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The only bruise I hide is from when my recuse dog was resource guarding and learning how to play nice to other dogs. He did bite me a few times and I did struggle to control him when he tried to fight another dog; but I accept those bruises as "He's an animal who clearly has trauma and can't be reasoned with". I can forgive a Dog who was recused from a bad situation. (BTW he is doing so much better and is such a good boy now) but a person who's an adult? No excuse and the marks are on full displ…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 01:04 AM
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But are you really a friend? Or using someone as an LVM rader? That's rather harsh, don't you think?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 12:51 AM
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I cum a million times within a few minutes of foreplay. It's not hard if you listen to your partner and do what they like, without getting annoyed. Men, imagine if a woman does everything but what you want. Roughly rub her dry hands on your penis and basically jerk it to the point to almost rips it off, or grind you at a weird angle your balls get shaved off? Just because women know what makes men cum, doesn't give you an excuse to not learn and practice. You (men) never hesitate to tell us what…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 12:18 AM
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Lol, $50 for the Anniversary? I got that on date 3 because the Guy didn't want to lose his chance with me. I love how this guy was happy to match with a hot girl but can't meet her standards. She clearly is aware of her power and demands nothing less. Don't get mad LVM, because she knows someone else will take her to that steak house without thinking twice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 04:20 PM
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There is no excuse to forget something now of days. Smartphones have a million different apps and ways to remind you to get something or what is so special about a specific day. If they can remember to get up and go to work everyday and name all the players on a sports team, they can remember to grab milk from the store or when your birthday is. If he can hold down a job then he is an adult who can do adult things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 08:36 PM
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Why did these women & daughters agree to this again? I really hope the divorce papers are nearby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 07:23 PM
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No, I slowly become very busy and they get the hint and find someone else to vent to. I'm no one's free therapist. I don't have the background for it, so why are you asking me to be one? Get some real help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 04:55 PM
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/s omg girl how dare you have tear ducts that are large enough to produce tears and eye lube? Thank god you nope out of there!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 04:54 AM
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Agreed, she super Beautiful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 08:34 PM
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Wait...Is this in the Quran?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 08:18 PM
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I was once told I'm "entitled" for saying I only date guys with jobs, a car (we don't live in a city with public transport), a career, and an education of some kind. like no my dude, I am looking for someone who can measure up to my resume.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 09:54 PM
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/s yes I'm so insecure about my BF being a part of an industry that is known for abusing, drugging, raping, murdering, mistreating, and forcing women into a position where they are stuck and powerless. How Dare I question someone who is willing to support this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 02:23 PM
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/s First question to ask: will you have a problem if I date someone handsomer with a big dick and bigger wallet? If no, than the answer is no to an open relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 05:33 AM
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Very hard for a die man to talk. As long as she has a good lawyer and cries about how someone attacked her, she good....as long as she shoot him before he rape her. Once he rape her, it's magically all her fault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 05:16 AM
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That, and pee come out of their penis! /s Like eww gross, why would you expect a women to put her mouth or hands there?! Like honestly two can play this game
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 05:15 AM
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My boyfriend is helping with getting my permit since I grew up in a family who anti gun. He was shocked I wasn't carrying and told me "women should allows be carrying because the world is too dangerous" I'm excite and terrified about getting a gun. But I know it's the best thing I'll gift myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 01:25 AM
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Aren't their balls like one inch away from their smell assholes? Women are basically forced to wipe everything, some men can't even brother to do that. This guy has serious problems of he think that our natural bodies destroy our confidence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 01:19 AM
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This dude should be happy she wasn't armed! Remember ladies it's better to be armed and never use it, than to never have one and need it. Running can only get you so far unfortunately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 01:10 AM
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I don't see what the problem is....If a "solid" man can't find value in a solid women, why bother keeping him around? If you don't add value, you don't have value. Sorry not sorry but that is how the cookie crumbles. People of value understand what they have and only want the best for themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 03:30 PM
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Look at all that gaslight! Yes the pornstar are aware people are watching them. That how they make money. Also all mature grown women find porn a problem because porn addiction is a problem and can cause mental health issues. Stop trying to gaslight us nmv. Honestly, all women deserve better than a man who can't be happy with the women in front of him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 07:13 PM
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No, but I always call myself "the one who got away" because I'm not putting up with shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 08:28 PM
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One time a guy slapped me during sex after 8 months of dating, soI kicked him in the nuts and scream "like that bitch!" Never saw him again after that. I will no tolerate abuse on any level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 05:02 PM
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Can she talk it out by kicking him in the nuts and saying it turns her on when he in pain? If the scout scream no! ; then why is it OK to slap a women? Pain is pain regardless what body part received it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 05:00 PM
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Ladies get the strap ons, because martial rape dose not exist /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 05:38 PM
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Since when do women shame men for being virgins??? This dude seriously need to stop talking about westerners culture when he never step foot in it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 04:59 PM
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I love how this guy knows he a toxic piece of shit and understands that women won't tolerate it and expect to be treated better or they will leave. He creak the code, why is he angry? He know what he need to do to keep a beautiful wonderful women around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 01:52 PM
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A man who doesn't abuse a women shouldn't be awarded for being a "good man". He should be expected to not be monster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 11:51 PM
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I volunteer with alot of kids with different metal handicaps. My brother has autism and our childhood was tough but we aren't assholes. Being neuro diverse isn't an excuse to act like a piece of shit, and neither is having a tough childhood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 05:28 PM
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I have a lot of options. I know this because men flirt and stare at me all the time. It boils down to character and loyalty. I can leave my boyfriend at any time and trade up. However, I think it's stupid to chase someone who appear to be better when you found someone that check your boxes and forums a relationship, with for someone who is slightly better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 10:09 PM
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Humans have brains and the ability to reason. Punish the human who de-evolved to animals and attack people. Humen should never act like brainless animals. Just like we put down dogs for attacking people, we should put down people who become animals. Why allow a human to get away with a crime when they are able to think and reason when an animal act on instinct? Make it make sense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 06:37 PM
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So she OK with him cheating because he is happier with his mistresses? Then why stay if he is happier with someone else. Girl do yourself a favor and find someone who is loyal and happy with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 05:38 PM
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It's possible, but very unlikely. Think about it, how long dose it take for you to change a bad habit? To lose five pounds, to start a good new habit etc. It's takes a lot for a person to change one small thing about themselves. To become a honest person who is monogamous after tasting the for in fruit of fucking around like an animal is very difficult. Imagine if you were allowed to do as you please with little to no consequences? You might not want to go back to be a honest good person who is …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 06:30 PM
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Why is it so hard for them to understand that?? We hate men who hurt women and child. Why is that such a problem? It's more concerning when someone doesn't have any empathy toward other humen being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 01:24 PM
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It's common knowledge guy chase women they like. They make it very known. Guys are so easy to read. They are like puppies, they get excited when they see you and sad when you're not around. If the guy isn't acting like a happy puppy around you, he doesn't like you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 01:16 PM
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Hopefully he dies before he bed her. Or dies a gruesome death for exploiting and abusing children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 01:12 PM
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It's so sad that she convince that her value as a person is being a wife. Women are more than just a vessel for babies. You can go your whole life never giving birth and still be a productive member of society. Many men never father children and no one bat an eye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 01:10 PM
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A grown ass man is upset his kiddy lunch wasn't pack to his liking? Pack your own lunch than! Problem solved. My mom stop packing my lunch once I hit middle school.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 11:03 PM
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So they want sex, but are afraid we might claim rape? Sound like they fuck someone before they gain their consent and trust. Lurkers, you have the ability to say no to sex at any time. If you don't know her and didn't get a clear "Yes" to sex. Don't have sex with her, because without consent it's rape. Not all rape happens behind a dumpster at 6 am when a woman is out on a jog. The majority of all rape is done by a person you know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 03:05 PM
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So women should only seek out rich attractive men and get what they can, before they leave for a younger women? Duly note incel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 08:17 PM
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The CVS pharmacy tech was flirting with me as I was getting Covid tested. (some asshole lied about being vaccinated at work). I was wearing a loose t-shirt, jeans no make-up and I had some ance showing. I didn't have a maks on since it was a drive-through self-administered test. He was young, very attractive, and had muscular arms. I'm very polite and smile a lot, which is my normal. I get a lot of attention by being nice and smiling all the time. Honestly, if you're kind to others and happy you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 07:18 PM
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Believe it or not Bumble. We match right before he delete the app. He went through a messy divorce where he tried hard to save his marriage. He tried dating app pre his friend suggestion and hated it. He got off the app after getting my contact information. I normally met men at networking events; which is one of the best places to go to met professionals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 04:55 PM
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They are looking for women who can hold their own. Usually people who free load can't do anything for themselves. What's the point of being with someone if they can't do anything for themselves, including being financially independent? Can a women who free load call herself a HVW? Absolutely not; FDS is all about empowering ourself and never relying on men 100%. Remember, we call out men who free load off of women, it's only right we do the same to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 04:52 PM
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My current CF boyfriend makes my salary in a month. Mind you, I have a MBA and 6.5 ish year of working experience. He very much old school, "I'm the man, I provide for my women and take care of her". His ex wive bearly made 32k ish based on my estimate, since she has a AA in accounting, which limits you to low paying accounting jobs. She had full access to his bank account. He didn't care how much she made, as long as she doing something with her life. He even has a life insurance policy to pay …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 12:57 PM
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If a men is truly HV, he would either offer and/or agree to a vasectomy. It's 99.98% effect, it's an in and out no sedation operation, they can literally to go work right after and their little to no risk. Heck, my cheating ex lvm boyfriend got one because I refuse to be on the Pill . So if he could do it, so can a HVM. Edit: a word
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 12:44 AM
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I'm CF and still believe I should be with a CF HVM because lvn/NVM don't deserve a women loves. A women loves is very powerful and wonderful to have. Also our bodies are still valuable without its womb or use for it. Why should I be abused by a NVM just because I'm not giving someone children? That just stupid and adds to the notion that women are only valuable if their wombs are healthy and usable. Women should never be valued on the ability to give birth and be moms. Men were never measure on …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 12:41 AM
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/s boys will be boys after all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 10:52 PM
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They know da way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 04:16 AM
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Send him a receipt plus insterest of all the money he owes you and threaten to go to small claims court if he doesn't pay up. Dump his poor gold digging ass. Get yourself a real Men who support himself without a women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 05:16 PM
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They don't brother me. I hate my culture just as much as the next guy. I join them in criticising Arab culture. There too much misogyny and majority of the interpretations of the Quran (that influence the culture and visa versa) were horrible off and wrong. One passage talks about how staring at women is sinful. So somehow, they interpret that if men can't gawk at women, there no way they can't shake hands. Like wtf?! Shaking hands is a business firmality with no sexual concept, vs gawking is di…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 10:47 AM
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Thank you! "Leftover women" is a badge of honor not a badge of shame. Show just how powerful and compatible women are. Honestly, when those mothers from back home say "I came to America for a better life" I want to slap a Witch. OK, if you came here for a better life, why is your daughter locked up in a tower waiting for a gross hairy ape to marry her? HUH?!!! Sweetheart this is America! Women can have jobs, own property, and be free! Be happy you were able to come and start acting American or G…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 11:52 PM
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I'm 27, and every Arab women in our community can't shut up about me not being married yet. Like just because your daughter doesn't want to work and provide for herself, doesn't mean I do. I love working and I hate Arab men. So what's the problem?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 10:23 PM
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/s "climate changes increases as pirates decrease." Henceforth, pirates stop global warming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 01:48 PM
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My mom and my sister were angry that I'm dating a guy with money. They called me a gold digger and I said bold men are supposed to provide and protect! My sister who very independent like me said "you can make your money." I respond with "yeah I can and I do. That why I date rich men, it's because they have to add value to my life." I can support myself just fine, so why date a poor man who can't afford his own expenses? My new flame is very happy to pay for dates. He enjoys going out and is hap…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 07:12 PM
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I'm 27 and don't look a day older than what I look in high school. Only my smile line are a bit deeper since I smile alot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 08:04 PM
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Women out live men all the time. We are going to die alone regardless. Also there no guarantees he will make it in time for your death. My dad bearly made it to my birth due to a snow storm and getting stuck on a bridge for 3 hours! I decide to come out early while he was at work. Shit happens, and no one should marry just to die with someone. Friends are people too and same gose to other family members.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 07:52 PM
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I always perch this! Men can father as many kids as he can get in women. A woman can only get pregnant once every 9 month ish. Who really cause the damage? Worst, the men isn't expect to be a present father, while the women is expect to be a present mother because its her kid(s) but he has his name on it. Like what? He put his name on it, but doesn't brother being a father, got the poor woman(s) pregnant and everyone blames her?? Why isn't the men being held accountable for impregnating so many …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 04:23 AM
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They should remove all the videos and have all the people in the video record a clip saying they consent to the recording of "what ever sex scene they planned" with their faces in full view at the beginning for the clip. All videos must be approved before being live. That clip must stay in the video to show what consent is and the fact it was given. Or just shut down completely .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 04:13 AM
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Behind a successful men is a women. She pushed him to do better, while doing all the hard work behind the scene so he may focus on his career; To only leave her for "someone better". Never be behind a man, run pass him and make him catch up to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 03:18 AM
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My ex who had self esteem issues and wasn't a Greek God cheated on me with a women who also had low esteem, OK looking (in my opinion) very pickme. He couldn't handle the fact that I was very career driven and motivated to be better. They will cheat because they feel inadequate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 08:29 PM
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Agree Also how many hvm exist? I too, would be happy jealous for my friend if she found a HVM. I would be supportive, but sad that I haven't found one yet. Who doesn't want a partner who treat you right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 05:00 PM
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Omg the comment section is full of "women can't survive with men", "Men do more work than women", "men provide for women, why are they complaining?".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 10:48 AM
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Why is it smiling??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 03:41 AM
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So I'm friends with a specific Ex. We were friends before we started dating. We both grew together and matured when we dated. I was depressed anxious person who didn't know how to drive at age 22 and he needed boasts in confidence. I learned to drive, got my big girl job stright after college, move to a city by myself, and become more confident. He become more mature, realized being a women isn't easy, gain some confidence, etc. I keep him around as just a friend (no sex) because he helped me th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 03:39 AM
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It literally isn't hard to move on after seeing a beautiful women or person in general. My friend and I both practice the art of complementing other women that we find beautiful or have a cute outfit. Neither of us are gay, we just enjoy spreading positivity. Heck I have a fear of needles until the lady at Costco eased me into it. I told her how much I appreciated her kindness and patience. It isn't hard to be kind to others and move on with your life. She literally help me get one step closer t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 08:58 PM
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The boat before the Mayflower to America had just men. They all died before the Mayflower got to America. Historians believe they all died because none of them build shelters, cooked, practiced good hygiene etc. They were scanning the coast for gold. Once the women arrived, house were built, food was cooked, the injured were tended to, etc. Women are the heros and a the back bones of Society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 04:18 PM
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It was one of those random thoughts that have no real weight to it. Since I started read FDS again, it kept popping into my head. Yeah I can agree, that being gay would be less stigmatized if that were the case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 03:48 PM
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I had a random thought and I'm very scared to say it, but I will. Please don't hate me, it's just a random thought: what if "straight" men are actually just gay but are too scared or brainwashed by reglious to be with women. Hence why they make our lives hell because "they feel punished" for being with a person they don't like. VS gay guys love women and feminine so much they try to emboyed it and confusing it as being attracted to men because women are "suppose to be with me" pre "biology" and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 08:07 AM
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I'm OK with "not all men" want to marry me. I just want the best men to court me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 06:53 AM
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/s but if we put all of them in a box... Who left? Small young kids who aren't corrupted yet?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 02:17 AM
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Can I adopt her as my grandmother! I'll bake her cookies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 06:29 PM
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Exactly! I can afford my own place, the electric bill, food, a healthy saving account that saved my ass when I was laid off during covid 19. Heck my MBA helped me find a job alot faster! Also I live in Florida... The climate keep me warm! 😂 In the winter, I just use my weighted blanket and an extra blakent to keep warm. He claim he owns a house. He nether lying or he inheritance it from his died parents. I too can own a home, but there a difference between owing a good home and a shed in the poo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 06:26 PM
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Pretty much! He knew he had to lie about his job to get attention. Within an hour I knew the truth. Like my dude why lie if you can't keep it up? Stop lying and find a girl on your level. There plenty of women who aren't career motivated and will settle for a meat handler. No shame towards them, I just want an equal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 02:21 PM
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So there this grocery store on my state where the employee "own" the company. One guy who works in the deli handling meat pretend he own the a franchise store. I called him out and said how do you own the store if it's not franchises out? He got mad and told me it's employed owned and he worked in the deli. I told him cool cool I'm not interested in lairs and prefer men who are on my career level. He called my MBA stupid and how it's not going to keep me warm. ROFL, my Heater in my own apartment…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 12:46 PM
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"I hate paying child support because I can't brother wearing condoms".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 02:14 AM
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Wait....Is that why my adult acne has gotten better, even though my skin routine and diet hasn't changed. Caught my ex cheating on me 3 month ago and my skin is a lot better since I kicked him out?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 03:18 AM
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This is why I refused to cook. Guys will never clean their house and be ok with it. When it comes to food, you can't skip meals forever; you're going to need to eat. Hence why I only date men who can cook. Once they see my basic nothing great cooking, they learn fast that they have to do all the cooking or buy take out. I purposely complain about gaining weight and calories so they avoid buying take out. I don't mind cleaning because cleaning products are cheaper than food and I personally prefe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 02:07 AM
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I literally witness a guy following a girl. I keep an eye on her until she went inside a bar. Another time, a young beautiful women was walking alone at night to her car. A man was behind her following her. The second she got into her car he hide behind a dumpster. My friend and I were watching her on the other side of the street. I always watch out for women if I noticed a man tailing them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 01:51 AM
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I didn't know what else to call it. But yeah, it definitely hurt to see the switch change over night. Luckily, I love getting dressed up so it's not a big deal to me. But it's gets annoying to get up early to get ready. I highly recommend laying out your clothes the night before and washing your hair at night. Invest in a good heat protecter and a hair straighter that heat up super fast and auto shut off. Also Invest in comfortable shoes. I wear pumps from Life stride since they are super comfor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 04:47 PM
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Why would any adult women want to look like a child???? I have a baby face and it causes me so much stress. People mistake me for a teen mom when I'm with my my baby sister (until she finally grew up) , people think I'm too young to understand adult conversations, I deal with disrespect at work, I don't get challenged at work and some how never get promoted even though I saved the company alot of money and work more hours than my team mates. I literally have to dress to the nine in polish semi f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 04:21 PM
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I can't take a good selfie to save my life. And honestly, I don't care. I know photoshop because I use it to make digital art. I can alter my selfies, but why lie. I prefer my OK selfies over filters and altered pictures. It weeds out vein people more effectively. I love hearing the words "wow, you look amazing" or "dman you look better in person". How I look in the best lighting shouldn't matter, because let's face it, Who sits all day iin front of light studio? I didn't think so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 04:53 PM
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The YouTube comment are calling her rude. We live in a sad world where women are rude for expecting a romantic marriage proposal. Didn't this guy see any movies with proposal scenes??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 03:57 AM
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Dose he realize he can harm her body and cause damage to her reproduction organs by pulling in her IUD?? There a reason why you need a doctor to install it and remove it. It's not a "diy home kit". Honestly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 08:20 PM
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My ex asked me to dye my hair blue. I work in a corporate office. Unnatural hair color won't fly and I presonal love a polish look. Nothing against colored hair, I personally don't find it attractive. I told him no I won't dye it because I don't like it and it's requires alot of money and maintaining. He than responded with "isn't you're favorite color blue?", and "I though you like Hatsune Miku enough to dye your hair?". I respond with, I love my career more than the color blue and if you want …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 06:43 PM
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One guy from "Harvard" called himself fit but had a dad Bob and a double chin. Had the audacity to call me fat because my stupid big boobs make me look wider. His lose, no boobs for him. I highly doubt his from Harvard either. It's so easier to lie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 11:25 PM
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The men do realize that they determine the sex of the baby, right? It's not 50/50, each man has a predetermined rate based off their genetic. Some men can only have girls while other have boys, some might have a 75% chance of having a boy or a girl and some have a higher chance at twins. They can blame their own dicks for not having the genetic code for higher percentage for boy babies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 09:09 PM
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Why stay if he clearly like someone else? /s it would be cruel to force him to stay, when you can't give him what he wants
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 08:52 PM
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Fair point, didn't consider that part. Thank you for sharing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 06:04 PM
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Why wait until 16? They can still get young girls regnant. Just do it if and when they get circumcised or after they are born. If parents are willing to cut their baby's perfectly normal foreskin, they shouldn't have a problem with a vasectomy. I do want to go on record that I do not agree with circumcision. Only using the same logic on why people do it, against them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 05:49 PM
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I like how the guy agree that men do get girls drunk, but than gose not "all men". Like dude, just say it! You can't trust random men until you "study them a bit". Just like parents don't allow their kids to go to random people's house until they get to they them, its the same for a first date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 07:50 PM
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The gym membership pays for them... Basics accounting 101. The cost of Women Sanitary products are a "hidden" fee. Also they can write it off as an business expense. So basically it doesn't cost the company any money and can be use for tax deduction. Just imagine if they said the same thing about toilet paper.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 12:24 PM
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There are mixed gender gym, so why are they complaining???? They are more than welcome to make men only gyms, no one is stopping them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 01:27 AM
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The unattractive guy tries to drag you down and make you fat. Speaking from personal experience. I have a weak spot for seeeta, so they are not allowed in my house. All my exes or anyone I dated who wasn't super attractive or fit always bought sweets and keep reminding how they have cake or chocolates. Another guy also took me out to restaurant that sever high calories food and broke up with me because I ordered dalaf. I gained 15 pounds dating him in 2.5 months. They are not the best, they are …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 12:36 PM
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That even just those reasons, if and when they get an STD, it would be very unethical to continue having sex with a client. They would have to stop all physical sexual activities to avoid spread diseases. On top of that, their quality of life is destroyed and if they don't have access to health insurance or health care; well I wish them the best on managing the symptoms. Coal Miners have less risk and access to medical and worker compensation insurance and if they get hurt or killed. Sex workers…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 10:49 PM
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This is why I carry prepper spray. The one advantage of living in Florida is, the right " to stand your ground" law aka I can prepper spray him for attacking me and possibly even kick him to death. If a racist white man can shoot a minor for wearing a red hoodie and holding a soda bottle and M&Ms. I can prepper spray and kick a man until the police show up for throwing something at me. I bought all my female friends prepper spray and one also carries a trazer on top of that. I keep mine in my br…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 03:33 PM
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You get paid to put your bodies at risk of Std and potential violence? Wow someone must of not been good enough for better education and training for low risk jobs. What are you going to do if and when you get an STD? My employer hand out free life insurance and other cheap medical insurance in the US. Maybe if you put in the same effort in sucking, you too can get a fancy corporate job too with benefits and never be in danger or at risk. The biggest risk I face in the corporate world, is someon…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 12:45 PM
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Sell the babies food. Heck I won't be surprised if she uses the baby as a prop. Like you know how every baby a picture books has a baby naked in the tub with a parent? She going to invent a new meaning of momma/baby pictures. Even if she cover the baby's genitals, I really really hope CPS and the law label her a pedophile/ sex offender if she dose use the baby as a prop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 10:22 PM
2

Oh... You can abort that late?! I'm all for women right to chose and right over their bodies, but that fucked messed up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 10:11 PM
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Send him a picture and measure of your ideal dick, and ask him if he measure up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 10:05 PM
16

You literally can not control the gender of an offspring! Like wtf???? Also what women whos of legal age is naturally hairless who doesn't suffer from some very rare hair lose disease?? This guy watches too much porn to think women are hairless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 10:03 PM
17

I used to praise Bill Gate saying "you don't need to be religious to be a good person. He donated so much and helped so much for many people. Now, I'm convinced God doesn't exist to allow people like him to raise to power, make more money than he would need and get away with his crimes against humanity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 12:58 PM
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Giving multiple guy a chance even though I know they will never follow through with their promises. I don't know what convinced me that I need to give NVM a chance simply because they ask. They all tried to tear me down to their level because they couldn't handle I was very well educated despite haveing a learning disability, financially literate, think about the future and consequences of my action, etc. I was an adult and acted like one. I put my MBA and career first before anything else, but …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 02:47 PM
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Yeah, at first I was like cool women get paid to birth babies and it's the man problem, since she just the "birthing mom" lack of a better term. I didn't consider all side until some of you lovely ladies mentioned how our wombs will be seen as a commodity until we can make babies without a womb. Ugg, women never win. Until we can make humens without us; Our eggs will still be required until we can make artificial ones. Let's see how many religious extremist will allow science to get that far; Be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 03:08 AM
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Oh right, you can't completely make a baby without some type of womb. Watched too many Sci fi movies where babies were completely made in a tube. 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 03:02 AM
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You got a point. I didn't think about it like that. Test tube babies it is!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 11:39 PM
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If men want babies so badly, they can just buy eggs from a sperm and egg clinic and use a surrogate service. Boom no wife needed, you can customize how the baby will look like and it's will be 100% your legal responsibility. The "true mother" will never brother you or cause problems because she only the mother via DNA not by birth or legal responsibility. It's not rocket science, gay men have been using this service for a long time. Edit: thank you for pointing out that surrogacy is not a soluti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 08:31 PM
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Yet a man who want a 10, skinny girl with a big young butt, larger breast, smooth skin, shorter than them, etc etc aren't call vein? Just like, they want beauty around them, so do we. Because who doesn't like being surrounded by beauty of all different kinds?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 12:33 PM
13

There an unwritten rule that men add 2-3 inches to their height if they are under 6 foot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 08:51 PM
50

They're just jealous you have long beautiful legs that make you taller then them. Never feel sorry for being blessed with a trait.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 04:26 PM
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Aggressive aka they meant assertive, because you're not taking any shit from no one and calling them out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 04:24 PM
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Stick to your gun! Don't let anyone pressure you. Wait until you are ready and not a second sooner. Never let anyone bully you into sex, because that rape. They are not worth it and only looking for "easy sex".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 04:20 PM
17

Dose he mean, he'll leave her legal residence? If his name isn't on the lease or dead, he has no power and can be forced out of the house by police/legal system.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 02:17 PM
8

He was probably trying to get you to do something Sexual with him in a dark corner of the park. I had someone try to pull that on me. I pulled my prepper spray on his ass and ran my ass back to my car. I never get into someone car or wear heels on the frsit few dates for that reason. I highly recommend prepper spray and alway have it in your pocket or bra. If you're digging for it in your purse, you're better off not have a bottle. Alway keep it in a easy to reach place or better yet, in your ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 12:54 AM
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I will never change my name. All my legal documents and Degrees are in my maiden name. I don't want or plan to have kids, so I don't see the point of changing my name. Also, my parents come from a culture where the women keep her father name to trace back her lineage. This tradition stuck even after computer were invented but sadly is dissappearing due to western influences. Changing your last name was something they did to women, were seen as property. Since you put your name on your possession…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 09:50 PM
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" No, I'm just being assertive" hair flip, finger snap, walks away in the most feminine way with her head held high.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 09:30 PM
13

If only women possess that power. The world would be a better place. Heck I'll settle for aura reading, because you can see a person emotions, even if they hide them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 03:36 AM
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A walking date is what I did with my doggo. We walk around the nearby park for fresh air and pokemon go. I'll go on a walking date with a man once we become an official couple and a level of trust is built; because luring a woman on a trail best way to kidnap and rape them where no one can see or hear you. Don't these men think or seen movies before? Like how would they like it if their sisters or moms go on "walking " dates with people they just met? Just because they think they're "good people…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 08:13 PM
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It's funny how women care about women's problems as a whole. But men don't care about men's problems but blame women for their own personal problems. Paying child support isn't women's fault, the draft isn't women's fault, lack of emotional support from fellow men isn't women's fault, your dad beating you as a kid, isn't women fault, because your mom was also being beaten by her husband and threaten and the list goes on. There a lot of gay men who identify as men who wish they had basic human ri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 03:13 PM
12

Plastic surgery should be reserved for health related surgery like breast reduces, or post breast cancer breast job (if you so chose to), restoring feature that were damaged in a bad accident, or if a person was born unique and wants to "be normal" and fix a cleft lip. Modifying perfectly good body parts that aren't effecting your psychical health in any way, is ridiculous. Yes, your mental health is super important, but you don't need Dolly Parton size boobs to be happy. TRUST me, you will be m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 02:12 PM
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No more than a few weeks or a few months I'm was too kind and optimistic for my own good. I saw potential in alot of guys and hope they would unlock it, if they saw me kicking butt in my career. Instead they perceived to insult me, telling me I work too hard, I never have time to see them (even though I text them a every day and see them atleast twice a week, make comment on how I'm always studying or thinking about my professional image and resume, etc etc. Many of them shamed me for wanting a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 05:35 PM
2

The guy who responded to me was on Reddit. I wasn't interested in him in any way. He made a bold comment saying that men don't need to get a vasectomy to be 100% CF because women can just be an on BC. I made an educational post on the negative effect of BC, and how it's not a long-term solution; while a vasectomy is simple, cheaper than long-term use of BC, no side effects, and is 99.9% effective. He called me a GateKeeper who immature with an attitude and stalked my Reddit history. Honestly, I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 03:41 PM
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Yeah I came to the conclusion that's some CF men they're only CF because they don't want responsibility like children. They just want Mommy wives and expect them to take any hardships that come with being CF. It's kind of insane that people still think that a vasectomy equals chopping off your penis, this is very archaic thinking and it needs to stop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 01:35 PM
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Exactly! Not all men are bad and not all women are good. But how the fuck are you supposed to know who is who???? One way to know is, do they display empathy, are they kind to others, do they help other and not tear someone down? Are they the person Mr. Roger wanted them to be? If you check no for all those basic questions, you're probably a bad horrible person, with emphasis on person. Gender doesn't make you any better or less of a person. FDS calls out horrible women all the time, but we don'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 04:55 AM
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Don't worry, it's happens. Alot of us were pickme at one point in time. I was pressure to be one because everyone had a problem I had high standards before puberty. My parent install high standards because of our culture that women must marry up or she bring shame to the family. So I was expected to get a degree because my parents have higher education. Therefore my partner must be well educated. I was always saying: "I only will date men with degrees, no debt (minus college, mortgage or car loa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 04:47 AM
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"I know right, I should be happy with what ever looks my way because a beautiful career driven self-respected women can't get a man super easily. I should just settle for absolute less to be happy."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 04:37 AM
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I know, like they just accuse you of being a man hater. Like no my dude! I very much did not say that or think that way. I love my dad and my brother who are men and I care about the males I allow in my life, but I don't hate man. I only hate the men who mistreat people especially women. Aka, if you're misogynistic person, I don't like you the second you lay a hand on a women or insult, I hate you. Because you're basically a criminal and no one like those. I don't understand how that hard for th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 04:30 AM
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Omg! You're right he just recruiting more sisters into the sisterhood! 1 point to FDS 0 for scotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 02:12 AM
8

100%! That fact he told me he done talking to me because I called him out, than hours later he looks through my history and state "oh you're part of FDS, no wonder your crazy" is gold. Like wow dude, instead of working you decided to stalk me??? Fucking adorable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 02:11 AM
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I blocked him and reported him for harassment. But I highly doubt the mods of that forum will care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 02:09 AM
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Definitely, which I stated to them. My post was just an innocent informative post about the negative effect of BC and how it's wrong and sexism to expect women to take on the burden alone while trying to claim CF status. A man should be willing to take on some of the responsibility of being CF. He called me a gate keeper and immature with an attitude. It's actually quite funny to read his respons. He wonders why he can't get a girlfriend. I'm in no means hurt by his comments, just laughing my he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 10:21 PM
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Right, and it has so many side effect, it's costly, and requires insurance to be able to afford the the product and the yearly doctor appointment to get the prescription renewed! Vasectomy have benefits like reducing certain cancer and remove the stress of making sure to take a pill every day or worrying about the small chance it fails.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 09:48 PM
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A Million times agree. Call me a gatekeeper, but men who aren't willing to shoulder the burden, aren't CF or real men. Only Peter Pans who want no responsibility, only mommy wives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 09:34 PM
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I agree, I wasn't looking for a boyfriend, but I lurk on a CF and saw a person post saying that men don't nee to have vasectomy to be 100% CF. I informed them about the harms of BC and how it's unfair to expect women to carry that burden. Also how it's not 100% and can result in pregnancy vs vasectomy are 99.9% effective and have no side effects. I'm not wasting my time on that forum now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 09:32 PM
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Alot of people on the CF community agree with that statement. However, alot of pickme women and scotes keep bring up "women can just use BC". I can understand if someone doesn't get the produce, if they are single and focusing on different things in their life. But at the same time, I'm in the boat of "just get it done and over with"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 09:28 PM
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Even after going through a lot, you might try to see good in a different person. And keep repeating that mistakes until you get off Birth control pills and realize there a Havard study writen on how Birth control pills effect a women brain and judgment. I blame most of my bad experiences on birth control and being raised shelter. I was on BC before dating because I had a hormonal imbalance, and oddly enough after I started taking it, I found a boyfriend who wasn't even close to my standard and d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 01:25 PM
15

I tell my best friend from childhood I love her. Because I love her as a sister. My old friend from school, very much didn't value our friendship because I was dorky kid who didn't care about social norms or wasn't self aware. She left me for the "popular band kids" (we were in band together). All those kids used her for free homework solutions, made her do all the group project, and left her after high school. She had the audacity to call me, apologizing. I wasn't going to have it. You left me …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 12:43 PM
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Cooking is "women's work" Yet the most famous chefs are men and the culinary industry is full of men and most cooking shows feature men. Cookings is for men period; base on this phenomenal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 11:03 PM
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I'm actually very happy single now. So it worked out, and karma will get him. Yeah sewing isn't too hard with a machine, it's mostly knowing how to measure, keep thing straight/curved and patience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 12:13 AM
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Men be like: where the nearest build-a-wife??!!! Because I'm picky as hell!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 10:59 PM
10

I helped my ex make and create an amazing skin care routine that healed his very sun damaged skin. His skin was glowing and no longer red. I helped him pick out clothes including interview clothes and started learning how to tailor clothes for the both of us. He was 6'6 and on the slimmer side. Finding clothes for slim taller people is difficult. Most clothing are for fat and taller not tall and average. So I did alot of research and ask reddit for advice and watched male fashion tips to help hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 10:57 PM
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Please I asked a bunch of men out and they straight up got Intimidated by the fact a women asked them out. They would show insterest and take forever to ask me out so I do it for them and poof man is gone. Every guy friend I know alway tell me never ask men out or do anything that can be seen as chasing. My thoughts are, if he doesn't have the balls to ask you out, he not worth your time or isn't insterested. Men make it known if they like you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 01:00 PM
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Damn he got me good. I was about to say, yeah maybe people from incest relationships don't bleed because of Inbreeding; but normal healthy women do have periods.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 02:13 PM
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Condoms and saying no are men birth Control and oh right so are vasectomy. Men could have a pill, but boo woo the side effects are too much for them. They created one, did test run but it has "too many" side effects. /s Women can just Deal with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 07:42 AM
2

Only 40% admitted to being abusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 10:29 PM
7

You spell trophic wife with no self-worth wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 12:28 AM
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I would love some good dick, but all I see are assholes. I already owe one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 08:32 PM
9

Thank god good dick aren't attached to incels. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 08:26 PM
2

You can be happy and single. Just because some people can't be alone doesn't mean everyone else can't. After my last two partners could not handle I was very career motivated and passionate about raising my standards of living and have a rewarding career. I realize that alot of men think and say they want passionate career women, but once she appear. They realize how much work she put into herself and doesn't spend every waking moment with them, making them feel uncomfortable or insecure for som…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 11:42 AM
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You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 05:03 PM
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I think she mean *adopt a man child and raise him, because his mamma is done with him".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 06:54 PM
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If I don't cum you don't either. It's only fair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 03:44 AM
8

Oddly enough I look way better now as 27 than 25. My adult ance is better handled, I lost weight, gained a better understanding of fashion, learned my color palette and have more disposable income to fund my beauty routine and closet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 03:39 AM
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100% agree. My ex couldn't handle the stress I was under. I lost my job in November, my sister was diagnosed with leukemia and my dog was taken away because he got loose. I was able to get my dog back, but I was so afraid he was gone. Dispite my life deciding to fall apart, I was strong stay clam, and still looked for jobs. I never made my problem his problems, yet he claimed about me being stressed. Did my sex drive drop, yes. Did I still have sex with him yes. I still keep the apartment clean …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 05:42 PM
6

A few Muslims moms told me hand shaking was inappropriate. However, they lived in American for over 25+ years. So I'm sure things have changed alot since they were kids; or they had very strict parents/ dad growing up. Also, when I visited a mosque with my Muslims friend to learn more about Islam for fun, the men refused to shake my hand. I was super pissed off because it's not sexually in anyway. This is purely my experience and knowledge from talking to Muslims friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 03:00 PM
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Wow and it's only 2021! Took American long enough to start treating women like humens beings...Oh wait, it's just one state.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 01:31 PM
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Maybe not in places like the Middle East. Hand shaking or any forum of touching between genders is look down upon according to my forign Muslims friends. Things might have changed since they leave their home country, so it might not be true any more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 01:22 PM
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Dude, I've met gentlemen from single mom house. There a lot of sons to a two-parent family who rapes like Trump and Brock Turner. So no, it's not lack of males or women's fault. Did this guy go to a school? Teachers are not allowed to talk about sexual topics. Health ed class requires parental consent and they are still limited to what they can say and those programs are heavily cut. That real problem is, men can and will get away with it, hence why they don't care!! also, The girl the not all r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 11:51 PM
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Yet they talk about boob, butt, and bodyweight like they have the right too *eye roll*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 11:24 PM
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I was called entitled for having standard. I didn't realize asking for an equal partner is entitlement. I have my MBA, a car, my own apartment, money in the bank, no record, a career, no debt (minus my student loans). So what the problem if I only want to date guys who are also similar in social status?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 07:29 PM
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That too. Men get to choose if they want to wear a ring or not. But women are pressured to. One guy said I was werid for not wanting a ring. Like dude those are expensive, some poor African kid died to get it and they are worthy shiny rocks. I rather have a house than a rock! He told me he want everyone to know I was his girl, if ans when we got married. I'm still happy single. I don't like wearkng jewelry to begin with. I prefer necklaces since they don't get in the way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 04:49 PM
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People can see your boob size every day. Men get the luxury of being able to hide their penis. So it's a mystery on how big it is. Women bodies have been a "what you see is what you get". While men are mysterious Boxes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 11:51 AM
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Gald you you it! My copay was $20 for all the therapists I've been to. That like two fast food meal. It's affordable assuming you have health insurance. Which honestly you need in America.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 11:16 AM
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My personal rule is, only one man child is allowed in my life and that is my autistic brother who is a bratty sweetheart. I say bratty because autistic people have routine and hate changes. So he gets upset if something changes or if you give him a salad with tomatoes. I will one day be responsible for him because I am the oldest kid. My brother can't help it being "childish". What a neurotypical man excuse? He can't afford therapy? Then you can't afford me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 01:44 AM
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