Why you shouldn’t date down or give out sympathy chances - the manipulative strategies of low status men.

I am sick to death of seeing unattractive and low status men feel entitled to women out of their league. I am sick of them pretending they’re blind and like they don’t understand the concept of dating some1 where there’s mutual attraction. I am sick of their lack of effort and delusional high expectations for the sort of women they should date. I am sick of their entitlement and double standards - ‘women shouldn’t be shallow and must take pity on my genetics /low status job but I only expect the best- smart very attractive women’. I am sick of them crying victim when their girlfriend (who was way out of their league anyway) wises up to their bullshit and ditches them. I am sick of them acting surprised their attractive girlfriend doesn’t find their obese stomach attractive or want to have sex with them. I am sick of women being labelled as shallow because they actually want to find their partner attractive/well presentable. But for men this is just ‘biology’.

Someone needs to tap them on the shoulder and prompt them to take note of what they have on offer. Most times it is Jack shit. They just have audacity, porn induced delusional expectations and some real fucking nerve.

There’s been multiple studies showing that men overestimate their attractiveness to women- which backs all of this up. The same studies always state women are far more accurate at gaging their attractiveness to men. This is hardly surprising. Most men are so porn fried, selfish and voyeuristic they don’t stop to think about whether the women THEY find attractive find THEM attractive back.....why? Because it’s all about THEM, their egos and what they want- and they project this onto women minding their business.

Well a relationship is about two peoples needs being met- not just the man. So no the ugly guy constantly chasing after women out of his league is not a nice guy being overlooked. No one is making him do that- he is setting himself up for for rejection / humiliation with his delusional narcissistic ego. No these women aren’t passing him up for bad boys cos he’s just as problematic yet less attractive.

And let’s be honest most attractive bad boys aren’t acting like a jerk up front - they drop the mask later, so it’s hardly surprising a woman is attracted to an attractive man who is pretending to share the same values. And if said ‘nice guy’ was so genuine and well intentioned he wouldn’t be bullying attractive women into sympathy fucking him- he would be dating in his league. He’s one skip and hop away from being a rapist. These types of men do not care for consent or mutual attraction.

This is where the abundance of self-entitled ‘nice guys’ comes from. Most times these men are the complete opposite of nice. In fact most time’s they have alarmingly predatory, entitled and misogynist views on women- often they are more sexist and delusional than attractive men because they get less opportunities to mingle with them. They hate attractive women under the surface as they’re outsiders to them. They sit on the sidelines making up theories about how easy their lives are and are jealous of them. Everything they do is with the expectation they deserve something back.

They dislike and resent women, especially attractive women, having autonomy and control over their bodies. They think these women’s lives are on ‘easy mode’ because if they were them- they’d have lots of casual sex and take full advantage, despite the fact that women aren’t impressed by men wanting to use them for casual sex because it’s superficial and fickle. They don’t see attractive women as full humans with standards /depth because of porn etc and they don’t believe attractive women can be intelligent, work hard, go through traumas or come from difficult homes or get treated like shit by Pickmeisha’s and LVM. They don’t believe attractive women can gain confidence from outside their looks. They literally see attractive women as shallow blow up walking porn dolls / sex machines- because that’s how THEY view them. They see them as these untouchable snooty alien things with perfect lives and endless benefits. Therefore they deserve to get manipulated, in fact they take pleasure in trying to bring them down a notch.

In their imaginary heads - attractive women are these illusive ethereal airhead 1950s stereotypical aliens that never get hurt or lied to by men- they have things ‘so easy’ despite the fact insecure men go to great lengths to fool attractive women/bring them down and the constant unwanted sexual harassment they get. They think they exist to tickle the chins of pornsick men with fragile egos and if they don’t they are superficial bitches who deserve to be hurt. This is because they watch too much porn where attractive actresses are super eager to gozzle some ugly mans dick. They cannot distinguish between real life and porn fantasy fiction because they spend so much time down that rabbit hole. With every rejection, they get more misogynist and bitter whilst stuck on the shelf. And so these men get more manipulative/problematic - quite often seeking more vulnerable younger targets.

They are pissed their fake little nice coins didn’t result in the woman’s legs opening wide for them. Because their giving is always conditional. They are selfish stingy men who only pull calculated ‘favours’ no one asked for, with the expectation they will open their legs wide for them. They act like communal narcissists. They also contribute to rape culture by being predatory creeps. They keep attractive female friends around in order to scrape information to attract similar women to fool or in the hope that one day their mental health will dip and they can make their predatory move posing as the white knight.

They cannot stand being ‘friendzoned’ which basically exposes the fact they think these women owe them something because THEY find her attractive. Imagine being so deluded you think every woman should drop their panties because you find them attractive? Imagine calling her superficial because she won’t budge?

Low value men - when they don’t get what they want- are prone to guilt tripping and other emotionally manipulative strategies in a bid to break down her barriers and try to get sex. The whole ‘poor me- I’ve been led on I guess you’re just superficial‘ bravado when they know you haven’t given them any green signals once . See that for what it is - a pathetic salty low status man trying to emotionally manipulate you into lowering your standards. Creepy. Rapey. Entitled. Problematic. Manipulative. He is a not a ‘nice guy’ that’s the act he’s trying to sell you.

Men are always crying about how ‘hypergamous’ women are but your average unattractive man is far more hypergamous than any woman I know. I cannot tell you how many short, unattractive dull whinging single men I come across who stay chasing women way out of their league & can’t understand why these women don’t roll over for them. Except here’s the thing- they do. They just use different strategies to manipulate them - guilt tripping & sob stories etc, lending them things they didn’t ask for then expecting sex/relationships in return.

They do understand what they’re doing and pickmeishas don’t want to acknowledge that abusive men play dumb and feign innocence on purpose. Most times these men have repulsive personalities that are scaring off any women in their actual looks league- let alone above. They are the problem- so no do not let insecure Pickmeisha’s bully you into giving mr entitled nice guy a chance when most times their LVM partner they settled for has been dead bedroomed. Your radar went off for good reason. And besides prisons are full of unattractive violent men. A man being uglier than you doesn’t mean he will treat you any better. More often than not they get cocky and start treating you like the ugly one.

Most men who bag a woman out of their league will never appreciate it because they weren’t approaching them in good faith anyway. That’s just the lie they sell to get frequent sex from them. They see them as status trophies to boost their own clout and attract more. Essentially they exploit women’s sympathy - despite these men being low status and having few options.

Most seething self-proclaimed ‘nice guys’ are short, podgy /obese men with repulsive entitled personalities. But they can also be tall dweebs who didn’t do well in high school too- the bitter late bloomer who wants ‘revenge’ on attractive women who didn’t even know him back then. Essentially they are delusional narcissists who feel entitled to attractive smart women and mistreating them despite contrary evidence.

For this reason, many low status men grow deeply resentful of confident women. In order to get sex from them - they dangle the relationship carrot and pose as HVM instead. They will go to greater lengths to hide it but often they view the normal minimum courting process with resentment- because the bar is so low . If they could get away with not doing that- they would. But these men aren’t stupid they know attractive women aren’t going to settle for an ugly man demanding casual sex from them. They will appease her somewhat and play pretend to get what they want.

Now because they’ve spent most their lives being rejected by confident women- these men rarely change over night...they bring their insecurity and jealousy towards them into the relationship. They quickly feel out of their depth, become obsessive and possessive- they will often neg her, become controlling and try to triangulate. They may even cheat out of insecurity or because of the ego boost from dating a woman out of their league. Most times when a man bags a more attractive woman- he uses her to attract more to make up for the time he ‘missed out’. This is why you should NOT date men below your league- they always have more to gain.

They also feel resentful courting women even out of their league as they feel ‘Chad wouldn’t have to do this’ or whatever bullshit they tell themselves. Yah sweetheart at least Chad is attractive and has a six pack- you DON’T so why are you expecting hot women to swoon over and take pity on you? Why? You think women in your league are beneath you - you are not a ‘nice guy’. You are not out for genuine connection. You are a superficial delusional unattractive entitled man. I’m sorry but plenty women expect attractive men to court them properly too. Again because these men have minimal experience dating attractive women they make up bullshit theories in their head and project them into them. Plenty of women cut off attractive men for being childish, liars, airheads, selfish etc. A man being all those things and less attractive- is not a win.

I’m just embarrassed by the fact men are shocked that attractive men with good bodies/hygiene do better at attracting attractive women. It’s some kind of revelation to them. And they’re shocked these men get more matches on an IMAGE based dating app. Well duh? It’s like dating doesn’t exist outside low effort apps to them. Dating apps are about having a visually attractive and engaging profile- everyone knows it’s a very fickle way to grab attention. Since a lot of unattractive men are running manipulative red pill pick up artist scripts anyway - why on earth should women pick them over attractive men? Maybe look to your ‘manosphere’ brothers as to why less women are giving manipulative ugly men a chance. Because the red pill, as predicted, is eating its own tail and fuelling its own problems.

All I am saying is - do not date down in the hopes the ugly obese awkward guy will treat you better or will be more genuine. It’s such a scam and it’s designed so low status men benefit and get a leg up the pole so they can use and manipulate women out of their league. Ugly and low status men are just as predatory , superficial and self-serving - they just know they have to hide their intentions better when a golden opportunity strikes and they see an attractive woman on discount due to being in a bad place mentally etc. They find it difficult to get casual sex from attractive ‘in demand’ women so they offer fake phoney relationships instead and know they have to make it up somewhere. Because ugly obese broke men chasing attractive women is more of a sign they are entitled, delusional and misogynist. They will guilt trip you into accepting sex that feels like rape and will expect you to stroke their ego and play pretend. They know what they are doing by trying to back you in a corner and make you feel you owe them a chance because they were so eager - it’s calculated. Ugly men frequently use attractive women to boost their status to get more women and walk away 50 x cockier thinking thats their new gold standard. Don’t do it - it isn’t worth it, the man stands more to gain and contributes to unattractive men having extremely high standards. They know you don’t find them attractive- they don’t care. It’s all about them. Seeing through the manipulative strategies of low status men is what made me realise most of them are the same and how women are tricked into settling, at their expense- to benefit them.