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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESRussianCat26/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 10:49 AM
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LVM LOGICRussianCat26/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 12:13 AM
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Slavery and the dehumanization of Black people as 3/5ths of a white person was once legal. Legality is not a good fall back argument.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/07/22 07:02 PM
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According to those posts, you KNOW that men from OLD are the worst representations of men IRL. You don't have to assume, you have the testimonial, personal knowledge, also the experience of other women to confirm it. If I had realized this was a hypothetical discussion, and not a real question, I wouldn't have commented. Stay safe, and remember, the amount of time you're spending thinking about OLD is time not spent on you. Don't let OLD hypotheticals live in your head rent free. Good luck.
/r/askFDS20/06/21 01:13 PM
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Yes!!! THIS ^
/r/askFDS20/06/21 12:50 PM
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Is this you? It sounds like you really want OLD to work for you, while you claim its not worth it and incredibly dangerous for other women. Do you believe you are unique and exempt? I ask this sincerely. It's good to take a break from OLD when it's not supporting your ascent to Queendom. If you can manage a rotation, good for you! That's HVW ish! But regarding your post history, you have almost all negative experience. It's not HV to subject yourself to dating, when it's THE continued issue that…
/r/askFDS20/06/21 12:49 PM
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A man stranger and his son pulled up in a minivan while I walked my dog yesterday. He asked about a cell phone that someone had found. I have no idea what he's talking about, I'm not part of any neighborhood watch, and it was really weird. I got too nervous to keep walking, and was already in front of my house, but i found the guts to say " I don't know what you're talking about, I have no idea, please leave me alone". He kept calling after me, "excuse me excuse me don't you know anything about …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 02:40 AM
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Tinder is for women, not girls. Are you asking us how to take out a minor girl, when you're an adult? If not, then you can learn the rule now. Girls are children, women are adults. Stop referring to grown women as girls.
/r/askFDS19/06/21 10:23 AM
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Well then, the message has been diluted. I prefer to communicate exactly what I mean, so situations like these happen less often. If we have to inference, guess, and otherwise, it's just like "cOmUnIcAtInG" with men. I'll leave y'all to talk it out, I've reached my interaction quota for the day Edit: Every time I disengage from a conversation on FDS, set boundaries, give feedback, etc, I get downvoted. Y'all be backwards sometimes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 02:27 AM
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Whenever you're not satisfied or you're bored, act like it. That's exactly what she said though....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 01:39 AM
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I know it feels good to post stuff like this, but it's still centering on his actions and a woman's reactions. If he doesn't measure up to the standards, don't just ignore and act bored, leave the date. Break up with the guy, block and delete. Let's not complicate something that's very simple.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 01:07 AM
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I feel the blinders are off from how I used to date. I am finally becoming the woman I wanted to be, and that's empowering. I know I want a life partner, I want a man, and what to accept regarding standards. Is this all going to come right away? Of course not. But yes, this is a dating sub. I can praise and support the women who do it alone, but deep down I would love to share my life with a HVM. As Dr. Gail Dines mentioned on the podcast, men love to please. I can't wait to find a man who embod…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 11:05 AM
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*Women should stop procreating with men like this, so their misogyny and bigotry can die out in fewer generations. It's how we evolve as a species, we stop choosing the losers. #ProtectYourP*ssy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 04:46 AM
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It doesn't come easily, my mom had surprisingly wise advice for me: "these people you go back and forth with online, do they want you to change their mind? No. They will change their mind when they're ready, or when they get hurt" I hate the idea of even one woman not taking proper advice to protect herself, of choosing to expose herself to sex work. But it is not my personal responsibility to help her. I'd rather focus my efforts on women who want to be change. It takes quite a bit of practice …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 03:04 AM
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I've been permanently banned from Blatant misogyny. It's hilarious to gets bans and called SWERF for not supporting sex work, by the same privileged ass people who say "well nothing bad has happened to me, so I should have a right to practice". Can't save a woman that doesn't want to be saved. I take it all in stride.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 08:29 PM
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"To enable me as a no/low effort excuse of a man" ​ WOW GROUNDBREAKING LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 04:08 PM
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RIGHT??? Her "thot shit" is STILL their fantasy, not empowering. Megan makes money off her ass now, not her rapping. I miss Queens like Lauryn Hill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 03:21 PM
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Whether it's real or fake, it sounds close to the rambling created by voice-to-text. I'm not spending too much time thinking about it, today's my relaxation day 😅☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 12:54 PM
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🙋‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 10:53 AM
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Your analysis is correct. It's a long, run on, repetitive sentence. I thought she may have been satiring a teenage girl at first, but eek either way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 10:41 AM
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This question belongs in another sub, perhaps one dealing with potentially abusive parents.
/r/askFDS15/06/21 01:04 AM
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*Also, no one wants a man who is old enough to be a grandparent/ father, and is going to die in the next 5-10 years. It's his own problem he's creepy and alone at that age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 11:47 PM
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Complete disrespect for the bodily autonomy of others is part of patriarchal society/slave culture. You've summed it up very well here!! Everyone should feel comfortable exercising their right to bodily autonomy. There would be no need to fake or exaggerate illness, because the simple dislike is taken seriously. On that note, I'm sorry that others have risked your life and well-being to "prove a point". I'm sure you've heard every solution to asthma and allergies from people who are suddenly med…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 11:11 PM
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These isolated incidents of misrepresentation only exist because women and children aren't taken seriously when they simply dislike a food, or have minor reactions. Our autonomy of choice is taken away. Personally, I broke out in hives constantly for a period of over 9 months. I went to an allergist, did all the dietary tests, NO ALLERGEIS! However, I had pictures of welts covering my thighs, back, stomach. No creams worked. That forced me to cut out alcohol, transition back to veganism, and rem…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 10:51 AM
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I've read multiple incidents on advice columns over the years. This link made its rounds on Tumblr a few years ago. A woman falsely claiming a peanut allergy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 11:06 PM
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You have good perspective, recognizing the pick me mindset that pregnant women are socially forced into. She's in an incredibly tough situation, I'm glad your sister has you to turn to. It can seem easier to tolerate disrespect if it's not outright abusive or violent. But this situation is not okay, and your context turns his body shaming to insidious territory. Sexist men like her husband want Perma- model body partners AND for her to create children, but ignore the reality of pregnancy and giv…
/r/askFDS12/06/21 02:53 PM
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Oh wow, that article and his statements in the video just sound like a rapist/ serial killer. His victim, Casey, even had to sue for basic support because he denied all of it at first. Also, his defense for masturbating while they took a break is absolutely horrid. NO ONE has sexual needs great enough to warrant addressing them while at work, or on break at work. Men are labeled brave for revealing their sexual depravity, like it's a battle they're fighting internally. They're supposedly brave a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 02:36 PM
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The even give him a platform to speak about this 🤮 He is being validated for sexual assault. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 02:18 PM
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He's bragging about wanting to cheat on her, if he hasn't already. He is openly insulting her body and holding her to impossible media standards. His behavior is manifesting as nightmares for her, that's a sign of her extreme mental duress. You already have your answer, you would not tolerate it, therefore she should not. You know she deserves better, hopefully she will realize too. She needs to leave him.
/r/askFDS12/06/21 02:05 PM
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Cool beans 😁 I'm not too tech savvy, so I was worried that I may not have posted correctly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 01:47 PM
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Naked men oiled up for personal rituals? 😍😍 What a fantastic practice! Depravity of men, invading women's spaces everywhere. I'm unfortunately not surprised that a man received no repercussions or accountability for his actions. We know they've engineered the patriarchy as such.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 01:45 PM
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That's odd. I posted 3 images each with own caption. I've had no issues viewing on mobile or desktop, neither have the hundreds of other people that commented. Hmmm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 10:51 AM
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Be like what? Oh, you mean me setting boundaries, and you ignoring them? 🧐 Nah, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 12:52 AM
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Well like I said, I'm not moving this discussion further into religion. I'm sure there are plenty of other people who would like to, feel free to make your own post! ☺️ Edit: I love that FDS taught me to have boundaries, yet when I try and enforce them with other women on this sub, I get down voted. If a man had come in and attempted to say this, y'all would have downloaded him, not me. Let's not shame me for having standards of conversation. Thanks 😘😘.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 12:46 AM
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It's not entirely clear which religion you're referring to? Regardless, I'd rather this not move into a religious centered discussion, considering the wide variety of practices, faiths, and beliefs held between FDS members 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 12:23 AM
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How so?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 12:01 AM
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I've learned a lot from his videos! He embraces beauty, feminity and silliness, bonus he's vegan 😁 Just a reminder lurkers, be more like Brad and maybe we'll invite you one day too 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 07:43 PM
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I looked into that a little, Lilith did not want to be subservient to Adam. Good for her, what a boss Queen!! This subject is oddly relatable, as I'm currently rewatching Lucifer on Netflix 😅😈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 07:38 PM
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I agree, and believe that women developed biological coping methods for our protection, not to benefit men. It's also been proven that girls go through puberty earlier when their biological father is absent from the home. "Evolutionary biologists have theorized that the absence of a biological father may signal an unstable family environment, leading girls to enter puberty earlier." In summary, scientists know that it causes an effect, but pinpointing " why" is not an easy answer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 07:35 PM
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I hadn't even registered that it was closed! Nice observation. It takes less than a minute to search business hours, what a loser 🤣💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 05:54 PM
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What an excellent point! 🤔🤔🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 02:40 PM
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The most important part? "After efforts to lobby the local council to install benches along their usual route came to nothing, Souto took matters into his own hands and headed to the local DIY shop." That's love. Appealing to the local government, getting involved on a personal level, putting in the time, action and heart it takes to love his wife and increase her mobility, comfort, and well- being. He loves her, and he doesn't want to see her in pain. That's what makes this man HV 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 01:31 PM
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You're 100% on the mark. It's incredibly dehumanizing, women's bodies are treated as something to be consumed. I now have limited my Snapchat interaction to Brad Mondo and happy animal videos. If y'all queens ever need a hype man, Brad is your guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 01:22 PM
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To clarify, I have seen no proof that he outright bullies his grandmother, but he uses her presence to promote a "good guy" narrative. He also frequently refers to her as an old lady and other derogatory terms on voiceovers, which I'm not sure if she knows about or just pretends is funny. The content he creates and supports on his platform includes frequent bullying and harassing of women by their partners by way of "pranks". Over time, he has vastly increased the use of marginalized people as w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 01:17 PM
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Also everyone should consider becoming a member of the satanic temple to preserve their abortion rights ♥ yes! You've brought up a really important anecdote. It's difficult to find any online sources that DON'T support "girls grow up faster than boys." This study found that girl's brains reorganize themselves earlier than boys. Now whether this is because they are forced to through misogyny, or a natural phenomenon, is unclear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 12:53 PM
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Ah yes, men bringing depravity and assumptions into every situation. Nothing new! Your aunt, however, sounds like a strong woman! It's wonderful you have her and her husband as HV Role Models ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 12:31 PM
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So glad to have you here ❤️❤️ I'm all for more women finding freedom and empowerment 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 11:59 AM
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Without defending the biology of scrotes, I believe women have been conditioned to not enjoy others pain. We are taught empathy and shame, which hold us to a higher societal standard. On the other hand, men allow themselves to be perverse to women. I would say they've set the bar in hell, but even The Satanic Temple supports consent and freedom from violation, women's bodily autonomy, empathy for others, and nobility of character 🤷‍♀️ I think I'd like to get to know Satan. Sounds like a HVM tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 11:34 AM
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Yes it's from Snapchat. I've had to report and unfollow so many creators, especially that guy Ross Smith who does videos with his grandma. It's not funny, It's not pranks, it's bullying and harassing just as you said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 11:23 AM
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Perfect translation!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 11:10 AM
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To anyone receiving unwanted solicitation offers or dick pics, here's a great message template to respond with: The user you are trying to reach is unavailable. You have been redirected to your state's local Cyber Crime Unit/ Sexual Crime Prevention. All messages of potentially egregious and explicit sexual behavior are automatically detected, submitted and processed by our system. If you feel you have reached this message in error, contact our CyberTipLine at (800) 843-5678). Thank you for usin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 02:23 PM
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Absolutely true! We know men don't like being approached, and yet the entire app is based on women approaching men. Bumble makes it sound like women choose their matches, yet all of their paid plans our engineered to give men more control over the women they want to match with. Women have to do all the work, we create profiles, we must message first, we must remind the man if he doesn't message us back within 24 hours 🙄🙄🙄. Meanwhile, 75% of guys would just ignore messages, or answer a quiz and t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 12:05 PM
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Women take longer in the bathroom because we actually wash our fucking hands***, and It is much more socially acceptable to bring both young male and female children into the women's bathroom if there is no family option. They're praising themselves for being dirty and unhygienic. 🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 11:46 AM
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I'll take "this didn't happen" for 1000
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 01:29 AM
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Lol the "dirtiest" word for an elbow is "wenis" and it makes me giggle uncontrollably. What a succubus, with your naked wenises 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 12:45 AM
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Oh yes, "be a lady" 🤢 yet men were not taught to be gentlemen? Forever placing the burden and blame on young girls, good job religion!! The double standards were truly bad. Nevertheless, I'm glad your mom was able to support you 🥰 I definitely picked up that same habit in adulthood, workout shorts or womens boxers under dresses. Helps me feel more comfortable and confident 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 12:43 AM
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No worries, I have since turned Agnostic. Sounds like the headmaster purposely misled you and many other students. I'm sorry it wasn't the education experience you were hoping for. Hindsight is always 20/20. That was the best you could do with the information you had. I hope you've been able to further pursue art, you seem very passionate about it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 12:39 AM
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I Will Not Drink With You Today. It's a show of support, saying I decide not to drink, with you, today. I've done plenty of 12 step, rehab, etc, but when I needed a community, "stop drinking" was there for me. Almost 8 months sober now 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 10:28 PM
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I've learned two great abbreviations on Reddit. IWNDWYT (yay for being sober) MWDNWA "Men Who Do Not Wash Ass" 😂🤣💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 07:20 PM
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My teacher was a woman, and I don't specifically remember many male teachers, if any. We were attached to a grade school that was an equivalent to middle or high school. However, we never saw them except in very infrequent passing. Upon further reflection, I believe it was to control girls and train them to be meek/ docile, not playful and energetic like boys were allowed to be. I'm sorry for your experience with Catholic college, I'm sure I would have looked at a similar path had I not gone to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 07:15 PM
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I did a few years in private catholic preschool/ kindergarten too. Not the same problem with knees lol, but the dress code was super sexist, and gosh darn it I was only 5!!! So basically, the school would not provide girls shorts in their uniform options, only skirts/ skorts. Then, the teachers penalized us for running around and "showing our underwear/being inappropriate" and would report to our parents. It was so fucking stupid, I remember begging my mom to get me shorts, or even skorts (skirt…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 06:55 PM
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Thank you for respecting yourself and holding high standards. You sound very self assured and confident, which is so boldly refreshing! I hope your relationship continues to flourish 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 03:17 PM
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What a Queen! 🤩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 03:10 PM
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here is your answer
/r/askFDS09/06/21 02:18 PM
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Break up with him, and stop cheating on your exams. Edit. Your post history has me extremely concerned for your well being. Please do not engage in sex work. You are risking assault, rape, and murder and prosecution. Please protect yourself, you are still a child! I don't really know what else to say.
/r/askFDS09/06/21 12:54 PM
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Definite cringe!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 10:29 AM
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audience was dying from laughter, Laugh tracks. Would never recommend watching the show on purpose, but if you can tolerate it, find one on YouTube with a laugh track removed. SO.AWKWARD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 09:59 AM
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It wasn't just a joke, and even if it was, bad jokes are incredibly embarrassing for real comedians. They know when material has failed. Everyone giggled because he sounded like a child, "Mommy, I found this quarter, can I buy whatever I want?" LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 09:52 AM
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The misogyny runs deep 😞 Wish they could find someone else to hate, it gets so boring and expected.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 12:02 AM
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I still have much to learn! Thank you ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 04:55 PM
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With that perspective, I agree! There's way too many inconsistencies 🤔 Here I am trying to make sense of men! My first mistake 🤦
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:01 PM
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Sadly, you're right. Ego trumps children 😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 01:58 PM
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It's sus. There's no context to why their mother isn't around. Also, no mention of what race they are/ if they're biracial, what type of hair texture they have. My white-ass straight hair got blow dried by my dad lol that's all it needed! If I had any semblance of texture what a difference in situation we're talking about. It worries me, sounds like his daughters are mixed race and he's a white father who still calls Dreads/ Locs, box braids, cornrows, and other protective styles all by the name…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 01:46 PM
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I am deeply sorry that you were in a position where it was your suffering, or your sister's. No one should be forced into that choice. I'm so glad you're here with us now, Queen ❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 12:36 PM
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I've been waiting for a post that identifies the differences between immature and mature energies! Also, feminine and masculine energies are commonly misunderstood, and you're absolutely right they have no relation to female or male. More like, the yin and yang that keep us balanced. Creation is feminine, yet creating drama is not. Organization is masculine, yet control is not. What a great post, can't wait for more in part 2!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 12:33 PM
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🏅🏅🏅 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 12:24 PM
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Oh yes, and over explaining the reality behind supposed "fake posts" that male trolls must be writing, and the entire comment section turning into a back and forth. Oh wait that already happened to me 🤦🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 12:23 PM
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Yes. Self-respect is the precursor to respecting others. Anytime a man disrespects a woman, it's because he can't respect himself. And that's why men are disappointing LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 12:15 PM
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All I read was "Men prove they have no self-respect"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 12:08 PM
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Every single line is filled with an assumption, character self-assassination, and fake bumbling idiocy. I bet this man has never questioned how to do his own hair 👀 I noticed his daughters allegedly didn't even ask about braids? He's assuming they want them, just like he assumed that only the mother can do their daughter's hair, that she "innately" knows how. To show he cared so much, why doesn't he ask his daughters what they want to do? Give them some choice in the matter, it's literally the h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 12:05 PM
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I'd say, it generally is unsexy to care for someone like a child. There are vast differences between the types of love we can feel. That link explores Helen E. Fisher PhD.s analysis of why different bond levels exist. This is the singular most extensive research paper I've ever read delving into this topic. I see no mention of parenting behavior between spouses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 03:21 PM
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Wordplay is my fave 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 12:06 PM
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You're not homophobic. You're confining this discussion to your sexuality, which is hetero. You have made no comments on LGBTQ rights, so IDK who the fuck could accuse you of hating gay men? You're not attracted to them. This really boils my blood for reddit and the "manosphere" to throw any phobic language at you. Just as a lot of FDS members are called transphobic, or anti- semites. Not being attracted to someone who has transitioned, practices a different religion, or isn't straight, is a ben…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 11:54 AM
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Men- " have our children" Women- " start equitable parenting and provide more than bare minimum child support" Men- shocked pikachu
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 02:33 AM
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My focus was on the man's response and his application of LVM opinion on relationships. It's actually funnier to think of two women parenting the shit out of each other. Maybe I'm biased (and bisexual), but it seems implicitly less toxic than if this happened in a hetero relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 12:45 AM
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Oh yes! Simultaneously in charge, yet constantly attended to. Which one is it??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 12:36 AM
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I've found a semi-antidote to a man's politeness: I deserve it. I walk like men should move out of my way (they always do), on approaching a door I proactively say thank you if there's a man there, and then he knows to hold the door open for me, but I barely give him a passing glance and definitely ignore him after. I started expecting politeness, and I stopped feeling so obligated to return it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 11:43 PM
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*They think anything is flirting 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 11:31 PM
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Lmfao this comment made my day!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 07:51 PM
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Thank you for elaborating, it was unclear to me how that would work after posting a photo, but I see you meant to do that before. Stripping metadata in comparison to what people do online is such a small issue. There are many other ways of identifying people online, such as the background in pictures, at what time they post, mutual friends, and of course, what people reveal. I agree completely, the link I shared also mentioned those as the other main techniques of garnering personal information.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 02:13 PM
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Its a confusing read, no doubt. Let me attempt to clarify my comment. I do not believe in any capacity that a police officer could confuse his duty weapon with a cell phone. He had to have known there was a gun involved in the struggle. I see now the link is not relevant to this situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 01:09 PM
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"iF sHe lOvEs HiM iT wOuLdNt mAtTeR wHeRe hE pRopOsED" If he loves her, he would propose in a way that makes her feel loved. Instead, he disrespected himself, and her, publicly. Surprise proposals are incredibly disingenuous. The only losers who surprise a proposal are the ones who don't know the answer before asking. How embarrassing for both of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 12:19 PM
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The writer really tried to say that a man being kind, grants him "access" to a woman's body. If his resources and time are so precious, maybe he shouldn't have given them away with absolutely no contracts or legal precedence 🤔🤔🤔🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 12:00 PM
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I agree with you in general sense, because men use guns as a substitute for their dicks. Women just don't find it necessary, unless you're talking about alt right nuts. Brings up an interesting point of conservatives wanting to control women's bodies and rights to autonomy, but refusing to control access to firearms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 11:10 AM
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You may find this article interesting. It explores the gun embodiment theory. In this specific situation, the man may not have been directly holding a gun, but that does explain how unarmed people are usually shot. The gun wielding perpetrator is biased to see guns.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 11:02 AM
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I don't worry about credit, I'm just glad that people read the article 😅 lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 10:54 AM
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I just tried that on Instagram desktop, there is no option for "properties". So I'm not sure what social media sites you're referring to?? According to this article, which confirms what I previously believed, metadata is the embedded information in a photo. That's the point, it''s an image's fingerprint. If you could just remove it as you said, then it wouldn't be a widespread issue as it is now. Hmmm. If you really want peace of mind delete social media, or at least any personal photos. I delet…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 10:52 AM
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Outside influence is always a possibility, and it pits us women against each other. I believe I was the one who found the article, as we are commenting under my comment 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 09:22 PM
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Ive reread the letter twice. Its practically identical to my writing style, If I were to submit a concise letter to an advice column. It sounds surprisingly similar to a lot of female written dear prudence and miss manners submissions. So yall may think it's more masculine, but I disagree. By virtue of being published does not invalidate this letter. Look at all the stuff that we expose in FDS, that we can't believe was published my men. I'm surprised you don't see the connection between a Europ…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 07:49 PM
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I'm sure you didn't mean to do that, I do recognize your good intentions. By claiming the submission is fake, that's the most literal definition of invalidation. As long as that's clear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 07:35 PM
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I do understand. You're attempting to call out what you think is a man "proving true" the worst stereotypes they create about women. That's commendable, yet is potentially invalidating. As I've identified, you disagree it's written by a woman, because it doesn't match with what you think a woman would or should sound like in that individual situation. You seem baffled that it could even be possible. Your responses are pushing an insidiously "white narrative"- Your comments on foster care and eco…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 03:56 PM
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Ok, that is your opinion. I firmly believe that this has been at least one woman's experience. You are right though, something about your privilege or experience is speaking extremely loudly, and drowning out the truth. Secondary education may be "free and available" to most, without factoring in the actual accessibility & hidden costs of transportation, meals, clothes for constantly growing kids, school supplies, and feminine hygiene products. We know kids can be expensive, that is not a singul…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:49 PM
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Here is a link to the original post about 3 years ago. The response by the e-column is pretty fucking disgusting. For anyone concerned, Kwamashu is one of the first South African township created specifically for BIPOC to be separated to during apartheid in the 1950s. They were funneled there, and the population is now predominantly male Zulu. It is an incredibly unsafe place for women. I made this into its own comment, so it wouldn't get lost for the other people claiming it's fake. I know you …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 01:51 PM
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Great point, even though they're learning executive function and what future consequences are, the amount of teen girls readily posting their pics to get roasted on reddit really makes me sad. They willingly expose their faces and possible location metadata online just for that hit of cool girl pick me "I can handle a roast, I'm not like other girls" false validation. They don't realize how incredibly violating and dangerous it is to themselves. I hope nothing bad happens, but we know that's not…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 01:34 PM
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So interesting that he refers to the ring as a gift throughout the entire post, despite a wedding ring not technically being a gift, but a shared and expected symbol of the marriage. It's not like he's deciding on jewelry for their wedding anniversary, this is the main symbol that she will be wearing on her hand every single day for the rest of their marriage. This queen knows exactly what she wants, and this loser isn't giving it to her. The only man mad about standards are the ones who don't m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:29 AM
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Omg I have been wondering about that sub!! The men obsessed with FDS always find the weirdest way to show it. Thanks guys for boosting our popularity and numbers 🥰🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:24 AM
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Awareness of cringe is a complete necessity. I'm sorry that guy was super creepy to you, I didn't mean to overshadow that. Exposing the creep, and refusing to tolerate it, helps further support the evolution too. Thanks for respecting yourself 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 02:13 PM
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What self respecting person would ever try a second means to talk to someone they know has them blocked. Ah, I see you met Past Me. It's completely true, when I held no self-respect for myself I would definitely keep reaching out/harassing after being blocked: when I believed men at their word despite their contradictory actions when I dated men I didn't even like, because they looked a certain way when I was conditioned to hinge my value as a woman on how much "attention" I got from men Men who…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 11:51 AM
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The double standard of honesty is so utterly ironic 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:35 PM
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Thank goodness for free awards! No money to reddit, I promise 👍☺️ 8 months strong, it took me most of my teenage years and 20s to get here. Ironically, I found reddit because of the sub "Stop drinking" 😅 The porn was attached to a man who was "proud of acting like a 5 yr old", so It unfortunately was not that surprising. Still graphic and disgusting. Alcohol and porn are both substances of escape, so I second your theory on correlation. If I find any resources/studies I'll come back and update!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:15 PM
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Done. I am a sober alcoholic, and agree 100%. Drinking alcohol and consuming porn are now seen as default states, so any behavior that differs is demonized. Former male friends have sent me screenshots and links to porn directly after me voicing how gross I think it is 🤮, just as every one of "non alcoholic 😉" friends constantly had a problem with me not wanting to/ not drinking. Alcohol and porn are literally poison for the body and mind. Men out here breaking their dicks & livers like it's a c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:30 AM
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Haha. Yes. I know. Recognizing that white cast exists with mineral sunscreen is not explicitly complaining about it. Zinc oxide is white, it's gonna have white cast. Are we done talking about sunscreen??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 10:38 AM
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I was suggesting that for the commenter above me, I personally don't have an issue with the white cast. I overall dislike covering my skin with any makeup. To each their own!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 01:51 AM
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I don't need any tint, my skin is naturally blemish free ☺️ I actually prefer my method of mixing, and applying additional layers, but your advice may be applicable to someone else! Thanks anyways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 01:37 AM
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I mix some sunscreen with my regular moisturizer instead of layering it on top. Helps cancel out some of the whiteness, but TBH it happens with all the mineral ones 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:34 PM
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Jealousy is the emotion commonly felt towards the "other" when one half of the relationship is not bringing enough to the table. Jealousy has been delegated this evil, sinful emotion, but it's really a combination of pain, sadness, disrespect, and envy. Yeah, this guy says he likes her, but then does absolutely nothing to demonstrate it, doesn't treat her with respect, and actively pursues other women (while calling them girls, like ew no, y'all adults, not children). She is rightfully jealous o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 11:27 AM
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Not publicly, but I'm willing to share with any ladies who PM me with proof of being an FDS member/ poster/ commenter. I don't need any more weird guys following me, my 2 exes are enough. FDS taught me better online safety :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 02:29 PM
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I am guilty of this, but for much different reasons. If I detect someone's accent or different use of language, I like to factor that into how I interact with them. I believe everyone around me should be celebrated for differences, but not to the point of making anyone else uncomfortable. But men doing this? It's usually: to label anyone who's not white as "foreign" despite whiteness not being the default, a jab at your intelligence, to fetishize you, to put you into a box and generalize your be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 01:13 PM
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I made a Hot Girl playlist (100+ songs) on Spotify filled with only women, and deleted/unfollowed a lot of men. A lot of my former favorite rap songs are incredibly sexist and demeaning towards women, so I just stopped listening to them. It insanely bothers me when amazing women like Doja Cat, Saweetie and Megan Thee Stallion have features with Gucci and juicy j and all the dude talks about is women who is a freak, have nice tits, twerk, and suck dick. Like what the fuck they're featuring with c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 12:42 PM
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I was thinking more "trolls doll found in the trash", but that seemed insulting to the little trolls 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 11:36 AM
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Women calling men kings for bare minimum effort to not abuse others is the new internet trend I need to see die. Apparently not abusing animals and having a barely stocked bachelor fridge is the new version of Vegan King 🤣🤣. Oh my god let's clap our hands and bow down to a man who has edible fruits in his fridge!! 🙄🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 11:32 AM
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All these men want to be loved, but I see nothing they've done to be worthy of love??? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 01:10 AM
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It's the most recent episode of the FDS podcast, should be pinned on the main page!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 12:54 AM
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ITS SO TRUE THO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 06:22 PM
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He sure did! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 12:36 PM
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I succinctly disagree with this new normal of "our relationship is great because we lack boundaries". Putting up with the gross, shameful behavior of men invites disrespect - "this woman lets me fart on her, and instead of rightfully leaving me she's still my wife, wow she must really not give a flying fuck about herself" "I act like my wife is stalking me in public, and she still comes home with me and has sex with me, No consequences so I'm going to do it again" We know that's how men see wome…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 12:16 PM
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This! OP If you haven't already, please get the HPV vaccine. I still got HPV but not the cancer causing one, and I cleared it after a few years. Protect your health, glad you're here with us ❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 11:25 AM
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All of these "modesty moderators" would do well to remember, even Jesus advocated for the stabbing of one's own eyes to combat lack of self control 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 11:12 AM
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If he's woke, he's broke 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 02:34 PM
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Pure projection. Men don't take themselves seriously, and pretend it's everyone else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 02:31 PM
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I so desperately want to write a well thought response, dismantling every single sentence. But that first sentence got me " health issues that he's been dealing with but won't seek help for directly" What a bum. He wants to live in his trauma, its now his identity. No accountability, only denial and indifference. EWWWWWW lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 12:51 PM
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He was definitely awesome. I forgot to add, he made Excellent Dad Jokes but would never make a "joke" at someone's expense or use someone's physical appearance as comedy material. Those things just weren't funny to him. I feel for ya. I like to think that perhaps my mom is learning from watching me. She has so much potential to be a strong feminist ally. Maybe one day 🤞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 12:36 PM
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I can hear my Pick me Mother now "Oh he must've found you so attractive, I wish men would do that to me" 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮 I finally got her to see the light with situations like this, by asking her if my dead dad would ever do this ( he was very into photography and would have turned 71 this year). She got really insulted and immediately backtracked, while recognizing that a man like my dad has NO REASON TO TAKE PERSONAL CLOSE UPS OF ANY FEMALE. "Daddy studied the stars, I couldn't imagine him having any i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 11:53 AM
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Sis I am dying 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 10:13 AM
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Pedophilia and child attraction are revealing themselves in men every day. The problem is how sexist/misogynistic men have chosen to sexualize body parts of children, teenagers and adults. Breasts stop being part of the reproductive process in bearing children, and become purely aesthetic/ sexual parts. I surmise that nipples having sensitivity & potential to cause sexual stimulation is conflated to the narrow-minded function of breasts as sexual parts. "If it causes pleasure, it must be associa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 02:36 PM
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Am I the only one who thinks he writes 5 like a psycho? Edit spelling psycho 🤦
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 12:19 PM
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How awful. Everything about this makes me sick. I hold an extreme distaste for passive law enforcement, especially regarding men threatening women and children. "They're just words" "they don't mean anything" "well they didn't actually do it [yet]" No. a poster with the following words hung in quite a few of my teachers classrooms over the years: *Watch your thoughts, they become words Watch your words, they become actions Watch your actions, they become habits Watch your habits, they become cha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 01:26 AM
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Men murder when rejected, women move on. Fundamental differences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 08:31 PM
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Hmm. I don't necessarily agree with your initial statement. I did things in addiction (alcohol and cocaine) that were incredibly against my morals and ethics. I stole money and drugs, introduced my BF into BDSM and rape fantasies (really sick shit), was a really bad parent to my animals, let my body emaciate to a size 0, cheated on multiple boyfriend's, chain smoked cigarettes until I threw up, gave blowjobs to my "dealer friends" for coke. Seriously. I was grimy af and had NO RESPECT, and held …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 11:23 AM
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Pretty much, yep
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 04:12 PM
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Good luck with your research! At least you believe in birds. Those people who think "birds aren't real" really have me worried. Edit for outside link. Sorry!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 03:14 PM
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😂😂 so typical!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 02:12 PM
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I saw many feathers and a mating dance, did not mean to assume 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 02:11 PM
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Aren't male peacocks supposed to be colorful? This one's dull as a doorknob
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 01:25 PM
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Oof, this. Found this comment in another sub I frequent. The topic is diet, but mommy bang maids tell on themselves pretty easily. Had to restrain myself from asking if her 20-year-old son had a beard 🤣🤣 then realized she's talking about hubby 😱 <<<Some people are oblivious. I’ve been married 20 something years and don’t have a beard yet am cleaning up after beard grooming. You have to be firm about you making it a point to consider his activities just as they/he should be considering yours- and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 12:09 PM
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Found some info here about him being fired from Wild n Out for being anti-Semitic. He was named chairman of TeenNick back in 2009 AND the development & creative consult. That alone gave him tons of access to shows and hosting gigs despite him being incredibly un-funny. Also found this quote in an article about Nick and his kids from 2019: Through all the success, Cannon makes sure his kids are a priority. The actor -- also dad to 2-year-old son Golden -- said he plans to bring his kids along to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 11:51 AM
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their favourite tactic is to wait until you sort yourself out and calm down on your own, then they'll let you back when you're fun to be around again. Translated to Scrote Speak: "Women should smile more" "positive/chill vibes only" "drama-free" "let's see if you can keep up with me[while I treat you like a robot who's not allowed a voice]" It's got to be men who teach men how to stop being dogshit emotional support. YES! Men have chosen to devalue our opinion enough that they're only willing to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 11:17 AM
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Ahhh, let's not perpetuate that false statement against recovering addicts, please. I dislike John Mulaney, but a better way to say that would be "He projected a wholesome and sweet image, while also dealing with addiction". The two aren't mutually exclusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 10:56 AM
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They are already later in life, both mid 50s with children. He's alcoholic and abandoned all of his adult children in different states with different exes, and she has 3 grown children that mostly live independently. That is what happens when you combine ultimate pickmeisha, severe & unprocessed childhood trauma & abuse, and Captain Save-A-ManHoe. She doesn't even own her own house, it's in her first husband's name 🤦🤦
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 09:31 PM
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I have a former friend who said "why would I want a man in my kitchen" and I've never looked at her the same. At first I was hopeful, thinking she's going to kick the man out and make him cook at his own place, NONONO she invites the man who is not even her husband to live with her, and won't let him go in the kitchen to make food because she's worried he's going to mess it up. And then says that's how she was raised and she's proud to be a doting partner who makes all the food. "That's the woma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 07:37 PM
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May I suggest WWE Drew McIntyre? Purely for aesthetic research purposes of course.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 03:24 PM
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Oooh Shemar as "Hondo" in SWAT demonstrates a few HV traits. He makes it his mission to protect women and children, he's always cooking (tofu stir fry 😍), he mentors young boys and shows up for the families he has helped, he's a strong member of the community. He listens to Jessica and goes out of his way to not let their relationship fall back on her. He's not right all the time, but overall such a manly character!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 11:14 AM
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"I can't get him to come around so please don't suggest that" 😢😢 I don't normally pray and I'm not affiliated with any religion..... But I will be praying for this woman. Knowing her husband hates her must feel so defeating and makes it much harder for her body to deal with cancer/ treatments. I hope something changes for her ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 11:07 AM
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Sexist men who view women as sex objects may say/do this, same with men who think sex is doing something to a woman, rather than sharing an intimate experience with her. This topic has been mentioned on other posts, acknowledging the difference in bonding chemicals released in men vs women after orgasm. Men get simple pleasure , women get a much larger dose of bonding chemicals in the form of oxytocin. So the deck is stacked against us, even when we come. That's why women have to constantly vet,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 11:01 AM
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🤣🤣🤣 your description has me cackling 🤣🤣🤣 But I'm sorry that scrote cheated on you. Good riddance!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 10:46 AM
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I once was told by an INTJ that he was "too introverted" to ever text me first. At 36 years old. Yep, he masterminded himself right onto my block list 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 11:40 PM
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Nice username!! :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 09:43 PM
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random opinion: Guys can't be hot unless their thighs are bigger than mine. If your thigh is the size of my calf, take those celery legs elsewhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 09:15 PM
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I second rosewater and rosehip seed oil 😍😍 Holy grail products IMO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 04:20 PM
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My bad, YES they absolutely get work done! I was simply commenting on the lack of peer pressure from Hollywood for them to do it. I'm sure part of the reason they look so bad could actually be botched fillers and laser treatments, eep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 12:02 PM
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You make a great point! Celebrity patriarchy allows these men to have access to the same exact routines, treatments, and professional skin care, but they aren't lambasted for choosing not to. While these women are beautiful, they were forced to maintain that look or else risk losing their career 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 11:30 AM
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You're welcome
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:27 PM
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Yes, and unfortunately it really moves away from the point of my original comment. I was not dismissing any work that this man has done. I appreciate his activism. Simply pointing out that this mans one action DOES NOT qualify him as a king has gotten quite a few other women to jump to his defense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 05:26 PM
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I understand that!! I have not said or claimed otherwise, my dear 😕 My birth mother was not provided birth control or proper pre natal care. She was exposed to and luckily treated for STIs years prior to my birth. I was born with quite a few health problems. My birth mother gave me away at 1 day old. She was listed as a single parent. She lived poorly. I come from a very poor and possibly gang affiliated industrial town in Russia, so YES I do understand the lack of rights women face elsewhere. W…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 03:12 PM
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Almost all men have been raised to think women are inferior, to not even question it. Ladies, this is FDS. We can support men doing proper work for women, WITHOUT placing him on a king pedestal. I don't give a f.ck if it's a big step, considering all women are raised in the same patriarchy and we all have to take steps to support each other. Nah that's not me, queens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 12:14 PM
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"I expect women to provide free emotional support to men, but not to women"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 11:29 AM
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I respectfully point out that this man is simply doing the work that we women have done for thousands of years. Standing up for women is not kingly, though it is so rare that the behavior is placed on a pedestal. EDIT: I did not realize the standard for a KING was bare minimum effort in supporting women. The message he presents is a strong one, but lets not fall over each other defending a common man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 11:26 AM
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Tried a women only outdoor yoga class recently. Thought it would be a secluded place at a local park, NOPE it was right by the entrance in an open grassy field and I could see cars slowing down, and men rolling their windows down to ogle us the whole class. I didn't feel comfortable bringing it up, because the class was already above my skill level and I ran late, so why should I bother complaining? But I know that's an unhealthy thought process, I'm sure if I felt uncomfortable then the five ot…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 11:03 AM
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The rest of reddit is definitely to be avoided!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 07:56 PM
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This is every single friendship with males. Legit the only friendships I have with men are my 5 male cousins, and I had to set limits because 2 of them are LVM. Every other guy has eventually tried something, said something, or done something to cross a line. Thousands of men, thousands of friends and acquaintances over the years. I am uncomfortable with how much I wish for a gay male friend, because all I desire is to be friends with a dude who doesn't view me as walking p.ssy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 06:21 PM
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I hear and understand your anger and frustration. I have full confidence that you are still full of life! It takes time to reconcile with how you want to be treated, versus how you used to be treated. I'm glad you're here 😊 So I am a recovered alcoholic. Openly admitting this AND completely eliminating all alcohol from my life has given me control and agency to fix my issue. In contrast, men have a tendency to ignore and deny almost everything that doesn't bring instant gratification. We must re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 02:27 PM
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I'd love to discuss more, though I wasn't very surprised. There's shame in lacking control. Men love to be in control, so they will hide anything that represents them differently. I did find it interesting that they factored in whether the woman in a relationship drank. I've noticed that men will typically justify any shitty behavior when they see it in someone else, even if they're the only ones exhibiting signs of self-destruction an addiction
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 01:21 PM
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The best part of this sub is the community aspect. I feel safe here 🥰. When browsing the rest of reddit, invariably every post involving women eventually leads to someone shit talking FDS in the comments. We are attacked for existing. Any comments we make in jest, especially those that mimic and point out the essential irony and hypocrisy of scrotes, are taken as full stop seriousness. We are laughing at their blatant disregard for our humanity, and they get their feelings hurt SO easily.(I thou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 02:31 AM
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Always wanting what they can't have. Its laughable 🤣🤣🤣 They don't like us, aren't attracted to us, but make us the center of their attention. It's the desperation for me 🙄 We already know, the men who meet FDS standards are never mad at the standards 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 12:31 PM
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Was just on choosing beggars, and found some really nice people(/s) mentioning FDS They joke about needing "eyebleach" when encountering women with standards. I did us all a favor and downvoted most of the thread 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 11:24 AM
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You're welcome!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 04:08 AM
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I think all are fabulous! I admit, its a bit difficult for me to imagine being an aunt in ANY capacity, considering I'm an only child 🤷‍♀️ I have 3 Admirable aunts, so life does balance out. Edit So it looks like a guy tried to comment on this and say some dumb stuff?? Thanks mods for stepping in 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 02:53 AM
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Would you prefer marijuana aunt? Because I'm totally in support of that! I get your point, and I don't like how much wine is glorified online either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 01:17 AM
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You make an excellent point; we must have integrity and accountability as women! That is how we "earn" our respect. "Say what you mean, mean what you say"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 08:37 PM
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THATS MY EX! THROW HIM BACK IN THE TRASH!! but forreal, If his name is Dave, he is not HV. Get off bumble. He is playing you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 10:58 AM
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I'm so proud of you for facing your trauma. Your parents abdicated their duty to protect you, as mine did. I'm so sorry for that ❤️ The more I realize my worth, the angrier I get with my adoptive parents too. It sounds like you're a very courageous person, and you've had to put up with some pretty fucked up treatment. You're not alone in this. FDS is a saving grace for women who have been harmed by mistreatment and ab.use. I hope you can get away from your parents and shitty friends soon, and re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 10:54 AM
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Hate may be a strong word here haha, but I incredibly dislike crypto for a few reasons outlined here Mainly, it is volatile and value is hedged on other people buying it. I'm incredibly surprised the former article mentioned nothing of its environmental impact, so I included this reference. Edit: some links weren't formatting through mobile
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 10:37 AM
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I recently learned Bitcoin mining is one of the highest energy consuming processes in the world. I'm talking about 120 terrawatt hours yearly ( which equals out to over 70 million barrels of oil) 😞. Another reason to hate cryptocurrency. I understand why people have turned to it, but that doesn't make it any less harmful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 02:17 AM
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To each their own! I use it as a general term for NVM/LVM 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:56 PM
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Fuckboys
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 11:18 AM
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Yes 🤦
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 11:28 AM
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Could also be fellow FDS. A decent amount of us are bi, lesbian, and some are actively put off by men as a gender, not just a lack of sexual attraction. Im glad it's optional to see, with a NSFW tag. My curiosity got the better of me 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 11:09 AM
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I've noticed this weird trend too! The focus on looks, as I've heard from a male ex-friend, is because they view attractiveness as a qualifier for what should be normal, humane treatment (such as sympathy when a woman or girl dies). There is also their false assumption that all women have self-esteem issues, and just need a man's outside validation that she has been deemed valuable to society AKA "yay a guy wants to fuck me". But that was actually me translating his direct quote "She doesn't mat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 06:04 PM
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Agree with you 100%. The level of anonymity in wearing sunglasses, headphones, and a mask can give any woman "main character energy" :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 11:08 AM
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Same here! Its always been dad or daddy for me. The trend started with his dad, who my cousins and I called Granddaddy (sp?). In contrast, the word "father" was reserved for religious figures. Popes, priests, etc, so I can totally see how my family separated church and state lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 10:57 AM
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Can we make PickMen a thing? Scrotes who will choose any woman around them to string along & cover their fear of being alone. They hold no feelings for her, yet pander for her attention. He is willing to be picked by women he doesn't even like, because he understands that he has nothing to offer. He lacks value and is adamantly proud of his parasitic ways. He is a loser, a PickMen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 12:24 PM
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Currently listening to the podcast, and I'm having an extremely pornsick flashback. A ground level scrote (mid 50's, recovering drug addict who subsequently relapsed) who temporarily rented out the seperate duplex level of my family's house, ordered porn centering on young Russian women and that wasn't even the main reason he got kicked out. He did this when I was between a lease and staying in the same house. I am Russian. I feel entirely disgusted remembering this, and realizing that the peopl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 12:11 PM
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Can second this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 11:18 AM
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Thank you for calling out the unspoken privilege!! It's the main point that pretty much destroys all defenses of sex work in my eyes. There is the biggest difference in the world between choosing to make an only fans/sugar baby profile/ providing escort services and being sold into slavery/ to a brothel as a young girl or woman, and gang raped, mutilated, FORCED into an existence where their body is the ONLY commodity. The brazen audacity of voluntary cam girls really sickens me. Embracing sexua…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 11:01 AM
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Because guys see themselves in Rogen. Average features, scraggly facial hair when not awkwardly clean shaven, perpetual stoner, thinks he's funnier than he really is, has a goofy and semi-attractive friend who will use his looks to balance the bro couple out.... Oh wait, I may have described basically every sleazy male comedian. oops :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:33 AM
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It wasn't a pattern yet 😄 TBH the names I avoid are Mike, Ryan, Dave, Josh, and Nate. I'd say they qualify as four letter curse words lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:59 AM
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NGL, you had me in the first half. If sex is so sacred and incomparable, then why is it being compared to a phone? I, pRaY tO tHEe gOd of eLecRtrIcitY tHaT I eNjoY tHIs cHaRgE cYcLE lmfao. The mental gymnastics required are Olympic level, just a terrible analogy overall
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 06:39 PM
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upvoted for Troglodytes. One of my favorite insults :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 06:07 PM
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Yung Baby Tate said it the best in her song Mean Girl ​ B*tch, you just a penis I would call you pussy, but pussy just like Jesus
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 04:36 PM
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This is the main reason I now abstain from sex, had an HPV scare a few years ago that finally cleared!!!! Made so many mistakes and even got falsely accused of giving a guy Chlamydia, not even 24 hours after hooking up. I got tested immediately (obviously clean, had no symptoms before or after this incident, and we even used a condom so it obvi wasn't me) but NO this guy was convinced It was me. If anyone has followed my other comments, no surprise this mofo was in the army 🤮🤮🤮 for the record, e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 03:50 AM
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I wholeheartedly agree 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:43 AM
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Ooh yes, before deleting OLD I had recently matched with someone whos age was 30. After messaging for a few weeks, he informs me he had his 36th birthday ( he also chose to ignore me that whole birthday weekend, and spent the time with his ex wife). That lying ass man- ho. I sent him a bunch of laughing emojis, deleted and blocked, but first got screenshots of his profile and his messages and I keep it in the vault to remind me: THIS GUY IS A COP AND STILL LIES ABOUT HIS AGE. He is trash, and I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 03:36 PM
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How tf did you know both of my LVEX are named Dave???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 03:21 PM
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Part of the reason FDS works so well for me? My adoptive mother is my narcissistic ab.user. She has engaged in EVERY SINGLE ONE of these behaviors in her own way. Her ab.use was the main contribution to my pursuing equally shitty romanti-ships. By identifying how I need to be treated in a romanti-ship, the blinders were lifted on what I didn't want in our parent/ child dynamic. I needed to be told how much she didn't care about me, and if she wanted to, she would. That is the bare minimum for a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 02:33 PM
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2 years ago on a beach trip with new BF we were out drinking with his friends and cousin, he started dancing with her LIKE FULL ON GRINDING AND SEXUAL motions, after ignoring me the entire trip and refusing to treat me as a GF. I proceeded to get trashed and this group of 5 guys, and that PickMeisha really and blamed me for being Extremely Disturbed and upset. The worst part? They all talked about trying to fuck her when she wasn't around. She was a professional Pick me, fake tan, waxed everywhe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 12:53 PM
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I am having trouble reconciling what you call "talk shit about yourself". This goes against my personal philosophy, to never put myself down to make someone else feel at ease. If a woman introduces to me as their "future ugly bestie", I'd be turned off from any friendship with her. I could see the point she's trying to make, that maybe looks don't matter, but by making a comment focused on looks, it tells the opposite story. Women usually describe me as someone they know where they have me, whic…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 12:00 PM
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Lmfao Ive known so many real life "Johnny Do Nothings" 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 10:54 AM
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Medical rape happens quite commonly across USA, considering less than 10 states have actually made it illegal. The problem is it's not seen as rape, or assault, or infringing on a patient's rights. The common response by doctors? " But they consented to surgery" 😱😱 UH WTF, just as guys will see women as objects, the worst doctors see female bodies as objects. Partially why I think Morgue attendants , and working around dead bodies, is one of the most unfortunate jobs. Yes it is highly necessary …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 10:40 AM
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Oof I can understand the plight of veganism in the military. I've worked at a small vegan place and some of my favorite customers were stationed locally on base. They made it sound pretty unbearable food wise. I'm glad your sister found a way to make it through 😊 BTW commenting rudely on other's bodies, dietary choices, and insinuating about promotions gained through sexual favor top out at the most unsolicited, unnecessary, frankly disgusting ways of communicating. That woman could have done so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 03:33 PM
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You are absolutely correct, it has never been about women being in the military. Women existing is the problem to a lot of men. Women existing in a way that doesn't fit into the patriarchy. Women existing not for the sole benefit of men. Thank you for reminding me of the cold hard truth: men actively treat women as their objects of wars. Especially wars they have no business fighting in. Women and children have always suffered the most casualties, despite being the so-called innocent and protect…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 03:20 PM
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Cat eyes are ideal if you're cosplaying as a 😸 Big eyes are ideal if you're a baby and want to trick everyone around you into feeding you and changing your diaper 🤣 But seriously, larger proportioned eyes are specifically designed to induce caregiving, not sexual response I'm offering this information without judgment, as I've newly learned about it in the past few years ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 09:29 AM
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💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 09:23 AM
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Weird take on this, I actually hate the phrase "want babies". Babies grow up, they're only undeveloped enough to have complete control over until they start crawling. I truly don't understand the mislabeling of "wanting babies" with wanting to create a family unit that grows and changes over time . Like yeah, no shit I want three babies. For like one hour/week maximum to watch them eat their feet 😍 lol. Then they can go home and get taken care of by their parents, and I'll wake up for my dream, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 08:18 AM
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Lmfao I just saw this ad and immediately thought it belonged here 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 04:57 AM
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I giggled at this in the best way 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 04:42 AM
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This brings up an interesting question, how often are ShitBeards causing UTIs and bacterial infections in women???? I would say much more common than currently known. That's personally why I hate the idea of cunnilingus, because I KNEW how utterly lacking in oral hygiene most men are. It was much easier making a scrote wash his dick then getting him to brush his teeth 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 04:22 AM
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You've hit the nail on the head. It seems military parents can be extremely oblivious to how their careers hurt their children. Don't get me started on "surprise homecomings". ​ It is also incredibly disturbing to realize the people who take jobs in power and protection, usually use that to their own benefit to abuse and neglect the vulnerable around them. My friend adamantly warned me against dating cops, security guards, firemen, or any other community career. The most covert and insidiously a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 04:05 PM
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Oh I was a mess. Used to think I had to compromise my ethic code for someone in the beginning, show them how important they were, and as a "reward" they would then support my values. OMG what an unhealthy, trauma-based, PickMeisha, way to exist (largely based on having to earn my adoptive mom's attention and support, nothing is unconditional with her). So many curtains have been pulled back since then. I now understand what it means to make someone respect me. My control is over my attention and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 03:42 PM
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As someone who lost my father to cancer, and then had to parent myself and my mother, I FLAT OUT REFUSE to mother another adult. So, not exactly relationship stories, but after matching with hundreds of guys on OLD I saw a disgusting trend. I was openly vegan🌱 (thought it would weed out the idiots, but no 😞) and literally the first message will be "oh so you can get me healthy?!? Teach me please" 🤡 🤣🤣🤣 lmao it got so annoying, like now I'm supposed to be your mother teaching wittle baby what veg…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 11:30 AM
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😂 As most Russian guys are 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 09:21 PM
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Military man lifestyle is usually defined by : having a married relationship and children unlocks access to better housing and perks. While the guy is "working on his career" their wives become accessories to own, and you already know pick-me's are eager to be "Army Wives". There is also prevalent alcoholism. Similar situation as dating a law student or pre-med, spouse is never around but added in bonus of them being surrounded by like minded misogynistic assholes. Especially to their fellow fem…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 09:01 PM
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*Also Catherine the Great 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 08:43 PM
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"I stood up to someone who views me as completely irrelevant, and then COMPLETELY minimized my own feelings around it" THIS WAS ME!!!!! You know what this could've looked like? \I have learned this directly from FDS, Thank you for teaching me, Queens** "I signed up for a yoga class this weekend, stood up to my anxiety, and the class wasn't that fun. I'm honest about my expectations and disappointment for a brand new class, and talked to the teacher respectfully about what I didn't understand or …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 12:24 PM
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I am totally with you. Why isnt this article called "Stop Ghosting Women and Other Ways to Be One Step Above a Decent Human Being This Summer"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 11:41 AM
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"But if the wine is made from rotten grapes, he will age into mold. Gray, hairy, and crusty."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 02:22 AM
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Lol right? I love how the scrote response is for the woman to assault with a deadly weapon. It really just shows how insecure they are and how EASY it is for them to choose violence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 12:10 PM
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"I recently divorced"
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