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So he only values her for “extra funds and company” and feels zero guilt about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/22 10:46 PM
68

But then the MGTOWS also like to say that women are sluts who sleep with any loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/22 01:15 AM
17

Block Reddit Cares and you won’t get those messages!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 08:40 PM
34

A picnic, lol! 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 08:35 PM
54

I really hope it’s not real and just some sicko’s fantasy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 05:55 AM
81

In other words, how dare women put the same amount of effort into their appearance as men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 06:44 AM
1

All those men are punching up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 10:09 AM
24

Question for the FEMALES - of course.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 07:54 PM
14

This is absolutely brilliant and spot-on. Except “the bully” should also have “looking for good banter” aka looking for someone to insult and then accuse them of not being able to take a joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 06:02 AM
5

That last one has to be satire…surely?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 05:47 AM
3

“I don’t know. Why do you think I’m single?” Shuts them up quick!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 10:50 AM
12

Oh no! Anyway…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 08:39 PM
12

Omg I need to start using that!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 08:38 PM
78

Holy shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 01:20 AM
18

Fuck them all. You haven’t done anything wrong, and it’s good that you told them off. Don’t try to be friends with them or smooth things over, they need to respect your boundaries and not think they can get away with treating you like crap. Just go in, do your job and have as little contact with them as possible. If these scrotes start any more crap, go straight to your manager and tell her you are being bullied. Good luck!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 04:28 AM
60

Of course 90% of the responses are “just communicate”!! 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 10:09 PM
17

Wtf, bc pills?? How stupid is this guy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 02:20 AM
57

Lol, men are so delusional about how they look. 95% of them look older than they are by the time they’re in their mid-30s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 01:11 AM
56

Agree - the “there she is!” makes me feel like he’s talking to a child, or a pet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 09:35 AM
7

And omg, #9 - have they still not realised how lame that is?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 03:15 AM
12

Excellent list!! Similar to the ‘fluent in sarcasm’ one - ‘looking for good banter’ is always code for ‘I’ll insult you and expect you to laugh politely.’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 03:14 AM
153

Woah, what?? I was thinking he was early 20s, max! That makes it so much more pathetic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 03:08 AM
39

This was exactly my reaction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 03:07 AM
146

It’s not just guys in their 20s, unfortunately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 03:06 AM
30

WTF did I just read??!! 🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 04:36 AM
15

What a loser. Block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 10:21 AM
57

Unfortunately they aren’t always that easy to spot. I know a ‘woke’ guy who has an Asian fetish, but he says all the ‘right’ things regarding feminism and race issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 10:18 PM
96

The grammar…that was painful to read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 09:48 PM
14

I don’t want to live on this planet anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 02:53 AM
5

I got banned from there as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 11:38 PM
10

This has 100% been my experience. There is no point whatsoever in dating down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 12:14 PM
20

He’s tried nothing and he’s all out of ideas!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 10:30 AM
31

This has 100% been my experience. I’ve dated two men for whom this is the case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 08:18 PM
153

Yep, I want to do an Enya and escape to live in a castle with 40 cats. I hate this world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 10:40 PM
66

I’ve been banned from a couple of feminist subs, because I belong to this one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 08:09 PM
48

“Man” and “females”. Why am I not surprised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 08:02 PM
20

How she needs to address it - read what she has just written.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 02:00 AM
70

A grown adult shouldn’t need someone else cheering them on and supporting them to reach their ‘potential’.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 02:30 AM
18

I once had a guy show up late to a date, then tell me I was rude for ordering a coffee before he arrived.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 11:44 PM
74

Yup - there is a perception that teachers, female teachers specifically, should be happy to bend over backwards for people out of the goodness of their hearts, for no compensation. It completely devalues the fact that teachers are professionals and deserve to be treated as such.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 11:42 PM
78

Yeah, I think point 3 is probably valid - she hasn’t conformed to his stereotype of Asian women being submissive and accomodating to his every request and he’s infuriated by it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 11:39 PM
10

WTF?? How revolting must that booth be at the end of the day? 🤮🤮🤮 It’s so disgusting how this level of male depravity is being normalised. Along with the widespread acceptance of porn as ‘normal’ and ‘healthy’. 🤬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 08:13 PM
2

I only have one male friend, he is very much gay! I no longer have ‘friendships’ with straight men, they never turn out to be true friends. There is always an ulterior motive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 07:57 PM
1

The only genuine male friend I have is gay. I no longer have friendships with hetero men, they have never turned out to be true friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 07:50 PM
25

I haven’t dated at all this year, and I’m the happiest and healthiest I’ve been in years!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 04:56 AM
14

Another freaking table.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 04:47 AM
23

Plus all the extra $$ we tend to have to spend on clothes, shoes, hair, etc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 04:47 AM
23

“Looking for good banter” = I’ll insult you and try to frame it as a joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 08:32 PM
5

THIS. 100%.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 08:18 PM
69

Yep, this was me. Years of trying, and then it was like a switch flipped and I realised I didn’t have to put myself through this anymore. It’s so liberating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 08:29 PM
6

I was just thinking today that I have never actually come across the ‘lonely cat lady’ that scrotes and society in general likes to bang on about to scare women into marrying LVM. I know single women with cats, but they are all successful, own their own homes and have fulfilling hobbies and social lives. They certainly don’t appear to be lonely/depressed/crazy because they don’t have a male partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 11:59 AM
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Yep, but you just know what the reaction will be if SHE leaves!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 02:57 AM
11

Shit like this just makes me so grateful to be single. I have been in places in my life where I settled for this kind of abusive, gaslighting behaviour from men, but thank god I never married any of those jerks. I hope this woman wises up and sees what’s going on here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 02:56 AM
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How does he know this, anyway? Has he been doing surveys to find out what time single women go to bed?? Sounds like he’s obsessed with us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 08:27 PM
6

This guy is punching and he’s painfully aware of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 08:34 PM
19

shudder
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 05:44 AM
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I have come to believe that the majority are not good. Not evil, but in general most don’t really see women as equals, and they don’t recognise their privilege. While I would never say never, I have resigned myself to being single for the remainder of my life unless someone truly high value comes along. And I’m just fine with that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 10:43 PM
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A woman who will go 50/50 on all their dates, is what he means!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 06:19 AM
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Christ, I’m so sick of all these stupid terms that people use in place of having a personality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 10:27 PM
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I recently decided to look again, just out of curiosity. Every second scrote is ‘ethically non-monogamous’ 🙄🙄🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 12:38 PM
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Ah yes, ‘banter’ - the misogynist douchebags’ favourite word to cover up the fact that they are flat out insulting you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 12:40 PM
21

Something wrong with being an introvert? Also, kindly gtfo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 06:36 AM
1

You suck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 06:35 AM
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This x100.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 11:14 PM
9

Lol, he was so butt-hurt by it! https://www.google.com.au/amp/s/www.rollingstone.com/music/music-news/john-mayer-taylor-swifts-dear-john-song-humiliated-me-107169/amp/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 08:18 PM
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What am I bringing to the table? Another fucking table.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 03:16 AM
2

Begone, child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 03:10 AM
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Same!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 11:57 PM
6

This is pretty much my idea of heaven.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 06:24 AM
4

Urgh, reading these stories gives me traumatic flashbacks to my past relationships with LVMs. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 04:57 AM
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The media has always tried to portray her as some poor woman who is unlucky in love and desperate for a man. As if! She appears to be living her best life and isn’t prepared to settle for second best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 04:54 AM
9

Or they’ll say something like ‘Kyle’. Ok, so where are all the Kyle memes?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 04:48 AM
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And are they giving women they find ‘ugly’ a chance?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 04:40 AM
10

I’m so sick of men and women trying to argue the ‘Karen’ slur isn’t just casual misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 04:36 AM
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So sorry you went through that. Yeah, I think HPV is treated way too flippantly. While we might be able to prevent it from turning into cancer in a lot of cases, it’s still a fucking ordeal to treat it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 11:02 AM
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Better than getting cancer! But it’s put me off sex for good, unless I meet an extreme HVM!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 10:15 AM
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Yep. When you have precancerous changes you often need to have some of your cervix removed, and they burn it off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 09:39 AM
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I just think about the HPV infection that led to part of my cervix being burnt off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 09:06 AM
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Just need to point out that using ‘female’ as an adjective isn’t the problem. Using it as a noun is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 08:48 PM
7

Still love ‘Sleep to Dream’ - ‘first you run like a fool just to be at my side, and now you run like a fool but you just run to hide’ - sums up by narc ex!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 10:23 PM
3

Yes, I love this song!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 10:22 PM
2

Haha, yep, at least when I look back at my hot exes I can say ‘at least he was hot!’ 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 10:15 PM
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Saaaame!! 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 10:24 AM
12

Yep, I gave men I wasn’t super attracted to, who were absolutely punching up by being with me, a chance because I thought they would treat me better. Nope, they are just crazy entitled and think that because they can get you, then that means they can do better. Now I will only ever date men I find hot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 10:22 AM
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I would find that totally bizarre.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 12:41 PM
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Assuming you are even able to make a decent amount of money on OF, how long do people think that will last? This isn’t going to be your lifetime career, and when no one wants to pay anymore, good luck getting a decent job anywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 08:52 AM
6

That’s my approach to it all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 07:49 AM
19

I’m embarrassed to admit that I was once in a very similar situation. He strung me along for almost a year, I’m sure he was sleeping with other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 08:40 PM
32

Yep, I was on OLD for years, and you just see the same guys over and over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 08:39 PM
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I am so much happier and less stressed since I ditched OLD. I was always worrying that if I didn’t use it I would miss out on someone perfect for me. But all I got from it was wasted time and disappointment. I went on heaps of dates, and the majority were either awful or just boring. OLD is like going through your garbage can, honestly. I’d rather be single forever than waste my time like that again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 08:34 PM
52

I had a man I’d slept with twice talking like he was going to move in with me. Hell no!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 12:44 PM
184

I’m at a point in my life where I am really not interested in dating - too many bad experiences and trauma. I just want to be celibate for now. But that could change in the future, it’s just that the man would have to really add to my life in some way. I don’t feel very hopeful that that will ever happen, but who knows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 11:17 AM
24

Holy shit. I don’t want to live on this planet anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 06:45 AM
45

I live in a townhouse in a very safe area, so I never really feel worried. I do have security doors at the front and back, and I’m a bit OCD about checking that the doors are locked. I have friendly neighbours I could always run to if I was in trouble. But I’m just lucky to live in an area that’s very quiet and safe, if I lived in a big city I’m sure I’d feel differently. I actually felt more vulnerable when I lived in an apartment, because if I came home at night I’d have to walk through a big …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 06:19 AM
56

There are a lot of potential risks with that, even if it’s someone I know and trust. And I don’t like sharing my space.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 05:52 AM
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One is a work-out room, another is a study/library, and another is a dressing room!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 04:11 AM
306

Even though I had no trouble buying my 4-bedroom house as a single woman, I still get comments from people about living in a big house on my own. Most people assume I’ll rent a room out, or they don’t understand why I want so much space. At the end of the day, I can afford it and it’s so much better than when I lived in an apartment. I need breathing room.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 02:48 AM
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And what’s the bet he’s only looking for women younger than 25.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 10:33 PM
21

I can’t stand having someone touching me when I’m trying to sleep! Whenever a man has put his arm around when I’m trying to sleep I feel like I’m suffocating!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 09:13 PM
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I have never been able to sleep well with someone next to me, even if they’re not snoring or thrashing around. Just breathing is enough to keep me awake!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 08:57 PM
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Same! If I ever did live with a man, we would sleep in separate bedrooms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 08:47 PM
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Lol, there was literally a guy in a dating sub the other day who was all confused because he had been told dating would be easier for him as a male once he was in his 30s! So why can’t he get a date?!?! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 08:41 PM
178

“Impact play”. Is that what we’re calling beating up women now?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 08:33 PM
285

God, imagine what he will be like in bed when it finally happens!! 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 12:06 PM
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That is so true! 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 10:22 AM
120

Just from the way she writes you can tell how young and naive she is, poor thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 06:45 AM
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I often feel resentful that as a single person I have to cover all expenses, while couples share them. But reading these stories makes me realise how much I am better off financially by never having lived with a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 06:44 AM
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At least it’s not that much, although I now need further treatment which will cost me more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 06:40 AM
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Over $1000 in medical bills due to HPV infection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 08:47 PM
30

Unfortunately most people are easily taken in by their virtue signalling. I dated one, before it became apparent he was just using me for his own ego gratification. He still has a lot of people fooled by his good guy act, but I know the truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 01:50 AM
117

Same as the men who go around calling themselves ‘feminists’. They always end up being emotionally manipulative assholes with no regard for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 10:03 PM
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😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 01:27 AM
31

Exactly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 11:53 PM
158

I always say “I don’t know, why do you think I’m still single?” They’ve got nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 11:11 PM
51

😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 10:23 PM
85

I can get that without a man, and have more money and time to pursue the things I love, so like - what’s the point??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 09:27 PM
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NoT lIKe OtHeR gIrLs!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 09:26 PM
7

The lady doth protest too much!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 09:18 PM
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WTF. 🤮🤮🤮 The amount of absolutely disgusting stuff that so many women put up with when they live with a scrote...I’m so glad my house is mine and mine alone!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 07:44 AM
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And many women in the comments are saying how they do the same thing and their boyfriends “love it”! Of course they do - they get emotional support, sex, and lavished with gifts, with nothing expected in return!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 05:01 AM
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He is terrified she will wake up and leave him - he knows how hot she is and what a gross slob he is. She has carried his children and manages to look like that, what’s his excuse? I’m sure he calls it a ‘dad bod’. Also, good on the daughter for calling that shit out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 09:19 PM
319

Love it - “his standards don’t matter”! 😆👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 09:10 PM
29

Do not support Oxfam or UNICEF. They both defend rapists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 08:55 PM
51

He is acting like the victim on FB now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 08:54 PM
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He says his ‘emotions got the better of him.’ Ah yes, the logical sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 08:35 PM
18

I hope someone in the comments called him out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 10:09 PM
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A lot of men swipe right on everyone, then make their pick from the matches they get.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 10:06 PM
30

Omg, you have Gail on the podcast?!?! 😮 That’s amazing!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 11:47 AM
39

Lol, a walk in the rain?? Who on earth thinks that’s a good date? The whole ‘picnic’ thing is really off putting as well, and the fact he immediately jumped to ‘come to my apartment’ raises red flags. What is so hard about going out for dinner somewhere nice?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 07:25 AM
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This 100%. I don’t want this shit in my life, I don’t want to be made to feel like I’m some uptight prude because I think all these ‘kinks’ are revolting and degenerate. People need to wake up and start acting like they’re actually the product of millions of years of evolution. Imagine how ashamed our ancestors would be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 06:14 AM
31

I’m in my late 30s and lucky to still have a good circle of friends that aren’t like that at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 10:51 AM
158

God, that gathering sounds like my idea of hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 09:13 AM
83

It’s like men who say they like ‘banter’. What they mean is they want to insult you and then accuse you of not being able to take a joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 07:29 AM
57

This is exactly how I feel these days. Just sad that it took me until my late 30s to come to that realisation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 08:12 AM
121

“Men and females”. Says it all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 07:30 AM
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Yeah, I pursued way too many times. And guess what, even if it developed into a relationship, it always ended with me in tears.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 12:46 AM
97

Look at what a vibrant and intelligent woman she was. And look at that fucking caveman. This makes me sick, men are just trash who put no value on the lives of women and we need to stop giving them the time of day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 09:43 PM
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Adorable like a puppy begging for attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 12:33 PM
521

Yes, jacking off to violent, depraved sexual acts for hours a day is completely “normal” and healthy. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 09:00 AM
46

Jesus Christ, I put up with my fair share of crap from past scrote bfs, but at least I never stayed with one who repeatedly tried to poison me 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 06:14 AM
7

Aw, what a cute little incel fantasy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 09:51 PM
6

I’m in Australia and have private health insurance, but I still had to pay a fair amount to have the colposcopy. It makes me angry that women are the ones who literally have to pay the cost for having sex. I’m done!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 11:05 AM
490

This is why I laugh when men think they’re insulting us with the ‘femcel’ slur. No woman is involuntary celibate, we are the ones with the power to choose, and choosing not to have sex is one of the most empowering decisions I’ve made.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 08:11 AM
6

“Magician looking ass”!! 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 07:35 AM
11

Yes, you just need to get a cervical screening and they’ll be able to detect if you’re at risk. Any kind of sexual act can lead to infection, not just PIV sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 10:50 PM
22

HPV infections can lead to cancer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 10:20 PM
52

Honestly, I wish I’d never had sex. I’ve had to pay a fortune for cervical screenings and biopsies because I contracted a particularly dangerous form of HPV. I am choosing to be celibate now, and that would only change if I met an extremely HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 09:43 PM
51

Unbelievable how many beautiful women settle for ugly-ass and pathetic men like this, then they try to joke about it to cover up their despair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 09:41 PM
12

Can’t see them making the female equivalent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 08:42 PM
16

They just can’t handle seeing women who don’t care about their opinion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 08:40 PM
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I can totally relate, I was the same. I look back now and can’t believe how desperate and gullible I was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 10:05 AM
6

Same I always thought I just needed to move! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 08:18 AM
67

Why would you want to do that, it sounds exhausting! I’m not looking to be someone’s life coach!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 01:27 AM
43

Love it! I own my own house, will hopefully be mortgage-free by my mid-40s, spend time indulging in my hobbies, have a huge wardrobe of clothes I love, a great female friendship circle, and a job I look forward to going to every morning. Only an extremely high value man could enhance my life in any way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 09:46 PM
15

So let the woman do all the emotional labour, got it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 09:37 PM
20

He’s almost 50!! If only more men actually took care of themselves like this, instead of hitting the wall at 30.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 09:24 PM
23

My ex did every one of these. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 09:19 PM
53

I have pretty much sworn off men, but if I could find one even half as good as this...I’d definitely reconsider.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 09:14 PM
16

Woah! 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 09:13 PM
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These are pretty much all things that are expected of women, but asking for a basic level of grooming, responsibility and emotional intelligence from men is just too much, it seems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 10:32 AM
17

You often see men in the dating subs having a whinge because they “TRIED to be nice” and the woman still didn’t sleep with them. Scrote, being “nice” is the bare minimum, and you’ve just admitted that you had to fake it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 08:28 PM
7

“Female” - I would stop reading right there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 08:01 AM
3

Look it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 11:04 AM
3

Learn the difference between an adjective and a noun.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:56 AM
9

Imagine posting this for the whole world to see and thinking it’s funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 12:15 PM
29

Yep. My nerdy ex loved to virtue signal about what a feminist he was, and then proceeded to treat me like trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 08:30 PM
-1

Ok, not really interested in continuing this conversation because we are obviously on different wavelengths here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 11:42 AM
0

So I see you remove your body hair. Why is that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 07:04 AM
128

I love how these guys call women who won’t sleep with them ‘sl*ts’ or similar insults. It’s like, so you’re saying I’ll sleep with anyone, but I won’t sleep with you? You’re negging yourself, dude!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 08:45 PM
-1

Ok. Guess I’ll be shitty then. Thanks for your input.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 08:32 PM
-1

There are things that make people more or less attractive. While a lot of beauty is cultural, there are some basic standards that are pretty universal in terms of what we find appealing or not. I had a fucked up chin that I wanted fixed, so sue me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 12:27 PM
354

Because living with a man isn’t much different to having another child in the house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 08:38 AM
1

Ok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 08:15 AM
-2

Ok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 06:57 AM
5

Yeah, for me it was about addressing some things that had bothered me for a long time, and I finally decided “why not?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 05:04 AM
137

The kids will be better off if he’s not in their lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 04:31 AM
6

I don’t view it as being about my worth as a person. I just like what I see in the mirror more than I used to. It’s not that deep for me, I guess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 04:25 AM
419

“I’m a pretty awesome guy.” If you have to say it, you’re not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 04:14 AM
11

I have Botox and fillers, and I wear makeup every day. But funnily enough, I stepped up in terms of my grooming and clothes once I stopped giving a shit about male approval. Not that I didn’t care about my appearance before, but I do these things for ME now. I feel more confident and know I look good. Whether or not men think so is irrelevant to me now. I will say that I have no interest in actual cosmetic surgery, and I think the normalisation of breast implants, labial surgery and BBLs is very…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 04:08 AM
15

They are super low effort with dates, too. The ‘coffee and walk’ date is the go-to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 11:07 PM
25

Nah, most of them are entitled slobs who put no effort into their appearance or personality, yet expect a 10/10 woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 10:54 PM
29

Fellow Aussie, this is what I was thinking, too! Aussie men are mostly misogynistic trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 10:02 PM
14

And she’s only 18!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 09:52 PM
112

Your last point there made me shudder, because it’s true 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 09:47 PM
108

Same, I have never stayed in contact with my exes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 10:46 AM
41

He’s always quick to accuse everyone else of being racist. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 09:00 AM
116

I know a guy like this, he virtue signals non-stop on social media about race and gender issues. But he clearly has an Asian fetish and only dates petite Asian women much younger than himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 06:09 AM
12

Same, this sub has made me feel so much more confident in myself and the decisions I am making in my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 01:48 AM
19

If being a lesbian was a choice, I’d be the biggest dyke of all time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 01:47 AM
36

Let’s not forget how much more money women have to spend to get ahead in their careers - the clothes, shoes, makeup, hair, etc. Meanwhile men can wear the same damn suit and tie every day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 01:46 AM
35

I once had a guy admit to a friend that he stopped dating me because I ‘read too many books’! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 01:40 AM
7

Omg, that is perfect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 06:45 AM
137

I really want to know what the deal is with the husband. She has freaking cancer, he should be doing everything in his power to help her, and instead she’s stressing over bills and having to work??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 06:44 AM
4

Madmartigan in Willow swoon
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 08:45 PM
52

Never found Nicholas Cage remotely attractive, he’s always given me the creeps. And show me a woman in Hollywood who has let herself go like these scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 08:41 PM
12

There are medical conditions which require circumcision. There are no medical conditions which require a girl’s labia and clitoris to be hacked off with a dirty shard of glass. So sick of this bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 08:39 PM
9

And you know they’ll break up and he’ll be marrying the next woman that comes along.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 08:39 PM
15

He sounds like an actual nice guy, as opposed to a “nice guy”. 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 08:38 PM
37

I know a few women who made the choice to have a child on their own. They are deliriously happy and loving mothers, and I’m in awe of how they juggle raising a child on their own and holding down demanding, full time jobs. How many men would be capable of that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 07:28 AM
33

Date ugly men and they will start to convince you that you’re the ugly one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 08:48 PM
67

Seriously, if that’s the biggest benefit he can see to bring a woman, it just proves how good men have it. Imagine being a man and, I dunno, being able to walk down the street at night and not feel constantly on edge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 10:35 AM
113

Most men who say they are ‘feminists’ are completely disingenuous. They also seem to be the ones who eventually get accused of sexual harassment or assault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 07:13 AM
9

Yep, they are massively entitled and most lack basic hygiene.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 11:27 PM
17

I’m in Australia and white men here are mostly useless and so damn CHEAP. To be fair, haven’t had much experience with men of other races.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 09:41 PM
35

Yep, I’d love to see what he looks like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 02:02 AM
100

God, they are useless! Reminds me of Kirk van Houten - “I sleep in a racing car, do you?” Yet they try to argue that women are the ones who benefit from marriage!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 10:07 PM
60

What do I bring to the table? Another fucking table, scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 09:11 AM
88

Must have stable employment, own house, own car. Has to be as active as me (4-5 hours fitness a week at least). No gut/beer belly. Good hygiene and smelling good is a must. Good taste in clothes, shoes and hairstyle. Must enjoy the arts, going to museums and the theatre. Able and willing to share duties like cooking and cleaning without whinging about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 10:59 PM
1

I have to mow the lawn And I have to wash the car And I'd just like to know Just who you think you are I'm gettin' tired of wagging That old heavy garbage can Your woman's gettin' tired Of being your ole handy man I have to run your water And I have to wash your back And I have to scrub the tub After you have had your bath You're as helpless as a baby But I love you, understand I'm just gettin' tired Of being your ole handy man Your woman's gettin' tired of being your ole handy man Now I know yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 10:21 AM
11

Yep, I’ve been with someone who displayed a lot of those traits. Never again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 09:25 AM
10

Omg, the “banter” line - so true! It’s just code for being an insulting jerk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 08:38 PM
8

Lol, yes, “entrepreneur” is a massive red flag!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 08:37 PM
55

Exactly. What are they going to do with themselves once the industry has used them up?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 12:44 PM
7

Whenever I feel mad at myself for the time/money I wasted on exes, I see something like this and think “at least I was never THAT bad!!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 08:10 AM
44

Then he whines that he never gets any matches and “females are too picky”!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 07:03 AM
26

Yeah, that’s what I thought. 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:11 PM
114

Jesus, I would have reported him, but I have no idea if that would have helped the situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:01 PM
30

They’re hopeless. And I’m Aussie, so it’s not like the accent even does anything for me! I am more attracted to foreign men. I dated a guy with kids from a previous relationship, and looking back he was really slack when it came to looking after and providing for them. Of course he loved to bitch about his ex!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 09:38 AM
46

I have lost all hope for men with the normalisation of porn. They are completely brainwashed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 07:41 AM
18

Yes to all of this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 07:39 AM
26

Hard same!! Especially about the feeling of lightness once you stop giving a shit about men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 07:39 AM
39

I feel exactly the same. I desired a relationship for so long, and then it was like a switch flipped and I realised how much less drama it is just to be single. I own my own home, come and go when I please and spend my money however I like. Any man that comes into my life is going to have to add a hell of a lot of value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 07:38 AM
69

Australian men are extremely low effort. Most suggest walks or coffee for a first date 🙄 I’m so over it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 07:36 AM
11

She’s 88?! Clearly living life without giving fuck what people think keeps her young.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 08:31 PM
49

Yeah, I’m sure that’s his body in his profile pic! 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 06:47 AM
13

She’s fabulous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 10:47 PM
7

An ex used to fart around me all the time, even after I told him it was revolting and to stop. He thought it was funny. It just shows complete disrespect for the other person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 09:51 PM
29

Why do people think going to the toilet in front of their partner is romantic?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 11:44 AM
6

Thanks, though we’ve been pretty much back to normal in most of Australia for about a year now. Where I live we haven’t had a covid case in months. We are able to pretty much live like it doesn’t exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 12:26 AM
58

Also the gummy smile on Catherine Parr! It me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 12:24 AM
66

I wish I’d had that wisdom when I was as young as her (I’m assuming she’s early 20s).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 12:23 AM
12

Yeah, the hybrid teaching is ridiculous, you are essentially doing the work of two teachers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 12:18 AM
20

Yeah, and people forget that a lot teachers are parents too and have to help their own kids!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 10:40 PM
44

Also having to teach online and in person is ridiculous. It’s one or the other. My school considered the hybrid model and we shut that down straight away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 10:13 PM
13

Do you work in a public or private school? I am interested in hearing from a teacher’s perspective, most of what I hear in Australia is from people who aren’t teachers saying that teachers in the US are having it easy. That is definitely not the case here, but we were also criticised for not doing enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 10:12 PM
69

Exactly. Not when women have to carry the burden of bearing children, plus things like HPV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 09:51 PM
26

This times a million. Especially the smell thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 09:50 PM
21

I’m a teacher, not in the US. Virtual teaching was much harder, I’m so thankful we were only locked down for a couple of months where I live. I lost 3kgs from stress during that time. Are the expectations for American teachers are lower? I actually never even worked from home, we were still expected to come into work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 09:48 PM
37

Yep, I dated a 29 year old when I was 18. I look back and I’m just disgusted. He was a total loser who still lived with his dad, never graduated high school and worked a dead end job. Thankfully I wised up after a few months, but it still makes me cringe in my 30s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 09:45 PM
72

I don’t mind if a guy isn’t totally ripped, but I work hard to stay in shape and I am not going to date a man who doesn’t put an equal effort into his physique. I used to pity date men with guts hanging over their jeans 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 09:41 PM
7

This. I would have walked out by the time he was rude to the server.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 09:29 PM
3

Yep, the amount of people essentially congratulating her is so sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 09:29 PM
5

Oh man. To be honest, I wasn’t far off being like that in my pre-FDS days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 09:27 PM
3

That was so painful to watch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 11:36 AM
52

I’m sex positive. Positive that I’m never having sex again unless I come across a HVM who actually improves my life rather than making it harder. And the chance of that is 0.000001% percent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 05:16 AM
3

I would swipe right on maybe 1 in 50 men, on a good day. And I was usually being as open minded as possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 09:30 AM
69

Yep, they probably see it the same way as selecting an escort from a line up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 08:50 PM
118

That’s a good point! So glad I’m off the apps, it was like sorting through garbage every day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 08:40 PM
5

Reading the replies, it’s good to know so many women feel the same!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 08:38 PM
517

Yet women are supposedly the ones who benefit from marriage?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 09:40 AM
19

My ex was a textbook narcissist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 12:45 AM
282

I have never found that many men attractive. When I admitted this to a female friend years ago she asked me if I was sure I wasn’t a lesbian. No, I’m heterosexual, I just very rarely see any men worthy of swooning over. Maybe if more of them made some effort with their appearance I might find them attractive (though I still doubt there would be many I’d want to have sex with).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 12:30 AM
43

But but but - MEN are victims toooo!!! (/s if it wasn’t obvious).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 12:27 AM
7

Guts hanging over their trousers, bald heads (some men can carry it off, but very few), hairy backs/shoulders, and dry, flaky skin (especially dry hands, ew).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 10:08 PM
5

Poor cats! 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 10:03 PM
17

Lol, I’m in my late 30s and I still get exes sending me fishing DMs! I could have sex any time I wanted, but I’m done with men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 10:02 PM
17

Yep, it just makes things worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 09:30 PM
43

That’s true, but I guess it’s a different motivation to women who will date a man in hopes that she will eventually fall in love with him. Men just take advantage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 02:48 AM
77

Exactly this. Men don’t date women they find unattractive in hopes they’ll grow on them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 12:33 AM
140

I’ve also given men a chance when I wasn’t attracted (pre-FDS of course). Yes, even slept with a couple in hopes that it would spark something. Not proud of that! And when do you ever hear men saying “I’m not attracted to her, but I want to give her a chance”?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 12:32 AM
38

I’ve been there!! 😤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 12:30 AM
209

Oh my god yes, the amount of stunning women I know who married a Shrek because they were just so desperate to have a husband!! And ugly men do NOT appreciate what they have, they eventually start to treat you like the ugly one!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 12:29 AM
13

Love it!! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 12:27 AM
56

Good grooming, dress sense and smelling good are vital, too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 08:49 PM
41

I had the same experience when I was on OLD apps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 08:45 PM
8

Jesus, get rid of the husband and get a dog, its less likely to piss on your couch!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 08:47 PM
32

That was so painful to read!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 11:24 AM
10

Oh god, that used to be me 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 07:15 AM
354

Plus she’s cooking for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 12:49 PM
7

Same, I need to hear her thoughts on that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 08:50 PM
235

EVERYTHING she said!! When men are like “it’s such a turn off when women...” OK, and? Be turned off and GO AWAY! We don’t care!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 04:28 AM
143

They just can’t handle not having all the attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 02:28 AM
45

I just tell them not to threaten me with a good time!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 02:26 AM
238

Because they need us and we don’t need them, and they know it. Classic projection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 10:27 PM
23

I find it so interesting/infuriating that ‘single with cats’ is meant to be an insult to women, implying we’re sad and ‘lonely’. Yet men don’t get labeled like this, yet they’re the ones who actually can’t handle being alone and suck at taking care of themselves. They need us, we don’t need them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 10:17 PM
1

And they say we’re emotional!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 12:03 AM
28

Seriously, suicidal? 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 11:59 AM
2

Christ, that whole thread is just infuriating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 06:06 AM
202

I can’t even follow what this moron’s argument is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 09:23 PM
63

Yeah, he looks like a real catch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 09:20 PM
122

Fucking hell, he would be out the door, no question.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 11:29 AM
3

I’ve never come across a woman who does this to prove anything to men. Seems like a bit of a reach.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 07:12 AM
23

I actually once had a loser ex (we weren’t even serious, it was pretty much just sex) suggest he could move in with me (he had no prospects and there was no way he could even have paid me half the mortgage). I was like, hahaha, noooooooo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 10:18 PM
47

Hell no. I have put so much money and effort into owning my own home. There is no way I’m going to live with some freeloading scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 08:10 PM
47

Wtf, someone seriously put that on their car?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 11:18 AM
2

THIS! Fuck forgiveness. Why should I forgive anyone if I don’t want to? There are a number of people in my life who I will never forgive, and that gives me peace of mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 03:52 AM
13

He wiped his ass with the hand towels?! I would have made him take them out to the trash, and then locked the door behind him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 01:03 AM
8

I’m so disgusted by the normalisation of porn, particularly violent porn, in our society. If you dare to suggest that maybe it’s not a good thing, you’re automatically labelled a prude/uptight/weirdo. It’s an abhorrent industry and there is so much evidence of its harmful effects on participants and viewers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 02:16 AM
26

They wouldn’t last a day if they went back in time and had to survive in real Viking society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 10:55 AM
292

Pretty bold to assume he’s ever been near a vagina.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 07:19 AM
39

And apparently full of germs if not regularly doused with Lysol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 11:53 PM
70

Disinfectant??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 11:23 PM
6

Hell YES! One guy in particular that I dated ticks every one of these! I see straight through him now, but sadly a lot of my acquaintances don’t and think he’s such a “good guy”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 11:11 PM
22

Omg that’s revolting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 05:33 AM
107

Just add “shaming” onto anything now and you can pretend you’re a victim.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 12:16 PM
3

Oh wow, I had no idea there was a subreddit for this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 12:24 AM
12

The tag lines too - “single but never solo” vs “we ain’t family but we family”. The women’s focuses on their single status, while the men’s is about their friendship bond.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 10:18 PM
84

So tone deaf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 10:17 PM
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