| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 23 | my red flagsHow about if you're unsure or questioning it, run lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/22 01:10 PM |
| 15 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 59 - 40 Years a NEET: Reflections of a Stay-At-Home SonLilith, can you talk to the team about updating the handbook? A lot of the posts have been deleted | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/22 12:26 PM |
| 56 | Abortion starting to be banned in many states. No exceptions.What websites can we get pills from? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/22 07:50 PM |
| 10 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 58 - The Great SlapGate Debate: Is Male Violence Ever The Answer?Omg yes exactly. I hope they see our complaints and can improve on things. I want strategies and there haven't been very many episodes on it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/22 12:02 PM |
| 7 | OLD advice: When things move onto the texting stage, get his number before you give away yours.Which search websites do you like using? Great advice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/22 11:50 AM |
| 28 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 58 - The Great SlapGate Debate: Is Male Violence Ever The Answer?Completely agree. She goes off on tangents often and seems a bit derailed at times. Maybe that's harsh but it's a pattern I've noticed. She also screams narcissist anytime someone remotely acts like they don't care about others. I want STRATEGIES! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/22 09:04 PM |
| 17 | I’m finally getting over himHappy for you 💞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/22 12:09 PM |
| 50 | thought someone here might benefit from these tips!Yes. I was just sharing because most of what he says is great. Some people's red flags aren't red flags for others. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/22 03:31 PM |
| 92 | thought someone here might benefit from these tips!I have a thing for red heads I feel ya 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/22 01:52 PM |
| 4 | I did it.Update: it's been almost a week and gosh I feel so relieved. I sometimes get that overwhelming- "omg what if I don't find better!" But honestly if I can't find better I'd rather be alone anyway 💅🏻🤣 thank you girls. I've been hitting the gym, planning my tattoo sleeve, getting my lips done, and making plans to pay off my last loan! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/22 11:04 PM |
| 5 | Online dating strategy to find a HVMWe need to update the handbook, a bunch of the posts are deleted | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/22 12:21 PM |
| 14 | What’s the FDS-flavoured tea on cold approaches? Advice appreciated.As long as it's respectful I'm okay with it! If they just message me, "hey" or "what's up" I'm not interested. Asking a question about something specific they noticed about me or what I was doing is better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/22 11:26 PM |
| 43 | FDS subreddit is NOT a landfill for depraved male content.Thank you. I would like more level up and strategy posts | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 12:49 PM |
| 38 | Straight from the horses mouth. NEVER share your past relationship trauma/problems with men because they will hold it against you. How poorly you were treated by men in the past will either make him resent you or he will use it as a bar for how much you are willing to put up with.When I am ready to start dating again I planned to just say that I was treated well by my exes. My family knows better, what do I say to them so that they won't bring up my exes? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 01:41 PM |
| 1 | I did it.Yes lol! I always want to dance with my romantic partners and he would never do it for me. So I am making a Playlist for it and listening to that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 12:32 PM |
| 148 | TW for sexual abuse survivors. Disgusting scrotes use prostitutes to act out their incestuous nightmare. Pick-me women who enable predator kinks are also a danger to all women and children. Mass grooming has only gotten more accessible with the internet . I first came across violent porn at age 6. 💔That's so disgusting. I remember when I was in the kink community a guy told me he would totally fuck his future daughter if she let him. That was it for me, I left shortly after. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 12:03 AM |
| 5 | I did it.Omg that's Perfect advice. Thank you so much for sharing that with me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 06:53 PM |
| 9 | I did it.Congrats to you 🖤 thank you girl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 03:29 PM |
| 26 | I did it.Thats what I keep having trouble with. I keep wanting to focus on his good rather than see the bad. Thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 03:28 PM |
| 16 | I did it.Thank you! Yes I agree. I am fairly confident but I want to get better at chatting with strangers, women or men. Great advice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 02:46 PM |
| 69 | I did it.Yup, he meant sex as physical touch. SMH. But when I would ask to hold mt hand he said he doesn't like PDA.... right... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 02:43 PM |
| 7 | I did it.Thank you so much. I'll check her out! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 02:22 PM |
| 14 | I did it.Thank you so much. I'll check her out! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 02:22 PM |
| 61 | I did it.Thank you. I just feel so sad and sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 02:19 PM |
| 29 | I did it.That's such great advice thank you! Nothing good has come from serial dating so I want to make sure that when I am ready to get back out there that I am clear minded. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 01:57 PM |
| 52 | I did it.Thank you! I am in the process of rereading it now 🖤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 12:56 PM |
| 287 | I did it.My family thought he was too old for me for one. I've changed and matured so much in four years so I see what they mean now. It has felt like a teacher student relationship for so long. I constantly feel like I'm in the wrong, I'm crazy, I'm too young to understand etc and I'm so tired of it. Even if I am crazy or wrong, I think I should be alone to work on that. I want a partner not a mentor. My mother didn't like how when I would ask for a hug from him, he would roll his eyes and pretend (play… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 12:26 PM |
| 19 | Do you believe in the idea of soulmate or soulmates?Agreed! My mom, my sister, and my dog are all soul mates. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 09:57 PM |
| 44 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 44 - Billie Eilish & How The Media Groomed A Generation of GirlsRo's beginning talk of how she wasn't really affected was kind of annoying. good for you that it didn't affect you like it affected most of us. I adore the show (I am even subscribed on Patreon) but it always feels like she is the "oh I didn't deal with that 🤷♀️💅🏻" type and it's really frustrating and comes off as superiority. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/22 06:18 PM |
| 150 | Men can't admit they can't pleasure women and that's why we replace themAll the men are so mad at my comment on that post 🤭🤭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 08:19 PM |
| 1 | FDS is BACK!So happy you're back. Whenever I'm down or doubting myself I check FDS and I was so sad without y'all! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 11:20 AM |
| 25 | Hiking aloneI only go hiking with my large working dog. He is friendly until he knows not to be. I also carry on hikes! F that guy, maybe if he had empathy he would realize, "oh maybe I'm making this strange woman uncomfortable by being so close in the woods where people may or may not be around..." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 07:15 PM |
| 61 | Man of deadbedroom is amazed that it takes effort to have a great marriageWhy don't they see wives as more valuable than girlfriends? God I hate this world 😣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 01:45 PM |
| 17 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 22 - Judge Lynn Toler Holds Court with The QueensBring her on again I loved her!! Really empowered me. Don't follow the cultural tide Be self actualized | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 09:57 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InDoing okay this week and trying to focus on doing better. I am not being ruthless enough, but when I am I am called a bitch or mean by my family or boyfriend, wtf. Paid off two massive bills and am treating myself to a pedicure as a reward! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 05:58 PM |
| 28 | This is why pickmeishas are dangerous… she wants to be instrumental in causing a girl’s trauma all to be friends with her bf’s friends 😠😠I'm pretty sure my boyfriend would lose his mind if one of his friends disrespected me like that in a serious tone. Why are these men so damn oblivious? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 12:47 PM |
| 3 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 20 - The Queens Respond to Listener Feedback + Future Plans for FDS!The sound was SO much better! Before I had to have the volume all the way up, even on my car's speaker. Now it's normal and great! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 12:39 PM |
| 3 | Never date someone who criticizes your fitness routine.I'll look into that! Classes they hold at the gyms I'm guessing? Any types you recommend? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 05:04 AM |
| 6 | Never date someone who criticizes your fitness routine.I'm trying to get into fitness more but I just don't know where to begin! Any suggestions are so appreciated. I find this same thing to be true with most hobbies in which the woman is confident in. I ride sport bikes. It's all sexy until the guy can't keep up, or is not as in tune with his bike. then he acts like a damn child. It's embarrassing and such a turn off. It's okay to laugh at yourself and be silly! You don't have to be good at everything! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 02:30 PM |
| 5 | Eye-OpeneningThe first step is realizing it ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 02:23 PM |
| 17 | Preach.It's seriously unbelievable | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 02:04 AM |
| 5 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 17 - Scrotation Management : The Benefits of Multi-DatingLiked it a lot! There was some random music playing/edited in at one point though that seemed out of place and distracting, so that's my one complaint about it. Also, I feel like sometimes the audio for you guys is very quiet, while someone else's is very clear and loud. I find myself changing the volume a lot! Something to consider, or perhaps my speakers are acting up! Do we have to disclose that we are dating multiple people if we are asked? What's a good comback for that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 02:03 AM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-InFeeling really good this week, but somehow overwhelmed. I keep getting hit with random crazy expenses that I can't afford and now have no savings left. So stressful. But I am focusing on things I can control and trying to budget myself! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 07:04 PM |
| 46 | "Porn is just acting! They do enjoy it!"I used to be a cam girl and into hardcore bdsm. This so speaks to me. FDS made me realize I am into this stuff due to trauma, not because it liberates me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 05:55 PM |
| 5 | A scrote blocked the sidewalk with his car in order to flirt.I had this happen once! A guy pulled his damn truck to block me off while I was running! I was with my personal protection dog and needless to say, shit went down (for him!) Bet he never did that to someone again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 02:41 AM |
| 6 | How much debt are you in as a direct result of a LVM ex?It totally keeps me up at night thinking About it. Thankfully I left before it got too bad. Paying off credit card debt this month and I will be free of it. Hate hate hate this! He wants a traditional woman, but doesn't want to provide for one | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 02:36 AM |
| 184 | Imposed ideas of femininity harm and oppress women - Change my mind. 🥰Or they want a traditional woman- stay at home mom, cook, etc. But cannot afford to cover her bills and expenses to do so. But they still expect her to do that and not work | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 12:18 PM |
| 3 | So true. 😍 👑This made me laugh I love it ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 03:08 AM |
| 24 | Yes, all women. But, of course, NoT aLl MeN. Stay safe out there, sisters.It's never men's fault 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 11:46 AM |
| 9 | This is THE energy 👸Ugh yes. I am trying to learn how to be happy alone/make myself happy and it is hard, it's a process! I am trying to overcome that "void" of not having someone there or when my friends are unavailable to hangout. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 12:00 PM |
| 43 | If a guy has a high "body count" he is probably a rapist.Thank you ♥️ this is what therapy is for and I am healing wonderfully. Karma will get him. My sister trashed his truck and other belongings, kicked him out, and got him fired from several jobs for years after he moved out of state. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 11:08 AM |
| 186 | If a guy has a high "body count" he is probably a rapist.Yup. My sister's (ex) bf bragged about sleeping with 150+ women. He tried to get me drunk and rape me (when I was a minor and he was 30+) the next day. This is so gross and so true. I will never date a man with a high body count. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 03:15 AM |
| 19 | Fantastic post over on popular womens' subreddit. But OP's edits demonstrate clearly why the FDS subreddit and its mods are so precious.It's just insane how men constantly steer the conversation back to themselves. They are so self absorbed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 03:13 AM |
| 19 | 🤨We are not the same lmao. Yet they grow beards and hide half their face. But somehow we are bad when we wear makeup? Come on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 11:41 PM |
| 6 | 10 Top Reasons why FDS is toxicHad me in the first half not gonna lie | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 03:35 AM |
| 12 | Don't over-complicate your relationships: if a relationship is not making you feel good majority of the time, it's time to leave.I needed this ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 01:06 PM |
| 6 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 12 - How FDS Can Help Autistic Queens Navigate RelationshipsI really liked this one. It was so eye opening how similar yet vastly different our dating experiences are between neurotypical and autistic individuals. It's something that had not occured to me, but I'm glad I learned about it and how I can help my fellow sisters ♥️ I have a friend with autism and this podcast really helped me understand her more and appreciate her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 02:20 AM |
| 3 | Why you shouldn’t date down or give out sympathy chances - the manipulative strategies of low status men.Yes. Dated a unattractive guy but he posed very well personality wise. Six months in, he starts tracking my phone and is constantly calling me and accusing me of cheating on him. "why are you at the gym?!" To workout dumbass what do you think? Stopped having sex and dumped him a few months later. Wish I left him sooner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 12:02 PM |
| 10 | When it comes to snooping & men hiding things from their SO. The truth hurts! Let us normalize "snooping".Yessssss. Why is it bad to snoop? If you are sketched out by us going through your phone you're probably hiding something. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 11:50 AM |
| 3 | Moms with Husbands: More Chores, Less Sleep than Single Moms; studies confirm married and cohabiting moms have more chores, sleep less and have less time for themselves than single, divorced or women living with people other than a male partnerNo thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 08:44 AM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Check-InHappy birthday! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 05:48 PM |
| 7 | 90 Days for the Rape of 13 Year-oldDisgusting. Poor boy. | /r/PussyPass | 04/05/19 12:05 PM |
| 115 | Raped two minors but no jail timeWhy do they never call it rape. It’s fucking rape. | /r/PussyPass | 18/04/19 03:53 AM |
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