As women, we are constantly bombarded with messages that we are not good enough. That we don’t have autonomy over our own body. That we are damned if we do, damned if we don’t. That we are not safe from other men.

A high value woman has put in the work, on her self, on her relationships, and on her life. She has gone against society’s conditioning to become strong within herself.

She can take care of herself physically, she can care for those around her, she can have a career, and she can buy her own house.

She is powerful.

She does not need someone that makes her feel less than. She does not need someone that disrespects her. She does not need someone with addiction or pornsickness. She does not need someone to take care of. She does not need to convince you that she is good enough.

As a man, you need to bring VALUE to her life.

Calling her beautiful once a month doesn’t cut it. She has her own validation.

Taking her on a date once in awhile doesn’t cut it. She could take herself out, or go with her friends, or the many, many suitors that would love to take her.

Splitting everything 50/50 doesn’t cut it. She could just pay for herself… like she has been doing… before she met you.

So instead of trying to bring women down, which you won’t be able to ultimately do because women have dealt with shit for years and we are only getting stronger. Why don’t you step up and become a better man?