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And even then, most men are shitty in bed. They have no regard for a woman’s pleasure and it is very rare for a woman to get off on P in V intercourse, especially if it’s someone they are not comfortable with (aka a monogamous, long-term partner) Edit: Grammar
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/22 11:34 PM
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Okay, so he wasn’t “ready” for her to spend the night but he still had sex with her? Mhm, sure. Also, this is a great example of why you should never go to a man’s house on one of the first dates (preferably not until in a relationship, but some may disagree on this). It’s a cheap and lazy date where men almost always have the expectation that sex has to happen. Edit: I happened to stumble across the original post. I read a comment where someone suggested that if he has to leave early in the mor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 04:27 PM
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I very briefly dated a single dad and I can confirm this. He said that he refuses to date single moms. I think his reasoning was that he wanted someone that could drop everything and take care of his kids(2) and that is hard to do with a woman who has kids of her own. He was literally trying to pawn his kids off on me while he went out of town for “work” for a couple of days. This was at the 2 month mark.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 03:05 PM
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Unfortunately. She posted maternity pictures this morning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 08:41 PM
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Yeah I agree. I’ve been watching crime documentaries since middle school, not out of fear or anxiety, mainly just out of interest in the psychology behind crime. If anything, I’m probably one of the worst targets for a narcissist since I have a strong ability to read someone psychologically and make accurate judgements based on their actions/mannerisms/statements. And honestly, with a strong/determined narcissist you could literally throw out any podcast genre and he would formulate a plan of ho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 03:32 PM
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She used “Jesus” as a term of exasperation. Same way people would use the term “Geez”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 11:41 AM
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…in other words, you’re legally single. Got it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 12:57 AM
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This is a big yikes. Also, friendly reminder on the last slide to never do 50/50 🥰 Edit: the scrotes are really angry lmao. Guys will pay for things that they really want. All of my exes always paid for 100% of the bill. One ex who was Italian would literally tell me to “put my card away” if I even tried to pull it out. He was a great guy, we broke up due to some family issues he had going on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 12:54 AM
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As an extension, be very weary of men who try to push their way into your social circle! A good portion of the time, they don’t value your friendship and are waiting for the day you slip up and sleep with them. I learned this lesson the hard way one summer when I was in college. I had an internship with a large engineering company so there were 100s of interns, the majority being male. That summer I had made a bunch of friends of both genders. However, I had several incidents where some of my ma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 12:49 AM
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This is my sister right now. She’s been with her baby daddy (the only legal title that ties the two together) for 7 years now. They met in college and now she has a decent job at a local accounting firm (~$55k/year, we live in a city with a lower cost of living than average) but he just works at a chain restaurant as a cook (he never graduated from college). They live together in a house my sister bought, he drives her car since he doesn’t have one (has wrecked her car a couple of times), and sm…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 03:21 PM
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Y’all, this channel has to incel capitol. I went into some of the comments and I thought it was a joke but people deadass worship these men. Some of the common words I saw include: “The wall” (literally their favorite word), “C*ck carousel”, “Simp”, “Baby rabies” (apparently when a woman wants a baby after riding the c#ck carousel) Also, don’t forget all of these derogatory terms for women such as “bitches”, “hoes”, “broads”, etc. They also seem to confuse high value men with high-earning men. Y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 09:16 PM
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I met his kids after the second date (🤮) by “accident” but he didn’t introduce me as his girlfriend at first. What I meant was that by the 3rd month, he was leaving his kids alone with me for extended periods of time while he was out of town and would be unable to get home in a timely manner if something happened. Either way, it’s disgusting that men are so desperate to have a nanny take care of their children that they are willing to put their child’s safety at risk. I actually feel really bad …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 07:20 PM
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TRIGGER WARNING I dated a single father a few years ago. We were only together for about 4 months in total but by the third month, he was literally leaving his young daughters (11 and 9 y/o) who had been sexually abused before alone with me for DAYS at a time while he went to conferences for work. He pressured and guilt-tripped me into watching his kids while he would go to all these different cities for work conferences. Honestly, he was a shitty boyfriend but an even shittier father. I will ne…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 06:15 PM
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My LVX that I met on hinge did this. I had my age range set to 25-30 and I marked my age limit as a rule breaker, meaning that the app won’t show me men over 30. I was about 22 at the time and even then, dating someone who was 30 was a big stretch for me. My ex purposely sat his age to 29 (despite him actually being 34) in order to get younger women. I didn’t learn he was 34 until towards the end of our relationship when I had his driver’s license and saw his date of birth. I did some quick ment…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 06:03 PM
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In addition to the second slide, men are also less likely to acknowledge emotional cheating and are more hurt by physical cheating. Edit: Someone tried to reply saying that “physical cheating is the only cheating”. Ah yes Chad, because sending another girl pics of your dick is definitely not cheating 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 07:35 PM
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Pre-FDS, I posted on one of the women’s advice subreddits and I basically told the story of how I was raped by a guy on the third date. The scrotes had the audacity to say “I feel bad for any other guy that tries to date you” and “Well I would feel offended if you didn’t have sex with me on the third date but you had sex on the third date with this guy”. They literally tried to argue that I should let the next guy rape me because I “allowed” the first guy rape me. The bar is in hell. Edit: clari…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 07:31 PM
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Right? Like sir, I literally put my life on the line to give birth to our children but yet I’m not praised for giving birth. If anything, giving birth is often downplayed way more than it should be. The lack of effort on a man’s part is one of the many reasons why I do not want to have kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 07:59 PM
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The bar is literally in hell. It’s funny how men are given accolades for things women are “expected” to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 06:52 PM
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This entire post is chef’s kiss Throughout college, I based my attractiveness on whether or not I could land dates with men from dating apps. I was mentally and emotionally drained by all of the dating I was doing and I honestly didn’t see myself in a relationship with any of them. I truly believe that our worth for so long has been based on whether or not we are attractive enough to men. Dating apps have definitely perpetuated this idea. I’ve since deleted all my dating apps and now I’m focusin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 06:47 PM
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Be okay with being alone since it gives you time to focus on yourself and to truly level up. We are taught from a young age that if we’re alone/single, there’s something wrong with us. In reality, what women can accomplish alone is much greater than what women accomplish with a LVM. There were a couple of times where I almost threw away my career for LVM in my early 20s. Now I love my job, get paid to travel, and I make more money than all of my LV exes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 01:49 PM
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Meanwhile a lot of women are willing to date/get into a relationship with men that they are not physically attracted to (despite all the MGTOW/Red-pillers screeching about how women only date “cHAdS”). Honestly I was not truly physically attracted to any of my exes. If I saw them on the street randomly, I would’ve just kept walking lol Funny how that works, huh?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 11:39 AM
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Hold up. “Girls can be pregnant, finish our studies, work, and have children”. Okay at that point, what the fuck do men actually do? It might sound great to her now but she should wait until the kid is here and she is on the brink of a mental breakdown from childcare, work, and school (not to mention the massive hormonal and physical changes being made to her body) while her husband most likely just goes to work and sits on his ass once he comes home. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 12:49 PM
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This is 100% true for me as well. I had a close male friend who was actually trying to move out of the friend zone. While he was waiting for me and my bf to break up, he started dating someone. He and this girl were in a relationship for a year and a half. I broke up with my bf at the time and he broke up with his gf around the same time. Within a week of our respective breakups, he admitted he’s had feelings for me, that I was the most beautiful girl he’d ever seen, etc. I didn’t want to lose h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 05:21 PM
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Good for you! It’s really disgusting that there are men that purposely date women that aren’t considered traditionally desirable (i.e. overweight) in hopes that they have low self-esteem and self-respect and will bend over backwards for someone “out of their league”. This is MANIPULATION. Let’s remember the LVM who talked about how he hated Lizzo for empowering plus size women because it made it harder for him to manipulate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 03:18 PM
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Yes! I dated a guy who had on his profile that he was a mortgage broker but in reality he was at a company where they basically just proofread the mortgage agreement. He made about 30k/year at this job (yes, it was a full-time job). He still spent all of his money on partying and drugs which is why at 25 he had to live in a trap house with 3 other guys. And no, we don’t live in an expensive area.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 02:29 PM
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Can we talk about how his account had apparently been reported “too many times”? Think about how many poor girls had to go through the same experience. Also, WHY ARE PEOPLE DOWNVOTING HER POST?? I hate Reddit sometimes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 04:41 PM
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Yep. I had an ex that about 60% of the time, he couldn’t get it up. Unbeknownst to me, this was due to a combination of drug abuse, alcohol abuse, and porn. Edit: My ex was 24 at the time 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 04:39 PM
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That’s why I left one of the popular “women’s” subreddit. It was supposed to be dedicated to women’s issues but men would always interject, usually to bash or provide their “male” opinion. I posted on the subreddit sharing my sexual assault experience and about half of the comments were men saying “That sucks but I would never do that! I’m a nice guy” or “It’s has to be your fault, you’re looking for sympathy”. So thank you FDS for being a true safe space.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 05:10 PM
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Loser? No. Desperate? Yes. I wouldn’t be surprised if one of his friends tried talking to her in hopes of taking her home. That’s the kind of vibe you give off when asking a dude out, especially at a bar. Men know how to approach a woman and they will chase after what they want. Men think women who ask them out are “sexy” because the pursuit requires little to no effort on the man’s part. So it’s just easy pickings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 12:28 PM
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I once had a boyfriend that I literally had to beg just to TEXT me. We were long distance and he just wouldn’t text or call me at all. I would go days without hearing a single thing from my boyfriend. Whew, those old pickme days were a doozy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 05:48 AM
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Yes! Trust me, I’ve been through my casual date phase and honestly, I feel so much better just being completely single minding my business. It’s because HV people don’t see the point in wasting time and energy in a relationship that doesn’t have potential. They usually have too many other responsibilities, goals, and platonic relationships (friends, family, etc.) to be tied down with dating random people just for the sake of “dating”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 05:29 AM
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This just screams “I’M nOt likE ThE oTheR gIRLs”. If you’re not dating with some sort of long term goal in mind, WHY THE FUCK ARE YOU DATING? Oh wait, I know why. You’re just another pickme trying to be cool in order to attract men. 🤡 Edit: Hook-ups are one thing but to date is another.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 05:22 AM
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I hate when (what I know now to be) LVM ask “wHat Do YoU bRing tO The TAble?”. I promise you it’s a lot more than what you bring to the table if you’re having to ask.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 08:11 PM
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Strip clubs are basically a meat market and these girls are fresh cattle walking in. Since twerking videos, “Instagram baddies”, and OF has become so accessible, most strippers can’t just be pretty and dance anymore to make decent money. You would think they would just leave the strip club but nope, they’ve started resorting to desperate and depraved avenues in order to keep men’s attention. This includes having sex with clients, getting a grotesque amount of plastic surgery to get a big rack an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 03:21 PM
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Honestly looking back, all of my LV exes never called me beautiful. It was always something that insinuated physical/sexual attraction such as “pretty”, “hot”, “sexy”, etc. but never beautiful. The only ex that called me beautiful was the ex I never had sex with. I’m pretty sure he was/is a closet asexual (no sexual desire/attraction but he could still experience romantic and emotional attraction) which honestly made for the healthiest relationship I’ve been in thus far. Take what you will from …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 01:39 PM
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Another example as to why us ladies need to give up OLD. There’s an absurd amount of men on these apps that are already in relationships or even married. This should solidify in your mind that men view OLD as unlimited access to sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 02:02 AM
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I’ve never had healthy sex before either. That may be why my sex drive is non-existent because all of my sexual encounters have been trash. If I were told that I could never have sex again, I would probably be happy honestly since it takes away the pressure of needing to please a man. Meanwhile if a man were told he could never have sex again, he would be depressed beyond belief.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:59 PM
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I gave up OLD completely a few months ago when I discovered FDS. I have been pretty inactive on dating apps for the last year or so but FDS really made me pull the trigger. FDS made me realize that OLD is a cesspool of LVM that, at least in my area, are average looking at best. I would find myself going out with men that I wasn’t even attracted to or men that look nothing like their pictures because surprise, MEN CATFISH TOO. They’ll use photos that are 5+ years old, only use group pics with the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 03:14 PM
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I take those dating advice subs with a grain of salt. When I first joined Reddit a couple of years ago on my main account, I posted asking for advice about this guy I was dating that (I now know) raped me. All of the scrotes on the sub basically said it was my fault and that they “feel bad for the next guy who tries to date me because I’ll have trust issues”. And I personally don’t understand the argument of having super short dates (like 30 mins or less). If we’re this unsure about each other w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 06:22 PM
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Exactly! And honestly, if you grab lunch on a Saturday afternoon, the date would probably only last about 45 mins to an hour. Lunch takes no time so if people are afraid of sitting across from someone for a prolonged amount of time, just grab lunch instead of dinner. That’s about how long you’d be on a coffee date anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 05:41 PM
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We dislike drink dates as well. You typically aren’t 100% in your right mind to vet when drinking and you actually run a higher risk of being assaulted. The guy can slip something in your drink, usually it’s nighttime when going out for drinks, etc. She shouldn’t have recommended drinks but the woman seems to be around college age so drink dates are more common in that particular crowd.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 05:24 PM
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Oh you already know he’s a big time FDS lurker. He probably knows exactly what we consider to be a HVM but he also knows he can’t meet those expectations so he’d rather rage about us instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 04:39 PM
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They are definitely lurking because you’re getting downvoted for no reason. They just refuse to realize that they may see this subreddit as “toxic” but in reality, a lot of women can relate to the things being posted on this sub and are trying to prevent falling for the same traps men like to use. I wasn’t online much this past weekend because I was out of town but when I came on today, we had gained 2k members over the weekend. Their attempts at mocking us only bring us new members.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 04:19 PM
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Preach! And if I’m being honest, during my OLD days I never came across a man who made more money than me 🤭 Women are becoming more and more educated and taking control of their own careers. People always ask me what did I do to get here. I just didn’t spend my college days and early 20s chasing dick and I stayed focused on my end goal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 03:58 PM
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This! We’re not asking to be taken out to a fancy gourmet restaurant on the first date but there are too many restaurants where an entree is only $10-$15, maybe $20 if you’re in a high cost of living area. If paying for my $15 meal is going to break the bank, you are either: Seeing multiple women at once. Men don’t vet women as much as we vet men so they treat dating as a numbers game. It’s basically a matter of seeing who sticks around. Financially inept. They don’t know how to handle their mon…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 03:14 PM
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Answer: they’re too broke to afford dates
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 02:58 PM
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Exactly! Like sir, my foundation alone costs $50+. Pipe down brokey. Edit: To all the angry scrotes, just say you can’t afford me or all the other women here. That’ll save you a lot more time rather than raging away on your keyboard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 02:42 PM
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A few things: The scrote who originally posted this on a dating/relationship subreddit didn’t even have the decency to censor the Queen’s name/pictures so I took that upon myself. The scrotes love to keep tagging us but they’re too stupid to realize that this helps us grow. Keep tagging! High standards = “iNcEl” 🤡 Edit: oh the scrotes are mad mad! Also, please go look up the definition of incel. It’s obvious you all don’t know and honestly I’m embarrassed for you. Edit x2: “Why should men pay fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 02:12 PM
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The term “friends with benefits” is pretty interesting. I feel like 90% of the time, the male isn’t really a “friend” to the female and just treats her as a sex worker if you will (calls when wanting sex). In the majority of FWB situations, if the woman stopped having sex with him, I guarantee that the man will stop talking to her and stop being her “friend” since he has nothing to gain. On the other hand, the woman is a stand-in girlfriend without any of the benefits. On top of that, women usua…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 01:53 PM
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I wish someone would’ve told me about statements of vulnerability. One of my exes told me stories about his ex-wife and how she cheated, she abused drugs, etc. basically making himself out to be a victim. It was this massive sob story. This was within the first month of dating and seeing each other. After this point, he started getting frustrated and irritated that I did not become emotionally vulnerable with him. Around the 2 month mark, he started saying that he didn’t feel “emotionally connec…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 07:10 PM
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He should! But the gf really needs to leave. Men that like necrophilia (or play-necrophilia) like the control behind dominating someone that is no longer living. He has some serious psychological issues and gf needs to leave before he attempts to recreate his favorite scenes by incapacitating her (Ex. Getting her severely intoxicated, high on drugs, etc.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 02:41 AM
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Exactly! If he gets off to dead bodies (or people pretending to be dead), he has some psychological issues that he needs to address alone. The gf is only going to be hurt and disgusted in the process. She should’ve left immediately but she needs to leave now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 02:36 AM
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The best part was when he claimed he was just curious which is why he asked for the pictures. He was 100% planning to masturbate to those pictures of the cadaver. And everyone, sorry to share something so heinous but this is the harsh reality. This truly solidifies that women are just pure sex objects to LVM; dead or alive. And the fact that we’ve been so conditioned to accept porn, regardless of how disturbing the contents are. For example, gf should be running away in horror but instead they’r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 02:32 AM
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Oh I just remembered a good story about a date I went on. I went on a date with a guy from OLD (pre-FDS) and we actually did end up going out to dinner. We went to a Mexican restaurant, which is typically cheap anyway. The conversation wasn’t great, he spent a bunch of time talking about his ex-GF and everything we talked about, somehow related back to his ex (dogs, him living in Denver, his new car, food preferences, etc. it all related to his ex). That was already a major red flag and I didn’t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 06:30 PM
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If I have to pay for my dinner, I might as well take myself out. I’d make better company 90% of the time anyway. I hate when men try to make it seem like a woman is a “gold digger” for wanting to be taken out for dinner. I went on a rant about this on a post a couple of days ago but a true “gold digger” is looking for someone to fund a certain lifestyle. This includes trips, housing, cars, designer clothes/bags, etc. Not just a meal at Cheesecake Factory. Most men can’t even afford a true “gold …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 02:11 PM
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Ah, so this is why they expect sex when they pay for dinner. So if he took me out to Applebee’s he deserves 2 rounds of sex with me? What a great deal! 🤡 Edit: He should add an extra $50 every time they have sex and she doesn’t get off. I bet he’d get rid of that jar real quick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 07:04 PM
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I got a puppy about 3 months ago and if I’m being 100% honest… My relationship with my puppy has been more fulfilling than all 3 of my long-term relationships. I don’t know if it’s the selflessness, unconditional love, loyalty, etc. that a dog embodies but I could see myself being a very happy dog lady.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 01:08 PM
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You get a red flag and you get a red flag! EVERYONE GETS A RED FLAG! 🚩 What I get from this is: “I am a narcissistic cheater who uses women as sex toys and personal ATMs. I have nothing worth being attracted to but I just know how to manipulate really well! I purposely pick women that are insecure and have low self-esteem because I can take advantage of them better. For this same reason, I hate Lizzo because she’s empowering women which ruins my chance of exploiting them. Also, did I mention I’m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 12:48 PM
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This! I’ve been on and off with OLD for the last few years but I gave it up for good about 2 months ago (thanks FDS!) I highly recommend you ladies delete your dating apps ASAP but if you choose to keep the apps, just make sure you’re being safe and that you fully vet the man before sex. Honestly, starting a successful relationship with someone from an app is very hard (not impossible but just rare). You truly don’t know their lifestyle, their social circles, their past relationships, etc. You’r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 12:27 PM
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Well, OP mentioned how she never received an apology so it obviously bothers her. The lack of an apology seemed to further upset her. But you are correct though, most apologies from LVM are not genuine and they will do anything to save face. This is why it is so important to find closure within yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 02:06 AM
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You’ve been bottling up your emotions for so long that you just finally snapped. And that’s okay. It’s okay to feel angry, hurt, sad, guilty, and many more emotions. Don’t let people downplay your feelings and what you’re going through. You deserve time to heal and grieve the time lost on your scrote of an ex. Whatever you do, don’t rush the grieving process. I’m sorry that you never received the apology you deserve and you may never be able to get that closure from him. Try to find closure with…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 11:34 PM
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Nope, you’re not alone. I’ve been traumatized by sex in the past so now I’m at a point where I don’t want to have sex at all. I never got off anyway, so I might as well stay at home and use my handy dandy vibrator.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 06:03 PM
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She had your child and she still hasn’t passed the “wife material interview”?? I’m always so confused whenever I hear stories like this. Basically I take that as “You’re good enough to knock up but not good enough to have my last name”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 03:27 PM
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Once we break up, you are essentially dead to me. But it always cracks me up when exes reach out to me out of the blue. I laugh my ass all the way to the block button 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 03:18 PM
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In high school, I would see guys wearing the side cut-out muscle tanks with such low cuts that their nipples would be on display the entire day. They never once got sent home or told to change. But god forbid you can see a little bit of cleavage on a girl! I just don’t get the obsession with the two globs of fat on our chest meant for feeding children. Another thing to thank porn for!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 03:08 PM
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I came across a subreddit dedicated to memes and cringy pics and they had a screenshot from FDS where someone was talking about their requirements in men. All of the comments were about how FDS is nothing but misandrists and incels. To the male lurkers: Why is it not okay for a female to have a list of physical requirements but it’s okay for men to think they can go to build-a-hoe and can make the bangmaid of their dreams. Oh wait, we know why. It’s porn and mainstream media that tells men that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 01:32 PM
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I’ve been in 3 long-term relationships thus far and I can truly say that none of them were in my league when it came to looks, status, education, etc. I’m now deploying what I call a “second-look” test. If the man in question were to walk past me in public, would I give a second look? If yes, then I find him attractive. If no, I need to keep looking and do better. This test includes other things aside from physical looks as well. Does he smell like he bathes regularly? I’m a sucker for a man who…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 07:55 PM
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I would take a break from online dating (OLD). OLD is an absolute dumpster fire, especially now with the pandemic. Typically HVM don’t need a dating app in order to find a potential partner, the way they act and carry themselves should attract a partner in real life. OLD is full of a bunch of LVM looking for a hook-up or a bangmaid to take care of them. I know how you feel right now as I was sexually assaulted by a guy I met from online dating a few months back. I felt so sad and used but luckil…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 04:21 PM
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I can’t remember the exact number but I remember the majority of the teachers had fake rings. The most heartbreaking ones were the teachers that had been married 15+ years but yet they still had a fake ring. Of course all the scrotes were in the comment section trying to defend the husbands by saying “Well, maybe the husband didn’t know it was fake”. Bullshit, the husband knew it was fake. He probably walked into the jewelry store, realized he couldn’t afford a real diamond (or only wanted to sp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 02:30 PM
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Sorry to hear about your disappointment of an engagement but I think everything you’ve listed is very reasonable for a HVM! For me personally, I’m a fan of the classic look so I’d probably do something like a solitaire ring. I prefer gold and I would want something in the range of 3/4 ct to 1 1/2 ct for the diamond. Price somewhere in $2k to $5k range. If I can afford to buy it myself, my man needs to be able to afford it, if not more. Otherwise, me and him aren’t financially compatible. Ladies …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 01:53 PM
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Amen! I’d rather be alone with my pup than be a bangmaid to a LVM. I’ve been there and I promised myself I will never go back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 02:45 AM
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This! I wish someone would’ve told me this earlier. As women we are conditioned to sacrifice for men and in doing so, we often lose a part of ourselves. In my last couple of relationships I’ve given up so much to be with them only for them to decide to leave me at the drop of a hat. I’ve been single for over a year now and I’ve focused on myself and my career. I started doing CrossFit, got back into video games, started painting and recently I’ve began to do some solo travel. Mentally I’m the mo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 02:07 AM
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This post made me realize the amount of pickmeishas that I have as friends on Instagram. One in particular really sticks out because the average person would consider her a HVW, including pre-FDS me. She’s in computer science and is working on her master’s in computer science. However, she lowers her value by posting these thirst traps and ass pics on her Insta. To those who might say “How do you know she’s not doing this for friends? Why do you assume it’s for men?” Well, she has a private stor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 12:04 AM
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Don’t forget the part where the male peacock proceeds to call her a bitch and a slut for rejecting his advances but still claims to be a “nice guy” 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 02:32 PM
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