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LibFem LogicNessaMonsta17/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 01:27 AM
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How-To High ValueNessaMonsta17/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 02:26 AM
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DISCUSSIONNessaMonsta17/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 03:01 PM
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I understand what you are saying, let's not put bad energy into the air. We are all very well aware how tricking dating can be. Now when you are older and have dated around, you know what you want and you are vetting, that helps expedite that process. And if you stuck to your standards and was offered an engagement then it's a win. This is an engagement and it will be a bit longer before wedding vows will be had. So it is still a pretty safe move. Remember that the truth is, there are no perfect…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 12:09 AM
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Hey congrats on your self discovery! I'm Hetero and I understand that life can be frustrating and confusing but their is always a beam of light showing us to our right path. I am super happy that you have found the missing piece ♥. Well sounds like you know what to do girl! Do I hear divorce party 🎉. Lol you deserve to live your authentic self. And you husband, well he will be fine and so will you. Right now things are not right and maybe you two feel burdened by the realization that you two sho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 08:56 PM
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This should piss you off. He is stepping all over you. Give him his console back and cut off all ties completely. Announce to your circles of friends and what not, that due to differences, that you have broken up and have moved on a long time ago. And wish them well and that you are so happy to be free and share that you now plan to " travel and maybe even move to the another country". This way word gets around and he will give up because you are too far gonna to salvage. The story doesn't have …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 02:02 AM
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Being a woman in a man dominant industry or having male higher ups..sucks. These mofos can reallly hold you back and treat you as if you are nothing more than a pretty face. And you should be excited to be subservient for them. I hate it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 11:31 PM
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Awe. I feel bad for her. What a jerk. Glad u found the truth. Well i pray the FDS Angels find her one Day. 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 11:21 PM
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Lmao she negged him. And he didnt catch it. This is exactly how you do self absorbed men!!!! 👏🏾 This is using their powers for good lol. Shoot this is exactly how i do men who are fuckboys. 🤗😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 11:12 PM
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Yup girl. I see all that too. And its pretty discouraging. Men want us to work AND be the bread winner and literally believe its ok for us to contort ourselves for them. I like your list.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 11:09 PM
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Yeah, true. How should i change it then? A suggestion would be nice. I dont want other mamas to feel attacked. I also only answeree the title questioned. So i can see how others may think it something else. Any suggestions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 11:07 PM
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Awe u called me sweetie. I am sweet 💕. I aint the one either so girl bye. Peace and all that good stuff. ✌🏽 Consider it over on my end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 11:05 PM
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Well good for you mama. Your the one who took it out of context though, hm why you didnt take the rest offensively. And I didnt msg u. U messge under me. And this post is not about effort. Did you read the original question from the OP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 10:58 PM
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Lol well because i assume people would be a little more aware, that i would not need to put a disclaimer maybe i should lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 10:48 PM
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Book smarts does not make a man a man. Assholes can be incredibly book smart. I see u missed the point and are stuck on single moms. You do realize that this is not a hard rule but just an observation. Im a single mom and a good amount of kids are growing up im single family homes, the majority are single moms. Does this mean every single mom is missing the mark. No not at all. But i have seen alot do. Plus its not exclusive to mommas. But if u feel some konda way then you are acting as if im ta…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 10:47 PM
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Lol its not demonizing. Its just pointing out a common denominator. Married moms can be over compensating too. My ex was a lazy, gaming, slob and his parents were married. Mama did everything and worked a full time job.. And the mofo was my worst nightmare. So these are reasons, not exclusive. Im a single mom, so trust I am not demonizing. I have 2 sons and a daughter and have watched other single and non single parents let there sons be told and treated one way and another with their daughters.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 10:39 PM
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(Im a single mom. Lol.) hmm I only answered the question in the title ya'll. Did not see that this is about a guy, and poly (Poly is really trending, yikes 🤮) and yada yada. Single moms over compensated their sons and held no expectations. Thus sons didnt learn to be proper men. Women want to be different by being the cool girl, or the well off girl. Both of these girls acceptingt men to play the spoiled position. When we take there role, they take ours. Men aren't being face with real consequen…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 08:56 PM
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Omg the Kevin Samuel's guy. He created a whole platform just to Neg women. I say we all report his page. I'm so sick of his toxicity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 12:48 PM
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Yes I just don't picture HVM men on her like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 05:17 PM
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I'm curious to see someone go all the way through to the dating. I wanna know is it FDS approved. Is it Queen friendly and supportive of HVW.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 05:16 PM
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Whoa.. Well that's not worth it at all. Premium just means they had money to put themselves in the front of the line. Also it can be completely bs and they just make u think he's this hot shit because he's "premium".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 05:16 PM
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Honestly we need to raise our standard. And OLD.. FORCES US TO LOWER OURS. Any woman practicing FDS really shouldn't be using OLD as a source. The most laziest of men are on their. It's a service of convenience. And they use OLD to get sex so easily. I mean come on ladies. They can pretend to be who ever they want on their. Also we need to practice flirting in person. Every opportunity is a chance to come across a high value man. HVM are probably tired of OLD, and would rather meet organically. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 05:11 PM
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Good point. I think it's something not worth worrying about until you reach exclusive status. We can also ask up front on the first date, about if they are online dating in some way where they easily give that information. In some form or way, but again they are allowed to date as many women as they want unexclusively, just as we are. It is only when it's time to decide exclusivity on month 2/3 when we should find out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 05:00 PM
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Yes we should. We should make more effort in being a positive group. We are not the "Daily Scote Sentinal". We need to be more supportive in the sense where we show positive interactions more often. So others can learn and get familiar with what that looks like. Because lately, the posts just really enforces the idea that we can't have positive interactions with HVM because it's like hitting the lottery. And that their aren't any good men at all. I'm wondering how you all are vetting for great m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 04:55 PM
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If I exist as a hvw, then that means their are HVM out their. High value people, people I can have as my friends are as part as my network. And as a hvw, I am defined by me and my choices. Its a lifestyle and a mentality that has served me well. I take my place in the world where no other can over step. I am a constant reminder that I will be respected and my needs will be met, or I will dismiss it. In work I am well respected and my thoughts and ideas hold alot of weight. I am the Queen of my h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 04:45 PM
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You should be pissed, angry, and want him to suffer because of his sadistic ways. I would hate the fuck out of him. You don't love him you miss the pieces of yourself he robbed from you. You don't love him, you just happen to be thinking about the last person you dated which so happens to be him You don't love him, you just haven't been fulfilling your life with friends, family, things you love because you we so stuck on being his perfect little slave. And now that it's gone you have no identity…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 04:36 PM
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Lol men only think we are this dumb because other girls are falling for it. So they don't even see us as intelligent or even an equal. To me I would of laughed and say yeah sure and then stood him up for even trying my intelligence. Because a reservation date vs a food court fmdate aren't even remotely on the same level. Food court, lmaoo that's like a teenager thing. I would of said yeah, just to fuck with him and then when he calls where are you. I would of laughed, " lmao, oh you really went.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 04:25 PM
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Oh my freaking gosh.. She tried it. To me that red flag screams sadistic. Wth.. She literally was testing to see if you would play into it.. As what?? a shit test?! That's insane that people would do this. Next time give a fake fear. And see what happens. I never tell anyone my vulnerabilities. Because lots of times the narcs and manipulators will poke their finger in that insecurities crack and force it open to gain power over you. And when they try with the fake fear of mine. I can see it as c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 04:03 PM
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Facts girl!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 07:53 PM
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Everyone go report it again. They are back up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 04:48 PM
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This sounds like teenager problems. If am man acts this childish, I'd just laugh. Man we got to teach young girls to not take these boys so serious. There is a difference with healthy administration vs unhealthy obsession.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 06:22 PM
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Wow... Sadism is a real disease.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 06:18 PM
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It must be nice to be the gender that has guaranteed orgasms, even if the chick is lazy like a star fish. Imagine all the quickies in public hidden places, like at the beach, or pier or fitting room lol. Is just a tease for a woman. Yet for men, it's a guarantee they will get off. If u could not make me orgasm three times, even with my direction. I ended things. I got tire of 5 minute men. And this became a hard rule for me. Lesson learn longggg time ago. This is why casual sex became such a ter…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 06:00 PM
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Omg, yes. Men sabotage other men. They regurgitate all these stories of women villains to the point that men fear women. The fear mongering is real and quite sad. Lol it doesn't stop the REDPILLERS or the MGTOW. Lol but it fucks with their head so much. And they think there winning by being dicks to all women. Yet are lonely as fuck and mad women don't trust them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 02:04 PM
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Ladies when a man takes something you do for granted, STOP DOING IT. let him figure out how to do it for himself. And if he gets upset at you and saids something say this " excuse me last time I checked, I was not born to be your (insert house keeper), or to do your (insert his ungrateful behavior). Since you don't have manners and don't know how to act like an adult about such and such. You now can figure it out for yourself. I will never allow you to treat me in such a distasteful way. Yuck. N…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 06:59 PM
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Lmao, I dated a gamer. Ewwwwww they are such dirty slobs. I would hardcore pass on gamer men. Anyways the saying goes "it's better he's home playing video games, then in the streets chasing pussy".. Wtf. That's supposed to be my options, I'd dump my man if he tried me like that lol. So the "it's all I have".. I would just die laughing. Is the man so pathetic that he can't do for him self greater things. Lol and if it's mother's day he should show the mother of his kids respect. Lol I'd end it wi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 06:52 PM
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Omg, I saw that video too, I had no sympathy.. He not once mentions why they divorced.. Evading the topic I guess. He lost so much blah, blah. None of it really emotional, it's was only emotional over the monetary things. A man who really loved his wife would mention regrets of losing her or if it was about how evil she is, he would mention how he tried so hard with her and how she painful hurt his heart with he evil ways. But all I heard was my money, money and money. Sorry but I bet he cheated…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 06:43 PM
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Lol, all the answers to this question, can be flipped on his head. The only right answer would be " What do you mean", let them answer and then say " so what do you think the right person would bring to the table" and let them tell on them selves. End with " hmm that's interesting". And then ghost them because what ever they answer is gonna be some kinda "in favor of man" answer. I just deflect stupid questions back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 06:27 PM
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The man is jealous of fucking tampons and a diva cup. And is being a total dick about it. It's as bad as throwing away you car keys. Cause he wants you to only come to him for a car ride. This is straight mental abuse. Period. 🩸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 09:38 PM
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Lol, I had a dead bedroom with my Ex fiance. (we got engaged 3 years in, now thinking on it, it was quite unremarkable). He said we had sex as often as an old couple. That he had done research. Which to be specific, sex was once twice a week. Lol so I started accommodating him and it didn't bring us closer at all. He was a typical narcissist. I met him at 16 and dated till 22. So I had no idea this was sooo terrible for me because I was a kid. I tried to fix everything. I have since kilt that Pi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:23 PM
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He was clearly embarrassed lol. Shoot she had second hand embarrassment for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 01:35 AM
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Like the guys in slippers. And all the comments are stating she should be grateful... Umm what. I mean they could be a nice couple. And maybe he does wanna marry her and means well. But this set up, this plan, this interview was garbage. All the Pickmeisha's are saying that she should of been greatful to even be purposed to. I'm like what.. The guy is in slippers. Your kidding right. She never showed she was ungrateful, she showed that she was disappointed that he thought she wasn't a little mor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 01:34 AM
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Hmm, I have done casual sex. All my ONS turned into regulars. I never cared if I heard from them again. They problem with casual sex is that men will even try to control and manipulate that too. So women can not even get decent regular sex with common courtesy. I once was seeing 3 men. I was casually dating and sleeping with them. And I had the advantage cause we'll I was not stuck on any one guy. Each of them fell for me overtime, the problem was they were each not worth a commitment. And littl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 03:48 AM
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There are house wives who don't cook or clean like a maid, who have kids. And their husband pays for a maid and a cook and a nanny and even funds his lady to start her own business. There are men who will buy you a car and not put there name on it. Their are men who will give you money to start your business with no tie to them, so that if u ever divorce it will still be yours. Of course these women are fairly nice girls, with strong personalities and expect a lavish simple life. Andddd so they …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 01:58 AM
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I have two sons, and a daughter and I am doing the same. No means no, to walk a way if a girl rejects you the reasons don't matter, do not be a creep and stare, respect boundaries no matter what, they do not want to be tickled then stop, they do not want to play with you leave them be. My sons are 10 n 14. And they are amazing, they understand alot. Etc, etc. Also teaching my daughter to voice her boundaries. Teach boys to respect boundaries. Showing my sons what sexist behavior looks like so th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 12:49 PM
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Exactly!! You said it. We are disrupting their world. By forcing them to be accountable and you know they hate that. The love to get away with murder. Look at David Chauvin, he really saw nothing wrong with his behavior. And it was clearly as day that it was beyond wrong. See they are used to get away with bad shit. Some are so sadistic to the point its not enough to just be bad, they gotta go the extra mile and add salt to the wound just to bask in it. Example: not only did I abuse her, steal a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 01:17 PM
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This is helpful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 02:21 PM
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I think that it's good you are doing yourself care. This man so far seems to presenting things well and making the effort. The key is to look at his actions and if what he is contributing is something that he is going out of his way for you, for. Some guys contribute things but they contribute that action or energy to every chick who looks his way. So it may seem fancy to u but it's easy for him and low effort in his eyes to pull this trick for man girls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 08:52 PM
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A man living like this is probably depressed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 10:37 AM
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yes, I passed it off as humor, till I realized this is a legit sign for a man.. I'm still not sure.. But this shit needs to be dumped. Cause the person buying it will look as stupid as the sign is. And that's just pitiful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 01:02 PM
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lol pls do, cause it sounds dumb. number 9 killed me. I died laughing. I thought this was about a little boy. Then it said ATM and a lawyer.. I was like but they are a kid.. then I was like wait is this for a grown man?! then I saw texts were gonna be monitored. And I was like wait what i'm confused..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 01:00 PM
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ugh, sounds like they had a thing (incest). You know when you come across weird shit and people... They whole time your like wtf is going on. nope nope, gotta get out here fast asf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 12:58 PM
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God, I loved how they let him burn. I think in a way they just loved that the women can handle there own shit. And if it got disrespectful to a bad level they would of kicked him behind to the curb. I just think they enjoyed getting to see him learn his lesson the hard way. This was done in a way. That he could never ever say they were the aholes to him. And this was a much more painful suffering then just saying get out. He got to experience all the other guys seee him hang ya know what I mean.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 01:31 AM
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What u said. "you can be groomed at any age". This guy is a sneaky little devil playing with women's emotions. And he had the audacity to blame her for his craziness. And she was a gold mine for him because he hit up all the females in her life. 1. To make her jealous and reactive and 2. To get access to those girls. He cares for no one but him self. He targets sweet nice girls for a reason and know that love bombing is the way to suck them in. He is probably a narcissists. What do u think? Op, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 01:25 AM
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This is because they are. Simple all men want sex, whether they want a relationship too is another story. And we need to stop allowing men to cop a feel. Like wtf. That shit is not cool. Like I didn't give you the green lite to grope me. Ew. And when they do, we NEED TO SMACK THEM, THERE HAND ETC. We need to be less, nervous laugh, hinty and sweet in our rejections and no's. We need to be more like " Hey jerk face?! What do you think you are doing?!" THEY think because ur smiling in your rejecti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 01:13 AM
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She calmed down so much so, that she magically unmatched him. Poof now u see me, now u don't. 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 01:03 AM
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Neg was taught in the pick up artist handbook and only works on insecure girls who are willing to jump to get there approval to feel validated. I just call them out on it and say how mean or awful it is. Guy saids ex is "ugly and blah blah". Me saids " whoa. You sound like u look down on people and that's so ugly and mean and very gross behavior. Just ew. She is a person like u. U broke up and u don't like her. End of the story right? So why go on a bashing parade. Aren't u better than such chil…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 12:58 AM
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Lol, it's always a stupid ass question. That's there game plan to slide into your DM's. He could of just asked or say some thing better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 12:47 AM
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She look like a dominatrix vibe. U better do better babe or I'ma spank u extra tonight! Lol 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 12:45 AM
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I have heard of narcissists stating they are narcissists.. Kinda weird to me. Lol. But also Sounds like he cheated and the ex girlfriend blasted his profile on the DL. I have done such things. If u cheat on me and leave your phone or accounts open, I will screw with your game plan. I will change your "searching for" to men and reword your bio. Text them girls u been playing " Happy anniversary (my name), I can't wait to go to our trip in the islands, you deserve the freaking world babe. Glad tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 12:43 AM
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Awww! My man does this for me too. He likes to share his food and spoon feed me it so I can try what he's having. Or he will give me the last of his fries or the last piece of cookie. Ah he so precious! It's so nice when your man knows you and cares. 💖 These are good green flags. Another guy tried this, an Ex that is and I was repulsed by the gesture and that guy was pushy and over reactive and he would try to get a tissue and pat my lips like I didn't know how to eat. 🤨🙄I was like ew. I'm not a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 12:23 AM
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Lmao. I always look at some of my exes as gross. Always the asshole ones. And I laugh. Cause I could be the LVW whose with them now. I feel bad for some of the girls and others I'm like yes u two deserve each other. A toast to your miserable lives together. 🥂 Lmaoo My baby daddy is miserable with his wife. He always looks at me as the one who got away. He was an Narcissistic ahole anddddd his wife is the perfect mean bitch for him. 👌🏼😂 God am I happy that I left that ass. Lol and his family.. Th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 12:15 AM
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Lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 02:07 AM
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Well video calls are a good way to weed out time wasters. Lol put them on the video call spot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 02:06 AM
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Yes, only shitty and insecure men do this. It's not our job to tell them how to be good men. They need to figure it out and getting mad at us when we have decided we are not interested due to there lacking personality and lacking initiative, is pretty immature. What if u decided u don't want to go to the same restaurant, are they going to get mean and condescending. If he made another account just to have the last word, lmao.. Then u won the I dodge a bullet contest. Lol I have certainly had my …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 02:04 AM
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I think u r missing a few words in your title. I get the jist though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 01:49 AM
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I wonder what else he is comfortable fucking with just to get her to be what he wants. I would legit dump him. He Knows SHE IS LACTOSE AND INTOLERANT. And yet he did the tampering on purpose. Like his intention wasn't to get her to enjoy cheese, his intention was to get her to shit herself and have bubble guts and cause her pain. Like what fuckery is this. She might as well been allergic to cheese and he would be like fuck it, you die, you die oh well. IF any guy treats you like this, you dump h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 01:24 PM
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You are think too far ahead. Enjoy life now. If and when a man comes and he turns out to be great these things will progress naturally. It won't be a challenge because he will be the right man. So enjoy life. Picking a man now or ever is not a requirement to be happy. So don't over think it sis. Your doing just fine as u are. 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 06:31 PM
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Look up anxious attachment,. Sounds like your guy. He is very insecure and is seek reactions from you to get a source of validation. And it's like a bottomless pit because he needs self love. And I'd suggest maybe giving him a hint at looking his attachment up. Could help him. He is trying way to hard and anxious people do that a lot because they want to lock you in cause they hate being single. They fear being unloved and that single must equal u loveable. These are some heavy unconscious thoug…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 06:28 PM
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Lmao.. Are we sure this isn't some teenager. Ijs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 05:17 AM
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Yep. Neverrrr lol. Keep your playing cards to yourself. Especially when shit is sour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 12:50 AM
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I agree, he is ahead of her and is already starting the divorce. And that means he is in it to win it.. Aka the money the businesses. So he is already say this to get her to trip and screw up. I would most definitely consult with a lawyer on such thing and make sure she has everything in order. Sooo she best beat him to the punch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 12:37 AM
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Wow. Yay for u escaping such a pushy person. What's next he will critique what you wear, what you eat, who u hang out with. Pushy men are red flags for me and shows me they do not care if they make u uncomfortable to get what they want and that translates to not being unaccountable and manipulative. And they tend to hurt women and then say it's your fault for not cooperating. Girl good for you. Don't ever feel bad for these guys, cause they never feel bad while they are manipulating you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 02:55 PM
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This is a Red flag girl. Move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 10:01 PM
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Round up your friends and have them come with your to collect your things. This guy's is Narcissistic and abusive and will more than likely behave if there is an audience. Important, when u break up be sure in that moment u move all ur shit, because he will spite you by destroying your stuff or with holding valuables, like birth certificate, to keep you bound. Or wait till he is a work and clear it. Play along like you care, so he doesn't get suspicious. Change you number the day you move out an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 10:00 PM
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Is he future faking with you lol. Hunny when he comes around again, tell him your seeing someone else and that ya wish him well and then block him. He is going to sit in his stupid, he thinks he can string ya along. The fact is he already has started his courtship with the energy of not following through. He is leading with it. You did not set any tone cause he already has. Soo based on that this relationship is dead in the water. Your job is just to reward good actions and leave bad actions. Se…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 09:45 PM
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You get what you tolerate. I'd be like "your right, it is what it is. I'm not happy, and I going to go get my happiness back. Enjoy your day." And then block his number and dead it. Cause he used a cop out and that's a hell no for me. Cop outs are LVM traits. You're good, you're losing a man who makes u feel bad, and gaining back yourself. He is losing a girl who added to his life and gaining back his boredom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 09:36 PM
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Your a great mom. And this inspired me to have a teach able moment for my sons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 09:28 PM
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Their ya go. PayPal ladies lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 01:10 AM
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This is taught in the pickup artist and seduction books. It's to attack an insecurity by DISGUISING the insult as a helpful gesture. This makes the person Hella insecure and thus question there worth. In a state of confusion the "Helper" gets you to seek them out more and possibly l bend over backwards, trying to win the validation of the "helper" again. So you can feel good about your self again. Subconsciously you will hang on every word of this person. It's a slow attack towards yourself este…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 07:16 PM
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Lmao, how do I drive?? I think I drive pretty good. I used to drive and always want to be in front. Took three fender benders to get me to see its not worth the rush. Mind u this is the span over 15 years. I'm 31. I also had maybe three speeding tickets. One very gnarly one, I was driving across states and it was dark and hardly anyone and I floored it... Yep right past a cop on accident. Soooo learned my lesson. To chill the fuck out. But yes with my family I am way more careful, by myself I ju…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 07:05 PM
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Did u dump him because he would not pay for your schooling or was there more. In the end of the day you want to rely and trust him. Not sure how long you two were going out. Paying for your school is not cheap and if he is rolling in his own money that maybe one thing, but UT is his money he can do what he pleases, even if that means retracting his offer. It ain't fun but then u know you can not trust what he saids and that he will pull ruggs from under u if u depend on him. This is where indepe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 06:49 PM
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Maybe report them so their profiles get trashed and they have to start all over. God these men are the most foul of the bunch, they only care about there dick by all means necessary. So u know what I do. I fuck with there heads. 🤣 "well You look like you would like finger up your a** and my friend here has a nice juicey penis, and u look like the type that can ride it real good. Mmm nothing better than watching two guys go at it 👀👅❤️" " ooo here a Pic of his sexy penis". Send a rando penis. Then…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 06:31 PM
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It all depends on what your end goal is. Marriage is a more serious commitment and only people who are serious really thought it through choose it. It has more benefits provided from the states, get more privileges. So That's for those who marriage has significant meaning, are sacred and spiritual. Some people marry for the wrong reasons and some women become the forever girl and still get left hanging. Avoiding marriage does not provide anymore security maybe even a little less actually. IF you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 03:56 PM
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Yes boo!! You walked away from his love triangle of you, him and his mama. He is codependent in her. Yikes. You hunny swerved on this dud. And you did it so fly! 👑 👑 👑.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 03:42 PM
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Lmaoooooo. You can learn the easy way or the had way. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 03:39 PM
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Id say "sure here's my venmo, send me $5 dollars and I'd do more than smiling, 😏" "whatcha gonna do?" "lol 😘 well send it and find out sexy with your" descripe something from there pick so they know u not a bot"" Then block them after you get your $5 dollars. Bet he won't use that Pickup line again. 😂😂💵💵💵 Hey get paid teaching lessons 😏😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 03:36 PM
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Oh God, who hurt him. 🤭 Wow so just fuck the widows and women who've escaped abuse, and women who have just moved on from relationships that were dead ends. But TBH Shout out to him for making it so easy to avoid bullets. Love when LVM show there ass makes it super easy to be next. These pages always make me laugh. 😂😂😂 Wish every bag of dicks would make obvious labels like this one. Life's golden ladies ! Another NVM in the trash, This is a win! He took himself out bahahaha! 🚮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 03:27 PM
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These are big Pickmesha's dreams.. Or shall I say exagerations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 10:55 AM
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Shame.. This woman's love is dead ass unconditional.. Till now lol Seriously I would be so repulsed. I dated a guy for a month whom was dying to lock me in. (spoiler: he was nuts) and I learned real quick in that month that he was not in fact handling his hygiene. I dumped him. 🤗. It was crazy cause I told him "no its OK, take a shower first, no babe brush your teeth first" I dead ass would not kiss or fuck him till he did. The fact that I had to instruct him or point it out was like a "Oh hell …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 10:53 AM
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Wow. This is big Pickmeisha energy.. So like what happens if history repeats its self? She gives up her child, to have a "new family" and thennn new guy dumps her ass anyways and she is back at square one.. Falls for a new guy and then what? Wash, rinse, repeat? Dead ass she should be reported and her kid should be taken from her and her uterus too. She don't need to be a mom period. SHE needs an intervention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 10:41 AM
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I have given men 2nd chances but it is determined by what the "crime" was and how much they owned up to it and if they tried to be a weasel. *Example 1: "crime committed" I'm sorry but "blah blah and u made me" NOPE, NO 2ND CHANCE. Manipulation was involved when act was being done so you would not question him aka narcissist behavior, abusive behavior, mental abuse. No legitimate excuse to treat anyone like this because it was truly harmful to the state of mind or well being. *Example 2: "crime …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 01:49 PM
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Sorry long answer :😅 I asked him if he had feelings for me, he said yes. I asked why he never told me, he said I didn't ask 🙄. I told him I liked him too, that why werent we dating, we should be dating if we shared the same feelings. That we should date exclusively, he said he didn't want to hurt his ex, I was pissed by this BS excuse.. So I said sweetly "Ok, well it is what it is, oh well. I didn't lose nothing. It's all good 😉" basically agreed with him. A man can't dislike a woman who agrees …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 01:27 PM
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Women you have much more control than you take. You have to set your own bar & dead lines. You have to re-evaluate the men you date after every stage. If I date a man for a month. I DECIDE IF I WANT TO CONTINUE. Why do you leave it up to the men? Ladies first. If you want to continue & he isn't showing up, then DEAD THE DATES, THE PROCESS, ALL OF IT. Do not waste another second on "maybe he will change his mind". Forget that. Why do you want a man who is flaky at best? Stop this lingering crap. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 08:52 PM
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It happens girl, Without any follow up questions to the guys there. You just won't know. Men aren't wired the way we are. They don't always go for the "prettiest, girl" and pretty is very subjective. A woman you define as "pretty" may not be there cup of tea. A woman you determine as "ugly, less than" maybe just right in the looks department. I grew up with nothing but guys and was raised by a single father. So I can tell you that for sure they have very different reasons that motivate them. You…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 03:09 PM
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It may have nothing to do with looks hun. What if other girls were leading with sex. That could explain the off event. Why would u assume it's one girl getting all the attention and that it's because she is prettier? U got get ur insecurities under control. It was one event and ur letting this affect ur self esteem. Shoot other women in general could of gotten picked over u because they could of simply had better chemistry. Again it could be multiple reasons or any that just didn't work out in u…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 10:38 AM
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Relax, it's just one event geez. Ur not ugly at all, lol. There just could of been a girl who got all the attention over u this time. Shoot this can happen for a number of reasons. So stop over thinking it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 02:43 AM
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Wow, I am so sorry for all of this girl. Hang in there girl, you are making your way out of the pit. Its like you were born in to this dysfunctional and sour life. And it is not fair. I come from some sour beginnings as well. I will say this, you keep focus on that goal of yours and you will make it through. I did, and now I broke the cycle and I think my own family is waking up a bit. I'm not here to save them though but to save my children from repeat anything of my familys past. So girl you a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 12:21 PM
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Wow, Thank goodness you got out. He sounds terrible. I hate when they try to "neg", make you question your self for having reasonable needs. Lol I just throw it back at them and correct them and call them out. They try to turn the table and I just stand my ground and leave the first time I see garbage.. You will find another man that will treat you the way you deserve. The key is to not settle till you meet what you have been looking for and to always respect yourself. The moment they do somethi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 01:44 AM
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You said it your self. Watching porn is cheating according to you. So he cheated based on that alone. Though he doesn't have that same criteria himself. Thus in his eyes he didn't cheat. But he sounds crappy regardless. I mean he is purposely rubbing tinder in your face, shoot that just proves it more. What man goes and flaunts his tinder to his Ex, that's just straight up douchee. He did have a bad temper from the beginning. I think that was your red 🚩 flag right there in the beginning to leave…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 08:02 PM
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What are you basing this on? Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 07:37 PM
21

Is it me, or in a lot of movies there are sexist. Like Peter pan, almost all disney movies.. I can think of them right now... But it's like I woke up and realized how embedded this stuff really is. 365 days was cringy and sexy lol. Totally not realistic. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 03:44 PM
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I his is wild.. And the award for the shit test person alive.. Goes to that guy. Oh I have delt with his type... And they are fun to toy with. 🤭. I never reveal my weakness cause guys don't deserve the privilege of seeing the side of me. And I just sit back and always pay attention to where they trying to take this date. I have my exit strategies in place for when they try to lead the night in to sex. "Oh I'm so sorry, I forgot I have to drop so and so to the airport. I can't stay or they will k…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 12:44 AM
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Yes. That's how I feel. Friends make a world of a difference. Some of us aren't that great at connecting with new people and THAT I think is a skill that people need to practice. When you have friends, you don't really care if your single. Because u get TLC, from friends and family. The laughs, the fun, the compassion. But when you don't have a support group of friends it can be a challenge to feel good about being single and not let that loneliness push into a low value man's arms. I have a fri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 10:20 PM
4

She could of just adopted a child if she wanted it that bad...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 02:39 AM
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Jesus crisis. And he's only 20 with such a bitter attitude.. Ugh that's why he single asf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 02:34 AM
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Yes 😊. Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 11:09 PM
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Yes Queen!! This, what you said is exactly what being a Queen is about!!! ♥ ♥ ♥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 01:45 AM
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Lol. "Sometimes the knight in shining armor that you love, is just an idiot in tin foil" 😬.. She will think back on this and realized she dodged a fool And will laugh. Hope she has some friends to bring here back to reality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 10:11 PM
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I get mad too, cause there are scum. The reality is you can not let these bad guys affect you. There are good men out there, maybe hard to come across but we shouldn't let bad men make us bitter towards love. So taking it with a grain of salt. We can lift each other up as a sisterhood and leave lvm behind. We don't need to stop our flow to entertain them either. I think pointing out a lwm is easy once you figure it out. But the goal should be to be good at pointing fingers. I think know the sign…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 12:27 AM
12

This is why I tell them to call me. I hate texting. If you can handle a 15 minute call and let me live. Bye... Girl I can't these days. They bore me to death with there texting. Jesus. Smh ☠️😳🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 12:18 AM
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These girls either are playing the game of money or they are getting played into the abusive game. I think certain gaps are real but 18 and 60..yeah right 😂. Maybe 35/50, or 20/30 but you can tell. I do feel bad for the girls who are being tricked and controlled. Those men give me pedo vibes. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 12:00 AM
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Lol, he suddenly decided he wasn't ready for a relationship.. Lmao drop him asap. Unless you enjoy being his safety net. What he wants a texting buddy and cuddles for free, with some dip. 🤣 Hunny he is gaming you. He played his role, got all nice and warm and fuzzy with ya. Now he is pulling that carpet under ya. He has you in the perfect position for fwb. And since he gave all shaky answers, you think there is hope. He is not confused, this isn't rocket science, he just doesn't want you to get …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 11:56 PM
6

Lol, you should tell him yeah and then don't go. 😂 That's what I do with these chums. "so when I'm gonna see you?" me : "oh yeah, soon. Maybe like this weekend" and then I never go. Get busy don't answer the phone 😜 And then when they get pissy and mad, and try to call me out, I say " why would I take a guy serious if he can't even take things seriously and acts immature. Go find find some other little girl to play with. Cause I only date men who walk the walk."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 11:43 PM
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I second this. She is coming from the mind set of lack and that she is scared it could go wrong and she will be in pieces again. She is literally bracing herself cause she is used to it. 🤗 Hugs to you OP. I have been right there. It's ok. "it's ok if it doesn't work out because there will be more great guys cause you know you are worth it and you won't settle for trash again. So you have every right to get comfy and enjoy it cause if it does ever end, there will be plenty more of good guys for y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 11:34 PM
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The best way to enjoy being single is to have a life of self love. Get into a lot of hobbies and dress up for yourself. Make it a point to have lovely bubble baths. Work out to care for yourself. No piticular goal but to have fun. Always wanted to learn something, now is your time to do so. And be friendly and invite your friends out to dinners, movies, hang outs at home. Develop your entourage. Me and the posse are going to New Orleans for a week. 😉 I paint, cook, draw, work out, joke with stra…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 11:23 PM
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I think you guys are in alignment on many things but you are not ready. He has achieved his goals quite quickly and u feel left behind. You also shouldn't have baby's so soon, big family dreams or not. You aren't ready. And he has final say over everything.. You probably don't feel all that equal to him. I think you need to tell him to slow down. 24 years old, is still getting a taste of the water. He has some shit together but he still needs to understand that your hopes and dreams matter too. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 11:10 PM
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Omg yes!! Lmaooo. I got post this to my page 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 10:56 PM
1

Lol, I have but seldommmmmmm. Like 1 out of 20. But he will usual have a bit of a gut. And yesssss, he looks like a slum. And one guy I was talking in text, had a decent profile Pic, but when he sent me a Pic in text..... Omg he look like the guy in that Pic. I was like ewww.. Like are u even trying.. Turned out he was an unemployed bum who was fire like 5months ago. Be had the audacity to say "I hope your not one of those girls who cares about money"!!! I said "Excuse me. I have busted my ass t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 10:43 PM
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He looks corny. I'm over weight too. But I look good even with it. And I can't be bother by these types who disrespect ya from the jump, like woman are just dumb sheep or something. These men are full of caca. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 10:11 PM
3

Omg, block him!!!!! He is sounds sinister!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 03:34 PM
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Oh let me count the ways.. The ways I can ask your for sex. 😂 Funny he won't down right say it but he will fluff up the wording a bit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 04:38 AM
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Wow. Ew. Girl this is why I get so annoyed. Cause we go through all this trouble and we get meh.... Smh next him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 06:06 PM
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Suspect. Honestly. The tingle in the gut is the warning system doing its job. The question is maybe be patient and see if he slips up. I'd snoop if it's possible. And if I find something, I'd start to detach. And leave. I would not waste my time trying to talk a cheater out of cheating. Clearing they aren't ready for real commitment. And why should I have to even talk about this, when he should be mature in the relationship. Example: I had an ex that was getting notifications from a dating site …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 05:26 PM
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LMAO I just got tired of this (lvw) mentality. I am cold to people that try to bring me down. I am all about uplifting and living in the gratitude. These sour girls can try ya though. You throw it at me I'm get a bat and hit right back. Get my home run and leave with my happiness still lol. I'm sweet but I'm spicy. lol I am always ready lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 01:38 PM
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Exactly, gotta laugh at her foolishness. Cause she came at you with that so YOU WOULD BE HURT AND LEAVE THEM ALONE..but you were never the issue. Yet that goes over these lvw's heads. ANd that lvw behavior. To become a HVW you have to learn this lesson sometime. And so that little dose of medicine don't taste good but it helps her, since she wants to learn the hard way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 01:33 PM
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Lolz, I have made girls cry just for such things. If a girl acts this childish and trys to throw shade in my face just to feel better about herself, then I humble her ass and then throw in a dash of something about the guy that will make her feel hella insecure about there so called relationship. Every woman will get insecure in the bedroom if they find out the guy is into some weird kink that they think is gross and they cant live up too. Yes, its a lie but she will never know cause he's alread…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 01:29 PM
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I would of ate that bitch for breakfast. And just add salt to her wound. And said " yeah the" I dunno know her trick", lol he told me that about you too. How funny. But I left him. The sex was meh, but he sure knew how to eat me out for 3 months, he especially loved it when I would sit on his face and grind. Mm delish! He also loved when I fingered him, what a squirmer. 😏Ahh the memories. Ok girl, byeeee 💁🏻‍♀️"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 02:01 AM
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Lmao, she is dumb as rocks. Bet she felt Hella good saying "Oh He DoEsEn'T rEmEmBeR yOuR nAmE." Insert mocking spongebob. Girl like jcole sang, 🎶 " don't save her, she don't wanna be saved" 🎶
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 01:49 AM
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Wow, this isn't funny at all. And the fact that people joke about it is sick. Like how can you laugh at that shit. Pedos love to integrate. I think this is apart of the problem. Pedophiles need to have harsher punishments and so do these jokes. Smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 01:31 AM
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Wow, that is scary. He is abusive, and this is just the beginning. I had an abusive boyfriend tell me he wanted to slip something in my drink so I can experience the high he so chased. And so we can be high together. He was a drug addict and he had friends who did this.. And I was the good girl trying to be a savior. Never ever again will I do such a stupid thing like date a crazy or broken man. But hear that made me fear for myself and she should be afraid because he isn't afraid to over dose h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 11:02 AM
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Omg, lol. I have a pickmiesha friend. And yes she comes to me everytime she has trouble with love and her son. She is a coworker. She calls me her best friend but really I'm like a free therapist always lifting her up. And she is gets super jealous when guys show me attention or anyone. She will say "and what about me?" or a guy smells a perfume "oh that's me" and a bunch of shit like that. In the beginning I would offer to hang out or do favors cause she was always in a crisis but I soon realiz…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 03:42 AM
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I cringe when I think about the shit I had put up with. I wish that someone would of schooled me. Both my baby fathers screwed me over and hurt me incredibly and I was so desperate for there love and validation. Bd#1, was a total narcissists. I did everything and he was a lazy slob and could not support me at all. He wanted all my attention and was jealous of my friends and manage to tell me how everyone didn't like me and so I started to distance myself from them. I never thought to question if…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 01:54 AM
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