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Muh PENISw0rmsongs/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 02:23 AM
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REMINDER 👑w0rmsongs/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 08:17 PM
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RANTw0rmsongs/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 06:44 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYw0rmsongs/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 09:15 PM
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RED FLAG 🚨w0rmsongs/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 06:11 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?w0rmsongs/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 12:25 AM
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REMINDER 👑w0rmsongs/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 06:03 PM
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RED FLAG 🚨w0rmsongs/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 01:25 AM
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MINDSET SHIFTw0rmsongs/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 06:20 PM
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STRATEGYw0rmsongs/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 10:44 PM
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GREEN FLAG 🟢w0rmsongs/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 07:07 PM
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REMINDER 👑w0rmsongs/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 06:13 PM
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REMINDER 👑w0rmsongs/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 04:34 PM
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MESSAGE FOR MALE LURKERSw0rmsongs/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 01:34 PM
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MOOD FOR LIFEw0rmsongs/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 04:34 PM
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REMINDER 👑w0rmsongs/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 09:57 PM
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STAY WOKEw0rmsongs/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 07:47 PM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEw0rmsongs/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 12:56 AM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESw0rmsongs/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 12:35 AM
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MINDSET SHIFTw0rmsongs/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 04:24 PM
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STRATEGYw0rmsongs/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 12:18 AM
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SHOWER THOUGHTw0rmsongs/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 05:58 AM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEw0rmsongs/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 05:59 PM
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 REDDIT HATES WOMENw0rmsongs/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 03:14 PM
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STAY WOKEw0rmsongs/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 06:40 PM
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SEX STRATEGYw0rmsongs/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 02:16 AM
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w0rmsongs/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 05:00 AM
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STRATEGYw0rmsongs/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 04:19 AM
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PICKME CULTUREw0rmsongs/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 08:44 PM
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RED FLAG 🚨w0rmsongs/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 03:56 AM
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STRATEGYw0rmsongs/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 05:06 PM
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MOOD FOR LIFEw0rmsongs/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 09:29 PM
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GREEN FLAG 🟢w0rmsongs/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 04:44 PM
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SEX STRATEGYw0rmsongs/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 10:43 PM
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MINDSET SHIFTw0rmsongs/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 04:34 PM
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STRATEGYw0rmsongs/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 09:36 PM
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STOP posting this shit here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 06:04 PM
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Of course, this is why we consider our own needs first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 10:28 PM
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I'm not understanding. This is about having awareness of what our own personal boundaries are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 09:31 PM
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Lol I remember when my ex asked if I would stay by his side, and visit, if he went to jail. 🤣🤣🤣 he was so pissed when I said no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 09:17 PM
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Stop 👏 posting 👏 disgusting 👏 screenshots 👏 here. 👏 Oh my god I'm so sick of seeing this garbage on FDS. There is no lesson here. I curate my reddit content to AVOID this bullshit. STOP. PLEASE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 10:02 PM
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I think she is HV, because she’s rich and successful. 🤔 ... Being rich means literally nothing in terms of HV/LV. If someone is financially stable and wise with their money, great. But don't assume they're a HV person for this reason alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 02:59 AM
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I'm hard pressed to think that that woman, who stayed with her husband for thirteen years just happened to be utterly clueless and missed a bunch of obvious signs. I agree. She likely wasn't clueless or missed signs. We can tell when a man is not fully engaged or committed to the relationship. Ignorance is bliss and some just don't have the self-esteem to leave and move on. Especially with kids in the mix, I can imagine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 06:46 PM
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longest running FWB streak 😂 okaaaaay...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 05:34 PM
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😍💖 I love this. Thank you for sharing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 02:51 PM
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....I wouldn't be polite about it. Wtf!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 02:49 PM
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What is the purpose of this post? This content is just dark. It's not "roasting" material. We are well aware that these men exist. We don't need it plastered on this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 12:25 AM
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Hope he doesn't have a daughter! Imagine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 11:38 PM
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Love this post!! Nailed it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 04:15 AM
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🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 03:37 AM
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Right? 🤣 lil fingies whizzing across their phones and keyboards with indignation. Hitting that enter button. .... into the abyss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 01:11 AM
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A hvm will not use women as sex objects. I'm not sure you're fully understanding the post. A lvm will waffle and use, as you say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 05:38 AM
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Without the full context it sounds passive aggressive and I personally wouldn't tolerate such a comment. I understand why it upset you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 02:24 AM
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People are human and everyone has flaws. What kind of stupid things were said? It really depends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 12:27 AM
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There was a good comment about that recently. Love bombing is impersonal. A man who desires you will remember specifics; what you like, what you've mentioned, etc. Combine that with your intuition.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 09:48 PM
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Within the first month, in my opinion and based on experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 08:37 PM
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I once heard a metaphor that forgiveness is like a horse in a round pen: if your thoughts keep returning to someone and how they wronged you, it's like a horse running around and around in a pen. Open the gate and let it out. Forgive the idiocy, the stupidity, the low effort, the manipulation. If the horse gets in again and the gate blows shut, forgive again. There will come a time when you'll suddenly notice you haven't thought about the guy in a long time, and that's the gift of forgiveness: t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 08:26 PM
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Poor woman. Men know almost immediately when they meet "the one." Men who drag their feet to commit are holding out for someone better to come along, while wanting regular sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 01:16 AM
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Wow. You will not attract a quality man of high value by exuding such low value behaviour and energy yourself. I hope this is a joke but it doesn't sound like it. Good luck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 11:35 PM
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I despise cooking/cook very few things. Made this abundantly clear to my bf of 1 month (known for 1.5 yrs) and he handles all meals when we're together. He won't let me pick up my plate after we're done; he cooks, cleans it all up, then packs me the leftovers. When he had to isolate due to covid exposure he sent a 200$ ubereats gift card.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 09:21 PM
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Sorry but I don't understand the purpose of this post?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 08:12 PM
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I dated an addict and he called AA and NA meetings "show & shines" ... lol. As in, people get done up to try impress each other. I went to a number of meetings with him. To me it was just a lot of disgusting and sexually frustrated men preying on vulnerable women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 08:18 PM
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Very interesting. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 05:36 AM
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My god we sound like the same person. Do you do a specific kind of therapy? I'd like to start. Any suggestions on what has worked for you so far is so appreciated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 09:36 PM
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As a fellow avoidant, I feel you! My mother is a lovely lady but would usually just say "thank you" when I told her I loved her.. lol. It takes a lot to power through the discomfort! But we're doing so well. 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 04:19 PM
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Lovely 😊 my boyfriend is the same, says I'm his #1 priority. He got 3 hours sleep last night but is on his way to pick me up and drive to an eye specialist in another city right now. He always has a tea waiting in the cupholder. Look at us!! Graciously receiving!! 💓 I'm so happy for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 02:41 PM
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Can I just say... FUCK Kronos 😤 using it to manage a team of 120 people with different pay codes KILLED ME. Kronos, and men... the banes of my existence lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 12:16 AM
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My best friend (out of a total of two friends, one of which I communicate with infrequently), is a pickme and makes poor choices with men and her current boyfriend.. an addict of 20 years who is 12 years her senior. She is otherwise intelligent and we connect deeply. I've mentioned FDS once but never more than once. It's up to her to look into it. I talk about my relationship and plant seeds of thought, but I don't let it keep me up at night. Her life, her journey. This is why I keep my circle o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 04:04 AM
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Oh sis do I feel you on this one. What helped me and may help you too (and anyone else who's struggling), is a book by Dr. Nicole LePera: How to Do the Work: Recognize Your Patterns, Heal from Your Past, and Create Your Self
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 12:03 AM
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Your comment kills me. SO accurate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 03:52 PM
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"THE" girlfriend.. "THE" wife... 🤚😷 Shut the fuck up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 05:07 AM
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It's like.. hateful scrote fan fiction 😂 loool omg.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 03:47 AM
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Lmao even the dude on the phone had a wtf intonation to his voice. I wonder when she'll get tired of financing a man's life. 🏧🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 01:31 AM
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Thank you 💓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 03:52 PM
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After finding FDS, I did a lot of soul searching. Learned about attachment style, feminine energy, and how to graciously receive. After doing the work on myself, the most incredible man found me and has been pursuing relentlessly and consistently. We've known each other for 1.5 years but began dating in December. No kissing or sex yet, of course. He remembers everything I say and express interest in. I don't lift a finger and haven't paid for a thing when we're together. He runs around to open d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 06:05 AM
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🤔 why waste time, energy, and resources on a fucking loser who tries to tell you what to do with your body hair? We don't try to teach men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 07:16 PM
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She looks... thrilled. He looks like a melting candlestick with dust stuck to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 04:26 AM
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I don't mind if I have to hype it up as THE BEST THING EVER and promise countless BJs to get him to do it, I'll do it. I'm not even sure I'd want to go through with this. shrugs I'd probably pay for the appointment without doing it. I sure hope you wouldn't a) offer bjs as incentive (joking or otherwise) or b) book, and pay. Just leave, block, and delete. Don't overthink it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 01:06 AM
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I don't find this to be a hot take at all. I've dated some immature as fuck men and even they agreed that pubic hair is normal and healthy. Definitely pedophilic tendencies if a man wants bald (like he even has a fucking say 🤣).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 12:42 AM
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"You should be loving me 😡unconditionally🤡"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 11:13 PM
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Good valid reasons ... 🤦‍♀️ nobody needs a reason to back out of sex, other than that they don't want to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 07:43 PM
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Love your wording.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 04:20 AM
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I see where you're coming from. But it's possible to have an abundance mindset while also acknowleging that HVM are rare. I think it's unfortunate to discourage such a way of thinking when it's something that should be applied to life in general and not just men, as men should never be a focus. Having an "abundance" mindset toward men is a recipe for disaster, we can all agree with that. I adopted the mindset in the most challenging time of my life and that gratitude energy came back to me in be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 04:00 AM
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Wonderful strategy post!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 12:20 AM
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What is the purpose of this post? We know that this disgusting mindset exists. We don't need to see this here, in my opinion. We know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 12:18 AM
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Wow. Thanks for this. What great knowledge to have. My sterilization surgery, then later my mastectomy and cancer surgeries.. were all performed by women doctors. I am eternally grateful for this after reading the article. How utterly depressing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 08:20 PM
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Don't forget.. being a personal chauffeur! How can they get to their full potential if they have to waste money on a car and gas? If I hadn't already forgiven myself, I'd still be up at night thinking about the amount of $ I spent and the mileage I put on my car driving an ex (addict) around to his construction job on the other side of the planet. Then doubling back to my own workplace. Yuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 06:04 PM
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You have it! It is yours. It will find you if you stop searching.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 11:42 PM
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Ohh they're frothin' ☺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 08:55 PM
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I am living this. It exists. Don't ever tell yourself otherwise. Edit: Thank you Mods for your hard work on this post. 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 04:36 PM
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There's just... so much to unpack. I get the sense she's pulling off some triangulation tactics (consciously or subsconsciously) by mentioning rando guy to the husband. I assume she doesn't get the attention she so clearly craves from the lOvE oF hEr LiFe. Sounds like they both hate eachother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 08:22 PM
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I wouldn't waste a thought or a breath on lurkers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 06:32 PM
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No one can say I didn’t try Sis 💓 we've been conditioned to think that it's good and commendable to try. If I don't feel the vibe with someone.. if they say the wrong things.. look at me the wrong way.. if I just decide I don't really like them anymore for any reason at all.. I'm gone! Without trying! Life is fuckin short. It took a while to get to this conclusion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 05:05 AM
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Lots. But we choose how we react to it and thankfully I'm not a girl anymore, but a woman who knows her worth. I have no social media (a curated reddit account aside) and select my friends carefully. It's easier than we think to tune out the bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 06:29 AM
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100%... it's been a blessing in disguise 😊 💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 05:29 PM
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Thank you sis. Aren't we all 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 03:18 PM
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Interestingly when I lost my hair and was lookin real weird (unattractive by society's standards), I interviewed and was successful for a job with a 20k salary increase. Life has been on a steady uphill trajectory since finding my confidence. Personally I think the majority of success is directly related to attitude. And some companies are less shitty than others I guess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 03:05 PM
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Thank you 💓💓💓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 02:01 PM
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Lovely reminder. I've always received attention from men and consider myself a conventionally attractive woman. Then I unexpectedly lost my breasts and had to undergo chemo. My hair fell out and I shaved it. My eyebrows fell off, and eyelashes too. My skin broke out from stress and meds. I was suddenly thrown into a world where people made very little eye contact. No attention, from men or women. At first it was jarring and disturbing. Then it was freeing. I had the same respect as always from t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 04:40 AM
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Sounds like a weird sugar baby situation.... FDS doesn't condone relying on men financially.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 08:43 PM
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Have you read the Handbook..?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 08:36 PM
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Yeah.. I wasted time on a meth addict for 1 year and it was hell on earth. I've told her my stories!!!!! And I've mentioned that nobody I've ever known has stayed clean. and it falls on deaf ears. It's unreal. Part of me believes that deep down she knows and is done with his bullshit, otherwise why would she complain to me. She's simply too afraid to leave and start over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 12:37 AM
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Lmao an acquaintance wanted to set me up with her brother when she found out I was single. Turned out after some questioning that he was a struggling actor with no car who drinks too much. 🙃 it was fucking insulting and I haven't spoken to her again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 08:27 PM
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Ugh. My colleague (28) who I've become close with over the past several months, is about to get fucking married to a 40 year old. She divulged recently that this dude has been a methhead for 20 years... sober for 1 so far. She sings his praises and I don't know why. He works from home, yet when our work day is over she goes home to clean up his mess, grocery shop, cook, then take their dog out. He does NOTHING. I'm pretty beside myself, as she isn't receptive to feedback. If she ends up getting …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 08:21 PM
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Omg thank you for the laugh. So funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 08:27 PM
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Boy, BYE! 👋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 08:23 PM
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Yeah to me it indicates a lack of care and attention to detail. I send fully formed sentences and expect the same back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 08:21 PM
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Love your wording. Was she just left with mouth agape? I hope your words sink in for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 06:47 PM
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I'm straight yet find myself attracted to this lady...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 05:16 AM
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Yes to everything but the trophy wife part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 02:01 AM
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Just my two cents sis. Looking out for your worth. I'm glad to know he spoils you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 05:10 AM
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11 months is not long enough to deem someone high value. I would be upset knowing there's a price limit set for me. I wouldn't put too much energy into thinking about what to get him, as he agreed to a $60 limit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 04:59 AM
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Thank you for this laugh today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 08:31 PM
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UGH. I'm sorry that's happening. Our IT guy said the same shit about getting married. He was the shortest, baldest, most obese man in his 50s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 04:13 AM
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Right?????? Like I'm no stranger to gross losers but this was just NEXT LEVEL. I almost passed out after reading it. he doesn't care about normal social boundaries, respect and sounds very fixated on you. It's very concerning... he's 100% obsessed. I've saved everything and am on high alert. Thank you for your care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 03:19 AM
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🤗 thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 02:26 AM
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You are amazing and I appreciate you sharing your story. Thank you. We are so ridiculously strong. This was horrible to read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 11:41 PM
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💓 I appreciate your comment. Men are indeed a cancer. This community helps a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 11:40 PM
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Thankfully I didn't use it for anything really. Thank you!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 11:39 PM
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Thank you so much for your empathy. I hold women and everyone who is dealing with this so close to my heart. Wishing you good health, always. 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 10:37 PM
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Thank you 💞 this is an amazing community and I knew I'd feel better after posting. I appreciate you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 10:28 PM
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Sis 🤣 every day I become more and more attracted to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 10:12 PM
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As far as I know, they're separated. SHOCKER.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 10:03 PM
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💯 ... this guy also has so many kids, including daughters. I'm sickened.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 09:54 PM
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My priorities right now are different. If it continues... absolutely I'll have to do something more. But no social media aside from reddit. Which feels safer anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 09:40 PM
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Well. That would explain a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 04:36 PM
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Very good to know! thank you 😊 I'm looking forward to seeing Andie MacDowell's character.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 04:21 AM
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Totally... his identity was the job. They just don't have the same balance, curiosity, humility, and outlook I love these words. How true it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 03:03 AM
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This was one on netflix I paused on but wasn't sure about. I'll watch it now, thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 02:02 AM
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I'm sorry you view it that way. What a very unfortunate and conditioned way of thinking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 06:05 PM
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That is one of the worst "tips" I've ever seen. It doesn't make sense. That's not what femininity is. Activating my feminine energy (my ability to receive) changed my life. I have been healing from traumas and feel empowered over men. There is a misguided idea that femininity is pink, flouncy, always happy, and submissive. No. A woman who is truly in touch with her feminine energy is empowered. Personally I think hating on femininity in general is harmful. Too many stereotypes have tainted the w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 12:37 AM
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I love this comment about energy, you nailed it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 11:46 PM
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I guess my point is, don't have a man do your bidding. Then in their eyes you owe them and you can't handle your own. Be strong, because we are much stronger than men. 'Grey rock' them. You mention this is your place of work? I'm sure security of some nature could step in if they continue to escalate after your rejection in a professional setting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 11:08 PM
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My first boyfriend was a qUiEt and sHy boy and he was utterly USELESS. He was never concerned about protecting me. I worked late shifts in a call centre at the time, and would walk home from a bus stop in the pitch black middle of the night, while he slept at home. Never offered to pick me up. People sang his praises because he was so "nice" and "non-confrontational" ... he was lazy. Great post, passive men are gross. I hope you find your freedom. Also, side note: I would suggest working on your…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 10:49 PM
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Men in bands are the fucking worst. I can't begin to count how many times I would make fun weekend plans (my pickme ass making the plans), and he would conveniently forget in order to go "jam" (🤮 hate that word) with the bros. Ugh I shudder. I was then told - after being ditched for months at a time so they could go tour and binge drink - that he enjoyed seeing "how far" he could flirt with women before considering it cheating. Did I mention I would send him money that he would promptly spend on…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 09:43 PM
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Our intuition is way ahead of our conscious mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 06:46 PM
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I'll be honest that I find these questions a bit juvenile and lacking substance. As the top commenter pointed out, best to stick with more open-ended questions. What kind of porn do you like? This is a tough one. I don't think it's a common question to ask as there are so many pickmes who promote it. A lot of men are catching on to this and will lie. Personally I would change the wording to something along the lines of: "what are your kinks?" Be sly and playful with tone. If he says "ohnooononew…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 05:59 PM
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I've purposefully never participated in OLD because I can't stand to put myself through that kind of headache. Disheartening and laughable, and it was so sad to see the screenshots of what I was trying to avoid, in the one place I felt safe. Can't believe people wade through that bog. I'm glad the scope of this sub has been addressed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 02:55 PM
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Calling the police does wonders! They snap out of it real quick. Glad you're safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 02:33 PM
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Read the Handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 03:04 PM
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No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 11:56 PM
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I have a veerrry specific list of no-no's 😂 this one is near the top. It's a symbol for so many things: laziness, self-loathing, anger issues / inability to emotionally regulate, lack of drive, lack of problem solving skills. The list goes on forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 07:33 PM
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Just... alarming. How willingly we choose self destruction. Like you know they probably felt like shit. 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 03:01 PM
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I worked with a classic kyle who drank between 2-4 a day, maybe more I have no idea. His TEETH. My hairs stand on end thinking about it. They had a thick and solid brown buildup. It made me want to pass out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 03:30 AM
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I won't date men who regularly consume energy drinks. It's a repulsive habit; their lifestyle is usually horrific and they tend not to care about themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 02:31 AM
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That's a good point to think about. If you were to bring it up out of the blue, and depending on tone and what you're doing in that moment, it could come across as an insecure request for validation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 10:21 PM
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In past experience when a guy said that I was amazing, I stopped everything, made hard eye contact and asked him to elaborate on WHY so amazing. Of course he started to sweat and couldn't give specifics because he was so self absorbed and hadn't actually been paying attention. You won't need to bring it up first. A guy will either say it and be lying or will say it and can back it up. You're not groveling for compliments, you're questioning their sincerity. Nothing pickme about that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 10:06 PM
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100% me too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 05:31 PM
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I am all for strategy over depravity, check my post history. That said, it is necessary. As another commenter pointed out, we're undoing years of conditioning. Many of us have been in horrific relationships that presented well in public or had many outward green flags, but were abused, manipulated, gaslighted, etc. So yes, here in this sub we approach comments about men with a healthy dose of skepticism. I used to get upset by the negative content as well, then wondered, "for what?" and realized…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 03:45 PM
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I know exactly two things outside of work: he is religious—the sort of Christian who absolutely embodies Christian values and never really talks about it unless you ask—and he plays violin at an advance level in his church’s orchestra. So i don’t know if he has LV hobbies, but I’m guessing not just based on his level of commitment to those two aspects of his life. This man sounds good on paper, but so did our childhood church pastor, before he had an ongoing affair and left his wife for a member…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 02:47 PM
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This feels nostalgic. It's like reading a diary entry. Thanks for sharing a slice of your life, and congratulations on your wonderful accomplishments. 💫💓 If I can make a suggestion that helped me, is to change the wording; "I am becoming more self aware, confident and assertive." Thanks for this post & reminder to embrace life. It's so fleeting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 06:09 AM
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I suggest not engaging.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 03:27 AM
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I'm happy to know you're free of him. Thank you for sharing this story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 01:05 PM
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That book is on my list as well! I wish you healing. 💗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 01:04 PM
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I get heart palpitations reading this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 01:38 AM
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So happy for you! Though I'd be wary of someone bringing up the condition of my skin unprovoked - even if seemingly positive - if they were aware that it was a sore spot or something that made me insecure. Past nvx's would do this to me when they saw my confidence going up and wanted to "subtly remind me" of imperfections.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 10:59 PM
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Incredible. Thanks for sharing. The symptoms can be truly severe. I recently had breast cancer and wonder how much of it could have been attributed to my years of chronic relationship stress. Glad he's an ex to you now. 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 07:07 PM
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Congratulations 💓 what a great new space to be in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 06:33 PM
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I adore the alternative wording, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 08:31 PM
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With a bilateral salpingectomy (removal of fallopian tubes), there are 0 hormonal changes. Your uterus stays, everything still functions normally and you continue to get a period. I didn't want to disturb my natural hormones either as I'm young. There is a lesser chance of ectopic pregnancy with full tube removal.. just so many benefits and zero negatives (in terms of side effects). Recovery was a breeze. I feel like so many more women need to jump onboard the sterilization train but it's never …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 11:46 PM
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My thoughts are that if a man is cf, there shouldn't be fear. If there is, he's on the fence about possible regret, or something, and shouldn't be dating a cf woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 04:58 PM
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Sis, you will love being sterilized. It's so fucking amazing and liberating. No stress, no fear. One of the best decisions of my life. I can't even explain to you how it felt to be wheeled to the elevator after my surgery (bi-salp).... just... 💋👌chef's kiss. Great post, great strategy. The fence sitters are shitty because they can react deadpan up front, but some of those losers will try to get you involved and invested, then BAM say they aCtUaLlY want kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 03:44 PM
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I just could not be around such a loser saying those things, especially if he was married to a friend. He says all that when you're all together, with his wife? Makes my heart ache. I'd tell him to go kick rocks before turning on my own heels and never looking back. I value my energy and time so much now that I just don't waste them around anything or anyone that doesn't make me feel good. And if it means losing a female friendship because of the people they surround themselves with or marry, so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 03:17 AM
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Thank you 💓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 12:40 PM
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Love that, so true. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 09:32 PM
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I recently lost my hair to chemo, late twenties. My eyelashes fell out or got short and my brows are sparse. Lost both breasts to mastectomy and reconstruction failed. It's been a humbling experience when strangers can't seem to stand looking at me! Lol I still feel proud of who I am, and sexy for myself in my own way. I applied for a new position and got a 33% wage increase, during treatment. I am excellent at being assertive and laying out boundaries. I have done more work in self actualizatio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 08:04 PM
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Thanks so much. I am thrilled to read this!!! It's like you PERFECTLY described my own experience, like we lived a parallel life. Wish your comment could be shouted from a rooftop cause I'm being hated on for this! 🤣 apparently I'm a man infiltrating the sub. Like..... if they only KNEW! I wish every woman knew. About this, and attachment style. 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/21 02:16 AM
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The mods have been active in removing hateful comments as fast as they come to my inbox. I imagine if they thought this post went against FDS it would be removed. I've followed the sub for years on various accounts. Not everyone is open to this mindset. You do you, sister.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/21 01:57 AM
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Do you think mods would have allowed this post if it went against FDS? No. A person has both masculine and feminine inside. A balanced person has embodied the healthy versions of both. Some people work hard and can never bring themselves to accept things done for them (think people pleasers). This is unhealthy masculine energy. If someone can work hard and then graciously receive something from their partner, that's both managed healthily. Lots of confusion here and I can only blame myself for n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/21 12:43 AM
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Well said, true. I hope upon reflection some make clearer sense of this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 09:11 PM
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Thank you for your comment! I feel badly that the message was misunderstood by so many. Oddly though, nowhere in the post does it mention anything about the superficial classic view of pink girlyness. So I'm trying to understand why so many up in arms over that. But at the end of the day people need to be open to change and doing work if they think it will improve their situation, and if this doesn't resonate then it doesn't resonate! 💓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 08:45 PM
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To your last point, yes this only applies to healthy relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 06:27 PM
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I appreciate this comment, you nailed it. Thank you. I've spent many years now doing the work and it pays off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 04:33 PM
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If it feels like emotional labour, it's not natural and isn't feminine energy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 01:52 PM
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Absolutely this is not the only contributing factor to experiencing good love. It's a mindset to consider, is all. Letting yourself sit on a man's jacket won't cure hormonal conditions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 05:07 AM
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This is not about performing or acting as you normally wouldn't. You've missed the message. It boils down to receiving and any personality type can benefit from that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 03:20 AM
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That's what it's so nice to post this kind of thing for discussion; the comments always give such good information to each other. You nailed it, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 02:24 AM
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my HVM loves to feel needed and so did my LV ex but the difference between a HVM and a LVM is that you actually have things to express gratitude for with the former whereas you’re scrounging to something to “thank” him for with the latter. Worded so well, thank you for your comment! WMLB is the best 👌 book. Had to read it in small bites in between crying jags of feeling personally attacked with the worlds realest words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 02:12 AM
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Ohh girl I do love dumb fox'ing it 🦊 This only applies to healthy HV relationships. For sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 01:23 AM
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Truths here.. that they need it but don't want to do the work. Lots of us could describe ourselves this way... keeping those clingers around but not even taking them up on doing anything useful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 01:21 AM
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Hey! No need to go to the extent of testing. This type of dynamic in a relationship should eventually naturally help with the shift in levels. About hormones was a "fun fact", if you will. You don't need to be girly to practice receiving; even if it's something like smiling and saying "I appreciate that" (or whatever) to a compliment from a stranger, if it makes you feel good. And I am sorry to hear about your discomfort. I hope you find some comfort at times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 01:17 AM
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Preaching to the choir! Totally, I get it. Sis I wasted years of my life on a narcissist methhead junkie, another dude who had a girlfriend already, the list goes on. Seen and heard it all now. I understand the art of manipulation. But in hindsight there were signs. I would say usually there always are even if slight. Have to keep our cards close initially and guard our vulnerability in the early/mid stages.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 09:38 PM
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We'll never get away from using these phrases if we keep using them. Especially as women. Sure some things just are because we've made it that way as a society; it doesn't mean I have to accept them. If a man considers women to be lesser than, that should be apparent from vetting his behaviour and interactions before committing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 07:04 PM
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I wish people would stop using the "bros before hos" phrase. I hate that word. It's an odd choice of title I must say. As another commenter pointed out, vet their friends and interactions before committing to a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 06:52 PM
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I recommend looking into feminine vs masculine energy. I spent a number of months tapping into my feminine and my ability to receive. I think I also just got extremely lucky. Keep FDS'ing! That's the best way, learning from all the women here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 12:24 AM
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Thank you!! Feeling and doing well!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 12:21 AM
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I had a double mastectomy in April at 27, and learned about my cancer only 4 months into dating. He never budged despite me giving him an out. He offered to wipe for me during recovery, he changed my lightbulbs, he reno'ed my deck, cooked, cleaned, grocery shopped, and made sure to tell me regularly how beautiful I am. There are great men with morals and class out there. But indeed it's not the norm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 06:35 PM
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Wow I wouldn't give away my energy at a place with clientele like that, even if a friend owned it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 02:54 AM
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A hvm should have a good temperment and the ability to emotionally regulate. Yelling is so unnecessary. My man has displayed endless patience and I expect nothing less. If you haven't already, you may find it beneficial to look into attachment style through the Personal Development School as it all stems from childhood. Thais Gibson is an angel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 04:43 PM
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Sherry is god and WMLB is the damn bible. I haven't listened to chloe_ but I appreciate the suggestion and will absolutely be checking her out. Thank you. 💓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 09:44 PM
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men especially want to feel needed or useful ☝☝☝100% this. They'll never say it, though. They may not even be aware. But indeed learning about my feminine energy vs his masculine energy has been life changing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 09:37 PM
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I regained self-respect and respect from others. I've been dating my boyfriend a little under 1 year. When he does things for me - which is all the time - I make a point of telling him how his action/deed makes me feel and it encourages him ... "when you cook a delicious meal and run a bath for me, I feel so warm and cherished." And he beams like a little boy, racing off to do the next thing for me. Often couples don't thank eachother for the little things. It's like training a dog honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 07:35 PM
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We have to be highly aware of our thought process in life in general. You don't have to be dreaming about dirty old men to "attract" them. But if you have bitter etc. thoughts they'll sure show up more - or maybe we're more aware of them - based off personal experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 07:34 PM
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I appreciate you 💖 thank you. Glad you feel hope!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 12:56 AM
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It's all over the place depending on what's going on at the time. I usually do it at night in my head. Close my eyes, and I try to just let the words run intuitively across my mind, if that makes sense. Keep a relaxed face, neck, and body. An app I pay for is Insight Timer. The free version is great, too. Some simple thanks for everyday things + more specific thanks (and requests) for people in my life. Thank you [Universe, God, etc.] for the clean water I've had from the tap today, the bed I sl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 12:54 AM
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The opposite... You are/you attract what you think. It's more of a lifestyle than a logic thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 09:24 PM
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For sure. Strategy over depravity in my books, too. I've lived a lot of the worst of that kind of thing so I don't have the same need to see it. But I understand not all have and it's valuable to see and consider the gruesome shit, too. Just not all the time and all at once.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 08:41 PM
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Sounds very fun, enjoy that to the fullest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 08:19 PM
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Yes, certainly don't give them the chance to enter deeply into our lives. We'll encounter all types.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 07:23 PM
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The man pissing in the background, and highlighting the pickme behaviour, is my take-away from this post. I choose not to put down physical traits that people have no control over. You clearly don't get it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 10:50 PM
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Wow. So fyi, a HVW builds up other women. We know nothing about this woman. Maybe she does a lot with her hands. What a stupid, senseless comment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 09:11 PM
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Right? Between rampant pedophilia, abuse, clowns masquerading as functional members of society, forests on fire, pandemics, and a dying planet... big hell no. I believe many in FDS are childfree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 06:55 PM
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Just gonna brag here for a minute and express how grateful I am that my boyfriend of under 1 year has said on multiple occasions that IT'S HIS JOB to help me. He has picked up countless boxes of tampons, and saw me through breast cancer surgery after only 4 months of dating. I have 1 reconstructed breast, and 1 missing breast. He constantly tells me that I'm beautiful and incredible. My body is just a meat sack for my soul, but whoever I'm with must still appreciate every inch of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 10:22 PM
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Preach! My apartment - which I bought in my early 20s after years of scrimping and saving - is my sacred space. Enjoy your freedom!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 12:49 PM
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Oxygen thieves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 06:21 PM
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💀👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 03:40 PM
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We've all wasted our time on it at some point. It is freeing to stop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 03:34 PM
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They have hearing comprehension issues, too. Or at the very least selective hearing. Try explain that to a l/nvm and they still don't understand. Because they're obsessed with $.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 03:28 PM
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I would weep to know how much I've spent on losers in the past.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 02:30 PM
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Expecting the man to pay for such a thing will never be superficial. They're phobic of women with standards and money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 01:45 PM
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I don't follow celebrities etc nor do I have social media outside of reddit, so picking someone famous is hard to gauge. If you'd like an example of strong femininity, I'd recommend Adrienne Everheart on youtube. Rather obsessed with her. Careful not to overthink this kind of thing ;) if you can practice emotional regulation, clear boundary statements (there's a template in the FEM sub), and noticing how you feel in your body, that's most of it. I would shy away from trying to mold yourself base…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 02:38 AM
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Wonderfully worded.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 06:08 PM
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Thanks for this thought provoking question. My initial thought is that we confuse feminine energy with traditional femininity and a flouncy, passive persona. I don't think that could be further from the truth. Granted, at work I operate on my balanced masculine side; there's always time and places for it. But, 75% of the time I try lean into the feminine. As a feminine energy woman, I prefer to move in silence. I define my boundaries when they're crossed or about to be crossed. There should neve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 01:48 PM
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💖 Yes, cynicism was a major problem for me, too. After what the majority of women in this community have gone through at the hands of men it's near impossible not to be at some point. We'll likely all continue to struggle with it here and there. One suggestion I have is to think less and feel more; consider your level of self awareness and how it could be improved. I started learning about masculine/feminine energies and how to shift to my feminine energy side. Check out my profile for a deeper …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 03:35 AM
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Thank you! Yes - free of both types, men and tumours. ✌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 02:50 AM
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Mmm yeah. My mother separated from my LVM father (60) recently. After 32 years of marriage. He was upset not because of the lost love (there was none)... he simply had no idea how to function. He doesn't know how to do online banking, he doesn't know how to pay bills.... my mother doesn't know how to open a new tab, yet she figured out how to online bank. When she was going through cancer, he was obsessed with juicing and stuff for her, only to keep her around for his own gain. It was a sickenin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 08:59 PM
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It's important not to fall into a scarcity mindset. HVM exist and we attract what we put out there. If you are angry, upset, and generally disappointed, how do you think your energy feels to others? It can be off-putting and it can be hard to find HV female friends as well in that state of mind. I shifted my mindset and nearly immediately met a suspected HVM. We began dating late summer 2020. Mere months later I was diagnosed with aggressive breast cancer which resulted in the loss of my breasts…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 08:53 PM
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If they can respect POCs, they should be able to respect women and other minorities too. I feel a lot of what's going on these days with White people "respecting" POC through their instagram posts or rally attendance or whatever, isn't respect.. but rather virtue signalling. It's a trend right now. So the respect isn't actually there, for POC or women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 08:41 PM
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I've spent too much of my working life de-escalating situations and have seen too many horrific assault and death videos to get too confrontational with most people now. I'm glad you're safe. Generally I avoid all conflict by responding with neutrality. In this case I'd likely have made deadpan eye contact and said "Yes I know" to the first bakery remark, in a flat tone. If it escalated from there I read the situation and stay silent or say I don't want to be involved, and leave. If that fails a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 04:23 AM
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Feeling ashamed is just a part of the process. I let a man slam meth into his neck, IN MY BATHROOM. Girl... we've all played the stupid games and won the stupid prizes. There are layers to healing and it takes time. Months and years. Harness that shame, guilt, anger, and turn it into personal power. You are WISER, and you are RESILIENT. It's a positive thing to feel your emotions, but wallowing in them will lead to physical illness. We're all here together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 08:54 PM
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I was thinking Lemon by N.E.R.D ft. Rihanna. But the quote is originally from Gloria Steinhem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 07:03 PM
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🙏 Trust the process!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 12:40 PM
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Congratulations 💖 what a great description and familiar process for so many of us. If you're struggling with attachment style, I recommend the book How To Do The Work by Dr. Nicole LePera.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 01:05 AM
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FDS has a recommended book list, for sure check it out. This book was life changing. Personally I was able to use her advice in my work and friendships as well.. being generally more assertive and making sure my needs are met.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 09:10 PM
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So normal. When I read Sherry Argov's book Why Men Love Bitches, I had to put it down multiple times per chapter.. and I'd just cry. I was mad at myself, at her for no reason, at the men I'd interacted with. So mad and so upset. And now, 3 years later, I feel nothing but gratitude and freedom. Hang in there, you're worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 08:44 PM
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Sonetimes... forgive my one-handed typing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 08:04 PM
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Ahhh I warmly envision taking a fork and stabbing it through the top of his predominant hand. What a thing to casually admit to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 03:57 PM
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Aren't we just? It amazes me every day.🤺👑 Thank you 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 03:50 PM
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Hahaha when I made the connection... 😮 had a lil chuckle, too. Life works in mysterious ways! I can safely say that everything has been a stepping stone or a wonderful lesson. Thank you for your good wishes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 02:35 PM
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Oh my FUCKING god. That's horrific betrayal. Good health for you and your mum from now on. 🙏 Hopefully his dick falls off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 01:12 PM
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🤗 feeling better every day. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 01:10 PM
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🧡 I often pray for all the women here. Thank you ever so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 01:09 PM
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🙅‍♀️ never ever
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 01:08 PM
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Lmao so true... Thank you, lovely! I appreciate you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 01:07 PM
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All of us are amazing and strong women, I'm honoured to be here in this community. THANK YOU!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 01:05 PM
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Thank you for your kindness! That phrase certainly helps light a fire under my ass sometimes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 01:04 PM
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I appreciate you! Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 05:55 AM
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🥳🥂🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 05:54 AM
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Vile math!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 05:25 AM
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I'm grateful for your prayer, thank you🌌 Hope you keep sharing wonderful post content.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 05:23 AM
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Thank you ever so much 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 05:20 AM
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This is heart wrenching. Appreciate you sharing, and thank you for your kind words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 04:44 AM
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Your father sounds like an angel... thank you for sharing. It's disgraceful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 04:39 AM
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UGH I wish this wasn't so TRUE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 03:26 AM
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Thank you. Had a double mastectomy w reconstruction a few months ago. 1 implant failed, that'll be rebuilt later. The garbage is out and this future plan is preventative (feels similar to other things hmmm haha). I'm grateful for your gesture and prayers, it's reciprocated. 💖 There's a reminder on my mantle that says, It's Okay To Lament ... and that applies to everyone here in FDS especially.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 03:23 AM
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Hell yeah. Thanks for sharing this. Love to hear and see real life HVM examples. 👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 03:17 AM
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• Add smilies to my work emails (fucking cringiiiing) • Accept speaking down to myself • Feel responsible for somebody else's happiness in life • Date smokers For a full list, envision a long ass scroll unfurling to the ground. A work in progress over the many years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 02:46 AM
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👆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 02:34 AM
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Good luck sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 08:16 PM
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You aren't 100% familiar with what we believe in here and that's okay. It's not about how you feel about the relationship. Guys don't care. His view of it may be different. I only say this based on experience. I thought I had positive platonic relationships with men, but they were a sham.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 08:14 PM
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What's harsh? FDS has never been okay with male friends. They rarely exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 08:08 PM
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Your best guy friend wants to fuck you, and watches porn. Gross... he'd be no friend of mine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 08:01 PM
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You've described it perfectly. If they can grasp the concept of mirroring you in that way it's an indicator of their emotional intelligence and ability to pick up on detail. Even though it's not that hard. I'll add that not only are they needy and insecure, but some constantly harass as a way to know what you're doing all the time. God forbid talking to other men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 12:16 AM
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Platonic guy friends don't typically exist; this is an energy vampire. If they're not trying to fuck you, they're trying to gain your attention and eat up your time. Glad to hear you're not responding. Fully cease contact asap. Nothing positive ever comes from these types.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 05:08 PM
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Love this comment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 04:50 PM
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I proudly say I've never signed up for or used OLD. Sadly the losers still find us and have no problem trying to start a chat. There is no shortage of unabashed men. But if we live fully, gratefully, and don't have a desperate need for attention, we attract good people naturally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 04:26 PM
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I will hate who hates me I think 'pity' would be a better word.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 04:18 PM
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Or the reverse, "sOrRy iVe bEeN sO qUiET tOdAy!!!!" When he's sending 2 memes per hour or telling you about lunch today with no replies from you. Admitting he's sending nothing of substance. Calling out your "lack of response" in a weird passive way using himself instead. Trying to sap some sort of constant communication.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 03:24 PM
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Texting with your friends is different than a man texting you during the dating stages. A "hectic texter" in male form, IME, signifies instability or a need for attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 03:18 PM
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Why can't he think of one thing to say and let you respond? Yep. This is basic respect to me. Especially when initially getting to know someone. Phone conversations are best, when you're not on a date, etc. Texting should not be a regular form of communication. And when it's about nothing important?.. I don't have the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 03:15 PM
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I find these videos so cringe. I think seeing examples of high class, real proposals would be a better alternative. We know how low the bar is, it's all around in real life. Now we have faked videos of trash behaviour.🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 02:58 AM
48

This has to be fake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 01:42 AM
62

Make them 👏 fucking 👏 work. 👏 Mens testosterone levels are fucking whack right now. They're so used to being fawned over by pickmes. When a MAN GIVES, his testosterone goes up. When a woman receives, so does her estrogen. This creates a healthier, more balanced relationship dynamic. Those in LTRs with HVM, have many nights where he gives to you completely, sexually. No reciprocation. It's beneficial to both.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 03:41 PM
18

Why does he only make meals for himself? Easy to make two more when the supplies are out. Unless there's more to this. Him making breakfast for you and your child shouldn't be considered 'extra'?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 03:33 PM
1

Thankfully it doesn't take much to vet emotional intelligence. If you don't have it, it's glaringly obvious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 09:09 PM
4

Thais is an angel walking among us. I'm glad this was useful for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 10:48 PM
16

Yeah, the sacrifices are precisely why I had my tubes removed. That and the fact that I would hate to fall pregnant with some guy's kid who I may end up leaving later. No thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 08:51 PM
17

👆 Thank god even in my pickme days I never divulged finance info and always kept separate accounts. I even had boyfriends sign cohabitation agreements. Some smarts amidst the stupidity..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 08:48 PM
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Here's a portion of my "husband material" list: • Doting • Compassionate • Giver of time, energy, service and gifts. • Cooks • Cleans • Prioritizes ME • Handy • Financially secure and successful • Shared values (porn, etc.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 06:49 PM
37

Financial independance is critical to success. If you need to leave, you need money in the bank.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 06:43 PM
10

Yes - I had dealt with the same during my parents divorce. It was draining and made me ill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 05:39 PM
2

She also says that guys get really comfortable once you offer to go 50/50...That's coz the guy now knows that you don't see yourself as a prize and he assumes that you are on his level which is really below the earth's core. 👏 when men GIVE, their testosterone goes up. When we receive, our estrogen increases; the relationship dynamic is healthier and as it should be. And your point on women thinking they're trapped in a cage after saying 'yes' ... so sad. Knowing that you can leave at any moment…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 04:38 PM
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You did not understand my comment. And you will not attract a HVM with the level of hatred toward men that you seem to have. Good luck! I wish you the best in dating women, it's nice that you have that option.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 12:37 PM
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I would suggest the WGTOW sub if you're opposed to dating. This is a dating strategy community, and this is a post on personal security. Not every post needs comments on how sick men are... there are different flairs for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 11:56 AM
9

Disgusting. I sometimes wonder about needing to jump from the balcony. Mine ended up being drug addicted. After removing him from my home, I spent that same night at my parents. He sent an email later talking about how he had come back, stood in the alley below and considered climbing up. Who knows if that's true but either way fucking chills.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 02:44 AM
4

Great tip.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 10:36 PM
15

It's not about a tantrum as much as it is about the potential of hidden and dangerous personality problems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 08:09 PM
30

It's not about hurt feelings. It's about personal security. I would do the same if a roommate moved out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 07:56 PM
61

Even the ones that state "do not copy" on them (secure building key)... can be copied in a machine at some stores. You likely won't be able to get new secure building keys as the entire building would then need them. But certainly your apartment or home key.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 06:33 PM
5

Thanks for sharing your anecdote. What an oblivious waste of air he sounds like! Love that you didn't show up. We were all dumb clowns. 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 02:05 AM
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It feels amazing! 💓 We get a bad name over here, but I couldn't care less. I know my truth and the moronic windbags that shit talk this sub have no clue. I have high expectations for special occasion gifts, without shame. Many men are worthless, regardless of income. Let their actions speak. When men do/give, their testosterone levels rise. And when a woman in turn receives, our estrogen goes up. We need these hormone differences in order to thrive in romantic relationships. So yes! Acts of serv…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 10:46 PM
24

Thank you. I appreciate the focus on strategy over depravity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 08:38 PM
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My suspected HVM is not well off by any means, but when we're together he always: • buys snacks and groceries • cooks for me • gets small gifts when he sees something I'd like • drives across cities to pick me up/drop me off (including picking up craiglist items for me in diff cities) • makes my tea or coffee • fills my beverages • carries my bags These are a handful of examples, and all of the points that cost money are done without ever complaining about price. As the top comment here said, ac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 07:50 PM
3

🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 11:00 PM
11

I personally enjoyed and benefitted from Why Men Love Bitches by Sherry Argov. I'm nearly done How To Do The Work: recognize your patterns, heal from your past + create your self by Dr. Nicole LePera. Learning about Attachment Styles also helped; Thais Gibson is a great resource on youtube if you're into videos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 08:20 PM
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I found my forgiveness of self and overcoming the shame happened in stages. First it was a deep sadness, then anger, shame, embarassment, acceptance, admiration of growth, and finally an immense sense of pride. Use time alone to read and learn about yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 03:04 PM
6

It's 🌌magical🌅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 02:54 PM
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100%. They can find a pickme pretty much anytime, anywhere. So they're always looking. Women have a hard time finding HV men. So when we stop looking, we lose that air of desperation and attract higher quality people. Since I stopped seeking a man and adopted FDS principles ~two years ago, I've met someone who treats me like a queen and does/is what you've described in your post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 01:54 PM
13

There are great men! Positivity attracts good people💖 Be content with Self first. You're who matters at the end of each day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 01:38 AM
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Those are great questions. I feel many men ask the exact opposite when they're looking; Is she financially stable? Can she offer me something I don't already have? Does she have endless time for me? Can she make me happy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 11:58 PM
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The more they get away with treating you like shit, the less incentive there is for them to end things. It's like a buffet that they don't have to pay for; take what they want with nothing returned. You're so strong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 08:52 PM
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You dodged a bullet. It hurts to end things with someone that you got involved with so young; it makes sense that you're feeling sad and doubtful. There is far better out there, though. And the good news is, you're already associated with the very best... yourself. You did nothing wrong by ending the relationship. Nothing lost, and everything gained. Allow yourself to feel the feels, but also recognize that there's likely built up sadness due to how you were treated. I can feel the hurt just rea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 08:34 PM
10

You may be interested in looking into your "attachment style" ... you can heal yourself! I would break up with N/LV men and feel similar to what you describe. But you have to look at the reasons behind the breakup; if it helps, write a list. Seeing things on paper gives good clarity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 08:20 PM
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🙋‍♀️ my symptoms were intense acne flare-ups, joint pain, and disordered eating. I was diagnosed with breast cancer at 26 (all gone now yay), and I can't help but chalk it up to some traumas, working years in a high stress job, and then coming home to an alcoholic LVM at night who contributed nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 06:35 PM
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When we live in mental turmoil and stress, we suffer physical effects. No man is worth your health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 05:08 PM
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Yes. I know a small handful. But I would always wonder, how to figure out if they do? If you straight up ask a man if he watches porn he'll either say yes, lie, or you'll be left uncertain. On a sub dedicated to porn free relationships, one member provided a valuable question to ask a man: "What kind of porn do you watch?" 😊 You can say this coyly, without sounding accusatory, and I'd imagine more often than not you'll receive an honest answer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 03:18 PM
2

It's strategic incompetence. Some of them only do it because they have their sad girlfriends picking it all up in the background. I've witnessed generally tidy men devolve into someone who does nothing, based on the enabling behaviours of their girlfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:56 PM
5

I would sure hope that he can. We need to let these men sit in their filth though, and hopefully it's a wake up call to the women in this situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 07:02 PM
14

He's part of the laughing stock of humanity. His gf - if she won't leave his ass - needs to assert a boundary here and take him up on ‼️his suggestion‼️ to only look after herself. No cooking for or cleaning up behind him. If his mess accumulates into something too large to mentally handle, maybe it will serve as a good reminder that he is trash incarnated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:28 PM
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I wasted way too much time on a guy who was handsome, ripped, relatively intelligent in a book-smarts sense, and a self-proclaimed "Man of God." He was also a sex-addicted meth junkie who cheated multiple times at "massage parlours" and with women from NA meetings. The fucking horror. I still can't believe it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 03:53 PM
79

Mm yes. Cheap, and easy to see through after cracking their weak shell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 03:45 PM
10

I love the SWU channel, more should know about it. Thanks for sharing. What's amazing is how multiple people can face the same or similar traumas, and turn out so differently from one another. The human brain is a strange, dark, fascinating thing. My heart aches for many of the women he interviews. But it also serves as an incredible reminder to express gratitude for the blessings in life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 03:32 AM
2

Hahaha I'm reading How To Do The Work: Recognize Your Patterns, Heal From Your Past + Create Your Self by Nicole LePera. It's amazing so far. Thais Gibson's videos on YT have also been a good resource.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 01:39 PM
6

💗💗💗💗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 12:57 AM
1

Thank you for sharing, and for your kind words!! Indeed, it didn't feel sexy in the moment... but it sure is in hindsight. 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 12:39 AM
2

☺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 12:31 AM
11

🤣🤣🤣 Thank you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 11:57 PM
3

I was freeeaaaking ooouut at the thought initially, but understand the logic now. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 11:06 PM
4

Amazing! It was same-day discharge; at-home recovery promotes faster healing with fewer complications. The first two days were brutal but I got by on 3 advil extra strength per day. Now it's just itchy. 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:52 PM
2

Thank you so much, I'm glad you got something from this as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:27 PM
7

What a horrid person. But dead weight out of your life. It's hard to regain that trust though. I wish you healing as well, thank you 💗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:01 PM
14

100%... can't say I saw this coming, but thankful for how it played out. Fully endorse the "stress test"... Thank you 🌹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 09:58 PM
6

💛🤗💛
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 09:53 PM
7

I appreciate your kind words!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 09:40 PM
26

Thank you!! 💛 what a lovely idea... I need a bidet!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 09:27 PM
2

I can understand why! Don't be sorry, what you've said makes complete sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 05:32 PM
2

Totally. My shock and disgust was directed at her thinking that girls and women having sex with many men, right away, in non committal "situationships", is acceptable and/or should be promoted. Sad.. but everyone has to walk the journey and come to their own conclusions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 05:24 PM
122

Do I Like You Back, Or Am I Trying To Be Your Mom In Place Of The Emotionally Unavailable Mother That I Had? 🤢🤮🥴 Learning about attachment styles has been RATTLING. But integral for healing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 04:27 PM
6

It took a lot of time dedicated to personal growth and being strict with myself. Lots of reading and tears. But how wonderful that you found it! One thing that helped me was to keep in mind that the world has good people in it. For all the male depravity content we see here, there are also good men out there. I had to work hard to not fall into a scarcity mindset. HVM are certainly rare, but they exist. Try not to get too down about things like that initially.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 10:31 PM
14

Men are the true dramatics, that's for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 10:15 PM
5

💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 10:12 PM
22

I would say that I can't believe he'd use the word virgin in a group setting at a work event. But I do believe it. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 10:04 PM
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Not at all what I'm trying to get across, it's easy to misunderstand online. I think a man of quality will have no issues pursuing and investing, without expecting anything in turn aside from a serious relationship, if the woman has made it clear that that's what she interested in as well (monogamy and committment).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 10:01 PM
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I'm not advocating for "excitement, chase, and drama." FDS taught me to receive and allow myself to be invested in and pursued. That will show you how serious a man is. I can still be pursued while maintaining warmth and building a connection. It's about allowing myself to be invested in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 09:47 PM
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Yes, there's more to the picture. It wasn't hands and knees groveling, he's an affectionate man and I'm much less so. We have been dating since early summer 2020 so I would say "suspected" HVM based off his actions, morals, values and integrity displayed so far. It's still too early to say HV without doubt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 09:40 PM
11

I think it's nature; the male has to work hard to win over the female, as it should be. You can be loving and sensual without being sexual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 07:31 PM
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It works, and you've got this. Try to harness that anxiety into personal power. You are the goddess that calls your own shots, and respectable people will respect that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 07:24 PM
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There was a post on the sex sub by a young woman who was disturbed by the fact that her boyfriend told her that he fell for her because she didn't have sex with him right away. Yeah. She thought that it was "fucked up" that he thought it was better when a women didn't immediately have sex with a man. I was just... 😐 These girls and women have become so deeply entrenched in the sExUaL liBeRatiOn life. My SO would beg me to spend the night just to cuddle, but I didn't for a number of months; I let…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 05:20 PM
8

Big yuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 03:37 AM
22

I hope you find peace with this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 10:16 PM
120

I've experienced men who would pretend to be open with their phone. But anytime a message came through/it vibrated/whatever, they would visibly flinch, even just a very slight movement, before confirming with a glance that it wasn't a threat. That always made my skin crawl and senses tingle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 10:08 PM
22

Hey. As a recovering Fearful Avoidant - committed to healing toward a Secure attachment style - this post really resonates. My SO is career-driven, "manly", more of a black & white thinker toward things outside of the relationship. I was struggling with hypervigilance and reading into every small interaction, at times. I've been learning how to best communicate my needs while still coming from a place of warmth. It's nice to hear that you've witnessed enough to believe that there isn't any bulls…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 04:17 PM
9

Thanks! Totally! Hahaha 🙌 ladylike mind fuckery 🧙‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 04:34 PM
2

That's very kind, thanks! Haha not a writer. I'm big into honing my feminine energy lately (feminine is receiving, masculine is doing/pursuing). I watched an Adrienne Everheart video on YT where she talked about how to warmly shut a man up haha. I don't agree with everything she puts out, but that one helped a lot. The onus is put back on him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 02:46 PM
122

I will not listen to a man bellyache about his life and circumstances. I warmly say, "I trust that you can handle and take care of this." And the complaining stops. 👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 01:36 AM
3

Interesting.... at this point in life, nothing is surprising anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 05:34 PM
3

Thanks for explaining. I'm not sure I agree, but maybe haven't seen the same videos you have. I've always gotten a brotherly energy from him but either way it's sketchy as fuck to get advice from men. 😂 it's the wild west out there on YT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 08:45 PM
1

Interesting! I'd love to know why you think so?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 08:36 PM
6

I would never have called it a gift of the gab.. only had to watch 10 seconds of one of his stupid videos to know immediately that he was a lying, manipulative sack of mouldy turds. I think a really creative form of hell for this man would be to forever lock him in a room with his content on repeat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 04:06 PM
10

Truly fucked 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 06:15 AM
6

I'm glad some comic relief could be found!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 03:00 AM
34

Oh god I didn't know that. Beam me out of this fresh hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 02:35 AM
11

If he's sorry, I'm an armadillo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 02:28 AM
20

It was so surreal to watch. Was seriously having a laugh though at the insanity of it all. It would be even funnier if I knew with 100% certainty that he doesn't lock her in the basement with a bible at night.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 01:37 AM
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I agree wholeheartedly. The only man on YT whose advice has resonated with me and seems to be coming from a place of good, is Kev Hick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 01:15 AM
46

Right? That death grip... SIS BLINK TWICE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 01:05 AM
69

Can't forget to promote your book on healing from infidelity at the end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 12:41 AM
27

I never experienced orgasm until last year. The Womanizer (starlet) works well for me and is often on sale. Orgasm every time. Small and effective.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 06:19 PM
26

This makes me eternally grateful for receiving sterilization surgery with nothing but acceptance and zero pushback or comments. It's horrifying to think that's an exceptional experience, though. Our fucking bodies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 06:35 PM
16

I feel like every time a woman levels up and refuses to settle for scraps, she imparts a little of that strength to women everywhere even if they don’t know it. I love this, and believe it also. Our collective energy is powerful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 11:28 PM
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It is so hard to read and watch. I want to scream in the faces of these women. But it was a journey for me and it's a journey for them, too. I have learned to harden my heart and peacefully detach. We all need to experience a rock bottom. I don't know if I would have ever learned had I not had a leech injecting his neck with an illicit drug in my bathroom while never paying rent. Hopefully that's not as bad as it gets for others. I've finally found a man who has known me less than a year, and he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 10:34 PM
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