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| 5 | Correlation between paper and dice roleplaying games (e.g.: D&D) and LVM?I've met people who met their spouses through board and online games. But I'm not close with them and chose not to be friends with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 04:15 AM |
| 214 | Beijing is doing everything to pressure it’s female citizens to have more children, except actually making it materially easier to be a mom. There’s already a gender imbalance and a soon to be crisis in elder care. Chinese Women are telling them to get bent. 😆Well, they did favor male over females so... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 02:36 AM |
| 53 | 🚩 RED FLAGS 🚩 Career edition 🤭😳 (psychopath edition 🥲🧛♂️)Agreed. Almost all the classmates who were gunning to be doctors had the worst characters. I didn't want to enter med after that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 01:09 AM |
| 6 | If he continuously sends too many texts in a row, cut him off. Don't let a man blow up your phone.Block block block. No need to feel bad or feel it's too extreme. He knows what he's doing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 03:20 PM |
| 21 | Worst proposal I ever saw.Any person who puts on you on the spot are losers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 04:18 AM |
| 178 | This is THE energy 👸The people allowed in my life are the people who increase my happiness, which I'm already bountiful of. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 04:17 AM |
| 194 | FDS Success in the wild.Crocodile tears. They don't mean a thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 09:22 PM |
| 187 | I had a frustrating conversation with my father.You can't get through to people like that. Save your energy for something else. My father would hinder my education by deliberately starting me one year later, wouldn't pay for my education and if I did achieve something, it would be because of his godly genes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 09:20 PM |
| 47 | Have you noticed how much better the quality of your sleep is after cutting all contact with a LVM or simply sleeping by yourself?Can vouch for this. Hell is other people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 09:00 PM |
| 26 | Some subtle things LVM do when they’re interested in youOmg any sign of LV from men and women, I will act like they don't exist. It's so not worth taking their sht and try to look at them in good light when there is absolutely nothing good about them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 05:04 PM |
| 36 | "Why won't women date me? I'm a NICE guy!"If a guy has to say I'm a nice guy, it's a huge red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 02:13 AM |
| 6 | How do you dress at home when living with an SO? Do you feel pressured to dress for his “male gaze.” Does he complain or suggest things? Y’alls experience?If he was a respectable 'fella', you can wear anything you want, feel comfortable and it would be rainbows and sparkles to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 07:59 PM |
| 209 | Why are there so many stories of shitty men not respecting women’s’ bodily autonomy?Women get anti abortion laws and men run scott free? Any form of coercion should be persecuted and their 'manhood' should be taken away from them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 12:28 PM |
| 27 | If you’re into spirituality, be careful. Men will think you’re stupid.Also cut off anyone who believes in facing consequences in the afterlife. This means they won't be taking any responsibility for their actions while they are alive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 08:02 PM |
| 11 | Pay attention to how he talks about his own mother and sistersEven when men talk highly of their mothers and sisters, it doesn't mean they have the capability of loving other women. They grew up with care and love, so in their mind they think that the women who come into their life will revolve around them too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 08:01 PM |
| 1 | To all the beautiful ladies on this sub, head up high and stand up for yourself always!What about women who abuse women who stood up (for them)? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 12:04 PM |
| 14 | Porn Addiction Is More Common Than Anyone Wants To AdmitThere are also women who are addicts as well. How do I know? The people I used to hang out with all the time would make incessant comments and jokes about sex, would always want to know the relationship or dating status of anyone they take interest in. Overall they were terrible people. I just entered my twenties when I first met them, and as they were older than me, I assumed perhaps this is a part of adulthood conversations. I was very wrong indeed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 11:05 AM |
| 8 | How a man gets angry is very revealingLook at his actions and any flashes of anger. The older he is, the better he's able to hide that anger, however it will come out as vindictiveness in his future actions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 08:07 AM |
| 12 | That’s what actual “Traditional” means. I think people tend to forget that.If someone really wants to cheat, he would find a way. 'If he really wanted to, he would.' | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 07:45 AM |
| 188 | Always be skeptical of men's relationship woes on Reddit. When my ex persuaded me to do poly so that he could cheat on me, the narrative he posted to reddit was "my girlfriend manipulated me into opening the relationship so that she could get a sugar daddy"Whenever a break up happens I always side with the women first. But if that woman is going to stab me in the back despite my support, both are LV. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 10:27 PM |
| 38 | It's not that he's "changing". It's that his mask is slipping off with time.Hmm, I think she's projecting her own issues with body image and self love on you, especially since you've been making effort and changes. If she disturbs your peace or makes you question about yourself I would drop her. Rather be alone than surrounded by LV people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 09:57 PM |
| 51 | It's not that he's "changing". It's that his mask is slipping off with time.The rule I follow now is if anyone is on the fence, it's a no. No more 'wait and see what happens', 'maybe they were in a bad mood, had a bad day, maybe I should change, think differently, etc.' Underhanded compliments are a red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 09:49 PM |
| 32 | It's not that he's "changing". It's that his mask is slipping off with time.What about your friend that makes you on the fence? E.g. when they say something and you don't respond in a way they wanted, they get angry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 09:44 PM |
| 146 | It's not that he's "changing". It's that his mask is slipping off with time.You can sometimes catch his mask slipping if you say or do something that doesn't follow their wanted agenda. It's a flash of anger or frustration. This applies to women as well. When you see that, run and stay out of touch with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 09:34 PM |
| 36 | The bigger a dude, the nicer he tends to be. I don't even care about height from an aesthetics standpoint, but I don't date short men because they usually have a Napoleon complex and terrible personality.I've met tall men who were LVM, it really depends on the person. But it really does seem shorter men have bigger egos. Throughout history, men who pursued conquest were all terribly short yet succeeded in much bloodshed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 11:40 AM |
| 33 | He belongs to the 🗑️ Don't cry don't make him understand don't explain 🤾♀️✌️👑Now we know why. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 04:18 AM |
| 10 | Apparently food can affect one's masculinityBe wary of men who gender food and will also eat particular types of food to boost his 'masculinity'. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 08:22 PM |
| 18 | Excerpt from chapter 10 of "The Gift of Fear" by Gavin de Becker (available online for free)Another way to resolve conflict- he says it's in the past, move on, let it go, let's solve it tomorrow, go to sleep, I'm busy let's about it later. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 08:21 PM |
| 15 | UghStrive for better, but make sure you have supportive people who will share the joy with you, not people who will be jealous of your success and try to bring you down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 10:59 PM |
| 65 | How would you ever be able to trust him again? Disgusting.Never take nudes. Guys take their chances and snoop at girls' devices any chance they get. LVW and pickmeishas as well because they have to one up you always. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 07:40 PM |
| 25 | Breaking my mindset from having a NVM dad growing upGreat job! I never understand why moms don't leave even though they have supportive children. I also told my mom to leave her NVM husband, she can go to college, I'll drop out and start work, it's going to work out and she might find someone else! But no, she would always make it our fault that she has to stay. It was a total nightmare. I felt guilty for wanting to leave but deep anger in staying. How did you get over feelings of guilt or indecision? For example, when I out my foot down sometime… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 07:37 PM |
| 69 | Homosociality: Male Bonding at the Expense of WomenA war tactic is divide and conquer. I've even heard managers saying about how turning everyone against one person brings everyone together. How sick is that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 07:19 PM |
| 47 | Trading her self-respect for a Lego setOne year later.... Wife is an alcoholic and husband is still hugging the Lego of his dreams. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 07:17 PM |
| 3 | Remember ladies - if he doesn’t respond to your text within a reasonable amount of time he’s not excited about you.I've always hated texting and tried for the sake of my friends. But nope, if you want to talk to me, let's talk IRL. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 03:35 PM |
| 5 | For my fellow Queens with mental illnessI highly suggest looking into your trauma wounds as well. You can hold high values but when you don't apply them in your life or you don't understand why they're doing this, maybe believe in positive change and goodness, etc, it's, very easy to fall into LV mode. With mental illnesses, give yourself some time to recover before getting diagnosed. One tactic known is to make you feel safe or high, then make you feel low, these highs and lows become worse and that is how you get an imbalance, one o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 03:34 PM |
| 10 | Anyone else find certain shows/movies infuriating now that you've found FDS?When I rewatched some movies I found red flag this red flag that... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 03:15 PM |
| 190 | Horror movies about the risks of letting LVMs into your lifeIf you've had an LVM or LVW in your life, you've already lived through a degree of horror. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 03:12 PM |
| 10 | The guys who get the most mad about "generalizing men" are the ones where the generalization 100% applies to them 😂99% of abusers are male -drjesstaylor | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 03:07 PM |
| 13 | Has anyone else’s tastes in music changed after finding FDS?Music nowadays sucks. When I do enjoy a melody or two and look up the lyrics I'm shocked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 03:04 PM |
| 2 | Possible interesting red flag of pickmeisha or LVWWow. I also agree with that most come from hyper religious backgrounds. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 04:43 AM |
| 78 | Ladies, I have officially become a born again virgin, thanks to the logical gender!Yep. All my LV friends used to make fun of me that I didn't drink. Well, I can have as much fun and party just as hard without getting hammered. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 01:08 AM |
| 48 | Starting a social circle/ life from zero. I’m looking for some much needed advice.I'm in the same space as you. I realized I was around a lot of LV people and it was all very one sided. First and foremost, be your own best friend. A lot of my previous friends would shame me for the littlest things, and I realized they were very unhappy and jealous people. Being surrounded by those people only made me feel lonelier, and they actually put me in danger as well. So be your own best friend. Second, think about your boundaries and limits. Not what you tolerate. To tolerate is to sl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 01:05 AM |
| 66 | Stop letting men triangulate you against other women - they are trying to deliberately belittle you because they are threatened by your confidence. You are a Queen. A bad bitch. You laugh in the face of men who try to make you jealous- you see them as insecure and attention-seeking. They are LVM.Abusers tend to always be in groups of threes in any given time. Look for the pattern | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 05:27 PM |
| 40 | Notice the little things!I wouldn't give people the chance to redeem themselves. They know what they're doing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 05:26 PM |
| 40 | Men don't negotiate with women in relationships--they expect to controlNo wonder why so many men have anger issues. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 03:50 PM |
| 15 | Cluster b menParental figures who were narcs set their children up for lifelong suffering. And people around them think they can't be that bad because they're your parents. Only when you go no contact with them and resolve the trauma in yourself, then you will be able to stop ending up in other narcissistic relationships. A lot of research says cluster b accounts for 10% of the population, but I believe the number is much larger. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 03:48 PM |
| 52 | Are men even attracted to women?They're only attracted to themselves and believe the world should be too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 03:44 PM |
| 15 | Queens-Please read this for your own education and safety. Also, found this on an incel thread: https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill. Some of it is NOT easy to stomach but better to know and be prepared than blissfully ignorant while these creatures multiply.Do you think it applies to women who hate women? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 02:47 PM |
| 17 | When in doubt – imagine you're giving advice to a young (er) girl.You can find everything in yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 02:46 PM |
| 60 | Not holding men to a high standard while dating them because you're afraid they'll disappoint you is a self fulfilling prophecyNot holding my woman friends to a high standard has also led to disappointment. It's not a matter of being a snob, it's a matter of preference. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 02:27 PM |
| 9 | Sass-mouthing angry bitchYep! And what's so interesting is women who say they're crazy. And it's best to believe them because they will be either pickmeisha or LVW. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 02:23 PM |
| 31 | To all the dudes who call us incels, shameless, gold diggers, sexist.. don't be mad you can't pull us even if you tried. I know you're mad you can't get access to every woman's body and we don't listen to you. I know you're mad. What you are defending directly oppresses women. Sit yo ass down 💅🏽🥰Wow, no wonder why when you're with certain people, you feel tired or angry all the time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 02:08 PM |
| 17 | I hate this! (TW, abuse, r pe)Sofia Vergara is so sweet and funny. Watch her interview where she talks about other women talking to her husband in front of her. She lets them talk but knows that her husband isn't interested in them. That interview was disgusting. I don't know how Sofia kept a smile on her face without dissociating. I feel sorry for Holly. If she has to be treated three times a week for several years, what is her family doing? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 01:57 PM |
| 9 | How to become a HVW?Practice and surrounding yourself with HV people. Even the most confident woman will have doubts in the back of her mind. The key is to hold your ground and giving yourself the time and space to take breaks. Boundaries are a good place to start. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 01:50 PM |
| 8 | Finances in MarriageOut of interest, do your parents come from a certain religion or culture? How did they decide that your dad covers everything? Regardless, I've come to a conclusion that this is how I will live if I ever get married. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 01:45 PM |
| 6 | Protect Yourself Online!!Yep yep yep. Definitely agree to all of these. Some men even make an excuse and move to the same area as you and act as if it was a coincidence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 01:41 PM |
| 10 | The woman my LVex cheated on me with told me "You have to trust your man" when I was catching onto themLVW seriously enjoy watching other women other. They sometimes purposely cause the drama. Honestly these women will only get worse as they grow older. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 01:32 PM |
| 34 | Most men have bad taste. Don't lose yourself or your uniqueness trying to conform to it Chances are, the male gaze is not your aesthetic.People with bad taste envy those with good taste and try to mimic it. Except it becomes cringey. Male and female gaze happens because they have never seen anything so beautiful like you and will steal your glow. People can be so f-ed up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 01:29 PM |
| 77 | Why is it that women get shamed for being "gold diggers" (even though they aren't) but men can get away with using women so much? Answer: Patriarchy.In the old old age, men used to marry women for money then murder them so they can marry other women for money. Now if that's not gold digging what is? Patriarchy projecting their BS on women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 01:19 PM |
| 2 | Conversation vettingThe lengths that people go through. I had one employer who tried to sabotage my job search and when I quit he said ' oh you know your supposed to tell where you're going to work next?' like no I don't? Often I find people asking irrelevant questions. And if I don't feel comfortable with one question, I just roll my eyes and move on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 01:17 PM |
| 8 | This person could not legitimately see the glaring red flags. Comments are filled with women telling her to run and she's still confused. Don't let this be you.If you're unsure, it's a no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 03:20 AM |
| 55 | "If he wanted to, he would." Stops hurting so much in time when you see it for what it is.Yep. If my friends wanted to get in touch with me, they would. If someone leaves you, there is a good reason not to get back in touch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 03:17 AM |
| 6 | Conversation vettingOoh that is a great vet. People can become so good at hiding their agenda. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 03:13 AM |
| 156 | Go be "difficult" ❤❤Oh this is a good one. I was brought up with letting people have their way. Well you know what, I think I would contribute more than those people who had their way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 12:59 AM |
| 4 | Be careful with men who watch anime. Pay attention to lifestyles.Yeah... I don't consider that as a hobby or interest. I also think cosplay (other than Halloween) and being into superheroes are a huge red flag of immaturity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 11:57 PM |
| 6 | I hate that I’m so preened to say ‘Yes’ automatically and give men my phone number when I’m not interestedSometimes I let people trample over me because I get so sick of them being pushy or nagging but that's when you lower your boundaries. From now on I will just bite people who push or nag me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 11:54 PM |
| 6 | Vetting for rapistsAlways vet his character first. If he crosses boundaries earlier on, he will definitely cross them enough to rape you. Also, don't be afraid to scream, slap, kick, punch, etc when he does try something. I use to not to any of that to not cause a scene but your safety matters. Rape isn't something easy to overcome mentally. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 11:51 PM |
| 25 | Women have been conditioned to always put themselves last and not rest- so self care is ESSENTIAL ❤️Sometimes we might not even know how to rest. Or saying no when we want a rest. Instead of how others feel, we need to know how we feel. Why is there a saying 'Behind every successful man is an amazing woman?' or why mothers are so important to a child's upbringing? Happy moms = happy kids, sad moms= sad kids. So yes, how we feel is so important, in fact, it's the most important and it's so hard to accept it as it is because we've been conditioned from early childhood that 'feelings don't matter… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 11:27 AM |
| 153 | Pay attention to men's attitudes about aging.Also be wary of any men who call you his sister. Predatorial attempt to make you 'feel' safe around him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 03:35 AM |
| 33 | Nothing surprising here given that videogames are a breeding ground for LVMVideogame phase during child and teenage years are fine, but as an adult it's become a clear red flag. All the LV people I know in my life still play video games. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 03:23 AM |
| 108 | Beware of the Men Who Want to 'Find Their Pam,' This Could Be Your Future.While Jim adds a comedic relief on the show, I would definitely not want a Jim in my life. I don't think highly of Pam either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 03:21 AM |
| 154 | Most men don’t ever think about if they are enough for you. They just assume so because you’re with them.Men who say they're not enough are also manipulating you to lower your standards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 11:59 PM |
| 146 | The effort a scrote puts in before and afterThere is an interview where the guys were grouped together and girls in another group. The women cast were great- glowing, positive and funny. The interviewer was a woman and the first question she gets asked by the one of the male cast were 'what's in your drawer?' as there was a drawer behind her. He proceeded to heckle and make jokes with sexual inneundo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 08:07 PM |
| 21 | FDS & British Royal Mantra: 👑 Don’t Complain and Don’t Explain 👑Yep. Complaining is a manifestation of resentment. Resentment is a very strong and difficult emotion to process and recover from. Anger is the sign that you need to take steps and change course. What about calling people out? Prince Charles was definitely not HVM and from observing Kate Middleton and Megan Markle, the Royal family don't seem so pleasant to be around with. Where is the line drawn in having power but not abusing it and having power and welding it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 02:41 AM |
| 343 | 🚨 Male shit tests and the pickme radar 🚨The whole point is to lower your self esteem and break your boundaries. You'll be left wondering why. BUT. If you know why they're doing it, you won't fall for it and you'll see how pathetic they really are. Paraphrasing from a book on human evolution: 'Men's survival depends on how they can manipulate women into sexual reproduction.' | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 10:31 PM |
| 24 | How do you respond when men ask questions or make comments about your intelligence?Don't respond and walk away. Studying neuroscience has nothing to do with one's intelligent. Don't waste your time with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 08:51 PM |
| 34 | Underneath the mask is another mask, and under that is an abuser 😩I think we should make a roast page for male reddit lurkers. This post oozes with 'ooh look I'm so intelligent, libfem, not like the other guys progressive nice guy, white male and I believe in horoscopes looking for a girl that's unlike other girls'. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 04:17 PM |
| 18 | A woman I know shared this...😬There is no understanding in any part. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 04:11 PM |
| 42 | Why is it that girls always have to be "modest" and "appropriate" but boys can just do whatever? If you're worried that a yearbook photo is too sexualized, YOU have a problem, not the girls in the photo.It's totally acceptable for gay (boys) beauty gurus to wear a face full of make up for their yearbook but when girls wear makeup they're called cake face or attention seekers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 02:26 PM |
| 5 | Bumble BFF is full of pickmeishas, MLM scammers and wannabe “influencers” 🙋🏻♀️🙋🏾♀️🙋🏿♀️🙋🏼♀️🙋🏽♀️This! I'm so glad this subreddit exists and advocates for women, but it's unfortunate that there are a lot of women out there who think putting other women down is essential for survival. Even though being a single lady is really rewarding, having a solid group of girl friends is like adding a cherry on top. Other red flags I've found in LVW: - They copy you and constantly say you're so lucky, I'm jealous, etc. It shows they have no personality of their own and are unhappy with themselves. - The… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 12:23 PM |
| 6 | What the "critics" think this subreddit is teaching women vs. What it's actually teaching womenOr they get really mad that they're treated like a wallet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 12:13 PM |
| 31 | Kick him out 2021: What do you refuse to stand for?I've been kicking out a lot of people in my life, so this will apply to both men and women. If there is a red flag or any part of them that makes me think 'uh...' I no longer give chances or sympathy, my life is too short to think about other people's behavior. Do I actually like hanging out with them? This is a surprisingly underrated question we need to ask ourselves. If there is a difference to our values, I will no longer compromise. We are just different people and it's important to find th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 12:10 PM |
| 9 | Can we talk about the hypocrisy?Sex work isn't empowering because your income depends on the men seeking it. It's a huge red flag if men engage in those services because it shows that they lack the communication skills and emotionality to connect with people. It also shows instant gratification. lack of gratitude and very wrong beliefs about money, power and women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 11:57 AM |
| 36 | Ain't that the truth. 💅🏽😙 It barely takes an year to figure that outI find the healthy and happy couple marry within one to two years. Abusers will try and lock you down in two months. You will be able to tell who is an abuser between two weeks to two months. Women who wait for the proposal will be waiting for their whole life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 11:27 AM |
| 92 | When it comes to snooping & men hiding things from their SO. The truth hurts! Let us normalize "snooping".If you're ever missing things, there is a high chance that the LVM (or LVW) took them. They do this because 1) if it was something expensive or decent looking, they gifted to someone else 2) they don't want you to leave so they take away necessary documents 3) they don't want you to have something nice. They will act like they're innocent or don't know what you're talking about. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 11:25 AM |
| 30 | Pickmesha MomsA lot of psychologists might be narcissists themselves. They enter the profession in hopes of curing themselves. Also, a lot of narcissists go under the radar because they're so apt in fooling other people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 03:11 AM |
| 13 | Detecting LVM and PickmeishasExactly. It's the adrenaline prepping you for a flight or fight response. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 10:03 PM |
| 5 | Avoid joining an activity if your sole purpose for joining is to meet menI join activities for the sake of activities, but get very disappointed only to find out a majority of them are 'hoping' to get in a relationship of some sort. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 09:18 PM |
| 2 | A reminder to you beautiful ladies ❤️I had a friend at school who would shame me for wanting a 'perfect' guy. I never said perfect btw. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 09:16 PM |
| 3 | Made an fds move today but am confused why it keeps happeningIt takes time to level up. As to why it keeps happening, only you can find the answer to that. I would suggest stop giving your energy in calling them out. Most people know what they're doing and they're playing you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 07:39 PM |
| 40 | If your spouse watches you suffer, then they don't care about you.Or they are the source of your suffering. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 07:08 PM |
| 14 | Many women are unsafe at the workplace.Yes. It's so disgusting. What's worse is when women pit against each other and bully other women. It is so sad and unproductive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 07:08 PM |
| 55 | The loneliness of leveling up.Definitely. With losing friends, I feel like I've awakened a second time. Looking back in my life, I really liked being alone and I was also much better off when I was alone. My mother would force me to be social and hang out with people she seemed 'worthy'. She told me there might be something I haven't learned from other people or that other people can help you in the future. Her advice got me in so much trouble. All the answers are inside. Loneliness does pop up, but when I remember the times… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 02:27 PM |
| 19 | Why an abusive man won't stop bullying/ The benefits an abuser won't give up - Lundy BancroftOne day the world will truly end. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 04:45 AM |
| 9 | Want to meet men? Walk down the street with a saucy grin and carrying an extra large pizza box. /sSome guy bumped into me on a wide open street with barely any people and tried to start a conversation from there. Another time I bought takeout for myself and a guy who was driving in a car asked me if I needed a lift. The audacity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 03:30 PM |
| 203 | Yet another scene of Covid restrictions lifted and men GO FUCKING NUTS because starved of female attentionWhere I live there has been a huge increase in stalking cases. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 01:33 PM |
| 13 | Went on a lot of coffee dates in my pickme days.. never again!I've read that men call these hang outs to cushion the possibility of rejection in the first place. ***sies | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 10:16 AM |
| 37 | A reminder to VET THEIR FAMILY! An example of a LVF (low value family)When you're marrying someone, you're marrying into their family. Also be wary of momma's boys. They will always value the opinion of their mother over their spouse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 07:25 AM |
| 8 | Do men treat women badly who come from single mother households?Predators, no matter what gender, race or age, will target vulnerable people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 11:26 PM |
| 7 | The Male GazeI had managers who did this. At first I thought it was micro managing behavior but male gaze it is! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 10:05 PM |
| 5 | Shaking with rage at pederasty on redditWow thank you, do you have any statistics or data on how women predators' behavior differ from men? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 09:45 AM |
| 72 | I have never been spoiled :(Spoil yourself first, you'll see your standards level up and you don't need a man for a lot of things Even if they are being 'spoiled' by their bf or whatever, are they in a loving relationship? There is a quote somewhere on this sub along the lines of 'I'd rather be a beggar on the street than -forgot this part - rich'. Basically you could still be pickme even if you're getting what you want materially from men. Are your friends HVW with HVM? If so, maybe ask them directly for advice? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 05:51 AM |
| 67 | To my fellow WOC - if you date outside your race be careful of “woke” guys. There’s a good chance he’s a LVM putting on an act to impress you.Definitely. I've met men who are pro-female or calls out toxic masculinity or join BLM but don't support his own community. All talk and no action. Seriously wtf goes on in their head. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 05:45 AM |
| 9 | Anyone else see a problem with a 4 year old making her mom PROUD for decorating their faces with make up?If the kid is exploring get mom's closet or playing around with make up, that's fine. But if the mom is forcing/coercing/using the child's interest to promote herself and her life, then it's no different from human trafficking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 05:09 AM |
| 148 | Went on a lot of coffee dates in my pickme days.. never again!Men have asked me if I wanted to grab coffee. If it were strangers, I straight say no, if it's someone I knew, I thought it was a friendly hang out. Now I know that in their minds they think it's a date. So now I just won't go anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 09:08 PM |
| 11 | This subreddit helped me avoid a LVM. Thank you.Yep yep yep. I was in a similar group and the guys there kept asking me how I ended up in the group. Turns out almost everyone came as a couple and they would f* each other. It's just to see who they can talk to and about who. So sickening and the girls apparently come to find a bf. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 06:23 PM |
| 12 | Double standard? Forgiving ourselves for low value moments vs.tolerating friends low value actions.I think you should choose your friends based on how you feel when you're with them. You should be able to be honest with them and they are honest with you, if not, then it's okay to drop them and move on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 03:57 PM |
| 133 | The men in the audience were not ready for this absolute savageryI used to think like that, then thought about gender equality and what it really means. What I found out, even if you stand for equality, you will never be equal in the eyes of men who think they are above everyone else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 12:50 PM |
| 56 | A question?....isn't that just being a dick? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 10:46 AM |
| 3 | My rant about the "mental health awareness" crowd on social mediaThank you, I totally agree with this. If something 'triggers' you, it means that you haven't healed that part of yourself. People think that by passing their toxicity to others will somehow remove the responsibility away from them. It's another form of the blame game. And the said thing is, often there is no cure for them because they don't think they're the problem. They think the world owes them something and it can only be done by stepping over other people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 09:18 AM |
| 1 | Some additional ideas on what to vet for.Also, if you do talk about these things to him, watch for his responses next time. If he reacts overly nice to wait staff or act pro-female, LGBT friendly, you will feel the fakeness and awkwardness of the situation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 09:10 AM |
| 1 | What's the point of The Wall?When I hung out with women older than me, I always get told I'm young, oh such a baby oh, you're so lucky, etc honestly what matters more is your mindset and spirit and that is what's going to show on the outside. You think you hit a wall and you're old? You're old. You think you look great and feel young? You're young. Men (and predatory women) target young women because somehow they think they will regain their youthfulness by trafficking, yes trafficking, young women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 02:58 PM |
| 30 | The Pink Tax and Makeup CultureThis is so interesting! What was a standard makeup set in the 90s? What about skincare? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 01:41 PM |
| 16 | I'm in a blind rage. Look at the top youtube searches that start with the word "feminist."There was a post where one of the top Google searches were 'How to physically beat up my wife/girlfriend without leaving a mark'. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 12:29 PM |
| 10 | Beauty: Man and boy. Girl vs woman.Wow, amazing. This explains a lot of about the fashion and makeup in patriarchal societies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 11:58 AM |
| 20 | Not everyone has a heart like yours 💌Is it bad that I ask people 'what was it like growing up in your family?' Or 'Are you close with them?' to others? For me, it's to validate my own experience and to learn ways grow, or if they're close, it's good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 06:13 AM |
| 68 | Men - Step UpMoney? I have my own A place? I have my own Status? I'm the Queen Power? Refer to the previous answer Beauty? I check it inside out So tell me, why should I 'hang out' with you? I already have everything I need. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 06:49 PM |
| 8 | Why do they only do this to me?How do you not let the comments get to you? I consider myself pretty thick skinned but there's only so much one can take... It makes me scared of wearing beautiful things. I'm comfortable in my simple jumper and sweatpants, but I also like to dress more sophisticatedly at times too. Most of all it makes me annoyed when I definitely know that they earn more than me. They just spend it on booze and I don't know what else. | /r/askFDS | 19/05/21 06:42 PM |
| 34 | Don’t change your last name for a manYou can always find a name you like and change it. Or when you find the family you belong to, change your name then. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Today is Meme Free Monday!Glad for this implement. I had a male scrote coworker stalking me (not this account) and lurking on FDS. He gained almost 15,000 karma points through mass posting memes and gifs on FDS and other subreddits. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 07:57 AM |
| 8 | What is the term for this behavior?Men-yeah, what about women? I know some aspect is an attempt to exert control or power but it's just weird. Me too! But it seems so hard to have a genuine conversation without people having an agenda of some sort! | /r/askFDS | 18/05/21 12:53 AM |
| 17 | What is the term for this behavior?If they're not bothered to make a conversation, then why ask to hang out? | /r/askFDS | 18/05/21 12:43 AM |
| 5 | Tired of being shamed for wanting my own big houseWhy do rich people own gigantic properties? Most are probably in unhappy marriages, which is why they need tons of space in between to avoid each other. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 11:18 PM |
| 17 | I'm sick of people thinking sex is a need. It's not. It's a want and a privilegeMen and women have asked me 'don't I have needs?' 'don't I want to be loved?' 'don't I want to be treated nicely?'. I used to think it was part of adult conversations and I was still young at heart but FDS made me realize they're people with problems. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 05:53 PM |
| 39 | Settling because you want kidsVirgin Mary had baby Jesus without a father and he turned out fine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 05:44 PM |
| 48 | Yes you CAN be intimidatingly beautiful and that's why scrotes don't approach you (a blessing in disguise)!I totally agree with this. I used to buy cheap fake accessory/jewellery to save money but now I'd rather make bank and wear it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 05:41 PM |
| 12 | Yes you CAN be intimidatingly beautiful and that's why scrotes don't approach you (a blessing in disguise)!Or they try to tear you down, and if they do, they go their next victim while comparing them to you. Usually the women get uglier and uglier (inside and out). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 05:40 PM |
| 27 | It’s lowkey empowering to embarrass old scrotes that try to approach you lol.How do you deal with backlash or the man made consequences? At some workplaces, some men take offensive at the slightest rejection (e.g. I'm focusing on my work and he comes to small talk, or I'm on my break and say no to lunch) and they hold a grudge over that and spread a whole bunch of rumors and sabotage my work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 05:28 PM |
| 11 | I prefer taking myself out on dates✨Reminder some that men, including waiters, will come over and try to coerce you into something. Just ignore them. Also, if you have any friends who think you're weird for taking yourself out, drop them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 05:30 AM |
| 4 | Ladies, I need your help.You shouldn't be dating in the first place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 08:44 AM |
| 38 | Men and Pickmes are confused because they think men are necessary, rather than optionalI'd also like to add that women are the houses. Comedian Tiffany Haddish quote: "my body is a house". To add more context, I hung out with a lot of pickmes in the past and those were common topics. You can sense when they have a hidden agenda embedded in those questions or if it's out of curiosity. Pickmes and scrotes tend to base their questions on physical appearance, who dated who or how 'liberal' or 'taste' in one's sexuality is. And they compare everyone and everything. And when you tell th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 07:22 PM |
| 73 | Men and Pickmes are confused because they think men are necessary, rather than optionalA filter I use now is whether these people express interest in your relationship status (or relationships/specific people in general) or sex. I used to think that it was part of adult conversations but now I see it definitely as a part of conversations-with-problematic-and-insecure-people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 07:00 PM |
| 39 | 3 Reasons Why Narcissists Need to “Replace” Their Partners:They also have no sense of self or self awareness, hence they will copy a lot of people to create their 'ideal self's or an identity they think that will get them what they want. Sadly, it's all temporary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 06:54 PM |
| 16 | Should you ever date a guy w female friends?Nope. It's a sign that they're really insecure and lack the masculinity to make friends of their own gender. | /r/askFDS | 12/05/21 08:50 PM |
| 16 | Just got attacked by a man on the street for not talking to him.This is so sad. Even when women don't respond, it's taken as an outright rejection by the fragile egos men have. And whose lives are in danger? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 03:14 PM |
| 5 | I have this manager...Don't write them on your resume. In the interview just bring up you're looking for something different. Vet your interviewer as well. We live in a mediocre world run by mediocre people. Also, if I were you I'd give them no notice. They don't respect you and giving notice is a something thoughtful. Leaving will allow you space and time to focus on your job search and healing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 06:28 AM |
| 3 | Ways to protect your devicesThis is really good. Boundaries to a whole new level. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 09:12 AM |
| 49 | It's safe to assume that every man you date only wants sex from you —until proven otherwise.Yep, men and women can't be friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 07:09 AM |
| 4 | Ways to protect your devicesWow I did not know that. I won a Google Home that I don't use but I'm going to throw it away now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 03:25 AM |
| 8 | How do you introduce friends to FDS? I need advice and success stories.Drop them and find new friends that align with your values | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 02:03 AM |
| 7 | Dating guys you don't have feelings forNo, no and no. It's like going out shopping and buying a bunch of clothes you don't end up wearing. You've just wasted money, space and time. | /r/askFDS | 10/05/21 02:29 PM |
| 67 | True crime and age gapsYeah, older pickmeishas also eat the young. Old men predate on young women because of their naivety and inexperience. Old men also use young women to create jealous or competition with older women for you-know-what. Sometimes an age gap relationship will work out, but the more common outcome is an unhealthy and insidious power struggle. Disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 02:25 PM |
| 15 | British/ European woman in their twenties, how do you navigate dating while sticking to FDS principles?I agree with LVM being an universal thing. It's a matter of behavioral patterns. I think your current bf was lovely in that he asked when you were free then planned something, no questions or 'let's see where this goes' or gauging your interest. It sounded like he was just genuinely interested in you and courted you properly. At what point did you become interested in him? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 08:40 AM |
| 8 | One "good" thing I learned from my NVM relationshipHow long were you in that relationship and did it affect other areas of your life? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 08:22 AM |
| 26 | Patterns Of Thinking And Behavior Often Displayed By AbusersGreat post. I'd like to add push-pull dynamics into the mix, maybe under power play. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 03:35 AM |
| 25 | How to stop women from seeing you as competition and more as leader/respectable friend?I'm trying to figure that out too. Because so far, every woman at work has seen me as a threat and bullied me. No compassion it preaching is going to help. And I realized it's not my problem and not me. It's about them being pickmes, jealous, insecure and tasteless people. Take your light somewhere where people want to support you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 10:31 PM |
| 30 | You CAN teach an old dog new tricksOld dog? I thought you were a cougar. I'm half your age and pickmeisha is a new term to me too. Girl power! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 09:03 AM |
| 10 | Mother’s Day PSAIf I was the guy I would organize something with the kids to celebrate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 08:55 AM |
| 37 | This is ‘modern masculinity’ in a nutshell lmaooo declining birth rates tell us you aren’t in demand ‘bro’If a man claims a woman to be mentally unstable, avoid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 07:59 AM |
| 8 | Classic scrote cheating signs- from the rookie to the serial cheat. Why modern women must trust instinct > firm evidence.I'd like to add check the bathroom first and take note of the length of your hair and the hair found. Also check for missing items. Scrotes love to cut corners, steal your shit and gift it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 02:51 AM |
| 4 | Be as “ELITIST” as You Want in Choosing a HusbandStory: A guy was doing work experience at his dad's friend's company. He had a huge apartment all to himself in the middle of the city at the age of 17. Didn't finish high school, won't be entering university and will be joining his dad's company and eventually succeeding him as CEO. But he was the most entitled, narcissistic dumb kid I had ever met. If you tell him no or disagree, he'll get angry and vindictive. And he rates women, telling women in their faces if 'you're womanly or not'. I aske… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 02:39 AM |
| 35 | Why is waiting 3ish months to have sex seen as such a deranged/controversial thing?IMO sex = reproduction. Human babies are born out of love. Love is beautiful and rare. No more no less. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 04:50 AM |
| 33 | I can never listen to "baby mama drama" the same anymoreWhen men say that sexual harassment happens to them as well, I say it's complete bullshit. More than 90% of reported cases are women and instigated by men. When a woman speaks up she's called crazy and needy. I have also met pickmeisha wives who threatened their husbands to have another baby or fake pregnancies. Edit: even if they threaten to leave not sure if they follow through with... Either way it's sof-ed up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Reminder: Mamas, you CAN do this alone - you don't need that ScroteI wasted ten years of my life acting as a therapist, nanny and cheerleader for my NV mother. Yes, NV. Honestly some mamas never learn and abuse their daughters instead. Good on you for getting out and all the best for your kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 04:00 PM |
| 19 | Can we discuss the “men age like fine wine” tragicomedy?😂🤣😱. Also, it is men that “let themselves go”. Men that complain about their wife losing her looks are lazy, not good providers (she is overworked and undersupported) and have drained her of her life energy.Studies have shown that when women asked how their body figures were during grooming process, most of them replied they looked thin and well-figured. Only through withstanding the abuse in the relationship, they lost their health gradually. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 06:39 AM |
| 16 | Don’t tell men about your standardsSome will ask you what you think they need to improve on. It is so pathetic. Just walk away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 12:49 AM |
| 2 | A few lessonsIn my experience, people don't really change. Calling people out is useless because even if they do change, it's only enough for you to stay then rinse and repeat. I just distanced myself then cut the cord. You don't have to explain yourself. Also, think whether or not they really care if you left. Some might get offended but being offended and genuine worry are two very different things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 10:58 PM |
| 11 | Why don’t LVM directly breakup with women?I think it's to off shoulder responsibility. If they don't break up with you, they were never with you in the first place. You get what I mean? Pfft. | /r/askFDS | 05/05/21 11:00 AM |
| 3 | Me! Me! Pick me! Keep picking me hubby!! I’ll treat us both 🙋🏻♀️and you’ll never have to feel bad!We either go out to eat at a fancy/boutique place or we stay at home. Also, I would never marry someone who constantly says 'We need to save money'. Also, I would never buy gift cards for fast food chain restaurants. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 08:29 AM |
| 26 | Red Flag = Block and DeleteIt's like a pathological disease ... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 10:07 PM |
| 96 | Hard factsWell put. By saying I'm not like other girls, I also had no voice, lowered standards and ended up hanging with pickmes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 10:06 PM |
| 3 | The "Tell-Tale" signs of jealousy/envy are not always the samePeople who mirror you are not inspired by you, they're black holes who wouldn't know how to live their own life without mooching off someone else's. They say that it's flattering but I've always thought it's downright creepy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Don't share your address with strangersOmg cannot stress how shocking people can be from personal experience. Some people have truly no conscience nor morality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Don’t let society or Reddit tell you that spending money on an engagement ring/wedding is foolish!IMO, the proposal and wedding should be something personal and special to the both you. If he ain't right in the first place, fix it before a it fixes you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 03:36 PM |
| 29 | Today on Manslators of FDS: Words Weaponized Against WomenThis is gold. Because a women didn't choose to bend to a man's whims, she is subjected to discrimination of all sorts. What's even worse is pickme's who join in on this absurdity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 06:24 PM |
| 4 | Women who have experienced trauma, what have been some of your levelling up wins?I definitely agree with this. It can be really hard because my friends had tight-knit families and couldn't understand the concept of family members being abusive. Or you meet people who take advantage of your vulnerabilities. It's hard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 03:02 PM |
| 48 | 🚩 RED FLAG ❗️🚩 making you live up to the “cool girl” personaWhich is why it's even more important to surround yourself with loving, compassionate HV people. No matter how confident or strong you are, when you're hanging out with LV toxic people, it will eventually wear you down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 01:46 AM |
| 83 | It was not WitchesOld age witch hunt is the equivalent of mobbing/stalking in modern society. It is to repress the power of femininity and establish control/power over women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 01:01 AM |
| 15 | He likes me but doesn't want anything serious???He's playing the game. By acting distant suddenly, he wants you to think about him, decrease your confidence and lower your standards. Tell him exactly what you've written here. 'This is so fucking stupid' and block him. Better yet, just block him and move on. He'll probably just bombard you with more texts if you say you're interested anymore or something. Insecure loser guys seriously. | /r/askFDS | 22/04/21 06:35 PM |
| 15 | How do you learn how to control/manage your emotions?Take a deep breath Get some distance if you're living together. Live with someone you trust and don't contact any mutual friends. Take the time to reflect and think about your relationship, yourself and your own life. Then make the decision. Surround yourself with love and compassion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 04:37 PM |
| 2 | Green/red flags when dating as a single mother?I wouldn't let the guy and children meet until you're sure about this guy. So there is a Stage 1 and a Stage 2 of vetting. But let him know you about your kids and see his response. If the mother isn't happy, the children definitely won't be happy. Depends on how old your children are as well. And look for how your children feel about him and you. Children can be very insightful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 10:42 PM |
| 38 | Living On My Own For The First Time At 36.I've been told this by my ex landlord as well. I'm a terrible liar and blurted out I lived alone a few times. Is it telling everyone that you live with family or a boyfriend? Congrats to OP for leaving an abuser! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 10:52 AM |
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