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TRIGGER WARNINGPsychologicalPay2353/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 07:43 PM
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MESSAGE FOR MALE LURKERSPsychologicalPay2353/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 12:59 PM
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#JustLVMThingsPsychologicalPay2353/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 03:42 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYPsychologicalPay2353/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 07:00 AM
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STRATEGYPsychologicalPay2353/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 08:13 AM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYPsychologicalPay2353/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 02:22 PM
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SCROTES MADPsychologicalPay2353/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 09:10 AM
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DISCUSSIONPsychologicalPay2353/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 09:50 AM
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PsychologicalPay2353/r/askFDS22/06/21 12:05 PM
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STRATEGYPsychologicalPay2353/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 06:48 PM
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QUEEN SH*TPsychologicalPay2353/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 10:10 AM
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PsychologicalPay2353/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 01:57 PM
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CMV - good luck tryingPsychologicalPay2353/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 10:55 AM
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Question For WomenPsychologicalPay2353/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 12:46 PM
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FINE AF FRIDAYSPsychologicalPay2353/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 10:57 AM
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That has got to be the stupidest reply I read ever. I didn't even mention white people???? and when I said "men" I meant all kinds of men. Fat men, white men, ugly men, creepy men, stupid men. Just mind your fucking business when you go out at night and stop ogling at girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 01:51 PM
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Between individuals whose very gender identity and orientation don't mesh? I mean, obviously. But I hoped this would be implied- it's more than obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 11:49 AM
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I don't adress mental health disorders and the consequences of internalizing trauma, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 11:48 AM
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That incompatibility is not based on disparity between sexual desires (because both have none for each other), but completely different gender identities and orientation. Gender identity and orientation should be something you ought to be well aware of before even contemplating sexual intimacy. That makes you - unable to read with comprehension. I literally described sexuality and the hallmarks of it, and you went and tried to cherry pick something for a "gotcha" moment. Nice try tho
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 11:15 AM
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Stop comparing racism with being wary of your safety. The approach to racism and your own safety are very, very different. Looking out for your safety doesn't include you lashing out at someone/attacking them/discriminating them. It literally means being aware of your surroundings and keeping a healthy distance, should things go south.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 11:13 AM
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Ah, you're a troll. Got it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 11:09 AM
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Obviously not. You also, very obviously, failed to read and understand the part about sexuality. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 11:06 AM
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Did.. did you even read anything I posted?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 11:03 AM
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Except no one ever pointed a finger at a random guy and said ew he's an evil rapist. Us being wary of random guys at night shouldn't be insulting to them at all. The only instance they could be insulted by that is if they feel entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 11:00 AM
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Yup, OP can't face the cold hard facts and is blaming attitude. Well, when you come at me with an attitude "women bad", don't expect me to coddle you, you big baby. Talk like an adult, don't go away sulking how women bad. Lol. As I said, you're laughable, OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 10:17 AM
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No, I am WARY: learn the difference. I'm not going to blindly trust just anyone (including men, women, brown people, old people, whatever kind of people you like), and I am especially NOT going to be comfortable around men alone at night. It's just bonkers what you want from us, when you KNOW how people (but mostly men) can be. I'm not going out of my way to meet the guy at night to see if he's safe or not. I'll just stay safe by staying away. If you're insulted by me being wary, you're entitled…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 08:28 AM
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That's not really an answer to my questions. Why are you avoiding them? You can't accept the truth?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 08:09 AM
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It's not about being right at all, lol. It's about being safe. That's more important to us than being right. Surely you've seen all too many pictures of Bundy adapting perfectly into society. How can we not be afraid of seemingly normal guys as well, when one of the most notorious killers that lived acted very normal indeed? When guys get insulted by that, you know damn well where the problem lies (ie it's not women)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 08:08 AM
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Ok WOW. Dude! Ask 5 girls you meet on the street today (if you go out) if they've ever felt uncomfortable/scared of another man. 100% that ALL OF them will say yes. I've never met a girl that wasn't made uncomfortable by a creepy guy. When a guy is uncomfortable/scared of a woman, it's big shot news to everyone. NO ONE turns a deaf ear to that situation. And I know only one guy who was made uncomfortable like that. And to this day, people in my uni still talk about, and are very aware, of the si…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 07:45 AM
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I have yet to meet a scenario where a girl cheated and the guy got called an asshole. Stop imagining things. You seem very tingy when you talk about women- are you alright? When exactly did you offer a good piece of advice to a woman (that was also WARRANTED)? Or did you just butt your head into someone's conversation and tried to be a smartass? My guess is the later- no wonder you got laughed at. You're laughable! Why would guys resent themselves if they themselves weren't guilty of whatever th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 07:41 AM
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This is a great comparison, I love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 09:01 AM
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Thank you for the post. It's insanely important! Y'all, my heart was breaking when I found out I was in a situationship with a TRPer (pre-FDS). It suddenly all made sense- the ghosting after sex, the triangulation with your ex, some super hard trauma he couldn't actually bring himself to elaborate on, but absolutely had to mention it whenever I asked him "where are we". Had I been FDS before meeting him, I would have never even looked at that jackass. Well, karma is sweet. He did try to get back…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 09:15 AM
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We actually don't care about men who are so shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 08:27 AM
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You just don't get it, do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 08:06 PM
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You must hate all men for posting this. There is no other way around it. How DARE YOU be upset at these men!? They are simply supporting the taliban, who are merely exercising their freedom of speech/religion! You vile, disgusting sl*t! /s Goddamn. I fucking hate this world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 07:37 PM
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That would depend on your agenda.My personal reasons for having fb? I have a page there where I raise awareness about health, promote and educate people on various health tips 'n' tricks in the hopes they will stop pushing suppositories down their throat (literally.) It also helps me get momentum for when I finally start working in my field as a doctor. Tomorrow, it could help me become the next minister of health in my country. Who knows? It's getting pretty popular there. But my personal fb pa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 10:39 AM
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The truth is, they actually know we're right. It's just that they can't come to terms with their own wicked selves that prevents them from realizing it. In order to accept our values, you have to accept that you're not quite HV yet. You have to accept the fact that working on yourself is a lifelong process (just like every FDS queen here understands). And they just can't stand the truth. They want to be perfect and righteous, but they aren't, so best they can do is scream in their own little ech…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 10:20 AM
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You literally never proved me wrong. You're absolutely incapable of doing so. I'm really sorry about your brain, though. That cognitive dissonance must be very hard for you:(
/r/AntiFeminists17/08/21 08:39 PM
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Some idiots had the audacity to claim women commit more CSA than men. Women! When every single statistic in this world proves otherwise, to the point we're not even sure if women can BE actual sexual offenders! But yeah, we're just that good of a liars, or society simply looooooves women too much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 08:34 PM
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No, they don't xD You're delusional
/r/AntiFeminists17/08/21 02:44 PM
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No one quoted me lol, you silly dummy bunny
/r/AntiFeminists17/08/21 02:43 PM
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Go on, post a study then. Elaborate like I did (though I doubt you can). Just don't whine about us being upset at people protecting paedophiles and people being apathetic to the atrocities committed in AFG.
/r/AntiFeminists17/08/21 10:30 AM
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This comment has been chosen as the cherry to pick out of context and promote hate against FDS. Imagine scrotes being mad over you showing sympathy for the women in AFG and being upset others (namely men) aren't doing the same- oh wait, you don't have to!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 10:25 AM
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Nope, not really. If I say I have a lounge in my apt, I wont have to repeat "in my apt" every time I refer to it. It would sound obnoxious, just like you are now.
/r/AntiFeminists17/08/21 10:20 AM
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The MEN in question (you know, the men I described in my own post) ARE depraved. Nothing wrong with stating facts.
/r/AntiFeminists17/08/21 10:17 AM
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Where exactly did you see "men are paedophiles"? Never in my post did I flat out say that. Maybe stop projecting onto me your own shortcomings in comprehension.
/r/AntiFeminists17/08/21 10:14 AM
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Where did she say every man? She said "men" (plural of "man"), denoting more than one man. And I'm pretty sure more than one man did have a vile reaction to the shitty situation in AFG. Don't cherrypick things to make them suitable for YOUR propaganda.
/r/AntiFeminists17/08/21 10:11 AM
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You shouldn't be. The word "men" (plural of man) denotes more than one man. Not necessarily "all of men". Try reading my post with a bit more comprehension next time. I understand my FDS posts are very elaborate and scientific, but I do my best to make it apprehensive even for the ignorant folk like you. But I can't fight your own delusions for you, buddy.
/r/AntiFeminists17/08/21 10:10 AM
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Check my post history. This is in reference to the fact some studies found more than a third of male college attendants confessing paedophilic tendencies.
/r/AntiFeminists17/08/21 10:04 AM
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Oh honey, what a way to cherrypick out a comment to get polarized about all the while forgetting the essence of my post. What is so hateful about getting upset over the fact more than a third of "healthy" male college students have paedophilic tendencies?
/r/AntiFeminists17/08/21 10:03 AM
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This is very important. If we do not accept our own shortcomings, we will never learn from them. Unfortunately, sometimes making a mistake is one of the best ways to actually learn something. I used to joke with my friend how we're gonna have to make each other cry when revising in order to memorize better lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 09:58 AM
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I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope you're well on your way to recovery. Disorders, however, do not always lead to conscious distress. Narcissistic personality disorder is a prime example of this. I fully believe paedophilic tendencies are a result of some retardation in psychosexual development = thus, I call it a disorder. Does it justify CSA? Absolutely not. Do they need help? Absolutely. Do their victims need help? Even more so.! Is misogyny a disorder? Pretty much yes, if you ask me. It's a s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 09:51 AM
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Omg....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 08:13 AM
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Scientists go as far as to claim that paedophilia (without acting on it) is merely a sexual preference, not even a sexual deviance. I'd rather call it psychosexual retardation, though. I still believe there are men who feel bad about what they feel for young girls. But I wouldn't flat out call them criminals for having some deranged thoughts, as long as they don't act on it. If we're going to talk about criminals. I'm going as far as to say I think they all have suffered some level of neglect/st…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 08:12 AM
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Thank you. Chemical/psysical castration, internalization and acceptance that not all of their thoughts can be pure could also lead them a long way. A very hard, excruciating way, but absolutely necessary if you want to consider yourself human and act like one in this world. If we can supress our urges, they can too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 08:00 AM
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!!! Besides, racists will go out and attack those they are being racist against, we will simply keep our distance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 10:24 PM
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Even my NVM ex strongly protested when I only mentioned contemplating a boob job because it's just not worth it. This is so sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 07:45 PM
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I would love this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 12:27 PM
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Yes!!!! I'd pin this comment if I could. Oxytocin is one of the narcissist's favourite drugs to use against their victims. ! This is why they love bomb, act all too affectionate and then suddenly- withdraw. They will get that drug inside your system and fuck you over with withdrawal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 05:19 PM
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I thought maybe you had your own theory about that and thought that large dicks were an indicator of trustworthiness or something. That would be the stupidest take anyone could take when valuing dick size/height. I know enough of basic and advanced anatomy to even entertain such a ridiculous idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 05:13 PM
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/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 07:52 AM
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They also have one of the highest suicide rates in Europe, but that doesn't reflect on happiness at all, amirite?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 07:30 AM
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I had a situationship with one TRPer. It was horrible all around. -1/10 would recommend. He would breadcrumb me for attention during the day but would be glued to his phone whenever we had arguments over texts (which would easily last hours). He would threaten to leave (as if him staying was such a prize) but never really left. Had to block him in the end. He would act all cool and have this "I-don't-care-about-anything-but-booties-and-booze" attitude that made me feel objectified constantly. He…
/r/ExRedPill07/08/21 07:26 AM
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In other words you don't care for how thinks look like from men's perspective. Um, no. I generally don't care how others (men/women) perceive dating, nor what they think they have to offer. I simply hang out with people, see how we mesh, take it a step further and vouila - a relationship. I grossly simplified it now cuz I'm not going to get into explaining every little thing I care about when seeking a relationship, but if the 3 requirements (are you fun company? can I trust you? do you care for…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 07:05 AM
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Awwww, you made my day <3 Thank you for your kind words!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 01:11 PM
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OH yes, I absolutely did not mean to say you should manipulate a guy into showing interest in you. That's pathetic and I don't want anyone to derive any kind of such insinuation from my post. Thank you for pointing this out! The neurobiology of the brain, though adaptable, cannot be magically changed by suddenly getting the dream girl/ideal relationship. Men who lust over women in porn are less likely to develop deep emotional connections. = If they keep pushing for sex and can't get excited abo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 01:11 PM
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I absolutely agree. Had I been born asexual, I would never even think about skewing my priorities like I used to when in love. It's a headache dealing with, even now. As for emotionally unavailable/taken men, I think the issue with them stems from insecure attachment styles/trauma bonding in both parties. It's weird how our brain reacts to receiving unpleasant reactions from loved ones (e.g. parents) for showing X emotion by repressing the shame/bad feelings, but internalizing that reaction so t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 01:03 PM
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Thank you for your kind words <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 12:54 PM
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Thank you for your kind words! <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 12:54 PM
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I absolutely agree with you! Our instincts do not define our behaviour- at least they shouldn't in these times... Women in general do fall in love more easily so we therefore should protect ourselves more to prevent being taken advantage of. Combine that with the fact women inherently have more empathy and you get yourself a recipe for disaster. But how else would mother nature sustain our race, had it not let us fall in love so hard sometimes we'd even wish to procreate with them? Biology can b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 12:54 PM

Imagine having no life to the point you can notice user overlaps and fluxes on random subreddits
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 08:56 AM
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Funniest thing is he wants a refund and feels "scammed". What did you expect?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 08:27 AM
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It's obviously enough of men for them to create all kinds of hate subs on reddit. Geez, these people...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 08:26 AM

I don't think you know what incel means :D
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 07:29 AM
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Honestly, this question sounds loaded with lack of experience of a fulfilling emotional relationship. What do your buddies have to offer you? Are they simply fun to hang out with? Yeah, no. I'm not gonna list what I "have to offer". We're not out there buying love/seeing who's gonna put the highest price tag on ours. If we enjoy each others' company, that's all we should theoretically need for a good partnership. Sure, I can keep on rambling about how I expect you to be a decent human being and …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 05:06 PM
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I think it's a combination of being extremely stupid, socially maladjusted and downright ignorant. Basically a plethora of mental health issues packed inside one entitled scrote. There is NO WAY they can go on this sub, forget the essence of our posts and focus on some joke in the comments they would have to take out of context for it to actually be offensive. Just no. I refuse to believe men are this stupid. It's much easier for me to accept they're simply mentally unstable, and their actions a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 09:23 AM
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An angry MGTOWer just came to spam my inbox with "don't troll MGTOW you don't know their suffering" - like, ok? Of course I don't? There's therapists for that kind of shit, guys. Get help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 09:13 AM
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Do you guys seriously think that's a good relationship? When your stances on children don't align? I would never be in a relationship like that. But yeah, you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 08:42 AM
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TIL a man can become a surrogate xD Dude... Stop playing the devil's advocate. Not only does doing that make you look like a bad person, you're also very bad at it. Heck, you yourself agreed that no sane woman would ever date a guy OP described in his post.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 08:41 AM
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I never said that, though. Don't put words in my mouth. I'd never date a guy who holds his "gifts" over my head is all I said. What I give in return to generosity? Only the generous know ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 08:39 AM
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Even though the name says "sexually transmitted diseases", you can actually get them through more ways than one. HSV is famous for it's ability of autoinfecting- e.g. touching yourself after touching a cold sore. You can also get it from sharing towels. Fungal infections can be STDs, yet you can get them from dirty towels, or too much stress, or too much antibiotics. There have been cases of toilet- transmitted sexually diseases and various other feco-oral vectors of transmission. You don't need…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 08:34 AM
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It's an option where you can anonymously have a suicide prevention center (or something) sub contact a fellow redditor because "you fear for their well being". MMhhhmmm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 04:22 PM
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My original comment states how statistics are skewed because hetero men are less likely to do annual checkups and what do you do? Show me statistics of the few that went and did a checkup? Your logic and reasoning is... oof. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 04:17 PM
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I think it's easier for a man to agree to have children when he originally did not want to, granted you're relatively financially secure. In most cases, the man may need to take up an extra shift or two, be responsible for driving the woman to and from appointments and do groceries. In later months, even take care of the household. No big deal if you ask me. But that is not nearly enough of a "reciprocation" for what will ultimately be your child as well. e.g. If the roles were reversed: if your…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 04:13 PM
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No, they don't. They're just more likely to find them on annual tests (because they take annual STD tests) than hetero men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 03:18 PM
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So basically feeding me for 9 months, paying for the roof over my head for you equates the pain and suffering (not to mention PERMANENT BODILY CHANGES) of giving birth? Come on. No wonder more and more women are opting out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 03:16 PM
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Yeah, hard pass lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 03:13 PM
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Suppose they want children, how will you reciprocate? Don't answer my question with a question. It's now painfully obvious a good relationship cannot possibly be transactional. It's silly and stupid. You put in effort, yes, but sometimes you will have to step up for your partner. If you can't do that, you're best off not dating at all imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 03:11 PM
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Well obviously if the girl is taking hours to reply, isn't enthusiastic about meeting up or suggesting ideas for dates, you move on. How is this so hard to grasp? If the guy wont ask me on a date until I asked him, the date will never happen. I don't ask guys out. I may suggest an idea or two for dates down the road, but if a guy wants me to show interest first, he's not a man enough to date me. I don't care what his reasons are. If a guy wont buy me a birthday gift because his birthday falls on…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 03:10 PM
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So how would a man, by that logic, reciprocate for the woman giving childbirth? What is equal to carrying a baby for 9 months, going into labour for 2-20 hours, breastfeeding the baby for a year, battling frequent mastitis and PPD? How exactly would you reciprocate this? And yes, if you didn't know, being generous means giving the products of your time and energy without expecting anything but gratitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 02:45 PM
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No one said women don't want to put effort in a relationship. That's just your narrow perspective, not facts. I love being generous towards people I love, and I only expect a smile in return. But if you come to me with an expensive gift and expect me to do the same, it wont really feel like a gift, nor would I feel good about receiving it. Relationship isn't a transcation. Sometimes someone will have to do more. Not always, of course, but we can't be on the high end at all times. If I'm struggli…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 02:38 PM
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Do you not get what fully transactional means? This guy would come up to you with a gift and immediately follow it with "when are you gonna buy me a gift?". If that's not manipulative/coercive/pressuring I don't know what is. As I said, that's no love for me. Also, the question was whether or not we would date him. No, because he's not a HVM.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 02:34 PM
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Just take it slow. Don't overthink the possibilities, just enjoy what you got in the present. I'm currently dating one guy, he seems like a HV too. I asked him if he knows where I can buy XY, he just went out, bought it and brought it to me. He also brought chocolate cause I mentioned I was in pain. I'm still not getting carried away, not until we seal the deal and commit. In the meantime, I'm going out tonight with another guy for dinner, just for fun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 02:10 PM
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Unfortunately the male lurkers cherry pick what they're going to think and scream about when coming here. I'm sure they never read my post about sexual compatibility. But hey, at least they noticed that one comment jokingly stating #killallmen that proves we're the evil gender, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 02:04 PM
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There was a post about how hard it is to find HVW friends. It hit me hard because I realized there's not many HVW either. I've always had super high standards for friendships and wasted no time ghosting/blocking people who added no value in my life. Even when I was 13, I couldn't accept my friend using me as an excuse to her mother for going out with a guy she met the night before (who, mind you, was hitting on me initially, yet she felt the need to tell me to back off lol). I couldn't reject he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 02:01 PM
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What about mental health issues? Depression and anxiety are one of the main causes of ED. What about excessive porn use/unhealthy attitude towards sex? Also linked to mental health issues. I guess these issues are not manly enough for men to consider them seriously. Or is it that men can't possibly suffer from mental health issues? Hm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 01:54 PM
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No? Holding his resources over your head to pressure you into reciprocating? Manipulation. Whenever you do something for someone, and expect something in return, you're not being generous. You're being manipulative. You're coercing them to do the same, whether or not they want to. That's no love. If you love someone, getting them to smile by doing something for them should be enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 01:48 PM
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"Sex would be so much more fulfilling for both parties, and there would be no cases of dead bedroom" is the way to go if you ask me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 01:45 PM
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LOL NOPE. He's not a HVM is his generosity is purely transactional. He's a manipulator, hence ZVM. No love? No value.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 01:11 PM
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Uhm...They're already covered under the category of "men" in my statistics.? Or is it that, for some reason, you think gay men are more likely to present with symptoms? If anything, gay men are more likely to get tested annually.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 01:06 PM
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The risk of aqcuiring HIV is higher for the recipient of anal sex than it is for women engaging vaginal intercourse due to the extensive blood supply of the rectum. It's not a huge difference, but it exists. Source: https://www.researchgate.net/publication/329430065\_Canadian\_guidelines\_on\_HIV\_pre-exposure\_prophylaxis\_PrEP\_and\_non-occupational\_post-exposure\_prophylaxis\_nPEP\_Discussion\_beyond\_the\_guidelines\_and\_commentary\_on\_the\_role\_of\_infectious\_diseases\_speciali/figures…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 12:41 PM
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Vaginas are more complex organs than penises. Even the subtlest of changes in physiology can manifest with various symptoms. The reason? Mucosa. When it comes to HIV, the recipient in anal sex is more likely to develop HIV because the virus will be in contact with the anal mucosa. Likewise, the penetrator is less likely to get HIV from a HIV infected recipient because the penetrator's mucosa will not be in direct contact with their partner's secretions. Also, I have no idea what you mean by "por…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 12:36 PM
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It sounds like you never recognized manipulation being handed to you. Here's the thing: someone who comes to you with the goal of manipulating you will do so by acting nice. How do we distinguish actual niceness from temporary niceness? By vetting and waiting for the mask to slip. This is why FDS principles are so, so important. If you have 2 guys who are both nice to you, but one (the manipulator) is relaxed (cuz his game is on and he's got you wound around his pinkie), and the other is awkward…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 12:30 PM
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Not being clingy is achievable by having a life outside of dating interests and enjoying it. If you can't keep yourself out of their inbox, it shows not only desperation, but also that you have nothing better to do. It's not really "reverse psychology", per se, just revealing how uninteresting your life is without a love interest. No contact rule is stupid. Check in with your interests daily (including your potential SO), but don't spam their inbox every 10 minutes. Give it a break. Go on with y…
/r/ExRedPill03/08/21 11:34 AM
20

Poor fella, he's literally shaking rn! :'( Seriously... I go to the store to buy milk and overhear guys behind me openly talking about whether or not I'm up to their standards. And they call us vain/uninteresting. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 11:25 AM
15

That's bullshit. Source: lab technician who deals with samples used for STD testing. A physical examination + urethral swab test, native mount/Giemsa staining, ejaculate sample for cultivation and blood sample for serology. Detects 95% of diseases. The 5% that can't be detected are usually either still incubating or some rare HSV strains. Get a new doctor.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 11:15 AM
33

Ok first off, women do NOT have a higher number of STDs. The statistic is skewed because STDs usually manifest in women, not men. Men are much more likely to be asymptomatic carriers, whereas women almost always get symptoms. Even worse, men don't even get annual STD checkups. I was horrified to find out some of my male friends never got tested "because they had no symptoms". Disgusting. Guys, get checked. Even if you used condoms, it's extremely likely you're carrying something- HSV, or example…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 08:51 AM
102

Ooooooohhhh boy- Mine aren't as crazy as other stories are, since I haven't dated anyone for the last year or two, so I didn't get the chance to deal with jaded men. This is all when I was <20yro, without the holy grail of FDS. I broke up with one guy over text because I suspected he was cheating. Think of something short like "hi, bye" kind of text. I never got confirmation, but idgaf. He wasn't acting into me at all (TRP bullshit) and I kindly gave him the finger. He tried to add me on faceboo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 08:42 PM
1

His actions showed that, hun. It's funny how you say "what they say vs what they do is not the same" yet proceed to ask me "did he explicitly say he was RP"? Like, can you even read the shit you post?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 03:08 PM
1

What is evidence for you than getting to know someone and their attitudes towards different aspects in life? I mean, have you ever even had a connection with another human being? Do you even know how people "get to know" each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 02:56 PM
1

And believe me when I say, that is more than enough for most FDS women to consider you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 02:14 PM
-2

Nope, FDS dehumanizes men who already act like monsters. Also, why are you stalking me? Something wrong with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 02:04 PM
1

You're contradicting yourself. Self care is just self care. RP is using promotion of "self care" as a means to disguise their misogynistic views and act like they're all about "going their own way" or whatever. You shouldn't care what others have to say about you is another stance they love to take. I say it's wrong and delusional to be unable to take criticism. If someone takes time of their day to tell you how they perceive your doings, you might as well show some respect and listen. Not act l…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 01:51 PM
9

You're torn between red/blue pills? One dehumanizes a whole gender, the other believes it's possible to build a solid connection with another human being. How can you be torn between those 2?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 01:44 PM
1

No one ever told me he was red pilled. Yet he dragged me down, took jabs at my self esteem, would literally get angry when I used "big words" (contemplate was a bit word for him), he kept withholding attention from me, always acting too busy, but anytime we got in an argument, he was GLUED to his phone for 3 hours desperately trying to prove how crazy I was and threatening to end things. In the end I had to block him, the guy was all too crazy. The "I have no feelings I'm a big man" persona he p…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 11:07 AM
2

Consider FDS a countermeasure to men who are red pill. These guys are not what we want to deal with, so we make strategies to avoid them like the plague. FDS can be a bit angry at times, whereas TRP is angry almost all the time. Every post on TRP has some kind of stingy note. FDS may get carried away with man hating (again-understandable; women have been suffering a lot more than men by the hands of the opposite gender for centuries). TRP is all about dehumanizing women and treating them like ob…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 08:36 AM
1

What makes you think that? Are you a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 08:30 AM
2

Now that is some solid advice. I agree 100%. People who already love/respect themselves will have no problem doing this and going on with their lives, oftentimes they unintentionally delay the second meet up simply because they're busy enjoying the life they made for themselves. Those who struggle with their image may get carried away- they need this kind of advice the most (besides, of course, supporting their mental health and working on their lives).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 08:24 AM
27

Ooof. That is really pathetic. I could never phantom spending so much time on people I see on the street, let alone investing my precious time and energy into talking about them/writing fucking articles. It's just- wtf?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 02:39 PM
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I'm sorry for using the wrong terminology, english isn't my first language. Unfortunately most of our journalists do a shit job at reporting, every week we see this kind of shit posts where people get heated up over who's wearing the skimpiest outfits and whatnot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 02:38 PM
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In the end, they will come and they will go. Only you will always be there for your own damn self. Looking back at my past relationships I'm actually laughing because I swear I can't even remember the names of all the guys I used to be in love with. THAT'S how unimportant being in love is. Don't ever let your dysfunctional amygdala control your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 01:15 PM
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I find this method to be very easy when I'm not head over heels for a guy. But when you reeeeaaaally get hung onto someone, it gets trickier. So in order to truly do this, you must never let yourself love/respect someone more than you love/respect yourself. Enforce boundaries, don't settle for less. NEVER.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 01:12 PM
11

I wish EVERYONE read this. It's so so important. Thank you for sifting through the darkness of our past to shed light on just how horrible men can be. 10/10.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 01:08 PM
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Thank you for the post, a very good reminder! I was in a relationship with a true HVM who I didn't feel attraction for. I went in because he really was HVM, and while he was absolutely lovable, my love for him was purely platonic. 3 months in I couldn't stand even having him hug me and I had to break it off. Being the HVM he is, we remained on good terms. But I could have saved myself the resentment and him from the hurt had I said no the moment he asked me out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 04:32 PM
1

Woosh, this guy is something lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 04:14 PM

How can you stand behind #notallmen, knowing someone shallowly judges you based on the fact you're a guy alone, and then come back to me with this shit?It's not that simple obviously. People shouldn't be dismissed based on mundane "facts" like that. I told you I refuted your statistics because of your horrible generalization. Maybe you should look into how much of them use condoms every time, rather than how many guys they've slept with. That should give you a better idea about who you're dealin…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 03:08 PM

Horrible generalization. I have never had an STI, my relationships, when I had them, were nice while they lasted. I have never been married. I do not have any personality disorders except performance anxiety. Yet you end up with a "why would a man want a woman who has taken the seed of 100 men"? That's kind of a stupid conclusion. Their seed didn't give me performance anxiety buddy. Nor did it give me STDs. I rode the cock carousel 100% safe at all times. I am very responsible with sex. On the o…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 02:12 PM

I wanted to have sex with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 02:06 PM

I can't believed they locked it. It would have been awesome. I really want to hear what to guys have to say about girls just liking and enjoying sex without adding responsibilities to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 02:06 PM
2

Oh my god I remember your post it scared the shit out of me! I really hope he stands to his words and never tries again, that guy is an absolute psycho. Stay vigilant!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 10:56 AM

Dark Triad Women sounds exactly like TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 11:59 AM

So because women are active in forums about mental illnesses, that makes them automatically ill? Also, are you trying to say that people who are aware of/involved with mental illnesses are people we shouldn't hang out with? I mean man you're on reddit, you shouldn't have this petty standards. Just say you don't want her to be fat and maybe you'll get lucky one day
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 11:54 AM
3

Have you ever met a woman outside of tinder?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 10:37 AM
-1

You're madsad that the reality the men impose on women's dating standards is now affecting your ability to exercise your perversions on them?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 08:39 AM
11

You can especially see the small dick energy in scrotes who fawn over having virgin gfs. They don't actually care about getting to "pop" (ew), they just don't want you to have anything to compare their lil dicks with. Men are so damn transparent lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 06:00 PM
3

Reading through the comments just proves how perverted and primitive most "men" are. If you say this is "impossible", you're the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 12:24 PM
4

I've had a guy call me a gaslighter because I told him "generalizing" and "categorizing" are not the same thing. He wasn't all that wrong though. Me stating facts did minimize his feelings of being a know-it-all. Still, it's funny how they try to blame you for their own shortcomings lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 11:30 AM
7

"Women won't admit how good they have it in dating" - how do we have it good? By having a surplus of literal scrotes coming our ways? For guys, this "privilege" would equate to them being swarmed by fat ladies several times a day. How is it a privilege to be asked out by someone we don't find attractive? "Women won't empathize with men" - do you know what empathy is lol? "Women won't admit there's a sexlessness problem" - sexlessness, problem? Sexlessness is a problem? How is not having sex a pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 07:09 AM
14

Literally just happened yesterday. One guy I ghosted bc he was annoying texted me on telegram out of nowhere. This guy has been stalking all my sm for almost a year. I had to open multiple reddit accounts to evade him. Thank god he lives far away. What the hell is wrong with them? Can't they stop acting like ghosts of our pasts and get a life already?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 08:35 AM
4

I never understood why people constantly claim beauty to be "a social construct". Have you ever truly gazed upon beauty? The "social construct" we're actually talking about here is the fashion trend you see on the first look. It's something that either fits in, or doesn't. I hate having that be called "beauty". True beauty is not something to be measured by some standards, or parameters, or deviations, like our little social construct here is. True beauty can be seen only when you use your eyes …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:23 AM
6

Basically their brain got stuck & they never got over the resentment from their failed relationship with their fathers, and now their brain is in constant replay. They literally can't go forward. It would make me feel sorry for them if they didn't replay these emotions by taking them out on others. Honestly, I find this terrifying. The society uses women's issues against them (as if it's our fault for having shitty fathers) to make us feel undeserving of love and respect and proceeds to turn a b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 07:25 AM
14

While this rumour about me was originally ignited by a LVW (desperate pickmeisha who literally went to engineering in hopes of getting a bf), all the guys who had no chances with me hopped on the bandwagon and spread it to every guy I ever showed an ounce of interest in. They claimed I was gay. What was their proof? That desperate pickmeisha had to go to the same preliminary exam in informatics as I did. We were the only two in our whole school. I had no idea where to go, so I texted her "hey do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 11:06 AM
9

I can't believe some factual arguments on that post were deleted and comments like "13 years difference can't even be considered an age gap"- excuse me?!?!??!?!?! WHATTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT I just can't believe this. I swear if I ever heard any of these creeps mumble this shit where I could hear them I would seriously track them down and castrate them. People who think that girl should just "love her SO" are absolute freaks of nature. This shouldn't exist in a modern…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 11:58 AM
2

I understand where you're coming from and I agree with you, for the most part. That said, I still love this trend because it's forcing men to wake up. No man is "ripe at the age of 50", and even women, who take care of themselves their whole life, simply can't keep up with the youth's beauty. We all know scrotes are watching our every move, and this trend could help them see the reality a bit better- if you don't take care of yourself, you're going to face the consequences, sooner or later. In m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 06:32 PM
74

Have you been dealing with narcissists/verbal manipulation? If so, it's very likely they tried to use your own biochemical reaction to sex against you. Basically tried to amplify your oxytocin response you got from sex so you feel emotionally trapped and unable to call it quits, despite the objective mind voting strongly against it. I'm very happy to hear you got out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 10:52 AM
2

If you say "I know" = you're spoiled. If you say "okay" = you prude bitch can't take a compliment. If you unenthusiastically say "thanks" = wow what an ungrateful bitch But if you claim "nooo I'm not" = you're a blind ass bitch that doesn't know her worth, so you're perfect for my attempt of manipulation! SCORE!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 10:14 AM
0

Why should we care about LOW VALUE people?? If they're useless to society, don't expect anyone in said society to want to waste their resources on them. They're literally just a waste of space. Worse yet, this waste of space goes on and commits hate crimes against the useful members of the society. Their existence is detrimental to us. They should be psychologically evaluated, and if they don't pass the test- jail them/castrate them. We really don't need their offspring either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 09:17 AM
0

This is pretty? Girls, ew. They're absolutely ugly. They may look nice from afar, but when you look closer, you see they are small and pushed inward.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 03:24 PM
-23

Personally, I'd give Clint just a pass even in his younger years. Mainly because of his smile. I know alot of ppl consider his smile to be pretty, but I'm super nitpicky when it comes to teeth, and his are an instant no-no for me. Edit: wow downvoted for having preferences I did not expect this here lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 10:46 AM
-2

Absolutely. I must admit I struggled to find a bad picture of him because objectively, he wasn't ALL that bad (not NEARLY as the others you mentioned!), but I'm just nitpicky like that. I never liked Clint because of his teeth, so I may just be well misguided in my judgment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 10:42 AM
-18

Clint isn't nearly as bad as Brando, but that hair.... Just a bit more maintenance is all he literally needs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 10:04 AM
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Yup, that's the picture I was referring to in my description (the morbidly obese version). The one I put is Brando in his 50s, because that is what NVM say is the "ripe age of men". It's absolutely disgusting how he let himself go. I know women of 70+ age that could pass as his daughter!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 10:01 AM
17

Being called beautiful/hot/sexy means nothing to me. I have my own pair of eyes, sir, and I also happen to have a mirror! If you think I'm going to be oh so flattered by your "compliment" (which is basically just stating FACTS), you're delusional for thinking I'M delusional! What else would I be if I resorted to the pickme response "nooo I'm not but thxxx hihi"? Be more specific. Show that you care and notice the little things about me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 09:15 AM
60

The redditors' rage against FDS is absolutely hilarious. Every time they talk shit about us it just sounds like a knee-jerk reaction algorithm produced by their near-cognitive-dissonance- delusions screaming to not be discovered. Every single thing they claim about us is just one of the many you could find in them. Not a single rational, high-value person is against FDS. Literally every HV human on this earth I've talked to invariably agreed with FDS principles. But these scrotes just don't get …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 08:53 AM
3

This!!!!! I did the same thing unfortunately. With FDS, my boundaries have become much stronger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 11:12 AM
4

It's dumb, but what exactly can we expect from literal animals lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 11:11 AM
3

Exactly!!! It's absolutely disgusting they dare to compare a full fledged relationship with driving a car for the first time. Do they not hear themselves?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 11:11 AM
5

While I agree with the notion of "not every d**k fitting every vagina", adjustments can ALWAYS be made. If you can't handle it/can't enjoy it, there are many other options you can both enjoy in. Just don't force anything and it'll be fine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 11:10 AM
9

Thank you for your kind words! I struggle with vaginismus, and I noticed it's basically nonexistent with guys who reached point 1 with me. In my foolish days, the guys I slept with on a whim were so happy I was in pain because of how tight I was. Fuck that shit. One guy who I felt comfortable with had a pencil dick and he actually DARED to tell me I was "like a cave down there". I didn't comment on his size because I'm not like that, but I did get the joy of rejecting his advances literally seco…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 11:08 AM
6

This is very good advice! I'm so proud of you for acknowledging your "flaws" (personally having an entertaining friend like you sound would be amazing for me, I don't need a mirrored Debbie Downer in my crew) and taking the time to adjust yourself to others' needs! As for "you talk too much", eh. I had a bf that reeeeeeeeeeaaallyyy talked so much it was draining even to listen. At some point he noticed I was quiet and he was like, ok, you talk now. I didn't want to. So, so mentally draining. Con…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 11:06 AM
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It's a hard situation to be in. You don't want to see your loved ones fail but you also don't want them to scream help and then have them ignore your attempts at saving them. It's a destructive cycle of self-abuse and deception, and with every try you risk throwing yourself in. Idk how stigmatized psychiatrists are in your country, but maybe you should gently try suggesting her to find a professional she can vent to. You may not be able to open her eye due to the nature of your friendship, but a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 04:20 PM
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Phft, are you CRAZY?! You expect the "rational gender" to sway themselves with emotions? Just put that shit under the rug and show me your bootie... But seriously, yeah. I've had guys willing to string along even when I was intentionally as boring as possible to shoo them away, but to no avail. Their reptile brains thought only of the booty and any way of getting it. They are very short-sighted. They think having a lot of sex will make them good life partners, but fail to realize what makes a go…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 04:16 PM
75

You can't afford to have friends like these. You can't expect them to respect you if they can't even respect themselves. So why are you friends with her (referring to the "other friend"? You feel sorry for her? IMO, you being "there for her" (aka just listening to her vent and have her learn nothing new) is you enabling this behaviour of hers. She must know her actions have consequences, and that consequence should be you leaving her. Ideally, she could get a lightbulb moment and ditch the guy, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 03:58 PM
11

I look up to the equally strong willed woman in the hospital who get tons of shit from these NVM and still manage to pull off a smile. They're angels and I strive to be like them. But I swear, they must have nerves of steel to have had endured all their shit for years to get where they are and still pull off that glow! Thank you for your kind words <3 I still have ways to go and a little hope is all I need sometimes to get through the day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 05:32 PM
10

I don't want to clash heads with them too soon, I still have an exam I have to pass, and they can be real dicks if they want to and ask me the most ridiculous questions (I swear one girl in her surgery exam was asked the radius of the doorknob in the OR) in order to make me fail.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 05:11 PM
7

OMG I AM CRYING AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHAHAHAHHHAHA This is perfect! They wanna play dumb cards? Let's see how they like them thrown back at them omg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 05:10 PM
8

Jesus christ those people should be imprisoned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 05:07 PM
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Unfortunately, I live in a pretty backwards country where guys get all kinds of allowances while women pushing hard and forth are looked down upon. Example: One male SPECIALIST (finished 6 years of med school + on his 2nd year of specialization in gastroenterology) could not tell the difference between WATER and LIVER on ultrasound. It's literally like not being able to distinguish black from white. We were taught this in 2nd year of med school, and by the time we reach rotations, we can already…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 05:06 PM
24

I think it also stems from fear. Even though these guys in question are old dirtbags, their reptilian brains are aware of the danger stewing around the corner. They know their time of bullshittery has come to an end, and they're desperate to manipulate everyone and anyone in order to feel in control. It's really a classic LVM move. Funny how they also tried to stir up hate against their female colleagues (you know, the strong-willed ones you just can't mess with or they will absolutely fuck you …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 04:58 PM
21

I'm well aware of what they're doing, which is why I pointed out how their female colleagues would never dare to deter me from TRUE empowerment- which is being good at my job. I wrote this post as a way to remind me not to think about what these LVM have to say- it's never a good piece of advice. Or anything worthy of hearing, really.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 04:53 PM
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