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1

Um, wow. Okay. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 05:41 AM
5

WTF did I just read!? Who talks about "ending the relationship" so casually because he doesn't want to do his own laundry?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 02:20 AM
2

You're a good friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 05:26 AM
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That dissonance between porn stars (or strippers, or what have you) being good enough to jack off to or fuck but not good enough to date or marry has always annoyed me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 11:08 PM
8

If he was actually ashamed of himself and had any self-awareness he would know better than to message you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 11:05 PM
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They chase women they have nothing in common with and then will put them down for whatever hobbies and interests they DO have while acting superior about their video game and porn addictions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 11:01 PM
11

I kept stumbling over "missing a mating opportunity." 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 10:56 PM
111

🙌 Damn, I wish I could walk in heels that high! 👠
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 02:55 AM
26

You've suffered a lot of loss. I'm so sorry. Thank you for sharing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 03:20 PM
18

This is where I'm at right now. It is so hard for me not to fall back into that trying to please and impress people role. But I keep pushing ahead!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 04:36 AM
6

💯 accurate!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 04:34 AM
14

Ugh, gross. But yup, as soon as you said it, that made sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 08:23 PM
20

Yes, why is this!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 08:14 PM
17

"Oh, it must referencing something before my time." This is a brilliant response!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 08:13 PM
1

Always, always, always!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 06:59 AM
23

Couldn't agree more!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 06:56 AM
66

I have known people who resorted to "street justice" and firmly believe sometimes it is the only way that makes sense. That she went to prison is just wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 06:34 AM
20

I feel like some of these guys aren't being honest about their own behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 06:47 AM
13

That can not be real. She can't come in the room when he's "playing" with his DOLLY? But she's questioning if she's overreacting or a prude? WTF? What possible "good" quality could he have that outweighs THIS nonsense?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 10:04 AM
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They would probably like it as long as it was a "hot" lady doc who probed then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 09:58 AM
10

Hip bones sticking out but a "toned" ass. Get fucked, dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 09:30 AM
15

The nicest guy I ever dated always made sure to wish his sister a happy mother's day. I always thought that was so sweet. ETA: Their own mother was deceased.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 03:10 PM
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Where did this happen?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 03:01 PM
9

Yup, I've noticed this too. I used to love true crime stuff but can't stomach it now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 08:30 AM
9

Yes! I listen to a lot of creepy pasta stories. It's always young girls bring harassed by gross old men and no one coming to their aid. Half the time the person it happened to can't even call it what it was-- harassment, assault, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 08:29 AM
3

Oh yes, that one made me sick. All the old, white male legislators justifying why it was perfectly okay for teenagers to marry grown men. Made me so angry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 07:57 AM
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Honestly, I think this is so amazing that you're able to see this behavior in yourself, pin point it and articulate it. Recognizing pick me behavior in ourselves is the first step to fixing it. This was a huge learning moment for you and it sounds like you're making progress!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 04:39 AM
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💯 agree!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 10:33 AM
7

Same!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 03:41 AM
17

Thank you for this advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 07:53 AM
9

I'm with you. I still have trouble reacting without a nervous giggle or some bullshit when I'm approached by jerks like this. I'm working on it, but it's hard for me. I'm so sorry you had to deal with that. Walking up to a stranger and complementing their body is in no way an acceptable thing to do. It's just not. It's rude and creepy beyond belief. He knew exactly what he was doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 07:51 AM
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It's the look at him inquisitively part that gets me. Like, she needs to get out and talk to other people more and stop being so precious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 12:17 PM
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Dear God. The bar is in hell. They think they are God's gift for folding laundry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 12:14 PM
7

Why was the post removed???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 06:16 AM
13

Thank you for this. I've been concentrating on #4 really hard this year!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:50 AM
1

I can respect that. It's more the people who guzzle alcohol to "get wasted" all the time who always baffled me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:48 AM
28

This was my mother. She had no problem using me to get a man's attention when I was a kid. She taught me the only thing that mattered was my looks and a man's approval. It led me to being molested by her boyfriends then her blaming me for trying to "steal" her boyfriends. I ran away at a young age. Had a string of abusive relationships. The last man almost killed me. Besides my mother, I had a number of "friends" in my life who fed into my need for male acceptance because they did too. I had (fe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 05:40 AM
5

That is several kinds of pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:06 PM
3

Dear God, I'm having 3rd hand cringe over here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 08:30 AM
4

I don't know what to say. I'm absolutely enraged. What kind of sickos is that woman raising? I'm so sorry you and your daughter are dealing with this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 07:25 AM
5

👀 I...want to believe this is fake but it's probably true. What the everloving fuck!? I feel bad because maybe he grew up poor and this is a carryover from a deprived childhood? Buts it's weird as hell and I don't see how you reach a normal compromise with this guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 06:35 PM
15

I've never ever seen that idea floated here. Maybe she's confused with one of the troll groups?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:10 AM
74

Maybe this will be the wakeup call men need to finally take climate change seriously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:06 AM
5

I've been dealing with attention from men like that since I was 11 or 12. It felt more like a curse than privilege. It's so gross the way some men behave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 08:05 AM
144

He says their sex life is fine. I wonder what she would say?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 01:54 AM
2

I swear to God, I've read that post before. I wonder if he sends it to lots of women. Just....what the actual fuck!?! Who word vomits so much personal (and frankly, boring) information on a stranger? Why would he think anyone would want to read that garbage who isn't getting paid to be his therapist!? The absolute audacity!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:14 PM
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I've never understood why society is so obsessed with alcohol. (USA here.) I'll drink wine occasionally if I'm in the mood, but I'm usually not and I don't get why this always seems so shocking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:06 PM
2

This made me laugh for an absurdly long time. Thank you! 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 09:30 AM
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Yes, this was my first thought.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 07:34 AM
17

Thank you for sharing! I remain firm in my desire to avoid OLD now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 07:25 AM
20

Yup! I hate hon, honey, or any of that b.s. Instant red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 07:23 AM
11

What the actual fuck!? Who says this to someone within minutes of "meeting" them? Is normal conversation just not a thing any more!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 07:20 AM
1

100% true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:19 AM
1

The irony that he's only 5'10"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 06:24 PM
40

Personally, I like to cuddle in the shower after. Soap each other up playfully or whatever. Not that I think sex is dirty, but I just want to clean up. Is that bad?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 06:20 PM
16

After January 6th, I think it's safe to say a lot of them hate the government too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 12:24 PM
9

Dear God, this is like reading my worst nightmare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 03:12 PM
10

Wait, what happened to My Little Pony!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 12:11 AM
1

Spot on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 12:06 AM
21

This is an excellent point. I don't think these incels realize how much they tell on themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 06:57 PM
3

What an absolute trash comment no one asked him for. As if looks and status are the only things in the world that matter. F that guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 06:52 PM
4

I'm so sorry you're dealing with this! Qcumbers are psychotic and need to be hospitalized.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 08:21 AM
3

Thank you so much!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 08:39 AM
5

TIL Lysol????? 👀 Lysol is a serious disenfectant. Why the fuck would anyone douche with it? What the hell did I just read???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 09:07 AM
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Same. It has been a sobering shift in mindset.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 08:58 AM
3

Yes!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 08:55 AM
37

This is amazing. Thank you. This describes my family perfectly. My mother would put up with literally anything (even her boyfriends abusing me) to keep some low value man in her house and life. A belief and attitude she got from her mother. They passed it on to me and for years I put up with shit that now makes me cringe. It took almost bring killed by a guy I was involved with to finally get it through my thick skull that I was worth more and to start bettering myself. I just wish I had learned…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 05:54 PM
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Men who give this advice are missing the bigger picture: no one cares about their opinion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 03:05 PM
15

That's actually really cool to know you had a good experience there!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 09:40 AM
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Reminds me of my cousin's husband who thinks Hooters is the epitome of high class cuisine. He delights in taking the whole family there for the "chicken wings." They have two daughters. The whole thing is gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 09:37 AM
9

Congratulations! That is good news. No regrets!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 02:44 PM
15

I don't understand what that last line is supposed to mean.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 12:59 PM
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My abusive ex went on to abuse the wrong woman after me. Her brothers took him for a "walk" to have a "chat" and he was never heard from again. I've never been able to call up any other emotion other than relief over it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 09:02 PM
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I highly doubt this is the only red flag this guy has flown over the years. But holy frick what a psycho. You know what else works? A bucket of water will break up a cat fight. So will getting your cat neutered (but I'm guessing this is the kind of scrote who thinks it emasculates him to get his make animals fixed.) Also, not leaving your cat outside all the time. What's next? He pumps a pellet or two in the kids' asses when they won't settle down?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 08:57 PM
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I'm ashamed to admit I used to think this was the height of enlightened thinking for a "good, understanding girlfriend." I thought women who complained about this were insecure nags. I really wish I had known better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 08:24 PM
5

I love this so much. My mom's answer to me crying that it hurt to brush my hair was to cut it all off. I never thought about how that message stuck with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 08:00 PM
9

Yes. Thank you so much for this. I am still trying to learn and forgive myself for my past.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 06:39 AM
6

This is scary to read and brought back a lot of memories. I thought I was into erotic asphyxiation I was a teenager. I experimented with a boyfriend and we read all this stuff together. I enjoyed the lightheadedness and release of endorphins. He knew the spots to press and not to crush my windpipe. It was fun although probably not as safe as I thought at the time. In my early 20s I made the mistake of telling another guy I was seeing and he started to choke me unconscious when we had sex. He tol…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 06:30 AM
7

Ouch! This describes my cousin's douchy husband to a T. I didn't realize there were more out there like him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 07:21 PM
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I really needed to read this. I wish I had understood this years ago. Men have been commenting on my looks or trying to pick me up since I was 12 and I thought that made me special. I wasted so much of my teens/ early 20s chasing male attention and validation. Debasing myself in an attempt to get a guy to "pick me." Competing with other women for a man's attention instead of supporting women and asking, "why the fuck are we doing this?" All it did was get me used and discarded. It makes me so sa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 07:13 PM
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