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9

Only a few minutes in, but I'm LOVING the energy on this one!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/23 04:07 PM
9

Yep, I've found a lot of N/LVM will just straight up lie about being sexual assaulted in order to diminish a woman's problem. It's depraved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 10:56 PM
5

You'd certainly get more excitement and use out of it! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 11:26 AM
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My promise ring in highschool was much nicer than this even, ffs. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 03:30 AM
3

And yes, it's like trash you'd see on the side of the road. 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 03:23 AM
7

Awww, that's so sweet he took time to learn about something that was important to you and you were passionate about. 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 03:21 AM
6

All of their sauces have a silly saying on them. On the fire sauce packets, edit: one of those sayings is, "Marry me?" I can't knock fire sauce in good faith lol, but it still makes me cringe when I see it. 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 03:19 AM
3

Pretty sure one of them even bought her husband's wedding ring too. 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 11:49 PM
17

Aw, I'm sorry. ☹️ You deserved so much better than that!! 💖 It's such a simple, inexpensive way to put a smile of the face of the person you love. There's no excuse not to! Proud of you for getting rid of him and not falling for his manipulative BS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 11:04 PM
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Yeah, the NVXs I've had who gave me the most expensive flowers more frequently were definitely bordering on abusive. My standard is still flowers every week. 😎 For home and work, preferably.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 10:52 PM
5

Okay, this is maybe a ring-substitute I can get behind! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 10:35 PM
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They're just salty that they spent all their money on OF, video games, and weed and can't afford a nice ring. Be gone, broke scrotes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 10:34 PM
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Lmao, I had a NVX scrote ask me one night while I was half-asleep if I'd marry him. I said yes, thinking he was just thinking about it. No ring, obviously no proposal. When I dumped him a few weeks later, he screamed, "BUT WE'RE ENGAGED!!" I laughed in his face. No tf we're not. 🚮👋🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 10:32 PM
7

Yikes, very glad you're getting out of that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 10:30 PM
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Oh god, I've seen those sauce packets and have always wondered how many poor pickmes have only had that as their proposal. So sad. Ngl, I love Taco Bell, so if a guy gave me that WITH a gorgeous ring, I'd probably find it funny. But you know men have just given their girlfriends that and expected them to be excited. 😒 edit: a word
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 10:29 PM
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Everything you just said! 🙌🏻 I understand where some women are coming from when they say they'd rather a man spend the money on a down payment for a house or on the honeymoon. But, I don't think the men have the same intentions. The men are looking for a way to weasel out of spoiling their girlfriends the way they deserve. Also, hard agree on the "placeholder" rings. Another commenter mentioned not minding going shopping for their own ring in order to pick out exactly what they want, so long as …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 10:24 PM
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Yeah, a man "pouring his heart out" can only save up $100 over the course of a year?? Please. 🙄 Also, I thought it was a pickme at first. Idk which one is worse tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 10:16 PM
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Married women tend to live a shorter lifespan. Married men live longer. It's literally paying thousands of dollars to shorten your life. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 09:42 PM
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Yeah, I don't think I'd mind that much either provided the proposal was high effort, but paying for it?? Hell nah. 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 09:39 PM
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It's terrifying, honestly. And I don't think the ubiquity of pornography nowadays has made the problem any better. Neither have online spaces where they are able to come together and "support" one another about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 07:07 PM
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Great point. I may not care for them, but holy crap, they are business savvy. That's only an issue when it's women benefitting, apparently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 07:02 PM
167

Disgusting. Absolute filth. I really have no more words for it. The more I see this stuff, the more I realize that men have a HUGE problem with pedophilia. Lots of them. Many more than we, as a society, think. Where are all the "not all men" men calling this shit out? Until these kinds of things are getting stomped out and shut down by other men, they can shut the hell up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 06:57 PM
8

They can die mad. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 06:34 PM
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Right?? Even as a pickme I couldn't wrap my head around it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 06:21 PM
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I know three women off the top of my head who shopped for and paid for their own engagement rings... Couldn't be me. 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 05:44 PM
25

Adding on, maybe he's part of the "no fap" movement, and he's using this as a manipulation strategy. There's some crossover with that sub and MGTOW/redpill. Be careful, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 05:31 PM
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Yeah, that's a big red flag, imo. This was only your second date? That seems inappropriate to be bringing up, on his part. If it made you feel weird, you should drop him. I wonder if he already broke his pp, and that's why he's so angry over it. Also sounds a bit misogynistic to be raving about a women who made a sex tape and not the male-dominated, woman-abusing porn industry (if he really cares that much about it).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 05:29 PM
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Really shows where their priorities are. They don't deserve the objective benefits of a wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 05:25 PM
6

Thanks, sis! Happy for you! ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 05:21 PM
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As soon as I learned about deepfake tech, I felt sick to my stomach knowing what men were going to use it for. I have several exes I know would pay whatever it cost to have porn of "me". Legislation needs to be made about this to protect women and children, but my hopes are not high. 🙁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 03:40 PM
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Congrats!! I've heard the same line from several men, but we know better! 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 03:30 PM
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Men spend money on what they value. If a man can't or won't drop a pretty penny on a ring that you're supposed to wear for the rest of your life, then he does not value you the way you deserve to be valued. PERIODT. 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 03:24 PM
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W H A T Can you imagine if this was posted by a guy dating a single mom?! Absolutely ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 03:12 AM
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Aw, I'm sorry you went through that. I remember dealing with things like that when I was younger, and it was so upsetting. The part about you saving him a seat at your ceremony hits close to home. 😢 Of course he was 5'5"!! Short men have way too much audacity for their 30" britches. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 11:07 PM
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Anything to not admit their broke their tiny pps. 😂 Like, it was already not great, and you just made it so much worse!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 10:15 PM
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What? As a woman, don't we always introduce ourselves with our bra size?? /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 02:59 PM
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Omg, that's awful!!! 😭 Like, what does he even do!? Drink his own blood? You right, but he made it in to this big ceremony and claimed Odin was speaking through him... 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 01:39 AM
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Very informative, thank you for sharing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 01:35 AM
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I drank mead with him from a horn. 🤦🏻‍♀️ Noooooo, that is wild! 🤣 I mean, I did that in fifth grade, but like, you're supposed to grow out of it!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 12:48 AM
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God, I get so much schadenfreude every time I hear one of those stories... ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 12:41 AM
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Yep. The only poly guy I know was morbidly obese until a couple years ago. He lost most of the weight and now he's ✨ethically non-monoganous✨. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 12:29 AM
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Ohhhh, sis... 😬😂 I dated a guy who claimed to be a Viking though, so I can't judge. 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 12:28 AM
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Redditors go absolutely ape-shit over animal abuse, but completely shrug off the abuse of women. We're in a domestic violence crisis, and them and their tiny, shrimp dicks are helping to fuel it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 11:10 PM
8

Wow. Why am I not surprised... 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 11:08 PM
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Preach!! 🙌🏻 I'm in to some nerdy stuff, but I avoid nerdy men like the plague now. They were honestly some of the most abusive, self-centered, boring, unattractive, cheap, and jealous men I've had the unfortunate experience of dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 11:06 PM
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So proud of you for reporting him!! I know that wasn't easy, but you are helping to protect other women, and I really admire you for that. 💖 You got this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 11:02 PM
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How does one even watch porn for FOUR HOURS?! It's not like it has a good story, good acting, or good writing! I'm glad you caught that scrote. How did he react when you kicked him to the curb? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 10:54 PM
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FDS: "Here are red flags that you're dealing with a narcissist and a bulleted list of ways to improve your life." Manosphere: whatever this is??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 10:51 PM
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Girl, THREE of my old friends bought their own damn engagement rings. Even then, I knew that was whack. 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 10:47 PM
6

Yeah, fancy dinner is bare minimum tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 10:46 PM
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Yeah, that stuck out to me too. That sounds weird af, and I've never heard a woman say that. 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 10:44 PM
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Sewer standards!!! 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 10:43 PM
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Lmao, when I did OLD (pre-FDS), I met a guy who straight up told me he was red-pilled. I already kinda knew their game, and my confidence was rock solid. I played his ass SO hard for two weeks, he messaged my friends about me for months later. I wrecked him. 😂 Got a ton of free stuff out of it too! Still, would not recommend. I was in a bad place mentally, which is why I engaged. But I do think back and laugh sometimes. 💅🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 08:02 PM
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The micro-pp stories I hear on this sub scare me lol. I'll kick a man out for that. 😂 The best sex I've had has always been with guys who are above average in size. Size matters a lot to me. When I was younger, I gave one of those "motion of the ocean" losers a chance, and ugh. He was so insecure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 05:13 PM
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LMAO, my LVX was covered, head to toe, but his teeth were all kinds of messed up. Like, bruh. 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 05:24 PM
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Right? Like, of course he couldn't just be a motivational speaker for men, he's gotta tie the misogyny in there somewhere. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 05:20 PM
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Yeah, that was the first thing I thought of too. Stay safe! 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 04:59 PM
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Well said! I'm on the exact same path, sis. We got this! 💪🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 04:47 PM
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AMEN! And it is the most unattractive thing ever!! I am so sick of these little, baby men who can't even flag down a waiter or ask a Walmart employee a question. They just tuck their tail between their legs and pretend to be very interested in the floor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 03:20 PM
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The accuracy!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 03:18 PM
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Ugh, one of my LVXs kept talking up how he was going to meet with a dealership to get me a good price on a car I was obsessed with. He never did. The car got sold. 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 03:09 PM
4

Ugh, Jareds... 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 02:50 PM
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The audacity of trying to find women to hook up with while you're LITERALLY INSTITUTIONALIZED!!! 😩🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 02:41 PM
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Proud of your for walking away! That's hard, and so many men are like that now. You stood firm in your boundary, and that is amazing! 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 02:35 PM
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I know!! I can't wait to see us hit 200k! 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 02:30 PM
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I'm sorry he treated you so poorly, and I'm so glad you got away from him! I know that wasn't easy. 🙁 You're exactly right. I remember advising a friend once to get out of an abusive relationship. As someone who had recently gotten out of an abusive relationship, I told her, "If you don't leave him, then one day you're going to realize that you hate yourself, and you'll have no idea why." Their goal is to smash your self-esteem and destroy you so you can no longer put up a fight. You end up not …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 02:24 PM
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I have had more 'come-to-Jesus' moments with men than I even care to remember. I'd guess close to 100. And guess what? Not a single one of them got better. Maybe for a week or a month, but the disrespect always came back. Leave at THE. FIRST. SIGN. of disrespect. It is never worth it. Dick is abundant and low-value. Great post, thank you!! ✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 01:48 PM
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SAVAGE!! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 12:48 AM
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Congrats, sis! What you did took real strength. I'm proud of you, and I know your new, scrote-free life is gonna be amazing! 🍾💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 11:07 PM
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So in my pickme days, I went out on one date with a guy like this. Total scrub. It was winter, so he was bumming at a friend's house bc of course his van wasn't set up for cold weather. 🤭 Thankfully, I still had enough respect for myself not to sleep with him, and the next day he said, "Man, I thought we were gonna have freaky sex last night!" I unmatched him immediately and never spoke to him again lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 11:50 PM
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Girl, same. Idk about the "van-life" part so much, but working a remote job so I can travel and be free is a dream, but all the men who are into that are complete losers. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 11:47 PM
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Yikes. All someone has to do to immediately discredit this story is read some of the sub, but I suppose that would be expecting too much of them. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 11:37 PM
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Right? Notice she didn't say "husband," either, it's "the father of my child." 😬😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 11:03 PM
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Yep, I've known multiple gAmEr dudes like this. It's gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 11:01 PM
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Yas, dump his ass, sis! 🥂✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 10:57 PM
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I have eaten pancakes the past 2 nights after being on a pancake hiatus for years. And omg, I can't believe I deprived myself for so long. I might make more tonight. 🤷🏻‍♀️😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 08:47 PM
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Girl, same. This sub has been a goddess-send for my life. Idek how I'd be doing right now if some scrotes on Reddit weren't crying over FDS 8 months ago. Thanks, scrotes! 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 07:37 PM
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It brings joy to my heart. In the past, I've expressed to female friends that walking around, not knowing which man is a violent misogynist is scary. And now, these scrotes can walk around, nervously wondering if all the women around him are FDS feminists, who won't take their shit. They don't have to wonder if they'll be killed, raped, forced in to sex trafficking, or abused, but at least they might feel a tiny bit nervous that the patriarchal power structures that they benefit from are showing…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 06:18 PM
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It's sad. So many women don't even realize they're being raped regularly and end up with PTSD, anxiety, or depression from it. Ask me how I know. 😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 05:23 PM
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You dodged a bullet, sis! Can you imagine what being in a relationship with him would be like? Great example here of when to block, thank you for sharing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 12:33 AM
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JOE ROGAN THO!! Too accurate! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 12:20 AM
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Ooh, I love older music, but so much of it is like pickme/LVM propaganda. I'll definitely check that song out! Thank you! 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 12:04 AM
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Lmao, I wish so badly sometimes that it wasn't dangerous for us to post selfies. Scrotes would lose their fucking minds if they knew how gorgeous many of the women here are. Yes, little buddy, the beautiful woman you couldn't get your eyes off of at the grocery store follows FDS and thinks you're a low-value scrote! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 11:44 PM
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There was literally a post just earlier today of someone telling a woman her standards were too high. What is this scrote smoking??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 11:32 PM
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Awwwww, look at the little guy! 🤏🏻 He's proud he read a book once in his life! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 11:30 PM
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Right? I hope she controls his ass in to a divorce and he gets nothing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 11:27 PM
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The only men who have ever had an issue with my standards are the ones who couldn't reach (lol) them. 🤭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 08:40 PM
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Yeah, WhatsApp is a yellow flag for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 06:35 PM
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I briefly dated a guy like this. He obsessed over this fetish. He definitely wanted multiple kids too. He was a complete sociopath, and I shudder remembering it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 03:03 PM
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"Yes." block
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 01:48 PM
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Love to see it!! 😍 More and more men are getting blocked and deleted before they even realize what's going on and have a chance to gaslight or manipulate a woman. And it's beautiful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 01:47 AM
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Just look at ANY top Reddit post about a woman succeeding or accomplishing amazing things. Hundreds of tiny 🤏🏻, sad, little men that try to diminish, downplay, or completely disregard it. It's pathetic, really.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 01:44 AM
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Ewwww, I had a guy basically beg me to do that too. Even in the darkest depths of my pickmeisha days, I refused! He's having a kid soon; I feel bad for his girlfriend (or wife?).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 09:10 PM
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Cue the: yOu'Re JuSt PoLyAmOrOuS!! u HaVe NeEdS! You need to give your wife an ultimatum, and if she doesn't accept it, she's (insert)phobic and doesn't deserve you, KiNg!!1 😤😤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 07:01 PM
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These dumbass scrotes were even trying to argue that the two X sub was a MiSaNdRiSt hate sub... Like, what?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 05:03 PM
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Right?? So many comments about us on another thread announcing the ban. Most of them were downvoted to hell! 😂 Can't wait to see how many new members it gets us!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 04:45 PM
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Sis, same! They don't understand how draining a relationship with a N/LVM is for women. And of course they don't; society is set up in a way that rarely exposes them to what women deal with on a regular basis. HVM are able to empathize with us because they've taken time to mentally dissect how the world is different for men and women. I would rather scoop litter boxes for 8 hours a day than deal with another N/LVM. That kind of relationship is the most lonely, soul-crushing, depressing thing tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 04:43 PM
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Wednesdays are normally kinda stressful for me, but the FDS podcast always brightens my day! I thought you all asked great, pertinent questions. Thanks for all you do!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 04:34 PM
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I know, that was so sweet!! Melted my heart. 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 04:33 PM
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Hah! Exactly!! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 04:30 PM
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Yes!!! Thank you for putting these together! I think I'll print some (easy to peel off) stickers and start putting them around. Anyone have a good idea of a catchy line to put with it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 04:26 PM
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mAyBe He'S dEpReSsEd?? Have you tried CoMmUnIcAtInG that shitty underwear grosses you out?? /s 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 01:28 PM
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I know, I'm wondering why I never have seen or heard it before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 11:57 AM
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I've had similar experiences. What is with all these stupid men? 😩 My last relationship was so intellectually boring; it drained me. Read a book, scrote!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 11:01 PM
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Yeppp. Dealt with too many NVXs that quit drinking to keep me around. Now, if a man tells me he can't/doesn't drink, I'm wary. Many a time it's because their drinking exacerbated their stupidity and abuse. Plus, I love sharing a nice bottle of wine on special occasions!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 10:53 PM
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Sums it up perfectly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 10:11 PM
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I'm sorry he disappointed you. I went through something similar, gave him a second chance, and dude turned out to be a huge narc. You deserve better than that, sis! Flex that block finger!! 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 10:00 PM
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They're pathetically petrified of FDS and what it stands for, and are highly aware of how large it's becoming. I love seeing that subscriber number tick higher and higher. ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 09:57 PM
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Good for you! He sounds super manipulative tbh. 😬 This sub is incredible. FDS has helped me learn to stand up for myself and my desires in all kinds of my relationships. So thankful for all you queens! 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 09:44 PM
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Same. Thankfully I haven't ran in to any of these for a while, but I've also cut off tons of people lol. I can promise that the moment these words come out of a scrote's mouth, I can tune out everything else they say. Forever. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 09:35 PM
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I literally cannot wrap my head around these straight, white men who truly believe they are oppressed. Like, society was built by and for y'all through systemic structures that kept anyone else from participating. If you're failing, then you just suck. 💁🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 09:31 PM
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Having that photo as a reminder is beautiful!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 06:43 PM
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Hahahaha, omg!!! This is one of my favs. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 06:37 PM
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Right? That is some QUEEN shit. 😂🍪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 05:30 PM
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Yiiiiikes, this reminds me of a man I dated. Strange how there's so many playing by such similar scripts...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 05:15 PM
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AMEN!!! 🙌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 12:17 AM
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Omg, that's scary. I'm so glad you got out of there!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 10:30 PM
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Good for you!!! 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 10:28 PM
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I hope his tiny pp 🤏🏻 shrivels up and falls off. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 10:26 PM
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I remember reading somewhere on FDS that it's important to mention your close, strong relationships with others (friends, parents, etc.) when you start vetting a man. This lets them know that you have a party of trusted individuals who have you best interest at heart that you WILL divulge information to. It reminds them that you will not be isolated, and you will be harder to abuse. 💪🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 10:16 PM
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I'm so happy for you, sis! 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 10:09 PM
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Yes! The paper trail is SO helpful! Especially after you've dumped him- any time you start feeling sad, just pull that shit back up, give it a read, and I promise you won't miss him anymore! 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 10:08 PM
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That's so embarrassing. A HVM would want the women he loves to be proud to show off the ring he bought. It's should symbolize that he is able to provide. Men who are stingy with engagement rings are just proving that they have small dick energy. 💁🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 09:56 PM
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Sis, same. So frustrating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 05:42 PM
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Probably not the only nest in his home. 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 07:44 PM
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That's awful, I'm so sorry you dealt with that. So many of us have these stories from our formative, young-adult years, and it's sickening. We're just trying to learn and grow and become independent, and we get traumatized. It's wrong, and it makes me so angry for me and my fellow sisters. 💔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 06:59 PM
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Omg, neckbeard Satan! 😂 Great work!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 06:53 PM
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If I didn't know any better, I'd say they're purposefully trying to dilute the meaning of "rape" in order to further delegitimize a largely women's issue. 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 04:04 PM
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Aw, y'all sound happy! ☺️ The way it should be!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 04:00 PM
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Hah! I missed the condom, good point. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 03:58 PM
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I used to be one of those people who "stayed friends" with my exes. Then I realized I was really just doing it because I was bored and their constant validation gave me a pickme self-esteem boost. 😬 I think it's maybe easier with our access to social media nowadays. But no more of that! I told a (fellow millennial) friend recently that I had blocked my last LVX on everything, and they were totally flabbergasted. They were so shook over how nonchalant I was about it, as if my LVX must have commit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 03:57 PM
14

Lmao, I listened to this on repeat after my last two breakups. Love it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 03:34 PM
4

Yep, I've also noticed this with any guy who says he was previously "abused" by a girlfriend. Both guys turned out to be huge narcissists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 11:53 PM
5

Oooh, good one! Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 11:51 PM
9

That's what I'm saying! So gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 09:35 PM
7

Even the LVMs I dated who would just hand me money constantly weren't worth it. No amount is worth sacrificing your integrity for! We are all so much better than that! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 09:32 PM
12

😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 08:49 PM
5

One of my NVXs would GRAB me in his sleep. Like, with his hands, grab me so hard that I would get bruises. I would have to almost yell to wake him up. Def was a red flag; he had severe anger issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 08:49 PM
4

My brother (a LVM for sure), is like this. 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 08:46 PM
35

The number of men who truly believe they faced insurmountable oppression because their parents tried to get them in to hobbies (other than sitting around and masturbating) is TOO DAMN HIGH. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 06:12 PM
68

Apparently he thought hitting the gym and not eating McDonald's every day would hurt it too. 😬 edit: a word
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 05:23 PM
133

Doesn't use sunscreen AND refused to get vaccinated. How surprising. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 05:02 PM
18

This sub is almost 200k strong, and I've noticed more and more actual empowering, feminist comments on many subs. We still have so far to go, but one by one, women are saying ENOUGH. It makes my heart happy. 💪🏻💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 09:10 PM
25

She knows it's wrong, hypocritical, and horrifically cruel of him to do. I feel so bad for her, I really hope she reads the sensible comments from women. We obviously care about her more than he does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 09:08 PM
19

Omg, my mom and I hate that ad. We rant about it every time. It's so gross. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 09:05 PM
6

Great idea! I'll have to think of a good one to use...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 08:20 PM
2

Right?? At first, I was like, "Hell yeah, girl!" until I realized it was supposed to be a joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 10:53 PM
27

Sending strength to you! 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 08:41 PM
163

Everytime the ghosting is bad, wahhhh-wahhhh thread shows up elsewhere on Reddit, I just roll my eyes. 🙄 It's always hundreds of N/LVM complaining, with hundreds of women explaining why we ghost (it's safer). Do they listen? No. Do they realize that the issue is men's fault? No. Do they decide to start holding other men accountable so that, maybe, women DO feel more comfortable turning men down? Absolutely not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 07:55 PM
4

I can't wait to start dating again, just because blocking and deleting cheap scrotes is gonna be so satisfying!! 😂 I haven't paid for a single thing with my past 3 boyfriends. That's what, 5 years now? Why would I downgrade?? Scrotes, just admit you're broke and no woman wants to have sex with you! 🤏🏻 Then maybe you can start working on yourself for once.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 07:05 PM
3

Woooooowww... Thank you for posting that, that was one of the worst things I've ever read. Happy for her that she's less miserable, but holy crap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 06:33 PM
4

Scrote Island, a new TV show, coming to you this summer! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 05:54 PM
9

💯 This is the same way they truly believe women have it easier when dating- because we can have sex with a snap of our fingers. They ignore the fact that we get killed, raped, stalked, abused, and have to fear for our safety.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 05:53 PM
3

I do the same thing! It works great to filter out the broke or cheap scrotes! 🤑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 07:44 PM
13

I won't even wear headphones in public a lot of the time (although I don't use public transit). It sucks that it's something we have to be so wary of, when men don't even have to think about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 06:30 PM
27

I know no less than 3 men, in my former social circles, who had their schizophrenia compounded because they refused to stop smoking weed. Literally cannot function as normal people. Have been in and out of mental institutions for years. They leave a trail of destruction in their wake, and I refuse to be anywhere near it anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 04:34 PM
453

What is this guy snorting?? Yes, men are societally conditioned to hate women, but women are societally conditioned to love men, even at their own expense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 04:27 PM
26

Oh my god, the neckbeard version of "on your right," I'm dyinggg. 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 02:55 PM
126

What's wild to me is that, even though the majority of responses told him he needed to do more, he isn't even listening. Not surprised tbh, but why even make a poll? Just hoping to get his backpats from other loser-ass scrotes on Reddit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 02:36 AM
54

I'm so sorry you're going through this. You are strong, and it sounds like you're a good mom. My mom went through the same stuff. Finally left my dad after us kids were grown. She and I are best friends now! My heart goes out to you, stay strong for your babies. 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 05:43 PM
20

I'm so guilty of this one. I've always been obsessed with cats, and don't always have Halloween plans. So when I get the last minute party invite, I throw on some cat ears, a cute dress, and draw on some whiskers. 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 08:49 PM
18

This is the last place I'd expect to see a Mighty Boosh reference, and I'm here for it lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 08:31 PM
6

Omg, I need to find that comic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 06:58 PM
5

I'm in the same boat, which is why I've avoided the CF label. I think I'd like to be a foster parent one day, if I'm ever in a position to do so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 06:46 PM
120

Agreed. I was so disappointed when I heard she was dating Elon Musk, but I had finally just chalked it up to, "Whatever girl, get that bag." But she's not even doing that... 🤦🏻‍♀️ And yeah, her new music has been majoring underwhelming. edit: a word
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 05:08 PM
20

Interesting. My suspected covert-narc LVX lasted for 8 months as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 04:53 PM
2

Ooh, and try some new hobbies! Pick up a class or a certification course! Something that makes you excited about life and reminds you of your potential without that jerk. I believe in you! ✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 01:03 AM
3

Sis, you deserve so much more than this. I am proud of you for taking your first step. In the past, I've found journaling on my phone about shitty things my exes have done to be very helpful and cathartic. When I start to feel sad about one, I reread my journal entries. Tbh, sometimes I just read them when I'm bored. It helps. You need to excise this loser's existence from your life. Block, delete. Be angry about how he treated you. Let yourself be sad. Exercise, meditate, connect with other fam…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 01:01 AM
7

It's disgusting and so prevalent. Even in abuse cases, the church will pressure the women into staying. Ask me how I know... 😓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 05:19 PM
6

Yas girl! Shame away!! 👏🏻👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 05:10 PM
7

W H A T
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 05:07 PM
3

Yes! That show cracks me up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 05:02 PM
16

Okay, I'm kind of late to this, but I gotta share: For Valentine's Day with my last LVX, he took a couple days off to match up with my days off. He asked what I wanted, and I told him I wanted him to plan a fun getaway for us. I wanted everything to be a surprise, and I didn't want to have to worry about a damn thing. He seemed excited at the prospect. He took me to the beach. The same beach I have vacationed at a dozen times in my life with half a dozen ex-boyfriends. 🙄 For Valentine's dinner, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 06:24 PM
98

Thanks for this! I'm not ready to date again yet, but I know I've been giving off mad 'don't-you-dare-even-look-at-me' vibes to men since my last breakup. When I'm ready to date again, I'll definitely be taking this advice! I'm on the fence about OLD, but I'll check out your book recommendation. 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 04:01 PM
118

Hahahahah!!!! Oh my god, the cope! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 01:12 AM
98

Amen! Like the scrotes on Reddit that villainize their wives suffering from PPD after growing and birthing their child, sacrificing her own body. ThA mAn CaN b DePwEssEd ToO! pWeGnAnCy Is HaRd 4 HiM! Nothing less attractive than a whiny, incompetent man. Unfortunately, a large swath of them are embarrassingly pathetic. Useless loser scrotes. 🚮 50/50 is a scam, and women deserve so much better. We will never settle for less! 💅🏻✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 01:09 AM
9

What is it with dumb as shit, NVM named Jared?? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 04:38 PM
29

That is heartbreaking. I am so sorry you went through this. Hugs to you! 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 05:23 PM
23

Yeah, and the "1 in 4 men are victims of interpersonal violence" had me doing a big hmmm... 🤔 I liked the message overall, and I'm glad a man is saying it. Lord knows men refuse to listen to women. But I definitely get what you're saying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 04:22 PM
15

Kudos to you! Stay safe, queen! ✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 03:47 AM
12

Preach. I would love to hear scrotes try to articulate a coherent rebuttal to this. Oh wait, I don't care about anything they have to say. 😂💁🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 02:40 AM
13

LMAO, THIS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 11:30 PM
26

And don't worry, if they pick up some McDonald's, she'll pay for her own! 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 10:19 PM
35

Same. When I was on dating apps, I appreciated when it showed their preferred age range. If it was too low, NEXT!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 04:57 PM
47

Well put!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 03:39 PM
187

Wonder if any of those commenters got picked. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 02:58 PM
139

Yaaaaas! The scrotes can die mad!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 08:34 PM
11

They're beyond delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 07:54 PM
6

That is beyond disgusting. I'm sorry you and your child are dealing with that. 🙁 What excuse could they even have to ban this video??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 07:05 PM
15

This is so depressingly accurate, but the wording is killing me. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 05:38 PM
9

Yes, sis! 🙌🏻 Our patriarchal culture is hell-bent on isolating women from their rightful anger. My anger and spite, when applied appropriately, has moved metaphorical mountains for me. Have you read Rage Becomes Her by Soraya Chemaly? I started it recently, and I like it so far.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 05:12 PM
2

Omg, congrats!!! I'm so happy for you! 🎉🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 08:01 PM
101

Right? There's no gold to dig, scrote! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 05:09 PM
20

A good challenge? Is he referring to the 'wiping scrote-ass' challenge, or the 'handling a toddler-level mantrum' challenge? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 03:41 AM
14

💯💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 09:41 PM
57

"aPpArEnTlY" 🙄 What a gross scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 09:39 PM
72

Yep. This was my exact situation that led me to almost getting baby trapped by a NVX.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 04:37 PM
8

Oops, **movie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 04:36 PM
11

Even in my mega-pickme days, I couldn't bring myself to watch that show. The premise was so misogynistic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 04:36 PM
24

Couldn't have said it better myself. Any man who can't wrap his head around this is automatically a N/LVM with small dick energy. 🤏🏻🤏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 12:27 AM
5

Sis, tell me about it. My most abusive relationship, from which I developed PTSD, was with the guy with the smallest penis I've ever had. It's correlated. Never dating a 🍤 again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 07:43 PM
85

Amen. My ex was a perfectionist... except in bed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 07:19 PM
28

Hilarious! Love her snark. The first guy was so insecure, it was embarrassing. He really thinks all he would need to do is "train". 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 07:13 PM
88

Mega small dick energy just radiating off of this. 🤏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 02:58 AM
57

That is the most hilarious, accurate quote I have ever read. 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 07:39 PM
43

Amish phase??! Girl, no! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 02:04 PM
47

This is just, chef's kiss. 🤌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 01:45 PM
60

BuT mEn ArEn'T aLlOwEd To ShOw EmOtIoN!!1 Seriously, what you said. 🙌🏻 The ability to express emotions like a healthy adult is a must, but the number of men I've dated that NEVER stfu about them (and would never listen to me) is ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 03:37 PM
33

I'm so sorry. You deserve WAYYY better! We all do. All the women I know are such interesting, multifaceted individuals. They volunteer, they read, they play instruments, they practice languages, they work on projects. The men? Don't make me laugh. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 01:19 AM
93

God, what is it with all these boring men?? My last two exes were some of the most boring people ever. I don't understand how someone can be happy never having any new experiences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 11:01 PM
5

I'm so sorry, but so proud of you!! Leave his ass! 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 02:34 AM
15

I always donate pads (the good, name brand ones when I can afford it) any chance I get. It's so sad how often women are overlooked when it comes to charity/donation drives. 💔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 08:17 PM
34

Preach! Men on the sub for dead bedrooms should be taking notes. 🙌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 05:02 PM
16

Ewwww, dad bods are so gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 12:05 AM
10

That is HILARIOUS!!! 🤣 Die mad, old scrotes! 👴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 10:44 PM
3

Congrats, queen!! You deserve the best! 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 10:31 PM
2

Omg, this is such a wholesome analogy! Your daughter is lucky to have you! 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 08:46 PM
3

A LV guy I went out on a date with even knew this! Guess how he knew? NVM/LVM fav, Joe Rogan. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 05:58 PM
26

Right? It is blowing my mind that ANY of that is not just, ya know, level 1 absolute musts. But scrotes are somehow getting their widdle feefees hurt over it. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 04:14 PM
5

Oof, that's bad. 😬 Sorry about your crappy dad and brother. 🙁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 04:19 PM
29

You put this so well, thank you! Take my free award.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 04:02 PM
2

Aw, this made me smile. 😊 So happy for you, sis! ✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 04:58 PM
3

I'm sorry you're going through this. I had a similar situation a year or so ago. Ended up ghosting many of my closest girl "friends," some I had known for years. I'm sure they say all kinds of nasty things about me now to everyone in my old social group. Not gonna lie, it hurt a lot, and I questioned myself on it greatly for a long time. But, they were low value, low vibrational people, and I needed to make room for myself to grow. I needed to make room for HV people who could meet me on my leve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 04:52 PM
8

🚩 Driving in the passing lane, holding up the entire flow of traffic on the highway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 04:29 PM
27

Wow, sounds like some major small dick energy to me. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 03:22 PM
34

Omg, that's it?? They spend that much on their computers and cars, ffs. 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 03:20 PM
4

Ugh, I remember that. Absolutely abhorrent and disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 04:09 PM
8

Sis, I had almost the exact same experience. I am 100% convinced that if I didn't have that abortion and kick him to the curb, he would have eventually killed me. Abortion saved my life too. Hugs to you. 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 04:05 PM
2

Omg, the classics. 😂 What about, "Actually 42 not 29 idk how to change it."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 12:18 PM
55

"Polyamory is consumerism disguised as spiritual evolution." Dang, that hit hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 06:33 PM
49

That's the point lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 01:12 AM
37

Yeah, gotta love how they pretend this is a male and female issue. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 12:49 AM
50

Saved! This is great, thanks! 👍🏻 It's truly awful that we already have decades of research that shows the damage porn does, but it's something we're not allowed to question or criticize. 😠 It keeps women in their place, and is a vehicle for the patriarchy. That's the only reason something so damaging is allowed to be so unregulated in our society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 12:47 AM
5

HAHAHHAHAHAAHAH!!! 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 06:52 PM
6

LMFAO! My ex struggled to shave his beard, so he'd often just shave the whole thing off, and it looked like shit. Blows my mind how common their particular brand of scrotery is...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 01:12 AM
20

Lmao, my ex was obviously of Native American descent. He was also adopted as an infant. He got one of those DNA test-kits done before we met, and claimed he was 100% descended from the Vikings. When I asked him to show me the data (playing the dumb fox), he stammered and said he couldn't find it anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 01:10 AM
19

Oh my god, did you know my ex?? That was literally, exactly him. 😦 edit to add on to my original post- He made me drink mead with him from a horn. I'm dead serious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 01:06 AM
16

Oh gross. You hit the nail on the head... Men are disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 12:53 AM
5

That's amazing, I bet he still remembers it to this day. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 07:40 PM
60

Yas! I'm always watching. 👀 A girl I work with is high school aged, and I always watch her get to her car safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 05:00 PM
156

Lmao, this is me. I dumped my LVX and finally got back in amazing shape and took care of my health, and now NO MAN CAN TOUCH ME. They can die mad! ✨😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 04:56 PM
109

Exactly. "Men like me seem to be few and far between," F-ING BULLSHIT. They're all tainted with these crappy double standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 01:39 AM
12

Girl, same!! His jawline was so weak; it was embarrassing to be seen out with him. 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 12:45 AM
6

Yay! I wish there were more female tattoo artists near me. Since my last tattoo, I decided that I will only be getting tattooed by other women. I hope your accomplish all that you're working hard towards! 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 12:44 AM
28

"PORN IS LYING TO YOU!" How do so many of them not see that? Porn distorts their view of women, relationships, sex... But no, it's mAkE-uP that's the real problem, guise!! /s 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 12:42 AM
28

Same. I'll never date a single dad again, once was enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 12:05 AM
27

Yep. I think that's the thing with many men. They can't handle the idea of not being the most important thing in a woman's life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 11:59 PM
65

That's so sad. It's terribly unfair that this is the unquestioned reality for SO many women. And men really pretend that we should consider ourselves lucky to be in a "more equal" country. Men know that women are not treated equally, or equitably.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 11:57 PM
55

Emotional pedophilia, I've never seen that phrase before, but I think it's poignant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 11:44 PM
118

My heart breaks for her and the millions of women in her shoes... 💔 What an absolute piece of trash man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 11:43 PM
63

Hahaha, that's amazing, good job!! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 11:41 PM
41

Omg, I'm so sorry... That's so awful. Good for you divorcing his ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 11:11 PM
61

They want those women, but they know those women wouldn't sneeze in their general direction, so they trash-talk them. That's my best guess. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 11:10 PM
16

Right? There's no gold to dig, scrote! 🚫💲😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 11:08 PM
31

Very interesting. This voice from our heart-to-hearts- would that be similar to our intuition? Women's intuition is obviously much stronger than men's. And patriarchal society is dead-set on obscuring this intuition in women. Just brainstorming. Thanks for posting, I enjoyed reading this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 11:05 PM
15

Couldn't have said it better myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 10:49 PM
23

Amen! 🙌🏻🙌🏻 I feel like I've seen more and more women standing up for women on this awful site, and I love it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 10:46 PM
52

Wow, what a scrote!! Good job blocking. I love the Doc and dress combo, I do that often too! 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 08:14 PM
64

Omg, how do they react?? That's hilarious, what scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 07:58 PM
13

I see you've met my LVX... 👀😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 07:57 PM
14

Omg, thank you for this. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 04:28 AM
17

You (and your sad excuse for a male body) won't be missed! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 01:22 AM
84

Size does matter!! And girth is def important. No woman likes a pencil dick. 🤷🏻‍♀️✏️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 09:22 PM
1

Same, she cracks me up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 08:45 PM
3

I swear, some of these men really know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 05:44 PM
2

I was thinking of her too! 😂 Found her channel through this sub, and I listen to it almost every day now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 05:20 PM
24

That's amazing! 💖 I can't wait to be financially stable enough to start making donations to women's causes. For now, I just volunteer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 04:45 PM
50

"So I can schedule my scent releasing?" That cracked me up. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 04:28 PM
66

The more women see their fellow women succeeding, the less appealing it will be to make yourself depend on a scrote. Great post! 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 04:24 PM
30

OHHHHMGOD! 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 10:42 PM
21

The self-reflection and introspection of a rock. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 03:50 PM
25

Right? Women will take a step back from dating when they realize that they're not ready. N/LVM are so pathetically desperate and depend on women so much that they just keep dating, destroying women in their path. They're weak.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 03:22 PM
29

They're being purposefully obtuse to misconstrue our valid strategies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 03:19 PM
88

Amen. 🙌🏻 My time is expensive, and if a real man is interested in me, then he is going to show he appreciates it. These men exist, don't settle! 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 03:17 PM
99

This is great. She left out home proposals! Like, ew, we're cooking dinner or watching a movie. That's not romantic or well thought out- at all. If a man ever tried to make his proposal to me so NOT special, I don't think I could marry him, regardless of how great he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 03:15 PM
32

I'd pay to see his teeny brain implode when she serves him divorce papers and walks out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 03:11 PM
21

Right? This dude should be thanking his lucky stars if a real, live woman ever even glances in his direction lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 03:09 PM
39

Exactly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 03:06 PM
6

That's amazing! Seeing all these dusty men get dumped is my fav. 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 03:02 PM
5

Yes!!! Good for you! 🎉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 02:08 PM
4

Block and delete him, sis! You deserve so much better, and I KNOW you have the strength and wisdom to do that. 💖 Don't let this scrote waste more of your time!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 02:07 PM
2

Men who don't want to be providers have major small dick energy. It's unfortunate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 12:50 PM
25

Hahaha, I love to see it! Everyone knows he's trash. 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 02:28 AM
4

It's a crab-bucket of no/low-value-men. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 02:26 AM
9

Good for you!! 💖 I was in a similar relationship a while ago, but it was only for 2 years. It really goes to show how much men know the value a woman brings to their lives, when they'll purposely manipulate her in to staying, regardless of whether or not she's happy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 02:03 AM
29

So well said!! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 You're right about men knowing women are super empathetic. It's why their pathetic asses immediately start telling you sob stories as soon as you meet. When I was younger, I'd totally fall for it. Never again. I will use my blessing of empathy for women and children. Peddit scrotes are the lowest of the low, the very bottom of the totem pole, and they know it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 01:57 AM
3

Of course...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 11:27 PM
1

Ugh, I feel bad for them, but they drag the bar down for everyone. Like, girl, no. I know they're salty, that's why they try to dump on women like us. But they don't realize they're just playing in to what LVM want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 11:27 PM
161

Not surprising at all. Men get petulant when embarrassed in front of other men. What a loser. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 11:17 PM
109

I automatically downvote every man's comment or post about his girlfriend/wife if it's negative. Not sorry. 💅🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 11:15 PM
95

Almost like they're broke losers who don't care about exploitation in the first place... 🤔🧐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 12:32 AM
19

Scrote logic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 09:31 PM
37

Hah! I downvoted this earlier too. Didn't even try to look at the comments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 09:04 PM
115

THIS!! The scrotes of Peddit really tell on themselves. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 08:48 PM
82

I saw that post. Not reading the comments was a personal act of self-care. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 08:33 PM
36

Wow, I wish I could say I was surprised. ☹️ Thank you for pointing this out. I drink tea every day, and I will start researching the brands I buy from now on. Rape is prevalent in any environment, especially those in which women are already disadvantaged. Men have no idea about the fear women have to manage regularly. Also, I love your username.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 08:31 PM
49

Good point!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 07:49 PM
76

I had read about water-fetching before and forgotten how it affects women and girls. Thank you for the reminder. When I have the money one day, I'm going to be donating to install accessible, safe wells to give these girls a chance at an education. 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 07:48 PM
124

Ew, I can't stand that about men. They're so insecure that having to constantly reassure them becomes a part-time job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 07:45 PM
260

This is (one of the reasons) why the patriarchy has so much invested in convincing women that they want to get married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 07:19 PM
7

When I found FDS and began reading the handbook, I had 3 N/LVXs try to hit me up. That what when I learned the power of block and delete! 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 07:06 PM
5

The tears sustain me. 💅🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 06:56 PM
3

Omg!!! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 06:53 PM
23

Kind of like how every woman I know has been sexually harassed and/or assaulted, but no men I've associated with knew any men who were sexual abusers... 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 06:53 PM
70

Lmao, pretty much all of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 06:34 PM
200

How DARE a women put her child's safety above a man's pp??? 🤬🤬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 06:33 PM
38

I don't eat meat, and I use this as a vetting strategy. The kind of men who attribute masculinity to particular foods (especially red meat for whatever reason) are never the kind of men I want to be around. Love how your parents backtracked. Really solid thinking on their part... 🙄 /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 06:32 PM
4

Yes!!!! Proud of you! You deserve SO much better! 🎉💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 06:16 PM
4

Drop him~ He ain't it, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 06:12 PM
45

Ikr? It's hilarious! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 05:45 PM
32

Same. They only respect men. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 05:44 PM
221

Proposing to a man is the most clown garbage I've ever heard of in my life. Most women already lose so much in marriage, but humiliating yourself by kneeling to a man?? Couldn't be me. 🙅🏻‍♀️⛔👎🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 02:32 AM
4

Good for you!!! I developed PTSD from a relationship with a NVM as well, and my heart goes out to you. I'm so proud of you for getting the help that you need and for coming so far! You have such a bright future ahead of you. I know it's hard right now, but you can do it! ❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 12:53 AM
9

Wow, this post really, really resonated with me. Thank you so much for sharing. 💖 I can't wait to be where you're at! This sub is so incredible and powerful for women. 💪🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 12:49 AM
66

All he's got is dust and the audacity!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 12:42 AM
54

Yep, a few of my N/LVXs had physical touch as one, and words of affirmation as two. It was gross to me then too. 🤢 It boils down to giving them sex and constantly reassuring them, and it reeks of insecurity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 12:40 AM
76

Amen! I'm don't date broke men, and I expect nice and thoughtful gifts, often. The men with the money are NEVER the ones complaining about gold-diggers! 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 08:25 PM
12

It's severely depressing. Earlier today, I saw a scrote on some post say, "OF is the most empowering thing I can think of! Women are taking the control and making money off of it!" like it was some kind of enlightened, genius take.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 06:47 PM
22

The entire bed deadroom sub summed up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 02:31 PM
18

I think we've all been this little girl, dealing with man-babies and their mantrums.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 01:38 AM
18

Okay, the way you announced this is killing me! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 07:16 PM
11

NAILED IT!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 04:36 PM
81

Aw, I love this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 11:40 PM
7

This is genius, thank you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 10:41 PM
3

Omg, that second part!!!! That is SO important! Nothing turns me off like a man who can't even politely get a waiter's attention. So sheepish and pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 10:13 PM
39

Yep, and 50/50 on assault, abuse, femicide, wage gaps, self-care. I'll give them their "50%" of that. On the other hand- their mental health resources, benefit of the doubt, opportunity, etc... I'd like 50% of that. Until we are not always on the losing end of "50/50" I will not accept 50/50 from a man. And even then, a real man would be ecstatic to prove he can provide for a women he cares about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 03:23 AM
63

Somehow being used and abused and thrown to the trash, sometimes as a dead body, is better than a polite refusal before any of that happens... Funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 03:18 AM
82

Does he use a bottle of hair gel a day, or is his face so repugnant that his hair is trying to run away?? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 12:51 AM
18

Omg, so gross. Can anyone reach her? Ofc he's trying to baby-trap her now. How unsurprising. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 10:24 PM
14

You can choose from the plethora in his gravel driveway! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 10:20 PM
8

And that's the truth of it. Women can communicate until we turn blue, but if a man isn't interested in communicating, it doesn't freaking matter!! I'm sick to death of the advice to women to cOmMuNiCaTe with someone who doesn't respect them enough to do the same. Glad you got rid of that asshole. I've heard those exact hail mary phrases before too, and they're so blatantly manipulative.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 05:08 PM
5

OHMYGOD, WHAAAT??? 😱 Love your whole post, ✨queen energy✨, but that last part threw me for a loop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 05:04 PM
10

I left a relationship partially because, at the time, I wasn't strong enough to snoop. I knew even if I found what I figured I'd find, I wasn't sure if I could bring myself to leave. So I finally just left, and I'm so glad tbh. When I'm eventually ready and want a relationship again, I will have 0 issue going through phones/laptops/etc. Suppressing that intuition gave me massive anxiety and depression problems, and I gained like, 10 pounds. Any guy who gets defensive over you protecting your min…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 04:29 PM
2

Aw, thank you so much for this thoughtful response. I love this sub. 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 08:48 PM
5

This is so touching, I teared up. 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 07:56 PM
48

Ugh, this. I had to ask my last two boyfriends to help with with my things. After that, they always got them, but I shouldn't have even had to ask. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 07:25 PM
4

That's amazing, he sounds wonderful!! I can imagine how constructive that is. It's so bad that I can't even recognize my anger most of the time. I went for so long being "go with the flow" as to not make any waves, that I forgot how to feel anger, if that makes sense. Clearly it's something I need to work on. I had a LTR a couple years ago where the guy would tell me I was being "abusive" if I ever got upset or angry, and I think it really messed me up. He knew I had experienced some heinous abu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 07:18 PM
42

Well said. I was kind of like that growing up as well, and those guys treated me like absolute trash- even when I was entirely out of their league. They were still pining over someone else's girlfriend that they had nothing in common with. God, I wish I had FDS during those times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 07:07 PM
39

It's an insidious lie proliferating through our society through all forms of media, and it's time to stomp it out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 07:04 PM
77

This breaks my heart. I am so sorry he treated you so horribly. Good for you getting away. 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 05:27 PM
3

Preach. I cringe thinking about all the stuff I put in to my body and all the dangerous situations I put myself in. I was a big party-girl too, and I wasted so much of my time and potential. I was lucky to come out relatively unscathed compared to many. I think many of us were trying to escape. The world is mean and ugly to women, albeit moreso some than others. But at some point, you gotta realize that filling that angry and hurt part of you with substances isn't going to help. It will only mak…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 05:11 PM
2

Same. A nice, peaceful home all of my own making with a couple cats that love me... Sounds so much better than dealing with a man until he dies. 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 05:03 PM
2

No worries, it depends on the phone you have! 😊 My emoji button is to the left of my spacebar on my keyboard, but I have an Android. It may be different for yours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 05:00 PM
6

What a loser! 😂 Like, was he trying to make a joke, or has his dick just never worked??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 04:59 PM
2

That's amazing, I hope to be there one day! I struggle a LOT with letting out my anger, and I end up internalizing it... 😕 But I started volunteering a while back ago, and I think it has helped with my societal-depression. I bought Rage Becomes Her by Soraya Chemaly, but haven't started it yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 04:58 PM
29

Yes! So glad you divorced his ass!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 02:16 AM
26

Omg, this!! I think it's a good thing to try to show some interest in your partner's interests, so long as it's reciprocal. But that's the thing, men don't do that. So I'd actively isten to him go on about sports, but when it was my turn, nothing. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 02:15 AM
46

Yep! And I tried so hard to get him to just READ A BOOK so we could have something, anything, interesting to talk about. I was in my pickmeisha ways. Even lent him some of my books. Did he ever read a page? No. 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 02:13 AM
12

Good for you!! The drugs were another issue for me. So many of my former friends didn't give a damn to do anything else but get f*ed up. They were successful people career-wise, but if they couldn't find their drug of choice for the evening, it would ruin it bc the whole time they were trying to find drugs. And take social media pictures. 😑 I like having a glass or two of wine with my evening now, and I've tried a lot of substances (wish I had avoided it more tbh) but ugh... 🙄 It got so boring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 02:11 AM
19

Oh god, that is awful. I'm so sorry... But it sounds about right. 😓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 01:38 AM
68

What a scrote. He was so obviously insecure because he knew he was a loser. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 11:29 PM
153

My last LVX would call me a "nerd" anytime I would passionately talk about a subject I have a lot of knowledge in. He was dumb as shit, so after finding FDS, it made sense lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 11:24 PM
8

Ugh... One time, some guy grabbed my ass at a crowded bar before speeding to the other side of the restaurant. I was with my (seemingly HV) boyfriend at the time. I told him, and even pointed the guy out. He told me, "I'll take care of this." So I sat with some friends at our table. Several minutes later, my boyfriend comes back. I asked him what happened. He says, "Oh yeah, he's from out of town." Then dropped it and started a new conversation with our friends. The guy was way bigger than him, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 11:17 PM
28

dOn'T kInKsHaMe!!!! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 11:08 PM
31

I love everything about this post. A couple years ago, I stopped posting nearly anything on social media. And it was almost a problem??? I got questioned on it by several people. 😕 Not to mention every single outing with old female friends was always an opportunity to spend an hour taking perfect photos for all their social media accounts. They would post things specifically to snark on someone or flex on someone else. Like, that is NOT empowering, sis. edit- a word
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 11:06 PM
13

Yep, the women sometimes even get bullied in to participating in their own dehumanization. 🙁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 11:02 PM
25

Same. Just because we're beautiful, smart, hard-working, etc. doesn't mean men will treat us well. That was a hard lesson for me to learn. Interesting about the make-up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 10:59 PM
9

That last point, so perfect. 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 10:56 PM
42

I literally can't read this because I know I'll get too angry... It blows my mind that ANYONE can look at this and agree. Actually, it doesn't, because men. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 09:40 PM
38

Exactly. Ugh, I cringe at past me. When I first started seeing my LVX, I bragged how, "When I meet a good man, I just go in to housewife mode!!" The next week, I cleaned his entire house while he was at work... 🤦🏻‍♀️ So glad I found FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 09:38 PM
21

Yesssss, you know they're foaming at the mouth reading this! 🤣 Knowing their shitty, little genes will never get passed on because THEY'RE NOT GOOD ENOUGH, SCROTES! 💅🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 09:25 PM
30

That's exactly what I've been thinking of doing! Getting to be strong, successful, positive female role-model for a girl stuck in that awful system. Makes my heart happy to think about. ☺️💕 edit- a word
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 09:18 PM
115

HAHAHA!!! Omg, I absolutely love this. How much you wanna bet it got complaints from men... 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 09:12 PM
11

Aw, I'm so sorry. ☹️ Sending all my support~ 💖 That's wonderful that you're still focusing on your creative outlet, when you can. Women are so incredibly resilient. Your script sounds really interesting! I bet tons of the women here, myself included, would love to read it if you ever feel comfortable sharing it. ☺️ I'm glad you love your kiddos, I'd guess the joy they bring is unlike any other feeling. And I also cannot imagine the mental/physical/emotional labor you go through.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 09:08 PM
28

Yas!! Love to see it! 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 09:01 PM
25

Agreed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 09:00 PM
45

I'll have to listen to that one! I also liked the other one from Malta another FDSer posted yesterday, Destiny- Je Me Casse. Lots of songs that made scrotes pissed, and I love it! 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 06:52 PM
47

mIsAnDy!!!1 🤬😤😭 /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 06:50 PM
74

The fact that this is what men want is depressing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 06:50 PM
63

I'm not proud to say that I have been that elephant. And she's stuck with him, I feel for her. 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 06:48 PM
12

Big hen energy!! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 06:47 PM
58

God, that's sad... 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 05:05 PM
105

OMG, CRYING!!! I feel you, sis! 😭🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 05:04 PM
14

Aw, thank you so much! 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 04:14 PM
43

I read somewhere, maybe here, a hypothesis that the reason so many women have depression and anxiety is because we are societally conditioned to suppress our anger. Good post. 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 03:59 PM
40

Amen! When I was younger, I was so close to being one of those women, and I thank myself every day for making the hard decision to have an abortion. It breaks my heart that some women aren't allowed to make that decision for themselves. 💔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 03:55 PM
7

My mom is like this. She literally never stops cleaning, even if everything's already spotless. I think it's leftover from when she was with my LVM father and did 100% of the housework (that he would always scrutinize 😒).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 03:52 PM
6

Yes!!! This is amazing, congratulations! 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 03:50 PM
44

Yeah, I don't see the problem. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 03:49 PM
73

Yeah, I've gone back and forth on the matter, but as I've gotten older, I've realized how critical my freedom is to me. I like kids, I work with them sometimes, and I love talking to them and listening to them be excited about things. But I don't think that's what I want my life to be about literally 100% of the time for years. 🤷🏻‍♀️ I read something on this sub that said something like, "You may regret not having children, but if you regret having children, that's something you can never get ou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 03:47 PM
49

Yeppp. I feel for the women, many of them were stealthed or baby-trapped by shitty men who promised to "make things work." 🙄 But still, when you involve an innocent child in to that abusive dynamic, then I can only have but so much pity tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 03:37 PM
86

I've noticed that too. Since graduating high school, all the people that should have never reproduced... reproduced. Some of the girls I was friends with had a real glow-up after having children, and have happy, healthy families. But most of them are addicts now, have had their kids taken away, or are with horribly abusive men. It's sad. 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 03:19 PM
58

I'm not surprised, but holy shit... 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 11:25 AM
98

This reminds me of a post on some other sub where young men were claiming that they were recieving targeted Viagra ads. This was before I found FDS, but in my head, I said, "Well duh, half of y'all are porn addicts and death grip your teeny dicks every day." The entire thread was these loser guys reassuring each other that they were all recieving these because of BIG, EVIL PHARMA trying to make money off of more men now!! 🥴 I saw one person with common sense that brought up my points- downvoted …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 11:23 AM
44

Men are beyond pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 01:03 AM
43

💯💯💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 08:25 PM
32

Haha, I do the same thing!! It's been very hard to unlearn these habits, online and in real life, but I'm not doing a damn thing to accommodate men anymore!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 08:22 PM
6

Woah now, might be a little too QuIrKy for me!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 08:05 PM
74

Wow, this is powerful. Please be kind to yourself. I am so proud of you, and I wish you all the best. 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 08:04 PM
40

OMG, RUN. BLOCK AND DELETE, SIS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 07:57 PM
66

Agreed! I know so many young women, myself included, that could benefit from an older female role model.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 07:53 PM
8

Wow, he brings Chinese take-out over on Fridays? 🙄 His gEnErOsItY knows no bounds!!! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 07:52 PM
5

Ugh, and that's such a lame-ass, unoriginal comment too. I swear I saw it 1000 times when I used OLD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 07:47 PM
6

Yep, if he's gonna waste my time and treat me less than I deserve, at least I won't have to look away from the hot one during sex! 🤣 For real though, I'm not ever sleeping with any man again until after thoroughly vetting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 07:43 PM
3

Same experiences here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 07:38 PM
11

Same here. I know I'm not ready to date, nor do I want to deal with 99.99% of men, but I'd kinda like to practice what I've learned from here. 🤷🏻‍♀️ Not gonna do it tho lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 07:04 PM
6

PREACH! 🙌🏻🙌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 06:53 PM
21

I'm so sorry you went through that. Men's lows know no bounds... Never again, sis! 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 06:52 PM
29

Imagine having so little desire to improve yourself of the lives of the men around you. I swear, this pathetic incompetence is such a turn-off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 05:44 PM
48

Wow, your point about why NVM/LVM hate on single moms is so succinct. 🤯 I'm so happy for you and your son! 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 04:57 PM
35

To quote a post I saw here, many moons ago: BIG PP FEEL GOOD, DIE MAD! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 04:40 PM
42

Same here!! Y'all are the best! 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 04:37 PM
15

😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 01:46 PM
51

It's a HARD cope lmao. Dad bods are gross, go to the gym, scrotes! And Idk, maybe eat a vegetable for once in your life. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 01:41 PM
84

Amen. Wasted most of my 20s on this. Feels bad. 😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 01:35 PM
42

Agreed. It's absolutely heartbreaking. 💔 It's a scam to financially and socially cripple young women so they're forced to be reliant on a piece-of-shit man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 02:23 AM
51

Mmmm, that strong jawline and thick, dark hair! 🤤 The scrotes lurking could NEVER!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 02:21 AM
47

Predators, exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 02:10 AM
3

That's amazing; I adore trivia like this! Thank you for that cool info. I can't wait to rent it to watch- I may have to buy it tbh. 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 02:01 AM
1

Thank you so much! Every day, I feel more proud of myself for walking away, and I'm endlessly grateful for this sub and community of women! 🍾
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 01:59 AM
1

¡Gracias, mi hermana! Lo siento, pero no estudié español por algunos años. 😅 Quiero aprender más. 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 01:49 AM
3

That book blew me away. I just read it, nearing the end of my 20s. I've heard that mini-series is good, and I think I've seen it at my library. I'm gonna watch it! 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 07:52 PM
2

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 THIS. Literally saving this comment to remind myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 07:30 PM
10

What a beautiful story! 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 07:08 PM
9

Wowww, this is a real specimen of a man. 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 06:53 PM
15

Amen. Male "body image" issues are from OTHER MEN. 💅🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 06:46 PM
7

17 now!! 🤣 Die mad, scrotes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 06:21 PM
63

This!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 06:14 PM
5

Great job!! 😄 What a pig.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 05:57 PM
1

And no receding hairline in sight. 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 05:53 PM
2

Yaaaaas, omg, I love long hair!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 05:53 PM
3

I like them tall, dark, and handsome! 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 05:52 PM
1

Exactly, sis! 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 05:35 PM
9

That is so disturbingly disgusting. How men are so incapable of enough self-reflection to realize how horrible they are is beyond me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 11:11 PM
135

Hahahahahaha, DIE MAD, SCROTE! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 11:04 PM
119

Yep. How dare she not become a mommybangmaid-slave or give up her need for her own space. /s 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 10:59 PM
87

Omg, I saw a post earlier today that had men crying over being called a babysitter in it. I had to laugh. Maybe if men were not collectively USELESS as fathers, then you wouldn't be having this "issue." Maybe, instead of making some snarky remark to the woman who asked, you started holding fellow men accountable, then you wouldn't have to deal with this horrible atrocity. Men need to shut the fuck up. Like seriously, for once. They can't handle a single ounce of what women deal with from the tim…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 10:56 PM
5

Because it's true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 06:18 PM
47

Yeppp, black and white thinking of a small child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 03:06 PM
95

All truth here. 👏🏻 In the new podcast episode, someone mentioned that we feel for these women because we know we could be these women. It's all terribly sad, and the privileged 0.1% of creators that make all the money are acting as Judas goats leading more women in to that toxic, degrading lifestyle. I can't believe men would say that older women are jealous of child-brides. That's heartbreaking. It really goes to show that many men truly believe that women are subhuman and need a man to be comp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 02:19 PM
21

Yes! Good for you. 🍾 Seconded on the no-uglies rule! I dated down for way too long thinking that they'd be "appreciative" and try extra hard! 🥴 Never again!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 02:09 PM
20

Loved that one!!! 🎉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 02:03 PM
4

Hah! I can only imagine... 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:44 PM
3

Thank you! I'll definitely look for it on my next bookstore trip! 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:43 PM
7

No, I haven't! Would you recommend it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:04 PM
11

Exactly. Giving men a second chance has NEVER worked out for me. I won't do it again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:03 PM
13

I'm glad you blocked him! You deserve so much better than that. ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 12:59 PM
15

Good for you. 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 12:43 PM
24

Bye then, you won't be missed~ 👋🏻😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 12:39 PM
12

That's something I had never thought about. Yeah, seems kinda sketch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 12:16 PM
38

Lmao at the 40+ year old men on dating apps that, "Want kids someday." Bruh, it's someday NOW. Oh well, at least their shitty genes won't get passed on. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 12:15 PM
7

Yeah, I don't get it. So many men have that awkward receding hairline they try to ignore with THAT EXACT hair style, and like, bro... We can still see it. 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 12:11 PM
5

LIKE ASHTRAYS! 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 12:08 PM
60

I think part of the curse of liberal feminism trying to appeal to men so hard is that it's created this false narrative that both men and women have suffered equally under patriarchal society. So now we have all this "wHaaT aBoUt mEnZ??? 😰😢😭" trying to compete with the very real issues of women's systemic disenfranchisement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 12:07 PM
51

The only way THEY don't have to put in any of the hard work. How convenient. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 12:04 PM
83

YouTube is gross and allows way too much misogynistic trash to proliferate on their site. Not to mention how it streamlines men in to conspiracy and redpill rhetoric within 5 "related videos."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 12:03 PM
12

Love to see it. We don't date broke men, and we're not sorry!!! 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 12:00 PM
23

Lord knows that's enough to tRiGgEr the snowflakes. ❄️🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 11:59 AM
5

It's okay, sis. I did the same thing. The important thing is that we DTMFA! 🚮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 11:57 AM
6

I forgot about that book! I remember in high school a couple guys in my circle got in to him. Guess where they all ended up? 😅 Losers then, losers now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 11:56 AM
11

A quilt of red flags, if you will. 🚩🚩🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 11:54 AM
6

Omg, your last sentence has me DYING. 💯😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 11:52 AM
11

But, jobs provide women WITH freedom...? Financial freedom, the freedom to provide for themselves and escape bad marriages. I really can't with this garbage. 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:51 AM
2

Ugh, this. Their case is special and somehow not a blatant attempt at erasure. To each their own, but at least own up to it. 😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 10:14 PM
4

Pure truth here. 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 10:11 PM
14

Wow, glad he's an ex. What a loser. It really goes to show that it's not "just a name." Men have a vested interest in reducing women's autonomy and individuality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:58 PM
3

Amen. It took me way too long to get past that societal brainwashing, and I still catch myself thinking of my future with a partner occasionally. But the best thing I can do is live my life for myself, and myself alone! It's really evaporated a lot of stress I had! My hair and skin are healthier, I'm developing hobbies further, I'm taking care of my body much better than I ever have. It's so freeing! 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:48 PM
4

I'm doing my part~ 💪🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:45 PM
5

Agreed, small dick jokes are great! 🍤🤏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:37 PM
39

Yes! I started lurking about 50,000 members ago. Every day, that number keeps skyrocketing! It's so exciting, and it's making low-value, low-effort men nervous. It warms my heart thinking of all the loser men who got DUMPED because of this sub. 😍 No matter what garbage propaganda scrotes try to circulate about us, more and more women are coming here and realizing their worth! Get ready to die mad and alone, scrotes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:33 PM
20

Preach!! 🙌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 08:52 PM
10

Ugh, seriously. Reading those comments took a year off my life, I think... The number of men claiming to be Josh. Ew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 08:48 PM
4

Right? Throw the WHOLE man away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 08:43 PM
3

Yeah, I'm pretty sure I'm childfree, but the only time I ventured in to that sub, I got grossed out...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 08:39 PM
17

You can do it! 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 08:37 PM
12

Yaaaaas, queen!!!! 🎉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 08:37 PM
22

Omg, STOP TRYING TO BE A MISTRESS! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 08:35 PM
12

I know, it's so satisfying blocking them. They're so pathetically desperate for a crumb of women's attention, just the thought of them not getting it gives me schadenfreude. 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 08:35 PM
86

I cringe thinking about the literal years I have wasted trying to help men change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 08:31 PM
8

It's not our fault most of y'all's dicks is trash! 🚮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 07:14 PM
3

Yeah, he was recently divorced, and I think my ability to walk away so easily really threw him for a loop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 07:06 PM
1

Ayyyye~ 👉🏻👉🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 07:05 PM
2

Amazing, thanks for the link. The body shop... 🤣 Tess is shielding herself from valid criticism using protected minorites. It's silencing and speaking over those minorities in the same breath. Ngl, when she first got popular, I liked the fact that she triggered so many male snowflakes, but I never looked in to anything else about her. I think Michelle did a great job pointing out a lot of the problematic issues with performative body-positivty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 07:04 PM
58

My very first gym I joined in high school was an all women's gym. I miss that place so much. They've since shut down, no idea why. ☹️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 10:05 PM
72

Are you freaking serious?! That's disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 10:04 PM
65

Exactly! 💯💯 I quit my old gym and just started working out at home (pre-pandemic) because the men were so gross and creepy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 10:03 PM
3

Haha, thank you so much!! Apparently emojis are taboo on Peddit, and to that I say 👯‍♀️✨🖕🏻~
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 09:37 PM
15

Lord... 😬 The fact that she's even still relevant is surprising to me, but that's just gross. It's belittling to the very real issues of systemic discrimination prevalent everywhere. 😒 Thanks for the update!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 09:36 PM
40

Sis, I was doing the exact same thing in my last relationship! Lost 15 pounds since I dumped him. 💪🏻 Good for us getting out of that!! ✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 08:50 PM
30

Great advice! I do like to try to impart a little FDS wisdom to younger girls, but I don't expect them to always get it. I know I was a gargantuan pickme in grade school... 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 08:48 PM
45

Omg, I remember the scrotes foaming at the mouth over Tess Holliday. I forgot she existed. I agree with you entirely. Taking care of our physical bodies is critical, but for some women, that comes with a TON of trauma to work through. It's disgusting what patriarchal society does to women's sense of comfort in their own damn bodies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 08:43 PM
13

Good point, thank you! 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 06:50 PM
64

Ugh, this is so sad. If a guy doesn't make a peep about wanting to be married within six months, I'm out. That's a new rule for me, any thoughts?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 06:27 PM
7

Hah, the only joke here is you, broke scrotes! 🚮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 06:21 PM
10

Exactly! The effort will never get better, only worse. If a guy thinks he can score a mommy-bangmaid for a WalMart ring and the bare minimum paperwork fees, then what makes them think he is EVER going to value her??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 06:20 PM
11

Wow, that's so sad. I used to be kinda like that. When I was younger, I thought courthouse weddings were a great idea. 😬 I'm so thankful I didn't get married to any of the scrotes I dated then. Now, I want a beautiful wedding, because I know I deserve it! 💍💒👰🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 06:19 PM
50

Oh, absolutely. A man like that isn't keeping his disgusting fetishes to himself. Poor girl...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 05:26 PM
75

That guy sounds like a dumpster fire filled with year old grease. 🚮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 05:20 PM
31

I'm sorry, it's so disheartening to have that happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 05:19 PM
7

I understand exactly how you feel. I know we can get there!! 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 05:16 PM
36

Hey, same here! ☺️ My periods of change have been HARD and came from very bad places. But because of that, I will not settle for someone who is fine with stagnation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 05:10 PM
14

THIS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 05:04 PM
92

Yikes. That last paragraph was so devoid of any shred of empathy or compassion. Just say you're broke, dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 05:00 PM
1

Go outside, scrotes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 04:58 PM
3

Yikes, I had noticed that when I did OLD. Great point about that being an automatic boundary violation! No low is too low for scrotes. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 04:57 PM
5

Thank you for the advice! I am NEVER dating an unattractive man again. 🙅🏻‍♀️ They ruined it for themselves!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 04:56 PM
2

Thank you!! This sub is the best. 🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 04:55 PM
1

Yas! 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 04:54 PM
41

I am 100% pro-ghosting, pro-block and delete. One guy I ghosted (didn't block, pre-FDS) because he was... old 😅 and it was just a casual thing. Y'all, this man did NOT handle it well. I got walls of text. Phone calls. He showed up at my work with gifts and cards. The worst was when I biked past him on a popular public trail a month later while he was walking his dog. This man yelled and chased me down. Ugh. Sorry, not exactly what you were asking for. Like I said, block and delete is the best wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 04:53 PM
9

Omg, the straw! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 04:44 PM
30

Wow, good for you. What an asshole. 😤 I had an ex try to drag my name through the mud after he felt I wasn't sad enough that we broke up. Men just can't deal when women are a-okay without them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 04:43 PM
52

Um, Idk about you, but I love gaining a stalker for a martini. /s 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 04:40 PM
31

Interesting. The only guy I knew into that stuff was a total fake narcissist as well. Never connected those dots... 🤔 I find astrology fun to read about, and I like to do little rituals, but the number of men who foam at the mouth over women just freaking enjoying themselves is ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 04:39 PM
1

Thank you! 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 04:23 PM
8

Amen!!! 🙌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 03:45 AM
50

Ugh, growing up in that era gave me such awful eating disorders... I really feel for all the girls who have to see the current modern beauty standards plastered all over social media now as well. 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 03:43 AM
16

You are a savage! 🤣👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 03:41 AM
23

Ooh, drop your fav recipe if you get a chance! 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 03:38 AM
66

I'm sorry you went through that. I only dated a couple porn-sick losers, and that itself took a huge toll. More awareness really needs to be brought to the effect porn has on relationships. It will literally destroy any sense of love and intimacy, and a large percent of men nowadays have this issue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 03:37 AM
24

Yes, I've noticed that too! All three women are respectful and let one another speak- something far too uncommon in conversations with men. It's just so cool hearing 3 awesome, intelligent women go OFF! My Wednesdays always have a silver lining now. ☺️ Thank you so much!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 02:56 AM
11

That's amazing, great job!! 😄 What that speaker said was powerful. Going through these hard, transformative changes are what will prepare us for a future where we are able to make the most out of all situations. I'm glad you had a wonderful weekend. 🌟
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 02:47 AM
45

It feels degrading bc it is degrading, imo. Look at the amount of effort that women- the CHOOSERS, go through for a nice picture and profile vs. the garbage that scrotes throw up there. Not trying to shame anyone who uses OLD, I did for years. It just seems so gross how these companies are making money off of exploiting women (as always). 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 02:36 AM
5

🤣🤣🤣 Omg, you're right!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 02:30 AM
6

Wonderfully said, thank you so much for your thoughtful response! 💖 This experience has definitely been the nail in the coffin for me dating older men. 💀 Funny thing is, I was his first relationship in a years. 🤔 3 years sounds like great advice, and if I'm ever ready and willing to date again, that is what I'm going to stick with! Y'all are the best! 💫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 02:28 AM
6

SCROTES BROKE! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 02:22 AM
8

I can't see the emoji, but thank you anyways! 🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 12:13 AM
10

Thank you!! Now it's time to focus on leveling up! ⬆️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 12:12 AM
20

Thank you so much, it means a lot coming from you all! Absolutely won't happen again, old scrotes are no fun, dump him #2021~ 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 12:11 AM
8

Thank you!! I'm trying to get there, and this sub has made all the difference. ✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 12:09 AM
7

Aw, thank you!! 🎉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 12:09 AM
16

Lmao, thank you! Yeah, I'm only dating in my age bracket now! 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 12:09 AM
7

Thank you! 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 12:08 AM
35

Yeah, it's gross. He knew he had the complete upper hand career-wise, stability-wise, and financially. He hadn't dated in years, I probably seemed like easy pickings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 12:08 AM
6

Thank you!! 💫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 09:54 PM
13

Haha, he did not, but I can only imagine the added stress in that situation. 😱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 09:54 PM
9

Thank you!! 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 09:53 PM
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I'm embarrassed to admit, but when we first met, I thought it was a sign that I was "chosen" for being so mature. He had already begun gaslighting and manipulating, I'm so thankful I found this sub and started questioning it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 09:53 PM
14

Thank you!! 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 09:50 PM
46

Thank you!! 💖 It's amazing how women can recognize this and do the right thing by walking away, but scrotes just SPRINT straight towards it. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 09:50 PM
20

Right? Just look away from the screen, bro. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 06:29 PM
28

Never thought of that, well put!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 06:10 PM
107

Yeah, I've always thought I may like fostering. No offence to any other women's choices here. My grandparents fostered kids from little babies to teenagers, and looking through their old photo albums, it's so clear the incredible impact that had on those children's lives. Considering men (🤢), I don't think I'll choose to have children. But being a strong, supportive, positive, female influence in a child's life definitely appeals to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 06:08 PM
8

Right? Men with the money and the correct mindset love to pull out their wallet for you! And something I wish younger me knew: These men aren't all that rare. They may have other deal-breaking issues, but a man paying on dates and buying thoughtful gifts is the bare minimum. So these scrotes crying about "gold-diggers" better find something else to harp on women for, bc we're not buying it anymore. 😜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 05:33 PM
5

Why's that, if you don't mind me asking? I dated one guy who was in the peace corps, and he was an absolute narc piece of work. I didn't realize that may be a trend. 🧐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 05:17 PM
8

No lie, these were two of the main things I tried to cOmMuNiCaTe about with my LVX before finding this sub and dumping his ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 05:12 PM
32

Omg, I got secondhand embarrassment just reading that, but it was also a hilarious thing to imagine. So long, piggy! 🐷🤡👋🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 05:04 PM
46

Then perish. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 03:46 PM
67

I'm thankful she's getting advice to leave. That is truly, pathetically, low. The number of men who think it's acceptable to have sex with a woman, even if she doesn't want to, is mind-blowing. They don't deserve to have access to any woman. Ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 03:44 PM
10

This is poetry! 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 12:53 PM
8

It really says something about the vast majority of Peddit users. Women supporting women, with NO male influence, is akin to some of the worst things humanity has to offer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 12:42 PM
9

Exactly. I believe that there's something here that will deeply resonate with most women. It's only a matter of time, scrotes! 👋🏻😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 12:40 PM
27

Can they hurry it up?? The sooner all the gross scrotes leave me alone, the better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 12:16 PM
16

A woman with standards??? 😱 MISANDRY!! 🤬 /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 11:49 AM
40

You're not wrong. 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 11:44 AM
29

It's not attractive, plain and simple. And it's so much easier for men to lose weight and build muscle! There's no excuse. Dad bods are gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 02:50 AM
8

Omg, you just described my ex! His hands were the same size as mine, and although I have bigger hands, he was over 6'! And they were so soft. It was weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 02:49 AM
31

I can't wait to be there! Congrats to you and your fulfilling freedom! 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 02:38 AM
17

Ugh, that's sick, and I wish I could say I was surprised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 02:36 AM
31

Karma, indeed. Dated a couple guys like this. Didn't realize it was a defect caused by porn until years later. Looking back, they were both severely addicted to porn and had extremely violent, degrading kinks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 02:34 AM
23

Damn, for a second, I thought my LVX maybe made a Reddit account. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 01:13 AM
19

Correct me if I'm wrong, but if the OP passed away, who would be responsible for the children? If it's the loser guy who ghosted her, then the new GF absolutely needs to know about this. Would that be a possibility? Either way she did the right thing, 100%. If a guy ever lied to me about having children, whether or not he paid child support, I would drop him in less than an instant. What a disgusting scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 01:09 AM
56

Right? I used to be way too nice to men who were insecure in their penis size. Now I know it's only because they've watched too much porn. I'll laugh a dude out the door next time. 👋🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 01:04 AM
46

Their poor, little snowflake feelings. ❄️🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 01:02 AM
6

Nope, never again! Ugly, small dicked, and broke scrotes can die mad. 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 12:59 AM
15

"Sahara of pussy," omfg, stop. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 11:57 PM
7

Same experience here. Funny how so many of us have had the exact same thing happen, but we're still "unreasonable". 🙄 edit- a word
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 11:55 PM
3

Damn, you're right... 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 11:53 PM
7

Wow, brava. Those phrases always rubbed me the wrong way, and you articulated it perfectly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 11:52 PM
12

I'd love to see it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 07:31 PM
40

Omg!! What is it with grown-ass men who still eat like 4 year olds? It's so pathetic. As someone with a restricted diet, nothing turns me off more. 🚮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 07:29 PM
53

You put it so well, and it's a side of this I never even thought about. 🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 07:27 PM
15

Wow, what a DrEaM~ 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 07:25 PM
74

Preach!! Just say you're broke and move on. 🙌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 07:24 PM
127

Well said. Women aren't allowed to have standards in their eyes. That's mIsAnDrY!!!! edit- punctuation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 07:23 PM
11

The cherry on top! 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 07:19 PM
6

Omg, I'm crying... 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 07:17 PM
16

It was on one of the MRA subs on a post about how women calling men creepy is JuSt As BaD as men calling women sluts... 🤡 edit: a word
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 07:17 PM
61

"I also love guys with small dicks, and I don't date men over 5'7"!!!" 🎪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 07:15 PM
29

Girl, same. At least we learned!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 07:14 PM
48

I was one of them for a while... I had been brainwashed to think they'd consider themselves lucky and treat me wonderfully. 🥲
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 07:14 PM
41

Lord, I didn't even think of that. I guess these guys have literally nothing better to do with their time. 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 07:13 PM
29

This, expect not jk. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 07:12 PM
18

Amen. That woman was me. Thanks to this sub, I'm now leveling up by myself and for myself!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 02:02 AM
12

I'm sorry you're going through this. A man who has no qualms lying to your face that way is not going to be open to honest communication, no matter how hard you try. I think it's best to walk away. Sending you strength. 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 01:33 AM
94

Great list! If I may, I'd add: "FDS is sex-negative." FDS is more sex-positive than any libfem rhetoric. FDS preaches to only have sex when you are safe, enthusiastically consenting, and with a committed* partner who respects you. A partner who respects you will not need to hurt or degrade you during sex. And porn-use distorts what should be a beautiful thing. I'm sorry if I'm misrepresenting anything, I'm new to posting. But I think this was one of the more difficult things to understand when I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 01:11 AM
32

Exactly! Males should have to work hard to keep a mate. It's what nature intends. Just BiOlOgY~ 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 12:48 AM
35

Well put! Women are the choosers. Passing on ones genes is NOT a right. If passing on their genes is so important, then men need to step up. 💁🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 12:47 AM
49

Congratulations!!!! 🍾🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 12:19 AM
27

Omg, that's terrifying, I'm so sorry. I've always checked behind curtains/in closets just for my own peace of mind, but I guess now I have another reason. 🙁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 12:14 AM
299

Precisely. You're only going to attract emotionally distant, mentally unsound, and potentially narcissistic or abusive men. No thank you. 🚮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 12:09 AM
87

Amazing to me how any of this is controversial. In order to have healthy, happy, attractive children, women should have children with men who are healthy, happy, successful, and attractive. Like, that's the point of choosing a mate to have children with. In the animal kingdom, only the best of males get to have their genes carried on. Women are allowed to have choice, and women SHOULD be hyper critical of a potential partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 12:07 AM
45

Wow, congratulations!! I'm so sorry that you were put through that, but you made the right choice! I'm sure it wasn't easy, but it's going to be so worth it. 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 09:55 PM
129

It's wild to me that as women, these are things we all do. Lock the doors to your car the second you're inside, check backseats, keep an eye out behind you, mentally note men in public (what they're wearing, height, hair color, etc.), lie about living alone, park only in well-lit areas, send someone your Uber ride info, and on and on. These are things men don't even have to think about. How in the world they can even lie to themselves enough to believe they're the ones oppressed is beyond me. I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 09:53 PM
82

Right?? I feel lucky that I never tied myself down to all the scrotes of past, even though I've been proposed to multiple times. 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 08:13 PM
41

Omg, the racist comments. My last ex's family (white) were like this. It was the most awkward thing, his mom would just blurt out some offensive shit while we all were sitting down at the dinner table. It was mortifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 03:27 PM
18

No lies here. 🙌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 03:25 PM
48

"peepee smol but is not my fault" I spat out my drink, omg... 🤣 I dated a guy like this in high school, ugh. Always going on about it. It's so insufferable. Women deal with so many body image issues, silently. Men get critiqued on one thing and cannot handle it. 🙄 LoGiCaL gEnDeR, right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 02:41 PM
26

This is exactly it! If they're so convinced men created everything (they didn't), then how does that belief not translate on to societal structures that have been dominated by men for centuries?? Hmm??? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 02:28 PM
41

Ugh, the social media adds. I don't even use social media outside of this, but have left my accounts up. The number of thumb-looking, dusty, white dudes that try to add me every week for just a CRUMB of attention... It's gross. Most of them are, like you said, hitting the wall and look awful compared to the women in our cohort. Not doing a thing in their lives besides sitting on Facebook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 02:21 PM
34

Agreed. 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 02:29 AM
6

Omg, this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 11:55 PM
28

HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 10:16 PM
28

Exactly! Treating a human being (who probably does way more for you than you've ever done for her) like an appliance. It's disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 07:41 PM
21

HAH!! Omg, sometimes I almost want to allow messages, but the thought of them screeching in to the void is also satisfying. 😂🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 07:40 PM
58

Does she cut the crusts off his sandwich too? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 07:22 PM
44

Amen. I can't even bring myself to look at that awful sub, because I know that's the answer to 99% of the scrotes whining.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 07:21 PM
32

Good! Full head of hair > receding hairline, it's the truth! 🙌🏻 Die mad. 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 07:20 PM
6

Wow, I might actually have to check that show out tbh... 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 06:34 PM
57

That full head of hair!! 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 06:29 PM
124

Tell me you're insecure in your masculinity without telling me you're insecure in your masculinity. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 06:28 PM
160

Right?! I always see scrotes on Peddit snarking on women with long, fake nails, "hOw Do U wIpE uR aSs WiTh tHoSe?!22?" Like, you can't even wipe your ass properly with your short, grimy nails- fuck off. 🤬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 12:09 AM
93

Melted candle ass!!! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 12:06 AM
107

Lord, there was already a post about a pee couch and now the shit couch. Men are animals. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 12:06 AM
24

Amen! This sub is helping me turn my life around and learn to truly love myself! I'm so thankful for it. 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 12:02 AM
6

Gave you my free award, bc YES! Thank you for saying all this. That used to be me, but NEVER again. I'm attractive, and I deserve to be with someone who I am attracted to! Besides, the old, ugly, balding, out of shape dudes I gave the benefit of the doubt to were never worth it. Oh, and the sex sucked! 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 08:36 PM
62

I explained this to a coworker the other day. She's younger, but I think it got some gears turning. The risk of finding out your partner is NV/LV too late is just too damn high. No disrespect meant to the women who can/have to handle it, but the older I get, the more I realize it's just not for me. Omg, and the sulking! What is it with GROWN men pouting and whining like a CHILD?! edit- a word*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:56 PM
25

I am so sorry that happened to you. Disgusting how these LVM/NVM have no qualms wasting a woman's time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:47 PM
46

HAH! Dusty ass. Can't believe I ever thought age-gap relationships were acceptable... 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:43 PM
11

That is so disappointing to hear. There's a GOOD reason why women's only shelters exist! Ugh...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:38 PM
38

Agreed! I choose myself! I saw my mom go through the same scenario, and looking back, it's so heartbreaking. Women deserve better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:28 PM
28

The amount of unpaid, unappreciated domestic labor women perform to keep our homes and society running is unbelievable. Many don't even have a choice and will get blamed for not "taking time to themselves" or when they inevitably break and "explode."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 02:42 PM
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