her, but he decided to do something that hurt the woman, and she ended the relationship because she got hurt. Sometimes I wonder why these men don't just end the relationship and spare their partners the pain. It's like they want to stir the pot on purpose. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 06:36 PM |
| 3 | I've always been scared of "sweet talkers" or "overly-romantic" guysThis always annoyed me about Romeo and Juliet. All of the things happened just because he thought some girl was so pretty. And when he switched from Roselyn to Juliet all it took was her appearance, and yet we're supposed to believe that this represents some pure form of love. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 08:41 PM |
| 3 | I've always been scared of "sweet talkers" or "overly-romantic" guysExcessive sweet talk turns me off for sure 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 02:21 AM |
| 1 | my LVM narc ex whos an abusive cheater left me in may ..after i finally went no contact two weeks ago and stopped being a pick me begging for him back he hits me up today... i prefer ‘Devil’He actually has the audacity to be a smartass... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 01:51 AM |
| 23 | I've always been scared of "sweet talkers" or "overly-romantic" guysExactly. The overly charismatic type always gives me a rash. There has to be some middle-ground though, cause the opposite is terrible too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 07:08 PM |
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter