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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 17 | I dumped the guy I was vetting over the birthday gift I received 🍪So this post just made the front page (of course, it was some salty man complaining that you were being dramatic) but I came here to say that I 100% understand where you are coming from. This man completely disregarded a part of your life that is clearly very important to you, and then got angry with YOU when you respectfully told him that his gift was not appreciated. I myself am very health conscious and I also would have felt totally unseen if the guy I was dating gave me a box of cheap, chem… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 04:05 PM |
| 45 | Vetting strategy-- does he practice preventive strategies to take care of his health?I love and respect my body enough to never eat junk food, and I would NEVER be with a man that did. Never. When someone doesn’t take care of themselves, the reason is always because they’re either unintelligent, they lack the ability to do long-term thinking (“oh I’m going to die anyways, I’ll drink all the beer I want”) or they lack self-discipline (aka they’re immature). This is not the type of man anyone should be dating. I’m not hating on people who struggle with their health - I myself went… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 07:34 PM |
| 56 | I demand equality of experience in sex. Sex rule: I COME FIRST because of biological differencesThere’s a great book written on this subject by Ian Kerner titled (coincidentally) “She Comes First”. I totally agree with you. It only makes sense that a woman should come before the man does, since it is much easier for him to come from penetration. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 07:15 PM |
| 11 | Doing wife duties for your boyfriendExactly this is why I have a problem with the title of this post - or the concept of “wife duties” in general. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 09:37 AM |
| 7 | Childfree POVI am proudly child free but let me make a bold claim if I may: Women’s rights = mother’s rights. We live in a capitalistic society, where one exchanges productive labor for money, which is the currency that we use to obtain resources for survival. However, in our capitalistic society, child-labor is not considered “productive”, meaning that women (not all, but women in general) have to sacrifice making money (aka survival) for something that we - and only we - have the burden to carry out if soc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 06:33 PM |
| 13 | Why I don't feel empathy for unattractive menI totally agree with the idea that man’s outside appearance reflects his character. You’re right about how convenient it is to be able to simply take one look at a guy and say “nope!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 09:11 AM |
| 139 | Why I don't feel empathy for unattractive menFor a long time, I thought I wasn’t attracted to men because almost every man that I came across in real life was ugly and frumpy. Then a couple of years ago, I found myself in a situation for work where I needed to spend a lot of time around the gay community in my city and holy shit I couldn’t believe it 😲 - suddenly I was surrounded by attractive, beautiful men - they were everywhere!!! At first I thought “No fair! Why are gay men so much more handsome than straight men” and then I realized -… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 09:04 AM |
| 34 | Mini rant about needing to let strange men into my placeThis has happened to me with almost every repair man that has come to my home and it has gotten to a point where I can't help but to feel an aversion to men in the construction/home repair business. Intellectually, I know that I shouldn't generalize, but I automatically go into defense mode now whenever I have to deal with them - I never fucking smile at them or speak in a soft voice and I toss politeness right out the window - Im all business.... Im the client and they're here to provide a serv… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 08:46 PM |
| 30 | Eye-OpeneningIt was shocking to me too when someone here pointed out that we still live in such a misogynistic society that a lot of what is considered “female empowerment” = how much you can sexually please a man. You see it everywhere in pop culture: “I’m a bad bitch because I twerk better than all these other women” “Im winning because I’m selling my body on onlyfans”, “I’m not like ‘those other girls’ because I don’t wear makeup and heals and I’m not stupid - I can hang with the boys”…… it’s crazy that n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 11:04 AM |
| 24 | Can we talk about the hypocrisy?Single women are easiest the happiest demographic on earth. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lyZysfafOAs https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/why-bad-looks-good/202102/why-so-many-single-women-without-children-are-happy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 08:11 AM |
| 4 | I would not have been open to what she had to say as a sex positive libfem. Now it hits different and it's sadI just finished having a discussion with someone here on Reddit about sex work; they agreed that the industry is bad but that the solution is to make sex work more ACCEPTABLE and mainstream - they believed that if our culture were less hateful towards sex workers, they would have more satisfying “careers”..... But it’s not us, the people who criticize sex work (not sex workers btw) who make it so awful for them - it’s the disgusting 🤢 misogynist clients! Selling your body for money will never ev… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 10:48 PM |
| 28 | Why you shouldn’t date down or give out sympathy chances - the manipulative strategies of low status men.I dated a short, quiet unattractive type once because he had been my friend since youth; I enjoyed our friendship so I figured we would have a good romantic relationship too. I was so wrong. For years, my “friend” watched as I dated beautiful men, so when we started dating, he became incredibly suspicious of my every move because he was afraid I was cheating. The jealousy turned abusive as he would become angry and bitter with me even though all that was happening was that he was being insecure.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 10:06 PM |
| 3 | Our culture teaches men that it isn’t romantic to ask for permissionYes I agree with this - I was inspired to write this post yesterday after seeing a video that made the front page of Reddit of a guy who tried to sneak a kiss on a woman after taking a picture with her, but not being able to. So many of the guys in the comments were feeling SORRY for this guy because iT hUrTs tO bE rEjEcTed but wtf it hurts more to be kissed without consent. Like you said, even if there is no verbal communication, there’s needs to be space to provide an opportunity for the perso… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 02:38 PM |
| 8 | Our culture teaches men that it isn’t romantic to ask for permissionGood point! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 07:14 PM |
| 35 | To my fellow WOC - if you date outside your race be careful of “woke” guys. There’s a good chance he’s a LVM putting on an act to impress you.It’s so disgusting. I’m Latina and it’s hard to avoid the stereotype - makes me sick. I’ve been thinking about dating Asian guys - I’ve rarely ever come across an Asian dude who was disrespectful, and my sister has been dating a HVM who is Asian for almost 7 years now. Of course, I shouldn’t generalize - NVM come in all shapes and colors | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 12:14 PM |
| 1 | To counteract liberal feminists and beta males trying to manipulate us into thinking "dad bod" is the hottest male form, we will be instituting one day a week to post photos of actual hotties! Let us know what we should call it!I really hope this becomes a thing! I have the perfect picture! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 09:39 PM |
| 8 | Love yourself firstWell said! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 07:09 PM |
| 12 | good morning <3Yes! The problem with being a cam girl is that you aren’t gaining any skills which you can leverage later in the future (unless you are in that .1% of women like Kim K that actually are able to leverage their sexualization); for most women, doing this type of “work” is actually a liability, as it will hurt their chances of ever gaining other types of meaningful employment, say nothing of becoming something like a political figure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 07:31 PM |
| 22 | good morning <3Yes. And the women who profit from this exploitation are the biggest proponents (think Cardi B), even though it negatively impacts the rest of us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 07:21 PM |
| 19 | 20% of women in China regret getting married. Only 7% of men regret getting married. 73% of divorced are initiated by women. Marriage has always been an institution meant to benefit men. More and more women are realizing this.My beautiful lovely ladies - never forget that MANY studies confirm that single, childfree women are the happiest demographic on the planet! https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/why-bad-looks-good/202102/why-are-single-women-without-children-so-happy https://youtu.be/I52UCZDwetw Awesome TED talk: https://youtu.be/lyZysfafOAs Remember that happiness can be found within yourself. You are beautiful, you are strong, you are intelligent, you are capable! My mother was in a shitty marriage all her … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 08:21 AM |
| 12 | *Cries in spinster.*Here is an article talking about how single, child-free women are the happiest demographic on earth. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/why-bad-looks-good/202102/why-are-single-women-without-children-so-happy Also here’s a Ted talk on the joys of being single (short video and highly recommend!): https://youtu.be/lyZysfafOAs Also here are some interesting books to read: Regretting Motherhood by Orna Donath Selfish, Shallow and Self-Absorbed by Meghan Daum The Extra Woman by Joanna Scott and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 09:29 AM |
| 2 | Ladies - consider splurging on an expensive gym membership!I’m so sorry to hear that! I can totally relate - I not only spent years out of the gym because of harassment, but I also unconsciously overate in over to try to become less attractive to men. I also stopped wearing makeup and any feminine type clothing because I felt so traumatized from years of being cat called in the street and also years of having men that I considered to be friends resent me for not fucking them. Slowly, I’m getting my confidence back - especially because of communities lik… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 06:18 PM |
| 25 | Ladies - consider splurging on an expensive gym membership!I totally agree with you. I used to go to an all women’s gym but they closed it down and I’ve been praying ever since that they build a new one!! I’ve found that the yoga studio i switched to is the next best thing because there tend to be more women than men, so I feel so much safer! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 03:58 PM |
| 17 | Ladies - consider splurging on an expensive gym membership!He was super gay lol. Also I live in NYC so it’s not that uncommon | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 03:21 PM |
| 22 | Ladies - consider splurging on an expensive gym membership!I don’t go to the gym to date, I go to workout. All I am saying is that people at these places don’t harass me or follow me and stare at me. I’m not saying that rich men are always better - not at all! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 03:19 PM |
| 50 | Ladies - consider splurging on an expensive gym membership!I agree. This isn’t about finding a date in the gym, but rather working out in peace without men hounding you. Richer men tend to hide it and keep it to themselves which is fine with me when all I want to do is workout | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 03:18 PM |
| 9 | Ladies - consider splurging on an expensive gym membership!No I’m female | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 03:15 PM |
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